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SYRACUSE, ISRAEL & THE JEWISH WORLD | WWW.JEWISHFEDERATIONCNY.ORG JUNE 2020 | SIVAN-TAMMUZ 5780 BECOMING B’NAI MITZVAH IN THE ERA OF COVID-19

Dory Sinclair became bar mitzvah on March 28, 2020.

INSIDE: LOOK: DON’T MISS: B’NAI MITZVAH IN THE PROFILES IN SYRAJEWS IN AGE OF COVID-19 COMMITMENT THE ARTS ( 7 ) ( 9 ) ( 16 ) Jewish Observer June 2020 of Central New York Published by Jewish Federation of Central New York From the Editor Letter to the Editor 5655 Thompson Road DeWitt, NY 13214 We have seen wonderful On Monday, April 20, 2020 at 7:30 pm, I joined, albeit remotely, things happening through the use with eighty-two members of our Syracuse community, including phone: 315-445-2040 x116 of technology during the COV- our local Federation representatives and our rabbis and cantors, to fax: 315- 445-1599 ID-19 pandemic: virtual birthdays honor the memories of those who were murdered in the Holocaust, jewishfederationcny.org and baby showers, online classes, and of those who through internal fortitude and the grace of G-d concerts by socially-isolated mu- managed to survive, come to Syracuse, and begin again. sicians concertizing, Zoom seders I knew those survivors. Many of them lived in my neighborhood and shivas, watch parties, quar- when I was growing up. I remember their faces. I went to school with antini cocktail virtual gatherings. their children, celebrated in their homes, and in later years prepared President/CEO ...... Michael Balanoff We have been able to “attend” ser- their grandchildren for becoming b’nai mitzvah. Board Chair...... Ellen Weinstein Barbara Davis vices in many synagogues in our I also heard the Editor ...... Barbara Davis town and also in other places, led names of people by different rabbis, including some who used to be ours. We have lis- who did not survive, tened to cantors we have never heard before and have been taught including members songs we never knew before. We have witnessed acts of chesed and of my own fam- bravery; neighbors have reached out to neighbors; we have discov- ily. When my par- ered that things we used to complain about – school, crowds, com- ents went to Israel The Jewish Federation of Central New York is a proud mutes to work, jobs – are things that we really miss when they’re a lifetime ago, they member of the Jewish Federations of North America. missing. stumbled upon a There’s a lot we do not and cannot know about the future. What tiny building run Produced by we do know is that the present crisis has inspired creativity, innova- by an old man who tion and kindness. Optimism and courage will get us through the spoke only Yiddish. current darkness and into a brighter future. As individuals, organiza- My dad spoke to him tions and institutions, we need to do absolutely everything we can in German, which to help those in need as well as the lionhearted souls who are on he’d studied at Not- Publisher/Chief Revenue Officer ...... Barbara E. Macks the front lines of fighting this invisible, implacable enemy. We also tingham High School [email protected] need to assure that our Jewish community survives to meet our com- and the man under- Creative Director ...... J.P. Thimot [email protected] munal needs. stood the jist of what Vice President/Production & Sales ...... Jennifer Tudor But optimism cannot blind us to the reality of our situation. How Dad was saying and [email protected] can we assure that the entities that inspire, educate, connect, nurture, answered in Yiddish. Lead Designer ...... Kimberly Miers and provide care for all of us are able to recover from the realities of My mother, who un- [email protected] lost revenue and a near cessation of all fundraising activities? derstood Yiddish but Senior Graphic Designers ...... Josh Flanigan, Andrea Rowley Even before the pandemic, we knew the Jewish world was chang- could not speak it, Graphic Designers ...... Kristen Thomas, Nicholas Vitello ing, but COVID-19 accelerated the pace. The distressing news of the translated. This mu- Production Manager ...... Adam Van Schoonhoven demise of the great Jewish newspaper of Canada and near-demise seum was dedicated Sales Director ...... Cynthia Oppenheimer of Great Britain’s Jewish Chronicle after decades of publication, sent to shtetls that were [email protected] a chill down our editorial spine. We know that Jewish newspapers, razed by the Nazis Sales Executives ...... Keren Green and the Jewish Observer in particular, are a highly valued resource and existed now only in memory. It featured four walls that were [email protected] for longtime readers. We want our readers to know that we intend covered with bricks carrying the names of the lost shtetls. Dad took to stay in business, publishing news about the people in our Jew- pictures of “our” bricks; we had so many bricks. ish community who are making a difference, about the work of our Thank you to our rabbis and cantors for reaching our souls with Submissions: Federation and its partner agencies, and about our synagogues and their voices and compassion, to our Federation President and CEO Mi- Submit editorial stories, photos, and calendar items by the 1st of schools. We hope you enjoy reading the JO every month and we in- chael Balanoff for his coordination and support of this event, to Board the preceding month of issue to: [email protected]. vite you to let us hear your thoughts and to write a book review Chair Ellen Weinstein for her heartfelt remarks, and to Dr. Barbara To Advertise: for us or be our Jewish Cook of the Month. You can reach us 24/6 Davis, who somehow put us all in one room together. To advertise, call Cynthia Oppenheimer at 716-783-9119 x2240. 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2 jewishfederationcny.org | June 2020 LETTERS FROM THE BOARD CHAIR AND PRESIDENT Ellen Weinstein Michael Balanoff Board Chair possible by the generosity of you, our President/CEO donors. We convened a very productive Board “advancement” this past September dur- ing which we examined in depth the role of Federation now and in the future. One of the outcomes was the forma- tion of an Ad Hoc Committee tasked with updating our Mission, Vision and Values Statements which were subse- quently recommended to and adopted by the Board this past Spring. Hav- ing surveyed our community as to how best to communicate our messaging and It is with humility and gratitude transmit information, and with the wel- This is a supremely challenging tus as a Google school equipped it to that I share this message. As my final comed input of our Young Leadership time for everyone. We don’t know begin face-to-face teaching on day one; term as Chair of the Board draws to a Committee, Federation has upgraded what the coming months hold for the JCC offered fitness programs online; close, I thank you all for the oppor- its website, reformatted the Community our community, our country and the Federation held its regular and emer- tunity to have served you and our Happenings weekly emailing to be more world. We know that there will be gency meetings via Zoom; JFS reached Jewish community. I was fortunate to visually pleasing and informative and pressures and difficult circumstances out to the synagogues to identify and have co-partnered with the best pro- has made exciting changes to the for- that we will need to overcome, and help those who were in need of food fessional leaders possible: President/ mat, nature and frequency of the Jewish that it won’t be easy. But we can do support and social support; Federation CEO Linda Alexander and Michael Observer. We enjoyed a well-attended, it. Even in the precarious present and added to its established interest-free Balanoff, who succeeded Linda just fun filled Hanukkah Party at the JCC in the face of the uncertain future, loan program a new COVID-19 Emer- months into my first term. I thank and a highly successful Super Sunday. we still have much to be thankful for gency Fund and helped our communal them both for their guidance, pas- And most recently, despite our social and to celebrate in June 2020. As Ron organizations become informed about sion, wisdom and overwhelming com- distancing, Federation was able to honor Wolfson writes in Relational Judaism, emergency funding available from the mitment to our community. Their the memory of those who perished in “What really matters is that we care federal government. thoughtful and reasoned counsel the Holocaust in a moving, meaningful about the people we seek to engage. Throughout the crisis, Federation’s enabled me to zealously represent and memorable virtual Yom HaShoah When we genuinely care about peo- goal has been to stay true to our mission. our Jewish community’s best inter- program. ple, we will not only welcome them; We want to assure that our commu- ests, striving each day to ensure that Federation has and will continue to we will listen to their stories, we will nity remains strong and sustainable. We the vision of Jewish identity and con- rapidly respond to the needs of our share ours, and we will join together want to meet the needs of our commu- tinuity is realized. community. In the aftermath of the to build a Jewish community that nity members and our communal agen- Thank you to our exceptional, dedi- virulent anti-Semitic incidents taking enriches our lives.” cies not only today but tomorrow and cated Officers, Directors and Committee place across the country, Federation has One of my major goals this year, as in the years to come. Because there will Chairs who, through hours of active par- taken a lead, along with our law enforce- Federation President/CEO, has been to be a future. We will never go back to the ticipation, thoughtful and robust discus- ment partners, in developing a compre- make Federation an exemplar of con- way we were, pre-pandemic. Businesses sions and collaboration, have positively hensive, active security program which nection, connectivity and relationships. which were shaky before the pandemic impacted the quality of Jewish life in our serves as a model of communal coopera- We wanted the members of our com- may not survive it – think department community. After all, an organization is tion. And given the harsh reality of the munity to feel one with our mission stores, malls and shops – but others only as good as its board members and I COVID-19 epidemic and its repercus- and more aware of Federation and its will thrive – online retailers, cleaning have been supported by the best. I also sions, Federation is now focusing on the work and achievements. We acted upon services, videoconferencing providers, extend my personal thanks and appre- immediate and long-term needs of the what people told us they wanted: a supermarkets and grocery stores. Who ciation to the Federation staff. Under community for connection, communi- less wordy website; a more communi- would have thought that drive-in movie Michael’s great leadership, they have cation and funding. We are presently ty-focused newspaper; a more robust theaters would become trendy in 2020? nimbly and seamlessly adapted to our reexamining our allocation process and women’s philanthropy program; greater Perhaps the best lesson we can learn new normal and are successfully execut- prioritizing our financial support of the involvement of young leaders; enhanced from our present circumstances is ing their duties with the same high level Jewish community, all the while being security for our communal institutions; summed up in the words of Ziporah of dedication and purpose. Space does consistent with our Mission and Vision greater transparency and a vision for the Heller, an American-born Haredi educa- not allow for me to name all of these and true to our Values. future. And then the plague of COVID- tor and author: “One question is always wonderful individuals therefore, I invite I am so proud of the work Federation 19 descended upon us. relevant: How can I use this to move for- you to visit our website where all our does and so privileged for the opportu- Suddenly the JCC shut down, the Day ward?” We cannot know how our econo- Officers, Directors, Committee Chairs nities afforded these past three years. School switched to online instruction, my will fare, how the stock market will and Staff are listed. My interactions with so many dedicated synagogues and religious schools held do, or if a vaccine against coronavirus Reflecting upon this past year’s people, young and old, give me great services and classes by Zoom, and the will be developed soon. But we do know actions and accomplishments, I’d like to hope for our future as a thriving Jew- Jewish Family Service was called upon that, with patience, strength, and the highlight for you some of the outstand- ish community. Their commitment to to step up its social services to meet strong support of one another, we will ing initiatives taken by our Board and our local Jewish community and to Jews new and unanticipated needs. The rapid- get through this together and go from the many collaborative/jointly spon- around the world is the hallmark of who ity with which most of our Federation strength to strength. sored events held with our community we are and what we do. Again, thank you. and its partner agencies began to use agencies and organizations, all made technology was impressive. SHDS’s sta- June 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 3 CONGREGATIONS A Glimpse into Jewish Celebrating despite COVID History at TAY with Temple Concord by Sonali McIntyre by Diane Sacks

