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KEITH MOSHER/KAM PRODUCTIONS PHOTO ON THE COVER: Danielle Riley and David Coar were wed July 8, 2016 in a ceremony at Gordon’s Pond. 18 Origins of bridal customs

Special Sections Editor Jen Ellingsworth 21 Folklore, myths, good-luck charms Production Coordinator Edwin Krumm

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eddings are special moments for couples and the guests Wthey invite to share their happiness on their big days. Beautiful weddings require substantial planning, as every last detail must be considered for couples to enjoy the wedding of their dreams. Flowers play a big role in many weddings, and couples can add beauty and ambiance to the event by using floral arrangements in various ways. Mod- ern floral arrangements are stunning, and many couples may not know that herbs, spices and flowers have been used in weddings for centuries. Today, flowers are used to decorate wedding venues, impart sweet fra- grances and complement formal attire, but in ancient times they were used differently. Flowers were used to bestow good luck on the couple and keep bad omens away. Brides carried aro- APART FROM BOUQUETS, flowers can enhance weddings in several different ways and take Continued on page 7 their cue from historical traditions.

BOUQUET GLOSSARY

NOSEGAY POMPANDER POSY HAND-TIED A compact cluster of A flower-covered ball shape One of the more popular A classic choice, it’s simply flowers, wrapped tight and tied with a ribbon. Great for options, it’s a small, round a dense bunch of flowers cut to one uniform length. flower girls. bouquet tied with ribbon. loosely tied together.

COMPOSITE CASCADE PAGEANT ROUND Made up of different petals A waterfall-like “spill” of Similar to the cascade, but The more buttoned-up or buds wired together on a blooms either anchored in a slightly more compact and version of the hand-tied single stem. holder or hand tied. pulled together. bouquet, tied with ribbon.

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or piece of twine so that the bride and groom can wear these flowers in Flowers the way they were worn by ancient Continued from page 6 Greeks and Romans. When coupled matic flowers and spices to keep evil with Grecian-styled wedding gowns, spirits from spoiling the festivities, brides can look like beautiful god- and some even tucked bulbs of garlic desses on their wedding days. into their bouquets. In ancient Greece • Fragrant favors: Tuck dried rose and Rome, both the bride and groom petals and other fragrant flowers into wore garlands made out of strong- sachets that are embroidered with smelling herbs and flowers around the wedding date and couple’s names. their necks or heads. These wreaths curred twice a year, once during sum- Guests can use these sachets to keep were considered gifts of nature, and mer and then again at Christmastime. clothing smelling fresh in drawers or thus extremely appropriate for a wed- Because many weddings took place in as subtle air fresheners around the ding. Traditionally, bridesmaids would the spring, flowers were used to mask house. be responsible for fashioning these bodily odors. Not only were flowers • Edible flowers: Ask the caterer floral components. In ancient Sweden, and herbs carried, but they also would to make meals flower-friendly by young girls would carry small bou- be sewn into clothing. including some edible blooms in the quets of fragrant herbs down the aisle Modern brides and grooms may salad or as a garnish on meals. and the groom would put thyme in his no longer see their wedding days as • Raining petals: In lieu of bubbles pocket. These aromatics were thought times for opportunistic evil spirits. But or birdseed, guests can shower the to help keep trolls at bay. that doesn’t mean that couples cannot newlyweds with rose petals after the Besides warding off spirits or hun- borrow from ancient traditions and in- ceremony. gry trolls, flowers also served more corporate flowers into their weddings • Memorial: Some couples like to practical purposes throughout his- in various ways. honor departed family members. tory. During the Middle Ages, people • Wreaths and garlands: Ask the Floral arrangements with small bathed less frequently than they do florist to weave small flower buds, ber- placards can make for fitting memori- today. Bathing might only have oc- ries and vines to a headband, wreath als.

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ature can make a couple's · Establish a cutoff time. Depend- of your final decision. wedding day that much more ing on how remote the ceremony · Provide umbrellas. Some in- Nspecial. Beautiful backdrops location is, couples might be able to clement weather may not be enough like ocean waves or rolling country wait until a few hours before their to deter couples or guests from brav- hills lend a lot to a wedding, making weddings to decide if they will still ing the great outdoors. Couples getting the day even more special for couples tie the knot outdoors. Make the call married in the summer may be able and their guests. earlier if your wedding is to be held at to withstand a summer shower, but But Mother Nature is the inherent an especially remote location. But no provide guests with umbrellas just risk of hosting an outdoor wedding. matter where the wedding is, establish to be safe. The umbrellas will make Weather is unpredictable, and couples a cutoff time to let guests know if the for a nice wedding gift, and hopefully who hope to tie the knot in the great wedding will be indoors or outdoors. couples and guests won't even need to outdoors must develop a contin- Include such information on your use them. gency plan just in case Mother Nature wedding website and/or invitations. · Insure the wedding. Couples decides to rain on the parade. While Use a social media platform such as outdoor wedding venues often have Facebook or Twitter to inform guests Continued on page 13 backup venues in place should the weather prove uncooperative, couples can take some additional steps to ensure their rainy wedding days still go off without a hitch. · Find a place to take photos. Be ready Wedding photos document a couple's big day, and many couples arrange Be confident for outdoor photos whether they're tying the knot indoors or outdoors. But couples must arrange for a place to take photos in case outdoors is not an option. If possible, walk the grounds of your ceremony or recep- Make your tion site with your photographer in the weeks before the wedding to scout First Dance out potential areas to shoot indoors in case the weather is not cooperating. Ask a representative from the venue to Fabulous! recommend potential photo locations around the building. · Consider a tent. Some wedding venues are exclusively outdoors, meaning they don't have backup Visit Our Booth February 17th options indoors on their premises. If Bride & Groom’s Night Out at The Cheer Community Center that's the case, couples can rent tents to serve as their safety nets. Tents can for a chance to win a $300 Dance Package be expensive, and some couples may not want to pay for a tent they ulti- mately may not use. But tents may be & a couple's only option if their chosen Dance Moves Manners venue has no indoor alternatives. dancemovesandmanners.com · 302.222.3755 FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 13 Did you know? » Engaged couples often ask their closest friends and family members to be part of their wedding ceremonies. Children often participate in weddings and can add joviality to this special occasion. Some houses of worship restrict child participation to kids of a certain age, so it's best to check with clergy regarding their rules before including kids in the wedding party. If children need to be coaxed down the aisle or are prone to disruptive behavior, it may be best to give them another role, such as handing out bubbles or birdseed after the wedding. Rainy Continued from page 12 who are hosting destination weddings on tropical isles should look into insuring their weddings. Such islands might be susceptible to harmful storms like hurricanes that can prevent weddings from taking place. Insurance can cover couples for a host of unforeseen circumstances, including weather. Rentals for all of life’s moments

