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October 2018 60p THE PARISH CHURCH OF ST. PETER, ST PETER’S, WEST BLATCHINGTON
Rector The Reverend Daniel Smith, BTh (Oxon), Dip Min The Rectory 23 Windmill Close, Hove. BN3 7LJ Tel: 01273 732459 E-mail: [email protected]
Monday is ordinarily the Rector’s rest day; however please do not hesitate to contact him in the event of a pastoral emergency. Please refer all other urgent matters to the Churchwardens.
CHURCHWARDENS Jonathan Cooke Tel: 563178 Jane Gough Tel: 554256
HON. TREASURER Mandy Gander Tel: 271982
CENTRE BOOKINGS Richard Delacour Tel: 07968 227639
PASTORAL CARE
Transport to Church Keith Bassant Tel: 561345
Sick Visiting Carol Gander Tel: 555414
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William Holden Tel: 706482 David Keeling Tel: 501504 Jane Cummings Tel: 880274 Michael Evans Tel: 567399 Charlie Flackhill Tel: 965122 Mandy Gander Tel: 271982 Maggie Lee Tel: 911968
E-mail: [email protected] Church website : stpeterswestblatchington.org.uk EDITORIAL
We do hope that you have had a relaxing and peaceful Summer break and are now ready for the cooler days and nights of Autumn and the rigours of Winter.
One of our Churchwardens, Jane Gough and her husband Michael have decided to move to Cornwall in the next few weeks to be closer to family and we shall miss their wholehearted support of Church services and social activities within the Parish. The list of things they do is endless and they will be sorely missed.
We are pleased to advise that it has been decided to purchase an Automated External Defibrillator (AED) to resuscitate someone in the vicinity of the churchyard who may have suffered a cardiac arrest. This will be located on the east wall of the Community Centre. Some training will be given to regular users of the Community Centre but this is not essential as a simple phone call will bring help and give guidance in the meantime.
Safeguarding of our children and other vulnerable people is something that we take very seriously at St Peter’s. Recent changes made by the Diocese are being embraced and further training is under way for those involved in activities with them.
Please support our lunchtime concerts and note that the next one is on a Saturday afternoon, not the usual Friday, at 2.00 pm on 20th October. It features the Acabellas, one of whom is Dee, the wife of one of our choir members, Paul Brunsdon.
We are indebted to those who give of their time to keep the church- yard looking so neat and tidy. Maybe you can spare an hour or two on an occasional basis to help mow the grass or join the rota to maintain a flower bed? The green-fingered with their own gardens will find that our regular feature “Greenfingers” will help with the work to be carried out in the next few weeks in preparation for Winter.
Editorial Committee The Rector’s Ramblings
I’ve just returned from the three-day Clergy Conference held at the University of Kent at Canterbury. The theme of the conference was ‘Vocation’ and next year the Diocese will be celebrating the ‘Year of Vocation’. The strap line of the conference was from the popular hymn ‘Here I am Lord’. You might know the next line…’Is it me Lord’. I think we all ask that question from time to time. In the Bible, we hear the story of God calling Samuel three times. On the first two occasions, Samuel doesn’t recognise the call of his Lord God. But on the third time, something changes within Samuel and he realises that God is calling him. We are about to go through some changes at St Peter’s with Jane and Michael moving to Cornwall to be with their family. Jane and Michael have been wonderful examples of people responding to a call – a call to serve, love and nurture their Church family and beyond. This has been their vocation. So, what do you hear God calling you to be or do? God calls people from all walks of life and we are all ‘good enough’ in his eyes. What are your passions and skills? How do you think you could use these in God’s service? How can we help you realise and accept what God is calling you to be and do? One of the things I found at the Clergy Conference, there were 300 of us there, was that we come from different places and traditions, but we all love God and have had some change in our own lives which has caused us to want to know, love and follow him. But you don’t have to be a priest to do this or to have a significant role in the parish. As we say in the Eucharist we are one body because we all share in one bread. As we move towards Christmas, why not reflect on what God has given you and what you might give back.
