ST. JUDE THADDEUS CHURCH A Roman Catholic presence in Budd Lake since 1930 17 Mount Olive Road | Budd Lake, NJ 07828 https://www.stjudeparish.org

(973) 691-1561/1564 | Fax: (973) 691-9060 https://www.facebook.com/st.judebuddlake Parish Office hours: 9:00AM to 4:00PM, Mon – Fri

VISION – The Vision of St. Jude is to welcome everyone to become ONE catholic family, with fullness of life, living the Paschal Mystery, in the Holy Spirit, with Mary as our companion.

ONLINE GIVING – Enrolling in Online Giving today is a great way to ensure your gifts to St. Jude are received even while you are traveling. Visit https://www.myowngiving.com/Default.aspx?cid=1680. Thank you for your continued support of our parish family.

CELEBRATION OF THE EUCHARIST SPIRITUAL LIFE

Saturday Evening (Vigil)...... 5:30PM Reconciliation: Celebrated on Saturday from 4:00 – 5:00 PM, or by appointment with the priest. Parish Penance Sunday ...... 8:00AM, 10:00AM, 12:00PM, 5:00PM (No 5:00PM Mass during July and August) Services are celebrated during Advent and Lent.

Monday through Saturday…...... 9:00AM Eucharistic Adoration: First Friday following the 9:00AM Mass until 6:30PM, followed by Benediction and Novena to Holy Days ...... 9:00AM, 7:00PM St. Jude.

RCIA: The RCIA process is open to those who have never been baptized as well as those baptized into a different PARISH STAFF faith, and those needing to complete the sacraments of Eucharist and/or Confirmation. The group meets Tuesdays at 7:00PM. If interested, contact Deb for more information Rev. J. Antonio Gaviria, Pastor ...... Ext 13 at [email protected]. [email protected] Anointing of the Sick: At any time, the sacrament of Deacon Anthony Siino...... Ext 19 healing is available to all who are seriously ill, hospitalized Director of Music or preparing for surgery, as well as those of advanced age. [email protected] Please contact the parish office to make arrangements for administration of the sacrament. If there is an emergency, Deacon John M. Sanker...... Ext 12 please call 973-691-1561 Ext 14. Pastoral Assistant [email protected] Parish Registration: Is requested of all individual persons and families who worship regularly with us on Sundays and Mrs. Helena Maines ...... Ext 10 who intend to participate in the life of our parish with their Office Manager time, talents, and treasure. For more information, call the [email protected] Parish Office at 973-691-1561 or stop by the Information Office after any Mass on Saturday or Sunday. Registration Mrs. Laurice Bonannella ...... Ext 18 is necessary for the issuing of sponsor certificates.

Director Christian Faith Formation (973) 691-0317 [email protected] Matrimony: Contact the parish office at least six months before the prospective date.

Mrs. Linda Klekner ...... Ext 18 Baptism: Baptism Preparation Class is held on the second Faith Formation Assistant (973) 691-0317 Monday of every other month at 7:00PM in the church. [email protected] Baptisms are held on Saturday at 12:00 Noon and Sunday

at 2:00PM. Call the parish office to register for class and to Dr. Deb Kuzma ...... Ext 23 schedule Baptism. Next Class: November 12th. Director of Adult Formation (973) 691-0038 [email protected] Divine Mercy Prayer Group: Meets on the First Friday of every month, and the second Sunday of every month at Mr. Mike Sabella 3:00PM in the Daily Chapel. Evangelization Coordinator Fellowship Prayer Group: Meets every Wednesday from [email protected] 7:00 – 8:00PM in the Daily Chapel.