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Origins of bridal customs Chances are those who have attended a wedding have witnessed some popular traditions take place. The bride wears a veil, a court of wedding attendants accompanies the bride and groom, and birdseed, rice or flower petals are tossed. But have you ever wondered why? The wedding customs are ripe with tradition and harken back to days when superstition and myth often ruled the day.

• Wedding rings. Wearing of wedding rings dates back to ancient Egypt. The round shape of a ring • Throwing rice. Today it has symbolizes eternal love. The ring become de rigueur to blow bubbles, is worn on the fourth finger of the toss birdseed or release doves when left hand because it is believed this the bride and groom leave the house finger has a blood vessel that goes of worship newly betrothed. That's directly to the heart. because savvy individuals found that raw rice can pose a hazard to birds pecking in the area. However, • Bouquet. Nowadays, the bride rice throwing is an old custom that carries a beautiful bouquet of flow- dates back to the Middle Ages, ers. But the purpose of the bouquet when wheat or rice where thrown to held different meanings in the past. symbolize fertility for the couple. Saracen brides carried orange blos- soms for fertility. Others carried a combination of herbs and flowers to • Wedding cake: The traditional ward off evil spirits with their aroma. wedding cake evolved from Roman times when the cake was originally • Kissing the bride. In older times, a made from wheat. It was broken kiss symbolized a legal bond. There- over the bride’s head to ensure fore, the bride and groom kissed to fertility. All of the guests eat a piece seal the deal on their betrothal. for good luck. Single women used to • Bridesmaids. There may be argu- place a piece of wedding cake under ments over dresses and how many • Ring bearer. The boy carrying a their pillows in the hopes of finding bridesmaids to have in a wedding their own husbands. pillow down the aisle came about party, but in ancient times it was in Victorian England. The boy’s job “the more the merrier.” That’s depended upon the length of the • Father accompanying the bride: because bridesmaids were another bride’s train. If she had a short train, This tradition symbolizes that the measure to keep the bride safe he would carry the rings or coins to bride’s father endorses the choice against evil spirits. Essentially the symbolize prosperity. If she had a in husbands and is presenting his bridesmaids were decoys for the long train, he would be in charge of daughter as a pure bride to that spirits - dressing like the bride to carrying and arranging her train. man. confuse the spirits or maybe help trick them into leaving the bride alone. FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 19 Did you know? • The timing of when a couple cuts the wedding cake can have a specific mean- Custom gifts for the ing. Long ago, the cake was usually cut at the very end of the reception and would signal to the guests that it was the end of discerning giver. the festivities. Today, cutting the cake is an unspoken signal vickersfinegifts.com | 954.610.9284 that represents that the formal wedding is nearing a close, and guests who would like to leave can do so without worry of being rude. Many couples will cut the cake right after dinner as a courtesy to older guests who may want to get started on their trips home. This affords them the chance to make an earlier exit, rather than staying through the dancing that could extend into the wee hours of the night or missing the cake entirely. Cutting the cake mid-reception also serves another practical purpose for couples who are paying a photographer by the hour. Photographers typically go home after the cake cutting, so a mid-reception cutting can save couples a substantial amount of money.