“If you don’t know where you’ve come from, you don’t know where you’re going.” (Maya Angelou) A recent class series, offered by Rabbi Zehavi of Temple Adath Yeshurun, entitled How Did We Get Here? The Emergence of the Modern Jewish Movements, gave such a glimpse into the past. Around 200 years ago, a number of forces radically reshaped Jewish life, leading over time to the modern move- ments we recognize today. “So many It was one thing to have to hold a seder unable to leave their homes, deliveries of the challenges our recent ancestors via Zoom, but what if you didn’t have a were made by these same volunteers and faced are mirrored in our lives, while seder plate with the special symbolic items Alex Steiger. The program was made pos- other aspects of Jewish life have changed the holiday requires? Temple Concord sible thanks to a few generous and anony- so radically that it is hard to imag- solved that problem for its congregants by mous sponsors, and The Oaks made up the ine how far we have travelled. In both the conversation toward Eastern Europe, setting up a drive-through pick-up Pesach plates. Participation in the distribution was cases, we cannot know ourselves without from Hasidism to secular, cultural and seder plate distribution. Manned by the a meaningful addition to Passover obser- encountering those who came before political identities. Waldman family, Aaron Spitzer and Rabbi vance. “We jumped at the opportunity to us,” Rabbi Zehavi commented. The second-to-last session surveyed Fellman (all appropriately socially distanc- participate in the seder plate distribution,” The class began with accounts of versions of Zionism, with particular ing themselves) they handed out the seder said Josh Waldman, “as it gave us another autonomous Jewish communities before focus on their manifestation in con- plates to all who need them. For those way to help during this time of need. We the Emancipation, when Western Euro- temporary Israeli culture, identity and treated it like a family project, discussing pean Jews gained citizenship but lost religious division. The course concluded with our children why we were participat- self-governance. These changes made with Middle Eastern Jewry, including ing and having them make signs to display possible the birth of Reform, Ultra- their encounters with Arab national- during the distribution. The event even Orthodoxy, and Modern Orthodoxy, each ism, colonialism, and Zionism as well allowed us to connect to the community a different response to the inclusion of as the experience of Middle Eastern and see some people we hadn’t seen in a Jews in the new states of Western and immigrants to Israel and their struggles while. We also knew that the seder plates Central Europe. The course traced the for equality. “It is my hope that this would enable so many to fully participate growth and development of denomi- exposure will open new vistas and give in Temple Concord’s virtual seder or their nations in the United States, primar- us a larger canvas on which to paint our own seder, as we can personally attest to ily Reform, Conservative, and Modern Jewish future, as individuals and as a not having all the ‘ingredients’ handy to Orthodox. Rabbi Zehavi then steered people,” concluded Rabbi Zehavi. create a seder plate this year.”

nectedness of our lives in the present. Know what is ahead of you: the next D’Var Torah Seek to understand how what impacts generation and all its potential, both the one affects all, how the actions of some known and the unknown. All of that is Rabbi Andrew Pepperstone, Congregation Beth Sholom-Chevra Shas have ripple effects far beyond them. contained in the future, which is multi- Know what is in your heart, mind and layered and complex. Since my family and I are relo- soul: cultivate your inner spiritual life Every dimension of Jewish life is acces- cating in July, I wanted to thank through regular prayer, study and medi- sible, available now. When someone cul- the Syracuse Jewish community tation. Make regular Torah study part of tivates only one dimension, should that for welcoming us and making this your life. Become familiar with the Torah dimension fail, they have nothing to fall community our home. As a parting and its many commentaries. Become a back on. But if someone cultivates most thought, I want you all to become your family’s history while you can. Learn commentator yourself. Make fixed times or all of these dimensions, their connec- multi-dimensional Jews. Cultivat- Jewish history and all of its complexities. for regular prayer, daily and weekly. tion to Jewish life is far richer, far more ing a multi-dimensional Jewish Our past is what brought us all to the cur- Know what is above and beyond: con- resilient. life is one of the keys for a strong rent moment. All of this is at your back, nect to God in whatever way you under- May everyone in our Jewish communi- Jewish community. guiding you forward. stand that word. Seeing the world from ty cultivate their multi-dimensional lives, Know what is behind you: your fam- Know what is around you: your friends God’s perspective helps us decenter our- for their sake, for their families’ sake, for ily and the Jewish people all the way and family, congregation, community and selves from the world. Reaching towards their congregations’ sake, for the sake of back to Abraham and Sarah, your all of the interlocking aspects of the pres- God transcends the present and connects the Jewish community and for the sake of Jewish heritage and traditions. Learn ent day. Become aware of the intercon- us to what is eternal and unchanging. the entire Jewish people.

