A Strategy for Strengthening Romanian Seventh-Day Adventist Families Dealing with Couple Separation Due to Economic Reasons
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Andrews University Digital Commons @ Andrews University Professional Dissertations DMin Graduate Research 2006 A Strategy for Strengthening Romanian Seventh-day Adventist Families Dealing with Couple Separation due to Economic Reasons Mihail Baciu Andrews University Follow this and additional works at: https://digitalcommons.andrews.edu/dmin Part of the Practical Theology Commons Recommended Citation Baciu, Mihail, "A Strategy for Strengthening Romanian Seventh-day Adventist Families Dealing with Couple Separation due to Economic Reasons" (2006). Professional Dissertations DMin. 696. https://digitalcommons.andrews.edu/dmin/696 This Project Report is brought to you for free and open access by the Graduate Research at Digital Commons @ Andrews University. It has been accepted for inclusion in Professional Dissertations DMin by an authorized administrator of Digital Commons @ Andrews University. For more information, please contact [email protected]. ABSTRACT A STRATEGY FOR STRENGTHENING ROMANIAN SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST FAMILIES DEALING WITH COUPLE SEPARATION DUE TO ECONOMIC REASONS by Mihail Baciu Adviser: Dr. Marciana Popescu ABSTRACT OF GRADUATE STUDENT RESEARCH Dissertation Andrews University Seventh-day Adventist Theological Seminary Title: A Strategy For Strengthening Romanian Seventh-day Adventist Families Dealing With Couple Separation Due To Economic Reasons Name of researcher: Mihail Baciu Name and degree of faculty adviser: Marciana Popescu, Ph.D. Date completed: July 2006 Problem Financial challenges in Romania have prompted many Seventh-day Adventist people to leave their spouses and country to seek employment abroad. The impact of this phenomenon upon families has been significant. This situation occurred primarily between 1991 and 2000. Before 1990, generally speaking, the number of Seventh-day Adventist family separations or divorces was very low (around 30-40 families) in Romania. After 1991, this number increased dramatically to estimated 10-12,000 families. Temporary separation of spouses for economic reasons does not necessarily lead to a divorce. However, due to the complex implications of temporary separation on families, children and faith communities, this problem needs immediate attention. This study aimed to identify factors leading to separation, direct implications for the family, as well as existing support systems for couples undergoing temporary separation. The ultimate purpose of the study is to further inform program development to strengthen Seventh - day Adventist families in post-Communist Romania. Method The project reviewed current literature, including books and articles about factors that affect the family, and methods and strategies that address negative factors impacting the family. As part of this research, we also created a database of actual circumstances of Adventist Romanian families, through the collection of information from the Romanian Union Conference and from local Romanian Seventh-day Adventist churches most affected by this phenomenon. First, a survey was used to gather information about families affected by partial migration. Second, the focus group method was implemented to debate this problem at the level of the Romania Conference and Union. Results The goal of this project was to improve relationships within Romanian Seventh- day Adventist families by strengthening the relationship between spouses and between parents and children. Concurrently, an anticipated effect of the implementation of this project is a decrease in the number of divorces among Romanian Seventh-day Adventist families. Conclusion A church is strong if the families that compose that church are strong. We expect that the findings of this study will be used to implement an effective strategy that will contribute to the strengthening of families in the SDA Church in Romania. This project can also be implemented in other countries confronted with similar, limited term emigration problems. Andrews University Seventh-day Adventist Theological Seminary A STRATEGY FOR STRENGTHENING ROMANIAN SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST FAMILIES DEALING WITH COUPLE SEPARATION DUE TO ECONOMIC REASONS A Dissertation Presented in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree Doctor of Ministry by Mihail Baciu July 2006 A STRATEGY FOR STRENGTHENING ROMANIAN SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST FAMILIES DEALING WITH COUPLE SEPARATION DUE TO ECONOMIC REASONS A dissertation presented in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree Doctor of Ministry by Mihail Baciu APPROVAL BY THE COMMITTEE: AdviserjVlarciana Popescu Peter Swanson Trevor O’Reggio r - TABLE OF CONTENTS LIST OF FIGURES AND TABLES .............................................................................. vi ACKNOWLEDGMENTS............................................................................................ vii Chapter 1. INTRODUCTION...................... 1 Definition of Term s..........................................................................................4 Description of the Project ................................................................................5 Limitations of the Dissertation ......................................................................... 6 2. BIBLICAL FOUNDATION FOR FAMILY UNITY...............................................7 Authority, Power Structures, and Family Dynamics in the Bible ..................9 Multiple Marital Relationships: Polygamy in the Bible .............................. 15 Changes and Challenges to the Patriarchal Family Model .......................... 17 God’s Intention for Marriage and the Family ................................................18 The Principle of Love........................................ 22 The Principle of Submission ................................................................. 22 The Principle of Unity ............................................................................23 The Principle of Respect ....................................................................... 23 Bible Families: Lessons Learned ................................................................... 24 Abraham and His Fam ily ....................................................................... 25 Ruth and N aom i......................................................................................27 King David’s Family ..............................................................................28 The Ideal for Family Life Reflected by Ellen White’s W ritings ..................30 The House Is to be a Sanctuary ............................................................32 The Family as a Light of the W orld......................................................32 The Family as the Primary Institution Educating the Children for the Kingdom of Heaven ........................................................... 33 The Family as a Reflection and Model of Divine L ove ........................ 35 3. HISTORICAL OVERVIEW OF ROMANIAN FAMILY LIFE ......................... 37 iii Separation for Employment Purpose-Social Problems Confronting Seventh-day Adventist Families after 1989 .......................................... 37 A Historical Overview of Family Structures in Romania Prior to 1989 .... 39 Fall of the Communist Regime and Its Impact on Family Life ............. 48 The Post-Communist Crisis-Social, Economic, Political, and Cultural Factors Influencing Family L ife ........................................51 The Distribution of Roles in the Romanian Fam ily................................55 Family Functions in the Context of Separation for Economic Reasons . 60 The Economic Function ..................................................................60 The Socialization Function...................................... 60 Current Problems Faced by Romanian Couples ............................. 61 4. EMIGRATION AND CONSEQUENCES OF EMIGRATION ON INDIVIDUALS, FAMILIES, AND COMMUNITIES..........................................65 Introduction ................................................................................................... 65 Emigration Patterns in Romania before 1989 ............................................... 67 Reasons for Emigration............................................ 71 Emigration from Romania, after 1989 .......................................................... 73 Consequences of Partial Emigration on Individuals and Families ................. 77 Positive Consequences............................................................................77 Immediate Economic Improvement ................................................77 Accumulation of Wealth and Status................................................77 Improved Work Ethics .............................................. 78 Negative Consequences ..........................................................................78 Marital and Family Problems Due to Temporary Separation ........78 Lack of Emotional Support.................................................... 79 Consequences of Emigration on Community ................................................79 Increased Standards of Living through Improvement of Local Infrastructure....................................................................................79 Leadership Development ........................................................................79 Human Trafficking.............................. 80 Brain Drainage........................................................................................81 Conclusion ............................... 82 5.