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Parker's directives include protection Employees violating the policy are Melissa Etheridge: for the transgender community as both subject to disciplinary action up to Fierce and Fearless gender identity and gender expression indefinite suspension. Supervisors or are addressed. That expression relates managers who do not act on allega- By Chris Azzopardi to "appearance, dress, mannerisms, tions or evidence are subject to disci- speech patterns, and other social inter- plinary action. actions." A third executive order that was issued 'Gender identity," the order explains, in February also goes into effect this 'May not correspond to the individu- month. That one relates to sexual ha- al's body or gender assigned at birth.' rassment in the workplace.

Houston still lacks domestic partner "It's a violation "to fail or refuse to hire, Mayor Parker issues extensive benefits, non-discrimination order recruit, appoint, promote or train any individual" based on sexual orientation Photo: James Minchin III by Deborah Moncrief Bell Mayor Parker says she's simply putting or gender identity. It's also a violation in writing what's already in practice. "to discipline, demote, transfer, layoff, An inside look at the rock legend's life Mayor Annise Parker HOUSTON - fail to recall or terminate" or to "or to now - her personal awakening and how it's "Any city employee ought to feel safe has issued an executive order protecting limit, segregate or classify employees changed everything LGBT city employees that is possibly in the work place being who they are in or applicants." the most comprehensive. in the nation. daily life," she said. If Melissa Etheridge's music has seemed The order was signed on March 25th The affirmative action division of the mellow lately, she's about to show you. and took effect immediately. mayor's office will develop and imple- Because of a city referendum that was Back to her rock-out roots, the tough-and- ment diversity training. passed a few years ago, the city cannot gruff musician/mother/activist makes a Parker's predecessor, Bill White, the offer benefits to same sex partners of roaring return with the uplifting Fearless Democratic nominee for Texas governor Kris Banks, President of the Houston city employees. Those benefits cannot Love, her follow-up to 2007's sociopoliti- I '_:l~ ,.. "'_ .1,"- .=J-no:wp.rp.n The Awakenino . s a VIOlatIOn··to tan or retuse to rure, Mayor Parker issues extensive benefits, ~~";6.: non-discrimination order recruit, appoint, promote or train any individual" based on sexual orientation by Deborah Moncrief Bell Mayor Parker says she's simply putting Photo: James Minchin III or gender identity. It's also a violation in writing what's already in practice. "to discipline, demote, transfer, layoff, An inside look at the rock legend's life HOUSTON - Mayor Annise Parker fail to recall or terminate" or to "or to now - her personal awakening and how it's "Any city employee ought to feel safe has issued an executive order protecting changed everything limit, segregate or classify employees in the work place being who they are in LGBT city employees that is possibly or applicants." the most comprehensive. in the nation. daily life," she said. If Melissa Etheridge's music has seemed The order was signed on March 25th The affirmative action division of the mellow lately, she's about to show you. and took effect immediately. mayor's office will develop and imple- Because of a city referendum that was Back to her rock-out roots, the tough-and- ment diversity training. passed a few years ago, the city cannot gruff musician/mother/activist makes a Parker's predecessor, Bill White, the offer benefits to same sex partners of roaring return with the uplifting Fearless Democratic nominee for Texas governor Kris Banks, President of the Houston city employees. Those benefits cannot Love, her follow-up to 2007's sociopoliti- cal-powered The Awakening. had issued an order that covered sexual Gay-Lesbian-Bisexual- Transgender be offered without sending the issue to orientation much like the one in Dallas (HGLBTPC) Caucus, welcomes the voters. We spoke with Etheridge, who not only move. that offers protections for gay, lesbian discussed surviving cancer during the last and bisexual employees. That policy After the Houston City Council ap- "This also protects people against dis- decade and the life lessons she learned in already protected people based on race, proved DP benefits several years ago, the process, but also how she's embracing crimination in use of city facilities, in religion, gender and sexual preference. the issue was placed before the voters. change - a new sound, touring band and the restrooms in other facilities," Banks Not only were the benefits rescinded, return of those hot, long locks. said. "They say that the city cannot tell Parker stated, "Our belief has always but the referendum also mandated that anyone that they are not allowed to use been the city's non-discrimination pol- any future change to that policy would How does it feel to have the long hair any city facility based on their gender icy protected gay and lesbian employ- need to be approved in another elec- back? identity. " ees, as well as transgendered employ- tion. I watered it every day, and it grew! It was ees. This executive order now explicitly The order covers the LGBT community a big part of me. I really wasn't aware how states that. "at every level of municipal govern- big a part. ment," which includes city-run facilities The order states that, "The purpose of such as stadiums, parks and museums. I'm not used to seeing you as glammed- this Executive Order is to prohibit dis- up as you've been in some recent photos. crimination and/or retaliation on the A second executive order issued the What's up with all the make-up? basis of sexual orientation and/or gen- same day provides further protection to IU!!~Qut, .1g~t,AIUS: der identity at every level of municipal the LGBT community. That order pro- You know, it's something I think I've grown Thursday, April 29, 2010 into. At 48, I need all the help I can get government, including hiring, contract- hibits racial, ethnic, gender and other Dining Out For Life ing and/or access to City facilities and (laughs). slurs. Benefiting AIDS Foundation Houston programs/activities". After all you've been through this past The second order prohibits not only de- On Thursday, April 29, 2010, restau- decade, what place are you in now? I, The goal is to provide a work environ- grading verbal comments but also men- rants across Houston will unite in the !i tions electronic media including screen fight against HIV/AIDS. Each restau- ment free of discrimination and harass- That was an intense decade! But everything fl ment based on either sexual orientation savers, posters, cartoons and drawings. rant will generously donate 33% 0 that happened makes me stronger, makes ,j or gender identity, according to the or- food bills all day long. In 2009 with me understand that this is what life is. You Menacing behavior, critical or mocking -f'''' der. It covers anyone doing business the help of great Houston restaurants, are presented with these issues, but you comments and perpetuating stereotypes f with the city including Houston's con- AFHraised over $70,000 in support learn and you grow and you move on. Life are listed as behavior inappropriate for tractors and vendors as well as city em- for their programs and services such as is rich and full, and nothing's going to kill the workplace. you. Youjust keep moving forward - and it ployees. housing, gets sweeter. CONTINUED PAGE 4 Apri19,2010 THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE #129

2) already demonstrated" leadership in GLBT Community Center The Center launches "TMG One Voice" has arrived! the fight for equality for GLBT people; by Paul Guillory scholarship honors 3) engaged in significant extra-curricu- ComingOut group Lawrence v. lar activities; 4) a record of service in "TMG One Voice" It is the name of the open March 29,2010 - The Houston GLBT community organizations and 5) a dem- meetings and events we have when we've Texas petitioners Community Center, the home base for onstrated financial need. invited women to join our conversation and by Bagby Burton-Grose the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgen- dialogue meetings. I want to thank Kiah for der people and their allies, announces the name; it says it all. The Houston GLBT Community Center plans for a monthly coming-out group will award scholarships honoring the serving the needs of GLBT and ques- TMG One Voice is "Building Bridges and Tearing Down Walls". Helps us to continue two petitioners in the landmark Law- tioning individuals. The first meeting rence v. Texas U.S. Supreme Court case is set for Monday, May 3, at 7 p.m., at what was started in August of 2009. at their annual Pride Week commemora- the Center (3400 Montrose Blvd., Suite The purpose of "TMG One Voice" Face- tion of the court victory. The case over- 207). book Group is to come together as African turned anti-gay "sodomy" laws in the American Gay, Bisexual, and Same Gender United States. The coming-out group will meet on the first Monday of every month at 7 p.m. There is no fee for participation. The Texas statute was 21.06 of the Tyrone Gamer (L) and JohnLawrence (R) are hugged Texas penal code and was referred to as by a supporter during rally at Houston City Hall cel- Individuals seeking more informa- "homosexual conduct". ebrating the historic Supreme Court Victory (2005) tion may contact the Center by phone at 713.524.3818 or bye-mail at Hous- Brookover emphasized that while aca- "We are so happy to be able to honor [email protected]. demic performance will be considered, John Lawrence and the late Tyrone Gar- heavy weight will be placed upon char- "In the past, the Center organized well- ner by helping