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Words! Of all the ills and problems in our society and in our world, one of the biggest is words. Maybe I should say that Hello the use of words is the problem. Beautiful Warren I Love you! 12 06 Two years of Well one of those times was when I was consistent, faithful working at a Christian School. I had one of edification into my life the worst young men that I ever had in the from this young man eight years that I worked there. had allowed the Holy Spirit an open door to work in me. And I STICKS & STONES let Him. 16 What if I told you every word you spoke about your kids would come true? You Can Do It Would that change the way you talk to your kids? 10 Death or Life Even though I have lost my way many times in the past the Holy Spirit has been there with open arms to bring me back to the 20 path of righteousness. Since the beginning of time, words have played an instrumental role in the development of children and people in our societies.

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2 table of contents table of contents 3 BE A LIFEGIVER by Allen Hickman

Words! Of all the ills and problems in our society and in our world, one of the biggest is words. Maybe I should say that the use of words is the problem.

The Bible teaches that there is life and death in the power of the tongue. Wow! That is pretty powerful, Life and Death. When you really look at it, you find out that it is true.

How many of you can quickly remember when someone said something to you that hurt you to your very core? Probably you are thinking of it right now and emotions are beginning to stir. Time and distance hav- en’t diminished the power of those words. Most of the time when words hurt like that they kill something, maybe a dream, a relationship, a hope; the things that make life good and joyful. Death by words!

It’s been proven by science that you can tell a kid with normal brain function that he is stupid, dumb, and can’t learn, and he will underachieve for no other reason than the words spoken to him.

Death by words! Wow!

Every time I say these things I never get an argument. Everyone knows it’s true.

Well, if that part of the verse is true, then the other part is also true. Words can bring LIFE!

There have been times in my life that I was down and about to quit when someone spoke a word of en- couragement and life came back. Wow!

I have watched people hear words from their father and other family members that brought healing to their soul. To hear the words that you are loved, they are proud of you, you can do it, I forgive you… Wow! It feels good even just writing these words. The scriptures say it like this, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”

What do we learn from this? God wants us to understand the power of our words and speak life! You don’t have to point out everything that is wrong. Speak life! Bring words of life into the people around you. Inspire them to greatness, bring hope, and give it out like it is candy in your pocket. Start with your family and be generous with your words.

Let me take a little time to speak life over you. God the Father loves you. He knows your name and all your past and still chooses to love you. You’re worth as much as Jesus Christ because that’s what He was willing to pay for you. He has a plan for you that will fulfill you in every way. He is the Father who runs to His children.

Be a life giver!

4 table of contents table of contents 5 (601) 749-1900 219 Telly Road Picayune, MS 39466 WARREN LEE THOMAS www.leethomas.net REAL ESTATE TEAM [email protected] I LOVE YOU!by Pam Seal are times in this life that I know the Lord would scratch His head and say what are they doing. THEREThere are times that I have thought what and why are you doing what you are doing. Lee Thomas Well one of those times was when I was working at the Christian REALTOR, Broker School. I had one of the worst young men that I ever had in the (601) 749-1901 eight years that I worked there. One day I finally had to walk out of the classroom. Our Priorities: [email protected] I told the Lord, “I just want you to know what I am about to go back in there and kill Warren.” I felt in my spirit to go back in and hug him and tell him I love him. Immediately I almost hollered, “You have got to be kidding.” I think that I wrestled with whether to go back for five or ten minutes. Finally, I went back in and, with his back to me, I put my arms God around him and hugged him and said, half-heartedly, “I love you, Warren.” He was shocked.

The next day I heard the Lord say again, “Go hug Warren and tell him you love him.” Family Terri Thomas REALTOR “Really, God, You are kidding.” I said. (601) 749-1900 Then I heard, “Remember when you wanted so badly for Business [email protected] someone to hug you and tell you they loved you?”

So everyday for three years I would hug Warren and tell him I loved him. (in that order)

A while back I was in the hospital visiting someone, and a man stepped in front of me. I asked him, “Do I know you?”

“Miss Pam, it’s me, Warren.”

