Written by:
Rob van Oosten Hondsdrafstraat 1 1441 PB Purmerend The Netherlands
E – Mail : [email protected]
© R. van Oosten
1 Introduction.
When I was in training to become a teacher ( In the Netherlands that’s the Teachers Training College ) there was an advertisement for Counselors in the United States. Together with my friend Raymond we applied and after a sollicitation talk and the approval of our college we were allowed to go . Working in a summer camp for about 9 weeks and a round trip for 4 weeks. At that time I was 19 years old and did not spend such a long time away from home. I went to several European countries with my parents and was on a holiday in France with another friend ( for a month) the year before. My parents and girl friend ( Gerda to whom I ‘m married ) did not really like the idea but did not stop me.
The experience of working in Camp Hurley is one I will never forget. It was a long and hard summer and I lost beside the sweat also a lot of weight. It was a period in which I foumd out that working together is not as easy as it seems to be, working with children can be difficult and it means that you have to invest in yourself and others. So to work in Camp Hurley with these difficult kids has been fundamental in my life. Every year, maybe every month I think about that period and I tried to go back there 6 years ago. I then found out that the camp did not exist anymore. By using a Bullitin Board (http://www.brooklynonline.com/ ) I made contact with Bill Mason and after the opening of the Hurley (http://www.geocities.com/camphurley/home.html home page I found back some counselors of the same period.
I started to make a translation of my diaries ( I made two: one for Gerda and one for my parents ) and made a new combination in this translation. I added some suggestions from Steve Weisman ( a former counselor) and finished it in July 2001.
Today I am a Vice Principal of a school for Special Education ( Children with Severe Behaviour and Learning problems such as A.D.H.D. and Dyslexia).
In the near future I will add some more pages to this diary. If you are interested just give me an e-mail ([email protected]) . If you have suggstions or comments please let me know.
I hope you like reading this diary and that it brings back the good memories of Camp Hurley which was in my eyes an exceptional and educational camp both for children as for staff.
Take care
Rob van Oosten.
Some of the photo’ s come from the Hurley home page. Others were made in the summer of 1974.
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This is a translation of my diary which I kept during the summer of 1974. It started on Sunday , June 16 and goes on to September, 27 of that year. This part is telling the story of working in Camp Hurley for the period 21 June - 29 august.
Departure from Amersfoort on Sunday June 16 from left to right : my mother, Jose and Raymond, Rob and Gerda.
Tuesday June 18 : New York
There are a lot of Camp directors in the Tower Hotel, our two day conference is coming to an end and everybody is having interviews (soliciting for a job). My first interview was with Morris, and he was asking a lot of things about my background and experience. But he’s also telling a story of a young and progressive Camp which is different from the other camps because of it’s goals and population. It is based on a socialist philosophy. Tomorrow I’m going to have a second interview with him in a learning center. ( United Community Centers).
Wednesday June 19
The U.C.C. owns and operates this camp and they do have their own children learning center ( for children in the age 3 –5 ) in the East New York section of Brooklyn. (Now called the Morris L. Eisenstein Childrens Learning Center)
3 After a tour and more information we had a second interview, there were some more counselors, also from Holland and other European countries.
The directions for working are: it’s multi- cultural and non-sectarian there are many deprived children there is a majority of non – white children you have to learn the children to work together teach the children respect for nature so it’s gone be a challenging period!!
Thursday June 20
They want me to work at Hurley, That’s great. This evening I have to go to the address of an American counselor, because we’re going to the camp on Friday.
Friday June 21
Marla Kleine, Alan Singer and Morris Eisenstein
We left the apartment this morning at around nine o’ clock and went to the learning center. There we were loading a yellow school bus and a little van with things for the camp. After a trip ( 4 hours) , because of the traffic in New York we arrived at the camp site. We unloaded all the things and will stay with the counselors in one cabin. And the end of the afternoon we were introduced in the philosophy of the camp. There is a complete book which we are going to read and discuss. In the evening we did some folk- dancing, which really tires you. In the next week we are going to prepare the camp, that means clean the bunks and the woods around and discuss the way of working.
4 This is really serious!! This evening I had a good talk with Bill ……one of the Negro counselors, who told a lot of the discrimination which still exist here. I can’t imagine this is happening at home.
Saturday June 22
Woke up at 7.30 and breakfast at eight. This morning we’re going to discuss the philosophy. But first we did some reading. In the afternoon we walked the camp, the cabins, the lake, the recreation hall and the arts and crafts center.
The lake (Waterfront, before summer started)
After dinner we did some folk-dancing and later on Hank Lowinger was playing his guitar and so I started to learn some songs which we’ re going to sing which the children.