GLBT youth go to col- acter and need. "These scholarships tar- attended coming-out groups that reached "lege," said Tim Brookover, president of get students who have a strong commit- many people in our community," says Loving men and women to dialogue about the community center. ment to public service and advocacy for Tim Brookover, president of the Center issues that are important in helping us to equality," he said. " board-of directors. "We are pleased to form healthy relationships with ourselves The scholarship program recognizes and others, and join together in w.alkingthe once again have a coming-out group as outstanding leadership shown by gay, The inaugural scholarships will be journey of self-understanding to live a More the Center continues to grow. lesbian, bisexual, and trans gender high awarded in June 2010 at the Commu- Empowered, Awakened and Authentic Life. school seniors by contributing to the cost nity Center's annual commemoration of "The coming-out group is open to gay, of their continuing education. Selection the Lawrence v. Texas Supreme Court lesbian, bisexual, and transgender peo- Allies of all ethnic backgrounds, sexual ori- entations and sexual identities are welcome. is based upon character and need, not victory. ple who are just contemplating coming academic performance alone, according out as well as folks who may be years All Texas high school seniors that meet Dialogue allows us to move beyond polite to Brookover. The community center is into a gradual process of coming out," accepting applications through Satur- the criteria are eligible for the scholar- and empty words, and beyond the fears and ships. Scholarship applications and in- Brookover adds. pain that keeps us disconnected. Dialogue day, May 14. formation available at moves us from being uninformed to in- Broad topics that the group will cover formed, from informed to concerned, from Lawrence and Garner challenged the www.houstonglbtcommunitycenter.org. include concerned to active. The"TMG One Voice" constitutionality of a Texas statute that I I *. . Dialogue group gives us an opportunity to outlawedhomosexuaLsodomy_T.h",-~,,_<>••~ .•c::-ton_~. Cominz.out to.szouufamilv I.~_~. ._-_. . outstanding-leadersliipsnown by gay, e-lrtaugut3.1-S-ClIDlafSmps the Center continues to grow. lesbian, bisexual, and trans gender high awarded in June 2010 at the Commu- Empowered, Awakened and Authentic Life. school seniors by contributing to the cost nity Center's annual commemoration of "The coming-out group is open to gay, of their continuing education. Selection the Lawrence v. Texas Supreme Court lesbian, bisexual, and transgender peo- Allies of all ethnic backgrounds, sexual ori- entations and sexual identities are welcome. is based upon character and need, not victory. ple who are just contemplating coming academic performance alone, according out as well as folks who may be years All Texas high school seniors that meet Dialogue allows us to move beyond polite to Brookover. The community center is into a gradual process of coming out," the criteria are eligible for the scholar- and empty words, and beyond the fears and accepting applications through Satur- ships. Scholarship applications and in- Brookover adds. pain that keeps us disconnected. Dialogue day, May 14. formation available at moves us from being uninformed to in- Broad topics that the group will cover formed, from informed to concerned, from Lawrence and Garner challenged the www.houstonglbtcommunitycenter.org. include concerned to active. The"TMG One Voice" constitutionality of a Texas statute that I Dialogue group gives us an opportunity to Coming out to your family outlawed homosexual sodomy. The case * listen, learn and grow by recognizing and Coming out in the workplace was settled by the U.S. Supreme Court * letting go of mental, emotional and spiritual Religion/spirituality in 2003 in a landmark decision that * obstacles and self-imposed limitations that GLBT history have prevented us from being fully empow- struck down all state laws prohibiting * Working toward healing various ered. homosexual intercourse. * types of relationships Homophobia within the GLBT com- THE HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN Before the decision, criminalization of 'YOlltQllreT Home ill HOllston.' * munity as well as in the broader Ameri- AND THE BLACK LGBT HOUSTON gay sex was used as an excuse to justify COMMUNITY: can culture. discrimination against gays and lesbi- Saturday,April I O. The Community Leaders etworking Group convenes for its quarter- ans. After the decision, the conservative www.hglbtcc. org CREATING RELATIONSmp extremists lost a major argument in the Iy meeting, 1-5 p.m., at the Center. Join us THROUGH DIALOGUE or all or part of the meeting. battle to deny civil rights to gays and The coming-out group facilitator is Burton Saturday, April 17, 2010 lesbians. Bagby-Grose, who is an openly gay minis- uesday, April 13. The Community Center ter who has facilitated coming-out groups 6:00pm - 9:00pm inner Night convenes at West Gray Cafe Garner and Lawrence were arrested in in New England and Texas. He has an ex- Montrose Counseling Center 414 West Gray), 6:30 p.m. a private residence in Houston while tensive educational background in pastoral GLBT Cultural Center, engaged in consensual sexual activity. counseling and gender studies. Bagby- 401 Branard St. uesday, April 20. The monthly GLBT Grose is also a previous president of both The two men were tried and convicted Houston, Texas Seniors Potluck, organized by the Center, the Center and the Houston GLBT Political of "deviate sexual intercourse." After .s served in the fellowship hall of Bethel Caucus. a five-year court battle, the U.S. Su- Church DCC (1107 Shepherd), beginning at Members and Leaders of The Human preme Court reversed their convictions 6:30 p.m. Bethel Church DCC and Noche Rights Campaign's (HRC) Houston Steer- ing Committee will join TMG One Voice in in 2003. de Oracion, the Saturday-night bilingual service at Bethel, are our hosts. For more a dialogue to look at exploring opportuni- ties and ways to engage more members of "Without their willingness to fight this information, or you need transpotation, call the black LGBT community. This dialogue discriminatory law, the march toward 713.524.3818 or email Paul Guillory is a [email protected]. faciliator for the will look at ways that will explain the work equality would have been significantly that HRC is doing both nationally and lo- Men's Gathering slower," Brookover said. cally, and the challenges HRC has had. In he HoustonGLBT CommunityCenteris home & is active in the ase for lesbian,gay, bisexual,and transgender addition, the results of the Equality Forward Human Rights The scholarships will go to gay, lesbian, eopleandtheirallies.It is an all-volunteernon- Survey will be discussed to show how HRC bisexual, and transgendered high school rofitorganization.focusedon servingthe com- Campaign is moving forward to create an organization seniors who have 1) already demon- unity by providingprogramsand activitiesin that represents and includes everyone. hreebroadareas:artsandculture,collaborations strated a commitment to public service; ith otherorganizations,and educationand in- Page 2 ormation resources. 1 April 9, 2010 THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE #129 I 1 MONTROSE OUR ADVERTISING RATES j JOIN US ON FACEBOOK ,I GEM J a.r•.••. _Pf. 1 "Befriend" the Montrose GEM on Facebook I WWW.MONTROSEGEM.COM NPagetaOO 1 1111PllgeI200 An open community forum and news and 1 ISSUE #129 reminders about community events APRIL, 9,2010 c:au.w Page 1110 Published every other Friday Black & White some mainstream denominations, including c. 2010 Gulf Features BEEELINES Methodist, Lutheran, Presbyterian, Episco- 9720 Beechnut St. #380 l Full Page $200 pal, Unitarian Universalist and reform Jew- Houston, TX 77036 Half Page $150 ish synagogues also conduct these ceremo- nies. 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At least five to seven legal documents have Apr23 Apr 19 130 Rights that are granted to criminals. Incar- to be drafted (and paid for) by same-sex do- 131 May 7 May 3 cerated individuals have the right to marry mestic partners to insure some of the rights 132 May 21 May 17 another consenting adult in "traditional" automatically granted to male/female cou- 133 June4 May 31 marriage even if both the man and woman ples when they marry. Even then, we are not 134 June18* Jun 14 are behind bars. afforded the same protection and privileges 135 July 2 Jun 28 granted in legal marriage. 136 July 16 July 12 Until the Lawrence v. Texas case was ruled 137 July 30 July 26 on by the Supreme court in 2005, same sex Let's face it, if homosexuality were to be 138 Aug 13 Aug9 intimate behavior was against the law in the downfall of civilization as some have 139 Aug27 Aug 23 many states (often referred to as sodomy charged, it would have happened a long 140 Sept 10 Sept 6 laws, in Texas it only applied to same sex time ago. It is historically well documented 141 Sept 24 Sept 20 relations). that we have existed as long as human-kind 142 Oct 8 Oct 4 as well as evidenced in many species of 143 Oct 22 Oct 18 animals. And surprise, history tells us that 144 Nov5 Nov 15 unions between same-sex couples were le- 146 Dec3 Nov30 gal and even priests, bishops, and Popes 147 Dec 17* Dec 13 could marry (it might be a really good idea 148 Dec31 Dec27 for the Catholic Church to bring that back, but I digress). 