For All For Veterans All For Veterans All For Veterans DeSolis Josephine Cerrato, Louis All For Veterans 5:00 p.m. Betty Maggipinto All For Veterans Noon 12:00 LoPresti Frank Msgr. Patrick E. Brown 10:00 a.m. Torrisi Alfio Sun a.m. 8:00 Sat 5:30 p.m. & LoPresti Frank Mickey Dorothy Martin Sat 9:00 a.m. Castellano Adele Castelino, Lily Rilli Cosima Fri a.m. 9:00 Martin Dorothy 9:00Thurs a.m. Rosa Calcerano Rosine Wed a.m. 9:00 LoPresti Michelena a.m. Coppola, 9:00 Tues Maria Mon a.m. 9:00 Martin Dorothy p.m. 5:00 Sanker David LoPresti Michelena Noon 12:00 Rose Bernhard LoPesti, Michelena Schroth a.m. 10:00 DeVito Sun. a.m. 8:00 Frank/Francesco Sat 5:30 p.m. & LoPresti Frank Mickey Arthur Phyllis Torrisi Brusca hcs ,0.0 $2,316.01 $5,002.00 $1,252.50 Fund $Maintenance 2,645.24 Total 209 $ 8,570.51 Giving Online Cash Checks Envelopes The The for the bus trip. Please consider joining us on this Knights us onthis joining busPlease consider the trip. for Thank you for responding with generosity to our financial our to financial generosity with responding you for Thank Will be held on Friday, January 18th. There is NO COST 18th. NO There is January beheld on Friday, Will needs. To give is an act of faith. We promise to bewise promise anact of To is We give needs. faith. of Columbus sponsored peaceful demonstration of our of demonstration sponsoredpeaceful Columbus of

Respect Life Values. All parishioners are welcome! welcome! are parishioners All Values. Life Respect 2019 “March for Life Bus Trip to Washington D.C.” Washington to for Bus Trip Life 2019 “March stewards with the funds that you entrust us. entrust to you that the funds with stewards

FINANCIAL BLESSINGS THIRTY-FIRST SUNDAY THIRTY-FIRST IN ORDINARY TIME TIME ORDINARY IN Sunday’s Collection Collection Sunday’s NOVEMBER 4, 2018 4, NOVEMBER MASS INTENTIONS October 27th & 27th 28th October SAVE THE DATESAVE THE God Bless God You.

12:00 Noon Fr. Antonio Antonio Fr. Fr. Antonio Noon 12:00 Fr. Ben 10:00 AM 5:00 PM Antonio Fr. 8:00 AM 11th November Andrew John Fr. 10th November 5:30 PM When you give to a charitable organization, it is important it important is organization, to give acharitable you When Counties. You can make a pledge with confidence when confidence can apledge with You make Counties. agencies, seminarian education, our urban elementary elementary urban our education, seminarian agencies, Appeal funds are used for no other purpose and serve noother purpose andserve used are for funds Appeal Please wisely. used the are that funds beconfident to Please drop off in the Narthex before or after masses. after before or masses. Narthex in the off drop Please Knit Cap, Gloves - Waterproof Non-Leather Gore Gore Tex Non-Leather Cap, - Gloves Waterproof Knit supports the following causes: our Catholic Charities Charities Catholic our causes: the following supports priests’ extraordinary healthcare needs. In addition, addition, needs.In healthcare extraordinary priests’ Hooded Zippered Sweatshirt or Heavy Flannel Shirt Shirt Heavy or Flannel Sweatshirt Hooded Zippered only those who live in Morris, Passaic and Sussex andSussex Passaic in Morris, thosewho live only is returned to the parish directly own for its needs. directly parish to the returned is 2018-2019 Winter Homeless Outreach Campaign Campaign Homeless Outreach Winter 2018-2019 schools and our priests’ retirement residence and residence retirement priests’ schools andour know that your gift to the Bishop’s Annual Appeal Appeal the Bishop’sAnnual to gift your know that Insulated/Thermal Underwear Tops and Bottoms Underwear and Bottoms Tops Insulated/Thermal 50% of all funds received over a parish’s goals a over parish’sgoals all fundsreceived 50% of Wool/Nylon Blend Socks/Acrylic Heavy Socks Socks/Acrylic Blend Wool/Nylon Want to know more about Operation Chillout? Chillout? Operation know about to more Want Mass Schedule For November 10th &11th November For Schedule Mass Please, only new and unused warm clothing. clothing. newwarm andunused only Please, Size Large or X-Large for Women & Large, & or Large Women for X-Large Size All Filled Backpacks are due on or before dueonor are before Backpacks Filled All Backpacks Available: After any Mass After any on Available: Backpacks For your convenience, you an you can make convenience, your For you give to the Bishop’s Annual Appeal. Appeal. the Bishop’s Annual to give you November 10 November 2018 BISHOP’S ANNUAL APPEAL 2018 BISHOP’S Check (please remove purchase labels) labels) purchase remove (please X-Large and XX-Large for Men. for andXX-Large X-Large OPERATION CHILLOUT Heavy Flannel Shirt-Jac Shirt-Jac Flannel Heavy www.2018appeal.org online gift or pledge at or gift online www.operationchillout.org December 1 December Here I AM, Lord! AM, Lord! Here I

