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NEWS • PERSPECTIVE • REFLECTION • FOR A GROWING CHURCH • DECEMBER 2008
The Old Same Prayers
MICHAEL THOMPSON PRIEST, ST JUDE'S OAKVILLE December is an important month for Mary the mother of Jesus. The feast of her nativity comes on December 8, and then, of course, we honour her birthing of Jesus on the Feast of his Nativity. But Mary is also dear to others, and especially to Muslims. The House of the Virgin Mary in Ephesus is a Chris- tian and Muslim shrine, in which the prayers of Christians and Muslims honour Mary as the Mother of Jesus.
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Canon Mark Tiller dramatically proclaims the NISSA BASBAUM Gospel during the Synod Eucharist on Friday RECTOR, TRANSFIGURATION ST CATHARINES November 7. Years ago, when I lived in England, I had a friend who described priests by the sea- sons of the Christian calendar. According to this man, there were four defi nitions. To the Clergy and People of Niagara Synod 2008 The exciting, over-the-top and extraordinarily creative person is an Easter priest. The one who leaves you CHARLES STIRLING there was sense of clarity for his own with the impression that something is the Diocese of Niagara RETIRED CANON, CHRIST'S CHURCH CATHEDRAL Episcopal ministry and the work we about to happen, that he or she is on One of this year’s special times for must undertake together. the cusp of magnifi cence but hasn’t God to speak with a prophetic voice Bishop Bird was the Lambeth Con- One of the Bible studies was quite arrived, is the Advent priest. The on this subject. I, therefore, intend to ference. In his Charge to Synod the based on Jesus’ words, “Very truly, I newly-ordained keener is the Christ- ask for a rite to be developed for the Bishop spoke of this experience, tell you, I am the gate for the sheep”. mas priest – just born and raring to blessing of same-sex couples who and how his vision for the Diocese There is an invitation to take a jour- go but, like a toddler, likely to get into have been civilly married, along with emerged. ney that involves entering a sheep trouble from a lack of experience. a process to enable these blessings to What has indeed emerged is a enclosure and going beyond the take place that will at the same time challenge to the people of Niagara to sheep pen. All of these gates have CONTINUED ON PAGE 11 MICHAEL BIRD honour the diversity of tradition and begin to develop a new and challen- two sides, the safe interior, and the BISHOP OF NIAGARA theology that exists across Niagara. ging way to do ministry. The Bishop other pasture and abundant life. I write to you on the Eve of our It is my hope that this process tells of his daily Bible study with What then does it mean for us to Christmas! Whoop- Synod to indicate to you the next would move ahead as expeditiously as African, English and American Bish- think of Jesus as a gate that invites step I am asking us to take on the possible and that I will be in a position ops, himself being repeatedly intro- both the world into the Church and dee-doo journey of discernment that we con- to report back to the Diocese within duced as the Bishop of Niagara Falls. urges the sheep to follow Jesus trust- tinue to travel as a Diocesan family, the next few months. The focus of the study was the series ingly into the world? JERRY SALLOUM with regard to the issue of same-sex I want to assure you and be abso- of the ‘I am’ sayings for John’s Gos- RETIRED VICAR blessings. There will be some time lutely clear, that all clergy and all par- pel. Studying these passages allowed The Vision Emerges Well, here it is again, Christmas: the set aside to hear from delegates on ishes will be fully free to follow their them to be a doorway into some great The vision that has been emerging at trees, the tinsel, the turkeys and the gifts. this matter on Saturday but a large own conscience in this matter, as and stories, powerful insights and won- regional meetings and clergy gather- Sometime in November, the media kick- part of the agenda will deal with our when we are able to move forward. derful fellowship. For him the space ings calls us away from survival to started our excitement over this historic vision for the future and so I feel it I ask for your prayers for our was Holy Ground. a vision of vibrant abundant hope in celebration, reminding us it was a season is important to issue this statement Diocesan Synod that opens with the As he looked over his eight the life of the Church and invites us to to be jolly, a season of chestnuts roasting ahead of our gathering. Synod service tomorrow evening and months as Bishop, he could see the what has become the Bishop’s man- and of Jack Frost nipping. The media As is the case with our brother and for the guidance of the Holy Spirit vision beginning to come together. tra over these months, the Pursuit of told us that Zellers was the place to shop sister Anglicans in the Dioceses of as the delegates gather in session on The ‘I am’ passages seemed to make Excellence in Ministry. for that perfect Christmas gift. Montreal and Ottawa, I believe we are Saturday. real the lives and ministry of those among those who have been called by Yours in the love of Christ. Bishops gathered there and for him CONTINUED ON PAGE 2 CONTINUED ON PAGE 16 2 NIAGARA ANGLICAN DECEMBER 2008 SYNOD 2008 Compelling vision calls for total support