5 These are the songs we did:
Pick a Bale of Cotton Blowing in the wind Down by the riverside Donna, Donna ( On a wagon bound for market..) Go down Moses . Hava Naguila He's got the whole world Keep Your Eyes On The Prize (Labor song) Michael Row Your Boat A Shore Rise and Shine (and give God your glory glory) Sloop John B Sixteen Tons Swing Low , sweet chariot The house of the rising sun Tom Dooley The Times they are changing This land is Your land , this land is my land This Little Light Of Mine The Ink Is Black Un Zee Ma (African freedom song) Where Have All The Flowers Gone We Are Soldiers In The Army (Religious based song)
So we had an evening by the campfire.
Sunday June 23
Rise and shine. At 7.00 o’ clock one of the clock radio’s turned on, so we had to get started. There were pancakes for breakfast( they are different , small but thicker ,and with maple syrup). I really like them. Afterwards I had to work in the kitchen, and clean up.
Than we had our first meeting on the goals of camp and the relation to the philosophy, Morris was leading these discussions and he was very engaged / involved. ( sometimes I got a little scared about the vividness of the discussions). You have to be very aware of the things you’re saying and the meaning of it, because everybody is asking ‘ why’ questions. Some of the discussions were very emotional. The idea is that realization of your situation can make you help to change it, and you play an active role in it. ------You can’t work here on an automatic pilot.----- The class struggle is a hot issue and returning in a lot of discussions, the children who are coming to Hurley don’t have much chance because of their backgrounds and the racial discrimination. Some of the children can’t pay the costs for the camp and they are sponsored by the Union and welfare programs. Money for organizing extra things is not available, and your program must be based on agreement within your group and close to earth.
6 A basic principle is that to survive you need: clothing , food and shelter. After lunch we played volleyball and did some more folk-dancing which is also an important part of the day program, the goals they strive after with the dancing is learning that you can have fun together despite the racial - difference and that it is good to work – dance together ( a kind of integration, and it fostered the concept of respect and appreciation of other peoples cultures) After dinner and doing K.P. – (Kitchen Patrol) we left for Howard Johnson, to catch up with some more new counselors.(from Germany and Denmark and the Netherlands) It was late when we returned to Hurley, so we went to bed straight ahead.
Monday June 24
Is that clock- radio programmed to get us earlier out of bed?? It started early today ; 6.30 a.m. Breakfast this time at 7.00. The new counselors are introduced in the philosophy, and the program director Joe Kling is taking serious part in the talking and his eyes light up. (passionate, but some times single minded). Barbara Leopold and her sister are more quiet and Barbara is tempering the discussions. When I sit there, I realize, you can hear the different viewpoints from the history of the participants. Sometimes it looks that there is no middle of the road. The ideology is based on a socialist vision of the society and I never realized that there was a third way in America. (because of the period of the cold war and the communist prosecution in the fifties by Senator Joseph McCarthy). Some counselors are doubting about staying here, they came overseas with other ideas and are not prepared for this kind of summer camp. I find it a challenge, but some times fatiguing. This evening we did a Russian Ball – Room dance and of course we had a campfire and singing. Hank is doing a simple but good job on that guitar. Late again……
Tuesday June 25
There is a strategy of brain- washing us, ( and it really raining cats and dogs) …. that alarm goes off at 6.00 o’clock !! help.. We took a shower together and went fresh and clean to the breakfast. Today is partly recreational. The school bus is functioning a tour bus but it’s not that comfortable. The surroundings are beautiful, the Ashokan reservoir, Kingston with an old Reformed Dutch church ( built in1646 and rebuilt in 1896 ) some small rivers with hills and a lot of woods. There is a possibility of taking a hike with your group but you have to get enough extra staff and control over the group. I wonder if I can manage that. After returning to Hurley we were sitting in some small groups and discussing the items, be aware of the problems of the children’s community and society. motivate your thoughts, and say what you mean. accept other people/ children and their differences. And see it as an enrichment of the society be constructive be responsible be willing to change yourself. don’t always accept the meaning of the majority, be critical work together ,in harmony with nature learn to work together.
7 These points were discussed with Theo and Hans and some other counselors. It was not an evening outside because of the rain so we stayed in the recreation hall and lit a fire there. So it was past midnight when we found our way back to the bunks.
Next morning housekeeping activities: searching our Laundry from left to right Theo, Hans
Wednesday June 26.
