Out of South Africa Ending a U,S, Tour, Gay Anti- Apartheid Activist Simon Nkoli Visits New York
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ON ~jrARS Chip Duckett presents MARS NEEDSMEN/Sunday Nights at Mars/ Drinking/ Dancing / Go-Go Boys / Drag Queens / Live Bands / DJ's Michael Connolly, Larry Tee, Perfidia & John Suliga/from 9pm/West Side Highway and 13th Street Ftlm Sea of Love 48 Art Cary Leibowitz 50 Art Jean Cocteau 52 Music Nona Hendryx 54 ACTING UP ON Book The l})g Collar Murders 55 WALL STREET Photo: On The Cover: lee Snider/ Simon Nkoli Photo Images photographed by Jim Marks iiiOur Own Hands Gane Post We!Jger) 28 Political Science (Harrington) 30 SIMON SAYS ~ Gay Anti-Apartheid Activist Simon Nkoli Comes To Town And Chats With Mark Chesnut 32 Outspoken (Editorial) 4 TO TEIl11lE TRUTH Letters 6 Polly Thistlewaite Tours The Lesbian Herstory Archives Saormyor 6 Nigbtrmre of the Week 7 Jennifer Camper 18 Sandor Katz 31 Out Of My Hands (Ball) 40 Gossip Watch (Signorile) 41 Look Out 42 Social Terrorism (Conrad) 44 MY MARTINA Going Out calendar (X) 58 Rachel Lurie On A Match Made In Heaven 46 Community Directory 61 Classifieds 63 Personals 68 Pacino in SEA OF LOVE, Bar Guide 78 page a Best Bets (X) 79 Crossword ~ Hot Shot ((imrad) 82 Vive la Difference In a world brimming with sad irony, few ironies are sadder than that of oppressed groups oppressing each other. This is particularly true when it comes to lesbians and gays, who share a similar predicament but often experience it from different perspectives. Oppression between the lesbian community on the one hand and gay men on the other comes in many forms, but none are as insidious, or indeed as ridiculous, as one group putting down the sexuality of the other. Since OutWeek began publishing, a number of gay men have objected to articles, photos, or features dis- cussing women's sexuality or depicting their bodies. "I don't want to know that much about lesbians," they say. "Why do we need to look at mAT in a gay magazine?" Some women feel the same about men. A lesbian newspaper recently chided OutWeek for urging a contin- uation of the Coors advertising boycott in gay publica- tions while at the same time we ourselves continue to accept "disgusting" phone sex ads that "lesbians find so offensive." Both of these negative attitudes have been tradition- ally upheld and affirmed by many facets of gay and les- bian ·culture. Some even go so far as to say that there's something 'natural' about expressing disgust for the sex- ual practices of the opposite homosex. There's not. It's important to remember that straight society's oppression of us is based on a similar idea: that there's something inherently disgusting about homosexuality, and by extension homosexuals. It's not our brilliance they.hate, or our love for each other, or our compassion, or our politics, or what we wear or the food we eat. It's what we do in bed. It therefore stands to reason that we couldn't more foolishly play into the hands of Jesse Helms or William Dannemeyer than to agree with them that what our gay brothers or lesbian sisters do with their bodies is disgusting. Our message to the heterosexual sea that surrounds us is: Our sexuality is not bad-just different and as good as yours. How can we expect them to believe that if so many of us express disgust toward the sexuality of the other half of our community. We think that both gay men and lesbians should seek out and familiarize themselves with the images and con- cepts of the others' sexualities. We should reject the learned tendendes to make fun of or express revulsion toward the others' sexualities.And we should learn not just to tolerate our sexual differences,but to celebrate them. 'Y 4 OUT'YWEEK September 24,1989 FEDERAL AX. lTE TAX. TYTAX. IF YOU EARN IT, WHY NOT KEEPIT - ALL 100% OF IT? You can with an investment in a New York Tax-Exempt Income Fund. And you get safety, affordability and liquidity too. New York Tax-Exempt Income Funds Offer High Tax-Free Income. A triple tax advantage for New Yorkers because they inve~t in municipal bonds which are exempt from City, State and Federal income taxes. New York Tax-Exempt Income Funds Are Safe And Affordable. 