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plus Andre Ward (above) is in the PROCEEDS TO BENEFIT production Escape to Margaritaville. DAILY BREAKING NEWS PR photo 4 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES speak, and these are tools that I have right now.” Vocal supporters of Israel’s LGBT community, She now resides in Tel Aviv, where there is like Abu Hanna, have frequently been criticized Miss Trans Israel relative acceptance of the LGBT community. “You by commentators and advocates who have main- can go there and be who you are, and where the tained that the Israeli government extolls its pro- clothes [of the person] you are. It was hard, but gressive record on LGBT-rights in order to distract talks about title, work today they accept it more. Today, it is not dan- from its treatment of Palestinians in the West gerous [in Tel Aviv]. There had been some danger Bank and Gaza as well as Israeli Palestinians. By Matt Simonette with my life.’” there before.” She maintained that her work “was not about In May 2016, Abu Hanna, a Catholic Arab born Even in Tel Aviv, it is still difficult for trans politics,” adding, “This is my real life. Let me tell Talleen Abu Hanna said that she was inspired to and raised in Nazareth, was named the winner persons to find employment, but Abu Hanna said you something about pinkwashing: I’m not here compete to be Miss Trans Israel by a love for be- of Israel’s first transgender beauty pageant. The there are several non-profits who can offer as- to ‘wash’ anything. Yes, there are a lot of prob- ing on the stage. following September, she placed second in the sistance, adding, “Now, it’s really well-developed, lems between Jewish and Palestinians. But that “I’m a dancer,” Abu Hanna said during a recent Miss Trans Star Competition in Barcelona. That and there are organizations that do a lot.” Her is not my expertise. I believe in peace. … I’m not visit to Chicago. “I dance and I teach dancing. I first contest, which drew media attention around mother has supported her transition and public here for Israel. I’m here to make change for my love the stage; the stage is my life. When I saw the world, “was such a big show,” she recalled. work, but not her father; Abu Hanna said that she community. When I come here and tell my story, I that this was the first [such] competition in his- Abu Hanna said that she ran mainly “to be able had not been to her family home in two-and-a- make a change for me and my LGBTQ community.” tory, I thought it would be interesting. … I said, to tell people something [about trans people] half years. She said she thinks he’ll come around. ‘Okay, this is the chance to do something new outside of social media. I didn’t have the tools to Aldermen sponsor resolution calling for end to blood-donation ban Miss Trans Israel Talleen Abu Hanna. By Matt Simonette The resolution noted that blood supplies had Photo by Matt reached critically-low levels, and that a City Hall Simonette The five members of the Chicago City Council’s blood drive was scheduled for Nov. 28 in response LGBT Caucus, as well as two other alderman, in- to the drop. troduced a resolution on Nov. 21 calling for the The resolution further stated that “The restric- end of the ban on blood donations from gay men tions on MSM blood donations perpetuates stig- and other men who have sex with men (MSM). ma and discrimination against MSM in particular The ban was implemented in the ‘80s at the and the LGBT community in general; and whereas height of the AIDS crisis, and said that MSM if the one-year deferral for MSM blood donations who’d had sex with someone of the same gender is lifted, an estimate from the Williams Institute since 1977 couldn’t donate blood. That ban was suggests the donated blood supply in the United modified sightly in 2015, allowing for donations States could increase by 2 to 4 percent annu- if an MSM had not had sex in the previous year; ally and potentially save the lives of hundreds of many advocates have said that a requirement thousands of people … Lipinski foe to host that MSM donors should not have been sexually “Be it resolved that the City Council calls upon active for a year was in essence perpetuating a the FDA to remove its ban on blood donations Sidetrack event de facto ban. by men who have had sex with men within the Marie Newman, a first-time candidate for U.S. Alds. Raymond Lopez (15th Ward), Deb Mell last year; and be it further resolved that the City Congress in the 3rd Congressional District of Il- (33rd), Carlos Ramirez-Rosa (35th), Tom Tunney Council calls upon the FDA to base all bans on linois, will be hosting a fundraiser at Sidetrack (44th) and James Cappleman (46th),—all mem- blood donations not on stigma but on an assess- Thursday, Dec. 7, at 5:30 p.m. This event will bers of the LGBT Caucus—sponsored the Nov. 21 ment of each individual’s risk as measured by help her continue to oppose Democratic U.S. resolution. Other sponsors included Alds. Scott blood tests and recent exposure to diseases such Rep. Dan Lipinski, the anti-LGBT incumbent. Waguespack (32nd) and Harry Osterman (48th). as HIV that can be transmitted through blood.” Lipinski was one of the few Democrats to support a constitutional amendment to de- fine marriage as a union of “one man and one woman” and voted against the Employment have the option of making the donation “in Non-Discrimination Act, which aimed to ban Back 2 School aiding honor of” or “in memory of’ a friend or family discrimination against LGBT+ employees. underserved member). In contrast, Newman has a trans daughter and developed an anti-bullying non-profit. She students is a strong supporter of marriage equality, vows Back 2 School Illinois (B2SI)—a Chicago- ‘Planting Hope’ to support ENDA and said she will not stand Marie Newman. based nonprofit that provides tens of thou- event Dec. 5 for employers discriminating against the LGBT+ Photo by Matt Simonette sands of kids from low-income families with “Planting Hope: Chicago Unites in Research community under the guise of “religious lib- free school supplies to help them succeed in to End HIV” will take place Tuesday, Dec. 5, 6-9 erty.” campaign, but she foresees that she will need the classroom—has announced its first-ever p.m., at Reunion Chicago, 2557 W. North Ave. The campaign stated, “It is extremely dif- around $1.1 million in total to remain com- holiday campaign. The community forum/launch event will fea- ficult to run against an incumbent, especially petitive. 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BURRELL MECHANICAL BURRELL ACCOUNT MANAGER 6 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES WBEZ’s Podcast Passport goes queer with ‘Nancy’ by Liz Baudler The hosts often like to take a back seat when it becomes clear that a guest or colleague is more Nancy, the LGBTQ-focused podcast from WNYC closely connected to an episode’s topic, some- that debuted earlier this year, isn’t just operat- times giving the show a queer “This American ing with only one community in mind. Co-hosts Life” feel. Kathy Tu and Tobin Low, both Asian-American, “I think for any episode of Nancy we’re looking wanted to create space for voices that don’t al- for the right person who can make an issue feel ways get heard. personal,” said Low. “Anyone who can take some- “I really wanted to signal to the world that we thing and make it feel not like a textbook, or not weren’t just going to be a stereotypical public like something sort of abstract.” radio show, where everyone sort of sounds the Yet the podcast wouldn’t exist without the very same,” said Tu. “And I think we also wanted to real chemistry between Tu and Low, who met at signal that we are a place where people of color an audio boot camp a few years ago. Low de- will be able to find a home. It’s not just the queer scribes their studio process as “trying to set up community. We want to make sure that all of our the circumstances for controlled chaos.” identities get some sort of home in the show.” “I don’t know if this comes across, but I cannot Nancy’s first on-the-road-live show, at the act,” laughed Tu. “I think that the origin point, Athenaeum Theater on Dec. 2, showcases this the nugget of the things that show up on the desire for exploring and elevating identity. The show, are all very real. And they can be weird and evening’s slate of guests include intersex activist they can be silly, but that’s how our friendship Pidgeon Pagonis and Brown Girls creators Fati- works. Friends are weird together a lot.” mah Asghar and Sam Bailey. “A lot of hard conversations are never 100-per- Low is particularly excited about the latter. cent serious or 100-percent laughter,” said Low. “When I saw Brown Girls for the first time, I had “With your closest friends, you move between Nancy co-hosts Kathy Tu and Tobin Low. this flash of relief like, oh my god, I have been joking and talking about something serious Photo by Amy Pearl waiting for a show like this in terms of something and finding the humor in it, or laughing about that was really smart and funny that centered something and then getting emotional. I think queer people, but not in a way that felt like it is something that we try really hard to take from (Northbrook), Baxter International Inc. (Deer- was a show about them. It felt like it was a show our real friendship and put in the show.” HRC releases 2018 field), BMO Bankcorp Inc. (Chicago), Boeing for us,” he said. And while Nancy helps its audience explore Co. (Chicago), CDW Corp. (Lincolnshire), Chap- “I’m so thankful to Tobin, Kathy and the Nancy questions and perspectives about identity, it’s corporate index man and Cutler LLP (Chicago), CNA Insurance A record number of the nation’s major compa- team for accepting our invitation to put on their had a similar effect on its creators. (Chicago) and ConAgra Brands Inc. (Chicago). nies and law firms are advancing vital policies first major live show in Chicago. The evening we’re “For me, the show’s been really personal in They also include Discover Financial Ser- and practices to protect LGBTQ workers around curating is exactly the kind of celebration we’re helping me develop my identity,” said Tu. “And vices (Riverwoods), Exelon Corp. (Chicago), the world, according to the 2018 Corporate trying to create with this series and I can’t for the other thing that I’ve learned is that there’s Faegre Baker Daniels (Chicago), the Federal Equality Index (CEI), which he Human Rights Chicago meet Nancy,” said Tyler Greene, WBEZ’s so many people in the queer community that feel Reserve Bank of Chicago, Grant Thornton LLP Campaign (HRC) Foundation released recently. Live Event Producer and curator of the Podcast like they don’t have a voice. They come on to this (Chicago), Groupon Inc. (Chicago), Health Care This year, a record-breaking 609 businesses Passport series, which aims to introduce Chicago show as a way to hear people like themselves and Service Corp. (Chicago), HERE North America earned the CEI’s top score of 100, up from 517 audiences to a diversity of opinions and voices. to hear people who aren’t like themselves, and LLC (Chicago), Hinshaw & Culbertson LLP (Chi- last year—a single-year increase of 18 percent. Newcomers to Nancy might be astonished by to learn more about those different identities. I cago), Huron Consulting Group Inc. (Chicago), Among other things, the CEI—launched in the breath of topics the show has covered in less guess I didn’t realize that, there are so many very Hyatt Hotels Corp. (Chicago), Jenner & Block 2002 to assess LGBTQ-inclusive policies and than a year. After sharing their coming out sto- specific voices that just really want to be heard.” LLP (Chicago), JLL (Chicago), Katten Muchin practices at Fortune 500 companies—high- ries in the very first episode, Tu and Low visited “I think I had a notion that most queer people Rosenman LLP (Chicago), Kirkland & Ellis LLP lights how corporate leaders are increasingly Orlando a year after the Pulse shooting, con- were very, 100% confident in their identities,” (Chicago), Leo Burnett Company Inc. (Chi- stepping up to play a leading role in opposing ducted a listener survey about being out in the said Low. “Didn’t have doubt the way that I did. cago), Mayer Brown LLP (Chicago), McDermott anti-equality legislation. workplace, and debated whether Harry Potter’s What we learned doing these stories is that ev- Will & Emery LLP (Chicago), McDonald’s Corp. The CEI rates companies and top law firms on Dumbledore was really gay. eryone feels, to a certain degree, like they’re (Oak Brook) and MillerCoors LLC (Chicago). detailed criteria falling under five categories: “There’s an idea that if a show nails itself down always questioning, they’re always reidentifying Rounding out the list are Morningstar Inc. non-discrimination policies; employment ben- too early, that you kind of put yourself in a box of themselves. Yes, queer folks are confident and (Chicago), Navigant Consulting Inc. (Chicago), efits; demonstrated organizational competency what you can cover and what you can talk about, know who they are, but also with that, there’s Northern Trust Corp. (Chicago), Schiff Hardin and accountability around LGBTQ diversity and the ways you can cover it,” said Low. “To a lis- a lot of getting to know yourself, and everyone LLP (Chicago), Sears Holdings Corp. (Hoffman inclusion; public commitment to LGBTQ equal- tener it might sound like that Nancy goes to a has questions.” Estates), Seyfarth Shaw LLP (Chicago), Sidley ity; and responsible citizenship. lot of different places. And that’s what we really To find out more about the Nancy pod- Austin LLP (Chicago), Starcom (Chicago), State Regarding Illinois businesses, those receiv- wanted, you tune in, the promise is that Kathy cast, visit WNYC.org/shows/nancy. More info Farm Group (Bloomington), Takeda Pharma- ing a score of 100 percent include A.T. Kearney and I will be there, but then also we might go in about the show is at WNYC.org/events/wnyc- ceuticals USA Inc. (Deerfield), United Airlines Inc. (Chicago), AbbVie Inc. (North Chicago), a totally different direction or do something in a events/2017/dec/02/nancy-live-presented- (Chicago), W.W. Grainger Inc. (Lake Forest), Allstate (Northbrook), Aon Corp. (Chicago), different way, and hopefully you’ll be surprised.” wbezs-podcast-passport/. Walgreen Co. (Deerfield) and Winston & Strawn Astellas Pharma US Inc (Northbrook), Baker & LLP (Chicago). McKenzie LLP (Chicago), Barilla America Inc. The CEI is at HRC.org/cei. WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 7 Center on Halsted hosts annual TDOR event By Matt Simonette where the victims’ gender identity is not reported. “The best way to acknowledge them is to be as Community members came close to filling Center much of whatever you are as you can be,” Mar- on Halsted’s Hoover-Leppen Theater on Nov. 20 tinez said. for an observance of the Transgender Day of Re- Activist Maritxa Vidal added, “Instead of tear- membrance (TDOR). ing each other down we need to help build each The Center’s Director of Trans Relations and other up.” Community Engagement, Vanessa Sheridan, mod- Wade spoke at length about the need for the erated the presentation, noting that the somber trans community to advocate for itself and as- intentions of the occasion, remembering trans in- sert its political power, adding, “We need sys-