What to Pack: to What Thank Thank you! th &11 \

th in the Narthex. the in st /2 nd . .

begins at7:45 and usuallycompletes by 10:45.You little as $11.00 and our typical weekly payouts aver- Council 6100 invites you to play

enables the Council to support a myriad of charita- nings in the Parish Center. This weekly fundraiser can play every game (1 board each game) for as support of the parish and parishactivities. Bingo ble donationsincluding over $12,000annually in The Knights of Columbus Fr. Joseph A.Cassidy 17, 2018 November Saturday, Cathedral John Baptist St. the

age over The Cathedral of St. John the Baptist PM 4:00 Baptist - of St. the John Cathedral The Mass is sponsored by the Paterson Federation Federation Paterson the sponsoredby Mass is

973-446-0786 or go to: All are invited and encouraged to attend. to and encouraged are invited All ANNUAL RESPECT FOR LIFE MASS a friend! For more information call: 2018 Diocesan Concert Concert Christmas 2018 Diocesan Paterson, NJ 10:00 AM BINGO AT ST. JUDE AT ST. PARISH BINGO Knights of Columbus Councils Columbus Councils of Knights $2400 Sunday, December 2, 2018 2, December Sunday, SAVE THE DATESAVE THE . Comejoin . the funand bring

BINGO BINGO

kofc6100.org BINGO Friday eve-

Shampoo & Soap Tooth Paste Paste Tooth Brownie Mix 20lbs.** Bags noLarger Cat Dog & Food Canned/Dry: - Paper Products & Jam Jelly & Soap Shampoo (Vegetable) Oil Canned Corn Muffin Mix Crackers/Cookies Dishes Rice/Side Stews Pasta Mix/Frosting Coffee Butter Peanut Pasta Hot Broth & Soup NCheese Mac & Boxed Canned Veggies Sauce Chocolate Canned Tuna/Chicken Tea Cereals Mix Oatmeal/Reg. Canned & Fruit Instant A course in Basic Catholicism for thosewhoabrush- need for BasicCatholicism course in A up, those who missed it the first time around, or or those who timearound, the first it thosewhoup, missed grades Kindergarten through 7th Grade and their parents andparents Grade their 7th through grades Kindergarten **Food Pantries are not permitted to purchase Pet Food. Food. purchase Pet permitted to not are Pantries **Food Attend classes, meet our staff and experience first hand first andexperience staff our meet classes, Attend On Friday, November 9, 2018, prospective students in students in prospective 9, 2018, November Friday, On This weekend November 3 weekend November This These donations w donations These are invited to spend the day at St. Joseph School. St. Joseph at School. spendday to the invited are As always your generosity is greatly appreciated. appreciated. greatly is generosity your As always December 8th: The Handmaid’s Tale Tale Mary - Handmaid’s The 8th: December insidethewalls.org/catholicism-from-scratch Collection for Hope House, Dover and the andthe HopeHouse, Dover for Collection never heard it before. Fall 2018 schedule: 2018schedule: Fall heard before. it never The following items are being requested: requested: being are items The following the vibrant learning environment at SJS. at SJS. environment learning the vibrant Sunday, November 4th, until 6:00PM. until 4th, November Sunday, November 13th: Saints in the Making inthe Saints 13th: November To register: call 973-543-7474 ext. 7 ext. 973-543-7474 call register: To from being abandoned at shelters.** shelters.** being abandonedat from Follow Facebook and Instagram at at andInstagram Facebook Follow Church Doors will remain openon remain will Doors Church MONTHLY FOODCOLLECTION ST. PAUL INSIDE THE WALLS Catholicism from Scratch from Scratch Catholicism Visit For more information visit: visit: information more For ST. JOSEPH SCHOOL Mendham, New Jersey New Jersey Mendham, Mt. Olive Food Pantry Pantry Food Olive Mt. 205 Madison Avenue Avenue 205 Madison www.sjsmendham.org sjsmendhamnj. sjsmendhamnj. Madison NJ NJ Madison ill assist our com Or Or

