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BY JASON A. MICHAEL AND TIM RETZLOFF

Longtime community activist, Triangle Foundation co-founder and Lifetime Achievement Award winner Dr. Henry D. Messer died at 5 a.m. Feb. 18 following a battle with cancer. He was 86. Born in Madison, Fla. In 1927, Messer was the only child of Henry and Sarah Messer. His father owned a Chevrolet dealership, his mother was a homemaker. He moved to Durham, N.C. to study premed at Duke University and went onto the Duke University School of Medicine. During the Korean conflict, Messer entered the Air Force as a first U.S. Senator Debbie Stabenow (D-MI) with Henry Messer and Pres. Obama at the White House. lieutenant and began his specialization Photo courtesy of Henry Messer in neurosurgery under orders from his of the earliest advocacy groups in the knew each other,” Messer recalled in a commanding officer at Maxwell Air contemporary gay rights movement. 2009 oral history interview. “We were Force Base in Montgomery, Ala., where Among his accomplishments there, he the new faces in town. And so we started he was stationed throughout the war. helped craft the New York City human to know people and became part of the It was there that he met his partner rights ordinance. organization.” of 62 years, Carl House. The two met In 1974 Messer authored a chapter While working with ASP, Messer after a night out with a group of gay entitled “The Homosexual as Physician” suggested having attendees sign in. These servicemen. But shortly thereafter, an for Human Sexuality: A Health early sign-in sheets formed the basis of officer with whom Messer had been Practitioner’s Text, the first account of a database that grew to 60,000 names involved turned him in for being gay. gay doctors to be included in a medical and addresses, which Messer cultivated Air Force investigators went through textbook. over the years as he became involved in Messer’s phonebook and the film on Two years later he listed the chapter the Michigan Organization for Human his camera searching for evidence. on his curriculum vitae when he applied Rights, the Triangle Foundation, and They even went so far as to travel to join the staff of Wayne County Equality Michigan. to his hometown in Florida asking General Hospital in Westland, Mich., Messer became a key public face acquaintances there whether he had then a teaching site for the University for ASP. He appeared with Rogalski shown signs of being gay growing up. of Michigan Medical School, so he was on the WDET radio program “Gayly Messer resigned his commission after a hired as an out gay man, perhaps one of Speaking” in 1977, helped organize the three-month investigation. the first in his profession. first Developing a Positive Gay-Lesbian In 1953, Messer and House moved When he and House arrived in Identity conference in 1980, and was to New York, where Messer completed Michigan, they learned about a new profiled in Metra magazine in 1982. his residency in neurosurgery at St. group called the Association of Suburban He felt it was important to use his Vincent’s Hospital. The couple bought People, which became their entree into status as a doctor and faculty member to a home in Greenwich Village and also gay life in metropolitan Detroit. be as out as possible to advance the gay several rental properties. They would “The president at that time was a tall, cause. “I’m very secure in my position,” live there for 14 years. good-looking hunk named Wes Rogalski he told Metra. “As a result, I’m about as Messer began his gay rights activism and he kind of took us under his wing open as one can be. I speak freely about early. He was a member of the and showed us around and introduced my lifestyle and I know that many gay Mattachine Society of New York, one us around, because most of the people people have a problem being open and speaking about gay issues with public officials. I don’t.” As a board member for ASP and I think that it is important when we look around and later for MOHR, Messer became a strong proponent of lobbying politicians see all the victories that we are having in our movement directly and holding them accountable to “ their LGBT constituents, which in the now and just remember the incredible, heroic contributions late 1970s and early 1980s was often and sacrifices of early leaders like Henry, tough going. “It was very hard to get support in those days,” Messer recalled See Messer, page 15 - Sean Kosofsky said. 4 BTL Feb. 20, 2014 ” www.PrideSource.com | Affirmations Community Center BRIEFS Rice Calls Ugandan Receives $800,000 Bequest President, Alaska Largest General Fund Gift In Center’s 25-Year History Warms To Marriage ... BY JAN STEVENSON financial stability should make it a much or other charities. more attractive job. Whoever comes in “Margo and I have a trust and have KEEN NEWS SERVICE FERNDALE - Affirmations has won’t have to hit the ground running to made accommodations for charities we White received a bequest of almost $800,000 raise money for the immediate operating care about. They might change as time RICE CALLS UGANDAN PRESIDENT: House National Security Advisor Susan Rice posted from an anonymous donor who passed budget,” said Katz. goes on, but the principle is the same – to several messages on Twitter Monday, saying that she spoke away in late 2013, BTL has learned. Affirmations was first notified of leave money after we’re gone to charity. “at length” with Ugandan President Yoweri Museveni This is the largest unrestricted gift to this anonymous bequest in November It’s a big part of our estate planning “to urge him not to sign” the anti-LGBT bill passed by the LGBT community center’s general 2013 by the trustee. Fitzgerald said we’ve done," said Katz. the nation’s parliament in December. She said she told operations in its 25-year history. the board decided to delay the formal "Affirmations has received other Museveni that the bill is a “huge step backward” for In January, the center received the announcement so they could fully review bequests, although none this large, and Uganda and the world and that it will “put many at risk first installment for $226,094.57 from all the documents. “We absolutely want a couple of times they have come from and stain Uganda’s reputation.” the trustee. The remaining $571,464.35 to make sure we are being responsible people that none of us on the board even will be disbursed to the center as assets with that kind of a gift, so we wanted to knew. It came out of the blue. It speaks to A Public Policy in the trust are liquidated. The value of take the time to fully review everything how deeply Affirmations touches people, ALASKA WARMS TO MARRIAGE: Polling survey this month showed a nine-point increase the gift was recognized as 2013 income before announcing it, ” Fitzgerald said. even if we don’t always realize it at the in the number of people who support allowing same-sex on Affirmations financial statement and “The board is completing its due time," said Katz. couples to marry. The survey of 850 registered voters totaled $797,558.92. diligence and has engaged legal advice “I think right now that Affirmations is between January 30 and February 1 (margin of error plus or Sources have told BTL that the first to evaluate any risk of contest of the stable enough in terms of its leadership, minus 4.7 percent) found 44 percent support allowing gay installment could be used to pay the couples to marry, 27 percent support civil unions but not remaining balance due on the building’s marriage, 26 percent said there should be no recognition mortgage, which was $119,228.02 at the of gay relationships, and three percent were unsure. By end of 2013. That would leave the center comparison, only 39 percent had a favorable opinion of mortgage free. former Governor Sarah Palin. “I think it is exciting and great that we are fortunate enough for someone to The Colorado House leave us such a substantial gift,” said Jon TAXING COMPLICATIONS on Monday gave final clearance to a bill that will allow Fitzgerald, interim executive director of same-sex couples who have marriage licenses from other the center. “It will allow us to focus on states and civil union registration with Colorado to file a strategic objectives, and of course for us joint state tax return. The state senate passed the measure to begin thinking of the organization’s in January over objections of Republicans who said it long term sustainability.” violates the state ban on recognition of marriages for “That’s fantastic!” said former board same-sex couples. president Nancy Katz upon hearing of the gift from BTL’s reporter. “That kind The number of of infusion can make all the difference IDAHO PROTEST GROWS demonstrators urging the Idaho legislature to add sexual for a small non-profit like Affirmations. orientation and gender identity to the state’s human rights Just think what they can do with that Affirmations Community Center gets ready to open in its new location in 2007 law grew dramatically Monday. From 40 who were money; they can expand programs, get arrested February 3, to 65 who were turned away from the more staff, pay off any debts and still trust or will,” said Affirmations Board outreach and operations to make the capitol last Thursday, the number jumped to 200 yesterday. have money they can put aside into an President Mark Blanke via email. “For optimal use of this money. It comes They are also protesting against a bill, which advanced out endowment.” me intent is extremely vital to having at a time when the center is moving of committee earlier this month that would give people a Katz was the co-chair of a $5.3 the trust of the community for future in new and very positive directions,” right to deny services to persons by claiming to have a million capital campaign that funded donations and we are being prudent in said Charles Alexander, an early board religious belief that prevents them from doing so. construction of the new center, completed making sure any intent is fully honored member and volunteer curator of the in 2007. That special campaign received if the donor had intent. Pittman Puckett Gallery. It’s probably several large donations from individuals, “Of course any large gift to an This is the second large bequest to BALDWIN AMONG TOP LIBERALS not a big surprise: The U.S. Senate’s only openly gay including a $1 million gift from Allan organization as small as Affirmations Affirmations within the last few years. member made the National Journal’s list of “The 15 Most Gilmour and Eric Jirgens, and Katz and can have significant impact and provide When Lester London died in 2011 he left Liberal Senators.” The list, released earlier this month, her partner Margo Dichtelmiller donated significant opportunity for programming a $250,000 gift to the center. shows Senator Tammy Baldwin (D-Wisc.) tied for fifth over $500,000. and continued execution of the strategic "We had talked at Affirmations about place –but because three senators were tied for first and Katz now serves on the center’s plan,” said Blanke. getting a planned giving program going, seven were tied for seventh, it’s a crowded field. executive director search committee. Katz put the gift in context for and it always seemed to get pushed back Dave Garcia, the former executive planned giving as an important tool for under the pressure to raise money right director, left at the end of January to community organizations. away for the operating budget. Maybe take a position at the Los Angeles LGBT "I think we will be seeing more gifts now that some of the pressure is relieved Community Center. like this as our community ages out. We with this gift the board will be able Find Our Daily Speed Read Online Every Weekday Morning “I’m on the search committee for generally don’t have family and children to take a step back and put together a >> www.PrideSource.com a new executive director, and this is to leave money to, so it only makes sense planned giving program that can secure exciting because the organization’s we would leave it to LGBT organizations Affirmations’ future," said Katz. www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 5 BRIEFS Equality Supporting County Clerks DETROIT Event Reminder: LGBT Activist From Uganda Makes Special Detroit Appearance Feb. 20 Among Catalyst Award Winners Uganda treats LGBT people like second BY CRYSTAL PROXMIRE ordinance. As an Oshtemo Township class citizens. But how deep is the EVENT INFO Trustee she took the initiative to not systemic violence in Ugandan society? DETROIT- Equality Michigan will Equality Michigan Dinner only introduce the ordinance, but see it How cruel is its media in the portrayal honor several people for their work through to a successful outcome. After of sexual minorities? How little does The dinner event includes a reception, silent advancing human rights at the Equality auction, remarks by community leaders, being elected in November 2012, she the government care to protect its LGBT Michigan Dinner Feb. 22 at Motor City and the presentation of this year’s Catalyst immediately showed her public support citizens? And why should people in Casino. The dinner has been moved up to Awards recognizing excellence in LGBT and for LGBT equality and began discussing America care what happens half way spring due to feedback and demand, says HIV advocacy. Tickets and more information the ordinance at her first meeting. around the world? are available online at equalitymi.org/ Executive Director Emily Dievendorf, KICK The Agency for LGBT African Frank Mugisha On Feb. 20 at 6:30 p.m. a unique dinner} or by calling 313-537-7000. opportunity comes to Detroit, where and is being held at Motor City Casino >> www.equalitymi.org Americans will receive this year’s people can learn about the plight of their for the first time. Heather MacAllister Catalyst Award LGBT brothers and sisters in Uganda. Freedom House will host a free Among those being honored will be for long-term commitment to equality screening of the movie “Call Me Kuchu” followed by a discussion panel two county clerks who have gone above and promoting intersectional work by that includes Frank Mugisha, executive director of Sexual Minorities and beyond the call of duty in working The Award Goes To... serving Detroit’s African American Uganda. The event takes place at the Charles H. Wright Museum of to recognize same-sex marriage. Lisa Badlands Strategy will receive the first- LGBT communities since 1994. Led African American History. There will also be a special VIP Reception from Brown of Oakland County and Barb ever Catalyst Partner in Progress Award by their founder and executive director, 5-6 p.m. for $25 that benefits Freedom House. A panel discussion will Byrum of Ingham County Clerk stand for engaging in behind-the-scenes work Curtis Lipscomb, this year alone KICK follow the film screening. The panel discussion hopes to bring to light ready to issue marriages licenses to that too often gets overlooked. Badlands led a successful “LGBT In The ‘D’” ad several perspectives in the battle for equality in Uganda. same sex couples if there is a window has played a major role in organizing campaign, LEAD Academies developing To learn more about the event, go to www.freedomhousedetroit.org/ of opportunity following the DeBoer the Unity Michigan Coalition since its local leaders, and educated Detroit voters index.php/news/upcoming-events/frank-mugisha v. Snyder case. Brown is listed as a inception, and recently performed many with candidate forums and community defendant in the case, where two Hazel essential tasks for the One Royal Oak panels. The organization has played a INDIANAPOLIS Park women are suing the county and the campaign. vital role in LGBT outreach, service, Senate Prepares For Vote On Marriage Ban state for the right to jointly adopt their Megan Bauer will receive the and advocacy in Detroit, and will be a children and to marry. Brown brought major player in the upcoming marriage (AP) - State senators are scheduled to take a final vote on a proposed Henry D. Messer Youth Activist in independent council to represent the equality campaign. constitutional amendment banning gay marriage after approving a Award for emerging as a powerful Clerk’s Office so that she could argue on Hank Milbourne is receiving the first- version last week which would put off a public referendum until at force in Michigan’s LGBT equality least 2016. behalf of the couple. movement. As the Kalamazoo Gay and ever HIV Advocacy Catalyst Award for Republican Sen. Mike Delph of Carmel announced Monday he would “Equality Michigan is thrilled that Lesbian Resource Center’s community his years of service to people living with make a last-ditch attempt to place the measure back on track for a Michigan’s elected officials continue to engagement coordinator since late HIV in Michigan. Currently the chief vote this November. However, he acknowledged he faced long odds. come out in support of equality,” said 2012, she has had an impact not only program officer at AIDS Partnership Indiana senators advanced the proposed ban without a provision Dievendorf. “Not only do we need their in the Kalamazoo area, but all across Michigan, he has fought stigma, that would ban civil unions. Under the state’s constitutional amendment support to achieve victories, but their Michigan. Beginning with KGLRC’s I discrimination, racism and homophobia process, the civil unions ban must be included in the amendment for it support sends a powerful message to Commit Campaign, she has continued quietly through his own example since to be placed on this November’s ballot. Michigan’s LGBT communities that to foster civic engagement and grow the 1990. Hank was instrumental in the The Senate’s decision last week marked a victory for opponents they are both welcome in Michigan and LGBT equality movement. Last fall spent creation of the REC Boyz program to of the marriage ban, just three years ago legislators approved the important to the people we have elected weeks away from home helping make empower and support young gay men amendment with broad support. to represent us.” the One Royal Oak campaign a success. of color, and he served for eight years TOPEKA, KAN. Brown and Byrum will be presented A Kalamazoo College graduate, she has as the president of Detroit’s Black Pride with Catalyst Awards. Other winners worked with Habitat for Humanity as an Society. Senate President Doubts include individuals and organizations AmeriCorps volunteer and with Queers “Equality Michigan is proud to be Anti-Gay Marriage Bill Will Pass from across Michigan that have positively for Economic Justice in New York. honoring some of the people whose work impacted and promoted the mission of Dusty Farmer will receive a Catalyst this past year had such an amazingly (AP) - The president of the Kansas Senate says her chamber is Equality Michigan. Award for playing a pivotal role in the positive impact on our efforts to bring unlikely to pass a bill that would prevent lawsuits against someone recent passage of Oshtemo Township’s full equality to all Michiganders,” said who refuses, for religious reasons, to provide services to gay and LGBT inclusive non-discrimination Dievendorf. lesbians. The bill passed the House on Wednesday, drawing strong reaction from across the country. It would prohibit government sanctions or lawsuits over faith-based refusals to recognize same-sex unions Michigan Marriage Trial Information Financial Support or to provide goods, services, accommodations or employment benefits to couples. The trial scheduled to begin 9 a.m. Feb. 25 at the The trial is expected to cost between $555,000 Senate President Susan Wagle issued a statement Thursday Trial Begins Feb. 25 night saying a majority of Republicans in the chamber don’t support United States District Court, Eastern District Of - $767,000. You can support this effort by visiting the bill. She says most Republican senators support traditional Michigan Southern Division, Theodore Levin U.S. www.MichiganMarriageChallenge.com. marriage and protecting religious freedom, but they also don’t Courthouse condone discrimination. Most Democrats in the Senate have already said they oppose 231 W. Lafayette Blvd., Detroit, MI 48226 the bill. Case: Deboer v. Snyder Extended briefs are available online at: Presiding Judge: Judge Bernard A. Friedman, >> www.PrideSource.com Case Number: 12-CV-10285