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The impact that the Pepperstone perstone has been part of the heart- Fayetteville family has had on the Jewish commu- beat of the Syracuse Jewish community,” 315-637-7696 nity of Central New York is incalculable. says Fran Ciardullo, board president. Since they moved here in July 2011, each “Her love of sacred music, enthusiasm member has dedicated their unique tal- and commitment to Jewish education, ents to bettering our community. personal warmth, amazing talent, Jew- Rabbi Pepperstone brought an inno- ish experience and knowledge will be I am ready to help vative spirit to CBS-CS, incorporating missed by all of us who have worked with with your Real Estate needs his passion for technology, science, sci- her, learned from her or simply enjoyed Stay Well, Stay Safe ence fiction and fantasy, cooking, board listening to her lovely singing voice.” games, comedy and the written word The cantor also served CBS-CS in a vari- into synagogue life. His dedication to ety of capacities, and the congregation LAURIE KUSHNER innovation included the design of over will miss her beautiful arrangements for Licensed Real Estate Salesperson fifty innovative congregational holiday holiday services as well as her inspiring celebrations, and the implementation of classes for adults and children. 315-420-2668 a potluck policy that empowered more The Pepperstone children have also realestatebylauriekushner.com than seventy members to bring food left their mark. Hadar was the Achla USY to monthly Shabbat dinners. His pas- vice-president and Social Action region- sion for interfaith engagement has been al vice president. She is a talented ser- extensive. He served on the Round Table vice leader and Torah reader. Aviyah, a of Faith Leaders of Interfaith Works of madricha at the CBS-CS religious school Central New York, ACTS Clergy Caucus and the Community Hebrew School, and co-chaired several World Interfaith used her musical and artistic talents to Harmony Celebrations. inspire her students. A passionate Achla Rabbi Pepperstone prides himself on USY vice president, she excels at recruit- meeting people where they are. “My ment and engagement and fostered an goal is to help people cultivate an inter- inclusive community among her peers at connected multi-dimensional Jewish Epstein and CBS-CS. Matan is an active life that is a path to meaning, purpose Kadimanik who recently earned second and blessing,” he says. CBS-CS member place in the Jewish Federation’s Yom Arel Moodie says, “The Pepperstones Hashoah student writing contest. have been the cornerstone to my Jewish CBS-CS is dedicating the weekend of identity. Rabbi Pepperstone is always June 12 - 14 to the Pepperstone family. down to answer my thousands of ran- There will be several tributes including dom questions.” a Kabbalat Shabbat service on June 12, Cantor Paula Pepperstone is the Havdalah service on June 13, and a Trivia outgoing director of the Epstein High Event on June 14. Details will be sent via School of Jewish Studies. “Cantor Pep- Community Happenings. June 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 5 6 jewishfederationcny.org | June 2020 BECOMING B’NEI MITVAH

this point large gatherings were beginning seemed almost perverse at a time like this. Dory’s Bar Mitzvah to be disallowed anyway, but Dory would Schools were closing, supermarket shelves still have his moment. He would still get were empty, masks and gloves were becom- to read his portion from the Torah, sing ing not only a necessity, but the norm. by Anick Sinclair It all began about three weeks ago, his haftorah, give a sermon in front of his So back to our kitchen table, where on his with every viewing of the news a niggling, congregation - it’s not about the party after Hebrew birthday, Dory laid tefillin, with just This week has been one that I am uncomfortable feeling would creep in. We all, right? At least the spiritual and religious us present but 9 cameras (family) streaming sure I will never forget. My second child could see the coronavirus was creating side of things would remain untouched. Or in to see him and cheer him on and enve- became a bar mitzvah. He laid tefillin for havoc across Europe, so surely it would so we thought! lope him in warmth and love. Even through the first time. He gave his d’var Torah to make its way across the Atlantic to the US. We wrote the heartbreaking letter to a screen, the pride and joy was palpable. It the community and he will read his por- My husband and I started talking to family all our guests. And tried not to be over- was a bittersweet experience, but we were tion on Shabbat. And I know that every and friends who were to fly in for the occa- whelmed with disappointment. Now we doing the best we could under these bizarre Jewish mother gets emotional when a sion. Travel plans were crumbling as people needed to tell Dory. Not an easy conversa- circumstances. son reaches this milestone, but that’s were beginning to talk about quarantining. tion to have but he took it in his stride, with The next day, our rabbi arranged for not the only reason I’ll never forget it. We had many arduous phone calls with a little sadness but an impressive dose of Dory to read his dvar Torah on Zoom (our We were not celebrating in synagogue. our rabbi: should we cancel the weekend’s pragmatism and maturity. In fact, he set new best friend) to the entire community. We were at our kitchen table. My son Dory, activities? Are we seriously going to have to the tone for our own behavior and reac- So many people took the time to log in to draped in a tallit, was flanked by his broth- write THAT letter to all our invitees? Cancel tions to all that was happening. We had to hear him and the rabbi speak. The shouts ers and his parents as he performed the the caterers? The florist? What about all stay calm through all of this, be sensible, of “Mazel tov” and the singing were amaz- mitzvah of laying tefillin and at the end of the kippot that had been printed with the unemotional and make the right decisions ing, and loud, we really felt that we were prayers we sang “Mazel tov” and showered date of the upcoming occasion? And all the for all involved. part of a great community here in Syracuse. him with sweets, kisses and hugs. There was other countless details? Most importantly When the rabbi was given the directive to Dory himself was showered with praise and an open laptop at the end of our table. This though, what would this mean for our son, close the synagogue down completely, we congratulations (and sweets, bought prior was the technological vehicle that streamed Dory? felt that we’d already been over the worst to this new reality) and was genuinely made the grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins He had worked so hard over the past emotionally, the wretched decision-making to feel special. His brother put him atop his into our home from all over the world. His year, countless bar mitzvah classes and and the constant to-ing and fro-ing was shoulders and we danced around our kitch- d’var Torah was read to the community via cantillation sessions. The rabbi was reti- over. All set against the surreal backdrop of en and we felt the joy. Finally, some joy! the same vehicle. So they were all part of cent to cancel completely and suggested this mad virus that was ravaging the world In a weird twist of fate, through Yad the simcha, albeit not physically. Strange we keep the date but only for actual shul and coming closer and closer hourly. There Vashem (The World Holocaust Remem- description of a bar mitzvah? Welcome to members. OK, I could wrap my head around was no choice. We were going into lock- brance Centre in Israel), Dory had been the age of corona! that, so there wouldn’t be a huge crowd. At down and the celebration of a bar mitzvah “twinned” with a boy from the Balkans who’d lost his life in the Holocaust before he reached his bar mitzvah. Leon Alharabi would have been called by name to the Annabel’s Bat Mitzvah Torah with Dory and he would have been that we would be moving the party to September. honored, remembered and bar mitzvah’ed by Allison Wells The actual service would be open only to imme- by proxy. This would be the second time diate family, spread out in the shul, the six feet that Leon did not get the chance to reach Annabel was eagerly waiting for needed to be appropriately distant. Shortly after this milestone. But he will certainly be in her bat mitzvah at the end of April. that, all gatherings of ten or more people were our thoughts this Shabbat. She had been preparing for over six banned. So it was clear that Annabel would not be As Dory says, “Although not for the regu- months. She is the third of our three having her bat mitzvah service on April 25. lar reasons, this is one bar mitzvah nobody children and we were all enormously Annabel was sad but accepting, saying, “I am will ever forget!” And I suspect he might be proud of her hard work and study. disappointed but I would rather my bat mitzvah right. On Shabbat Dory will read his portion It was so hard to believe our little date be moved and for people to stay healthy than to us at home and we will celebrate with Annabel was going to reach this mile- take that big risk of having it.” But then Temple him one final time, before we get on with stone. I had done a lot of planning Adath added Saturday morning Shabbat Services the serious business of surviving corona. for her party. We decided on a Great- to their Zoom programing. As a result, Annabel I’m not going to wax lyrical about the est Showman theme and figured we el arrangements. We thought, “OK, was able to chant her haftarah, as well as give her importance of community and about how would go all out for our youngest – things look uncertain now, but we d’var Torah, on her originally scheduled bat mitz- brilliant technology is at keeping people from cirque performers to smoking don’t need to rush into cancelling. vah date. It was a wonderful experience. She spoke connected, we are all aware. What I was kiddie cocktails. We don’t know what tomorrow will about how tzara’at (leprosy) and evil speech are not aware of, or prepared for, was the over- When we started hearing about the coro- bring, let alone the end of April!” We deeply connected and noted that, “Being together whelming feeling of support we’ve had from navirus back in January and early Feb- decided we would make a decision at should be a blessing and evil speech and tzara’at everyone this week. It’s amazing how in a ruary we thought, like most people, that the end of March. both make it dangerous to be together. In a way, we time of complete isolation, people are will- although scary and sad for those affected, But then everything changed. can all connect to that by what is happening now.” ing to celebrate, sing, be happy for the sake it was something far away, not something Cases were exploding downstate and Since there was not technically a minyan and of someone else. It’s heart-warming. And I that would affect us directly and certainly across the country and we knew we there weren’t any aliyot, it did not serve as Anna- believe this will be the overriding memory nothing that would interfere with the bat had to shift gears. On March 12 we bel’s formal bat mitzvah. She will be called up to of Dory’s bar mitzvah for us all. mitzvah. But by early March, that was not made the decision to move the party read Torah at some point in the fall. But for now, And as for those “dated” kippot, I guess the case. More and more cases were pop- to September and just have Annabel we are so happy that Annabel was able to share they will always be a memento of a bar ping up. We had a lot of family coming in participate in Shabbat services by her hard work with friends and family and the TAY mitzvah that didn’t go off as planned, but from out of town and we wanted to give chanting the haftarah. We contacted congregation on Zoom. It was certainly an event was beautiful, fulfilling and emotional in its them time to change their plans and trav- family and friends to let them know we will not forget! own, unique way. June 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 7 SCHOOLS