We talked about his wife and children and how well he was doing. I told him goodbye and walked away. He called out to me, “Miss Pam you forgot to hug me and Brooke Thomas tell me you loved me.” REALTOR Needless to say, I rushed over and hugged him and told him (601) 347-2184 I loved him. Wow, what a feeling to know that because of [email protected] obedience a young man would remember that one person always hugged him and told him “I love you.” Serving South Mississipi and Southeast Louisiana

6 table of contents (601) 749-1900 219 Telly Road Picayune, MS 39466 LEE THOMAS www.leethomas.net REAL ESTATE TEAM [email protected]

Lee Thomas REALTOR, Broker (601) 749-1901 Our Priorities: [email protected] God

Family Terri Thomas REALTOR (601) 749-1900 Business [email protected] (in that order)

Brooke Thomas REALTOR (601) 347-2184 [email protected]

Serving South Mississipi and Southeast Louisiana

table of contents 7 MORE THAN JUST A FAIRYTALE ou might be in a marital situation condemnation that you can throw at by Diane McGuire where you feel that no one—and your spouse that will bring them to YI do mean no one—understands that change. You are not God. ONLY what you are going through. Your God can change your spouse, and spouse may not be of the faith, may the great thing is that He wants to. be harsh, cruel, mean, unfaithful, But, as long as you keep your or they may be a Christian and not hands on the situation, trust me, walking the way that you feel that there will be change, but no the they should. Maybe your spouse is change that you want. Let God be a good man but you just want him God and you be the spouse. Fifth, to love you more, to a deeper level. become the spouse that God wants Let me tell you from experience that you to be. Through your faith and I KNOW firsthand that God not only your example, your spouse will can heal any marital problems, but see the unconditional love. He wants to. One of God’s greatest Sixth, expect that change, desires is that we have a loving, visualize it in your mind. fulfilling, faithful, and faith-filled marriage. How is that possible? [Hebrews 11:1-3 ESV] 1 How can God heal and change the Now faith is the assurance spouse that is so harsh and cruel? of things hoped for, the The spouse that just doesn’t seem to conviction of things not be attentive to your needs? seen. 2 For by it the people of old received their Many times in my marriage I have commendation. 3 By faith had these same questions. Mine was we understand that the more like this: “Lord, I know universe was created that You can do all things, by the word of but as humans we all God, so have a choice; and if my that spouse chooses not to follow You, chooses not to change, then change won’t happen.” what is seen Well, let me tell you that change was not made out of can happen. The same God that things that are visible. brought your heart to desire change in yourself, to bring you to salvation, Lord God, I want to pray is still the same God that can change for each one of these that your spouse’s heart. are reading this. I pray, Father, that You will First, leave your spouse alone. bless their marriages. Stop badgering them. You will only Father, give them the bring about rebellion and the exact faith that it takes to opposite results than that which allow You to heal you desire. Second, pray, pray, pray their marriages. with faith—faith, knowing that the Father, I pray for same God that has changed your the spouses, heart and gave you this very desire that You might for a deeper relationship with your begin to spouse will also change the heart of work in their lives, your spouse and give them the same bringing them to a desires that you have. Third, expect desire to be the spouse things to change in your life, to [for that You intended them to a time] get harder as the Lord works be. Father, I thank You for continuing these things out in your spouse’s to work in my marriage, to bring life. Fourth, accept the fact that healing and fullness. In YOU cannot change your spouse. Jesus’ Holy Name, AMEN! There are no threats, manipulation,

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by Chad Stricker

10 table of contents ow many times have you heard someone say, “You can do it!”? As common as this encouragement is, the meaning often looses its face value. If you’re being H encouraged by a fellow Christian you may even hear the famous Philippians 4:13 that states, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”. These are great ways to encourage someone, with the latter being the better choice. Although what if you don’t hear those words, what if just the opposite comes out of someone’s mouth? What do you do then? Do you do like a lot of Christians and buckle under the pressure of intimidation of this world and become like, “them”?