Blessings, Fr Daniel
I was elected a churchwarden at the annual parish meeting in April, taking Keith Bassant’s place who had been a warden for the previous three years, and acting jointly with Jane Gough who is now in her seventh year as a warden. Most of you will know that, for family reasons, Jane and Michael are moving to Cornwall and, therefore, she has had to resign as warden although the effective date of her departure has yet to be announced. We owe a huge debt of gratitude to Jane and Michael for the amount that they have both contributed to our life at St Peter’s, well over and above the normal duties of a churchwarden, and they will be a very hard act to follow. Keith also achieved a great deal during his time as warden, most notably overseeing the structural renovations to the church building and the ongoing issue of the boundary wall between the Community Centre and 365 Hangleton Road.
As for me, I have been attending St Peter’s for about 17 years and was a church warden once before, for six years during Fr Robin’s time. Over the years I have also been a member of the PCC, a server, an intercessor and for a few years was the Hove Deanery Treasurer.
A parish generally has two church wardens who, in theory, are elected by all of the people who reside in the parish and who are on the civil electoral role, not just those who are members of our church. In practice, of course, only members of the church turn out to vote.
Church wardens are responsible for the following:
• The maintenance and security of the fabric and structure of the church building and the furnishings and ornaments within it;
• The administration associated with the running of the parish, including making sure that all legal requirements are complied with, e.g. health and safety, fire and planning regulations;
• Keeping order in the church during services and evicting anyone who causes a nuisance; • Ensuring that there is someone available to take services if the rector is absent, or even taking a (non-eucharistic) service if at the last minute the priest is unable to perform;
• Acting as a guide and sounding-board for the rector and taking concern for his general welfare;
• Listening to the views and concerns of members of the parish.
In practice the wardens are assisted with many of these tasks by members of the PCC and other members of the congregation, for which we are very grateful and long may that continue! Nevertheless, it is the rector and wardens who have the legal responsibility for these matters. Father Daniel and I ask for your prayers and support as we attempt to fulfil our roles over the coming year.
Jonathan Cooke
This photo was taken of Jonathan at David & Maggie Keeling’s, at a recent party. What have we let ourselves in for!! WOMEN’S SOCIAL GROUP
At the beginning of August the Women’s Social Group went to The Bull, Henfield. In total we were a group of 28 which included husbands, fiancées, sisters and grandsons.
We arrived on one of the rare wet days of the summer but were given a warm welcome. We enjoyed a delicious spread of pizzas (with about 16 different toppings!), salads and bread, followed by a selection of desserts.
We were then divided into two teams of thirteen (we had two supporters) and played two games of skittles. It was great fun and we saw a variety of styles of play. Harrison and Sam helped set up the skittles after each competitor which was much appreciated.
We departed in good spirits and warm sunshine.
Later in the month, we enjoyed coffee at Pam’s home. As usual we enjoyed delicious refreshments and good company.
Maggie
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Michael Porteous
Thank you for all the many cards and messages that we have received.
Michael was a proud Australian born in Tasmania, but spent most of his life in Sydney. Michael was the eldest of four children and came from a very loving family.
Music played a major part in Michael's life. He studied the cello at Sydney Conservatorium and played in the National Youth Orchestra. He was granted a Scholarship to the Royal College of Music in London, which he was unable to take up, but continued to have weekly cello lessons there. Michael was an accomplished recorder player as well as being able to play a number of other instruments. Michael played in amateur orchestras whenever possible. He loved the Opera and would dash off to London to look at Art Galleries and in the evening go to the Opera.Since his retirement he has written a great deal of music, including an Opera. He was also a very good artist and painted many pictures.
Michael was a devoted husband and loving father to Charles and Sidonia and grandfather to Nina and Oscar. Family holidays were spent camping in the South of France and holidaying on Greek Islands - always looking for the heat and sun, which he so needed. When possible Michael would fly off to Australia to see his family. He was no sportsman, but he loved listening to the cricket especially when Australia were beating England - no comment on Australia being caught cheating!
After Michael was ordained he served at St.Michael's, Barnes, The Annunciation, Brighton and at The Holy Nativity in Lower Bevendean. He was Senior Chaplain at Christ's Hospital, Horsham, where he also taught Divinity for 5 years.He then took up the position of Rector at St.Peter’s until he retired.
