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COVER STORY: YOU CAN STRENGTHEN YOUR FAITH, P. 2

LYING TO MY PARENTS, P. 14

GETTING THROUGH ALMOST ANYTHING, P. 26

SHOULD I FAST? PP. 24, 36

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NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 1 STRENGTHEN FAITH ASYOU SEEK KNOWLEDGE

BY ELDER QUENTIN L. COOK Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

n the doctrines of the Church, faith He continues later: “Wherefore, men are Iand the quest for knowledge are free according to the flesh; and all things not inconsistent; they are compatible are given them which are expedient unto and complementary. When I speak of faith, man. And they are free to choose liberty I am speaking of faith in the Lord Jesus and eternal life, through the great Mediator Christ. of all men, or to choose captivity and death, Faith and knowledge require equal according to the captivity and power of the effort and commitment. We cannot expect devil; for he seeketh that all men might be to have faith at the center of our lives if all miserable like unto himself” (2 Nephi 2:27). of our efforts are expended on knowledge, We know there was a war in heaven over Let me share with you sports, hobbies, making money, or other the plan of salvation, so it is not surprising five principles that I pursuits. that the religious principles that have been believe are essential Let me share with you five principles taught in this, the last dispensation, are as you place faith in that I believe are essential as you place attacked with malignant ferocity. the Lord Jesus Christ faith in the Lord Jesus Christ at the center President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910– at the center of of your lives as you seek diligently for 2008) made this promise to you: “Here you your lives as you knowledge. are on the threshold of your mature lives. seek diligently for You . . . worry about school. You worry about knowledge. 1. Understand that there is truly opposition marriage. You worry about many things. I in all things. The choices you make are make you a promise that God will not for- critical. sake you if you will walk in His paths with You are at the stage of life where you have the guidance of His commandments.”1 numerous options for some of the most important choices you will ever make. These 2. Strengthen your own testimony as a choices are the key to your future and your foundation for all of the choices you make. happiness. The foundation for every important deci- BY HEINRICH HOFMANN, COURTESY OF C. HARRISON CONROY CO. COURTESY OF C. HARRISON CONROY HEINRICH HOFMANN, BY The prophet Lehi near the end of his life sion and choice you will make is your testi- taught, “For it must needs be, that there is an mony of Jesus Christ and the Restoration

opposition in all things” (2 Nephi 2:11). of His gospel through the Prophet Joseph CHRIST’S IMAGE,

2 NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 3 he foundation T for every important decision and choice you will make is your testimony of Jesus Christ and the Restoration of His gospel through the Prophet Joseph Smith. The Book of Mormon is an essential element of that testimony.

Smith. The Book of Mormon is an essential go. Missionaries were called at 20 years of element of that testimony. age in those days, and my brother had just When I was 15 years old, I realized the filled out his application to medical school. significance of a testimony of the Book of He was a good student. My father, who was Mormon, Joseph Smith, and the Savior and not active in the Church, had made financial how it affects our choices. preparations to help him with medical My brother, Joe, was 20 years old. It was school and was disappointed when he during the Korean conflict, and only one learned of the conversation with the stake young man in each ward could go on a mis- president. My father counseled Joe not to go sion. The others had to be available to be and suggested that he could do more good drafted into the military. A young man in our by going to medical school. ward had gone on a mission early in the year; This was a big issue in our family. That my brother’s birthday was in September, so night my brother and I talked about the he didn’t think he would get the opportunity choice. He was five years older, so it was to serve a mission. mainly his thinking. As we reasoned it out, Our stake president called my brother in we concluded: If Jesus Christ was a great and told him that one of the wards had not man but not divine, if Joseph Smith was a used its allotment and he might be able to wonderful teacher but not a prophet, or if

