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Invincible You Discover Your Inner Power and Achieve Your Heart’s Desires By Dr. Alexander Avila 2018, All Rights Reserved Heart and Soul Publishing International 2018 All rights reserved ISBN-10: 0692043381 ISBN-13: 978-0692043387 ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS Special Thanks and Love To: Antonio, My Father, the Great Philosopher: May your spirit rest in creativity and peaceful joy. Jenny, My Muse of Artistry: May your loving energy and enthusi- asm for life spread across the world. Andrew, My Son, the Great Innovator: May your ideas help human- ity and create greatness in the universe. Itzy, My Four-Legged Ball of Love and Nurturing: You light up my day. Praise for Invincible You “Join Dr. Avila on a journey to Invincible Mountain—the inner mental place where you can achieve your greatest dreams and ful- fill your most wondrous potential. In his groundbreaking book, Invincible You, Dr. Avila does the improbable: Giving you the psy- chological and spiritual tools to transform your life while encour- aging you to be the very best that you already are. A masterwork of self-transformation.” Dr. Hendrie Weisinger, performance psychologist and two-time New York Times bestselling author, Performing Under Pressure: The Science of Doing Your Best When It Matters www.hankweisingerphd.com “Dr. Avila’s new book, Invincible You, offers timeless loving wisdom to help you live a good, balanced, and happy life. He simplifies principles and gives brief exercises to help you integrate them into your daily life. By exercising patience muscles, getting your time back, overcoming your rush and fear weaknesses, and much more, you’ll reconnect with your true Invincible self and learn to love your life again.” Dr. Paulette Sherman, author of The Book of Sacred Baths: 52 Bathing Rituals to Revitalize Your Spirit www.drpaulettesherman.com “Who doesn’t want to be Invincible? In his book Invincible You, Dr. Avila takes us by the hand and identifies a range of weaknesses that act as bullies, controlling our emotions and behaviors. Each chapter teaches us how to overcome those weaknesses and become the masters of our destiny, free to live the life we desire. Take time to absorb each lesson along the way, and give yourself wholeheart- edly to the process. You will relish your own self-discovery as you emerge, Invincible You!” Dr. Mary Jayne Rogers, author of From Overwhelmed to Inspired: Your Personal Guide to Health and Well-Being www.doctormaryjayne.com – iv – Praise for Invincible You • v “Invincible You is the key to achieving your greatest desires in life. Dr. Avila really breaks it down so anyone can achieve success. He gives you a full plate to digest with quick bites, the main course, and dessert literally in this book. If you want to discover the star player that lives within us all, and learn to live like a champion, Invincible You is a must read. Dr. Alex delivers the goods to help you begin your Invincible life.” Mario Rivers, author, speaker, relationship advisor, business coach, and founder of Online Business Startup University www.mariorivers.com “Dr. Avila’s Invincible You teaches us the right way to connect with others and teaches readers how to move from the Mind of Scarcity to the Mind Of Abundance; one of the 7 mindsets of a Connector.” Michelle Tillis Lederman: Forbes Top 25 Networking Expert and best-selling author of The 11 Laws of Likability and The Connector’s Advantage: 7 Mindsets to Grow Your Influence and Impact www. MichelleTillisLederman.com TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction: The Buffet of Invincibility 1 PART ONE: QUICK BITES 1. Your Invincible Mind 7 2. The 7% Club of the Living 18 3. How to Live Like a Champion 23 4. The Three Tries—Your Roadmap to Excellence 28 5. It’s Never Too Late to Win Big 38 PART TWO: MAIN COURSE 6. Master the Cesspool of Weakness 48 7. The Rush Weakness 52 8. The Anger Weakness 56 9. The Regret Weakness 60 10. The Futility Weakness 66 11. The Fear Weakness 70 12. Your Reservoir of Invincibility 80 13. Center Yourself in the Hara 97 14. Your Invincibility Blueprint 113 – vi – Table of Contents • vii 15. Create Unstoppable Relationships 129 16. Wealth Without Limits 150 17. The Art of Reversal 162 18. The Power of Spontaneity 177 19. The Final Key—Extend Loving Energy Without Expectation 187 PART THREE: DESSERT 20. Your Ultimate Questions Answered 208 21. Begin Your Invincible Life 223 GLOSSARY 226 REFERENCES 234 About: DR. ALEXANDER AVILA 236 Introduction The Buffet of Invincibility Imagine that you’re walking into an all-you-can-eat buffet. You smell the aroma of the food. You hear the sound of excited voices as customers prepare to eat to their heart’s content. You