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“This terrible war underlines our Danon decried “the use of chem- main imperative– we will always ical weapons and the appalling mur- defend ourselves with our own der of innocent children,” calling the strength, against any enemy and any attack “evil incarnate.” threat,” he said. He called on the UN Security See ad on page 45 Israel’s Ambassador to the Unit- Council to “use all its authority to ed Nations Danny Danon also strong- put an end to the situation in Syria.” ly condemned the attack, as a result of “The world must not remain si- which roughly 100 people were report- ed killed and hundreds more injured. CONTINUED ON P. 7 The Bayit Will Host A Syrian doctor treats a child at a makeshift hospital in the town of Khan Call Dr. Donath at: Sheikhoun, northern Idlib province, Syria. Over 400 Seder Guests 914-259-8103 (CREDIT: DLIB MEDIA CENTER, VIA AP) By Yael Manor-Oshinsky See ad on page 3 By JLBWC Staff whatsoever for the deliberate at- tacks on civilians and on children, Passover is almost here. We Prime Minister Benjamin Net- especially with cruel and outlawed prepare weeks in advance for anyahu “sharply condemned” the chemical weapons,” he said in Eng- one of the highlights in the Jew- chemical weapons attack in Syr- lish at a memorial service for presi- ish calendar year. We scrub, we ia’s Idlib province on Tuesday and dent Chaim Herzog. “I call on the in- clean, we wash, we shine, we called on the international commu- ternational community to fulfill its sweep, we vacuum, we kasher, nity to complete the process of re- obligation from 2013 to fully and fi- we shop, we cook and then we moving all of Syria’s chemical weap- nally remove these horrible weap- celebrate… ons stockpiles. ons from Syria.” But for some, the pre-Pass- “When I saw pictures of babies Netanyahu also said the lack over days do not always go as table, lost a loved one, got in- suffocating from a chemical attack of action proved the international planned. Life happens and one jured or incapacitated or if you See ad on page 31 in Syria, I was shocked and out- community was not to be trusted to finds him/herself in a differ- just don’t feel like spending the raged. There’s no, none, no excuse come to Israel’s aid. ent situation than expected. Seder on your own—join us at Whether you’ve recently moved the Bayit! to Riverdale, have family visit- For almost 25 years, the HIR Schools ing for chag and do not have the Bi-Cultural Honors space to host all of them at your CONTINUED ON P. 10 Community Leaders See our Stamford’s Effort to 4 page Attract Modern Orthodox centerfold! Couples Pays Off By JLBWC Staff
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UNESCO Chief: ‘Jerusalem Is ence of the European Coalition for Israel, a Columbia University Student tion, to reject the addition of a question on the Capital of King David’ grassroots Christian initiative. Council Overwhelmingly BDS to a campus-wide referendum. (JNS.org) UNESCO Director-General Iri- “To deny, conceal or erase any of the Rejects BDS Resolution The BDS resolution was initiated by an- na Bokova has rebuffed attempts by the Jewish, Christian and Muslim traditions (JNS.org) Columbia University’s stu- ti-Israel student group Columbia Universi- U.N. cultural body to deny a historic Jewish undermines the integrity of the site, and dent council this week overwhelming- ty Apartheid Divest (CUAD) and was debated connection to Jerusalem. runs counter to the reasons that justifies its by the student council for almost four hours. “In the Torah, Jerusalem is the capital of inscription in the UNESCO World Heritage The school’s public safety officers stood guard King David, where Solomon built the Tem- List,” she added. outside the contentious meeting. ple and placed the Ark of the Covenant,” Bokova’s comments represent a sharp More than 120 people attended the stu- Bokova said last week at the policy confer- contrast to previous statements and reso- dent council meeting, which included pres- lutions issued by the U.N. agency. In Octo- entations by representatives from CUAD, ber 2016, UNESCO passed two controver- Students Supporting Israel, Students for sial resolutions condemning Israeli actions Justice in Palestine and Jewish Voice for at Jerusalem’s holy sites as well as ignoring Peace, among others. Jewish ties to the Temple Mount and the Opponents of the BDS resolution said it Western Wall. gratuitously divided the student body, and Yet in a meeting last month with World that its use of the word “apartheid” to de- Jewish Congress President Ronald Lauder, The Columbia University campus scribe Israel misled students. U.N. Secretary-General Antonio Guterres re- (CREDIT: WIKIMEDIA COMMONS) affirmed his recognition of Judaism’s histor- Conference of Presidents ic ties to Jerusalem and the Temple Mount. ly voted down a resolution that would Leaders Meet With Newly Before March’s remarks, the U.N. chief had have given the school’s entire student