July Runner 2020

“Ah, summer, what power you have to make us suffer and like it.” ~ Russell Baker

Tree of the Month – Walnut Walnut trees belong to the plant genus Juglans. They grow around 30 to 130 feet Special Days tall, have pinnate (feather-like) leaves, and bloom in thespring. Independence Day The plant flourishes intemperate July 4 climates across the world and National Bikini Day is cultivated for its fine timber and prized nuts. July 5 harvested September through National Kitten Day The tree got its name from the November. China produces half July 10 Old English wealhhnutu, which of the world’s walnuts. TheUnited means “foreign nut,” as the tree States and Iran are also big World Emoji Day was brought over to England walnut growers. July 17 from the Gaul regions of National Ice CreamDay Western Europe. Walnuts are a healthy nut that is July 19 high in protein and omega-3 fatty The edible seeds of these acids. These nuts are often used deciduous trees are called in baked goods or served candied walnuts, which are usually as a sweet treat.

Birthstone – Ruby Flower – Larkspur The word ruby comes from the Many flowers got their names from Latin word rubens, meaning their colors, but the larkspur takes its “red.” Rubies can range in color from an animal. The flower’s scientific from light raspberry to dark purple. name, delphinium, is derived from the The Mogok rubies from Myanmar, Greek word for dolphin, delphis. As the formerly Burma, are the most valuable and larkspur begins to bloom, its petals sought-after rubies because of their color, form graceful arches and curve in a described as pigeon-blood red. Large rubies of bottle-like shape, resembling the nose good quality are very rare—and very of this joyful marine mammal. Larkspurs expensive. In fact, the ruby is the highest-priced of all colors are thought to symbolize feelings colored gemstone. of lightness and an open heart.

Page 1 ALL ABOUT JULY July 2020 Summer Blockbusters Woof Back to the Future (Goldberg) and Best Original July is often called the July 3, 1985 Screenplay Oscars. Ghost wasthe “dog days” of summer. This nickname comes from the Michael J. Fox stars as Marty highest-grossing movie of 1990. ancient Romans who referred McFly, an endearing, time- to the hot, humid days of July traveling teen, in this sci-fi Forrest Gump as dies caniculares, or “dog comic adventure that became July 6, 1994 days,” due to an association the highest-grossing film of This touching with Sirius, also called the dog the year (raking in over $380 drama won six star, in the summer night sky. million worldwide). The movie AcademyAwards, spawned two popular sequels including Best and made Fox into a heartthrob. Picture, Best Actor, and Best Director. Tom July Zodiacs Ghost Hanks played Forrest Gump, a Cancer (The Crab) July 13, 1990 kind, mentally disabled but highly July 1–22 Demi Moore, Patrick Swayze, capable man who succeeds in and Whoopi Goldbergdelighted everything he tries, from running Leo (The Lion) audiences in this romantic and football to shrimping, and July 23–31 drama. The smash hit earned unwittingly influences major Best SupportingActress events in history.

July was first called Quintilis, which meant “fifth month.” When Julius Caesar changed the Roman calendar in 44 BC, it became the seventh month of the year. Then, when Caesar was assassinated the next year, Quintilis, the month in which he had been born, was renamed Julius (July) in his honor. However, the name change was not made legal until four months later, when the appearance of a comet was taken to be a sign of Caesar’s power.

Fruits of July July Birthdays This month, you’ll find a bounty of fresh fruit Dan Aykroyd (comedian) – July 1, 1952 in gardens, grocery stores, and farmer’s Liv Tyler (actress) – July 1, 1977 markets near you. Among the many juicy Thurgood Marshall (U.S. Justice) –July 2, 1908 beauties at the peak of ripeness in July are apricots, cantaloupe, mangoes, Margot Robbie (actress) – July 2, 1990 blueberries, blackberries, kiwi, raspberries, Edie Falco (actress) – July 5,1963 plums, and peaches. Cucumbers, tomatoes, RZA (musician) – July 5, 1969 and avocados (which are all technically Chen Xiao (actor) – July 5, 1987 fruits) are especially good in July as well. Kevin Hart (comedian) – July 6, 1979 What’s Lucky in July? Wolfgang Puck (chef) – July 8, 1949 Sofía Vergara (actress) – July 10, 1972 Lucky Color: Gold Julio Cesar Chavez (boxer) – July 12, 1962 Lucky Animal: Panther Lucky Letters: V and H BerniceAbbott (photographer) – July 17, 1898 Lucky Day: Thursday Maya Rudolph (comedienne) – July 27, 1972 Lucky Plant: Violet Emily Brontë (writer) – July 30, 1818