From left: Maritxa Vidal, Alexis Martinez, LaSaia Wade, Mona Noriega and Vanessa Sheridan. Photo by Matt Simonette dividuals, “stood in stark contrast to the election tems that offer to the [transgender] community results of a few weeks ago.” the same things that they offer any other com- Sheridan added, “Tonight we gather to remem- munity.” ber that we have lost, but we also gather to draw Chicago Commission on Human Relations Com- strength from one another. … We are a commu- missioner Mona Noriega discussed her agency’s nity bound together not in hatred but in love.” responsibilities at the presentation as well. Tal- Joy Douglas Strome, pastor at Lake View Pres- leen Abu Hanna, who is the 2016 Miss Trans Is- byterian Church, joined Sheridan on stage for a rael, also gave brief remarks. candlelighting ceremony to commemorate those who had been lost. Their names were read, and Sheridan lit individual candles remembering each person. ‘4-Star City’ A panel of community advocates and officials campaign launches then discussed issues pertinent to the transgen- A new integrated ad campaign seeking to der community. create awareness and empathy for Chicago- Activist LaSaia Wade noted that the Day of ans who cope with homelessness while living Remembrance served multiple functions for the on the street has launched, according to the community—not just a commemoration of those Chicago Coalition for the Homeless. who had been lost, but an occasion to ask “how Developed pro bono by marketing com- we can come together and enjoy our power to- munications firm MARC USA, the integrated gether.” campaign plays on Chicago’s four-star city Activist Alexis Martinez added that the day flag. “feels like a funeral,” but urged the audience The “4-Star City” campaign features 30- to remember that transgender people who have and 60-second videos running as broadcast died “lived in revolution.” She further noted that and digital PSAs, with print and outdoor besides trans persons murdered who are publicly versions. The main video can be accessed at acknowledged, there are others who are lost to https://youtu.be/Tea-bp6ewxE. completed suicide attempts or violent crimes 8 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES

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iT’s abouT wheTher a business can say “we don’t serve your kind here.”

In early December, the Supreme Court will hear oral arguments in Masterpiece Cakeshop, a case that has the potential to upend the hard-fought principle that no one should ever be denied service from a business open to the public simply because of who they are.

The case might seem relatively minor: a Colorado bakery refusing to sell a same-sex couple a cake for their wedding reception. But this is not about cake, and it’s about a lot more than marriage.

A ruling that says the Constitution gives businesses the right to turn customers away based on religious beliefs or creativity would create gaping holes in our nation’s longstanding nondiscrimination protections. It would say there is a constitutional right to discriminate—which could be used not only against LGBT people but also against religious and racial minorities, unmarried couples, single mothers and many, many others.

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National Center for TRANSGENDER EQUALITY 10 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES In Remembrance: Kelsey Murphy Miles

Kelsey Murphy Miles, cherished daughter of Kay Miles and Deb Murphy, passed away unexpectedly Nov. 12, 2017, in Los Angeles, where she had resided for the past five years. She was 26. Kelsey and her moms were part of a precedent-setting case in Illinois adoption history. In 1995, the family, joined by another couple, helped win the right of unmarried couples to have the same adoption rights as single parents and heterosexual married couples. When the Illinois Appellate Court ruled in their favor, it set precedent in the state and opened up the door for many of other same-sex couples to have second-parent adoption rights. At the time, Pat Logue, who represented the Murphy-Miles family and who was managing attorney for the midwest regional office of Lambda Legal, said the case was a “profound” victory “for the simple principle that sexual orientation is irrelevant in parenting. It is a powerful affirmation that the best interests of a child and not sexual orientation or marital status is what should control in any adoption decision.” the Chicago Tribune wrote: “In addition to expanding the ground rules for adoption, Tuesday’s ruling has significant practical reasons. By recognizing unmarried couples as parents, the court gives children of such households access to the same benefits afforded the children of married couples, including health insurance, Social Security survivor benefits and inheritances.” Kelsey was born in Evanston, Illinois. She attended Baker Demonstration School in Evan- ston and the Chicago Waldorf School. She loved acting from a very young age, studying first at the Piven Theatre Workshop and later at the Vancouver Film School and at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in Los Angeles. Kelsey with her moms Deb (left) and Kay. Kelsey liked to say, “Somebody out there’s doing your dream job, it might as well be Photo courtesy of the family

you.” She enjoyed each and every production she was a part of. Kelsey saw beauty and humor in this weird and wonderful earthly world. She was an artist; a pure artist, seeing and feeling the surface, the depth and the true meaning of the world around her. throughout her life, Kelsey was known for her playful and radiant spirit, for her intel- ligence, courage and generous heart. Kelsey had a wisdom and depth of love and understanding for all she met, always encour- aging people to take the next step, whatever that may be. Kelsey always loved her home. She enjoyed entertaining and hanging out with friends and with the many pets she adopted and loved over the years. She also had a passion for travel and had visited Argentina, Mexico, Puerto Rico, Panama, the Bahamas, Finland, Estonia, Sweden, Ireland, England, Scotland, Wales, Belgium, the Netherlands, Germany, France, Switzerland, Italy, Spain, Bulgaria, Serbia, Romania, Japan, Canada, and most American states. She especially loved traveling with friends. Kelsey’s other hobbies included genealogy (she was a member of the Mayflower Soci- ety), swimming, snorkeling, horseback riding, ice skating, singing, dancing, painting, playing board games, shopping, wearing high heels, remembering everyone’s birthday, and keeping in touch with friends from all over the world. She is survived by her two moms in Evanston and by a myriad of loving aunts, uncles, cousins and dear friends. Because of Kelsey’s lifelong concern for homeless youth and her commitment to the LGBTQ community, donations in her memory may be made to the Crossroads Fund (checks to Crossroads Fund, “Vernita Gray Youth Project,” 3411 W. Diversey Ave., #20, Chicago, Il- linois 60647), or the Pride Action Tank (checks made to AIDS Foundation of Chicago, with “LGBTQ Homeless Youth Tiny Homes Project” in the memo, sent to AFC, attention: Jackie Thaney, 200 W. Jackson, Suite 2100, Chicago, Illinois 60606). A memorial to celebrate her life will be held Sunday, Dec. 3, 1-4 p.m., Copper and Caviar, 1601 Payne St., Evanston. All are welcome. Kelsey Murphy Miles. Photo by Malcolm Riordan

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We were a team, and we were ac- taged Business Enterprise certification. cepted for who we were.” Jackie explained that the certifications gave After their first job with NPL, Adams called and her hope for their company’s future and other invited Jackie to a Nicor diversity event in Cicero. minority-owned businesses in Illinois. She noted They did not have enough gas to get there so the certifications were not easy to get because Jackie took the batteries out of the trucks they people did not understand the socio-economic owned and sold them for gas. hardships transgender people face. Jackie said Nicor’s diversity event is where Jackie met their goal was expanding the definition of gender Intren founder and Chairwoman Loretta Rosen- to include transgender people and noted their mayer and where NPL introduced them to Nicor’s victory was due to the guidance they received senior buyer. Two years later, Nicor did a press re- from Stevie Conlon, Rick Garcia and Rocco Clapps. lease on Heels & Hardhats and that led to Nicor’s “We decided to strike out on our own when it parent company, Southern Companies, inviting became impossible for me to get a job in this the couple to speak on diversity issues in a talk industry as a trans woman,” said Jackie. “In the which was telecast to the corporation’s divisions fall of 2012, we got our first government contract from their Atlanta headquarters. building a parking lot for the Illinois National “We slowly grew and worked our way up the Guard ... Every job was a learning experience as ladder to become a contractor of choice for many we slowly climbed the ladder. In the spring, we of these firms,” said Jackie. “Heels & Hardhats were hired by Christy Webber Landscapes to per- learned early on that paying it forward paid off. form traffic control for her crews on the Kennedy We would continue to grow with the core values for the City of Chicago Gateway Green Project. we learned from our clients. All of these compa- Little did we know how that job would open a nies are not just customers, they are our allies in door for us months later.” changing perception of LGBT people. These firms The company has also done restoration work have really embraced us and our employees.” fixing what contractors tore up during utilities Recently, they got their first semi tanker truck replacement for the City of Rockford, NPL Con- of gas and diesel fuel. struction Company, Nicor Gas, the Illinois De- “When I saw the truck pull into our compa- partment of Transportation and Aldridge, M.J. ny’s yard, it literally took my breath away,” said Electric, LLC and Intren, LLC on projects for Com Jackie. “ I took a picture of it and went to the Jackie (left) and Cyndi Richter at the Pride Parade. Ed. They have 50 employees who perform vari- office to hug Cyndi. She asked what was wrong as Photo courtesy of Heels & Hardhats ous tasks and an additional 18 employees who do my eyes were all teary eyed. We looked back to business. In today’s business climate, you must traffic control work as flaggers. that important tank of gas we bought four years have suppliers and partners that you can trust.” Affinity casino Jackie said the email she sent in 2013 to Josh- prior. We have taken our dreams so far that we Jackie and Cyndi’s message centers around not ua Adams, NPL’s director of operations, was the use that much gas in that many trucks to support giving up on one’s dreams. fundraiser Dec. 2 turning point for Heels & Hardhats. our clients.” “We have weathered many storms throughout Affinity Community Services will host “I will never forget going into that conference “Heels & Hardhats’ growth is a direct result of our life,” said Jackie. “It is kind of like our busi- “Black Gold,” its first-ever casino night fund- room the next morning and discussing our work a combined commitment with NPL to share ideas, ness—safety in knowing you have each other, raiser, on Saturday, Dec. 2, 7-11 p.m., at The ethics and beliefs,” said Jackie. “I told them, ‘I opportunities and transparency,” said Adams. quality is living life on life’s terms and learning Connection, 4321 S. Cottage Grove Ave. know I am different and people look at us with “While advocating for women, minorities and the that faith overcomes hardships and finally, com- There will be a raffle and a silent auction, doubt. We have chased government contractors LGBTQ community, Jackie and Cyndi have put ad- mitment no matter how bad things get. I cannot a live DJ and dancing. In addition, the ca- and all we got were closed doors and laughter.’ vocacy into action by hiring, training and men- imagine doing this without Cyndi.” sino game winner will take home the Affinity He looked at me and said, ‘Jackie, NPL has better toring employees and subcontractors similar to “We have been through many struggles and Community Services Black Gold Trophy. core values than to not give you a chance.’” NPL’s diversity program. Through their hard work, hurdles, and through persistence we were able to The VIP hour is 7-8 p.m., and will include Jackie noted that NPL has also helped them commitment and perseverance, Heels & Hardhats achieve our ultimate dream: to have a success- unlimited drinks, hors d’oeuvres and funny with fundraising for Howard Brown Health and has helped NPL, our customers and other firms ful business within the LGBT community,” said money to play the casino games. General ad- the Lesbian Community Care Project (LCCP), in- in the industry who are seeking an opportunity Cyndi. “There were many points when it would mission (at 8 p.m.) includes three drink tick- troduced them to other contractors, mentored to succeed.” have been much easier to give up; however, ets, hors d’oeuvres and funny money; reduced them and trained their staff. “First and foremost, Heels & Hardhats provides we were too stubborn and hardheaded to do it. admission includes one drink ticket, passed Cyndi added, “Our relationship with NPL’s crews a competitive, high quality service to their cli- Through the hardships that we have faced, we hors d’oeuvres and a little funny money. flourished through our flagging work. As the work ents,” said Rosenmayer. “They earned the respect have gained an all new appreciation for the suc- Admission is $35-$100 each; vis- season came to a close, Joshua mentioned to of our project managers and are trusted to get cess that we have been blessed to have.” it https://blackgoldacs.eventbrite. Jackie and I that we needed to focus our time in the job done right. Jackie and Cyndi also have See HeelsAndHardhats.com for more infor- com/?aff=WindyCityTimes. the office. I remember looking at Jackie thinking values and principles, which are so important in mation. WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 13 14 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES HIV-positive or -negative, “If we catch a cancer early, and it’s small, we can surgically remove Physician speaks it, and they can avoid chemo and radiation. But typically when people come in, the tumor is too large to remove surgically, so it’s chemo and radiation for them. If we catch it early and it on anal-cancer hasn’t metastasized to other body locations, the five-year survival rate is greater than 60 percent, which is really great for cancers that have been treated.” risks, screenings Patients can only have the chemo or radiation By Matt Simonette cher added, “But for people with HIV, for some treatments once. If the cancer reoccurs, they reason, even though the immune system looks must have their anus surgically removed. Anal cancer is a condition about which indi- good T-cell-wise, you can still have some some “So it’s important to find these cancers early viduals from numerous demographics should be kind of issue where the HPV continues to ‘hang in high-risk groups,” Bucher said. Those groups concerned. According to the Centers for Disease out’ and cause problems.” who should be screened include HIV-positive men Control and Prevention (CDC), there are about About 95 percent of HIV-positive MSM“will al- and women; HIV-negative MSM who are 45 and 3,400 new cases of human papilloma virus (HPV)- ways have HPV in their bottoms,” he continued. older; women with a history of cervical, vaginal associated anal cancers diagnosed every year in “About 60 percent of gay men who are negative or vulval cancer or high-grade disease; transplant women, and about 1,800 new cases in men. will also always have it in their bottoms. That is patients; and persons with certain diseases of the Being HIV-positive significantly increases the why it persists, and why those two groups are gastrointestinal tract. risk, said Gary Bucher, MD, of Anal Dysplasia most at risk.” Bucher suggested concerned persons say to Clinic-Midwest, 2551 N. Clark St. The current rate Cellular changes from the HPV can eventually their primary-care physicians, ‘“I’ve been read- of anal cancer is about 140 per 100,000 HIV- lead to the precancerous condition anal dyspla- ing, and I know that I’m in a high-risk group for positive men who have sex with men (MSM), and sia. anal cancer. I know that, in screening for that, I 35 per 100,000 HIV-negative MSM. HIV-positive “In HIV-positive MSM, about 50-60 percent of should probably have a rectal exam every year, women and HIV-positive men who have sex with that group will have those precancerous areas, and a Pap smear if possible.’ … It’s an education women have similar rates of anal cancer to HIV- and about one in 10 of those people will develop piece for the provider as well, where the patient negative MSM. anal cancer over their lifetime, so it’s pretty com- needs to take charge also, especially if they’re in “Definitely you can see that the biggest group mon,” Bucher said. one of those high-risk groups.” is the HIV-positive MSM,” Bucher noted, adding While some primary care providers have been Bucher’s clinic is a study-site of the national that such high rates are compelling health pro- offering patients anal Pap smears more frequent- Anal Cancer HSIL Outcomes Research (ANCHOR) viders and advocates to get the message out that ly, a rectal examination is additionally necessary, Study, an 8-year study examining the overall ef- people need to be screened. he said. “If there’s a cancer there, the physician fectiveness of Pap smears and cell-removal sur- At the root of the condition is HPV, which is can actually feel it, and determine if it’s gotten geries in detecting and preventing anal cancer. the most commonly-transmitted STD since it is large enough that the patient actually has to go Gary Bucher MD. He said volunteers are still being sought. largely transmitted via skin-to-skin contact. “You for treatment.” Photo courtesy of Bucher “We need to enroll over 5,000 people nation- can get HPV just by rubbing the penis or the anal One stumbling block is largely a matter of ally,” Bucher noted, adding that HIV-positive area, or through oral sex,” he explained. comfort-levels: Most patients are uncomfortable fortable asking if they want one. men, women and transgender persons were espe- Most people who are infected with HPV will asking for the rectal exam—or simply don’t know “But the problem is that, with most Paps, the cially needed. “They get a free screening, which clear it from their system within two years. Bu- they should—while many physicians are uncom- swabs have to get in all the folds of the anal is high-resolution oscopy, and if they qualify, canal, and there are a lot of folds,” Bucher said. we’ll be following them every six months. … “So you can have a lot of Paps that come back It’s a really important trial and we need people normal when there are actually precancerous ar- to come in, get screened and help answer these eas there.” questions.” He added that, no matter whether a patient is For more information, see AnchorStudy.org.