Elected DNC Chair Tom Perez said on Israeli radio, “It is completely clear body an opportunity to express support (COPMJO release) The Conference of UNESCO Director-General Irina Bokova the Temple that the Romans destroyed in for the anti-Israel BDS movement. Presidents of Major American Jewish Or- (CREDIT: UNESCO/MICHEL RAVASSARD) Jerusalem was a Jewish temple.” The council voted 26-5, with one absten- ganizations hosted newly elected Chair of the Democratic National Committee (DNC) Tom Perez at a meeting of leaders of mem- ber organizations of the conference. Chair- man Perez emphasized the Democratic par- ty’s strong commitment to maintain the overwhelming bipartisan support for the special relationship between the U.S. and Israel and to Israel’s enduring safety and se- curity. He spoke of his own personal con- nection to Israel and the Jewish people and recalled the deep impact visiting Israel had on him. He sharply condemned efforts by the BDS movement to isolate, undermine ÂÂ CONTINUED ON P. 7 JEWISH LINK BRONX, WESTCHESTER & CONNECTICUT TABLE OF CONTENTS World Newsbriefs...... Pages 4 & 7
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CONTINUED FROM P. 4 sumes the body’s presidency this month. bash Israel or lift up the Palestinian Au- “So much has been put toward Isra- thority until we can get these negotiations Israeli Leaders: ‘World and delegitimize the State of Israel and as- el and the Palestinian Authority and not to happen. And I do think that the discus- Cannot Remain Silent sured the leaders that he would remain en- enough has been put toward some of the sions that have happened at the U.N. have After Syrian Massacre’ gaged in the fight against anti-Semitism. other issues,” Haley said at a press confer- been more of a hindrance toward the peace CONTINUED FROM P. 1 Commenting on the meeting, Stephen ence Monday, noting that she will focus an process than it’s been a help, because it’s M. Greenberg, chairman, and Malcolm caused defensiveness to happen,” she said lent in the face of crimes against human- Hoenlein, executive vice chairman/CEO, ity. The international community should said, “The Conference of Presidents wel- Trump Meets Jordan’s act immediately to stop the ongoing mas- comed the opportunity to host Chairman King Abdullah Amid Talk of sacre of civilians,” he said. Perez at this early stage of his tenure as Regional Peace Initiative Danon’s statements came as the US, chair of the DNC. It was important for the (JNS.org) Jordan’s King Abdullah II meets Britain and France on Tuesday proposed conference leadership to hear directly from with President Donald Trump at the White a United Nations Security Council reso- Chairman Perez that the Democratic party House Wednesday, following an Arab summit lution to condemn the attack, which the is firmly committed to the longstanding bi- hosted in the Hashemite kingdom last week countries blamed on Syrian President partisan U.S. support for Israel. ” and amid talk of a new regional peace initia- Bashar al-Assad’s forces. Chairman Perez said, “Throughout our U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations Nikki tive headed by the Trump administration. “Israel was right these past six years in nation’s history, the Jewish community Haley, who is president of the world body’s Trump and Abdullah are expected to not getting militarily involved in the Syrian has fought for civil and human rights and Security Council for April, is pictured during discuss the Arab consensus on the Middle conflict,” said Israel’s Deputy Foreign Min- values, stood up to hate and fought for an the council’s recent meeting on the Darfur East peace process as well as the possibili- ister Tzipi Hotovely. “Nevertheless, the sit- America that lives up to its founding princi- region of Sudan. ty of convening Israel, the Palestinians and uation in Syria requires action in the dip- ples of equality and opportunity. So in the (CREDIT: UN PHOTO/RICK BAJORNAS) Arab leaders from Jordan, Egypt and the lomatic arena. Israel can engage with its Democratic party, the Jewish community Gulf states for a U.S.-backed regional sum- friends in the world to work towards put- will always have a place at the table and a April 20 Security Council debate around is- mit this summer. ting a stop to these atrocities. Israel doesn’t voice in our future. Embedded in that com- sues such as Iran’s support for terrorism, Wednesday marks the second meet- turn its back on the wounded in Syria. We mitment is an understanding that Israel’s Syria, Hezbollah and Hamas. ing between the American and Jordanian have treated and continue to treat wound- security and an active pursuit of peace in “That is our goal for the Middle East— heads of state since Trump took office in ed Syrian children in Israeli hospitals.” the Middle East through a lasting two-state open debate,” she said. January, and comes after the U.S. president According to Reuters, the draft of the solution is the responsibility of every lead- Each month, a member of the 15-coun- met Monday with Egyptian President Ab- resolution calls on the Syrian government er in the U.S.