4 the Book of Mormon had wonderful counsel but was not the gastric tissue. As you can see, the questions have not the word of God, then Dad was right—it would be better changed, but many of the answers have. This is true in to go to medical school. But if Jesus Christ is divine, if several fields of knowledge. Joseph Smith is a prophet, and if the Book of Mormon is This example is not meant to reduce your commit- the word of God, then it would be more important to ment to knowledge; knowledge is essential. Knowledge accept the call and proclaim the gospel. in all areas is important. We are particularly fortunate to That night, more than ever before, I wanted to know live in an age when the technological revolution is in the answers to these questions. I had always believed in progress. the divinity of Jesus Christ. I believed in Joseph Smith and Knowledge has always been important, and today we the Book of Mormon, but I wanted confirmation from the are at the threshold of new and exciting major technology. Lord. That night, as I prayed, the Spirit bore witness to Certainly this technology revolution could have enormous my soul of the Savior and the truthfulness of the Book of benefits for the Church and for your fellow human beings. Mormon and that Joseph Smith was a prophet. My brother Knowledge, whether old or new, is important. received the same witness and made the choice to serve a mission. Incidentally, when my brother returned from 4. Follow the prophet’s counsel as you make your

BY SIMON DEWEY, COURTESY OF ALTUS FINE ART, AMERICAN FORK, UTAH, MAY NOT BE COPIED; NOT MAY AMERICAN FORK, UTAH, FINE ART, COURTESY OF ALTUS SIMON DEWEY, BY his mission, he went to medical school. When I reached choices. my 20th birthday, my father was happy to see me serve a In a worldwide leadership training meeting, President mission. Hinckley said: “No one need tell you that we are living in a very 3. Seek knowledge diligently, wisely, and humbly. difficult season in the history of the world. Standards In the quest for both faith and knowledge, we need to are dropping everywhere. Nothing seems to be sacred

BY THE GIFT AND POWER OF GOD, BY WELDEN C. ANDERSEN BY PHOTOGRAPH maintain humility. Jacob taught: anymore. “O that cunning plan of the evil one! O the vainness, “. . . I do not know that things were worse in the times of and the frailties, and the foolishness of men! When they Sodom and Gomorrah. . . . I think our Father must weep as are learned they think they are wise, and they hearken not He looks down upon His wayward sons and daughters.” unto the counsel of God, for they set it aside, supposing As was characteristic of President Hinckley’s positive they know of themselves. . . . leadership, he went on to say: “But to be learned is good if they hearken unto the counsels of God” (2 Nephi 9:28–29). One reason to be humble about knowledge is that much of it is subject to change. My brother, Joe, as I indi- cated, is a medical doctor. Now in his 70s, he has taken the medical recertification exam in his area of expertise six times. He laughingly indicated to me that the questions are the same as those presented over 35 years ago, but the answers keep changing. On the exam 35 years ago, a typi- cal multiple-choice question might be: What is the primary cause of a peptic ulcer? The answer would have related to stress. Today the answer to the same question would be that it is caused by bacteria that can live and grow in