6 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com Executive Director Zach Bauer Announces Departure From KGLRC

BY CRYSTAL PROXMIRE

Kalamazoo Gay and Lesbian Resource Center Executive Director Zach Bauer is passing the torch after three years of managing the community center. Bauer has accepted a position on the Community Investment team of the Kalamazoo Community Foundation, where he will be able to help multiple organizations thrive in the area. “Serving as the KGLRC Executive Director has been a blast, I’ve got to serve with some of the most outstanding individuals - staff, board and volunteers - the work we’ve done together has made the organization stronger. Now, it is time for me to move on to my next adventure,” Bauer said on his Facebook page. Bauer will officially depart from KGLRC on March 6. KGLRC experienced tremendous growth with Bauer at the helm. His work with Kalamazoo Pride and the Winter Gala fundraiser brought interest and investment to the center, as he also helped expand programming and doubled the size of the staff. KGLRC Board President Carol Anderson said “I would like to thank Zach wholeheartedly for all that he has done for the KGLRC - and for Kalamazoo. He has brought the [KGLRC] to where we are today, which is a vibrant and exciting place to be.” Bauer fell in love with Kalamazoo over a dozen years ago when he came to study political science and economics at Western Michigan University. While there he tasted activism, working with the school’s LGBT club, OUTspoken. His passion for politics and activism grew as he worked on a campaign to elect Mayor Bobby Hopewell, who became a friend and mentor. Though his job with a large bank took him back and forth between Michigan and Pennsylvania, Bauer remained active as a volunteer in political campaigns, and providing his expertise for the 2011 pride festival. When the previous executive director, Dave Garcia, left to work with Affirmations Community Center in Ferndale, Bauer was a natural successor to step in. Programming at KGLRC includes outreach to youth, Please patronize our advertisers transgender community members and those working to build and let them know you bridges with communities of faith. The center also offers various support groups and healthy activities like yoga and appreciate their support for the a running/walking group. Politically, Bauer helped KGLRC LGBT community! join forces with the Community Center Network for statewide cooperation on initiatives. He’s reached out to local businesses for fundraising and awareness partnerships, like working with Bell’s Brewery to create a diversity-themed logo for t-shirts to raise money during Pride. His staff and KGLRC volunteers have worked with Unity Michigan to get human rights ordinances passed in the area. “The board of directors, together with the KGLRC staff, will implement a smooth transition that will ensure the organization’s operations and vital programming continue to be delivered at the same quality the community has come to expect from the KGLRC,” reads the KGLRC press release about Bauer’s departure. “It is my firm belief that the brightest days lie ahead for the Kalamazoo Gay Lesbian Resource Center.” Bauer said.

For more information about KGLRC, go to http://www.KGLRC.org www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 7 Charles Pugh: An In-Depth Look At The Rise And Fall Of A Local LGBT Hero

A Meteoric Career Dashed By Scandal Involving 18 Year Old

He was openly gay, yet he managed to secure The following January, Pugh, facing an endorsement from the Council of Baptist foreclosure for a third time, announced he was Pastors. He lost endorsements from both the walking away from his condo. And in March Detroit News and the Detroit Free Press late of the same year, Pugh made perhaps his most in the game, however, when it was revealed controversial move. In the midst of the city’s that his Brush Park condominium was in financial crisis, Pugh released a workout video foreclosure. Then City Council President on YouTube showing him shirtless and with Ken Cockrel called on Detroiters not to vote six-pack abs. The video left many to wonder for him. why Pugh was more concerned with his body But they didn’t listen. Instead they voted for than Detroit’s business. him in huge numbers, giving him an 8,000 vote On LGBT issues, Pugh did manage to rack lead over his closer competitor. The fact that up some points. He employed a largely gay Detroit elected an openly-gay man as president and lesbian staff, he started the Detroit Safe Detroit City Council President-elect on election night 2009. BTL file photo: Andrew Potter of the city council made national news. He Schools initiative, which provided training received a feature in Time magazine. The New to public schools on LGBT concerns, he York Times followed him around on the day appointed openly gay attorney Alicia Skillman BY JASON A. MICHAEL In 2004, Pugh publicly came out in an he was sworn in. to the Detroit Ethics Board, he participated interview with BTL before hosting a Detroit Leading the council would prove a bigger in the Hunger 4 Equality hunger strike, he His beginnings were humble, if not town hall meeting on homophobia. challenge than being elected to it though. worked toward creating an LGBT business downright horrific. His mother was murdered “I’ve worked hard to make myself a role Detroit, still reeling from political scandals district within the city limits, and he traveled when he was only three. At seven, his father model for young men in this city, and young involving Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick and City with an elite group of gay leaders to meet shot and killed himself in the bedroom across people in general,” Pugh said at the time. “A Councilwoman Monica Conyers, was now President Barack Obama at a White House the hall from his, leaving little Charles to lot of people do look at me as a role model teetering on the brink of financial collapse. LGBT Pride Month reception. call 911. since I’m a Detroit Public Schools graduate, Though Pugh promised a new era of civility “The two things that he led that I participated He was raised by his grandmother and someone who’s a college graduate, someone on the council, relations between the council with, the Detroit Safe Schools initiative and excelled at academics. He graduated with who has been able to secure a solid, forward- and Mayor Dave Bing were contentious. The the LGBT district meetings, I know that those honors from Murray Wright High School and moving career, and also someone who has a two sides argued over severe budgets cuts are projects that he lent his energy to on non- received a scholarship to the University of pretty stable private life.” and deciding how to best keep Detroit out of work time,” said Curtis Lipscomb, executive Missouri. He studied broadcast journalism and bankruptcy. In the end, they couldn’t. director of KICK. “So that work would have worked in three smaller markets – in Kansas, Pugh’s tenure on the council proved to be had significant impact had we been able to Indiana and Virginia – before landing a job Call To Public Service controversial as his personal problems often move past the steps that we engaged in.” with Fox 2-Detroit, not only his hometown Surprising many, Pugh gave up his “solid, overshadowed any principled leadership he Though at one time polls showed him but a major market. forward-moving career” – it’s been reported tried to provide. In February 2010, Pugh among the top three contenders in the 2013 He quickly became a popular on-air he earned an estimated $240,000 a year with crashed his city-owned car on a Friday night mayoral election, Pugh, who had previously personality. He advanced in time to the anchor Fox 2 – and signed off from WJLB to run for and didn’t call the cops to report it. Instead, expressed an interest in both the mayor’s office desk, co-hosting the weekend morning show. a seat on the Detroit City Council in 2009. he drove the vehicle, which had two flat tires, and a seat in Congress, declared last February But Pugh always wanted to do more, be more, “Detroit is frustrated and embarrassed,” home and waited three days to notify police. In that he was leaving politics and returning to give more. So in addition to his full-time he said in announcing his candidacy in an January 2011, Pugh was forced to close down journalism. job with Fox, he took on the news director interview with BTL. “We need people who his Pugh & You: Detroit Move Forward fund “I think the move from being a commentator spot at radio station WJLB, offering up the are going to make us proud and, at least, that after media outlets compared it to Kilpatrick’s and an analyst of governmental policy and morning news weekdays from 6-10 a.m. and we respect for the job that they do.” highly controversial Civic Fund, proven by process represents a very important skill even hosting a Sunday evening talk show on His campaign was not without struggle. federal prosecutors to be nothing more than set, but it doesn’t immediately translate into the station. a slush fund. being a frontline policymaker,” former city

8 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com told him. “I’m serious as f***.” wanted to go that far. His mom had gotten hip “You guys need to know how to WORK the to the financial help Pugh has been providing X One of Pugh’s signature accomplishments, literally, was the Charles guys with power and money who have crushes and sensed something was amiss. She not only on y’all,” Pugh told X. “You got the HOOKUP, became angered, but according to messages X Pugh Leadership Forum, a mentoring program he founded at his bro. You just don’t know how to work it. You sent to a friend, she became hysterical. could get anything you want from me.” “My momma’s having nervous breakdown alma mater, which had since been renamed the Frederick Douglass It wasn’t until the following night though, and shit, and it’s crazy,” X said. “She’s cryin’ Academy for Young Men. There, Pugh and members of his staff June 3, that X texted Pugh and told him to pick and yellin’ and screamin’ and shit, actin’ up the video. Pugh rushed over, picked up the retarded.” met regularly with students to prepare them for college, help them video, which was on an iPod, and was texting By the next day, X tells Pugh that their X again within hours. Pugh was exuberant, relationship has come to an end. secure jobs and conduct themselves as young professionals. saying it was the best video anyone had ever “Everything between us has to stop,” he made for him and that he achieved orgasm four said. “My mom knows what is up and is going times while watching it. Then Pugh pushed to report you. Don’t text back.” the envelope, again promising a video game “Tell your mom to call me,” Pugh responded. councilwoman and current Wayne State which follows: system and games in exchange for X allowing “We can work something out. This is crazy. I University professor Sheila Cockrel told the “Can I trust you?” Pugh asked X later that him to perform oral sex on him. just wanted to help you.” Free Press. “I think he was sincere in his wish night after purchasing the phone for X. “I guarantee it’s the BEST head you’ll ever X then advised Pugh on how to appease to do great things for Detroit.” “Trust me to what?” have,” Pugh promised. “Part of the reason is his mother. One of Pugh’s signature accomplishments, “Keep our friendship our business.” because the other head had no money or gifts “You have to act like you have never been literally, was the Charles Pugh Leadership “LOL. Sure!” attached to it. The MAIN reason is because to our house and you can’t mention that iPod,” Forum, a mentoring program he founded at “If I can trust you, then the sky is the limit my head game is SICK!!” he said. “Call her now and talk to her.” his alma mater, which had since been renamed for you, sir. You can have whatever you need Pugh also admitted to having liked X for But Pugh could not. He was texting while the Frederick Douglass Academy for Young or want. Just ask. And most times you won’t some time. sitting at the council table. Instead he pledged Men. There, Pugh and members of his staff have to.” “Truth is, I had a crush on you all year,” he to call her in 20 minutes.” met regularly with students to prepare them Pugh continued his back and forth with for college, help them secure jobs and conduct X, asked about what video game systems he themselves as young professionals. liked and what he could purchase to entice “The purpose of the program is to emphasize X into coming over to his “crib.” But before leadership among young men, particularly long, Pugh escalated things. He told X about young men from the inner city of Detroit,” what he called his “straight friend special.” It Pugh staffer DeAndree Watson told the was an offer of $100 for solo videos featuring I’ve worked hard to make myself a role model for young Free Press, going on to say that the program masturbation. was “not only about preparing for college, “I’m very generous to my straight friends I men in this city, and young people in general. A lot of people discussing academic excellence or professional can trust,” Pugh said. “Those with big mouths “ etiquette. It’s also important to have frank and miss out.” do look at me as a role model since I’m a Detroit Public Schools open dialogue about issues that are facing them “So if I f*** a girl and record it, then let you graduate, someone who’s a college graduate, someone who growing up in the community.” see it I can get $100?” In looking into the program, it’s clear it “Is this just between us, bro? I can’t have has been able to secure a solid, forward-moving career, and did a lot of good. Former Frederick Douglass you showin’ people our texts or tellin’ folks, also someone who has a pretty stable private life. student Tevin Hill, who is now a sophomore bro. This is some grown man shit. LOL.” at Bowling Green University in Ohio, said “LOL. Yes. This is between us.” Pugh and his staff continued to help him even X initially voiced no surprise over the after he graduated. Having a difficult first year request, but Pugh continued to show his - A 2004 BTL Interview when” Charles Pugh came out at college, Pugh and other mentors actually concern for privacy. tutored Hill via Skype. And Pugh personally “Dude, if anyone finds out about this I’m sent Hill $100 to help pay for books. dead,” Pugh sent. “So please keep this between “My own flesh and blood was telling me us. My straight friends who do it see it as I was going to fail,” Hill told the Free Press. a major convenience. It can help you have “They (Pugh and staff) lifted me up and made EXTRA money all the time.” said. “I just couldn’t say or do anything about X’s mother didn’t care to talk to Pugh sure I got through my freshman year.” X made no promises, but the next day, June it until [you finished school]. I think you kinda though. Deciding she was more interested 1, he initiated contact with Pugh, telling him he knew though.” in speaking to the press, she called Channel needed $160 for a hotel room for after prom. “Yes, I did.” 7. Pugh actually telephoned while the news Lapse In Judgment Pugh again encouraged X to make an X-rated X went on to state that he believed he was station was there, and X’s mother let the On May 31, Pugh made a controversial video for him and gave him instructions on already entitled to the video game system he reporter listen into the call and tape it. move that many feel was highly unethical. He how to do so, such as taking a shade off a lamp wanted. In the days that followed, Pugh attempted to threw an end-of-year pizza party on the last and placing it in front of him and encouraging “My vid was worth the game,” he told Pugh. lay low. But that didn’t last for long. He was, of day of classes. Later that day, Pugh decided X to make noise when he was about to orgasm. “LOL, Dude, I spent $310 on clothes and course, approached by Channel 7 and asked to to help one of his mentees – an 18-year-old Despite the instructions, X did not shoes and belt, plus $150 for that phone then comment. Instead, he reached out once again we’ll call “X” for the purposes of protecting immediately make the video. But he contacted $160. So, bro, that video paid for more than to X’s mother, texting her on June 17. his identity – prepare for a job interview. Pugh Pugh the following day, June 2, again asking $600 worth of sh**!!!” “Can you please help me?” he asked. took X to Madison Heights to pick out some for help. Once again, Pugh pressed X to allow him “Channel 7 says they’re using your interview new dress clothes and purchase him a cell “I need games and money,” he said in his to perform oral sex on him in exchange for to try and destroy me. (And drag the city phone. This is the point at which many say opening text. the game. through another scandal.) It’s so sad. Please Pugh crossed the line. “I got you,” Pugh told him, encouraging him “You’re gonna enjoy THE F*** out of help me if you can.” In December, Madison Heights police yet again to make the video. “Just quit being earning the gaming system and games!!” he Getting no response, he texted her again the released the full text message exchanges so damn scared.” said. “You’ll see.” between X and Pugh to the press, a portion of “I’m making the vid when I get home,” X But X never got the chance to decide if he See Pugh, page 14 www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 9 Viewpoint In Memoriam to Dr. Henry Messer