—left, right and center.” try Security Council assumes control as del Fattah El-Sisi. Additionally, Trump will to provide an international investigation president of the agency. meet with Palestinian Authority President with information about flight plans around UN Envoy Haley to Refocus Haley also said she has warned Pales- Mahmoud Abbas later this month. the time of the attack, helicopter squadron Security Council Away From tinian Authority U.N. representative Ri- During their previous meeting in Febru- commanders and air bases believed to be Israeli-Palestinian Conflict yad Mansour that the U.S. will block any ary, Abdullah and Trump had discussed “Jor- linked to chemical attacks. It “expresses (JNS.org) U.S. Ambassador to the United Arab-sponsored motions targeting Israel, dan’s critical contributions to defeating ISIS its outrage that individuals continue to be Nations Nikki Haley announced she will re- while also calling on the Palestinians to and “the possibility of establishing safe zones killed and injured by chemical weapons in focus the U.N. Security Council away from show “genuine willingness” to return to in Syria,” according to a readout provided by the Syrian Arab Republic, and expresses its the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, and instead the negotiating table with the Jewish state. the White House. 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718-564-6710 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBWC.COM April 6, 2017 • 10 Nisan, 5777 7 7 8 EDITORIAL JEWISH LINK A Chag Pesach Kasher V’Sameach BRONX, WESTCHESTER & CONNECTICUT Co-Founders/Co-Publishers We know there’s a great deal happening Sometimes the news has been difficult, When we get together at our Seder ta- David Winter in this complicated world. such as the spike in anti-Semitic acts we’ve bles Monday and Tuesday nights, we’ll be Moshe Kinderlehrer Mark (Mendy) Schwartz Approaching Passover, we want to witnessed this year. Particularly disheart- with our families and friends, telling the thank you for opening these pages, patron- ening have been the threats to our local story of our exodus and freedom from Associate Publisher/Editor izing our loyal advertisers and seeing your JCCs and vandalism at Jewish cemeteries, Mitzrayim, our bondage. Elizabeth Kratz synagogues, schools, sports teams, Jewish both of which made national headlines. We wish for all of our readers and ad- Founding Partner, leaders, Jewish organizations and, most im- But sometimes that news can be encour- vertisers, our friends, our critics, our letter Jewish Link Design Group portantly, yourselves from the front page aging, especially when we hear people writers, our Facebook followers—every- Adam Negnewitzky all the way through The Jewish Link. such as U.S. Ambassador to the United Na- one–, that they should find themselves free Senior Editors We’ve spent the year with you since tions Nikki Haley tell 18,000 AIPAC attend- from their own personal chametz, and that Tamar Weinberg last Pesach experiencing news and events ees recently that there’s a “new sheriff in this year’s Pesach should answer every im- Jill Kirsch as wide-ranging as the nation’s presidential town” when referring to efforts to de-le- portant question with new meaning and Associate Editor election to stories covering acts of chesed gitimize Israel. We are appreciative of our possibilities. Phil Jacobs from organizations like SINAI Schools, elected representatives who consider the From our families to yours, we wish Advertising Director Project Ezrah, Tomchei Shabbos, Renewal, protection of Israel as one of their biggest you a wonderful, meaningful chag kasher Yaakov Serle Chai Lifeline and countless others. priorities. v’sameach! Production Editor Jennifer Hoffer FROM THE DESK OF AN 18-YEAR-OLD YESHIVA STUDENT Office Manager Dena Kinderlehrer Bookkeeper L’Shana HaBet B’Yerushalayim? Gila Negnewitzky Sales Development By Ezra Epstein at that point think to themselves, perhaps not really relevant to the quality of his ten- Ken Goffstein subconsciously, “I guess I’ll always have ure in yeshiva. Instead, this guy has decid- Sales Representatives Over the past several decades, it has be- next year. Why work now?” This can se- ed that he is going to live in Israel, maybe come the norm in most Modern Orthodox verely cripple one’s growth during his first for the rest of his life. In fact, I have heard Josh Bernstein communities for high school graduates to year. from one person, and I am sure that there Risa Lefkowitz Rachel Ashendorf study in Israel for a year at yeshiva or sem- 3. The Treasure Hunter are others, who claimed at the very begin- Avi Koenig inary. This remains the case, with a slight Watch out for this one. This is the guy ning of his first year in yeshiva that he had Simon Worman modification: yeshivas are now pushing who was “looking