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PAGE 20 Space for Sisterhood Step inside our new Headquarters LOOKING BACK Dorothy Wright Temple and Dora Peterson Richardson listen as Kathleen Daniels McMullan (all Miami), reads a letter from her kappa archives son who was deployed in Italy during World War II. Kappas from the University of Miami made 1944 nearly 100,000 bandages for military hospitals.

WINTER 2018 ON PAGE 30 “Leaving me alive was Reséndiz’s biggest mistake, and I wanted to make sure he would regret i t .” —Holly Dunn SURVIVOR AND VICTIM ADVOCATE Winter 2018, Volume 135, No. 3

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2 Feedback A Bluetiful HQ 3 Letter From the Editor BY LUCY FIRST GERLACH Get ready to be 4 The Mix “blue-n away” by our Can’t draw a straight line? 20special report on Neither can community mu- Kappa’s new Headquarters. ralist Andee Rudloff—and she’s not letting it stop her.

A Survivor’s Dating coach Lindsay Mill- er-Jones Anderson shares Story her tips for finding keepers. BY HOLLY DUNN How the only survivor Tiffany Cruickshank on of a helped what it takes to grow and 26 bring one of America’s ship some of the world’s most wanted to justice. best onions.

This California wildfire Band of Sisters survivor is gold tested. BY DIANE MILLER SELBY AND KRISTEN DESMOND LEFEVRE 37 Through the Keyhole When men deployed The winningest coach in by the millions to Florida State University’s 32fight in World War II, history teaches her players women rose to fill the void to make a difference. they left behind. 41 Make a Note 42 In Brief 44 Key Achievements 46 In Memoriam

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The Key is the first college women’s fraternity magazine, published continuously since 1882.

Editor Kristin Johnson Sangid, Georgia Southern

Associate Editor Kristen Desmond LeFevre, Indiana

Contributing Editors Melisse Campbell, Mississippi Stacy Warren Flannery, Drake Katie Mills Giorgio, Drake Rachel Weber Haugo, Iowa State Jodi Noding, Florida Kait Smith Lanthier, Marist Laura Vinci, Kansas

Editorial Board Chairman Judy Stewart Ducate, Tech

Executive Director Kari Kittrell Poole

Director of Marketing and Communications Ashley Gilbert Moyer, Purdue

Copy Editor Cailin Cooney, Central Florida

Design Em Dash What’s the Story? Printed by Lane Press I just received my copy of The Key. The cover portrait made me curious. Is that The Key (ISSN 1063-4665) is published an official portrait of the duchess? Is it something Kappa commissioned? by the Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity and Foundation, 6640 Riverside Drive, Suite 200, Dublin, Ohio 43017. Printed in the United States of America, copy- What is the story behind I couldn’t believe everything I rarely do. I own a marketing right Kappa Kappa Gamma Fraternity 2016. Subscription price is $3. it? It isn’t listed on the I’d been holding on to. It built consulting firm in Knoxville, artist’s website. slowly over time, so once I laid Tennessee, and I’m also POSTMASTER: Send address changes to The Key —Nancy Dennis Campbell, it all bare, I was horrified at the editor for a national 6640 Riverside Drive, Suite 200 Florida State the situation in which I found magazine published by Regal Dublin, Ohio, 43017 Editor’s note: The summer cover myself. Luckily, I had control Cinemas, so I greatly respect Kappa Kappa Gamma is not an official portrait. It is an and access to my finances and all the work that you put into Headquarters 6640 Riverside Drive, Suite 200 original painting (not Photoshop) a safe place to go with my son. this publication. Dublin, Ohio 43017 by illustrator and painter Tim I know that is certainly not the —Aleex Thompson Conner, Phone: 866-554-1870 (866-KKG-1870) O’Brien. The summer cover has case for everyone in these types Tennessee Email Kappa: [email protected] been added to the artist’s portfo- of relationships, so I appreciated Email The Key: [email protected] lio: www.obrienillustration.com. the inclusion of the “Path to Rising Leaders To change your address or stop Safety” insert. I struggled to find one story receiving The Key, email kkghq@ Path to Safety about a collegian in the past edi- kappa.org or call the number above. Thank you for publishing In Tune tion. While I am proud of what Please include full name. the article about intimate part- I want to compliment you Kappa’s alumnae have achieved, ner violence. I, too, was in an on the summer issue. I am I wish there was more represen- emotionally abusive and manip- excited to know I’m now a tation of how proud we are of facebook.com/kappakappagamma facebook.com/thekeymagazine ulative relationship and finally sister with a royal duchess! I’m our active members. twitter.com/kappakappagamma linkedin.com managed to leave after I had my an alumna from 1982, and this —Kristina Conte, McGill Keyword: Kappa Kappa Gamma son last summer. I definitely fall issue was one of the very best Editor’s note: We love this idea! www.kappa.org into the category of the abused I’ve seen. The articles piqued If you know an outstanding woman who didn’t talk about my interest and were so in tune collegiate member of Kappa it. I became so good at keeping with the current issues of today. Kappa Gamma, please email us secrets in that relationship. I read it from cover to cover in her name and accomplishments: Once I started to tell people, one sitting, which is something [email protected]

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Moving Beyond Colorblind — A call to action

n June 2018, Lawrence Ross delivered a keynote about

campus racism to Kappa Kappa Gamma’s 72nd Biennial Convention Model Behavior in Denver. The author of Blackballed: The Black and White Politics “Girl power. Body of Race on America’s Campuses, Ross urged members to rethink positivity. No what we can do to create the best experience for members of color retouching.” These empowering words while leading the way organization. “Do philanthropic thinking. “Don’t be disin- from lingerie giant Iamong Greek-letter organi- efforts reflect the broader com- genuous by broadening the Aerie (a spinoff of zations to combat racism and munity? Are you meeting the definition of diversity to white supremacy. needs of your sisters of color or the absurd, by doing things American Eagle Ross is a recognized expert in do you assume a universal expe- like claiming you’re diverse Outfitters) are part fraternities and sororities and an rience that is a default white because you have members of a campaign to alumnus of Alpha Phi Alpha. He experience?” he asks. in various majors,” he says. teach women to made me think in new and even Ross’ message reminded me “We’re talking about racial uncomfortable ways. But that’s of our statement on human diversity in your organization, love the skin the way we grow—as people and dignity: Kappa Kappa Gamma and what happens when a they’re in. Two as organizations. recognizes the value of each indi- predominately white chapter Kappas are The Key asked Ross for his vidual and expects its members ignores racial diversity helping to lead thoughts on the time he spent to promote integrity, respect and and issues.” with us in Denver. “Kappa regard for others, and apprecia- While serving as a wake-up the company’s Kappa Gamma was the first tion for the worth of call, Ross inspired members to body-positive NPC/IFC organization to bring all individuals. be empowered to affect change, charge. Brianna me to a national convention Kappa Kappa Gamma values noting, “white supremacy and for a blunt conversation on diversity and does not discrim- racism are social constructs Layman, campus racism,” he wrote. “For inate based on race, national that can be destroyed.” Allegheny, a predominately white frater- origin, religion, disability, age, Kappa may be the first coordinator of nity, it’s not easy looking at gender identity, sexual orien- national convention to invite business strategies, problems like white supremacy tation or other class protected Ross to speak, but we must and racism and seeing how your by state, local or federal law. ask ourselves: Where do we go and Zola organization plays a part in the Members, undergraduates and from here? From where I sit, a Murray, Miami perpetuation of these societal alumnae are encouraged to good place to start is dreaming (Ohio), assistant malignancies.” promote and demonstrate an boldly and living fully by mak- buyer for bras, To begin, Ross says, “Toss the understanding of diversity, both ing sure every sister of color fallacious idea of colorblindness on the college campus and in the has the opportunity to do so. model in Aerie’s into the dustbin of fraternal world community. latest Photoshop- history.” Make diversity a Some may think a state- free campaign. value in everything we do—not ment like this exists to protect an addendum. Think about us from legal action. Ross

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GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 3 “When I leave a mural, everyone will claim it as theirs, even though it’s credited to me. I love how communities take ownership and connect through a r t .” — Andee Rudloff MISSISSIPPI

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Andee created the “ArtPrize8” community irvin stacey mural in Grand Rapids,

Michigan, in 2016. photo by

4 | WINTER 2018 GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 5 mıxTHE The Art of the Wobbly Line — When art is for everyone, neatness doesn’t count.

e’ve all heard the phrase, “I can’t even draw a straight line.” Muralist Andee Rudloff, Mississippi, sees power in the absence of a straight line. “I love the wobbliness of a free- hand line,” Andee says. Originally from Bowling WGreen, Kentucky, Andee works with communities across the country that commission her murals promote conversation everyone will claim it as theirs, outdoor art installations. She and form connections. Six years even though it’s credited to me,” coordinates with the groups to ago, Andee created a mural in Andee says. “I love how com- investigate what is happening in Morgantown, Kentucky, on the munities take ownership and the communities, many of which corner of Main Street and East connect through art.” “The painting are looking for ways to create Ohio Steet. The area in front She draws inspiration for process is like a cross-cultural and cross-genera- of the mural has evolved into a engagement muraling from the tional conversations. performance space for Music work of the late-1980s art icon performance. We “Murals are the most demo- at the Mural. Keith Haring, who used art as work nonstop, cratic form of art,” Andee says. Andee spends hours prepar- an opportunity to bring people like a dance. “The viewers can take it in any ing and facilitating before she together and heighten awareness. time of day. There is a connection makes the first swipe with a The process and time vary Everyone who between environment and art.” brush. She begins by meeting once the painting begins as walks up to the She makes art look easy and with the stakeholders who com- Andee encourages the com- installation fun, but this full-time artist has mission the murals, which are munity to paint with her. She paints with honed her craft for years while funded by businesses, individu- paints mostly with rollers and working across the U.S. A former als, social lending and grants. brushes using acrylic, latex and us—everyone.” NCAA runner at the University By encouraging people to tell house paint. Andee rarely uses of Mississippi, she looks at the their stories, Andee draws resi- spray paint; it’s too toxic and creation of a mural as a mara- dents into the process. She gives the overspray is hard to control, thon, envisioning the completion residents a list of words and has she says. Even with precautions, before she even begins. them circle the word they are there are drips and drops, which “It may look like I’m having a passionate about. is why she wears her signature blast, which truthfully I am, but “Since we speak hundreds of bandanas and hats. it’s taken 30 years to get here,” languages, I ask them to create After painting the design on she says. “Murals are very true a simple image to convey the the wall and picking the color to who I am. I did not love the word they are passionate about,” palette, she announces her com- isolation of creating art.” Andee says. Then she works munity painting day event and Murals tell the story of the each image into a massive com- invites everyone. She encourages community and become places position that conveys the story the participants to choose which where people gather. More of the community. colors go into the design as long than just great Instagram spots, “When I leave a mural, as they do not paint over the

6 | WINTER 2018 Andee Rudloff stands in front of her “Riverside Village” mural in the Inglewood neighborhood of Nashville, Tennessee. nina covington nina

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 7 mıxTHE Murals are the most democratic form of art. and used the remainder of that The viewers can take it in anytime of day. There eligibility to further her art expe- is a connection between environment and art. riences at the University of South Florida in Tampa, Florida. design or paint adjacent sections they reach up to create—thereby Andee graduated with a bach- the same color. Since the murals building community. elor’s of art along with almost are interactive, she has added As a Kappa, Andee says she completing her Master of Fine design requests from community feels part of a broader community. Arts degree at the University of members while painting. “I run into people literally all South Florida. “After deciding “The painting process is like a over the world who are Kappas,” I had no interest in remaining performance,” she says. “We work she says. “When I meet people employed by or becoming a nonstop, like a dance. Everyone who are independent and cre- professor at a university on any who walks up to the installation ative, many times it turns out we level, I left and followed profes- paints with us—everyone.” are Kappas.” sional museum opportunities Painting is approachable and “I was lucky enough to calling my name in Southern The Bicycle Bus for Green promotes old-school, front- become a Kappa at University California,” she says. Fleet Bikes in Nashville, porch conversation, says Andee, of Mississippi, where I was on a Andee gravitated toward Tennessee, serves as a who has found that people who full track and cross-country plus leaving her art outside, know- mobile bicycle shop. When stacey irvin it is not in use, the bus may not typically acknowledge art scholarship,” Andee says. She ing each mural would have a resides at Green Fleet Bikes one another on a sidewalk find transferred before finishing her limited life span. Though she on historic Jefferson Street. themselves sharing stories while track and cross-country eligibility envisioned them lasting about

8 | WINTER 2018 At the USTA Foundation’s 2017 Opening Night Gala, Judy and Gordon Levering celebrate with an alumnus of the National Junior Tennis and Learning program. 10 years, some of her murals are more than 25 years old. “It freaks me out a little that my murals are still around 20 years later,” she says. “They are still relevant, yet their meanings have evolved.” Social media, with her hashtag #dostuff, has increased exposure. Viewers who connect with a mural share the work and tag themselves in pictures. “It is fantastic to see the work posted,” she says. “My favorite posts are when I see an Love-Love entire wedding party or gradu- ation class in front of a mural, Putting a ball in everyone’s court. which adds another layer of connection.” —By Melisse Campbell, Judy Ade Levering, Northwestern, is the first woman to

jennifer pottheiser Mississippi serve as president of the United States Tennis Association in the organization’s 118-year history. The sport that began as recreation soon became an integral part of her life and the lives of others, too. As USTA president from 1999 to 2000, Judy traveled the world as the only female board member of the International Tennis Federation, overseeing everything from the U.S. Open to junior tournaments. She admits that she felt an obligation to excel. “It was critical that I do a good job so I didn’t jeopardize the opportunities “Learning who for other women,” she says. you are is a Judy’s vision for the USTA was one of accessibility and inclusion. She played a major role in naming the USTA’s National benefit derived Tennis Center in honor of Arthur Ashe, the first and only African- from playing American player to win the U.S. Open, Wimbledon and the and competing Australian Open. In 2001, she established the USTA Foundation, which offers in tennis.” tennis programs to children in underserved communities. “Tennis reinforces the lessons taught in schools, from learning to lose to developing mental strategies for success,” she says. Today, the USTA Foundation boasts 350 National Junior Tennis and Learning chapters serving over 200,000 children across the U.S. To date, $25 million has been granted to these chapters for pro- grams, scholarships and trainings. Judy says tennis provides key life lessons for anyone who takes the court. “Learning who you are is a benefit derived from playing and competing in tennis.” In 2017, the charitable organization that Judy founded was awarded the 2017 ESPN League Humanitarian Award. Still, she’s not ready to rest on her laurels. “The sport has given me so much,” Judy says. It’s a gift she continues to pay forward in her Lancaster, Pennsylvania, hometown where she runs an after-school tennis outreach program. For Judy, the more people who can “experience the physical and mental benefits tennis offers,” the better. “Tennis provides [children] with a chance to learn more about the larger world,” she says. “It opens the doors to new acquaintances, job opportunities and respect from others,” she says. —By Casey Galasso, Marist

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Five Questions Finder of Keepers

There are 107 million single adults in the United States. It can be assumed, at any given moment, half of those singles are online simultaneously trying to find love. Overwhelming? For sure. So where to begin?