BY EMILY DIEVENDORF Sept. 22, 1927- February 18, 2014

alking into the home of Henry Michigan, Henry was going to use it. Messer and Carl House is stepping Henry’s life was a play by play of the gay rights movement from In a 1995 New York Times article, Henry is Winto a densely packed nautical the darkest closets to the modern day. .. Henry was a part of quoted as saying, “As gays, we don’t expect museum. The small to have any biological children,” Dr. Messer and modest 1950s ranch house is riddled the birth of the modern LGBT advocacy movement in the United said. “But these younger gays coming along - beautifully with model ships in glass cases and States. During that time, there were even greater professional especially those in medicine - in a way, they’re on shelves, photos of ships, and vintage World my children. I want to make the future better War II military propaganda posters framed on and personal consequences for being a known LGBT advocate, for them than it was for me.” At Equality the walls. It was my first trip to the house when Michigan, and at Triangle before, we have I came to visit Henry and say our goodbyes. and Dr. Messer was one of the few who bravely signed his own always felt this from Henry. The day of my Dr. Henry Messer, one of the founders of full name while checking in at Mattachine Society meetings. visit I promised Henry that we, the equality Equality Michigan, had always come to us activists of the now, would take good care of at the Detroit office. He would occasionally things for him. He said, “I know you will.” his country, having supported his love in his being planned for the marriage movement in email the current organization director and ask That is a promise we must keep to Henry continued service, their home being a homage Michigan, giving him a preview of the next when he could drop by for lunch with the staff. and to all those who fought openly and for so to the honor and respect they both felt and week as requested. When I paused in my He used to arrive to the office and cook lunch long before us. Henry Messer did as he set yet Henry did not claim his place as a veteran update and talked about marriage as a real for the staff but as he got up in age he would out to do and in doing so left us with a battle because our country had not claimed Henry. possibility, soon Carl remarked to me, “Maybe be forced to bring food to heat for us. Still, he we can win for the right side of history so that Henry’s life was a play by play of the gay Henry would have finally asked ME.” I asked would insist it was his treat and Henry would our children can only love and not fight to. rights movement from the darkest closets to how long they had been together and Henry’s always bring more food than anybody could Henry and Carl pressed on without the benefit the modern day. While living in New York City friend Joy answered with “62 years.” Upon eat and we would joke that it would surely be of a many swift victories to fuel them. Henry after the military, Henry was a part of the birth which point Henry released my hand to hold “meat, meat, and more meat” which our half- and Carl could press on under the weight of of the modern LGBT advocacy movement up three fingers to correct us all. I asked if vegetarian staff would find a way to appreciate anti-LGBT oppression, laughing and traveling in the United States. During that time, there they had ever talked about marriage and Carl because you didn’t say no to a person who had and telling jokes that could make the youngest were even greater professional and personal shook his head no. done so much and who just wanted to check and wittiest among us blush, because their consequences for being a known LGBT Perhaps Carl didn’t know, but maybe he in on the people he considered family and the fuel for change and life was each other. We advocate, and Dr. Messer was one of the few did, that in the days leading up to the last place he claimed as a second home. should all be so lucky. Our movement is built who bravely signed his own full name while DeBoer v. Snyder hearing, Henry reached out When I sit down next to Henry at his on the shoulders of giants. Our movement has checking in at Mattachine Society meetings. to Equality Michigan indicating that he would home he is far more alert than I expect and now lost one of our quiet giants, and Equality One evening while going out for dinner, Henry like us to help make arrangements for him interested to hear about the goings on at Michigan has lost a friend. To have known and Carl walked out of the New York subway and Carl to marry in their homes should the Equality Michigan and I’m just honored that Henry Messer - you should all have been so into the early hours of the Stonewall Riots. court allow it. Not being a religious man, we I am allowed any of his minutes at this time, very lucky and we all will remain so very When Henry and Carl moved to Michigan were discussing ways to utilize clerks or other in this limited time. He has been in hospice moved and inspired. in 1976, so that Henry could become chief friends he had in government to officiate the care at home for two weeks and has not eaten of neurosurgery at Wayne County General wedding at his home and perhaps use proxies for a week. I push to talk about anything but Hospital, Henry became a figure in the to fill the paperwork in person. If we could Emily Dievendorf is the Executive Director of the equality struggle. Tell me about the ships, Michigan LGBT communities. Having become find 15 minutes to marry Henry and Carl in Equality Michigan. the beautiful ships in your gorgeous house, I a leader in the Michigan Organization for plead. He points to his long time partner Carl Human Rights (MOHR), Henry played a as somebody else in the room announces that major role in the organization’s transition the ships are all Carl’s. “Really,” I inquire, into Triangle Foundation, the organization “Are you both veterans?” we today call Equality Michigan. We joke Henry isn’t talking much at this point in his sometimes that a loyal or over-zealous fan letting go. He chooses his words carefully. He would take a bullet for a cause or person uses them sparingly. They all matter. “Not but that is exactly what Henry Messer did in really.” He answers shaking his head just 1995 when a robber entered the LGBT rights slightly and somebody explains that he was organization Henry co-founded and came in fact in the United States Air Force when across Henry in the hallway only to shoot Carl was in the United States Army. Henry him in the hallway. The good and always was a neurosurgeon in the Air Force, one of resourceful neurosurgeon, after pushing the our nation’s first, making him a pioneer in the gun away from his head before the assailant field, but the military was not kind to those in ran off, gave step by step directions to the the gay community at the time and in 1953 Triangle Foundation director and paramedics he was forced to resign his position as Air as to the entry and exit wound and how to Force Captain just a year after meeting Carl. save his life so that he could get back to what I ask Henry how he met Carl if they were in he was doing. different branches of the military. He tells me Henry insisted on a status update, and they were both stationed in Alabama and “you as the organization is the baby that he find a way.” There we were, right back to the was leaving behind, I relented. I updated struggle. Henry, having pledged himself to Henry on upcoming events and what was

10 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com Remembering Triangle’s Henry Parting Glances

BY CHARLES ALEXANDER

Editor’s note: This column was first published Jan. 16, 2002

TL PG 1/16/2002 - "If you want to sport.) get a Lifetime Achievement Award, Henry was inadvertently outed from Air Byou've got to kick ass. Thank you." Force service. Carl escaped investigative With these words Dr. Henry Messer, entrapment. They moved to New York LGBT human rights activist and Triangle City where Henry began his residency at Foundation co-founder with the late John St. Vincent's Hospital. They also found a Monaghan, succinctly accepted a 1995 thriving gay community, which I too was Lifetime Achievement Award given at fortunate to visit as at age 19 in 1955. Detroit's annual Pride Banquet. It was the beginning of a partnership that If memory serves me, this verbal punch - has lasted for over 50 years. (See "Men coming from a noted and poised neurosurgeon at the end of a long evening of routine presentations - jolted me up from a deep state of noddy and neatly summed things up. It also brought the crowd of If anyone really deserves a share 325 cheering to its feet. of Henry’s Lifetime Achievement The award honored Henry's community involvement dating Award it’s his partner Carl House, 72. back to 1955 in New York, and Michigan and Detroit locally Carl is in every sense a gentle man. since 1970. Whether Henry's (Word separation intended.) He is feisty advice will make it into "Bartlett's Familiar Quotations" also repose to Henry’s energy, shelter remains to be seen. Obviously Henry is a kick- to the good doc’s activist storm. ass fighter. How else can one explain his recent and astonishing medical history? He has survived an intruder Together: Portraits of Love, Commitment, gunshot wound to the stomach - monitoring and Life"; Running Press 1997.) the EMS team that rushed him to ER; an Henry and Carl's commitment places aneurysm - by recognizing the presenting them among select company. (Screen symptoms in time to drive himself to a actor William Haines/ Jimmy Shields, hospital for lifesaving surgery; and a triple 47 years; Composers Samuel Barber/ heart bypass operation, with recreational Gian Carlo Menotti, 44 years; Writer recovery and up-and-about ward circulation Christopher Isherwood/ artist Don Bachardy, within days. 33; Playwright Tennessee Williams/ Frankie Not bad for a surgical Clark Kent of 74! Merlo, 15; Poet Walt Whitman/ Peter Doyle, If anyone really deserves a share of 8.) Henry's Lifetime Achievement Award it's his Two weeks ago Henry and Carl were partner Carl House, 72. Carl is in every sense honored for their half century of devotion, a gentle man. (Word separation intended.) collaboration, and adventure. Among the He is also repose to Henry's energy, shelter 100-plus well wishers gathered at Detroit's to the good doc's activist storm. St. Regis Hotel were Congresswoman Lynn They are well matched, especially when Rivers, Congressman David Bonier, State it comes to ocean liner travel on the Queen Representative Hansen Clark, and Detroit Elisabeth I and II. Or, sunny, open-house City Council President Maryann Mahaffey. summers at their Fire Island cottage. An unexpected tribute was a State They met when Henry was stationed at of Michigan proclamation signed by Maxwell Air Force Base in Montgomery, Republican Governor John Engler. It was Ala., and Carl was 100 miles away at a grand moment for Henry and Carl. (And U.S. Army Camp Rucker. Weekends Carl His GOP Roly-Polyness, if not begrudgingly hitchhiked to be with Henry. (It was safe to as well.) hitchhike then. It was not safe to be gay. In [email protected] the 1950s fag bagging was a double-barrel www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 11 Creep of the Week Fight Over Gay Marriage Ted Cruz OPINION BY D’ANNE WITKOWSKI gay fantasies, is indicative of the fact merica is a tough place for that Cruz not only lacks a heart, but a sensitive men. Crying is Moving To Federal Courts brain as well. forbidden unless a guy wants to A Cruz then goes on to regale Perkins be seen as some kind of fag. But there are appointees when Obama took said he is confident about the with anti-marriage equality talking BY MARK SHERMAN a few select places where guys can get a office in January 2009, according outcome in the appeals courts points. pass if they shed a few tears. Weddings, WASHINGTON (AP) - The to Brookings Institution scholar "irrespective of the composition “You and I both know that the best for example. Everybody cries at overturning of Virginia's gay Russell Wheeler. Just over of any court. These arguments environment for a child to be raised weddings: men, marriage ban Feb. 13 places the five years later, Democratic are so compelling...and the in is a loving home with a mother and women, babies legal fight over same-sex unions appointees hold more than half arguments presented against father and a strong marriage that is (although the increasingly in the hands of the seats on appeals courts _ a marriage equality are so weak." the foundation for that family, for the babies usually federal appeals courts shaped by transformation magnified by Defenders of the marriage community, for the church,” Cruz says. cry because, President Barack Obama's two majority Democrats who changed ban are far from conceding that And he’s right, to a point. The best well, that’s election victories. Senate rules last year to make it point. "The people of Virginia environment for children is, in deed, a what babies It's no accident that Virginia harder for the minority party to understand that men and women loving home with two parents. But no do and they’d has become a key testing ground block the president's nominees. bring distinct, irreplaceable gifts credible research has shown that those do it anywhere for federal judges' willingness Davidson, Lambda Legal's top to family life, especially for parents have to be of the opposite sex regardless of to embrace same-sex marriage lawyer, said, "People frequently children who deserve both a mom or that the children of same-sex parents whether or not after last year's strongly worded don't appreciate the extent to and a dad," said Byron Babione, Ted Cruz are harmed in any way. everlasting love pro-gay rights ruling by the which the president influences a lawyer for the pro-ban group Additionally, I Supreme Court. Judges appointed the composition of the courts. It Alliance Defending Freedom. agree with Cruz that by Democratic presidents have is a remarkable thing about how "Understanding that truth, the Cruz introduced the State Marriage strong marriages a 10-5 edge over Republicans elections have impact and this is voters of Virginia approved a play an important Defense Act Feb. 13, which seeks to on the Richmond-based 4th one of the very dramatic ways constitutional amendment to foundational role in U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, you see it. There is a focus on affirm marriage as the union of invalidate the federal recognition society. But again, formerly among the nation's most the Supreme Court, but not on the a man and a woman. The court's marriage doesn’t conservative appeals courts. lower courts." reasoning, however, would permit of same-sex marriages if those depend on one penis Nationally, three other federal Five federal district judges nearly every relationship to be a and one vagina for couples dare cross state lines into appeals courts will soon take up have issued pro-gay marriage marriage so long as it is grounded strength. the right of same-sex couples to rulings since the Supreme Court's in choice and emotion, yet that's a state that bans their unions. “We’re seeing marry, too, in Ohio, Colorado and decision in Windsor v. U.S. in not what marriage or true liberty that marriage is California. The San Francisco- June that struck down part of has ever been." under attack,” Cruz and commitment were being promised based 9th circuit is dominated by the federal anti-gay marriage The issue ultimately is headed continues. “We need to stand up, I between two people. Still). judges appointed by Democratic law. Three of those judges are to the Supreme Court. When and believe, and defend traditional marriage Senator Ted Cruz (R-Texas) is no presidents. The Denver-based Obama appointees, one was from which state are not clear. and especially do everything we can exception. He’s not afraid to declare court, home of the 10th circuit, named by Democratic President The justices are more likely to prevent the federal government publically that he “weeps” at weddings. has shifted from a Republican Bill Clinton and the other by to step into a case when a from forcing a different definition of And that would be totally commendable advantage to an even split Republican President George federal court has struck down marriage that’s contrary to the views of if those were happy tears, but the between the parties, while the H.W. Bush. a state constitutional provision, the citizens of each state.” weeping Cruz is copping to is a result of 6th circuit, based in Cincinnati, Nancy Leong, a University as has happened in Kentucky, And Cruz has just the plan to keep his sadness that gay couples are finally remains relatively unchanged of Denver law professor who Oklahoma, Utah and Virginia. those dastardly homos from getting starting to get treated like equals in this in favor of Republicans during is closely following the gay The Kentucky case involves their cooties all over marriage. On the country. Obama's tenure. marriage issue at the 10th circuit, only the state's recognition of day before Valentine’s Day for fucksake, In a Feb. 13 interview with U.S. District Judge Arenda said the lineup of judges who legal same-sex weddings from Cruz introduced the State Marriage professional homophobe Tony Perkins Wright Allen's ruling Thursday, have ruled so far conforms to elsewhere. Defense Act, which seeks to invalidate of the Family Research Council, Cruz that same-sex couples in Virginia general expectations. Yet, on the same day in June the federal recognition of same-sex expressed his dismay that marriage have the same constitutional "You don't want to presume that the court said legally married marriages if those couples dare cross equality has been winning over and over right to marry as heterosexuals, that just because someone was gay couples could not be denied state lines into a state that bans their again in the courts. represented the strongest advance nominated by one president federal benefits, the justices unions. “Our heart weeps for the damage to in the South for advocates of gay they'd vote a particular way, declined to rule on the merits of For example, my wife and I live in traditional marriage that has been done,” marriage. She put her own ruling but I think in the aggregate, California's Proposition 8 that Michigan where our marriage is not he told Perkins. on hold while it is being appealed. Republican appointees are more defined marriage as between a recognized by the state. But since we First I’d like to make note of Cruz’s Jon Davidson of the gay rights likely to rule against same-sex man and a woman. The effect were legally married in California, our use of “our heart,” rather than “our group Lambda Legal said the marriage," Leong said. of the decision was to allow marriage is recognized by the federal hearts” or even “my heart.” It’s a subtle "very dramatic" shift in the 4th But every judge who has same-sex unions to resume in government regardless of where we live. slip, but it allows a glimpse into the little circuit under Obama was an decided a same-sex marriage California, but the high court said Cruz wants to strip federal recognition known fact that Tea Partiers like Cruz important reason behind the case since last year's Supreme nothing about the right to marry. of our marriage, essentially unmarrying share one heart between them. After decision to sue for marriage rights Court ruling has come down on Some justices have suggested us simply because our marriage makes all, one doesn’t have to be well-versed in Virginia, which also twice the side of gay marriage and has the court should be in no hurry him weep. in Tea Party policies to see that their voted for Obama. drawn heavily on the high court's to do so, but the stream of lower As my Grandma used to say, “Quit ideology really requires no heart at all. Still, one consequence of opinions. court rulings in recent months crying or I’ll give you something to Secondly, the fact that Cruz is crying Obama's two elections has been Theodore Olson, half of may improve the odds of a cry about.” And, thankfully, marriage over the “damage” same-sex couples a change in the composition of the high-powered legal team Supreme Court decision on gay equality is winning this battle, so I don’t have done to the institution of marriage, the courts. Just over 60 percent of representing two Virginia couples marriage in June 2015 or the expect him to stop crying any time soon. damage that exists only in Cruz’s anti- appellate judges were Republican in the case decided Thursday, year after.