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ETHERIDGE Continued from Page 1 It's not necessarily her. I certainly don't And that's what the song's about. I'm mak- fearlessly, and that starts with myself. That's Sexual been the journey in the last five years. know her and I don't really have a comment ing different choices for myself and for my to the sadness that - I'm not even going to So this is an extension of The Awaken- children. When you do that, you also heal comment. It fit perfectly because when I ing? You're touring this summer, but without yourself. started to write it, I said I really just have The mon This is the next step. I had to do The your hot, longtime electric guitarist Phil- to address this. I have to address my home SexualA~ ip Sayee - why? Awakening to present and be up front Parenthood actually pops up several times The goal Because Philip's got his own career going state, my people and the feeling of, like, be- about the things that were happening in- on this album. How has it changed you? ness abo on, so I just cleared the board. I went, "This ing spurned by a lover. I thought, OK, I'm side of me, the spiritual side of me. The Oh, it's unbelievable. I just had no idea of sexual as is a new page for me. It's a new album, it's going to write a song about that and I'll call what being a mother would do. And it's all- communi awakening part of me is understanding a new sound, and it's a new feel. I'm just it "Miss California," just like Carrie Prejean encompassing, it's every breath I take, it's ventsexu and going through cancer and saying, breaking out." It's hard because I get very - even though I'm definitely not singing to every moment I live. I am a mother to four "Whoa! Life is a lot different. Life is not attached to my band, but they weren't avail- her. It just worked into the whole thing. children, and I don't go to sleep at night un- Here are what it seems." til I know where all four are and how they able to make the album, so that was the first step of going, "Ya know, Ithink this is lead- This album seems to reach back to your are. It makes me a better person, it makes roots. You're rocking out more like you *Use y( That album was important to put out so ing me down another path and I need to be me more loving, compassionate, patient - did in the '90s and you have a weary awarenes people - myself and my fans - would patience is ... definitely required (laughs), open." I sent him offwith love and I'm sure we'll get together in the future, but right woman in an isolated room in the "Fear- know what path I was on, and then af- or you'll just get eaten up alive. They teach STATU~ now I'm putting these guys together and less Love" video much like the one for ter it seemed so clear that it was time to me every day about myself. They are these "Come to My Window." Was that inten- mation si beautiful little mirrors, and I want to be the they're dedicated to working with me now. gather up all that strength. Iwas knocked tional? down and it was time to pull the parts of best person I can be for them. "Every 11 The music video for "Nervous" - the sec- Yeah, that's still a part of me. I'm matur- me together that I knew were there in ing and I create it differently, but that girl is sexually Speaking of the kids, there was an epi- ond single - stars Edie Falco, How did this confidence and in this clarity that I still me, and so when I get on stage and sing sode of Kathy Griffin's My Life on the D- her cameo come about? J, have now and shoot it through that rock "I'm the Only One," "Come to My Win- List that aired last year where she was in I actually know the creator of Nurse Jackie 'n' roll gift that I've been given. dow" and "Bring Me Some Water" - from your house, seeking tips on becoming an She's one of my BFFs, and her and I have SH been trying to do a television show together over 20 years ago - that's still me. activist. What was that like? I might not be going through those experi- "Life is not what it seems" - that's a for a long time and when she landed Nurse Kathy Griffin's awesome. She's on a jour- ences in that moment, but they happened to line from the closing track, "Gently ney of her own, coming from the place of Jackie, I was so happy for her. I played the album for her months ago, and she goes, me. So I'm able to reflect on it, remember it, We Row." How has that been true in being on the D-list, and then she turned understand it in my life now, still see where your own life? herself A-list. You see it's not a place you "Can I use 'Nervous' in the final episode of Season 2?" It was just areally sweet and fun that's happening in my life and rock from I wanted to reference the children's get to; it's about how you feel inside about thing to do. that place and feel comfortable now. song "Row, Row, Row Your Boat," be- yourself. Her activism, her caring and her journey are very inspiring. And she's super cause that song has all the truth in it that This interview with Melissa Etheridge re- talented, too. Have you seen Crystal Bowersox on National we need. I love that we're taught it as a American Idol this season? gards her upcoming tour and album, out inform April 27: Tour dates will be announced at: child. " ... Life is but a dream" - that's Did you eat those cookies you were bak- I have! And my kids love her. The first time http:// all it is. We create it every day. That's ing while she was there? they saw her, they paused it - because I only www.melissaetheridge.com what came to me. That's where I got to Yes, we did! And we made some more a let them watch it on the weekend on TiVo *EDU going through cancer and coming out. little later. - and came running into the kitchen. They family Life doesn't happen to us. We are creat- said, "Mom, come here!" They had paused Reques> it on the shot of her guitar and they said, "Is ganizat ing this, and we have more power than it Do the kids like to bake a lot? that your signature?" And holy cow, that seems. This can happen to you, but your Anything involving sugar, there they are was my signature. perception of what it is creates what it with a spoon. is. You have a choice in how your life Besides a couple of tracks, there are far "" . What was it like reteaming with produc- song "Row, Row, Row Your Boat," be- yourself. Her activism, fier caring ancrlier journey are very inspiring. And she's super cause that song has all the truth in it that talented, too. Have you seen Crystal Bowersox on This interview with Melissa Etheridge re:- we need. I love that we're taught it as a American Idol this season? gards her upcoming tour and album, Out child. " ... Life is but a dream" - that's Did you eat those cookies you were bak- Ihave! And my kids love her. The first time April 27. Tour dates will be announced at: all it is. We create it every day. That's ing while she was there? they saw her, they paused it - because 1only www.melissaetheridge.com what came to me. That's where Igot to Yes, we did! And we made some more a let them watch it on the weekend on TiVo - and came running into the kitchen. They going through cancer and coming out. little later. Life doesn't happen to us. We are creat- said, "Mom, come here!" They had paused it on the shot of her guitar and they said, "Is ing this, and we have more power than it Do the kids like to bake a lot? that your signature?" And holy cow, that seems. This can happen to you, but your Anything involving sugar, there they are was my signature. perception of what it is creates what it with a spoon. is. You have a choice in how your life What was it like reteaming with produc- Besides a couple of tracks, there are far affects you. That's mostly what I want er John Shanks, who worked on 1999's less politics on Fearless Love than on The to convey through my music. Awakening. Breakdown? *GET He was my guitar player in my first band. (Laughs) They're just hidden underneath. Did it take you a long time to realize We hung out in the '80s, and we've played Volunte~ "Miss California," a song about the that? every hellhole bar. And we've also played ties in y Igot the crash course in it with chemo- Madison Square Garden. We've been state's ban on gay marriage, is blatantly political. How do you think music and po- therapy because I laid there day after through so much, and he knows what I'm WHYU litical activism - or activism of any sort day, week after week, and had noth- capable of. He knows just how to get the :l!fdgfs ::1~t.U~.P~ tfIEI'Jf1£?:I - work together? ing. No tefevision. No books. Icouldn't best out of it and how to push me to give Q~~tR\IiII. * Every my best. He's like my brother that makes Music reaches past people's minds and even read; it hurt to read. It was just day sexually me crazy (laughs). It was really wonderful it goes straight into their spirit, their soul, after day with myself, until my mind their body. You can take advantage of that SOIREE PELOUSE III -WONKA working with him. * 73 % - our minds are so busy setting things in a way. Music and activism is natural. It's up in the future and worrying about the always been a way through time to bring us May 16th from 3pm to 7 pm. How did the collaboration with Natasha * I in 6 closer to the unity we all need to be in. past - ran out of things to think about. Bedingfield and Joss Stone on "We Are at the Heights Theate sexually And it just stopped. When that happens the Ones" come about? Is "Indiana" about your wife Tammy there's this beautiful spirit that's behind That's my favorite track on the album just Benefitting AssistHers, GLBT Com- * Colleg Lynn Michaels? that, that really is in charge of what's because it's different and crazy and I love munity Center and. Legacy Community ly to be s It's completely about Tammy. She's from happening, it. John called me up and said, "Hey, guess Health Services. Entertainment: Emcee Indiana, and her journey has been so inspir- who was across the hall recording - Joss - Kofi,. DJ Michael Kessler, Singer - Ja- *Sexual Stone!" She just sang on it. Then, like a ing to me - and I'm around it so much - that ported c Also on "Gently We Row," I noticed this song popped out. To be able to sing with cinta the parallels between your mother week later, he said, "Hey, Natasha Beding- saults an field's coming in and I'm going to play her compassion about.another person is new for raising you and you raising your In addition to the great entertainment this song. I think she's going to sing on it." me. For me not to be in the song, I'm work- *Males a and every day increasing list of support- daughter. I thought that was so pow- So he worked with her. That's what he can ing on that. assault, t~ . . ! erful. . do, because he's John Shanks. ers we are pleased to share with you that aII victim That's another part of getting older. You Why didn't you before? Was it easier for we are having a top notch drawing for a realize your parents did shape a lot of Have you met Natasha? you not to? 2 separate cruises onboard the a CRYS- *Only 6° what you think and do and feel, yet it's No, Ihaven't! We've become very intimate Yeah, Iguess so, because everything was so TAL ship and the other on a Norwegian injail autobiographic. I still do that, but I want to time to stop blaming them. You can stay on tape, though. Cruise Line Ships (each for two) and a expand as a writer. there and you can wallow around in that lovely Cartier watch. In Texas ..; When did you know you had "Fearless or you can say, "OK, this happened to * I in 5 ~ Love"? Is "Miss California" taking a dig at allyassaul me and now I make different choices." www.soireepelouse.com The way that I'm looking at it is that it's Carrie Prejean? about my own fearless love. I need to love April 9, 2010 THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE #129