for something” during “made aliyah.” (A discussion of the prac- the standardization of two years of study in his first year in Israel, but he just didn’t ticality of such a decision is beyond the Database Coordinator Moishie Rosenberg Israel, the second year being more popular- quite find it—whatever that mysterious, scope of this article.) Often, such a person ly known as “Shana Bet.” (As of now, this is unidentifiable “thing” was. Usually, he is is without a plan in this regard. So he plays Sports Editor not the case with women’s seminaries. To guilty of not spelling out specific goals for it safe and stays in yeshiva for another year. Steve Gutlove my knowledge, many or most seminaries what he wants to get out of yeshiva. So, in- 6. The Conformist Proofreader/Copy Editors do not have a second-year program, and the stead of actually facing reality, this poor guy At many yeshivas, both teachers and Rivky Bergstein ones that do contain few students.) spends another year of his life in a cloud peers pressure students into coming back Ruth Brody There is often a fair deal of pressure and of confusion, hoping that he will someday to Israel for a second year. They may use Contributors confusion involved with this decision, es- find what he is “looking for.” scare tactics (see “The Relapse Preventer”), Rachel Berger • Shneur Garb pecially at this time of the year. I hope this For advice on how to clearly map out or just an avalanche of peer pressure. Jenny Gans • Sara Linder article provides an opportunity for first- your goals for yeshiva, please see my I wasn’t even aware that such a phe- Josh Warhit • Rachel Retter year yeshiva students who are reading this last article, “How (Not) to Ruin Your Year nomenon existed until one of my friends Rabbi Gidon Rothstein • Rabbi David Walk article in the safety of their living rooms, in Israel.” (http://jewishlinknj.com/fea- pointed this out to me. This friend stud- The Jewish Link of Bronx, Westchester & Connecticut having come home for bein hazmanim, tures/17688-from-the-desk-of-an-18-year-old- ies at a hesder yeshiva, where this predic- PO Box 1027 to sit and weigh the advantages and disad- yeshiva-student-how-not-to-ruin-your-year- ament seems to be more prevalent since a Bronx, NY 10471 vantages of returning to Israel for a second in-israel) large number of American hesder students Phone: 718-564-6710 year, without the noise of their rabbis and 4. The Relapse Preventer usually return for a second year. This friend Email: [email protected] fellow students. I find this person to have the most told me that in his yeshiva, somebody who Advertising: [email protected] I have compiled a list of the most com- frustrating reason for coming back to ye- doesn’t come back is regarded as a failure, Subscriptions/Home Delivery: mon reasons I am aware of as to why ye- shiva for a second year. This guy gained a a dropout. [email protected] shiva students return to Israel for a second lot in yeshiva, and he has been genuinely However, the hesder yeshivas aren’t The Jewish Link of Bronx, Westchester & Connecticut, an independent publication, promotes honest and rigorous conversations about Juda- year of study. Most people will come back changed by the experience. However, he the only guilty ones. One of my friends at- ism, Israel and issues aff ecting our community. The opinions refl ect- for more than one of these reasons, but to fears that one year of yeshiva is not enough tended a meeting with a rabbi to discuss ed in articles from our contributors do not necessarily refl ect JLBWC’s positions, and publishing them does not constitute an endorsement make this more fun, I have characterized to prevent him from returning to his previ- the possibility of coming back. This would from JLBWC. We simply off er food for thought. We reserve the right each reason and given it a name. They are: ous habits once back home. Therefore, he have been fine had the meeting not been to accept or refuse submissions and edit for content and length. We also reserve the right to refuse advertising that in our opinion does not 1. The Shteiger grounds himself in a safe yeshiva environ- scheduled, without warning, by the rabbi. refl ect the standards of the newspaper. We are not responsible for the Many people return to yeshiva for good ment, where he hopes that time will be his But it doesn’t stop there. One of my Brit- kashrus of any product advertised in the Jewish Link of Bronx, West- chester & Connecticut. reasons. These highly motivated young friend and help save him from such an out- ish friends told me that an extra year in Is- men learn seriously throughout their come. rael makes all the difference for shiddu- whole first year. After this, they decide that I know that this slightly shifts from the chim in Britain. I wonder if the same can bad thing. Like most other options in life, it they want to come back for more. This is main point of this article, but the follow- be said of America. can be beneficial to some