Interview by Stacy Warren Flannery, Drake

“As a culture, we Enter Lindsay Anderson, dates. What was their focus matchmaker, who will pair you are not taught Washington Univ. (St. Louis), when creating a partner check- with someone from their pool a professional dating coach. list? So often what looked good of singles based on your “list.” how to date. We Working for Smart Dating on paper wasn’t translating to A dating coach figures out your can go to school Academy (SDA), a Chicago-based the right fit. I began to under- needs and how you can best for years, but we company providing tools on how stand that people had a long present yourself. to date successfully, Lindsay list of what they wanted, but have no idea assists professional singles all weren’t focusing on what they What makes your how to pick the over the U.S. to fully prepare to needed. That is what got me into 3service different than right person.” be their best dating self. Below, coaching. I wanted to get to the other resources? she explains how finding love in beginning part of the As a culture, we are not taught today’s hectic world is a mara- dating process. how to date. We can go to school thon—not a sprint—toward that for years, but we have no idea happy finish line. What does it mean to be a how to pick the right person. 2“dating coach”? SDA analyzes patterns, stopping Early on, you were I am a personal trainer for your the merry-go-round of relation- 1called a natural match- love life. I motivate my clients ships. My first meeting with maker. Did that spark your and help them have fun with a client is four hours long at a current career? the process. I set goals and hold quiet table at the Four Seasons I always had an instinct. I them accountable, teaching Chicago. We dive deep into worked in advertising before them the right way to date to the client’s background, dating becoming a matchmaker at a get the best results. I often history, and even the relation- big company. I interviewed and hear that dating can feel like ship with their parents. Their matched thousands of profes- a really lonely thing, so I play friends and family write to us sional singles over five years. I lots of supporting roles to each on why they think the client is really started to see what was of them. I’m there every step still single. We even do a “first going wrong on my clients’ of the way. I’m different than a impression” analysis. All this

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No tears in sight for this Mellow Out To help mellow a strong onion, cut the onion executive onion into rings or dice it and let soak in lemon juice and water (one part lemon juice to three parts water) for Onions can be stewed into a fabulous soup 10–15 minutes or longer. or sliced into a seasonal salad. But they present a daily logistical puzzle for Tiffany Cruickshank, Oregon. As transportation manager of Snake River Produce in Nyssa, Oregon—the heart of the Idaho-Eastern Oregon onion region—Tiffany’s challenge is deciding how to get the more than 1 billion pounds of onions harvested annually from August through May out of warehouses and into grocery stores, farmers markets and restaurants all over the U.S. And she needs to get it done as quickly and inex- pensively as possible. Tiffany says the face of the farming and produce industries is changing. “More young people and women have become involved,” she explains. “It’s a very interesting business … and everyone eats!” It’s like the stock market, only with real produce. “You know how much you have,” she says, “and you try to match everything up.” She ships the onions by truck and by rail and even shares space with potato producers to get her product across the continent. Growing up on a farm in Willowcreek, Ore- gon, Tiffany watched her father raise wheat, Color Me Hungry corn, alfalfa and cows—but not onions. When Snake River Produce sells yellow, white people ask her about preparing her prod- and red onions. Yellow is the largest crop and is good for cooking. Red onions are uct, she likes to tell them to keep it simple. often used in salads or for grilling, char- “Toss some onions in a pan with a little bit broiling or roasting. White onions are of EVOO”—that’s extra virgin olive oil in used in prepared salads, white sauces food talk—“and salt and pepper and go from and Mexican cuisine. there,” she says. “Onions are such a versatile and staple item, it is hard to pick a favorite! But caramelized or roasted with other vegeta- bles are very popular in my house.” —By Jodi Noding, Florida

12 | WINTER 2018 mıxTHE A Cut Above You can help prevent watery The Eyes Have It eyes by refrigerating an onion Onions make you cry because they con- for 30 minutes to an hour tain sulfuric compounds that, when cut, before cutting. Peel the onion go into the air and dissolve in the small under cold running water. Cut amount of water in your eyes, causing an onion from the neck end tear ducts to react. first; the sulfur compounds tend to be stronger at the root.

What’s in Store Harvest begins in mid-August and is nor- mally completed by the end of October. Thanks to state-of-the-art storage tech- nology, onions can be stored and shipped fresh until May.

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The Atlas Fire burns in Napa and Solano Counties on Oct. 10, 2017. Rising From the Ashes — A 4 a.m. epiphany turns loss to liberation. © stuart palley/zuma wire; courtesy ellyn ludwig n October 2017, when fires raged through Northern California and burned down my house, I lost almost everything I have ever owned, collected, worn, inherited, treasured, or stolen from my sister’s closet. People seem to come to the same conclusion after their house has burned down: If you got out with Iyour family and pets, the rest of the things you lost is just “stuff.” 14 | WINTER 2018 After it was clear that the thought to leave the front door fire engines were not going to unlocked, so the firemen didn’t stop screaming up the road, I have to break it down. I thought handed Ella a laundry basket I’d be back in a few hours to and we went up to her room to unpack my laundry basket “grab some things.” We stood in of things. her closet, calmly discussing Then I had to leave my things what she thought we should behind. We had piled baskets take. The power snapped off, of belongings in the garage. so we lit a few candles and she The power was out and we It took 32 seconds continued. Her camera, her couldn’t lift the heavy doors to for a California backpack, the silver bird my load things into our cars. My wildfire to burn Ellyn mom brought her from Italy. I husband and Steve held the Ludwig’s home. also dumped her entire makeup tray into the basket. That stuff is expensive. Ella seemed absorbed in her task, so I left her and stood in front of my curio cabinet. The pictures, of course. They don’t take up much room. My grandmother’s hideous beer mugs. Sentimental. I grabbed the photo books I made from my travels to Africa, Costa Rica, Galapagos. Easily replicated, but still. A bird in the hand … BAM BAM BAM. It was 1 a.m. and our friend Steve was pounding on the front door. He lives up the road and stopped to make sure we were gone. He told us the fire thick, wood garage doors up so Of course, that’s true. Yet some- had chased him and that he I could drive out. My car cleared “As Shane times I get to thinking: The stuff had dodged burning cars and the threshold and I hopped out grabbed my is usually the best part of things. fleeing people. He was pan- to grab some baskets. SLAM. arm and pulled Sometimes, I miss my stuff. icked. That kind of got us going. They dropped the door and After six months, I was still As I look back, I try to sort out moved on to the next garage bay me toward the processing it. Why didn’t I grab the chain of events in my head. so Ella could drive out. I turned garage, I spun more things? I remember being miffed that and looked down the driveway. to get loose and Smoke had been curling into my husband and Steve were A strange orange glow filled grab my jewelry. the front yard since around yelling at me. Sounds seemed the house across the street and 9:30 p.m. Sunday. Calistoga, to be escalating. I had put down purple flames shot up the back He held tight California, is a 20-minute drive my jewelry box in my closet of it. Trees and garbage bins and propelled east, but its fire seemed far because Ella had lost track of flew past us. Chunks of burning me forward. I away as I tried to reassure my her keys and she was starting debris bombed us. So, we got in teenage daughter, Ella, and to panic. As Shane grabbed my our cars and snaked away into grabbed at encourage her to go to bed. My arm and pulled me toward the the thick smoke. things as I left.” husband, Shane, kept stepping garage, I spun to get loose and I was told that 10 minutes out front and reporting back grab my jewelry. He held tight later, everything we left behind that the winds were howl- and propelled me forward. I was completely gone. I mean ing. We could hear big things grabbed at things as I left. I everything. I got out with my hitting the house; our windows swept off junk from the count- favorite sweatshirt, the PJs I rattled fiercely. Still no panic. ers into my half-empty laundry was wearing, and a pair of cheap Denial is a funny thing. basket. I lunged for a guitar. I flip-flops. Hours later, settled in

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 15 mıxTHE out of guilt. I no longer had to store that box of random, expen- sive lingerie that never, ever lifted what it claimed it would. My two Crock-Pots that I never used were gone. All those CDs from the ’90s. Empty paint cans. Old computers—all destroyed without a fee (kind of ). The seven years of tax returns. Expired coupons. School forms Ellyn Kozlowski waiting on my desk to be filled Ludwig, Oregon, and her sister, Kristin out. Weird impulse-buy pieces Kozlowski Eberwein, of furniture you put in the guest Oregon/USC (Calif.), room. I don’t even know what sifted through rubble I lost from the hall closet or for days, but only found one small ring under my bed. among the remains I needed none of it to survive. of her home. My takeaway? I feel really I was told that 10 minutes later, everything we left lucky. I got away unscathed. Six people on my street per- behind was completely gone. I mean everything. I ished because they did not got out with my favorite sweatshirt, the PJs I was get a call, hear a siren, or get wearing, and a pair of cheap flip-flops. a simple knock. My daughter lost her home and her school. a hotel room, I flipped on the TV rental that we were able to rent It is daunting on a good day … and there, in front of something just four days after the fire. and some days it’s not. I drove that closely resembled our drive- When we drove up, my daugh- away from 56 years of things— way, was the local newscaster ter got out to look through the things collected with attention with perfect hair, waving her arm windows of our potential new and care, moved carefully over at the smoking hole where our home, but I stared straight the years and repositioned in house had stood. A few days after ahead. I wouldn’t let myself look places of honor. Things received the fire, I was down at the Red until I had the key in my hand. with gratitude from my grand- Cross center and the fire marshal Grace pulled up, handed me the mother or mother in the passing told me they had used our house key, and we walked across the of heirlooms to the next genera- as a time stamp to measure threshold with our belongings tion. All reduced to ash. the speed of the fire. Two fires in Safeway bags. A 30-second I find myself saying, on most were converging and our prop- move in—the fastest in history. days, “Take it.” All those pretty, erty was ground zero. He said it That night as I lay staring at special, unusual things? Take took 32 seconds for our home to my new bedroom wall, I dug them, too. collapse and burn down. around in my psyche trying to I have my two ridiculous “Thirty-two minutes?” I tried identify the sensation I kept dogs and my beautiful husband to correct him. feeling. Homeless, possession- and my resilient daughter—all of “Thirty-two seconds,” less—braless, even—I hadn’t slept them gold tested in fire. he replied. well for four days. It was hard I still have the most import- The fire destroyed 5,130 to pinpoint. We were safe. I had ant stuff. Plus a favorite homes in Sonoma County alone. ensconced my family in a new, sweatshirt and a pair of awful The day after, I had secured albeit temporary, nest. Everyone flip-flops. three rentals, only to lose them had a toothbrush, a pair of shoes, Editor’s note: Ellyn Kozlowski

when the owners learned that and a T-shirt to sleep in. Then, Ludwig, Oregon, received a courtesy ellyn ludwig their family members had lost my 4 a.m. epiphany: liberation. Rose McGill emergency grant their homes, too. Rental prices I wouldn’t have to keep mov- from the Kappa Kappa Gamma doubled and tripled overnight. ing around the chest I inherited Foundation. To apply for or Finally, I found a friend, Grace, from my mom that didn’t quite donate to Rose McGill, email who had a furnished vacation fit in with my taste but I kept [email protected].

