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A Queer Agenda

by André Pérez Generations of Change From the Take Back Boystown contro- are irrelevant or unimportant, about versy to Windy City Times’ own Gen- how they know that I don’t need their eration Halsted youth spotlight series, support or validation. Reality couldn’t LGBTQ youth are increasingly visible in be father from the truth. the queer community. I embrace coming of age in a com- Youth are forming Gay-Straight Alli- munity that those before me built, a ance in high schools across the country. community that spent time teaching So-called “at-risk” youth find support me how to be an activist, educator in outreach and prevention programs and youth worker. I can only be who thanks to shifting government under- I am because generations of queers standings of HIV and violence inter- laid a foundation I could build from. vention. LGBTQ youth are the subjects That work may have seemed small, but of research by both large-scale educa- it was laborsome, slow and dangerous. tional institutions and small-scale com- Thank you to people who facilitated munity organizations alike. support groups I came out in, who LGBTQ youth have more opportuni- started conferences where I devel- ties to get to know one another ear- oped my worldview, and who took me lier and come of age in an environment in when I had nowhere to go. In our where they can question with, organize collective enthusiasm for youth, let us with, and date other LGBTQ young peo- not forget to create intentional spaces ple. I’m just old enough to have not for youth to talk with, learn from, and known students who were out in high share experiences with elders. school much less to have had an or- When was the last time you at- ganized presence, and I see myself at tended an event with 50-year-olds and the cusp of a new generation of LGBTQ 18-year-olds represented? In five years of seeking out inter- generational spaces, I’ve found only a few “Let’s embrace this moment one-off events—an in- tergenerational mixer where change is accelerating, hosted by Genderqueer Chicago, a storytell- but let us also make room for ing workshop by About Face Youth Theatre, and our elders even if they think Broadway Youth Cen- ter’s former mentorship differently than we do, use program. I challenge us different language, and make all to be more inclusive of older folks in our or- choices we don’t understand. ganizing. As I open up to older queers, I hear from many folks who feel left out of and un- upstarts challenging the status quo appreciated by the queer community. of racism, classism, and transphobia Let’s embrace this moment where in established gay and lesbian com- change is accelerating, but let us also munities. As I officially age out of the make room for our elders even if they “youth” category, I look back on seven think differently than we do, use dif- years of working with and participating ferent language, and make choices we in youth movements, and I am proud. don’t understand. One of the most dy- I firmly believe in the capability of namic people I know is Alexis Martinez, youth and plan to be a youth advocate an older trans woman who is willing to for life; however, the youth-obsessed make a space for herself at the table nature of our community is disconcert- even when people don’t make it easy. ing. From dance party floors to non- But let’s make it easier for them just profit offices, there is a pervasive at- like they made it easier for us. Join me titude that youth is what we all should in greeting elders when they come to aspire to. We promote youth leadership an event for the first time, changing as “full of potential” while implying wording on a flyer, and committing to 30-somethings are past their prime. advertise our events not exclusively via When I’m involved in a successful proj- Facebook. When we die, the work will ect, older folks approach me to extol not be done, and I hope we will pass on how proud they are of what I’m doing. a sense of pride in where we came from, Too often, the conversation includes a along with our optimism for the future. self-effacing preface about how they

André is the founder of the Trans Oral History Project, co-founder of Project Fierce Chicago, and a working board member of Orgullo en Accion. When André is not rabble- rousing, educating, or building community, you can hire him to photograph events and portraits by contacting him at [email protected]. WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 5 LGBT group in AMA’s House of Delegates The American Medical Association (AMA) voted ca, GLMA will be able to leverage the strength of GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBT the AMA’s support and influence to build greater Equality into its House of Delegates, the AMA’s understanding within the mainstream medical principal policy-making body, June 17 in Chi- community about the unique health issues faced cago. by the LGBT community.” GLMA is the first and only LGBT organization In a statement Lee Swislow, executive director in the House of Delegates, signaling a major of Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, said, shift to advance understanding of LGBT health- “Having identity documents that accurately re- care needs and promote equality. In the past, flect one’s gender identity is a critical issue for the AMA’s GLBT Advisory Committee—which has transgender people in their everyday lives. Birth included members of GLMA’s leadership since its certificates that misrepresent gender put people inception in 2005—influenced several key AMA at risk for discrimination, violence and negative policies supporting a broad range of LGBT issues, health care experiences and outcomes.” including the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” Brian Richardson—director of public affairs and the adoption of children by same-sex part- for the Chicago Department of Public Health and ners. who oversees the Office of LGBT Health—told “With this historic vote, GLMA has a significant Windy City Times, “This is great news. There are Above (from left): Dr. Bechara Choucair, commissioner of the Chicago Department of Public opportunity to increase our efforts to improve still a number of disparities facing LGBT people Health; James E. Elvord, AWM, first vice president-financial advisor, RBC Wealth Management, the health and well-being of LGBT individuals,” when it comes to health, [so] any opportunity which was a sponsor of the event; GLMA Executive Director Hector Vargas; and GLMA President said GLMA Executive Director Hector Vargas. “By for inclusion of the LGBT community is good Desiray Bailey. Below left: Choucair. Below right (from left): Carl Streed, Shilpen Patel, Adam joining the AMA House of Delegates and having news.” Levine, Andrew German, Joseph Annis, Gregory Baschke, Jeremy Toler, Jason Ziplow, Brian Hur- a voice in the largest physician group in Ameri- —Andrew Davis ley and Desiray Bailey. Photos by Ed Negron 6 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES the Women of Action Award; Congresswoman Conference speakers include U.S. Rep. Jan Jan Schakowsky will receive the Woman of Im- Schakowsky (D) and Rev. Jesse Jackson on July NOW conference to pact Award; and Heather Booth and Jeanne 5, and Carol Moseley Braun on July 6. Elections Galatzer-Levy will accept the Victoria J. Mastro- for NOW president and two vice presidents will buono Women’s Health Award on behalf of The take place July 6, followed by a reception with stress unity, equality Jane Collective, which was founded in Chicago music, dancing and a cash bar. in 1965 and was one of the first abortion coun- For more information, visit http://www. by Charlsie Dewey seling services. now.org/organization/conference/2013/.

The annual National Organization for Women (NOW) Conference is being held in Chicago July 5-6 and will include adopting the organization’s Does HIV stigma drive infection? agenda for the coming year as well as the elec- By Frank Pizzoli has reintroduced the “Repeal Act,” which asks tion of its national officers. state attorneys general, state public health In 2002, NOW officially endorsed marriage “The constant drumbeat of crisis around HIV officials, people living with HIV, legal advo- equality and for the past decade has worked gets tiresome,” said John Peller, vice presi- cacy and service organizations to review laws, with other allied organizations to advance the dent of policy, AIDS Foundation of Chicago. policies and cases that impose criminal liabil- issue nationally and on a state-by-state basis. Yet infections among gay men are rising. ity on people living with HIV. Current NOW President Terry O’Neill said that In accepting a GLAAD Media Award for “These laws are based on bias, not science. marriage equality will continue to be a main fo- “How to Survive a Plague,” activist Peter Stal- These laws breed fear, discrimination, discus for the organization, and the conference will ey said, “Gay men are only about 2 percent trust and hatred, and we’ve got to modern- include workshops focused on attaining equal of the U.S. population, but we’re the fastest ize them. That’s exactly what this legislation marriage rights. growing group of new infections, 63 percent would do,” Lee said upon reintroduction. “Marriage equality is one of our major cam- of total infections in recent years. Why aren’t Current HIV statutes send “a message to paigns,” O’Neill said. “We are going to be rolling these numbers shocking us?” people who are negative or don’t know their out new materials and more materials and en- The U.S. Centers for Disease Control (CDC) status that protecting them from acquiring gaging chapter leaders at the community level. said if current trends continue 50 percent of HIV is someone else’s job,” Strub explains. We are targeting states with our allies in the African-American men who turned 18 in 2009 He’s referring to criminalization laws that re- equal marriage movement, and we are going to and have sex with men will be HIV-positive quire knowledge of one’s HIV status in order be really active. by age 35. Fifty-four percent of all men who to be held liable. Street translation: “don’t “In 2012 we were extremely active in all of the have sex with men will be HIV-positive. test, escape arrest” which creates “an illusion states that had marriage equality referenda and Responses to rising infections focus on re- of safety that results in more HIV transmis- we and our allies scored a clean sweep.” ducing stigma and increasing talk. sion,” Strub said. O’Neill also points to immigration reform as NOW President Terry O’Neill. Photo courtesy Chicago’s AFC launched “How Are You Sustaining the illusion of safety is the de- a key issue where the organization is standing of NOW Healthy?” embracing a holistic approach to emphasis by service organizations which no with the LGBT community, demanding that any men’s health. “We really got guys talking longer provide supportive networks—a need- changes that are adopted include LGBT families. about health in general, including HIV,” Pel- ed resource according to AFC research—for “Our coalition is not breaking apart over these will be the focus of specific workshops during the conference. ler said. the infected and, in the process, thwart mis- issues,” she said. “We are determined to have AFC also looked closer at men receiving and information and stigma. same sex couples have their families fully recog- NOW has a full agenda for the coming political elections also, which involve both advancing requesting services. “We found HIV stigma Lambda Legal’s HIV Project Director Scott nized, and I know that our allies in the immigra- played a role,” Peller explains. Those who A. Schoettes said that “If public health of- tion reform community are with us. Now whether social issues as well as winning political campaigns. brought internalized homophobia, “gay stig- ficials rely primarily on the scare tactics of we can get the elected officials to be with us, ma,” to HIV infection were less adherent on two decades ago, they will just lose credibil- that is something else. But the allied organiza- “Moving forward we really have our eye on 2020 because that is a key year, that is the year treatment. They lacked social supports before ity and increase stigma and discrimination.” tions we really are together.” infection, a circumstance that continued, “It would be more effective to fund sup- O’Neill noted that one of the biggest changes that the census will come out again and redistricting is key,” O’Neill said. “The progressive sometimes worsened, after infection. “Now portive networks of people with HIV, empow- to the progressive community recently has been they felt isolated for two reasons, being gay er people with HIV, which results in lessened a greater determination to work together and movement, we really didn’t do well in 2010 in the redistricting and we are now paying a huge and infected,” Peller explained. stigma,” Strub said. Like Curry’s online efforts commit together to progressive issues. Nationwide, Needle Prick Project founder which create dialogue between positive and “The theme of this year’s conference is ‘Stron- price for it. “Between now and 2020 what do we have to Tyler Curry wants “to get people talking about negative individuals. ger Together: United for Equality,’” she said. HIV again. Not just gossiping but honest talk Aaron Laxton is creating dialogue. “The reason that we wanted that as the theme do? Two things, at the federal level we have to step up our game and get feminist, progressive, that doesn’t stigmatize us.” It’s a “mod- Laxton, 33, is a St. Louis HIV activist, and is that we believe the challenges that are fac- ern conversation” about HIV, as his mission like Curry is on the Advocate’s current list of ing ordinary families throughout the country are preferably women, but feminist candidates, elected to both the house and the senate. states, “what it means to be HIV-positive and 40 Under 40. so layered, if you will, that the organizations what it will take to protect each other today.” Laxton said his mission is to “simply live in the entire progressive community are coming “The state level is where women’s reproduc- tive healthcare is being sincerely compromised Curry, 29, lives in Dallas. He tested HIV- my life in such a way that shows other people together in a way that I don’t think we’ve come positive in 2012 and was radicalized. living with HIV that it is possible to be happy together perhaps ever in the past. in state after state after state, so we are starting small, but we are determined to have a state “Since my positive test result, dating sure and healthy and HIV-positive.” “We know that the Republican playbook is to has been interesting. I’ve faced lots of rejec- Laxton underscores a generational shift. divide and concur the progressives and thereby by state by state effort to address these devastating restrictions. It’s not just restrictions tion, stony cold receptions from others. All “People are forgetting about the plague defeat Democrats and we’re not buying it,” she because we can’t talk about it,” Curry said. era, the pain, loss and destruction that AIDS added. “Women are absolutely not fooled by on abortion, its restrictions on birth control. In New Jersey alone, Gov. Chris Christie has zero- “After I forced a conversation during a left behind in the gay community. People no what the Republicans are trying to pull off.” buddy brunch, I learned that half the guys longer think that HIV is a problem. We have In addition to its focus on marriage equality funded family-planning clinics at the state level, for three years.” around the table were infected. Yet there we been told that we can take medications and and inclusive immigration reform, NOW will also sat all that time. Silent.” His posse dished that will keep us healthy. No one tells you, be focusing on other key issues, ending violence NOW will hand out three awards for courage and leadership this year during the conference: everything—politics, sex, religion—to the however, that the newest class of medications against women around the world, strengthen- dirtiest detail “but we never discussed HIV as to treat HIV cost over $3,000 a month,” he ing social security, and fighting for freedom Saru Jayaraman, co-founder and co-director of Restaurant Opportunities Centers, is receiving it pertained to our everyday lives,” Curry said. points out. from poverty in a Wal-Mart economy, all of which Curry’s online project, http://www.get- To bring back dialogue and awareness Lax- pricked.org, breaks the silence between posi- ton started on day four of his diagnosis to tive and negative guys by allowing real guys chart his journey. Viewers can see the results Chicago’s Dedicated and with real HIV to offer testimonials and their at http://www.youtube.com/laxtona. photos. On HIV prevention and other messages, Comprehensive LGBT Program “My generation feels safely removed from Laxton observes that “as a community we are ALEO the HIV epidemic. And why shouldn’t we? desensitized. We’re told that we should be VAT CHICAGO LAKESHORE HOSPITAL Valeo at Chicago Lakeshore Hospital provides comprehensive psychiatric People like me can go on treatment and live concerned about everything and in turn that and addiction-related treatment for healthy lives and no one would be the wiser. makes it hard to be concerned with anything. gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender That is, unless we all start talking to one an- I think that it is very telling of where we are and questioning (LGBTQ) individuals. other. Then these statistics become actual in the fight to end HIV/AIDS.” The program offers a safe, affirming faces, real people, not just CDC numbers,” Lambda Legal’s Schoettes thinks the tough therapeutic environment for members Curry said. question is why more people aren’t aware or of the LGBTQ community. The Valeo Dialogue must focus on “HIV prevention don’t really seem to care. Besides AIDS fa- staff is comprised of well-trained, as a shared responsibility,” said Sean Strub, tigue, “our response, or lack of adequate re- experienced gay and gay-sensitive sponses, is tinged by issues of race, socio- behavioral health professionals from founder of POZ magazine and more recently a wide variety of disciplines. The Sero Project. economic class, immigration status, and HIV criminalization laws block shared re- disparate levels of access to care.” sponsibility, fuel stigma, and may result in As one online guy wrote in an email for this 4840 N. 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DOMA [the Defense of Marriage Act] is ex- headed to Chicago NW: Women, children and men are enslaved pected in June. Do you feel optimistic? By Deanna Duff and exploited to perpetuate a certain style of NW: I feel very optimistic. I don’t think we’ll life—clothing, perfume, meat, tomatoes—the get everything we want, but I believe DOMA will For more than 40 years, the Reverend Dr. Nancy chances are that someone was flagged to work be overturned. It doesn’t mean gay marriage Wilson’s leadership has built bridges between in that supply chain to make it happen. We need will be universal in our country—that’s another faith groups, LGBT communities and the gen- to ensure good practices and fair trade and fair fight, I’m afraid—but you can see the momen- eral public. Her advocacy has addressed racism, food in our country. So much [trafficking] exists tum of change in the world and the United AIDS, poverty, women’s rights and countless so- and there isn’t an easy way to see or evaluate it. States. For DOMA to collapse would be huge, but cial justice issues. We need to educate people about the implica- then the deeper fight is on the way. It’s still President Obama appointed her to the White tions of having easy and cheap access to goods a cause for enormous hope. I’ve been in this House Council on Faith-Based and Neighborhood and services. What if there was an app on your movement for over 40 years and came from a Partnerships in 2011 whose current focus is ad- phone that could tell you whether a product was time when this discussion was unimaginable. I dressing the under-reported issue of human traf- made slave-free? You could verify that people didn’t think it would happen in my lifetime. ficking and modern-day enslavement. worked with dignity and decent wages to pro- WCT: What progress do you foresee in the Wilson became a Metropolitan Community duce it. We all need to be conscious about this next 20 years for the LGBT community? Churches (MCC) pastor in 1972 and currently as human beings. NW: I think transgendered people are still at serves as their elected, global leader. MCC is an WCT: What progress are you witnessing? an earlier place in our community’s movement. I ecumenical denomination founded in 1968 with NW: I think there is going to be an explosion think that many people, especially younger peo- a specific outreach mission to LGBT parishioners. of awareness in the next couple years and we’re ple, will increasingly be fluid around issues of There are more than 300 MCC congregations in hoping that we [the council] can be a part of gender and sexuality. In the next 20 years, I feel almost two dozen countries worldwide. longterm commitment. There are corporations that the big issues will be more global—such People from around the world are expected in who want to cooperate and are pledging to ethi- as women’s issues. The truth is, if we can help Chicago July 1-5 for MCC’s General Conference cally operate. They’re pledging that the goods women get equal access to education, we could XXV, “Believe.” See http://believe.mccchurch. and services they produce won’t involve labor end poverty. Also, a lot of places in the world org for details. from trafficking. We’re giving out annual prizes are still so far away [from progress] regarding Wilson is one of 25 leaders on the President’s to corporations making these commitments. human rights and LGBT rights. That has a lot to Advisory Council, which represents a diverse WCT: For the average person who wants to do with religion, a lot of which is exported from group of nonprofits, faith-based and secular help, what can they do? the U.S. We live in a world that’s increasingly organizations. The council analyzes and makes NW: There are two groups that I think are complicated and volatile in some ways. It’s go- recommendations to the Office of Faith-Based especially great on this issue. One is Slavery ing to be very interesting to see what happens. and Neighborhood Partnerships (OFBNP) regard- Footprint, slaveryfootprint.org. Before the first Originally published by The Seattle Lesbian ing public policies and programs. The OFBNP was White House Advisory Council meeting, we took (www.theseattlelesbian.com) founded by executive order in 2001 by President the online Slavery Footprint test. It’s a self-test For more about the conference, see http:// The Rev. Nancy Wilson. George W. Bush. By executive order, President about what products, services and goods you believe.mccchurch.org. Obama extended the existence of the Advisory use. It tells you how many people—slaves—it Council to 2015. ourselves and be churches that are true to their likely took to produce those items. It’s an easy, Windy City Times: How did you recognize values. Hypocrisy is what really alienates and but powerful thing to do. that your calling was to join the ministry and drives people away. Polaris is another organization working to did you face particular challenges being a les- WCT: For some young people, they want to stop human trafficking and rescue those already bian? be involved in a religious community, but enslaved, polarisproject.org. Sometimes you see Social Security’s Rev. Dr. Nancy Wilson: I grew up in the United aren’t embraced due to issues such as be- phone numbers about domestic violence hot- new policy for Methodist Church in Long Island, New York, but ing LGBT. How do you advise them to affect lines in public restrooms? They want to do that my family wasn’t particularly religious. When change—work from within the institution or for human trafficking—publicize 1-800 numbers gender-marker I was in my early adolescence, I didn’t have a from without? in restrooms, on billboards and more. People can vocabulary or many words to deal with being NW: There is heartbreak and disappointment call the hotline and someone will rescue them— changes a lesbian or female. I had a spiritual experi- for young people raised in churches [who are literally. The Social Security Administration (SSA) ence around age 11 of feeling that whatever marginalized] and also for those with no church WCT: The council is composed of non-prof- announced a revision to its policy around it was—this presence—God was my friend and background at all. What do they do when they its, secular and faith-based organizations. changing one’s gender marker on a Social that someday I’d have other friends. I remember want to be part of that community? I think you What role do you feel religious groups should Security card—a move transgender-rights hearing that promise. I don’t have the words to sometimes come in through a side door, maybe play in public discourse? groups see as a victory, according to Advo- describe it, but it was a mystical experience. not the front door. If a church is engaged in NW: I think everybody in a diverse, public cate.com. In college, I declared as a religion major. I a project or service that’s helping people in sphere should have a voice and bring their own The SSA removed its requirement that wasn’t out of the closet about my sexuality when need—food pantries, AA meetings, homeless values and views into the public square for dis- transgender people wanting to amend their I started. I came out senior year before semi- programs—that’s a way to feel connected to the cussion, evaluation and conversation. It’s a way gender on a Social Security card provide nary. The Methodist seminary didn’t know how community. to find common ground. Right now in Congress, proof of gender reassignment surgery. In- to handle it [homosexuality], but they didn’t WCT: In July 2012, President Obama’s Ad- we see such awful dysfunction because people’s stead, it has opted for more inclusive lan- kick me out. If I’d tried to stay Methodist, they visory Council on Faith-Based and Neighbor- vested interests are not in seeking common guage mandating that a transgender per- would have, but it was before it was even in hood Partnerships, began earnestly address- ground. When faith groups want their ideology son provide a passport or birth certificate their disciplinary books. They didn’t have words ing human trafficking. It’s estimated that 21 to be the only one that rules people’s lives, that reflecting the accurate gender, or a certi- for it. They weren’t happy about it, but I man- million people are enslaved in the U.S. every is not appropriate and we need to safeguard fication from a physician confirming that aged to stay for a few years and then finished year. Were you surprised by the extent of the against it. But they [faith groups] also represent the individual has had appropriate clinical at a Catholic seminary in Michigan. As a young issue? significant constituencies that should be able treatment for gender transition. person, I was drawn to the social gospel. It was NW: I don’t think anyone on the council was to speak about their values and public policy. “This is a big win for LGBT equality. This a time of civil rights and the Vietnam War and I an expert in this area at the beginning. We all I think secular groups should also be able to crucial policy change by the Social Secu- understood what I was being called to do. It was admitted how shocked we were about how much make a case for their values. rity Administration brings SSA procedures an amazing adventure to start a new community, we didn’t know. This is a global crisis. It’s a do- WCT: Recent tragedies—such as the Boston into alignment with other federal agencies a new church [MCC], and have the freedom to do mestic problem as well as international. Human Marathon bombings—have spotlighted the is- that have made progress on equality for it our way. trafficking is a low-risk/high-profit industry. sue of religious extremism. How do you feel transgender people,” said National Gay and WCT: How do you observe many young peo- People make phenomenal amounts of money on society can constructively address the topic Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea ple, especially LGBT, relating to religion in the suffering of others. We have to flip it so without causing more divisiveness? Carey in a statement. “This new policy is today’s culture? this becomes a high-risk/low-profit enterprise. NW: I think we live in a world that truthfully in line with how transgender people live NW: Many of the mainstream churches are We need to open our eyes that trafficking is hap- has more organizations working for peace than their lives and is in line with the medical opening up, but the Methodist’s doors are still pening in many places—small towns, big cities the other direction—even though it sometimes community’s consensus on when a person’s slammed shut to [homosexuals] being in the and right under our noses—where we just don’t doesn’t seem like it. The world has been a vio- gender should be recognized.” ministry and lots of other churches are skating see it. lent place for a long time and religion can go In addition, the Task Force stated that on the edge. They struggle with being com- WCT: You’ve said that the LGBT community either way. It can be a force for good, peace and SSA also issued guidelines on how staff pletely open, especially on a local level. I think needs to be particularly aware. About 10 per- justice or intolerance, hate and violence. Those should interact with transgender people. the biggest issue for young people is what’s the cent of individuals trafficked are LGBT. Are of us who are spiritual or religious, it’s our jobs This includes protections regarding con- relevance of religion at all? Institutional reli- there particular risk factors? to speak from a place that’s for justice, under- fidentiality, proper pronoun usage, and gion has betrayed a lot of people whether it’s NW: In the U.S., about 40 percent of teen run- standing and tolerance. treating transgender people with respect the Catholic Church’s scandals, a general lack of aways are LGBT. We know these people are tar- Most Christians in the world are not hateful, and dignity. justice or just irrelevance. We need to challenge geted by traffickers because they don’t have any but there are Christian extremists who’re racist WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 9