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Artists Day-related events that are slated to take place 1—this time at Revel Fulton Market, 1215 W. scheduled to appear include Kevin Wood, Beckie on or around the official date (Friday, Dec. 1): Fulton St., 6-9 p.m. The theme is “International Menzie, Tom Michael, Carla Gordon and many —South Suburban College will hold its “World Affair,” and there will be more than 20 chocolat- more. See https://www.brownpapertickets.com/ AIDS Day: HIV and Hepatitis C Awareness Work- iers present. For tickets, visit http://chocolate. event/3121041 . shop” on Wed., Nov. 29, 1-2 p.m. in the MB Fi- aidschicago.org/. —Hartzell Memorial United Methodist Church, nancial Suite of the main campus. Visit https:// —CALOR’s free event “World AIDS Day - Keep 3330 S. Martin Luther King Dr., will hold a World www.ssc.edu/event/world-aids-day-hiv-hepati- The Promise” will take place Friday, Dec. 1, 6-10 AIDS Day event on Friday, Dec. 1, 6-8 p.m. At- tis-c-awareness-workshop/. p.m., at Latin Rhythms Academy of Dance & tendees will celebrate the bishop’s Appeal collec- —A World AIDS Day panel presentation is tak- Performance, 210 N. Racine Ave. There will be tion of more than $70,000 for the United Meth- ing place Wed., Nov. 29, 9-10:30 a.m. at the Uni- drinks/food, a drag show and dancing as well as odist Global AIDS Fund taken at the 2017 Annual versity of Illinois at Chicago’s College of Nursing, HIV/hepatitis C testing. See “World AIDS Day - Conference; the Chicago Children’s Choir will per- 845 S. Damen Ave. The free event will feature Ga- Keep The Promise” at Eventbrite.com. form. Visit https://www.umcnic.org/th_event/ briel Culbert, PhD, RN; Janet Lin, MD, MPH; and —A World AIDS Day service will take place world-aids-day/. Norma Rolfsen, RN, FNP; visit https://today.uic. Friday, Dec. 1, 7 p.m., at AChurch4Me, Metro- —On Saturday, Dec. 2, The Center for African edu/events/world-aids-day-panel-presentation. politan Community Church, 7366 N. Clark St. See World of Chocolate. American Ministries and Black Church Studies —World of Chocolate: AIDS Foundation of Chi- AChurch4Me.org. Photo by Andrew Davis Program at McCormick Theological Seminary will host the HIV/AIDS Clergy and Lay Leadership Summit XIII: “Loving Our Neighbor: HIV/AIDS TAKE A TRIP TO Care Continuum Re-Defined.” The event will take place at the seminary, 5460 S. University Ave., 9 a.m.-12:30 p.m., and will include praise/worship, breakfast and a panel discussion; visit “HIV/AIDS Clergy and Lay Lead- ership Summit 13” on Eventbrite.com. —On Sunday, Dec. 3, the South Suburban Health Alliance will host its sixth annual World’s AIDS Day event, “HIV is No Mystery: A 1920’s Murder Mystery Dinner Experience,” in Mer- rionette Park, Illinois. 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Dana RUDOLPH MOMBIAN 2017 gift guide VOL. 33, No. 11, Nov. 29, 2017 The combined forces of Windy City Times, founded Sept. 1985, and Outlines newspaper, to books for founded May 1987. LGBTQ families PUBLISHER & EXECUTIVE EDITOR This year saw a terrific crop of books for and about Tracy Baim LGBTQ families. Here are some of my favorites. ASSISTANT PUBLISHER Terri Klinsky MANAGING EDITOR Andrew Davis Children’s books ASSOCIATE EDITOR Matt Simonette BUSINESS MANAGER Ripley Caine The grande dame of LGBTQ-inclusive kids’ books, DIRECTOR OF NEW MEDIA Jean Albright Lesléa Newman (author of Heather Has Two Mom- ART DIRECTOR Kirk Williamson mies), this year applied her sparkling prose to Senior Account Executives Terri Klinsky, Sparkle Boy, about a gender creative boy who loves Kirk Williamson, Amy Matheny, Scott Duff, Monika Pickett, David Strzepek, Kathy Breit glittery things. His parents and abuelita are encour- NATIONAL SALES Rivendell Media, 212-242- aging, but his sister is hesitant, until she sees her 6863 sibling being teased and learns to support him. SENIOR WRITERS Bob Roehr, Tony Peregrin, Lisa Keen, Yasmin Nair When You Look Out the Window: How Phyllis THEATER EDITOR Scott C. Morgan Lyon and Del Martin Built a Community, by Gayle SPORTS WRITER Ross Forman Pitman, tells of the transformation that the real-life ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT WRITERS Lyon and Martin helped bring to San Francisco and Passover, Eid al-Fitr, and a Lakota powwow. They’re serves a place on this list. Mary Shen Barnidge, Lawrence Ferber, Jerry chock-full of multi-racial, multi-ethnic characters Queer There and Everywhere: 23 People Who Nunn, Jonathan Abarbanel its LGBTQ community. An included Reading Guide COLUMNISTS/WRITERS: Yvonne Zipter, Jorjet gives more detail on what they did to effect the across the spectrum of sexual orientations, family Changed the World, by Sarah Prager, offers engag- Harper, Charlsie Dewey, Carrie Maxwell, Billy changes. structures, and gender identities and expressions. ing profiles of queer people from across history and Masters, Sarah Toce, Dana Rudolph, Melissa Wasserman, Joe Franco, Nick Patricca, Liz Who Are You? The Kid’s Guide to Gender Iden- Buy them at FlamingoRampant.com. around the globe. Chances are you’ve heard of some of them but not all—and may learn more even about Baudler, Rex Wockner, Angelique Smith tity, by Brook Pessin-Whedbee, gives both young SENIOR PHOTOGRAPHERS Kat Fitzgerald, Hal children and adults simple explanations to help Middle-grade books those you know. Baim, Tim Carroll, Ed Negron them talk about different gender identities. It comes Emma Donoghue’s funny and clever The Lotterys The Kids: The Children of LGBTQ Parents in the WEBSITE LISTINGS VOLUNTEER Gene Naden Plus One is told from the perspective of the middle USA, by award-winning photographer Gabriela Her- CIRCULATION DIRECTOR Jean Albright with a take-out “Gender Wheel” that lets readers mix DISTRIBUTION Ashina, Allan, Dan, John, Sue and match ways of describing their bodies and their child of seven, part of a family that began when two man, contains 75 striking, powerful images and es- and Victor feelings. couples became best friends and decided to have a says that show us life with LGBTQ parents through WEB HOSTING LoveYourWebsite.com (lead programmer: Martie Marro) Author and artist Maya Gonzalez’s The Gender baby together—then won the lottery, bought a big the eyes of their grown children. They are from a house, and added more kids through childbearing diversity of backgrounds, family structures, and Wheel: a story about bodies and gender for every Copyright 2017 Lambda Publications Inc./Windy City Media and adoption. Their life is thrown off-kilter when experiences, but united by a love of their families, Group; All rights reserved. Reprint by permission only. Back body, uses beautiful visuals to explain the infinite issues (if available) for $5 per issue (postage included). range of gender possibilities. The surrounding text, one curmudgeonly and conservative grandfather warts and all. Return postage must accompany all manuscripts, drawings, must come to live with them, and all must learn to and photographs submitted if they are to be returned, and though, is of a reading level that makes this best no responsibility may be assumed for unsolicited materials. find common ground. For parents and parents to be All rights to letters, art and photographs sent to Windy suited for older elementary school children. The pub- City Times will be treated as unconditionally assigned lisher also notes that because some of the people in Dana Allison Levy may be known to readers from Pride and Joy: A Guide for Lesbian, Gay, Bisex- for publication purposes and as such, subject to editing her two Family Fletcher books about a family with ual and Trans Parents, by Sarah and Rachel Hagger- and comment. The opinions expressed by the columnists, this body-positive book are unclothed (though in a cartoonists, letter writers, and commentators are their own gay dads. In her third book, This Would Make a Holt, deftly synthesizes stories and insights from and do not necessarily reflect the position ofWindy City cartoonish, not realistic, way) it is intended for chil- Times. Publication of the name, photograph, or likeness of dren to read with “a supportive adult.” This would Good Story Someday, she follows the Fletchers’ over 70 LGBT parents, their grown children, sperm a person or organization in articles or advertising in Windy neighbors, a two-mom family. After one of the donors, and others across the U.K. and Ireland, on City Times is not to be construed as any indication of the be a good volume for those who have already read sexual orientation of such person or organization. While moms, a blogger, wins a fellowship to take a fam- both starting a family and navigating the years to we encourage readers to support the advertisers who make Pessin-Whedbee’s book above. this newspaper possible, Windy City Times cannot accept Another book for younger children is the one Gon- ily train trip and write about it, they pack up their follow. Most of the book is broadly applicable to responsibility for advertising claims. three daughters and eldest daughter’s boyfriend, and LGBT parents in the U.S., too. (773) 871-7610 FAX (773) 871-7609 zalez wrote with her partner Matthew Smith Gon- e-mail: [email protected] or zalez, They She He Me: Free to Be!, a beautifully depart for an entertaining and surprisingly touching Eric Rosswood’s The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads [email protected] illustrated celebration of pronouns. Each page high- adventure across the country. is a helpful how-to with guidance on general child- care topics like how to change a diaper, as well as www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com lights a different pronoun, with images that convey podcast: WindyCityQueercast.com the variety of people who might use it. A guide at Books for teens (and older) on things specific to queer dads, like legal steps to Gayle Pitman (see above), a professor of psychol- protect your family, how to find queer-friendly pe- WINDY CITY MEDIA GROUP, the end gives children and parents more informa- 5315 N. Clark St. #192, Chicago, IL, 60640 U.S.A tion and ideas, urging readers to keep “playing with ogy and women/gender studies at Sacramento City diatricians and schools, what to do on Mother’s Day, (MAILING ADDRESS ONLY) pronouns.” College, also gave us Feminism A to Z, in which guiding daughters through puberty, and much more. she combines insights from history, academic re- Full of anecdotes from real dads, it should become Windy City Times Deadline every Wednesday. Rumplepimple Goes to Jail, by Suzanne DeWitt OUT! Chicago’s LGBTQ Visitor’s Guide Online Hall, is the second adventure featuring the titular search, her own experiences, and more to create a an invaluable resource. www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com terrier, who gets into mischief with a cat friend and wide-ranging, intersectional, queer-inclusive guide- Dana Rudolph is the founder and publisher of must be rescued by his two moms. book to feminist theory and a toolkit for exploring Mombian (Mombian.com), a GLAAD Media Award- The new set of six books from micropress Fla- how it relates to one’s life. She manages to make it winning blog and resource directory for LGBTQ mingo Rampant focuses on stories about celebra- both substantive and fun. While not queer-specific, parents. tions, including birthdays, baby showers, Christmas, it contains so much insight into gender that it de- WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 19 WINDY CITY TIMES DIVERSIONS THEATER • FILM • ENTERTAINMENT • SPORTS