look closer and you are confused by what you see. In one corner of the buffet, you see a mouthwatering array of healthy and delicious food—prepared to perfection and smelling like heavenly delight: lobster, filet mignon, steamed vegetables, tropical fruits, and chocolate mousse. Yet, you are surprised to see that there is only a small line of people waiting for it. Hardly anyone is there for the amazing food. Then, at the other end of the buffet, you observe a mess of greasy, unappetizing, and unhealthy food piled up like a heap of junk. You are even more surprised to see that there is a huge line of people waiting for this terrible food. People are even shoving each other to get to the horribly tasting food. You wonder what is going on. It seems odd to see so many people eager to eat the lousy food, while so few are standing in line for the mouthwatering and healthy food. – 1 – 2 • Invincible You The answer is simple: People are in line for the food they expect to eat. What they expect is what they get. If they expect tasty and nutritious food, that is what they eat. If they are used to eating unhealthy and unappetizing food, then that is what they devour. Now think about your own life. What kind of psychological food have you been eating? Have you been stuck at the buffet line of negative thoughts: stuff- ing yourself with feelings of failure and inadequacy, criticism and self-doubt? Have you settled for a life of mediocrity and negativity? Or, have you been dining on a mental meal of positivity—love, optimism, gratitude, and hope? Are you living a life of sustained excellence and contentment? The good news is that you can choose the psychological meal that will truly satisfy you and fulfill your needs. In this book, you will be served a delicious and healthy mental meal that provides you with real sustenance; with true nourishment for your mind and soul. During this full-course psychological buffet, you will learn how to enhance the marvelous entity known as the Invincible Mind. What does the Invincible Mind consist of? The Invincible Mind is the part of your mind that thinks and acts like a champion—with continually expanding thoughts of confi- dence, love, gratitude, joy, and excellence. It is filled with “Mental Invincibility Imprints”—positive thoughts and habits—that rewire your brain to bring you maximum results. Your Invincible Mind helps you win over outside obstacles, includ- ing difficult people and circumstances, as well as inner challenges such as negative thoughts and feelings. It gives you a sense of con- tinual elevation in which you surpass obstacles and rise above neg- ative emotional states. Your Invincible Mind will ultimately lead you to emotional freedom and peace. The Buffet of Invincibility • 3 Mental Invincibility sounds wonderful, but let’s be clear about one thing: The type of Invincibility we are talking about here doesn’t mean that you are perfect or will never fail. It doesn’t mean that you won’t suffer pain. This Invincibility says you will prosper and be happy despite the obstacles and problems you face; despite the failures and setbacks. When you are Invincible in way we are describing, you will be able overcome whatever has held you back—turning pain into power to help yourself and others. With your Invincible Mind at the forefront of your life, you will possess that special trait called resilience, also known as mental toughness; the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. No matter how much pain or suffering you have experienced in the past, you are able to bounce back from temporary defeat. You will achieve your ultimate goals in your relationships, finances, career, health, and happiness. In the end, the Invincible Mind is your most loyal friend: The one who always has your back. When you are feeling down, it will pick you up and offer you genuine guidance and hope. Your Invincible Mind always wants what is best for you—helping you grow and prosper—so you can live your life to the absolute fullest. The Courses of Invincibility In this book you will learn how to develop your Invincible Mind. You will have self-command and achieve visible results much greater than you have ever experienced. You will enjoy maximum success in your personal life and career; in your relationships, financial matters, and mental and physical health. Utilizing the best of modern Western Positive Psychology and Eastern Mind-Body practices, you will learn how to transform yourself into a complete human being. You will become an Invin- cible person who is constantly growing and expanding—bringing 4 • Invincible You goodness and light into the world and leaving a lasting legacy of love and contribution. This book is broken down into three parts: Part One: Quick Bites.