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Buffalo Jewish Federation Jewish Buffalo (3-23) people in our community, written by a group of great ne le an il na ra tenberg [email protected] local leaders and writers. This month you can meet Lead Designer ...... Kimberly Miers 3 Jewish Buffalo’s Difference Makers [email protected] dynamos Howard and Tara Cadmus, who are helping by Steven J. Weiss Senior Graphic Designers ...... Josh Flanigan, to re-shape Williamsville; acquaint yourself with Ben 4-5 Samantha Sugarman Andrea Rowley, Jean-Pierre Thimot, Nicholas Vitello Siegel, one of the region’s cultural creative superstars by Maria Scrivani Traffic Coordinator...... Adam Van Schoonhoven who is working every day to turn around Buffalo’s old Associate Publisher/Senior Vice President/Advertising ...... Barbara E. Macks 6 Howard & Tara Cadmus [email protected] image. Then meet teenager Aaron Schapiro- part Rock by Ellen Goldstein Assistant Sales & Marketing Manager ...... Marianne Potratz Star, Part Baby Mozart—who is just getting warmed 7 Ted & Phyllis Steinberg by Ezra Rich [email protected] Sales Director ...... Cynthia Oppenheimer, up for greatness, even before he graduates from high 8-9 Sydney Cole by Teresa Kennedy school. And if you don’t know about the Buffalo [email protected] 10 11 Carin Greenfield & Amy Heumann Senior Account Executives ...... Robin Kurss, [email protected] Jewish Coalition for Literacy project already, let Carin by Ellen Goldstein Bruce Halpern, [email protected] Greenfield’s and Amy Heumann’s profiles introduce Betty Tata, [email protected] 12-13 Aaron Schapiro by Rob Goldberg you to a Federation project making a difference in Proofreaders ...... Sharon C. Levite, Amy Goldstein Buffalo every day, and learn how literacy volunteers 14 Lisa Rodwin by Howard Rosenhoch Members of David and Beverly Schiller took an entire school class 15 Stephen & Kim Yonaty to Chair to the Albright Knox Art Gallery. Campaign for Jewish Buffalo As we enjoy the beauty and warmth of summer, we 16 Ben Siegel by Jana Eisenberg Submissions: Submit editorial stories, photos, and calendar items by the 1st of the also must remember that the Hebrew month of Elul 17 Todd Sugarman by Peter Simon preceding month of issue to [email protected]. begins August 23. Elul reminds us to begin preparing 18 Vilona Trachtenberg To Advertise: our souls for the High Holiday days next month, by Mara Koven-Gelman To advertise, call Cynthia Oppenheimer at 716-783-9119 x2240. enabling us time to review and recollect. So enjoy 20 David Bunis by Dr. Chana Kotzin Ad space & materials are due by the 10th of each month prior to your long summer days, the warmth of the sun and 22 Dr. Philip Glick by Rob Goldberg publication. For a rate card and any additional information, please email Cynthia Oppenheimer [email protected] the smell of the trees, 23 Hadar Borden by Nicole Bard air and flowers. I’ll be or Barbara Macks [email protected]. Food- Savory Zucchini Cheesecake To Subscribe: digging up dirt…in the 24 by Robin Kurss To subscribe, visit www.jfedbflo.com and click on “JJWNY garden. 25 5 Things you can do to repair the subscription.” Free for Western New York area residents and donors to the Campaign. Non-resident subscription is $36 for 12 issues, Ellen Goldstein - Editor world in August payable to The Jewish Journal. Where in Jewish Bflo? The Jewish Journal of WNY (JJWNY) reserves the right to cancel any advertisement at 26-27 Special Advertising Supplement: any time. The Buffalo Jewish Federation and Buffalo Spree Publishing, Inc. are not Dining Guide liable for the content or errors appearing in the advertisements beyond the cost of the space occupied. The JJWNY does not assume responsibility for the kashrut of 28-29 Agencies & Synagogues any product or service advertised in this paper. Editorials, columns, advertisements, agency reports and other outside articles do not necessarily represent the views 30-31 Special Advertising Supplement: of the newspaper or the Buffalo Jewish Federation, but rather express the view of Women the writer. All real estate advertising in this newspaper is subject to the Federal Fair Housing 32-39 Synagogue Happenings & Agency Act of 1968, which makes it “illegal to advertise “based on race, color, religion, Events sex, handicap, familial status, national origin, or an intention to make any such preference, limitation or discrimination.” This newspaper will not knowingly accept 40-43 Jews in the News any advertising for real estate that is in violation of the law. Our readers are hereby informed that all dwellings advertised in this newspaper are available on an equal 44 Not The Last Word: Harold Halpern opportunity basis. 2 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 COMMUNITY
children and volunteers. We also learn about a 102 year-old veteran who recently received not only long overdue recognition for his service, but also his High School diploma as well. Together these members of our community weave a story that underscores the diversity and strength that is Jewish Buffalo. We hope that you enjoy each of “Whoever saves one single life, In this issue, we meet their stories and are inspired by their it is as if he or she saves the entire people of all ages creating work, passion and contributions. world.” That is what the Talmud or reshaping places Many thanks to to Teresa Kennedy teaches us. in Buffalo that make in Congressman Brian Higgin’s And so when we first introduced a difference for those Buffalo office, Ezra Rich, Maria our “Difference Makers” special around them. Included Scrivani, Mara Koven-Gelman, Rob edition last summer that featured a among the group is Goldberg, Peter Simon, Howard dozen individuals, we knew that we a judge who helps new Rosenhoch, Ellen Goldstein, Jana had only scratched the surface; that immigrants have a better Eisenberg, Chana Kotzin, and Nicole there were dozens of others we could life here, just like the Bard who contributed the narratives have featured had we more room. So opportunities given to for our Difference-Makers. We we put together a second issue this her mother many years are so pleased to be able to share past February, highlighting fifteen ago. Two chairs of the these stories about the best of our more Difference Makers. And so it Buffalo Jewish Coalition community—and to continue to do was an easy decision for us to do a for Literacy explain how so in The Jewish Journal of WNY. third version of “Difference Makers” the program has changed this month to showcase individuals their lives while they Steven J. Weiss who are making an impact on those have helped to change te en Wei President around them. the lives of hundreds of Buffalo Jewish Federation
August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 3 W H O a ugar an Back Home, Singing Her Heart Out by Maria Scrivani
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4 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 “I grew up in a very lively, musical are for me the equivalent of an artist’s household,” she recalls. “My mom portfolio,” she says. “You never know Bonnie played piano, and we often gathered who’s going to hear it.” around the piano, singing—and my dad’s Writing original material is another a pretty good guitarist. He sang James way to express deeply-felt emotion, or Taylor lullabies to us.” Though they as she says, “singing my stories and my is Buffalo! are not pursuing careers in music, her opinions,” in the manner of some of her siblings share the family musical talent: idols, Joni Mitchell and Ani DiFranco Abby is a cellist, and Emily plays guitar. among them. “My most common themes The Sugarmans were active members of are being able to conquer fear…and Temple Sinai (now merged with Temple reveal the common ground we share Beth Am as Congregation Shir Shalom), as humans. Music is one of the most a place with “an enormous emphasis on powerful forces that exist, it is the connection and community, and also a language of emotion, and it provides a strong musical tradition,” Sam says. safe space for strangers and friends alike By the time she graduated from to connect.” #1 college in Pittsburgh, she says she was Channeling passion and empathy Agent for only sure that music would always be informs the work Sam Sugarman has paramount in her life. How and where done back home, while actively pursuing Hunt was the question. Like so many newly- a music career. Sharing a Buffalo West minted performers before her, Sam Side flat with her second youngest Real Estate “Channeling passion and empathy ERA informs the work Sam Sugarman has done 2013-2016 back home, while actively pursuing a music career.” took her nebulous dreams to New York sister, Sam’s been an environmental City, where friends were also bound activist, canvassing for NYPIRG. She’s for Broadway, or thereabouts. “I knew I coordinated the after-school program Licensed Associate Real Estate Broker could still be part of a community I was for Kadimah Academy of Buffalo, as comfortable with—friends from college. well as working as a Kindergarten aide I did a few open calls for various shows— there, where she attended two years to keep your sanity in that world you of middle school. She’s worked as a BONNIE CLEMENT have to enjoy pounding the pavement. Conflict-Avoidance Counselor through But that wasn’t really for me. a new program at Stanley G. Falk “I went to work as a day care teacher. School, and is embarking on an intense Cell: 716.553.8384 | [email protected] My overarching focus was still musical, training program as a volunteer with but I had found something I could just the Erie County Restorative Justice BonnieClement.com as easily be passionate about…and I Coalition, helping to build empathy at loved the job. The big change came for the community level. 5570 Main Street, Williamsville me when I met a brilliant musician and “The common point between my * All of HUNT Real Estate ERA Gross Closed Commission and #1 total Units Buffalo / Niagara Region 2016. recording engineer, who remains a close music and this kind of work is my drive friend today…He had me come in and to be involved in the healing this world record a cover of Ed Sheeran’s song Kiss needs,” she says. So she works in the Me. I got this sense of fulfillment from community, and performs publicly, in Florida Home for Sale in Valencia Lakes, Boynton Beach this experience that I hadn’t felt in a local coffeehouses like The Daily Planet very long time. In a recording studio, you on Hertel and Parker. She was featured are in your own space—very vulnerable, at a new event this summer, Cobblestone but also very real. That first recording Live. Look for her on YouTube. For Sam was made in April 2015—I wanted to Sugarman, launched in Buffalo, the only post it on YouTube, but I was afraid way to go is up. to push that button—finally I asked my Maria Scrivani is a frequent sister to do it.” contributor to Forever Young and In March of that year Sam moved Buffalo Spree. back to Buffalo. That first YouTube 3 Bedroom • 2 Bathroom • 1,875 sq ft • Just renovated • Storm shutters video, featuring a soulful Sam singing Screened porch • Clubhouse with community pool, gym, tennis court and restaurant and accompanying herself on piano, has Contact [email protected] been followed by seven more, the last (716) 866-6799 three featuring her own songs. “These August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 5 JEWISH BUFFALO’S DIFFERENCE MAKERS
meaning in our lives.” chocolate and ice cream are all made H ar ara a u They decided to open themselves to at the rehabbed Mill, and Howard’s law some kind of new career experience, practice is a few hundred steps away in an something more family and community- old rehabbed house right next to the Mill The Village People friendly. The first business they undertook on the Spring Street property. By Ellen Goldstein was completely Howard’s idea, said Tara. The Mill which houses the Sweet “Let’s start a candy store—he said.” The Jenny’s shop, started as a timber mill in Howard and Tara Cadmus are on a mission to rebuild and revitalize an historical rest is a sweet story. They opened Oh Pour 1811, then a grist mill, then a cement landmark in Williamsville, create a space for their family’s and community activities, L’Amour du Chocolat (Oh For the Love of mill, then a feed mill and most recently make certain they contribute in different ways to Western New York, and have fun-- all Chocolate) at Main & Harlem in Snyder a cider mill, and it was owned by all the at the same time! Square. same family until the Village took it over. “Once we got going with candy-making, “We currently employ 30-50 people at we began to look for some ice cream any given time, and we want to share our Howard and Tara Cadmus said their work, their businesses and their lives are about community.