We started off our marriage with less than a positive attitude

I have refused to allow the world to dictate to me whether of peace.” It’s through this type of encouragement our or not I can do something, that’s God’s decision to make strength comes. and no one else’s. Even though I have lost my way many times in the past the Holy Spirit has been there with open I write this message with the intention to direct, inspire arms to bring me back to the path of righteousness. I and encourage my fellow brother and sisters that God write this to encourage you that you can do it. You can is alive and working in each of our lives. Through him all have a successful marriage, you can have spirit filled things are possible even the stuff that is highly unlikely in kids, and yes you can have that relationship with God our own eyes and the world’s. We truly can do it, Jesus that both you and him desire. told us so in Matthew 21:21-22, “Assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do I have called Resurrection Life my home for the past what was done to the fig tree, but also if you say to 22 years now. I’ve seen it grow from a few, to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the what it is today. It’s the relationships that I have sea,’ it will be done. 22 And whatever things you developed within the church during that time ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.” These that have not only allowed me to grow, verses should make us stand tall, stick our but has allowed the Holy Spirit to work chest out and literally be joyful about any miracles in my life. It’s through these obstacle that comes in our way no relationships within the church and matter what it may be, yes I know through the Holy Spirty that we are easier said than done. That’s why able to build that trust factor that we depend on others within the allows us to devote our total church body to help motivate, being to him. I had no clue That’s why we inspire and encourage us so many years ago I would on our daily struggles. have to depend on the depend on others We need others to pat Holy Spirit as much within the church us on our back, give as I do today, as body to help us a hug and tell us God’s got this without my wife (Brandi) can motivate, inspire and attest it has been a lot a shadow of a doubt easier said than done. encourage us on our in their minds. Between daily struggles that type of encouragement We started off our marriage and knowing the Holy Spirit is with less than a positive attitude; by your side there is no trial you I really can’t remember much can’t overcome. encouragement during that time from anyone. I at the age of 17 in the Army The devil never wanted us to have a and Brandi being only 16 with a baby on happy marriage and kids that were on the way, only stacked up the statistics high fire for Christ. He wanted us broken and for having a divorce. The world had already desperate for worldly advice and guidance predestined us not to make it. At the time it looking somewhere other than the church didn’t seem like anyone had faith that the Holy for answers. This past December my wife and I Spirit could work a miracle in our lives. What we celebrated 20 yrs of marriage. Yes we’ve had issues needed was someone to say, “You can do it” or the just like all marriages but the difference is, our struggles, quote from Philippians 4:13. Sure we had the occasional trials and hardships are given to him on a daily basis encouragement, but what we needed was a completely and never letting our guard down. Every statistic you can different perspective from someone who didn’t answer think of told us we were not going to make it. It was to worldly outcomes, the Holy Spirit. Two verses from through encouragement and support from Resurrection Luke 1 gives us the encouragement we were looking Life that has helped build our relationship with Jesus for, “78 Because of and through the heart of tender mercy Christ to what it is today. So I encourage you to build and loving-kindness of our God, a Light from on high will that relationship, develop that Christian bond that allows dawn upon us and visit [us] 79 To shine upon and give light us to not only move the mountains of our life but cast to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, them into the sea. to direct and guide our feet in a straight line into the way

table of contents 11 years of hearing the word beautiful associated with myself, my soul gave itself the chance to believe it. I found myself no longer shying away from compliments or flinching when someone would take notice of a particular part of my appearance. I took to heart when I read scriptures that described how God sees us, how He sees me, and I cherished them. I believed them. I became them. Two years of consistent, faithful edification into my life from this young man had allowed the Holy Spirit an open door to work in me. And I let Him.

The young man graduated high school and left for college without truly understanding what those two years had done for me, how his encouragement blessed me and transformed me. A couple years after he had left, the Lord reminded me of all of his words. I promptly asked the Holy Spirit why He was bringing it back to my memory. His response was that He had used this young man to minister to me so that He could minister to me. Before, when He would call me beautiful, I wouldn’t receive it from Him. Because of this young man’s obedience, I had finally allowed the Holy Spirit to touch that part of my heart that I wouldn’t let Him heal.

Even though that young man has now graduated college and moved to another state to work, because of his words of life to me I can still hold my head up high and say with conviction that I am beautiful.