12 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 13 ® Pugh Continued from p. 9

following day. “This will destroy my chances of ever working in Detroit again and would cause me to have to resign from council. Please can you call them and ask them not to use your interview AT ALL. I’ve ended the program at Fred D. I’ll do anything else you want me to. Please don’t allow them to move forward with your interview. This would DETROY me. Please, Ms. ******, I beg you.” Growing ever more desperate, Pugh texts her again two days later. “Please,” he persisted. “I can meet y’all someplace for dinner. Maybe we can go to church together on Sunday and pray together. Is there anything we can work out?” Ms. X, however, was already working with an attorney.

The question now is, is there any future for Pugh in his

hometown, and can the fallen Then Detroit City Council President Charles Pugh taking part in the Hunger for Equality campaign, held hero ever redeem himself? at Affirmations, day 25, during the summer of 2012.

situation? Absolutely.” Others, meanwhile, aren’t taking the The Fallout revelations so lightly. Johnny Jenkins worked The rest of the story is well known. with Pugh in creating training for the Safe Channel 7 aired their story and soon the Schools Initiative. other networks followed suit. Pugh requested “Although this young man was 18 it appears a month-long medical leave from council, as if it was planned,” Jenkins said. “It was very which Detroit Emergency Manager Keith manipulative of a youth at a very vulnerable Orr denied. Instead, he stripped Pugh of his age. They’re kind of like a livewire when it pay and benefits when Pugh failed to show comes to their sexuality period. So to have by the appointed deadline he gave. And then some older adult come take advantage of that Pugh disappeared into the night. It would is disturbing. And the fact that he put himself be three months before he would officially in a place that he’s working with youth, with submit his resignation to Orr. By that time he young black men, is even more disturbing. He had relocated to an undisclosed location and was considered a leader in our community and all Detroiters were left with were lingering a highly visible one, so it’s disturbing on all questions. those levels and it makes life difficult for all Some of those questions were answered black gay men in Detroit.” in December when Madison Heights Police Lipscomb said that Pugh’s problems will not released the content of the police report and the hurt the Detroit LGBT community’s efforts to text messages to the media. But the full details move forward. have not been disclosed until now. Technically, “You can’t say that if a man cheats on his we now know that Pugh did nothing illegal wife, that all men are bad,” he said. “You – the young man was 18 and had completed can’t say that. That’s ridiculous. So you can’t the last day of his senior year before Pugh say that if a gay man has an indiscretion it approached him – and the Oakland County impacts the entire community. That’s wrong,” prosecutor’s office declined to file any charges said Lipscomb. against him. “There are a lot of deep wounds he left Confronted with the details of Pugh’s behind with people who trusted him, who had interaction with X, public reaction has been high expectations for him and he failed them on mixed. Community activist John Trimble is every level,” Jenkins said. “I think everybody nonchalant about the whole affair. should have a chance at redemption, but you “I think a lot of this controversy was have to put the work into it and he’s not here fueled by the mother more so than the young to put the work into anything.” man,” Trimble said. “Was it inappropriate? The question now is, is there any future for Absolutely. Was the young man old enough Pugh in his hometown, and can the fallen hero to make his own decision to contribute to this ever redeem himself?

14 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com ® Messer Continued from p. 4 in 2009. “I met with John Dingle a couple of times and he was not about to support anything gay in those days. Of course now he’s gung ho gay, but he wasn’t then.” In January 1985, an undercover police officer arrested Messer at the Irving Art Theater for alleged indecent behavior. He was convicted, fined, and placed on one year’s probation. Messer used the MOHR newsletter to broadcast his story of entrapment to the membership. As a result of his conviction, New York State revoked his medical license. Although his Michigan license was never in jeopardy, Messer decided to retire at age 60. In 1991, at age 63, he co-founded the Triangle Foundation. “Pioneer is an often overused term but in this instance he was a true pioneer,” said Jeff Montgomery, Triangle’s longtime executive director. “He took many, many risks, from the time he was in his early 20s, and never looked back in terms of fighting for equality and respect and legal rights. We all owe him such a huge debt.” A member of Triangle’s board of directors for many years, Messer was also an active volunteer for the group. He performed data entry at Triangle’s office in Northwest Detroit and often made lunch for the office staff. He received the Lifetime Achievement Award at the annual Pride banquet on June 15th, 1995. Thirteen days later, on June 28th, he was shot and wounded while working in the Triangle office. The act of anti-gay violence received national attention. Sean Kosofsky, who worked with Triangle for a dozen years before relocating to North Carolina, traveled home to be near Messer in the end. “I think that it is important when we look around and see all the victories that we are having in our movement now and just remember the incredible, heroic contributions and sacrifices of early leaders like Henry,” Kosofsky said. “He has given so much to the world and the Michigan LGBT rights movement.” On the occasion of his 50th anniversary with House in 2002, Messer received a Congressional recognition when U.S. Rep David Bonior (D-MI) stood and acknowledged the couple’s anniversary and their many years of activism on the House floor. The couple also received a controversial tribute from Michigan Governor John Engler. The tribute, requested by State Rep. Pan Godchaux (R-Birmingham), was signed on a machine and Engler’s office said later he was unaware he was paying tribute to a gay partnership and likely wouldn’t have signed the tribute had he known. Ten years later, in 2012, a diamond anniversary event, celebrating the couple’s 60th anniversary and benefiting Equality Michigan, took place at the Regency Manor & Banquet Center in Southfield. In attendance and making remarks was Congressman Hansen Clarke (D-MI). Now that he’s gone, Montgomery said it’s important we remember Messer as we continue with the work of fighting for LGBT equality. “He was very committed to bringing along new activists, new leaders, sharing his incredible knowledge, trying to help teach his kind of instinct, and many, many people benefitted from his approach,” said Montgomery. “It can’t be overstressed how much of a difference he’s made. It’s an unfathomable loss and I think we’re all called on now to continue working as hard as he has, keeping in mind the kind of guidance he gave to so many of us. This is a time to rededicate ourselves to the work that still needs to be done. That’s the most fitting memorial to Henry Messer.” Kosofky said that Messer’s impact would undoubtedly be lasting. “He was a mentor and hero to many of us,” he said. “I’m just honored to have been able to be with Henry in his final days. Our entire movement is owed to people like him.” www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 15 Mary Lambert On ‘Same Love,’ Grammy Night & Madonna Drying Her Tears

BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI

’m not crying on Sundays,” Mary Lambert assures herself on the song that got her to the Grammys. But “Ithis Sunday was different. This Sunday was better. Singing the heart-lifting chorus to Macklemore’s “Same Love,” which was nominated for Song of the Year, Lambert made her Grammy debut on Jan. 26. That’s when she lost it. But these weren’t tears of sadness or shame. These were tears of joy. Tears of being inspired and moved and all those things you feel when you share the stage with gay couples who are finally able to get married, a monumental celebration that took place at the awards show, with Queen Latifah officiating. Emotions ran high that night, but Lambert, 24, had a new friend nearby – a new friend by the name of Madonna. And the icon didn’t just sing Lambert’s words, but, like something out of a fever dream, swooped in and wiped away her tears. Lambert, who just released her own solo EP called “Welcome to the Age of My Body,” was still emotional when she spoke about that unforgettable night.

You must be pinching yourself. What was your Grammy experience like? It was really emotional from start to finish. I already feel like Cinderella because I was bartending last year and didn’t know how I was gonna pay rent. Now I’ve been nominated for a Grammy – and I took my mom, which was a dream of mine – but then to be able to do this song, and to do it on this magnitude with this beautiful choir and fucking Madonna and Queen Latifah, are you kidding me? It’s just stupid, dude. If I really think about it, I lose it. You cry? Yeah, like, “I don’t deserve this.” I’m still working on my positive self-talk. (Laughs) What was it like being part of the wedding ceremony? Honestly, that was the most emotional part. Being in rehearsal and hearing Madonna sing my words and hearing the choir come in, that was emotional, but being in the dress rehearsal at the Grammys and watching the couples come in, I couldn’t get through the song for almost every rehearsal. I wasn’t sure how I was gonna perform because it was so beautiful. You saw on their faces how much it meant to them, and I knew how much it would mean to the viewer. How do you process that? It’s the most beautiful thing that exists in the world. What were rehearsals with Madonna like? We had long rehearsals – and I wouldn’t say we’re close, but we got to know each other’s mannerisms and how we operate. I consider her a friend. She was very kind to me, and because we had to work together, I had to be like, “Hey, this is how I sing the song.” (Laughs) Is it weird telling Madonna how to sing? Uh yeah! Everybody froze when I was like, “Hey, Madonna, do you think you could try singing it like this – the way I sing it?” (Laughs)

See Mary Lambert, page 23

16 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 17 Spiral Into Lansing Dance Bar

Cool Cities BY SHELBY CLARK

Lansing Spiral Dance Bar of Lansing is heating up February with an array of events every week including themed parties and drag extravaganzas. Recently, renowned Michigan Drag Queen Sabin made an electrifying return to the bar. A Valentine’s Day-themed event, “Queen of Hearts,” dominated Feb. 14. The weekends start at 9 p.m. Thursdays at Spiral with “Tease A Rama.” The weekly event features burlesque, drag and girl fights. Tickets for this event range from $5-$10. Later on Thursday evenings, and shows” and “sexy barstaff.” Spiral Dance Bar is located at 1247 starting at 1 a.m., check out “Twisted On Sundays, look for “Showbiz Center St. in Lansing. A free shuttle is Games.” Hosted by resident drag queen Sunday” starting at 10 p.m. – one of their offered to the bar from the East Lansing Ace Deville, the event features party most popular nights. The show features area. For more information on the shuttle or games and fully nude strippers. DJ Lipgloss, with Ace Deville, Delicious the bar, call 517-371-3221 during working YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD • YOUR MARKET The club offers special cover for hours, 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. Wednesday through students on Fridays’ College Night. DJ and Maria Mirelez serving as the drag Pinpoint your ad dollars where queens throughout the night. Additional Sunday. Check out Spiral’s website at Restless, DJ Highjakk’d, DJ Rachel and www.spiraldancebar.com. they will do the most good . . . She J Blondi3 spin music throughout showtimes for the evening are 11 p.m. the night. and 12 a.m. For other events in the Lansing area, visit Advertise in the next Cool Cities DJ Cruz keeps the weekend going with The bar is also available for private BTL’s calendar at www.pridesource.com/ TO PLACE AN AD CALL 734.293.7200 Saturday’s ”Unzipped,” featuring “wild events and parties. calendar.html.