AIDS team training T2 marathoners at the June 15 fundraiser. tied to marathon Photo by Ross Forman By Ross Forman in support of AFC. “The best part of running with T2 is being re- Every Saturday morning for about five months, minded of the power I have as an individual. I starting in early May, they gather on a grassy have the power to accomplish an amazing goal. patch along the lakefront path at Foster Avenue. I have the power to inspire others. I have the In the cold and rain, or miserable heat and hu- power to save lives,” she said. midity. Schmid greets the T2 runners on most Satur- It’s time to train for the annual Bank of Ameri- day morning training runs—just as she did June ca Chicago Marathon, held on the second Sunday 15, when the crew was bracing for its eight- of October. The Team To End AIDS (T2) is the mile run—with her distinctive, loud, energetic official endurance-training program of the AIDS “Gooooooooooood morning, T2 marathoners.” Foundation of Chicago (AFC)—and its training She gives a few last-minute pointers, de- post-race fiesta that would rate with any New must-attend event. Cornejo has run the Chicago site starts at Foster Avenue and usually is a scribes the route they will be running that day, Year’s Eve party. Marathon each of the past two years in red in southbound run, starting with three miles and shares training tips, and maybe a personal story T2 is still accepting applications from runners support of AFC—and he’s shooting to fundraise building up over a matter of months to training or joke. Schmid’s dedication to the cause—fun- through the end of June for the Chicago Mara- $6,000 this year alone, which would push his runs of 20 miles or more. draising, coaching and volunteering for AFC thon, which sold out in record time. So yes, you grand total raised for AFC over three years to T2 is a group of local running enthusiasts, through T2—is tireless, endless. can still run the Chicago Marathon, and help AFC about $15,000. some experienced and some complete newcom- She often jokes that she hopes a cure for HIV/ in the process. “Joining T2 definitely has changed my life and ers, even former couch-potatoes, practicing in AIDS is found soon, just so she can sleep in on “We give an experience of a lifetime,” Schmid helped me become healthier, and helping the the spring and summer for that magical Sun- a Saturday morning in the spring or summer. said. “The camaraderie and support T2 generates fight to end HIV/AIDS is very, very rewarding,” day in October, when each will run 26.2 miles The T2 crew on June 15 was about 70 runners, is inspiring. It’s especially good for those people said Cornejo, who celebrates his 34th birthday through the streets of Chicago—from downtown ranging in age from their early 20s to early 70s, who are a bit intimidated by the marathon or June 30—and is encouraging his friends on up to Lakeview, out to area by U.S. Cellular Field and truly it is a mix of every race, creed and sex- simply by running. You have a team of coaches, Facebook and elsewhere to donate $34 to AFC, and then back toward a big, bold banner back ual orientation. T2 has long been a flag-waving staff, and teammates who are there to motivate through his online T2 fundraising page, so ev- downtown that blasts FINISH. supporter of the LGBT community, starting with you, inspire you, and get you to the finish line.” eryone can celebrate. (Anyone looking to join T2 and run the an- AFC president David Munar, who is openly gay, The T2 journey isn’t just about Saturday morn- “T2 is particularly good for beginner [runners] nual Chicago Marathon in October can visit www. and T2 marathon runner. His predecessor, Mark ing team runs; it also is the weekend parties, because we offer a range of experience and lev- t2ea.com or call 312-334-0934.) Ishaug, also is openly gay and has been a runner and often fundraising events during the week— els,” Schmid said. “We have a supportive and Katie Schmid, 35, who lives in Ravenswood, for the program, too. T2 had a float in the 2012 all done to support AFC. non-intimidating environment, and a team that knows all about T2 Saturdays. She is the T2 head Gay Pride Parade. Take, for instance, June 15. They ran eight is committed to getting everyone to the finish running coach in her ninth year coaching with About 200 runners will be in T2 red on race miles in the morning, then many of those same line. Everyone is a runner with us, no matter T2, her 11th season overall. She was a partici- day, Oct. 13, the culmination of months of train- runners congregated for an evening rooftop fun- what their speed [is]. Our program uses a train- pant in the program before becoming a coach. ing, the completion of a life-changing journey draiser in Uptown, with a breathtaking view of ing method that is especially good for beginners To date, she has personally run 18 marathons, that ends with a shiny medal placed around the the Chicago skyline—and more than $3,000 was and we have over a 99 percent success rate.” two half-Ironman events, and a full Ironman. neck of each finisher. raised for AFC. To support Dan Cornejo in his fundraising for She also has crossed the finish line in Chica- T2 marathon runners have long had a 100-per- Dan Cornejo hosted the catered third-annual AFC, go to: http://events.aidschicago.org/ go—in spirit—with literally thousands of locals cent completion rate on race day. party, which attracted T2 runners and triath- site/TR/T2/T2?px=1103004&pg=personal&fr_ who she has coached, each wearing T2 red shirts And then it’s time to celebrate, as T2 hosts a letes, among others, and has quickly become a id=1060

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Harris reiterated that commitment to coalition leaders, said Lambda Legal Midwest Regional Director Jim Bennett, who also chairs the coalition.

Tackling the House Two strategies had dominated thinking on how best to approach the vote in Illinois. One line of thought was that sponsors should secure votes in both the Senate and House before calling for a vote in either. The reasoning was that Senators who voted “yes” would not take heat for a bill that couldn’t pass the House and that anti-gay activists would be left with little time between the two votes to mobilize. The other strategy was to pass the bill in the Senate and ride that momentum to a win in the House. Backers aimed to achieve both strategies, planning to pass the bill in the Senate and work that momentum towards quick success in the House. Talk in the coalition suggested that plan could be complete by February’s end. “The idea was to keep the momentum moving so quickly that we would not give our opponents time to organize in a strategic way,” said Ber- nard Cherkasov, CEO of Equality Illinois. A successful Senate vote on Valentine’s Day put that goal into focus. “I was so proud of the Senate and how they handled this vote,” said Sen. Heather Steans, the Senate chief sponsor of the bill. “There was Equality Illinois Executive Director Bernard Cherkasov with the marriage timeline. Photo by Kate Sosin no arm-twisting involved.” But the House proved to be a much tougher push. By mid-May Senator Steans felt a twinge of Some believed the bill had 58 or 59 votes that Feigenholtz called Harris’s decision to wait The bill needed between 55-58 votes to put it concern. morning, enough to pass if Madigan could pull “wise.” within reach. Backers thought that if they could “Once you get caught into the end of session in the last remaining votes. “I thought it was the toughest call that he’ll meet that threshold, Madigan would pull in re- and all the stuff that needs to happen, that’s That understanding was affirmed that morning ever make in his career, undoubtedly,” she add- maining votes and help it pass. just complicating,” she said. “So when it hadn’t when Madigan opened his House gallery to LGBT ed. But coalition leaders had not kept a firm roll happened by two weeks out, then I started go- families who had come to witness history. By Friday evening, the shortage of votes was call, and Harris had declined to share his. Con- ing, ‘OK…’ But I still felt it was ultimately going Bill after bill was called throughout the day, significant. fidence from LGBT leaders had been founded on to pass.” with no vote on marriage discussed. “Enough that it would have gone very badly faith in Harris and his perceived rapport with At 1:30 p.m., the House recessed for lunch. had it gone up on the board,” Cassidy said. Madigan. Leaders felt that Madigan would throw Thursday Harris made his way up into Madigan’s box to Several close to the bill estimate the “yes” his weight behind Harris if it came down to the By the time the last week of session arrived, visit with families who had come for the vote. votes would have been in the 40s, a devastat- wire. sponsors and coalition leaders were anxious to Harris took pictures with the families and said ingly low number. Further, the campaign for marriage equality see a vote. Many predicted the bill would see he was optimistic about the vote. “I was stunned,” said Yingling. “My partner had largely been funded by Fred Eychaner, one a vote on Thursday, May 30, and LGBT families When the assembly reconvened hours later, co- and our kids were on the floor, and there were of the biggest backers of Democratic politicians headed for Springfield. alition leaders were nervous but confident. a number of families from across the state that and causes in Illinois. It seemed unlikely that In the capitol building, coalition leaders pre- Sponsoring reps were not put on alert until were in the gallery. That was my immediate Madigan would burn his supporters. dicted the bill’s passage by early Friday morning. later that afternoon, but word that votes were thought as well as the other legislators. It was Still, weeks passed after the Senate’s success Thursday, however, ticked on without a vote or a falling off the bill sent sponsors into a scramble. very surreal.” without a vote. Anti-gay groups began to orga- signal from House leadership. “We were working the roll call like mad,” said nize weekly rallies against the bill. Coalition leaders started to get restless. Cassidy of Friday afternoon. The Rita Mayfield issue The coalition, seeing momentum dwindle, On Thursday around lunchtime, coalition lead- At around 5:10 p.m. Madigan appeared in the Among the most frustrating fence-sitters on fought to keep the story in the news, releasing ers gathered in Rep. Deb Mell’s office to strate- House chamber. His presence alerted many who equal marriage had long been Waukegan Rep. statements of support from celebrities and poli- gize on how to pressure Harris and Madigan into had waited all day for a vote. Rita Mayfield. ticians and stating repeatedly that a vote would calling for a vote. Mell, one of four openly gay Soon after, Madigan pulled the four openly gay Mayfield voted “present” on civil unions become any day. legislators in the House, was not present at the reps into his office. cause she could not bring herself to vote against On March 13, House Speaker Michael Madigan meeting. The bill did not appear to have the votes, he the bill despite the will of her district, she said. told reporters that the bill was 12 votes short of The coalition decided to hold a press confer- said. It was up to Harris to decide what to do. The issue was close to her heart, she added, as the 60 it needed to pass. The statement set off ence in front of Madigan’s office to pressure Ma- “We talked about various options,” said gay her best friend is a gay man living Florida. panic among some LGBTs, but members of the digan and Harris. Rep. Sam Yingling. “There was definitely dia- Mayfield had been on LGBT target lists since coalition quietly scoffed at the number. Jim Bennett, coalition chair, told media that logue between everyone at the table.” the civil union vote, with multiple organizers In fact, a vote had been anticipated the fol- the bill would pass if called. LGBT families also Harris also consulted with Steans. working to turn her ambivalence into a “yes” on lowing day. Madigan’s statement, rather than spoke, urging the assembly to act. The two had been in touch all day, but Steans the issue of equal marriage. alarm coalition leaders, was taken as a bluff in Estimates on the vote count on Thursday vary. said it was not until Friday afternoon or evening In spring 2012, Equality Illinois held a Spring- advance of a vote, a tactic to energize LGBTs and One source said that the bill had 53 firm votes that the situation became evident. Harris asked field lobby day that focused on marriage, de- prevent anti-gays from flooding the capitol the going into the last few days of session. Another Steans what she thought he should do. spite the fact that a marriage bill had yet to be day of the vote. totaled the support at 58. Her initial gut reaction was that he should call introduced. The lobby day signaled that groups The following day, coalition leaders headed for But late in afternoon Thursday saw a quiet ru- the bill, she said. She quickly realized that was were preparing to push for equal marriage in the Springfield in hopes of seeing a vote. The day mor that there would be no action on the bill. emotion speaking and told him not to call the coming months. came and went without one. That rumor went unconfirmed, and with conflict- bill. Mayfield was among the targets for the lob- There were several times, sources say, when ing reports circulating throughout the capitol, In fact, other sponsors had the same tempta- by day. Approached by a constituent that day, the bill could have passed during the spring LGBTs were simply left to wait. tion, they said. she explained that her district contained many session. In mid-March, organizers had counted With time running short, the coalition or- “The reality is that would put us off at least churches. She did not feel she had the support 58 yes votes, four to six of them Republicans. ganized a rally in Springfield for the follow- a year, maybe longer,” said Cassidy, who added to vote for same-sex marriage. She also reiter- With several lawmakers still in the “undecided” ing morning and asked supporters to travel to that she also understood the desire to see a ated that she voted “present” on civil unions column, LGBT organizers felt confident that Ma- Springfield. vote. because she could not bring herself to vote digan and Harris could secure the final votes to “You don’t burn down the house just because “no.” pass the bill. Friday you don’t like the color of the dining room,” she LGBT groups continued to court Mayfield after That outlook started to turn when reports be- Friday, May 31, the last day of spring session, added. the lobby day. gan to circulate that Republican House Leader opened with a sense of urgency. The coalition “Calling the vote would have been so person- So difficult was that push that some activists Tom Cross was considering a run for attorney sent out an email impelling supporters to con- ally satisfying,” said sponsoring Rep. Ann Wil- considered supporting a primary candidate to general. The news set into motion a scramble tact their reps. LGBTs convened in the capitol liams. “In retrospect, I have to really commend oppose her. But Mayfield’s district sat next to among Republicans eager to move up in leader- rotunda to show support for the bill. But a bus Greg Harris [for waiting].” that of candidate Yingling, whose victory would ship. At least two Republican yes votes were re- of about 20 supporters organized by the coali- “A first, there were was a great deal of disbe- make him the first openly gay rep elected in Il- portedly lost, as Republicans aimed to appease tion ran an hour late. Approximately 100 people lief,” said Rep. Sara Feigenholtz. “My sense was linois outside of Chicago. In the end, the money their base. were present for the rally. that we were very close.” and energy was put into Yingling’s campaign. WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 13 Yingling won, and Mayfield remained in office. Gay activist Michael O’Connor, a former 34th trol. In fact, many LGBT organizers were simply Despite anger at Harris, many in the coalition According to Mayfield, she surveyed more than District legislative staffer, said he felt that sto- told not to work on the bill, numerous sources also blamed Madigan for the shortfall, stating 108,000 constituents on the issue of same-sex ries about Mayfield were very unlikely. confirmed. that he did nothing to drum up support for the marriage a year ago, and just 20 percent sup- “She doesn’t have that kind of power,” he said. This lack of communication about strategy bill beyond state his support for marriage equal- ported equal marriage, with 70 percent opposed. “I’m highly suspect when I hear stuff like that.” coupled with the bill’s ultimate shortfall in the ity. But activists did not give up on Mayfield, final hours appeared to be the source of tension Of the sponsoring reps, however, only Mell said stating that the phrasing of the survey ques- Issues with outreach between Harris and others working to pass the she felt the speaker did not fully prioritize the tions encouraged bias against equal marriage. Suggestions that the Black Caucus prevented bill. bill. Mayfield and LGBT groups agreed to tackle the bill’s passage have been refuted by Caucus Many in the coalition felt that they could have Mell said she wanted to attend an LGBT pro- the issue at a town hall forum in the district. Chair Ken Dunkin and LGBT organizations alike. helped pass the bill but were not utilized, while test held outside Madigan’s Chicago district of- The ACLU’s Khadine Bennett fielded questions “We shouldn’t be wearing the jacket for this,” others felt shut out from the process. fice June 16, but that a personal commitment from more than 100 attendees at the Waukegan Dunkin told reporters May 31. “That would be Coalition leaders first heard rumors Friday prevented her from doing so. meeting. But that plan backfired, with the over- unfair and disingenuous to have the Black Cau- night of the vote shortage. They got confirma- whelming majority in attendance opposing the cus wear the jacket because you have 71 Demo- tion through lobbyists less than an hour before Moving forward bill. According to residents, attendees on both crats.” Harris announced it. The coalition unanimously Both coalition leaders and reps have urged LG- sides of the issue had been brought in from out Dunkin later declined to comment to Windy wanted to see a vote, they said. However, they BTs to direct their energy into unifying rather of the district. City Times on the reports about Mayfield. were not consulted. than tearing each other apart. According to sources, Mayfield had in fact told But some close to the bill argued that even “All of our groups had already made the deci- Reps point to the campaign’s many success- coalition leaders not to invite supporters to the if Mayfield had worked against it, the damage sion,” said Bennett, coalition chair. “There was es—numerous media editorials in favor of equal meeting, stating that she wanted to hear from would have been minimal had more work been no one on a different page.” marriage, swift progress in the Illinois Senate the community. But the low turnout in favor of done within the Black Caucus. Many felt the LGBT organizers began texting people in the and rapidly evolving public opinion. Supporters marriage equality followed by Mayfield’s state- caucus was taken for granted, with two lobby- gallery, asking them to yell at Harris to call for a note that it took three decades to pass the Il- ments that her district appeared opposed raised ists hired in the final 48 hours to target Black vote when he stood to speak. When Harris rose, linois Human Rights Act, and that the marriage eyebrows in the coalition. lawmakers. onlookers did just that. push is less than a year out of the gate. The town hall meeting was the last straw for Kim Hunt, executive director of Affinity Com- Among those yelling was Bennett. In Bernard Cherkasov’s Equality Illinois office some LGBT activists, who grumbled that May- munity Services, also said that Black LGBT lead- “Justice delayed is justice denied!” Bennett hangs a large hand-written timeline of goals. field was anti-gay, and that she simply wanted ers were not called on to aide in outreach to shouted from the gallery. The timeline moves from the passage of civil cover for not supporting equal marriage. LGBT Black representatives. According to Ed Yohnka of the American Civil unions to marriage equality, and it has clearly organizers made the call to invest energy into “We could have been educating and mobilizing Liberties Union, the ACLU did not discuss the been on his wall for years now. He points toward other lawmakers, but the Rita Mayfield question our constituents,” said Hunt. “We did have some possibility of shortfall with Harris. the end of the timeline. In 2012, the goals were never went away. constituents that we knew of that were very in- “That is something we should have all pre- to protect and elect supportive lawmakers. This Several sources close to the bill said that with terested in going to Springfield. We don’t have pared for and been prepared for and been pre- year was to see the introduction of a marriage the clock winding down in session, Mayfield be- the resources for that. There could have been pared to speak about in a fashion that would equality bill. Next year, that bill was slated to gan picking off support for the bill in the Black things that we could have done in the Black have been less reactive and more affirming in become law. Caucus. press, which we tried to do a little bit … but terms of keeping the movement going forward,” Sources estimate that as many as 10 lawmak- it wasn’t part of a larger strategy. It was just us said Yohnka. ers got cold feet in the final hours. stepping in because we weren’t seeing anything Those that saw Mayfield as a problem did not visible in terms of support marriage equality.” elaborate specifically on why she might have Hunt and O’Connor were among a group of

Jesus Ruiz and his two daughters with their sign. Photo by Tim Carroll; more images online State rep. Rita Mayfield (in center, with microphone) at a Waukegan forum that people against at www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com same-sex marriage attended. Photo by Kate Sosin worked against the bill behind-the-scenes. Black LGBTs to travel to the capitol independent Madigan protest draws Some felt she was anti-gay, while some specu- of the coalition to lobby lawmakers. lated that she didn’t want to take a vote that small crowd, big support would put her odds with other Democrats. A look at leadership BY KATE SOSIN But Mayfield strongly denied that version of Sponsors of the bill have called for unity in the events. wake of the non-vote. Cassidy, Steans, Yingling, A hastily organized protest against Illinois House Speaker Michael Madigan may have been “That’s absolutely not true,” she told Windy Feigenholtz and Williams all stated on-record sparsely attended, but the demonstration attracted much attention June 16. City Times. “That is definitely not what hap- that they felt Harris made the best call. About 18 people attended the rainy midday protest, held outside of Madigan’s district office in pened… there is so much finger-pointing.” Still, sources suggest that Harris kept both his Chicago’s West Lawn neighborhood. The demonstration intended put heat on Madigan after the Mayfield said that several colleagues had told colleagues and the coalition at arm’s length. Illinois House adjourned without voting on a bill that would legalize same-sex marriage May 31. her they felt they needed more time, a message Several sponsors made a habit of asking co- LGBTs have partially blamed Madigan, stating that the speaker did not use his power to influence she passed along to Harris in the weeks leading alition leaders when a vote might come, rather support within the Democratic Caucus. up to session and in the final hours, she said. than Harris. Some key sponsors did not appear “The notion that state reps vote their conscience is as ludicrous as saying most Chicago alder- “I spoke to Rep. Harris more than once,” May- to have access to the roll call, and at least two men vote their conscience,” said Gay Liberation Network co-founder Andy Thayer. “Mike Madigan field said. were not given target legislators to work on. put his finger to the wind and decided that the anti-gay bigots are more mobilized.” Mayfield said that about eight Black Caucus Williams, a consistent LGBT supporter and The protest had been planned just four days prior at a meeting held in Uptown in the wake of members wanted the opportunity to return to close ally to gay legislators was not working off the non-vote. their districts and educate their constituents on a roll call. Despite low turnout, the demonstration attracted a significant amount of attention and sup- the issue before voting “yes.” “I had no access to any master list or target port, as numerous cars speeding down Pulaski honked their horns in support. As for her own vote, she said, she is still look- list but would talk to people that I was close A follow-up meeting on further actions was slated to be held June 18 at The Center for Inner- ing at voting “present.” with on both sides of the aisle,” Williams said. City Studies, 700 E. Oakwood Blvd. “I’m definitely leaning ‘yes,’” she said. “I don’t Another rep was told to talk to “everybody.” A downtown march in support of marriage equality has also been scheduled for July 13, the know what it will take to push me over the Still, Harris reportedly assured sponsors and details of which have yet to be announced. edge.” coalition leaders that everything was under con- 14 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES Marriage coalition restructuring