table of contents 13 HELLOby Kat Dufrene BEAUTIFUL

Over the years, I have accumulated Jesus Christ to them during their receive compliments even up into my a paper trail of encouragement and junior high and high school years is adulthood. hope. I can look around my office beyond human understanding. To be right now and see my walls littered able to bring hope, encouragement, So, when this young man had told and decorated with the written godly wisdom, and whatever else the me I was beautiful, I immediately form of another’s heart extended to Lord directs to these teenagers is a dismissed it before even considering mine. At home, I have stored away worthwhile expenditure. that there were not any questionable folders and notebooks full of the motives behind it. I’m pretty sure my same. From sticky note confessions There was one particular high school facial expression, eye roll included, of awesomeness, paper napkin student years ago, though, who told him as well. He shook his head messages of appreciation, children’s unexpectedly ministered to me. I at me, laughed it off, and proceeded finger paintings of adoration, thank know his family very well and I had to join his friends. Though he had left you cards of edification, to printed watched him grow up since he was my presence, the statement had not. out emails and letters of prayers and a young child. It was easy for me to pure love—I look on these words of talk to him, and he with me, because The next time I saw him at church, he life often, surrounding myself with of that established friendship. By the told me I was beautiful again. Again, the love of Christ expressed through time he was a junior in high school, I dismissed it as truth, but the words people in my life. I thought nothing of his playfulness lingered around me. I mocked him in and ease when joking with me at jest even, playfully contradicting him. In the same vein, there are memories the youth services. At some point He, however, insisted that he was of amazing spoken words that I that year, he showed up to a youth being truthful. I searched his face for cannot forget, no matter how many night like normal, approached me betrayal, wondering if I would find years pass. It is by His Spirit these and gave me a hug like normal, any hint that he was only telling me words were given and by His Spirit but he ended the hug with, “You’re I was beautiful because he wanted that He reminds me of them when I beautiful.” something from me or for personal need to be reminded. There is one gain. But, I couldn’t find anything particular story I hold dear to my Now, let me rewind my life for a but sincerity in the face of a young heart that I would like to share. moment to be vulnerable with you. friend. As a short, overweight, one-of- I’ve been a part of the Journey Youth the-guys, classified tomboy child His actions continued. The uplifting as a leader for about fifteen years. and teen, I was confident in many phrase gradually transformed into Hundreds and hundreds of students areas, but not in my outer beauty. an amiable greeting EVERY time have walked through those doors, Self-esteem was a struggle for me. we saw each other. The adjective and many I’ve come to know quite As I grew up, the issue remained beautiful had grown into the name well and am able to call friends. the same. Because of that lack of Beautiful. Not only was the word The blessing to be able to minister confidence, it was difficult for me to changing, but so was I. Over two

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What is the correct defi nition of encourage: 1. to clasp tightly in the arms; especially with affection 2. to attack; assaultto give back; to return anything taken 3. to inspire with courage, spirit, or confi dence;

Which word means away or lost; to bring back: 1. restore 2. hippopotamus Q: 3. purple What do you Galatians 5:22-23 NKJV Which word is a synonym of (another way to say) comfort: But the fruit of the Spirit is LOVE, JOY, PEACE, 1. picture get if you mix a LONGSUFFERING, KINDNESS, GOODNESS, 2. peacefulness rabbit with a snake? FAITHFULNESS, GENTLENESS, SELF-CONTROL. 3. wash Against such there is no law. WORD BANK A: a jump rope! KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::

Help the King Lion through the maze to find his runaway sheep!

Q: What do you call a pig that knows karate?

A: a pork chop! trivia answers: 3, 1, 2. 1, 3, answers: trivia

14 table of contents WORD SEARCH word triviaanswers at bottom of page

What is the correct defi nition of encourage: 1. to clasp tightly in the arms; especially with affection 2. to attack; assaultto give back; to return anything taken 3. to inspire with courage, spirit, or confi dence;

Which word means away or lost; to bring back: 1. restore 2. hippopotamus Q: 3. purple What do you Galatians 5:22-23 NKJV Which word is a synonym of (another way to say) comfort: But the fruit of the Spirit is LOVE, JOY, PEACE, 1. picture get if you mix a LONGSUFFERING, KINDNESS, GOODNESS, 2. peacefulness rabbit with a snake? FAITHFULNESS, GENTLENESS, SELF-CONTROL. 3. wash Against such there is no law. WORD BANK A: a jump rope! KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::KID’SPAGE::

Help the King Lion through the maze to find his runaway sheep!

Q: What do you call a pig that knows karate?