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 5 ationaliza- “We must not give up. We must not I was studying for the California bar exam R tion for bad become discouraged. We must never surren- when my mother called and said if I wanted choices will der to the forces of evil. . . . If it means stand- to see my grandfather before he died, I bet- not be effective, but ing alone, we must do it. ter come to Utah. My grandfather, who was repentance will. Those “But we shall not be alone.”2 86 years old, was very ill. He was so pleased who repent will be Prophets are not speaking just to our own to see me and share his testimony. particularly blessed day; they give us counsel that will bless us He had three concerns: by the Atonement. and our children in the future and through 1. He loved his 10 children very much. the eternities. They were all good people. He wanted them If we follow the prophet, we can look to all to be temple worthy. the future with great optimism. 2. His father was one of the young men who had carried members of the Martin handcart company across the Sweetwater River. His father had died when my grand- father was three years old, and he looked forward to seeing him and hoped his father and other family members would approve of his life. 3. Finally, and most importantly, he told me how he looked forward to meeting the Savior. He referred to the Savior as the “Keeper of the Gate,” a reference to 2 Nephi 9:41. He told me that he hoped he had been sufficiently repentant to qualify for the Savior’s mercy. All of us have sinned, and it is only 5. Live so the Atonement can be fully through the Atonement that we can obtain efficacious in your life. mercy and live with God. I can remember to Rationalization for bad choices will not this day the great love that Grandfather had be effective, but repentance will. Those who for the Savior and the appreciation he had repent will be particularly blessed by the for the Atonement. Atonement. Without the Atonement, the I personally testify of the divinity of the eternal principle of justice would require Savior and the reality of the Atonement, and punishment (see Alma 42:14). Because of I hope that you will prayerfully consider the the Atonement, mercy can prevail for those significant choices that are before you. NE who have repented and allow them to return From a Brigham Young University–Idaho devotional given on March 14, 2006. to the presence of God (see Alma 42:15). CO. COURTESY OF C. HARRISON CONROY HEINRICH HOFMANN, BY NOTES I first began to understand the signifi- 1. “A Prophet’s Counsel and Prayer for Youth,” cance of the Atonement when my grand- Liahona, Apr. 2001, 30; New Era, Jan. 2001, 6. 2. “Standing Strong and Immovable,” Worldwide father was dying. After attending law school, Leadership Training Meeting, Jan. 10, 2004, 20. CHRIST IN GETHSEMANE, 6 W HAT JOSEPH TAUGHT REVELATION AND THE LIVING PROPHET

Joseph Smith knew the importance of revelation in the Church.

eginning with the First Vision, Joseph Smith was REVELATION IS ESSENTIAL BBGod’s prophet chosen to reveal His word and “The doctrine of revelation far transcends the doctrine of no rev- will to the earth. As he grew into this role, elation; for one truth revealed from heaven is worth all the sectarian Joseph gained a clear understanding of the order of reve- notions in existence.” lation in the Church. Here are some of Joseph Smith’s “Salvation cannot come without revelation; it is in vain for any- teachings on revelation and the role of the living prophet. one to minister without it. . . . No man can be a minister of Jesus Christ except he has the testimony of Jesus; and this is the spirit of prophecy [see Revelation 19:10].”

THE ORDER OF REVELATION “Thou shalt not command him who is at thy head, and at the head of the church; for I have given him the keys of the mysteries, and the revelations which are sealed, until I shall appoint unto them another in his stead” (D&C 28:6–7). “The Presidents or [First] Presidency are over the Church; and revelations of the mind and will of God to the Church, are to come through the Presidency. This is the order of heaven, and the power and privilege of [the Melchizedek] Priesthood. It is also the privi- lege of any offi cer in this Church to obtain revelations, so far as relates to his particular calling and duty in the Church.”

FOLLOW GOD’S PROPHET “There are a great many wise men and women too in our midst who are too wise to be taught; therefore they must die in their ignorance, and in the resurrection they will fi nd their mistake.” NE

From Teachings of Presidents of the

BY DANIEL LEWIS Church: Joseph Smith (Melchizedek Priesthood and Relief Society course of study, 2007), 195, 197, 202. JOSEPH SMITH JR. RECEIVING REVELATION, NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 7 PERFECT FOR THE JOB BY JO BINGHAM