to sell with the candy,” Tara explained. business with everybody,” Howard said. They approached Deb Hanny of Sweet There are also two existing floors Jenny’s, looking to carry her brand of ice below ground level in the old building cream. But she didn’t just want to just Tara explained. All the original water sell ice cream. She wanted to sell them works—the equipment fed by the her entire Sweet Jenny’s business. “Why sluiceway that were used for grinding and don’t you buy me out?” Ms. Hanny said. milling, and which will be repurposed for “So we did,” Tara said. “We were able to hydro electric energy—are still there. The be successful enough with two businesses couple plans to invest in water power for that I could leave my job. Howard is still the site, as well. an attorney from 7am-5pm, and becomes “My law firm and the shops came a chocolatier until 10pm.” out of trying to do good. We donate gift After a few years, the couple certificates and we sponsor three charity wanted to do more in their Village of events every month,” said Howard. “We Williamsville. “We became interested in have made ‘giving back’ a focus.” In the Williamsville Water Mill. “I wanted to addition, the shop has a comic book see that this building—the Mill on Spring section on the second floor because Street—stayed safe, and we wanted to Howard was always a fan of comics. “I breathe life back into it. The Village think comic books can be an important Howard & Tara Cadmus approved our proposal for the Mill—they path to literacy,” he said. “I grew up very didn’t want to see it significantly changed poor, and reading comics made me a Tara Cadmus grew up in East Amherst, they embraced me. One of the reasons either, and we wanted to keep it true to solid reader, and helped me to form the went to North High School, and is in her I stayed here is that I felt like I had a its historic character as a manufacturing cognitive connections between pictures mid-30s. She is the oldest of five children, support system.” After a few years at a site for 200 years.” and words. We buy and sell comics and her father is a small business owner. law firm, he decided to put down some They put in a bid for the three upstairs as well as old toys. We also fix She saw how hard he worked and said to roots and start his solo law practice. buildings and offered the Village of up old video games, all so visitors can herself, “I am never going to open my Tara and Howard’s paths crossed Williamsville what it had paid for the site. have fun.” own business.” Fast forward 20+ years. several times during his early time in “Williamsville wanted the property back In the end, Howard and Tara Cadmus That is exactly what she is doing. A Buffalo, but they had never actually on its tax rolls, we wanted to rehab the said their work, their businesses and UB undergraduate, with an MBA from met, until they both found themselves building,” Howard said. “We made the their lives are about community. “It is Canisius College, a Master’s in Political at a party together. After that, they rehab project very public, and there was an never about the income,” Howard said. Science and a law degree from law school started dating, fell in love right away, outcry of support, happily. Two hundred “It’s about the outcome.” They employ in Columbus, Ohio, “I would have gone to and married about ten years ago years ago, the Village of Williamsville people, create a family atmosphere here school forever if I hadn’t gotten married in Buffalo. At the beginning of their had grown up around this building. It is for their employees, can bring their new and settled down,” she said. marriage, they focused on their careers. one of the oldest commercial structures baby son here, so it’s not just a family Howard was born where he calls They saw themselves as high powered in Western New York. “We first got under business, it’s a business that’s a family, “Downstate NY.” He went to SUNY Albany young professionals working in corporate contract in 2014, and ended up being able they reiterated. Oh, and the ice cream and and came to UB for Law School. “When I jobs. She was in finance, managing stock to occupy the building,” he explained. the chocolate are really good, too! first moved here, I taught Hebrew History brokers in New York City. “I was working But their businesses were still in three Ellen Goldstein is the managing editor at Temple Beth Am and Halacha at The for Citigroup out of NYC remotely from different locations. - Oh Pour L ’Amour of the Jewish Journal of WNY, and likes Bureau of Jewish Education’s Hebrew Buffalo,” Tara said. “Howard had his own was at Harlem & Main, Sweet Jenny’s was Sweet Jenny’s black raspberry ice cream. High. I worked for attorney Morris law practice (real estate law). We were on Main street in Williamsville (Main A lot! Horowitz as a lawyer, and met a lot of young, successful, making money—but St, Sweet Jenny’s is now closed) and people in the Jewish community, and not fulfilled,” she said. “We wanted more they now owned the Mill. Today, the 6 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 W H O
for refugees, as well as food staples lli e teinberg for the hungry, among other efforts to help vulnerable members of the larger community. Choosing Buffalo Their actions have not gone unnoticed. Describing the couple, Rabbi By Ezra N. Rich Joshua Strosberg, Kehillat Ohr Tzion’s Catching their three grown children outgoing rabbi, says, “Phyllis and Ted who live in major East Coast cities are cornerstones of Kehillat Ohr Tzion. by surprise, Dr. Theodore L. and Mrs. Every Shabbos (Sabbath) after davening Phyllis Steinberg chose to move to (services), Phyllis announces a new project Buffalo in 2011 to enjoy their retirement or program that she is organizing for the years. It was the start of an exciting Social Action Committee. She is constantly new chapter in a city they had been thinking about what she can do to help visiting over the years since settling other people and she rallies the troops to in Fredonia, New York, decades earlier. help implement her vision. Ted is one of When their children were teenagers, the spiritual pillars of the shul; he gives the Steinbergs would bring them to thoughtful and insightful sermons, shares Buffalo to participate in Jewish youth his skill as a shaliach tzibbur (leader of organizations. Their children—and prayer) and haftarah reader, and cracks grandchildren—subsequently settled us all up with his puns. He also does in Washington, D.C., Philadelphia, and whatever needs to be done around the New York City. shul (synagogue) to keep it functioning. Then, as empty nesters seeking Jewish Together, Ted and Phyllis are a remarkable connections, they began visiting Buffalo e lli teinberg couple.” more frequently, including monthly “As a retired couple, visits by Phyllis to Buffalo Hadassah’s and Jewish holidays. Time for More Teaching book club meetings. When it came time During his 44 years at SUNY Fredonia, the Steinbergs are Ted’s passion for teaching has entered for retirement, they considered moving Ted was a beloved educator and leader, a new phase in Buffalo. Expanding to Buffalo, which certainly wasn’t what teaching Medieval and Renaissance not slowing down. beyond college students, he now gives their children and grandchildren were literature, as well as Judaic studies. He adult classes on topics including Yiddish expecting. “All our kids wanted us to oversaw the school’s Honors College, They are energized... literature, re-reading the Classics, the move near them, but they all lived in big served as director of its Hillel, and Bible as literature, and other subjects at cities, and we didn’t know anyone in any developed courses on topics ranging from participating in the the JCC, Weinberg Campus, and elsewhere. of those places,” explains Ted. “Our kids the Bible as Literature to African American Ted and Phyllis have collaborated with said, ‘What?! You’re moving to Buffalo?!’” and Jewish literature. He also authored evolution of Buffalo leaders from across the Buffalo Jewish Phyllis recalls with a smile. two books; Mendele Mocher Seforim, on Jewish life.” community to co-sponsor these offerings, the Yiddish author, and Jews and Judaism thereby attracting larger audiences and Cultivating Small Town Jewish Life in the Middle Ages. His dedication to Relations Council, under the auspices qualifying for communal funds they invest After growing up in the large Jewish teaching and research were recognized of the Buffalo Jewish Federation, which into the post-program refreshments. communities of Chicago and Baltimore, with prestigious awards from the President seeks to become a central agent for the His talents have also brought him back Phyllis and Ted met in graduate school at of SUNY Fredonia and the Chancellor of Jewish community’s participation and into the college classroom. Ted teaches the University of Illinois. Phyllis studied SUNY. engagement with other groups, including a course at Canisius College on Jewish special education, going on to teach and local Christian and Muslim communities. culture and practice. It is becoming an ultimately serve as principal of Fredonia Lifelong Commitment to Action The work builds on Ted’s experience at attractive option for undergraduate Elementary School. After earning his Ph.D. As a retired couple, the Steinbergs are Fredonia. Following the terror attacks students to meet their Religious Studies in English literature, Ted joined the faculty not slowing down. They are energized— of September 11, 2001, Ted helped requirement for graduation. at the State University of New York at planning events, teaching a range of organize a group that brought together Looking back on their choice of Buffalo, Fredonia. subjects, and participating in the evolution Jewish, Christian and Muslim students to the Steinbergs are pleased. During their decades in Fredonia, Phyllis of Buffalo Jewish life. A consistent theme understand each other’s traditions and “We find that pretty much everyone in also taught part-time in the education in their endeavors is a passion to raise viewpoints. He sees the Council as a voice the Jewish community gets along. There departments of the State University of participation and awareness of Jewish for the community. “[It will help] make is so much cross-denominational activity. New York at Fredonia and Jamestown efforts to help those in need. While sure the Jewish community isn’t isolated We really like that in Buffalo,” observes Community College. Making a difference still being an active member of Buffalo and people know where we stand on Ted. Reflecting on the comraderie of the inside the classroom wasn’t enough. She Hadassah’s book club, Phyllis is now a [these] issues,” Ted explains. “It’s going Buffalo Jewish community, Phyllis adds, was also active in many organizations that leader of the organization as a co-president. to be a very important group as it grows.” “I hope more Jews move here. It has been advocated for the rights of children with In this role, she explores new programming Their interest in the Council also easy to find a great group of friends.” special needs, served as a trustee at Temple options, plans monthly events, and is expands on Phyllis’ leadership as chair Ezra N. Rich, a marketing communi- Beth El in Dunkirk, and volunteered at the energized about the organization’s second of Kehillat Ohr Tzion’s Social Action cations professional, is a new member Friendly Kitchen of Dunkirk, which is a century of commitment to women’s health Committee. The committee partners with of the Buffalo Jewish community. He, soup kitchen within the Food Bank of and well-being, Israel, Jewish values and local relief organizations, including Jewish his wife—Hillel of Buffalo’s Rabbi Sara WNY network. Over the years, they hosted continuity. Family Services’ Refugee Resettlement Rich—and their daughters, Miriam and countless Jewish college students at their One emerging initiative the Steinbergs program and several soup kitchens. They Sivan, moved to Williamsville in June. home and synagogue for meals on Shabbat are excited about is the Community collect clothing and household items August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 7 JEWISH BUFFALO’S DIFFERENCE MAKERS ne le Real American Hero
Born in New York City in 1914 to Russian immigrants Max and Lena Cohn, Sydney was one of five children. His father, who made a living in restoring older homes, was sent to Buffalo to work on a mansion on Delaware Avenue and the family settled into a house on Shoreham Drive in North Buffalo.
Mr. Cole attended elementary school at Buffalo Public School #32 and high school at Fosdick-Masten Park, now known as City Honors. Sydney, who served as Captain of the swim team, won the All High Medal and led his team to become city champions from 1932 to ngre an rian Higgin a ar e e al t ne le at uffal H ital in ar 1933. After high school he worked as a salesman for Brost Motors Inc. and then the barbed wire off the camp. They for Packard Buffalo Inc. both located treated his infection and gave him “Captain Sydney Cole’s on Main St. in Buffalo as well as his food. A couple months later there father’s business Cohn Plumbing Supply was a prisoner exchange and he was story of service to this Company on William St. in Buffalo. But officially free. Mr. Cole’s passion was aviation and when He was happy to have his freedom, country more than World War II broke out in Europe he set but would encounter further evidence 75 years ago is one that out to join the Allied Forces. of the Holocaust, which he reported Mr. Cole’s application to the highly a tain ne le was even more difficult to deal with should be remembered competitive United States Air Corps was than his personal experiences as a initially declined but that didn’t stop him. concentration camp and likely killed if Prisoner of War. Captain Cole recalls and retold.” In July of 1941, before the United States the Germans found out he was Jewish, coming upon a satellite of Auschwitz, entered into World War II, he traveled 120 he threw his tags as far into the woods abandoned by the Germans. He and Principal Dr. William Kresse, to celebrate miles to Toronto, Canada and enlisted as possible. There were bullet holes in witnessed mass open graves of Jewish the service of and present military medals in the Royal Canadian Air Force. On his parachute which he managed to wrap victims of the Holocaust. Frail Jewish to World War II Veteran and Prisoner of War January 21st, 1942 he was discharged by around his left arm and leg to subside the prisoners too weak to move remained survivor, 102 year-old Sydney Cole March 30 the Canadian Royal Air Force, returned bleeding before he lost consciousness. in the Camp, including a woman who at the VA Hospital in Buffalo. back to Buffalo, NY and signed up for the Captain Cole laid on the ground bleeding died in his arms as he spoon-fed her. “Captain Sydney Cole’s story of service to United States draft. On September 16th, for about two days, and nearly froze to Captain Cole was discharged from this country more than 75 years ago is one 1943 he joined the United States Army so death before being transported on the the Army on December 27th, 1945. that should be remembered and retold,” said he could continue to support the Allies. outside of a German tank. He returned to Buffalo, married Congressman Brian Higgins. “It is a story Then-First Lieutenant Cole flew an He was assigned to a POW camp Sybil Richard, the love of his life, of bravery and sacrifice. It is a reminder of artillery observation plane for the 776th run by the Hitler Youth, where many and had one child, Richard Cole. He the importance of the religious freedoms we Field Artillery Battalion. He remembers of the prisoners were killed. He was owned Cole Motors on Main Street value. It is validation that one person can that the enemy would do everything interrogated, beaten and locked in a from 1946 to 1972 and worked as the make an enormous difference in this world.” possible to shoot his plane down every cellar of rotten potatoes. He was fed soup manager of the Buffalo Athletic Club “Sydney Cole is a living example from the time it was in the air. He often flew made of grass and potatoes, and wasn’t from 1978 to retirement. Greatest Generation and is one of our national in bitter cold temperatures and through allowed to shower or shave. From January Mr. Cole’s bravery has not gone treasures,” commented Brian Stiller, Director, snow storms. First Lieutenant Cole through May his weight went from 145 unnoticed. He was the Grand Marshal VA Western New York Healthcare System. recalls using blow torches to warm pounds to 95 pounds. in the 2015 Buffalo Veterans Day “We are fortunate to have this special medal the engine oil in the planes. Cole was Eventually Mr. Cole and other prisoners Parade, was recognized on the presentation here at the VA to honor and mark involved in the battle of Rhineland and were sent on boxcars to Stalag IVF POW anniversary of Pearl Harbor during his heroism and love for our country.” the Ardennes Campaign, known as the Camp on the Polish-German border. He the Buffalo Bills Game, and awarded In a ceremony, Congressman Higgins and Battle of the Bulge, from December 16th, remembers the train ride in which an the first annual D’Youville College members of the United States Army presented 1944 to January 25th, 1945. He will never English doctor, who was also a prisoner, Sydney Cole Award in 2016 for his Captain Sydney Cole with his medals. forget what happened to him in the early picked the shrapnel out of his leg. Upon service to his country. Mr. Cole was also surprised with the morning hours of January 2nd, 1945 when arrival, he was asked about his religion presentation of his Fosdick-Masten Park High his plane was shot down; he saved his and reported he was Protestant. When March 30, 2017 Award Ceremony School diploma, which he never received as a copilot, risking his life and became a he got to the camp those who were Jewish at Buffalo’s VA Hospital student, and officially inducted into the City Prisoner of War. were sent away, never came back, and Congressman Brian Higgins (NY- Honors (formerly Fosdick-Masten Park High When Captain Cole landed he were likely executed. As one of three 26) joined members of the United School) Distinguished Alumni Hall of Fame. remembered that his “dog tags” indicated officers there he was assigned to lead States Army, Veterans of Foreign City Honors Principal Dr. William Kresse his religion on them. C stood for Catholic, a Battalion. The camp was abandoned Wars VFW, American Legion, Military said, “We really work to be sure that our P for Protestant, and H for Hebrew. and in May of 1945 the Russians came Order of the Purple Heart, along with students understand the heritage of Fosdick- Knowing that he would be sent to a in with medical personell and ripped City Honors High School students Masten Park High School. So they tend to 8 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 have great reverence for Fosdick-Masten, The Prisoner of War Medal Citation but learning about Mr. Cole’s life voyage “While serving as Chief Forward Aerial has really affected them in a powerful Observer for the 776th Field Artillery way. Kids these days are witnessing a Battalion, Cpt. Cole and his aircraft complicated, violent and often hateful encountered severe inclement weather world. It’s really important for them which required him to remain on station to understand that these things have in support beyond normal duration. While happened in another day and age and on station, Cpt. Cole’s aircraft was hit by that people like a young Sydney Cole enemy anti-aircraft fire and disabled. Cpt. rose above it to be courageous and help Cole’s aviation skill and prior experience others. The entire City Honors/Fosdick- as a glider pilot enabled him to place Masten Park community is incredibly the aircraft in glide mode while he and proud to acknowledge Mr. Cole today as his co-pilot struggled to exit the aircraft. an important part of the proud history of When the co-pilot’s headset was tangled our school.” in the door of the craft, Cpt. Cole went to
e f a tain le e al the aid of his comrade and freed him to Medals Mr. Cole received from parachute safely behind friendly lines. In so Canada: doing, however, Cpt. Cole delayed his own The War Medal 1939-1945 - awarded departure from the crippled aircraft enough for 28 days of service between September so that he descended behind German lines. 3rd, 1939 and September 2nd, 1945. During his descent, Cpt. Cole was fired upon by German troops and sustained multiple Medals Mr. Cole received from the gunshot wounds to his left arm and leg. United States: Cpt. Cole was later captured by retreating • American Defense Service Medal, enemy armored troops and transported • American Campaign Medal, to Germany for incarceration at German • European-African-Middle Eastern Stalag IVF (pronounced Four F). As one of Campaign Medal with 2 bronze service only three officers at the prison, stars, Cpt. Cole commanded some 150 enlisted • World War II Victory Medal, prisoners. Despite his ill-treated wounds • Honorable Service Lapel Button and diminished body weight of only 95 WWII, pounds, Cpt. Cole was instrumental Sheryl • Air Medal, in maintaining high levels of discipline • Purple Heart Medal – for injuries and morale among the enlisted men and Kardaman Silverberg sustained in action while serving in served as an inspiration and an example of World War II, American military conduct while in enemy Your Neighbor, Your Realtor • Bronze Star Medal - awarded to custody. Cpt. Cole’s heroism at the risk of members of the military distinguishing his own life, his dedication to the principals themselves by heroic service while of freedom and his exemplary devotion to engaged in an action against an armed his duty as an American fighting man are enemy. It is one of the highest awards in keeping with the highest traditions of the presented to the military for acts of American military and reflect great credit 6000 Sheridan Drive | Williamsville, NY merit, on him, his unit and the United States 716.634.4200 cell: 716.480.2196 • POW Medal - awarded to members of Army.” howardhanna.com the U.S. Armed Forces taken prisoner Story compiled by Teresa Kennedy of [email protected] during armed conflict. Congressman Brian Higgins Staff August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 9 JEWISH BUFFALO’S DIFFERENCE MAKERS arin reenfiel an Heu ann Saving the World, One Child at a Time, One Book at a Time By Ellen Goldstein
About sixteen years ago, the National Jewish Coalition for Literacy was founded by writer, Moment Magazine founder, Mazon founder and mensch Leonard “Leibel” Fein, starting in a few Jewish Federations like New York, Boston and Washington. The program was based on the premise that if we don’t teach children to read by 4th grade, they don’t have much of a chance at success in life. Educator Dr. Jane Fischman of Buffalo was very interested in this program, and wanted to start a Buffalo Chapter, which began in 2001 at Buffalo Public School 78 and Bennett Park Montessori School. Dr. Michele Kassirer Pozarny, then principal of School 78, heartily supported the project, and warmly welcomed the “Lovely Ladies,” as they were called in the beginning, into the school. Called the Buffalo Jewish Coalition for Literacy (BJCL), the project came under the Community Relations Committee also chaired by Jane Fischman. BJCL began with about 25 tutors, who would go to the schools once a week through the school year and work with children from pre-school through 4th grade on their reading skills.