people and det- great, and I think that this should be high- ing must be asked: Is this student’s previ- I’ve even begun to notice a change in rimental to others. The best way to deter- ly encouraged. However, let us not kid our- ous environment so toxic to growth that the wording of some rabbis when they mine whether or not it is the right decision selves into thinking that this is the only he is afraid of going back there? Doesn’t the speak about this. Instead of saying “please for you is to determine the reasons why type of student that exists, as we will see in mere existence of such a person testify to stay,” they will say “please don’t leave,” as if you want to come back. the following examples. the problems of the Modern Orthodox en- we’ve already committed to staying longer. If you are “The Shteiger” or even “The 2. The Do-Over vironment? As my hesder friend said to me, “It’s not a Do-Over,” then these reasons are probably This is the guy who horsed around dur- And if the concern here is not his re- one-year program anymore, Ezra. It’s a two- already pretty clear to you. If you are “The ing his first year and wasted most of his turning to his home, but rather what he year program.” Relapse Preventer” or “The Tzioni,” then time. At some point during the year (may- will encounter in a college campus envi- Now, I don’t want to make the rabbis maybe you should consider other solutions be even at the very end—yikes!) he turned ronment, does this change anything? Isn’t look like the bad guys here. I assume that to the problems you may encounter: in the around and got serious. Now unhappily re- it the job of a self-defining Modern Ortho- all of them have the best intentions for case of the former, think about alternative alizing he spent his year partying and goof- dox community to properly educate him their students. The real question we should ways to retain your updated approach to ing off, he comes back for a second year to to learn how to integrate into a non-Jewish be asking ourselves is why do the rabbis of a Torah lifestyle, and in the case of the lat- make up for what he missed. environment while strongly retaining a To- many yeshivas feel so strongly about Shana ter, start planning out your new life in Isra- Interestingly enough, I suspect that not rah-observant Jewish identity, not the job Bet? On average, parents and students do el, but don’t come back to yeshiva just to all “Do-Over”s are even conscious of this. I of a yeshiva? not seem to feel the same way. Perhaps I avoid planning your future. imagine that many of them actually change Think about it. will discuss this in another article. If you are “The Treasure Hunter” then their attitude from a passive one to a seri- 5. The Tzioni With that, I will say this. Shana Bet is ous one much earlier on in the year, but This person’s reason for coming back is simply an option, not an inherently good or CONTINUED ON P. 23 8 April 6, 2017 • 10 Nisan, 5777 718-564-6710 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBWC.COM 8 9 ANALYSIS AIPAC Conference Is an Exercise in Managing Reality
By Jacob Kamaras/JNS.org mitted to finding an “equitable and just trations, Michael Singh—managing direc- to be filled out,” such as the president’s pol- solution” to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict tor at The Washington Institute for Near icies toward Syria, Iraq and Iran. WASHINGTON—In recent years, the and “will call our enemies by their name”— East Policy and the George W. Bush ad- Although Trump’s proposed foreign aid AIPAC lobby’s policy conferences have referring to radical Islamic terrorists. ministration’s senior director for Middle budget cuts will reportedly not affect Isra- centered on hot-button issues such as The vice president also vowed the ad- East affairs at the National Security Coun- el, “that means they’re cutting from Jordan the emerging and later finalized Iran nu- ministration would “hunt down and de- cil—said he has three pieces of advice and Egypt” if any significant savings are to clear deal, tension between the Obama stroy ISIS (Islamic State) at its source” and for Trump: counter Iran, because Islamic be had, and cutting U.S. aid to those peace- administration and Israel, Prime Min- “stand strong in the face of the leading state State has emerged in an environment of ful Arab neighbors will not be in Israel’s in- ister Benjamin Netanyahu’s controver- sponsor of terrorism,” Iran. instability that Iran has helped create; re- terest, Shapiro said. sial speech to Congress, and the surpris- “This administration has put Iran on build America’s relationships with allies Former British Prime Minister Tony ing rise of candidate and now President notice… Under President Donald Trump, like Israel, Egypt and Jordan; and pay at- Blair, who also served as special envoy of Donald Trump. the United States of America will not allow tention to political and economic reform the Quartet on the Middle East and still For the 2017 iteration of