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January 2019 • Section A Buffalo Center Tribune • Butler County Tribune-Journal • Clarksville Star • Clear Lake Mirror Reporter Eagle Grove Eagle • Eldora Herald-Ledger • Grundy Register • Hampton Chronicle • Pioneer Enterprise Sheffield Press • The Eclipse News-Review • The Leader • Wright County Monitor 2A January 2019 Get schooled on wedding terminology ouples about to embark on their wedding journeys “Maids” are those who are unmarried, while “matrons” are will likely learn a thing or two about party plan- women who are. C ning once their engagements are over and they are • Master of ceremonies: An individual who will work newly married. Wedding planning can seem overwhelming with the DJ or band to announce the various components and a tad confusing at times, but a crash course in wedding of the wedding reception. terminology can help couples make more informed choices • Nosegay: A small bouquet or flower arrangement typ- along the way. ically given to the mothers of the bride and groom before • Blusher: A short, single-layer veil that covers the bride’s the ceremony. face before the ceremony. • Processional/Recessional: Musical pieces that mark the • Boutonnière: A single flower bud worn by the men in entrance and exit from the wedding ceremony. the bridal party. • Receiving line: A line of the key people in the wedding • Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers served during the cock- who welcome and greet guests. tail hour of a reception. • Stationery: All of the paper products used at the wed- • Civil ceremony: A marriage ceremony conducted by a ding, including invitations, programs and enclosures. council official or justice of the peace at a municipal loca- • Tablescape: A word that describes the multiple compo- tion rather than in a house of worship. nents of centerpiece designs. • Cocktail hour: Typically an hour-long interlude be- Learning some basic wedding terminology can simplify tween the wedding ceremony and the main dinner of the on wedding cakes. wedding planning. reception. Guests have time to arrive and mingle before • Escort (seating) cards: Printed cards that direct recep- being seated. tion guests to their seats. • Corkage fee: A fee some establishments charge to allow • Fondant: A sweet, plyable product used to decoratively guests to bring their own wine. cover layered cakes. It can be used in lieu of straight but- • Dais: A podium or platform raised from the floor where tercream. the bride and groom are seated. • Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric that wraps around the • Deposit: A percentage of the total cost of service given to stems of a bouquet the bride and wedding party carries. a vendor to secure a date for their services. • Maid/matron of honor: The title given to the woman • Dragées: Round, small edible balls of sugar that appear who assists the bride and stands closest to her at the altar. 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Exercise is important for main- taining a healthy body weight and keeping stress levels in check. Exercise also can boost mood. The Department of Health and Human Services recommends getting at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity each week. Strength training ex- ercises performed at least twice a week complete a well-bal- anced exercise regimen. • Slow down and relax. Those who go full-throttle with all of their responsibilities – including wedding planning – may burn out. Stress can weaken the immune system and make people vulnerable to illness. Schedule some time for date nights with your fiancé, and don’t overlook the benefits of hanging out with friends and getting away from wedding planning for a bit. Couples can exercise together to maintain physical and mental well-being as they count down to their • Eat body-boosting foods. The foods we eat can impact wedding day. everything from energy levels to skin radiance. Foods like berries, sweet potatoes, broccoli, greens, green tea, and dark leading up to the wedding, but alcohol is a diuretic and a chocolate all contain antioxidants that boost the immune source of liquid calories. Alcoholic beverages dehydrate system, states The Food Network. Avoid drastic diets that can the body and cause it to hold onto water. When imbibing, THE do more harm than good. Simply cutting 500 calories a day stick to low-calorie cocktails like a vodka spritzer (60 to 80 can help the average person lose a pound per week if weight calories) instead of a calorie-laden frozen margarita (300 loss is a goal. Simple ways to trim calories are to choose skim calories). Perfect Fit milk over whole milk and choose low-calorie snacks. Feeling and looking one’s best starts long before the wed- • Cut down on alcohol consumption. Toasting to the fu- ding day. 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In Creating a wedding day schedule can such instances, if brides are getting their seem like a daunting task. Couples tend hair and makeup done at the venue, ask to have lots of things to do before saying the venue representative if lunch can be “I do,” and organizing everything so cere- provided to the bridal party. Some ven- monies begin on time can seem as puzzling ues may include small lunch buffets in as a brain teaser. But certain scheduling their reception costs, while others might strategies can help couples ensure they look charge extra. Confirm the availability their best and make it to the altar on time. and costs, and if it’s unavailable or too • Start with the ceremony. Couples can es- expensive, then arrange for lunch to be tablish a framework for their wedding day delivered. Either way, couples should not schedule by working back from the ceremo- skip lunch, as it may be their only chance ny. Once the ceremony time is set, couples to eat until after the ceremony. who plan to take photos before their cere- • Distribute your schedule to one anoth- monies can then work with their photogra- er and the bridal party. Once the wedding phers to determine how much time they day schedule has been devised, couples will need for photos and where they want should share it with each other and their to take the photos. Bridal parties may need wedding parties. Grooms’ wedding day to- transportation to the photo session, so de- do lists might not be as extensive as brides’, termining when and where to take photos but grooms should still be kept in the loop before the ceremony gives couples an idea regarding the schedule so they can help if of when to arrange for pickup. anyone has questions or if something goes • Confirm when the wedding venue is awry. Sharing the schedule with the wed- open to the wedding party. Before booking ding party decreases the chances of some- hair and makeup appointments, couples one being late or missing an appointment. should confirm when they will be able to Couples can solve the riddle of scheduling access their wedding venue. Brides may their wedding days by working backwards want to get their hair and makeup done at small bridal parties. Grooms and grooms- ding hair and makeup sessions can last sev- and asking their vendors to cooperate in the ceremony site, but that may only be pos- men often take care of their own hair, eral hours for large bridal parties, so brides laying out the day’s events. sible if the venue opens early for the wed- though some grooms might want to sched- ding party. If it does not, then brides must ule hot shaves for themselves and their account for transportation time to the cere- groomsmen. 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Factor the Knot revealed 20 percent of be mailed at least nine months to a this into budget and availability. weddings that took place that year year in advance of the big day. • Scale back on DIY. Handling were destination weddings. Cou- Twenty percent of couples tying the knot choose to have • Hire a professional. Profession- many of the details while getting ples are increasingly leaning on en- destination weddings. al wedding planners may prove married close to home can be tertainment and personalization to invaluable when it comes to desti- challenging, but doing so for a create memorable experiences for a unique set of obstacles. Before vorite hiking spot can give guests nation weddings. Rather than or- destination wedding can be dif- their guests, and destination wed- couples commit to a destination an inside view into what makes ganizing everything on your own, ficult to organize. 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