After his retirement, Michael made his home in Thailand near the sea, and swam everyday. He hated the jelly fish and wasn't too keen on the kite surfers! Sidonia and Nina visited him every year for their Summer holidays, and as I write this they are again in Thailand, a holiday booked 3 weeks before he died. Michael found the British weather very difficult, the long, cold, grey days very depressing. You may think it strange that I didn't go to Thailand to live, but the heat and I do not get on and there are also many snakes - something I hate!
Michael had always stated that he didn't want a funeral or any sort of Memorial service, but to simply 'slip away'. This being said, he was given a Buddhist funeral and cremation and his ashes scattered at sea where he used to swim. I feel sure he would have been more than happy with this.
With love to you all, Daphne
Don’t bottle it up – it’s okay to grieve
I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; you were very dear to me. Your love for me was wonderful, more wonderful than that of women. How the mighty have fallen! 2 Samuel 1:26
A lament is a passionate expression of grief, a heartfelt cry of sadness. Here David, who composed some of the most memorable and uplifting songs of praise, allows himself the opportunity to pour out his heart to God because of his deep sorrow.
Christians are sometimes confused about how to express grief. Some contemporary teaching has emphasised the power of praise, and of praising God in all circumstances, so they feel guilty about the pain inside them and do not know how to release it. Whilst Paul does say we are not to grieve ‘like the rest of mankind’ (1Thessalonians 4:13), he means we should not grieve in the hysterical way that characterises those who have no hope in God. He does not mean that we should not grieve at all, or that we should suppress our true feelings. That would be cruel, unnatural and unhealthy. Grief is best acknowledged and expressed, and in a way that is consistent with our belief in heaven. David’s own heart feels most keenly the loss of his dearest friend, Jonathan. Those who have known the loss of a ‘soul mate’ will understand the depth of his feeling and the pain in his heart. His lament enables him to get in touch with his grief, to express it, and so begin the slow process of healing and recovery.
If you are grieving yourself today, may I encourage you to pour out your heart to God? You could pray aloud, or write your prayer down. You may find a song that helps, or a piece of music. You might talk with a trusted friend. You may just want a good cry. Whatever you do, remember that it’s OK to grieve.
Grow an attitude of gratitude
Harvest is a time of thanksgiving to God for all His provision for us. It is good to cultivate a grateful heart, and studies have shown that people who practise thankfulness tend to have a more positive outlook on life, be more optimistic about the future, and are generally healthier than those who do a lot of grumbling and complaining.
On one occasion Jesus met a group of ten lepers (Luke 17:11-19). They called out to Him in a loud voice, asking for Him to have pity of them, which He did. He sent them to the priest, and on the way they were healed. However, only one of them returned to give thanks to Jesus, and he was a Samaritan. He threw himself at the feet of Jesus and thanked Him, giving praise to God in a loud voice.
It occurs to me that most of us make a loud noise when we are in need of help, but we are much quieter about giving thanks. We are not inhibited when making our needs known to God, but how many of us make a point of giving Him thanks when we have received His help? Do we sing His praises loudly? Do we give clear testimony to what the Lord has done?
Why not try and cultivate the discipline of gratitude in your life? Make it a rule to thank anyone who helps you in some way, or who encourages you. Let them know you appreciate them. Review each day before you sleep, reminding yourself of every good thing that happened, and offering your thoughts to God as a prayer. Introduce a short time of giving thanks in your church service. In your home group have a time of praying short, sentence prayers of gratitude to God. Keep a gratitude diary.
Rather than focus on what you don’t have, or what has gone wrong, train your mind to focus on what you do have, and what has gone right. You will be surprised at the difference it can make.