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7/2 Leonard Eksterowicz 7/13 Agnes McDevitt 7/2 Libby Goldstein 7/13 Walburta Nelson 7/2 Edwin Merow 7/14 Rosalie Scamardi 7/2 Grace Metrokas 7/17 Theresa Miletto 7/3 Doris Starr 7/17 Helen Weitman 7/4 Mary Ruth Palan 7/18 Stanley Feldman 7/4 Inna Stavropolsky 7/18 Eleanor Kuntz 7/4 Marie Taraschi 7/19 Mary Fiala 7/5 Ana Kennedy 7/20 Sarah Glaccum 7/5 Miriam Pellegrino 7/21 Dolores Nocitra 7/5 Charles White 7/22 Albert Mezger 7/6 Leonard Fulton 7/22 Annette Parkin 7/7 Harriet Finestone 7/24 Joan Burnes 7/9 Robert Halpern 7/24 Allen Gellert 7/9 Jane Norton 7/24 Dolores Kozlow 7/10 Beatric Rudnick 7/25 Edith Sklar 7/10 Alfred Schuyler 7/26 Anne Ellis 7/11 Irving Lederman 7/26 Franceline Malone 7/12 Sylvia Flancer 7/28 Sarah Maxwell 7/12 Juanita Lewandowski 7/30 John Roehm

Page 3 EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR’S EDITION July 2020

Dear Residents and Families,

We know that the past few months have been long and we understand your frustration with the continued restrictions.

We remind all independent living residents that as a vulnerable age-group, to continue to wear a face mask (covering both nose and mouth), social distance and hand sanitize often when outside of your apartment. Hand sanitizing stations are located throughout the building. Philadelphia is still in the Yellow Phase and in an effort to provide the greatest level of safety for our residents, we will maintain our restrictions on visitation within our community.

We are hopeful that the Green phase is not far off, possibly the beginning of July, and we can begin to relax some restrictions for independent living residents at that time.

Adult visitors wishing to see independent living, personal care and skilled nursing residents can come to the community and stand outside of your loved one’s window for a short visit. We have designated from 10 AM-1 PM and 6:30 PM- 8:00 PM as the hours for family members to come onto the property to wave/ visit at the windows. Please properly wear your facemask when visiting on the property and please abide by the prescribed time frames.

For those residents who do not have a window facing the street, please contact Erin Samsel or another Community Life member at 215-934-3023 or 215-934-3043 to arrange for someone to give you access to the area outside the resident’s window.

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We will continue to evaluate our visitation policy as we monitor guidance from the Pennsylvania Department of Health and the City of Philadelphia’s Secretary of Health.

This is the latest guidance:

Update on visitation: Dr. Rachael Levine, Secretary of PA Department of Health issued guidance for nursing homes, personal care homes, and other long-term and congregate care facilities as counties enter the green phase of the Governor’s Process to Reopen Pennsylvania: “To further prevent outbreaks within these vulnerable populations, ongoing restrictions in long-term and congregate care facilities will remain in place at least 28 days after the respective facility’s county enters the green phase

You can continue to get the latest FAQ at this link: https://www.paulsrun.org/covid-19-faqs

Check-out our Facebook page for highlights of what has been going on throughout the Paul’s Run community. www.facebook.com/paulsrunretirementcommunity

