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THE MILTON H. ERICKSON FOUNDATION NEWSLETTER Vol. 32, No. 3 WINTER 2012 SM grants. My parents didn’t have the op - Inside INTERVIEW portunity to go to college, so “achieve - ment was next to Godliness,” as far as This my big sister Susan and I were con - Harriet Lerner cerned. I knew we’d get Ph.Ds. the Issue way other kids knew they’d go to ele - Interviewed by Ellyn Bader mentary school. My father talked about INTERVIEW Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our “my daughters the doctors” while we Harriet Lerner 1 nation’s most respected voices on the were still in our strollers. IN THE SPIRIT OF THERAPY psychology of women and the process EB: Was that a lot of pressure for of change in marriage and families. you? Interview with Michele For more than three decades she was a HL: Back then, boys were sup - Weiner-Davis, M.S.W. 4 staff psychologist at The Menninger posed to “be someone” and girls were Clinic in Topeka, Kansas and a faculty THE POWER OF TWO supposed to “find someone,” so I think member and supervisor at the Karl Ellyn Bader, Ph.D. & it was good that our parents pushed Menninger School of Psychiatry. Cur - Peter Pearson, Ph.D. 6 against the cultural tide. And although rently in private practice in Lawrence, we were very poor, we had great things CASE REPORT Kansas, Lerner is the author of numer - to do. Susan and I were raised in the What If We Stopped Fighting ous scholarly articles and 11 books, in - Brooklyn Public Library, the Brooklyn cluding The New York Times bestseller, Nicotine Addiction? 8 Museum, and the Brooklyn Botanical The Dance of Anger , and, most re - REMEMBERING ERICKSON Gardens. These places were free and cently, Marriage Rules: A Manual for just a subway token away. Up the Mountain 9 the Married and The Coupled Up . She difficult relationships. EB: How did you decide to be - CONTRIBUTOR OF NOTE is also, with her sister, an award-win - Ellyn Bader: Why don’t we start come a psychologist? Alexander Vesely 10 ning children’s book author, and she hosts a blog for Psychology Today and with your personal history so our HL: I know this sounds bizarre, but IN MEMORIAM The Huffington Post . Through the clar - readers can get to know you a bit. I decided to become a clinical psy - Thomas Szasz 11 ity of her writing, clinical work, and Harriet Lerner: Well, I was born chologist before I entered kindergarten, engaging public appearances, Lerner and raised in Brooklyn, the younger of and I never veered from this goal. helps people worldwide to navigate the two daughters. My grandparents on Maybe it had something to do with the Visit Our Website: swamps and quicksand of their most both sides were Russian Jewish immi - www.erickson-foundation.org See INTERVIEW on page 22 The 2013 Couples Conference is Around the Corner The Foundation plans months even years ahead for conferences and the Cou - ples Conference 2013 is no exception. Held April 18-21, 2013 in Manhattan Beach, California, the Couples Conference will most likely be another sold-out event. Every year, we hear from therapists worldwide about how the Couples Con - ference has impacted their lives and made them better marriage and family thera - pists. As Ellyn Bader says eloquently, “Every couples therapist faces challenges when individual personality issues collide with the couples systemic and devel - opmental patterns. The 2013 conference is designed to address working with issues such as addiction, infidelity, narcissism, and deception in the couples context.” The Couples Conference 2013 stellar faculty includes: Ellyn Bader, Ph.D., Lonnie Barback Ph.D., Stephanie Brown, Ph.D., Paul Ekman Ph.D., Marty Klein, D E T S E U Q E R E C I V R E S N R U T E R 2 3 9 1 . o N t i m r e P Ph.D., Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. Bill O’Hanlon, MS, Stephen W. Porges, Ph.D., Terry . A . S . U O M , y t i C s a s n a K Real, Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D. and Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW. 6 1 0 5 8 Z A , x i n e o h P d i a P e g a t s o P . S . U , 0 0 2 . e t S , . d R s a m o h T . E 2 3 6 2 Paul Ekman, who was the feature interview in the last edition of the Newslet - . g r o t i f o r P - n o N . c n I , n o i t a d n u o F n o s k c i r E . H n o t l i M e h T ter, is known for developing the Facial Action Coding System (FACS), which iden - See COUPLES on page 8 2 VOL. 32, NO. 3 The Milton H. Erickson Foundation Newsletter 100 Key Points and Techniques , by ference, you will easily see why we Harvey Ratner, Evan George, and chose “connections” as