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BY SCOTT C. MORGAN at Mary’s Attic, 5400 N. Clark St. The hit parody show of the beloved 1980s sitcom is back again ’Tis the season for perennial holiday favorites like with plenty of drag and Christmas cheer. (Dec. 6 A Christmas Carol, The Nutcracker, It’s a Wonder- to Jan. 10; HandbagProductions.org) ful Life, The Christmas Schooner and all of their WeFest (formerly SheFest), Pride Arts Cen- many iterations and variations. But the end of ter, 4139 N. Broadway. Molly Brennan and Malic the year is also bountiful in the number of pro- White host an inclusive and intersectional vari- ductions with LGBTQ ties with lots of drag and ety show celebrating the work of non-binary and other irreverent humor. Here’s a roundup of some trans artists. (Dec. 11; PrideFilmsAndPlays.com) of those productions (all shows in Chicago unless Bette: Xmas at the Continental Baths, Hell otherwise noted). in a Handbag Productions at Steppenwolf The- Erin Diamond stars as the title character in Christmas: By Melania. atre, 1700 N. Halsted St. Caitlin Jackson is back Photo courtesy of Diamond Premieres of note to portray the legendary “Divine Miss M” in a Christmas: By Melania, Uptown Underground, holiday concert commemorating her early rise to show that is not a revival of David Sedaris’ The (now to Dec. 31; TheOtherTheatreCompany.com/) 4707 N. Broadway. There are lots of queer per- fame performing before gay men in towels. (Dec. Santaland Diaries. (now to Dec. 30; TheaterWit. Dance-Along Nutcracker, Chicago Cultural formers in the cast of this hour-long holiday 12-13; HandbagProductions.org) org) Center, 78 E. Washington St. Lakeside Pride sketch comedy show skewering the current in- It’s a Fabulous Life, The Chicago Red Line at The Buttcracker, Tom Boi Theatricals at Up- once again accompanies this participatory and habitants of the White House. (now to Dec. 19; Stage 773, 1225 W. Belmont Ave. George Gayley town Underground, 4707 N. Broadway. Last year’s interactive performance of Tchaikovsky’s classic UptownUnderground.net). wonders how life might have been if he had never burlesque spin on the Tchaikovsky classic Christ- Christmas ballet. (Dec. 3; LakesidePride.org) Tis the Seasonal Depression, GayCo Produc- been born in this queer spoof of It’s a Wonderful mas ballet turns bawdy at every turn in director/ Steamworks: The Musical, Annoyance Theatre, tions at Pride Arts Center, 4139 N. Broadway. Life. (Dec. 14-22; Stage773.com) choreographer Darling Shear’s production. (now 851 W. Belmont Ave. A special New Year’s Eve edi- Chicago’s oldest LGBTQ sketch comedy troupe is Sadhaus: Sad Christmas, Gingerman Tavern, to Dec. 20; UptownUnderground.net). tion of the hit musical set in the famed Boystown back for a holiday hoedown of darkness and light. 3740 N. Clark St. Wanda Scrooge doesn’t get into Rudolph the Red-hosed Reindeer, Hell in a bath house. (Dec. 31; TheAnnoyance.com) (now to Dec. 22; GayCo.com) the Christmas spirit in this drag-filled spoof of A Handbag Productions at Mary’s Attic, 5400 N. 26 presents Happy Holigays, Pride Arts Cen- Christmas Carol. (Dec. 15-16; Do312.com) Clark St. A special 20th anniversary edition of the Concerts with LGBTQ content ter, 4147 N. Broadway, Zoom through the alpha- musical spoof of the beloved 1960s stop-motion Brass Quintet, Lakeside Pride at Center on Hal- bet with 26 sketches hinging on the theme of Revivals and returns animated TV Christmas specials. For adults only. sted, 3656 N. Halsted St. Horns will be plenty in LGBTQ holidays. (Dec. 2-16; PrideFilmsAndPlays. This Way Outta Santaland (and other xmas (now to Dec. 30; HandbagProductions.org) this concert dedicated to the brass instruments. com) miracles), Theater Wit, 1229 W. Belmont Ave. Barney the Elf, The Other Theatre Company (Nov. 29; LakesidePride.org) The Golden Girls: The Lost Episodes, The Spend another festive evening with Mitchell J. at Greenhouse Theater Center, 2257 N. Lincoln Women’s Ensemble Debut Concert, Lakeside Holiday Edition, Hell in a Handbag Productions Fain and friends now that he has his own holiday Ave. A revival of Bryan Renaud’s drag-filled spoof of the holiday musical Elf (among other shows). Turn to page 27 20 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES

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TRUVADA may interact with you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat other medicines. Keep a list of all your medicines and show it to your healthcare ® TRUVADA for PrEP is only for adults who are at high risk of getting HIVthrough sex. over time. provider and pharmacist when you get a new medicine. TRUVADA can cause serious side effects: ® If you take certain other medicines with TRUVADA, your healthcare provider ® You must be HIV-negative before you start taking TRUVADA for PrEP. may need to check you more often or change your dose. These medicines ® Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. include certain medicines to treat hepatitis C (HCV) infection. If you have HBV and stop taking TRUVADA, your HBV may suddenly get worse. 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MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA can cause serious side effects, including: Before starting TRUVADA for PrEP: • Those in the “Most Important Information About TRUVADA for PrEP” section. • You must be HIV-1 negative. You must get tested to make sure that you do not already • New or worse kidney problems, including kidney failure. have HIV-1. Do not take TRUVADA for PrEP to reduce the risk of getting HIV-1 unless you are • Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency confirmed to be HIV-1 negative. that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach • Many HIV-1 tests can miss HIV-1 infection in a person who has recently become pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or Symptoms of new HIV-1 infection include flu-like symptoms, tiredness, fever, joint or infected. abnormal heartbeat. muscle aches, headache, sore throat, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, night sweats, and/or enlarged • Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away lymph nodes in the neck or groin. Tell your healthcare provider if you have had a flu-like illness if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, within the last month before starting TRUVADA for PrEP. light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain. While taking TRUVADA for PrEP: • Bone problems. • You must continue to use safer sex practices. Just taking TRUVADA for PrEP may not Common side effects in people taking TRUVADA for PrEP include stomach-area (abdomen) pain, keep you from getting HIV-1. headache, and decreased weight. • You must stay HIV-negative to keep taking TRUVADA for PrEP.Get tested for HIV-1 at least These are not all the possible side effects of TRUVADA. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you every 3 months while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any new symptoms while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. think you were exposed to HIV-1 or have a flu-like illness while taking TRUVADA for PrEP. Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your health before and during • If you do become HIV-1 positive, you need more medicine than TRUVADA alone to treatment with TRUVADA for PrEP. treat HIV-1. If you have HIV-1 and take only TRUVADA, your HIV-1 may become harder to treat over time. • See the “How To Further Reduce Your Risk” section for more information. BEFORE TAKING TRUVADA FOR PrEP TRUVADA may cause serious side effects, including: Tell your healthcare provider if you: • Have or have had any kidney, bone, or liver problems, including hepatitis. • Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. TRUVADA is not approved to treat HBV. If you • Have any other medical conditions. have HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking TRUVADA. 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TVDC0139_PrEP_B_10x10_WindyCityTimes_Vogue_p1.indd 3 7/10/17 12:26 PM WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 23 100-minute comedy about very serious matters Letts’s most profound work by a good measure. THEATER REVIEW such as truth, corruption, self-interest and gov- It also ends with an action which not only is im- ernance, and how they intersect. probable but also, perhaps, too literal a playing- The Minutes Letts’ city council is a microcosm of legislative out of the play’s ideas. Playwright: Tracy Letts bodies from the U.S. Congress on down, and how Still, the political gamesmanship and unrav- At: Steppenwolf Theatre, 1650 N. Halsted St. they tend to become (alas) exclusive clubs filled elling of secrets definitely hold one’s interest Tickets: 312-335-1650; with willful and self-entitled individuals who also and provide tension, amusement and an air of Steppenwolf.org; $20-$105 may be fools, criminals and over-the-hill ward- mystery. The key subplot allows Letts to chan- Runs through: Jan. 7 heelers. It’s not surprising that Letts views them nel some Native American lore (fictional, but not not merely as a club, but as tribal in the civic improbable given the truths of American history) BY JONATHAN ABARBANEL culture they have inherited—literally by oral tra- close to his own Oklahoma upbringing, which dition—the secrets they keep and their not-so- clearly is important to him. The performances are Big Cherry is a small city somewhere in oil veiled threat of violence to enforce the collective spot-on, especially Petersen as the cagey, con- country, although there are no regional dialects will. trolled and always-calculating mayor, clearly on (Western or Southern, say) among the characters, Cliff Chamberlain (left) and William Petersen The Minutes—already slated for Broadway—is top of all situations. Petersen’s eyes alone—their among whom are the mayor (William Petersen), in The Minutes. clever, frequently funny, quite wonderfully per- focus and intensity—are a study in acting. nine councilmen and the town clerk (Brittany Photo by Michael Brosilow formed as a true ensemble piece under director David Zinn’s scenic design splendidly imagines Burch). newly elected councilman who is too idealistic Anna D. Shapiro and its messages are, perhaps, an aging small-city council chamber trying to They are as congenial as any gang of self- too true to be good (to borrow Bernard Shaw’s look grand: on one hand, Pantheon-like arching interested and self-absorbed politicos, as they and inquisitive for comfort ... until he’s taught the rules of the governing game. phrase). Its messages also are apparent, even ceiling panels and a patriotic mural and, on the tend to minor city business and their own egos somewhat superficial, and we really don’t learn other hand, windows with old-fashioned Venetian in a closed council session, presided over by the This new work by distinguished playwright Tra- cy Letts (August: Osage County, Killer Joe, Supe- much about the characters (let alone the con- blinds and a stained wall around the HVAC regis- watchful but indulgent mayor. The thorn in their stituencies they represent), so The Minutes is not ter. sides turns out to be Peel (Cliff Chamberlain), a rior Donuts and others) is a skillfully constructed