The program quickly caught on, Dr. Fischman became chair, 4 or 5 years old at the time. I had heard he had and within a few years, Carin Greenfield and Amy Heumann been a ‘crack baby,’ adopted by a family, and the joined as volunteers, as have hundreds of volunteers through mother was a nurse. Then, two years after he this year. And hundreds of students have been helped by was adopted, the mother died of cancer, and the members of our community. teacher told me the father was illiterate.” Today, this Federation project is one of more than 40 Carin started working with Craig, who was programs of its kind around the United States coordinated by restless and had attention problems. They the National Jewish Coalition for Literacy. The Buffalo chapter bonded right away. She talked to Gary about arin reenfiel has been co-chaired by Mrs. Greenfield and Mrs. Heumann for him, and about how much she cared about Craig and his situation. Gary said “I would like to meet him. Let’s take him out,” so they began “Volunteering for Buffalo going on outings… to the zoo, the Albright Jewish Coalition for Literacy Knox Art Gallery, Niagara Falls, and he loved sketching. For his birthday and Christmas, has been an extraordinarily Carin would give him a book, “which he drank up!” she said. positive experience.” “Craig has had a difficult life, and I really care about him and about what happens to in her home for volunteers, as has other generous community him. I love Craig. He is so sweet with me. Over members. “We also adopted two families during the holidays, the years, his family has adopted 15 children. which was another wonderful thing to do, she said. “All of our One of his brothers was shot and killed. I volunteers were so generous. I hope that the BJCL program will was able to get him a cockatiel as a pet, and continue to flourish. Our volunteers have done an outstanding he loves it.” The Greenfield’s generosity has job promoting the children’s interests in reading and helping also included tutoring and summer camp for improve the children’s self-esteem at the same time.” Craig, who has aged out of School 78, Bennett Amy Heumann joined BJCL in 2005 with a keen interest in Park and is now in East High School. “I would getting books into students’ hands. “I read the teaser in the say to Craig at the end of our sessions, I love Federation News saying “do you have an hour a week?” I said, you, Craig.’ He would answer ‘I love you, Mrs. YES. I have an hour to spare, so I joined the program. This G.’” Their relationship continues, as Carin and is one of the best things that has ever happened to me,” she Gary Greenfield seek ways to enable Craig to explained. “I am a former teacher, and worked on Long Island Heu ann continue to learn. Their goal is for him to with special-needs kids, and then then raised two special but finish high school, and maybe more. not special-needs children. And I love children and I love several years. They were excited to share their story about the But Carin Greenfield also has loved working books. When I taught and raised my own children, one of the volunteer project which changed both of their lives. with the school, the teachers and the BJCL things I loved the most was sharing books with the children. Carin came into the project because her husband, former volunteers, as well. “I thought the volunteers And now I’ve been able to share 2500-2700 books a year with Federation President Gary Greenfield found out about the at Schools 78, then 80 and at Bennett Park the children in BJCL. Some go directly to children; some go BJCL and thought it was right up Carin’s alley. “Gary related Montessori were wonderful, humanistic people to the school library.” Amy has been largely responsible for to me that 90% of the children are living in poverty, living who love children and care about our world. To collecting, sorting, then donating more than 10,000 books over with one parent or a grandparent, and are not learning at me, they are the most wonderful people you the years to the children at Schools 78 and 80. grade level,” she said. “I joined the program in 2003.” A former would ever want to meet. Amy Heumann has “When I joined BJCL, we gave away books on a very limited languages teacher in several schools in Western New York, been an incredible person to work with, also,” basis. I felt that we could improve the quality of books we Carin says she has always loved children, and thought that she she continued. “It has been amazing that we gave away and also expand the quantity. So I started to look might want to do some tutoring. “I started at School 78 in the can do this service for people—help them to around for good quality free or minimal cost books that I could Kindergarten class, working with a little boy, Craig, who was read.” She has also hosted “Thank You” lunches bring to the program.” Amy began buying books at the Book 10 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 finest mouth-watering n.y. bagels since 1976 • homemade shmears • deli sandwiches • soups • salads Remember how bagels Shivah Platters Outlet, and someone told her about the Kiddush Platters Scholastic Books Warehouse in Getzville. used to taste? N.Y. 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Sometimes when I share what I am doing at garage sales, some people will give me a bargain or for free.” Where there Amy, too has met so many wonderful Afraid of head lice are children in a lot people, including Carin Greenfield, attending school? of head- and other people who have given very to-head coupon expires generous donations. “This underscored contact on September 1st for me the generosity of people in terms there are of resources or time. At book giveaways, bound to be outbreaks some of the people who can’t participate of lice. We are here to make sure weekly step up and donate time for that,” children have a lice-free school Williamsville Treatment Center she said. “The last several years, we have experience. 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It’s important that everyone do something in the community. It could be a great fit for a lot of people. You can make new friends, and the emotional feedback is tremendous. These children THRIVE on individual attention. It’s an interesting way to see education up close and personal, especially in the inner city, it’s eye opening and our volunteers really make a difference.” Also, please read David Schiller’s related story on page 39. Schedule an adult new patient The Buffalo Jewish Coalition for Literacy is always looking for volunteers who can Exam, Cleaning and X-ray. donate at least one hour each week, like Receive a complimentary to read, like children, and can travel to School 80. Volunteers must make a weekly Exam, Cleaning and X-ray for your child. commitment to volunteer for this program. Books are also needs as donations. For UNINSURED NEW PATIENTS ONLY more information, contact Ellen Goldstein at [email protected] or call her at 716-204-2243. 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Aaron Schapiro knows how to play 13 instruments, has written a symphony, conducts an orchestra he initiated, and plays lead guitar in a rock band he founded-- all this before he begins his ar n n u ting i u iliar Or e tra at Willia ille rt junior year at Williamsville North High School. items into categories, but Aaron jumped in “I have fun playing and singing rock music The son of Roger and Shannon Schapiro, and began to take inventory, counting and I’ve written. I love seeing people dancing Aaron beams when he shares his story with documenting every item in each group. to our songs. It’s immediate feedback.” me one summer afternoon at the JCC. “I We were blown away.” It’s“crazy” when you think about it, he just have an insatiable appetite for music.” ar n re ing guitar it i ban , an Before long, Aaron found himself grins, “No one in my school is shredding Aaron started playing music when he consumed in all things musical. “I was guitar at a bar in Niagara Falls on a Tuesday was a toddler. “My grandmother is an artist as if it were yesterday. “He was very shy, never into the sports thing. I tried every in front of a crowd of 20-somethings!” and I attribute my musical connection to but had amazing mathematical skills, sport but nothing clicked. But it was While the parts of Aaron’s classical side her. She got me a keyboard when I was which correlates to one’s ability to read different with music.” Today, Aaron has and rock side intertwine, he admits to me 3 and that was the beginning.” Shira musical notes. I’ll never forget one day two main outlets for his passion: playing that though the band is “really cool,” it is Goldberg was Aaron’s pre-school teacher when we were preparing to deliver canned in a rock band he founded called Sans, wholly different when he is conducting at the Play And Learn School (PALS) at goods that we had collected for a food and conducting “Auxiliary Orchestra,” the his orchestra. Smiling with pride, he told Temple Beth Zion. She remembers Aaron drive. All the children were separating the high school orchestra he started last fall. me about how the orchestra was born.
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12 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 “There just aren’t enough opportunities whether his fellow students select rap or Change the Way You See to play, and I’m not alone in thinking country, he always finds a musical way to this. There are a lot of students at my say something positive about their pieces.” high school who feel the same way.” So When asked how he works as a composer, Aaron, ever the entrepreneur, created the Aaron said that he sits down and just Auxiliary Orchestra at Williamsville North. writes. “I think of a melody or a chord “I get so much joy from enabling others to progression and just put notes on a page.” I perform,” he added. also asked him what artists and composers have influenced him the most.“I listen to classical music all the time, and probably “For me, music is Tchaikovsky and Mozart are my favorites.” one of the most And on the rock side, I inquired? “I pull a lot from Zeppelin, Jimmy Hendrix and The powerful things you Doors. I love the feel of Jim Morrison’s music.” can experience. I assumed that given Aaron’s early success, he is destined for the stage. But Music is eternal.” when asked about his long-term goals, he was quick to reply. “I want to go into Aaron told me about one student who music education. I always wanted to be loved to play violin but there was never a teacher and I want to conduct a high a spot for her in the regular orchestra. school level orchestra.” For Kim Burke, She took up euphonium and now plays Aaron’s aspiration is so gratifying. “It in Auxiliary. “Her Mom thanked me for totally excites me that Aaron wants to giving her the opportunity to play.” I was go into our field. He’s so diverse and his so moved,” he shared. “You see, that’s why musical knowledge is so vast. He would Your Complete I do what I do.” make an awesome teacher – I know he’ll Kim Burke, one of North’s Music be able to reach kids in a thoughtful and teachers, who signed on to be Aaron’s meaningful way.” Family Eye Care Center advisor for another group he co-created “For me, music is one of the most freshman year called “Music Discovery,” powerful things you can experience. Music remarked that Aaron is well beyond his is eternal,” Aaron shares with me as we New Patients Alwa s Wel ome years. “What I love about him is the way wind down our time together. “Just think he communicates to other students in about it. You can play football into your Routine E e E ams for All Ages class.” She said that each week in her class, 30’s and then your body wears out. But “Music in our Lives,” students listen to and one is never too old to play music.” aser Vision Corre tion analyze each other’s musical selections. Rob Goldberg is CEO and Executive “Aaron is so respectful in his analysis – Director of the Buffalo Jewish Federation Catara t Glau oma Evaluations arge Sele tion of Designer e ar Frames Sunglasses Temple Beth Tzedek’s youth group, USY, installed its new board on Sunday June 4th. The incoming board will plan social as well as community events. Temple Beth Conta t ens E ams Fittings Sara Sir in, Tzedek will be hosting a regional convention in November for USY, the national .D. teen organization of the Conservative Judaism Movement. We A ept ost a or Credit Cards
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cases the first year. By the time Lisa left H n i a l in the DA’s office, the domestic violence unit was handling 4,000 cases annually. As the work of the DA’s domestic violence Doing The Right Thing unit grew under Lisa’s stewardship, Lisa recognized that law enforcement By Howard Rosenhoch institutions alone couldn’t tackle the Domestic violence, child and spousal problem holistically. Lisa was instrumental abuse, dysfunctional families. These are in forming the Erie County Coalition societal issues that require attention, Against Family Violence and obtained a resources and action. When overlaid $1.1 million grant to establish the Family with the cultural dissonances between Justice Center. A new, collaborative system American law enforcement and judicial of response in the form of a centralized institutions on the one hand, and the family violence center, the Center provides family structure, culture and practices a “one stop shop” for domestic violence of recently arrived refugee immigrant victims. Instead of finding barriers to families on the other, the mix is toxic accessing needed services spread out in and the solutions seem virtually various locations, the Family Justice Center insurmountable. brings those service providers together Then there is the Honorable Lisa under one roof, creating a welcoming, Bloch Rodwin, Judge of the New York convenient and above all safe space State Family Court. Judge Rodwin is a for families in the throes of abuse. Lisa Difference Maker with a capital “D” and was proud to serve as the Family Justice a capital “M”. In her distinguished career Center’s first President. as a lawyer, prosecutor and now judge, In 2008 Lisa left the DA’s office to Lisa has devoted herself to stopping the assume a seat on the Erie County Family perpetrators of domestic violence in their Court bench. Judge Rodwin’s new position tracks, protecting and healing the victims Judge Lisa Rodwin with a photo of her mother and grandparents exposed her to new problems. Recently of domestic violence, and dispensing firm, arrived immigrant families, refugees from fair and compassionate justice to families impacting the world at large or something and skills she acquired as a child and in persecution at home and terrorized by civil in the throes of dysfunction. more personal and mundane, like “why her university learning to the test. The wars and the trauma of refugee camps, Reflecting on her childhood, Lisa I should get a telephone in my room.” political environment in Buffalo at the would come before her after the arrest described her late parents as folks who Learning to hold her own in a conversation time, however, proved quite challenging, of a minor child, a child abuse charge, a were always giving back. Her father, and advocate for dearly held positions are and frustration led Lisa to a change of custody dispute or a request for an order Larry, taught high school and served as skills Lisa would find immensely valuable career and law school at UB. of protection. Such circumstances would principal of the local reform synagogue in later life, and she credits her parents After graduation in 1984 and admission test the mettle of the most sophisticated religious school. Her mother, Steffi, with providing the opportunity to develop to the bar, Lisa chose public service, US born family. These families, however, arrived in America with her parents, Lisa’s those skills early on. joining the prosecutorial ranks with the far from their original homes and steeped grandparents, as refugees from Hitler’s Much to the benefit of our community, Erie County District Attorney. It was here in a language and culture completely Nazi Germany just as the anti-Semitic Lisa found her way to Buffalo after earning that Lisa honed those arguing skills like a foreign to our justice system, were often fine-tooth comb, first in the DA’s Appeals unable to understand the proceedings Bureau and then as a trial lawyer. The into which they were thrust or appreciate “In her distinguished career as a lawyer, rough and tumble of courtroom work the authority and compassion with which suited Lisa just fine, and she thrived in it. justice is dispensed in our system. prosecutor and now judge, Lisa has devoted A more specialized and ultimately higher Collaboration with others is part of calling, however, awaited. Judge Rodwin’s DNA. Her response to herself to stopping the perpetrators of do- The year 1994 saw the OJ Simpson case these new problems was to team up with mestic violence in their tracks...” burst on