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Introduction to Zohar with Rabbi Roller: Session 2 the Rose Among Thorns
Introduction to Zohar with Rabbi Roller: Session 2 The Rose Among Thorns Genesis 1:1-3 When God began to create heaven and earth—the earth being unformed and void, with darkness over the surface of the deep and a wind from God sweeping over the water—God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light. Rashi: This verse does not say anything except “explain me!” Song of Songs 2:1-3 I am a rose of Sharon, A lily of the valleys. Like a lily among thorns, So is my darling among the maidens. Like an apple tree among trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the youths. I delight to sit in his shade, And his fruit is sweet to my mouth. Mishnah Yadaim 3:5 The Song of Songs and Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) defile the hands. Rabbi Judah says: the Song of Songs defiles the hands, but there is a dispute about Kohelet. Rabbi Yose says: Kohelet does not defile the hands, but there is a dispute about the Song of Songs… Rabbi Akiba said: Far be it! No man in Israel disputed that the Song of Songs [saying] that it does not defile the hands. For the whole world is not as worthy as the day on which the Song of Songs was given to Israel; for all the writings are holy but the Song of Songs is the holy of holies. Zohar 1:1a-b Rabbi Hizkiyah opened, “It is written, as a rose among thorns.” (Song of Songs 2:2) What is the Rose? It is the Congregation of Israel. -
Halachic and Hashkafic Issues in Contemporary Society 91 - Hand Shaking and Seat Switching Ou Israel Center - Summer 2018
5778 - dbhbn ovrct [email protected] 1 sxc HALACHIC AND HASHKAFIC ISSUES IN CONTEMPORARY SOCIETY 91 - HAND SHAKING AND SEAT SWITCHING OU ISRAEL CENTER - SUMMER 2018 A] SHOMER NEGIAH - THE ISSUES • What is the status of the halacha of shemirat negiah - Deoraita or Derabbanan? • What kind of touching does it relate to? What about ‘professional’ touching - medical care, therapies, handshaking? • Which people does it relate to - family, children, same gender? • How does it inpact on sitting close to someone of the opposite gender. Is one required to switch seats? 1. THE WAY WE LIVE NOW: THE ETHICIST. Between the Sexes By RANDY COHEN. OCT. 27, 2002 The courteous and competent real-estate agent I'd just hired to rent my house shocked and offended me when, after we signed our contract, he refused to shake my hand, saying that as an Orthodox Jew he did not touch women. As a feminist, I oppose sex discrimination of all sorts. However, I also support freedom of religious expression. How do I balance these conflicting values? Should I tear up our contract? J.L., New York This culture clash may not allow you to reconcile the values you esteem. Though the agent dealt you only a petty slight, without ill intent, you're entitled to work with someone who will treat you with the dignity and respect he shows his male clients. If this involved only his own person -- adherence to laws concerning diet or dress, for example -- you should of course be tolerant. But his actions directly affect you. And sexism is sexism, even when motivated by religious convictions. -
Wedding Customs „ All Piskei Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita Are Reviewed by Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita
Halachically Speaking Volume 4 l Issue 12 „ Compiled by Rabbi Moishe Dovid Lebovits „ Reviewed by Rabbi Benzion Schiffenbauer Shlita Wedding Customs „ All Piskei Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita are reviewed by Horav Yisroel Belsky Shlita Lag B'omer will be upon us very soon, and for this is because the moon starts getting people have not been at weddings for a while. smaller and it is not a good simon for the Therefore now is a good time to discuss some chosson and kallah.4 Others are not so convinced of the customs which lead up to the wedding that there is a concern and maintain one may and the wedding itself. marry at the end of the month as well.5 Some are only lenient if the chosson is twenty years of When one attends a wedding he sees many age.6 The custom of many is not to be customs which are done.1 For example, concerned about this and marry even at the walking down the aisle with candles, ashes on end of the month.7 Some say even according to the forehead, breaking the plate, and the glass, the stringent opinion one may marry until the the chosson does not have any knots on his twenty-second day of the Hebrew month.8 clothing etc. Long Engagement 4 Chazzon Yeshaya page 139, see Shar Yissochor mamer When an engaged couple decide when they ha’yarchim 2:pages 1-2. 5 Refer to Pischei Teshuva E.H. 64:5, Yehuda Yaleh 2:24, should marry, the wedding date should not be Tirosh V’yitzor 111, Hisoreros Teshuva 1:159, Teshuva 2 too long after their engagement. -
Halachic and Hashkafic Issues in Contemporary Society 24 - Must a Kallah Cover Her Hair - Part 1 Ou Israel Center - Summer 2016
5776 - dbhbn ovrct [email protected] 1 sxc HALACHIC AND HASHKAFIC ISSUES IN CONTEMPORARY SOCIETY 24 - MUST A KALLAH COVER HER HAIR - PART 1 OU ISRAEL CENTER - SUMMER 2016 A] HAIR COVERING FOR MARRIED WOMEN A1] THE TORAH DERIVATION - SOTAH //// v tv Jt«r , t g rpU wv hbpk v tv , t i v«F v sh ng vu 1. jh:v rcsnc The head of the sotah was made ‘paru’a’ in public. What does ‘parua’ mean? ivk htbd atrv hukda ktrah ,ubck itfn 'v,uzck hsf tvrga ,ghke ,t r,ux - grpu 2. oa h"ar Rashi explains the expression ‘para’ to refer to untying the woman’s braids and learns from this that Jewish women must cover their head. How does he get from one to the other? grpu (jh:v rcsnc) unf ubukeu umna vkd,b /vkudn - gurp :h"ar) /o vhneC vmnJk i º«r&vt v´«g rp(h F tU·v g*rp h¬F o ºgv(, t Æv J«n tr³Hu 3. (vatv atr ,t vf:ck ,una Rashi clearly learns that the word ‘parua’ means ‘uncovered’. utk t,ga tuvvs kkfn grpu ch,fsn b"t ruxts kkfn vkguc kg ,utb,vk v,aga unf vsn sdbf vsn vkuubk hfv vk ibhscgsn 4. rehg ifu atr ,ugurp ,tmk ktrah ,ubc lrs iht vbhn gna ,uv vgurp /cg ,ucu,f h"ar Rashi on the Gemara gives two derivations for the halacha: (a) uncovering the woman’s hair was designed to be a public humiliation and thus we can infer that covering the hair in public is dignified; and (b) the need to uncover the hair of the married woman implies that married women’s hair was generally covered. -
Korach June 23-24, 2017 Rosh Chodesh Tammuz 5777
CONGREGATION BETH AARON ANNOUNCEMENTS Parshat Korach June 23-24, 2017 Rosh Chodesh Tammuz 5777 SHABBAT TIMES This week’s announcements are sponsored by Lamdeinu. Friday, June 23 For information on their schedule of classes, see page 4 and go to lamdeinu.org. Plag Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat: 6:45 p.m. Study in depth; be inspired! Earliest Candles: 6:58 p.m. Early Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat: 7:00 p.m. SCHEDULE FOR THE WEEK OF JUNE 25 Latest Candles: 8:13 p.m. Zman Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat: Sun Mon Tues Wed Thu Fri 8:15 p.m. 25 26 27 28 29 30 Earliest Tallit 4:26 4:26 4:27 4:27 4:27 4:28 Shabbat, June 24 Hashkama Minyan: 7:30 a.m. Shacharit 6:20 MS 5:40 SH 5:55 SH 5:55 SH 5:40 SH 5:55 SH Nach shiur: 8:20 a.m. 7:15 SH 6:20 BM 6:30 BM 6:30 BM 6:20 BM 6:30 BM Main Minyan: 8:45 a.m. 8:00 MS 7:10 BM 7:15 BM 7:15 BM 7:10 BM 7:15 BM Sof Zman Kriat Shema: 9:11 a.m. 8:45 SH 8:00 BM 8:00 BM 8:00 BM 8:00 BM 8:00 BM Youth Minyan: 9:15 a.m. Mincha 1:45 BM Scholar-in-Residence Rabbi Zvi Grumet: following the Kiddush, “Winning the Mincha/ 8:15 MS 8:15 BM 8:15 BM 8:15 BM 8:15 BM 6:45 BM Battle but Losing the War” Maariv 7:00 MS Early Mincha: 1:45 p.m. -
(The) Sisterhood Is Powerful: Remarks by Rabbi Rachel M. Isaacs Upon the Inauguration of the Dorothy “Bibby” Levine Alfond Professorship in Jewish Studies