THEATER REVIEW aged clan so undistinguished that their author This unhappy family, it can be argued, is hardly its audience seated on the perimeter, much like doesn’t even deem them worthy of a surname? in the same league as those of Euripides, Chek- the neighbors that Rebecca hesitates to greet on I Saw My Neighbor Is it any wonder that they look to strangers for hov or Steinbeck—no children die during the their morning commute (hence the play’s title). affirmation of their existence? course of Suzanne Heathcote’s play, nor is anyone Likewise comfortable sharing the intimate stage on the Train and I Grandmother Daphne is never without her banished from their homes. What renders their are the performers director Erin Murray assem- quart-sized flask of whiskey, her electronic ciga- suffering more empathy-generating than that bled—notably, Jacqueline Grandt, Kathleen Ruhl Didn’t Even Say Hello rettes and an unending stream of pessimistic precipitated by external circumstances—war, and Adam Bitterman as the disgruntled adults; Playwright: Suzanne Heathcote diatribes. Her son, Jamie, six months sober, is plague, meteorological disaster—is its proximity and Emma Maltby, Joshua Servantez and John At: Redtwist Theatre, about to embark on his second marriage to a to its own resolution, however. As we gradually Blick as the youngsters in danger of becoming 1044 W. Bryn Mawr Ave. neurasthenic sylph not unlike her predecessor. learn the reasons behind Daphne’s bitterness, Re- like them. Tickets: $35-$40 His spinster sister, Rebecca, has resigned herself becca’s shyness, Jamie’s resentment and Sadie’s By the end of Heathcote’s play, all have seen Runs through: Dec. 18 to her kin’s bullying (currently inflicted through rebellion, we become increasingly invested in the error of their ways, needing only another mockery of her sorrow over the death of her be- their coming to take responsibility, rather than chapter in the saga to demonstrate to us whether BY MARY SHEN BARNIDGE loved dog a year earlier). Finally, there is Sadie, assigning blame, for their pain. (Hint: deliver- they succeed in implementing their newfound Jamie’s 15-year-old daughter, whose recent sex ance does not lie in pets, television or the inter- wisdom. It’s been said that unhappy families are unique in video mandates her sequestration with her aunt net.) their afflictions, so what could be unhappier than and granny, lest her notoriety disrupt the upcom- Redtwist Theatre’s cozy storefront quarters are a middle-class, middle-America, mostly-middle- c ing nuptials. the perfect fit for this kind of domestic drama, CRITICS’PICKS THEATER REVIEW recently returned to the metropolis: crusading Billy Elliot, Porchlight Music Theatre at Ruth reporter Johnny and computer wizard Yam. Page Center, extended through Dec. 31. Porch- Wild Boar This scenario could have provided Candace light’s new venue provides space for this big Playwright: Candace Chong F. Karmann Chong all the ingredients for a juicy, pre-Maoist dance show and it’s gangbusters! It features an At: Silk Road Rising at the Chicago Bajuyo in pulp whodunit to serve as the vehicle for her excellent cast, outstanding band, fine choreogra- Temple, 77 W. Washington St. Wild Boar. cautionary tale, reminiscent of Ibsen’s Enemy phy and Elton John’s finest theater score in the Tickets: $35 Photo by of the People. Unfortunately, she encumbers tale of a Brit coal miner’s son who discovers bal- Runs through: Dec. 17 Airan her narrative with a subplot revolving around let. JA Wright Johnny’s past affair with Ruan’s considerably Breath, Boom, Eclipse Theatre at Athenaeum BY MARY SHEN BARNIDGE younger wife, as well as his reunion with a Theatre, through Dec. 17. Kia Corthron’s gritty working-class ex-girlfriend, who has become stereotype-refuting portrait of female gang- Every dictatorship boasts of the peace and sta- politicized in his absence. banger culture is intensified by the intimacy of bility enjoyed by its subjects, compared with Indeed, the entire text is hobbled by the its staging in the Athenaeum’s studio. MSB the dissent-fueled unrest prevalent in unruly stilted literary tone characteristic of Chinese- Fade, Victory Gardens Theater, through Dec. 23. democracies. to-English paraphrasing better suited to novels Tanya Saracho reverses the familiar Hollywood- After violent upheavals of foreign invasions able technology. than plays. Despite the efforts of translators Jo- is-Full-of-Greedheads formula t warn us just how and internal strife, what person wouldn’t will- Our story opens with the sudden disappear- anna C. Lee and Ken Smith, adapter David Henry easy it is to become one yourself if you’re not ingly sacrifice a few individual rights in ex- ance of a professor whose research accidentally Hwang, and the interpretive tweaks of director careful. MSB change for the protection of firmly established unearths history contradicting the current party Helen Young and a deft cast featuring company Shakin’ the Mess Outta Misery, Pegasus The- leaders? As recently as 1997, when the British line. Longtime journalist Ruan resigns from his regulars Christine Bunuan, Scott Shimizu and F. atre Chicago at Chicago Dramatists, through Dec. colonial city of Hong Kong ceded its sovereign- post at the city newspaper after his investiga- Karmann Bajuyo, Chong’s warning cannot help 10. Shay Youngblood’s 1998 memory play about ty to mainland China, the first task of the new tions are repeatedly censored, vowing to start but succumb to the visual distraction of Antho- caring and complex African-American women regime was to eradicate evidence of its prede- his own publication—its mission being to re- ny Churchill’s dazzling video projections—inad- in the 1960s may be disjointed, but it provides cessors. Even so, citizens long accustomed to veal the truth about the influence of govern- vertently demonstrating thereby just how easily great individual scenes for powerful performances Western ways were unprepared for the efficacy ment and commercial enterprises on public crowd attention can be diverted from troubling in director Ilesa Duncan’s strong revival. SCM at carrying out this duty offered by the avail- information. Assisting him are two colleagues admonitions. —By Abarbanel, Barnidge and Morgan 24 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES

Gregory SPOTLIGHT Linington, Dana e Black and Jim Ortlieb in The Agency Theater Collective puts a new spin The Book on Will Kern’s Chicago holiday classic Hellcab. of Will. Director Sommer Austin adds a different gender dynamic by casting Rusty Schwimmer as Photo by Liz Lauren the lonely Windy City cab driver who faces an oddball assortment of passengers in the days leading up to Christmas. Agency Theater Col- Caption: Diana Lee (back) and Rusty lective’s revival of Hellcab continues through Schwimmer in Agency Theater Collective’s Sunday, Dec. 17, at the Den Theatre, 1333 N. Hellcab. Photo by Bill Richert Milwaukee Ave. Tickets are pay-what-you-can, THEATER REVIEW may come away from this treacly confection hun- although a donation of $5 to $30 is suggested; gry for something with more substance. visit WeAreTheAgency.org for more info. The Book of Will Actors John Hemings (Jim Ortlieb) and Henry Author: Lauren Gunderson Condell (Gregory Linington) are two in a hand- moments felt bogged down and tension free. acter with any bearing over the printing opera- At: Northlight Theatre, ful of remaining actors left in the King’s Men, a Character development takes a back seat to mov- tion is the Dark Lady (McKinley Carter), who is 9501 Skokie Blvd., Skokie troupe Shakespeare himself belonged to in the ing the story forward, so for instance, when John introduced as a foreboding figure, but puts up no Tickets: 847-673-6300 or early 1600s. After one of their members passes opposes publishing the collection, it doesn’t fight to the endeavor. It’s also a disappointment Northlight.org; $30-$76 away, they have a dreadful thought, “What hap- make much sense, seeing what a huge fan of to see a production company like Northlight not Runs through: Dec. 17 pens to Shakespeare’s works after we’re all gone?” the bard he is. But, if he has to be convinced to utilizing more actors of color on their stage. Henry resolves to publish every Shakespeare play, join them, it adds a little manufactured tension. What does work in The Book of Will is direc- BY SEAN MARGARET WAGNER and after some convincing from his wife and Even adversaries to the troupe become less of a tor Jessica Thebus’ assembled cast. Dana Black daughter (Rengin Altay and Dana Black), John hindrance by deciding not to stymie their work brings energy and nuance to Alice Heminges, Most theaters use this time of year to trot out is too. The odds are stacked impossibly against at the drop of a hat. Every victory feels a little Austin Tichenor brings vim and vigor to both family-friendly versions of A Christmas Carol or them, but if they can win over rivals like Ben unearned. blustery roles of Richard Burbage and William the Nutcracker; however, Northlight Theatre is Jonson (William Dick), or con-men like William For a show written and directed by women, it Jaggard, and Thomas J. Cox imbues the role of hoping mature audiences will be just as endeared Jaggard (Austin Tichenor) they might have a felt odd to have three strong female leads with Ralph Crane with incredible mousy nervousness. to Lauren Gunderson’s The Book of Will. This mid- publishable book on their hands. so little pertinence over any stage action. They If you can silence your brain for the duration, The west premier may do the trick for anyone with a A show like this ought to have been a witty, offer help and solace, but the only female char- Book of Will is perfectly harmless. deep love for Shakespeare, but savvier audiences fast-moving tribute to Shakespeare, but so many

BOOK REVIEW some interesting dynamics as Luke and Jada ob- singled out by a vampire in a Wilton Manors gay serve each other without any idea of what the bar. Styx’s plan: to enter Charon in a competition The Hope Store reader already knows. Okita’s writing is easy and to become the next vampire rogue. Not just a By Dwight Okita conversational, despite the darkest moments. Be turn of phrase: Styx operates outside the bylines $13.95; Createspace; 256 pages warned of attempted suicide—although that is of the ancient Vampire Council and wants to see in fact one of the most vivid scenes of The Hope if he can create a vampire to do the same. And, Review by liz baudler Store and is done in a genuine, thoughtful man- with Charon, he succeeds wildly. ner. Now Charon is free to live as he wishes, with Imagine if hope was a tangible thing, a commod- Overall, The Hope Store is a worthy thought a fabulous, ageless body and unlimited wealth, ity to be bought and sold. Local author Dwight experiment and a tale decently told. Okita clearly and no repercussions for any amoral actions. Yet Okita imagines a slightly altered reality where a has a love for science and magical realism and despite this release, Charon does things like res- Hope Store—part medical clinic, part relaxation mixes that with an uncommon amount of empa- cue young gay men from closeted or unfulfilling studio—is open in Andersonville. His story is thy and interspersonal dynamics. You will want lives and take them to live in his mountain lair in told from the perspectives of Jada, a woman lit- to know how everyone ultimately copes with the Colorado, and brutally murders anti-gay pastors. erally born without hope, and Luke, the partner sudden infusion of hope in their lives ... and He uses his resources to rejigger his own sense of the visionary scientist Kazu who came up with might perhaps find yourself wishing said store of right and wrong. (Of course he also brutally the Hope Installation. was a place you could go. murders plenty of other people for fun.) Vampire’s As a person hopeless to the point of suicide, Protege is partly sexy gay fantasy romp and partly Jada wants to rain on the hope-store parade. intriguing mystery as Charon finds himself shad- She comes up with the idea to contract a free- owed by an attractive vampirical type . Will Char- lance journalist to write an expose of the Hope BOOK REVIEW on be able to avoid the Vampire Council forever? Store; after all, surely it’s a scam. But unexpected Damian Serbu’s writing is not showy but defi- things happen when Jada gets her first dose of The Vampire’s Protege nitely above average, letting things happen hope. Meanwhile, Luke struggles with the pres- By Damian Serbu clearly and crisply. Though Serbu’s work is a sure of helping the business get off the ground: $13.99; Ninestar Press; genre novel, Charon succeeds in being a compli- securing coverage from CNN, dealing with a pesky clinical trial. It’s a secret that undermines the 296 pages cated character, who struggles with loneliness bunch of protesters who believe hope should be very foundation of their relationship, let alone Review by liz baudler and complicated decisions. He’s also quite lik- natural, appeasing his worried investors, and the scientific integrity of the business. able, as are his cast of sexy servants. It’s a pity navigating his relationship with his business and The Hope Store is a deceptively simple, en- Charon is young, attractive, gay ... and calloused summer is over: The Vampire’s Protege is a fun romantic partner. Luke is keeping a secret from grossing read. Okita’s research to create a believ- to the point of narcissism. beach read or sick day indulgence, and you will Kazu: he’s not as responsive to the Hope Treat- able therapeutic process is quite commendable Men are his prey, but Charon’s brash personality want to read more of this story as it continues. ment as he pretended to be when they met in the and thought-provoking. He also primarily oper- leads him to become prey himself one night when ates inside his character’s heads, which creates WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 25 THERE’S NO PLACE LIKE OZ FOR THE HOLIDAYS