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www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 19 Dreaming Through The Noise Equality Cabaret Performer Vienna Teng On Being An Ally, Moving To Detroit

BY CHRISTOPHER JOHN TREACY back in 2004, which prevents gays and “I feel like I’ve been a ally for a long lesbians from forming legally honored time,” Teng says of her feelings toward We could all stand to learn a thing or two unions. the LGBT community at large from from Vienna Teng. April DeBoer and Jayne Rowse have over the phone during our recent chat. As an Asian-American woman and been partnered for over a decade and “And this event makes a lot of sense to singer-songwriter-pianist on the fringes became licensed, as a unit, to provide foster me as a songwriter because it involves a of pop music, Teng understands being care. They’ve since raised three abandoned particular family. Personal stories are highly an underdog. And yet, she radiates the newborns, all with varying degrees of impactful. It speaks to something I’ve Zen of acceptance. She’s not actively special needs. But because the couple’s struggled with for a long time, in that I don’t fighting against the grain, not struggling union is not legally acknowledged, they think of myself as an activist songwriter. to be a brighter star in our muddled mass aren’t able to formally adopt the children as That’s not what I do. But I very much want consciousness; instead, she comes across as co-parents. Instead, one has been adopted to participate in changing the world for the a fiercely intelligent woman that’s perfectly by one of the women, and the other has better. I eventually landed at a resolve to tell content to do her part in inspiring positive adopted the remaining two. On the surface stories about people grappling with various change, whatever that may entail. She’s this may seem like a reasonable solution, things. Music often makes an idea hit home living life on life’s terms, and doing so with but it gets complicated if either of the much harder than with other mediums.” an admirable degree of grace. women were to pass away unexpectedly; the Teng’s gentle brand of vicarious activism Teng will be adding her voice to the children (and the remaining partner) are left is plenty prevalent on her tune “City Hall,” lineup for the Equality Cabaret fundraiser, vulnerable to be split up since they are not which was featured on 2006’s “Dreaming presented by the Jim Toy Community legally protected under a single, unifying Through the Noise,” produced by Larry Center, beginning at 1 p.m. Feb. 23 at The umbrella. The fallout for a household like Klein (Joni Mitchell, Shawn Colvin, Ark in Ann Arbor. It’s an opportunity to DeBoer and Rowse’s is unimaginable. Rebecca Pidgeon). The uplifting, spiritual align her vision with that of a local lesbian Sunday’s event is to help raise money (and feeling track is sung from the perspective couple that’s come up against Michigan’s awareness) about the case, which is three of someone about to marry their longtime Marriage Amendment, passed by voters years in the making. See Vienna Teng, page 25

INFO Equality Cabaret 1 p.m. Feb. 23 The Ark 316 S. Main St., Ann Arbor theark.org

20 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com Cheeky Commitment Is Key To This Slam-Dunk Musical BY CAROLYN HAYES

Crucial to the success of any theatrical endeavor is properly matching the entertainment value to the entertainment. Take, for example, a tongue-in-cheek, fluffy musical like “Lysistrata Jones” (book by Douglas Carter Beane, music and lyrics by Lewis Flinn): With its bon mot lyrics and conspicuously featherweight story, there’s plenty of ingrained pep for viewers to enjoy without much added effort. This is worth noting only because Meadow Brook Theatre’s manically high-energy production so handily clears that bar, going all-out in every moment in its dogged pursuit of maximum amusement. Director Travis W. Walter takes the Teddy Toye, from the original Broadway cast, as Mick and Kara Dombrowski as Lysistrata in “Lysistrata reins of an age-old story (literally), Jones” at Meadow Brook Theatre. Photo: Rick Smith inspired by the bawdy ancient Greek to deliver unending spectacles of sight comedy “Lysistrata,” here yanked into REVIEW and sound. The athletic choreography the present day. Then, the eponymous by Raquis Da’Juan Petree and dance Lysistrata rallied her Grecian sisters Lysistrata Jones captain Yusui feels almost infinite, to stop their men from warring by Meadow Brook Theatre, 2200 N. Squirrel extending even through the basketball initiating a sexual strike. Now, the Road, Rochester. Wednesday-Sunday game sequences. The show’s pleasant, titular Ms. Jones (Kara Dombrowski), through March 9. 2 hours, 10 minutes. upbeat rock-musical numbers are Please patronize our advertisers a newly arrived transfer student to $25-40. 248-377-3300. uplifted by Mike Duncan’s sound Athens University, wants to use the www.mbtheatre.com and let them know you design, which keeps the instrumentals same tactics to galvanize the school’s driving and the lyrics bouncing. For dismal basketball team into trying to appreciate their support for the slip in without deviating from the his part, music director Greg Kenna win even one game. through line. delivers the goods from on high, LGBT community! Facile? Trite? Downright childish No ancient Greek knock-off is conducting the impeccable band from by comparison? Absolutely. But if complete without an ancient Greek its cinderblock perch above Brian anything, the script takes full advantage chorus; here, Tamara Anderson’s voice Kessler’s transformable gymnasium of the misappropriated motivation. is brazenly omniscient as narrator set. And thanks to some deft writing and Hetaira, and her suave, world-weary Indeed, as much as the production’s a grounded character foundation by wisdom is terrific in scenes harkening tenor is sprightly, sharp and sparkly, Dombrowski, Walter raises the stakes back to the oldest profession. the entire harmonious design scheme to where they need to be. Dombrowski proves a stellar leading is right in step. Kessler leads with It’s not hard to stay interested or lady, whose dim but determined screaming school colors, and costume even get invested in the doings of these “Lyssie J” courts the audience with designer Corey Globke follows with 11 students, whose individual stories effortless punch lines, sweetly high loud and proud statement pieces that diverge as men and women face off hopes, and killer vocals. In fact, the accentuate the garish hues. When the in a battle of stubborn wills and soul exceptional individual performances location changes, Reid G. Johnson’s searching 101. This is helped in no extend all down the bench and lighting effects complete the transition, small part by a tone that calcifies its across the board, from the clique as well as having their own over- characters into a rarefied kind of “High of differently motivated girlfriends the-top say in moments of extreme School Musical” wholesomeness. The (Karen Burthwright, Kathryn Terza, grandeur. aggressively chipper deliveries work and Minami Yusui) to the starting The result is a textbook example of in moments of earnestness and avarice lineup (Teddy Toye, Tim Dolan, Jason choosing an approach and attacking alike, and only grow more absurd as Williams, Michael De Souza, and Jake it from all aspects, in perfect accord. the subject matter creeps necessarily Wood) to the unpopular/angsty set This cacophonous, ribald, energetic toward the degenerate. In the expert (Hannah Dubner and Ben Holtzman). end product is so singularly campy, it hands of this ensemble cast, the show’s Just as importantly, they assemble into transcends blasé crowd pleasing. Some moments of self-referential humor a stupendous team. may not be poised to enjoy “Lysistrata and sly commentary on race, class, Beyond the many comic punches, Jones,” but the many who do should masculinity, theater and pop culture the show and its ensemble join forces have a blast from beginning to end. www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 21 Michigan Pagans, 5801 Southfield Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- OUTINGS Expressway, Detroit. Meetup.com/ 7105. goaffirmations.org michiganpagans Thursday, Feb. 20 Sunday, Feb. 23 Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals Friday, Feb. 21 The Southfield Pavilion Antiques 1933-1945 The story of what happened Womyn’s Film Night 7 p.m. Film: Exposition 11 a.m. Tickets: $8-10. to homosexuals in Nazi Germany is Journey to Kafiristan. Affirmations, 290 M&M Enterprises, 26000 Evergreen the subject of the exhibition. Holocaust W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- Road, Southfield. 586-465-9441. Memorial Center, 48123 Orchard Lake 7105. Goaffirmations.org Antiquesexposition.com Road, Farmington Hills. 248-553-2400 x24. Holocaustcenter.org Tashmoo Biergarten 12 p.m. Pop-up Saturday, Feb. 22 European style beer garden with Detroit Detroit Elders 5 p.m. Discuss and LAHR Breakfast Club 10 a.m. Meet sensibility. Food, beer, games, and address issues specific to the LGBT at Flap Jack near Frandor. Lansing more. Location often varies. Tashmoo community as we “age in the D.” Detroit Association for Human Rights, Lansing. Biergarten, 1420 Van Dyke, Detroit. Elders, 4750 Woodward, Detroit. 313- [email protected] lahronline.org [email protected] 833-1300. [email protected] Tashmoodetroit.com LezRead 4 p.m. Ann Arbors book group The Parent Network 6 p.m. This group for Lesbians. Meets the last Saturday of Equality Cabaret 1 p.m. To benefit the aims to assist parents in understanding every month. LezReads, 319 Braun Ct., Michigan Marriage Challenge. Tickets: their child’s identity, while also giving Ann Arbor. 734-995-9867. Lezread@ $25-250. Jim Toy Community Center, parents the opportunity to socialize with yahoo.com LezRead.com 316 S. Main St., Ann Arbor. 734-761- other adults who have LGBT children 1800. Theark.org Kalamazoo Gay and Lesbian Resource Men’s Discussion Group 6 p.m. Center, 629 Pioneer St., Kalamazoo. Lighthearted or in-depth discussion Blue Is the Warmest Color 2 p.m. The 269-349-4234. Kglrc.org on a variety of topics. For gay, bi- award-winning French drama in which a affectional, and transgender men 18 teenager finds her perceptions of sexuality Out as an Ally: A Step Forward in and up. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine challenged upon meeting an older woman. Understanding 7 p.m. Ally training Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Tickets: $4-6. Flint Institute of Arts, 1120 program. Pizza provided. Free. Holocaust goaffirmations.org E. Kearsley St., Flint. 810-234-1695. Memorial Center, 48123 Orchard Lake [email protected] Flintarts.org Road, Farmington Hills. 248-553-2400 2014 Annual Dinner 7 p.m. A x24. Holocaustcenter.org celebration of Equality Michigan’s TransCend TransCend provides accomplishments and to recognize support and resources to the Southwest Trivia with Terry 7 p.m. Join Terry for the catalysts to those successes. The Michigan transgender community, their Trivia upstairs. No registration required. evening begins with a reception and significant others, family, friends, and Aut Bar, 315 Braun Ct., Ann Arbor. 734- silent auction-your chance to network, allies. Meetings occur twice per month 994-3677. Autbar.com meet fellow supporters of equality, on the 2nd Wednesday and 4th Sunday. and bid on some cool stuff. Tickets: Kalamazoo Gay and Lesbian Resource Whole Lives, Healthy Lives Adult $175-300. Equality Michigan, Detroit. Center, 629 Pioneer St., Kalamazoo. 7 p.m. This one-of-a-kind Support Group 313-537-7000. Equalitymi.org/dinner 269-349-4234. Kglrc.org program in Berrien County helps attendees support each other in healthy ways through Step Inside the Box Gala 7 p.m. Fellowship for Today 5:30 p.m. Open active listening and caring feedback. Cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and silent and Affirming. Lansing Korean United OutCenter, 132 Water St., Benton Harbor. auction. Tickets: $50. AIDS Walk Detroit, Methodist Church, 2400 E. Lake Lansing 269-925-8330. Outcenter.org 316 E. Eleven Mile Road, Royal Oak. Road, East Lansing. 517-337-4070. 248-399-WALK. Aidswalkdetroit.org [email protected] Pagan Chat Nights 7:30 p.m. Come socialize with FOCAS members and Drag Queen Bingo 8 p.m. Reservations Showbiz Sunday 10 p.m. Ace Deville, other area pagans! Michigan Pagans, required. 18+. Drag Queen Bentley Delicious, Maria Mirelez, DJ Lipgloss, 21700 West Road, Woodhaven. Meetup. James. Ticket: $20. Leaf & Berry, 6385 and more. Additional showtimes at 11 com/michiganpagans Orchard Lake Road, West Bloomfield p.m. and 12 a.m. Spiral Dance Bar, 1247 Township. 248-671-6011. info@ Center St., Lansing. 517-894-1315. 7:30 p.m. Open Polyamory Network leafnberry.com Leafnberry.com Spiraldancebar.com and inclusive community of people living polyamorously, people interested The 27th Erotic Poetry & Music in polyamory and people of, friendly to Festival 8 p.m. Features provocative Monday, Feb. 24 and curious about polyamory. Welcomes poetry, dirty spoken word, erotic art, Holy, Black and Gay: How Far Have diversity of sexual orientation and music, and dance performances by We Come? 5:30 p.m. Film Screening: gender identity. Meets the third Thursday some of the city’s top performers. A “Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard of every month. Polyamory Network, 319 portion of the proceeds benefits Paws Rustin” and Dialogue with Bishop Braun Ct., Ann Arbor. 734-995-9867. with a Cause. Static Network, 715 E. Allyson Nelson Abrams, Rev. Roland jimtoycenter.org Milwaukee, Detroit. 313-873-2955. Stringfellow, and UDM Director of [email protected] Facebook.com/ African American Studies Terri Laws. ConVocation 8 p.m. A convention of the EroticPoetryandMusicFestival University of Detroit Mercy African many mystical spiritual paths and faiths American Studies Program, Detroit. and the people that follow them who Open Meditation Saturdays 9 p.m. A 313-578-0404. [email protected] desire to teach each other and promote communal, non-hierarchical meditation fellowship among all esoteric traditions. space open to all. Affirmations, 290 W. See Happenings, page 24

The Holocaust Memorial Center will offer a special ally training program this week titled, “Out as an Ally: A Step Forward in Understanding.” The free event includes a pizza dinner. In the training, expect to examine the concepts of gender, sexual orientation and human rights while learning how Allies can be some of the most powerful voices of the LGBT movement. Learn to convey the importance of equality, fairness, acceptance and mutual respect. Out as an Ally begins at 7 p.m. on Thursday, Feb. 20. The Holocaust Memorial Center is at 48123 Orchard Lake Road, Farmington Hills. The event is free. For more information, visit www.holocaustcenter.org or call 248-553-2400, ext. 24.