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BRIDAL SHOWERS are steeped in tradition, but today’s bridal showers continue to veer off the beaten path. Wedding showers break from tradition ain showers on a wedding day • Couples’ showers: Modern particular activity. For example, ladies may bring good luck, but they couples who like to be all-inclusive may be treated to a day at the spa. Rare seldom coveted. However, are now planning bridal showers that Other ideas include horseback rid- a different type of shower altogether cater to mixed audiences. Dubbed a ing at a stable or a day at the ballpark. is often highly anticipated and can “couple shower,” these parties include Because hosting an activity shower help couples feel like they’re one in a female and male friends and relatives. for dozens of people may get expen- million. Gifts are still the main focus of the sive, these types of showers may be Wedding showers are gift-giving event, but they’re varied and include reserved for only your closest friends parties held for couples about to get guy-friendly items within the mix of and family members. married. The custom began in the household goods. • Bride-involved showers: The nineteenth century and continues • Power showers: Many are idea of walking into a room and be- to present day, primarily in North familiar with the terms “man cave” ing surprised by friends and family America and Australia. Guests tra- and “bromance,” but few may know members is appealing to some brides- ditionally “shower” the bride-to-be that there are now wedding showers to-be but not everyone. Some brides with all the necessities (and some fun geared entirely around the groom. prefer not to be surprised by a shower extras) that she will need after she Known as “power showers,” these and actually would like to have a role ties the knot. These gifts will help the events focus on the groom-to-be, who in the planning of the party. However, soon-to-be-married couple establish a is showered with a bevy of gadgets this is delicate ground on which to home together. and power tools that are certain to tread, considering there may be dif- Bridal showers are steeped in stock his future garage. The parties are ferences over where the party is held tradition, but today’s bridal showers decidedly more testosterone-friendly and even the overall experience of the continue to veer off the beaten path. and can include golf outings, poker party. Nowadays, bridal showers feature fun nights or action movie flicks as pos- These types of showers should be and games much like a party having sible themes. discussed before any plans are made, nothing to do with a wedding. • Destination/activity show- and tasks should be delegated in TheKnot.com, a website that aims to ers: Rather than having guests hang accordance with those plans. It is help couples plan their weddings and around a restaurant watching gift after customary for a bridal shower to take all the events leading up to the big day, gift get unwrapped, some bridal par- place before a wedding. New trends identifies these key trends in modern ties opt to throw an activity shower. have emerged that are shaking up the bridal showers. These showers are focused around a way showers are planned and held. FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 21 Folklore, myths and good luck charms

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• Engaged couples often ask their cycle. During this period, newly married Did you know? closest friends and family members to couples drank mead (which accounts for be part of their wedding ceremonies. the "honey") throughout their first month Children often participate in weddings of marriage (or for a full cycle of the and can add joviality to this special moon), as mead was a beverage many occasion. However, it's important to believed to be an aphrodisiac. consider a child's age and maturity before • Though the idea that white wedding having him or her be part of the wedding. dresses symbolize virginity and purity is Some houses of worship restrict child often cited as the reason behind wedding participation to kids of a certain age, so dresses being white, a 2014 exhibit at it's best to check with clergy regarding the Victoria & Albert Museum in London their rules before including kids in the indicated that white wedding dresses wedding party. were a symbol of wealth and had little, if anything, to do with virginity. The • There are various theories as to the exhibit, titled “Wedding Dresses 1775- • Many people feel the type of flowers origin of the word "honeymoon." One 2014,” noted that, during the 18th and chosen for wedding ceremonies such theory suggests the word traces its 19th centuries, white wedding dresses symbolize different things. While some origins to the Old English phrase "hony indicated a family could afford to buy a couples may make their final decision moone," which suggests the honeymoon dress the bride would wear only once. on wedding day flowers based cost, they was initially steeped in cynicism. "Hony" During that time, white dresses were may be surprised to know what different is a reference to honey and, the theory especially difficult to clean and that made flowers have traditionally symbolized. suggests, refers to the strong feelings of it impractical for any but the wealthy For example, according to TheKnot.com, affection and sweetness newly married to purchase dresses that would likely a multiplatform resource for all things couples harbor and display for each other. never be worn a second time. England’s nuptial, roses have long been considered However, "moone" is a reference to how Queen Victoria, who married Albert of a symbol of beauty and love. Writers and fleeting this period of time is and how it Saxe-Coburg in 1840, is widely credited poets alike have long relied on roses as is likely to change as quickly as the moon with popularizing the white wedding metaphors for emotion, beauty and true changes. One rosier theory as to the dress. White dresses remain a traditional love. Lily of the valley is another popular origin of the word "honeymoon" suggests and popular choice today, though many flower that’s more than just a natural the word dates back to the fifth century, brides opt for various shades of white if beauty. Though lily of the valley is one when calendars were based on the moon not an entirely different color. of the more expensive flowers couples can choose for their weddings, some legends link the flower to happiness, while followers of England’s royal family no doubt remember that lily of the valley was the flower chosen by Duchess of Say Cambridge Kate Middleton for her 2011 wedding to Prince William.

• Historically, June has been the most popular month for getting married. But some numbers now indicate that July and even October have begun to edge out June as the most popular months to tie the knot. The June wedding tradition may be traced back to the ancient Romans. Romans honored Juno, the goddess of marriage and childbirth, and the month of June was named after her, so it is at the fitting that weddings take place in her namesake month. As centuries passed, June remained a popular month to get Beach married. June was a prime time for people to come out after a long winter and take communal baths in the fifteenth The Rehoboth Beach and Dewey Beach Resort Area century. In addition, June weddings offers venue space, cozy accommodations, caterers, florists, meant children conceived after betrothal officiants, and more to make your day extra special! would be born close to or during the following spring. This helped assure youngsters' survival during the rough Contact the Rehoboth Beach-Dewey Beach Chamber of Commerce for info! and often lean months of winter. Spring 302-227-6446 · www.Beach-Fun.com births would not conflict with workers' demanding schedules during the autumn Funded in part by Southern Delaware Tourism harvest, either. FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 35 Did You Know? » • The modern bridal shower may trace its origins the 1890s. The Old Farmer's Almanac says the first bridal shower hostess filled a paper parasol with small presents and turned it over the head of the bride-to-be. Soon the concept caught on, and many other women began "showering" future brides in such or any Special Occasion you may be planning. a manner. Naturally, as presents became larger and heavier, the tradition of literally showering the bride with gifts was modi- fied - but the name has stuck. Bridal showers are designed to equip couples with many of the necessities to start their new life together. This custom is believed to have evolved from an old dowry system, in which a bride was expected to bring valuables to the marriage. The dowry was originally intended as compensation for the burden of support- ing a wife placed on the groom. Some parents of the bride were not rich enough to afford an ample dowry, so friends and family members would offer small gifts to help offset this financial responsibility. Today, both bride and groom are equal in the marriage, bringing together their wealth. Showers are still held regardless of the financial need of the bride as a way to offer good wishes.