UH Clear Lake to screen Enough is enough. This has to "A Single Man" They're Coming Out All Over change. This was not supposed to happen 5 or 10 years ago, it is sup- University of Houston at Clear Lake posed to happen now. Today is my is presenting "A Single Man" as a day, this is my time, and this is my part oftheir Social Justice Film Fes- moment. tival. It will be shown on April 17 & 18. This is a wonderful movie. Colin These years in silence and reflection Firth who played in the starring role made me stronger and reminded me was nominated for an Oscar. If you that acceptance has to come from missed this movie when it was in the within and that this kind of truth No one saw this one coming! theatres, this is a great chance to see gives me the power to conquer emo- it. The link to get more information tions I didn't even know existed. Academy Award winner Anna Paquin, (The Piano) has come out as bisexual. about the film festival is What will happen from now on? It Paquin, made the announcement in a http://www.uhcl.edulmovies. doesn't matter. I can only focus on PSA video promoting the Give a Damn what's happening to me in this mo- campaign, which features celebritiess PFLAG-Houston, assisted by the Singer Ricy Martin Came out as a "For- ment. speaking out for equality. satellite PFLAG Group that meets at tunate homosexual man" the Bay Area UU Church, is going The word "happiness" takes on a Paquin, plays a telepathic vampire lover to have an information table there Singer Ricky Martin confirmed the new meaning for me as of today. It on RBO's True Blood, and is engaged to on the evening of the l Zth. If other rumors that he is Gay on his website has been a very intense process.Ev- her True Blood costar Stephen Moyer,. groups who are advocating or sup- earlier last week. Perhaps surprising ery word that I write in this letter is porting the GLBT movement would few about the actual facts of his sex- born out oflove, acceptance, detach- Reported by People Magazine Paquin states in the PSA, "I'm Anna Paquin. like to have an information table ual identity, Martin who is about to ment and real contentment. I'm bisexual and I give a damn," there on that evening, they can con- publish his memiors, has surprised tact Sonia Hernandez. E-mail: some by making it public. Writing this is a solid step towards Paquin, 27, made the announcement [email protected], or call 281-283- my inner peace and vital part of my during a private taping on Jan. 30 in 2560. Many people told me: "Ricky it's evolution. Los Angeles. Sources said they were not important", "it's not worth it", unaware beforehand that Paquin would "all the years you've worked and ev- I am proud to say that I am a fortu- say what she did. erything you've built will collapse", nate homosexual man. I am very "many people in the world are not blessed to be who I am. Paquin's PSA comes on behalf of the ready to accept your truth, your real- True Colors Fund, an organization ity, your nature". dedicated to earning equal rights for people who are gay, straight, bisexual Because all this advice came from or transgendered. The organization's "Give a Damn" campaign launched

people who I love dearly, I decide

BEELINES continued from Page J The Wyatt Rant Also, despite what the right would have you But the Republican party leadership is not by Carol Wyatt believe, this bill was not "rammed down without blame here either. When John Boeh- In addition to having our intimate relation- our throats". The subject was debated for a ner, House Majority Leader, calls health ships honored in legal marriages throughout Do Republicans even understand how de- year, and Republicans were given every op- care reform the Apocalypse, he is inciting the country, it is beyond time for the "Don't mocracy is supposed to work? Our guy portunity to participate. They declined. For his low-information followers to extremes. Ask, Don't Tell"(DADT) policy created by won, your 'guy lost. Please try to master this example, Obama held a meeting with repub When Minnesota congresswoman Michelle President Bill Clinton to come to an end. He concept and move on. Barack Obama was leaders almost a year ago. They told him Bachmann says she wants her constituents was actually trying to help by softening the elected with 53% of the popular vote and that tort reform was important to them. He to be "armed and dangerous", she deserves outright policy of a ban of LGBT service 68% of the electoral votes. This is far more said "OK. What are you willing to compro- to be held accountable for any violence that members but it did not work out that way. the George W. Bush managed to get in ei- mise on in order to get that in the final bill?" follows. I could give you plenty more ex- And the ongoing interrogation and discharge ther of his wins. I understand that you don't What followed was the sound of crickets amples, but it makes my head hurt. of LGBT personnel has continued. Despite like this fact (facts being optional in your chirping. President Obama's pledge to end the poli- world), but he is the legitimate president of I don't see this ending well. The Right has cy, there has been an outcry among some the United States. The Dems used legitimate and appropriate totally abandoned any pretense of truth in its members of the upper echelon of the mili- legislative processes and tools to get the bill ceaseless propaganda, and its elected lead- tary and it has been deemed "more study is Obama ran on a platform that included passed in the face of unprecedented recal- ers have decided to abdicate their duties as needed". Gays are not restricted from serv- health care reform. People understood this citrance by the Republicans. Those same lawmakers. Their followers, who are so ea- ing in many other countries and without any and voted for him because of it. Health tools and processes had been used by the ger to believe the worst about Obama and of the concerns that exist in the USA. LGBT care reform is a popular issue, although I R side many times, yet the righties howled the democrats that they will swallow ANY service members should have right to serve can understand why you might think that in protest when the tools were deployed by lie, are becoming like a herd of spooked ani- of the openly and proudly if that is their choosing. it's not. First of all, if you only inhabit the Dems. What rank hypocrisy. mals - one spark away from total panic and gar, If they choose not to tell, they should never small world of Rush Limbaugh, Glenn Beck destructive action. Who within the Republi- And now the threats of violence are heat- be asked because it should not make any and Fox News, you believe that your be- can party has the sense, gravitas and respect ing up - over an attempt to provide mean- difference. The United States Government liefs make up the majority in this country, to get this calmed down? No one that I can ingful and affordable health care for all our oving has no business legitimizing discrimination. although they do not. And those "informa- think of. Pretty depressing thought indeed .. -, ctions Our military has lost some very qualified tion" sources have spent the majority of citizens, for gods sakes. I'm not justifying halves, and dedicated troops due to DADT. their broadcast time in the past year, telling violence on either side, but at least when Carol Wyatt is the publisher of into you fabulous lies about the bill. the left was protesting violently back in the www.socialnoteshouton.com, 60s, we were trying to stop and illegal and into No one is asking for special rights, just the The occasional goings-on of the Houston Les- Given all the mis-and dis-information that immoral war. The tea baggers are threaten- bian population. Her commentaries are available snip same rights and to be protected form dis- criminated. We want the right to our homes, circulated, it's no wonder that some polls ing murder simply because someone with a online at the site. genne our jobs, our children and our pursuit of showed health care reform to be unpopular. darker skin than theirs will have access to whole) happiness. Equality for our people is the But two interesting things about those polls: basic health care. ~ds. Ar- unfinished business of the civil rights and a healthy percentage of those who were un- All those Online Places sweet Palin, Limbaugh and Beck are not elected social justice movement of our country happy with the bill were unhappy because it Groups to join, websites to visit, officials. They are free to spew their venom ing