n the busy rural town of Nsawam, Ghana—known as the them, but then I had the opportunity to explain myself.” bread town because of the many vendors selling bread After that, things went smoothly, and communication Iat the roadside or from pans balanced precariously on between the teenage teacher and adult students was their heads—lives Princella Djanku, a young woman in the much more effective. Djankrom Branch, Asamankese Ghana District. Baptized After completing her project, Princella considered when she was nine years old, Princella, her twin brother, leaving the class but decided against it. She says, “The Prince, and the rest of her family are all active members literacy class is very interesting, and I never want to leave.” GREGG THORKELSON BY ILLUSTRATION of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Princella continues to serve with love, remembering that When Princella was looking for a Personal Progress those who serve others also serve God. project, she didn’t have to look far. In her own branch Princella has since earned her Young Womanhood was a humanitarian aid missionary, Sister Thompson, strug- Recognition Award. She says, “The Young Women program gling to teach English to the town’s adults. Since most has helped increase my testimony of the Church. I know people in Nsawam don’t speak any English and Sister that Joseph Smith was called of God and that the Church Thompson doesn’t speak the local Twi dialect, she was is true. I know President Thomas S. Monson is a living having a difficult time communicating with her students. prophet and that he receives revelation for the whole Enter Princella, who learned English in school and Church. I know the doctrines and principles of the Church speaks the four regional dialects, including Twi. She was are all true.” perfect for the job. She could communicate with everyone. Though Princella is no longer in Young Women as a “The project of helping in the literacy class came to my young woman, she is still in Young Women. She has been mind when I got to the knowledge value,” said Princella. called to serve as the secretary in the branch Young “At first I felt it was too much to go stand in front of my Women presidency. mothers and fathers [the adults of her town] and teach As one of her goals, Princella hopes to go on a mission them English. For the first and second week, it was not for the Church when she turns 21 so she can share her easy because they felt I was there to make a mockery of testimony and continue her tradition of service. NE

8 NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 9 FROM GENERATION

What will you do with the spiritual and pass them along as well? Or will we be like Laman and knowledge offered to you? Lemuel, who heard the same information but didn’t want to find out the truth for themselves and couldn’t pass it on? BY ADAM C. OLSON Church Magazines How Is It Passed On? f you’ve read the first verse of the Book of Mormon, Juan can’t remember how old he was when he started Iyou already know something about 17-year-old Juan working with his dad in the fields. “The children would Ordoñez and his 15-year-old sister, Mayra, of the start going with me when they were small,” Juan’s dad, Pachitol Ward, Patzicía Guatemala Stake. Joel, says. “They learned by watching and then doing what Juan, Mayra, and their seven older brothers and sisters they could, depending on their strength and capacity.” were “born of goodly parents,” who have passed on skills Mayra learned to make tortillas the same way, watching the family needs to survive, such as the family trades of her mom and sisters until she was old enough to pitch in farming and tortilla making, as well as the language of and help. their ancestors, Cakchiquel. But plowing, planting, and tortilla making aren’t the But those aren’t the only ways their family is like only things being passed from one generation to the next. Nephi’s. Juan and Mayra have parents who understand As Mayra’s mother, Carmela, molded and shaped tortillas, that it is as important to pass on a “knowledge of the she was also giving shape to her daughter’s character. As goodness and the mysteries of God” (1 Nephi 1:1) as it Brother Ordoñez prepared, planted, or cultivated the is to pass on physical survival skills. ground, he was doing the same for Juan’s heart. While many teens don’t have Lehi- and Sariah-like par- As the family spent time together, the children could ents to pass on the gospel (see sidebar on page 13), for see not just how their parents worked but how they lived. Juan, Mayra, and others who do, the question is: Will we And when the opportunity arose, their parents made the be Nephi-like learners, who listen, apply gospel truths, gospel a topic of conversation while they worked.

10 But observing—and even doing—isn’t he things that always enough. In the Book of Mormon’s T Juan (bottom first family, Laman and Lemuel heard the left) and Mayra same things that Nephi heard from their (left) are learning father, and they too even went and did what from their parents their father asked. But they were missing (opposite page) are something important, something that Juan important not only and Mayra have—a desire to learn. to their physical survival but to their spiritual survival as well. TO GENERATION BY ARNOLD FRIBERG BY LIAHONA, PHOTOGRAPHS BY ADAM C. OLSON; FAR RIGHT: DETAIL FROM DETAIL RIGHT: FAR C. OLSON; ADAM BY PHOTOGRAPHS

