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On the one hand, the individual or intensity to Torah Jewry's hemor for that reason that the worry that ones takes comfort in the assumption that rhaging in Western Europe in the nine children may go "off the derech" strikes whatever happens is not his fault. On the teenth century, and in Eastern Europe such terror in the hearts of parents and other, it gives people a reasonable frame and Israel in the twentieth, it can no grandparents, who don't sleep at night for work with which to comprehend what longer be ignored. In contrast to other fear of what may become of their may seem inexplicable or too painful to times and places, when poverty was children. It is a horror that is rarely glimpsed confront. rampant, the threat of pogroms and per by others and cannot really be shared. There are those who claim - inaccu secution hung heavy in the air, or The dread of "losing a child" often rately and unfairly - that fault lies with exciting, "new" ideologies pulled at shatters domestic harmony as well. In the our heroic mechanchim. We reject that Jewish youth, American Jewry today words ofRabbi S. R Hirsch, "Family prob claim. Most rabbe'im and morahs are over lives in serenity and contentment, lems and domestic grief gnaw at the hearts worked, underpaid, underappreciated - enjoys great prosperity and is not con of men; they are like fine needle tips and yet, notably effective. Are they all per fronted by ideological challenge. In whose miniscule wounds the world tends fect? No. But they are far more devoted much of Europe and Israel, defections to overlook, but which in the en<l n1ay and caring than n1ost of their detractors. from Torah were accom And if all the critics of"the panied by an attempt at system" would focus their philosophical rationaliza energies on ensuring the tion. Today's slide down financial viability and soci ward generally does not etal prestige of the chinuch include even the flimsiest profession in America, the ideological veneer. face of Orthodox Jewry This should not be across the country would shrugged off as the prob Introduction be unrecognizable. lem of isolated individuals. by n preparing this issue, Rabbi Chaim Soloveichik Rabbi Eliyahu Meir Klugman we have drawn on the of Brisk once interrupted I insights and guidance a gathering of rabbinic of Gedolei Torah, benefitted leaders to raise funds for the army cause many a heart to bleed to death. For from the experience of mechanchim exemption of a yeshiva boy. When they strike a man in the one peaceful place (Torah educators), invited the com asked how he could interrupt an to which he flees trying to escape from ments of mental health professionals, and important Kial meeting for the needs life's struggles." shared the anguish of parents. Not all of of one boy, he pounded on the table The mutual responsibility of all Jews them are in agreement with each other, and said: "Every yachid (individual) is does not allow one who has been suc but every one opens a window to a painful an entire Kial.'' cessful with his own children to duck - even tragic - scene, and instructs the rest It is precisely because every individ smugly in sympathy and do nothing. The of us in how to avoid pitfalls and traps, ual is an entire world that, even were we mark of the great Torah leaders, from how to identify with the pain of the errant to contend that in relative terms the phe Moshe Rabbeinu until our day, is the care youths and their suffering families, and nomenon is unusual, we must have the and concern that they evince for every how to help them out of their grievous forthrightness to look this problem individual, the conviction that every situations. squarely in the face, rethink our premis Jewish child is their own. We have no illusions that any maga es, reconsider our attitudes, and ensure It is not our task to assign blame, zine issue or series of articles can effect the fulfillment of our responsibilities. point fingers, or self-assuredly maintain a quick fix. The healing of societal mal We cannot afford to write off a sin that there are conclusive answers. Every adies is measured in millimeters. But that gle child. child is different and no two situations fact does not absolve us from doing are alike. But there are risk factors, and everything we can. It is precisely in regard Rabbi Klugman lives in Jerusalem where he is a there are areas that bear improvement.