arguably the Iran to develop a nuclear weapon,” he add- in the region. works in the region through his Tony Blair world’s largest annual pro-Israel gathering, ed. “We can’t only counter one and not the Faith Foundation, at a plenary session said the issues remained sensitive, but reality other if we’re to bring some stability to the a better future for the Middle East means set in. The Iran deal and a Trump presiden- Advice for Trump region,” Singh said of the Iranian and Islam- setting priorities not just based on the re- cy have become facts of life, albeit highly While Pence laid out the administra- ic State threats. gional players’ specific interests, but also contested ones. The Obama era has come tion’s view, what do some outside experts At the same session, Obama’s ambas- on broader human values. and gone. believe is the best course of action? sador to Israel, Dan Shapiro, said it is ex- Yet the bottom line, said Blair, is if “you At the AIPAC conferences of the past During a conference breakout session pected the Trump administration will be had a benign regime in Iran, all of the prob- several years, questions on outcomes Sunday featuring former U.S. officials “friends and partners with Israel and the lems in the Middle East would be easier to hovered over the summits: Who will from Republican and Democratic adminis- Gulf states, but there are a lot questions yet resolve.” be the next president? Will world pow- ers and Iran reach a deal? This year, there were questions on implementation: How should Trump handle the chaotic and com- plex Middle East? How can America work to curb Iran’s regional aggression? The PLAYING AN discourse on AIPAC’s flagship issue—the U.S.-Israel relationship and its associated priorities—has shifted from changing or creating reality, to managing reality. ‘Meeting of the Minds’ Although AIPAC sought to foster an en- vironment of bipartisanship and respect of others’ views through its conference tag- line—“Many Voices, One Mission”—Israeli INSTRUMENTAL Ambassador to the U.S. Ron Dermer did not hold back a carefully worded, but clearly in- tended partisan statement. “For the first time in many years, per- haps even many decades, there is no day- light between our two governments,” Dermer said Sunday at the conference’s opening session, presumably referring to his opinion that the Trump presidency has purged the “daylight” that existed between the U.S. and Israel under President Barack Obama. Dermer described February’s White House meeting between Netanyahu and Trump as a “meeting of the minds,” while praising the Trump administration for “fi- nally bringing some moral clarity” to the United Nations. But Dermer made his as- sertions on the current and past adminis- trations without mentioning Trump nor PART IN YOUR SIMCHA... Obama by name. ‘Call Our Enemies by Their Name’ Trump’s presence at last year’s AIPAC All of our customers receive our conference prompted protests before he ut- tered a word, and his eventual speech drew undivided attention and unparalleled condemnation from the lobby after he said professionalism, benefiting from our “yay” at the prospect of Obama’s presiden- cy being in its final year. In 2017, the Trump creativity and years of experience. administration’s top representative at the conference, Vice President Mike Pence, did not elicit similar controversy. Contact us to help you plan an affair Under Trump, “if the world knows you will never forget. nothing else, the world will know this: America stands with Israel,” Pence told the conference’s 18,000 attendees Sunday, ex- plaining that the administration stands with Israel because “her cause is our cause, her values are our values and her fight is our fight.” 718.256.7200 Pence said Trump is “giving serious con- sideration” to moving the U.S. Embassy in ORCHESTRA & PRODUCTIONS aaronteitelbaumproductions.com Israel from Tel Aviv to Jerusalem, is com- 718-564-6710 • WWW.JEWISHLINKBWC.COM April 6, 2017 • 10 Nisan, 5777 9 9 10 COMMUNITY NEWS Malkah Kaplan Dedicates Torah Cover to Lincoln Park JC to Honor Her Husband’s Memory
By Robert Kalfus resentation of the Holy Temple that stood Brak, Israel, where I worked with their in Jerusalem. The small palm tree in the designers to create a fitting and beautiful Yonkers resident Malkah Kaplan pre- lower right corner recalls our many vaca- tribute to the memory of my husband, sented a Torah mantle cover she creat- tions in Tiberias, on the Kinneret (the Sea to whom I was married for 17 years,” said ed to honor the memory of her spouse, of Galilee). Next to the palm tree are the Ms. Kaplan. Dovid Kaplan. “The Torah mantle cover’s Ten Commandments, the foundation and Dovid Kaplan took a military leave many symbols represents aspects of Juda- stability of his life, by whose precepts, of absence from the NYC Police Depart- ism and Jewish observance that were of laws and examples he lived. ment’s Bureau of Criminal Investigation great importance to my husband Dovid, “Dovid often told me