our theme. The EDITOR’S COMMENTS Chris Iveson. This puts a European wonderful presentations and shared spin on Solution-focused Brief Ther - wisdom at the conference offer con - apy. nections that you may not have ex - I especially enjoy the Winter/ The theme of expanded intercon - pected. If you are not at the Spring edition of the Newsletter since nections is carried forth by John Lentz conference…(sigh)…you are missing it overlaps two of my favorite confer - as he reviews Innovations in NLP For an incredible experience. And, the ences: the Brief Therapy and Couples Challenging Times Vol. 1 , edited by L. Couple’s Conference, which is just conferences. Over the years, in re - Michael Hall and Shelle Rose Charvet. around the corner, is equally mar - viewing the presentations of both con - This book is far more than its title sug - velous. ferences, it occurred to me that their gests. The theme of multilevel connec - common theme was how to make con - tions is continued in Maria Escalante We hope to connect with all of you nections: within one’s self, between in - de Smith’s concise review of Adven - there. dividuals, with the community at large. ture Therapy by Michael A. Gass, H. There is a natural desire to connect L. “Lee” Gilliss, and Keith C. Russell. Richard E. Landis with something greater than the self. Orange, California If you are reading this issue at the Therefore, this issue’s articles and re - Brief Therapy Lasting Solutions Con - views weave back and forth, overlap - ping the themes of both brief and couples therapy. In our last issue, we featured Paul Foundation Plans for Spanish Ekman as our representative of both Books on Dr. Erickson conferences. This issue, Ellyn Bader In keeping with the times, the Foundation is working on offering Spanish Lan - interviews Harriet Lerner as our am - offer us a handful of book reviews guage Editions of three classics by Erickson/Rossi, which should be available some bassador since Bader and Lerner will which include their own unique focus time in 2013. The books were translated by Luis David Guzmán Moreno, M.D. and also be presenting at both conferences. on the theme of connection. Their re - feature original forewords by Ricardo Figueroa Quiroga, M. Sc. Bader and Lerner, as well as Michele view of Alexander Vesely’s feature Weiner-Davis, interviewed in John film, Viktor and I , about his grandfa - The books are: Experiencing Hypnosis: Therapeutic Approaches to Altered Lentz’s In the Spirit of Therapy col - ther, Viktor Frankl, touches on the States or EXPERIMENTANDO LA HIPNOSIS: Abordajes terapéuticos a los esta - umn, act as our connection between theme of family connection. Harriet dos alterados ; also Hypnotic Realities or REALIDADES HIPNÓTICAS: La in - these two great conferences. Lerner’s Marriage Rules is a classic ducción de la Hipnosis Clíncia y formas de suggestión indirecta ; and connection manual for couples. Hillary Hypnotherapy: An Exploratory Casebook or HIPNOTERAPIA: Un libro de ex - The theme of connection at multi - and Bradford Keeney’s book, Circular ploración de casos. ple levels is elegantly presented in Therapeutics: Giving Therapy a Heal - For information, email [email protected] . Marilia Baker’s The Power of Two col - ing Heart , moves beyond technique umn where she interviews Ellyn Bader and presents a non-model approach to Marnie McGann and Peter Pearson. Teresa Garcia- therapy where the therapist becomes Sanchez demonstrates the use of the therapy through connection. As a segue classic Ericksonian approach by facil - between inter- and inner-connection, The Milton H. Erickson Foundation itating a patient to connect with his in - the Simpkins review Mary Beth Wedel ternal resources as she connects with and Robert Wicks’ Primer on Post - him in her brilliant Case Report, What traumatic Growth . As a capstone to If We Stopped Fighting Nicotine Ad - NEWSLETTER their reviews, the development of diction? inner-connections is presented in vol - Executive Editor: Richard Landis, Ph.D. Up the Mountain is Roxanna Er - ume two of Kathryn Rossi’s edition of Review Editors: C. Alexander Simpkins, Ph.D., ickson Klein’s modern odyssey in find - Selected Papers of Ernest Lawrence Annellen Simpkins, Ph.D. ing and connecting with her Erickson Rossi: An Introduction and Guide and roots. She continues this odyssey in her Creating Consciousness: How Thera - Institutes: Marilia Baker, M.S.W., Cecilia Fabre, M.A. Contributor of Note section with an in - pists Can Facilitate Wonder, Wisdom, Guest Editors: Betty Alice Erickson, M.S., LPC, LMFT terview with filmmaker Alexander Truth and Beauty.