A: a pork chop! trivia answers: 3, 1, 2. 1, 3, answers: trivia

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STONESby Josh Sullivan

16 table of contents am willing to bet that everyone of Jennifer Anniston!! Just kidding... The them sure isn’t going to help! Choose, you remember the first time you were truth is, our words matter because they today, to speak life into everything! truly picked on, bullied or someone have power. This is something you can control Ijust flat out hurt your feelings for no because it is something that you can good reason. I do. His name was Jere- Most of you are probably familiar with choose. my and he called me fat in front of my Proverbs 18:21, but I want you to read second grade crush. As you can see how The Message version says it. Today is your day! If you have been in the picture, not much has changed, looking for a fresh start, why not start but COME ON MAN!!! Can you believe Proverbs 18:21 (The Message) Words kill, with something that brings life to the that? The nerve of that guy. I remem- words give life; they’re either poison or ones that matter most! Choose today ber that kid making fun of me and I fruit—you choose. to speak life! Your words can be bullets remember going home and crying to or medicine, poison or fruit, life or my Mom because he hurt my feelings Wow, you know, so many of us just death! Sticks and stones may break and embarrassed me. She did what say whatever comes to our mind and my bones, but words, good or bad, will any great mother, who loved her son, we never count the cost. Words kill or never be forgotten. would do. She picked me up in her lap, bring life. Think about it like this, your kissed me on the forehead and told words can either be bullets or they can me how handsome I was. Again, as be medicine. Words can be as harmful you can see in the picture, not much as, “Crucify Him!!” Or they can be as has changed. I learned a lesson that life giving as, “Father, Forgive Them. day... As quickly as words can leave They know not what they do.” You can the mouth of one person to hurt, words look at your ability to speak as a privi- can leave the mouth of another person lege or you can look at it as a respon- to heal. sibility that you have to steward..

My name is Josh Sullivan. I am 31 Again, life and death is in the power of years old and I have been married for the tongue. Think about how differ- nine years to my beautiful wife, Faith. ent your relationships will be when We have four children, Olivia, Ava, you start to steward your words. Your Jake and Caleb. I live in Daphne, Ala- words have the power to CREATE!! bama, and have served as a pastor at They can create healthy relationships Bay Community Church for the last six with your kids, when you choose to years. Our family grew fast and we love let your words celebrate what they it that way. Our life is very fast paced do right and not just focus on the and exciting. I don’t want to ramble mistakes they have made. A father on too long about me, so here are the looking deep into his daughters eyes cliffs. We love Jesus, we love any food and speaking the words, “your beau- that comes off a grill and we all love tiful” can create so much security and Alabama football!! Roll Tide. a confidence in her that when she gets older, she will not look for a boy to give What if I told you every word you that to her. Simple words of affirmation spoke about your kids would come to your spouse, about how they are true? Would that change the way you dressed, their new haircut, or a simple talk to your kids? Would it change the I love you, can recreate a spark and way you talked to your friends about open up the lines of communication to your kids? What if I told you that every help a marriage that may be hurting. word you said about your job would come true? How different would your Your words have the power to create conversations be about the hours you life in any situation you may be going work, the responsibilities you have or through. Maybe you have a friend or even your boss? What if every word a family member that just received a you spoke about your spouse would bad report from the doctor. Choose to come true? Some wives would stop speak life. Maybe someone you know calling their husband jerks and start just lost a job. Choose to speak life!! calling them gentlemen. Some hus- Maybe your finances are in trouble. bands would stop calling their wives a Choose to speak life. You might think nag and they would start calling them this is crazy, but speaking death over

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You’ll never community. I’m not amount to trying to send any anything. You parent on a guilt trip but are worthless. I do want to make a point You’re an idiot. about speaking words of You can’t do life to our children and to anything right. those we do life with. You’re a bum and that’s all you’ll Since the beginning of ever be. Your time, words have played dad was no good an instrumental role in the and I guess that’s development of children and what you’ll be. people in our societies. God Look at you! spoke the worlds into existence. You look like He said Let there be light a prostitute! and there was. Wow! Pretty Is that what you amazing, just to speak and it want? How could comes to pass. That’s the power I have raised such of words. The Bible says in an idiot? Get away Proverbs 18:21, Death and from me. You are a life are in the power of the disappointment. tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit. You want life for Pretty harsh words, your children? Do you want them aren’t they? to succeed and be an asset to society However, these and not a liability? Do you want them to words and many live their life in such a way that it brings you joy more that I can’t and peace? Of course you do. Then change how print in this you speak. That goes for anything or anyone in magazine are your life. Your words have the power to produce said everyday life or death; the choice is yours. to children and An older friend of mine, Bill Buchanan, who has teenagers already passed on, told me a story about how in our he and some other coworkers used the power of words to send a fellow coworker home sick.