BY KATE SOSIN Community Alliance and Action Network (CAAN) The coalition of organizations working pass Decalogue Society of Lawyers equal marriage in Illinois has announced Equality Illinois plans to restructure after a push to pass equal Family Equality Council marriage by the end of this year’s spring ses- Freedom to Marry sion fell short May 31. Gay and Lesbian Association of Decatur Illinois Unites for Marriage—a coalition (GLAD) headed by Lambda Legal, the American Civil Grassroots Collaborative Liberties Unions of Illinois and Equality Illi- Howard Brown Health Center nois—will hire a full-time campaign manager Human Rights Campaign and expand its field team. Illinois Chapter of American Academy of The announcement comes after weeks of Pediatrics coalition meetings addressing the Illinois Illinois Department of Human Rights House’s failure to vote on equal marriage by Illinois Federation of Teachers session’s end May 31. Illinois Psychological Association “The frustration and disappointment felt Illinois Safe Schools Alliance across the state when the marriage bill was Illinois State Bar Association not called for a vote has been channeled Lambda Legal Ryne Patrick and Andrea Crain kick off the meeting. Photo by Tim Carroll into refocused work and dedication at Illinois Lesbian and Gay Bar Association of Chicago Unites to win the freedom to marry,” said Jim (LAGBAC) Bennett, a chair of the Illinois Unites coali- Marriage Equality USA tion, in a statement. “Not only is marriage for Mexican American Legal Defense Fund Marriage activists same-sex couples coming to Illinois, it will (MALDEF) - Midwest Regional Office arrive with a strong bedrock of LGBT and al- National Association of Social Workers lied organizations ready to support all those (NASW) - Illinois Chapter who wish to marry the person they love.” National Museum of Mexican Fine Art blame Madigan Among reported issues within the coalition National Organization for Women (NOW) was a perceived lack of collaboration with Peace and Justice Committee of the Episco- LGBT leaders of color. pal Diocese Chicago for non-vote The coalition, which contains several promi- PFLAG Belleville by KATE SOSIN turned,” the person said. nent LGBT groups representing communities PFLAG Bloomington/Normal Others lamented the fact that organizing ef- of color, will include more of its members at PFLAG Northern Illinois Council (14 Chap- Finger-pointing over a failed push to pass equal forts have largely highlighted white activists. regular meetings, the coalition said. Citizen ters) marriage in Illinois this spring has been abun- Overall, participants advocated a need to react Action Illinois, The Human Rights Campaign, Phoenix Center dant since May’s end, and LGBT activists are now to the shortfall both immediately and over the the Chicago Urban League, Freedom to Marry Prairie Pride Coalition eying the House’s top Democrat. long term, forcing elected officials to take the and The Civil Rights Agenda will be among the Public Pride Alliance Activists protested outside Illinois House issue seriously through protest and grassroots groups at the table. Quad Citians Affirming Diversity Speaker Michael Madigan’s district office June pressure. The coalition is also kicking off a search Rainbow Cafe of Carbondale 15, citing what they say was a failure to priori- “They’re always with you until it’s time to for a campaign manager and adding to its ReconcilingWorks: Lutherans for Full Par- tize equal marriage this year. stand up on the battlefield,” said one person. organizing team. That team will be working ticipation The decision to target Madigan was made at Joanie Rae Wimmer, a transgender advocate within target districts, adding to the number Service Employees International Union a community meeting held in Uptown June 11. and attorney, suggested that the group start of door knocks and calls to those areas. (SEIU) Healthcare IL and IN More than 50 people attending the gathering, looking at primaries where undecided lawmakers Finally, the group has committed to holding Service Employees International Union held at the Peoples Church of Chicago. No elect- can be replaced with supportive ones. nine public meetings throughout the state by (SEIU) Local 1 ed officials attended. The group concluded with a decision to hold a mid-July. Service Employees International Union The meeting marked the first public forum held rally in support of marriage equality on July 13, Alongside that news was a separate an- (SEIU) Local 73 since Rep. Greg Harris, chief sponsor of the Re- after June pride season wraps up, at a down- nouncement from Equality Illinois, which is The Shaw Law Group – Jennifer A. Shaw, ligious Freedom and Marriage Act, announced town Chicago location. They also discussed and launching a “Fight Back for Marriage” cam- P.C. that the bill lacked the votes needed to pass tabled a decision on planning for a large-scale paign, aimed at putting pro-LGBT lawmakers Test Positive Awareness Network (TPAN) before spring session ended May 31. Some criti- protest in Springfield timed for the fall veto ses- into office and educating Illinoisans about UE Western Region cized Harris over the call to postpone a vote, sion. marriage equality. The campaign commits $.5 UNITE HERE, Local 1 stating that they wanted lawmakers forced on- Among those criticizing the lack of a May vote million to supportive candidates and educa- The UP Center of Champaign County record with a vote. were LGBT leaders within the Illinois Unites for tion for 2014. Urban League But at the Uptown meeting, speakers largely Marriage Coalition. Leaders in the coalition, Half the funds will go into political cam- Youth Pride Services blamed Madigan, who they said should have spearheaded by Equality Illinois, Lambda Legal paigns, while the other half will go to oppos- wrangled support for the bill within the Demo- and the American Civil Liberties of Illinois, were ing anti-gay advocacy. Marin cancels cratic Caucus. not present. But Martinez of The Civil Rights “No opponents of marriage equality can be Among the most critical of Madigan was Gay Agenda did attend and explained possible time- sure that their re-election campaigns will be one event, Liberation Network co-founder Andy Thayer, who lines for the bill. easy next year,” said Jeremy Gottschalk, chair stated that the speaker needed “to whip his own Some have expressed hope that the bill could of Equality Illinois PAC board of directors, in still hosting another damn caucus into line.” see a vote during a special summer session, a statement. The Marin Foundation sent Windy City Times “Mike Madigan owns the House,” said Thayer. while Harris has suggested possible action dur- Groups in the Illinois Unites for Marriage is cancelling a July 23 marriage-equality de- “He just decided that he wasn’t going to put any ing the fall veto session. If it passed, it would Coalition include: bate between Dr. John Corvino and Maggie political capital in this.” likely not go into effect until June 1. Affinity Community Services Gallagher that was to take place at Roscoe’s. Thayer and other GLN members called for a The meeting was organized by community ac- African American Lesbian Professionals However, the foundation is still hosting protest of Madigan, a call that was approved by tivists Crain, Ryne Poelker and Lair Scott. Having a Say Peterson Toscano at the Center on Halsted a popular vote after some debate. The protest against Michael Madigan will be AIDS Foundation of Chicago for his one-man play, Transfigurations, about LGBT activist Andrea Crain moderated an ex- Saturday at noon outside his district office, All Saints’ Justice Circle transgender Bible characters, July 1, 7 p.m. tensive discussion on possible grassroots efforts 6500 South Pulaski Road. American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) of Il- at Center on Halsted. to push the bill forward. Participants disagreed Details of the July 13 March in downtown Chi- linois over whether or not supportive politicians cago have yet to be finalized. American Federation of State, County and should be punished for the lack of a vote, which Two other upcoming protests were also men- Municipal Employees (AFSCME) Council 31 many felt had been promised. tioned, including June 16 against the appear- Association of Latino Men for Action (ALMA) Anthony Martinez, executive director of The ance of Cardinal George at the Archdiocesan Gay Anti Defamation League Civil Rights Agenda, advocated for rewarding and Lesbian outreach, Our Lady of Mt. Carmen Center on Halsted politicians who had supported the bill, like Gov. Catholic Church, 708 W. Belmont Ave. Rainbow Chicago Bar Association Pat Quinn. Sash and GLN coordinated the protest. Also Chicago Black Gay Men’s Caucus One attendee suggested that parade attendees mentioned was a rally planned for the night of Chicago House stonewall politicians who decided not to call for a U.S. Supreme Court decision on the Defense of Chicago Jobs with Justice a vote. Marriage Act and Prop 8, held the evening of the Citizen Action/Illinois “If Harris shows up, I would love to see backs decision at the corner of Roscoe and Halsted. The Civil Rights Agenda WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 15 ally stunned,” Murray said. “They reached and shouting out for me to sit down when I stood up grabbed me as I returned to my pew after being to turn my back on the Cardinal while he gave judged by the Cardinal to be a sinner not worthy his hypocritical message of love,” Murray said. of any compassion, and told me of their support. “After Mass same individual began bullying the I could hear the horns blowing supporting the women who had the courage show me support, outside demonstration, could hear the chanting like the individual who brought me Holy Com- of my brothers and sisters in the GLN outside munion. She gave me strength, and courage. All of the church, and that also gave me courage. the while this bullying was going all the board But my guardian angels where the women who members just watched and smiled. I am not an- seemed to get what I was doing; the men felt gry just very sad it has come to this type of threatened and showed that. … I think most bullying behavior in God’s house of prayer where people were stunned that [they] witnessed this all people should be welcome.” happen—not by my presence, but by the AGLO AGLO was formed 25 years ago when Cardinal reaction to that presence.” Bernardin forced a split in the local Catholic AGLO refused any recording or photographing LGBT community. He offered the existing group of the service, though they have allowed this Dignity a choice of how to worship in a take- in the past. In fact, they made this request it-or-leave-it approach. Bernardin formed AGLO through on-duty police officers who were in the out of the Archdiocese, and Dignity went in its church in response to the protests of the Mass. own direction. AGLO is made of largely of older Murray said he heard from one AGLO board white males, but it also has some lesbian and member that they thought members of the Sis- straight members, and a small participation of ters of Perpetual Indulgence were expected to racial minorities. be at the protest (they did not attend). That Awards were presented during the service to AGLO member reportedly told Murray he would Father Pat Lee and longtime AGLO member Jim direct physical violence against them if they Lux. showed. In advance of the Mass, GLN and RSM issued The service did not address any issues of mar- a press release stating: “The Cardinal in his riage equality. It was called a “Mass of Thanks- most recent column in the Chicago Catholic New giving” and was focused on the alleged pros- World indicates in the first two paragraphs that Brenna Cronin and Joe Murray after Mass. Photo by Tim Carroll titute Mary Magdalene, and Jesus’s love and he wants to take part in public conversation support of her. about gay marriage but closes off further dis- After the service, the cardinal greeted people cussion when he says that the subject is closed at the back of the church, where the screams of by reason of Jesus’ statements about marriage At AGLO, cardinal protest outside could be heard. Some activists in Matthew’s Gospel. We doubt the Cardinal’s did go in and called out his bigotry on marriage sincerity in this matter. He follows up by con- equality, and they were asked to leave. gratulating those who successfully urged Illinois George then met with congregants for a re- legislators recently to give no consideration to refuses communion ception, and helped cut a cake for AGLO’s 25th a bill allowing same-sex marriage in the state. anniversary. ... Clearly he does not agree with the concept of Asked by this reporter to comment about mar- separation of Church and State when it comes to to Rainbow Sash leader riage equality, George said “What is that?” Asked marriage.” again, he responded: “This is a celebration of “Our message to the Cardinal is simple: hate is By Tracy Baim ray walked away with his hands open and empty, AGLO that gives people the spiritual help they easy, love takes courage, and the kind of faith showing the congregants that he had been de- need ... that’s why I’m here.” Asked a third time based bigotry he promotes is not welcome in Chicago’s Archbishop Francis Cardinal George nied. about marriage equality, he laughed, and said, Chicago’s LGBT Community,” Murray said. “This refused communion to gay activist Joe Murray, But in an emotional show of solidarity, Brenna “That subject has been talked about a lot. This visit is especially poignant since it takes place who wore a rainbow sash during George’s ap- C. Cronin, who had already received her commu- occasion is to celebrate this group. Which is a during June which is the month our community pearance at the 25th anniversary of the Archdi- nion as part of the church choir, went back up good group.” celebrates Gay Pride. ocesan Gay and Lesbian Outreach (AGLO) June and took another communion wafer and brought Outside of the church, there were strong inter- “Cardinal George continues to be a bigot and 16. it to Murray herself. actions between some AGLO members and pro- those who passively support him and do not About 25 LGBTs and allies protested outside of “One of my brothers, a member of my com- testers, and against their fellow AGLO members speak out about this vile homophobia are as AGLO’s Mass at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, munity, who is a full and equal member of the who showed support for Murray. much part of the problem as the Cardinal.” 708 W. Belmont Ave. They could be heard shout- body of Christ, was denied communion. So I got “Then there was crazed individual who kept ing outside during Mass, and cars honking in back in line and I brought him communion, as I support were also a frequent sound heard during would for anyone else,” Cronin told Windy City the service. Times after the Mass. Cronin, who is a lesbian, The fraternity’s mail delivery has been put The Rainbow Sash Movement and the Gay Lib- has been involved with AGLO for two years and UChicago at on hold until the fraternity sends a written eration Network organized the protest. Murray is is also a cantor. center of racist, apology to the letter carrier. the founder and executive director of the U.S. “I was denied communion by the Cardinal,” Rainbow Sash Movement. While several others Murray said after the event. “I turned to Christ, anti-gay prank took rainbow sashes from Murray ahead of Mass, I walked back open handed, and showed the Postal carrier Iran Becton said he was the Caterpillar no one else protested inside. community that I was denied communion, and victim of a racist, anti-gay prank at the Uni- withdraws Murray stood up with his back to George dur- Christ, in his mercy, sent me a priest [Cronin] to versity of Chicago, according to the Chicago ing parts of the Mass, and then he went up with give me communion.” Sun-Times. Scouts support the estimated 200 others in attendance to re- “It was the individuals who witnessed the Car- Members of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity at Peoria-based Caterpillar Inc. is no longer ceive communion. George refused him, and Mur- dinal not giving me communion that were re- the school were involved in a prank that had giving money to the Boy Scouts because the Becton needlessly dragging 79 postal supply organization discriminates against gay peo- boxes up to doors of the frat house. The items ple, according to the Huffington Post. were addressed to “Reggin Toggaf;” written The company’s move was not directly tied backward, the first name is a racial slur and to the recent Boy Scouts decision to continue the surname is an anti-gay one. to bar gay adults from the organization while On its website, the fraternity issued a state- allowing openly gay children to be scouts. In- ment: “Several weeks ago, several dozens of stead, the company decided to cut off fund- USPS priority mail boxes labeled with a de- ing while reviewing a request for $25,000 rogatory name were delivered to the chap- that came in last year from a local group in ter house from an unknown sender. After Illinois. receiving the boxes, the active brotherhood immediately filed a complaint with USPS, as involved federal agents can confirm. Pride worship “While we were not responsible for this heinous and blatantly racist and homophobic event June 23 A Chicagoland Pride worship event that in- federal offense, we are deeply saddened and volves more than 60 member congregations sincerely apologize for any emotional distress will take place at the First United Method- caused to Mr. Iran Becton—the individual ist Church, 77 W. Washington St., on Sunday, who delivered the boxes—as a result of this June 23, at 7 p.m. situation. The Chicago Coalition of Welcoming Church- “We are fully cooperating with the authori- es is hosting the event. ties and the University administration in or- For more information, see “Coalition Pride der to resolve this issue and hold accountable Worship—Ecumenical area-wide event” on those responsible to the fullest extent of the Facebook. law.” Cardinal George cutting the cake at AGLO’s 25th anniversary. Photo by Tim Carroll 16 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES

Left: Andrea Crain tries leads a June 11 community meeting at Peoples Church. Right: The June 11 crowd votes in support of Andy Thayer’s motion to hold a protest at Illinois House Speaker Michael Madigan’s office June 15. Photos by Tim Carroll Marriage and Equality: A Way Forward By Tracy Baim we have three parallel tracks working on this bill counter the anti-gays on the streets, and we It is obvious that the staffs of our major non- but not fully engaging with one another. looked weak. Not only that, when it came time profits do not reflect our community. No one We are at an interesting pivot point in our LG- I suggest the most important thing to work to call people to Springfield for a last-minute agency can be perfect, but it has always been BTQ community’s history in Chicago and Illinois. on right now is a “10,000 Families March for rally, little more than 100 people from the entire largely a paid white leadership in our LGBT orga- The delay in marriage equality here provides an Marriage Equality” [someone suggested the bet- state showed up—people had not been trained nizations. There are always exceptions, but be- opportunity to learn and grow. But I fear this ter name of March on Springfield for Marriage to actually physically show up at a protest. cause of this stubborn problem of largely white potential will be squandered once again. Equality] on the first day of the veto session Can you imagine the Black civil rights move- staff and largely white boards of directors, they We may indeed actually see short-term suc- this fall. There should be other inside and out- ment, or women’s movement, or ACT UP, suc- in turn attract largely white volunteer and donor cess in the fight for marriage rights in Illinois. side agitation before then, including a push for ceeding just through letters to the editor, ad- bases. They recruit from a mainly closed circle Much work needs to be done, but combined with a summer vote. But if Rep. Greg Harris stands vertisements and petitions? There were street of friends. legal challenges and increased pressure, there is by what he said May 31, he will call this for a protests, marches, sit-ins, etc. They comple- In my 29 years of covering this community, hope for marriage equality, if not in 2013, then fall vote. Let’s give him the added outside pres- ment the insider work and it trains the activists, I have attended events all over town. I rarely soon after. sure he needs to bring urgency to a veto ses- About 50 people attended a community meet- sion vote. Harris told Windy City Times if 10,000 ing June 11 at the Peoples Church in Uptown, people had showed up in Springfield May 31, it “This movement has to figure out a way to one of the city’s most diverse neighborhoods. might have helped kick this bill over the finish No politicians attended. And no one was there as line. an official representative from the Illinois Unites channel the anger as much as it channels the for Marriage coalition. It was all grassroots ac- Starting Over tivists and caring citizens. So we continue to I am going to propose a few ideas below, with money and the votes.” have not just a failure to communicate with one respect given to advocates and activists, politi- another, but a failure of leadership to actually cians and pundits, donors and the grassroots. lead. What happened the past six months was too readying them for the crucial moments of where see very many white faces at primarily Latin and At the meeting, there were of course some much behind the scenes, with people afraid to pressure is needed. African-American events. And at predominantly of the same activists who have been protest- reveal a strategy for fear the opponents would 2) Public cultural and educational events are white events people ask “Where are the people ing in the streets for years. But there were also respond to it, when in fact the strategy should needed in diverse communities. Most of our of color?” Really? In 2013, that segregation is new people to the protest table, hungry for ac- be clear to the community, even at the risk of community’s largest events happen downtown or just as strong, if not worse, than it was in 1984. curate information and for ideas on a direction showing our hand. Because without a public on the North Side. Very few forums on marriage If whites don’t go to people of color events, how forward. They are tired of not seeing any clear strategy, we alienate our own base, our own equality happened in the districts of reps who do you create bonds where they then come to strategy, and of being told to “wait” or just “call community, and do no long-term work that will were wavering or who needed support for their predominantly white events? This is all true of your reps.” Most of those at the meeting voted create a better and stronger movement. vote to stay “Yes.” We should be partnering to our gender and gender identity divide as well. to protest at House Speaker Michael Madigan’s But first I want to review my personal take on create fun, celebratory and educational forums Most of it starts with social segregation, but district office at noon June 15, voted to hold our community’s past three decades, based on in these districts, cross-promoted with the reps then it digs its tentacles into our official struc- a downtown rally July 13, and will soon make my participating in, and covering, this commu- themselves. Some reps reportedly told Rep. Greg tures, our staffs and our boards of directors. It plans for a major march on Springfield, likely the nity since 1984. In these 29 years, I have seen Harris they needed to go back into their districts is still very common for someone to say to me first day of the veto session this fall. organizations make the same mistakes over and to work on this. Well, let’s help them by provid- “Well, we did outreach through so-and-so to his What are the leaders of this community afraid over, in part because of a lack of institutional ing some LGBTQ talent and power to make them Black friends, and none of them were interested of when the activists want to protest in the knowledge and new people coming in and out of memorable. We have talent of all kinds (poetry, in joining our board.” This is a social commu- streets? Are they too busy listening to paid po- the movement. It is also because Chicago itself music, theater, film, speakers, religious leaders nity, built on social circles, and if you do not litical and public relations strategists and not presents a very unique set of challenges to true and much more). Let’s use it. actively try to break down those long-term bar- the community? It remains unclear who is call- movement building, based on divisions along 3) We need to put more community money riers, you will never be doing true community ing the shots within the coalition. With national geography, race, class, gender and age—going where our community members actually live. work. groups stepping into the fray and local groups back many generations. We need to hire a more representative group of 4) There are great examples of cross-cultur- not keeping a roll call independent of the bill’s 1) While lobbying on the phone, in emails and people who work at our LGBT and AIDS organiza- al work in Chicago’s LGBTQ past and present. sponsors, the coalition’s strategy remains un- through online petitions—and even public relations. When the Center on Halsted was launched Things such as the Color Triangle, or Women of clear. Even less clear is whether PR consultants tions campaigns—are necessary components of in 2007, the leaders knew it was a problem that All Colors/Cultures Together, joint pride events, are working for the coalition, or if the coalition modern activism, these efforts create no true it was located in one community. Boystown was Lesbian Community Cancer Project dances at is answering to PR consultants. What has come movement for change. What was needed these where the support was, the space was, and the the South Shore Cultural Center, International out of the coalition has been a social media past few months was also a street-based cam- resources were at the time. But now there could Women’s Day dances, the Dyke March (going into campaign, crafted by ASGK strategies, a PR firm paign, one that the media could cover. When be satellite Centers on Halsted in several parts different communities), Amigas Latinas, ALMA, working to pass the bill. anti-gays protested at locations around the of the city, including the Southeast, Southwest Asians and Friends, Affinity and individual lead- But our community’s leaders know that outside state, especially in Chicago and the suburbs, I and West sides. A small space, maybe sublet ers who worked hard to make change. But people agitation is historically what kept the pressure was shocked to see how few marriage equality with an existing theater or church, where events who are volunteers, or those who are paid not on insiders and politicians to actually move on “leaders” participated. The media was there, the happen, where staff work, and true outreach oc- well, burn out. They move on. Groups change behalf of our rights. There is no movement that politicians were paying attention, yet sometimes curs. Ultimately, wouldn’t it be great to have a and fold. So to truly sustain this kind of work has succeeded in this country without people in just a few dozen marriage advocates showed 50-ward plan, accompanied by the suburbs, to the streets. And it wastes time and energy when up. The movement’s leaders had decided not to truly engage our entire community? Turn to page 17 WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 17 MARRIAGE from page 16 people have gone through to what happened to a 50-ward effort in our city, and even less so 4) Provide resources to existing groups Blacks (including LGBTQ Blacks). The systemic in most suburbs and downstate, we are paying working on LGBTQ African American and La- racism of the past few hundred years still has the price for not being further along in the un- tino issues to allow them to hire staff to work takes more than just a few people with good an effect today on the African American com- derstanding of our issues. Politicians and reli- on outreach efforts related to marriage equal- intentions struggling against the tide of history. munity. This inherited impact spreads through gious leaders who are against us can easily fall ity for the next 6-12 months. They already It takes a long-term commitment, money and multiple generations, and is deep in the memo- back on the “that’s a North Side issue” because have connections, why not give them the power other resources to nurture and grow the change ries of those who lived through it, and who have we have played into their hands. We have not to strengthen their work. For the long term, we we want. heard the stories of their ancestors. done our jobs. A white 30-year-old working hard need to better support these groups in their We can learn from what has worked, and that That said, we can speak to one another about on the North Side might say, “I did not create community building. is making our events fun and inviting, and cre- the different kinds of oppression LGBTQs face. this problem.” Yes, a white bus driver in 1950s 5) Hire staff and lobbyists to work specifi- ating them organically with many voices at the That is very real and has also had a steep price. Minnesota might have been able to say to Rosa cally in districts where they have experience. table. We can’t just expect to host a political fo- LGBTQs have lost their lives, their jobs, their Parks, “I would have let you sit anywhere you Ask the reps for a list of recommended, qualified rum and people will come out. Not without true families. Uniquely, LGBTQs get kicked out of wanted on my bus.” But what did they do to people to do outreach in their districts—who community building as part of the plan. their own homes by parents for being different. work for change where Rosa Parks lived? has the influence? Do not bring in people who 5) Much of the problems we now face are be- Also of historical significance, most LGBTQs can Most of us are simply trying to live and pay are not from the area to lobby in districts they cause of the past. Most African American and “pass” in society (some Blacks could and did do our bills. Raise our children or our pets. We are have no history with. Latino LGBTQs who are over age 50 in Chicago this over the years). This passing has a price, activists part-time if we are lucky. We trust our 6) When the anti-gays have a protest, cre- can tell you many stories of the blatant racism an internalized homophobia that can lead to leaders, those paid to do this work, and those ate an action-alert response team of coalition they faced at gay clubs in the 1970s and 1980s. substance abuse, and even suicide. A healthcare who commit extraordinary volunteer hours, to members and others who will send a notice The subtle social racism still exists—and some- crisis was allowed to blossom into a worldwide really carry the weight of this struggle. And most out asking for a response each and every times it is not so subtle, as with the Take Back pandemic, AIDS, because of homophobia and of the time, that appears to work. But it is not time. The media is watching, YouTube is watch- Boystown efforts against minority youth. But ing, and the politicians are watching. the extra carding of people of color at gay clubs 7) By building this response team now, we was very real, and documented, and resulted in will have people ready to do this in the fall. lawsuits and boycotts. People of color were to- “What are the leaders of this community afraid Right now, we should be planning “March on kenized, sexualized and discriminated against. Springfield for Marriage Equality” for the first Many fought hard within the white LGBT groups of when the activists want to protest in the day of the veto session. People could plan ahead to work for change, but most of them eventu- for the day off of work. Our leaders knew the last ally packed their bags and went to work within streets? Are they too busy listening to paid day of the spring session was May 31. Yet no people of color communities to work for change. huge turnout was organized, so that when one Being a token can take its toll, especially when political and public relations strategists and was needed, an alert went out the day before you are treated as such. and just 100 or so people showed up in Spring- 6) AIDS has had a devastating impact on our not the community?” field. We know there will likely be a veto session. people. We lost visionary leaders who could have Let’s create a plan of action to alert everyone continued to contribute to our movement. This to show up the first day of that session this fall is true of thousands of people of all colors. We (unless of course the bill passes sooner). This lost incredible, magnificent LGBT people who racism—we do have that in common, because sustainable, and it is not going to get us true kind of action alert could be used to assist other fought hard for inclusive social change. ACT early losses were among the “4H’s”—homosexu- equality. And it won’t help us when these “big” groups doing similar work, for example on im- UP was a melting pot of diversity. They fought als, Haitians, hemophiliacs and heroin addicts. issues come up, ones around marriage equality, migration reform that is LGBTQ inclusive. the outside world, and they fought each other No one wanted to help those communities un- queer youth homelessness, LGBT senior housing, 8) Ask the Victory Fund, the national LGBTQ as well, trying to create a new way of working til they realized it was never just killing “those feeding people who are hungry, and much more. organization that trains and raises funds for together. Trying to change homophobia, rac- people”. What we need is a much larger infrastructure, political candidates, to come in for a series of ism, sexism, classism on top of fighting for the We have our own levels of pain, but we can’t one that works across this city for true change. new training sessions focused just on LGBTQ lives of friends and family was a near-impossible try to get into a game of “my oppression is the of color in the Chicago area. Focus on build- under-taking. Some men with AIDS wanted to same or worse than yours”. It will not be the The Nitty-Gritty ing new leadership and supporting those who focus on AIDS. Others wanted to connect the way to victory. Let’s simplify the above historical overview later run for office. We have many openly LGBTQ dots of oppression, healthcare access and dis- with a few concrete suggestions that might help elected officials now in Illinois, but outside of crimination hurting all people. They tried to do What, Me Worry? the short-term goal of marriage equality, but the judicial ranks, none are people of color. all of that under one acronym. It worked briefly, If you are reading this and saying “Well, I do hopefully will help provide long-term gains for 9) And finally, we have to work together and very well, but those divisions, and death, this work in my life,” that is great. This is not full equality, and create an amazing quality of and be transparent in what we do. We can’t were ultimately too much to overcome. meant to be an accusation of any one person or life. I offer Windy City Times as a sponsor for be afraid of the opposition knowing what we are What lessons can still be learned from ACT UP? organization. This work is hard. At Windy City these events, to help spread the word and keep doing. And we can’t be afraid of one another. That we can work together on pivotal issues, Times, we try to practice what we preach. Our these costs down. Will the coalition and activ- Yes, some people are afraid of a protest at House and that marriage equality can be one of those. publications benefit from the points of view of ists join us in creating some true change? Speaker Madigan’s office. They don’t have to It crosses boundaries, and in fact has a more a diverse staff and a team of freelancers. We al- 1) The Illinois unites for Marriage Coalition, show up. But they should not be ostriches act- devastating economic effect on the middle and ways are aware that we need to have diverse which said it will continue to broaden its list ing as if these activities are not happening, and lower classes, those dependent on social secu- people to have stronger and more diverse con- of members, needs to engage people from they should not deny that these protests are be- rity, pensions, healthcare benefits of partners, tent. We try to cover events all over town, with those districts that are most on the fence. In ing demanded by legitimate voices in the LGBTQ and those with low-wage jobs who are raising our limited resources. For 10 years, we (when we addition, they need their own transparent staff community. Our politicians especially should not children. But how do we do this? We create rea- were Outlines newspaper) published BLACKlines and structure. By having a coalition of groups be afraid to hear opposing views at public fo- sons to get together beyond the politics, we and En La Vida monthly newspapers for the Black that each have their own independent agendas rums or at the Pride Parade. build community groups and businesses that are and Latino communities. They were written by and mission, the larger mission of the coalition This movement has to figure out a way to both single-issue and multi-issue. We recognize and for those communities. But businesses did can’t be obtained without staffing. We hear they channel the anger as much as it channels the that not everyone who is LGBTQ sees marriage not want to advertise, not enough to sustain are moving in this direction, but it must be done money and the votes. as the only goal, but that it can be part of a those publications. I miss those publications with great speed—and transparency. series of issues we work together on. We stop very much. They provided a unique space to de- 2) Pick the 10 or so representative districts I could put forth larger goals than even the our single focus on one gay-rights plank and we bate and focus on those issues. They were not most change-able from “Maybe” to “Yes,” or above suggest. Things such as documenting our speak out and show up for a range of issues. that difficult to do, but there was no money to those needing some solidifying, and create community now through permanent ways (my Some individual LGBTs do this, no doubt. And sustain them long term. events that combine culture and education. chicagogayhistory.org free website, and Victor some groups, like Gay Liberation Network, are [Let me add my experience as co vice-chair of (These include both Chicago and suburban Salvo’s The Legacy Project)—plus documenting always crossing these boundaries, from display- the Gay Games board, a project I worked on as areas.) Do these timed to right after Labor Day our events, and our culture, to make sure it is ing their rainbow colors at everything from im- a volunteer for seven years. We hosted nearly and before the fall veto session. Perhaps com- all passed down to youth today and in 50 years. migration rallies and war protests to the Chicago 11,000 athletes from almost 70 countries, for bine a couple districts if they are neighboring. We often struggle to define ourselves because Teachers Union rallies. While some issues may be Gay Games II in 2006. We were extremely com- Have the events at theater or church spaces that of so little understanding of our heroes and our too controversial for our non-profits to weigh in mitted, and even sometimes criticized by our are welcoming. Purchase food and beverages history. That makes our bonds together very on, there are plenty of ways to support the work own community, to diversity efforts for women and services from local businesses and make the tenuous and easily severed when we disagree. It of others without risking your tax status. And and people of color. We made sure our literature events free and fun and fabulous, and work with makes it easy for our enemies to define us as all individuals can do what they want, showing up was diverse, our board and staff was diverse, the elected officials in those areas (so not just one way—when we know we are not monolithic. across many communities. Business leaders and our outreach was far-reaching, our scholarships reps, but senators, alderman, committeeperson, We make ourselves easy targets if we do not donors, of course, can do much to make change. covered a wide range of people, and our venues etc.) to make them inclusive. Have well-known show our true diverse selves. Sometimes that 7) While we share many issues in common were throughout the city, including the South- speakers but also grassroots people telling their gets a little messy. with past civil rights movements, we need to re- east and Southwest sides. Even one gay paid stories, and make sure these events are well pro- And all of this boils down to people and mon- spect that not all oppression is the same, and we leader—at a public city meeting—questioned moted, well attended, and well covered. ey. We need it all to make it work. can’t get into a war of ranking these. If an Afri- us if it was wise to have cycling on the South 3) Launch two satellite offices for the Cen- History shows that progress often comes with can American politician says they are offended Side! We had events all over the city and also ter on Halsted, one on the Far South Side, one backlash and setbacks. But we can learn some at the use of the term “civil rights” for LGBT is- Oak Park, Evanston, Skokie and even Crystal on the West Side. A simple office with two staff lessons here, and build a much stronger com- sues, we need to respect this and bring dialogue Lake. This was a difficult, long process, but our members charged with outreach and education, munity, if we care to. to the table, not a racist, angry response. The team worked very hard to keep to our goal of and providing referrals for support services at history of brutality and racism faced by African inclusion.] the main Center and related agencies. Ideally Tracy Baim is publisher and executive editor Americans and Native Americans is unparalleled So what about marriage equality? It does sublet or rent nearby to existing community or- of Windy City Times. She can be reached at edi- in this country. We do our LGBTQ movement no have a place in this larger debate about divi- ganizations doing similar work, for example on [email protected]. good in trying to directly compare what our sion in our community. Because we did not have AIDS efforts. 18 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES all churches for 10 years, then, in the 1970s and devotion to one another. We both have had walked into a Metropolitan Community Church,” leadership roles for several years in church and he said. “I converted to MCC and began serving our respective professions and there has been as a pastor in 1985. More recently I have mainly an unwritten expectation I feel from ourselves served as the network leader for MCC’s North and others that we have been somewhat of a Central US Network which covers 12 churches in role model, especially as concerns mixed race six states. I just retired, effective this [spring].” couples. I would say we are just very comfort- Thomas has been involved with MCC since the able and compatible with each other in that we 1970s; he was involved with the Church of God have a love and respect for education, the arts, In Christ during his youth and early adult life. He music and travel.” said MCC “seemed to be a natural choice since So what’s ahead for the two? both Gordon and I were looking for a ‘church Retirement, of course, anchored by their fa- home,’” he said. vorite pastime: traveling, including in Europe. “I have served on several church boards and Plus, both want to attend the Wimbledon Cham- currently serve on the board of aChurch4me, pionships. my current church home. Serving for several “Professionally, I, and perhaps both of us, will years on the Board of Ordained Ministers, which continue our several board involvements which constituted the final committee for persons include our train board associated with Amtrak, seeking ordination in MCC was a great experi- and several professional boards which for my- ence. Currently I serve on the Board of Servants, self include Social Welfare and Agency board,” The Stewardship Team and the Community Care Thomas said. Team at my church.” McCoy added, “I’ll be continuing my involve- MCC is celebrating 40-plus years of ministry ment with MCC on a volunteer basis and am to the LGBT community and beyond. Its 25th looking forward to the Grant Park Music Festi- General Conference is July 1-5 in Chicago, which val. Eugene bought us tickets for my birthday will attract worldwide attendees to worship and and I can’t wait to go. Then we will be doing Dr. Eugene M. Thomas (left) and his longtime partner, Rev. Gordon R. McCoy. Photo from Thomas celebrate God’s all-inclusive love, according to some traveling by train to see some friends in the MCC website. Toronto.” At the conference, there are educational op- For more about the conference, see http:// portunities and more, workshops and plenary believe.mccchurch.org. sessions. There also are Bible studies and wor- Chicago couple ship sessions. The theme for the conference is “Believe,” which comes from John 17:23: Then the world PPIL offering free together for 42 years, might believe, that you, in fact, sent me. “The 25th MCC Conference promises to be an HIV testing historic occasion for several reasons,” Thomas Planned Parenthood of Illinois is offering said. “Thousands are reportedly planning to free rapid HIV testing at its Austin (5927 anchored around MCC come, and this will be a great time to see and W. Chicago Ave.), Englewood (6059 S. Ash- By Ross Forman Park. hear our current leader, Rev. Dr. Nancy Wilson, land Ave.) and Roseland (11250 S. Halsted Naturally, they want to be married in Illinois. and our founder, Rev. Elder Troy Perry, both of St.) locations for a limited time. They wanted to wait to get married when it “I only ever envisioned same-sex marriage whom are greatly respected. The conference will According to the Illinois Department of would be valid throughout the U.S., but they in Illinois after President Obama came out for allow many to attend numerous religious servic- Public Health, there are more than 22,000 feared how long that still might be. So, this past same-sex marriage in the state where he has es, workshops and other religious involvements. people living with HIV/AIDS in Chicago. February, Dr. Eugene M. Thomas and his longtime been senator,” Thomas said. “The most significant role for myself at the Despite declines in HIV-related mortality, partner, Rev. Gordon R. McCoy, had a civil union. Thomas is on the MCC church board of servants 25th MCC Conference will be to lead a ‘Pastors HIV continues to be in the top ten lead- Ironically, though, the whole idea was rather and a retired professor at Loyola University Chi- Spouse’ session with a respected lady co-lead, ing causes of death, ranking fourth among casual and kind of spontaneous. cago. He enjoys watching professional tennis, Ms. Mary Woodruff. This workshop will seeks people between the ages of 34-55 who “We had been talking about marriage generally reading mystery fiction, and traveling, often by to give pastoral spouses a chance to meet and died in Chicago. and Gordon said, ‘Well, would you like to get train. greet one another and briefly talk about their To make an appointment, call 800-230- married, then?” said Thomas, who replied, “Yes.” McCoy was a pastor and network lead in MCC, lives with their respective MCC pastor spouse.” PLAN or visit www.ppil.org. “Gordon then said, ‘I think I just proposed.’ though now retired. He enjoys reading gay fic- This is the first time MCC’s international Gen- “Gordon is a rather formal person and seemed tion and history; and years ago in college, he eral Conference has ever been held in Chicago. to feel that his proposal wasn’t very romantic. I learned how to play the bagpipes and was in a “People are coming from over a dozen countries Chicago among was more impressed that he really meant what bagpipe band for three years. and we have sold out the Millennium Fairmont gay-friendliest he had said. We were sitting at our dining room The two were introduced by a mutual friend with over 1,000 persons registered, not to men- table and were just talking. We continued to talk while waiting for a Metra Electric train, then tion spouses and friends who are coming for cities in U.S. and discussed [the subject.]” called the I.C., McCoy said, en route to a civil the enjoyment of the city and for the evening Consumer-advocacy website NerdWallet Their civil union was held at aChurch4me Met- rights rally downtown. worship services which are open to all without used a data-driven approach to find the ropolitan Community Church (MCC) in Rogers They have since been together for 42 years. registration,” McCoy said. “I’m especially look- country’s most gay-friendly cities—and “I would say we are just very comfortable and ing forward to meeting the delegates from Latin Chicago ranked among the top 20. compatible with each other,” McCoy said. America where MCC has been growing like wild- To compile the list, analysts considered McCoy has been officiating Holy Unions fire. the Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Tuesday, June 25 through MCC since 1981. “I’ve been serving on MCC’s Conference Core Equality Index, the percentage of house- “Though we celebrated many anniversaries Team mainly as the local guy who presumably holds that are same-sex, the number of 7 p.m. with friends, we never actually had our own knows something about Chicago and has utilized gay-related hate crimes and an overall Annual GLBTQ Pride official Holy Union, let alone a civil union or my role as network lead to work with the 20 or gay-friendliness score. Open Mic fully legal marriage. We know who we are, and so other leads in ensuring people know about Chicago came in 12th with a score of 67. we know our relationship is valid in the eyes of travel tips and other hospitality issues. As the The top three cities are Palm Springs, Ca- God, so what else matters?” McCoy said. “But conference gets under way, I will be at the hos- lif.; San Francisco; and Seattle. Friday, June 28 then this year we did have our civil union, and pitality table.” 7:30 p.m. now we appreciate the importance of legal vali- Thomas naturally points to MCC as one of the dation too.” reasons for their long life together. Hillary Clinton Company of McCoy was originally trained for the profes- “I think our involvement with MCC has been of at Chicago Women: New and sional ministry in the Presbyterian Church back great help,” he said. “We both came from fami- Selected Poems in the 1960s, and served three churches in that lies that were religious and our parents were House event communion, but then left. “I stayed away from role models, showing and demonstrating respect The fifth anniversary of the Chicago House Speaker Series will feature former We will gladly insure your Civil Union/Wedding event! 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Alfonso Rodriguez is a survivor. GLSEN honors Illinois “I overcame trust and intimacy issues as a guidance counselor result of being molested from the age of 6 to On National Teacher Appreciation Day, GLSEN GAY in the the age of 8,” he said. (the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network) Rodriguez also survived an emotionally- announced the selection of Matthew Beck—a LIFE abusive relationship, he said. guidance counselor at Erie Elementary School in Alfonso Rodriguez “I survived falling into the dark world of Erie, Ill.—as the 2013 Educator of the Year, ac- drugs and alcohol. I survived being homeless Text By ROSS FORMAN cording to a press release. as a result of that part of my life. I survived thinking that I was going to die when I was The Educator of the Year award recognizes an diagnosed with HIV. I survived,” Rodriguez “education professional who has enriched his said. “I firmly believe there was always or her community by ensuring that all students, Age something bigger than me with plans for my particularly LGBT students, are safe from bully- 42 life; I just needed to take those few steps to ing and harassment.” make it happen and open my mind and heart In the past year, Beck helped his school contin- Relationship status to positive changes in my life. ue its participation in GLSEN’s No Name-Calling Single “Today, I live a happy life as a full-time Week. He also secured developmentally appro- Neighborhood student.” priate family diversity resources for the school’s Uptown Rodriguez attends Truman College, where he is in the LGBTQIA & Friends Club. He also is the counseling office. Hobbies communications officer for the Student Government Association, and said he likely will run for president Movies, dining out, and window- of the LGBTQIA & Friends Club in August for the fall semester. shopping “I’m convinced I’ve always been aware of my sexual preference,” Rodriguez said. “My mom shared with Pride Shabbat me that, when I was in kindergarten, I refused to wear a blue knit sweater. She’d put it on me and I’d Roots run back to my room to take it off when she wasn’t looking. One day she confronted me and demanded Was born in Chicago. His mom is from June 28 to know why I didn’t want to wear the blue knit sweater. I said, ‘Mommy, if I wear the blue sweater, then Colombia. His dad is from Puerto Rico. Temple Sholom’s LGBT affiliate group, Am Kes- Johnny can’t see me.’ They met at Amundsen High School het (Hebrew for “People of the Rainbow”), will “Johnny was a little boy in my classroom [who] had blue eyes. I figured that if he had blue eyes and and married at St. Mary of the Lake host a Pride Shabbat service Friday, June 28, at if I wore anything blue, then he wouldn’t be able to see me, that I would become invisible to him. Parish in Chicago. the temple, 3480 N. Lake Shore Dr. A wine-and- Interesting how the mind of a 6-year-old works. cheese reception will start at 5:45 p.m., with Favorite movies “Johnny and I were caught in the coatroom once after that, [though] I really can’t remember what we the service beginning at 6:15 p.m. Gia; Love, Actually; and The Holiday were doing back there.” Among the leaders slated to attend are 46th Rodriguez said gay student life at Truman College is, thus far, “a pleasant experience.” Four people (living or dead) who Ward Ald. James Cappleman, “When I got to Truman, there was a not-so-active [gay] club in place, but this past semester there have you’d like to have dinner with Howard Brown Health Center CEO Karma Israel- been two superstar role-models in the club [who] have made a difference, not only on a school level but son, state Rep. Greg Harris, John Berry from the Meryl Streep, Michel Legrand, Ellen DeGeneres and Ernest Hemingway in the local community, too. I’m very proud to have worked alongside Dr. Rudra Dundzilla, who is our Human Rights Campaign, ACLU Legislative Direc- advisor/sponsor; Marie Martin, president of the club; and Aaron Ramirez, vice-president. tor Mary Dixon, Lambda Legal Midwest Regional Little-known fact “Marie and Aaron took the club to a different level that will serve as a platform for other students to Director Jim Bennett, and Bernard Cherkasov “I’m a little bit of a freak,” he said, get involved in what’s going on in school and in our community. (CEO of Equality Illinois and a Temple Sholom laughing. “I’m pretty much an open “I’d like to keep the LGBTQIA & Friends Club involved in community events and perhaps take it to a member). book. My friends and family know service level where we volunteer at a local community organization as a group for worthy causes, such as See www.sholomchicago.org. me well; I hide nothing and I’m very working with displaced youth, feeding the homeless and wherever we may be of service. It’s not about seldom censored; it’s a flaw that I’m being in a club that matters, it’s how we move as a whole in the community and what difference we make. working on.” If we’re not making a difference in someone’s life, or if we’re not having an impact in the community we live in, then what are we doing? I know we have some pretty enthusiastic students at Truman College, and they [too] feel the same passion for getting out there and lending a helping hand.”

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PUBLISHER & EXECUTIVE EDITOR told me that he’s been to at least 200 HIV/ Every spring the fundraising for T2 starts in Tracy Baim AIDS-related funerals—and if I showed him one full force. I truly hope those doing the fundrais- square-foot of carpet from a local funeral home, ing for T2 and, ultimately, AFC understand why ASSISTANT PUBLISHER Terri Klinsky he likely could name the funeral home. So sad; they are raising tens of thousands of dollars an- MANAGING EDITOR Andrew Davis that’s about all I can say because I truly can- nually. BUSINESS MANAGER Ripley Caine Catching up DIRECTOR OF NEW MEDIA Jean Albright not relate; I’m too young. But I certainly know There also are hundreds set to participate in ART DIRECTOR Kirk Williamson and have heard about the wide-reaching impact mid-July in the 10th annual Ride For AIDS Chi- ASSISTANT EDITOR Kate Sosin to history HIV/AIDS has had—in Chicago, let alone around cago, a 200-mile bicycle ride produced by the SENIOR ACCOUNT MANAGERS: Terri Klinsky, Amy the world. Test Positive Aware Network (TPAN), another Matheny, Kirk Williamson, Chris Cheuvront I often wonder what the “older generation” truly PROMOTIONAL SUPPORT Scott Duff A few years back, in honor of the 30th anni- dedicated organization serving the HIV/AIDS NATIONAL SALES Rivendell Media, 212-242-6863 think about the Gay Pride parades that happen versary of the first diagnosis of HIV, the Windy community. SENIOR WRITERS Bob Roehr, Rex Wockner, Marie in countless cities around the world, especially City Times ran a continuing series for 13 months, Next up on my short walk through history is J. Kuda, David Byrne, Tony Peregrin, Lisa Keen, in Pride Month: June. AIDS @ 30, with multiple HIV/AIDS-related sto- just that, a walk through the streets of Tel Aviv, Yasmin Nair, Erica Demarest Take, for instance, Art Johnston, 69, the owner THEATER EDITOR Scott C. Morgan ries every issue. It was an honor, not just an ed- as the hip, modern Israeli city held its 15th CINEMA WRITER Richard Knight, Jr. of Sidetrack, the biggest gay bar in Chicago, an ucation for me, to write so many stories within annual Gay Pride Parade on June 7. Tel Aviv’s BOOKS WRITER Yasmin Nair award-winning gay bar on the national scene, that series. I can only hope others got as much Pride starts with a gathering in a grassy park SPORTS WRITER Ross Forman and a bar that LGBT around the world have heard out of that series as I did. outside the local gay community center. Thou- ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT WRITERS about. Mary Shen Barnidge, Steve Warren, Lawrence Fer- As mentioned, I’m too young to truly under- sands attended and what really caught my eye, ber, Mel Ferrand, Jerry Nunn, Jonathan Abarbanel There was a time when gays had to sneak into stand the impact of the HIV/AIDS era. I’m not and also the attention of other worldwide jour- COLUMNISTS/WRITERS: Yvonne Zipter, Jorjet Sidetrack, wearing a baseball hat and sunglass- even sure I know anyone personally who has nalists covering this event, was the amount of Harper, Meghan Streit, Charlsie Dewey, Carrie es, and raids on gay bars were commonplace. died from the disease. About seven or eight youngsters in the crowd—likely high school Maxwell, Billy Masters, Sarah Toce, Dana Rudolph, Johnston’s bar now has a new, snazzy look to Sally Parsons, Melissa Wasserman, Jamie Anne years ago, I was in Honolulu on a regular ba- and/or college-aged supporters of the rainbow, Royce, Matthew C. Clark, Joe Franco the main bar—the same part of the bar that, sis, almost every month. I remember seeing a gay and straight. In addition to the park gather- SENIOR PHOTOGRAPHERS Mel Ferrand, Hal Baim, well, was the bar back in the day. Of course photo of a bartender hanging at the famous bar ing, there was the parade, and then ultimately a Emmanuel Garcia, Tim Carroll, Ed Negron, Susan Sidetrack has not always been the metropolis on he worked at, so I asked if he moved off the beach party with a DJ—and the same thing was Mattes Halsted Street it is now, capable of accommo- islands and they were honoring him. Instead, I seen throughout the day in Tel Aviv: it was as CIRCULATION dating more than 1,200 patrons at any one time. CIRCULATION DIRECTOR Jean Albright was shocked that this muscled, super-nice bar- if the Pride Parade was the place to be. Locals DISTRIBUTION: Ashina, Allan, Dan, John, Renee, Then there’s Jon Phillips, 90, who had a high- tender died from HIV/AIDS. I didn’t even know of all ages attended, and Tel Aviv Pride certainly Sue and Victor profile, celebrity-filled life while working in the he had the disease. has become a must-attend for gays from, liter- WEB HOSTING: LoveYourWebsite.com (lead pro- City of Chicago. I can’t imagine what Jon had to I still think about him every time I do some- ally, around the world. grammer: Martie Marro) go through, and the stories he truly could tell, thing to help the HIV/AIDS community. Chicago will be under the rainbow spotlight on about gay life half-a-century ago. My biggest support of the AIDS community was Sunday, June 30, and the way Pride has evolved Copyright 2013 Lambda Publications Inc./Windy City Media The Stonewall Riots happened in … wait, I Group; All rights reserved. Reprint by permission only. Back through the Team To End AIDS (T2), the endur- in Chicago in recent years, no one should be sur- issues (if available) for $5 per issue (postage included). need to Google that, just to be certain of the ance-training program of the AIDS Foundation prised if city officials estimate 1 million people Return postage must accompany all manuscripts, drawings, year because, well, I’ll admit, I’m not 100 per- of Chicago (AFC). I joined T2 in 2007 to train for attend. and photographs submitted if they are to be returned, and no responsibility may be assumed for unsolicited materials. cent sure. In fact, even if $1 million was on the my first marathon. I joined because many Chica- I’m sure Sidetrack’s Johnston will be among All rights to letters, art and photographs sent to Windy line, I couldn’t tell you exactly what happened goans told me it was an amazing program, then the masses, maybe even 90-year-old Phillips … City Times will be treated as unconditionally assigned for publication purposes and as such, subject to editing at Stonewall. known as the National AIDS Marathon Training and I truly wonder what they think about the and comment. The opinions expressed by the columnists, I’m sure I’m not the only one lacking historical Program. I did not join T2 for the cause—sup- progress made, and what’s still to come. cartoonists, letter writers, and commentators are their own knowledge from the LGBT front. and do not necessarily reflect the position ofWindy City porting AFC—per se. I grew to become a staunch Ross Forman is a freelance writer for Windy Times. Publication of the name, photograph, or likeness of That said, Stonewall was … nah, I’m not going supporter for T2 and AFC, particularly because of City Times. a person or organization in articles or advertising in Windy to explain. How many who truly don’t know too City Times is not to be construed as any indication of the people such as Mark Ishaug, David Munar and T2 sexual orientation of such person or organization. While much about Stonewall will spend five minutes— coach Katie Schmid. we encourage readers to support the advertisers who make this newspaper possible, Windy City Times cannot accept responsibility for advertising claims. (773) 871-7610 FAX (773) 871-7609 e-mail: [email protected] or [email protected] LETTERS www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com podcast: WindyCityQueercast.com Playing House spokesman for an embattled Illinois minority to per diem checks while not accomplishing much. be one of standing on principle and calling out We can be pretty sure of that. WINDY CITY MEDIA GROUP, the Speaker for his abject failure and betrayal. If Harris wants to set me more at ease, he 5315 N. Clark St. #192, Chicago, Illinois 60640 Dear Editor, U.S.A But LGBTQ people and our allies are under no can commit to resigning from the Illinois House (MAILING ADDRESS ONLY) Kate Sosin’s interview with state Rep. Greg Har- such obligation to the Democratic House caucus. of Representatives and not running for election ris ended with a classic dodge. Unlike the cowardly Harris, we don’t need to again if the House fails to pass gay marriage in Windy City Times Deadline every Wednesday. bow and scrape and shuffle our feet while pro- the veto session. Nightspots Deadline Wednesday prior to street date. When the reporter questioned Harris on pow- OUT! Resource Guide ONLINE erful House Speaker Mike Madigan’s failure to tecting Mike Madigan. Instead, we need to take Otherwise, I believe activists should treat www.WindyCityMediaGroup.com muscle the marriage bill to passage, he weakly our anger to the streets and demand legal equal- every member of the House who isn’t a public www.WindyCityQueercast.com responded that “everyone could have done ity. “yes” as being a hostile. These representatives more.” Then, without even mentioning the should be challenged in the Democratic primary. “Windy City Media Group generated mighty speaker’s name, Harris turned on a dime Bob Schwartz It’s not like the Illinois House is doing such a enormous interest among their readers and blamed the Republicans for the marriage de- Chicago great job on other matters that citizens should in this year’s LGBT Consumer Index bacle—in spite of the fact that the Democrats consider any of them irreplaceable. Survey. Out of approximately 100 have a nearly two-to-one supermajority in the House matters print and online media partners who House! Carl Nyberg participated in the survey, Windy City was the best performing regional And never mind that Madigan has ruled the Dear Editor, Chicago media in the U.S. Only survey partners Illinois House for decades and had just whipped with a nationwide footprint were his Democratic caucus into line by ramming Rep. Greg Harris clearly thought he had obtained Send letters and able to generate a greater number of through a controversial pension “reform” bill. enough commitments to pass gay marriage in responses.” —David Marshall, Research Yes, Madigan is a guy who tries to put the the Illinois House in the legislative session that viewpoints Director, Community Marketing, Inc. screws to teachers and state workers yet refuses ended on May 31. He was wrong. to raise a finger on behalf of a marriage bill that, Now Harris and his allies want activists to be- to Andrew@ according to recent polls, has majority support lieve Harris has obtained enough commitments WindyCity in Illinois. to pass gay marriage in the veto session, which What gives? may require a three-fifths vote instead of a sim- MediaGroup.com. Clearly, after suffering an embarrassing defeat ple majority. Items may be of his pension bill in the Senate, Madigan wished Based on the poor performance of the Illinois to expend zero political capital on anything else General Assembly on pensions and other mat- edited for and likely ordered Harris to table the marriage ters, it’s hard to be confident the legislature will length or clarity. bill. And Harris, being a caucus insider and party do the right thing—or even to be confident the loyalist, complied. 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niversary, The Curious Incident… remains fresh SCOTTISH PLAY SCOTT and full of theatricality. Stephens’ stage adaptation of Haddon’s novel is not only smartly faithful, but it provides a sturdy framework for an amazing team of theater artists led by director Hot London tickets Marianne Elliott (who won an Olivier Award for her efforts) to vividly illustrate it. The Curious Incident… tells of Christopher BY SCOTT C. MORGAN Stephens’ original plays like Harper Regan and Boone, a 15-year-old boy who has Asperger’s Port. syndrome, and his efforts to find out who killed LONDON—Unquestionably two hot theater tick- a neighborhood dog with a pitchfork. But as ets in London right now are The Tempest at ‘The isle is full of noises’ Christopher delves deeper to find the culprit, he Shakespeare’s Globe Theatre and the National Academy Award-winning director Danny Boyle uncovers some uncomfortable truths about his Theatre’s West End transfer of The Curious Inci- highlighted Shakespeare’s The Tempest with a own family along his fraught journey. dent of the Dog in the Night-Time. famous quote (“Be not afeard; the isle is full of Elliott and her skilled designers draw upon The Tempest is a draw in part to its share of noises…”) in the opening and closing ceremo- Christopher’s professed love of mathematics and British TV celebrities in the cast, while The Curi- nies of the 2012 London Olympics and Paralym- space exploration to employ lots of dazzling ous Incident… is riding high on recently win- pics. multimedia wizardry in the physical produc- ning seven 2013 Olivier Awards including Best You could hear the Brits in the Globe audience, tion—to not only show Christopher’s obsessed Play. (The Curious Incident… matches the once still riding high on the glow of 2012, audibly focus, but his frightening confusion as he sets record-setting seven Olivier Awards won which mumbling in recognition when this quotation out on a trip to London. the musical Matilda won last year.) arose during the show. But they were also buzz- Giving the show its heart is a dedicated en- I was part of two very appreciative audiences ing about the celebrity talent attached to di- The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night- semble of actors (many playing multiple roles) for both productions on a recent trip to the rector Jeremy Herrin’s traditional, but still very Time. Photo by Brinkhoff/Mögenburg who revolve around Christopher, who is touch- United Kingdom, and it’s a safe guess that it’s engrossing production. ingly played with plenty of alternately annoying only a matter of time before Chicago audiences Perhaps the biggest TV name was Colin Mor- jester Trinculo was a constant delight, as was and endearing tics by Johnny Gibbon at the per- will be able to experience these critically ac- gan, the title star of the BBC-TV series Merlin, the gawky Joshua James as the Price Ferdinand formance I attended (Gibbon plays Christopher claimed shows for themselves. appearing as the magical sprite Ariel. It was very who can’t believe his besotted luck at meeting at select performances, alternating with Olivier In the case of The Tempest, Shakespeare’s amusing for me at intermission to overhear one someone so dreamy as Buckley’s Miranda. Award-winner Luke Treadaway). Globe has been releasing several of its past teenage groundling (who paid five pounds to The stars attached to this Tempest will un- The fact that The Curious Incident… brims productions in cinema screenings and later on stand in “The Yard” through the performance) doubtedly assure that the production will be with theatricality from start to finish (namely DVD (repertory from last season including Henry recounting and squealing her amazed shock and filmed for posterity and subsequent release in its mathematical appendix that follows the cur- V and Twelfth Night is slated for special mov- delight at realizing that Morgan was in the pro- cinemas and DVD. But to experience Shake- tain call), should come as no surprise, since ie theater release this summer via the Shake- duction. speare live in what is this generation’s best Elliott was a co-director of another recent Na- speare’s Globe On Screen initiative). More TV connections came from Olivier Award- guess of what the historical Elizabethan Globe tional Theatre hit, War Horse. With The Curious And as for The Curious Incident…, Simon Ste- winning actor Roger Allam (Game of Thrones, Theatre was actually like is a necessity for any Incident…, The National Theatre has the poten- phens’ adaptation of Mark Haddon’s best-selling The Thick of It) as the initially revengeful over- theater lover. This season’s The Tempest is defi- tial for another theatrical global phenomenon, novel has already been seen locally via the Na- thrown Duke Prospero and the Miranda of Jessie nitely satisfying in that sense. though I’m keen to see how Chicago theater art- tional Theatre’s NT Live worldwide movie the- Buckley, a contestant in the Oliver! reality TV ists will reinterpret this brilliant script for our ater screenings. Just which Chicago theater will casting series I’d Do Anything. Curiouser and Curiouser hometown crowds. get the rights for a home-grown production in Thankfully these starry standouts blended well The Curious Incident… could be seen as a bit For more information on The Tempest at Shake- two- to three-years time is one question that together with their cast mates to bring what is of old news. The show opened last August in speare’s Globe, visit www.shakespearesglobe. local audiences should be eagerly awaiting. The believed to be Shakespeare’s last fully authored the National Theatre’s Cottesloe Theatre space com. Goodman or Steppenwolf undoubtedly will get play to life. The drunken physical comedy of (now under renovation and soon to be renamed For more information on The Curious Incident first dibs, though smaller companies like Steep James Garnon’s Caliban (deploying a noticeable the Dorfman Theatre), before transferring to the of the Dog in the Night-Time, visit www.nation- Theatre and Griffin Theatre both have proven Caribbean-styled accent), Sam Cox’s self-impor- West End at the Apollo Theatre this past March. altheatre.org.uk. track records in producing Chicago premieres of tant butler Stephano and Trevor Fox’s scraggly Yet as the show approaches its one-year an- T:10.25 in 22 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES

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It is not known if PREZISTA will • pale colored stools (bowel movements) harm your unborn baby. • nausea Pregnancy Registry: You and your healthcare provider will need to decide if • vomiting taking PREZISTA is right for you. If you take PREZISTA while you are pregnant, • pain or tenderness on your right side below your ribs talk to your healthcare provider about how you can be included in the • loss of appetite Antiretroviral Pregnancy Registry. The purpose of the registry is follow the PREZISTA may cause severe or life-threatening skin reactions or rash. health of you and your baby. Sometimes these skin reactions and skin rashes can become severe and require • are breastfeeding or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. We do not know if treatment in a hospital. You should call your healthcare provider immediately if PREZISTA can be passed to your baby in your breast milk and whether it you develop a rash. However, stop taking PREZISTA and ritonavir combination could harm your baby. Also, mothers with HIV-1 should not breastfeed treatment and call your healthcare provider immediately if you develop any skin because HIV-1 can be passed to the baby in the breast milk. changes with symptoms below: Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take including • fever prescription and nonprescription medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements. Using PREZISTA and certain other medicines may affect each other causing • tiredness serious side effects. PREZISTA may affect the way other medicines work and • muscle or joint pain other medicines may affect how PREZISTA works. • blisters or skin lesions Especially tell your healthcare provider if you take: • mouth sores or ulcers • other medicine to treat HIV • red or inflamed eyes, like “pink eye” (conjunctivitis) • estrogen-based contraceptives (birth control). PREZISTA might reduce the Rash occurred more often in people taking PREZISTA and raltegravir together effectiveness of estrogen-based contraceptives. You must take additional than with either drug separately, but was generally mild. precautions for birth control such as a condom. • medicine for your heart such as bepridil, lidocaine (Xylocaine Viscous®), See “What are the possible side effects of PREZISTA?” for more information quinidine (Nuedexta®), amiodarone (Pacerone®, Cardarone®), digoxin about side effects. (Lanoxin®), flecainide (Tambocor®), propafenone (Rythmol®) What is PREZISTA? • warfarin (Coumadin®, Jantoven®) PREZISTA is a prescription anti-HIV medicine used with ritonavir and other anti- • medicine for seizures such as carbamazepine (Carbatrol®, Equetro®, HIV medicines to treat adults with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV-1) Tegretol®, Epitol®), phenobarbital, phenytoin (Dilantin®, Phenytek®) infection. PREZISTA is a type of anti-HIV medicine called a protease inhibitor. • medicine for depression such as trazadone and desipramine (Norpramin®) HIV is the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome). • clarithromycin (Prevpac®, Biaxin®) • medicine for fungal infections such as ketoconazole (Nizoral®), itraconazole When used with other HIV medicines, PREZISTA may help to reduce the amount (Sporanox®, Onmel®), voriconazole (VFend®) of HIV in your blood (called “viral load”). PREZISTA may also help to increase the • colchicine (Colcrys®, Col-Probenecid®) number of white blood cells called CD4 (T) cell which help fight off other • rifabutin (Mycobutin®) infections. Reducing the amount of HIV and increasing the CD4 (T) cell count • medicine used to treat blood pressure, a heart attack, heart failure, or to may improve your immune system. This may reduce your risk of death or lower pressure in the eye such as metoprolol (Lopressor®, Toprol-XL®), timolol infections that can happen when your immune system is weak (opportunistic (Cosopt®, Betimol®, Timoptic®, Isatolol®, Combigan®) infections). • midazolam administered by injection PREZISTA does not cure HIV infection or AIDS and you may continue to • medicine for heart disease such as felodipine (Plendil®), nifedipine experience illnesses associated with HIV-1 infection, including opportunistic (Procardia®, Adalat CC®, Afeditab CR®), nicardipine (Cardene®) infections. You should remain under the care of a doctor when using PREZISTA. • steroids such as dexamethasone, fluticasone (Advair Diskus®, Veramyst®, Avoid doing things that can spread HIV-1 infection. Flovent®, Flonase®) ® • Do not share needles or other injection equipment. • bosentan (Tracleer ) • medicine to treat chronic hepatitis C such as boceprevir (VictrelisTM), • Do not share personal items that can have blood or body fluids on them, like telaprevir (IncivekTM) toothbrushes and razor blades. WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 25

IMPORTANT PATIENT INFORMATION

• medicine for cholesterol such as pravastatin (Pravachol®), atorvastatin • Changes in your immune system (Immune Reconstitution Syndrome) can (Lipitor®), rosuvastatin (Crestor®) happen when you start taking HIV medicines. Your immune system may get • medicine to prevent organ transplant failure such as cyclosporine (Gengraf®, stronger and begin to fight infections that have been hidden in your body for a Sandimmune®, Neoral®), tacrolimus (Prograf®), sirolimus (Rapamune®) long time. Call your healthcare provider right away if you start having new • salmeterol (Advair®, Serevent®) symptoms after starting your HIV medicine. • medicine for narcotic withdrawal such as methadone (Methadose®, Dolophine • Increased bleeding for hemophiliacs. Some people with hemophilia have Hydrochloride), buprenorphine (Butrans®, Buprenex®, Subutex®), buprenorphine/ increased bleeding with protease inhibitors including PREZISTA. naloxone (Suboxone®) The most common side effects of PREZISTA include: • medicine to treat schizophrenia such as risperidone (Risperdal®), thioridazine • diarrhea • medicine to treat erectile dysfunction or pulmonary hypertension such as • nausea sildenafil (Viagra®, Revatio®), vardenafil (Levitra®, Staxyn®), tadalafil (Cialis®, • rash Adcirca®) • headache • medicine to treat anxiety, depression or panic disorder such as sertraline • abdominal pain (Zoloft®), paroxetine (Paxil®, Pexeva®) • vomiting • medicine to treat malaria such as artemether/lumefantrine (Coartem®) Tell your healthcare provider if you have any side effect that bothers you or that This is not a complete list of medicines that you should tell your healthcare does not go away. provider that you are taking. Ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist if you These are not all of the possible side effects of PREZISTA. For more information, are not sure if your medicine is one that is listed above. Know the medicines you ask your health care provider. take. Keep a list of them to show your doctor or pharmacist when you get a new Call your doctor for medical advice about side effects. You may report side medicine. Do not start any new medicines while you are taking PREZISTA effects to the FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088. without first talking with your healthcare provider. How should I store PREZISTA? How should I take PREZISTA? • Store PREZISTA oral suspension and tablets at room temperature [77°F (25°C)]. • Take PREZISTA every day exactly as prescribed by your healthcare provider. • Do not refrigerate or freeze PREZISTA oral suspension. • You must take ritonavir (NORVIR®) at the same time as PREZISTA. • Keep PREZISTA away from high heat. • PREZISTA oral suspension should be stored in the original container. • Do not change your dose of PREZISTA or stop treatment without talking to your healthcare provider first. Keep PREZISTA and all medicines out of the reach of children. • Take PREZISTA and ritonavir (NORVIR®) with food. General information about PREZISTA • Swallow PREZISTA tablets whole with a drink. If you have difficulty Medicines are sometimes prescribed for purposes other than those listed in a swallowing PREZISTA tablets, PREZISTA oral suspension is also available. Patient Information leaflet. Do not use PREZISTA for a condition for which it was Your health care provider will help decide whether PREZISTA tablets or oral not prescribed. Do not give PREZISTA to other people even if they have the same suspension is right for you. condition you have. It may harm them. • PREZISTA oral suspension should be given with the supplied oral dosing This leaflet summarizes the most important information about PREZISTA. If you syringe. Shake the suspension well before each use. See the Instructions for would like more information, talk to your healthcare provider. You can ask your Use that come with PREZISTA oral suspension for information about the right healthcare provider or pharmacist for information about PREZISTA that is written way to prepare and take a dose. for health professionals. • If your prescribed dose of PREZISTA oral suspension is more than 6 mL, you For more information, call 1-800-526-7736. will need to divide the dose. Follow the instructions given to you by your What are the ingredients in PREZISTA? healthcare provider or pharmacist about how to divide the dose. Ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist if you are not sure. Active ingredient: darunavir Inactive ingredients: • If you take too much PREZISTA, call your healthcare provider or go to the nearest hospital emergency room right away. PREZISTA Oral Suspension: hydroxypropyl cellulose, microcrystalline cellulose, sodium carboxymethylcellulose, methylparaben sodium, citric acid monohydrate, What should I do if I miss a dose? sucralose, masking flavor, strawberry cream flavor, hydrochloric acid (for pH People who take PREZISTA one time a day: adjustment), purified water. • If you miss a dose of PREZISTA by less than 12 hours, take your missed dose PREZISTA 75 mg and 150 mg Tablets: colloidal silicon dioxide, crospovidone, of PREZISTA right away. Then take your next dose of PREZISTA at your magnesium stearate, microcrystalline cellulose. The film coating contains: regularly scheduled time. OPADRY® White (polyethylene glycol 3350, polyvinyl alcohol-partially hydrolyzed, • If you miss a dose of PREZISTA by more than 12 hours, wait and then take the talc, titanium dioxide). next dose of PREZISTA at your regularly scheduled time. PREZISTA 400 mg and 600 mg Tablets: colloidal silicon dioxide, crospovidone, People who take PREZISTA two times a day magnesium stearate, microcrystalline cellulose. The film coating contains: • If you miss a dose of PREZISTA by less than 6 hours, take your missed dose of OPADRY® Orange (FD&C Yellow No. 6, polyethylene glycol 3350, polyvinyl PREZISTA right away. Then take your next dose of PREZISTA at your regularly alcohol-partially hydrolyzed, talc, titanium dioxide). scheduled time. PREZISTA 800 mg Tablets: colloidal silicon dioxide, crospovidone, magnesium stearate, microcrystalline cellulose, hypromellose. The film coating contains: • If you miss a dose of PREZISTA by more than 6 hours, wait and then take the ® next dose of PREZISTA at your regularly scheduled time. OPADRY Dark Red (iron oxide red, polyethylene glycol 3350, polyvinyl alcohol- partially hydrolyzed, talc, titanium dioxide). If a dose of PREZISTA is skipped, do not double the next dose. Do not take more or less than your prescribed dose of PREZISTA at any one time. This Patient Information has been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration. What are the possible side effects of PREZISTA? Manufactured by: PREZISTA can cause side effects including: PREZISTA Oral Suspension PREZISTA Tablets • See “What is the most important information I should know about Janssen Pharmaceutica, N.V. Janssen Ortho LLC, PREZISTA?” Beerse, Belgium Gurabo, PR 00778 • Diabetes and high blood sugar (hyperglycemia). Some people who take Manufactured for: protease inhibitors including PREZISTA can get high blood sugar, develop Janssen Therapeutics, Division of Janssen Products, LP, Titusville NJ 08560 diabetes, or your diabetes can get worse. Tell your healthcare provider if you Revised: April 2013 notice an increase in thirst or urinate often while taking PREZISTA. NORVIR® is a registered trademark of its respective owner. • Changes in body fat. These changes can happen in people who take antiretroviral therapy. The changes may include an increased amount of fat in the PREZISTA® is a registered trademark of Janssen Pharmaceuticals upper back and neck (“buffalo hump”), breast, and around the back, chest, and © Janssen Pharmaceuticals, Inc. 2006 stomach area. Loss of fat from the legs, arms, and face may also happen. The 991772P exact cause and long-term health effects of these conditions are not known. 26 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES “three inseparables,” and the senseless deaths THEATER REVIEW engendered by the vanity of powerful men and The Three calculating women. This is not some stodgy PBS costume-drama, Musketeers however, all elongated vowels and eyebrow-act- Playwright: adapted by Robert Kauzlaric ing. Scenic designer Alan Donahue has stripped from the novel by Alexander Dumas Lifeline’s stage to its bare walls and constructed At: Lifeline Theatre, 6912 N. Glenwood Ave. thereupon a giant jungle-jim, replete with lad- Tickets: 773-761-4477; ders, poles and cross-bars for climbing up, slid- www.lifelinetheatre.com; $40 ing down, spinning around, swinging on and Runs through: July 21 dropping from. Not only does this facilitate the kind of spec- BY MARY SHEN BARNIDGE tacle that sparked cheers and applause from the press-preview audience, but it allows the action The average playgoer, asked about The Three to proceed at cartoon-swift pace without assum- Musketeers, will probably mumble something ing likewise cartoon proportions. If the hitherto- about sword-fights, big wigs and a scramble to definitive Richard Lester romp resembled a com- recover a diamond necklace. You’ll find some of ic book, this is the graphic novel version, where this in Robert Kauzlaric’s adaptation of the ven- innocent people die, villains go unpunished, and erable Dumas sword-and-cloak classic, but the solitary heroes roam the mean streets, secure hallmark of this new page-to-stage translation is only in their own code of honor. its adherence to the original source material, al- Portraying larger-than-life characters in an beit illustrated in decidedly modern metaphors. intimate space without slipping into hyperbolic The first of these we notice is that our titular camp is no easy task, but under Amanda Del- comrades are not the usual quartet of white guys, heimer Dimond’s deft direction, Glenn Stanton but an ethnically-diverse brotherhood rendering carries off the coming-of-age subtext inherent immediately recognizable the scorn heaped by in D’Artagnan’s progress, flanked by Chris Hain- cosmopolitan Parisians upon the southern-born sworth, Dwight Sora, Christopher M. Walsh as D’Artagnan. The second is that the royal guards his respective mentors. The ten actors filling the wear commando gear (T-shirts, berets, kevlar remaining 36 roles also retain their individual vests), in addition to the obligatory rapiers. darkness—indeed, Katie McLean Hainsworth’s The Pride. Photo by Michael Brosilow More significantly, the boundaries of the war- Milady de Winter emerges so irredeemably evil ring factions—church and state, Catholic and that her grisly execution by lynching is well- Protestant, France, England and Spain—are laid justified. The show’s run is rumored to be nearly playwright Caryl Churchill. Of the four, Andrews THEATER REVIEW out clearly, as are the conflicts they impose on sold out already, so don’t you wait to join in the has the largest role and, as audiences have come individuals less steadfast in their loyalties as our fun and adventure. The Pride to expect from him, he delivers with naturalness Playwright: Alexi Kaye Campbell and focus. His 1958 Oliver is discreet, passion- At: About Face at Victory Gardens, ate and emotionally needy while his 2008 Oliver 2433 N. Lincoln Ave. is brazen, careless and emotionally needy. Tickets: 1-773-871-3000; The Pride peels its characters like an onion. www.aboutfacetheatere.com; $30 Reflecting this, William Boles’s scenic design be- Ain’t No Runs through: July 13 comes progressively more minimal, peeling away Crying... the décor of a smartly-furnished flat down to Photo by BY JONATHAN ABARBANEL bare brick walls and the limbo of a spotlight in Danny Nicholas the dark (Becca Jeffords, lighting). Boles uses For her finale as About Face artistic director, the small Richard Christiansen Theater with Bonnie Metgar offers a powerful and absorbing greater flexibility than I’ve seen before. production that deepens and darkens as it pro- Arriving five years ago, Bonnie Metzgar (and gresses. With only four performers, it appears to supporters) saved About Face from financial di- present a relatively simple structure and familiar saster. We owe her a hearty “Well done!” situations, but it quickly accumulates psychological mass of “Chekovian” depths, as one character mockingly observes. The play’s sorrowful, chilling and poetic closing words are as unex- THEATER REVIEW 300 pounds, Howlin’ Wolf onstage could be pected as they are truthful: “You have been the CRITICS’ PICKS a terrifying presence—might have been the prisoner of fear. You have only known how to Ain’t No Crying painful scars of a childhood marred by cru- hold on to things, and the things you have held elty and deprivation, but what distinguished have died in your hands.” the Blues: In the Burnett from his self-destructive compatriots Set in London, The Pride is split between 1958, Homecoming 1972, Chicago Dramatists, Memory of was his faith in the promise of relief from when homosexuality still was illegal in the UK through June 23. There are countless sto- past suffering. This is the premise for Jackie (and here), and 2008. England had a long his- ries about military veterans returning to Howlin’ Wolf Taylor’s script, facilitating the return of Rick tory of punishing queers who flaunted it (Os- “normal life,” but Robert Koon may be the Playwright: Jackie Taylor Stone, playing the role he created in 2003. car Wilde, Alan Turing) while rewarding discreet first playwright to question how “normal” At: Black Ensemble Theater, The show’s title, after all, is “In the Memory poofters (Sir Arthur Sullivan, Sir John Gielgud). civilian life was in post-Vietnam America. 4450 N. Clark St. of Howlin’ Wolf”—a distinction affirming our The 1958 storyline introduces instinctive fag MSB Tickets: 773-769-4451; location as the Great Hereafter, in a club on hag Sylvia, married to latent homosexual Philip. In the Company of Men, Profiles Theatre www.blackensemble.org; $55-$65 Heaven’s south side, where we share in the When Sylvia introduces Philip to discreetly gay at The Main Stage, through June 30. Provo- Runs through: Aug. 11 reminiscences of the songwriter/performer writer Oliver, a fling ensues. Unable to cope cateur playwright and filmmaker Neil LaB- who died in 1976. His recollections are most- with the emotional and physical ramifications, ute transforms the controversial 1997 film BY MARY SHEN BARNIDGE ly pleasant ones—but truth demands antago- Philip rejects Oliver through physical brutality that launched his career back into a juicy nists, here personified by protege guitarist and then subjects himself to aversion therapy. stage drama. This fine production shows the Howlin’ Wolf has always defied “living-the- Hubert Sumlin and legendary rival Muddy Wa- The contemporary storyline has Sylvia as best underhanded lengths two men go to manip- blues” stereotypes: The man born Chester Ar- ters serving as devil’s advocates, flanked by a gal pal when Philip leaves his lover, Oliver, be- ulate an unwitting woman’s affections in a thur Burnett didn’t smoke, drink or do drugs. bandstand chorus participating in the action cause of Oliver’s promiscuity. Providing a lighter morally corrupt game. SCM He married only once and remained faithful with Sophoclean congeniality. counterweight to the gravity of the primary sto- The Liar, Writers’ Theatre in Glencoe, until he died to the wife he adored. He man- The necessity of placing Robert Reddrick’s ryline, the 2008 scenario explores sex addiction through July 28. Don’t believe a thing a aged his career wisely, negotiating for roy- combo down on the checkerboard-tile floor vs. emotional love, and comments on gay chic. man tells you! A 17th-century French verse alties in his recording contracts rather than to craft their endless variations on the three- Metzgar’s first-rate cast features Patrick An- comedy, by tragic author Corneille, is sheer one-time fees, and conducted his business in chord 12-bar progressions at the foundation drews (Oliver), John Francisco (Philip), Jessie delight as freely adapted by modern Ameri- accordance with legal protocol—even regard- of Da Blues soon becomes apparent. Like Fisher (Sylvia) and Benjamin Sprungen (various can David Ives and performed “con brio” by ing withholding social security and health with most Black Ensemble biodramas, music roles), all of them youthful-but-accomplished an attractive, energized cast. JA insurance on his band’s paychecks. He wasn’t dominates the evening. Stone’s replication veteran actors. Andrews, Francisco and Sprungen Smokey Joe’s Café, Theo Ubique Cabaret a gymnast like Jackie Wilson or a crooner like of Wolf’s midnight prowl and gravel-throated also are About Face associate artists. They do Theatre at Royal George Theatre, through Smokey Robinson, but affected a fighting- bark (with a few sweet high notes creeping Metzgar proud and she returns the compliment. June 30. This is your last chance to hear rooster stance and a vocal delivery as danger- in, nevertheless) is flawless, but he can’t do Their English accents are good and—above the Leiber & Stoller songs ensuring in the ously fascinating as that of the beast inspir- two hours all by himself, mandating full-cast all—consistent (Anita Deely, dialect coach) and 1950s and ‘60s that rock ‘n’ roll was here ing his sobriquet. From such contradictions dances and solo turns by other luminaries of they are convincing with playwright Alexi Camp- to stay, delivered with fresh energy by an spring compositions now considered classics the era—Big Mama Thornton, Bobby Bland bell’s occasionally-arch dialogue, some of which exuberant young ensemble. MSB of his musical genre. and Muddy himself. “As long as they remem- sounds as if written in the 1950’s. As the play Romantic myth dictates that artists spend ber you,” our host reminds us, “You can live progresses and complexities deepen, Campbell —By Abarbanel, Barnidge their lives fleeing in vain from their demons. forever.” Amen and “Aaah-oooo-wooo!” to makes greater use of monologue (or one-sided and Morgan Behind his swagger—and at six-feet-six and that. dialogue) in a way suggesting the influence of WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 27 SPOTLIGHT