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Improve and posed to be the educational multiply drug treatment pro- arm of our communitY. In his grams? Would it help find a new role, he will function cure? No, It would simply strictly as an AIDS lobbyist Enough Is Enough? I'm not going to argue feed a pathetic appetite for dealing with the release of In answer to BillChafin's about whether Summer said vengeance. Have we not new drugs. Jeff's spouse, Dr. complaint regarding the Fire what it issaid she said. I am better things to do? Bopper Deyton, is the Direc- island Pines (OutWeek, Let- far more concerned with the David L Cameron tor of the CRI program at ters to the Editor, no. 11, negative energy we have Manhattan NIH. His ultimate superior is Sept. 89), the djs ploy Donna allowed this problem to gen- P.S.I am very curious to Dr. Fauci. In my mind, therein Summer because she hap- erate within the gay com- know If OutWeek investigat- lies the most disturbing ele- pens to have the most popu- munity. If someone has at ed Donna Summer for them- ment of this appointment. lar records on the island this one time said something selves before naming her a Do we hold our relation- summer and her songs pack against us, are they then to "freak of the week. " ships in such slight regard the dance floor (despite be permanently damned? Is that we believe that· we are what the Post page 6 said). there a time for forgiveness, Yes we dd. See issue no. 13, not influenced by the person But what about all the old or should we wish them eter- Sept. 18, page 22. -Ed. most close to us, our spouse? Donna Summer played at nal misery? Prsonaily,I do not Will Jeff back off under Bop- Mars? The last time I was have such hatred. Vital Relationship per's Influence? Will this there I heard "MacArthur I think those who still In all the diaiogue impair Jeff's Judgment? Will Park" on the first floor aid a protest against Donna Sum- about why or why not Jeff the AIDScommunity b!'l truly couple minutes later heard mer are wasting their energy Levi should or should not be represented by the strongest "Sunset People" on the sec- . and precious time. She really hired esa lobbyist. I believe possible advocate who sees ond floor. Kind of retro, huh? has so little to do with the a critical element has been nothing but the immediate If Mr.Chafin hates this kind of state of things. If a cam- overlooked. needs of the PWA? Can he music, fine, but it seems to paign against her were to Jeff did an excellent job be criticai of a program that me more a matter ofteste. succeed, would that help in hisrole as Executive Direc- his spouse is directing? Will I bONT SEE AN'( AIDS ~REAT "ERE' NO pOiNT \N FRtG\t'rENtNG- \OU~\ST lXlL\.IlS WIn( ALL T\t1SSAfE SEt SToFF! 6 OUT'YWEEK September 24, 1989 GMHC have a better so knows full well that its sister to apply for grants from the career and a successful rela- chance at getting a govern- organization, the National NIH;so the possibility of con- tionship. If a heterosexual ment grant with Jeff and Gat and Lesbian TaskForce, flict of interest isabsent. couple like Bob and Eliza- Bopper in their respective is our community's advoca- But what is most disturb- beth Dole can be a United positions? How will this cy arm; it is not simply an ing isVivian's claim that I am states Senator and Secretary appear to all the other AIDS educational organization. I somehow devaluing my rela- of Labor without Bob Dole provider organizations? am not new to lobbying on tionship with Bopper by con- having to deny the people It aso pains me that we our community's behalf-I tinuing to do the work I have of Kansas representation on as a community continually did that for the last six years done for the last six all labor issues,then it is not diminish the Importance of at NGLTF,primarily on AIDS. years-simply because my unreasonable for me to think our relationships. As we are So there is a record-prior to spouse works in a related that Sopper and I can han- first beginning to win gcins in and during my relation- field.