Thank you for your continued cooperation,

William R. Hines Executive Director

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PAUL’S RUN GRATEFULLY ACKNOWLEDGES THE FOLLOWING TRIBUTE GIFTS

IN MEMORY OF:

Sylvia Donato Joseph Eden

By: Mr. & Mrs. Berardino A. Dintino By: Ms. Linda Spector Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Babiasz Ms. Denise Mazza

Angelo Finocchio Daniel Gallagher

By: Mr. & Mrs. David C. Gallo By: Mr. & Mrs. Louis Farino Ms. Joanne Ritchie Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Morton Edna Wilkinson Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Mitchell Mr. Thomas A. Rovito By: Ms. Caroline R. Willms

Marilyn Lubaroff Diana Shanker

By: Ms. Sheila L. Weinstein By: Mr. & Mrs. Michael Faulkner Mr. & Mrs. Murray A. Fineman Ms. Phylisa Goldenberg Mr. & Mrs. Mark I. Trachtman Ms. Miriam Lefkowitz Mr. Michael Kehoe Mr. Joel Goldstein

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It has been amazing seeing so many of your faces in the last month, both in my programs but in passing as well. In a recent Music & Memories we listened to Simon & Garfunkel’s Bridge over Troubled Water. Afterwards we talked about what serves as our personal “bridges” during these troubling times. Spending time with friends and listening to music were frequently mentioned, in addition to exercising and talking with family on the phone.

In order to better serve your needs, an additional session of Music & Memories is being added to the calendar beginning the week of July 6. I have never felt quite as popular as I have the last few weeks… if only my high school self could see me now. That being said, attendance will be limited to one group per week. You cannot attend both Music & Memories groups. The music therapy schedule for July is as follows:

Music & Memories Wednesdays at 1:15pm Thursdays at 3:00pm

Paul’s Run Singers Rehearsal Fridays at 1:15pm

I hope to resume Paul’s Run Bells rehearsal end of July/early August. If you have interest in joining, please let me know.

Weekly reservation is required for all programs. Call 215-934-3023 to reserve your place. My programs can also be watched from the comfort of your mask-free apartment on Channel 97.

I am thinking of each of you. Wear your mask. Wash your hands. Social distance. Stay well. I wish you the best and look forward to seeing you!

Musically, Molly

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Decency, a change method by Jack Birnbaum

Mankind are creatures who over centuries have accepted living together as essential to life To live together with each person an individual with goals and ambitions, does create strife In group or individual interaction, it has led to at times to both madness and mayhem Neither law, ethics, custom, treaties, philosophy alone or in tandem can this trait stem There is I believe one quality if included in interactions is of a quality to change the game That quality is human decency, always present, but seldom invited to intervene by name

Inclusion of decency make it a threat those actors whose purpose are solely to gain a win Decency a quality designed to reduce friction, effect resolution, through eviction of sin To qualify one must be committed to perform within high standards of behavior It mandates respect for others views, requires pursuit of data relative to an issues core The conformation of information and pledge to follow wherever this information leads Inclusion and respect for others to seek resolutions just and with the meeting of needs To conduct of meetings honestly with respect use of compromise as a tool being one aspect

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Decency, a change method – Page 2 By Jack Birnbaum

If such a proposition seems idealistic and too unreasonable for mankind to accept See the Constitutional Convention of 1779, that designed such, in many a respect It produced a document a plan for governance and a process to resolve areas of dispute A process that needs time to resolve conflict and an infusion of the human decency’s couth While I cannot provide a program, this dream to attain I propose both an outline and a scheme

It begins with an agreement of goals, those issues universal. not one group, a mankind’s team It requires sharing of resources a sense of equality a pledge to respect differences in genes Sound familiar? It mirrors our Declaration and Constitution a rule of law, a system of just Pointing out the difficulties are musts for use of decency within such a system to be worthy of trust Its demands are high but can one expect less where decency rules over life’s many a lust?