The Illinois House of Representatives may have failed to give the LGBT community full marriage rights, but that hasn’t stopped GayCo from going ahead and naming its new Pride Month show Married, But Still Slutty. Chicago’s oldest LGBT sketch comedy troupe presents Married, But Still Uncle Bob. Photo by Lev Kalmens Slutty as an improv show based around stories told by a different special guest “Gay-lebrity” each night. GayCo’s Married, But Still Slutty plays 10 p.m. Fridays and Saturdays through June 29 THEATER REVIEW at the Playground Theater, 3209 N. Halsted St. Tickets are $12; call 773-871-3793 or visit www. Uncle Bob gayco.com or www.the-playground.com. Photo courtesy of GayCo Playwright: Austin Pendleton At: Mary-Arrchie Theatre Company at Angel Island, 731 W. Sheridan Rd. Tickets: 773-871-0442; www.maryarrchie.com; $15-$25 Runs through: July 21

BY MARY SHEN BARNIDGE

Plays incorporating AIDS into their plots during the 1990s typically portrayed the then-incurable disease as a tragically unforeseen calamity, but before the beatles, before the stones, a helluva way to bring families together. AIDS one kid was making history viewed as a weapon—to be used in the destruction of others, or oneself—was strictly the stuff of urban legend and paranoid fantasy. So when Austin Pendleton proposed a pair of antisocial curmudgeons who see in the deadly virus a reso- two lution to their existential anger, audiences were weeks only! caught with their hankies dry and useless. Our title character is a writer of mediocre novels, now living in seclusion, ranting at his estranged would-be comforters under guise of recording his memoirs. A target of inflated ex- pectations, Bob’s guilt over the undeserved ad- miration of his kin has rendered him determined to prove his unworthiness by dying as ignobly as he declares he has lived. Despite his het- erosexual devotion to his rejected wife, he has made a practice of having unprotected sex with AIDS-infected gay hustlers, leading to his own rock & roll i love contraction of the fatal infection. featuringlashdance... the #1 what hit a songs feeling, maniac,you love What he doesn’t anticipate is that his care- f manhunt, fully crafted martyrdom will meet with equally matched opposition in the form of his nephew, Josh, a slacker in his late teens already as pee- vish and nihilistic as his uncle, and whose rever- ence for life is no less cavalier. (He arrives after having crashed the fourth of the Porsches given him by his doting father.) Bob’s philosophicalIndulge Y Yourself auto-excruciation does not impress the youth whose care of the afflicted does not include sym- pathy. “You took it up the ass in the middle of an epidemic!” he jeers, “Your death isn’t meaningless, Bob—it’s stupid! That’s the opposite of meaningless!” If this dynamic is to work, the characters’ courtship of the Grim Reaper must be clearly discernible as the petulant ruse that it is. What sabotaged the play’s premiere in 1995 was Step- penwolf’s insistence on playing both men as pasty-faced wraiths, when the vigor with which they debate the validity of self-orchestrated final-days scenarios belies their professed eager- by William Brown and Doug Frew ness to shuffle off their mortal coils (“You don’t Chicago’s Hit Play about culinary icon Julia Child know how precious time is until you waste it!” snaps Josh at one point). Mary-Arrchie Theatre director Cody Estle wisely stays out of the way, however, allowing Richard Cotovsky and Rudy Galvan to swap Pendleton’s irony-laced repartee with a wryly affectionate chemistry highlight- ing the egotism and absurdity in welcoming the waning of the light solely in order to rage against it. 28 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES THE Q LIST CULTURE CLUB Janie Stamm: “savor...every assiduously manicured joke!” Spotlighting a queer visual artist – Washington Post by Nico Lang

Earlier this year I attended a wonderful exhibit by an emerging queer artist, Janie Stamm, who showed her work at the AdventureLand Gallery on 1513 N. Western Ave. The exhibit featured The Liar “works on paper featuring relics, specimens, and . Photo B y Michae L Bro S i o W . Photo and LaSha W n Bank S . Burger, n ate curiosities from travels to islands within the By DaviD ives deep folds of the mind” and announced Stamm AdApted from the comedy By Pierre Corneille directed By William BroWn as an important voice in Chicago’s queer art scene.

Pictured: Jonathan Weir, Pictured: Weir, Jonathan Now playing at 325 Tudor Court, Glencoe The Q List sat down with the effervescently PURCHASE EARLY FOR BEST PRICES | 847-242-6000 | wRITERSTHEATRE.ORg buoyant Stamm at Edgewater’s Metropolis Cafe

2012/13 Season Sponsor Corporate Sponsor Partner to discuss the exhibit and unpack the personality behind the pictures. Nico Lang: How long have you been creating art? Janie Stamm: I’ve drawn ever since I could remember. I began taking watercolor lessons in second grade and did that for 10 years. I’d get in trouble in school a lot for doodling all over my homework and notes. Jamie Stamm. NL: As a young artist, what motivated you to be creative? Do you find any of those same patterns in your work today? of animals and islands of your own creation, a JS: I have an overactive imagination and a manifestation of your own fictional universe. desire to live in a world where I can talk to ani- What comfort do you find in creating these mals. This has led to my obsession with drawing worlds? As an artist, why do you need them? imagined creatures and beasts—picturing how JS: The islands that I create are places of they sound and move, what they eat, and how sanctuary. They are isolated from the rest of the they interact. world, inhabited by my creatures, and have yet NL: You came up through the Savannah Col- to be discovered. They’re places—safe spaces in lege of Art and Design [SCAD], and you’ve my mind for me and people like me, my friends. I mentioned your rela- need them because they tionship with SCAD was take me out of reality. often rocky. How did They give me hope that your experiences in the there are places that institution of academia might never be discov- change you as an artist ered. Somewhere that and what did it tell you people can’t destroy. about yourself? NL: While attending JS: I originally went the exhibit, I gleaned there to study stop- a very positive reaction motion animation. As a from the audience, who student, I was really un- lingered in the gallery happy with the anima- for much longer than tion department. After traditional artgoers do. taking an intro to print- It was more like a par- making class, I realized ty. What was the expe- that I was born to be a rience of exhibiting in printmaker. I decided to that environment like double major in print- for you? making and animation. JS: Since this was my Printmaking came very first solo show, I hon- naturally to me and it estly wasn’t sure what to just felt right. expect. The show was in NL: In working with a fairly unknown gallery printmaking, what A few in a series of lithographs by artist Janie and it was the middle speaks to you about Stamm. Images from www.janiestamm.com of January. I was elated the medium of print? when I saw how many How does it fit your people showed up and “!” – Time Out Chicago creative mind? stayed. The gallery was JS: While I was at packed the entire time SCAD, I had a drawing and everybody seemed professor tell me that happy and appreciative I should look into the of the artwork. printmaking department Many people were

b rosilow. because of my mark mak- coming up to me and ing skills. When I draw, talking about how they I tend to make a lot of felt, how the work made hatch marks and aggres- them smile and reminded

lt. Photo by Mich A el Photo A nd Josh sA lt. sive lines. This translates them of their childhood.

Yellow Moon hro P By DaviD GreiG lAt really well into printmak- I noticed that people DirecteD By AssociAte Artistic Director Stuart CarDen ing, specifically etching spent a lot of time with which is now my special- the art, and revisited it now PlaYing Pictured: Ashleigh ty. Also, printmaking is at 664 Vernon Ave, Glencoe several times throughout attractive to me because PURCHASE EARLY FOR BEST PRICES | 847-242-6000 | wRITERSTHEATRE.ORg the night, rather than it is so process driven. quickly looking at it and 2012/13 Season Sponsor Corporate Sponsor Partner It requires a lot of con- moving on. centration and following NL: How do you per- precise steps. I find the repetition in printmak- sonally hope to be transformed through these ing very therapeutic. dialogues with an audience? What do you get NL: Your recent exhibit blended your back- out of it? ground in print and animation. Archipelago: Lost Islands of the Atlantic featured sketches Turn to page 40 WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 29

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Adam Guerino. Photo courtesy of Guerino Adam Guerino: Life is a laughing matter By Ross Forman as The Night Ministry, Guerino said. “It’s always funny [that] people often assume that produc- When Adam Guerino started as a comedian, he tion and performance makes a lot of money, but was one of about three gays locally in the field, it doesn’t really. You often have to sacrifice and along with Cameron Esposito and Bill Cruz. do things for less than you would if you were to Flash-forward to the present, and there are at work in another job [earning] per hour.” least 30—with about 10 or 15 of them trying to Still, Guerino writes a storytelling blog, Before make careers in comedy, Guerino said. The Story, which often tells of people who have “I’d like to think I’ve helped [the gay comedy made it. “I like to ask them questions that re- field grow,]” said Guerino, 28, who is openly gay veal what fame actually is like, how long it took and lives in Chicago’s Lakeview neighborhood. to get there, etc.,” Guerino said. “I’ve made a conscious effort to create more “There is no middle class for comedy. You’re shows and get more people paid, and to get au- often incredibly impoverished and you’re making diences for those people who are performing be- a lot of sacrifices to do what you love and then, cause, without audiences, it doesn’t matter how hopefully, if you make it, you will be, kind of, talented your comedians are. I also have helped [become] upper-class as far as income is con- [the local market] with contests, so people who cerned. But, if your motivation is to get rich, are just starting out can get their feet wet.” art, such as comedy, is usually a horrible way of Guerino certainly is one the most talented, going about it.” and funniest, locals on the circuit—with high- OutLoud Chicago is a series created by Guerino profile work at Zanies aboard his resume of in July 2011 to bring queer entertainment to laughs. mainstream Chicago venues. Queer Comedy at “Zanies has been incredibly supportive, and Zanies showcases the best queer and straight it’s clear that gay and straight [customers] love comedians from across the U.S., some who have the [gay] shows there,” he said. appeared on Comedy Central, Comedy Bang Guerino writes, talks, hosts and coordinates Bang, BET, TBS Just For Laughs, A Night At The for the local gay comedy community, certainly Apollo and Last Comic Standing, among other with a tie to the national comedy world. He outlets. “ hosted Spring Soiree on May 28 at Zanies, which The Advocate is sponsoring Guerino’s show at A NAil-bitiNg benefitted The Night Ministry, which supports Zanies in September “so that will be a real cool Chicago’s homeless and impoverished. The event national stage,” he said. “I don’t worry too much psychologicAl featured headliner Chris Doucette, along with about the perceptions of my show, but I really Ever Mainard and Rebecca O’Neal. like the idea that the comedians who I work with Guerino also has other major events in July are going to be able to have that national stage. thriller...” and September. “And sexuality should not define quality; I’m –The New York Times “It’s more terrifying to play smaller rooms,” very proud of a lot of the queer comedians in than larger, established venues, he said. “The the city.” bar shows, especially those that are free [to Guerino said his list of all-time favorite co- customers] are unpredictable [and challenging.] medians includes Beth Stelling, who now lives There might be people in your audience who did in Los Angeles after performing in Chicago for not know there was going to be a show, and about a decade. He also praised openly gay thus, they don’t mind talking through it. Plus, James Adomian, who has appeared on Last Com- they might get really drunk and feel like they ic Standing, among other venues, “and is a great can contribute to the show by talking.” example of someone who’s just funny, regardless His latest fear on stage is, well, just being of his [sexual] orientation,” Guerino said. there while also running the event at the same Guerino tagged Candy Lawrence as a must-hear time. comedian, and a potential breakout star who he Production Sponsor “I’m very happy that I’m able to use perfor- said is “part-Gilda Radner, part-Cheri Oteri.” mance, and publicity with social media, to help For more information about Guerino, go to get the word out about such a great cause,” such www.adamguerino.com. 30 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES Pride Fest to Backlot Bash feature Cox, PRIDE EVENTS to feature Uh Huh Her, Ferrick Local and national acts are slated to per- O’Day, Nate form at this year’s Backlot Bash, which will Splitting from tradition, the annual Chicago take place June 27-30. Pride Fest will take place one week before the On Thursday, June 27, comediennes Julie Pride Parade. Goldman and Sandra Valls are among those Pride Fest will take place June 22-23, and will scheduled at Mayne Stage, 1328 W. Morse feature singers such as Deborah Cox, Aubrey Ave. Doors open at 6 p.m. O’Day, dance icon Ultra Nate, and local favor- The rest of the festival will take place at ites the Chicago Spirit Brigade, the Chicago Gay 5238 N. Clark St. Acts who will take the Men’s Chorus, and Amy and Freddy. stage are Melissa Ferrick (June 28 at 9 The schedule is as follows: p.m.); Uh Huh Her, who will perform an ex- Saturday, June 22 clusive DJ set (June 30), Girlband (June 29 North Stage at 5 p.m.), the Gina Glocksen Band (June 12:30 p.m.: Pride drag show featuring Chica- 30) and Martha Berner (June 28 at 6 p.m.), go’s best female impersonators among others. 2 p.m.: Aubrey O’Day Tickets are $15-$25, and weekend passes 3 p.m.: Pride drag show are $30-$60; see www.backlotbashchicago. 4:30 p.m.: Jessica Sutta com. 5:30 p.m.: Pride drag show 6:30 p.m.: Blu Cantrell 7 p.m.: Pride drag show 8 p.m.: Sascha Gradiva 8:30 p.m.: Xelle 9 p.m.: Dev Chicago Dyke March 2012. Photo by Chuck Kramer South Stage 1 p.m.: Tandem 6 2:30 p.m: Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus Dyke March in Uptown June 29 3:30 p.m.: Chicago Spirit Brigade; Amy and The Chicago Dyke March will take place in Uptown’s Margate Park, 4921 N. Marine Dr., Saturday, Freddy June 29. 6 p.m.: Wedding Banned Attendees will start gathering at 2 p.m., with the march beginning at 3 p.m. A rally, with per- 7:30 p.m.: Windy City Cowboys formances, will take place at 4:30 p.m. 8 p.m.: Rock Candy Chicago Dyke March Collective—a grassroots mobilization and celebration of dyke, queer, bisexual and transgender resilience—is presenting the event. See chicagodykemarch.wordpress. Sunday, June 23 com. Melissa Ferrick. PR photo North Stage 12 p.m.: Miss Foozie’s Pet Parade Registration and Start 1 p.m.: Pride drag show 2:30 p.m.: Deborah Cox Pride North hits Rogers Park 3 p.m.: Pride drag show For the thrid year in a row, Pride North on Glenwood Avenue is set to provide an alternative 4 p.m.: Ultra Nate (or an afterparty) to the parade. 5 p.m.: Inaya Day Sponsored by Rogers Park establishments The Glenwood, Sidecar Bar, and MorseL, the street 6 p.m.: Neon Hitch festival runs 9 a.m. through 9 p.m., Sun., June 30 and boasts DJ sets from DJs Foxfonix, Vox- 7 p.m.: Sandy B. box, The Byrne Twins (including Windy City Times’ own music writer David Byrne), and Herrbear. 8 p.m.: Janice Robinson and Tameka Star Also appearing are Chicago street fest staples Sixteen Candles at 6 p.m. and local artist Mark Ortega. South Stage This event is free to the public and is a 21-and-over event. 1 p.m.: Miss Foozie’s Pet Parade Contest Image from Pride North 2012. Photo by Kirk Williamson 2 p.m.: HAG 3:45 p.m.: Chicago Spirit Brigade 4 p.m.: The Personnel 6 p.m.: Rod Tuffcurls 7:30 p.m.: Sixteen Candles Pride Parade set, mayor issues proclamation The Chicago 44th Annual Pride Parade is scheduled for United Black Pride Sunday, June 30, at 12 p.m., according to a PrideChicago press release. The parade will start at the corner of Broadway lists July 1-7 events and Montrose traveling the same route as last year: from the United Black Pride has unveiled the Broadway/Montrose corner, proceeding south on Broadway, events that will take place during the an- then south on Halsted, then east on Belmont, then south nual Black Pride week (July 1-7 this year). on Broadway and then east on Diversey to Cannon Drive, in In April, it was announced that a merger Lincoln Park. of Chicago Black pride organizations is Mayor Rahm Emanuel, like his predecessors, has named combining Chicago Windy City Black Pride June as “Pride Month” in Chicago. and Windy City Black Pride into United The grand marshal for the parade is former NFL player Wade Black Pride. Davis Among the Pride Week events are: Each year, Pride Month features dozens of different events —Monday, July 1: A presentation by organized by various community organizations, groups and editor/activist Keith Boykin at Carter G. individuals. Every year, the Chicago June Pride Month Calen- Woodson Regional Library, 9525 S. Halsted dar is featured on PRIDEChicago’s website and in the Chicago St., 6:30-8:30 p.m. Pride Guide booklet, as well as in community publications —Thursday, July 4: United Black Pride and websites. An updated version of the calendar is on PRI- welcome reception at Inn of Chicago hotel, DEChicago’s website, ChicagoPrideCalendar.org. 6-9 p.m. The theme for this year’s Pride Celebrations, which Inter- —Saturday, July 6: The 7th Annual Pri- Pride (the international association of pride groups) sug- deIndex.com Esteem Awards at Sidetrack, gested, is “Pride 365.” An alternative suggested theme is 3349 N. Halsted St., 2-6 p.m. (www. “Pride 365..’ Have Pride Year ‘Round.” Parade entries as well TheEsteemAwards.com) as groups sponsoring Pride Month events have the option of —Sunday, July 7: Party at Rainbow using the international or alternate theme as well as their Beach, 3111 E. 77th St., 12-6 p.m. own. For more information, see http://ub- In addition, the Montrose Rocks celebration—an annual pride.com/pride-2013/. event focusing on the African-American LGBTQ community— will take place immediately after the parade. The Pride Parade route (outlined in green). Image provided by Rich Pfeiffer WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 31 MUSIC Aubrey O’Day on Pride Fest and ‘Celebrity Apprentice’ AO: Yes. My moms close friend, who was also my first live-in babysitter was a man with AIDS. He lived in my home until he died. I liked him more than anyone I played with in school. We sang. We danced. Our energy was electric. Before he got to a point where he didn’t want me to see him anymore, he asked me to perform for him one last time and then said, “If you could be anyone in the world who would you be.” I said, “me.” He then replied with his last words to me “don’t ever forget that response, always be you and choose you.” So I do. He taught me that. That was in the late eighties. I’ve seen AIDS education and awareness change so much since then but it’s always been personal I suppose. By Jerry Nunn WCT: What kind of set list are you planning for the Chicago one? Aubrey O’Day rocketed into spotlight as a mem- AO: Obviously some of my new records, some ber of the girl pop group Danity Kane. P. Diddy DK and then I will do an acoustic set of music created the group that was featured on its own that’s inspired me. It’ll probably be whatever I reality television show for MTV called Making the feel that day. [Laughs] Band 3. Their first album debuted at number one WCT: Will you sing “Automatic” or “Wreck- on the Billboard charts. ing Ball?” When the group split O’Day started her own AO: Yes. reality show on the Oxygen network then com- WCT: Are you ready for the hot sweaty peted on Celebrity Apprentice season five. crowds? She hits Pride Fest this month bringing new AO: Definitely. tunes and a brand new O’Day. WCT: Will you be blonde or burgundy for the Windy City Times: Hello, Aubrey. The last show? Ke$ha. Photo by Jerry Nunn time we spoke for your reality show All About Aubrey. How have you been? Aubrey O’Day: Great! CONCERT RECAP WCT: Who do you keep in contact with from Danity Kane? AO: I’m proud to say finally all of the girls. We Ke$ha and Pitbull: The odd couple are sisters. by Jerry Nunn favorites from the crowd, judging by reac- WCT: How do you feel you were portrayed on tions, and she breezed through them. Celebrity Apprentice? Pop superstars Ke$ha and Pitbull are an odd The title track of her reality show, “Crazy AO: Smart, creative, impatient, talented and duo to go on tour together, but somehow the Beautiful Life,” was nowhere to be heard— kinda bitchy—which are all accurate. fans mixed and mingled without a rumble. maybe she’ll sing it in August when the War- WCT: I have gotten to know Lisa Lampanelli Ke$ha brought the glitter and the gays, rior Tour comes back to the Midwest. over the years through interviews. She be- with many young teens thrown in for good In between sets, remixers Jump Smokers came a great friend of yours from doing that measure. The parents must have been miss- took over with a version of Adele’s “Someone show, correct? ing when some of these scantily clad kids left Like You” that kept the party going. Speaking AO: Lisa was my sanity during filming. It was their houses June 9. of which, “Don’t Stop the Party” with Pitbull nice to constantly have her mind to use and ex- The Midwest Bank Amphitheatre in Tinley has done well for them—and they were proud perience! Park provided the perfect location for the ear- to say Chicago is the Smokers’ hometown. WCT: Thanks for picking GLSEN as your char- ly summer concert with only light sprinkles Pit finally arrived—a little later than ity. How do you feel about Trump’s stance on on the lawn attendees at the end of the night scheduled but not on Rihanna’s clock, luckily. gay marriage? when Pitbull rapped on Marc Anthony’s “Rain He may be the hottest man in show busi- AO: I try to find honesty and inspiration in over Me.” ness with his classic black suit and gyrating everyone. ... His stance on gay marriage isn’t Ke$ha began the summer evening with hips making him the Cuban Elvis. He even those things, so I disregard him on that issue. “Warrior” and she seemed ready to fight with made a comment about his suit-wearing style Equality is equality. You can’t pick and chose be- glitter bombs. She sang current single “Crazy to all the haters. tween categories of people, you either believe Kids,” then launched into her hits “We R Who Pitbull basically has created one long me- in it or you don’t. We R” and “Blow.” She did a little costume- gamix with all of his tracks molded together WCT: Favorite memory of being on Broadway changing and swung on the monkey bars, pos- at a nonstop pace for concertgoers. with Hairspray? ing all over the place. Her drag-queen back- Videos played of the multiple artists he has AO: Sitting on the floor in Jenifer Lewis’ dress- up dancer couldn’t get her jacket on correctly worked with over the years from Shakira and ing room during every intermission with my new so she tossed it on the floor. There were many Jennifer Lopez to The Wanted. [at the time] puppy Ginger planted in her bo- messy moments, like the one where she rolled Some songs were woven in that the Latin som, while she told me wild industry stories— on the stage or sprayed whipped cream into rapper hand-picked, such as Icona Pop’s “I sex, love, and assholes to stay away from! the audience. She had fun with new songs Love It” and Guns N’ Roses “Sweet Child O’ WCT: You have done so many musicals. Do like “Gold Trans Am” and “Dirty Love,” but Mine.” you have an all-time favorite one? sometimes looked bored. That may be just “Mr. Worldwide” noticed all the flags be- AO: I enjoy so many for such different reasons. part of the act or it could be the result of ing waved in the air by the fans and gave I can give you top five favorite classics: Rent, staying up late the night before partying. shout-outs to all the local Latinos. (Mexicans Cats, Evita, Miss Saigon, Phantom of the Opera. During a break between songs, Ke$ha de- outnumbered the other countries with their WCT: I imagine lots of dance music on the scribed once visiting a “tranny bar” where cheers, as he mentioned different countries.) new EP. Any guest stars or producers you can Aubrey O’Day. Publicity photo everyone was naked by the end of the night; He kept to his Miami roots with “Echa pa’lla” talk about? she then belted her tune “Take It Off.” Big and a tossed in Spanish phrases along the AO: Between Two Evils for me was an expres- K should be careful about using the T-word way. with her huge LGBT demographic listening. He wasn’t scared to name-drop and use sion of a period of time in which I was so deep AO: Blondes have more fun. She’s already in trouble with the community those talented friends during the set, men- in the pain of a bad relationship that all I could WCT: How are your pets, and aren’t they on in Newtown, Conn. (site of the mass shooting tioning people like Ne-Yo, Christina Aguilera do was write. Therapy nor exercise was getting a reality show: A-List Celebrity Pets? at Sandy Hook Elementary School) because and Enrique Iglesias in a set that lasted a it out of my body. There is some dance, there AO: Yes, and they are as wonderful and loving of songs like “Machine Gun Love” and “Die little more than an hour. is more midtempos, it is all heart. I’m sick of as always! Young.” While this wasn’t the livest concert in this making radio songs or music that other people WCT: What are you doing to celebrate when Although she is not the most cautious per- venue (because of backing tracks), it was consider popular. For once I just wanted to sing you hit 1 million Twitter followers? former, being unpolished seems to be part of certainly lively and the teens dancing in the and write music for myself. With that being said, AO: Already there, but who cares about Twitter her charm. pavilion didn’t seem to care about vocals, it I hope it can touch many people and possibly when we’ve got Pride here! Speaking of charm, before “C’mon” she was more about being entertained. help them heal from their struggles. Look for O’Day on June 22 at 2 p.m. on the stated, “It’s a song about being fucked-up Maybe after this tour this dynamic duo will WCT: Speaking of people’s struggles, you North Stage on Halsted Street. Details of the and falling in love.” Isn’t that sweet? make a hit together, but until then this party have been a big activist for AIDS over the festival can be found at www.northhalsted. “Your Love is My Drug” and “Tik Tok” were won’t stop! years. Is there a personal connection to it, com. maybe friends or family? 32 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES dash to duplicate its success.) Reimagined for adults—kids are a secondary audience here— these movies have had mixed box office and critical success and are now finding their second KNIGHT life on featured packed Blu-ray/DVD combina- AT tions and VOD. Although I had more than a few doubts about THE the miscasting of James Franco in the title role, MOVIES Sam Rami’s Oz the Great and Powerful (Disney) is a visual stunner that manages to get past Franco’s phoned-in, condescending performance, thanks to its many positive aspects. The story, which follows the same trajectory as MGM’s The Wizard of Oz (replacing Dorothy’s journey By with that of the Professor Marvel character) is Richard a plus, as are the performances of Michelle Wil- Knight, Jr. liams, Rachel Weisz, Mila Kunis and many others in the cast. Also, the technical aspects of the movie are matched by the enduring power The Secret of the Oz mythology over audiences. This is also a film that parents and kids can equally enjoy. Disco Revolution; The movie was a financial dynamo and a sequel is in the works. fairy-tale action Decidedly thinner but still visually dazzling and just as enjoyable in its own way is Jack movies on DVD the Giant Slayer (Warner Bros.), with Nicholas Hoult (Warm Bodies, A Single Man) as the cute- Canadian filmmaker Jamie Kastner—who is but-dimwitted hero, along with Ewan Mcgregor, known for his irreverent documentaries, starting Stanley Tucci and Ian McShane in a reimagining with his debut film, Kike Like Me—finds another of the Jack and the Beanstalk story. Out director Martha Wash in The Secret Disco Revolution. seemingly wacky subject matter in The Secret Bryan Singer chose this over continuing with the Disco Revolution (which has played a number X-Men series (although he’ll be back for the next of gay-film festivals and is now available VOD). in the series). Due to the film’s so-so reviews and less-than-spectacular box-office take, he’s Considering the hallmarks of the era—the flam- age, fleshing out the history lesson. hedonistic culture it spawned did make a last- taken some media-drubbing but I found Singer’s boyant polyester garb, platform shoes, hairdos Kastner’s “secret revolution” thesis—that ing impact on American culture before its fall movie, another good bet for both adults and and over-the-top nightclubs, with their spinning the ascent of disco into the mainstream subtly from grace at the end of the decade (which the kids, a delightful surprise. mirror balls and neon dance floors—any exami- changed attitudes about sexuality, the women’s film pinpoints as the moment The Knack’s “My The same cannot be said for Hansel and Gre- nation of the period is bound to be inherently movement and African-American culture— Sharona” went to number one on the charts). tel: Witch Hunters (Paramount), with Jeremy campy. Add in musical icons of the era like The comes courtesy of author Alice Echols’ book Kastner’s movie tracks each and every step of Renner and Gemma Atherton as adult versions Village People and it’s no wonder that Kastner Hot Stuff: Disco and the Remaking of American the genre’s evolution with a soundtrack that, of of the fairy-tale siblings, now grown into witch takes a “tongue-in-cheese” approach to his his- Culture. (Echols is also on hand—and, frankly, course, pulses with an electricity and vibrancy killing merceneries. Charmless and violent in the tory of the disco era. seems a bit batty.) Yet the anecdotal evidence that has never lost its power to enthrall. Though extreme with too many gaps in logic to list, this To set the tone, Kastner utilizes a fictitious to back up this seemingly wacky theory—that the kitschy framing device wears out its wel- fairy-tale reboot is hardly for kids—or adults, framing device to trace the steady rise and swift Donna Summer simulating orgasms during “Love come, The Secret Disco Revolution is an affec- either. (Much more fun is the campy Who Slew decline of disco—three Mod Squad-type figures to Love You Baby” and K.C. and the Sunshine tionate tribute that is entertaining and surpris- Auntie Roo? from 1971 with Shelley Winters, dressed in silver funky glad rags, sprinkling glit- Band exhorting all and sundry to “Get Down ingly thought provoking. which the fairy tale also inspired.) ter onto a swirling mirror ball as they wonder Tonight,” for example—has plenty of facts and The genre has also recently seen compet- around an urban landscape, and metaphorically figures and makes perfect sense in retrospect. Hollywood has always provided the greatest ing Snow White pictures: Snow White and the pulling the strings that defined the period. As It wasn’t so much the music itself but rather examples of the maxim “Imitation is the sincer- Hunstman—with Charlize Theron as the evil the three figures enact their plan to conquer the sudden prominence of the disenfranchised est form of flattery,” simultaneously producing queen, Kristin Stewart as a tougher variation American culture beginning at the outset of the (gays, women, Blacks, Hispanics, etc.) who cre- multiple pictures inspired by the same subject on the usual pure-as-the-driven-snow heroine, ‘70s, a series of interviews with performers (Glo- ated and propelled it into the forefront that or genre. In the last little while, for reasons that and Chris Hemsworth as the hunky huntsman ria Gaynor, Martha Wash, Thelma Houston, Kool wrought long lasting cultural changes. One has cry out for examination by cultural theorists, who falls for her—and Mirror Mirror with Julia from Kool and the Gang, the Village People, etc.) to look no further than the mainstream popular- the major studios have released a spate of big- Roberts as the evil queen. I have yet to take and others who remember the impact of the mu- ity of gay icons The Village People as proof that budget blockbusters that fairy tales insprired. in the latter but Theron’s icy performance alone sic accompany the tour. These are interspersed disco brought Us to Them. (To be honest, Tim Burton’s phenomenally suc- makes the former worthwhile. (It, too, is getting with copious helpings of delightful retro foot- Love them or hate them, disco music and the cessful Alice In Wonderland kick started the mad a sequel.)

