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The Circles of Sexuality The Circles of Sexuality Sexuality encompasses nearly every aspect of our being, from attitudes and values to feelings and experiences. It is influenced by the individual, family, culture, religion/spirituality, laws, professions, institutions, science and politics. Sensuality involves our level of Sexualization involves how we use our awareness, acceptance and sexuality and may include manipulating or enjoyment of your own or others’ controlling others. Its components are bodies. media images/messages, flirting, Sensuality seduction, withholding sex, sexual Skin hunger harassment, incest and rape. Aural/visual stimuli Sexual response cycle Intimacy is the degree to Body image which we express and Fantasy Sexualization Intimacy have a need for Caring closeness with another Flirting person. Its components Sharing Media messages/images are caring, sharing, Seduction Loving/liking liking/loving, trust, vulnerability, self- Withholding sex Risk taking Vulnerability disclosure and emotional Sexual harassment risk taking. Incest Self disclosure Values Trust Rape Values Sexual Health Sexual Identity & Reproduction Biological gender Sexual behavior Gender identity Anatomy & physiology Gender role Sexual/reproductive systems Sexual orientation Contraception/abortion Sexually transmitted Sexual identity is how we perceive ourselves as a sexual being. Its infections components are biological gender, gender identity, gender role and sexual orientation. Sexual health and reproduction relates to attitudes and behaviors toward our health and the consequences of sexual activity. Its components are behavior, anatomy and physiology, sexually transmitted infection, contraception and abortion (spontaneous or induced). Adapted from a model designed by Dennis Dailey, PhD.Used with permission..
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