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“DANCE IS A LITTLE INSANITY THAT Shall DOES US ALL A LOT OF GOOD.” - EDWARD DEMBY we dance? “GET YOUR BODY OUT OF THE WAY Social dancing: Right AND LET YOUR SPIRIT SOAR!” - IBRAHIM FARRAH attitude, good instructor feel foolish at the beginning. It's OK; it makes us teachable. It's an exhilarat- “YOU DON’T STOP DANCING FROM can make difference ing feeling to learn something new, and to conquer old fears. To feel the GROWING OLD; YOU GROW OLD By Yvonne Marie Cimone joy of movement. FROM STOPPING TO DANCE.” Director of Dance Moves and Manners Imagine the exhilaration of doing a jitterbug or salsa - feet flying, laughing - UNKNOWN ocial dancing is dancing that is and sharing a moment with a special often required for weddings and partner. Letting go and feeling like a “DANCE IS BIGGER THAN THE other events throughout our lives. child again is priceless. S PHYSICAL BODY. THINK BIGGER It can be daunting for some. The first Consider the bride, elegantly dance of the bride and groom; the dressed in white, dancing a waltz or THAN THAT. WHEN YOU EXTEND father-daughter dance; the mother- foxtrot with her father or her groom YOUR ARM, IT DOESN’T STOP AT THE son dance; anniversary celebrations; or partner. The look is powerful and proms; parties and quinceaneras. The graceful, but it’s not just physical. END OF YOUR FINGERS, BECAUSE right attitude and a good instructor The gracefulness comes from some- YOU’RE DANCING BIGGER THAN can make a difference and help you thing deep within the soul and the learn, laugh and dance. dance helps us find and tap into that THAT: YOUR DANCING SPIRIT.” Maya Angelou is quoted as say- part of us. - JUDITH JAMISON ing: “Everything in the universe has rhythm. Everything dances.” I meet students who learn easily and those who find it difficult to let go and learn. The freedom to learn is Plan Your Wedding often thwarted by how a person ap- proaches dance. Attitudes such as “I can't do this,” “I don't have rhythm,” “I will never use it, it’s not my thing”, “I can’t let go.” Take a lesson and trust a teacher. With Us. They understand. They can get you through this. They can make it fun, WEDDING CEREMONIES · RECEPTIONS and they can make you shine. BRIDAL SHOWERS · ANNIVERSARIES Whether you learn just one dance ENGAGEMENT PARTIES · AND MORE! for a wedding or go on to learn social dance for a lifetime of fun, you need to trust a teacher to get you there. I understand the fear; I often wept in classes and was frustrated beyond belief. More than 20 years later, I still take lessons and I still get frustrated. But I love what it gives me back in tangible and intangible gifts, including confidence, grace, boldness, a social life, friends and connections. Find your inner child We grow up. We get serious, and we never want to look foolish or lose lavenderﬁ eldsde.com · 302.684.1514 control, ever. Learning social dance can make us 18864 Coolspring Rd., Milton, DE FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 37 Responsibilities of the wedding party hen asked to play a role in the wedding of a friend or Wfamily member, most people are honored and willing to do what- ever it takes. That willingness to be helpful is often a blessing, as wedding party participants each have their own unique responsibilities. Maid of honor and best man The maid of honor and best man are counterparts in the wedding. The bride and groom's right hand woman and man, respectively, the maid of honor and best man are often siblings or very close friends of the bride or groom. Though their responsibilities are similar, the maid of honor and best man don't have completely identical BARNYARD PHOTOGRAPHY PHOTO roles. BETHANY ROTH IS ALL SMILES, as she’s surrounded by her bridesmaids and maids of hon- The maid of honor might have the or on her wedding day to Nick Roth, May 21, 2016. most responsibilities of anyone aside from the bride and groom. The maid The maid of honor's duties also extend reception that night. of honor will help the bride shop for to the wedding day itself, when she The best man's role includes orga- her dress and must also plan the bridal will be expected to help the bride get shower and the bachelorette party. dressed and toast the new bride at the Continued on page 46 A BETTER SMILE from YES through I DO. Get the beautiful smile you deserve before your wedding with lnvisalign treatment. With results that start to show in as little as a few months, our clear removable aligners let you smile from your engagement photos all the way down the the aisle. See if Invisalign treatment is right for your wedding journey.