the scene. Horrifying and widely the Department of Social Services, local reported, the murders of the football star’s community and religious leaders, and Nuremburg Laws were ostracizing and a degree in Urban Planning from Rutgers ex-wife, Nicole Brown Simpson, and her other local organizations to form the WNY victimizing Jews in the run up to World University. Lisa found a welcoming Jewish friend, Ron Goldman, brought the scourge Muslim and Immigrant Community and War II. Steffi earned a Master’s degree community here, especially at her new of domestic violence to the forefront. Family Court Collaborative. The goals of in nursing, taught public health nursing, synagogue, Temple Beth El (now Temple Lisa, already a top prosecutor in the DA’s the Collaborative include educating all served on the local Health Commission, Beth Tzedek), and at the Kadimah office, talked to her then boss, the late professionals in the child welfare and family and volunteered at and was on the board of Academy which provided a terrific secular Justice Kevin Dillon, about the need to take offense network how to work appropriately the local homeless shelter. Together, Lisa’s and Jewish education for her sons David, criminal prosecution of domestic violence with Muslim and refugee/immigrant parents received the Volunteer of the Year now an attorney with the Baltimore Public cases seriously. They agreed a special families; educating the local Muslim and Award from The Stamford Advocate. Justice Center, and Benjamin, now Chief unit for that purpose should be created refugee/immigrant community how the In the Bloch household, however, Resident at the VA Hospital in Bridgeport, under Lisa’s leadership. Recognizing that Family Courts and the Social Services giving back was only part of it. Bloch CT. putting the perps in jail without providing Department work; recruiting culturally family dinners were a time for Lisa and Working for a housing redevelopment significant support for their victims would diverse and aware foster parents; and her two sisters to hone their argument agency in the Masten-Ellicott districts and result in an incomplete and inadequate training translators in the home languages skills by taking a position on some issue volunteering with Women for Downtown effort, Lisa insisted that the unit include of the refugee/immigrant community so of importance, whether on current events were terrific opportunities to put the traits a social worker. The unit prosecuted 450 that they can better understand what’s 14 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 W H O nat t air 2018 Campaign for Thank Jewish Buffalo you Steven J. Weiss, President of the Buffalo Jewish Federation, has for your announced the appointment of Stephen Yonaty and M. Kim Yonaty as chairs of the 2018 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo. “The 2018 Campaign for generous Jewish Buffalo will not be divided into Men’s and Women’s Divisions for the first time in years,” said Weiss. “That is why we have called on Kim and Steve Yonaty to inject a spirit of unity into this year’s Campaign. I support know we can count on both of them to lead us to success in this year’s endeavor.” of the Stephen L. Yonaty, a partner with the law Annual ire t r a e e an u ge in in firm Cannon Heyman Wa ingt n & Weiss, concentrates Campaign his practice in the areas going on when intersecting with Family Court. of affordable, senior and for The Collaborative includes more than 200 multi-family housing, representatives from local religious and cultural real estate, commercial Jewish Buffalo. groups, resettlement agencies, government and and public finance, law enforcement agencies at the local, state and business restructuring national levels, and legal services organizations. and bankruptcy, and It has become a model for communities across the commercial litigation. Mr. state. Yonaty graduated from We will publish the For her work establishing the Collaborative, Cornell University, the Honor Roll thanking Judge Rodwin was presented by FBI Director SUNY at Buffalo School all donors to the James Comey with the Community Leadership of Law School and its Award for her “proactive support of Muslim and Management School. 2017 Campaign new American communities in Buffalo.” She also He is the 2003 Dr. Meyer for Jewish Buffalo at our was honored at a ceremony by the Buffalo FBI’s and Ann S. Riwchun i nat an te en nat Campaign Kick-Off Event SAC Adam Cohen for that prestigious award. Lisa Young Leadership Award has received numerous awards and recognitions Winner from Federation. Hon. Deanne M. Tripi, Erie County Family Monday, September 25 for her work supporting the victims of domestic He serves on the board Court Judge. She is Secretary on the and in the Jewish Journal violence and promoting the dispensing of fair and of the Jewish Federation Federation’s Board of Governors, chairs the of WNY. Your name will compassionate justice, including, Women Lawyers Board of Governors, was Planning & Allocations Committee as well of Western New York’s Lawyer of the Year Award, its Community Relations as the Jewish Program Venture Fund, served appear exactly as it did the Susan Still Profile in Courage Award from Committee Chair, and on the Women’s Philanthropy Board and last year unless otherwise the Family Justice Center, the President’s Award has been a member of its was a member of Temple Beth Zion’s 2016 requested. and Kupferman Juvenile Justice Award from the annual campaign cabinet. Rabbinical Search Committee. She served Women’s Bar Association of the State of New York, He currently is serving on on the Bureau of Jewish Education board, the UB Law School Distinguished Alumna Award, the boards of Every Person the JCC board and the Jewish Federation Should you wish to make and the Award for Excellence from Everywoman Influences Children (EPIC) Apartments board. She is a graduate of the any changes, please Opportunity Center. Lisa was one of five lawyers and the Erie County Bar Melton program, and was on the faculty selected by The Daily Record for the Leaders in Foundation. He is also a at the BJE from 1999-2004. In the general contact our Campaign Law Award. She has received other service awards board member and officer community Mrs. Yonaty served as the Law Director Randi Morkisz from The Buffalo News, the National Federation at Temple Beth Zion, a Guardian Liaison to the 4th Department Law at 716-204-2245 or for Just Communities, the Alexa Foundation, the board member of the Guardian Program. She was the 2005 Ruth Erie County Coalition Against Family Violence, Foundation for Jewish & Milton Kahn Young Women’s Leadership [email protected]. Hispanics United, New York State Crime Prevention Philanthropies, has served Award Winner. She is a graduate of the Coalition, Prevention Focus and Time Warner’s as Vice President of University of Rochester and SUNY Buffalo Your gift helps so many Western New York Local Hero nomination. Chabad, and on the boards School of Law. The Yonatys are parents of Lisa is the definition of a Difference Maker. She of Hebrew Benevolent four children and both participated in the here in Buffalo, in Israel lives in Amherst with her husband, Michael Rickert, Loan Assn. and Jewish Jewish Federation’s New Leadership program and throughout the world! a researcher at Roswell Park Cancer institute. Federation Apartments, and Mission to Israel in 2012. “We’re honored Thank you! Howard Rosenhoch, a retired attorney, is and the BJE. to serve in this position and look forward immediate Past President of the Buffalo Jewish M. Kim Yonaty is to a successful campaign which reflects Federation. an attorney, and is the positive momentum our community is Confidential Law Clerk to enjoying.”said the couple. August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 15 W H O
that developed into his current steady gig “I’ve been going to en iegel as an arts freelancer. The expression of his identity, and his the theater since I support of others’ right to live and express Buffalo’s Soulful Storyteller their own identities are both overarching was a little boy, and and underlying themes to his life. “My By Jana Eisenberg Jewish identity is equal to my gay identity— now I write about it. His Facebook profile intro pretty much sums up Ben Siegel’s attitude and beliefs. while they are not both exhibited at every “Gay Jewish Diabetic,” it says, succinctly, straightforwardly and with a slight wink. moment of every day, they are equally find a similar Siegel, 35, is by profession a copywriter and journalist. He works at Block Club, important and occupy an equal part of the branding and strategy agency, and is a freelance theater and arts critic for The me,” he said. “And, while I wouldn’t define spiritual experience Buffalo News. In the bigger picture, he’s deeply committed to and passionate about myself as an ‘activist,’ I will speak up for many aspects of his identity, including spirituality, art and artistic expression, my belief in my and others’ rights. Making sitting in a theater sexual orientation and community. one’s voice heard is part of the tradition audience as I do of both cultures—to live your life and to Siegel was “raised in the defend it whenever necessary.” sitting in a temple.” Jewish culture and faith.” A Cultural traditions are touchstones for native of Williamsville, and Siegel, especially when it comes to his “But,” he continued, with his social now a resident of Buffalo, he vocation. “I’m a professional storyteller— conscience front and center, “the growth grew up in a temple-going and while that’s not only a Jewish quality, and changes are incomplete unless family—attending Temple that’s a big part of it: to tell your own story everybody benefits—there’s a lot to mend Beth Zion throughout his and to connect with and learn about others that may not be as ‘easy’ or appealing, like youth and remaining active as through their stories,” he noted. the education system, poverty and income a younger adult. His parents By day, he works as a content strategist inequality. These issues and factors are not came from varying Jewish and copywriter for the award-winning unique to Buffalo, and like in other places, traditions; his father, who company Block Club, whose ethos is based they haven’t been addressed as thoroughly passed away when Siegel was on “wanting better”—for Buffalo, for its as they should be. Until we fix those and 17, was raised in an orthodox clients, for itself. Block Club started out other important gaps, we can’t really claim household, but did not publishing a print magazine, as well; Siegel to be experiencing a ‘resurgence.’” continue the practice, and his was the editor. “In the magazine, which we His occupations—helping clients define mother, reform, with parents en iegel t a i nt n afer retired after eight years, we told stories and redefine themselves, writing about of “hybrid” backgrounds. about Buffalo’s identity,” he recollected. theater and art to add to the conversation Of his early experience devout now. My interest in my Judaism hasn’t waned, “We looked at the fact that, yes, Buffalo is and experience of it, doing volunteer work with Judaism, and his feelings but the way that I find my spirituality has evolved. changing—a lot for the better, some not for organizations like Young Audiences, now, Siegel explained, “I still “As I became an adult, I found that there were other so much.” which provides and advocates for arts feel very much connected physical spaces and places where you could connect He doesn’t shy away from continuing education—all feed into the theme of to Temple Beth Zion— with that,” he continued. “I’ve been going to the to peel back the layers of the deeper story expression and self-expression. both the building and the theater since I was a little boy, and now I write about it. behind Buffalo’s current circumstances. “Being a Jewish person and someone on congregation. Growing up, I find a similar spiritual experience sitting in a theater “Buffalo’s narrative for a long time the LGBTQ spectrum—throughout history, I was more active in temple audience as I do sitting in a temple.” has been about our determination to there are things that get in our way,” life—I was president of our A 2006 University at Buffalo Media Study graduate, resurrect, to survive,” he said. “You can’t he said. “Sometimes you take punches, youth group. Later I served he nominally focused on film history and theory. But, be a Buffalonian or live here without sometimes you throw them. And when on the board. My Judaism he said, “I was really learning how to be a critic and a recognizing our history—we’ve waited a you’re still here, that’s something to is a pillar of who I am, but journalist.” As an undergrad, he was an editor of the long time for the kind of progress we’ve both celebrate and examine. One way of like many in my age bracket, independent student newspaper, The Spectrum, and been enjoying over the last ten years. A lot surviving diminishment in any way is to I’m not terribly traditionally earned an internship at The Buffalo News, a relationship of it is encouraging and exciting. re-tell your story to yourself and others— to never let yourself be silenced. “So many Jewish holidays speak to that tradition,” he mused. “Passover is explicitly about telling our story of survival: they Faster. came for us, we fled, we are here to tell the Better.Smarter. story and remind ourselves every year. Celebrating over 31 years as a top producing real estate professional! “I see similarities in other aspects of my life—when you put it all together, it makes sense,” he said. “There’s a through line in Bernice Stern the overlapping identities and the idea of Licensed Associate Real Estate Broker self-expression: my being Jewish, gay, an Cell: 716.861.4479 Office: 716.634.4200 artist, and Buffalonian. At the end of the [email protected] day we all have the right to be who we are and who we want to be.” howardhanna.com Jana Eisenberg is a frequent contributor to the Jewish Journal and other publications regionally and nationally. 6000 Sheridan Drive, Williamsville, NY 14221
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Temple Beth Am was in turmoil six years ago, and there was considerable fear that it was in danger of collapse. To make matters worse, efforts to find a capable and willing KIMMI OTT new president were fast approaching a dead end. That’s CERTIFIED INSTRUCTOR when Todd Sugarman not only volunteered for the post, but lobbied aggressively for it. “I was like a last resort president,” he said. “I volunteered for it. I knew people thought I was too outspoken, too loud to be president. But TRANSFORM YOUR BODY I could see the Temple was being torn apart. I knew I could help. I wanted to prove to others that I could do it.” WITH PILATES
With considerable reluctance and apprehension, the Board •Small group classes of Trustees gave Sugarman that chance. He thrived in the job. Sugarman has now been president five of the last six years, and •Therapy ball sessions was recently elected to another one-year term. Along with his initial election came widespread advice for Sugarman to tone ugar an a e ting an a ar fr t e et rk f r eligi u • Private pilates Communities