22 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com fluke – and like someone’s gonna take it away. (Laughs) Are there any plans to work with Macklemore in the future? I would love to. He shot to a place that is bananas, so honestly I’m like, ‘What the fuck is I just think it’s about timing and scheduling. We both really respect my life?’ Like, what do you do? each other as artists, and he’s so “ supportive of everything I do. You just let Madonna wipe your We’re buddies, you know? tears, that’s what you do. You’ve done some tour dates with Tegan and Sara. What was it like hanging out with them? – Mary Lambert on meeting I don’t know if Tegan knows this, Madonna at ”the Grammys but maybe it’s just time for it to come out: In all of my previous relationships, Tegan has been that one person who I’m allowed to sleep with. She was my pass. We were performing “Same Love” for an iTunes show and I’m like, “I am meeting Tegan and Sara today!” They were performing right before us and I was like, “Oh my god, they’re gonna see me perform. I have to make sure my cleavage looks great.” So I’m sitting in the dressing room, which happens to be a bridal Photo: Mike Ruiz suite and so there’s wedding pics everywhere, and I walk in and go, support system. The conflict was date girls.” I was like, “You can date the song rather than politicize (the “This is how it happens.” They’re ® Mary Lambert not external; the conflict definitely girls and that’s OK?” issue) any more than it’s already just totally awesome. No makey- Continued from p. 16 had to do with reconciling my faith The real turmoil of it happened become. outy time, though. and my sexuality. There was no when I was 18 or 19. I was attending The biggest declaration for Were you at all intimidated by that? enemy, you know? an Evangelical church and I met me is definitely saying “I’m What do you hope to accomplish I was a little shaky when I first met this girl and I was in love with her. not crying on Sundays.” I spent with “Welcome to the Age of My her because her entourage came in Just yourself? I wanted to be with her but I didn’t every Sunday for a year crying Body”? and she said, “I’m Madonna.” But, Yeah. When I was a kid, I wanted want to sin. in church. It was just guilt and so The word I kept telling myself I think it was during dress rehearsal, to be in love so badly. It was more much shame, and so for me that’s surrounding this album was she had her leather gloves on and of this obsession with being in love, How was writing cathartic for you at a declaration, like, “Fuck shame, empowerment. I want to empower I’m sobbing watching these people and so I always had a boyfriend, that time in your life? I’m not sorry, I’m not apologizing myself and empower and mobilize who are about to exchange their but I knew that I found girls much That was everything to me. It was the for who I am.” I’m not gonna cry other people with art. If I’m vows and she leans over – and she’s more physically appealing. Honestly, only way I could have gotten through anymore about being oppressed. unsuccessful, I’m unsuccessful, wiping the tears from my face with everything that I thought I was is it. I discovered spoken word around but it’s worth trying. her leather gloves and looking at me! how I thought everybody else felt. the time I came out, maybe two years Was the chorus of “Same Love” What I hope this record achieves I’m like, “What the fuck is my life?” I thought that other girls would try afterward, but about the peak of written about your girlfriend, Michelle is a sense of vulnerability. I want to Like, what do you do? You just let to make out with their friends too! my suicide attempt is when I wrote Chamuel of “The Voice”? be as vulnerable as possible with Madonna wipe your tears, that’s what (Laughs) I just thought that was my first poem. It was about being Umm … that song has seen many my audience, because I think there you do. (Laughs) something that girls did – that they conflicted about the Christian church different incarnations. It’s been are a lot of issues that I’m working fantasized about boobs! I just thought Your first performance was when you and being gay and how difficult that about a series of really great loves out. It’s more of me opening up and that was a thing. I thought everybody was. Poetry really got me out of it. hoping to be held, and then also were a kid, for a gaggle of Beanie that I have had, so I wouldn’t say preferred to be with women, but the it’s about anyone super in particular. hoping my voice can encircle a hug. Babies. What’s it like performing for weird thing is that my mom is gay so How does it feel to sing “I’m not real people? it’s not like it wasn’t OK. It just didn’t crying on Sundays,” then, during the Were you surprised to hear the song Because this is mostly a spoken-word It’s how it should be! I feel like I occur to me that I could be that way. chorus of “Same Love”? on the radio? album, does it feel like a risk to was made to be a performer and I I questioned it a lot. Like, “I think I It’s so empowering. It’s the most When it first made its debut on the release it on a major label? just depend so much on the energy could see myself having sex with a empowering thing. It feels like a radio it blew my mind, but when it I’m fucking terrified. I know – like, warm, breathing bodies. woman” – and this is me at 12 years declaration for me, but I also know hit hip-hop radio I was like, “Oh, in my heart what it can do, but (Laughs) old saying these things. (Laughs) I that it’s so many other people’s it’s fucking over.” there’s no formula for it. I don’t was highly analytical. stories. I think that’s what makes know if it’s been done before. You struggled with your sexuality How does it feel to be a Grammy- At 12 years old? me feel so strongly about it. Not Either it changes something or when you were a teenager. And, that the gay community is silenced nominated artist so early in your it totally flops – I don’t know if really, in many ways you epitomize Yeah! (Laughs) I’ve always been and I’m speaking for them, but like career? I’m supposed to say that – but I the “it gets better” story, don’t you? sure of who I am. In high school, I can be an advocate. I really just I’m trying to wrap my head around have faith in it. I have faith in the Yeah, but I had a really amazing there was one bi girl who was like, “I wanted to bring a universal truth to it. The whole thing just feels like a power of what words can do. www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 23 Annie’s Ghosts Book Discussion listen-to others who share similar and building community connections. gay night. 18+. Guys with college ID Bling Pig “Joe Pug” 18+. Tickets: ® 6:30 p.m. Members of the public were experiences. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Tickets: $35 per person. Affirmations, get in free before 11 p.m. Cover: $5+. $12-14. Blind Pig, 208 S. First St., Ann Happenings asked to share their dark, happy, Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. 290 W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248- Necto, 516 E. Liberty St., Ann Arbor. Arbor. 8 p.m. Feb. 20. 734-996-8555. Continued from p. 22 trivial, or profound family secrets with Goaffirmations.org 398-7105. Goaffirmations.org 734-994-5835. Thenecto.com Blindpigmusic.com us. To be compiled into a book called Open Arms Support Group 7 p.m. 20 Somethings 7 p.m. Social group Cathedral Choir “Choral Evensong” Fun Run & Walk Program 6:30 p.m. “Annie’s Ghosts: A Journey into a Family Secret.” The Scarab Club, 217 Southeast Michigan’s lonest running for young adults. Followed by an An organ recital by a guest organist Kalamazoo Gay and Lesbian Resource peer-run HIV/AIDS support group for evening out. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine MUSIC & MORE follows Evensong at 5:10 p.m. Center, Kalamazoo. 269-349-4234. Farnsworth, Detroit. 313-831-1250. Scarabclub.org those infected or affected by HIV or Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Cathedral Church of St. Paul, 4800 Kglrc.org AIDS. Michigan Aids Coalition, 429 goaffirmations.org Classical Woodward Ave., Detroit. Feb. 23-March Berman Center for the Performing 23. 313-833-7547. Facebook.com/ Toastmasters International Arts “Haifa Symphony Orchestra” First detroitcathedralmusic SpeakOUT! Club 7 p.m. Toastmasters time touring the US. Tickets: $62-67. will show you how to listen more Berman Center for the Performing Arts, Kerrytown Concert House “The Ellen effectively, think on your feet and speak 6600 W. Maple Road, West Bloomfield. Rowe Quintet” CD release of Courage confidently Jim Toy Community Center, 8 p.m. Feb. 20. 248-661-1900. Music. Tickets: $5-30. Kerrytown Did you miss a chance to go to the Dirty Show? 319 Braun Court, Ann Arbor. 734-995- Theberman.org Concert House, 415 N. Fourth Ave., Ann Don’t worry, you still have a chance to get your 9867. Jimtoycenter.org Arbor. 8 p.m. Feb. 23. 734-763-4186. Cranbrook Art Museum “A Concert Kerrytownconcerthouse.com erotic fix in with the 27th Erotic Poetry & Music Drag Queen Bingo Un-Leashed with Detroit Chamber Winds and Strings” Festival. 8 p.m.”No Holds Barred” Thursday Concert preview at 2:15. Tickets: $10-30. Macomb Center for the Performing edition!18+. Tickets: $20. Five15, 515 S. Cranbrook Art Museum, 39221 Woodward Arts “Ladysmith Black Mambazo” Presented by the Static Network, the festival Washington Ave., Royal Oak. 248-515- Ave., Bloomfield Hills. 3 p.m. Feb. 23. 877- Tickets: $15-38. Macomb Center for the 2551. Five15.net 462-7262. Cranbrookart.edu Performing Arts, 44575 Garfield Road, will feature various performance art. Look for Clinton Township. 7:30 p.m. Feb. 21. provocative poetry, dirty spoken word, erotic Detroit Chamber Winds & Strings 586-286-2222. Macombcenter.com Friday, Feb. 28 “Strauss Deconstructed” Tickets: art, dance and music. Some of the city’s top Alexander: Art Bi-Polar A solo $22-25. DeSalle Auditorium, Cranbrook Royal Oak Music Theatre “Alfie performers will be presenting their craft. exhibition of work by Charles Alexander. Art Museum, 39221 Woodward Ave., Boe” All ages. Tickets: $35. Royal Oak The Scarab Club, 217 Farnsworth, Bloomfield Hills. 3 p.m. Feb. 23. 877- Music Theatre, 318 W. Fourth St., Royal Detroit. 313-831-1250. Scarabclub.org 462-7262. Detroitchamberwinds.org Oak. 7 p.m. Feb. 20. 248-399-2980. The festival begins at 8 p.m. on Saturday, Royaloakmusictheatre.com Feb. 22 at The Hastings Street Ballroom Open Mic Night with Michelle Brown Detroit Symphony Orchestra “Divine 6 p.m. Whether it’s poetry, singing Dvorak”. Max M. Fisher Music Center, Saugatuck Center for the Arts on 715 E. Milwaukee, Detroit. A portion of the proceeds will benefit “Paws with or anything in between, this is your 3711 Woodward Ave., Detroit. 8 p.m. “Hempy Keyboard Series with I-Chen a Cause.” For more information, call 313-873-2955 or visit www.Facebook.com/ opportunity to express yourself on stage. Feb. 22. 313-576-5111. Dso.org Yeh” Tickets: $0-10. Saugatuck Center All ages welcome. Affirmations, 290 W. for the Arts, 400 Culver St., Saugatuck. EroticPoetryandMusicFestival. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- University Musical Society (UMS) “St. 2 p.m. Feb. 23. 269-857-2399. Sc4a.org 7105. Goaffirmations.org Petersburg Philharmonic” Tickets: $10- 85. Hill Auditorium, 825 N. University St. Cecilia Music Center “Gregory Womyn’s Film Night 7 p.m. Film: The Ave., Ann Arbor. 8 p.m. Feb. 22. 734- Porter” Hot Jazz. St. Cecilia Music Nest Bible Study 6:30 p.m. Monthly Circle of Life: Pet Ownership Livernois, Ferndale. 248-545-1435. Long Walk Home-Sissy Spacek stars 761-1800. Ums.org Center, 24 Ransom NE., Grand Rapids. Bible study focusing on LGBTQ issues. Discussion and Support Group 6:30 [email protected] as Miriam Thompson, a Montgomery, 7:30 p.m. Feb. 20. 616-459-2224. Kalamazoo Gay and Lesbian Resource p.m. Led by a licensed counselor. Michiganaidscoalition.org Ala., housewife who finds herself in Scmc-online.org Share stories, frustrations, grief and the midst of a civil rights revolution Comedy Center, 508 Denner St., Kalamazoo. Significant Other Support 7 p.m. The Ark “Nuala Kennedy Band” Tickets: Kglrc.org successes. Tail Wagger’s 1990, 28402 when she helps her black maid, Odessa Ann Arbor Comedy Showcase Five Mile Road, Livonia. 734-855-4077. Discussion and support group for friends (Whoopi Goldberg), during the infamous “Comedy Jamm” It’s cut-loose comedy $15. The Ark, 316 S. Main St., Ann Center Open-Drop In 7 p.m. Jim Tailwaggers1990.org and loved ones of LGBT. Affirmations, bus boycott of the 1950s. When Miriam as we present the comedy of 12 of the Arbor. 8 p.m. Feb. 20. 734-761-1800. Toy Community Center, 319 Braun 290 W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248- discovers Odessa is forced to walk current rising stars in the Detroit Metro Theark.org Euchre at Esquire Club 6:30 p.m. 398-7105. goaffirmations.org area and beyond. Tickets: $5. Ann Arbor Court, Ann Arbor. 734-995-9867. the 9 miles to her house and back, The Ark “Nora Jane Struthers” Tickets: Lansing Association for Human Rights, Comedy Showcase, 314 E. Liberty St., Jimtoycenter.org Sistrum Weekly Rehearsal 7 p.m. she volunteers to give Odessa a ride $15. The Ark, 316 S. Main St., Ann 1250 Turner St., Lansing. 517-487- Ann Arbor. Aug. 8-March 26. 734-996- Sistrum, Lansing Women’s Chorus, 215 -- much to the dismay of Miriam’s Arbor. 8 p.m. Feb. 21. 734-761-1800. Mad Hatter’s Writing Group 7 p.m. 5338. lahronline.org 9080. Aacomedy.com This group meets the fourth Monday N. Capital Ave., Lansing. Sistrum.org husband and social circle. Affirmations, Theark.org of each month. It’s a working group Greater Lansing Gay Men’s Chorus Rehearsal 6:45 p.m. Lansing Young@Heart 7 p.m. Socializing focused on using various tools and and conversation for those 45 and techniques to move any current project Association for Human Rights, 510 W. Ottawa St., Lansing. [email protected] older. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Mile forward toward completion. Affirmations, Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. 290 W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248- Tea & Talk 8 p.m. Open discussion goaffirmations.org 398-7105. Goaffirmations.org with free tea and treats. Triple Goddess Tony Kushner’s “Angels in America” is that rare entity: New Age Bookstore, 1824 E. Michigan Whiskey Wednesday 8 p.m. Country Movement with Kristi Faulkner line dancing. Free juke box. MaleBox a work for the stage that is profoundly moving yet very Dance 7 p.m. A different genre of Ave., Lansing. 517-347-2112. triplegoddessbookstore.net Michigan, 23365 Hoover Road, Warren. funny, highly theatrical yet steeped in traditional literary movement each week, including modern 586-806-2390. Facebook.com/Male dance, ballet, jazz, hip hop/breaking, Karaoke 9:30 p.m. Hosted by KJ Les. values, and most of all deeply American in its attitudes soft shoe tap dance, and stretch and aut Bar, 315 Braun Ct., Ann Arbor. 734- Karaoke Night 9 p.m. Lansing and political concerns. Although the story is told over two strengthening. Workshops are designed 994-3677. Autbar.com Association for Human Rights, 1250 for beginning/intermediate movers ages Turner St., Lansing. 517-487-5338. full-length plays, the Ringwald Theatre in Ferndale will 16-55. Tickets: $5. Affirmations, 290 W. lahronline.org Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- Wednesday, Feb. 26 present “Part 1: Millennium Approaches” (for now) for an 7105. goaffirmations.org Senior Koffee Klatch 1 p.m. A lively, Thursday, Feb. 27 exclusive 12-performance run beginning Friday, Feb. 21. discussion and social group for LGBT Writing Group 7 p.m. Different focus for adults over 45. Group covers topics Twisted Games Party games and Prior is a man living with AIDS whose lover Louis has left him and become involved with Joe, an each meeting. Meets fourth Monday of fully nude strippers. Hosted by Ace pertaining to aging and outside ex-Mormon and political conservative whose wife, Harper, is slowly having a nervous breakdown. every month. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine speakers. Potluck dinners at members Deville. 18+. Spiral Dance Bar, 1247 Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. homes, lunches out and holiday parties. Center St., Lansing. 517-894-1315. These stories are contrasted with that of Roy and his attempts to remain in the closet while trying to goaffirmations.org Meets ever Wednesday on the upper Spiraldancebar.com find some sort of personal salvation in his beliefs. level of the Affirmations building. New Volunteer Meeting 5:30 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 25 Senior Koffee Klatch, 290 W. Nine Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Mile Tickets are $10-20. Tickets are available at www.theringwald.com. The Ringwald is located at Grand River Connection Creative class. Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Lansing Association for Human Rights, GoAffirmations.org Goaffirmations.org 22742 Woodward Ave. in Ferndale. Lansing. grandriverconnection.com COBO Support Group 5 p.m. Coming Connections 6 p.m. Open to all LGBTQ Older Adult and Senior Helpline 4 out, being out. EMU LGBTRC, Ypsilanti. and Ally youth from 13-18. Join us to “The p.m. Provides peer counseling, empathy 734-487-4149. Emich.edu/lgbtrc meet other LGBTQ and Ally teens and Royal Oak Music Theatre The Magic Bag “Peter Buck & 290 W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248- truTV Impractical Jokers Tour feat. The and community resources for LGBT Mid-Week Meditation 6 p.m. socialize in a safe space. Kalamazoo 398-7105. Goaffirmations.org Alejandro Escovedo” Tickets: $27. The adults. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Mile Gay and Lesbian Resource Center, 629 Tenderloins” 18+. Tickets: $37. 50-87. 50. Magic Bag, 22920 Woodward Ave., Suggested Donation: $3. Michigan Detroit Women’s Coffee House Royal Oak Music Theatre, 318 W. Fourth Road, Ferndale. 1-800-398-4297. Pagans, 195 W. Nine Mile Road, Pioneer St., Kalamazoo. 269-349- Ferndale. Feb. 21. 248-544-3030. goaffirmations.org 4234. Kglrc.org Revival 8 p.m. A chance for us to St., Royal Oak. 7 p.m. Feb. 21. 248-399- Themagicbag.com Suite 1B, Ferndale. Meetup.com/ celebrate the talent in our community 2980. Royaloakmusictheatre.com Trans/Genderqueer Peer Group 4 p.m. michiganpagans Gender Hormone Counseling and raise funds for Women musicians The Majestic “Caveman” All ages. EMU LGBTRC, Ypsilanti. 734-487- Puppy Play Group 6 p.m. For puppies Sessions 6 p.m. Darnell Jones, RPH and artists and our local non-profit Concerts Tickets: $10-12. The Magic Stick, 4149. Emich.edu/lgbtrc and GNA, will conduct one on one 4120 Woodward Ave., Detroit. six months and younger. All puppies organizations in our community. Ann Arbor Comedy Showcase “Ben counseling sessions for the transgender 8 p.m. Feb. 26. 313-833-9700. Aff Action Night 6 p.m. Educating must have at least their second round GIFT, 1641 Middlebelt Road, Inkster. Creed” Tickets: $8-13. Ann Arbor community. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Majesticdetroit.com others about how to make Michigan of vaccinations before attending class. 248-943-2411. [email protected] Comedy Showcase, 314 E. Liberty St., Sign up in advance. Tickets: $7. Humane Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Womenoutandabout.com/calendar/ an equality state. Pizza provided for Goaffirmations.org Ann Arbor. Feb. 20-Feb. 22. 734-996- The Majestic “Paper Diamond” With volunteers. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Society of Huron Valley, 3100 Cherry Hill detroit-womens-coffee-house/ 9080. Aacomedy.com Loudpvck and Branchez. 18+. Tickets: Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. Road, Ann Arbor. 734-662-5585. Hshv. Relationship Skills Class 6 p.m. $17. 50-25. The Magic Stick, 4120 Bear Trap 9 p.m. All new weekly party for Blind Pig “The Soil & The Sun” goaffirmations.org convio.net A series for LGBTQ people and their Woodward Ave., Detroit. 9 p.m. Feb. 21. bears, cubs and their admirers. Hayloft With Flint Eastwood. 18+. Tickets: friends and loved ones. Topics include: 313-833-9700. Majesticdetroit.com Talk Tuesdays 6 p.m. Free. KICK, 41 Newly Single Support Group 7 p.m. Saloon, 8070 Greenfield Road, Detroit. $10. Blind Pig, 208 S. First St., Ann Group for all dealing with the end exploring personal and cultural 313-581-8913. Hayloftsaloon.com Burroughs St. 109, Detroit. 313-285- relationships, values, arguments and Arbor. 9 p.m. Feb. 22. 734-996-8555. 9733. e-kick.org of a relationship and want to talk-or Blindpigmusic.com making agreements, accountability Pride Friday 9 p.m. The one and only See Happenings, page 26