rd

&4 Mix/Syrup th is our Monthly Food Monthly our is panion animals animals panion

friends are invited to attend the Mass followed by light refreshments in the Parish Center. ParishCenter. in the refreshments light by the attend Mass to followed invited are friends zygote and is no larger than a single grain of sand. Cell division begins mere moments after fertilization. A function called called A function fertilization. after moments begins mere division of grain sand.Cell a than single no andis larger zygote know how many to prepare prepare for. to know howmany so we list in the pleasevestibule uponthe sign 5:30 Mass PM the Veterans andreception, beattending will you If another one. submit donot pastyou needto in the picture board hadyour 3/4. onthe have you If November weekend the andpaper picture noPlace “Veteransin anenvelope basket anddrop than Mass” marked this in the collection later service). time of at the apicture submit possible (if paper of piece or picture of the back onthe service of and branch of service, time with 4” name,rank, 6”) than x larger (no please apicture put Board, on placed Veterans the picture haveto a andwouldlike a are Veteran you member If a or family (Pictures). a have Board Veterans willagain We at behonored 5:30 Veterans Jude PM will the 10 St. mass onNovember 201-230-0955. at Kaufhold Mel contact please Rosary Society the in joining Any women interested up signed you for. dessert any that Please bring new, unique human individual begins the journey of development. At the earliest stage, the new person is referred to as to a new referred stage, is the person earliest At the of development. journey the begins individual human new, unique blastocyst and is about 0.1 - 0.2 mm in diameter. This week the mother’s body will experience a hormone reaction to reaction the a hormone experience will body diameter. This week mother’s 0.1 0.2 - mm the about in andis blastocyst herself in the wall of the uterus (or womb) and begins to draw nutrition. Once he/she has implanted, your baby is called a baby called your is he/shehas implanted, Once to andbegins draw womb) nutrition. (or uterus wallof the in the herself followed by an English Tea and Brief Meeting in the Parish Center. the Parish Center. Meeting in andBrief Tea anEnglish by followed Fertilization - the joining of the father's sperm and the mother's egg - this is when life begins. When fertilization occurs a occurs begins. fertilization When when and this is egg- life the sperm mother's of the father's - joining the Fertilization human life begins. From this moment on, it will take approximately nine months for the baby to develop and be ready to andbe to ready baby develop the to nine for months approximately willtake on, it this moment begins. From life human presence of the developing baby. Between weeks three and four (18 to 25 days after fertilization) the developing baby's developing the tofertilization) (18 25days after and baby. Between weeks three four developing the presence of implantation happens from five to nine days after fertilization. Implantation occurs when the new human nestles him or or him nestles when occurs new the human Implantation days after tofertilization. nine five happens from implantation heart begins to beat. Arm and leg buds form. The face – eyes, ears, nose and mouth – begin take begin to form. mouth – nose ears, buds– eyes, and The face Armandleg beat. form. to begins heart

7:00 p.m. in the Main Church Installation of New Members ST. JUDE ROSARY ALTAR SOCIETY At fertilization, every bit of genetic information necessary for the child's development is present. present. is development child's for the necessary geneticinformation of bit every fertilization, At At the miraculous moment of fertilization – when the egg of a woman and the sperm of a man unite, a of a and new sperm unite, awoman – whenman the eggof the of fertilization themoment At miraculous The "program" for everything is there: hair and eye color, skin tone, height height - skin tone, color, andeye hair there: is everything for "program" The Monday November 5th November Monday even likely giftedness as a pianist, vocalist or or programmer. computer vocalist apianist, as giftedness likely even ThankWe You for your service and sacrifices. areWe forever grateful!!