The Epstein School Celebrating The Day Goes Virtual School Class Of 2020 by Laura Lavine When students age from one school to the next, they transform from being Matan Pepperstone “seniors” to the being the youngest students in their new school. They begin “I will miss the SHDS dearly, and will the new year with excitement and apprehension about making friends, learning always remember the memories I made their schedules and navigating their new buildings. there. There won’t be a moment where I wish I couldn’t stay in the SHDS.” What prepares them for that transition, commitment as students with a strong what prepared this year’s Syracuse Hebrew desire to learn and perform well in school. Since its founding in 1960, the Epstein Day School seniors for their move, is a They are smart and engaging. They have School has been the place where Cen- combination of determination, love, and learned to step outside of their comfort tral New York’s Jewish teens have come maturity. zones and take risks. Each has a wonderful together to learn, to share, and to build Matan Pepperstone’s, Benjamin Resig’s sense of humor but, most important, they a community. But there has never been and Remy Sinclair’s thoughts and actions engender respect by treating others with a year like this one. Classes in Ethics, have individually and collectively contrib- kindness, patience and maturity. Hebrew, Jews and the Presidency, Torah, uted to the betterment of our school. The Sadly, no finer illustration of these qual- Jewish Humor, Jewish Peoplehood and adults seek their opinions and our younger ities is seen than in how the boys handled Ben Resig the Holocaust began in the usual fash- students emulate them. They clearly are the many disappointments created by the “It was an amazing seven years at ion in the fall, but suddenly, right after the elder statesmen of SHDS. pandemic. After an elementary school SHDS and it is too bad that the end of Purim – they went online. Each Tuesday Some people show their finest quali- career during which the boys learned about our time had to be taken from us by thereafter, Cantor Paula Pepperstone, ties only in time of need or crisis. Not so and looked forward to their own sixth grade COVID-19, but I still had some amazing Epstein’s director, opened Epstein’s with this year’s graduates. On a daily basis, culminating trip, serving as color wars experiences. I will never forget my “doors” (by Zoom of course) at 6:15 so Matan, Ben and Remy demonstrate their team captains, the talent show, presenting teachers for everything they taught me the teens could hang out. They then fol- at the annual meeting and a graduation and my friends for everything that we lowed links to their individual classes, ceremony, they handled disappointment got to do together.” rejoining an hour later for the tradi- after disappointment with class and com- tional and much-loved break between The Community Hebrew School portment befitting seasoned adults. They core and elective courses. Unfortunately, salutes the following students conducted themselves in a way that set fine the snacks that were traditionally con- who are moving up this year: examples for our younger students, and sumed became a casualty of the virtual made their families and the entire SHDS environment. Jeremy Albert, Olivia Clark, community proud beyond measure. The eleven students who graduated Iris Horowitz, Noah Hyde, Even though the Class of 2020 will not in May from Epstein’s sixty-plus stu- James Kuss, Lauren Malec, be able to enjoy our school’s traditional dent body thus became the first gradu- culminating events, they will become their ates ever to experience Epstein in a Samantha Shapiro, new schools’ youngest students with the Remy Sinclair virtual environment. The last time they “I am incredibly proud to be graduating Nathan Snell, knowledge that they have confronted chal- were together in person was for a Purim SHDS. It’s been an amazing journey, Isaac Stoogenke, lenges that would devastate the best of us, celebration, when they examined the even though it’s ended in isolation! have handled their disappointment with four mitzvot of the holiday and heard Cameron Tallerico I want to thank my teachers and grace and are ready for anything else that from Al-Amin Muhammed, director of and Jacob Temes. classmates for making it one of the best life sends their way. We Rise Above the Streets. After that, experiences of my life.” they worked together on a related activ- ity for tikkun olam/repairing the world. Memories of their final Epstein School year will be unique for Natalie Eisen- KOSHER son, Nicole Engel, Anthony Fischer, Sara MARKET Lipman‘for over 70 years Garrow, Shai Jaffe, Benjamin Oppedi- sano, Caleb Porter, Colby Porter, Eva has all of your Schooler, Alethea Shirilan-Howlett, and Koshe Nathan Sonnenfeld. 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Dr. Wendy Evers Gordon is a clinical psychologist Coping with COVID at Upstate Medical University’s Department of Psy- chiatry, providing direct clinical services to adults and children. She also teaches seminars to psychol- – the studies, anecdotes and ogy doctoral interns, psychiatry fellows, and social work reports. The interpretation of interns. She is used to meeting with patients and stu- data is Talmudic. The discipline dents face-to-face, in her office or in a classroom. Since of poring over the research data the quarantine, her activities have been switched to tele- and interpreting its meaning health, via a secure, HIPPA-compliant site. For patients feels very much like interpret- who do not have access to the internet, telephone-only ing scripture. Does it mean services are currently the only option. “Anxiety increases what it says it means? Are the when we feel that our world is unpredictable and out of data reliable? What does reli- our control,” she notes. “But there ARE things we can and community supports, and anxiety about able mean? We need to look control and can make predictable. That’s why routine their own health, as well as that of friends at information line by line, as and decision-making activities are especially important and family. The need to provide ongoing opposed to reading the head- at this time. We are social creatures. We need and benefit support, reinforce coping strategies, and Dr. Richard Steinmann is the Associ- lines. For me, this process very from social interactions and supports. We miss those we ensure that they are following safety proto- ate Medical Director and Vice Chief for much derives from the atmo- cannot visit with, touch or hug. But the advice of health cols is both crucial and challenging.” Emergency and Urgent Care Services sphere in which I grew up. Ana- officials, to stay apart now so we can be together later, is “Jewish law teaches us that being a good at Crouse Hospital. Asked how the coro- lytic thinking was (almost liter- great advice.” person is not defined simply as not doing navirus is impacting the work he does, ally) in my mother’s milk (she Dr. Gordon has felt the impact of the pandemic on her bad things or hurting another; rather it is a he replied simply, “It’s turned everything went to the Jewish Theological counseling practice. “The importance of always putting person who actively does good deeds,” she upside down.” Seminary before women were patients first has never been clearer,” she says, “as it can notes. “By doing my best as a professional The hospital has prepared for what Dr. ordained and got her degree in require sacrifices few of us have been asked to make and as a human being, I strive to be a good Steinmann characterized as “a great tsu- teaching.)” before. Not only does this represent a sea-change in how person in the Jewish sense. In this way, I nami” of desperately ill COVID-19 patients “Sometimes things in the I provide service and training, it required an immediate find comfort and a sense of purpose, par- as happened in New York City, but that Emergency Department get education in using the latest technology to deliver tele- ticularly as we all are called to manage this level of surge has not yet come to pass. It overwhelming,” Dr. Stein- health services. No longer can I directly interact with uncharted territory. I hope that, when this is unclear if it will. Ironically, the actual mann notes. “It would be easy patients or students; for those who only have access to crisis has, eventually, subsided, we won’t volume of patients in local hospitals has for doctors to say, ‘I can’t do telephone, we can’t even see each other when engaged in forget what we have learned from it: that markedly decreased, particularly since enough. Why do anything?’ But therapy. I think that something is lost in the connection kindness, compassion, and decency always elective procedures have been cancelled. Judaism teaches us that some- and feelings of warmth and engagement with others.” trump ignorance and denial; that we are at “The potential was very ominous, but that one who saves a single life, it is The most stressful and challenging part of her work our best when we work together, because, in hasn’t yet happened,” he explained. That as if they saved the world. So now “is trying to remain engaged with individuals who, this situation, as in many others, we truly created another problem. People having you take it one at a time, and in addition to the specific concerns which led them into are one people, members of the human other serious medical problems, like heart you do what you can do, and it therapy, are having to deal with the current stress of iso- race.” attacks and strokes, are afraid to come to makes a difference.” lation from others, lack of previously-accessible family the hospital “They’re riding it out at home and not doing well.” Dr. Steinmann points posters to illustrate proper infection pre- virus every day, hour by hour, minute by out that the number of non- COVID-19 vention protocols, have instituted special minute. We need time, and we need to pay medical emergencies has not diminished, sterilization processing so that N95 masks attention.” and that “if it made sense in January to go can be reused, and have provided ‘just in Another enormous challenge is helping to the emergency room, it still makes sense time education’ throughout the hospital patients who come to the hospital with now. People who have chest pains or other as CDC and Department of Health proto- COVID-19. “We greet them with masks, symptoms should get advice from their cols have rapidly changed. Their goal is face shields, gowns, gloves; they are placed doctors, but they shouldn’t stay home with keeping the patients, community, and staff in an isolation room away from family and something bad.” safe through the optimization of protective friends. They are physically isolated, but we One of the most psychologically unnerv- equipment and knowledge expertise. don’t want them to feel emotionally and ing aspects to the coronavirus pandemic is The most stressful part of her position spiritually isolated. We have an obligation the effect it has on medical personnel. Dr. right now is not knowing what is coming to provide the best care we can for them. Steinmann explains, “Most emergencies Dr. Kathleen Steinmann is a nurse next. “As a country, we’re storming,” she This is the art of nursing. Our commitment are not things that are going to get me. I practitioner and the Director of Educa- says. “It’s continuous change and chaos. to them is to make them feel that they are won’t get hurt, I will be calm and profes- tion and Professional Practice at Crouse How do you manage chaos? As an organi- loved and cared for and to help them get sional. But with COVID-19, what’s hanging Hospital. Part of her work involves edu- zation, we must be agile and manage the better.” in the air is that every time I walk into a cating the hospital staff about the use of chaos.” She is coping with many workforce Dr. Steinmann emphasizes the continu- patient’s room, I may be putting myself personal protective equipment (PPE). The management issues, including furloughs ing need for people to focus on their health and my family at risk. That doesn’t happen coronavirus pandemic has significantly and reassignment of nurses from surgical and to do what is necessary – washing their under normal circumstances, and it’s an impacted that work. “We have to assure services to the bedside and other settings hands, eating well, sleeping enough, get- extra element of the whole situation that’s that people are meticulous in donning and throughout the organization. What she ting exercise – to stay healthy. She cites an emotionally and psychologically wearing doffing PPE,” she says. “We have to treat wants people to know is that “this is really ancient piece of Jewish wisdom, from the for practitioners.” this situation as we would measles or tuber- real. The virus is very much alive and well. medieval Sefer Hasidim: “Who is a wise doc- “What we need is information,” Dr. culosis.” In collaboration with infection Social distancing and sanitation protocols tor? He who knows to warn his patients how Steinmann emphasizes. “And we also need prevention, sterile processing, and senior are really helping. We cannot let up on that. to avoid becoming sick.” to know how to interpret the information leadership, she and her teams have created We’re learning something new about this June 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 9 JCC JCC Thanks the Community JCC Looking to Start Up Senior Dear Members, Families and Friends, Kosher Dinners Again June 29 We hope that you and your family are well and staying safe during these uncertain times. Since mid-March, this new coronavirus “reality” has certainly been an adjust- Many seniors had to do without the Sam Pomeranz Jewish Community Cen- ment for everyone. As we write this, the JCC remains temporarily closed. We are encour- ter’s senior kosher lunch program this spring because of the coronavirus. How- aged that the situation will continue to improve and we can reopen shortly, if we’re not ever, the JCC is looking to the future when seniors will be able to enjoy a hot, already there by the time you read this. nutritious and well-balanced kosher dinner on Monday evenings —with neces- Throughout this time of “staying at home to stop the spread,” so many of you have sary safeguards in place, of course. These will likely include social distancing, stepped up to help the JCC after we put a hold on billing for all accounts. It has been wearing face masks, good handwashing/hygiene practices and more. amazing. We’ve been floored by the outpouring of generosity from those of you who still made your membership and program payments or made a one-time donation. Thank you very much for your outstanding support. We are truly humbled and grateful for your kindness. While uncertainty has been the “new normal” for a while now, one thing that we’re certain of is that things will be very different once the JCC reopens. Continued social distancing, wearing face masks, good handwashing/hygiene practices and more will be a part of our lives at the JCC and elsewhere. As we work through these new ways of doing things, please know that safeguarding everyone’s health and safety is our top priority. If you are in a position to help support the JCC at this time, we welcome your assis- tance. To make a tax-deductible donation, please visit www.jccsyr.org or contact Erin Hart at 315-445-2040 ext. 112, or [email protected] . Once again, thank you very much for your support and for your wonderful sense of community. We will continue to get through this together.