(The) Sisterhood is Powerful: Remarks by Rabbi Rachel M. Isaacs upon the Inauguration of the Dorothy “Bibby” Levine Alfond Professorship in Jewish Studies. November 19, 2015 Colby College, Waterville, Maine In October of 1957, the Beth Israel Congregation sisterhood met to discuss issues that ranged from the pedestrian to the controversial. After a vigorous conversation on the value of having a gossip column in the synagogue newsletter, the women of the sisterhood turned to their attention to an issue that was as salacious as it was fantastical: the possibility of women rabbis. Even though the Reform movement had ordained one woman, Regina Jonas, in Germany before the Holocaust, she had perished with her congregation in the concentration camps, and was largely forgotten by the mainstream Jewish world for many decades to come. But on this day in October of 1957, the sisterhood leaders of Beth Israel Congregation discussed the issue in Waterville, Maine. According to synagogue records, “Mrs. George Chesner introduced Rabbi Steinberg who was the speaker of the evening. His topic - ‘Women Rabbis’.” Sisterhood secretary Esther Paikowsky recorded his remarks: “Rabbi Steinberg is definitely opposed to women following this 1 profession. One reason being that there would not be a ‘Rebbetzin (a rabbi’s wife), and since a ‘Rebbetzin’ has functional duties in a congregation, it would not do to have the husband perform these duties. Another objection is who would raise the family and care for the home, certainly a man cannot do that. Therefore a man -
Jewish Wedding Guide for Interfaith Couples Contents
Jewish Wedding Guide for Interfaith Couples Contents Jewish Wedding Section 1: Finding Your Officiant(s) and Choosing a Date...............1 Section 2: Elements of a Jewish Wedding Ceremony .................5 Guide for Interfaith Ketubah signing, Processional, Circling, Blessing over the wine, Families Ring Ceremony, Seven Blessings, Breaking the glass, Recessional, Yichud Section 3: Ritual Objects and Clothing .............................10 www.18Doors.org Section 4: Invitations, Programs and Food ..........................14 Section 5: Issues Specific to Jewish-Christian eddingsW ..............17 Section 6: Issues Specific to Jewish-Muslim, Jewish-Hindu and Jewish-Buddhist Weddings ...................................21 Section 7: Managing Family Dynamics and Planning Your Wedding.......................................23 Section 8: Pre-marital Counseling ................................ 26 Section 9: Before the Wedding: Connecting with Other Couples...... 28 Section 10: Sample Ceremonies and Definitions for Wedding Programs .......................................... 29 Section 1: Finding Your Officiant(s) and Choosing a Date Timing and Location of a are more flexible. If your ceremony is Jewish/Interfaith Wedding co-officiated, make sure you clear your If you’re thinking of having a rabbi or cantor wedding site with both officiants prior to officiate your wedding, keep in mind that contracting for a venue. Different religious most Jewish clergy observe a number of communities have different requirements. limitations and restrictions on both the location and timing of weddings they perform. The rules vary a bit from one The Sabbath movement of Judaism (denomination) to Traditionally speaking, in Judaism weddings another, but here are some of the most do not take place on the Jewish Sabbath common limitations. (Shabbat). Shabbat begins at sundown If your ceremony is co-officiated, make sure you clear your wedding site with both officiants prior to contracting for a venue. -
Lacatul Si Cheia