that he was una- and enlisted in the U.S. Army on July 18, who owned several large talleisim (prayer ble to stay home to pray because he could 1969, volunteering to serve three years, shawls),” said Ms. Kaplan. “Dovid enjoyed pray best only when he was close to the 1969 to 1972, and served one 12-month wearing large talleisim because he was Torah in the synagogue, so I had this To- tour of duty in Vietnam, July 1, 1970, tall, a large man, who himself was a ko- rah mantle cover created, to honor the through June 30, 1971. Mr. Kaplan was a Yonkers resident Malkah Kaplan presents hen, a member of the family of priests de- Torah and to be in the place he loved the Vietnam veteran, a member of the Jew- a custom Torah cover to the Lincoln Park scended from the family of Aaron, broth- most, his synagogue, the Lincoln Park Jew- ish War Veterans of the United States of Jewish Center to honor the memory of er of Moses. The prayer shawl motif in ish Center, where we were members for 12 America and a life member of the Dis- her husband, Dovid Kaplan, who lived a the middle represents one of the sever- years,” noted Ms. Kaplan. abled American Veterans. He and his life of Torah and Jewish observance. The al talleisim that he owned and enjoyed “The lovely Torah mantle is complete- wife were married for 17 years, and often Torah cover displays the holy objects that wearing during daily prayer and on Jew- ly custom-made, created at the Tova Em- donated American flags to proudly fly at illuminated the path of his life. ish holidays. On top of the tallit is a rep- broidery Company in the city of Bnei the Lincoln Park Jewish Center. (CREDIT: ROBERT KALFUS)
The Bayit to Greet Over fast closing, another door is opened—at nights. Please come—and bring fam- The Hebrew Institute of Riverdale—The Bayit—is an open 400 Seder Guests the Bayit! The Bayit opens its doors to ily and friends!” Orthodox synagogue serving the entire Jewish community by CONTINUED FROM P. 1 over 400 guests each year, regardless of This year’s Seders will take place on warmly embracing all Jews, regardless of affiliation, commit- age, geographical origin, denomination Monday night, April 10, and Tuesday night, ment, orientation or background. It is affectionately known as (Hebrew Institute of Riverdale) has been or affiliation. April 11, at 8:15 p.m. HIR gratefully acknowl- the “Bayit,” which is a home, a place of love and welcome. The hosting annual free Passover Seders on Rabbi Steven Exler, Senior Rab- edges the UJA Federation of New York, local HIR is known nationally for bringing spirituality into the syna- both the first and second nights of Pass- bi of the Hebrew Institute of River- community members and people nation- gogue; activism; youth and teen engagement; learning pro- over. The HIR, fondly known as “the Bay- dale says, “The Seder nights are the wide for their generous support of HIR’s grams; and work on behalf of the elderly, the homebound and it” or “home,” places values of openness cornerstone of our Jewish identity Seder program. those developmentally and physically challenged. It is located and welcoming at the forefront of its and value inclusion of all. The seders To register for one of the Seders, con- at 3700 Henry Hudson Parkway, Bronx, NY 10463. identity and mission. are enriched by the diversity of peo- tact the Bayit office at 718-796-4730. To learn Yael Manor-Oshinsky is the Program Associate at the Hebrew
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Bi-Cultural Honors ecutive director of the Federation for which she was instrumental in restruc- of the American Alliance for Health, Community Leaders Jewish Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield turing. Ms. Fuchs is also an active volun- Physical, Recreation and Dance, a na- CONTINUED FROM P. 1 County. teer with the Make-A-Wish Foundation tional organization that provides as- The daughter of Rabbi Stanley and and the Hospice of Fairfield County or- sistance and support for teaching pro- School (BCDS) Celebration Dinner, to Resa Davids, she attended Heritage ganization, and is currently co-chair of fessionals. Mr. Nolan’s teaching skills be held Sunday evening, May 21, at the Academy, a Jewish day school in Long- the Westhill High School Governance extend beyond the BCDS classroom Hilton Stamford Hotel. meadow, Massachusetts. “I sought the Council. Professionally, Fuchs books all the way to the golf course, where The Stamford school will recognize same community and foundation for events for two entertainment compa- he is involved with the New York Spe- Shoshana Dweck as the dinner’s guest of my children,” she said. nies. She and her husband, Greg, are the cial Olympic golf program. A resident honor. In addition, the school will pres- Ms. Dweck got more than she bar- parents of four boys: one BCDS alum of Hawthorne, New York, Joe Nealon ent Jenny Fuchs with its Young Leader- gained for. and three current BCDS students. and his wife, Melinda, are the parents ship Award, Rachel