Sincerely, Marci Erlebacher Steven Sisskind Executive Director Board President

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At home in the family room with Center temporarily closed. her poodles, Roma and Paris, Paula Posted on the ECDP Facebook Pacini, group exercise coordinator and page, the videos allowed stu- instructor with the Sam Pomeranz Jew- dents to see their teachers ish Community Center, teaches a Senior again, singing along to a song Strength and Balance class. Nearly two or listening to a story. dozen seniors are working out in their Sherri Lamanna, director of own homes along with Pacini. They gymnastics, dance and ECDP all see each other on their computer physical education, held Zoom or tablet screens. It’s not the same as video meetings with some of being at the JCC, but Zoom has allowed her gymnastics classes. The many to exercise together again. students had a great time The JCC continues to connect with its connecting and even held an Pictured on the laptop screen are the seniors present along members and families online. The Fit- online handstand contest. JCC with JCC instructor, Paula Pacini, for the start of a virtual Senior Strength & Balance class via Zoom in April. ness Center posted online exercise videos dance instructors made videos and some instructors created and shared so that students could practice staying busy and connected. Weinberg even set up their own workout videos. Judging by the at home. a Zoom meeting with PJ families and some Israeli number of views, Line Dancing is the most For Carolyn Weinberg, PJ scouts who recently spent the summer at the JCC popular offering. Library® in CNY coordinator, camp. JCC preschoolers, dance and gymnastics reaching out to families online Although nothing can replace in-person inter- students, and PJ Library® families have was easy, thanks to PJ’s already actions at the JCC, connecting virtually has been been able to stay connected thanks to Pictured is this video screenshot is Rebecca strong Facebook presence. helpful and welcoming. The videos can be seen at Wojtanowski, JCC early childhood teacher, the internet. The JCC’s Jerome and Phyl- reading a story. The video is posted on the Sharing videos of songs, sto- www.jccsyr.org. Now that the JCC has “been there lis Charney Early Childhood Development ECDP Facebook page. ries and other creative activi- and done that,” they can’t wait to see you all back Program filmed several videos before the ties offered families options for at the JCC!