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GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 17 Ask Clara Advice for any occasion

Clara Pierce, Ohio State, was Executive Secretary of Kappa Kappa Gamma from 1929–1969. She urged members Dear Clara: I love going to the gym and cranking to “aspire nobly … adventure daringly … but serve humbly.” out an intense cardio session on the treadmill or bike, but it makes me cringe when I see people leave without wiping down their machines. What can I do other than silently judge them? —Signed, Desperately Seeking Sanitation

Dear Desperately: be unaware of her distracting eat your lunch elsewhere?” If It’s not sanitary to leave gym munching. It’s worth addressing that doesn’t resonate, it may equipment uncleaned after use. the situation directly and men- be best to bring the concern Most gyms have policies for this tioning how in an open-concept to your manager. Remember (signs, too). A gym is a commu- space, noises like loud typing, to offer solutions—even if that nal space, so it’s not out of line conversations and chewing means requesting your work- to mention your concern to the really travel—and bother you. space be relocated or asking for offending exerciser. You could Be kind but assertive: “I’m an adjustment in your lunch bring attention to the situation distracted by the noise you hour so you’re away while your with something witty like: “Are make when you eat your lunch coworker eats. they out of cleaning solution at your desk. Do you think it today?” However, a brief, polite would be possible for you to Dear Clara: and direct request may be pref- How do I tactfully handle mis- erable: “Please be sure to wipe pronunciations? My name is down the machine.” If your uncommon and is consistently request is brushed off, don’t mispronounced. escalate it. Instead, bring it to —Signed, It’s My Name, Don’t the attention of the manager Wear it Out on duty. Dear Name: Dear Clara: I work in an Embrace your given name, open-concept office where and don’t be shy about privacy doesn’t really exist, kindly stating the proper and I have a co-worker who is way to say your name if it very loud. The long conver- has been mispronounced. As sations and very emphatic with all corrective measures, keyboard strikes I can bear. the delivery is critical. State But she is also a noisy eater your name clearly while making and eats lunch at her desk eye contact. You could even most days. What can I do? say a word that rhymes with or —Signed, Cubicle Woes sounds like your name as a mne- monic device. Don’t feel guilty Dear Woes: about correcting someone, but Before your blood pressure treat them with the grace and rises at noon when she starts patience you’d like to receive. jonathan bartlett unpacking her lunch, take a step back and consider Have a question the possibility that for Clara? your co-worker may { [email protected] }

18 | WINTER 2018 mıxTHE From the Archives Cute as a Button

The hundreds of buttons in this box belonging to Founder Minnie Stewart, Monmouth, 1852–98, were likely collected over her lifetime. Women recycled buttons, storing them in boxes like this one for later use. The Industrial Revolution made it possible to manufacture buttons in materials like iron, glass, and celluloid. Different types of buttons were used according to the occasion. You might infuse a velvet button with perfume to attract a love interest or affix buttons made of black jet to

mourning clothes. Minnie’s collection includes buttons dating from Minnie Stewart’s button box, with the early 19th century. Once again, Minnie was ahead of her time. her name stenciled in red on the lid, was donated to Kappa by Albee Huff, Button collecting wasn’t recognized as an organized hobby until the a descendant. The box is on display founding of the National Button Society in 1938. at The Stewart House in Monmouth, Illinois, where members of the —By Mary Osborne, Ph.D., Museum Specialist Stewart family lived until 1988. greekyearbook

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 19 A Bluetiful HQ At Kappa Kappa Gamma’s new Headquarters, it’s anything but business as usual. Our new location offers volunteers, visitors, and staff a way to honor the past while pursuing future potential. By Lucy First Gerlach, DePauw

PHOTOGRAPHY BY CORY KLEIN

20 | WINTER 2018 GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 21 t’s a cold, gray January day—nothing out of about the project’s viability. After research and discussion, Fraternity the ordinary for this time of year in central Ohio. Council and the Foundation Board of Trustees announced the sale But for staff members of Kappa Kappa Gamma, it’s of the buildings in Columbus, Ohio, in March 2017. By June of that the first work day of 2018 and the first day at a new year, a development called Bridge Park—located in nearby Dublin— address: 6640 Riverside Drive, Dublin, Ohio. was selected as the new location for Headquarters. Moody Nolan There’s nervous chatter in the elevator as the began a six-month build-out and design project to create a space to first group reaches the second floor. In the foyer, accommodate Kappa’s day-to-day operations and on-demand train- a massive crystal hoop chandelier throws light ing needs for members. across the room like a welcome, illuminating the new space and inspiring a chorus of “oohs” and “ahhs.” Timeless and Traditional “When those elevator doors open and you step into that lobby with “The new space needed to reflect the deep history and heritage of that giant round light fixture that looks like a diamond ring, I think Kappa as well as the modern organization it has become,” says Caren Ieveryone goes, ‘Wow!’” says Daniel Pickett, partner at architectural Foster, associate principal architect at Moody Nolan. “The challenge and design firm Moody Nolan. That high-impact first impression was was how to balance the two in the new design.” key to the firm’s vision. “You’re not just in an office building,” Pickett Drawing inspiration from Parisian modern design, Foster mixed says. “You’re in the home of Kappa Kappa Gamma.” timeless and traditional elements—like the 1860s gilt parlor mirrors and the full-length aquarelle portrait of Tade Hartsuff Kuhs, Butler, Starting From Scratch that once hung on the walls of 530 E. Town St.—with contemporary In 2013, Kappa Kappa Gamma approached Moody Nolan about the office furniture. need for a new education and training facility and renovation of 530 “Everything works together to create the ‘bones’ of the space,” and 538 E. Town St., the Victorian-era buildings that had housed says Foster, who curated a mixture of textures and colors that infuse Kappa Headquarters since 1952. Kappa’s story in every detail: white quartz countertops with deep But the scope and cost of work soon revealed significant concerns gray-blue veins, Berber carpeting with subtle lines of muted blue and

22 | WINTER 2018 “The new space needed to reflect the deep history and heritage of Kappa as well as the modern organization it has become.”

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 23 24 | WINTER 2018 “It’s showcasing Kappa at its best. We wanted people to know it was Kappa Kappa Gamma as soon as you walked in.”

teal, navy leather cushions with patterned throw pillows, fleur-de-lis Fun and Function wallpaper, and midnight blue accent walls that anchor the space. Many more notes were tucked into mugs this past July during the grand opening celebration. Kappas seeing the space for the first Showcasing Sisterhood time searched for their chapter letters on a 3D-acrylic map of North “It’s showcasing Kappa at its best,” says Kari Kittrell Poole, Fraternity America, took selfies in front of the oversized gilded Coat-of-Arms, Executive Director. “We wanted people to know it was Kappa Kappa and perused a display honoring The Key’s 135-year history. Gamma as soon as you walked in.” As the focus of the weekend turned from celebration to business, And there’s an opportunity to experience Kappa’s rich history at nine Content Directors and 12 District Directors met with staff in the almost every turn. Recessed wall niches preserve and present pre- third-floor training facility. Back on the second floor, eight Fraternity cious artifacts. In one display, an illuminated composite of the six Council members gathered to discuss initiatives for the next bien- Founders hangs in an ornate gold frame. In another, the original nium in one conference room while nearly 20 Leadership Consultants badge of Founder Anna Willits Pattee, Monmouth, is mounted convened in another conference room for Training School. On the alongside a replica of the Red Book, a record kept by Delta Chapter, following day, a quick rearrangement of the third-floor training facil- Indiana, detailing Kappa’s early history. ity allowed all 60 attendees to assemble for both large group sessions “It’s all about sisterhood and tying everyone together with the and smaller breakout sessions. imagery,” Pickett says. Kari says she took a great sense of pride in seeing the space Knowing that Kappa’s story starts with and is sustained by sister- accommodate the weekend’s busy and varied agenda. It was exactly hood, the design team created gathering spaces for collaboration, the kind of flexible office environment that she had challenged the including a new café overlooking the Scioto River. Moody Nolan team to design: a fresh, fun, and comfortable space that But perhaps the most popular feature is a custom-designed wall honors past accomplishments and fosters new strides still to come. of coffee mugs that includes every campus that has ever welcomed So, if you find yourself in the central Ohio area (or if you fancy a a Kappa chapter—171 in total. Visiting members can find their alma road trip), come by and “ooh” or “ahh” for yourself as you step off mater’s mug and place a note inside, leaving a piece of themselves the elevator into the new Kappa Headquarters. Add your own note to within Kappa’s walls. your chapter’s mug. Sit awhile in the café and take in the river view. For Pickett, it’s his favorite spot. “My wife, Mary Warner Pickett, As former Fraternity Executive Secretary Clara O. Pierce, Ohio is a Kappa from Ohio State,” he explains, adding that she’s already State, once wrote, “This is your office and we want you to feel a part placed her own note for future visitors to find. of it. You are most welcome to come at all times.”

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 25 Illustration by JONATHAN BARTLETT If “Railroad Killer” Angel Maturino Reséndiz had succeeded in killing then-20-year-old HOLLY DUNN near the University of Kentucky campus in August of 1997, he might still be at large today. A SURVIVOR'S STORY

Of the 15 known people he attacked over six states and 13 years—including Holly’s boyfriend Chris— only Holly survived. Now, she’s telling her story of how she helped bring one of America’s most wanted serial killers to justice. Warning: This article contains information of a graphic, violent nature, including rape and murder, that may be triggering for some readers. It is excerpted from the memoir Sole Survivor: The Inspiring True Story of Coming Face to Face with the Infamous Railroad Killer (2017) by Holly Dunn, Kentucky.

THE ATTACK above his head and slammed it into my face, over and over. I turned my face toward the ground, raising my right arm to block the blows. He Given how close the railroad was to campus, hanging out there seemed struck the back of my head and split my scalp as I lost consciousness. like nothing out of the ordinary. Chris and I walked along the tracks, I can only assume that this man—who had killed Chris so easily— scanning for points of light that would signal an oncoming train. I felt was convinced that he had killed me as well. light and giddy as our arms swung between us. Suddenly, a man appeared, squaring off against us in the darkness. THE AFTERMATH He’d emerged from behind a large electrical panel near the tracks. “Gimme your money!” he demanded. When I came to, the man was gone and Chris was silent. I spotted the “We don’t have any money,” Chris said. It was true. We didn’t have a bluish flicker of a television in one of the houses across the tracks on dollar between us. Edison Drive. Every house was dark except for one—and light from “Get down. On your knees.” He yanked Chris’s arm, forcing him to that single house became my beacon. kneel. I kneeled next to him in the gravel of the track ballast. The man I stood and walked out of the ditch to that house. University of held something pointed and sharp, like an ice pick or a screwdriver. Kentucky student Chad Goetz was up late, studying and watching TV He took the straps from Chris’s backpack and bound my boy- when I burst through his door, shouting, “Call 911! He raped me. They friend's hands and forearms tightly behind him. He did the same to beat me.” me using the belt I’d been wearing. Chad called 911. At the time he told me everything would be OK, “Lie down and don’t move,” the man warned. “I have a gun.” He tied but he later admitted he was almost certain I was about to die. I had Chris’s ankles together with a nylon strap, and tied my feet with rags. so many wounds that he couldn’t figure out where all the blood was He used another rag to gag Chris. When he wrapped the gag around coming from. my face, I stuck out my tongue to keep it from blocking my mouth. I’d When the police and paramedics arrived, I told them, “My friend, gotten my hands free from the belt, but I kept my arms behind my back he’s still out there.” so he wouldn’t see. And then I was loaded into an ambulance. I couldn’t see the offi- When the man stepped back toward the tracks, I moved closer to cers searching the tracks. I didn’t hear the paramedic confirm that the Chris and pulled off his gag. police had found Chris. “Holly, get out of here,” he told me. By dawn, I would be asleep in a hospital bed when the coroner’s “I’m not leaving you here alone,” I said. “We can get away.” white van pulled up at the end of Edison Drive to collect Chris’s body. I tried to undo the knots that held Chris’s wrists, but the straps were too entangled, and soon the man was back again. He was angry our THE INVESTIGATION gags were loose. “Do whatever you want to me,” Chris begged. “Ju st please let her go.” For the next few days, doctors tended the cuts and gashes in my face The more Chris begged, the angrier our attacker grew. and bandaged the puncture wound in my neck. My left eye was swol- As the man stormed away, Chris looked at me tenderly. “Stay calm,” len shut from a fracture, my jaw was broken, and I had gaping wounds he said. “Everything is going to be OK.” in my scalp that took 16 staples to close. They shaved my head. They The man made his way back, struggling under the weight of a mas- administered emergency contraception. They tested me for AIDS sive rock he was cradling. The stone was the color of sand, the width of (I was negative). They cut off my clothes and processed them as evi- his body, probably a third of his weight. Chris, laying face down, never dence. They took samples and swabs for a rape kit. I shut out the pain saw what was coming. The man held the 52-pound rock over Chris’s and embarrassment by remembering that every ounce of DNA they head. Then he let it drop. found would bring us closer to identifying my attacker. Chris fell still and quiet. Detective Craig Sorrell took my statement while I was still in the The man reached down. He untied my feet and ran his hands over hospital. After I had finished recounting my ordeal, Detective Sorrell me. He pressed himself into me and I fought. I screamed and cried as said, “Let’s go ahead and go over the description again.” loud as I could. Then he grabbed the weapon he’d set down next to Again, we went over what I could recall: Hispanic male, short in my head and stabbed it into my neck, just below my left ear. “See how stature (maybe 5-foot-6?), average build, dark wavy hair that hung easily I could kill you?” he snarled. below his ears, thin mustache, tattoos. And then a detail that gave I looked him right in the face; I wanted to memorize everything Detective Sorrell pause: The man who raped me and killed Chris had about him. I thought, “I’m going to remember your face, your scars, been wearing glasses. your tattoos, and I’m not going to forget.” I heard the wail of the horn as the train approached. The ground beneath us trembled and quaked. Two days after leaving the hospital for my parents’ home in The lights of the Norfolk Southern’s locomotive tore through the dark- Evansville, Indiana, Detective Sorrell sent a sketch artist to meet with me. ness as the train raced by during my rape. At the end of our session, he had produced a sketch that looked so much When it was over, the man stood up. He gathered leaves, twigs and like my rapist that it unnerved me. Less than a week after the sketch was branches and scattered them over Chris and me. Then he lifted a board complete, the Lexington Police Department released the image to the

28 | WINTER 2018 Holly Dunn in 2018, more than 20 years after she was attacked and left for dead

media. They hoped it would generate some leads, but it was a bust. “The truth is,” Detective Sorrell told me, “Your attacker is a very I can only assume that this generic-looking guy.” man, who had killed Chris so My rape kit was tested against a national database, but police found no match. Detectives followed up on tips, but nothing materialized. I easily, was convinced that began to dread that we might not get a good lead until he hurt some- he had killed me as well. one else. a sledgehammer from their tool shed in a parsonage of the United Nearly two years went by without much progress. But Detec- Church of Christ in Weimar, Texas, where Norman was a pastor. tive Sorrell refused to give up. Detective Sorrell explained that Texas Ranger Sergeant Drew Carter It was May of 1999 when he showed up at my apartment and I invited noticed a link: Both crime scenes were close to a set of Union Pacific him into my kitchen. “It looks like we finally know who attacked you,” railroad tracks. Fingerprints and DNA evidence at both scenes were he said. “The sad news is that this lead only arrived after your case a match. Through a database called ViCAP—the Violent Criminal matched up with three recent murders in southeast Texas.” Apprehension Program—Sergeant Carter saw similarities between his My heart fell. More people were dead—just what I had feared. cases and the attack on Chris and me. As he stood leaning against my cabinets, Detective Sorrell painted “They know who this guy is, because they have his fingerprints,” the scenes in broad strokes. The first murder was Dr. Claudia Benton. Detective Sorrell told me. She was stabbed, raped and bludgeoned with a bronze statuette from As it turns out, they also had his picture. the mantle of her -area home. Detective Sorrell pulled a series of images from a folder and handed

clay cook clay The next two murders were Norman and Karen Sirnic, killed with them over. Staring back at me from the mug shots was a variation on

