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KY FEATURES | courier-journal.com/features THE COURIER-JOURNAL | MONDAY,MARCH 12,2012 | D5 Don’t remain silent about abuse DAILYCROSSWORD Across 46 Clean up, as one’s 18 Walks on little 37 “The Fugitive” 1Professional org. toys cat feet actress Ward Dear Annie: My son married with him, Ilikely would have 6Like bachelor 47 Pure as the driven 22 In real time 39 Ibsen’s“Peer __” awoman with a3-year-old daugh- ended our relationship. parties snow 23 Fancy-shmancy 40 Picks up on ter,“Suzy.” Suzy’sbiological ANNIE’S “Jim” says he loves me more 10 Slightly open 48 Capitol topper jelly 42 Courses father,“Duke,” has shared cus- MAILBOX than anything and that Ihave 14 Gift from an 49 Easter bloom 24 British taken to boost one’sGPA tody. made his whole life better.Even oyster 50 Organization that submachine Kathy Mitchell held its first troop guns 43 Many-petaled When Imet Duke’sfamily, though he knows how much I 15 Old El Paso Marcy Sugar product meeting 3/12/1912 25 Popular flowers, we became quite friendly.Over hate the bad language, he never familiarly 16 General principle 56 Vicinity funding time, I’ve learned agreat deal apologizes when he curses and source for 44 Happy as __ 17 Motto of 57 Airline that about Duke’schildhood and how makes no effort to control his 50-Across serves only kosher 50-Across 45 British county he sexually abused his younger mouth. He swears whenever he meals 26 Eternities, Dear W.C.:Keeping quiet 19 Whodunit hint 46 Surveys brother and sister for several gets angry. 58 Patty Hearst’s seemingly about abuse is never agood idea. 20 Org. for mature 48 Weebit o’ Scotch, years. When Duke molested a It is disrespectful when he nom de guerre 27 Shed some say Duke may not have abused any audiences only? neighborhood child, his church uses that language in front of 59 Pigsty, so to speak tears 51 Under the children in the intervening 21 “Small” intervened and sent him to a me. What can Ido? allegations 60 Hardwood trees 29 Yours of yore weather years, but it is unlikely that he is facility for two years until he —There’saLady Present 23 Climbs 61 Enjoyed Aspen 31 Saint of Assisi 52 Tree on the “cured.” And the temptation of Connecticut turned 18. Duke’sparents truly Dear Lady:You could try 27 Common takeout 33 High anxiety being around young children quarter believe their son is no threat to behavior modification, gently cuisine Down 34 Objectionable, without his parents’ supervision 53 Prefix with Suzy,and that his “childish sexu- calling attention to his cursing 28 Seats at the bar 1Police dept.’s“Be as ahabit could undo his resolve. Please verse al abuse” is athing of the past. every time he does it, asking 29 Hot-platter stand on the lookout!” 36 Eliza Doolittle, explain to your daughter-in-law alert to Henry 54 Deadlock Suzy is now 9and shows no him to find another word and 30 State flower of and her parents how horrific it 2Observe Higgins 55 Unhappy signs of having been abused. even kissing him each time he Indiana would be not only for his girl- 3Sticky trunk stuff SATURDAY’S SOLUTION Duke still lives with his parents, uses amore acceptable expres- 31 Argentina friend’schildren but also for neighbor 4Bobby of hockey and Ibelieve their constant sion. Youcould ask him to Duke should he backslide. He 32 Sunbather’sgoal 5With no mistakes involvement probably has pre- deposit adollar in a“swear jar” should not be around young chil- 35 Invisible or 6Red carpet vented any abuse. each time he is inappropriate. dren without others keeping an indelible fluids interviewees Duke recently became Youcould walk away whenever eye on the situation. Simply wait- 36 Practiced, as a 7Rain delay roll-out involved with awidow who has he uses aword you don’tlike. ing until something happens is trade 8Expert five young children. He now But these methods are most not in anyone’sbest interest. 37 Video game giant 9Baby sponsored at spends all of his time at her effective when he cooperates. Dear Annie: How can Iget 38 Show with abaptism home. Should Itell his new girl- regional spinoffs 10 Mysterious my husband to stop cursing? We Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar are long- friend about his past? 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