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» Book Review “Unorthodox” Is Causing Controversy

Review by Jackie Miron

Perhaps the most difficult part of reviewing a memoir is dealing with doubts as to its veracity. Unorthodox: The Scandalous Rejection of My Hasidic Roots, Deborah Feldman’s memoir of her escape from the strict religiosity of the Satmar sect of Hasidic Judaism, has come under fire for its perceived falsity. There is even a blog entitled “Exposing the Lies and Fabrications of Deborah Feldman.” But let’s shift the focus from the noise around the book’s accuracy, and point Deborah shows her strength when out that it is intriguing, interesting, she states that she “stopped believing transporting, illuminative, and beauti- in authority just for its own sake and fully written. started coming to my own conclusions Deborah Feldman entered an arranged about the world I live in.” She often marriage at 17, and bore a son at 19. illuminates her thoughts with humor. Unlike most in the Satmar community, It is possible that some truth-bending Deborah did not have a large and close- was due to emotions, circumstances, knit family. Her grandparents and aunt differing interpretations, and her desire raised her due to an absentee mother, to protect some of the people in her life. and a father with mental incapacity. Her Yet hers is a solid depiction of anyone book derives from a diary she kept to who tries to question the establishment, chronicle her life until, at the age of 25, lacks basic freedoms, struggles with Send Mazel Tov wishes she escaped with her son to Berlin. desires, and wishes to gain freedom and or a The Satmar sect was founded in the independence. early 20th century in Hungary and rees- Unorthodox was recently released as a Condolence & Memorial tablished in New York City after World 4-episode Netflix show. Deborah filmed Announcement War II. Its adherents number between a short explanation about the making 65,000 and 75,000. The group is char- of the series, and we learn about her acterized by, strict religious adherence, involvement in its development. The rejection of modern culture, and anti- series departs further from the book $36 for up to 70 words Zionism. Yiddish is its primary language than some fans would like, but the large and the basis for a comprehensive edu- audience who watched the series were $54 with added photo cational and media system for men. moved and entertained. Again, contro- The leadership dictated how Deborah versy swirled, with one critic comment- $72 for up to 140 words dressed, what she read, and how she ing, “Unorthodox is a major embarrass- interacted with others. ment. Like a three-dollar bill created by A number of books have been written a master counterfeiting artisan, it first FOR MORE INFO CONTACT: by and about members of Hareidi groups. looks authentic, but it is quickly revealed Cindy Oppenheimer Deborah’s is no different. Extremely as phony.” independent-minded, she craved knowl- Whether you read or watch Unortho- 716-972-2240 edge of the outside world. She risked dox, you will not be able to put it aside. It [email protected] learning about it from stolen moments is readable, heartwarming, and detailed. with library books, especially those with You feel as though you are inside Deb- empowered female characters. She says orah’s head and her heart. It is also “reading could make everything else in important to know that Deborah firmly Jewish Observer my life bearable, if only I could have states, “No matter how you live, it seems of Central New York books all the time.” Deborah challenged you need faith to get by, get ahead. I am established principles, rules and cus- proud to be Jewish, because I think that toms, and she writes eloquently about is where my indomitable spirit comes her journey. from.” 12 jewishfederationcny.org | June 2020 THE JEWISH EXPERIENCE Coping with Quarantine Federation’s 102nd at Menorah Park Annual Meeting

It has been weeks since the federal government banned nursing home The Jewish Federation of Central New visitors in response to the coronavirus pandemic. Shelly Werner and her York’s 102nd annual meeting will be held daughter Kate wanted to celebrate their mother/grandmother’s 95th birth- via Zoom on Thursday, June 4. The Federa- day, so they made a sign and stood on the lawn outside The Oaks to send tion’s three partner schools, the Syracuse their love and birthday wishes to Grandma Rose. Hebrew Day School, the Syracuse Com- munity Hebrew School and the Epstein Each week Menorah Park features a message from a resi- School of Jewish Studies will be part of the dent on social media and in their e-newsletter, A Menorah evening’s programming. Leaders and vol- Park Minute. They want to let family and friends know that, unteers will be recognized for their service and the Federa- even during this difficult time, love and hope will keep us tion’s Esther and Joseph Roth Award for Outstanding Com- connected. The munity Leadership will be presented to Dr. Alan Goldberg, Menorah Park professor emeritus at Syracuse University’s School of Educa- Activities tion and director of the Holocaust and Genocide Initiative. Team provides As the first coordinator of the Spector Warren Fellowship boundless program for Future Educators, Alan delved into the field enthusi- Rabbi Shore, chaplain at Menorah supplies of astically, reading, learning and making connections. Dean of the Park, is no longer allowed to visit the encourage- School of Education Corinne Smith said, “As a result of Alan’s residents. He recorded himself leading ment and glit- leadership, the Spector/Warren fellowship not only educated Friday night services and kiddush and ter to keep the future teachers in how to teach the Holocaust, but supported asked four SHDS sisters to record songs residents’ cre- Holocaust education programming in the local school com- for Kabbalat Shabbat for the residents ativity flowing. munity. Children learned that they had a responsibility to be who wish to welcome the Sabbath. ‘upstanders,’ rather than ‘bystanders’ when faced with injustices; that they carry individual responsibility for helping to create a more just society.” Federation Alan’s work has impacted not only Warren fellows and schol- ars, but all those who engage with him in the study of the Provides $50,000 Holocaust. The Holocaust Museum Houston recently recognized his leadership as director of the Spector/Warren Fellowship by to Menorah Park naming the education library in the Boniuk Center for the Future At its May 14 meeting, the Board of the of Holocaust, Human Rights and Genocide Studies in his honor. Jewish Federation of Central New York He was honored by InterFaith Works as a person who “advocated voted to give a $50,000 grant to Meno- for equity, educated youth, broke barriers, crossed divides and rah Park to help cover the extraordinary advanced the community through innovative programs and costs of personal protective equipment projects.” and other supplies necessitated by Also on the program will be the election of new members of COVID-19. Federation Board Chair Ellen the Federation board, and the presentation of the Federation Weinstein explained that “due to the annual report by president/CEO Michael Balanoff and tribute to current coronavirus pandemic, Meno- Masks to Keep Us Safe outgoing Federation board chair, Ellen Weinstein. The communi- rah Park has experienced an enormous Cecelia Ellis sews masks for Jewish Family Service, Menorah ty is invited to attend, and a Zoom invitation will be forthcoming. increase in expenses in order to keep its Park and others. Federation distributed over 200 masks at no residents and staff safe and secure. Fed- charge to members of the community. eration is making this significant dona- tion to help address this emergent need because we are all in this together. By • 20 years of experience • HOURS: taking this action, we are not only sup- SUN 11am-4pm porting the most vulnerable members Executive Chef, MON-THURS of our Jewish community, but also the 8am-10am; most vulnerable members of the larg- Keith LeBlanc 11am-2pm; er community. Federation is all of us, 4pm-7pm Supervised by working together, to make things better.” FRI 8am-10am; 11am-2pm Menorah Park Chief Executive Officer Vaad Ha’ir of Syracuse Supervised by Vaad Ha’ir of Syracuse SAT closed MaryEllen Bloodgood said, “We gratefully A Glatt Kosher Kitchen A Glatt Kosher Kitchen welcome these funds on behalf of the residents and staff of Menorah Park. The Delivery or curbside pick up at The Oaks Grub Hub or curbside pick up at Menorah Park incredible expense of keeping everyone 18 ARBOR LANE, DEWITT 13214 41040 E. GENESEE STREET, SYRACUSE 13214 here safe is unprecedented. 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Jewish for “everything in place.” You want to proper cookware selected. Also, there Cook of theMonth do all of your prep work before you start is nothing more important than a good, cooking, all of your chopping, peeling, sharp knife. And finally, clean as you go. Lon Lowenstein slicing, your seasonings at hand, and This will help in the long run.