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Making the World a Better Place by Jack Birnbaum

On a 1920;’s stage a cowboy twirling a lasso in a twangy voice, spun homilies making the world a better place His name Will Rogers he spun his yarn with a crooked smile on his face and in a scratchy sound & languid pace he spun the spirit and love of the message that he got performing for the audience upon and from that stage. Though the general aphorism is expressed, the best things in life are free, but these are of the most value in our age

Other expressions of life guidance such as; It is what it is Otherwise seen as; Be yourself but as much as you can be

A third such; An apple a day keeps the doctor away Otherwise; An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure

Another warning is; Patience Is a virtue Otherwise advised; Know something before offering to help

Advice & guide; The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree Otherwise; Know of a family tree and background ere decision

General guidance; Experience, education are not precedent Otherwise; but based on experience nothing helps this president

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About Imagination by Jack Birnbaum

When asked to define the word imagination it left me to feel old My mind went blank my tongue was tied my knees were bowed My vaunted vocabulary had no words to dole, my sweat ran cold I swallowed hard, said that study was needed went back to my abode

Where would I find information of the mysteries of the human mind? In torment a melody imagination a Sinatra song into my ear it did find

Imagination it said, is very crazy Your whole prospective gets hazy Starts you asking a daisy What to do, what to do

Imagination? Oscar Hammerstein said think Springtime I am starry eyed and vaguely discontented like a nightingale without a song to sing oh why should I have spring fever when it isn’t even spring?

300 years afore Shakespeare speaks these words to his Jester

Alas poor Yorick I knew him, he bore me a thousand times. Here hung those lips I have kissed, where be your jibes, your? gambols, your songs to set the table on a roar? no one to mock your grins? quiet chap-fallen?

So, when next you ask about the subject imagination I will dispatch you to the 3 geniuses at their station

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The Month of July By Ed Scully

You may not know that Neil Diamond is now retired and afflicted with Parkinson’s Disease. I was indeed fortunate to attend his performance three years ago, with my daughter Susan, at the Wells Fargo Center as part of his 50th Anniversary National Tour. Before a packed house he made his entrance among a montage display of his life story (then 76 years) shown on a diamond shaped video behind a mammoth stage of eleven musicians and back up singers, sisters Julia and Maxine Waters. He sang probably 20 familiar numbers including (Don’t be surprised) “ Sweet Caroline”, written in 1969. It would take too many pages to describe the whole show, especially his closing of it with “America” dedicated to the USA including his grandparents, lured to the USA by “the freedom of speech and freedom of religion”. The stage turned red, white and blue as the screens showed generations of immigrants arriving in pursuit of the “American Dream”, as embodied by the great star of the show, Neil Diamond.

This short presentation is made to our residents because many of us are immigrants or children of them, and quite a few of us are, like the attendees of the show… many with walkers, wheelchairs and canes. Mention is made of this. Neil Diamond’s last show in Philadelphia, because of his very patriotic them and because July 4 is coming very shortly, because Philadelphia is where it all started. Mr. Diamond chose our city as a fitting location to present his closing swan song. USA! USA! USA! USA!

In the May Newsletter, you were asked if you know who Paul is or was, the person who bears the first name of our retirement community in Bustleton. To date, there has been no response from our residents, and of course no one will receive a prize; which would have been having your picture on the front page of the Philadelphia Inquirer. Therefore, on my own, I have identified Paul to be no other than Paul Bunyan, the famed and hardy woodsman, lumberjack and sailor who traveled all the streams surrounding this lovely community… but never did he travel any part at all of this run where we reside. He is a replica of the esteemed Jim Thorpe, who never visited Mauch Chuk in Pennsylvania, but the area was named after him anyway. He and Paul could be brothers. This is a historical story that will be presented to fifth grade students when returning to Philadelphia schools sometime ever.

Page 12 July 2020 Are We Yellow Yet? By Sr. Dorothy Dowd

First, let me explain the two photographs is last month’s issue of The Runner. The first two pictures presented did not scan for the paper. You were not seeing double! So another picture was scanned. And, lo and behold, two pictures of me were in print. And the picture of the four Navajo second graders reading in the library was absent. Sorry about that.