CHARLES STIRLING undertake a justice issue. Acts of char- RETIRED CANON, CHRIST'S CHURCH CATHEDRAL ity are vital and the roots of need have The focus of Synod 2008 was the to be examined to ask why people are Bishop's vision: The pursuit of excel- hungry and homeless. lence in ministry. Peter Wall examined the model of In his opening remarks, Michael abundance rather than scarcity, noting Patterson called the Bishop's vision our God was one of abundance. He an exciting opportunity in the Church felt we need to improve our communi- of Niagara to be a vibrant faith com- cation through the web-site, Niagara munity giving witness to faith the Anglican, meetings, Deanery gather- diocese. ings and more. We need to examine Lambeth was most formative for our systems to develop economies of Christyn Perkons and Joyce Wilton show their 'Yes our Bishop and he has been sharing scale, sharing and partnerships. There We Can!' shakers, which symbolised the Bishop's his experiences in this regard. But the is the need to track, acknowledge and vision of shaking up the church. experience has to go beyond Cathedral celebrate volunteerism. Place to the whole diocese. At a meet- Joyce Wilton and Lynne Corfi eld ing at Canterbury Hills in September a felt the need to respond to situations, CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1 group of people met to discuss fi ve pri- meeting people where they are and to » orities, which included prophetic social inspire social activism through wor- justice, effective use of resources, life ship. Christyn Perkons and Cheryl changing worship enterprises, outstand- Fricker suggested a covenant partner- Niagara Synod 2008 ing leadership and cultural innovation. ship with clergy and laity, saying we The process has encouraged feedback need to live out our Baptismal coven- to assure we are on the right track, and ants in shared ministry, build relation- It is the opportunity to reclaim our ment with our vision, coming back to to the members of the National Church the regional meetings, which have given ships in the community around us in prophetic voice in a troubled world synod in February or March with a more and the Anglican Communion. Bishop feedback, were very well attended. response to their need. They also sug- and to lead the fi ght against poverty, realistic picture of where we are headed. Bird has consulted widely in the Diocese, The Bishop then took over and gested creating intentional experiences violence and injustice that continues to This will be an interim step toward the the country, at the House of Bishops and mentioned that at the closing Eucha- that relate resources to areas of need. pervade our communities and society. hopes and goals we have for the future. with the Primate. He has now made his rist at Lambeth a special rite took Stephen Hopkins suggested that we At the same time there is a challenge We will have an emerging vision and response public and responded to the place, during which the names of the can only live our way into newness. We to embrace the United Nations Millen- a clearer understanding of what it will House of Bishops and has outlined the Melanesian Martyrs were received by need to try new ways and accept some nium Development Goal of 2001. We all take to get there. steps as we move forward to Same Sex the Archbishop of Canterbury. The mistakes. We need to see more trans- need to celebrate the gifts of ministry we The Bishop offered the bottom Unions. He has come to a better under- impact was incredible as the ques- formed parishes and a more just world, have been given and move ahead with a line that the status quo is no longer an standing of what is at stake and what the tion arose “what is our witness" in the sharing stories of creative innovation theological premise of abundance rather option both in terms of how we func- implications are on the decisions that are face of people giving their lives in the and giving permission to celebrate suc- than a scarcity in a more effective use of tion as parishes and how we function made at this time in our church. There world around us. cess, together with taking intelligent our resources and the practice of good as a diocese. He called for us to be was further time at Synod to respond to The vision is not a project to get risks and learning from failure. We also stewardship, sharing and making sure united in this fi rm commitment that we these announcements. people working on new programs, or need to look very widely for ideas. He we get the resources into the hands of are moving well beyond a position of to get them in pews, or to get money called for new forms and processes for those who need them. mere survival and passionately and cre- Return to a vision fl owing in the synod offi ce. It is a dealing with diffi cult issues. atively responding to God’s mission in As the Bishop looks back, it is very compelling vision that needs to be Margaret Murray wrapped up the The challenges of the 2009 budget every region of the Diocese. clear that gifts of God’s presence and embraced by all of us. morning by asking questions that were The Bishop is seeking changes on the love have upheld both he and ourselves Carolyn Vanderlip and Owen Nash to be discussed in small groups. 2009 Budget because of challenges that Wrestling with the duties of a Bishop as we journey together, and he believes told us scripture calls us to witness and After lunch comments were heard, must be addressed so that we can con- Archbishop Caleb Lawrence asked these there is a profound movement of the to be prophetic in our age. To make after which Nissa Basbaum and Beth tinue our obligations in payroll and with questions to him at his consecration; Holy Spirit sweeping across our dio- justice we need to show the world Kerley presented the following motion the bank. There have been both cost and “Will you boldly proclaim and interpret cese calling us to new vision. He gives that the Gospel is alive and well in the which was very widely accepted: losses in regard to the separated parishes, the Gospel of Christ, enlightening the thanks to God for this wonderful call- world and in us. They said we have to That this synod of the diocese of signifi cant historical outstanding parish minds and stirring up the conscience of ing and gives thanks to be serving at commit to Millennium Goals, educate niagara affi rm, support and endorse receivables, lower return on investment, your people”, and “Will you share with our side. We now step forward through laity and clergy in respect to justice the vision document entitled :the Pur- increasing operating defi cits associ- your fellow bishops in the government the doors together, with a fresh vision issues and perhaps hold justice work- suit of excellence in Ministry"; and ated with Cathedral Place and defi cits of the whole Church....”