Okey, not to early this morning, house keeping things and activities, and we have to do some things on the camp site. Old wood has to be pulled away and the canoes had to be cleaned and the house near the waterfront needed to be cleared away. So we were outside for a good part off the day and I had a healthy appetite at lunch. It’s merely physical work, and I’m not used to that, but it’s also fun working together. Alan and Hank were instructing on how to use a chain saw, but most of the jobs needs to be done by a two man saw and the end of the morning there were blisters on my hand. After lunch there was a discussion about camp structure and how to deal with the kids in accordance with the ideas of camp. It was a very emotional afternoon, Joe could not keep control of himself and started to shout to some counselors about not being involved and not showing enough involvement and disinterest for the philosophy. At the end Morris was called to bring back the discussions to a more appropriated level. Joe lost a lot of sight with his way of breaking through.!
After dinner there had to be done something about he atmosphere, so we had a folkdance but the tension was felt there too. We went to bed late and many counselors were dissatisfied. I did not sleep well this night, it touched me deeply that people who want to organize a camp for underprivileged children could hurt each other in this way. I don’t know if that is necessary to reach your goals.
8 Thursday June 27 and Friday June 28 ( my 20 th. birthday)
It was rise and shine at an early hour, and after breakfast there was another debate. Two counselors decided that they did n’t want to stay in the camp and they had to leave fast. (There are 15 foreign counselors). At eleven o’ clock Morris made an end to the discussion and called for a hike.
After we ( 28 counselors / staff )packed our Backpacks we left with the bus. We decided to take a short but steeple hike for about three miles. During the walk it started to rain and the bunk (lean-to) where we arrived after the hike was to small for everybody so we had to improvise with canvas and put up another lean-to. It was hard to cook because the wood was very wet. It took some time for dinner and afterwards everybody sat together in the wooden lean-to. We did a lot of singing to get warm that evening. The night was cold and at six we had to rise. After we packed we went back to the bus. It was slippery and wet and it was not without danger. Back in camp everybody was drying up by the fire side. In the afternoon we had some time off in Kingston to do some shopping. I bought a new flashlight and some extra clothing. I also bought a dark grey Hurley shirt. After dinner there was a big surprise for me, the kitchen staff had made a birthday cake with candles for me and my name and happy birthday was written on it with whipped cream in Dutch and English. That evening we really had time for ourselves so I had to write my diaries and some letters for home.
Saturday June 29.
In he morning there was an explanation on how to organize you day program and find some daily point for your week and three week period. In the afternoon there were a lot of volunteers from the community center assisting by preparing the camp. Also some staff members were there. The atmosphere was different, I felt like a foreigner instead of being a part of staff. At the evening there was some dancing and talking but it was not very intimate. Many counselors went to bed early because tomorrow we are going on with preparation.
Sunday June 30.
It’s really raining today and we have to do some painting in the recreation hall.
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I hope it will be dry before the children arrive. It is not certain how many children there are coming and also is uncertain if we have enough staff for all the activities. They don’t want to hire more staff from the World Travel Exchange because of the costs. Perhaps some staff members from the Community Center will assist. There are some rumours that there is not enough money to organize the whole period and pay everybody. I don’t know but it is making people uncertain. In the afternoon the volunteers left and there is still some work to be done. Those two days were really hard working days and I learned a lot about handling tools. In the afternoon I had to work together with Alan and he explained a lot of things to me. In the evening there was a last chance to discuss some things and questioning. Tomorrow we will receive the children, I will have the youngest boys group ( children in the age around 9 or 10 years, and most of them will be for the first time away from home for such a long time and for the first time in a summer camp). I am glad that it’s dry again so perhaps we can go swimming. We’ll see.
Monday July 1
Check your watch, and put it back for an hour, it’s starting.
There is really excitement in camp. The bus arrived much to early, but they are here. After a welcoming word from Morris and Joe the groups were formed and had to bring their luggage to the bunks. Wow, do they have a lot of luggage!!, big trunks.
I have got seven boys, with the next beautiful names:
Donald Rose from Manhattan Cesar Maldonado jr III Bronx Wesley Elliz III Queens Stephan Randolph Bronx James A. Powell Queens Jason Stridiron Bronx Steven Lockett Queens
In the afternoon everybody had to do a swimming test, which they all passed, and we walked the camp. Eating together and passing the food to one another is very difficult, also asking something polite without using a curse is hard for these boys. There is ‘some’ work to do. The goal is to achieve working and playing together . We are going to do our best.
This first evening at our cabin was hard, most of the boys never slept outside and they are making a lot of noise and do a lot of talking. It’s also the excitement and of course it’s a bit thrilling to. So after a few warnings they slowed down and finally turned to sleep. I have to wake up a few boys before I go to sleep because some will wet their bed. Around twelve I went to sleep.