didn't go far enough! And the other thing of dating online and more nkle over Equality, plain and simple is the bottom line note is that whenever pollsters actually poll and make their not so veiled threats every andI bake ofthe "Homosexual Agenda". people on their support for the individual day without recourse. in out next issue components of the bill, support goes way And that's the buzz/rom me this time. up. COMING IN .MAy ZOlO TMG and lIRe cont. from Pg. 2 SO you tHINIl you CAN DRAG?HOUStON The Human Rights Campaign is America's 10UI'"" )ODS;our·'CIIIIWCII-ZUIU-Vur-p --...r-r---:--:-~"""':"~------__·II' •••• _ e) happiness. Equality for our people is the But two interesting things about those polls: basic health care. ' • ~- AU those Online Places j unfinished business of the civil rights and a healthy percentage of those who were un- ~et social justice movement of our country happy with the bill were unhappy because it Palin, Limbaugh and Beck are not elected officials. They are free to spew their venom Groups to join, websites to visit, didn't go far enough! And the other thing of dating online and more over Equality, plain and simple is the bottom line note is that whenever pollsters actually poll and make their not so veiled threats every ike of the "Homosexual Agenda". people on their support for the individual day without recourse. in out next issue components of the bill, support goes way And that's the buzz/rom me this time. up. ~se CO.MING IN .MAli 2010 our. ,anng TMG and HRC cont. from Pg. 2 f SO BUU tHINK BUU CAN DIUG? HOUStON The Human Rights Campaign is America's largest civil rights organization working to Dr. achieve lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgen- at .MitJtael's Outpost * 1419 Rirhmo •.,1 Ave. der equality. By inspiring and engaging all Americans, HRC strives to end discrimina- ~I.ac.al~ ard- tion against LGBT citizens and realize a na- n- tion that achieves fundamental fairness and Ilcome join us for a night of live music with: fe. equality for all TRE T FURE lve FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 23, 2010 • This dialogue will allow 'your voice' to be tose- heard. Do you have a story to share? Do Meet and Greet @ 7pm you know how HRC represents you? What Concert @ 8pm (sharp) Tickets $15 advance / $20 at door keeps you from becoming part of HRC? What is it that you'd like the local leaders 3203 Rustling Moss Drive Houston, TX 77068 to know? Contact: Rhonda @ [email protected] or Join us for a very important dialogue that Sandi @ [email protected] will raise the level of understanding by help- ing to remove obstacles, and build bridges through understanding. Are you ready to PFLAG Houston Monthly Meeting step up your commitment in working with Sunday April 11, 2:00 pm - 4:30 pm HRC? People like Paul Guillory, Brandon 91- flATU- t.h1.nh. ~v CA-.N d1ur.g.., Mack, Dillard Cole and others will explain Hot Topics in Advocacy We are pleased t a.H.J.. Ula..H.i:.. to- be. fz.aki:. at-~'.4. H.e.Ulc.U., h..aUe..U. their passion and why it is so important to welcome Meghan Stabler, a member of th be involved by working with HRC to cre- Human Right Campaign Board of Direc a.nJ. HC.a"4i:. fu.H..J-r:ut..d -,. a: ••: H.fI- ~ t1.t.I.c. IurI.JlH.g. e.ve.H.t... ate an organization and values and includes tors and an alumnus of President Obama' diversity. national LGBT Policy Committee to ou www.soyouthinkyoucandraghouston.com general meeting on Sunday, April 11th Even though the focus of this dialogue is Meghan will discuss current hot issues fo HRC and the Black LGBT Community, all GLBT advocates with a particular focus 0 ofL c.all 832.537.6589 are welcome to attend. initiatives unfolding at the federal level. Sh ~ a.J.clit.Unud ~ will Suggestmeaningful actions we each ca RSVP BY EMAIL TO: take to promote an equality agenda. Mik [email protected] ~ ~ 10m be. a.val..ln.Me..tovH. at. ~'~ Migura, will also discuss current issues fac JOIN THE DIALOGUE ing GLBT youth in the foster care system. ,--,..-"l ONFACEBOOK Page 7 ContinuedPg 10 April 9, 2010 THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE #129 Bumper Sticker Bigotry Art Car Sprawl in the First Ward together diverse populations who by Aaron M. Coward may not ordinarily go to a gallery! As I continued to sit there with my Featuring David Cisneros, Eric Hes- museum; and to address social is- "Sticks and stones my break my thoughts, my eyes shift slightly up- ter, Paul Hester, Abro Khuda Bux, sues through art. All VBB Living bones, but words may never hurt ward. Mark Lacy, Sehba Sarwar, Yunuen Room Art shows are theme-based, me." Perez Vertti, Ilona Yusof, Maheen multidisciplinary, and allow space There, in the far left hand comer of Zia, del monte films, Pakistani Arti- for spoken word artists, writers, vi- Growing up an overweight gay child the truck's back window was another Sans with Anj Rana and many More! sual artists, performance artists, and in the Lone Star State, this phrase all-to-familiar image. musicians, and generally draw au- was at the top of the list of vernacu- FREE (donations are appreciated) diences ranging from 250-400. The lar arsenal, but as I've grown up, I've An indication to me that the epi- VBB's living room art production, shows are conceived and directed by found other ways of deflecting what demic of intolerance that continues Art Car Sprawl in the First Ward, Founding Director with Yunuen Per- been referred to as 'Hate Speech.' to plague the human race isn't some- located in Houston's historic First ez Vertti, Mark Lacy and Eric Hester thing that happens to those unfortu- A few weeks ago, while on the way Ward at the home of Emily and Zach nate stranger on the news ... or that This show is cosponsored by KPFT to work, I came to a stop at what I'm Haines, is a celebration of culture, plays out melodramatically on the Pacifica Radio 90.1 FM, The Hous- sure is the longest red light ever to be global connections, history, human big. screen ... but it's something that ton Institute for Culture, The Orange constructed. I could see in front of labor, and movement. The show will remains all-too-close to each of us. Show for the Visual Arts, and Geo me (through a vaporous cloud of ex- feature Houston art car and Paki- TV. This project is part of VBB's haust fumes) the stereotypical chari- stani truck art history, and include What I saw was .... a parking sticker Pakistan Live Broadcast productions ot of a country boy. Rusty patches of a preview of VBB's first art car; issued out by my employer .. that aim to shed an alternative light missing paint, battle scars embedded Digital Meets Pakistani Truck Art, designed by Eric Hester and Sehba on Pakistan, and to recognize neigh- into the steel, missing tailgate, spi- Not only was the bigotry on the road Sarwar. Decorations on the car in- borhoods where shows are installed. der webbing fractures extending the ways with me ... but it was on its way clude video screens showing VBB's entire length of the front windshield. to work with me. history, truck art designs from Kara- Saturday, May 1, 2010 5:00pm - 9:00pm at the home of Waiting for the relentless crimson Aaron Cowardlives and works in Central chi collected by Sehba Sarwar on a Emily Sketch Haines & Zach Haines albatross to turn green, my eyes Texas.He is the prize winningauthorof a recent trip to Pakistan, and an open scriptfor "QueerasFolk" mic podium welded out of the pas- at 1800 Edwards St. scanned down to the rear bumper of ! the grumbling beast of a vehicle. I senger seat. Writers are invited to saw it was covered with a variety of EDITOR'S NOTE: bring their work to the living room FUND-RAISER FOR stickers, logos, and crude epithets. Warning, Graphic language follows art show and the Orange Show's Art FIRST WARD Weather beaten expressions of every as I thought it important to share Car Parade on May 8 to perform in HISTORICAL DISTRICT kind. Adoration for alcohol, distain what Aaron saw on that offensive the car. The May 1 show will in- THURSDAYS IN APRIL bumper sticker - it read, clude: a documentary of art car his- for those deemed unpatriotic, and On every Thursday during the month of tory in Houston by Carlton Ahrens proud declarations of the academic April 2010. That will be April - 1st, 8th, achievements accomplished at a 10- 'The onlythings1hatemorethan Ugly and Ford Gunter of del monte films, 15th, 22nd., and April 29th. between I c.aLMiddle~hoQL~-.buLone~d_e_c_a1- BitchesandBlac~,Obama another documentary on Pakistani 4:30PM till closing (9 PM) have dinner J.VVpIIl - :7.VVpIlI ilt tile IlVlll";;VI. Waiting for the relentless crimson Aaron Cowardlives and works in Central zrn coIlecteOOy Sen5a Sarwar on a Emily Sketch Haines & Zach Haines albatross to turn green, my eyes Texas.He is the prize winningauthorof a recent trip to Pakistan, and an open at 1800 Edwards St. scanned down to the rear bumper of scriptfor "Queeras Folk" mic podium welded out of the pas- the grumbling beast of a vehicle. I senger seat. Writers are invited to saw it was covered with a variety of EDITOR'S NOTE: bring their work to the living room' FUND-RAISER FOR Warning, Graphic language follows stickers, logos, and crude epithets. art show and the Orange Show's Art FIRST WARD as I thought it important to share Weather beaten expressions of every Car Parade on May 8 to perform in HISTORICAL DISTRICT kind. Adoration for alcohol, distain what Aaron saw on that offensive the car. The May I show will in- THURSDAYS IN APRIL bumper sticker - it read, clude: a documentary of art car hiS-I for those deemed unpatriotic, and iOnevery Thursday during the month of tory in Houston by Carlton Ahrens:! proud declarations of the academic iApril20I O. That will be April - I st, 8th, 'The onlythings;llh~e.ifmhrethan Ugl and Ford Gunter of del monte films, achievements accomplished at a lo- , ,,:@> 115th, 22nd., and April 29th. between BitchesandBlackObama another documentary on Pakistani ,4:30PM till closing (9 PM) have dinner cal Middle School... but one decal areFAG~!" caught my attention more than any I , .truck art by Maheen Zia, installa- in or order take out at Hickory Hollow other. I I tions by David Cisneros, Yunuen - (the Heights location only). Tell them Perez Vertti, and Pakistani Artisans that you are a "FRIEND OF FIRST 'WARD" and they will give us 15% of A yellow rectangular bumper sticker led by Anj Rana. Photographs by! 