24 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com I feel like I’ve been a ally for a long time. And this event “makes a lot of sense to me as a songwriter because it involves a particular family. Personal stories are highly impactful. It speaks to something I’ve struggled with for a long time, in that I don’t think of myself as an activist songwriter. That’s not what I do. But I very much want to participate in changing the world for the better.”

® Vienna Teng to Detroit. Right after relocating, she went on tour. So, she’s only just getting to know her Continued from p. 20 new city now despite having moved there some eight months ago. gay lover in San Francisco. “It’s not far from Ann Arbor, but it’s worlds “It’s a great example of how I like to apart in terms of who lives here and how approach issues in song,” says Teng. “It’s an they’re living,” she says of Detroit. “It’s a incredibly emotional day for them, partially pretty exciting shift for me, mainly because because they’ve been denied the right to I’ve never lived somewhere where everyone I do this for so long. I wanted to tell it in a meet is actively engaged in the future of their story rather than just standing on a soapbox city. Civic dialogue is a huge facet of being somehow, and hopefully help people make here; you can sit down at a bar and talk with an empathetic connection. I’m interested in anybody, and you’ll find they have opinions on having a conversation with people, and while what’s happening here, what needs to happen I’ve never cut myself off from writing about here. It’s an excellent way to make sure my political things, I do think about the idea of mind stays open and susceptible to change – preserving my relationship with my audience.” to be influenced by the ideas of others whose Now 35, Teng’s even-minded approach to experiences are different from my own.” finding her place in the world has allowed Despite recognizing the state’s need for her to continue building her musical projects change in its policies regarding same-sex while pursuing academic interests and, more marriages and adoption laws, Teng feels recently, going back to working a day job. strongly that Michigan is merely experiencing While others might kick and scream about the normal growing pains and isn’t necessarily dissolution of their full-time music dreams, Teng says the company she’s gone to work for stuck in some legally archaic holding pattern. has a flexible time program, allowing her to She says that she thinks of the Midwest as a take larger chunks of leave time to make sure “third coast” – high praise for someone that’s she maintains her loyal following. “It gives lived in San Francisco and Manhattan. She their employees time to be who they really says the flat, Midwestern stereotypes create are outside of the office, which ... if you’re a perfect metaphor about the area’s hidden going to hire dynamic, exciting people to work assets. for you, they need that time to nurture their “This area of the country looks flat and interests,” she says. boring when taken at face value,” she says. A self-confessed academic junkie, Teng “But when you spend time here, you discover came to Michigan in 2010 when she was a subtle patience and fortitude to the landscape accepted at the Erb Institute for Global that reflects in behavior of the people. I Sustainable Enterprise at the University of really love that overall spirit and humility. Michigan. Through the program, she received Admittedly, though, I move in a pretty liberal a pair of Masters Degrees and aligned herself bubble. I hang with progressive thinkers, for the dual career scenario she’s now so I’m a bit insulated from certain ideals. pursuing. After wrapping up the program in But to me, what’s happening here regarding Ann Arbor, Teng released her most sonically LGBT marriage is indicative of a much larger, diverse collection to date, “Aims,” and moved generational struggle.” www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 25 Peter Pan The Musical $12. The Franke Aaron Radatz: Magical Entertainer 3300. mbtheatre.com Onstage Live Theatre, 21517 Kelly Road, 7900. Dia.org ® Center for the Arts, 214 E. Mansion St., $15-25. Macomb Center for the Eastpointe. Feb. 21 - March 22. 586- Happenings Marshall. Feb. 20 - 23. 269-781-0001. Performing Arts, 44575 Garfield Road, Moon Over Buffalo ! $12-30. Hilberry 771-6333. broadwayonstage.com Downriver Council for the Arts Continued from p. 24 frankecenterforthearts.org Clinton Township. 3 p.m. Feb. 23. 586- Theatre, 4743 Cass Ave., Detroit. Feb. 21 - “Mystic Sisters” 81 Chestnut, 286-2222. macombcenter.com April 5. 313-577-2972. hilberry.com The Taming of the Shrew $20. The Wyandotte. Feb. 21-March 14. 734-720- The Miracle Worker $24. The Elizabeth Theater Company, 2040 Park 0671. Downriverarts.org The Palace of Auburn Hills “Paul Kalamazoo Civic Theatre at Civic Almost, Maine $32-39. The Dio - Murder at the Howard Johnson’s Ave., Detroit. Through March 2. 313- Simon & Sting On Stage Together” Auditorium, 329 S. Park St., Kalamazoo. Dining and Entertainment, 135 E. Main $27-32. Tipping Point Theatre, 361 E. 454-1286. elizabeththeater.com Flint Institute of Arts “Point of View: Tickets: $54-273. 80. The Palace of Through March 1. 269-343-1313. St., Pinckney. Through March 2. 517- Cady St., Northville. Through March 9. Contemporary African American Art from Auburn Hills, 5 Championship Dr., Kazoocivic.com 672-6009. diotheatre.com 248-347-0003. tippingpointtheatre.com Tony n’ Tina’s Wedding $63. Detroit the Elliot & Kimberly Perry Collection” Auburn Hills. 8 p.m. Feb. 26. 248-377- Actors Guild Productions, Inc. at 1120 E. Kearsley St., Flint. Jan. 26-April 0100. Ticketmaster.com Angels in America Part 1: Millennium My Dearest Friend $8-12. GEM Andiamo Celebrity Showroom, 7096 E. 13. 810-234-1695. Flintarts.org College/University Theater Approaches $10-20. The Ringwald Theatrics atog Story Theater, 7 Jefferson 14 Mile Road, Warren. 6:30 p.m. Feb. Hay Fever $10-28. U-M Department of Theatre, 22742 Woodward Ave., SE, Grand Rapids. Feb. 28 - March 2. 21. 586-268-3200. Andiamoitalia.com/ Gallery 1212 Old Town “Homebound: THEATER Theatre & Drama, Lydia Mendelssohn Ferndale. Feb. 21 - March 10. 248-545- 616-425-9234. dogstorytheater.com showroom The Work of Nicolas V. Sanchez”. Gallery Theatre, 911 N. University, Ann Arbor. 5545. theringwald.com 1212 Old Town, 1212 Turner St., Lansing. My Occasion of Sin $17-20. Detroit Venus in Fur $22-41. Performance Feb. 1-Feb. 27. Gallery1212.com Civic/Community Theater Feb. 20 - 23. 734-971-2228. tickets. Repertory Theatre, 13103 Woodrow music.umich.edu Awake $8-10 in advance; $2 more at Network Theatre, 120 E. Huron St., Ann A Night of One Acts $5. Richmond the door. Two Muses Theatre at Barnes Wilson, Detroit. Through March 16. 313- Arbor. Feb. 27 - April 6. 734-663-0681. Grand Rapids Art Museum “Friday Community Theatre, 69619 Parker St., Prelude to a Kiss $5-15. Lansing & Noble Booksellers, 6800 Orchard Lake 868-1347. detroitreptheatre.com performancenetwork.org Night Conversations” 101 Monroe Richmond. Feb. 21 - 22. 586-727-9518. Center, Grand Rapids. Aug. 9-Feb. 28. Community College Performing Arts at Road, West Bloomfield. Through Feb. 23. Oliver! $22-32. The Encore Musical richmondtheatre.com 616-831-1000. artmuseumgr.org Dart Auditorium, 500 N. Capitol Ave., 248-850-9919. twomusestheatre.org Theatre Company, 3126 Broad St., Ain’t Misbehavin’ $20-30. Stagecrafters Lansing. Through Feb. 23. 517-483- Dexter. Through March 2. 734-268- ART ‘N’ AROUND Marshall M. Fredericks Sculpture 1488. lcc.edu/showinfo Beauty and the Beast $25-32. Wharton at Baldwin Theatre, 415 S. Lafayette Ave., Center, Cobb Great Hall, 750 E. Shaw 6200. theencoretheatre.org Cranbrook Academy of Art and Art Museum “The President’s Royal Oak. Feb. 14 - March 2. 248-541- Photographer: Fifty Years Inside the Lane, East Lansing. Feb. 18 - 23. Redwood Curtain $18.50-42. The Museum “Waylande Gregory: Art Deco 6430. stagecrafters.org Oval Office” 7400 Bay Road, University Professional 800-WHARTON. whartoncenter.com Purple Rose Theatre Company, 137 Park Ceramics and the Atomic Impulse” 39221 Woodward Ave., Bloomfield Hills. Center. Feb. 3-May 24. 989-964-7125. Assassins $16-18. Farmington Players, ‘Tis Pity She’s a Whore $8-12. Pigeon St., Chelsea. Through March 15. 734- Clybourne Park $27-29. Farmers Alley Nov. 16-March 23. 877-462-7262. Marshallfredericks.org/presidents 32332 W. 12 Mile Road, Farmington Creek Shakespeare Company at Dog 433-7673. purplerosetheatre.org Theatre, 221 Farmers Alley, Kalamazoo. Cranbrookart.edu Hills. Through March 1. 248-473-1856. Story Theater, 7 Jefferson SE, Grand MOCAD “Tabernacle: A Metamorphic Rapids. Feb. 21 - 23. 616-425-9234. Through Feb. 23. 269-343-2727. The Great Mountain $5-10. Macomb Farmingtonplayers.org Cranbrook Academy of Art and Healing Module” 4454 Woodward Ave., dogstorytheater.com farmersalleytheatre.com Center for the Performing Arts, 44575 Art Museum “The Islands of Benoit Detroit. Feb. 7-May 4. 313-832-6622. Deathtrap $7-15. Twin City Players, Garfield Road, Clinton Township. Feb. Clybourne Park $7. Flint Youth Theatre, Mandelbrot: Fractals, Chaos, and the Mocadetroit.org 600 W. Glenlord Road, St. Joseph. 1300 Lafayette East $41-48. The 27. 586-286-2222. macombcenter.com 1220 E. Kearsley St., Flint. 6 p.m. Feb. Materiality of Thinking” 39221 Woodward Through Feb. 23. 269-429-0400. Jewish Ensemble Theatre Company at Pewabic Pottery “State of Flux”. 23. 810-237-1530. flintyouththeatre.org The Improvised Shakespeare Ave., Bloomfield Hills. Nov. 16-March 30. Twincityplayers.org Aaron DeRoy Theatre on the campus of Pewabic Pottery, 10125 E. Jefferson the Jewish Community Center, 6600 W. Collected Stories $15-20. Matrix Company $20-25. Macomb Center 877-462-7262. Cranbrookart.edu Ave., Detroit. Jan. 1-March 9. 313-626- Father of the Bride $15-35. The Maple Road, West Bloomfield. Through for the Performing Arts, 44575 Garfield Theatre Company, 2730 Bagley, Detroit. Detroit Institute of Arts “A Throne for 2000. Pewabic.org Croswell, 129 E. Maumee St., Adrian. Feb. 23. 248-788-2900. jettheatre.org Road, Clinton Township. March 1. 586- Feb. 21 - March 16. 313-967-0999. an African Prince” 2100 Woodward Ave., Feb. 28 - March 9. 517-263-6868. 286-2222. macombcenter.com Saugatuck Center for the Arts matrixtheatre.org Detroit. Dec. 1-March 16. 313-833- croswell.org 24 Hour Theatre a la Commedia “Balancing Point” 400 Culver St., Dell’Arte $5. Hole in the Wall Theatre ComedySportz Michigan Actors Studio, The Lion in Winter $15-25. 7900. Dia.org Saugatuck. Feb. 7-April 6. 269-857- Free Man of Color $10-12. Riverwalk Company at Flint Local 432, 124 Williamston Theatre, 122 S. Putnam 648 E. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 877- Detroit Institute of Arts “Let Me Show 2399. Sc4a.org Theatre, 228 Museum Dr., Lansing. w. First St., Flint. 8 p.m. Feb. 25. Road, Williamston. Through Feb. 23. 636-3320. comedysportzdetroit.com You What I Saw: American Views on Feb. 28 - March 9. 517-482-5700. holeinthewalltc.com 517-655-SHOW. williamstontheatre.org The Scarab Club “Bill Rauhauser”. 217 City and Country, 1912-1963” 2100 riverwalk.com I Do! I Do! The Snug Theatre, 160 S. Farnsworth, Detroit. Feb. 19-March 29. A Play by Franco Vitella $15-18. Water St., Marine City. Through Feb. 22. The Suit $18-60. University Musical Woodward Ave., Detroit. Dec. 1-June 29. 313-831-1250. Scarabclub.org Good People $18-24. Kalamazoo Civic Magenta Giraffe Theatre Company at 810-278-1749. thesnugtheatre.com Society atPower Center for the Performing 313-833-7900. ww. Dia.org Theatre at Parish Theatre, 426 South The Abreact Performance Space, 1301 Arts, 121 Fletcher St., Ann Arbor. Feb. 19 - UMMA “Three Michigan Architects: Part Detroit Institute of Arts “Foto Europa, Park Street, Kalamazoo. Feb. 28 - March W. Lafayette #113, Detroit. Through Feb. Lysistrata Jones $25-40. Meadow 22. 734-764-2538. ums.org 1-David Osler” 525 S. State St., Ann 1850 to the Present” 2100 Woodward 15. 269-343-1313. kazoocivic.com 22. 313-408-7269. Magentagiraffe.org Brook Theatre, 2200 N. Squirrel Road, Arbor. Dec. 7-March 31. 734-763-4186. Rochester. Through March 9. 248-377- The Sunshine Boys $15-18. Broadway Ave., Detroit. Oct. 25-April 27. 313-833- Umma.umich.edu