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 29 the same face: Some younger, some older. Some and called himself Angel Maturino Reséndiz. with differing hairstyles, but most of them wearing Family members were stunned that the boy they glasses, just like I had told Detective Sorrell. had known could be committing such atrocities, but “That’s him.” I thought. “That’s the guy.” they grew to trust Sergeant Carter. They agreed to “That guy,” it turned out, was a drifter who help orchestrate their relative’s surrender. spent his life hopping freight trains and criss- It was a start, but it was not fast enough to save crossing the country, randomly targeting victims Reséndiz’s next two victims: retired prison guard who lived nearby. He left a lot of evidence at his George Morber and his daughter, Carolyn Frederick. crime scenes, but little trail to follow. He had He killed them the following day in Illinois. used nearly 30 aliases over the course of his crim- inal career. Although his real name was Angel THE SURRENDER Maturino Reséndiz, at the height of the manhunt, law enforcement would be calling him Rafael The influence of relatives combined with the Reséndiz-Ramirez. intense pressure of the manhunt was finally paying The media would call him the Railroad Killer. off: Reséndiz communicated through another rel- A week later, testing confirmed that my rape kit ative that he was ready to give himself up. results matched the DNA taken from the crime On July 13, 1999, Sergeant Carter stood on the scenes in Texas. Ysleta-Zaragoza International Bridge in El Paso, We finally had a viable suspect—and he was a Texas, as Reséndiz's brother approached in a white serial killer. pickup truck. Drew Carter recognized the fugitive in the passenger seat. THE MANHUNT Carter later told reporters, “He stuck out his hand, I stuck out my hand, and we shook hands. Before Reséndiz was identified as a suspect in my And then I handcuffed him, and he was in custody.” case, producers at America’s Most Wanted had The infamous Railroad Killer had finally been turned down Detective Sorrell’s pleas for coverage. apprehended. No high-speed chase, no violent Now, they were looking to interview me. shootouts. The hunt was officially over. As Reséndiz's only known survivor, speaking out could put me in danger. If he realized I was alive and helping the THE RECKONING authorities, would he come back for me? Could he find me? I couldn’t dwell on it—I decided I would do whatever it took to catch him. Relief washed over me once I knew Reséndiz could no longer track Producer Anne Garofalo flew to Lexington and promised to mask me down. His arrest meant I would have to see him in court so I could my identity: My name would be changed and my face and body would identify him. And I was scared. But leaving me alive was Reséndiz's be blacked out. biggest mistake, and I wanted to make sure he would regret it. My America’s Most Wanted segment aired the next week. “Cops say a killer is riding the rails,” announced host John Walsh, “and he struck Though there were nine known Reséndiz victims at that two more times this week.” time, the case going to trial was for the capital murder of Dr. Claudia the canadian record (canadian, tex.), vol. 109,no. My heart dropped. Only a week had gone by and yet two more people Benton. The prosecution’s first goal was to secure a guilty verdict for were dead—teacher Noemi Dominguez and widow Josephine Konvicka. Reséndiz. Though he plead not guilty by reason of insanity, a jury of “Police now say as many as six people may have been murdered his peers found him guilty on May 17, 2000. at the hands of Rafael Reséndiz-Ramirez,” Walsh told the audi- When the trial moved to the punishment phase, there were two ence, “but only one person survived. In an exclusive interview, she sentencing options: life imprisonment with the possibility of parole talks to us about the harrowing experience, and how she made it after 40 years or death by lethal injection. The prosecution planned through alive.” to call witnesses and present evidence from the other known And then there I was—just a voice emanating from a shadowy figure. Reséndiz murders to paint him as an uncontainable threat to society who deserved the ultimate punishment. When my episode aired on June 12, 1999, an AMERICA’S MOST WANT- My role as the prosecution’s star witness was meant to be the ed hotline got the tip that changed everything. Reséndiz's cousin final play. 24, ed. 1 thursday, june 17, 1999 called in to say he didn't know where Reséndiz was, but he knew As I took the stand on May 22, there were few dry eyes in the court- where authorities could find his sister. room. As my testimony neared its end, attorney Devon Anderson said, Two days later, Sergeant Carter and Detective Sorrell flew to “You mentioned that during the robbery, he kept telling you and Chris Albuquerque to persuade Reséndiz's sister to help end the killings by not to look at him?” bringing her brother to justice. As they spoke to other family members, I nodded. they learned that though his birth certificate read Angel Leoncio Reyes “Did you look at him?” Recendis, the killer had taken his mother’s and stepfather’s surnames “Yes.”

30 | WINTER 2018 Then came her final question—the moment in which I, as Reséndiz’s additional murders dating back to 1986—some 20 murders in all, only surviving victim, would face him down and to call him out in a though only 15 could be verified. way no one else could. Reséndiz’s execution was set for June 27, 2001. Though I could “Do you see him in the courtroom?” have attended in person, I chose not to. I had witnessed one person “Yes.” die, and I didn’t want to watch another—not even my attacker. “Can you describe what he is wearing?” Instead, I sat at a computer in my parents’ den in Evansville, Indiana, I turned my head and looked straight at the man who had raped me, staring at the website of the Texas Department of Criminal Justice. who had killed Chris and so many others. He sat there with a smirk on An update told me that the prison staff administered Reséndiz’s his face, aloof and smug. lethal injections at 7:58 p.m. I refreshed the website over and over until I pointed at him. his time of death was finally posted: 8:05 p.m. “The, the, the white shirt,” I said, sobbing and struggling to catch It was finished, and I was overcome by relief that he could never my breath. get me now. That ice pick or screwdriver, the 50-pound rock, the When the trial concluded, the jury delivered a unanimous ver- sledgehammer, the bronze statuette—all the objects he’d ever dict: death by lethal injection. I couldn’t have fathomed justice being held over his victims—had hovered over me in my mind, until he served to him any other way. I had fulfilled my promise: If I live breathed his last breath and I knew he’d never, ever have the chance through this, I will get you. to complete what he left unfinished. But even before it was over, I knew Reséndiz’s death was never going to be an end to something. In the fall of 2001, Reséndiz decided he’d had enough of jail. In I will carry the scars from what happened forever. I will be healing an effort to speed up his execution, he began confessing to several for the rest of my life.

In 2006, Angel Maturino Reséndiz is escorted from the courtroom after receiving an execution date. phillip j. ap photo/david

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 31 Band ~ of ~ Sisters

Eighty years ago, the world stood on the brink of war. When Japan bombed Pearl Harbor in 1941, young men across the United States deployed by the millions to fight in World War II. Women rose to fill the void they left behind. Some worked as military or civil- ian personnel supporting the war effort. Some worked to advance peace and justice after the war. All of them changed what it meant to be an American woman at work.

By Diane Miller Selby, Ohio State, and Kristen Desmond LeFevre, Indiana Two women in uniform during World War II visit a national service women's center. These Kappa-run centers provided places around the country where women in the armed services could hold meetings, network or relax as well as receive helpful information. For many Americans, Dec. 7, 1941, was a stark dividing line in their lives: Before Pearl Harbor … and after.

Norma Henry Sutherland, Kansas, had just pledged Kappa and legally terminate women who married or became pregnant. was studying in the basement of the chapter house when news broke But with approximately 16 million American men engaged in mil- of the Japanese bombing of Pearl Harbor. Soon, she recalls, “all of the itary service during World War II—about 24 percent of the total U.S. boys were going off to war.” When one member’s boyfriend returned population in the 1940s—a nation that had sheltered women from on leave, her Kappa sisters got her ready for her date, sharing clothes work now depended upon them to fill traditionally male jobs. and makeup to ensure she looked her best. When other men did not Propaganda advertised in women’s magazines was aimed at piqu- return, the sisters consoled one another. ing interest and instilling confidence in a woman’s ability to help: “If Lorraine Chevalier “Chevie” McDonald, Pennsylvania, had just you can sew, you can rivet,” read one advertisement. “If you can put graduated from college and was working as an assistant buyer for together a pie, you can work on an assembly line.” Macy’s in New York City when Pearl Harbor was attacked. “I had Women were recruited into paid roles at home and overseas: a lot of friends in the Navy—boys,” she explains. “One special friend ambulance drivers, couriers, air raid wardens, parachute folders, of mine was at Pearl Harbor.” She was incensed and insulted by the spotters of enemy vessels and airplanes, and block leaders enforcing attack. “I wanted to do something,” she recalls. blackouts. Many women assumed new roles as factory workers, help- Before World War II, “doing something” was left to America’s men. ing meet the wartime production demands for planes, tanks, ships The prevailing view of a woman’s role was primarily one of wife or and weapons—eliciting perhaps the most enduring image of female mother. While higher education for women was socially acceptable, patriotism during World War II: Rosie the Riveter. opportunities to put a college education to use were in short supply. New opportunities opened in the military sector, too. Before An educated woman might work as a teacher, a nurse or a secretary, World War II, most women in military service were nurses. By 1943, but many occupations were still reserved for men. Some states even Congress had authorized women to serve in non-nursing capacities barred married women from holding jobs, and many employers could with the Coast Guard, Marines, Army and Navy.

On Oct. 23, 1942, members of Beta Pi Chapter, Washington, line up for an air raid drill. They carried supplies, including a lantern, flashlight and radio. ap photo

34 | WINTER 2018 Soon, newly established government agencies began reaching out Cryptologists like Nancy to women leaders—including thousands of Kappas—at U.S. colleges worked around the clock in and universities. Here are a few of their inspiring stories. shifts at Arlington Hall—a former girls' school near Washington, D.C.

She Had to Convince Her Mother to Let Her Join

From 1944–48, Miriam Crowley McCue, WYOMING, served in the Navy WAVES—Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Ser- vice. With a newly minted doctorate in psychology, Miriam was keen to use her knowledge to help her country. Her mother, however, was less enthusiastic. “My mother did not want me to join the Navy, so she delayed our driving home from Cheyenne, Wyoming, to Denver, Colorado, a dis- tance of 100 miles, where I could sign up,” she explains. Once freed from her oath of silence, Nancy learned she wasn’t the Miriam persisted. Her first WAVES assignment was a Philadelphia only one in her family who had been a war codebreaker: Her brother, hospital, where her orders included attending conferences at which Jim Thompson, was a cryptographer in the Office of Strategic soldiers recounted the carnage they’d witnessed in battle. She and Services, the predecessor of today’s Central Intelligence Agency. her team would devise treatments for “battle fatigue”—mental In 2016, he was awarded the Medal of Honor for his code-breaking trauma now known as post-traumatic stress disorder. work during WWII. Despite the orders and her expertise, Miriam was barred from Nancy says her brother used a series of machines to do his cryp- the conferences because “women’s ears were thought too delicate” tography work. “Now he talks to me about all of those machines he for the details. She found the practice infuriating. “But, being in the used—the numbers and the names,” she says. “I say, ‘Jim, I never saw Navy, I could not protest,” she explains. “I did what I was told.” a machine. Mine was all hand work.’” Soon the United States began to anticipate an invasion of Japan. With slips of paper that slid back and forth as a means to make “They were expecting to have many more deaf and blind and matches, Nancy worked for years on what she realized was Japanese amputees,” Miriam recalls. She trained more than 100 corpsmen on code based on town names like Fukuoka. techniques to treat and counsel the wounded soldiers who might “I heard some people say they got bored,” Nancy recalls. “Well, I return from such an invasion. But America’s use of atomic weapons thought I was trying to solve a puzzle, and so it wasn’t that way for me.” against Japan pre-empted those needs, and soon the war was over. And when she found a match? Miriam left WAVES and began teaching as a professor at Smith “It was exciting when you did,” she says. But then it was back to College. Eventually, she returned to her work with veterans, dedicat- business as usual, working to find matches on new slips of paper ing a large portion of her life to treating and counseling patients from handed out by the male captain who supervised her work. World War II, the Korean War and the Vietnam War. When V-J Day came on Aug. 14, 1945, Nancy and her cohorts took a walk to the White House. “Everyone was out on the streets, hooting and hollering,” she says. “Then we went to church to give thanks. … Later, we bought some Champagne to celebrate.” She Kept War Secrets for 70 Years Even though her work may have played some role in helping the Allies defeat the Axis, Nancy never thought of things that way—and Nancy Thompson Tipton, MISSOURI, came from a military fam- still doesn’t. ily. While her mother encouraged her to assist the war effort after “I was just a little bitty cog in a great big wheel,” she says. “I guess college, she tried to steer her daughter away from overseas service. I am proud of what I did. I didn’t do it to be proud though. I did it to “My mother said, ‘The three men in the family are already in the help with the war—we all did.” service, and I’m sure they’re going overseas,’” Nancy recalls. “She Nancy says that’s the way things were for the women and men of said, ‘Why don’t you stay here and find something else to do?’” what has been called the Greatest Generation. The U.S. Army recruited Nancy into the Signal Corps in 1944. “We really didn’t analyze things like you all do now,” she says. “We Though she remained a civilian, she was stationed in Washington just did.” D.C., and given a top-secret role as a cryptographer—or code breaker. “They said, ‘You cannot open your mouth and tell anybody what you’re doing,’” she explains. “We were supposed to say we were stenographers or secretaries or something like that.” She kept her She Answered the Call silence until 2014, when she was interviewed for Liza Mundy’s New York Times' best-seller Code Girls: The Untold Story of the American Jane Emig Ford, OHIO STATE, worked at Kappa’s Central Office

property of u.s. army of u.s. property Women Code Breakers of World War II. (now Kappa Kappa Gamma Headquarters) in early 1942 when the call