They say (whoever “they” is) you should not say “thank you” for fear of missing someone. This fact can be true. Let me just proceed anyhow.

Thank you for all those involved with the photos and information of those who have passed on. We appreciate that gift to us.

One man pictured deserves a tribute, in my opinion. Dave Weinstein was a treasure in many ways. He truly enjoyed his weekly trip to the Mall for a hamburger and coke. Those of us who visited in the auditorium benefitted from his piano playing.

One time I told him; “ You can play anytime you want”. A little encouragement never hurts, does it? On day he was sitting in the corner in the front lobby. He stated: “I’ll be back playing the piano as soon as my shoulder gets better”. That did not happen, but he sure did have the wish.

Dave was a true gentleman here. And I am grateful for having known him.

Maybe another resident might like to honor someone in this paper. Go for it!

We Sisters who lived in the Southwest, also lost a friend. Brother Bart was known for his fine wood carvings. A while back, I was fortunate to sit next to him at a Franciscan celebration. As our Sr. Gloria had a casket made by him, I asked him if he would make a casket for me. Dead silence! I quickly told him, “I am fine, just planning for the future”. Well, plans don’t always get accomplished!

And now into another subject. Transition music please.

Gift Giving By Sr. Dorothy Dowd

Can you remember the first gift you gave to someone? I can remember very vividly.

It was My Day, May First, falling on a Saturday, home from school, when I was in third grade. There was a knock on the front door. As it was a classmate, I ran to open the door. Handed to me was a May basket. I thanked the visitor, and showed the basket to my mother. Page 13 July 2020

Gift Giving – Page 2 By Sr. Dorothy Dowd

“You must give him something”, she said.

“I don’t have anything to give”, I replied.

“Give him your playing cards”, she said.

The car fortunately will still parked on the street, so I rushed to get my cards to the car. That “give- away” was not easy! Those brand new cards were from my birthday, and I was saving them for the summer.

Did I get another pack of cards? No! What is given is not replaced. That is a lesson learned at an early age.

Did it make giving easier? Yes! Yes! That incident made me less selfish, I believe. As you very well know, there is joy in giving.

Someone on my floor was extremely generous and gave gifts to me. Edna knew she did not need all her belongings, and shared them with me. Her gentle spirit is missed.

Another transition…

The title of this paper: Are We Yellow Yet? Also refers to another incident. We were traveling from D.C. to Chicago for a meeting during Thanksgiving weekend. Every once in a while we would hear, “Are we there yet”? Finally, this person was fined 25 cents for every time those words were uttered. That statement finished the questioning.

That’s all, folks!

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New Companion By Jean Civitillo

I was grateful for your sympathy for the passing of my cat Reggie.

My daughter and her husband came from Lancaster to the parking lot to deliver a new cat, Raina. She is a female and we “girls” have bonded. She is litter box trained, loving and a great companion. I am never alone and glad I can give her a home; which we enjoy together.

A Hug and a Kiss By Arnie Escourt

Take my hand, it is still ready and strong. Hand in hand, we can walk along. We will avoid the thorns of mundane affairs. And smell the flowers because we care.

Hold my arm and come with me. Away, far away from evil, injustice and penury. We can go to a mystic place not so far away. Where love rules all and work is play.

Take wings with me my little dove. Together we will go to the Isle ofLove. There exotic flowers and fruits copiously grow. No clocks to warn us, it is time to go.

There we can live a life that is dear and true. With someone who cares so much for you. Everyone should be half of a loving pair. Unknown to jealousy, worry or fear.

Hands are held by the light of the moon and bodies quiver to loves erotic tune. Day and night the song birds chirp andpeep. And lovers are too excited to go to sleep.

To kiss and embrace are ecstasy. Each slowly slipping into that special actuality! It doesn't seem so far from here to there. It doesn't matter, if you really share.

Yes, if you take this glorious trip with me. A hug and a kiss are the only fee. Hold my hand it is strong and fair. Together we can plan to journey there! Page 15 July 2020

The New Orchestra By Arnie Escourt

This little city had a fine orchestra that existed for many years and played well, but was hit hard by this new virus. Many members were older and in the most vulnerable age group and had to be replaced for the new seasons‘ program.

