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Jen + Steve There!Hello Jen + Steve There!Hello Our Story After graduating college together, we were long distance for a few years while we both started careers. We got married in 2006. Instead of you doing any math, we’ll tell you that we’ve been together 20 plus years. We love TO TRAVEL AND WE’RE LUCKY ENOUGH TO GET AWAY A COUPLE TIMES A YEAR. As much as we love our adventures, we’re We are so mostly homebodies. Steve loves to cook and Excited we try to eat healthy, so we eat most of our TO MEET meals at home. Home also keeps us close to YOU! our families, who mostly live in NJ, and our amazing group of friends. And, of course, FOR TAKING THE TIME TO LOOK AT Thank you our profile there’s really no substitute for your & FOR CONSIDERING US TO BE PART OF your child’s life. own pillow! We look forward to speaking with you directly brother, who has three children in their 20s. We and getting to know each other, but until then we met in college at Rutgers University, where we hope these pages give you a better sense of who were both in the marching band. The friends we h Honesty is the best h We will love and be we are and how your child would be welcomed made in college (and their families) are still a huge policy there for them always into our home and our hearts. We can’t wait to part of our lives, and at this point they’re really and no matter what h To be a good shower our child with love, and are excited to join family. WE WILL you in this journey. listener – it really is the h To be kind and treat best way to understand THANK YOU AGAIN FOR TAKING THE others with respect and Teach the people in your life WE BOTH COME FROM CLOSE-KNIT TIME TO CONSIDER US, AND WE LOOK love FAMILIES and grew up in New Jersey; Jen grew FORWARD TO SHARING MORE IF GIVEN OUR h To laugh everyday – up near Philadelphia and Steve down the Shore. THE OPPORTUNITY. h To get to know life is too complicated to be Steve is the oldest of five children, all of whom Child people from different too serious all of the time have children of their own, and Jen has one older LOVE, Jen + Steve backgrounds Why h I was a Girl Scout at every h I don’t mind doing Jennifer YOU MIGHT BE level; I even sold Girl Scout laundry – it’s a simple mindless WILL BE A GREAT Cookies out of my high school task and when completed it Surprised locker (shh, don’t tell the principal). brings a sense of satisfaction. MOM to know h I have a tattoo on my back of h I like to bike ride – but a dolphin, rainbow, and heart haven’t done it in years BY Steve JEN LOVES TO JEN IS THE MOST WARM, CARING AND EMPATHETIC PERSON I’VE EVER MET. She MAKE DESSERTS! instinctively puts other people’s needs ahead of hers. She’s great with kids and grown-ups alike, and I’m constantly amazed at how she’s able to spoil our nieces and nephews, while at the same time teaching them through her words and example how to be amazing people. I always say that I hit the in-law lottery. Jen’s VISITING THE GIRL SCOUT MUSEUM parents are wonderful, warm and engaging people, and I have yet to meet anyone who has a bad word to say about them. They’re amazing to me personally, and they’re exceptional grandparents to our nieces and nephew. THE FIRST TIME HITTING THE BULLSEYE! JEN HOPES TO That’s how I KNOW THAT WHENEVER PASS THESE WE’RE LUCKY ENOUGH TO WELCOME A NEW QUALITIES ON TO THE CHILD CHILD INTO OUR FAMILY, HE OR SHE WILL BROUGHT INTO BE WELCOMED, LOVED AND SUPPORTED IN OUR HOME. EVERY WAY POSSIBLE. what makes Jen h Being silly – especially if it h I love camping, probably makes our nieces and nephews HAPPY because growing up my family giggle, which makes me be even h Baking – it’s the best comfort spent every summer weekend at my more silly. food and always reminds me of aunt and uncle’s cabin in the woods. my grandparents, who always had h A child giggling – nothing is a homemade cake to serve (my h Sitting by the fireplace – more infectious. grandfather had been a baker for a bonus if it’s snowing and we don’t living). have to shovel or go anywhere. h I love barbecue, and this past h I’ve been volunteering with Why YOU MIGHT BE summer we bought a smoker to the high school music program in Steve