papers in America. James Dean film Nat’l Women’s Baim is publisher and executive editor screens at the Siskel Music Festival at Windy City Media Group, which produces James Preston, who stars as James Dean in Windy City Times, Nightspots, and other gay Joshua Tree, 1951: A Portrait of James Dean July 4-7 media. She co-founded Windy City Times in was in town June 11 for an appearance in The National Women’s Music Festival will 1985 and Outlines newspaper in 1987. She conjunction with a screening of the film at take place July 4-7 in Middleton, Wis., at the has won numerous gay community and jour- the Gene Siskel Film Center. Madison Marriott West. nalism honors, including the Community Me- Preston, a former Abercrombie & Fitch mod- Among the many singers/comedians slated dia Workshop’s Studs Terkel Award in 2005. el as well as a star of the ABC TV series The to perform are Cris Williamson, Melissa Fer- She started in Chicago gay journalism in 1984 Gates, entertained the audience with stories rick, Big Bad Gina, Voices of Africa, June & at GayLife newspaper. about his in-depth research into playing the Jean Millington, Gina Yashere and Kristen iconic actor. The film, a homoerotic take on Ford. the early days of James Dean before he be- The festival also nurtures new performers Cheyenne Jackson came a star, was written and director by Mat- with a talent competition; last year’s winners, to release thew Mishory. comedian Barb Nelligan and singer-songwrit- Producer Randall Walk, a Chicagoland na- er Ginger Doss, will perform July 4. CD June 25 tive, also regaled the audience with tales of Visit www.wiaonline.org for more info. Actor singer and songwriter Cheyenne Jack- making the indie that won raves on the gay son (Behind The Candelabra, 30 Rock, Glee) festival circuit and is just out on DVD from will release I’m Blue, Skies, his first full- Wolfe Video. Actress Rusty Schwimmer, who NewTown Writers length album of original music, June 25. attended New Trier High School with Walk, featuring WCT The 12-track pop-folk CD includes songs surprised him by attending the screening. such as “Mr. Lonely Boy,” “You Get Me” (fea- Scrooge & Marley executive producer David publisher June 20 turing Charlotte Sometimes), “Back Pocket” Strzepek and partner Tod Tatsui and Reeling NewTown Writers presents publisher and and the title tune. Film Festival Board President Greg Salustro journalist Tracy Baim at Sulzer Regional Li- The first video for the song “Don’t Look At were also at the screening. brary, 4455 N. Lincoln Ave, Chicago, Thursday, Me,” co-written by Jackson and SIA, is avail- Windy City Times film critic and Queer Film June 20, 7:30 p.m. able on Jackson’s YouTube Channel: www.you- Society President Richard Knight Jr. moder- Baim will discuss her 2013 Lambda Liter- tube.com/user/cheyennejacksonmusic. ary Award Finalist Publication: Gay Press, Gay ated the post-screening discussion. Photos James Preston at screening. Photo courtesy Power: The Growth of LGBT Community News- and text by Knight of Richard Knight Jr. WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 33 TELEVISION WCT: Then there’s that line when you’re in- terviewing with the family: “You don’t have an accent.” I would last 30 seconds in that Burlesque star place. Dita von Teese Ana Ortiz gets AO: You and me both. But I’ve actually heard that, and I hear, “You don’t look Puerto Rican. July 11-13 You don’t sound Puerto Rican.” But this is what Dita Von Teese will bring her “Burlesque: ‘Devious’ with WCT Puerto Rican looks like. Strip, Strip Hooray!” variety show to the WCT: What’s it like for a New Yorker like House of Blues, 329 N. Dearborn St., on By ANDREW DAVIS yourself to be in L.A.? July 11-13. AO: It’s good because I have two babies. It According to a press release, “the Marc Cherry has done it again. was hard to have a baby in New York. In L.A., 90-minute spectacle treats audiences to The man behind Desperate Housewives has I have a big yard and they’re running around four of Von Teese’s most impressive per- crafted Devious Maids, a a deftly produced Life- like little hippie children. That being said, when formances, including her new Swarovski time series debuting June 23 that features Ana they’re in first, second or third grade, I think I’d Martini Glass act. Also featured in the Ortiz (Ugly Betty), Dania Ramirez (Entourage), like to come back home. revue is Von Teese’s lavish “Opium Den” Roselyn Sanchez (Without a Trace), Edy Ganem WCT: For a second, I have to mention the show which features her as a smoldering (Livin’ Loud) and Judy Reyes (Scrubs) as five La- men of this show: Tom Irwin, Grant Show, and exotic dragon lady.” tina maids with ambition and dreams of their Brett Cullen and Drew [von Acker]. I’ve been The July 11 and 13 shows are at 7:30 own while working for the rich and famous in watching Pretty Little Liars, so I know about p.m.; there will be two performances on Beverly Hills. (“Housewives” star Eva Longoria is him. July 12 at 7 p.m. and 11 p.m. General- also an executive producer.) AO: Drew von Acker. He comes with his own admission tickets are $40; see www.tick- Windy City Times spoke with Ortiz last week built-in audience of young, fabulous girls. Can etmaster.com. when she was in town for a press junket, cov- I just tell you he’s the sweetest, most mellow, ering everything from class distinction to Ugly down-to-earth, cool guy? You’re like, “Could you Betty to the men of “Maids.” have a flaw, because you’re perfect and you’re, Comic Cameron Windy City Times: How has your stay been like, 12?” Esposito in in Chicago? WCT: And he looks like a Kennedy. Ana Ortiz: I wish I had more time. I mean, AO: [Laughs] Yes, he does. Grant Show is a Chicago July 5 can you believe this [incredibly sunny] day? My California surfer guy, super-happy to be on the L.A.-based lesbian comic Cameron Es- flight landed in Indianapolis last night, and we show. He and Dania Ramirez’s character have a posito will return to her hometown, Chi- had to drive here. I got in Chicago at two in the smokin’ storyline. cago, on Friday, July 5, for a one-night- morning—but, driving in, I got to see the city WCT: What do you want viewers to take only performance at The Hideout, 1354 W. at night, and it’s stunning. away from your show? Wabansia Ave. WCT: First of all, some of our readers are AO: First of all, I want people to have fun. I She won the OutLoud Chicago Queer still upset over the cancellation of Ugly Betty want them to turn off for a while and get into Comedy at Zanies in 2012, and has per- [which happened in 2010]. Ana Ortiz at Devious Maids screening. Photo these lives. Another thing I’d like people to take formed at the Chicago Women’s Funny Fest AO: I feel their pain, trust me, but thank you courtesy of Lifetime away is that everything is everything—that you and the Bridgetown Comedy Festival. for saying that. don’t have to be who people think you are be- Tickets are $10 each; see www.hide- WCT: The show seemed like it had plenty [Both laugh.] I’m not a whippersnapper like cause of your bank account or your job. Every- outchicago.com/event/281695-cameron- of steam. you. one is complex, and the hero can be the person esposito-chicago. AO: It had plenty of steam left. [The cancel- AO: I’m 42, my darling. This is what 42 looks who captures your heart and tells your story. lation] was really disappointing; the show was like now. the best experience of my life. I made friends WCT: Well, I’m what 92 looks like now. [Or- and family for life; America [Ferrara, the star of tiz laughs loudly.] Ugly Betty] is my son’s godmother and Mark In- AO: Well, I look forward to it—it looks fabu- THERE’S POWER IN OUR PRIDE delicato is at NYU. He’s a genius. Judith Light, lous! As for Tom, he’s such an exceptional actor. Vanessa Williams... He really struggled with it and, to his credit, he WCT: Ah, Judith—with the win at the Tonys committed fully. Wait until you see the rest of Take the LGBT Survey Today! this year... it. They all bring it. AO: Second win in a row, and that’s only the WCT: One of the things I like about this second time in history that’s happened. Also, show is that shows Latinas as multidimen- I just did an independent movie with Michael sional—as more than just maids. Your char- Urie. acter has the line, “You just see me as some- WCT: I saw the first two episodes of the one... show alone. First, the title alone... 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Age Age Age Age Age Age 24 29 30 23 27 34 Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Single ... and in LOVE with it! 7 years taken. Smitten and attached. Happily taken, Taken. Taking applications. Your Gay Idol? Your Gay Idol? Your Gay Idol? hopelessly devoted, Your Gay Idol? Your Gay Idol? Lady GaGa: She donates I idolize my two friends Judy Garland: She gave me totally gay for Jonathan. Harvey Milk: The amount All the men and women who so much of her time and who just got married after my vibrato and strut. Life’s soundtrack? of courage it took to take a came before me paving the celebrity to helping the gay being together for 14 years! Life’s soundtrack? “Tomorrow” from Annie. stand and become visible is way for me to be able to just community. Congrats, Heather and Tara. Something written by It’s basically my life: ginger; inspiring. walk down the street holding Life’s soundtrack? Life’s soundtrack? Puccini. Wait, too tragic ... optimist; a singing, dancing Life’s soundtrack? my partner’s hand and not feel “Desperado” by The Eagles “People Like Us” by Kelly how about “Part Of Your little girl. “Don’t Panic” by Coldplay. ashamed. would definitely be on [the Clarkson. It explains itself. World”? I love serving up fish Why should you be the Why should you be the Life’s soundtrack? list]. Why should you be the realness. next Gay Idol? next Gay Idol? “No Drama” by Mary J. Blige. Why should you be the next Gay Idol? Why should you be the “Gay Idol,” what a I’ve always loved singing and Why should you be the next Gay Idol? I have the drive and talent next Gay Idol? tremendous title! I could only getting others to sing. If I can next Gay Idol? Music and performing are to be a wicked awesome Because I have the hope to achieve this title and make people happy through I have the talent and my life, and through my art singer, plus I’d be a great charisma, uniqueness ... uh, represent our community singing that’s good enough personality for what it takes. I really want to better the representation of the femme I mean, I can sing good? well! for me. world and inspire people to ladies! make positive changes.

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Age Age Age Age Age Age 25 29 28 24 26 32 Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Relationship Status Single. Married. Single. Totally committed to and Single. In a relationship. Your Gay Idol? Your Gay Idol? Your Gay Idol? with the one and only Your Gay Idol? Your Gay Idol? Ellen DeGeneres My husband, Dustin, for Does margaret cho count? “Timmy Willy” :) Beth Ditto for strength in Tough choice, but I must say Life’s soundtrack? always supporting my She works double for me: Your Gay Idol? living unapologetically and Freddie Mercury for being the The Muppet Show theme choices, and making me feel Gay idol and Asian idol. Quite honestly, probably Ian Ellen for keeping a positive amazing rock front man he song. like a rock star every single Life’s soundtrack? McKellen, moreso to do with attitude in the face of hate. was. Why should you be the day! “Hoppipola” by Sigur Rós: Shakespeare than Gandalf. Life’s soundtrack? Life’s soundtrack? next Gay Idol? Life’s soundtrack? Just because you can’t Life’s soundtrack? “Move In the Right Direction” “In My Life” by The Beatles. Because I work hard, I learn “That’s Life” by Frank understand something Probably “That’s Life”: I’ve by The Gossip. Why should you be the from my mistakes, and I Sinatra, etc. does not mean it is any less done so many different Why should you be the next Gay Idol? never forget what’s really Why should you be the powerful! things up to this point that it next Gay Idol? I want to represent the gay important to me. next Gay Idol? Why should you be the just fits. I’d bring some diversity to rockers of Chicago! With it being my sixth year next Gay Idol? Why should you be the the title, along with powerful in a row as a finalist, I like to Performing has always been next Gay Idol? pipes that don’t quit. I’m a call myself the Susan Lucci a dream of mine and any I plan to become the next bundled up package of fat, of Gay Idol. It’s time for me opportunity to do so is a gift. Sinatra and this is the best fabulous fierceness. to win my Emmy! place to start!