“Sugarman’s vision, He was instrumental in things aren’t like they used CALL TODAY, YOUR decisiveness and willingness reestablishing bingo and to be. There aren’t younger FIRST LESSON IS FREE! launching other fund-raisers. people coming up through to make major changes helped “I just enjoy making things the system. They have other happen,” said Sugarman, things they want to do.” stabilize what is now the long-time owner of Sugarman and his wife T.L.S. Landscaping. “I love Pamela, who is not Jewish, MOVE WELL Congregation Shir Shalom.” challenges. Everything I say joined Temple Beth Am FEEL WELL • BE WELL I’m going to do, I do.” because of its approach down his approach and smooth out the rough edges. “I know Sugarman, 58, is a hands- to interfaith couples. the popular opinion of him was not good,” said David Berghash on president who is in touch “People were very warm a former Beth Am president and a friend and supporter of with Shir Shalom’s clergy and welcoming to Pam,” Sugarman. “It was the ‘bull in the china shop’ kind of stuff.” and staff almost daily, even Sugarman said. “When we In the village Glen But Sugarman’s vision, decisiveness and willingness to make when he winters in Florida. walked through these doors, 162 Mill St., Williamsville major changes helped stabilize what is now Congregation Shir “I love being president,” it made her feel good.” 716.791.9088 Shalom. “I had reservations at first, but I now feel like he was he said. “It’s seven days a Before becoming president, the right person at the right time,” said Dr. Mindy P. Weinman. week for me. I consider it a Sugarman was active in OTTFIT.COM “He’s a little unconventional, a little ‘outside the box.’ But look job.” Accustomed to making the Men’s Group, and then what he’s done.” unilateral decisions in the became a member of the Sugarman’s success is anchored largely around Beth Am’s business world, Sugarman is Board of Trustees and the 2012 merger with Temple Sinai. The merger stabilized the easily annoyed when he feels Executive Committee. “I finances of the new temple, ensuring Shir Shalom’s fiscal there is too much discussion think people respect me viability for at least a decade, Sugarman said. There had long of Temple issues and not now,” he said. “I think they been a realization that a merger between Buffalo area temples enough action. “If we waste know who I am, and that I would be needed to keep liberal Judaism viable here. “I said: time, we put our future in take care of things. I always How about Sinai?” The merger also gave the new synagogue danger,” he said. Presidents wanted to help people. I like the wherewithal to put in place a skilled, attentive and highly- at both Beth Am and Sinai giving back. I love giving regarded clergy team. traditionally served much back.” Rabbi Alexander Lazarus-Klein, the rabbi at Temple Sinai, shorter terms, raising the Is this the newer, mellower was chosen to lead the combined congregation, and his contract question of whether a change Todd Sugarman? “It depends was later renewed through 2021. Arlene Frank, an outstanding in leadership would be on the day,” Berghash said, cantor who lost her previous position when two downstate healthy. “Do you just change with a smile. temples merged and cut staff, said it was Sugarman’s persistence for the sake of change?” Peter Simon is a retired and sincerity that prompted her to sign on with Shir Shalom a Sugarman said. “This is a Buffalo News reporter, year ago. Sugarman also built a picnic grove at the Temple temple. It’s not the President and an active member of and made many other financial and in-kind contributions. of the United States. And Congregation Shir Shalom. August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 17 JEWISH BUFFALO’S DIFFERENCE MAKERS
It is all around us and how companies get opportunities, workforce employment il na ra tenberg their products into public use. support and school scholarships. Get involved and engaged.” Motivated to Do Good Making Wishes Come True While she loves talking about work, Family influence she really lights up when asked about While Vilona is clearly her own person, By Mara Koven-Gelman volunteering. Her motivation to “make she cites her family’s experiences as a difference in others’ lives” comes from Holocaust Survivors and newcomers from Vilona Trachtenberg admits to a 2015 Yom Kippur service at Buffalo’s Moldova as impacting her willingness being obsessed with Buffalo and loves Chabad House on North Forest Road. to embrace all opportunities. Her father, meeting people. “Everyone has a good Rabbi Gurary was leading a service on how Michael, along with her grandparents story to tell,” and she seems to be on individuals could make a difference in the (Volodia and Ida), who were Holocaust a mission to meet as many people as world, suggesting that in the coming year, Survivors, moved to the U.S. in 1980. Her possible. Vilona is a Fulfillment Planner everyone should try to do as many mitzvot mother, Victoria, first went to Israel before at Rich Products Corporation and recent as possible. immigrating to the U.S. recipient of Buffalo Business First’s “30 “I’m not one to just listen and go through “My parents are super appreciative to Under 30” award. the motions. I was focused on what he said be in the United States, she said. “My She is also active in many non-profit and decided then to get involved.” Vilona father just retired as a Vice President at organizations ranging from Danceability thought about the issues she most cared LPCiminelli Construction. We have always (a studio offering dance programs to about and dedicated herself to volunteer felt that we could achieve anything we people with special needs), Make-a- il na ra tenberg Wish Foundation, WNY Heroes, Special Olympics, American Cancer Society, Cystic community involvement. Deciding factors “While Vilona is clearly her own person, Fibrosis Foundation, to Nickel City Jews, for the award include career achievements, and the Holocaust Resource Center of leadership and initiative, community she cites her family’s experiences as Buffalo. She is also involved with TEDx engagement, and each nominee’s potential Holocaust Survivors and newcomers from Youth@Buffalo, writes for Step Out Buffalo to become a community leader on a grand (a travel/tourism website), and works at scale. Vilona has them all, but is humble. Moldova as impacting her willingness to Canalside during Thursday concerts. In ‘I know many people that should have or December, Vilona did the Polar Plunge, could have won the “30 Under 30” award. I embrace all opportunities.” a fundraiser for Special Olympics where had a supportive workplace and a mentor.” people literally go jump in the lake, with Last December she also won a community work. A couple of chance Facebook posts, wanted.” While she realizes anti-Semitism a team of coworkers. How was the event? service award at Rich Products. Vilona and a “60 Minutes” episode on Make-A- exists, she has never felt it directly and “it - “so much fun, camaraderie, dance party,” credits Bob as an excellent mentor, always Wish Foundation were the on-ramp to a certainly is not on the scale in which people not even mentioning the effects of frigid encouraging and “going beyond” to help new way of life. experienced in the Soviet Union.” She says Buffalo water in winter. mentees achieve their goals. Vilona was What is her advice to other Millennials her father likes to emphasize how many The 26-year-old Amherst resident is also recently promoted from the Customer about achieving their dreams professionally, people during World War II were resilient, modest about her explosion of professional Service group to the Fulfillment Planning socially or in the volunteer sphere? “Don’t and fought back while facing challenges. and volunteer achievements. Vilona was role – part of Customer Service & Logistics. be afraid of being overwhelmed, dedicate Her parents also instilled in her Jewish nominated for the “30 Under 30” award by She explains “supply chain”—the area in yourself to learning something new and values of giving back to the community. her mentor Bob Pokrzyk, Senior Manager which she works- simply, as we sat together having new experiences.” What is next on her agenda on a Sunday? of Customer Service and Customer Care drinking coffee one July morning. “See What about those who don’t have After volunteering all day at a danceability at Rich Products Corporation. The award this plastic cup I’m drinking from; it had to opportunities in higher education, or a booth at “Taste of Buffalo,” driving her identifies young business professionals be manufactured, packaged, transported, large network of contacts? “It has to do Dad home, and conducting this interview, starting their careers and demonstrating distributed and finally put in front of us on with what you want and what you are she says with a big smile, “Ed Sheeran current and future promise in their field and Elmwood Avenue. That is “supply chain.” interested in. There are many mentorship at Key Bank Center tonight. Soaking up everything, never missing an opportunity– I love Buffalo.” What is next for volunteer roles? “I love being a “wish granter” for the Make-a-Wish Foundation,” she answered. Vilona works with children with illness and helps grant major wishes for them. “Actually, the best feeling is doing the mitzvot, I don’t even have to know that it helped someone, but I hope I made someone’s life better, and I am also so enriched by other volunteers,” she concluded. Our community is clearly enriched by Vilona Trachtenberg’s presence in our City of Good Neighbors. Mara Koven-Gelman is Executive Director of The Holocaust Resource Center. 18 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 Teresa Alessandra rt Holland Building through August 31
An exhibit of acrylic paintings by Teresa Alessandra will be on display in the Art Gallery at the JCC of Greater Buffalo, 787 Delaware Avenue, until August 31, 2017. Teresa Alessandra is a local artist as well as an aspiring writer and entrepreneur, who has lived in Buffalo all her life. She graduated summa cum laude from Canisius College in 2013 with Bachelor’s Degree in English and Creative Writing, as well as a Minor in Studio Art. Her artwork can be recognized from various galleries, cafes, and festivals around the city (Including Spot Coffee, Ashker’s Juice Bar and Cafe, Parables Gallery, and the Glen Park Art Festival)- -and she is very thankful to add The Jewish Community Center to that list! Her current collection of work utilizes a specialized acrylic paint, which is poured and layered on a perfectly flat, level canvas, and then left to dry for four to six weeks (a technique which she has been developing and perfecting for the past several years). Her inspiration for these pieces is the feelings of spontaneity, freedom, and joy which she feels while Landscape Hardscape Irrigation she is creating them. She hopes those who view them feel the same way! Gallery admission is free and the Custom Design & Installation gallery is open during JCC business hours, 7 days a week. For more information, visit jccbuffalo.org. FREE ESTIMATES 741-8468 8600 Roll Road • Clarence Center, New York 14032 • greenviewteam.com
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one among too-many-to-mention a i uni memorable productions). Committed to continually developing the JRT for the community and its Bringing Jewish Theatre to Buffalo audiences, David utilized good timing again in 2010. While the renovation of By Chana R. Kotzin, Ph.D. was even more tenuous as the Jewish Community Center/Benderson a niche theater undertaking. Building in Getzville was underway, and A man (David) sits down at a café, David, as volunteer producer, through a generous lead donation from and turns to another man (Saul), however, drew on his decades Maxine and Robert Seller (z”l), David saying, “What about founding a Jewish of business knowledge and was able to orchestrate--with the aid theatre here in Buffalo?” Some would persuasive skills to locate of others—matching monies to give say it was bashert; others would say committed donors, and found the JRT a permanent, state-of-the-art, it was serendipity; both would say, ways to work creatively, in venue. In 2011, the Maxine and Robert “and with a heavy dose of teamwork order to fulfill the mission Seller Theatre opened within the JCC, and devotion!” Bringing the Jewish of showcasing Jewish stories and has been packing in the audiences Repertory Theatre Of Western New with a universal appeal. to performances ever since. A frequent York into being was just such a Borrowing space at local Artie Award nominee and winner as well story, recalls David Bunis. In 2002, theaters in the city, and other as other awards, this cultural jewel of while David was taking classes at the spaces as allowed, the JRT artistic excellence articulates an array of University at Buffalo, he sat down in opened with The Chosen at Jewish experiences to the larger Western the food court, and by chance, at a the Irish Classical Theatre New York community. table near Saul Elkin, and they started in 2003. For the next eight The JRT produces plays and talking. Then the head of Theatre seasons, the JRT travelled performances that speak to the human Department, Saul was well known from theater to theatre, as condition and which reflects a vibrant, beyond the university classroom as founder of Shakespeare in Delaware Park. As a highly respected actor with NYC Yiddish theatre roots, he also had a busy acting and directing schedule that meant launching such a David Bunis project alone would be difficult. Enter David stage right! With a passionate Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies and Crime love for theatre, a commitment to Stoppers of Western New York, where he was one of Jewish Cultural Arts, and over four the founders. Much later, he joined SCORE (Service decades of business management it Corps of Retired Executives), counseling small was a dream pairing for them both - business owners in retailing, property management and for all theater-goers in Western and non-profits, and where he is still active today. New York, Jewish and non-Jewish. After that chance lunch meeting, David Bunis David Bunis, the younger son of Anne moved quickly, presenting his plan to expand Cultural and Louis Bunis, is a former chairman of Arts at the Jewish Community Center to the JCC The Sample Shop, a specialty chain store board. For decades through the Dramatic Workshop founded in 1929 by his mother Anne and the Jewish Center Theatre Arena, the JCC had Bunis and run by the Bunis family for over a strong interest in producing theater, but that had a i uni an aul lkin 60 years. David pursued undergraduate waned by the 1990s. David Bunis proposed putting studies at St. Lawrence University, the “Jewish” back into a revived theater program that a wandering Jewish theatre ever-changing Jewish culture, providing a followed by the Wharton School receiving showcased Jewish culture as a part of the American troop, garnering a reputation broad and inclusive Jewish affiliation that an MBA After five years at Bloomingdale’s mosaic. As expected the plan was enthusiastically for outstanding artistic also brings together Jews and non-Jews. in New York City, which was preceded by embraced by the board, but with one caveat! With a direction and award-wining Transformative and always innovative, military service, he returned home to promise of time from then cultural arts administrator and innovative performances, loyal fans and new fans to the Jewish Buffalo to work in the expanding family Marcie Frankel, the JRT became a special program building a loyal theatre Repertory Theatre productions know the business, joining his brother Maer and of the JCC, but the actual funding for day-to-day following (the author of difference it makes to their lives and other family members. The Sample began expenses, salaries, and staging was the responsibility this article will never forget the joy it brings, season after season. in the family home in the sun parlor, of the Jewish Repertory Theatre (JRT). The theater attending Lebensraum and Difference making at its best, we celebrate but by the mid-1960s was growing its business, notorious for its financial precariousness, the brilliant actor-puppeteers, David and his commitment to bringing branches across WNY. Initially known for Jewish theatre to our community. Now women’s clothing, it had expanded into approaching its 15th anniversary, the JRT men’s and children’s wear, bridal wear, “David Bunis proposed putting will be celebrating this milestone with a beauty parlor, shoes and even a record the ‘Jewish’ back into a revived theater cocktail party at the newly restored and shop! In 1990, after 35 year in retail historically compelling Hotel Henry on management, David made the move from program that showcased Jewish culture October 2, 2017. retail to property management. Always Dr. Chana Kotzin is the Community active in lay leadership, David served on as a part of the American mosaic.” Archives Project Director for the Jewish boards at the Jewish Community Center, Buffalo Archives Project. 