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GIVE THE GIFT OF WICKED 800-775-2000 • Groups 15+ 312-977-1710 26 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES NUNN ON ONE: MOVIES Tell Productions. to go in deep. She says whats on her mind so it WCT: Where did the line “I like every- will eventually hurt someone. thing”—referring to sexual preference—come The character Miranda Ruth is re-educated from? about sexuality, and Cyd Loughlin learns about Stephen Cone and SC: There is a European filmmaker that I like: books and literature. There is a role reversal that Andre Techine. With Techine and Gregg Araki’s happens. work, you never know who is going to be attract- WCT: What would you like audiences to get ed to who. Desires are so elusive and shifting. out of Princess Cyd? the ‘Cyd’ effect I personally experience sexuality that way. I SC: I want people to fall in love with the char- by Jerry Nunn like everything! I identify as either queer or bi- acters and the city, to be reminded of open mind- sexual, so I am interested in exploring that on edness and openheartedness. We can influence After Stephen Cone moved to Chicago in 2004, he film. each other for the better. taught himself to make movies and changed the That is not tapped into in independent film a WCT: What are you working on next? course of his life. lot. American films are very binary still. SC: I am going to make an ensemble movie He began by writing the short film Church Sto- I like people and to experience them on a per- down South next summer. It is tentatively titled ry; then a medium-length film called The Chris- son by person basis. They may date women or Nudes. tians came next. Several more followed, with In I may date men for most of life but it doesn’t WCT: A lot of nakedness? Memoriam, about a group of students; then, The mean any experiences that veer off the course SC: Yeah—but in smart, surprising, poignant Wise Kids, a coming-of-age drama that did well are less valid. ways. critically. He created one called Black Box and WCT: Here is another line: “Maybe if you had It will be a combination between the progres- then went with another coming-of-age film called sex you won’t eat so much!” Where did that siveness of this movie and the more repressed Henry Gamble’s Birthday Party. originate? evangelical content of the other films. It will Cone wrote, directed and produced his latest, SC: I write a lot of nice people so it is rare to confront issues of repression and be about where Princess Cyd, which stars Jessie Pinnick as the give myself someone who is abrasive in a film. body issues come from. title character. It premiered at the Maryland Film There are no brawls between this aunt and niece Princess Cyd will be released on VOD and Festival in May of 2017 and recently played at the or have a third-act tension. This was my moment DVD on Tuesday, Dec. 5. Gene Siskel Film Center in Chicago. Windy City Times: You were born in Louis- the form of comic pratfalls, tutu malfunctions ville, Kentucky? and maverick solos. Stephen Cone: Yes, but I was born right as my In addition, the center will present a local dad was graduating from seminary for the first premiere run of the biopic Tom of Finland Jan. time and we moved immediately. I lived there 5-18, 2018. two weeks. I grew up in the Carolinas. Tickets to each screening--unless stated WCT: Was [it] a conservative environment? otherwise—are $11/general admission, $7/ SC: Yes, but not psycho-conservative. Now I students, $6/Film Center members, and $5/ am in Lincoln Square [in Chicago] and have lived Art Institute of Chicago (AIC) staff and School here for 13 years. of the Art Institute of Chicago (SAIC) faculty, WCT: Are your films usually set here in Il- staff, and students. linois? Stephen Cone. See SiskelFilmCenter.org. SC: The Wise Kids was set in South Carolina, Photo by Janna Giacoppo and Henry Gamble was shot in Lake Forest but could be taking place anywhere in the country. become or if she will wind up with a man or a GLAAD releases Princess Cyd is the first movie that is actively a woman. She is struck by this handsome prince love letter to Chicago. of a girl. TV diversity report Originally it was going to be a Southern story, WCT: Talk about that character named Katie GLAAD has released its annual “Where We Are but I transplanted it to Chicago last year. That Sauter, played by Malic White. on TV” report. opened up the style and what it could be. SC: Malic was not originally available to audi- The report analyzes the overall diversity of WCT: How long have you made movies? tion. We lost an actor at the last moment; sud- primetime scripted series regulars on broad- SC: Features for 10 years, and shorts for 12 denly, Malic was able to be a part of it. Malic cast networks and assesses the number of LG- years. came onboard less than a week before we started BTQ characters on cable networks and original Rebels on Pointe. WCT: What did you learn from previous films shooting and was our casting director’s original streaming series on the services Amazon, Hulu, that you could put into Princess Cyd? choice. and Netflix for the 2017-18 TV season. This SC: With each one, I learn a little bit more what Malic is a non-binary actor playing a girl. I told marks the 22nd year that GLAAD has tracked I am doing. The idea is for each movie to be bet- Malic to play it pre-discovery of their identity. Siskel to show the presence of LGBTQ characters on television. ter than the last one. Malic is a little bit older than they look so I said While the report found the highest percent- Henry Gamble was 20 characters over the to go back before they knew what “genderqueer” drag-ballet film, age of LGBTQ regulars on broadcast television course of 24 hours, so it was nice to make some- meant. I still feel Katie is more sophisticated (6.4 percent) since GLAAD began tracking thing with just two main characters. than Cyd. plus ‘Tom of Finland’ broadcast series regulars, the report brought WCT: Explain the title “Princess Cyd.” WCT: Katie was topless. Was that an issue? The Gene Siskel Film Center, 164 N. State St., to light the continued lack of diversity among SC: The lead character is a young teenage girl SC: No. I had lots of conversation with Jessie is presenting the Chicago premiere of Rebels on LGBTQ portrayals on television. named Cyd Loughlin. She is visiting her aunt for and Malic separately. I wanted us to be on the Pointe through Nov. 30. In all forms of television that GLAAD tracks, the summer. She finds out she is named after a same page on places they were willing to go. Rebels on Pointe is a 2016 documentary LGBTQ characters are still predominantly white book her aunt wrote. Because she is so athletic I hope it resulted in a scene that is still bal- about ihe New York-based Les Ballets Trock- (77 percent of LGBTQ characters on streaming, and not interested in literature, she never put it anced even though the same amount is not re- adero de Monte Carlo—the gay, all-male dance 62 percent on broadcast, 64 percent on cable). together. vealed across the board. The kisses and situation troupe that has, for 40 years, satirized ballet The majority of LGBTQ characters are men (55 WCT: Cyd is sexually fluid? [are] really what matter. classics. percent of LGBTQ characters on broadcast), SC: Yes, [but] she didn’t know it until she gets WCT: I saw [local actress and former Windy Clips provide a look at the onstage action and cisgender. There are only 17 transgender to Chicago. She is much like Henry Gamble in City Times staff member] Amy Matheny in a as the Trocks, costumed in ballerina drag, per- characters across all three platforms tracked: that film. Her friends might be more aware of her role. form venerable works like “Swan Lake” with broadcast, cable and streaming originals. sexuality than she is. SC: Yes, and she is a producer, along with Jerre technique and athleticism while injecting their The report is at https://www.glaad.org/ She is fluid. I have no idea what her life will Dye. They have a company together called Hear/ subtle and not-so-subtle trademark humor in whereweareontv. WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 27 HOLIDAY PREVIEW from page 19 and Windy City Treble Quire at St. James Cathe- dral, 65 E. Huron St. Chicago’s oldest gay chorus teams up again with its sister ensemble of higher Pride Women’s Ensemble at Center on Halsted, voices for a holiday concert of classic and new 3656 N. Halsted St. The Women’s Ensemble fea- carols. (Dec. 2; WindyCitySings.org) turing female-identified musicians has been re- Chita Rivera in Concert with Seth Rudetsky, vived for a debut concert. (Dec. 1; LakesidePride. Steppenwolf Theatre, 1650 N. Halsted St. Chita org) Rivera is the Broadway legend who starred in the The Last Speakeasy, Lakeside Pride Jazz Or- original casts of shows like West Side Story, Chi- chestra at Chicago History Museum, 1601 N. Clark cago and Kiss of the Spiderwoman. She’s inter- St. Celebrate the 1933 repeal of Prohibition in viewed and accompanied by the out and proud this special music and dance event. (Dec. 1; Chi- radio host Seth Rudetsky. (Dec. 11; Steppenwolf. cagoHistory.org) org) Caring by Sharing, Ebenezer Lutheran Church, We Three Shows: A Broadway Holiday Ben- 1650 W. Foster Ave. Professional cabaret, theater efit, Thalia Hall, 1807 S. Allport St. The touring and opera singers join together for a benefit con- casts of Wicked and Beautiful—The Carole King cert to support and remember those affected by Musical team up with the Chicago company of HIV/AIDS on World AIDS Day. Proceeds benefit Hamilton to perform a holiday concert to benefit Chicago Dancers United. (Dec. 1; BrownPaper- Chicago House and Broadway Cares/Equity Fights Tickets.com) AIDS. (Dec. 11; ThaliaHallChicago.com) Naughty or Nice, Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus Songs from my Holiday Closet, Uptown Un- at Athenaeum Theatre, 2936 N. Southport Ave. derground, 4707 N. Broadway. A “HoliGay” musi- (Dec. 1), then at Northshore Center for the Per- cal revue featuring songs written and performed forming Arts, 9501 Skokie Blvd., Skokie (Dec. 9), by L.T. Cousineau, plus other guests and members then at Beverly Arts Center, 2407 W. 111th St. of the Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus. (Dec. 12; Up- (Dec. 10) Comedy sketches intermingle with car- townUnderground.net). ols both old and new in the organizations’ annual Editor’s note: The author of this piece currently touring holiday concert. (CGMC.org) is a member of Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus and has Caroling All the Way, Windy City Gay Chorus previously performed with Windy City Gay Chorus.

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WHEN ACTOR IRA ALDRIDGE STEPPED ON THE LONDON DR. ERIC ESPARZA, ARTISTIC DIRECTOR STAGE AS OTHELLO IN 1833, PRESEnT EVERYTHING CHANGED. THE WORLD WAS NOT READY.

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http://www.seeklogo.net 28 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES CULTURECULTURE CLUBCLUB Artemisia accepting ‘We Three Shows’ submissions for 2018 Dec. 11 at Thalia Hall Don’t miss this cleverest Artemisia is now accepting submissions from play- Members of the national touring companies of Wicked of comedies by one of wrights who are represented by an agent or reside in the and Beautiful: The Carole King Musical as well as Ham- the greatest writers in the greater Chicago area to be considered for Fall Festival ilton Chicago company members will host “We Three

. 2018. Shows: A Broadway Holiday Benefit,” a cabaret concert English language! The annual fall festival features six female-driven plays benefitting Chicago House and Social Service Agency and presented as staged readings from which the audience Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS. chooses Artemisia’s world-premiere productions. There is The event will take place Monday, Dec. 11, at 7:30 p.m. no fee to submit and complete submission guidelines at Thalia Hall, 1807 S. Allport St. can be found at ArtemisiaTheatre.org. The deadline to General-admission tickets are available for $65 (main receive submissions is Dec. 15, 2017. floor) and $85 (balcony seating). VIP tickets are avail- Interested persons can submit a professional resume, able for $150 and include a pre-show reception with the a one-page synopsis of the play, the first 10 pages of performers at 6 p.m., reserved premier seating, catered PICTURED: SHANNON COCHRAN, JENNIFER LATIMORE PICTURED: SHANNON COCHRAN, JENNIFER LATIMORE TRUGLIA SAVERIO BY AND REBECCA HURD. PHOTO the play and the play’s production history as a PDF at- light hors d’oeuvres and complimentary drinks. tachment to [email protected] with “Fall See ThaliaHallChicago.com. Festival Submission” in the subject line. Please allow 12 weeks for the submission to be processed.

NOW PLAYING 847-242-6000 | WRITERSTHEATRE.ORG Baryshnikov in Chicago Feb. 2-4 Cherry Orchard Festival will present the Chicago premiere of the one-man play Brodsky/ Baryshnikov—conceived and directed by Alvis Hermanis, and starring Mikhail Barysh- nikov—Feb. 2-4, 2018, at the Harris Theater for Music and Dance, 205 E. Randolph Dr. This limited Chicago en - gagement caps the three- city North American tour of the production that The New Riga Theatre and Baryshnikov Productions co-produced. Performed in Russian and subtitled in English, Barysh- nikov recites a selection of his longtime friend and Nobel Laureate Joseph Brodsky’s HUBBARD STREET works. Tickets are $45-$150 each; DANCE CHICAGO for tickets or more informa - tion, visit HarristheaterChica- OPENS NEXT WEEK go.org or call 312-334-7777. An Evening of Crystal Pite December 7-10 at the Harris Theater TICKETS START AT $25 hubbardstreetdance.com/winter 312-635-3799 Hubbard Street Dancer Jason Hortin in A Picture of You Falling by Crystal Pite. WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 29