? The Bishop and a renewed commitment to God’s shops. We also need to encourage life- That this synod enocurage the incurred by the diocese over the past two has been wrestling with the duty of being glorious mission and for the work we styles which are consistent with planet bishop or his designate to develop years. There is serious work to do. The both a Bishop in the Church and deal- will share together. Let us not fail. sustainability, recognizing our respon- strategic action plans with specifi c Bishop believes that we must establish ing with same-sex blessings. He ponders sibilities as stewards of the earth. The quantifi able objectives; and a set of markers or criteria to help make how he can keep in balance the respon- The Bishop's Charge to Synod 2008 Greening of Niagara is important as That the bishop's vision team decisions. His expectation was a period sibility he feels to those who elected him, can be viewed online at www.niagara. might be a Radical Abundance Con- report directly and regularly to Synod of time for further refl ection and engage- while at the same time remaining faithful anglican.ca/synod2008. ference. Perhaps each parish could Council
Provincial Synod Delegates Increasing Financial Challenges The following were elected to Synod council, held in Moosonee in November of this year CHARLES STIRLING the inability of parishes to meet their The synod referred the budget RETIRED CANON, CHRIST'S CHURCH CATHEDRAL DMM is increasing. to the budget and fi nance commit- Clergy: Robert Fead, Lynne Corfi eld, Kevin Block, Stephen Murray The Diocese is currently projecting It was the intention to not bring a tees, with reference to the Bishop’s Clergy Substitutes: Mark Tiller, Margaret Murray, Kathy Morgan, a shortfall of $600,000 for 2008. budget to Synod, but defer it to Janu- Vision. A second motion, somewhat Susan Wilson The projected loss for the Cathedral ary or February. It was then decided more specifi c, was defeated and now Lay: Carol Summers, Susan Little, Ross Gillett, David Ricketts over the next fi ve years cumulatively to bring the budget forward, but not to the budget will again be presented in Lay Substitutes: Patricia Davis, Ruth Anne Martin, Russ Kelk, Paul Holyoke exceeds $1,000,000. The loss of and pass it until next year. Parishes have a January or February, when the com- Youth appointees: Alisha Archbell and Justin Michael the separation of parishes has contrib- real need to raise their giving beyond mittee is expected to bring forth a bal- uted to the ascending debt. In addition the $1,000 per year average gift. anced budget. NIAGARA ANGLICAN DECEMBER 2008 3 The status quo is no longer an option
this “either/or” debate to a “both/and” “witches,” were a minority disposed Change does happen. All around the to full communion with us. paradigm because by deciding that of in medieval times by burning at the world, on November 4, people cheered What came out of Lambeth was our diocese will support homosexual stake. The small pieces of wood used the election of the fi rst black (well, a commitment to eradicate poverty. rights he both “proclaims the gospel to kindle these fi res, also used to kill half-black) man to the Presidency of Great, let’s do it! But to do so we need of Christ” and takes a step to preserve homosexuals, were called faggots. And the United States. After centuries of all of us, including the young and the institution of the whole church. in times of hardship, racial minorities oppression, Barack Obama’s success the homosexual, working together. The worried conservatism of the anti- were victimized, especially Jews. Even proved that the country’s claim that (Women already have been blessed ELEANOR JOHNSON same-sex ecclesiologists is misguided. in 20th century Canada, many bishops “all men are created equal” was fi nally with more than their share of the ST. THOMAS'S ST. CATHARINES It is their opposition to same-sex bless- of the priests who abused native children true for men of African descent (if not work!) As we are now, wasting our In the “Bishop’s Charge” of 2008, ings that hurts the church. covered up these crimes. We’re all still women, homosexuals, and immigrants emotional and fi nancial resources Bishop Michael articulated his con- How so? Let’s go back to fi rst princi- paying for what the priests did in the of other races). Young people, who had squabbling over who owns what prop- cern that, because of the same-sex ples. Jesus gave us two Commandments: residential schools, paying money to not bothered to vote for decades, have erty and who has what powers, we debate, two of the promises he made to love God and to love others as we love individuals who suffered and paying the returned to involve themselves in the have no energy left to do God’s will at his Consecration “need to be held ourselves. From these hang all the laws cost of losing believers who have turned political process. Bishop Michael pro- in the world. in such a state of tension in this early and prophets. In other words, love takes away from the church in indignation. claims, “We witnessed another new From what we read in the Gospels, stage of my episcopacy: ‘Will you precedence over Old Testament beliefs, It would have been better if the church door opening and the breaking down Jesus showed little interest in teach- boldly proclaim and interpret the gos- rules and assumptions. Our instruction had, like Jesus, treated all people in their of barriers that has sent ripples of hope ing sexual morality or in the power pel of Christ, enlightening the minds is to love. Or look at it this way: when society, especially the minorities and the and promise not only across the United struggles between Pharisees and Sad- and stirring up the conscience of your Jesus had to choose between a belea- helpless, with respect, with love. States but around the entire world.” ducees; he reached out to heal and people?’ and ‘Will you share with guered minority and the established When, do you suppose, will the Where are the young people of teach the marginalized of his society. your fellow bishops in the government priesthood, he would stand up for the institution of the church be taken to the Anglican Church of Canada? If He preached a Kingdom that is now of the whole church...?’” victim. He certainly showed more con- court by a homosexual for harassment the institution is looking out for its and here; he did not pass resolutions Likewise, at Lambeth the choice cern for Samaritan women than for the in the form of a priest’s refusal to offer best interests, it needs to inspire the implementing moratoria promising seemed to be: either stand up for gay priests of the temple. Church initiatives him or her the rite of marriage or pro- idealism of the young by rejecting its a better future while adding insult to rights and tear the church apart, or that evolved from Christ’s teachings motion to the bishopric, for its insist- mistreatment of minorities in the past. injury. The Anglican Church of Canada protect the world-wide communion through St. Augustine’s understanding ence on his or her celibacy? To speak In fact, as our church leaders have is humbly moving towards “truth and and put the same-sex blessings issue of social justice to the present are Vati- pragmatically, it’s in the best interests formally apologized to natives for the reconciliation” with our First Nations. on hold. The decision at Lambeth this can II’s “preferential option for the poor of the church to support minority rights abuse of their children, their next step I suggest that now is the time for the summer and by the Canadian House and vulnerable” and the Lambeth deci- now, before it fi nds itself in court, should be to apologize to the homo- Diocese of Niagara to lead the Church of Bishops this fall favoured the latter. sion to “to embrace the United Nations arguing ecclesiastical tradition and sexuals and women in our midst for in stopping our heartless mistreatment Hence the moratoria. Millennium Development Goals.” laws written over two thousand years all the rejections they have suffered, of homosexuals. To paraphrase for- I would like to argue that by choos- Ironically, Christian churches in ago in what we now call the Middle and take steps to share rights and mer Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau, ing to proceed with same-sex bless- years past have preferred the institu- East against the 1982 Canadian Char- power with them. That could inspire “There’s no place for the church in the ings, Bishop Michael moved beyond tion to the outsider. Uppity women, ter of Rights and Freedoms. our young people and bring them back bedrooms of the nation.” Evensong at my Favourite Church
Simon and St. Jude share a feast day, preaching, its reverent but unfussy ing worship suddenly became popular in No, evensong doesn’t exactly fi re and an early Christian legend identifi es worship, its great music combining 1983, when the new post-Vatican II code you up for work in the world, and maybe them as fellow missionaries to Persia. old and new hymns, and its strong and of canon law provided that the faithful that’s a reason it fell out of favour in the The congregation met at fi rst in close sense of fellowship. could satisfy their Sunday obligation by activistic 1960s. But it does re-centre the auditorium of Munn’s School. The In its parish life and ministry I like attending mass on Saturday evening. In your soul in Christ. The service includes neighbourhood grocer contributed its commitment to issues of local and an apostolic letter of 1998, appropriately the nunc dimittis (Luke 2:29—32), one prayer books. The theological student global justice, its enthusiasm for out- called Dies domini (“the Lord’s Day”), of the most serene passages in Scripture, ALAN L. HAYES at St. Jude’s took most of the services, reach, its keen interest in getting to know the pope explained that the ecclesias- and the magnifi cat (Luke 1:46—55), THE ITINERANT CHURCHGOER but once a month a priest came to pre- people of other Christian denominations tical day begins at sunset of the previous possibly the most subversive. Together, My favourite church in the diocese side at the eucharist. An orange crate and other faiths, its fun social events civil day. (That’s why the fi rst eucharist sung prayerfully, they help you see your is my own. I’ve scarcely mentioned served as the fi rst altar. that can be themed Celtic, Caribbean, of Christmas takes place after sunset on life in eternal perspective. it in the Niagara Anglican over these The mission moved to portable country club, or something else, and its December 24. Clement Clarke Moore fi ve years or so, because I’ve preferred buildings on Upper Middle Road west innovative and creative spirit. notwithstanding, this is not, ecclesiastic- Beautifully sung to talk about my experiences visiting of Trafalgar. By the end of 1956, the It meets its budget, supports the ally, “the night before Christmas”.) The new service has struck a chord new churches. But recently I did sim- congregation counted 331 souls, an diocese, runs engaging and effective Quite a number of Episcopal with people. The evening I attended, ply sit myself in the back of my own average Sunday morning attendance programs, pulls together in the things churches tried the new pattern. My I was stunned to fi nd the large park- congregation at a special evening ser- of 48, and 22 envelope subscribers. that unite it, and agrees to disagree in fi rst experience of it was at St. Mar- ing lot almost full. A hundred people vice, trying to adopt the frame of mind In 1967 St. Simon’s erected its fi rst the things which can be divisive. garet’s Episcopal Church in Palm