26 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com Out of Town Weekend in Savannah BY ANDREW COLLINS creative artisan-cocktail menu; the cheerfully dive-y Rail Pub (therailpub.com); and, several The dignified city that General James blocks farther down MLK Bouleard, the Oglethorpe put on the map in 1733 has weathered Distillery (distillerysavannah.com), with its the vagaries of time in fine fashion. Savannah extensive craft-beer list. has survived devastating fires and been spared destruction by General Sherman during the Civil War. It’s bounced back from the neglect of its Saturday historic district during the mid-20th century, Start the morning with breakfast at Clary’s enjoyed a remarkable comeback partly spurred Cafe (claryscafe.com), a no-nonsense greasy by John Berendt’s endearingly quirky, gay-tinged spoon serving honest favorites like French toast account of the city, “Midnight in The Garden of stuffed with strawberries and cream cheese, Good and Evil,” and entered more recently into and crab cakes Benedict. Then get to know the a contemporary arts-driven renaissance heralded city’s historic district better with a guided walk by the rapid growth of the Savannah College of by Jonathan Stalcup of Architectural Savannah Art and Design (SCAD), which opened only 35 (architecturalsavannah.com) – his tours years ago but now owns nearly 70 downtown typically leave from Chippewa Square at 10 buildings – some of them quite prominent. a.m. (reservations required, $20 per person). Savannah isn’t a stodgy and static vestige An author and architectural historian, Stalcup of a long-ago era. Carefully preserved it may graduated from SCAD, has an amazing be, this fast-growing Southern city is home knowledge of the city’s design history, and is to a thriving creative class, has a growing also a helpful resource on the local gay scene. appetite for hotels and restaurants with a Grab lunch downtown. Fire Street Food contemporary bent, and has surprising knack for (firestreetfood.com), which occupies what accommodating all sorts of disparate elements had been Blaine’s, a gone-but-not-forgotten – ardent preservationists, edgy designers, rowdy gay bar, serves tasty international fare (sushi tour-bus tourists, sophisticated sybaritics, drag rolls, pad Thai, seared-fish sandwiches), aficionados. The heady blend makes this leafy while the more traditional Olde Pink House city a fine spot for people-watching, and a richly (plantersinnsavannah.com/the-olde-pink- rewarding weekend destination. Savannah house) is a legendary Savannah experience lies within an afternoon’s drive of Atlanta, that every visitor should try at least once. Charleston, Charlotte, Jacksonville and Orlando, Specialties include she-crab soup, fried green and its airport has direct flights of two hours or tomatoes with bacon-sweet corn cream and less from Chicago, Dallas, Houston, New York crab-stuffed grouper. Jonathan Stalcup leads one of his fascinating architectural tours of historic Savannah. Photo: Andrew Collins. City, Washington, and several other cities. Spend the afternoon walking around Here’s a quick, handy itinerary for planning downtown, checking out the diverting shops indoor and outdoor seating and a menu focused a three-day getaway to Savannah, along with along Broughton Street, including gay-owned on well-crafted comfort fare, from a burger Sunday several recommendations of gay-popular hotels Chocolat by Adam Turoni, whose artisan topped with Coca-Cola-barbecue sauce to You may not think of Savannah as a typical and inns. sweets are as beautiful to behold and to devour; classic shrimp and grits. A bit more upscale, beach destination, but it’s just a 15-mile drive the local outpost of chic designer Marc Jacobs; to Tybee Island, a laid-back resort community and Sylvester & Co., a colorful “general store” Local 11 Ten (local11ten.com) earns raves for Friday its crisp, angular interior and artfully presented with a long stretch of sugary sand fronting the of housewares and decorative arts with a Atlantic, a long fishing pier, and several lively modern sensibility. food, including charred local octopus with kale Depending on when you arrive in town, rest bars and restaurants. Given that Savannah’s up a bit before planning an easygoing evening of Make time to visit the Telfair Museums, and nori aioli, and roasted half chicken with moderate climate (highs averaging in the 60s in restaurant- and bar-hopping around the historic which comprise the original 1818 Telfair truffled sweet potatoes. January and the upper 70s by April), it’s nearly City Market district and the surrounding blocks, Academy, with its sculptures, 19th- and 20th- Savannah has a couple of fun gay always a good bet for beachcombing. Along which are home to several sophisticated-but- century paintings and period furnishings; the nightspots that pack in the crowds on the drive out, you might also stop at one of the friendly mixed lounges and bars. One fine food strikingly contemporary Jepson Center, which Saturdays. Club One (clubone-online.com) option is A.Lure (aluresavannah.com), which was designed by Moshe Safdie and contains has long been famous as the home bar of interesting historic sites along the way, Fort presents a contemporary take on the region’s a superb contemporary art collection; and the Lady Chablis, who was memorably Pulaski National Monument or Tybee Island classic lowcountry cuisine – don’t miss the nearby Owens-Thomas House, a fairly unusual portrayed in “Midnight in the Garden of Lighthouse and Museum. seared sea scallops with pulled-duck confit and U.S. example of English Regency architecture. Good and Evil” (and also played herself Break up your day with lunch at LGBT-owned mango-jalapeno barbecue sauce and savory Also don’t miss the new SCAD Museum of in the very movie of the same name). The Marlin Monroe’s (marlinmonroessurfsidegrill. sweet-corn ice cream. The more traditional Art, which has been constructed out of a the shows in the upstairs cabaret are good fun, if com), a festive venue for lunch – it fringes the Belford’s (belfordssavannah.com), with its high 1856 former headquarters of the Central of touristy, and Lady Chablis does perform here beach and serves big portions of tasty seafood. ceilings and graceful front patio, specializes in Georgia Railway and presents provocative about once a month. Downstairs, there’s a If you’re still hungry on your way back to seafood and steaks but is also an inviting stop rotating installations and well as works from a big dance floor, and in the basement a cozier Savannah in the evening, detour slightly to for a cocktail to kick off the evening. growing and impressive permanent collection. bar and lounge. The other option is Chuck’s, Savannah’s South Side for dinner at one of the Eclectic nearby bars worth checking out For dinner that evening, try one of the a festive neighborhood bar situated among better soul-food eateries in the region, Sweet for post-dinner sipping and schmoozing relatively new hotspots around town, perhaps the converted warehouses on the riverfront; Potatoes Kitchen, where you can fuel up on include the hipster-favored Sparetime Public Kitchen & Bar (thepublickitchen.com), there’s a good jukebox and a pool table in mouthwatering peach-glazed barbecue chicken, (sparetimesavannah.com), known for its a scene-y neighborhood bistro with attractive back, and the drinks are cheap and potent. lemon collard greens and banana pudding. www.PrideSource.com Feb. 20, 2014 | BTL 27 To place a classified ad with us, visit pridesource.com/classifieds Classifieds or call us at 734-293-7200 x15 01-ANNOUNCEMNTS 112 ANNOUNCEMENTS LGBT AA MEETINGS - VOLUNTEERING

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28 BTL | Feb. 20, 2014 www.PrideSource.com Deep Inside Hollywood BY ROMEO SAN VICENTE Casting and recasting: Mara in for Mia in ‘Carol’ Things change. Rooney Mara (“Her”) will now be playing the lead in “Carol,” the adaptation of lesbian author Patricia Highsmith’s novel “The Price of Salt.” Mia Wasikowska was originally cast in the main role as a young woman named Therese who falls for an older married woman (to be played by Cate Blanchett, probably perfectly), but she’s dropped out. Enter Mara, whose arty lesbian fanbase was solidified by “The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo” and “Side Effects,” and who can seemingly do no wrong; she’s a wise choice when you want to cool-up your cast list. Furthermore, with Todd Haynes as director, an adapted screenplay by Phyllis Nagy, Christine Vachon as producer and lesbian actress Sarah Paulson (“12 Years A Slave”), this is the kind Emma Thompson. Photo: Jaguar PS / Shutterstock.com of project that would make for an avalanche of points if there such a thing as gay filmmaking company in the United States to mount the fantasy leagues. Actually, who knows, maybe production. Nah, better just hop on that plane. there are. ‘Brokeback Mountain’ opera Effie Gray with a bit of gay Euphemia “Effie” Gray was the teenage bride opening in Madrid of the Victorian art critic John Ruskin, yet she The most memorable operas, the ones that refused to consummate that unhappy union. inspire long-term devotion, are the tragedies. Instead she had it annulled before running off And “Brokeback Mountain,” the Annie Proulx with Ruskin’s protégé, the painter John Everett novella turned into a film and gay cultural Millais. It was quite the scandal, you see, a proper touchstone, is nothing if not tragic. The story of aristocratic love triangle. And now, for lucky fans two closeted ranch workers in the gay forbidden of corsets, tea and big hats, it’s going to be a film zone of 1960s Wyoming, “Brokeback” has from director John Laxton, written by Emma crossed over into the world of music with a Thompson. Dakota Fanning (all grown up now) brand new opera. Composed by gay 75-year-old will play Miss Gray, and the supporting cast is Charles Wuorinen, the Pulitzer Prize-winning populated by at least two cool gay character composer whose challenging work has earned actors, “Being Human”’s Russell Tovey (also him a career filled with both the admiration of featured on this season of “Looking”) and his peers as well as approval from audiences in acclaimed veteran stage and screen presence search of new “classical” music, “Brokeback Derek Jacobi (“The King’s Speech”). But gay Mountain” stars Canadian bass-baritone Daniel cast members aside, the real draws here for queer Okulitch and U.S. tenor Tom Randle with a audiences are going to be the costumes, the fancy libretto by Proulx herself. The English-language setting and that champion of sipping martinis on production is being staged at Madrid’s Teatro stage at the Golden Globes, Emma Thompson. Real right now, so you can either hop on a plane We’ll follow her anywhere, even to that weird or wish, hope and pray for an adventurous opera “Saving Mr. Banks” fluff.

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