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 35 came from the American Red Cross. Teller,” she recalls. “I loved those shoes with a purple passion. I even- “Someone had submitted my name for consideration to be inter- tually returned to Columbus in my new high heels.” viewed for possible overseas duty,” Jane says. “I was only 105 pounds and a little over 5 feet tall, and the interviewers seemed quite con- cerned about what they called my ‘sheltered background.’ One interviewer asked me what I would do if a GI propositioned me. I answered, ‘Ju st what I did during four years at Ohio State.’ They all She Helped Shape Peace laughed, and I was accepted on the spot.” The Kappa office staff gave Jane a farewell party. at the United Nations “Back then, people put blue stars in their windows to indicate they had a serviceperson overseas,” she explains. Before Jane left, In the lead-up to World War I, Virginia Crocheron Gilder- Executive Secretary Clara Pierce, Ohio State, placed a star in the sleeve, Barnard, led Columbia University’s Committee on Women’s front-door window. “She wanted everyone to know the Kappa office War Work. As World War II approached, she continued that work. had sent a soldier off to war.” “It seemed as if Hitler were about to plunge Europe into war and I … Jane’s job was to run and serve as a hostess on a Red Cross was profoundly distressed,” wrote Virginia, dean of Barnard from 1911 Clubmobile, a hospitality vehicle that provided pilots with respite to 1947 and an adviser to women graduate students at Columbia. “I felt from their duties, serving coffee, doughnuts and conversation. that we ought to do something about it. I was intensely interested in this On her first assignment in Myanmar, then known as Burma, Jane problem … and the enormous contribution that women might make.” arrived at her new home—a big square room on stilts. In February 1945, President Franklin D. Roosevelt named Virginia “I walked up the steps to find three bedrooms and nothing else,” to the U.S. delegation to write the United Nations charter. She was the Jane recalls. “From the front of the room, I could see a GI helmet only woman delegate at the U.N.’s charter meeting in San Francisco with a bullet hole in it in a tree.” It had an outhouse and an outdoor on April 25, 1945. shower. “A Schlitz beer can with holes punched in it served as the The key postwar commission had two directives: Prevent future wars showerhead,” she says. by creating a Security Council and promote global human welfare by Shortly after arriving, Jane was awakened at 3 a.m. and notified establishing the United Nations Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC). that soldiers could no longer assure her safety. She and her cohorts Virginia set to work on drafting the structure, powers and functions of the hastily packed their belongings and took the Clubmobile to their new ECOSOC, which she especially valued as the body charged with “doing assignment in Ledo, India. A temporary army cot had been placed in things, rather than preventing things from being done.” a corridor for her for the night. She went to speak to her command- Her work on the charter included these words of hope for peo- ing officer about her new assignment, and upon returning to the cot, ple around the world: “higher standards of living, full employment, she found a fully grown tiger asleep on it. As it turns out, the tiger— and conditions of economic and social progress and development.” known as Candy—was a pet of the compound and was beloved by all Beyond her work on the ECOSOC, Virginia also persuaded her fel- of the soldiers. low delegates to adopt the following aim for the United Nations as a Jane did her part for two and a half years in India, Myanmar, China, whole: “fundamental human rights, in the dignity and worth of the Japan and Korea. After the war ended, Jane resigned in 1946. Before human person, in the equal rights of men and women.” heading home to Columbus, Ohio, she and several friends spent a Though the clause had lofty and benevolent aspirations for human weekend of celebration in New York City. welfare and lasting peace, it also set an important precedent for “After being in army boots for so long, I invested in what was in the women’s work, which Virginia promoted doggedly throughout her 1940s an extravagant $65 for a pair of alligator pumps from Bonwit career in academia.

A WOMAN’S WORK IS NEVER DONE

From 1940–44, the One in 10 married women of women workers employed U.S. female labor force grew by entered the labor force during in factories increased from 20 6.5 million, an increase WWII. During that time, the percent to 30 percent. of 50 percent. percentage of married women working outside the home Between 1943 and 1945, At the height of WWII, the increased from 61 to 85 percent of women 19.1 million women in the 13.9 percent to 22.5 percent, workers wanted to keep their workforce made up 36.1 and the percentage of working jobs after the war. percent of the civilian women with children under labor force. 10 years of age increased Source: Adapted from data inThe courtesy national archives from 7.8 percent to 12.1 percent Home Front and Beyond: American Women’s employment in the from 1940–44. Women in the 1940s by Susan M. defense sector grew by 462 Hartmann (Boston: Twayne percent from 1940–44. From 1940–44, the percentage Publishers, 1982).

36 | WINTER 2018 GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 37 Through the Keyhole

41 MAKE A NOTE Announcing the 2018–20 Fraternity Council 42 IN BRIEF Meet the new Fraternity President.

A bold brand ushers in a new era. 44 KEY ACHIEVEMENTS A mom and son work to reduce plastic straw use; a new nature preschool is opened; and a 20-year-old impresses chef Gordon Ramsay. 46 IN MEMORIAM 48 REMIX A Gold Standard: Suzanne Perron remakes LSU Golden Girls’ iconic uniform.

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38 | WINTER 2018 Coach Sue Semrau’s love for teaching and basketball is a formula for success.

sue’s way A Legacy in the Making Florida State University women’s basketball coach Sue Semrau has found winning moments in teaching athletes about life beyond the court.

By Diane Roberts

Sue Semrau, Puget Sound, the photograph of her with the child winningest coach in the history of of one of her assistant coaches, Florida State University, is always and a signed basketball given in motion. The head women’s to her by Teresa Edwards (the basketball coach since 1997, she University of Georgia great and paces the sidelines, stalking, four-time Olympic gold med- pointing, folding and unfolding alist)—on display. Coach Sue her arms, crouching down and (everybody calls her Coach Sue) jumping up—often wearing curls up on a sofa. At games, she high-heeled boots—raising her favors tailored clothes, black fists in the air, doing the “chop,” pants, and sharp jackets, mostly giving her players a thumbs-up, in neutral tones—pink during sometimes getting in a referee’s breast cancer awareness events. face for a bad call. Off the court, Today, she’s dressed in black you might find Sue in California, athletic gear that manages to working with the Olympians of look both casual and elegant. Team USA; traveling around the She’s gracious and friendly, but country and abroad recruiting top you get the feeling she’s not all basketball practitioners; flying off that into talking about herself. to West Africa with her Seminoles She prefers to talk about her to hold a basketball camp for kids players: Savannah Wilkinson, in Senegal; or working to help the who made the under-20 team homeless in Orlando, Florida. She for Great Britain; Natasha never slows down. Howard, now playing for Well, hardly ever. She did sit WNBA’s Seattle Storm; and down for an interview one hot the freshmen who just arrived, June afternoon at FSU’s bas- excited and a little nervous. Just ketball complex in Tallahassee, outside, she shows off the flags Florida. Her corner office is of the nations of her players

mike olivella airy, painted pearl gray and hanging on the wall: England, Seminole garnet, and impres- Spain, Brazil. She sees herself as sively tidy, with select objects—a an educator, not just a producer USA under-19 gold medal, a of successful basketball teams.

| 39 “I love to teach,” she says. “I’m then went on to coaching gigs grand total of five games in 1996. relationship with her kids.” It teaching 100 percent of the time, at Occidental College, Northern Within three years, FSU became didn’t take long, she says, to “fall not just on the basketball court.” Illinois University and the a winning team, and in 2001, in love with Tallahassee.” Coach Sue’s commitment University of Wisconsin. In 1997, Sue earned her first ACC Coach Every coach—and every to education is in her blood: she landed the head coaching of the Year title. Sportswriters athlete—wants to win a national Her parents were high school job at Florida State, where she attribute Sue’s ability to turn title. Yet for Coach Sue, sporting teachers. She was born and soon became a star. Four times, the program around to her triumphs aren’t the be-all and raised in Seattle. She attended she’s been named Atlantic Coast wide-ranging recruiting and end-all: “You’re a person first, a Shorecrest High School as well Conference Coach of the Year, getting to know each player as student second and an athlete as the University of Puget Sound, and she was the Associated Press an individual. The point, she third,” she says. “Basketball where she pledged Kappa Kappa College Basketball Coach of the says, isn’t only to win games— can’t be the only community you Gamma. After two years, she Year in 2015. As of the end of the though that’s important—but to belong to.” She sees her players transferred to the University of 2018 season, she amassed 405 “positively impact lives.” as whole human beings, not cogs California, Davis. Basketball was wins with FSU; 17 of her play- She credits her fellow coaches in a machine. Check her Twitter a big part of her life. She appre- ers have earned all-American with welcoming her when she feed—@CoachSueFSU—for ciates the game because “you get honors; and several have been arrived at FSU, which was a bit June and you’ll see pictures of to be part of everything that goes drafted into the WNBA. The FSU of a culture shock for some- her perched on dorm room beds, on. You play offense and defense, women have made the NCAA one raised in the Northwest. laughing with freshmen who too.” Sue played point guard: “I Tournament in 13 of the past 14 Tallahassee is seriously are moving in, hugging their loved to shoot,” she says. “I wish I years and made it to the Elite Southern—“yes, ma’am,” sweet mothers, cutting up with them. liked to pass the ball a bit more.” Eight three times. Not that Coach tea, people asking who you’re kin Basketball teams are small: After graduation, she took a Sue is satisfied with that record. to—and a place college football is Everybody gets to know every- job in public relations with the “I used to say we were build- king of sports. But legendary head body else really well. You could Los Angeles Heat, a professional ing a top-10 program here,” she football coach Bobby Bowden, liken it to a sorority—a sorority soccer team. says. “Now we’re building a whom Sue has described as being with a definite focus. “But that was a desk job,” she championship program.” “like a dad,” encouraged her. “For me,” says Coach Sue, says. “I wanted to be out doing When she arrived in 1997, Other coaches did, too. FSU men’s “coaching is teaching these things.” She got her master’s that may have seemed impossi- basketball head coach Leonard young women how to function in athletic administration, and ble. The Seminoles had won a Hamilton praises Sue’s “great in the world.” She says she tries to model servant leadership “the FSU way,” engaging with the world around her. Her players take on various projects, delivering meals to Tallahassee seniors, tutoring children on Saturday mornings at a local community center, planting a garden at a domestic violence shelter, and helping children wherever they play, be it Wadsworth, Ohio, or Harlem, New York. In 2018, Samaritan’s Feet International, a charity that works to alleviate poverty, named Sue Semrau “Barefoot Coach of the Year,” honoring her work with the poor and bringing awareness to Samaritan’s Feet by kicking off her heels and coaching some games barefoot to call attention amanda hoffman art Coach Sue instructs her to children around the world who Florida State Seminoles. don’t have shoes—or much else. She tells about the time she took the team to South Africa (the NCAA allows teams to

40 | WINTER 2018 Cimarron, Florida State’s mascot, photobombs Coach Sue and her player. noteMAKE A

I’m teaching 100 percent of the time, not just on the basketball court. … For me, coaching is teaching these young women how to function in the world … educating them on how to be strong, beautiful, powerful, intelligent women, to use the power they have to make a difference in people’s lives. Key to My Heart travel abroad for games every conviction that giving back and The Golden Key Alumnae Association rescues historical badges four years), where they encoun- helping the less fortunate should as well as lost or stolen badges and other Kappa jewelry. To see tered young people who played be fundamental values. available badges, visit its new website: www.thegoldenkey.org basketball on makeshift village Her players, current and for- Questions? Email [email protected]. courts littered with broken mer, agree. Vanessa Fuchs, who glass. Many of them were shoe- played on Sue’s first FSU team less, but they still played. and is now a senior associate Power of Sisterhood “This was so important for athletic director at Florida State, At the 72nd Biennial Convention, Kappas reached into their our young women to see,” she told the local newspaper, “She’s hearts to give over $114,000 at the Foundation Tribute says. “It was education in 3D.” an incredible basketball coach, Table. “Our donor composite, along with our heart, is full,” Coach Sue credits Kappa but she’s an even better person.” says Maggie Sims Coons, Hillsdale, Interim Foundation with giving her “an early As another season gets under- Executive Director. The funds raised support the Foundation’s appreciation of process: pledge way—the Seminoles’ first game scholarships, educational and leadership programs, Rose McGill training, meetings, being part of was in November—fans hope for Grants, and preservation of Kappa heritage. Panhellenic. Greek life gives you another stellar year in the ACC an understanding of community and the NCAA, maybe even an on campus.” appearance in the Final Four. New Leadership She pays tribute, too, to Or beyond. No doubt Coach Sue Delegates to General Convention elected Fraternity the Fellowship of Christian has similar ambitions for her Council to serve in the 2018–20 Biennium. These leaders will Athletes, which taught her “how team. But she keeps her focus set the strategic vision for 144 collegiate chapters, more than to preach the Gospel—using on the best hopes she has for 240 alumnae associations, and 210,000 alumnae: Gail Owen, words, if necessary.” Her players her players: “educating them Monmouth, President. Amy Sutton, Nebraska, Treasurer. have different faiths, she says, on how to be strong, beautiful, Vice Presidents: Mary Pat Brennan, Drake; while some have no faith at all. powerful, intelligent women, to Molly Bechtel, UC Davis; Susan Pile, Miami (Ohio); She respects their positions. use the power they have to make and Tiffany Hortin, Lawrence. Still, she’s unshakeable in her a difference in people’s lives.”