make delicious ribs and pulled pork! our town for the past 20 years Surprised WILL BE A GREAT h I have a LOT of first h My favorite book is Ender’s cousins – 22 between both of Game, and I read it at least once DAD to know my parents’ families! a year JEN IS SO LUCKY BY Jen THAT STEVE DOES ALL Steve loves to do things with OF THE COOKING! our nieces and nephews that we can MASTER OF all enjoy. He especially takes the time to understand what they like to do and plans activities THE GRILL! around their interests. NOTHING BRINGS GREATER JOY OR A HUGE SMILE TO STEVE THAN WATCHING OUR NIECES AND NEPHEWS HAVE FUN OR DISCOVER NEW THINGS. While Steve is young at heart, he also gives the children in our lives guidance and helps them understand how to be good people. AND THERE IS NEVER A SHORTAGE OF LOVE! STEVE’S EXCITED TO SHARE HIS LOVE OF READING WITH HIS FUTURE CHILD h I grew up near the shore, what makes Steve h Tailgating with our friends is so the sound of the ocean is super HAPPY my happy place – I love hanging out, recharging to me cooking, playing games and being h What I love about the work with our extended “friend family” h I love silly movies that I do and my volunteer work is WE LIKE TO EAT mostly don’t make any sense, like the look on someone’s face when h I love hanging out with old Anchorman, Austin Powers and they finally master a challenging friends – it’s like being taken HEALTHY WHEN POSSIBLE Caddyshack concept – it’s amazing! back in time to when you were 20 We like to explore Some of our favorite trips have new places. In just been renting a house in the Poconos Our the past few years, we’ve been or Rhode Island with our families. Adventures to Paris, Ireland, Los Angeles, It’s really nice to just unplug from Our San Diego, England and Aruba. life and reconnect with the people Home you love. We’re excited to share our AND COMMUNITY love of travel, and to experience VACATIONING new places with our future child. IN IRELAND WE BOUGHT OUR HOUSE IN CENTRAL NJ SIX YEARS AGO. It’s a large, four- bedroom colonial house, on a quiet street, where we love to entertain. We’ve got lots WE LOVE TO DECORATE of space for our expanding family (though Baxter has OUR CHRISTMAS TREE done his best to fill it up!). OUR FAVORITE PLACE TO VACATION — THE BEACH! WE ENJOY HAVING FRIENDS Meet Baxter PLAYING CATCH WITH BAXTER OVER FOR COOK OUTS WE GOT VERY LUCKY WHEN WE ADOPTED OUR WHY WE LOVE DOG, BAXTER, FROM A LOCAL RESCUE. Four Reasons Our Community h The town farmers market – we love to support h We’re close to a crazy variety of different He’s a friendly, well-trained thirty-pound ball of energy, the local community and they have amazing heirloom landscapes – woods, swamp, mountains and beach who is fantastic around kids (well, they sometimes do tomatoes, which are like what all other tomatoes wish all within an hour of us think he’s going to kiss them until they pass out, but they could grow up to be that’s all). We have fun training him to do different h The schools here are awesome - we’re friends tricks, taking him to the park, on vacation, or just playing h We have a few great parks – Baxter loves to bark with a bunch of teachers in town, and they love the around the house. We really are so thankful for him at the geese and run at the dog park district having brought so much laughter and love into our lives! JEN HAS ONE OLDER BROTHER. HE STEVE IS THE OLDEST OF FIVE SIBLINGS, AND WE JEN’S Family AND JEN’S SISTER-IN-LAW HAVE FIVE HAVE FIVE NIECES AND FIVE NEPHEWS ON HIS STEVE’S Family ADULT CHILDREN BETWEEN THEM. Jen’s SIDE, RANGING FROM TWO YEARS TO 18 YEARS OLD. family, most of whom are in NJ, is amazing at In other words, there are lots of cousins ready to play with (or supporting each other, and really bend over babysit) our newest member of the family. backwards for whatever anyone needs. The family has many traditions, with most of them Most of Steve’s siblings live within an hour of us, so we see each having started with Jen’s father’s parents. other pretty often to celebrate birthdays, holidays, etc., and They’re looking forward to creating new we love to go camping or rent a vacation house together.
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