were already waiting inside, including of an ordinary visitor. church building on Sixth Line. Twenty It’s a perfect combination of good Desert, California, the home church of about a dozen Presbyterians. St. Simon’s, Oakville, like many years later that was no longer adequate, things. You can tell that it has been President Gerald Ford in his last years. The service was sung beautifully churches in the diocese of Niagara, and the congregation decided to sell it blessed with a succession of stunningly There you can attend a choral eucha- by the talented curate. The choir led was born in the post-war boom. Oak- and build a new church in a more cen- good rectors and marvelous curates. rist with full sermon on Saturday night the canticles and psalms in Anglican ville had been pretty sleepy in the tral location. In 1988 it moved into its and head for the golf links fi rst thing chant, and sang a sublime anthem by 1940s. Its population wasn’t much present building facing Trafalgar Road Evening prayer on Sunday morning. Who says you Adrian Batten, who was a vicar choral more than 4000, its northern town lim- south of Upper Middle Road. Archi- In the past year St. Simon’s has added can’t have everything? of St. Paul’s Cathedral, London, in the its were at the QEW, and you couldn’t tecturally, it’s in a modern idiom, but a service of evening prayer one Sunday 1630s. The hymns were well chosen, order liquor in a restaurant. it has a classical sensibility. a month. It was one of these services A lay campaign including one in a setting by Graeme When Ford opened its new factory that I attended as if I were a visitor. Some folks at St. Simon’s remembered Donaldson of Trafalgar Presbyter- in Oakville in May 1953 and created What I like Sunday evening services were once the reverence, warmth, and peaceful- ian Church, who was present. The 3000 new jobs, lots changed very fast. Well, what do I like about St. Simon’s? very popular in Anglicanism. A great ness of the Prayer Book evensong, and preacher reminded us that the gospel New residential areas were developed, I like its interesting, kind, talented, many Anglicans went to church Sun- mounted a little campaign to restore it. is primarily about relationship, not new automobile-related industries took authentic, committed people. I like its day morning and evening both. But if Someone had the particularly good idea busyness. Did she realize how well root, and the service sector exploded. ordinariness: it’s just a neighbourhood you went to just one service, you prob- that the service would be a great oppor- that would fi t the tone of Anglican church, rooted in its surrounding com- ably chose the evening one if you were tunity for ecumenical engagement. evensong? A new mission munity, multigenerational, multicul- an evangelical Anglican, on the prem- After all, most other clergy in town You know, sometimes being a Chris- In 1954, as new housing was going up tural, without pretension, seeking no ise that that was the apostolic model don’t preach on Sunday evening, so St. tian is hard, and being an Anglican north of the QEW, St. Jude’s Angli- theological or liturgical niche, simply (Acts 20:7). If you spent weekends at Simon’s invited them onto a preaching Christian can defi nitely have a weari- can Church in old Oakville decided to trying to be faithful. the cottage, you could drive back on schedule for Sunday evensong. The some side. But this service of evening plant a mission up there. They called On Sundays I like its rootedness Sunday in time for evening prayer. evening I attended, the preacher was the prayer in a wonderful church commun- it St. Simon’s. That was cute, since St. in the gospel, its responsiveness to In the Roman Catholic world, even- Presbyterian minister from up the street. ity made me feel very blessed indeed. 4 NIAGARA ANGLICAN DECEMBER 2008 One giant step... We are mind, body and spirit in one
Lives have been lost as a direct result of degree or other. the others have that we may have intolerance and hate. Now we see Obama I am persuaded that it is import- overlooked. take the reins of offi ce with a signifi cant ant for each of us to understand the This thought was made avail- majority in the Electoral College and precious intimacy of our divine/ able for me through the writings with roughly 53% of the popular vote. In human engagement. We are complex of Thich Nhat Hahn, a Vietnamese a fl urry of hopefulness the citizens of the creatures with enormous potential Buddhist monk. Hahn not only sees United States have placed their faith in a which we neglect at our own peril. and admires richly his own Eastern JOHN RIPLEY man who challenges the status quo. One IAN DINGWALL Our task, never taken simplistic- Tradition but also appreciates the INTERIM RECTOR, HOLY TRINITY WELLEND giant step has been made south of the bor- RETIRED ARCHDEACON OF NIAGARA ally, is mysteriously beautiful in its power of Christianity as he allows At 10:56 p.m. (EDT) on July 20th, 1969 der. I, like them, hope that Obama will be As we strive to consider meaning in desire to move towards the Loveli- it to enhance his own religious com- Neil Armstrong became the fi rst human successful in achieving the high standard our existence, I have noticed an old ness of God, The Holy One. We are mitment. In commending Nhat Hahn to set foot on the lunar surface as part of that he has set for himself and the citizens theme rewritten in different sorts constantly to be the receivers of Gift and his thoughts to you, I suggest the Apollo 11 Space Mission. Placing of the United States. of new ways. We fi nd these ‘new’ in order that we may glorify God and you obtain his book, “Living Bud- In the euphoria of Obama’s election places, reworked and reworded not celebrate our humanity to its full. dha; Living Christ”. we must not forget that nearly half of only in the writings of Communities There is much here to confound May it be a blessing to lead you Americans did not vote for him. Preju- of