20 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 “one gr8 look is worth eet a thousand words” Sharon Stern Gerstman, counsel to the Buffalo, New York law firm of Magavern Magavern Grimm LLP, is currently President of the New York State Bar Assn. At a recent meeting of the American Bar Assn. in Washington, D.C., Ms. Gerstman had just moved the admission of 40 NYS Bar Assn. Members to the US Supreme Court. Following the ceremony, US Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg spoke to the New York State group. While there, Ms. Gerstman asked Justice Ginsberg to sign a copy of the Judge’s recent biography for children, I Dissent, as a gift for Ms. Gerstman’s new granddaughter, born May 10 (a PJ Library selection.) What great role Judge Ginsberg signs a book for models for the new baby—RBG and SSG! Ms. Gerstman enat r enne H n r ni a eu irt a a W an f i tin ti n New York State Senator Tim Kennedy recently honored community member Monica Neuwirt as a New York State Woman of Distinction. He gave her the award at the Ride for Roswell in June. She is the daughter of two Holocaust survivors. As such, survival and hard work are part of her DNA. When she was diagnosed with breast cancer last year, she decided to put her health in the hands of the Roswell Park Cancer Institute. Ms. Neuwirt is a longtime supporter of the Institute, having ridden every year in the annual biking fundraiser, The Ride for Roswell, since its inception in 1996. Over the past nine years, she has Offering Expertise In: qualified for the Extra Mile Club, raising over $1,000 each year. She was also instrumental in inspiring her company, FedEx Trade Networks, to participate • Plastic Surgery • Cosmetic Dentistry in the fundraiser. • Advanced Skincare • Implant Dentistry time when few women worked in this • Massage Therapy • Mini Dental Implants field, Senator Kennedy said. “She was • Cosmetic Dermatology • Invisible Orthodontics one of two women in her graduating class. She went on to get her MBA at Canisius College. A lifelong feminist and human rights activist, she has participated in many events over 5195 Main Street the years to fight oppression of all 2500 Kensington Avenue (in the Wyndam Garden Hotel) kinds. If it were not for the courage of Amherst, NY 14226 Williamsville, NY 14221 716.839.1700 716.GR8.SKIN (478.7546) those who fought against the Nazis in ni a eu irt it enat r enne at t e www.gr8look.com www.spabuffalo.com Ride for Roswell WWII, she would not be here today.” This is what he said at the Dr. Samuel Shatkin Jr., Certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery Dr. Todd E. Shatkin, Member of the American Dental Association Last year The Ride for Roswell was a difficult ceremony: time for Ms. Neuwirt. A year earlier, her partner “Monica Neuwirt is the kind of had undergone chemotherapy and cancer person you want to meet. For nearly two surgery at Roswell Park, a good friend had decades, she has routinely raised money recently died of lung cancer, and Ms. Neuwirt for The Ride For Roswell, hopping on herself was recovering from surgery and in the her bike to help friends and family and Small Law Firm midst of her 20 radiation treatments. However, strangers she didn’t even know who 1904 Liberty Building despite all of this, she managed to complete had been touched by cancer. But last her 30-mile bike route for The Ride for Roswell. year, it became personal, when she was Buffalo, NY 14202 Ms. Neuwirt has worked for FedEx Trade diagnosed with breast cancer herself. Networks for almost 14 years as an IT manager, She’ll ride again this year, this time as a and has led team members to participate in survivor. I was incredibly humbled and various fundraisers for charities, including proud to nominate Monica for the NYS United Way, American Cancer Society, March Woman of Distinction Award, which is of Dimes, Hospice Buffalo, the Food Bank and presented every year in Albany. May her Ronald McDonald House. spirit inspire others, and her dedication “Ms. Neuwirt graduated from the University be celebrated. Cheers to a great race at Buffalo as a Computer Science major, at a tomorrow Monica!” August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 21 JEWISH BUFFALO’S DIFFERENCE MAKERS
one of the key “middot” or traits in r ili li k Mussar, is incredibly important for a surgeon. “This was the first middah we discussed with Susan (Schwartz) Grandpa Flip: Leading with Jewish Values and Evie (Weinstein) in our group. It really spoke to me.” And ever the By Rob Goldberg upbringing and his family attended a large LA Dodger fan, Phil shared a line conservative shul. While he didn’t get involved repeated by Vin Scully, the voice of Surgeon, teacher, adoring husband and grandfather, passionate advocate for in organized Jewish life during college and the Dodgers, who, when reflecting on Buffalo, die-hard Dodger fan and a proud, learning Jew: meet “Flip” Glick. medical school, he built a vibrant social reality his Hall of Fame career, noted that around his Jewish friends, and ultimately met he was only successful because he You may know him as Dr. Philip Glick, his best friend, wife Drucy Borowitz. had “The humility to prepare and the Professor of Surgery in the Jacobs School Phil attributes much of his passion for Jewish confidence to pull it off.” of Medicine and Biomedical Sciences and living to Drucy and her family. “I had the good During this past academic year, Professor of Management at the University fortune of meeting a rabbi’s daughter during Phil had the privilege to serve on at Buffalo. Phil also maintains a clinical med school. It was love at first sight.” Phil the Buffalo Hillel Task force to help practice caring for surgical problems of spent a lot of time with Drucy’s family and choose the next Executive Director fetuses, newborn infants, children, and was impacted by his wife’s father, the late of the Buffalo Hillel, Rabbi Sara Rich. adolescents and is the Presiding Officer of Rabbi Eugene B. Borowitz, who was Emeritus “I think Sara will be a game changer the University at Buffalo Faculty Senate. Professor of Theology at Hebrew Union College to Buffalo Hillel and the WNY But Phil’s mother never called him Jewish Community,” he said proudly. Philip. “My mom and others called me “Hillel is so important now and for Flip my entire life and I only became Phil “Phil is not only a man our future. We must create a Jewish in med school. And when I was blessed r il li k an r ru r it in identity for our kids when they are to be a grandparent my daughter Zoey eru ale t i ear with many names and here, and seek to compel them to stay asked me what I wanted to be called and I titles, but he is one in WNY for their graduate education immediately told her ‘Flip!’” passions and is led by his Jewish values. and their lives. We frankly need Phil is not only a man with many names Born and raised in Southern California, who lives his Jewish them, and I believe that Sara will lead and titles, but he is one who lives his Jewish he told me that he had a typical Jewish the way to make this a reality.” passions and is led by Phil is also a passionate advocate for Israel and recently became a his Jewish values.” member of AIPAC, attending the Celebrating Lives and last two policy conferences in our and Founding Editor of Sh’ma Magazine. nation’s capital. He and Drucy also Preserving Memories Since 1901 Phil has always sought out the wisdom returned to Israel last summer. “This and friendship of rabbis. When he and Drucy was our first trip since we were began to grow their family in Buffalo, they undergraduates,” he said. This trip soon became involved in Temple Beth Am was especially meaningful as it was and among the first people they met were arranged and guided by a friend and Rabbi Steve Mason and his wife Patti. “After professional guide, Yonit Schiller, we became empty nesters,” Phil reflects, “and also a native Buffalonian. “Going I grew more introspective, I wanted to study back to Israel for me was much more more. This is when I met Rabbi Gary Pokras of emotional than I thought. I loved Temple Beth Zion.” Phil recounts that during walking through every doorway and the community Tikkun Layil Shavuot program seeing a mezuzah on each door. I at Temple Beth Tzedek, Rabbi Pokras gave a talk can’t really put my feelings about on his father-in-law. He immediately clicked Israel in words – but the land and with Gary, and soon thereafter they began the people are so much a part of me learning together. Today, Phil serves on the now.” Temple Beth Zion Board of Directors. Phil and Drucy just celebrated Whether learning about new techniques in their 36th wedding anniversary. They surgery or studying Torah, Phil is always hungry have two adult children; Zoey, a to learn. One of the most transformative dermatologist in private practice and moments for him came two years ago when Zack who is a cyber-security Engineer 3 Mausoleums • 6 Historic Veteran Sections he joined 20 community leaders in a Mussar for Amazon Web Services (AWS) Serving all Faiths • Historic Chapel (Jewish ethical, educational and cultural in Seattle. Zoey and her husband 100 Landscaped Acres • Traditional Graves movement) program entitled “Lead with Jewish Matthew Swerdlin have two children, New Montefi ore II section now open Values.” Lewis and Margot, who, of course, “I am grateful to Federation for providing lovingly refer to Phil as “Grandpa the resources to offer Mussar to our leadership. Flip.” Elmlawn Memorial Park I think such values-based learning is essential Rob Goldberg is the CEO and 3939 Delaware, Ave. Kenmore, NY 14217 to our work on boards and in many of our Executive Director of Buffalo Jewish 716-876-8131 www.elmlawncemetery.com professions, especially mine as a surgeon.” Phil Federation. shared with me that humility, for instance, 22 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 W H O
which assists undergraduate and graduate students Ha ar r en who are actively preparing for careers that further economic development and growth, especially in the Western New York region. She loves to hear how Inspiring a New Generation of Students creative students are, and finds it awesome to be able By Nicole Bard Hadar eventually found to support their ideas. Hadar also enjoys coming up herself back at UB, this time on with new ideas, projects and programs, so being able to Moving from Israel to New York, the Alumni Association. “Back give students the opportunity to have creative freedom, taking every opportunity she can, in the day, I was a co-chair for encouragement and believe in themselves along the believing in and being proud of her “Ooze Fest” on the Alumni way is one of the best parts of her job, she says. community – Hadar Borden inspires all Student Association,” she said, By encouraging students to reach their goals and of the lives she touches here in Buffalo. and explained that she yearned use their creativity for the betterment of WNY, Hadar When Hadar was in the 3rd grade, her to reconnect with UB and give makes a difference not only in each of the student’s family moved from Jerusalem, Israel to the back. This was the perfect lives who she works with, but also for WNY as a whole. Rochester, N.Y. suburb of Brighton. “My opportunity. Having support from the local community and the parents were young and foolish, chasing Through the love Hadar campus and acting as a bridge between the two, Hadar the American Dream,” she laughed. “I knew now has for Buffalo, she is is able to develop relationships all throughout Buffalo only one word in English – apple!” Her always finding ways to share to the advantage of both “town and gown.” parents still live in Rochester, spending Hadar Borden Her passion for the strength of Jewish Buffalo is time working at the family’s kosher also driven by the yearning for opportunities for her Mediterranean eatery, Sabra Grill. By encouraging students to reach their two sons–Elliot, 13, and Jonas, 11–both students at Hadar was a student at the University at Amherst Middle School. Buffalo from 1993 – 1997, returning later goals and use their creativity...Hadar “Buffalo people are very interconnected and also so in 1997 – 2000 to complete her Master’s genuine,” she said. There’s a real opportunity to build degree. During her schooling at UB, she makes a difference not only in each of a community for yourself here.” As someone who has tried out all sorts of study areas– starting lived in Jerusalem and has plans to go back to Israel, as an architecture major, switching to the student’s lives who she works with, Hadar feels that our local Buffalo connection to Israel Physical Therapy, but finally settling on but also for WNY as a whole. is critical. “I have a strong connection to Israel, and Geography and International Trade. Hadar I want to help build a connection and love for Israel thought because she is bilingual—Hebrew explained that her Israeli parents didn’t go her personal gifts with our and Judaism right here in Buffalo,” Hadar explains. She being her first language—that skill would to college in the United States and didn’t community and region. She believes all kinds of Jews are welcome in Jewish Buffalo. help leverage her International Trade know how to go about the process. Being currently sits on the boards of Hadar never dreamed she would end up in academic studies. the oldest sibling, Hadar was able to then the Erie County Commission life. She tells me, “You don’t know what’s next. Always Hadar began her professional journey help guide her younger siblings after her for Women, the WNY Women’s be open, embrace opportunities. When you get the as a Student Assistant in the Financial Aid own experience. Foundation, and Junior League chance to work with many others, do it, and be exposed Office while a sophomore at UB. There, she Wanting to be done with school, she of Buffalo. to it all. I can’t tell you what I’ll be doing in 5 years, and found a job where she was able to do what took a break after graduation and went into Professionally, Hadar, who that’s okay!” she tells me. she enjoyed, helping people. Although this the corporate world. Little did she know is turning 42 in September, Buffalo is lucky to have Hadar Borden, making a job was “messy and had many nuances”, she would be returning to UB as a faculty is currently UB’s Program difference in the lives of the students at UB and in our she was helping someone fulfill their member. Hadar thought she would move Director for Blackstone community. We’ll just have to wait and see what she’s dreams, making it all worthwhile. out of Buffalo, but then she met her future Launchpad, a campus-based up to in 5 years, but I have no doubt she’ll continue to As a first-generation college student, husband, David. They married in June 2001 entrepreneurship program be a leader in the ongoing Renaissance that is Buffalo Hadar was lucky to have Maureen Kanaley, and haven’t left yet! designed to introduce and Jewish Buffalo! a supervisor in the Financial Aid Office, David Borden is currently the Program entrepreneurship as a viable Nicole Bard is a senior at UB and Buffalo Jewish who guided and mentored her. Hadar Manager with Moog, Inc. Medical Device career path, and also UB’s WNY Federation’s Engagement Intern for the 2017-18 calls Maureen her “surrogate parent”. She Group. Prosperity Fellowship Program, academic year.
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Calling all cooks and tasters to join The JCC Super Soup Cook-Off, Sunday, September 15, at the JCC Benderson Building, 2nd floor, Lippman Lounge, 2640 North Forest Road in Amherst. Here’s your chance to bring a pot of your favorite pot of soup and a story to share about your recipe. Is it a family secret? Has the recipe been passed down through generations? Does your soup have curative powers? A funny or memorable story? Chefs will have a chance to tell their story to an audience of tasters who will sample all the soups and then vote for their favorite. The winning chef takes home 2 tickets to opening night of VISITING MR. GREEN at the Jewish Repertory Theatre!
Registration for soup chefs: FREE Deadline for registration: August 28, 2017 Register early to guarantee your place in the soup line-up as space is limited! Please indicate whether you are bringing a cold or hot soup so we can plan for portable cooktops.
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5 THINGS YOU CAN DO in August to repair the world ail f r e le et i n earl il r gra i 1» hold a fun fundraiser this summer. Through Pails for PALS, every dollar donated will be matched to increase funds for scholarships, STEM technology, and arts programs and opportunities. Call Melissa Milch at 716-836-6565 or go to https://fundly.com/pals-of-love to make your donation.
The Hebrew month of Elul, which begins August 23, is a traditional 2» time to visit the graves of loved ones, right before the High Holiday season. Why not make a gift to the Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation in honor of your parents, grandparents, or any other important person in your life. The Cemetery Corporation maintains and repairs several Buffalo Jewish cemeteries and your help is greatly needed. Go to www.jfedbflo.com and click on “Federation Cemetery Corporation” or call 716-204-2246.
n t i t e an e t ee a bet Thru August 20th at Shakespeare » in Delaware Park- on Lincoln Parkway (behind the Albright-Knox Art Gallery) 3 in Buffalo. http://shakespeareindelawarepark.org/. A Buffalo summer tradition since 1976, the performance takes place in a historic park designed by Frederick Law Olmsted.
ugu t t t t rie unt air takes place at The Fairgrounds, 4» 5600 McKinley Parkway in Hamburg ecfair.org. If you have never pet a goat, seen chickens and roosters or enjoyed auto races, this summer at the Fair is the time to experience these fun things! The fair features $500,000 in free entertainment, over 2,500 animals, top name concerts, exciting motor events, mile long midway, great food and much more. e ee ur uffal e i e erati n frien at t e l 5» e ti al f t e rt - Aug 26 & 27. You will find us on Cultural/ Environmental Row, just off Elmwood Avenue during the festival, looking to engage you in new activities and projects. Interested? Contact [email protected]
WHERE IN O W ere i t i f un in W The first 5 people to correctly identify the location and the person will win a $10 lunch to the JCC’s NEW Tel Aviv Café.
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In July, Linda Steinhorn, Lois Blaustein, Janis Sinatra, Cheryl Tobias, Herman Engel, David Kurss, Jacquie Marcus, Carol Schmeidler, Cindy Stover and Cindy Konovitz identified the entrance to the Holy Order of the Living Cemetery on Pine Ridge Road.