20 table of contents Bill devised this plan to get everyone in the become more violent than children raised in Jesus said, “From out of the abundance of office in on telling the one guy that he didn’t a more positive and nurturing environment. the heart the mouth speaks.” Wow, that is look well and to ask him if he was sick. At a sad indictment on our current culture. If 9:00 am, everyone was coming in to work, You are an amazing daughter. I’m proud of what we say reveals the true condition of getting settled in their offices, getting their you, son. I believe in you. You are going our heart, then we have a long way to go in morning coffee, talking about the previous to be a great parent one day. Work hard and getting our hearts transformed. But here is day’s ups and downs. And while they were drive yourself and pursue your dreams. I the good news: we don’t have to do it on working and talking, they dropped these am glad to be your father/mother. You’re our own. Actually, we can’t do it on our little “word bombs” on this guy. the best son a mother could ask for. Thanks own. God must change us from within. for being such a good brother/sister. You Our hearts have to be transformed by Him “Hey, man you look a little pale. You okay?” are an amazing friend. Thanks for being in order for the words coming out of our there. You are a wonderful person. You are mouth to line up with what’s in our heart. “Are you sick? You look horrible.” a true blessing to me and my family. You God knew we didn’t have the power to do are a hard worker, and we are better because that. That is why He sent us His Holy Spirit Of course the guy replied, “I’m fine.” Little you are on the team. to indwell us and to empower us to speak by little, these people kept dropping these words of life. little bombs on this guy until he began These are words of life to say, “Well, I do feel a little under the that build up and do Ephesians 4:29-30 says, Let no corrupt weather today. It must be something I ate not tear down. word proceed out of your mouth, but what last night.” By noon he went home sick, or is good for necessary edification, that it at least he went home thinking he was sick. It has may impart grace to the hearers. And do Not the nicest thing to do to a friend, but it Raise your not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom does emphasize my point about the power you were sealed for the day of redemption. of words. This verse has helped me in so many thoughts a conversations and has kept me from Words can heal or kill. They can ruining more than one relationship. destroy or build. They can divide But I’m not just speaking words or unite. Countries have gone little higher. Use your of life because I have to. to war over words spoken I’m speaking words of by leaders. Marriages words to inspire. Joy will fall life because I truly love have ended in divorce people and want to see the because of words spoken in the like rain. When you best in them. Your heart affects heat of the moment. You may say, everything. It affects your attitude, “I didn’t mean it,” but the damage is speak life with the your words, your work ethic, even done. Words spoken are like a bullet out your driving habits (or at least how you of a gun; once the gun has been fired, you things you treat people while you drive). can’t get it back. Once you speak words you can never take them back. Choose your say Let God change you from within and then words with vigilance and scrutiny. My wife been said your outward behavior will change. Read and I have never said anything to each other that it takes a few words from a verse from the song by in 24 years of marriage that we regret. I’m more muscles TobyMac “Speak Life” and may your heart not saying we didn’t want to, but we chose to frown than it does to be encouraged to always speak life. to choose our words with grace and only smile. I would like to believe speak life to each other. And, in the process, it takes less effort to speak words of Lift your head a little higher, it brought life and hope to our marriage. life than words of death. But how do we change how we speak when we have been Hope will fall like rain, It has been proven that a person will speaking this way for years? Our society WhenSpread you the speak love like life fire, with the words you remember the negative words someone promotes negative speech in everything say. speaks more often than the positive ones. from sitcoms to comedians to our everyday There are plenty of studies that show conversations. We say words that belittle Raise your thoughts a little higher, the negative emotions of adults, which and trivialize each other and it’s all a part Use your words to inspire, were caused by hearing nothing but harsh of our modern society’s culture. What if Joy will fall like rain, and cruel things as they grew up. Many we started speaking words of life everyday When you speak life with the things you teenagers with poor self-images engage in to every person that we talk to? Would our say. bad behaviors that hurt them even worse: world change? Absolutely. Remember, death and life are on the tip of sexual promiscuity, drug addiction, even Our world will never change until the heart crimes like theft. These young adults have your tongue. The choice is yours whether of man changes. You want to speak life? they are life or not. I believe you will a tendency to lash out, and it’s common for Then you have to have life in your heart. children who grew up under such burdens to speak words of life.

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