The leader tried to lead them into playing a familiar tune and the result was very poor. "What is the problem, we are not playing together, asked the conductor?

The drummer began to bang on his drums and called out, "The police are hitting and hurting many people who are protesting and praying as they should"!

The violinist played a shrill note on his instrument and told his friends that he had seen the cops use choke holds and thought those tactics were horrible and wrong. “Aren't they supposed to protect and assist us“?

The bugler played "Taps" and all payed attention. "I'm fed up with all these killings of Black men who should never have been hurt!“

The flute player played a few notes and told the group that she thought the public schools were not giving her children a quality education.

The saxophone player played something and then called out, "No one cares about all the poor people in America. There are over a million poor people here who can't pay their bills or rent!"

The leader tapped his baton on his stand and took his leadership role and then asked the group to each summit their concerns to him. "I will share all your concerns with the mayor and when we play, we will share all of them to our audiences so that all our concerns will get recognition and perhaps we can get things to change for the better. The people we elect are responsible for making decisions and laws about improving our health, education, safety and well being“!

"Now let us play "God Bless America" together to show we really care about each other"!

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My Desire By Arnie Escourt

She was beautiful and so aware Such pretty shining hair. With poise, charm and versatile brain But she doesn't rattle on like a loose chain.

A gentle touch and it was warm Being close to you, it was hard to conform Beneath the rustling leaves in the park Was my desire to embrace you in the dark.

The hours just hung there overhead Reminded me that goodbyes had to be said. I needed to delay, to linger, to stay on Hating to say the words that make the day gone.

Holding tighter for as long as I could Knowing full well the behavior I should That last kiss came full with my passion But then I had to leave in proper fashion.

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Picnic at the Park Use the clues to fill in the crossword.

ACROSS DOWN 3. Relative of a quilt 1. Lawn growth 5. Carrot, broccoli, etc. 2. Unsweetened biscuits 6. Long seat 3. Wickerwork 8. Seedy fruit 4. Vacuum bottle 10. Snickerdoodle and gingersnap 7. Fried treat 12. Food named after an earl 9. Crumb catchers 13. Tined utensil 10. Crunchy snacks 14. Kids’ recreation area 11. Frankfurter 16. Swiss or cheddar 15. Citrus drink 17. Soup utensil 17. Carbonated drink 18. Picnic side dish 19. Picnic pests 20. The outdoors 21. Pears and apples Page 18 JUNE 2020 CROSSWORD SOLUTION

Page 19 CLASSIFIEDS July 2020 MAIL ISSUES RESIDENTS ARE Like Us On ASKED TO RETURN Facebook TO THE RECEPTIONISTS ANY MISDIRECTED PAUL’S DELIVERY FROM THE RUN UNITED STATES POST OFFICE. THE RECEPTIONISTS WILL ASSURE IT IS RETURNED TO THE POSTAL WORKER FOR DELIVERY TO THE CORRECT RECIPIENT.

THE GENERAL STORE House HOURS OF OPERATION Keeping (During COVID-19)

MONDAY THE HOUSEKEEPING 10:30AM-3:30PM DEPARTMENT IS ASKING FOR YOUR COOPERATION IN MAINTAINING A SANITARY TUESDAY PAUL’S RUN ENVIRONMENT FOR ALL OF 10:30AM-3:30PM Beauty Shop OUR RESIDENTS. IS CURRENTLY WEDNESDAY CLOSED. 10:30AM-3:30PM REMEMBER TO WASH YOUR HANDS FREQUENTLY WITH SOAP AND WATER OR WITH WE LOOK THURSDAY 10:30AM-3:30PM HAND SANITZER WHEN FORWARD TO AWAY FROM SOAP AND SEEING YOU WATER. WHEN IT FRIDAY REOPENS 10:30AM-3:30PM SATURDAY 11AM-1PM

SUNDAY Closed

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