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August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 27 Rent assisted apartments for seniors & mobility-impaired adults SYNAGOGUES AGENCIES Jewish Jewish Community Agencies Federation in Western New York Buffalo Jewish Federation Jewish Community Center of Greater Apartments 2640 North Forest Road Buffalo, Inc. Getzville, NY 14068 Benderson Family Building TEL 716-204-2241 | FAX 716-929-0482 2640 North Forest Road www.jfedbflo.com Getzville, NY 14068 Watch your favorite shows with your Rob Goldberg - CEO & Executive Director TEL 716-688-4033 | FAX 716-688-3572 Steven J. Weiss- President Richard Zakalik - Executive Director new friends on our big screen TV! Susan Freed-Oestreicher - President Bureau of Jewish Education 2640 North Forest Road Holland Family Building Getzville, NY 14068 787 Delaware Avenue Great room • Media room • Wifi • Fitness center TEL 716-204-5380 | FAX 716-688-3572 Buffalo, NY 14209 Data center • Beauty salon • Laundry facilities www.bjebuffalo.org TEL 716-886-3145 | FAX 716-886-1367 Full time social worker • Activities • Transportation Jill Komm - Executive Director www.jccbuffalo.org Michael Berger - President 24 hour emergency maintenance • Two elevators • Library Jewish Discovery Center Computer room • Pool table • Emergency medical call Chabad House of Buffalo 757 Hopkins Road system • Chapel • Card room • Large screen tv 2450 North Forest Road Williamsville, NY 14221 Getzville, NY 14068 212 Exeter Rd. TEL 716-688-1642 | FAX 716-688-1643 Williamsville, NY 14221 (office) Open to all religious denominations www.chabadbuffalo.com TEL: 716-639-7600 Rabbi Moshe Gurary - Director TEL: 716-632-0467 Jewish Federation Apartments Rabbi Heschel Greenberg 275 Essjay Road Chai Early Childhood Center Rabbi Laizer Labkovski 757 Hopkins Road www.jewishdiscovery.org Williamsville, NY 14221 Williamsville, NY 14221 TEL 716 580-4600 Jewish Family Service Of Buffalo And For application information please call 716-631-8471 www.chainursery.com Erie County Chani Labkovski -Director 70 Barker Street www.JewishFederationApartments.org Buffalo, NY 14209 Department of Jewish Thought TEL 716-883-1914 | FAX 716-883-7637 *Jewish Federation Apartments does not discriminate on the basis of handicapped status in the 712 Clemens Hall - University at Buffalo admission or access to, or treatment or employment in, its federally assisted program and activities. www.jfsbuffalo.org Buffalo, NY 14260 Marlene Schillinger - Executive Director TEL 716-645-3695 FAX 716-645-3473 Blaine Schwartz - Chair Email: [email protected] http://www.jewishstudies.buffalo.edu/ Jewish Federation Apartments Dr. Sergey Dolgopolski, Chair 275 Essjay Road Williamsville, NY 14221 Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies TEL 716-631-8471 | FAX 716-631-8768 2640 North Forest Road www.jewishfederationapartments.org Getzville, NY 14068 Karen Greenspan - President TEL 716-204-1133 | FAX 716-204-1129 Kathleen Haggerty - Property Manager www.jewishphilanthropies.org Peter Fleischmann- Director & CEO Ray Fink- President Jewish Federation Cemetery Corporation, Inc. Hadassah 2640 North Forest Road 2640 North Forest Road Getzville, NY 14068 Getzville, NY 14068 TEL 716-204-2246 | FAX 716-929-0482 TEL 716-688-5260 www.jfedbflo.com [email protected] Deborah Pivarsi - Director Marlene Katzel - Co-President Charlotte Gendler - President Maxine Seller - Co-President Kadimah Academy Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association 1085 Eggert Road 2640 North Forest Road in FJP offices Amherst, NY 14226 Getzville, NY 14068 TEL 716-836-6903 | FAX 716-837-7322 TEL 716-204-0542 www.kadimah.org Sam Golden- Loan Officer Einav Symons - Head of School Linda S. Boxer- President Alan Rosenhoch - President
Hillel of Buffalo Campus Foundation Ohr Temimim School for Jewish Life 411 John James Audubon Parkway 520 Lee Entrance/UB Commons W. Amherst, NY 14228 Suite # 210 TEL 716-568-0226 | FAX 716-636-1899 W. Amherst, NY 14228 www.ohrtemimimschool.com TEL 716-645-8787 | FAX 716-639-7817 Rabbi Shmuel Shanowitz - Principal Rabbi Sara Rich - Director Jonathan Gellman - President www.hillelofbuffalo.org Weinberg Campus Holocaust Resource Center 2700 North Forest Road 336 Harris Hill Road, Suite 302 Getzville, NY 14068 Williamsville, NY 14221 TEL 716-639-3311 | FAX 716-639-3309 TEL: 716-634-9535 www.weinbergcampus.org www.hrcbuffalo.org Robert Mayer- President & CEO Pieter Weinrieb- President Kenneth Rogers- Chairman of the Board Mara Koven-Gelman- Executive Director of Directors
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Yad B’Yad Saranac Synagogue A program of the Bureau of Jewish (Orthodox) Education President - Shmuel Rashkin TEL 716-204-5380 / FAX 716-688-3572 Vice President - Reuven Alt www.yadbyad.org Gabbai David Kunkel Cindi Mikulik - Director 85 Saranac Avenue Laurie Criden - Chair Buffalo New York 14216 TEL 716 876 1284 Western New York www.SaranacSynagogue.org Synagogues and Temples Temple Beth Tzedek Chabad House of Buffalo (unaffiliated) (Conservative) 2450 North. Forest Rd, 621 Getzville Road Getzville, NY 14068 Amherst, NY 14226 TEL 716-688-1642 Cantor Mark Spindler www.chabadbuffalo.com Lisa Wallenfels - President TEL 716- 838-3232 Congregation Beth Abraham www.btzbuffalo.org (Conservative) 1073 Elmwood Avenue Temple Beth Zion Buffalo, NY 14222 (Reform) www.congregationbethabraham.net Sanctuary: 805 Delaware Avenue Buffalo, NY 14209 Congregation B’nai Shalom Religious School and Offices: (Conservative) 700 Sweet Home Road 1641 North Forest Rd. Amherst, NY 14226 Williamsville, NY 14221 Rabbi Jonathan Freirich TEL 716-689-8203 Rabbi Adam Scheldt [email protected] Cantor Penny Myers www.bnaishalombuffalo.org Amy Schaefer - Temple Administrator miriam treger honig - President Congregation Hesed Abraham TEL 716-836-6565 215 Hall Ave www.tbz.org Jamestown, NY 14701 Rabbi Allen Podet Temple Beth El TEL 716-484-1800 (Reform) 720 Ashland Avenue Congregation Shir Shalom Niagara Falls, NY 14301 (Reform/ Reconstructionist) Rabbi Ellen Franke 4660 Sheridan Drive Cantorial Soloist Barry Rose Williamsville, NY 14221 William Bell - President TEL 716-633-8877 TEL 716-282-2717 Rabbi Alexander Lazarus-Klein www.niagarafallstemple.com Cantor Arlene Frank Joanne Marquisee - Executive Director Temple Emanu-El Todd Sugarman - President (Reform) www.shirshalombuffalo.org 124 Bank Street Batavia, NY 14020 Congregation Havurah TEL 585-343-7027 6320 Main St., Williamsville, NY 14221 Stan Schumann - President Bernard Schenkler, President Annette Pinder, Membership Chair The Family Shul TEL 716-689-2256 (Unaffiliated) www.congregationhavurah.org 757 Hopkins Road [email protected] Williamsville, NY 14221 Rabbi Heschel Greenberg Kehillat Ohr Tzion (Modern Orthodox) Rabbi Laizer Labkovski 879 Hopkins Rd 716-639-7600 Williamsville, NY 14221 Jeff Schapiro - President Young Israel of Greater Buffalo NEW - [email protected] (Orthodox) http://ohrtzion.org/kot 105 Maple Road Rabbi Ori Bergman Williamsville, NY 14221 Rabbi Eliezar Marcus Knesset Center (Orthodox) Richard G. Berger- President 500 Starin Avenue TEL 716-634-0212 Buffalo, NY 14214 www.yibuffalo.org TEL 716-832-5063 Rabbi Shmaryahu Charitonow www.chabad.org Attention Snowbirds!
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August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 31 CALENDAR TEMPLE BETH ZION SUMMER CELEBRATION Upcoming Events AUGUST 14! July 29 August 6 Special Service at Temple Beth Tzedek Nickel City Jews honoring Rabbi Netter at regular Blue & White Party. The premier social event of the summer! morning Shabbat services. 12 noon-3:00 pm. The Mansion on Delaware Walk Off Hunger, benefitting $25 before August 1/$36 after Make plans now to join us on Monday, August 14, for the Summer the Food Bank of WNY For info contact Celebration featuring our 19th annual Golf Tournament and 7th annual 10 am- 2 pm. Island Park , Williams- [email protected] Wine Tour. This event raises vital funds for education programs at TBZ. ville. Co-Sponsored by Congregation The day begins at Transit Valley Country Club with a fabulous lunch on the newly renovated outdoor patio. At noon, those on the Wine Tour board Shir Shalom. Call the Food Bank at August 14 a luxury air-conditioned coach to tour wineries in Niagara County. Temple 716-935-6717 for more information. Summer Celebration sommelier Mark Criden leads this popular tour. at Temple Beth Zion The Golf Tournament has a 12:30 shotgun start with 18 holes on this July 31 Golf! Wine tour! Dinner! premier golf course. Our golfers love the “best in foursome” format that TBZ Call Julie Feldman at 716-836-6565 allows them to play their own ball. Movie Night to honor Tisha B’Av for cost and sponsorship information. Cocktails and hors d’oeuvres follow the Wine Tour and Golf Tournament. Movie - No Popcorn. 7:00 pm. The event is capped off with a delicious dinner and rousing auctions in the 805 Delaware Ave. August 17 country club dining room. Call 716-836-6565. Jewish Women’s David Goldberg and Sandy Schechter are Chairs of this amazing and highly Mental Health program successful event. Join us for the wine adventure (space is limited), on the golf Home of Cantor Penny Myers course, or just come for cocktails and dinner. August 1 Tisha B’Av (9th of Av) 7:30 pm. $10. If you are interested in participating and/or being a sponsor for this event, please contact Julie Feldman at (716) 836-6565, Ext. 134. This holiday is an annual fast day in RSVP to [email protected] Judaism which commemorates the an- niversary of a number of disasters September 4 in Jewish history, primarily the Jewish Discovery Center destruction of both the First Temple Labor Day BBQ by the Babylonians and the Second 1-3 pm. Temple by the Romans in Jerusalem. JDC, 757 Hopkins Toad, Williamsville
Mental and emotional health conditions affect all of society, including the Jewish the community. Jewish Family Services and other community volunteers are joining the coalition to destigmatize mental illness and raise awareness. Please join us for an important women’s event: State Of Mind: Comprehensive A Jewish Women’s Journey OB/GYN Care with Mental Health August 17th, 7:30pm • Accepting new patients at the home of Cantor Penny Myers Kosher refreshments • All female providers and staff Suggested donation: $10 • Moving to new location, fall 2017 Rebbetzin Shana Rosenfeld will talk about her personal experience 1 1/2 miles from current location navigating anxiety and depression. She will share strategies to support, educate, and empower others to end mental health stigma. The Rebbetzin will • Nutritional coach and mental health counselors on site expound on how she has drawn strength from Jewish teaching and practice. Mrs. Rosenfeld will share the lessons and truths she has discovered during her own struggles and triumphs with mental illness. 1360 North Forest Road • Williamsville Mrs. Shana Rosenfeld is the executive director of the McMaster University (716) 639-4034 Jewish Student Center in Hamilton, Ontario. She is a mother and Jewish educator. Mrs. Rosenberg is certified in Mental Health First Aid. For more www.AudubonWomens.com info and to RSVP please email [email protected]
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• We will continue to offer the ADULT JEWISH LEARNING Intro to Judaism course, taught by the members of the Board of FOR THE COMMUNITY Rabbis and Cantors (beginning September 6th) and both By Susan Goldberg Schwartz, The BJE is connecting to local beginning and advanced Hebrew. BJE Director of Adult Learning and international partners, in • By popular demand, we will both the Jewish and non-Jewish again offer the East Side/West According to the dictionary, an adult communities. For example: Side course, taught by Chana is someone who is ‘fully developed • We are planning a 3 part- Kotzin, Ph.D. and mature; grown-up’… With that series with the Department of Let’s make Jewish Buffalo as a starting point, we are developing Jewish Thought (UB) on Power a transformative learning engaging and transformative Jewish and Powerlessness in Jewish community! Mortimer Adler, learning for adults in the greater Buffalo Tradition. an American philosopher and Jewish community. This includes college • We continue to partner with educator said, “The purpose of students, young professionals, parents, The Mussar Institute and will learning...is growth, and our empty-nesters, retirees, and anyone begin new Mussar groups and minds, unlike our bodies, can interested in learning. ongoing learning for those who continue growing as we continue Learning together strengthens the are already familiar with Mussar to live.” community. Transformative adult study and practice. Please look for more details learning is a process by which we, the • We will work with the JCC soon on our website www. learners, by challenging previously held and Hillel to develop discussion bjebuffalo.org/adultlearning perspectives, become more open, and groups and programs based on and in the September issue. revise our beliefs and understandings current Jewish films and new For more information about of the world. When we provide authors through the Jewish Film Adult Learning programs, opportunities for adults to explore their Festival & Book Fair. please contact Susan Schwartz, sense of purpose and express that in • We will create a program Director of Adult Learning, meaningful ways, both the learner and around the “What if Everyone [email protected] or 716- the community benefit. Read the Same (Jewish) Book?” 204-5830.
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was what followed. She met her husband BJE: Sarah Moyer’s Award-Winning Essay and dropped out with one semester left before getting her degree so he could The Bureau of Jewish Education’s Hebrew High program gratefully acknowledges the Better Together Program which has enabled continue in law school and she could our students to develop meaningful relationships with seniors at Weinberg Campus. The Better Together Program (which is generously start a family. After this, she went back to supported by a prominent national foundation) also included the Better2Write writing contest. Entries for the writing contest focused work only as a volunteer in the JCC and on how the students were impacted by the program, as reflected in their feelings about seniors, aging, and the mitzvah of caring for the community activities and never used her elderly. The winner of our local Better2Write contest was Sarah Moyer, a 10th grade student, who has been awarded a scholarship to childhood passion for science. This was attend Camp Seneca Lake this summer! - Jill Komm, Principal, Hebrew High a meaningful and valuable contribution to her community, and the limitation, or what she gave up, never seemed to bother BETTER TOGETHER Cynthia. Her perspective is that she has By Sarah Moyer had a long and fulfilling life, and I agree. But to me, this was mind blowing. I spent the last few months meeting As a young woman with practically my with and talking to a 91-year-old woman whole life in front of me, where I plan named Cynthia once a week. I have to pursue a career in mathematics or learned a lot from her throughout this engineering, I cannot imagine abandoning time about growing up in a different time these passions for the prospect of finding and location, but I also noticed many a partner. This just stands to show what a similarities in some of our cultural long way feminism has come that I expect experiences. Meeting with a person very to have a fulfilling career of my own. different from myself allowed me to gain While the notion of beginning a family a different perspective and learn some is important to me, my professional and important life lessons from someone who academic success remains my priority at has lived a rich, full life. this point in my life. Although I’m sure I noticed differences between our there are many skills Cynthia possesses generations and life experience in how that I haven’t learned, it has been very Cynthia and I expressed our Judaism, and difficult for me to comprehend that a Sarah Moyer with her parents the environment in which we were taught 91-year-old woman never had to learn how this rich history of our ancestors. She to do things like completing taxes. But shared with me that she was brought up in many of my peers has given me access to school through my Bat Mitzvah and will things of that nature were never deemed an Austrian-Jewish neighborhood in the a much broader pool of knowledge and be confirmed this year, but my Jewish a necessity for her since she essentially depths of Brooklyn, New York. Growing experience and the value that differences education seems more sporadic, not an moved straight from her father’s house up, she had very limited experiences are to be celebrated. integral part of my overall learning. I to her husband’s. She was never forced with people who practiced other faiths On the other hand, growing up in a much have ended up spending more limited into the sense of independence, which and ideologies or people from different more Jewish area like Cynthia’s, would time at Jewish events and devote the I have been raised to crave, if not cultures. Her school and social circles have given me a much stronger connection majority of my time to secular activities in demand, from society. She achieved more were all predominantly of a similar faith to my Jewish faith and ancestral roots. I my school and community, volunteering, connectedness, but at this point in my life, and ethnicity, giving her few interactions do feel that in some ways, my connection sports, and other extracurriculars. Both I am more focused on achievement and with different groups of people until to so many secular groups and activities ways of growing up Jewish provide us with independence. leaving for college at the age of sixteen. has put a strain on my connection to life skills and morals that allow us to live Being able to spend time with Cynthia, This was very different from the the Jewish community. It becomes happy and fulfilling lives, but give us very a woman so different from myself, yet environment I was raised in. The America difficult to be actively involved with so different global and communal outlooks. whom I share so much with has been I was raised in, from the booming Atlanta, many conflicting activities and so much Another major difference that I noticed an incredible experience for me. Going Georgia to the suburbs of Williamsville, physical distance from my community’s between Cynthia and me over our time through this program has allowed me to New York have been a mixing pot of Jewish cultural hubs. Cynthia did not together was our role in society as girls reexamine my life and question things people from an astounding number of have this struggle. She was raised in a transitioning into womanhood. She grew that I always took for granted. Although different backgrounds. And although I community in which everything closed on up as the only girl in a Jewish family from I like my life, it is important to realize was active in the Jewish community and Shabbat and no activity took precedence Brooklyn and as such, was told from a that we had different advantages in life. in my religious school, I was exposed to a over holiday services or religious school. young age to focus her life on meeting a Her solid foundation and warm ties are very large number of non-Jewish people We both have been raised with core husband and starting a family. The basis in contrast with my desire to fly in my outside of it. Out of my high school class Jewish values, maybe not keeping for her education was to have an outlet to multifaceted world, but we both have of almost 400, we have about a dozen of Shabbat or Kashrut, but values of meet men and then to appear intelligent a strong Jewish identity. Meeting with Jewish teens. This means that many of my service, justice, and Jewish learning. But once she met them. She succeeded whole- Cynthia has given me a very important close friends practice different religions Cynthia was afforded more opportunities heartedly in both of these things because perspective that I believe will have a and celebrate different holidays. This for these to be reinforced within the she was very bright. Graduating high school lasting impact on my life. Seeing how has been a very positive influence on my Jewish community. Cynthia has used two years early at the age of 16 because of things that she never could have imagined life, being able to share in other religious these very strong Jewish values to raise her intellect and determination, Cynthia have been brought into fruition and have customs and expand my knowledge on a Conservative Jewish family that keeps went to Brooklyn College to pursue a even taken for granted to some extent has diverse groups of people, and it gave me kosher and is very involved in the Jewish bachelor’s degree in the sciences. These been an incredible experience. Though we a sense of being special. Learning about community. She even volunteered at were huge accomplishments for someone were born decades apart, the experiences these diverse groups in such a way and her local Jewish Community Center for of her age and gender during this time Cynthia and I have shared every week in experiencing cultural landmarks alongside many years. I have continued in religious period. But what stood out to me most our talks will forever bind us. August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 35 36 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 AGENCIES BUFFALO HOSTS NAACCHHS CONFERENCE
By Jill Komm, Bureau of Jewish Education JCC), Yoga and Mindfulness Temple Beth Zion’s historic If you would like (led by Adam Scheldt from synagogue, along with a fun more informatio about The first full week of June brought Jewish educators from across the the Jewish Spirituality Center evening at Niagara Falls. NAACCHHS, please contact country to Buffalo for a week of networking and learning! NAACCHHS, which of Western New York), and Our Jewish Community Shari Weinberger at shari@ stands for the North American Association of Community and Congregational a look into Buffalo’s unique Center provided a beautiful naacchhs.org or visit the Hebrew High Schools, gathers once a year for its professional development Jewish history (led by Chana space for the group to engage website www.naacchhs.org. conference. This year, our own Hebrew High of Buffalo was honored to host Kotzin, Ph.D. from the Jewish and the Myers Tel Aviv Café For more information on the event! Buffalo Archives Project). supplied delicious kosher Hebrew High, please contact The week was filled with incredible learning opportunities, including Special guests also included meals, which showcased how the BJE at 716-204-5380 or an introduction to Mussar (led by Evie Weinstein and Susan Goldberg Nina Woldin from Chai much Jewish Buffalo has to visit www.bjebuffalo.org/ Schwartz), Leadership and Board Development (led by Rob Goldberg Mitzvah and Ellen Kleinhaus offer! Next year’s conference hebrewhigh. from the Buffalo Jewish Federation), Fundraising 101 (led by Peter from Sharsheret. The goal will be to focus on Israel Fleischmann and Lynn Catalano from the Foundation for Jewish group enjoyed visiting the education in honor of Israel’s Philanthropies), Team Building (led by Jason Palevsky from the Cofeld Museum and touring 70th anniversary.