Faith but in other diverse spots. and confuse. Given that we are toward understandings you may have Prejudice comes from the dice and hate does not disappear because The places to which I refer are able to understand this task, what overlooked or misunderstood the heart, not, from the brain. an election is lost. I was with a group of “Mind, Body and Spirit”. We are are we going to do about it? How fi rst time around. You may wish to friends before the election and we were invited to consider this “Old/New” do we accept the challenge and examine and rethink your personal talking about the coming election and subject in different ways. I suggest move towards this new creativity vocabulary. Words like freedom, his foot on the moon he uttered the now possible results. I was shocked when one we might tackle it by looking at each of thought and action? How do we need, inclusive, hospitality, radical, famous words: “That’s one small step for of our number said that he hoped Obama word individually and, even more fulfi ll the desire of the Divine Heart friendship, openness and many other man; one giant leap for mankind.” I, like wouldn’t win because “I wouldn’t want importantly, as an integral oneness. to love and perfect our Creation’s words open heavenly vistas and many others, sat in front of the television a black man to be president.” The reality My argument is simply that the one Story? redemptive places to visit. and witnessed that event. Modern history of that statement really drove home to word must be studied and understood In these past weeks, I have In conclusion, we are physical/ is rife with events that are fi rmly imbed- me the fact that prejudice is never very in the context of the other two. received a couple of ways to engage matter just by being human but we ded into our consciousness through the far away. My friend’s statement was not Many Western scholars seem to in a process which, although imper- are also decidedly Spirit. In the path wonder of television. In my lifetime the a statement of hate, but, a statement of focus their attention solely on the fect, could be an option to develop of this collective understanding, we assassination of J.F.K. and R.F.K, the tra- ignorance. Prejudice comes from the fi rst two, Body and Mind, while ourselves in more diverse ways. will fi nd a will that takes us along gic 1986 Challenger disaster, the fall of heart, not, from the brain. The ultimate Spirit is very much neglected to a The fi rst of these was to accept the Journey to the perfection that the Berlin Wall are a sampling of some emotional prejudicial position is hate. more or less after-thought. Each this opportunity as a Religious Quest God has planned for us. of the profound events that I have shared That hate comes from deep within us. word is essentially important as that is far, far greater than most have Therapeutic Touch Ministry, through images beamed into my living- In Rogers and Hammerstein’s 1949 we rediscover ourselves along with ever contemplated. Truth is not is for many today, being found by room. All of us on a personal level have production of “South Pacifi c” one of other people who live with us on found in structures or institutions many searchers for Truth, Under- our own array of life changing events the characters, Lieutenant Cable, says, Planet Earth. We cannot even begin or ‘denominationalism’. Nor will standing, Guidance and Support. that will forever be imbedded on our “racism is not born in you; it happens without appreciating each word Truth be discovered in the rational It is a Spiritual Adventure found in minds. I suggest that on November 4th after you’re born.” He then proceeds to carefully but, more to the point, to thought programs of the Ecclesias- some congregations that takes some at 11:00 p.m. (EST) another profoundly sing the song “You’ve Got to be Care- understand each one as part of the tical Hierarchy. It will touch us as of this thinking and translates it into life changing event took place – the elec- fully Taught”. The lyrics, with simplicity, whole thing – a present day Trinity we refl ect on being part of a great a model that enables us to see our- tion of Barack Obama as President of the speak of how the lessons of prejudice are of Meaningfulness. world-wide ecumenical understand- selves as “whole” living persons. United States. learned. Yes, we do learn our prejudices, First, our humanity is embodied ing in which all the world’s religions If only we could be brave enough I, like many others, never thought that and to one degree or another we all have and we are physical beings. We are will embrace each other and come to to risk in joining this Journey by lay- we would ever see the day that a person them. It was to a prejudicial world that material entities with all the benefi ts appreciate the uniqueness of spirit ing aside our biased western preoccu- of colour would be the President of the Jesus came. To hate just because of a and foibles of that condition. that is part of itself and of all those pation that fragments and alienates United States. The history of the United person’s skin colour, sexual orientation, Second, we appreciate that in other traditions and truths. us from self and others. Having done States has been, since its beginning, chal- gender, religion and/or nationality fl ies each human body there is a Mind Each religion has a special voca- that, we once again see our potential in lenged by racial tension. From the days in the face of the message of Jesus to us that allows us to think and perceive, tion towards Truth. We will never allowing our Spiritual Reality to pos- of slavery to intentional segregation the all – “Do unto others as you would have to reason and understand life and understand our own persuasion (or sess and redeem us. May we accept prejudices have been deep and profound. them do unto you!” our own existence, at least to some bias?) without appreciating all that the God’s gift and live it to the full.