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 41 IN KAPPA KAPPA GAMMA It’s New. It’s Bold. Chances are, you’ve seen Kappa’s new brand, but if you haven’t, check it out on Page 49 (the inside back cover) of this issue. This robust refresh of brıef Kappa Kappa Gamma’s values and story has ushered in a new Message from the President era. Beth Black, Illinois Wesley- an, 2016-18 Fraternity Presi- dent, explained that this brand Six Founders, One Bold Dream project was an opportunity to Recently, I had an opportunity to return to Monmouth College, rearticulate our long-held be- my alma mater. Since my time there as an undergraduate, state-of-the-art liefs in a way that is relevant for buildings have risen around the campus perimeter, new trees have been today and for future members as we approach Kappa’s 150th planted amid a lush landscape, new sidewalks cover the shortcuts legions anniversary in 2020. of students trod into the campus landscape, and new faces greeted this The updated brand includes stranger as I passed by. The college has invested time, energy and resources a shortened version of the mis- sion statement, six core values, to be a sustainable force for educating students well into the future. a new tagline, and refreshed Buildings change, courses change, pathways change. But the icons and logos. The full brand human connection holds the most lasting value. rollout is happening over this academic year. In the mean- The same can be said for raising the bar for women and Gamma. In upcoming issues, time, we invite all Kappas to Kappa Kappa Gamma. While on dreaming the bold dreams of the I’m looking forward to sharing “Dream boldly. Live fully.” campus, I walked slowly from future becomes the charge of details of several new initia- where the Kappa “bridge” once those who follow. tives—a Fraternity Housing KAPPA KAPPA GAMMA stood to the chapel, mindful The march toward our Corporation; LEAD: Leadership, that our six Founders walked 150th year is almost complete, Education and Development; New Bylaws the very same ground 148 years and your Fraternity Council and diversity and inclusion ago. The significance was not is dreaming boldly about the action steps—all outgrowths of and Standing lost on me: It was a culmina- future 150 years of Kappa Kappa our strategic goals of tion of their bold dream and improving the membership Rules fortitude that united six young experience, increasing mem- The business of Convention women to form a sisterhood, bership growth and developing in June 2018 saw several and here I was, tracing their critical infrastructures to amendments to the Fraternity very path. The human connec- sustain a preeminent organiza- Bylaws and Standing Rules. tion they forged in the 1870s tion for women. Highlights include the addition reached across generations to As Franklin Delano Roosevelt of alumna initiation for unaf- touch my life and the lives of wrote in 1945, “The only limit to filiated women who attended thousands of women today. our realization of tomorrow will a college or university and op- The real test of any organiza- be our doubts of today. Let us tions for reduced requirements tion comes when the Founders move forward with strong and for alumnae associations are no longer with us—when active faith.” that can no longer fulfill the organization must stand Let’s take this journey Fraternity requirements. on its own. The responsibility together. Let us dream boldly Additionally, chapters will of building on the foundation and live fully. decide on a chapter-specific cory klein of excellence, meeting the —By Gail Simpson Owen, GPA requirement for active challenges of each generation, Monmouth members, and chapter facility

42 | WINTER 2018 Facilitator, two roles that are Director of Programs and close to her heart. Education. She was President from 2014–18. During her DUBLIN, OHIO tenure, she oversaw the transi- tion of Kappa’s organizational New structure to a governance model and the move of Headquarters Panhellenic to Dublin, Ohio. Beth also has served on NPC committees, Delegate including the Communications In October, Kappa Kappa Task Force, the Structure Gamma appointed Beth Black, Think Tank and the Structure Illinois Wesleyan, to the role of Transition Committee. National Panhellenic Confer- Patty’s retirement concluded ence Delegate after the retire- 39 years of volunteer service to ment of Patty Coffee Gesell, Kappa and NPC. She has worked Penn State. The delegate serves closely with Kappa’s membership, as our liaison to NPC and locally and nationally. Since 2005, influences the future of the Patty has served on the Northeast sorority experience. Greek Leadership Association Scott Cohen, Joan Cook Cohen and Steve Cohen enjoy the presentation “Beth’s background and Board of Directors. In 2009, she of the 2018 Loyalty Award in Denver. expertise are invaluable,” was appointed NPC Delegate. Fraternity President Gail Since then, she has served as the visitation will be gender-neutral of their sons, Scott, were Simpson Owen, Monmouth, chairman of the NPC College and approved at the local level. there to witness it. For the big says. “Her reputation and Panhellenics Committee from A fee increase raised the new moment, Steve and Scott stood connections with fellow Greek- 2014–16. In 2016, Patty was hon- member fee to $175, the per cap- behind a curtain in Convention letter organizations make her ored with Kappa’s Loyalty Award. ita fee for active and associate Hall. Steve held a bouquet of the perfect national representa- Beth and Patty attended members to $92, and the per irises.When then-Fraternity tive for Kappa Kappa Gamma.” the National Panhellenic capita fee for alumna members President Beth Uphoff Black, Beth’s long résumé in Kappa Conference’s annual meeting to $25. Illinois Wesleyan, announced includes roles as Director of in October, marking the Joanie as the 2018 Loyalty Chapters, Vice President and official transition. DENVER Award recipient (Kappa’s highest honor), it took Joanie A Kappa by surprise. For a moment, she was speechless, which she Calling said doesn’t happen often to a #KKGENIUS During Kappa Kappa Gamma’s lifelong educator. 72nd Biennial Convention in Joanie credits her mother Kappa Scholars June 2018, Joan “Joanie” Cook and many Kappa role models • Cohen, Colorado, wore her and leaders for mentoring — — badges and pins that represent her. Her mother, Elizabeth Over $1.2 million in undergradu- her years of loyal service to Kap- Baumann Cook, Northwestern, ate and graduate scholarships will be pa. Over the years, Joanie has was an Alumnae Achievement awarded by the Kappa Kappa Gamma attended many Kappa Conven- Award recipient in 1984, and tions, but the one in June 2018 Joanie and her father attended Foundation to members this year. took place in her home state Convention to see her mother Scholarship applications opened Nov. and she was excited to welcome accept the award. Soon after 15 and must be submitted by Kappas to Colorado. graduating from college, Joanie Feb. 1 at 5 p.m. To learn more about But what Joanie didn’t know began accepting volunteer roles

was that this Convention would in Kappa and has never stopped. the application, visit hold a special significance. Currently, Joanie serves as a www.kappa.org/foundation/scholarships. Also unbeknownst to Joanie, GIRLS Academy Facilitator

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GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 43 poetry, the paintings depict Illinois Fraternity & Sorority the care and bonding between Alumni Hall of Fame inducted animal mothers and their babies, Jayne this past spring. Currently with an overall theme to inspire the Public Relations Chairman conversations about breast- for the local Kappa alumnae feeding, biology and parenting. association, Jayne enjoyed the celebratory afternoon with Jayne Turpin DeLuce many sisters, both alumnae and illinois. The University of active members. Jayne, who has

COOKING UP A BRIGHT FUTURE SAMANTHA DAILY KENTUCKY keyACHIEVEMENTS • — — Gordon Ramsay knows a good thing when he sees it. After whipping up Suzette Kuhlow Kent Margaux Charbonnet lsu. Appointed by President Murray culinary masterpieces on season nine of Donald J. Trump in January 2018, georgia. Recently named the Fox show MasterChef, Samantha was Suzette is the administration’s to the University of Georgia eliminated this fall right before the final current federal chief information Alumni Association’s “40 Under officer of the United States at the 40” list, Margaux is the medical round. But she walked away during her Office of Management and Budget. director of the Medically last episode with a jaw-dropping surprise Technology has been at the core of Complex Care Program at from Ramsay. “Oh, Samantha, 20 years Suzette’s career as a principal with Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta of age, promise me you will continue,” Ernst & Young’s financial services, at Scottish Rite Hospital. a partner at Accenture, consulting pressed Ramsay right after Samantha’s president at Carreker Corp., and Meaghan LeClerc elimination. Samantha said she indeed managing director at JP Morgan. massachusetts. In the pres- would, telling the judges that culinary Suzette is a frequent speaker ence of family and Kappa sisters, school was next on the list. “I’ll pay for in global industry forums and a Meaghan was recently promoted publisher of thought leadership to brigadier general of the Air your tuition,” said Ramsay, who continued pieces. She also holds patents in National Guard and assistant the compliments and stated he couldn’t banking processes. to the deputy judge advocate wait to see her progress. general of the U.S. Air Force at Jessica Galbraith Adams the Pentagon. She provides lead- vanderbilt. Workforce ership, strategic planning and magazine recently published management for all Air National its national “Top 25 Game Guard legal offices. As a general, Changers” list, recognizing Meaghan ensures that the Air Jessica for making her mark in National Guard legal community the human resources profession. advances the military reserve’s Jessica, vice president of people priorities. Meaghan entered at Brad’s Deals by Shop Smart, active duty in 1992. was only the ninth employee at the well-known aggregator of Phoebe King Fox online bargains when she joined arizona state. Phoebe has the company in 2011. Under her released a bilingual early child- guidance, the company has grown hood book, Babies Nurse/Así to nearly 90 employees. She’s also se Alimentan los Bebés. Written courtesy karen kuykendall improved the hiring process and to showcase the warmth and implemented Predictive Index, beauty of nursing, the book which assesses the behavioral and features illustrations by her cognitive characteristics of candi- father-in-law, retired NBA star dates to ensure the best fit for the and watercolor artist Jim Fox. company and the new hire. Together with gentle, bilingual

44 | WINTER 2018 spent more than 30 years in the record of a client’s property and recreation, sports and tourism its contents. Having run the industry, has been president and Richmond business for more CEO of Visit Champaign County than a year, Kim has helped (Illinois) since 2009. clients get a handle on their possessions, which provides for Kimberly a more accurate insurance quote Pedersen Murphy after a flood, fire, theft or penn state. Reading, other disaster. Pennsylvania, recently welcomed a fully licensed Nature Preschool, Anna Maynard thanks to the work of Kimberly, vanderbilt. Anna, a junior president of Berks Nature. “Our majoring in Spanish and human students will spend 75 percent of and organizational devel- their time outside in an emer- opment, traveled to Arusha, gent pre-K prep curriculum,” Tanzania, in June for a service Kimberly explains. The school trip as part of the university’s will be surrounded by 100 acres Peabody Scholars program. She BOTH SIDES OF THE COIN in Reading’s Angelica Park. provided emotional support JANE WINCHESTER PARADIS “Perhaps most important, they and taught basic business skills, will bond with nature, protect English and health essentials ROLLINS what they love, and ultimately be to 16 women living with HIV — •— the next generation of conserva- or AIDS. During her last week After a career in design and fashion tionists,” Kimberly says. Berks in Africa, Anna climbed Mount Nature, an agent for the conser- Kilimanjaro, reaching the peak’s marketing for such brands as Adrienne vation of the environment in 10,000-foot summit. Vittadini, Calvin Klein Cosmetics, Barneys Berks County, Pennsylvania, has New York and Lilly Pulitzer, Jane decided been under Kimberly’s leader- Allison Booth Hushek ship since 2004. uc san diego. In an effort it was time for a change. “I loved every to reduce the use of single-use second but woke up one morning knowing Julie Sweeney Bogart plastic straws in and around I had learned so much about building ucla. Julie, whose company, Laguna Beach, California, Allison a business that it was time to do it Brave Writer, provides writing and her 5-year-old son have and language arts education begun Ridley the Seal, a nonprofit again—this time for myself.” She recently and products to homeschooling organization. After their educa- launched Jane Winchester, a jewelry families worldwide, has written tion campaign for businesses, collection offering coin pendants, bracelets The Brave Learner: Finding the children and the community, and rings symbolizing positivity, strength, Everyday Magic in Homeschool, local eateries have transitioned Learning, and Life, which is about to paper straws and provide hope and luck. Jane is inspired by the harnessing children’s natural them only upon request. Allison style of early 1900s coin jewelry known curiosity to make learning part and her son are delivering the as “American gypsy,” where the people in of everyday life. “Homeschooling message that plastic straws are offers parents the unique not only nonrecyclable, but also the nomad culture would transport their opportunity to let their children have toxic consequences on sea wealth—which took the form of coins—by take the lead in learning all animals and fish. making them into jewelry. She says she manner of subjects hidden in hopes her pieces are thoughtful reminders their passions,” Julie explains. Calla Kessler “This book shows parents how nebraska. The White of life’s milestone moments. to provide the necessary support House News Photographers structure, nurturing curiosity, Association named Calla the perseverance and joy.” Penguin 2018 Eyes of History Student Publishing will release her new Still Photographer of the Year. book, The Great Latke Cook Off. based in Texas, announced that book in February 2019. Calla is a frequent contributor The book is centered on family her products will be in 5,000 to The Washington Post. tradition, friendly competition retailers by the end of 2018. Kim Wright and delicious recipes. A lawyer, Melissa began her virginia. A licensee of Lauren Muskovitz cookie empire with a lifelong TakeStock, Kim operates its Ranalli Melissa Watson Mehall friend over four years ago. The Richmond, Virginia, location. washington univ. (st. texas. The co-founder of company features cookies and TakeStock uses 3D imaging louis). Lauren recently Meli’s Monster Cookies, a certi- cookie mixes in flavors such as

courtesy deborah green deborah courtesy to create a permanent visual published her first children’s fied gluten-free cookie company ChocoLOT and Cashewlicious.