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Delaware’s Cape Region offers dozens of unique locations for receptions. Whether your guest list Be our guest includes 20 or 200, the perfect place awaits... BETHANY BEACH house provides an elegant setting with teams stand to make dreams come true. floor-to-ceiling windows and panoramic For information contact Juli Mills at 302- The Addy Sea views. Bear Trap also has an array of pic- 539-0299 or email juli@99sealevel. 99 Ocean View Parkway turesque locations for wedding ceremo- com. 302-539-3707 nies and a gorgeous lawn off the Dunes Step back in time to an era when wed- Room that is perfect for a classy tent. BRIDGEVILLE dings were intimate, relaxed and exqui- Bear Trap’s team of event specialists is site. The Addy Sea bed and breakfast available to plan every detail, from menu Jimmy’s Grille offers oceanfront elegance combined customization to theme and décor con- Route 13A with Victorian charm. ception. Go to beartrapdunes.com. 302-337-8868 The restaurant’s Bridgeville Banquet Bear Trap Dunes 99 Sea Level Center, adjacent to Jimmy’s Grille, is Clubhouse Drive 99 Hollywood St. available for weddings. Jimmy’s offers a 302-537-5600 302-539-0299 full menu of home-style favorites. The Dunes Room at Bear Trap is a great Oceanfront location combined with Continued on page 39 place for a wedding reception. The club- skilled culinary and event-planning FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 39

DEWEY BEACH Hyatt Place 1301 Coastal Highway 302-581-3311 The complete wedding experience - ceremonies on the beach or bay and celebrations in style at the Lighthouse Cove and room accommodations at the Hyatt Place in Dewey Beach. Indian River Life-Saving Station Delaware Seashore State Park 302-227-6991 Located south of Dewey Beach within the Delaware Seashore State Park, the Indian River Life-Saving Station is an authentic 1876 United States Life-Saving Station and a beautifully restored historic site. To the east there is the picturesque Atlantic; to the west is the sunset and Rehoboth Bay. The museum has beach access via a private pedestrian dune crossing. The site accommodates approximately 250 guests. Caterers are required to be registered with Delaware State Parks, and a list of those certified is available.

ANGIE MOON PHOTO MEG AND RYAN FALGOWSKI reflect on their wedding September 24, 2016. The couple en- Continued on page 40 joyed their wedding reception at the Lewes Yacht Club.

2016 40 WEDDINGS 2017 FEBRUARY 17, 2017 GUIDE TO VENUES Continued from page 39 DEWEY BEACH Ivy Dagsworthy Ave. and Rehoboth Bay deweybeachlife.com 302-227-3888 Bayfront restaurant offering a panoramic view of the bay, a private beach for seating and attention to detail in the great resort town of Dewey Beach. Go to deweybeachlife.com for more information, including menu packages.

DOVER Biggs Museum of American Art 406 Federal St. 302-674-2111, Ext. 101 biggsmuseum.org Biggs Museum of American Art provides ANGIE MOON PHOTO a unique and intimate backdrop for all ANN AND JUSTIN WALL of Cogan Station, Pa. enjoyed a wedding reception at the Indian Riv- your special wedding events, including er Life-Saving Station on June 25, 2016. weddings, rehearsal dinners and bridal every step of the way to create a fairytale the exclusive caterer for all events at the showers. wedding reception. The banquet hall may center. See the website for prices and be broken down into two or three smaller more information. Maple Dale Country Club spaces to accommodate a ceremony 180 Maple Dale Circle and reception. Lighthouse Catering is Continued on page 42 302-674-4951, Ext. 2 mapledaleclub.com A beautiful, scenic location in central Delaware, Maple Dale Country Club features elegant banquet rooms and attentive service. Custom-designed menus Lewes, Delaware and off-site catering are available. Venue The perfect setting for your special day also features an outdoor veranda for a ceremony and/or reception. Member- ship is not required to host an event.

GEORGETOWN The Brick Hotel on The Circle 18 The Circle 302-855-5800 thebrickhotel.com The Brick Hotel On The Circle blends the old with the new and provides a classic, historic setting, conveniently located in the heart of Sussex County on the circle in Georgetown. Its 14 boutique- in an historic year-round town located near beautiful bay and ocean style guest rooms, multiple private dining beaches. Inns, Motels, B&Bs and Restaurants offer banquet space and rooms and full-service restaurant make it off-premises catering. an all-in-one shop for wedding celebrations. CHEER Community Center 302-645-8073 20520 Sand Hill Road 302-854-9500 877-465-3937 cheerde.com www.leweschamber.com CHEER’s Community Center is located on Sand Hill Road in Georgetown. Cheer Hospitality Division will help guide you FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 41 42 WEDDINGS 2017 FEBRUARY 17, 2017 GUIDE TO VENUES Continued from page 40 GEORGETOWN Marvel Carriage Museum 510 S. Bedford St. 302-855-9660 The Lynch Building is decorated with a collection of antiques and has a dining hall to suit a large number of guests. It has played host to wedding receptions, graduation parties, anniversary parties and general get-togethers. Sussex Pines Country Club 22426 Sussex Pines Road 302-856-6283 Sussex Pines Country Club offers a variety of packages, including buffets and hors d’oeuvres selections. A banquet manager supervises receptions and KEITH MOSHER/KAM PRODUCTIONS PHOTO works closely with the bride, groom and NICOLE SIMONE AND BRAD JACOBS were wed June 11, 2016, and enjoyed a reception at their families to ensure that everything Baywood Greens. goes smoothly. The facility can accom- irisheyespub.com 50 to 200-plus guests, The Lewes Room modate up to 250 people by combining Celebrate your special occasion in the offers full on- and off-site coordination as both its banquet rooms. Sussex Pines well as a list of preferred vendors. offers a full-service catering staff. No Lewes Room, where aa professional staff will help put together wedding packages outside caterers are permitted. Clients Continued on page 44 must supply their own cake; no cutting to fit your style, taste and budget. From fees apply. LEWES Cape May-Lewes Ferry Make us a part of 302-644-6012 Set sail aboard the ferry or enjoy a unique the Celebration! special event, including wedding ceremonies and receptions at the Lewes Ferry Alcohol-Infused Ice Creams, Terminal. The ferry specializes in groups Sherbets, and Sorbets. of 75-100 guests. Unique Cold Treats The Covered Bridge Inn 30249 Fisher Road for 302-542-9605 Special Occasions! thecoveredbridgeinn.com A historic dairy barn event center nestled in the middle of expansive bucolic Eat, Drink, One Scoop farmland provides the setting for rustic, elegant weddings. and be Merry... at a Time! The Inn at Canal Square 122 Market St., Lewes 302-644-3377 Waterfront in the heart of Lewes, The Inn at Canal Square provides a picturesque setting. Wedding packages include 100% Natural wedding and/or reception space, tables, Ingredients chairs, linens, an onsite coordinator and preferred rates for overnight guests. (302) 947-9497 Irish Eyes Pub & Restaurant www.blottogelato.com 213 Anglers Road 302-645-6888 FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 43 Did You Know? »