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Justice Camp would be a way to animate ence of poverty in their everyday lives to respond to the needs of our neigh- community social justice ministry in Niagara. in Ontario. Over 75 public consulta- bours. But for too long, faith and com- Endorse the 25 in 5 Declaration at A few days later, I was back at tions on what a poverty reduction munity groups, individuals, volunteers www.25in5.ca St. Christopher’s for the Trafalgar strategy should look like have been and social service agencies and minis- Go to the next Interfaith Social Regional meeting on the Pursuit of hosted by the government or a com- tries have carried a disproportionate load Assistance Reform Coalition (ISARC) Excellence in Ministry. This was an munity coalition called “25 in 5”. in meeting the needs of individuals at the forum at Queen’s Park opportunity to learn more about the “25 in 5” stands for the call for a local community level through the oper- Form a “community connectors” COLLEEN SYM Bishop’s vision. While the process poverty reduction strategy for Ontario ation of community centres, daycares, group in your parish to reach out and SOCIAL JUSTICE COORDINATOR, ST. MARK ORANGEVILLE is still ongoing, I suggest that some that will result in a 25% reduction in breakfast programs, thrift shops, food connect with those responding to and On the morning of Saturday, Octo- themes are emerging relating to a jus- poverty in fi ve years, 50% in ten years, banks, overnight shelters, hospitality living with injustice in your community ber 18, 2008, a group of about thirty tice focused ministry: themes such as with a view to building a poverty free programs and other social services. Read The End of Poverty by Jeffrey people gathered at St. Christopher’s in charity vs. justice, education on justice Ontario. As the Millennium Develop- "These temporary measures have Sachs and The Bottom Billion by Paul Burlington to learn about Commun- issues, building awareness of the Mil- ment Goals are a strategy to eradi- not broken the cycle of poverty nor Collier to learn more about the Millen- ity Justice Camp: Live the Change lennium Development Goals, advo- cate poverty in the developing world, alleviated the diminishment of people’s nium Development Goals you want to see. Over the course of cacy, sustainability, poverty reduction, Ontario is developing its strategy to dignity. To do more than respond to Explore the concepts of charity and two hours, Anglicans from across the standing in solidarity with the margin- eradicate poverty at home. emergencies and crises, more resour- justice through hosting a Charity vs. Diocese, from parishes big and small alized and a call to take action. On November 5, 2008, the Inter- ces are needed in our communities. Justice workshop with the assistance and community justice partners repre- In the book Justice in an Unjust World, faith Social Assistance Reform Coali- "We recognize that we all have a of the diocesan Outreach Committee senting agencies and coalitions, secu- Karen Lebacqz writes: “To hear the cry tion hosted a forum at Queen’s Park role to play to reduce poverty, however, Go to the Poverty Watch Ontario lar and faith based, big and small got to of the oppressed is the fi rst act of justice”. – “Poverty, Why have it”. The keynote only government can accomplish the website to learn about poverty reduc- know each other and with the help of Bishop Michael heard the cry for justice speaker was Peter Clutterbuck, of the structural changes to law, programs and tion work across the province the Venerable Peter John Hobbs from from the Bishops from the developing Social Planning Network of Ontario policies that are essential for a success- Collect ideas on community develop- the Diocese of Ottawa, got to know all world with whom he connected at Lam- and one of the spokespersons for the 25 ful poverty reduction strategy. Only gov- ment techniques from sources like The about Justice Camp. beth. And, as hearing alone is not enough, in 5 coalition. Peter was at the Niagara ernment can re-allocate the resources of Troublemaker’s Teaparty, A Manual Then the exciting work began, we he has responded to the cry by calling for Justice Camp workshop. The follow- society more equitably through its regu- for Effective Citizen Action by Charles started to explore a vision for our camp. action against injustice here in Niagara by ing is a quote from Bishop Michael’s latory and taxing powers and increase its Dobson By “our” I mean the camp which is charging each parish to undertake a pro- June 2008 letter to Minister Matthews funding of social programs. Send a letter to the Premier and hosted by our Diocese, ours to make of it ject for justice. endorsing 25 in 5 and advocating for "Please hear our communities’ call Finance Minister demanding a fund- what we will. Back in May, I dare to say, Over the past year, social activists poverty reduction and was included in for social justice." ing down payment for poverty reduc- as Bishop Michael had barely begun the and Minister Deb Matthews, Chair of the keynote address at ISARC: tion in the 2009 budget process of discernment for his vision for the Provincial Government’s Cabinet Be a part of it The possible projects that can be his Episcopal ministry, he must have Committee on Poverty Reduction and "In the short term, we realize that char- Pray for those in power to show undertaken are unlimited. known that “justice” would become a many others have been listening to the ity and compassion are essential when leadership in poverty reduction God’s justice begins in response to central theme for that vision and that voices of those who know the experi- people are suffering and we will continue Attend a 25 in 5 meeting in your injustice. The doll's highchair: A Child's Christmas in 1926