Tuesday July 2
Jason was having an asthmatic attack, I did bring him to the infirmary. Morris said that he was showing off. So he came back to the group.
10 After breakfast and cleaning up we had to make our day program and bring it to Joe.
The Infirmary.
The idea for the day was; Fishing Folk dancing Swimming Collecting wood for the fire And playing on the basketball court The activities took much longer as we were thinking and some times the boys are giving each other names and as a result they start fighting. I really have to discuss with them but also tell them the rules. In the evening we had an extra staff meeting about Independence Day and activities.
Wednesday July 3
During the night we had a lot of rain. So everything was very wet and rain still dripping from the trees. ( My mother says that in the woods it always rains two times and she’s right). We are in the Performance group for tomorrow so we are practicing a dance.
Joe Kling at the water front
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I’ m glad that I have some assistance from the older girls group because to concentrate and dance together is very hard. The day program was swimming in the afternoon and arts and crafts. The boys are not really tired in the evening and I’m telling bed time story’s in English (YES!!)
Thursday July 4 : Independence Day.
We did a lot of practicing today and also the other groups were working hard, but it was very busy and much noise. The older boys group made a special issue of : The Hurley Link, a small newspaper on yellow paper with some information and drawings.
The children did not respect each others performances very much. After a few warnings from Joe and other staff members Morris decided that we could not go on in this atmosphere. He warned everybody that he would stop the show….
And after another 10 minutes he did.
There was a lot of arguing and discussions, but it wouldn’t help. Everybody returned disappointed to their cabins and had to go early to bed. The boys were having a hard time with the discission and could not be convinced that their behavior and also from other groups was the reason of stopping the show.
Their values are so different from mine. They don’t have much respect for each other and if they have the chance than they would fight with each other, that looks the only way to regulate their aggression. They are also fighting to know who is the boss and Cesar and Wesley are in pole position.
Friday July 5.
Because of what happened yesterday the activities for today were simple, first bring back the structure and walk the camp with your group. If they did behave you could do some parts but the mood in the camp was depressed. Joe was coming to the groups and pointed out that their behavior was a serious problem, the children hardly listened to him. In the afternoon we did some playing on the ball field and it brought back some happiness. But at dinner time we had another lecture from Morris regarding Respect and the meaning of Independence Day. The older children could agree with Morris and some groups apologized. I hope that this will help the children to look at them selves and take more responsibility and listen to each other, but sometimes they still react very physical. We are trying to get permission to go on a hike tomorrow with some other groups.
In Hurley there is hardly any news from the outside world but today was told that ; The Watergate affair could seriously force Nixon to resign Our American counselors are very busy with that and some of them are very outspoken about this subject. They want him to leave the White House and call for another election.
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Saturday July 6.
The program director decided that there would be no hike. This is giving a lot of stress and also is the waterfront director ill so we can’t go to the waterfront today. We did some gardening today and we did hide and seek around our cabin. Later on we did some games together with the group of Hans. They don’t play and know soccer here, so we tried to teach them some rules. And Hans was the Goal - Keeper. The educational aspect was brought in by telling that playing by rules is the same as living by rules. But the children do have a very short span of attention and sometimes they really don’t want to listen. At night two of the boys wet their beds. After a cleaning up, which they must do it was again late.
When the children slept the night watch took over so I had some time to go to the dining hall.
I’m very tired of this first week, and also uncertain. I had a long talk with Barbara which really helped me.!! , she is much more experienced and giving me some ideas but also very realistic about the ability to change children during this period. I’m having respect for her way of handling the group and also for her way of reacting to Morris and Joe. She has organized her thoughts and expressing her feelings very sharp.
Tomorrow we are going to try again with new energy.
Sunday July 7
A Sunday morning out in the woods. We did search some wood and did some gardening. In the afternoon we had a snow-cone. The children really loved this and were very enthusiastic. We had to build a campfire for the evening and break some wood. The older group from Alan helped us with the saw and together we build a nice fire. After dinner we played at the field and later we had a nice evening at the fire, with a lot of singing. The children who have been here earlier know a lot of songs and they ask Hank to play it. Some of the songs are sung beautiful, so you got a chill on your arms and feel real warm inside. There was a good spirit his evening. Everybody felt proud and happy.