'you ticket sale. How easy is that? You displaying one single sentence. Abro Khuda Bux, Paul Hester, Mark] Lacy and Ilona Yusof will be exhib-] Ican eat your way to raising funds for! !FirstWard General Operating Budget. I In an effort to shield anyone from the ited, documenting the history of artJ affront statement that managed to in- cars and Pakistani .truck art. And lAnyone in Houston can help First Ward sult women and the elected President like all VBB living room art proi lout with this. Please tell all you neigh- ductions, there, will be food, drinks] ,bors, friends, co-workers and everyone of the United State.,; I'll simple skip Andy Cohen is the First Ever Celebrity ahead to the last word. A four letter Grand Marshal for Houston Pride community, conversation, kids playl nhat you see. area and open mic. I word that most of the world is famil- I 101 Heights Blvd. PrideHouston is excitedto announce iar with. A word that I had grown Houston, TX 77007 Bravo'sSeniorVicePresidentof program- The show is a preview to a weekB accustomed to having been out since 713-869-6300 minganddevelopmentandhostof "Watch of festivities hosted by the Orangel birth, practically... However, this ; WhatHappensLive",AndyCohenasthe Show's Art Car Parade. All art cat] Remember Hickory Hollow is a lot more time, it's presence was so random firsteverNationalCelebrityGrandMarshal artists who are participating in the' that just its award-winning Chicken that it stung. for the 2010PrideHoustonparade. Art Car Parade to attend and display Fried Steaks and Great barbecue. Aw- Andy Cohen Scheduledfor June 26, 2010, their cars! Reps from the Orange some hamburgers, huge baked potatoes, It got me thinking ... why is this kind . - this year the parade marks the 32nd anni- Show will be present to sell discount rib-eyes, grilled or fried cat fish, plus a of 'free speech' still tolerated? versaryof PrideHouston,andwhilethe na- tix to the Art Car Ball. Don't missl really great salad bar. They make their tion's LGBT (Lesbian,Gay, Bisexual and ,own Onion rings, and Ranch Dressing. I the events! I If it had something scrolled on it in- Transgender)communitycontinuesto face i an uphill battle for basic civil rights and Please check out their menu: volying blatant racism or a boast re- Four years ago, under the guidancel equality, many barriers have been over- www.hickoryhollow.com garding domestic violence ... would come, and it is the organization'sgoal to of VBB artist Oskar Sonnen, VBB! those sentiments still be tolerated? create the means by which LGBTpersons began a new series called Living] Thanks! I'm afraid to say... that answer can celebrateachievements,commemorate, Room Art, an innovative approach! Coming next issue: andeducatethe community. would probably be "YES". ,designed to bring art directly into! I What's up in the First Ward? ContinuedPage9 L~~tial comm~ties t~~:ng J L Page 8 -- '••_"~~- __ , , .J THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE #129

Sexual Assault Awareness Month * In 2008, Houston had 750 reported rapes, Pride Houston - continued from Page 8 that's more than 62 rapes a month. Lets Talk About it! "How lucky am I to get to come to Houston * In 2008, Texas had more than 8,000 re- one of the greatest cities in America," com- The month of April has been designated ported rapes. mented Cohen, "it's going to be a great fun Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM). - and I am really looking forward to meet- The goal of SAAM is to raise public aware- During the month of April we are going to ing Houston's Mayor, Annise Parker!" ness about sexual violence (focusing on be sending important information about the sexual assault and rape) and to educate Mayor Parker is being honored in the spe- issue and we hope to have your support in communities and individuals on how to pre- cial category of Community Grand Mar- spreading the message! vent sexual violence. shal).

By working together during the month of Pride Houston has been an active organiza- Here are simple ways you can help! April, we can highlight sexual violence as a tion since 1978 when they hosted the first major public health issue and reinforce the Pride Parade in 1979 with the brazen theme *Use your Facebookltwitter to create need for prevention efforts. "United We Stand." Since then, Pride Hous- awareness* ton has been at the core of the LGBT move- LETS TALK ABOUT IT. ment for united equality. At its heart STATUS UPDATES with important infor- LEARN ABOUT IT. END IT mation such as ... Pride Houston is an energetic collection From the Houston Area Women's Center of committed, year-round volunteers who "Every two minutes, someone in the U.S. is Causes Page on Facebook develop, organize, coordinate and promote sexually assaulted" the LGBT community through a series of events - most notably the annual LGBT Join us on twitter @hawctalk Males are the least likely Celebration featuring a Festival and the na- ..•., tion's first night-time Pride Parade. SHARE information with others to report a sexual assault, "This celebration extends beyond the LGBT xperi- though they make up about community. It's a celebration of diversity, ed to Share links to stories, news articles, web- 10% of all victims. for which Houston is already a nation-wide ber it, sites etc that bring awareness to the issue, leader,"said Meghan Stabler, President of here here's a couple. the Pride Houston Board. from PFLAG continued from Page 7 Houston Area Women's Center Stabler added, "This long standing Mon- www.hawc.org trose tradition is the 2nd largest parade You'll leave this meeting with ideas for ge re- in the city and one of the top 10 Houston National Sexual Assault Awareness Month concrete things you can do to make a differ- n, out events of 2010 according to the Houston information available at ence for our community. ed at: Convention and Visitor's Bureau." http://www.nsVrc.org!saam Small groups after the program provide an The festival and parade attracts on average *EDUCATE your community, friends and opportunity to discuss issues, concerns, and more than 150,000 attendees, and with the family about the issue* celebrations in a safe, confidential environ- national spotlight on Houston as a LGBT Request an educator to come out to your or- ment. friendly city, and support from many of ganization/group to talk about the issue Houston's major employers, organizers ex- After the meeting all are invited to gather at pect this number to reach record heights this You can request a speaker from the Wom- Cafe Express in the Museum of Fine Arts year. en's Center by emailing Velocia Ulmer at Beck Building, 5601 Main, 112block south "The parade and festival are so much more [email protected] ofthe church. than just an example of our p'ride; it is a i H6d§Mimea "6HiErl § Cerner rnrr~onnnueU"lTOIl1Trage I III Stabler added, "This long standing Mon- I • www.hawc.org trose tradition is the 2nd largest parade You'll leave this meeting with ideas for in the city and one of the top 10 Houston ~gere- concrete things you can do to make a differ- National Sexual Assault Awareness Month events of 2010 according to the Houston m' out information available at ence for our community. ~ed at: Convention and Visitor's Bureau." http.//www.nsvrc.org/saam Small groups after the program provide an The festival and parade attracts on average *EDUCATE your community, friends and opportunity to discuss issues, concerns, and more than 150,000 attendees, and with the family about the issue* celebrations in a safe, confidential environ- national spotlight on Houston as a LGBT Request an educator to come out to your or- ment. friendly city, and support from many of ganization/group to talk about the issue Houston's major employers, organizers ex- After the meeting all are invited to gather at pect this number to reach record heights this You can request a speaker from the Wom- Cafe Express in the Museum of Fine Arts year. en's Center by emailing Velocia Ulmer at Beck Building, 5601 Main, 112block south "The parade and festival are so much more [email protected] of the church. than just an example of our pride; it is a chance to educate the rest of the city on all *GET INVOLVED* A mid-month sharing group, "Third Thurs- day," meets on the third Thursday of every aspects of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender community. Pride gives the at- Volunteer or get involved in SAAM activi- month 7:30- 9:00 p.m. at St. Stephen's Epis- tendee a chance to see their friends, neigh- ties in your community/organizations copal Church, 1805 Alabama at Woodhead, in the Chatham Room. Parking is behind bors, relatives, and co-workers, and realize just how many LGBT folks there are in each WHY THIS IS IMPORTANT? the church off Woodhead. Look for the door of our lives," says PBS personality and Vice with the rainbow. President of Pride Houston, Ernie Manouse. * Every two minutes, someone in the U.S. is sexually assaulted Monthly Meetings are held in Clear Lake at The Pride Houston Board of Directors will the Bay Area Unitarian Universalist Church NKA announce the complete list of Grand Mar- * 73 % of rape victims know their assailants (17503 El Camino Real) on the fourth Sun- shals for this year on April 8, 2010. The list day of the month at 2:00 PM. 11. of Grand Marshals for 2010, selected via * 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men will be community vote will appear in the April sexually assaulted in their lifetime 23rd issue of The Montrose Gem.