SPIRITUAL ADOPTION BABY DEVELOPMENT UPDATE HONORING ALL VETERANS ON VETERANS DAY ONVETERANS VETERANS ALL HONORING VETERANS PICTURE BOARD PICTURE VETERANS

ST. JUDE PARISH PARISH JUDE ST. Amazing Fact: Amazing An Amazing Journey! LIFE! be born.

NOVEMBER 11,2018

The Knights of Columbus, DeLalla C. Thomas Columbus, of Knights The Squires, Circle 2192, would like say “Thank to would like 2192, Circle Squires, You” to those individuals who supported their their who supported to those individuals You”

Annual Indoor Craft /Vendor Sale held on held Sale Craft /Vendor Indoor Annual th. . All Veterans of the Parish, families and October 20, 2018. You!!!! 20, 2018. Thank October THANK YOU THANK

–

1929. usedin in America was treat’ or ‘trick first name The prayers. instead of poems andread jokes tell songs, wouldsing where a children tradition into this hadevolved century, 19th anity. anity. people to Christi- andconvert pagantraditions out stamp to was This designed feast barrenness earth. of onthe time a is it hemisphere) (in northern the many for because year of to the these feasts this time ascribed the church that surmise Many theologians of Souls. theAll it feast soon –calling ofwe to besaints honor thosewhom are pray in day a by Day butSaints is All followed octave, the celebrate we nolonger Liturgically, the feast. to octave celebrate or riod pe- andaneight-day "Hallowe'en") or Hallows' Eve" as both(known "All a today it andgave vigil of obligation holyday 1as a November 1484established when IV in even special Sixtus Pope became but it May), more in celebrated (it was Saints All originally of the feast date for aNovember Church appointed the that century ninth the wasn’t until It end’. ‘summer’s meaning season, harvest endof of the the was ghosts. acelebration roaming ward to off andwear costumes fires bon- when wouldlight of people Samhain, Celtic ancient festival has in the itsroots this vigil that believe people Many of Saints. the All Feast in” pause choose to and “pray church did the thesepagancelebrations, from or modeling it coincidence but is if , to similarities strong have that pagan references to are festivals there that true, is It as a in itsownvigil. right celebration was aliturgical Halloween years, Hallows'For many Day). before All the evening (meaning of Hallows' All Eve name on31 the October holiday full the thus giving Day on 2November, Souls' All by on1November followed Hallowmas) or Saints' known All Hallows' (also as All Day Christian before the Halloween evening the is before-All-Saints'-Day. which theis night- Halloween name All-Hallows'-Eve is The formal for sinning? we Halloweenare we celebrate So, if which the beggars promised to pray for the dead of the household. This practice came be came 11 to in the This practice deadof pray the for the household. to beggars promised the which cake" in return ata"soul beg for doors to knocking for of English custom anancient grew door at from the Begging vived. customs sur- of thoselaws,many Day. In spite Souls' All with connected observances all forbade Elizabeth Queen Rome, with schism the Following as air asmerriment. party aspiritual well with both Hallows' All Eve celebrated andEngland Scotland , souls. of returning abroad the time at was it roam to unwise that residents warning bell a ringing streets the wouldgoabout the night, town crier the the of During middle homes. old to their night visit on this were soulsfree poor in Purgatory the was that There abelief atmosphere. noparty was with night the solemn Europe, some areas In of Western location. geographical hadto do with how days celebrated were thesethree Apparently God. presence of the happiness in eternal now of Saints) sharing of the Communion the Body, doctrine Mystical the us with in (sharing ofmembers those the memory family our we In own by Church. celebrate can the families canonized been formally not those who even have of saints, God's day honors the all andthe that Church of obligation aholyday a solemnity, is States, it United In the feast. spiritual 1, important the Day, November became Saints All Halloween, after day The

beavailable. will Aid,Grants andScholarships Financial Opportunity to learn about the programs and meet the and programs the meet to about learn Opportunity faculty and admissions counselors. Information about Information andadmissions counselors. faculty I love you, Lord, my strength, strength, my Lord, you, I love

Information Sessions for Undergraduate and Undergraduate Sessions for Information Graduate Degrees including Undergraduate Undergraduate Degrees including Graduate To register for the next Info Session go to: Sessiongoto: next Info for the register To Online programs is scheduled for: scheduled is for: programs Online Wednesday, November 7, 2018 November Wednesday, DOMINICAN COLLEGE DOMINICAN At the Prusmack Center Center the Prusmack At Orangeburg, NY 10962 NY Orangeburg, my strength my 5:30pm to 7:30pm to 5:30pm 2 Campus Drive Drive 2 Campus adult.dc.edu

.