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* Adelphi College Koch, Jean Elliott, ’35, d. 6/18 Pederson, Patricia Speight, ’43, d. 5/18 Woodard, Corrine Nelson, ’43, d. 11/17 Bengston, Janice McLennan, ’52, d. 3/18 Losey, Sant Rogers, ’46, d. 10/17 Whitmore, Pamela Strong, ’59, d. 5/18 Wunsch, Sally Mayer, ’52, d. 6/18 Bornscheuer, Esther Tiedemann, ’47, Ruby, Carmela Kempf, ’52, d. 8/17 Duke University Kansas, University of d. 4/18 California, U. of, Los Angeles Ackerley, Ginger Atwood, ’57, d. 1/18 Bills, Jeanne Chambers, ’48, d. 4/18 Gould, Natalie Rosin, ’49, d. 3/18 Beebe-Thompson, Sandra, ’53, d. 12/17 Boyd, Mary Motlow, ’33, d. 8/17 Boddington, Jeanne Popham, ’41, d. 10/17 Akron, University of Doig, Nancy Miller, ’46, d. 5/18 Egerton, Nancy Upshaw, ’43, d. 4/18 Burton, Bernadine Hall, ’38, d. 12/17 Collins, Doris Ottogalli, ’57, d. 4/18 Johnson, Laura Bower, ’42, d. 5/18 McCutcheon, Susan Strader, ’53, d. 11/17 Ferris, Virginia Rogers, ’46, d. 8/17 Oldfield, Elsie Underwood, ’50, d. 5/18 Carnegie Mellon University McFarland, Margery White, ’35, d. 3/18 Gear, Virginia Brehm, ’42, d. 12/17 Schieb, Ruth Ballard, ’42, d. 1/18 Gibson, Mary Yorke, ’44, d. 1/18 Stevens, Virginia Atkinson, ’55, d. 12/17 Hedrick, Nancy Goering, ’45, d. 1/18 Wilson, Nancy Swartz, ’44, d. 7/18 Koegler, Jean, ’44, d. 5/18 Emory University Nolan, Virginia Larue, ’48, d. 4/18 Relihan, Mary McGinty, ’49, d. 1/18 Zehnder, Marian Barnes, ’42, d. 4/18 Clarke, Betty Lou Davis, ’59, d. 12/17 Cincinnati, University of Spade, Kate Brosnahan, ’82, d. 6/18 Alabama, University of Carr, Jean Wenzel, ’45, d. 2/17 Furman University Kentucky, University of Barrineau, Patsy McMurphy, ’40, Fisk, Margaret Hollmeyer, ’43, d. 10/17 Simmons, Reilly, ’18, d. 6/18 Atinay, Libby May, ’60, d. 1/18 d. 5/18 Hauck, Janet Oberlander, ’48, d. 7/17 George Washington University Broecker, Betty Ann Pennington, ’32, Daniel, Myra Lewis, ’63, d. 11/17 Herrmann, Judith Krogh, ’62, d. 5/18 Hayes, Marilyn Schenck, ’45, d. 1/18 d. 1/18 Keeney, Carol Everest, ’70, d. 12/17 Koning, Nancy Braun, ’41, d. 1/18 Turner, Caroline Embry, ’44, d. 12/17 Corbett, Sarah Ware, ’86, d. 10/17 King, Celeste Fletcher, ’87, d. 11/17 Krumme, Dorothy Meyer, ’47, d. 4/18 Dedman, Ann Freeman, ’62, d. 12/17 McGehee, Ann Whitehurst, ’48, McCarty, Peggy O’Brien, ’47, d. 2/18 Georgia, University of Gearhiser, Lillian Clay, ’49, d. 12/17 d. 12/17 Moorman, Jeanne Seghers, ’49, d. 1/18 Brackey, Lynn, ’65, d. 6/18 Gorton, Dorothy Smith, ’64, d. 5/18 Stokes, Ruth Gebhardt, ’46, d. 1/18 Branson, Catharine Beck, ’50, d. 1/18 Allegheny College Marks, Caroline Bickel, ’51, d. 3/18 Burr, Dorothy Beiler, ’35, d. 2/18 Tillery, Jessie, ’12, d. 1/18 Pridgen, Kathryn Ginn, ’48, d. 5/18 Young, Dorothy McNeel, ’53, d. 1/18 Parfet, Jane Howk, ’52, d. 12/17 Weiss, Carol Snell, ’46, d. 10/17 Colorado College Louisiana State University Arizona State University Dummer, Jean Roberts, ’51, d. 11/17 Hillsdale College Leonhard, Albertine Stoll, ’46, d. 1/18 Culpepper, JaneAnn Foote, ’45, d. 12/17 Sheehy, Ann Dornsbach, ’60, d. 2/18 Hartwell, Sue Flenniken, ’54, d. 1/18 Foote, Toni Voelker, ’44, d. 11/17 Peters, Patricia Stewart, ’44, d. 11/17 Arizona, University of Idaho, University of Hodgson, Georgia Flournoy, ’45, d. 5/18 Eubanks, Suzanne Cristy, ’44, d. 3/18 Colorado State University Kenworthy, Helen Luke, ’35, d. 10/17 Wright, Sarah Price, ’39, d. 1/18 Merrill, Trish Cannon, ’61, d. 6/17 Taber, Phyllis Johnson, ’44, d. 7/17 Sjogren, Myrlynne Redmond, ’60, * Manitoba, University of d. 10/17 Arkansas, University of Illinois Wesleyan University Ainsworth, Audrey Philp, ’48, d. 1/18 Fisher, Susan Low, ’67, d. 10/17 Dugan, Jo Annette Halk, ’50, d. 12/17 Colorado, University of * Maryland, University of Joseph, Rozanne Read, ’46, d. 3/18 Hemphill, Martha White, ’52, d. 1/18 Honigan, Marron Spencer, ’65, d. 4/18 Grant, Ruth Porter, ’46, d. 4/18 Siders, Mary Logan, ’54, d. 5/17 Karber, Jennifer Jesson, ’79, d. 12/17 Peabody, Kathryn, ’41, d. 11/17 Jones, Peggy Watson, ’44, d. 2/18 Ulander, Jean Sage, ’50, d. 12/17 Kolesnik, Susan Canine, ’61, d. 1/18 Reardon, Marian Little, ’57, d. 11/17 Schroll, Ruth Prentice, ’42, d. 3/18 Pugh, Susie Ingram, ’57, d. 1/18 Rudolph, Betty Cunningham, ’41, d. 6/18 Illinois, University of Walker, Nancy Antrim, ’53, d. 11/17 Rapley, Rosemary Meriwether, ’50, Wallace, Joan McKay, ’50, d. 1/18 Barber, Katie England, ’83, d. 4/18 Wilson, Barbara Baker, ’53, d. 10/17 d. 10/17 Young, Joyce, ’74, d. 10/17 Eberhardt, Margaret Decker, ’60, Massachusetts, University of Auburn University * Connecticut, University of d. 10/17 Gale, Carolyn Moulton, ’50, d. 2/18 Hastey, Carol Hensley, ’68, d. 4/18 Carlson, Althea Elwell, ’56, d. 10/17 Hammond, Mary Pike, ’46, d. 5/18 Gelotte, Helen Viera, ’50, d. 4/18 Pearce, Elizabeth Stigler, ’66, d. 10/17 Fiorelli, Lynnia Beck, ’67, d. 12/17 Hensler, Barbara Bennett, ’50, d. 5/18 Marcus, Carol, ’64, d. 4/17 Graham, Marion Barrows, ’43, d. 2/18 Rector, Addie Dohme, ’56, d. 2/17 Baylor University McGill, Jean Bayles, ’45, d. 5/18 Linskey, Shirley Gray, ’58, d. 8/17 Whitmore, Joan Dodds, ’52, d. 12/17 Roberge, Shirley Carlson, ’42, d. 9/17 Everett, Patricia Stallworth, ’77, d. 11/17 Mooney, Janet Bump, ’51, d. 4/18 Hazlewood, Tara, ’05, d. 5/18 Indiana University Taylor, Shirley Stevens, ’53, d. 9/17 Hollingsworth, Daphne Davenport, ’78, Cornell University Baker, Sarah Schmidt, ’92, d. 6/18 McGill University d. 12/17 Bretschger, Priscilla Bassett, ’46, d. 1/18 Goeller, Barbara Meyer, ’55, d. 10/17 Carmichael, Colleen Fitzpatrick, ’46, Riggs, Janis Harris, ’77, d. 5/17 Broman, Marylyn Enck, ’55, d. 4/18 Griffin, Mary Jo McGuire, ’43, d. 4/18 d. 7/17 Watson, Wanda Slocum, ’77, d. 10/17 Erkins, Marion Morris, ’46, d. 12/17 Groom, Eleanor Johnson, ’51, d. 11/17 Koeniger, Noreen Haney, ’44, d. 9/17 McCurdy, Carolyn Durham, ’54, d. 10/17 Henderson, Barbara Terry, ’48, d. 6/18 * Boston University McKenzie, Jocelyn Wiley, ’54, d. 4/18 Smith, Virginia Keeler, ’45, d. 12/17 Robbins, Margaret Schricker, ’37, d. 11/17 Cort, Arlena Strong, ’42, d. 2/17 Miami University Denison University Iowa State University British Columbia, Univ. of Newkirk, Rosa Emerson, ’44, d. 3/18 Ames, Betty Bevier, ’50, d. 6/18 Dial, Susan Rippetoe, ’60, d. 9/17 Russell, Margaret Frith, ’49, d. 10/17 Wilkinson, Ruthanna Rudolph, ’40, Lehman, Suzanne Habbe, ’46, d. 4/17 DuBois, Nancy Bristow, ’49, d. 12/17 d. 11/17 Butler University Lombard, Jean Sanborn, ’37, d. 5/18 Schaffer, Cathleen Carver, ’60, d. 3/18 Michigan State University Baughey, Susan Parks, ’71, d. 9/17 Lothes, Sharon Williams, ’52, d. 1/18 Steele, Janis Houser, ’56, d. 3/18 Candler, Jean McKinnon, ’60, d. 5/17 Booher, Kay Moore, ’53, d. 3/17 McDonald, Rae Schieble, ’48, d. 10/17 Iowa, University of Mays, Joan Dillon, ’57, d. 10/17 Toth, Christina Daskas, ’88, d. 4/18 Pobst, Nancy Stewart, ’53, d. 1/18 Chappell, Marilyn Wilson, ’45, d. 1/18 Pierson, Marjorie Baugher, ’60, d. 8/17 Truax, Virginia Preston, ’44, d. 11/17 Deming, Anne Gower, ’40, d. 2/18 Duke, Beth Wiley, ’43, d. 4/18 Haley, Janet Goodell, ’39, d. 12/17 California State University, Fresno DePauw University Hutcheson, Lana Borin, ’60, d. 6/18 Kimling, Mercedes Jacques, ’47, d. 12/16 Billat, Patricia Morgan, ’56, d. 2/18 Bottomley, Ellen Mayfield, ’60, d. 8/17 Lindert, Lynn Johnson, ’45, d. 12/17 McCarty, Patricia Thourlby, ’41, d. 1/18 Carlisle, Barbara Hoyt, ’54, d. 2/18 Casagrande, Antonia, ’82, d. 10/17 Teegen, Janice Barnes, ’54, d. 12/17 O’Hara, Penelope Page, ’59, d. 4/18 Palmatier, Nadine Ford, ’58, d. 12/17 McCracken, Marcia Bogaard, ’46, d. 4/17 Wagner, Betty Thompson, ’47, d. 12/17 Pollock, Lois Luecht, ’41, d. 12/17 California, U. of, Berkeley Smith, Sara Jane Rife, ’52, d. 2/18 Kansas State University Primeau, Lorraine Salot, ’33, d. 4/18 Bailey, Jean McHenry, ’37, d. 11/17 Drake University Barger, Sara Crum, ’62, d. 4/18 Stevens, Irma Longhi, ’41, d. 11/17 Hindenlang, Katie, ’02, d. 3/18 Coolidge, Blanche Young, ’37, d. 10/17 Grecian, Patricia Base, ’66, d. 12/17 Wiesema, Idamae Gillette, ’49, d. 8/17 Jones, Mary Henning, ’45, d. 10/17 Leyda, Linda Wagler, ’57, d. 4/18 McNeil, Marilyn Heter, ’53, d. 9/17 Michigan, University of Katibah, Susan Schultz, ’75, d. 10/17 Mills, Rosemary Kramer, ’53, d. 3/18 Schraeder, Virginia Warner, ’56, d. 12/17 Butcher, Kathryn Anderson, ’60, d. 11/17