• According to the 2015 Real Wed- dings Study from the premier multiplatform wedding resource The Knot, the most popular month for couples to get engaged is December. Sixteen percent of survey respondents became engaged in the final month of the calendar year. The survey also found that the average length of a couple's engagement is now 14.5 months. Where June once was the most popular month of the year to tie the knot, today's couples are now heading down the aisle most often in October. Seven- teen percent of weddings now occur in October, closely followed by 15 percent in September. And at what age are couples saying their "I dos"? The average marry- ing age for a bride is 29 and it is 31 for the groom.

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26089 Long Neck Road, Unit 5 The Rookery (Two locations) GUIDE TO VENUES 302-945-3551 The Rookery North – 6152 Rehoboth Continued from page 42 The CHEER Center at Long Neck is one Blvd., Milford, 302-422-9745 of the largest facilities in the area. The The Rookery – South – 27052 Broadkill LEWES main room can accommodate 150 people Rd., Milton, 302-684-3103 seated banquet style or more than 200 The Rookery’s two great locations feature American Legion Post 17 seated auditorium style. full, on-site reception services including 113 American Legion Road The facility is available evenings and buffets, plated meal and food stations. 302-645-1751 weekends. Beautifully decorated, the Off-site catering services are also avail- The legion has an outdoor pavilion that room can be directly lit from overhead, or able, and services are tailored to meet can accommodate up to 200 people to with indirect lighting around the walls for your needs and budget. Contact the cor- celebrate your special event. Our event added ambiance. Centrally located fire- responding event coordinators for your coordinator will help with your plans place, dance floor, state-of-the-art sound special day. and can make recommendations for system, catering and arrangements for local food/catering and entertainment. bar services are also available. Post provides tables and chairs, and MILLSBORO the pavilion may be decorated. Call for MILTON The Cordrey Center for more information on member and 30366 Cordrey Road nonmember rental rates. Lavender Fields 302-682-9080 18864 Coolspring Road thecordreycenter.com Lewes Senior Center 684-1514 310 Nassau Park Road Grow the wedding of your dreams at The lavenderfieldsde.com Cordrey Center. This garden-centered 302-645-9293 Beautiful country setting, surrounded by event and wedding venue located in The Lewes Senior Center can accommo- fields of beautiful lavender in a working Millsboro features endless enchanting date multiple seating styles for up to 215 lavender farm. Let Lavender Fields at gardens. The facility offers The Secret guests. Call for payment and rate details. Warrington Manor make your wedding Garden (a private garden for ceremonies) an event to remember. Available for and The Cordrey Center venue for recep- Nassau Valley Vineyards wedding ceremonies, receptions, bridal tions up to 150 guests. Discounted plant 32165 Winery Way, Nassau Commons showers, anniversaries, engagement par- rentals are offered to clients as well as 302-645-9463 ties and more. wedding centerpiece designs. Several different spaces are available at Nassau Valley Vineyards. The facility has no in-house catering service, however a list of preferred caterers is available. The Virden Conference and Retreat Shrewsbury String Quartet Center at the University of Delaware We specialize in Beach Weddings 700 Pilottown Road, Lewes 302-645-4100 Ceremony $775.00 Quartet, $650.00 Trio or $525.00 Duo The Virden Center at the University of Delaware can accommodate approximately 200 guests. A full wedding package, charged per person, includes hors d’oeuvres and bar, a four-course meal, dancing, one overnight room rental, cen- terpieces, linens and a champagne toast.

LONG NECK The Clubhouse at Baywood Greens Route 24 Long Neck 302-945-8884 baywoodgreens.com The Clubhouse at Baywood Greens offers a outdoor garden complete with luscious flower beds, stunning entrance for the bridal party, a formal altar and pictur- We have a String Quartet based in Rehoboth / Lewes Delaware esque views of the 18th green. Baywood also offers a use of its attractively ap- 302-703-6835 pointed ballroom. [email protected] Long Neck CHEER Center Download Our Demo CD The Shoppes at Long Neck www.stringquartet.us FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 45