YAD B’YAD UPDATE By Cindi Mikulik, Director
Yad B’Yad summer programming began beautifully in June with the ladies from the Women’s Jewish Group Home planting flowers. This was the second part of February’s Tu B’Shevat program, when they planted flower seeds. It was a perfect evening to be outside and the gardens look lovely!
Women’s Group Home residents planting flowers
Yad B’Yad has programs planned throughout the summer, and fall programming is almost complete. If you know of anyone who would enjoy making new friends and participating in fun, inclusive programs please let us know or have them contact us. We all enjoy welcoming new participants! Yad B’Yad (hand in hand) is a program of the Bureau of Jewish Education that provides outreach, advocacy and program support to assist people with disabilities in achieving full participation in Jewish life in Western New York. To join us in our programming, or to volunteer, please visit our website at www.yadbyad.org, find us on Facebook at http://www. facebook.com/yadbyadbuffalo, or contact Cindi Mikulik at 716-204- 5380 or [email protected]. We look forward to having you!
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Many people think mental illness affects only certain populations, or that people with a stable solid social status or from communities regarded as economically successful can’t be mentally ill. The truth is, like any other illness, mental health disorders do not discriminate by race, religion, economic status or sexual identity. The stigma that still surrounds mental illness, however, leads to discrimination that often keeps people from getting the help they need.
“Stigma prevents people from seeking eliminate stigma.” help, prevents resources from being As a cornerstone of the 16-organization allocated, and people from supporting alliance founded in September 2015, others,” Marlene Schillinger, president and Schillinger worked closely with co-founder CEO of Jewish Family Service of Buffalo and administrator Michael Ranney, Erie & Erie County explains. “The number County Commissioner of Mental Health, one objective of the Erie County Anti- to spearhead the design and launch of a Stigma Coalition is to change the way long-term anti-stigma campaign in May. people perceive and respond to people “We want people to know that mental with a mental illness in order to reduce or health challenges impact many lives,
that stereotypes are prevalent and need compassionate mental health diagnosis, to change, that you are not alone and treatment and counseling for adults, recovery is possible, that help is available seniors, children and teens since the and recovery is possible,” says Schillinger. 1950s. JFS is staffed by licensed counselors Tagged “Join the Conversation,” the with experience in treating anxiety and multimedia initiative facilitates an open- depression, bipolar disorder, PTSD, ended dialogue at www.letstalkstigma. schizophrenia, eating disorders, problem org, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram gambling and a range of other mental and invites local residents take the online and behavioral health disorders. “We pledge to: are a lifeline for all in need of mental Share experiences, stories and health treatment and support. As a long- information to spread awareness and standing integral part of Jewish Buffalo, acceptance of mental illness. we are also sensitive and respond with Avoid using stigmatizing words like appropriate compassion to the cultural “crazy,” “psycho,” “nuts,” and “insane” in traditions and nuances of our own everyday conversations community,” Schillinger explains. “In the Continue learning about mental health broadest picture, we urge everyone to ‘Join issues in order to replace myths and fear the Conversation’ and take the pledge at with truth and understanding. www.letstalkstigma.org — and encourage Speak out against mental health anyone who thinks they or someone they stigma and discrimination whenever it’s love may be experiencing a mental health encountered challenge to call JFS at 883-1914. Help is Jewish Family Service of Buffalo & available and we can help.” Erie County has provided comprehensive,
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38 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 AGENCIES BUFFALO JEWISH COALITION FOR LITERACY GOES TO AKAG By David Schiller Volunteering for Buffalo Jewish Coalition for Literacy (BJCL) is an important way of helping young people. As “the People of the Book” this is a very special responsibility. My wife, Beverly, and I, together with support from Pyramid Brokerage Company of Buffalo, arranged a trip to the Albright Knox Art Gallery for Grade 4 students from P.S. 80/Highgate Elementary School where we volunteer weekly for the BJCL program.
In my volunteer class at School 80, visit by James the Ice Cream we read a book about Jackson Pollock Cycle Dude. Some of the ice during the school year. Understanding cream treats ranked as works that none of the pupils have ever visited of art, too, especially as they an art gallery, Bev and I thought a visit dripped in the warm noon sun. was long overdue. We learned that We wondered if Jackson Pollock The Albright Knox Art Gallery offers might have considered dripping a program to transport pupils to the ice cream on canvas, too. The Gallery for a customized tour with a trip brought the book to life for docent, so we arranged for a visit. all of us. And we both heartily Our first stop was at the Gallery’s own recommend this volunteer Jackson Pollock piece, “Convergence.” program. The children participated in a lively You can read more about it discussion of the artist’s work with the on pages 10 and 11. If you are docent. The class learned about and interested in volunteering for enjoyed several other paintings and the Buffalo Jewish Coalition for sculptures. Literacy, contact Ellen Goldstein School 80 students at the Albright Knox on a field trip Lunch was served on the steps of the at 204-2243 or egoldstein@ gallery, followed by a planned-surprise jfedbflo.com
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40 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 JEWS IN THE NEWS Chautauqua Art World Buffalo Jewish Federation friends spent a Day at Chautauqua with Chautauqua summer residents and Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks (center), who spoke about the week’s topic,” A Crisis of Artists Kathy Corff Rogers and Rick Steinberg’s Faith.” In the photo were just some the people who attended the lecture and luncheon. Thank you to Norm & Hannah Weinberg for their hospitality and Oded Ravenpour of the JCC’s Tel photo show opening in Buffalo Aviv Café/ Falafel Bar for his delicious lunch!
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August 2017 | www.jfedbflo.com 41 JEWS IN THE NEWS Ride for Roswell The Annual Ride for Roswell June 23 and 24 was a night and day love-fest of support, hope, fundraising and community, all in the service of raising funds to find a cure for cancer.
42 www.jfedbflo.com | August 2017 JEWS IN THE NEWS KOT: Goodbye, Rabbi Strossberg Kehillat Ohr Tzion (KOT) and community members gathered in early July to bid farewell to Rabbi Josh, and Andrea Strosberg and their children as they move to their new home in Detroit
Hello, Rabbi Mason Rabbi Steve and Patty Mason, formerly at Temple Beth Am in Buffalo, returned to Congregation Shir Shalom for a meaningful Scholar-in-Residence weekend
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OUR AJC MISSION TO WARSAW, TALLINN AND VILNIUS By Harold Halpern
My wife, Susan, and I went on an AJC mission to Europe this past spring, celebrating the opening of its Central Europe Office in Warsaw. It was a trip expertly crafted and perfectly executed. We met with the highest levels of government officials and with Jewish communities. We visited sites of historical importance. Every moment was exhilarating.
We were about 130 in number. After Warsaw, we pride in great uncle Shmuel Yatzkan and broke into three groups. Each group visited two the Yiddish paper (Haynt) he founded, and of the other countries serviced from the Warsaw overwhelming delight in meeting my cousin, office; Czech Republic, Estonia, Hungary, Latvia, Howard Solomon, Deputy Chief of US mission Lithuania and Slovakia. Susan and I chose to visit in Lithuania. Estonia and Lithuania. Leaders of Poland, Estonia and Lithuania expressed common concerns and interests. They share the values of AJC for a safer and more peaceful world for the Jewish people and for all humanity. They all have generally good relations with Israel, and empathize with its existential fears. They fear Russia in the same way. They need and have the protection of NATO and the US, but worry whether US policy supporting them will continue. They seek forgiveness for a history of anti-Semitism Susan Halpern at the POLIN Museum wooden bima and participation in the Holocaust. But there also stubbornly remains periodic eruptions of anti- Centers, Jewish camps, synagogues, a Jewish school and theater in Semitic expressions. Susan and Harold Halpern with the Japanese Warsaw. Each day, people learn of a Jewish past. Estimates of number Each day was packed with briefings with US and Ambassador to Lithuania enroute to Sugahura House of Jews range from 10,000 to 25,000. Israel Ambassadors and meetings with Presidents of We celebrated the opening of the AJC office in Warsaw serving Estonia and Lithuania, government officials and with POLAND Central Europe as the mezuzah was affixed to the doorpost by the leaders of the Jewish communities. We remembered In addition to all our meetings and briefings Chief Rabbi. We toured POLIN, the museum of history of Jews in the Holocaust, while gaining hope from Jewish the mission included a trip to Auschwitz, a Poland for 1000 years. Our guide stopped under the painting of the communities reemerging from destruction. visit to Umschlagplatz and to 18 Mila St. (the Clockmaker reading The Haynt, informing us it was Poland’s most Space permits only this highlight report. Suffice it entombed final resting place of leaders of influential Yiddish paper, between the Wars, founded by my great to say we cried both with tears of sadness and tears Ghetto uprising who committed suicide on uncle Shmuel Yatzkan in 1908 and published until 1939. There at of hope. In addition I felt emotions which were mine May 8, 1943) left no tear ducts dry. Almost the POLIN, 500 people, including leaders of the Polish community, alone, sadness from the roundup for liquidation of three million Polish Jews were killed during attended the AJC Gala dinner and program which remembered the my great aunt and my cousin at Umschlagplatz ( that earlier time. Holocaust, honored the present with the presentation of Jan Karski the gathering point for transport of Warsaw Ghetto Yet the Jewish community in Poland Award to Andrej Folwarczny, President of the Forum for Dialogue, Jews to Treblinka between July and September 1942), survives. There are Jewish Community and celebrated hope for the future.
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issuing travel visas contrary to his government’s orders. And we visited the small village of Ziezmariar where the mayor spoke proudly of the rebuilding of its wooden synagogue to remember the importance of the Jewish contributions to Lithuania. We had dinner with US Ambassador Anne Hall, who spoke emotionally of the beginnings of the Bobbie and Jack Vishner of Amherst, New Jewish renaissance in Poland and York are pleased to announce the engagement Harold Halpern with newly-found cousin Howard Solomon, of their daughter, Sherri, to Rabbi Ilan Glazer. First Deputy Chief of the US Mission in Vilnius the Baltic counties. Only within the Ilan is the son of Rabbi Melvin Glazer and the month did I learn that my cousin, late Donna Glazer. Sherri is a Social Worker LITHUANIA Howard Solomon, was Deputy Chief at Sinai Hospital in Baltimore, Maryland. Ilan is currently the Rabbi at Beth Shalom Syna- Our final stop was Vilnius. Lithuania is of Mission. We never before knew of gogue in Memphis, Tennessee. Following an a country of little less than three million each other. Ambassador Hall took me October wedding in Baltimore, they will be people. It was the home of the Vilna Gaon by my hand and introduced us. We residing in Silver Spring, Maryland. and of Jewish learning including the Mussar spent parts of three days together, and Haskalah (Enlightenment) movements. including Shabbat dinner at the Before the War, about 200,000 Jews lived in Jewish Community Center, sharing Lithuania with most in Vilnius. 95 % of the our common Litvak heritage from Jews were liquidated from 1941 to 44, though Birzai and Valbanikus, Lithuania. not in the gas chambers but by bullets in On our last evening in Vilnius, the head in the killing fields of Ponary and we relaxed at the Symphony. Small Kaunus. The bodies were later burned to world. The Israeli ambassador prevent any trace of the killings. We cried had the same idea. So we bid him and recited Kaddish at the memorial marking farewell. Although there were many the site. moments of sad remembrance of the Yet there were others, who saved lives destruction of the Jews in Central and help preserve culture. Ambassador Europe, we were encouraged that Shigeeda from Japan accompanied us to the countries we visited and their the Sugihara House Museum. Sugihara, a people were rebuilding the Jewish Righteous Gentile, was a counsel from Japan community. Thus ended the AJC to Lithuania in 1940 who saved 6,000 Jew by mission.
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