Rothman with its “I learned from BCDS, just as my Community Service Award recip- of 2-year-old Luke, who attends the Community Service Award and Rabbi children did,” she said. “My favor- ient Rachel Rothman comes from a BCDS nursery. Harold Tzvi Bernstein with its Alumni ite part of Jewish communal work is BCDS family. A 2002 graduate of the Rabbi Harold Tzvi Bernstein’s ties Award. The gala evening will also hon- when an organization is involved in school, both her sister and brother also to BCDS run deep. The recipient of the or physical education teacher and ath- transformational change. BCDS is al- attended the school, and her father, 2017 Alumni Award, Bernstein is him- letics program coordinator “Coach” Joe ways making sure that it is changing, Howard Rothman, is a member of its self the parent of three BCDS alumni. In Nealon with the school’s Jane Shoztic growing, evolving and meeting the board of directors. In 2004, she com- addition to teaching Judaic studies in Memorial Ward. needs of our children today and into peted in the JCC Maccabi Games held the BCDS middle school, as well as co- A resident of Armonk, New York, the future.” in Boston and later served as a Maccabi ordinating the school’s adult education the dinner’s guest of honor, Shosha- A graduate of the University of Vir- Games coach and assistant delegation programs, in 2015 Rabbi Bernstein was na Dweck, is the parent of three BCDS ginia School of Law and Tufts Univer- head. Last year, she served as director appointed dean of Bi-Cultural, in which alumni—a fact she credits with drawing sity College of Engineering, Ms. Dweck of the JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest capacity he directs the school’s develop- her close to the Stamford Jewish com- previously worked as an attorney in in Stamford. In 2010, she earned a de- ment efforts and provides input regard- munity. A member of the BCDS board New York at Skadden, Arps, Slate, Mea- gree in marketing from the University ing its educational and religious pro- of trustees, she is also a past president gher and Flom and then at Morrison & of Wisconsin at Madison and, in 2013, grams. A lifelong resident of Stamford, and current treasurer of United Jewish Foerster. Today, she focuses her ener- an MBA from New York University’s Rabbi Bernstein and his wife, Darona, Federation (UJF) of Greater Stamford, gies on Jewish not-for-profit work and Stern School of Business. Profession- are both past-presidents of Congrega- New Canaan and Darien, and a member on raising her three teenage children. ally, she is a marketing manager with tion Agudath Shalom. He is also a past of Temple Sinai in Stamford. In 2006, Young Leadership Award recipi- BlueLine Grid, Inc. board and executive member of BCDS, BCDS nominated Dweck to attend the ent Jenny Fuchs has been active in Joe Nealon, the recipient of the Yeshiva Bais Binyomin and the Stam- UJF Behrend Institute for Leadership, the Stamford Jewish community ever 2017 Jane Shoztic Memorial Award, ford JCC. A graduate of Yeshiva Univer- from which she graduated in 2007. since returning to her hometown 16 has taught physical fitness at BCDS sity, Rabbi Bernstein earned a law de- Ms. Dweck is actively involved in a years ago. A past member of the Stam- since 2005. In addition, Mr. Nealon gree from Cardozo School of Law and wide range of Jewish organizations in- ford Jewish Community Center (JCC) also coordinates BCDS after-school his rabbinic ordination from YU’s Rabbi cluding, among others, United Israel board of directors, she served as presi- classes and athletic programs. A grad- Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary. Appeal, ARZA (Association of Reform Zi- dent of both the JCC Sara Walker Nurs- uate of Duquesne University, he holds He is currently completing a masters onists of America), Women of Reform ery School Steering Committee and The a graduate degree in physical educa- degree in Jewish Education from YU’s Judaism and the World Jewish Con- Center Women. At BCDS, she served as tion and sports pedagogy from Man- Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Edu- gress. In 2016, she served as interim ex- co-president of the Parent’s Association, hattanville College. He is a member cation and Administration.
Please join us at the Bi-Cultural Day School CELEBRATIONCELEBRATION DINNERDINNER May 21, 2017 5:30 PM YOM HASHOAH SEDER Hilton Stamford Hotel 7:00 PM | APRIL 24TH 2017 HONORING SHOSHANA DWECK Guest of Honor If We Do Not Remember, Who Will JENNY FUCHS Young Leadership Award Join us for our annual Yom HaShoah/Holocaust COACH JOE NEALON Jane Shoztic Memorial Award Memorial Seder, where young and old join RACHEL ROTHMAN Community Service Award with Survivors and their families RABBI HAROLD TZVI BERNSTEIN Alumni Award to re-tell the experiences of the Holocaust. Register online to save time at the door: BUFFET DINNER | PROGRAM | DANCING | DESSERT www.thebayit.org/yomhashoah
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