was on my plate. I said my prayers. I but Margann and I had to stay in the the gold lumps), crayons (I always of it all. At last he read the name on the didn't bother Sarah, the cook. I played upstairs sitting room with the gas fi re- used up the pink ones fi rst), watercol- tag, and.. it was not for me. nicely with Margann and tried not to place until the proper time. Aunt Annie our paints, colouring books that you It was not for me. It was for quarrel with my sister, Macia. I didn't had delivered me in that room, mother 'fi lled in'; cut-out dolls that you dressed Margann. race up and down the halls yelling, if my said. And that was very special, because with cut-out clothes with tabs on them; He handed the highchair to Mar- father was home, or slide down the stairs all the deliveries – the bread, the milk, picture books with big lettering, show- gann, and with one more whoop head fi rst if my grandmother was look- the ice, and Eaton's - came in wagons ing ships that I thought reached across and ho-ho-ho, he took his leave. The FRANCEAN CAMPBELLRICH ing. I drew pictures and wrote poems and with baskets and went to Sarah, at the the ocean to England; a glass ball with clearing up began. There was milling CHRIST'S CHURCH CATHEDRAL made up new pieces to please my par- back door, who gave them tickets. a snowman in it, in a snowstorm if you around, gathering up paper and boxes; I wonder if we really understand about ents, and went to bed when I was sent. I At last we were allowed out. You shook it; celluloid cupie-dolls; sets of it was hot and noisy. Margann brought Christmas and a child's feelings. I drew up a list, with 'Doll's Highchair' at could smell the tree, but the fi rst doll-house furniture that you traded the highchair back to where we had remember a Christmas in Toronto the top, and wrote a letter to Santa Claus glimpse of it was from the stairs, with Margann. Usually there was been sitting together on the carpet. when I was six years old. I wanted a by myself. I even tried to give up suck- through a crack in the sliding doors, something nondescript from a distant She waited for me to say something. doll's highchair. ing my fi ngers. All this, and three whole and there it was, lights, tinsel, green- aunt that you didn't even know You Neither of us spoke. I had seen one in the toy department weeks being good until Christmas. ery, and oh joy, under the branches, had to write a thank-you letter (Dear I'm not going to cry, I said to myself. at Eaton's. It was wooden, and you could We lived in my grandparents' house, sticking up from the red and white and Aunt Nellie, Thank you for the shoe Nobody must see. I'm not going to lift up the little tray and put it over back, somewhere in the many rooms at 239 green presents around it, like a little bag. I've always wanted a shoe bag, but ask. Mother would say, “Another time, like a real highchair. I wanted it more College Street. Great Aunt Martha came throne, the doll's highchair. not very much...) Sometimes there was dear...” Macia would say “I can make than anything else in the world. out from one of the rooms from time to Santa Claus had come in through an Eatonia doll; the head usually got you one”. Aunt Frances would say The visit to Eaton's was an annual time, and Mother had her Coming Out a skylight on the third fl oor and was broken, or the eyes pushed in, before “Margann will let you play with it.” ritual; then there was the Santa Claus party in the drawing room downstairs, thumping down the stairs, ho-ho-ing the day was out, and it had to be taken And indeed, after a moment Margann parade, when you were never dressed Nannie said. Granddad and Uncle Her- in a voice like my father's. He had a to the Dolls' Hospital. .There was very said “You can play with it, Francean”. warmly enough but you didn't say any- bert had their medical offi ces on the nose like my father's too – but this was rarely anything like a doll's bed or doll's But it's not the same thing. It's just not thing about it. If you were lucky, you ground fl oor; the patients entered by all you could see of him, and I won- carriage, because Margann or I usually the same thing. watched it from on top of a car radiator the side door and waited in a dark room dered why he needed to come back if broke them, trying to get into them our- The time in my story is many years hood, but mostly you peered through with varnished chairs and the National he had brought all the presents during selves. And never a doll's highchair – later. JR and I had been married six legs or jumped up and down if you Geographic. Granddad’s offi ce had a the night. Aunt Frances played Jingle until this Christmas. months. We had told each other lots of wanted to see the clowns or the dan- great chair upholstered with horsehair Bells, and he made his entrance. The ceremony dragged on. I con- stories. He told me about Christmas in cing girls. The fl oats were easier to see fi lled black leather; if you pushed in a Too slowly, he began to give out tained my excitement as best I could England when he was six and the pre- because they were high, with the girls certain way, the whole thing heaved and the presents, one by one, starting with – politely, on the surface, at least. For a cious chocolate that got thrown in the your own age dressed in cuddly woolly clanked and rolled back and threw your a little one at the edge of the pile, read- minute I thought he wasn't going to get fi re with the wrappings by mistake. I things and waving at us, by the time legs up over your head. There was a roll- ing the tag aloud, with great care, pre- to it at all. The presents had all been told him about Christmas in Toronto they got to us, at College Street. After a top desk where Granddad kept pepper- tending not to know how to read, and given out. Maybe he thought that if it when I was six and about the doll's while I got dizzy with all the movement mints for us, and there was a cabinet fi nally making a fancy presentation to wasn't wrapped, it wasn't a present. Oh highchair. going in the same direction, and looked with surgical tools in it. One of them was Sarah, who opened it then and there, little Lord Jesus. On our fi rst Christmas morning, away until the big moment came. I used to take out tonsils. Everybody had daintily untying the knot and winding Then he saw the tag. “What's this?” there was a big bag of Laura Secord knew, for a certainty, that Santa Claus their tonsils out, but I didn't. up the ribbon and smoothing out the he said, picking up the highchair and chocolate, all for JR. And under the up there, at the end of the parade, was The other side of the hallway was paper. I was fi t to be tied up myself holding it high over his head. “Not for tree, a little wooden highchair, with a going to bring me the doll's highchair. I where we had Christmas. Aunt Mar- and didn't dare show it. Mother, certainly, ho ho ho...not for tray that you lift up and put over back. told my cousin Margann about it. tha and all the other aunts and uncles There were presents for me, of Nannie, ho ho ho, not for Towser, ruff The tag, with my name on it, read, I did all the right things. I ate what and cousins gathered in the morning, course. A box of plasticine (I only liked ruff, he barked, making a great show “You see, it was for you all along. 6 NIAGARA ANGLICAN DECEMBER 2008 PEOPLE IN THE NEWS