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Sex, Culture and Society Salon Tuesday April 21 (Doors Open - 7:30 PM for Potluck Dinner) Please bring food & drink to share Program Begins at 8 PM Cybersex and the Law As growing numbers of people search for cyber connections via hookup apps, dating websites, and Craigslist, the possibilities for unknowingly crossing the line and engaging in illegal behaviors expand. With the ever- expanding use of cyber surveillance technologies, the possibilities of getting arrested for engaging in what was presumed to be mutually pleasurable texting/sexting have increased. For this evening's presentation, Dr. Leanna Wolfe will discuss an upcoming case in which she has been hired to provide expert witness testimony on BDSM, Erotic Role Play and The Impact of Social Media on Sex and Relationships. She will present Power Points Presentations she has prepared for a jury and discuss how she uses her insights on sexual subcultures to explain unfamiliar behaviors to mainstream juries. Leanna Wolfe, PhD Sexual Anthropologist www.drleannawolfe.com Dr. Leanna Wolfe holds a PhD in Sexology and an MA in Anthropology has published numerous scholarly articles and books, as well as conducting in- depth field work on polygamy, polyamory and infidelity all over the world. Dr. Wolfe produces these Sex, Culture and Society Salons, teaches anthropology at Los Angeles Valley College and does contract ethnographic and quantitative research and criminal court expert witness consultation. She has worked as a lecturer at The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and California State University Los Angeles. She is on the advisory board of the American College of Sexologists International and has been featured widely on television and radio, including Discovery and A&E. La Casa de Pensamiento Libre $5 Suggested Donation (Home of Leanna Wolfe) 14923 Marlin Place - Van Nuys, CA 91405 (End of the cul-de-sac between 14922 and 14927 Marlin Place) (818) 510-0225 If you have never been to La Casa de Pensamiento Libre in Van Nuys, please do not park on the driveway, block the entrance to the driveway or any neighbors' driveways. You are welcome to pull in to drop off people who are mobility impaired as well as bulky items. If you are allergy sensitive, please note that we have three dog and three cats. .

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