MILLSBORO Independence Hall 23767 Samuel Adams Circle 302-645-2222 Surrounded by the distinctive homes of Independence, this elegant space features a ballroom, banquet space and much more. Options include ballroom, lounge, card room and dressing rooms. Indian River Senior Center 214 Irons Ave. 302-934-8839 The banquet hall at the Indian River Senior Center in Millsboro will accommodate up to 200 guests for all occasions, including wedding receptions. Its facility is equipped with a state-of-the-art kitchen. Call for a tour. John and Elsie Williams Conference Center 105 State St. 302-856-5400, Ext. 3340 The Williams Conference Center is a graceful and private setting for indoor and outdoor functions in downtown Millsboro. The former home of Sen. John J. Williams and his wife Elsie is now owned and managed as a conference center by the Delaware Technical & Community College Owens Campus. The 1927 home and surrounding gardens make it a prestigious yet comfortable setting for special receptions. Home is fur- nished in the style of the late 1950s and early 1960s and seasonally decorated. Millsboro Civic Center 322 Wilson Hwy. 302-934-6777

millsboro.org photo by thehursts.co Millsboro Civic Center’s amenities include a built-in stage, conference rooms and full catering kitchen with commercial stove, microwave, refrigerator/freezer, dishes, flatware, dishwasher, ice machine and coffee maker. Alcoholic beverages are permitted. Long tables and folding chairs are supplied. Catering and facility set-up are managed by the facility user. Millsboro Fire Company 109 E. State St. 302-934-5677 little miss lovely A renovation and expansion of the Mills- boro Fire Company in 2002 included the Floral design and event decorating addition of a spacious meeting facility Specializing in wedding florals with ample parking. Hall features a large full-service catering kitchen with four ov- ens, dishes, linens, coffee maker, microwave, deep fryer, warmers, dishwasher, 12417 Ocean Gateway, 23C | West Ocean City, MD ice machine and moveable tables. Continued on page 47 46 WEDDINGS 2017 FEBRUARY 17, 2017 Easy ways to trim wedding costs ouples planning their weddings save a substantial amount of money you find the packages offered by your realize pretty quickly just how without affecting their ceremonies. venue are similar, choose the least Cexpensive weddings can be. expensive option. Depending on where couples tie the Reception knot, the costs can stretch into the tens A couple's wedding reception also Arrangements of thousands of dollars, leaving many will chew up a lot of their wedding Floral arrangements are a big and young men and women to scramble to budgets. But there are ways to reduce potentially expensive part of many find ways to trim costs without trim- the costs of receptions, too. Couples couples' weddings. The bride needs ming quality. planning on having a morning wed- her bouquet, as do her bridesmaids. Many couples look for ways to cut ding can shift their receptions from In addition, many couples decorate wedding costs, and couples facing that the evening to the afternoon, when their ceremony space with flowers, very dilemma should know that there the cost per meal will be considerably and of course reception table center- are several ways to save money but less. Afternoon receptions also can be pieces typically include flowers as still host the wedding of their dreams. alcohol-free, saving couples even more well. When working with your florist, money. If a nighttime reception is a request in-season flowers, which will Guest list must-have, choose a limited cash bar cost considerably less than exotic Guest lists can consume a sig- instead of an open bar. Limited cash flowers that are out of season. In addi- nificant portion of couples' wedding bars often provide guests with free tion, let your florist know your budget budgets. When compiling the guest beer and house wine while guests who and ask that he or she recommend list, couples should keep in mind that prefer liquor or mixed drinks must pay flowers that won't break the bank. guests will need save-the-date cards, for their own libations. If you are plan- invitations, catered meals (including ning an outdoor wedding reception, Gifts cocktail hour, dinner and dessert), you may even be able to provide your While it's become customary to drinks, and gifts (including hotel gift own alcohol, which can save consider- prepare gift bags for guests staying in bags and wedding favors). So the cost able amounts of money. hotels, couples should not go over- per guest will be more than just the Couples also can trim reception board with such gifts. Gift bags need per person cost of the meal couples costs by choosing the least expensive not include more than a snack, a bottle negotiate with their caterer. Couples meal package. Packages often differ of water and a thank-you card. Couples who can pare their guests lists down greatly in price but are not always so also should not break the bank with to just family and close friends can different with regard to their menus. If regard to reception gifts.

choose vendors for the ceremony and ding entirely by themselves has largely reception. How involved the brides- fallen by the wayside thanks to the es- Wedding party maids and groomsmen become is calating costs of throwing a wedding. Continued from page 37 often contingent on how close they However, if the bride's parents are live to the bride and groom and how footing the bill, then they will typically nizing the bachelor party and toast- much help is needed the day of the act as hosts of the wedding. In that ing the groom at the reception. The ceremony. instance, the groom's parents will host best man also plays a logistical role, the rehearsal dinner the night before organizing the newlyweds' transporta- Flower girl and ring bearer the wedding. tion to the airport the morning after The flower girl and the ring bearer During the ceremony, the bride is the wedding as well as organizing the most often walked down the aisle by groomsmen's gift to the couple. are typically very young members of the family, such as very young siblings her father, though some brides choose to have both parents included in the Bridesmaids and groomsmen or a niece or nephew of the bride or groom. The flower girl will carry a walk down the aisle. The groom's The role of the bridesmaids and basket of flowers during the wedding parents will often walk down the aisle groomsmen are similar. Bridesmaids procession, often tossing flower petals ahead of the procession and take their and groomsmen are often the sib- on the ground to signify the bride's seats. lings or close friends of the bride and entrance. The ring bearer is a boy and The parents may also play a role in groom, and they accompany each carries a pillow with the rings sewn on the months leading up to the wedding. other down the aisle during the wed- it during the wedding procession. For instance, the mother of the bride ding procession. Typically, the role of might help plan the bridal shower, bridesmaid and groomsmen is to offer while the father of the groom might any assistance in making the cer- Parents help plan any activities, such as a golf emony go smoothly. Groomsmen may The bride and groom's parents play outing, for the groomsmen and act as ushers, while bridesmaids might the role of hosts. The tradition of the additional friends of the groom a day help address wedding invitations and bride's parents paying for the wed- or two before the wedding. FEBRUARY 17, 2017 WEDDINGS 2017 47