.

ALL SAINTS TRIDUUM SAINTS ALL TRIDUUM (Baptized, Confirmed and received Eucharist) invit- is Eucharist) andreceived Confirmed (Baptized, brief instruction and training period but wellworth are period andtraining instruction brief ed to consider serving at Liturgy as Min- or aReader at Liturgy serving consider ed to the time and effort! If you are interested to be part of bepart of to If are you andeffort! interested time the Narthex of the Church or call the office and give us andgive call office or the Church of the Narthex ister of Holy Communion. Both ministries require a require Both ministries Communion. Holy of ister one or both ministries, please sign the book in the the book the in sign please both one or ministries, Anyone who has been fully initiated as a Catholic as aCatholic initiated whoAnyone beenfully has EUCHARISTIC MINISTER MINISTER EUCHARISTIC LITURGICAL MINISTERS MINISTERS LITURGICAL OR LECTOR your name. name. your

th century. By By century. the Robert E. Kanapaux, Manager - N.J. Lic. No. 3215 Voted Best 24 Hour Diner in Morris County Melissa A. Kanapaux, Funeral Director - N.J. Lic. No. 4523 Christopher J. DePuyt, Funeral Director - N.J. Lic. No. 4728 Budd Lake All Cooking Try Rita’s Done On Famous Premises 973-347-0165 31 Main Street · Netcong, NJ 07857 DINER BREAKFAST - LUNCH - DINNER www.NetcongFuneral.com P: 973-691-9100 ~ TAKE-OUT AVAILABLE ~ F: 973-691-9137

NETCONG VILLAGE FLORIST Awarded Top 250 PLANT NOOK & GIFT SHOP Florist “The Home of Quality & Creativeness” All Major Credit Cards Accepted by Phone 49 Main St. 973-347-4050 Netcong OPEN M-F 9-6 1-800-800-4051 • SAT 9-5 Plumbing Problems?

973-398-0875 CALL NJ Lic. #10597

PRIVATE & CORPORATE CATERING GIFT CARDS AVAILABLE FREE Delivery within 3 miles www.brandasitaliangrill.com 973.448.0300 • F 973.448.8838 1 Mt. Olive Rd. (Next to Post Office) Open 7 Days: M-Th 11a-10p, Fri & Sat 11a-11p, Sun 1p-10p Your GOD William D. Ware, Esq. BLESS 154 US HWY. 206 Family AMERICA , NJ 07930 Florist 908-955-7065 201-655-9557 Serving the Community for over 30 Years [email protected] 973-347-6636 williamwarelaw.com Rt. 46 & Old Wolfe Rd • Budd Lake FamilyFloristOnline.com Have FAITH in your attorney.

HIGH FIELD MRI • 3D MAMMOGRAMS • DEXA SCAN ULTRASOUND • DIGITAL X-RAY • CT SCAN • BONE DENSITY arrera

andscaping LLC & Improvements 908-361-2785 57 Route 46 · Suite 212

Call one convenient phone number for scheduling in any of our sister facilities.

OPEN: MON.-FRI. 7AM-11PM · SAT. & SUN. 8AM-5PM COCHRAN FUNERAL HOME ~ All Major Insurance Accepted ~ Serving The Parish Community Since 1899 908-979-1621 James G. Cochran, Manager, N.J. Lic. No. 3702 HACKETTSTOWN, NJ 657 Willow Grove 57 Route 46 Suite 206 www.HackettstownImaging.com Suite 212 908-852-3361

169E (JR) - St. Jude Thaddeus, Budd Lake FOR ADS CALL: (800) 364-0684 BON VENTURE SERVICES, LLC • P.O. Box 850, Flanders, NJ 07836