Lon Lowenstein is an Inspector with Could you please share a favorite kosher recipe that isn’t terribly complicated? the Onondaga County Health Depart- ment who was born and raised in Dewitt. He lives with his wife Joan, also Potato Gateau a Dewitt native, their teenage daughter Peri and their dog, Lev. INGREDIENTS Where did you learn to cook? 4 or 5 large russet potatoes peeled and thinly sliced I learned to cook initially at my moth- 1 large onion thinly sliced (optional) er’s side and in many fine dining res- [Tip: a mandolin or Japanese slicer helps greatly taurants locally, in New York City and in but is not necessary] California. I worked professionally as a Whole milk, light cream or half and half chef until I met my wife and decided I no Salt and Pepper to taste longer wanted to work restaurant hours. Butter Why do you like to cook? Cooking for me is love. I enjoy feeding DIRECTIONS people and it is a wonderful creative out- If I had to narrow it down to a genre, Layer potatoes and onions in a buttered 9x9" or 9x12" or oval coquette dish, let for me. I enjoy cooking all cuisines. I I would say that I enjoy making Asian putting salt and pepper between each layer. Fill dish with milk, light cream or love experimenting and discovering new street food the most. half and half, leaving top layer uncovered. Dot with butter. Bake in a 350° oven foods and recipes. What is your favorite cooking for approximately one hour until browned, but not dry. You want the potatoes What is your favorite dish to prepare? secret/trick/hack/shortcut? to be creamy. We love to serve it with grilled fish and a tossed salad. Decadent I don’t really have one favorite dish; The most important thing about and fattening, but a nice treat! there are too many that I enjoy making. cooking is mise en place, which is French Matan B’seter - Giving In Secret

As our community continues to battle the current public health crisis, we cannot forget the continuing strength and courage of frontline healthcare Federation’s Matan b’Seter cabinet apartments and anyone suffering food workers, including the staff of Menorah Park, who care for our seniors and will provide Menorah Park staff and insufficiency. other vulnerable persons. They are working very long hours and displaying true others with basic food items. The Jewish So many in our Jewish community devotion to their isolated and lonely clients. To help them out, Federation set community is joining with Federation in have asked how they can help. This is a up a Matan b’Seter - Giving in Secret - food cabinet, which they can access at any stocking it with food in cans and plastic way to show compassion and concern for time. It is based on an ancient Jewish tradition -- the room in the courtyard of jars (no glass, to prevent breakage), and those who are in the front lines in this the Temple, where donors would deposit gifts and others would take what they packaged non-perishables and treats difficult time. If you would like to help needed, all in secret. The cabinet is located near the mikvah at Menorah Park (no chocolate, to prevent melting) for alleviate food insufficiency during this on the right-hand side as you pull up the driveway. Anyone may donate to the the Menorah Park staff and their fami- crisis, please feel free to donate at any box and anyone may take from it. lies, the seniors in the Achavath Achim time or take, if you need it. June 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 15 SYRAJEWS IN THE NEWS

especially those diagnosed with autism. Our Community’s Artists He used those skills to build his master’s project, “The Spectrum.” Alec recently Alec’s work as a portrait photographer started his own business, Smart Alec had led him to acknowledge “the many Support LLC., which offers media, mar- differences between how someone looks keting, and IT support for households physically and how they act.” He says, and businesses. “The world is full of variety, and that variety is both natural and beautiful.” At a young age, Alec was taught that “Judaism says it’s okay to question things.” This philosophy, he says, “defi- nitely was a driving mind set whenever Alec Erlebacher always had a pas- I created art over the years. It spawned sion for science, technology and the a curiosity in me at a young age that creative process. He seeks out new ways has never diminished.” Alec also worked of expression in a variety of artistic at the JCC for many years which gave tion to working with adult learners in mediums and materials and produces him experience working with children, many parts of the country and children work that is unique to his vision. Alec Sarah Saulson started weaving as a in local schools, Sarah taught weaving majored in media studies and minored in child in Ann Arbor, Michigan, and has at Syracuse University for nearly two fine arts at the University at Buffalo and pursued fiber arts as a full-time profes- decades. “I am fascinated by the process earned a master’s degree in photography sion for almost four decades. She earned of making cloth,” she says, “and I want at the Newhouse School at Syracuse Uni- her undergraduate degree in anthropol- the bones of the process to show in the versity. Among his recent photographic ogy from Wellesley College. Her interest finished work. Weaving is nearly unique projects is the exploration of a technique in ethnic textiles and processes led her among mediums in that the structure he developed called “Cubism-Lighting,” to work with weavers in Ghana, India and the surface are one. Thus, there which uses long exposures and colorful and Guatemala. “Teaching in a variety of exists the opportunity to preserve the lighting to reveal the vicissitudes of time contexts has become an important part history of the making of the piece in its in surreal and ethereal photographs. of my weaving life,” she says. In addi- final form.” WE ARE HIRING

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In her studio practice, Sarah has and Moulin Rouge (Paris). “I try to find How Yussel Caught the Gefilte Fish, The focused on one-of-a-kind Jewish prayer emotion and expression in my subjects. Mysterious Guests: A Sukkot Story and shawls woven on commission. She Creative lighting and trying new modali- The Magic Dreidels. Katya loves creat- sees the tallitot as combining original ties of experimentation are important ing characters and translating written woven patterns “along with the deepest to me,” he says. His work is followed by work into images. She explains that “To respect for the long-standing, beautiful a large group on Instagram (@marc- me, the beauty of being an illustrator is traditions so intrinsic to Jewish ritual safranphotography) and his website at the ability to see relevance to my art in objects.” www.marcsafran.com. everyday happenings.” Katya emigrated from Ukraine to the United States in 1989 and graduated from Syracuse Uni- versity with a B.F.A. in Illustration and a B.F.A. equivalent with highest honors from The National Art Academy in Lvov, Ukraine. She currently teaches in the visual arts program at LeMoyne College. Her unique artistic style is influenced by different cultures and storytelling tra- ditions. She muses that “The journey Marc Safran is an area ophthalmolo- tured in a variety of publications. can get difficult sometimes, but in the gist who has maintained a creative pho- Marc appreciates the difficult circum- amazing world of talking cats, winged tographic studio at the Delavan Center stances of those in the arts and has creatures, magical spells and ladders for the past decade. As a self-taught always done his work free of charge for Katya Krenina is an award-winning that lead to the moon there is always photographer, Safran has worked to pro- creative subjects. He has been fortunate artist with a passion for book illus- hope for a happy ending.” Silk & Soul, duce strong, dynamic and creative imag- to recruit talent from a wide variety of tration. Her mixed media works have her own line of illustrated silk scarves es that primarily feature actors, models, organizations including actors in Syra- illustrated over fifteen books including and accessories features a Tree of Life dancers, and figure subjects. His work cuse Stage, dance companies includ- The Cloak for The Moon, Who Took My collection, influenced by the art of Jew- has been given juried awards by Graphis ing Paul Taylor, Diavolo, Rochester’s Hairy Toe?, Tooth Tales from around the ish papercutting. Magazine and others and has been fea- Garth Fagan and PUSH, Cirque du Soleil World and three Jewish children’s books:

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ISRAEL IRA ZAMES safe haven. ELINOR JACHLES LYNNE passion, with large holiday gatherings April 25, 2020 Ira approached and captured the heart April 25, 2020 holding a special place. Elinor had a love of the love of his life, Kayla, at a “sixish” of music, enjoying the talents of a very Israel Ira Zames, known to all as Ira, (cocktail hour) on Fire Island, after noticing Elinor Jachles Lynne of Dewitt, NY, a musical family. passed away peacefully on April 25, 2020. her in a blue bikini on the beach. The couple devoted mother and grandmother, and A member of Temple Adath Yeshurun, His early years were spent with his large married in 1967, and after a few years in New beloved aunt died April 25th, 2020. She Elinor was also an avid Syracuse Univer- extended family, many of whom were well- York City, settled with their young family in was 86. sity sports fan. She and her husband had respected Jewish leaders during the time of Upper Saddle River, New Jersey, in 1972. Ira She was born December 27, 1933 in basketball season tickets for many years. the Nazis’ growing power in Europe. Ira’s took over his father’s company when Martin Syracuse, NY to the late Gussie and Har- Elinor was predeceased by her beloved parents, Mendel and Hela Znamirowski, died unexpectedly, and thereafter ran many old Jachles. Elinor was raised in Syracuse husband, Solomon, who died in 1997; her came to the United States in 1939 and were businesses in and around New York City. where she was a graduate of Nottingham sisters Marian Rifkin and Harriet Gardner; at the World’s Fair in New York when the The soccer, basketball, and baseball players High School and worked at General Tele- her brother Louis Jachles; her brothers-in Nazis invaded Poland. Ira’s parents quickly that Ira coached for 10 years will always vision in downtown Syracuse. law Irving Rifkin and Morton Gardner. made plans to rescue him. Hela traveled remember how he prepared them to win Elinor married Solomon Lynne of the She is survived by her devoted children: alone to Trieste, Italy, and Ira’s grandmoth- championships, wearing black and maroon Bronx, NY in 1960, and they settled in son Howard and his wife Margo, daughter er smuggled him, without legal papers, from sweaters and chomping on his cigars. Ira’s DeWitt, where she worked as a cafeteria Debra and her husband Andrew Hoffman; Poland to Trieste. Hela, who spoke many main focus was ensuring that his family was cashier in the Jamesville-DeWitt School four adored grandchildren Caleb Hoff- languages, was able to sneak Ira onto a ship secure, well-educated, and prepared for the District. In the years since her retirement man, Samuel Hoffman, Matthew Lynne, back to the United States, where Ira was future. Ira retired about 15 years ago, so that in 1996, many past students and teach- and Stephanie Lynne. Elinor is also sur- detained at Ellis Island for three months he could spend time doing what he loved ers went out of their way to express to vived by her sisters-in-law Harriet Jachles because he had no passport. Eventually, he most: reading, studying history, complet- Elinor their fond memories of their days and Harriet Altschuler (Morris); brother- was released, and the family put down roots ing the New York Times crossword puzzle, together. in-law Herbert (Pessie) Linchitz; along in New York, changing the parents’ names enjoying fine meals and wine, and “working Elinor was an avid cook and baker, with many nieces, nephews, and cousins. to Martin and Helen, and the family name on” (otherwise known as “mangling”) his especially known for her world-class A private funeral service and burial will to Zames. computer. Ira’s first priority was his family; lemon meringue pie and Snickerdoodle take place in Syracuse, New York. Ira grew up on the West Side of Man- he took tremendous pride in his ancestry as cookies. Her house was always a place Contributions can be made to Temple hattan, and attended Brooklyn Technical well as in his children and grandchildren. of vibrant activity, with the neighbor- Adath Yeshurun, 450 Kimber Rd. Syra- High School, graduating at 16 years old. Ira Ira is predeceased by his parents, Martin hood kids walking right into her kitchen cuse, NY, 13224. attended Massachusetts Institute of Tech- and Helen Zames. He is survived by his wife to enjoy her treats. Her family was her Birnbaum Funeral Service, Inc. nology on an ROTC scholarship. He gradu- Kayla, his sister Rebecca (Marcel) Margu- ated from MIT in 1957 with two degrees: lies, his sons Jonathan (Karen), Matthew one in industrial engineering and the other (Jill), Adam (Ellen), and Mark (Phyllis), his in electrical engineering. Shortly thereafter, beloved grandchildren: Emily, Talia, Jessica, Honoring Jewish War Ira began his active duty service in the US Annie, Henia, Brett, Leora, Charlotte, Jus- Air Force, serving from 1957-1960. Follow- tin, Julia, Jared, and Leo, and many nieces, Veterans on Memorial Day ing his active duty, he attended graduate nephews, and cousins. school at Harvard, receiving his Masters of Because of current social distancing Business Administration in 1962. He was in regulations, a private family burial was held. the Air Force Reserves until 1969, attain- In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting ing the rank of Captain. It was his honor that donations in Ira’s memory be made to to serve his country, and his family always Chabad of Northwest Bergen County, 375 loved the stories that he told about his Pulis Avenue, Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417, or to experiences while stationed in Biloxi, Mis- Henia Zames’ team of the Moving Day Walk sissippi, and the Aleutian Islands, Alaska. of CNY to benefit the Parkinson’s Founda- In addition to his dedication to the United tion: http://www3.parkinson.org/site/TR/ States, Ira was also devoted to the country MovingDayEvent/PFGreaterRochester?fr_ of Israel, where his European family found id=3147&pg=personal&px=2043437.

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MAX FISHMAN ROBERT FINKEL May 4, 2020 May 3, 2020 Sisskind Max Fishman, 98, died peacefully early Monday Robert Finkel, 76, of Syra- morning at home surrounded by his loving family. cuse passed away Sunday eve- Funeral Service LLC He was born in Starachowice, Poland to Yitzchak ning after a long illness and and Nechama Fishman. contracting COVID-19. Steven L. Sisskind Max was a survivor of the Treblinka and Aus- A graduate of Notting- chwitz concentration camps and the Holocaust. ham High School and Syra- Most of his family died in the Holocaust. After the cuse University, he worked for war, he met his wife Gertrude. While searching for many years as the manager Entrusting a their families they found each other and married of Henry Wilson Jewelers in soon after. In 1950, they came to Syracuse. Shoppingtown Mall and on most sensitive time into Max was a gifted craftsman who earned a fine Erie Boulevard. Known to his reputation for the custom homes he built. He was friends as Bob, he enjoyed compassionate hands a member of Temple Beth El and Temple Adath traveling especially on cruises Yeshurun. and watching SU football and Max was a loving and devoted husband, father, basketball. Bob was a member grandfather, and great-grandfather. He treasured of Congregation Beth Sholom- his family and they treasured him. His family will Chevra Shas. always remember him for his wisdom, advice, Bob was predeceased by his gentle presence, and appreciation of life. mother Thelma, and his father • Monument Consultation Max was predeceased by his loving wife, Ger- Abraham. He is survived by trude, of over 70 years; his beloved grandson Scott his son Alexander (Lori) of

Bryan Dubnoff; his parents; his siblings, Esther, Orlando, Florida, and his sis- • Pre-arrangements Sarah, Yehudith, Rachmiel, Rachel, Leibel, and ter Joanne (Glenn) Lystad of Jacob. Syracuse. He is survived by his daughter Estelle (Ira) Dub- Private graveside services noff; his son Steven; his grandchildren Neil (Judy in Poiley Tzedek Cemetery are Goldfarb) Dubnoff, Tracy (Neil) Seligman, Haley for the immediate family. A 3175 E. Genesee Street Dubnoff, Rachel Fishman, and Hannah Fishman; memorial gathering will be Syracuse, NY 13224 and great-grandchildren Samantha, Eliana, and held at a later date. Contribu- 315-446-4848 Gabriel Seligman, and Gabriella and Zachary Dub- tions in Bob’s memory can be [email protected] noff; and his nieces Rachel and Nechama. made to the Alzheimer’s Asso- wwwwww.sisskindfuneralservice.com.sisskindfuneralservice.com Graveside funeral services were conducted at ciation or Syracuse University. Beth El Cemetery. Contributions in Max’s mem- Sisskind Funeral Service ory may be made to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum: www.ushmm.org Sisskind Funeral Service

Since 1934, our mission statement ADELE LUCAS April 24, 2020 remains the same... Commitment to Family, with Compassion, Adele Lucas, a longtime Syracuse resident and member of Temple Society of Concord, died on April 24, 2020. She was 93. Integrity & Honesty Mrs. Lucas was born in Auburn, N.Y., and graduated from Ohio State University. She married Murray P. Lucas in 1948 and the couple settled in Syracuse. Mrs. Lucas was deeply involved in the school PTAs and activities of their four children. She and her husband trav- eled the world and loved opera and classical music concerts. She volunteered for many charities, including the Humane Association and Meals on Wheels. Mr. and Mrs. Lucas were honored as Volunteers of the Year by Crouse Hospital’s Auxiliary. Long active in the Demo- cratic Party, they considered a highlight meeting Hillary Clinton at a fundraiser. funeral service, inc. The Lucases moved to Riverside, California in 2005 to be near family. After her husband died in 2009, Mrs. Lucas continued to live independently in their apartment until May 2017, Martin J. & Elaine R. Birnbaum Joel M. Friedman when blindness forced her to move into assisted living. She is survived by her four children: Laurie Lucas (Ezra Greenhouse) of Riverside; Bonnie 1909 East Fayette Street • Syracuse, New York 13210 Lucas of New York City; Gary Lucas (Caroline Sinclair) of New York City; Stewart Lucas of 315-472-5291 Syracuse and a grandson, Max Greenhouse. Burial will be beside her beloved husband Murray in the Temple Concord section of [email protected] Woodlawn Cemetery. birnbaumfuneralserviceinc.com Donations in her memory may be made to the Food Bank at Temple Society of Concord. Sisskind Funeral Service June 2020 | jewishfederationcny.org 19 thank you ♥