LACATUL SI CHEIA 41. Rabbi Chiya şi Rabbi Yosi se plimbau pe un drum. Când au ajuns la o câmpie, Rabbi Chiya i-a spus lui Rabbi Yosi, „Cuvintele BARAH SHEET (şase create) cu siguranţă fac aluzie laBERESHEET , deoarece cele şase Zile Cereşti, VAK de Bina, strălucesc peste Tora (ZA), în timp ce altele, GAR de Bina, sunt ascunse.” ZA al lumii Atzilut este numit Tora. Cele şase Zile Cereşti suntVAK de Bina care se află deasupraZA . De aceea, primul cuvânt al Torei, BERESHEET = BARAH (creat) şi SHEET (şase) indică faptul căSfira Bina se întoarce către Sfira Hochma cu scopul de a primi Ohr Hochma şi de a o transfera la ZA. deoarece ZA este incapabil să primească toată Ohr Hochma (GAR de Hochma, Lumina celor zece Sfirot) de la Bina, ci doar VAK de Hochma (Lumina celor şase Sfirot), acest lucru este subliniat în cuvântul BARAH SHEET – ŞASE CREATE. Aceasta înseamnă că ZA primeşte de la Bina, Lumina de la doar şase Sfirot, HGT NHY sau VAK de Hochma, în timp ce GAR de Hochma, Lumina Sfirot KHB, este ascunsă de el. Motivul este că, deşi Partzuf Atik aparţine lui Tzimtzum Aleph (prima restricţie), este obligat să strălucească în jos, peste toate celelalte Partzufim ale lumii Atzilut şi peste toate lumile BYA cu Lumina lui Tzimtzum Bet. De aceea, cu privire la Partzufim inferioare, ele apar ca Partzuf care aparţine lui Tzimtzum Bet. Cu alte cuvinte, intenţionat el şi-a autoimpus o limită exterioară (referitor la celelalte) pentru a permitePartzufim inferioare să primească de la el. De aceea, el a înălţat-o Malchutpe de la Peh la Eynaim şi a făcut unZivug deasupra ecranului ce stă în Nikvey Eynaim, în acest fel dând naştere Partzuf –ului AA. -
RABBI YAAKOV GIBBER Torah Reading Pg
PARSHAS EMOR RABBI YAAKOV GIBBER Torah Reading Pg. 672 Morah Da’asra Haftorah Pg. 1176 18 Iyar - 25 Iyar 5781 April 30 - May 7, 2021 BJC INSIDER The BJC Insider is generously sponsored this week by Rabbi Efrem & Rebbetzin Yocheved Goldberg in honor of our Yedidei Nefesh, Rabbi and Rebbetzin Gibber. Thank you for your friendship, leadership and partnership. A Place for Lifelong Learning, Community & Friendship h Executive Committee: Sidney Sayovitz - President Dr. Yakov Elefant Radine Spier Warren Struhl Hindy Stuart Dr. Charles Trauring h Executive Director: Matthew Hocherman 21065 Powerline Road, Boca Raton, FL 33433 (561) 477-8872 • bocajewishcenter.org • [email protected] WEEKLY AND SHABBOS SCHEDULE FRIDAY NIGHT SCHEDULE WEEKDAY DAVENING SCHEDULE April 30 May 2 - May 7 Plag Mincha/Kabbalas Shabbos 6:15 pm Shacharis Sunday 8:00 & 9:00 am Earliest Candle Lighting 6:30 pm Shacharis Monday - Friday 6:45 & 8:30 am Zman Candle Lighting 7:34 pm Mincha/Maariv Sunday - Thursday 7:40 pm Zman Mincha/Kabbalas Shabbos 7:35 pm FRIDAY NIGHT SCHEDULE SHABBOS DAY SCHEDULE May 7 May 1 Plag Mincha/Kabbalas Shabbos 6:15 pm Hashkama Minyan 7:30 am Earliest Candle Lighting 6:34 pm Main Minyan 9:00 am Zman Candle Lighting 7:38 pm Young Professionals/Teen Minyan 9:45 am Zman Mincha/Kabbalas Shabbos 7:40 pm Youth Groups (Ages 3 - 11) 9:45 - 11:00 am Latest time to say Shema 10:00 am SHABBOS DAY SCHEDULE Latest time for Shacharis 11:06 am Shabbos Afternoon Rabbi’s Class 6:35 pm May 8 Hashkama Minyan 7:30 am Mincha followed by Shalosh Seudos 7:20 pm Main Minyan 9:00 am Shkiah 7:52 pm Young Professionals/Teen Minyan 9:45 am Maariv and Havdalah 8:30 pm Shabbos Afternoon Rabbi’s Class 6:40 pm Mincha followed by Shalosh Seudos 7:25 pm Maariv and Havdalah 8:34 pm SHALOM ZACHOR INFORMATION MAZEL TOV TO OUR MEMBERS The Feingolds invite the entire community to the h David & Shaina Feingold on the birth of their son. -
SPIRITUAL JEWISH WEDDING Checklist
the SPIRITUAL JEWISH WEDDING checklist created by Micaela Ezra dear friend, Mazal tov on your upcoming wedding! I am so happy you have found your way here. I have created this very brief “Spiritual Jewish Wedding Checklist” as a guide to use as you are planning your wedding. It evolved after a conversation with Karen Cinnamon of Smashing The Glass, in response to the need for more soulful Jewish wedding inspirations and advice online. So much of the organization (as essential as it is) can distract us from the true essence of the wedding day. I hope these insights and suggestions, can help keep you on track as you navigate the process, and that as a result, the day is as meaningful for you and your guests, as it is beautiful. I wish you an easy, joyful