SATURDAY 13th OCTOBER ST PETER’S COMMUNITY CENTRE
7pm for 7.30pm start
TEAMS of 6-8 (Maximum number of 10 Teams)
SIGN UP AT THE BACK OF CHURCH WITH YOUR TEAM DETAILS. £5 PER PERSON TO INCLUDE NIBBLES (PAY ON THE EVENING)
BRING YOUR OWN DRINKS AND GLASSES
FOR MORE INFORMATION CONTACT:
ALISON & PAUL SAWTELL 07970 474528 OR EMAIL [email protected] Vera Goord Cup & Star of the Term
The Vera Goord cup was set up by the PCC in memory of Vera who left a wonderful legacy to our Church. It is because of her kindness that we have recently had the church re-decorated and the various necessary repairs carried out. Her love was for children and music and we think she would be delighted that we have set this cup up in her memory.
The Vera Goord cup is awarded to a child/children who have done something extra special in the term. This time it was awarded to Harrison Gander ‘for his loyal support, enthusiasm and much improved confidence in the Junior Choir. It’s a joy to see his lovely smiley face - thank you and well done’.
Star of the term is awarded by the Sunday’s Cool children and this time it went to Mandy Gander ‘for all her hard work behind the scenes and being kind and lovely to all Sunday’s Cool’. Support our Church by shopping on Amazon
We have recently registered with Amazon Smile - a ‘sister’ site to Amazon which works just the same but raises money for a charity as well. You won’t notice the difference, but we will!
Here’s how to make the switch …
1 - To start with just go to Amazon smile (https://smile.amazon.co.uk) - you should find yourself already logged in with all your settings, saved items, and everything intact, just like the Amazon.
2 - Right below the main search bar you’ll see it says ‘supporting’ in orange and the name of a charity (possibly one Amazon has chosen for you). Roll over this and a window will come up with some more details. At the bottom left it says ‘change your charity’ in blue - click on this.
3 - Now you choose a charity. To pick our Church, you will need to type in the details below exactly. (Please note that St Peter’S, the last S is a capi- tal)!
The Parochial Church Council Of The Ecclesiastical Parish Of St Peter'S West Blatchington Location: Hove, EW Mission: Promoting in the ecclesiastical parish the whole mission of the church.
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Thank you for your support. CROSS WORD CLUES:- Across 1 Tertullus, who presented the high priest’s case against Paul in his trial before Felix, was one (Acts 24:1) (6) 4 As balm (anag.) (6) 8 Having explored Canaan, he and Joshua urged the Israelites to take possession of it (Numbers 13:30) (5) 9 On becoming king of Judah, he had all six of his brothers killed (2 Chronicles 21:4) (7) 10 ‘Even the — has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself’ (Psalm 84:3) (7) 11 Banishment(Jeremiah29:1)(5) 12 ‘And now I will show you the most — way’(1Corinthians12:31) (9) 17 ‘Titus did not exploit you, did he? Did we not —— the same spirit and follow the same course?’ (2 Corinthians 12:18) (3,2) 19 Mice den(anag.)(7) 21 How Egypt is often described in the Old Testament: ‘the land of — ’ (Exodus 13:3) (7) 22 One of the first Levites to resettle in Jerusalem after the exile in Babylon (1 Chronicles 9:15) (5) 23 ‘As a sheep before her shearers is —,so he did not open his mouth’ (Isaiah 53:7) (6) 24 Paul’s birthplace(Acts22:3)(6 Down 1 Ravenous insect inflicted on Egypt in vast numbers as the eighth plague (Exodus 10:14) (6) 2 Well-being (Philippians 2:20) (7) 3 Small piece of live coal or wood in a dying fire (Psalm 102:3) (5) 5 Sportsman or woman (2 Timothy 2:5) (7) 6 The original name of Abraham’s wife (Genesis 17:15) (5) 7 ‘So in Christ we who are many form one body, and each — be- longs to all the others’ (Romans 12:5) (6) 9 According to Peter, a wife’s beauty should not come from wearing this (1 Peter 3:3) (9) 13 ‘For God did not send his Son into the world to — the world’ (John 3:17) (7) 14 ‘The Lord of heaven and earth...does not live in — built by hands’ (Acts 17:24) (7) 15 ‘If your hand — you to sin,cut it off’(Mark9:43)(6) 16 Something like these fell from Saul’s eyes as soon as Ananias placed his hands on him (Acts 9:18) (6) 18 Track(Job41:30)(5) 20 Religious doctrine(5) Reginald John Campbell