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Conversation for Communication in Change

David Weston, 15th November, 2018 Manchester Change is hard

Sunk cost – IKEA effect  But we worked hard on that… Dunning Kruger effect  I’ve read a book   I’ve seen this before, or  I’m even more sure about what I already thought

2 Change is hard

- ‘Tribal bias’  More likely to believe things from your context & peers, less likely otherwise. Fundamental attribution error  It’s not my mental failing, it’s your character defect

3 4 Which have you noticed?

 Sunk Cost or IKEA effect – valuing what you work hard on  Dunning-Kruger – the illusion of being knowledgeable based on excitement and novelty  Confirmation bias – selective listening and interpreting to reinforce existing beliefs  Halo Effect (tribal bias) – valuing ideas from people you like (and disliking ideas from those you don’t)  Fundamental Attribution Error –assuming bad character of others during disagreement or conflict.

5 Change

6 Change Management https://scienceforwork.com/blog/change-management-psychology/

 Discrepancy describes the perceived necessity for a change (e. g. dissatisfaction with the status-quo).  Appropriateness is the conviction that a chosen change is suitable to address and dissolve a given discrepancy.  Efficacy is the belief that both the individual change recipient and the organization are able to successfully implement a change.  Principal support is the conviction that managers are committed to the change and will act as change agents.  Valence refers to the belief that the change will be beneficial for the individual change recipient.

7 Change Management https://scienceforwork.com/blog/change-management-psychology/

 Discrepancy - Start with teachers’ concerns and show examples of what could be to raise expectations  Appropriateness - Pilot, show examples  Efficacy - Pilot, lay out implementation plan, show staff engagement & demonstrate listening  Principal support - Engage leaders and influencers early, get modelling, show investment  Valence - Allow experimentation, model, pilot.

8 Conversation for change

 The topic you’re avoiding talking about is probably the most powerful one  Mokita – the elephant in the room  Look under the rocks  Eat the frog  Come straight to the point  No pussy-footing around  No s*** sandwiches  Three ingredients  Absolute candour – come out from behind yourself  Open listening – my reality is only one perspective  Respectful belief – I consider you capable of fixing this Listening

 Gently labelling emotion  Paraphrasing  Summarising + “have I got that right?”  Mirroring: words and body language  Questioning  How…  What (happened…, could…,  And not… “why”  Silence… wait time!

10 Confronting an issue

 Andy Buck/Susan Scott:  NEFI ART in 60 seconds  N – Name (the issue).  E – Exemplify (the issue).  F – Feeling (how this makes you feel).  I – Importance (why this matters).  A – Accept your contribution (any part you may have played in the situation occurring).  R – Resolve (you want to find a way forward).  T – Them (enquire about their response).

11 Managing for change

Absentee Partnership Micromanagement • Unaware • Aware and curious • Grabs ownership • No listening • Listens, repeats, • Listens superficially, • No feedback questions relevant only one • No goal-setting details perspective; • Causes damage by • Shares relevant pretends to know tripping on content and • Demands reports grenades unawares perspectives, and monitoring that brainstorms generate work – solutions hoards information • Removes obstacles, • Gives solutions defuses anticipated without problems before understanding they arise problems and without opportunity for other to solve

12 Dialogue for…

Mission & purpose

Belonging Clarity & & certainty Connected

13 Be the coach How can you use these ideas to drive your change?

 Persuasion and change start with asking  Open listening – my reality is only one perspective  Respectful belief – I consider you capable of fixing this  Check in on progress: interested but not micro-managing  Team meetings where everyone is heard  Be clear: discussion or decision-making?  Keep a note of who has contributed  Use small groups and post-it feedback  Acknowledge disagreements and label emotion  Question, summarise, paraphrase  Go back to shared understanding, roles, policies if need be  Follow up in regular 1-to-1s Some great books on conversation

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