journey as you plan, and a sublime, euphoric wedding day! With love and Blessings, For more information, or to reach out, please visit www.micaelaezra.com www.ahyinjudaica.com ONE The lead up. What’s it all about? Get clear about what the meaning of the wedding is to you. Always have at the back of your mind the essence of what you’re working to- ward. It can help you to hold things in perspective. This is a holy and sacred day, in which two halves of a soul are reunited and with G-d’s blessing and participation. The rest is decoration. How Do You Want to Feel? Clearly define HOW YOU WANT TO FEEL at your wedding, and what you want your guests to feel. -
The Soul of a Jew and the Soul of a Non-Jew an Inconvenient Truth and the Search for an Alternative
47 The Soul of a Jew and the Soul of a Non-Jew An Inconvenient Truth and the Search for an Alternative By: HANAN BALK Holiness is not found in the human being in essence unless he sanctifies himself. According to his preparation for holiness, so the fullness comes upon him from on High. A person does not acquire holiness while inside his mother. He is not holy from the womb, but has to labor from the very day he comes into the air of the world. 1 Introduction: The Soul of a Jew is Superior to that of a Non-Jew The view expressed in the above heading—as uncomfortable and racially charged as it may be in the minds of some—was undoubtedly, as we shall show, the prominent position maintained by authorities of Jewish thought throughout the ages, and continues to be so even today. While Jewish mysticism is the source and primary expositor of this theory, it has achieved a ubiquitous presence not only in the writings of Kabbalists,2 but also in the works of thinkers found in the libraries of most observant Jews, who hardly consider themselves followers of Kabbalah. Clearly, for one committed to the Torah and its principles, it is not tenable to presume that so long as he is not a Kabbalist, such a belief need not be a part of his religious worldview. Is there an alternative view that is an equally authentic representation of Jewish thought on the subject? In response to this question, we will 1 R. Simhạ Bunim of Przysukha, Kol Simha,̣ Parshat Miketz, p. -
CCAR Journal the Reform Jewish Quarterly
CCAR Journal The Reform Jewish Quarterly Halachah and Reform Judaism Contents FROM THE EDITOR At the Gates — ohrgJc: The Redemption of Halachah . 1 A. Brian Stoller, Guest Editor ARTICLES HALACHIC THEORY What Do We Mean When We Say, “We Are Not Halachic”? . 9 Leon A. Morris Halachah in Reform Theology from Leo Baeck to Eugene B . Borowitz: Authority, Autonomy, and Covenantal Commandments . 17 Rachel Sabath Beit-Halachmi The CCAR Responsa Committee: A History . 40 Joan S. Friedman Reform Halachah and the Claim of Authority: From Theory to Practice and Back Again . 54 Mark Washofsky Is a Reform Shulchan Aruch Possible? . 74 Alona Lisitsa An Evolving Israeli Reform Judaism: The Roles of Halachah and Civil Religion as Seen in the Writings of the Israel Movement for Progressive Judaism . 92 David Ellenson and Michael Rosen Aggadic Judaism . 113 Edwin Goldberg Spring 2020 i CONTENTS Talmudic Aggadah: Illustrations, Warnings, and Counterarguments to Halachah . 120 Amy Scheinerman Halachah for Hedgehogs: Legal Interpretivism and Reform Philosophy of Halachah . 140 Benjamin C. M. Gurin The Halachic Canon as Literature: Reading for Jewish Ideas and Values . 155 Alyssa M. Gray APPLIED HALACHAH Communal Halachic Decision-Making . 174 Erica Asch Growing More Than Vegetables: A Case Study in the Use of CCAR Responsa in Planting the Tri-Faith Community Garden . 186 Deana Sussman Berezin Yoga as a Jewish Worship Practice: Chukat Hagoyim or Spiritual Innovation? . 200 Liz P. G. Hirsch and Yael Rapport Nursing in Shul: A Halachically Informed Perspective . 208 Michal Loving Can We Say Mourner’s Kaddish in Cases of Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Nefel? . 215 Jeremy R.