Monday July 8
Today we made a good start, the boys were very enthusiastic about going fishing. So that was a good idea from Jason. There was enough equipment and so after breakfast and cleaning up the bunk we went to the waterfront. It was nice and warm weather. The boys were fishing and they were really quiet and concentrated for about an hour. Then Cesar spotted some salamanders and together we were searching for more, which we really did find and we also found a turtle. It was fun to talk about having respect for living creatures and the boys really did show respect. This morning went fast and the boys were happy. After lunch we went to the shower. As we were taking a shower, there was an all camp meeting called by Joe and Morris. There were some older groups ( teens) which had misbehaved during the night( going from tent to tent). As a result Morris forced us to walk two by two and pointed out that the rules should be obeyed. He also warned the older groups. He wanted them to be an example for the younger ones and said that the night watch would be more sharp on this kind of incidents.
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After dinner there was still a storm of protest in Camp. The older groups would not accept the rules and found them unfair. There was another meeting with the teens and the arguments seemed reasonable. The rules are brought back to normal procedures.
This evening was on the night watch, because I have a day off tomorrow, I slept in another place (Frog House)
Tuesday July 9
I had my own breakfast without the children and Morris brought me to Kingston. I have to be back in the park at seven. I bought some things, did some shopping and enjoyed the weather. In the early evening I had dinner at a Steak House. A day like this refreshes your energy and helps you to take more distance from the children and their problems.
If you listen to the stories they tell about their background, the neighborhood they live in and the criminality they experience in daily life you understand more about their behavior, but by understanding alone you don’t help them. That’s one of the theme’s at Camp, don’t let things happen to you, you can play an active role in changing your environment. If you look at what happened yesterday from this perspective, the teens did a good job and need to be supported.
Back at Camp Hurley the mailman did bring some post for me. That’s great !!
Wednesday July 10
This morning the boys woke up early and they had a lot to tell about yesterday. The rules for walking two by two were again introduced because of another incident during yesterday. I don’t agree with it but it’s camp rule. I will hear from the other counselors what happened.
We did sit together in front of the cabin when everybody was ready and had a quiet conversation because the bunk next to us (from the group off Beatrice) was still sleeping. They enjoyed the silence and the birds making noises, off course some squirrels were running around and later on we saw a raccoon near the ball field. The boys really wanted to go on a hike and I promised that I would ask again. This morning for the first time in five days the waterfront was open again and everybody wanted to go swimming, so we had an all camp swim which made it very busy down there. We did not get the permission to prepare for a hike but we could make a walk to the bridge. We did walk through the woods and some other staff members came along. Everybody hoped that we could see a deer, so we walked very quiet and hid at a passing point, but nothing happened. Back at the Camp we did have a special meal (I don’t know the name but it was from Israel.) The children did not like it very much but they had to taste it.
In the evening we had another camp fire , it was a wind-still evening and a lot of stars were in the sky, this evening you also could see Venus which I’ve never seen before in Europe and most of the children were really impressed.. The children were really enjoying the night and we stayed out a little longer.
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Thursday July 11.
We had to clean up our cabin and the shower and washroom. We are working within the Theme Freedom for banquet day, that is the end of the first session and we are in the arts and craft department sawing some wooden animals. It’s hard for the children to work with a small - fret saw and I’m happy with the assistance from the counselor and with the help of some older boys. We want to make some horses, a bear, some cows and birds. The boys could make their own choice but it’s hard for them to finish it. When they are busy they want to change the subject, but that’s not possible. They have to learn that they finish on what they started. The motivation is sometimes below zero, but we are helping a lot. Later on we are going to sand paper it and paint it, if possible I want to wax it. For Jason with his asthma this is not a good project so he is working outside and we do support him more. At the evening we had another night with a lot of singing. The boys went to bed early, the older groups were allowed to stay a little longer. The children found it hard to accept this and with some mourning they went to bed. When I told a story as they were laying in bed everything was all-right. I did have some time to work on my diaries and letters, but we also have to fill in some forms about the children’s behavior. ( So….. late again working under the moon- and flashlight.)
Friday July 12
The day started unusual: The Teens organized a strike against Staff, before the Dining Hall they were stopping everybody and nobody could go in for breakfast. They found that staff was not taking them serious and did not listen to their arguments. I found it more a strike against Joe and Morris because they have sharpened the rules for walking two by two. So there was an argument between the counselors and the teens about involvement and the rules in Camp. After some time we were allowed to have breakfast because the younger children did not want to listen to the teens any more and they started running and yelling. There was an agreement that in the morning a group from the teens and from staff would talk things over. So from staff Alan and Hans went to this meeting along with Joe. There were some older girls and boys from the teens and they started negotiations. I took the rest of the morning and the groups were split up, so I had a group of 13 boys.
After lunch there was a meeting in which the arrangement was laid out.