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Tickets at steppenwolf.org or by calling 312-335-1650 30 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES NUNN ON ONE: MUSIC Rayna rules with LCD Soundsystem by Jerry Nunn are doing. GRR: Totally. It is how my brain works. The synthesizer player and composer Gavin Rayna WCT: Your input sounds really vital on the Russom continues to evolve as an artist and per- new album American Dream. son. Eventually becoming a member of the band GRR: It is a lot more synth. It was really a re- LCD Soundsystem was just the beginning for the boot when the band got back together. In some transgender performer. ways it was a continuation of the LCD story. This technical wizard works by blending sound- WCT: I like how American Dream starts out scapes, leading to intense solo work and occa- on the first track. sionally playing DJ to the crowds most recently GRR: I think the sequence of the album is really at Chicago’s Berlin Nightclub. incredible. As a whole album it is pretty remark- What started as building equipment with bud- able. ding musician James Murphy has now led to a life WCT: People don’t make a complete album of world touring with the new number-one LCD anymore. Soundsystem album American Dream. GRR: Yes—to get to the second side of the re- During the week of sold-out shows at the Ara- cord is exhausting. We had a listening party in gon Ballroom, Russom made an appearance at the New York for it. That was the first time I had Soho House to speak about transgender topics on listened to it as a whole. I was blown away by it. a panel and met up for an interview afterward. WCT: Was there pressure to be more com- Windy City Times: Were you into music while mercial? growing up in Providence, Rhode Island? GRR: Not on me, certainly. It really is James’ Gavin Rayna Russom: I was always into music; project. He is really good at bringing together also, my family on both sides were musicians. I people who contribute to his vision in a specific was born in 1974 and Providence was a bit be- way. hind other American cities at the time. I went to The first time he played me the new music I public school up until 11th grade. We had music didn’t think it was from somebody trying to make Gavin Rayne Russom. classes and lessons. Music was always around… a hit record. It was somebody trying to dig into PR photo WCT: How did you join LCD Soundsystem? their aesthetics. Who knew this authentic record GRR: I started working with LCD in a techni- would be number one? It is very evolved and a twenties and forties I became more public. It felt ents and would tell them, “My name is Tina.” I cal capacity in 2002. I had been making music progression from other things. weird to make an official announcement about it. always thought I would go by the name Tina. since I was kid, playing in lots of bands. I studied WCT: Are you still working on solo projects? Retroactively I became a lot more closeted. In my family, there was a tradition of using GRR composition at Bard College and moved to New GRR: Yes. I have a pretty established solo ca- I became a character I was playing when some- initials. I thought throwing an R on the front of York after that. I wanted to incorporate visual reer in the underground electronic world. While one would read me as masculine. It is a big relief Tina. My grandfather is named Ray. I thought I arts with music. I started building my own elec- on tour it is pretty tough, but I have been do- to be free of that. made up a name until I heard about the main tronic instruments so I sent out a mass email to ing musical sketches pretty much everyday. It is It’s been a pretty remarkable experience. character on the TV series Nashville, spelled the hundreds of people because I thought it was a fluid for me with visual and art. I usually make WCT: Did you hear from people about com- same way! marketable skill. James Murphy was the only per- my own record covers. I just self-released a new ing out? When I introduce myself professionally it is son that wrote back. EP under one of my aliases called Black Meteoric GRR: Yes; after the article came out a lot of Gavin but, personally, it’s Rayna. I became the in house engineer at the DFA Stu- Star. Everything is recorded live to tape. There is people have contacted me, mostly people who For more on Russom, visit GavinRayna.com; dio. The first project Murphy had me work on was no multi tracking or anything. It is more punk in identify as trans fem, who are working through check out LCDSoundSystem.com for details rebuilding a Casio to make it more sturdy for the its aesthetic. it themselves. about the album. song “Losing My Edge.” WCT: You work on movies also? That is super-powerful to have a real connec- I started modifying gear they had there. They GRR: I just finished my first film project that tion like that. There is now a community out had asked me to play synth on some live songs, I have done in a long time. It is called No More there to which I am connected. but I moved to Berlin for five years. I opened for White Presidents. It is like an hour-long music I don’t think anyone has been surprised, es- ‘Cards Against LCD when they came to town or at DFA parties. video. pecially people who I knew when I was younger. When James started on the This Is Happening WCT: What is your favorite tracks to play WCT: How are family relations? Humanity’ Dec. 1 Cards Against Humanity: Late Night Writers record, he asked me to be a member of the band. during your DJ appearances? GRR: It is complex and something to work Room returns for one night only on Friday, As the band grew they incorporated more synthe- GRR: I draw from a wide range of music. Jamal through. My sister is a high school geography Dec. 1, at 10 p.m. at The Greenhouse The- sizer sounds and they had more of a budget to Moss, who is Chicago-based, is prolific. teacher. She is one of the first people I came out ater Center (downstairs mainstage), 2257 N. bring me onboard. Many of the tracks I play are from Chicago! to. Her response was compassionate and welcom- Lincoln Ave. WCT: I watched you at Pitchfork and you WCT: How was the experience of coming out ing. She took it seriously, but in a kind way. She The night of improv comedy (for those 18 seem like you have a great time being part of as trans this year? is an incredible person. and older) is inspired by the popular and po- the band. GRR: It is ongoing. The more I find my feet in WCT: How do you identify? litically incorrect party game Cards Against GRR: [Laughs] I try to keep myself busy be- transition the more I can connect the dots of my GRR: With “she” and “her” pronouns. Right Humanity. cause there is a lot of people out there! It is history. now, I consider my full name as Gavin Rayna Rus- Chicago drag sensation Dixie Lynn Cart- interesting to me because what I am doing is In my early twenties, I didn’t have the public som. It is hard to navigate being well into my wright (Barney the Elf) will host the event. such a hybrid of technical and creative things. We presence that I do now. If I talked to someone career. I will change my name legally at some Tickets, priced at $10, are currently at might have breaks in the songs, but I am actually back then I told them that I identified as female point. People call me “Rayna.” GreenhouseTheater.org, the box office or at creating what is going to come three songs later or as a lesbian. I felt comfortable talking about WCT: You were given that name as a baby? 773-404-7336. All proceeds from this event in the set. it. GRR: No. When I was a child before I could will benefit Howard Brown Health. WCT: It goes along with all these DJ gigs you It has been a long process. In between my remember I would present as feminine to my par- WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 31 WINDY CITY TIMES 2017 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE week one of two

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A year’s worth of dates On Broadway The holiday season is in full show tune Renowned photographer Mike Ruiz (who was on the gay swing now that the 19th volume of Broad- reality show The A List: New York) is the one to thank for way’s Carols for a Cure (BroadwayCares. the 2018 calendar “HeartThrobs and Hounds” (FurFriendsIn- org) has arrived. The latest compilation Need.com). The hunks in the calendar are some of the big- from the beloved series continues Broad- gest male fitness models working today, including James way Cares/Equity Fights AIDS’ tradition Alexander Ellis, Dragos Sykos, Myles Leask and cover model of pairing the casts from award-winning Mike O’Hearn. It’ll be something you look forward to for a Broadway musicals with seasonal songs year (and then some, as there’s a photo for 2019 as well). that are both classic and new. Among the casts in this collection are those from Phantom of the Opera, Chicago, Kinky Boots and, yes, Hamilton.

Light touch Those who adore the legendary sex symbol will appreciate Marilyn Monroe lamps (Icon62.com). The lamps feature a variety of Monroe cover photos from around the globe, including publications such as Life Magazine and France’s Frou Frou. 32 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES

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‘Dream’ come true “And I am telling you” that this makes a great gift. Dreamgirls is out in a Blu-ray Combo gift set with a Digital HD copy and on Digital HD featuring a director’s extended edition and never-before-seen bonus features—including Jennifer Hudson’s auditions and screen test. 34 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES

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‘Pretty’ cool Despite its controversial ending, the Freeform series Pretty Little Liars still amassed a gaggle of followers—and now is out in a box set. Also out in the same format is the binge-worthy The Vampire Diaries (that aired on the CW), which had one of the best-looking casts on television; basically, it was the Baywatch of the horror-TV genre. Now hear this Plantronics (Plantronics.com) has recently launched the expansion of its sport portfolio with the Back- Beat FIT Family—and that includes the BackBeat FIT 300 Series. The wireless sport earbuds fit securely and are sweatproof—and given how much some people perspire, that’s definitely good news. WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 35 Families of Chicago banquet Dec. 10 Families of Chicago (FOC) will host its second still to be announced. Halle Kardashian (founder annual FOC Banquet Sunday, Dec. 10, an invita- of the Kardashian family) will be interviewing tion-only affair at Ida Noyes Hall at the Univer- guests and performers on the red carpet. sity of Chicago. This year’s banquet has been planned and or- FOC is an organization whose mission state- ganized by the FOC Banquet Planning Commit- ment is “to provide support, guidance and devel- tee. The committee includes Overall Mothers and opment for members of FOC as they navigate and Fathers, a handful of University of Chicago staff persevere through the obstacles of life that come and students, and an FOC intern, who has played along with being a member of the young LGBTQ a critical role in helping to coordinate and orga- community of Chicago.” nize the event. As a growing organization affili- Like gay houses, gay/queer families comprise ated with the University of Chicago, FOC has been primarily Black LGBTQ young adults from across able to provide a one-year internship through the the city. Each family consists of individuals with University of Chicago Medicine for one individual diverse identities including: gay men, trans men, involved in the family scene. trans women, femme and butch. Most families Last year’s inaugural “Save Our Scene” FOC ban- have an Overall Mother or Overall Father, re- quet, a semi-formal affair, emphasized a return sponsible for providing a range of supports (e.g., to its original values—that being to provide a emotional, instrumental, informational) for their safe space of community, support, and fellow- families. ship for diverse young LGBTQ people in Chicago, More than 100 guests are expected to fill the especially young Black queer people. In continu- Cloister Club in Ida Noyes at 5-9 p.m. for a night ing to emphasize these goals, this year’s event meant to celebrate the city’s young Black LGBTQ will again be informed by the same values, but community. This year’s theme, “Dance Fusion,” will primarily serve as a venue for showcasing the will feature a dance competition between 10 of continued contributions that young Black LGBTQ Chicago’s Black queer families. Also, the event and queer folks make to the city of Chicago’s rich will feature a red carpet, and an array of special legacy of ballroom culture, queer families and performances and appearances by well-known queer performance—reinforcing the importance Families of Chicago will host its second annual banquet on Dec. 10. performers within the Chicago LGBTQ scene, in- of developing kinship, community, and family, Photo courtesy of Lance Keene cluding Bionca Black (Carter Family), with addi- for young Black queer folks throughout the city. tional performances and surprise special guests

begin at $500. Contact Steppenwolf’s Special Steppenwolf to Events Department at 312-654-5632 or specia- honor Sarah Paulson [email protected]. Steppenwolf Theatre Company announced Golden Globe- and Emmy-winning actress Gay mass-murder Sarah Paulson as the 2018 honoree at the annual Steppenwolf Women in the Arts fundrais- doc out Nov. 29 ing luncheon on Monday, Jan. 22, 2018 at 12 Upstairs Inferno—about the Up Stairs p.m. at the Radisson Blu Aqua Hotel, 221 N. Lounge, the New Orleans gay bar that would Columbus Dr. (The VIP reception will begin at ultimately become the site of one of the most 11:30 a.m.) significant and deadliest events in U.S. LGBT Paulson will join Steppenwolf Artistic Direc- history—will be out Wed., Nov. 29. tor Anna D. Shapiro for a conversation about On June 24, 1973, an arsonist set fire to the her career both on-stage and on-screen as well Up Stairs Lounge, a gay bar located on the edge as her impact as a leader in her industry. of the French Quarter in New Orleans. he fire ul- On stage, she has appeared in productions timately killed 32 people and severely injured including the title role in Lanford Wilson’s Pu- countless others. It permanently altered lives litzer Prize-winning play Talley’s Folly; Cherry and was the root of many lifelong struggles. Orchard, with Alfred Molina and Annette Ben- New Orleans’ own New York Times best-sell- ing; and Broadway’s The Glass Menagerie along- ing author Christopher Rice narrates the film, side Jessica Lange. while Robert L. Camina directed. On television, she has been in American Available on Blu-ray and DVD, both formats Crime Story: The People v. O.J. Simpson as well will be packed with bonus features, including as multiple seasons of American Horror Story. “Behind-the-Scenes: The Making of Upstairs Her upcoming television and film projects in- Inferno,” a “Present Day Tour of the ‘Up Stairs clude American Crime Story: Katrina; Gary Ross’ Lounge’” and more. Ocean’s 8, the female-driven spinoff of Ocean’s Copies can be reserved at http://Purchase. Eleven; and M. Night Shyamalan’s Glass. UpstairsInferno.com. Individual tickets start at $250; VIP tickets 36 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES Loop—exudes style. rants to patrons at the next table. (By the way, From the understated decor (including some I was told that Steadfast’s name is a play on an- very sturdy chairs) to the menu offerings, Stead- other Fifty/50 spot, Homestead on the Roof, and fast seems to get it right. the word “steadfast” itself, indicating stability.) the DISH And why shouldn’t it? Fifty/50 Restaurant Chef Ender Oktayuren has done himself and Weekly Dining Guide in Group has been in the business for quite some the group proud, as a recent lunch attested. The time (almost a decade) and is behind a dozen laminated brioche is a work of art—so much so WINDY CITY TIMES restaurants and other spots, including Portsmith, that my dining companion and I were reluctant Roots Homemade Pizza, Apogee and, of course, to tackle it; however, the mix os serrano ham, SAVOR the Fifty/50—so I could hardly blame a server manchego, mustard, quail egg and caviar Steadfast; Nonnina who recommended several of the other restau- Turn to page 38 BY ANDREW DAVIS —William Gordon managed public libraries in Washington State, Idaho, Minnesota and Mary- Located in the Kimpton Gray Hotel, Steadfast Sidetrack’s land and was then selected to be the Executive (120 W. Monroe St.; https://www.steadfastchi- Director of The American Library Association, cago.com/)—Fifty/50 Restaurant Group’s con- Laminated brioche at Steadfast. OUTspoken! Series: headquartered in Chicago. He was startled when temporary American-style dining concept in the Photo by Andrew Davis December’s featured he began to lose the use of his legs nearly twenty years ago and was diagnosed with a degenera- storytellers tive, progressive motor neuron disease. He has adjusted and is living a fulfilling and interesting life. William Gordon —Pamela Meyer hitched a ride to Chicago after working a season at the Great Lakes Shakespeare Festival in Cleveland and 30-some years later, she is still here. Pamela’s curiosity and love of working with creative teams led her to complete two Master’s degrees and a Ph.D. in innovation and human systems. She is author of four books on learning and innovation and also teaches emerg- Pamela Meyer ing leaders at DePaul University’s School for New Learning. Lisa Pearson —Lisa Pearson fell in love with the ocean as an angst-ridden teenager in San Francisco. She moved to Chicago—where there is no ocean—to pursue an MFA from The Theatre School at DePaul University and an MAT from National-Louis Uni- versity. She is a writer, teacher, actor, director, singer, and photographer. She has shared stories at Live Lit events around Chicago (Write Club, C. Russell Price Voice Box, Sad Clown, 9x10 Chicago and OUT Spoken). Gwen La Roka —C. Russell Price is a Genderqueer Appala- chian punk poet originally from Virginia. Their work has appeared in Court Green, Lambda Lit, Nimrod International, Story Club Magazine and elsewhere. Their chapbook Tonight, We Fuck The Trailer Park Out Of Each Other, was released in 2016 by Sibling Rivalry Press. They are currently at work on a poetry collection dealing with the Will Von Vogt Queer Apocalypse and a collection of essays. —Gwen La Roka hit the comedy scene with an Dion Walton explosive energy that quickly led to performances at world famous comedy clubs. Gwen’s honest comedic approach, meshed with her passion for social justice and her physical humor, enables her to bring together diverse crowds from all ethnic backgrounds in solidarity. —Will Von Vogt is an actor, producer and host/ curator of Salonathon, a weekly performance series every Monday at Beauty Bar Chicago. He is The December edition of currently writing and producing a very gay web OUTspoken! LGBTQ storyteller series and producing the second installment of series takes place Tuesday, Dec. 5, Angels in America: Perestroika, happening this at Sidetrack, 3349 N. Halsted St. coming spring. —Dion Walton has worked as a professional BLACK WEDNESDAY @ @MOSPHERE Doors open at 6 pm, stories begin theatrical performer since the age of 19 in 1971. at 7. He has been an actress, actor, make-up artist, Pre-turkey tippling. See www.outspokenchicago.com for photographer, activist, teacher, writer, painter, Photos by Kirk Williamson more info. and singer and not in that order. He truly loves the theater! WINDY CITY TIMES Nov. 29, 2017 37 Billy MastersMasters