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WINDY CITY MEDIA GROUP WOULD LIKE TO THANK THE FOLLOWING SPONSORS FOR HELPING TO MAKE THIS YEAR’S WINDY CITY GAY IDOL THE FIERCEST ROUND TO DATE: WINDY CITY TIMES June 19, 2013 35 36 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES business comes from word-of-mouth, and while the firm offers executive, career, trader and life coaching, most of her clients seek executive On doing what you love: or career coaching. “Work accounts for such a great portion of our lives; feeling fulfilled by that work and knowing that it is contributing to some greater purpose can have a profound Coach Jody Michael impact on people’s quality of life,” she said. Throughout her coaching career, Michael has By Ross Forman with men and helped me navigate the business world and the trading pits,” she recalled. Even helped clients achieve extraordinary success, but one story stands out. “Six years ago, a client Where were you when you decided what you though, in the pits, physical jostling was nor- came to me who was depressed, having a hard were going to do with your life? mal, she found herself comfortable with the ex- time in his marriage, but mostly hating his job Maybe you were in a college class and you fig- treme competitiveness. every day. He had been working for a few years ured it out while you were engaged in a project. This competitive nature showed up in other in what he considered to be a menial job sell- Maybe it was an “aha moment” during one of arenas. Besides the three sports she played in ing a product that he couldn’t care less about. your better (or worse) days at work. Maybe it college and the semi-pro basketball (before the He came to me for ‘What Do You Want to Be was after a major life event and you realized you new professional women’s teams), Michael has When You Grow Up?’ career discovery coaching. were meant for more. proven she doesn’t shy away from the road less We worked through our process and came to the Jody Michael was in a floatation tank. traveled. conclusion that his best career fit was software A successful leader in the finance industry, Mi- As she thinks of the times she’s been an ear- and web design. chael purchased a 10-pack of sessions in a sen- ly adopter, she ticks them off on her fingers: “Unfortunately, because of financial con- sory deprivation floatation tank. “My first float “first girls’ class of Lane College Prep High straints, he couldn’t leave his current position was claustrophobic; I almost didn’t go back. The School (that was an all-boys school for about and go back to school. So, we designed a strat- second was deeply relaxing. During my third 100 years), one of the first women traders on egy for him to learn the required skills in a mat- float, I became deeply aware and alert, yet com- the Chicago Mercantile Exchange trading floor, ter of months, with minimal in-person school- pletely relaxed. While in that state, I heard my one of the earliest career coaches in the coun- ing. During those months, he was working all inner voice very clearly naming what I should try, also she took one of the earliest Internet day, studying all night, studying all weekend, do—coaching.” courses: an Ontological Design Course in the and starting it all over again the next week. And Michael knows what she is talking about. mid-’80s.” “Soon after, a boutique web design company With a background in neuroscience, mindful- What she wasn’t first in? “My mentor encour- offered him a fantastic job with a great starting ness, and cognitive psychology, she uses the aged me to purchase 5,000 dot com names for salary considering he had no prior work experi- principles and metrics of hard science to help $5 a piece back then. Did I listen? No! Ha! I ence. They took a chance on him, and within one people achieve change. She understands now would have been a millionaire.” year, he received multiple raises and promotions that she was experiencing alpha brain waves, and was sought after within the industry. Later which one attains through meditation, in that Coaches of the coach that year, he took another job, was promoted third float. Ironically, Michael never had a sporting coach Jody Michael. to chief technical officer within four years, and Her brain was literally telling her what she she had a deep connection to. However, she had was then recruited by a well-respected Chicago should do with her life. teachers at every level of school “who made a significant impact by making me feel seen and company.” Center under Theo Pintzuk, who was a fabu- One of the first (non-sports) coaches special and who shaped my world lens in a pow- lous supervisor and mentor,” she said. “The 18 Doesn’t feel like work In 1996, when the openly gay Michael found- erful way.” months that I spent there gave me the oppor- It might be stories like that one that help Mi- ed Jody Michael Associates, no one knew what a Teaching was one of the first professions that tunity to work exclusively with the LGBT com- chael keep her passion strong. Eighteen years career coach was. “People would always ask me, other people suggested to her. In fact, Michael munity.” later, Michael has amassed more than 30,000 ‘What sport?’ not knowing it was something else had several opportunities for teaching, even one-on-one coaching hours, and her fuel to help completely.” Though she loved sports, it was the at a young age. In high school, she had three An empathic observer others achieve their best is still burning. people aspect of career coaching that kept her teaching jobs. At 16, she worked for a non-profit Michael’s desire to help others stems, in large “I still wake up every morning loving my job attention. called BUILD, teaching drug prevention to 8th part, from her early childhood experiences. and looking forward to my 14-hour workday. “When I launched [the business,] I never for graders in the Chicago Public Schools. She was “My mother was mentally ill and spent most of People don’t understand how I can work that a minute thought it would grow to more than paired with one of her former teachers and “after her life in a mental hospital. In fact, from the long and see so many people day after day for just me. I had already been coaching internally a few classes, she saw that I could handle her time I was 18 months old, she spent far more so many years. But that’s because they’ve never in the financial industry for years. I was leading class, so she often left while I conducted the time in the hospital than at home with me. So I had the experience of loving something so much large floor operations and used coaching in my hour-long class unsupervised,” Michael recalled. was exposed to mental hospitals at a very early that it doesn’t feel like work.” management style, but it didn’t have a name. I She continued volunteering and being placed age,” Michael said. Jody Michael Associates has grown, too. There had been trained by one of the grandfathers of into teaching roles. In keeping with her love of Michael described her mother as “very warm, are now eight full-time team members plus more coaching, Fernando Flores, and so, I was one of sports, whenever there was a female gym teach- gentle and loving.” Seeing her overmedicated, subcontracted coaches, and she sees her com- the earliest coaches in the country.” er out and a substitute wasn’t available, she was put through an “ungodly number” of electric pany continuing to grow strategically without Michael’s desire to be a coach comes from two pulled out of her other classes to step in. shock treatments, and placed in two different compromising quality. main drives: her passion to effect personal and Although she got a teaching degree, the allure mental hospitals made an impression on her as a One of the newest members of her company is professional transformation in others and her had started to fade. She recalls the final straw child that she holds onto. “Witnessing the emo- Cathy Cullen, Michael’s partner of 18 years and compassion to help relieve their pain. while working in CPS: “One day, when I was as- tional pain, isolation, stigma and hopelessness saulted in the halls of Wells High School and the love of her life. Michael explains that Cullen is that mental illness can often bring created tre- filling the role of COO at Jody Michael Associ- Do no harm principal did not stand up for me, I decided my mendous empathy in me,” she said. ates. “She has a wonderful linear and intelligent Michael is insistent that mental health and teaching days were over.” “I became a very keen observer of individuals’ engineer’s mind, which is a nice compliment to physical health go hand in hand. Understanding She never went back to teaching, other than a personal pain. I have always been driven to help my visionary, creative mind!” oneself and being free of mental suffering helps class here or there at the University of Chicago people alleviate it—something I could not do the physical body. That’s why her emphasis is on while in the PhD program. with my mother, although the day I turned 21, No slowing down complete transformation. “While I certainly value my teaching experi- I did take her out of Elgin State Hospital and Michael emphasizes that she is nowhere near “So many people are in so much pain. All you ence, I think that the traditional Western model cared for her until her death in 1986.” the end of her coaching career. “I still find this have to do is look at the billions of dollars we as of education is becoming rather antiquated,” Mi- Because of her personal experience with suf- work engaging and challenging. I am continu- a country spend on psycho-pharmaceuticals and chael said. “There are more dynamic methods of fering, Michael understands the burdens that ally fascinated by what it means to be human.” you can see how we are medicating and deaden- learning than the prominent hierarchical model some of her clients carry. In fact, one of the And as reflected by her interest and expertise in ing ourselves to the pain that we feel. To be a of an expert imparting knowledge to pupils. things she is most proud of is “processing my the fields of neuroscience, mindfulness, human catalyst for those individuals who are stressed, Much more interesting to me is a more genera- challenging childhood without negative residue behavior, cognitive psychology, systems theory, stuck, depressed, over-worked and confused and tive conversation, an organic or Socratic method or scars that may have otherwise impeded my ontology, change models, and leadership and or- to coach them to perceive, react and live dif- of learning—and coaching allows for this. There capacity to trust, risk, love, grow and thrive.” ganizational dynamics, she has been doing her ferently is truly a gift that they honor me with. is something to be learned from everyone.” homework. That opportunity to inspire them to create their As a true Chicagoan, when asked who her fa- Healthy competition In the coming years, Michael would like to lives instead of just responding to what life vorite coach is, she replied: former Chicago Bulls However, the softer more empathetic side of focus more on speaking engagements and large throws them is a privilege.” coach Phil Jackson. “He had a holistic approach Michael is joined to a rather competitive person- workshop events, and she also plans to publish While she offers four distinct types of coach- to coaching that was influenced by Eastern phi- ality. As a young girl, Michael was, admittedly, a at least one book. But her overall motivation ing, Michael works with a range of clients, in- losophy and spiritual practices, which I connect tomboy most likely to be chosen to be the quar- remains the same as always: “There’s nothing cluding corporate executives and leaders, entre- to deeply. I admire his masterful application of terback of neighborhood touch football games more rewarding than seeing people achieve their preneurs, career professionals, high school and psychology, philosophy, strategy and high emo- or defeating boys in pickup games of basketball. greatest goals—creating the life they want.” college students and individuals looking to cre- tional intelligence in his coaching.” She credits this with some professional suc- Visit www.jodymichael.com or call 773- ate the life they want. cess. “Growing up playing with the neighbor- 275-5566. 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“I’ve had a lot of men come into my life as workout. I don’t know anything about him, but father figures. I’d fall in love with them and then someone this gorgeous and showing so much they’re just gone.”—Brandon, a 26-year-old skin deserves to be on BillyMasters.com. painting contractor from Costa Mesa, sobs this Our question is from Jerry in Seattle: “Ask confession on The Bachelorette. Although he’s Billy, I’m in love with the new Superman, Henry talking about having a single mom who dated Cavill. Don’t you think he gives off a gay vibe? a variety of men, something tells me he’s had Please tell me he is. A friend of mine said you first-hand experience with many men who came knew someone very close to him.” JOIN 93XRT, and went out of his life. This is a story which I can relate second- or, Terri Hemmert and With all the gay-pride festivities around the possibly, third-hand. Apparently, one of Henry’s Tito’s Handmade Vodka country, I can’t possibly hit them all. Although closest friends in L.A. is actor and writer Co- I’m known for breaking the rules (or at the very rey Spears (a former paramour of Dan Renzi, of at Sidetrack least, bending them), not even I can break the “Real World” and daytime moviegoing fame). Friday, June 21 for the rules of physics and be in two places at the same Even when Henry was making decent money as time. Last weekend, I was in Boston on Saturday an actor, he’d stay on Corey’s sofa whenever in and Los Angeles on Sunday. After stating that LA. What makes this interesting is that, accord- Boston Pride played a part in his coming out, ing to Renzi, Henry had a penchant for walk- Jason Collins marched alongside his one-time ing around the apartment naked. If you check Pride Fest Kick-Off Stanford roommate, Massachusetts Congressman out his scribblings at DanRenzi.com, you’ll find Party starts at 6:30 until 9pm and will feature Joe Kennedy. Earlier in the week, the openly gay special Tito’s Handmade Vodka drinks and former Boston Celtic was wearing the jersey of exclusive 93XRT Pride giveaways! a different team. Collins was invited to throw Log on to wxrt.com for more info. out the first pitch at the Red Sox game on Pride Night. Be sure to join us early for give-aways Meanwhile in Los Angeles, there was scandal a-brewing. Ciara was booked as Saturday night’s to help celebrate Pride Fest! headliner for LA Pride. However, local hot spot no cover. The Factory planned a special pre-Pride party on Friday and advertised there would be a “special performer.” Although I didn’t see it, allegedly Factory had some flyers touting Ciara’s appearance. Once the Pride committee got wind of this, they made it clear that her engagement /SidetrackBar with them superseded any other appearances (especially the night before at a club two blocks away). Factory threatened to sue Ciara for $10K. Her people said that there wasn’t a signed con- ...the video bar tract (which I somehow doubt). 3349 N. Halsted • Valet Parking Available • SidetrackChicago.com Come Saturday night, Ciara’s in the middle of her performance and shaking hands with people by the stage when all of a sudden someone handed her something. She took one look at it and dropped it—she had been served! The wise CALENDAR from page 40 process server made sure to have a video of Ci- ara taking it, which you can see on BillyMasters. beauty, spa, health, bubbly, desserts, gift bags, efit GLAAD. Flywheel indoor cycling classes chal- com. The tragedy of this event is that I wasn’t motivational speakers, fitness classes, photo- lenge you to transform your body and have fun hosting. I suspect I would have gone out on booths, taste-testing class, crafts, lunch, drinks, doing it. 6:30pm-7:30pm, Flywheel Sports, 710 N. stage, picked up the summons and called back desserts, retail therapy, spa treatments, beauty, State St., www.glaad.org/events/fly-pride to Ciara, “Honey, I think you forgot something.” fitness, fashion, health and wellness. Age 21 with Perhaps I would have done a dramatic reading valid ID. 11am-5pm, River East Art Center, http:// Wed., June 26 of the summons aloud, adding: “I’m only trying pampermefabulous.com Howard Brown’s Under 35 Health Drop-In Night Are GLAAD Pride Brunch Four-course sharing menu and you a woman or transgender person under the age Man of Steel’s Henry Cavill stayed in the to help. That Ciara’s not much of a reader!” On one cocktail for $18.50 per person, and a compli- of 35 and have no insurance? Stop by our drop-in second thought, maybe it’s best I wasn’t there. nudes, according to Billy. mentary Gummy Bear Bar, courtesy of Candyality, night for a FREE pap test and breast/chest exam, If you didn’t have a local gay-pride event go- live DJ, and rainbow-colored party favors for all counseling intake session, HIV/STI testing, and ing on, you were probably watching the Tony guests. Proceeds from sale of Tavernita’s candy- health and wellness information! 5pm-8pm, How- Awards. As usual, Neil Patrick Harris was a bril- some stories about Henry—where he’s affection- themed cocktail benefit GLAAD. 11:30am-3:30pm, ard Brown Health Center, 4025 N Sheridan Rd., www.howardbrown.org liant host. Not too much, not too little—just ately referred to as “The Hen” (personally, I’d Tavernita, 151 W. Erie St., www.glaad.org/events/ pride-brunch 11th Annual Windy City Gay Idol finals Levi Kreis right. I believe I was the first person to tell go with “The Cock”). With so many gay people Chicagoland Pride Worship Come early to the recep- joins the judges as Windy City Gay Idol concludes Andrea Martin she’d not only get nominated for close to Cavill, you’d think that if there were any tion. Stay for the Chicagoland Pride Worship bring- the 2013 search for the top amateur GLBT singers a Tony but would also win it, and she did. My real gossip, I’d know about it. Apropos of your ing together 60+ member congregations and more. in the Chicago area. 6pm doors, 7pm start. 6pm, darling Jerry Mitchell and Kinky Boots took the question, I don’t think it’s a gay vibe he gives Chicago Coalition of Welcoming Churches; 7pm, Mayne Stage, 1328 W. Morse Ave., http://gopride. lion’s share of awards. I shouldn’t take pleasure off—it’s a British vibe; they’re often mistaken First United Methodist Church at Chicago Temple, com/z81w 77 W. Washington St., https://www.facebook.com/ in someone losing, but it’s nice to see that Tom for each other. Regardless, he always delivers, events/617250431636031/ Wed., June 26 Hanks doesn’t win every award he’s nominated like in that scene from the first season of The 30 Under 30 Windy City Times each years recognizes for. Kudos to dear Judith Light for winning two Tudors where he’s endlessly plowing away with Monday, June 24 30 outstanding LGBT individuals and allies under years in a row, and giving the best speech (in- such zeal. I’ve never before been jealous of a TPAN Complimentary Therapy Programs Reiki is of- the age of 30. Windy City Times, AIDS Foundation cluding thanking her manager and our pal, Herb scullery maid. There’s even a tantalizing glimpse fered the second and fourth Mondays of the month of Chicago, Center on Halsted and Chicago House Hamsher). of the goods, as you’ll see on BillyMasters.com. from 1pm to 3pm on a first come first serve basis. sponsor the event. 5:30pm, Center on Halsted, 1pm-3pm, TPAN, 5537 N. Broadway, http://www. 3656 N Halsted St., http://gopride.com/z833 Just so you don’t think we’ve lost our taste When we’re hoping Cavill is not faster than a tpan.com Back Lot Bash 2013 Uh Huh Her, Melissa Ferrick, for hot naked men, last week Ian Ziering made speeding bullet, it’s definitely time to end yet Sapna Kumar Stand-up comic from India to Indiana Whitney Mixter and more. The hottest, most rockin’ his debut with the world-famous Chippendales another column. I didn’t even get to tell you to LOGO TV’s “One Night Stand-Up” and NBC’s “Last and most attended outdoor women’s party taking in Las Vegas. He’ll be appearing with the boys that Curtis Stone and Lindsay Price got married, Comic Standing 4,” lesbian film and theater and place ALL Pride Weekend in Chicago’s Anderson- at the Rio All Suite Hotel and Casino through Graham Norton and his beau broke up, and Jen- now before Pride OutLoud Chicago at Zanies. 8pm, ville neighborhood. 6pm, 5238 N. Clark St., behind the end of June. After several weeks of intense nifer Love Hewitt is engaged to and carrying the Zanies Old Town, Chicago, http://sapna-kumar. Cheetah Gym, http://www.backlotbashchicago.com com/comedian Music with Pride: A Tribute to Gay Comp honors workouts, the 50-year-old Ian turned flab to fab. child of her latest boyfriend/co-star/soon-to-be LGBT composers, benefits AFC Young and talented He reportedly lost 25 pounds and the results are ex. WOW, I slipped those in when you weren’t Tuesday, June 25 local musicians honor classical and contemporary impressive—as you’ll see on BillyMasters.com. looking. Well, I’m good in a tight squeeze— State’s Attorney’s 4th Annual Pride Awards All are LGBT composers including Leonard Bernstein and Far more predictable is Patrick Schwarzeneg- much like Cavill. You can see him and so much invited to join Cook County State’s Attorney Anita Samuel Barber. Aimed at a casual music audience ger, who Tweeted a shirtless photo of himself more on www.BillyMasters.com, the site that is Alvarez at the State’s Attorney’s 4th Annual Pride with educational talks about the composers and how their homosexuality affected their lives and with the caption, “Early morning pump! Who is always gentle with you. For a bit of the rough Recognition and Awards Ceremony honoring two people for their leadership and contributions the music. $10 suggested donation at the door to the getting into shape for summer??!! Gonna gain stuff, you’ll have to contact me directly. If you Cook County LGBT community. Awardees will be AIDS Foundation of Chicago and the Team to End 7 pounds this summer.” Really? I just gained don’t see me on an app in your locale, you can selected prior to the event. 5:30pm-7:30pm, 312- AIDS endurance training program. 7pm, Lake View seven pounds since I started writing this week’s always write to [email protected] and I 603-1859, Center on Halsted, 3656 N Halsted, Chi- Presbyterian Church, http://www.musicwithpride. column. But I’ll still post the pic (his, not mine). promise to get back to you before Ciara shows cago, http://www.statesattorney.org splashthat.com One more hottie, Derek Theler from Baby up on Judge Judy! Until next time, remember, GLAAD’s Fly with Pride! Indoor cycling ride to ben- Daddy, posted a sweaty selfie after an intense one man’s filth is another man’s bible. 42 June 19, 2013 WINDY CITY TIMES Force players proud

Force’s Team to represent U.S. USA members. Photo from By Ross Forman year varsity volleyball player. Plus, she played Chicago Force one year of junior varsity water polo and one Liz Okey struggles to put into words her thoughts year of JV basketball. of making Team USA, which will compete in the Schooling: Redlands High School, class of second International Federation of American 2003; Chicago College of Performing Arts, Roos- Football (IFAF) Women’s World Championship. evelt University, class of 2007. Okey said the honor of being selected as the Years on Force: Seven Americans look to defend the title they won in Position: Quarterback 2010 is a mix of “joy, gratitude, excitement and On making Team USA: “I feel honored to have humility.” the opportunity to represent my country playing Okey, 28, who lives in Chicago’s Wicker Park the sport I fell in love with when I was a little neighborhood, is in her fifth season on the of- girl. It’s a dream I couldn’t even imagine as a fensive line of the Chicago Force—and she is child. That being said, we will be writing the one of nine Force players selected, of 45 overall history of women’s tackle football and that is team members, spanning 15 states, for the 2013 a huge responsibility. Not only will the whole Favorite pro athlete: Barry Sanders Schooling: Valparaiso High School, class of U.S. Women’s National Team. world be watching this summer, but the whole Even my Force teammates will be surprised to 1999; Valparaiso University, class of 2003 The eight-nation football tournament, held world will look back at us in the future as the know: “I’ve flown around the world; I speak Ger- Years on Force: Four every three years, runs June 28-July 6 in Van- trailblazers for this game. It’s a great charge and man and I was little Miss Michigan.” Position: Wide receiver taa, Finland. Force head coach John Konecki of I think all 45 of us are up for the challenge. “ On making Team USA: “Absolutely humbled to Schereville, Ind., is the Team USA head coach. Favorite sport (beside football): Volleyball Dawn Pederson represent my country, [and am] extremely excit- “As an athlete the opportunity to represent Favorite pro athletes: Joe Montana and Colin Age: 38 ed to compete with and against the best players your country in international competition is tru- Kaepernick Lives in: Andersonville in the world.” ly the highest honor,” said Okey, who was a four- Even my Force teammates will be surprised to Relationship status: Married Greatest personal sports moment: “Taking my year volleyball player at Kalamazoo College and know: “When I get frustrated in a game, their Orientation: Gay Valparaiso University basketball team to [its] a two-sport (volleyball and basketball) standout support means the world to me and it helps me Sports background: Was varsity MVP for field first-ever NCAA Tournament [appearance] as a at Manchester (Mich.) High School. “Growing move forward. Not sure if they will ever know hockey, soccer and track during her junior and senior year. That and playing in the WFA Cham- up, I’ve always been in awe of the athletes who how much they mean to me or how much they’ve senior seasons. Played field hockey for Ohio pionship game in Pittsburgh in 2012. competed in the Olympics. To know that I now taught me, but I love them dearly and they truly State University. Won a bronze medal at the U.S. Favorite sport (beside football): basketball have the honor of wearing the red, white and are my family.” Olympic Festival in 1991 and was an alternate Favorite pro athlete: LeBron James blue … I still can’t believe it.” for the under-21 U.S. National Team. Cubs or White Sox: White Sox Added Konecki, “There is no higher honor than Tami Engelman Years on Force: Seven representing your country in international com- Age: 30 Position: Left tackle and long snapper Jamie Menzyk petition. Additionally, I am fully committed to Lives in: Avondale On making Team USA: “I am thrilled to be able Age: 29 advancing women’s tackle football, and compet- Relationship status: “Taken” to defend the championship we won in 2010 and Lives in: Portage, Ind. ing on a world stage allows for women to con- Orientation: Bisexual I consider myself so lucky to have the honor of Relationship status: Single tinue on with the mission of being ambassadors At Crystal Lake Central High School: Competed representing the United States again. The 2010 Orientation: Lesbian for the sport.” in track and field, and was a conference cham- team made history and laid the groundwork for At Whiting (Ind.) High School: Played four Okey, an out lesbian, is one of many under the pion, school record holder and fourth-place in the future, and I hope to continue to build on years basketball, two years volleyball, four years LGBT banner set to represent the U.S. state in the shot put in 1999. what we started in 2010.” softball, and one year of football. “My greatest personal sporting moment [was] At Western Illinois University: Was a nine-time Greatest personal sports moment: “Scoring At Calumet College of Saint Joseph: Played not winning a game, earning a trophy, break- medal winner in the shot put, discus, hammer the game-winning goal in sudden-death over- four years of basketball, two years volleyball, ing a record, or being named MVP. For me, my and indoor weight throw. time against the University of Iowa. It was the and three years softball. greatest sports moment was finishing Team USA Years on Force: Four first time in 16 years that Ohio State had beaten Years on Force: Seven trials,” Okey said. “I had major surgery nine Positions: Offensive guard and defensive tack- Iowa.” Position: Right guard months [earlier after breaking] my fibula in the le Favorite sport (beside football): Field hockey On making Team USA: “Am honored to have 2012 [Force] season and had 17 pieces of metal On making Team USA: “I was initially shocked. Favorite pro athlete: “I don’t really have a fa- had the best coaching over the last several years put in my leg. To be able to heal, rehab, train After coming off a serious injury [last season,] vorite. I like the class acts who let their actions to make me a top candidate to represent our and compete with the top athletes in the nation I was not sure that I would be [for] the tryouts. on the field speak for themselves.” great country.” [less than] a year after surgery … that was my I will be representing the USA in a game that Even my Force teammates will be surprised to Greatest personal sports moment: “Winning greatest personal accomplishment.” I absolutely love. I think about walking out know: “What I have accomplished on the field the gold medal in Sweden in 2010, and being Here’s a look at the Chicago Force players named onto the football field with USA on my head and with football is all because of my wife. If she named MVP of the Gold Medal Game.” to the U.S. Women’s National Team: chest and it gives me chills every time.” hadn’t pushed me to be better I would not be Favorite sport (beside football): Hockey Greatest personal sports moment: “One of the where I am today.” Favorite pro athlete: Rebecca Lobo Liz Okey greatest moments, yet hardest, was walking out Cubs or White Sox: White Sox Age: 28 of the tunnel onto Heinz Field [in Pittsburgh] Ashley Berggren Even my Force teammates will be surprised to Relationship status: Engaged with my team for the [2012] WFA Championship. Age: 36 know: “I was the first female basketball player Orientation: Lesbian Although I was injured in the previous game I Lives in: Evanston to score 1,000 points at Calumet College of Saint A few facts: Has 12 years of classical ballet was still so proud to be part of the Force and be Sports background: All-American high school Joseph.” experience and six years on drum line. able to make the historic trip with them. softball player, All-area volleyball, all-state Favorite sport (beside football): Volleyball Favorite sport (beside football): Track & field basketball. All-American collegiate basketball Kimberly Marks Favorite pro athlete: Israel Idonije Even my Force teammates will be surprised to player and conference player of the year. Age: 31 Cubs or White Sox: “Neither; I’m a [Detroit] know: “I’m super shy when put in awkward situ- Schools: Barrington high school, class of Lives in: Bucktown Tigers fan.” ations with people I don’t know. I don’t think 1994; and the University of Illinois, Champaign- Relationship status: Married Even my Force teammates will be surprised ‘Tami’ and ‘shy’ would ever be in the same sen- Urbana, class of 1998 Orientation: Gay to know … “That one of my biggest Team USA tence, if my teammates were talking about me.” Years on Force: Three At Rich Central High School: Played volleyball, sponsors outside of my family is a German cou- Positions: Wide receiver and defensive end softball, basketball, and competed on the gym- ple who live in Berlin. Dagmar and Paul have Brandy Hatcher On making Team USA: “It is the highest honor nastics team. been family friends for decades through a high Age: 27 an athlete can achieve in any sport, and I’m Years on Force: Seven school exchange program in my hometown. I’m Lives in: Andersonville grateful to be associated with such an amazing, Position: Defensive line lucky enough to have support all across the Relationship status: Single inspiring group of female athletes and coaches.” On making Team USA: “This is an amazing world, and thus, our game against Germany on Orientation: Lesbian Greatest personal sports moment: Winning a honor. Having participated in the tournament in July 4 is even more special.” Sports background: Competed in high school Big Ten championship.” 2010, I look forward to sharing this experience track & field, and bowling Favorite sport (beside football): Basketball with all of the new players, as well as the re- Sami Grisafe Years on Force: Four Favorite pro athlete: Walter Payton turning players. I anticipate bringing home the Age: 28 Position: Running back Cubs or White Sox: Cubs gold again.” Lives in: Evanston On making Team USA: “I successfully tricked Greatest personal sports moment: “Has not Relationship status: Single them into letting me on the team, now I just Jeanette Gray happened yet; it will be celebrating after the Orientation: Lesbian have to trick the world into thinking I deserve Age: 32 Chicago Force wins the 2013 WFA Champion- Sporting background: Was, in 2000, the first it.” Lives in: Highland, Ind. ship.” girl in California to play quarterback in a varsity Greatest personal sports moment: “Making Relationship status: In a Relationship Favorite sport (beside football): Basketball Division I high school football game. 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