Com- * College age women are 4 times more like- EDITOR'S NOTE: Last issue 1 reported that the iunity ly to be sexually assaulted Montrose Counseling Center had been nominat- tmcee ed to be the Organizational Grand Marshal and *Sexual assault is one of the most under re- that they had been so honored previously, stating r - Ja- •.... ,., that in my opinion, there should not be someone/ ported crimes in the U.S., 60% of sexual as- group to be a GM more than once. Apparently saults are never reported to the police RAYMOND A. WEST not only my memory but those of others I asked Born Aug. 18, 1959, died March 20,2010 iment about this, was faulty. There are other issues *Males are the least likely to report a sexual related to that article that will be addressed in pport- A memorial service took place Saturday. April assault, though they make up about 10% of a future issue. I apologize for my mistake. The u that 3rd for Raymond A. West, all victims. Gay and Lesbian Switchboard has been honored : for a West, a founding member of the Houston twice, but once was before its affiliation with he RYS- *Only 6% of rapists will ever spend a day NAMES Project, which organized the quilt Montose Counseling Center. (MCC) That sec- egian in jail display, died March 20 at his San Francisco ond recognition may be why some of us were and a home. He was 50. confused about MCC already being recognized in this category. In Texas ... He is survived by hids partner, partner, Larry * 1 in 5 women and 1 in 20 men are sexu- Cunniffe Mother, Marie West of Houston and To see the history of Pride Houston, check out ally assaulted in their lifetime .. his brother, Sgt. Roger West of Fort Hood. Wikipedia at: http://en.wikipedia.orglwikiIHouston_ Gay_Pride_Parade Page 9 April 9, 2010 THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE#129

DEEP INSIDE HOLLYWOOD Q-SCOPES by by Jack Fertig Romeo San Vicente

Jackman taking road to Selma "Roll with the punches, Aries!" From the It Sure Took Them Long Brace yourself for rude, surprises, arguments and screw-ups. Mercury is turning Under normal circumstances, the cast- Enough department (and certainly in- retrograde in Taurus while semi-square Uranus in Pisces. Stubborn thinking will ing of an actor to play Martin Luther spired by a certain show about a teen slam you against walls you didn't see coming. Balancing practicality with adap- King, Jr., in Selma, the latest project chorus) comes Hellcats, a pilot from tivity is the big challenge. from gay Oscar nominated director Lee the CW about cheerleading. Starring Aly Michalka as a college girl from the Daniels, would be major news. And ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Bad news about money is nearly inevitable these wrong side of the tracks who joins the once the movie is finally shot, cut and days. Do your best to roll with the punches. Resist the impulse to worry and panic. world of competitive cheering, the se- released, David -Oyelowo, the British Take a deep breath, focus, relax and consider what changes are necessary. Medita- actor who'll play the legendary civil ries has cast singer-actor Ashley Tisdale tion will help. rights leader and who'll also soon ap- as the squad's intensely ambitious team pear in George Lucas's Red Tails, will captain. Tisdale almost single-handed- TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You or your friends are likely to accidentally surely see his profile rise in this country. ly added all comic relief to the High offend each other with some remark. It's all just a stupid misunderstanding, but But for now you probably have no idea School Musical franchise (as the in- getting to the root of it and clearing it up could take some work. Be patient and who he is, and so the real casting news tensely ambitious queen of drama club, forgiving! for this movie is about Hugh Jackman. so yeah, not much stretching here) so He's going to playa redneck sheriff in this bit of actor-in-the-right-role news GEMINI (May 21- June 20): Miscommunications at work, or with anyone in au- the story, which will center around the feels like a perfect fit. Better yet, it's thority, can grow from a simple screw-up to a Kafkaesque nightmare. Unraveling 1965 marches staged by King in Selma, for a network that specializes in tart- the mess will take calmness, patience and time. Admit to errors promptly to nip Alabama, and he will almost certainly tongued young things, so we're certain bigger troubles in the bud. not be pouring entire buckets of warm to see Tisdale finally shed some of her CANCER (June 21- July 22): Write down your ideas and concerns to get all those water over his sweat-glistened torso in squeaky-cleanliness. And you can go bees in your bonnet to calm down and produce something sweet. It will need lots this one. But that's just a hunch. They're ahead and call it Bring It On: The Col- of editing and revision. That's fine. If solitary scribbling keeps you out of argu- still getting the financing together any- lege Years: The TV Show if you want. ments, you're ahead of the game! way, so you've got some waiting on That's what it sounds like to Romeo, our hands, either wav. too. It also sounds like a damn good LEO (July 23 - August 22): Work is a minefield these days. In conversation with time waiting to happen. bosses or authorities of any sort, be ready for corrections and revisions of plans. Sex can release tension, but be very careful. Murphy's Law is in full force! Jason Segel's rainbow connection VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Something you say is likely to upset your In truth, there's technically nothing truly partner - and vice versa. Either or both of you will be shocked to have cause of- gay about The Muppets. They're whole- fense. Do not get defensive. Apologize, and accept it as a lesson in getting to know some and sweet and hilarious. There are each other better. I lLenLv.-hQmnsexuaLM_unD.ets~(Llnle«.~I ------~------~----- 1_-- squeaky-cleanl~ And you can go water over his sweat-glistened torso in bees in your bonnet to calm down and produce something sweet. It will need lots ahead and call it Bring It On: The Col- this one. But that's just a hunch. They're of editing and revision. That's fine. If solitary scribbling keeps you out of argu- lege Years: The TV Show if you want. still getting the financing together any- ments, you're ahead of the game! way, so you've got some waiting on That's what it sounds like to Romeo, our hands, either wav. too. It also sounds like a damn good LEO (July 23 - August 22): Work is a minefield these days. In conversation with time waiting to happen. bosses or authorities of any sort, be ready for corrections and revisions of plans. Sex can release tension, but be very carefu1. Murphy's Law is in full force! Jason Segel's rainbow connection VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Something you say is likely to upset your In truth, there's technically nothing truly partner - and vice versa. Either or both of you will be shocked to have cause of- gay about The Muppets. They're whole- fense. Do not get defensive. Apologize, and accept it as a lesson in getting to know some and sweet and hilarious. There are each other better. openly homosexual Muppets. (Unless LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Sexual adventurism could explode in your you're talking about Bert and Ernie. face. In a bad way. Be very careful now about prophylaxis, not tying ropes too And we've had our gaydar tripped by tight and who you're playing with! And when was the last time you got tested? Sigourney Weaver Big Bird. And Sweetums. And Miss photo coutesy of Lifetime Piggy is voiced by a man. Okay, The SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Playful efforts with your partner (sexual Sigourney and Silverstone Muppets are super-gay after all.) But or otherwise) can precipitate arguments. Accept the opportunity to clear up prob- to Vamp they' do resonate with everyone's sense lems that have been simmering. Real love is a huge challenge. This is just a little of humor and, more importantly, the bumpy. You can handle it. Want more vampires in love? Of course human sense of wanting to belong to a you do. Your job as a member of con- big happy group. So the news that The SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Cleaning and organizing your sumer culture requires you to enjoy Greatest Muppet Movie of All Time home is necessary and will help prevent more accidents than it is likely to precipi- astonishing amounts of the thing that's is happening and that puppet-friendly tate. But do be careful! Also, discuss your domestic plans with roommates so as really popular right now. So that's what funny guy Jason Segal is not only the not to be at cross-purposes. you're going to get. Welcome, then, main-starring human being but also the CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Slips and falls are likely in sports. Vamps, the new film from Fast Times script's co-writer is more exciting than Not a great time for rollerblading or skydiving! Any sort of entertainment or play- at Ridgemont High and Clueless writ- the announcement of a project featuring ing with pals can also loosen your tongue. Focused thoughtfulness can sharpen er/director Amy Heckerling. It's sort of actual gayness. It just is. Set for 2012, it your brilliance, but awkward revelations are more likely. a young Sex and the City-meets-glam- can't arrive soon enough, Mayan calen- orous-neck-biting and will star Alicia dar be darned. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Domestic accounts can be a minefield. Silverstone and Krysten Ritter (She's Get those affairs in order. Money loaned to relatives is probably money you'll Out of My League) as two young la- Romeo San Vicente always identified 'never see again. The stars just promise a surprise there, probably a rude one, but dy-bloodsuckers in New York, both of with drumming Muppet "Anima1." He don't rule anything out. whom have to choose between immor- can be reached care of this publication or at DeeplnsideHollywood@ tality and love. It will co-star Sigourney PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your ability to keep secrets is now non-ex- qsyndicate.com. Weaver (it's really about time she got istent. Treat all gossip as odd trivia not worth response. Keep your mind and any to playa vampire, her lesbian icon sta- conversation focused on learning something new. Classes and lectures can keep tus was in jeopardy after that last Tim you out of trouble. Allen comedy) as the leader of a blood dynasty. Look, as long as it's a comedy www.markspringle.com Jack Fertig, a professional astrologer since 1977, is available for personal and and Alicia is allowed to shop some, it for another way to look at the business consultations in person in San Francisco; o! online everywhere. He can ""/ probably won't hurt a bit. stars and the world be reached at 415-864-8302, through his Web site at www.starjack.com, and by e-mail [email protected] Paae 10 April 9, 2010 THE MONTROSE GEM ISSUE#129 Tracy Gary for the TLC Fund Between Mom and Jo In honor of you, the true HEARTS of Texas, we are launching, a fund for LGBTQ Youth by Julie Anne Peters This book is a quick read, but Peters and Texas based non-profits serving lesbians of all ages. Finally,' there is a source for Texas deals well with her subject matter, lesbians that we can call our own. l Reviewed by Jone Devlin even managing to inject a fair amount We invite you to be a founding donor to this new source of money and hope for Texas Les- of humor and outright laugh out loud bians and LGBTQ Youth and to invite your friends to join you! Nick is a happy well-adjusted kid. funniness into a story that at its heart is truly sad. She also pulls no punch- The founding funder of this TLC Fund has a long history of serving Texas. For years this He has a dog, a cat, some fish, a best non-profit business with its hard working team put on events for our community in Houston, friend named Matthew, cool grand- es when it comes to discussing Erin Austin, San Antonio and Dallas. After 16 years of amazing service, in 2004; The Texas Les- parents, stupid cousins, and two and Jo's relationship. These women bian Conference decided it was time to close. Leaders of TLC came to Inspired Legacies, moms that he loves as much as they are not cookie-cutter; they have their asking how to)everage their remaining money and commitment to the LGBT community. love him. faults, their ups and downs, and their "We'd like to leave a legacy in honor of all who had given to The Texas Lesbian Confer- needs. They are also not perfect par- ences over many years, and to encourage more lesbians, queers, and our allies to give and Sure, times aren't always good, espe- ents by any means, though it is clear strengthen our community during their lifetimesand beyond." cially when the kids in school tease that they very much love Nick, even after they stop loving each other. As we are philanthropic advisors here in Texas and nationally, we listened to this desire for him by calling him nasty names, a source that would outlive their efforts and inspire more legacy gifts. Astraea Foundation making fun of his parents' (like the for Justice (http://www.astraeafoundation.org!)gives nationally and internationally and has babysitter who came over and spent Peripheral characters, meanwhile, given to several great groups in Texas over some thirty years, but our founders felt that we all night on her cell phone talking like Erin's new girlfriend Kerry, should locally do more as well as to support Astraea's groundbreaking work. about how she was actually in the Nick's homophobic third grade place "where they do it"), or his teacher, and Erin's parents, are also With $17,000 remaining from Texas Lesbian Conference, we have joined forces. We proud- fully fleshed out. In fact, it is Pe- ly announce the launch of a perpetual fund we hope will grow into hundreds of grants over teacher refuses to display his picture time. It's a source for annual donations and benefit donations, as well as bequests. of his family for parent's night. But ters's refusing to make anyone the overall, Nick is pretty well adjusted. "hero" or the "villain" of the story While the Fund grows, with input from one of Texas Lesbian Conference's former board that makes this book even more I members, we have decided to make the founding grant of$1500 to a bold new project that compelling. Add that to her head promises to connect the whole youth and LGBTQ community. This new Texas nonprofit, But then things start to change. Jo, on, full fledged acknowledgement I KidThrive, (http://www.KidThrive.org) will serve the state and the country through its on- 'a.heavy lift operator who is perpetu- line resources for youth. For now, the new project is being developed, and we will keep you ally unable to hold down a job, starts of Erin and Jo's relationship as well informed of its important progress. drinking heavily. Erin, meanwhile, is as Nick's own very typical teenage I diagnosed with breast cancer. There voice and you have a book that is as 1 Using the power of social media to empower local leaders - including Austin, Houston, entertaining as it is realistic. Dallas and San Antonio's youth expertise - thousands of city and more isolated rural is a lot of tension in the house, but LGBTQ youth will get much needed basic information, referrals and support. With youth then Erin goes into remission and Jo suicide rates for 9 to 14 year olds escalating at an alarming rate due to anti-gay bullying, we stops drinking. Nick is relieved at While "Between Mom and Jo" is want to be part of the solution to reduce harm and isolation as well as provide community first, believing that now that all their billed as a young adult book, it is I for our next generation. "problems" are solved, his mom and, more than interesting enough for The Texas Lesbian Conference has transformed their dollars to make change happen. We Jo will start acting "normal" again adults, and can offer some helpful seek your gifts at any level, made online or with this pledge form for the TLC Fund. Join us - going out dancing, taking baths hints to those of us with children in making other grants. If we can add more donations from you and others this year to the together (even though he's not sup- who find our relationships unrav- 'LCEund,,l-Ve would like to give two addjtjOnaL nts of 500 to G 0 ._ ,••lino:•. ",nil ",rpn't nll;tp ,,"rp h,..nXlto on, ruu nedgea acknowledgement mrnnve, {http://WWW.KlOlhnve.org) will serve the state and the country through its on- a heavy lift operator who is perpetu- line resources for youth. For now, the new project is being developed, and we will keep you ally unable to hold down a job, starts of Erin and Jo's relationship as well informed of its important progress. drinking heavily. Erin, meanwhile, is as Nick's own very typical teenage diagnosed with breast cancer. There voice and you have a book that is as Using the power of social media to empower local leaders - including Austin, Houston, entertaining as it is realistic. Dallas and San Antonio's youth expertise - thousands of city and more isolated rural is a lot of tension in the house, but LGBTQ youth will get much needed basic information, referrals and support. With youth then Erin goes into remission and Jo suicide rates for 9 to 14 year olds escalating at an alarming rate due to anti-gay bullying, we stops drinking. Nick is relieved at While "Between Mom and Jo" is want to be part of the solution to reduce harm and isolation as well as provide community first, believing that now that all their billed as a young adult book, it is for our next generation. "problems" are solved, his mom and more than interesting enough for adults, and can offer some helpful The Texas Lesbian Conference has transformed their dollars to make change happen. We Jo will start acting "normal" again seek your gifts at any level, made online or with this pledge form for the TLC Fund. Join us - going out dancing, taking baths hints to those of us with children in making other grants. If we can add more donations from you and others this year to the together (even though he's not sup- who find our relationships unrav- TLC Fund, we would like to give two additional grants of$1500 to PFLAGIHATCH Youth posed to know about that), and just eling and aren't quite sure how to Scholarship (http://physf.org) and to The Old Lesbian Oral Herstory Project (http://www. broach it with the kids. J olohp.org) capturing the stories of lesbians over 70, all over the state and country. being happy. 1 We invite you to become a founding donor of the TLC Fund. Your name will be forever in Between Mom and Jo by Julie Anne II Unfortunately, that isn't how it goes. q our donor list with your gift or-pledge made in 2010. Even if you prefer to be anonymous, Erin finishes law school and begins Peters is published by Little Brown you can use either initials or a name that you will know was your statement of care. ._;;. seeing a woman named Kerry. After and Company and is available wher- ever fine GLBT books are sold. You can make a tax deductible donation, to honor another beloved living lesbian or as a a lot offighting, Jo leaves and moves memorial gift for a Lesbian or nonprofit you'd like us to know about? Your gift will activate into a ratty apartment that Erin isn't II hope and more confidence for Texas lesbians and LGBTQ youth. Just click on our website comfortable letting Nick visit. for a pledge- form or to make a donation online. )!

I'm leaving part of my estate to this new Fund as well as making a Valentine's Day gift and And then there's the problem ofKer- hope you will join us. Let's grow this new TLC Fund to be here for generations of lesbians ry, who Nick blames for his parents and our allies. breakup. Eventually she moves into 1 TLC's New Website: www.inspiredlegacies.orgITLC the space J0 formerly occupied, and Email: [email protected] Nick begins to act out, lashing out violently first at Kerry, 'then at his PS: While will not be accepting unsolicited proposals until the TLC Fund builds to one ~ mom, and finally, at himself. million dollar level or more, we welcome hearing about and will list projects that are sent i through our resource form for Texas based lesbian-serving, or projects serving Texas LG- B.c:1"WL.€N - /'10"" <>Nt!;[o BTQ youth. We likely can't answer every question to inquiries due to our tiny staff. How- Just as In "real life," there is no truly -\ ever, we will answer frequently asked questions on the website as well as send updates to happy ending for Nick's situation, 1 all donors at least twice annually. There is a form on the site for your suggested groups. but he is eventually able to come to peace with his Mom's decision -to SUPPORT YOUR COMMUNITY NEWSPAPER leave Jo for Kerry. He is even able ADVERTISE IN THE MONTROSE GEM to accept Kerry as a new member of A COST EFFECTIVE WAYTO GET YOUR BUSINESS OR SERVICE the family, and forgive his Mom and NOTICED BY PEOPLE WHO COUNT ON THE GEM FOR Rating:· • • • • of 5 stars UPDATED NEWS ON ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT, HEALTH, Jo (and himself) for not being the POLITICS, BUSINESS, VIEWPOINTS & MORE! CALL TODAY people he wants them to be. 713.523.2828 Page 11