“I don’t know why people keep telling me that Whitney’s family asked her to sing. Whitney’s family is also the reason Whitney’s dead in the first place. Why y’all keep mentioning them to me like they know what’s best? They don’t. They didn’t. Or she would be alive now. Happy Thanksgiving.”— Frenchie Davis on the American Music Awards tribute to The Bodyguard. Stuff your stocking with The Warwick Rowers Did anyone not predict Jordan Fisher would Team calendar, one of Billy’s gift-guide win Dancing with the Stars? Not that he wasn’t suggestions. great, but I’m tired of these professional dancers competing. There has to be someone between Al- the audio version at Amazon.com. fonso “The Tap Dance Kid” Ribeiro and Steve “Two I love a sexy calendar and, for the sixth year Left Feet” Wozniak. Next season might be inter- in a row, the members of the Warwick Rowing esting. For the first time, all of the contestants Team are destined to be well-hung near my bed. on DWTS will be from one profession—sports. As with each previous year, sales of the calendar Of course, some of athletes will have an edge. are donated to Sports Allies, a group working to Surely, figure skaters and gymnasts will master remove homophobia from athletics. It’s a worth- dance moves quicker than, say, a pole vaulter or while cause, and they’re a hot group of guys—a bobsledder. On the positive side, this could fi- win/win. You can grab them—and not in the icky nally be the year Greg Louganis gets to compete. Kevin Spacey way—at WarwickRowers.org. How many years does he have to beg? And it’s time for another installment of Faye- With Kathy Griffin’s world tour soon coming to watch. We haven’t heard from Miss Dunaway an end, she continues to assert she has no paid since she proclaimed La La Land the winner of work when she comes back to the States, nor can Best Picture at the Oscars. Oh, Faye, we’ve missed she get on any shows. So, someone stepped up you. But, like the phoenix of ancient Greece and tried to change that. Bill O’Reilly invited (which may have been her childhood pet), she Kathy to be a guest on his podcast—a PODCAST. has risen from the ashes. I missed the story Oh, how the mighty have fallen! Not only did about Faye getting extensions at New York’s posh Griffin turn down the offer, but did so publicly. Marie Robinson Salon. After the pros worked their “I’m not that desperate, Bill McRapey.” Try back magic on Faye’s tenuous tresses, they present- in a few months. ed her with the bill—$3,000! “I’m not paying On a recent episode of Watch What Happens that—I can’t believe how expensive this is,” said Live, Macklemore revealed that he has a nude Faye. Instead, Dunaway paid half—likely ratio- painting of Justin Bieber. He said, “I bought it nalizing that her hairline starts halfway up her on Etsy as a white-elephant Santa gift that at scalp. When asked by the New York Post for a the end of the night just stayed at my house. comment, she said, “I’d prefer you not run that. No one ended up taking it. I’m very proud of it. I’ve now paid the whole thing—but I will not be And it’s become a huge headline—like, ‘Mackl- going back there because it is not the price they emore owns a naked Justin Bieber dick pancake said it would be. So, I don’t know what to say to painting.’” And it comes in handy. He added, “It ville Slugger. If that’s a reference you don’t get, you except I didn’t throw a fit. I was just very goes right above my bed and whenever I’m with then picture a large eggplant, or two zucchinis alarmed at the amount they were charging me for my wife intimately, I can always stare at it if I ... eh, just picture all of the ingredients of rata- the very small amount of hair work that they did. want to control my orgasm. Just slow it down.” touille. To make matters more complicated, in the I am a normal human being and don’t expect spe- What is a “dick pancake?” It must be seen to be series premiere, he appears with himself. Yes, two cial favors, but I was shocked to be charged the believed—at BillyMasters.com. Josh Hutchersons. I know what you’re thinking— same I had previously paid to get what was now a That leads perfectly into Billy’s Holiday Gift ratatouille for everyone! Except one of them has hair correction. I felt it was very extravagant and Giving Suggestions—where I share some items a more natural-looking appendage. How much is inappropriate.” That’s a pretty long quote—she which will make your holiday not only bright real? Josh says, “It’s a combination of me with probably had to leave it on multiple voicemail but also gay. First up, the long-awaited (and camera lock-offs, and also a stunt double, and a messages! feared) memoir of Jenifer Lewis. The black-ish lot of prosthetics as I’m sure you may have no- Our “Ask Billy” question comes from Neil in Chi- star names names and holds nothing back in The ticed.” You can see it on BillyMasters.com. cago: “What is Future Man? And does Josh Hutch- Mother of Black Hollywood. Her raw honesty and When I’ll take an order of Hutcherson with erson really have a gargantuan penis? I can’t find outrageous humor douses every page. Be fore- everything on it, it’s definitely time to end yet this series on any network. Is this a joke? It’s warned—it is racy. Actually, it’s nasty! But, if another column. Damn—now I’m hungry. Or am gotta be, right? Right?” you like your divas salty and over the top, Jenifer I horny? While I call the Warwick Rowing Team, Wrong: It is, in fact, a series on Hulu. In it, Lewis is your gal. You can grab either the book or make a sandwich and put on a condom, you can Josh sports a penis roughly the size of a Louis- check out BillyMasters.com, the site that fills a variety of needs. If you have a question for me, send it to at [email protected] and I @windycitytimes1 /windycitymediagroup promise to get back to you before Macklemore commissions a painting of Hutcherson’s eggplant parmesan! Until next time, remember: One man’s @windycitytimes www.windycitymediagroup.com filth is another man’s bible. 38 Nov. 29, 2017 WINDY CITY TIMES demic is a global crisis and on World of naughty holiday songs and angelic the link. (VIP reception 7-8pm) 8-11pm AIDS Day, we are proud to partner with favorites connected by over-the-top The Connection, 4321 S. Cottage Grove COMMUNITY the Chicago Consular Corps, bringing to- sketch comedy. Selections from John Ave. Tickets: http://blackgoldacs. gether representatives from around the Legend, Morten Lauridsen’s “O Magnum eventbrite.com/?aff=WindyCityTimes s- CALENDAR world to stand with the AIDS Foundation Mysterium,” Zoltan Kodaly’s “Veni Em- 39522675386?aff=WindyCityTimes of Chicago to help end new cases of HIV. manuel,” as well as Devo, Eurythmics, The Sound of Music Sing-A-Long Two 6:00pm - 9:00pm Revel Fulton Market South Park, Ella Fitzgerald, Clarence fun-filled weekends. Music Box The- Wed., Nov. 29 Tickets: http://chocolate.aidschicago. Carter 8:00pm The Athenaeum Theatre atre Organ will play as lyrics appear on LGBT Chamber of Commerce Winter org/ 2936 N Southport Ave. Tickets: http:// screen for “The Sound of Music,” “Do-Re- Soiree Full open bar (sponsored by LGBTQ Gallery Opening: Geraldine Ro- web.ovationtix.com/trs/pe.c/10197861 Me,” and “My Favorite Things.” Pre-show Sidetrack), heavy appetizers, dessert driguez & CJ Sikora A Special LQBTQ World AIDS Day Service Honoring and costume contest with interactive fun station. Drawing for $250 Shaw’s Crab Artists Gallery Opening Exhibit. The remembering those who have passed, packs for kids and adults. Through Sun- House gift card. After party at Sidetrack. opening night event is the official pre- supporting those living with HIV includ- day, Dec. 3. 11:30pm Music Box The- Business casual or festive winter at- miere of the work by renowned artists ing families and friends. Current state of atre 3733 N Southport Chicago https:// tire. $90 through Nov. 23; non-members Geraldine Rodriguez & CJ Sikora. Open- HIV/AIDS in the community. 10:00pm www.musicboxtheatre.com/events/the- $100. 6:30pm - 10:30pm Stratford on ing night reception will include a cash aChurch4Me, 7366 N. Clark St., Chicago sound-of-music-sing-a-long the Park, 2300 N. Lincoln Park; http:// bar. $5 suggested donation. 6:00pm Tickets: http://www.achurch4me.org lgbtcc.us3.list-manage.com/track/click ON THE RUN - 8:00pm Center on Halsted 3656 Tuesday., Dec. 5 Rebels on Pointe screening Inside sto- Saturday, Dec. 2 N Halsted Chicago http://www.cen- Saturday, Dec. 2 Planting Hope, Chicago Unites in Re- ry of Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte teronhalsted.org/newevents-details. Santa Speedo Run - Boystown A run and search to End HIV Community forum Carlo-the gay, all-male, New York-based The Santa Speedo cfm?ID=14620 huge party that raises money for non- launch event. Live, interactive painting dance troupe that for 40 years has slyly Run-Boystown will Lakeside Pride Women’s Ensemble Win- profits serving Chicago’s LGBTQ commu- installation by Onyx (@carbonyx21). satirized ballet classics. Runs through start at Sidetrack. ter Debut A night of musicianship as nity. First 250 runners to register with Dance performance by Darling Shear the women, led by co-conductors Moe a minimum donation of $25 will receive (@darlingshear). Launch of Positively Nov. 29 8:00pm Gene Siskel Film Cen- Photo by Kirk Williamson ter 164 N. State St.; http://www.siskel- Macpherson and Christina Zurkawicz, a Santa’s Sack with T-shirt and other Aware’s special issue. Updates from filmcenter.org/rebelsonpointe perform play music composed or ar- goodies. Benefiting Center on Halsted’s esearchers Richard T. D’Aquila, Amy K. ranged exclusively by female-identified “Get to Zero” 12:00pm - 3:00pm Side- Johnson, and George Greene and com- people. $5 suggested donation. 7:00pm track 3349 N. Halsted St. http://www. ments from Positively Aware editor Jeff Thursday, Nov. 30 sted Chicago https://diffachicago.org/ - 8:00pm Center on Halsted 3656 N centeronhalsted.org/newevents-details. Berry. Appetizers. RSVP online. 6:00pm World AIDS Day Indoor Street Fest This events Tickets: https://diffachicago. Halsted St. Tickets: https://community. cfm?ID=14615 - 9:00pm Reunion Chicago, 2557 W. event will celebrate everything creative org/event/E625704687 - great food from Chicago’s top restau- centeronhalsted.org/pages/lakeside- Black Gold, Affinity’s Casino Night North Ave, Chicago http://aidschicago. pride rants, specialty drinks, beer and wine, a Friday, Dec. 1 Fundraiser Beautiful venue, have hors com/planting live art installation, live performances Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus Naughty or d’oeuvres, drinks, dancing with a live World of Chocolate This year’s theme, and a few more surprises. 5:30pm - Nice With more than 150 singers and 23 DJ, and casino games. Early tickets International Affair. The HIV/AIDS epi- 9:30pm Center on Halsted 3656 N Hal- dancers, Naughty or Nice is a collection available now. $35 - $100. More info at

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