46 | WINTER 2018 Finch, Margaret Carroll, ’43, d. 3/18 Jenkins, Sara Lightburn, ’39, d. 11/17 Marquis, Linda Bellamy, ’68, d. 5/18 Nelson, Loula DeWees, ’52, d.11/17 Marling, Mary Tower, ’56, d. 10/17 St. Vincent, Jackie Smith, ’55, d. 11/17 McAlpin, Elizabeth Moore, ’48, d. 6/18 Utah, University of Navarre, Joy Daugherty, ’58, d. 8/17 Wagers, Martha Atkinson, ’42, d. 6/18 Spradley, Alice Webb, ’43, d. 1/18 Alder, Lorene Isakson, ’37, d. 6/17 Walker, Nathalie, ’70, d. 4/18 Ohio Wesleyan University White, Patricia Carstarphen, ’58, Christensen, Lois Sumner, ’56, d. 5/18 * Middlebury College Christensen, Nancy Evans, ’50, d. 5/18 d. 11/17 Cutler, Carole Ficklin, ’61, d. 5/18 Maider, Sally Newell, ’56, d. 2/18 Enochs, Nancy Williamson, ’49, d. 10/17 Wilson, Elizabeth Hemphill, ’39, d. 4/18 Lindsay, Marilyn, ’47, d. 6/18 Minnesota, University of Fox, Audrey James, ’45, d. 5/18 St. Lawrence University Schwafel, Susan Thorley, ’57, d. 1/18 Hannah, Rosemary Rathbun, ’40, d. 4/18 Hendrie, Helen Pennywitt, ’33, d. 11/17 Gandrup, Joan Eaton, ’51, d. 6/18 Strampe, Ruth Davis, ’35, d. 4/18 Hield, Madeleine Jaffray, ’44, d. 12/17 Kandare, Joan Ackerman, ’53, d. 5/18 Jordan, Alyssa, ’02, d. 12/17 Vanderbilt University Hurd, Sally Johnson, ’47, d. 8/17 Seaberg, Ann Bird, ’62, d. 10/17 Lockwood, Cynthia Vilas, ’65, d. 11/17 Kanaga, Ann, ’74, d. 4/18 Taylor, Priscilla Aspinall, ’44, d. 12/17 Ryland, George-Ann Doty, ’55, d. 5/18 Reeves, Virginia Huntley, ’38, d. 11/17 Virginia Tech Rogers, Helen Rorvig, ’37, d. 1/18 Oklahoma State University Stanford University Harr, Amy, ’96, d. 2/18 Kenfield, Sally Smith, ’56, d. 12/17 Kalkus, Pamela Johnson, ’82, d. 7/17 Mississippi, University of Washington State University Gould, Deborah Drury, ’72, d. 10/17 Moe, Norma McLain, ’52, d. 2/18 Meyers, Renee Steiner, ’79, d. 6/18 Raines, Shelli Shaffer, ’92, d. 11/17 Berry, Elaine Zediker, ’40, d. 10/17 Littlefield, Elizabeth Dexter, ’62, d. 1/18 Syracuse University Colvin, Ann Fletcher, ’60, d. 1/18 Mehlin, Becca Rasco, ’81, d. 2/18 Upp, Martha Thornton, ’58, d. 1/18 Russell, Maura, ’94, d. 11/17 Waughtal, Ann Davis, ’55, d. 6/17 Dublirer, Dorothy Cunningham, ’36, Reed, Gail Gillespie, ’65, d. 6/18 Seiler, Wynelle Hudson, ’56, d. 4/18 d. 12/17 Oklahoma, University of Schram, Johnnie Cain, ’61, d. 5/18 Tennessee, University of Petrino, Maribeth Spencer, ’44, d. 12/17 Tabor, Linda Kolwyck, ’70, d. 6/18 Berg, Frances McMillin, ’50, d. 10/17 Compton, Teresa, ’77, d. 5/18 Wood, Maureen Denman, ’56, d. 3/18 Henderson, Nell Gunn, ’48, d. 6/18 Washington University Texas A&M University Deem, Mary Ann Neher, ’42, d. 9/17 Missouri, University of Lodewick, Patricia, ’56, d. 5/18 Crow, Allison Patrick, ’97, d. 11/17 Sonnenday, Margaret Lee, ’36, d. 5/17 Burg, Janice Jamison, ’56, d. 11/17 Nichols, Mary Davis, ’35, d. 3/18 Kroenung, Mary, ’89, d. 6/18 Steiner, Susan Heath, ’43, d. 3/17 Clancy, Jane, ’44, d. 5/17 White, Ann Thompson, ’50, d. 12/17 Donovan, Sarah Seelen, ’64, d. 11/17 Oregon State University Texas Christian University Washington, University of Fick, Janna Hechler, ’91, d. 5/18 Cowne, Helen Gillard, ’46, d. 10/17 Bradley, Margaret Brown, ’63, d. 10/17 Hazelwood, Phyllis Graham, ’51, d. 10/17 Manda, Joan Gillam, ’44, d. 1/18 Downer, Elizabeth Newburgh, ’72, d. 9/17 Brown, Ellen Herring, ’62, d. 2/18 Hoonan, Barbara Teutsch, ’45, d. 1/18 Montgomery, Shirley Martin, ’50, Long, Muriel Forster, ’41, d. 1/18 Melton, Mary Ann Dilger, ’56, d. 5/18 Howe, Teddy Braunschweiger, ’54, d. 5/18 d. 12/17 Marx, Sue Musser, ’66, d. 8/17 Reavis, Lydia Stocks, ’65, d. 9/17 Kravik, Mary Lou Minor, ’42, d. 10/17 Rootes, Mary, ’46, d. 4/18 Vannice, Betty Drake, ’39, d. 5/17 Texas Tech University Padelford, Margaret Neils, ’42, d. 12/17 Smart, Lucia Smith, ’49, d. 1/18 Oregon, University of Berry, Kaye Smith, ’61, d. 12/17 Woolf, Virginia Baker, ’37, d. 2/17 White, Elizabeth Dominick, ’45, d. 3/18 Beairsto-Lamont, Elizabeth Fortt, ’53, Butler, Sue Lawson, ’54, d. 4/18 West Virginia University Williams, Myra Remley, ’47, d. 3/17 d. 4/18 Deaver, Clare Smith, ’67, d. 3/18 Byrum, Gloria Reed, ’37, d. 2/17 Monmouth College Boutwell, Anne Dielschneider, ’51, Hatch, Kathryn Leonard, ’61, d. 7/17 Carroll, Kathleen Shaffer, ’76, d. 6/18 Hall-Adkisson, Dorothy McAllister, ’49, d. 12/17 Martin, Wanda Jennings, ’55, d. 5/18 Colborn, Helen Price, ’45, d. 1/17 d. 3/17 McCollom, Catharine Cornell, ’45, d. 4/18 Noble, Laverne Estes, ’55, d. 1/18 Curry, Kathy Bragg, ’63, d. 11/17 Holdt, Betty Phillips, ’49, d. 1/18 Pennsylvania State University Rittenberry, Cynthia Lindley, ’61, d. 12/17 Hilmer, Frances Fortney, ’42, d. 5/18 Owen, Margaret Smilie, ’50, d. 2/17 Barry, Gay Chuba, ’58, d. 3/18 Thomas, Margaret Condray, ’56, d. 11/17 Preston, Mary Sue, ’73, d. 11/17 Montana, University of Clayton, Virginia Babbitt, ’45, d. 4/18 Texas, University of Raese, Joan Keeney, ’49, d. 6/18 Shamblin, Kay Arthur, ’61, d. 10/17 Flickinger, Roberta Renz, ’42, d. 12/17 Conaway, Patricia Gibson, ’45, d. 11/17 Adams, Paula Jacobs, ’54, d. 6/18 Smith, Doris Stoetzer, ’46, d. 2/18 Gastineau, Patricia Murphey, ’46, d. 10/17 Dully, Sidney Ours, ’62, d. 2/18 Allison, Lois Highams, ’40, d. 5/18 Stansbury, Elizabeth Weaver, ’42, d. 11/17 Watt, Joyce Carstensen, ’49, d. 6/18 Kleinert, Jeanne Saylor, ’41, d. 5/18 Andrews, Leah Jones, ’51, d. 4/18 Kohn, Marilyn Porter, ’52, d. 3/18 Brown, Elizabeth McPherson, ’49, d. 1/18 Sykes, Betsy Cloyd, ’48, d. 1/18 Nebraska, University of Wharton, Jane Gerwig, ’55, d. 12/17 Bahr, Peppy Wolbach, ’63, d. 5/18 Lathbury, Joyce Whitehead, ’60, d. 5/18 Bunch, Nina Findlater, ’50, d. 11/17 Whitman College Deeter, Suzaine Burgess, ’47, d. 8/17 Mitchell, Elaine Merrill, ’42, d. 3/18 Campbell, Josephine Upchurch, ’41, Hinrichs, Jane Rowan, ’55, d. 4/12 Page, Jane Watson, ’44, d. 11/17 d. 6/18 Bates, Marcia Hartley, ’41, d. 4/18 Kinsey, Dorris Newman, ’50, d. 3/18 Stevens, Mary Georgia, ’40, d. 4/18 Corrigan, Marilyn Ray, ’48, d. 1/18 Bruce, Betty Abbey, ’37, d. 2/17 Krafka, Nan Carlson, ’56, d. 4/18 Thayer, Jean Wilson, ’57, d. 1/18 Cravens, Anne Baker, ’36, d. 6/18 Dueltgen, Ann Packard, ’56, d. 5/18 Mitten, Joan Fike, ’51, d. 11/17 * Pennsylvania, University of Cuenod, Martha Moore, ’51, d. 5/18 Moritz, Derry, ’54, d. 9/17 Pegler, Jo Guenzel, ’45, d. 6/18 Bentley, Christine Palermo, ’57, d. 7/17 Goodman, Natalie McGee, ’51, d. 6/18 Shuman, Edith Williams, ’43, d. 11/17 Rolfsmeyer, Virginia Swanberg, ’47, Prewitt, Mary, ’60, d. 3/18 Greenhill, Martha Shuford, ’37, d. 5/18 Stickles, Frances Copeland, ’48, d. 1/18 d. 10/17 Harris, Eleanor, ’50, d. 11/17 Williams, Tirza Smith, ’42, d. 6/18 Pittsburgh, University of Hicks, Elizabeth Robinson, ’47, d. 1/18 Strange, Janice Harrison, ’52, d. 10/17 Jackson, Helen McLain, ’55, d. 6/17 William & Mary, College of Layton, Elsie Landram, ’49, d. 6/18 Andrews, Evelyn Bell, ’42, d. 5/18 New , University of Schaughency, Katie Black, ’42, d. 4/18 Lee, Blanche Hammon, ’43, d. 12/17 Clark, Ann Simms, ’42, d. 5/18 Arbuckle, Bebe Fisher, ’50, d. 4/18 * Puget Sound, University of Mason, Olivia Gouger, ’43, d. 5/18 Briggs, Priscilla Nicholson, ’59, d. 11/17 Fischle, Betty Bentley, ’48, d. 10/17 Anderson, Bonnie, ’66, d. 1/18 McDugald, Mimi Meredith, ’42, d. 6/18 Fitzgerald, Sandra Strong, ’57, d. 4/18 Hill, Charlotte Walker, ’49, d. 3/18 Purdue University Munn, Carolyn Culver, ’48, d. 12/17 Kane, Joan McCarthy, ’51, d. 1/18 Patterson, Marion Schreiber, ’64, d. 3/18 Parsley, Sarah Bertron, ’41, d. 6/18 Rich, Kathleen Hall, ’58, d. 12/17 Newsom, Maggie Thomas, ’52, d. 6/17 Lindsay, Ann Seitz, ’46, d. 9/15 Skillman, Judith Waite, ’58, d. 12/17 Peterson, Anna-Faye Teer, ’30, d. 1/18 Morris, Marguerite Kelly, ’64, d. 4/18 Scott, Sara Jane Cudabac, ’50, d. 11/17 Pfeiffer, Marguerite Wessels, ’52, Sullivan, Patricia Stead, ’68, d. 2/18 Spaid, Elizabeth Solbrig, ’52, d. 12/17 Parker, Jean Garde, ’59, d. 2/18 Sterrett, Marjorie Becherer, ’54, d. 4/18 d. 12/17 * North Dakota State University Rosson, Mary Potts, ’49, d. 8/17 Stine, Barbara Eversole, ’46, d. 12/17 Wisconsin, University of Stetson, Gayle McDowell, ’41, d. 10/17 Vaughan, Jeanne Wilson, ’45, d. 4/18 Smith, Ann Myers, ’45, d. 12/17 Smith, Adelaide Scott, ’49, d. 5/18 Ericson, Patricia Platten, ’62, d. 11/17 North Texas, University of Vermilion, Dorothy Asperger, ’43, d. 3/18 Garner, Georgia Trebilcock, ’41, d. 1/18 Case, Lindsey, ’11, d. 1/18 Thompson, Betty Bundy, ’48, d. 11/17 * Rollins College Thuma, Margaretta Moss, ’42, d. 1/18 Gottwald, Olive Schwendener, ’48, Northwestern University Guin, Nancy Beale, ’45, d. 1/18 Windham, Betty Wolfe, ’43, d. 1/18 d. 1/18 Briggs, Susan Anderson, ’60, d. 1/18 Smith, Hallie Haubenestel, ’58, d. 9/17 Miller, Elizabeth Harper, ’50, d. 9/17 Toronto, University of Davis, Mary Jo Stroud, ’37, d. 4/18 Swiney, Carolyn Haas, ’65, d. 6/17 Pomainville, Martha, ’65, d. 5/18 Dowsett, Jane Bowden, ’44, d. 6/18 Edwards, Elizabeth Emrich, ’51, d. 3/17 * San Jose State University Tesch, Nancy McVeigh, ’55, d. 4/18 Langenhahn, Ellen Hering, ’54, d. 10/17 Graham, Beverly Minhinnick, ’54, Weil, Theanne Kirkby, ’57, d. 4/18 Chadwick, Barbara Danel, ’49, d. 2/18 d. 6/18 Moore, Susan Nesbitt, ’56, d. 1/17 Collins, Helen Kotsiopulos, ’57, d. 3/18 Wyoming, University of Sansone, Julia McFetridge, ’59, d. 4/18 Ramsay, Beatrice Thorkelson, ’44, Senour, Jean Myers, ’49, d. 6/18 d. 10/17 Alexander, Greta Petz, ’47, d. 10/17 Ohio State University Small, Carol Bahr, ’53, d. 2/18 Walker, Gretchen Ratz, ’47, d. 7/18 Blythe, Leslie, ’78, d. 1/18 Bierly, Anne Long, ’57, d. 8/17 South Carolina, University of Whitton, Sheila Hiller, ’37, d. 11/17 Fields, Rosalie, ’43, d. 8/17 Egert, Janet Jackson, ’45, d. 6/18 Prewitt, Deborah, ’75, d. 3/18 Greensides, Margaret Downing, ’41, Gilligan, Jean Wiedetz, ’42, d. 11/17 Tulane University d. 4/18 Graf, Catherine Schroeder, ’43, d. 11/17 Southern California, U. of Geary, Frances Wendland, ’53, d. 6/18 Kagi, Ann Flemming, ’71, d. 1/18 Hadley, Ruth Reynolds, ’45, d. 6/18 Hunter, Shawna, ’76, d. 10/17 Horton, Charlotte Wood, ’45, d. 2/18 Prine, Margaret Bolle, ’41, d. 11/17 Haley, Christina Vogel, ’70, d. 12/17 O’Mara, Helen Rollow, ’50, d. 11/17 Tupper, Joan Morrison, ’49, d. 11/17 Small-Williams, Ann Kelsay, ’52, d. 12/17 Heid, Sally Reardon, ’51, d. 1/18 Thompson, Diane Major, ’51, d. 6/17 Tulsa, University of Hinton, Doris Seikel, ’52, d. 1/18 Southern Methodist University Cox, Joanne Harrell, ’52, d. 8/17 * Indicates inactive chapters. Ishikawa, Andrea Evanko, ’82, d. 12/17 Gowan, Grace Woolley, ’52, d. 4/18 McNatt, Jan Butler, ’61, d. 12/17 Submitted April 1, 2018, to June 30, 2018.

GET INVOLVED WWW.KAPPA.ORG | 47 LSU’s Golden Girls first took the field in 1959. From the early days of glittering capes and white boots, the uniform has seen many changes, but there were few upgrades for the past 15 years. Enter New Orleans- based designer and former Golden Girl Suzanne Perron and her new design. Offering a fresh take with a nod to the past, the new uniforms are a vision of tradition and glamour. Suzanne and senior Allie Dornier give a peek into what it’s like to wear the uniform in remixA Golden Opportunity front of thousands of LSU fans.

Allie Dornier Facing off Suzanne Perron senior at Louisiana State Louisiana State, designer of bridal and debutante gowns

I love how the gold fleur-de-lis design continues Favorite detail of the My design of the linear fleur-de-lis, on the back of the uniform. Our previous wrapping the waist and adorning the back. uniforms only had that design on the front. uniform design?

Walking onto the field for pregame in Fondest memory while Without a doubt, my very first pregame Tiger Stadium for the first time. in uniform? performance in Tiger Stadium. It has to be witnessed to understand.

Getting to know alumni and being part of Doors opened from The opportunity to design a long-living tradition. I performed in so many being a Golden Girl? these uniforms! places, like the bowl games in Orlando, Florida, and even marched at Disney’s Magic Kingdom.

I always had jitters no matter what! I was How to beat The Golden Girls begin each performance always more excited than anxious. opportunity with a prayer circle, a tradition performance jitters? going back nearly 60 years.

Always present yourself with class. Always Expectations The expectations are not unlike that of being look and act presentable. We are representing of being a Golden a Kappa. Always be poised and gracious, as both the Golden Girls and the Tiger Band as a students and leaders. whole at all times. Girl when not in uniform?

Being chosen for my spot in our line. It is in Proudest Golden Watching these young ladies take the the front: the first to step out for pregame in field in the uniforms I designed. It is still hard front of the entire stadium. Girl moment? to fathom that my mom driving me down to LSU 31 years ago for tryouts one Saturday morning would lead to this, as well as the amazing career I have had in between.

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