tent is idea for weddings and special Boardwalk Plaza Hotel/Victoria’s GUIDE TO VENUES events with spectacular views of the At- The Boardwalk at Olive Avenue Continued from page 45 lantic Ocean and romantic sunsets over 302-227-7169 the Indian River Bay. Events up to 200 Banquet halls at Boardwalk Plaza provide MILLSBORO guests. Catering by The Pantry at Nage. charming Victorian décor and a glorious Open summer 2017. view of the ocean, beach and Boardwalk. Oak Orchard-Riverdale American Events are catered by chefs at Victoria’s Legion Post 28 Big Fish Grill and include the restaurant’s elegant 31768 Legion Road 20298 Coastal Highway tableware. A variety of plated and buffet 302-945-1673 227-3474 menus and beverage programs offer the American Legion Post 28 is available for bigfishgrill.com bride and groom a varied selection for receptions up to 180. Rental for non- Award-winning seafood restaurant fea- receptions or rehearsal dinners. members is $425 plus a $200 refundable tures new banquet room with seating for deposit. up to 125 guests. Continued on page 48

MILTON 22nd Annual The Milton Theatre 110 Union St. 302-684-3038 Bridal Show The Milton Theatre is a historic building Sunday, March 12, 2017 with old-world charm. The flexible space Noon - 3pm can accommodate up to 170 seated guests. The building features multiple Cripple Creek Country Club locations including: bar, private dressing 29494 Cripple Creek Road area, flexible main floor seating, stage, Dagsboro, DE 19939 projection system, lighting, sound system, and more. Admission $5.00 / Brides Free! Contact 302-934-6777 OCEAN VIEW Big Fish Grill Raw Bar & Events 30415 Cedar Neck Road 302-829-8163 bigfishoceanview.com Full-service catering for up to 125 guests is what you’ll find at Big Fish Grill in Ocean View. Enjoy casual to upscale dining and custom menus.

REHOBOTH BEACH The Atlantic Sands Hotel & Conference Center 101 N. Boardwalk 302-227-2511 [email protected] Banquet rooms vary in size to provide an ideal setting for events ranging from intimate gatherings to grand affairs. The Swan Ballroom offers vaulted ceilings and sweeping ocean views. A spectacular rooftop sundeck overlooking the beach and boardwalk is a special option for a cocktail party or wedding ceremony. Big Chill Beach Club Southern corner of Indian River Inlet and Atlantic Ocean 202842-3331 bigchillbeachclub.com Rooftop restaurant with stunning views of the ocean at the Seashore State Park South Side Beach area. Upper deck event 48 WEDDINGS 2017 FEBRUARY 17, 2017

Outside ceremonies on the lawn makes The Summer House’s classic American GUIDE TO VENUES this venue an all-inclusive wedding spot. restaurant in downtown Rehoboth Beach Continued from page 47 offers seating for up to 50 guests and Salero a versatile menu that can be tailored to REHOBOTH BEACH 8th Floor, Henlopen Hotel your specific needs. Rehoboth Beach Boardwalk Crab House 302-227-8630 Village Improvement Association 19598 Coastal Hwy. With a stunning oceanfront view in Re- Cottage By The Sea 227-2019 hoboth Beach, Salero can accommodate Boardwalk and Grenoble Place crabhouserehoboth.com up to 200 guests for wedding receptions, Rehoboth Beach The Crab House on Route 1 near Re- rehearsal dinners, post-wedding brunch- 302-227-1631 es and other private events. Restaurant hoboth Beach offers seating for up to 100 Nestled in the dunes on the Rehoboth guests in a classic seafood restaurant. offers a variety of packages tailored to the specific needs of clients, ranging from Beach Boardwalk next to the Henlopen Jakes Seafood cocktail affairs to seated dinners. Salero’s Hotel and just steps from the Atlantic owners and staff work closely with clients Ocean, the VIA features a newly re- 19178 Coastal Hwy. modeled clubhouse and deck available 302-644-7711 to make sure everything is perfect when the big day arrives. for all types of events from wedding From engagement celebrations to re- receptions to private parties. Space can hearsal dinners and wedding receptions, Salt Air Restaurant & Bar accommodate up to 125 people. A list of Jakes offers an authentic Rehoboth Beach recommended caterers is available. Go to experience. 50 Wilmington Ave. rehobothbeachvia.org for details. 302-227-3744 Rehoboth Beach Country Club saltairrestaurant.com 221 West Side Drive Enjoy delicious food and an intimate set- SALISBURY, MD. 302-227-3811 ting for up to 45 guests or more (reserve The Rehoboth Beach Country Club is the entire restaurant) in downtown Wicomico Youth & Civic Center located directly on Rehoboth Bay. View Rehoboth. 410-548-4900, Ext. 125 spectacular sunsets from the ballroom wicomicociviccenter.org situated on the second floor. Onsite Summer House Wicomico Civic Center offers a large event and wedding coordinator assists 228 Rehoboth Ave. space for weddings, receptions, engage- with planning from start to finish. A club 302-227-3895 ment parties and more with in-house member sponsor is required for booking. summerhousesaloon.com catering by Encore.

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