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 11 GAINING A TESTIMONY “A testimony is not genetic. That is, we are not How Much Do You born with a tes- 2:11–12). They weren’t Want It? timony. Likewise, a testimony interested in making the Juan and Mayra does not pass automatically effort to find out for them- live in Patzicía, a from generation to generation selves, saying, “The Lord Cakchiquel commu- without the examples of good maketh no such thing nity a few hours from teachers.” known unto us” (see Guatemala City. 1 Nephi 15:8–9). Elder Robert D. Hales of the Because many of Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Teaching by Faith,” Ensign, those who buy their tortillas Sept. 2003, 26. Don’t Break the Chain f Juan and Mayra and seek their plowing ser- As their children grew, I don’t learn these vices don’t speak Spanish, it Brother and Sister Ordoñez important things was important to Juan and Mayra to learn often wondered if their children would listen. for themselves, how Cakchiquel. Would they obey? Would they want to know, will they be able to But not everyone feels that way. like Nephi? Would they pass the gospel on to pass them on to their Cakchiquel isn’t taught in the schools. The their children? children? language has been passed down from gener- It may be too early to tell. But Brother ation to generation for hundreds of years. and Sister Ordoñez have reason to hope. However, in each succeeding generation Their older children are starting to pass there are many who don’t want to learn it gospel truths on. And the younger children or feel they don’t need it. are recognizing the importance of passing A desire to know is key in more than just the gospel on too. “It’s hard sometimes to learning a language. Lehi wanted his family take counsel from your parents,” Juan says. to know for themselves that the gospel is “But I’m grateful for their help.” true, but not all of his family wanted to “They didn’t just teach me how to cook

know (see 1 Nephi 8:12, 17–18). In addi- beans and make tor- tion to hearing his father and doing what tillas,” Mayra says. he asked, Nephi wanted to know for him- “They have taught self (see 1 Nephi 10:17). Laman and me the right Lemuel, though they had obeyed their path—to follow father, had done it grudgingly (see 1 Nephi God.” NE

12 LIVING THE GOSPEL ON YOUR OWN

BY ARNOLD FRIBERG BY hat if your parents aren’t passing on the gospel? today,” said Elder Paul B. Pieper of the Seventy in the W Maybe they haven’t accepted it, or they aren’t living October 2006 general conference. “Your faith and testi- it. Being the first in your family to accept the gospel monies are a great strength and blessing to others. . . . or the only one to actively live it can be lonely. But it doesn’t “. . . As a first-generation member, you occupy an impor- mean you are alone. tant place in your family. You are an example to your family There are others like you in the Church and in the scrip- of a true disciple of Jesus Christ. Whether they are members tures. When Alma the Elder was a young man, he was the of the Church or not, as you live the gospel at home, those ALMA BAPTIZING IN THE WATERS OF MORMON, ALMA BAPTIZING IN THE WATERS only one who accepted the gospel Abinadi taught. He was around you will feel the Savior’s love through you. They AND chased out of the city for defending the truth. But because know that you are engaged in something good, even if they he was bold enough to live and teach the gospel, soon do not understand it or have enough faith to accept it. Be NEPHI REBUKING HIS REBELLIOUS BROTHERS, ABINADI APPEARING BEFORE KING NOAH, NEPHI REBUKING HIS REBELLIOUS BROTHERS,

FROM LEFT: FROM LEFT: others believed. His children were blessed by his faith, and patient and kind, pray each day to know how you can it helped to establish a multigenerational chain of believers serve them, and the Lord will help you and bless you to whose examples and leadership were a great strength to influence your family for good. By being consistently good the Church. and upright, you will establish patterns of faithfulness and If you have felt alone in living the gospel, take heart. righteousness. Those patterns will shape your life, but more There were others like you then, and there are many like importantly, they will become a standard for your family you now. and posterity” (“The First Generation,” Ensign, Nov. 2006, “Perhaps not since the early days of the 11–12). Church has the first generation constituted So whether you are part of the first generation or the fifth, such a large percentage of total how you live can help create or continue a long chain of genera- Church membership as it does tions that enjoy the blessings of the gospel of Jesus Christ. NE

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 13 Q UESTIONS & A NSWERS “My sister lies to our parents about where she is and who she is with. What should I do?”

Help Her Get Back on the Strait and Narrow If my sister were lying to my parents about where she is and who she is with, I would tell my parents because I know if she t’s natural to worry about your sister because was lying about it, it would be you care about her, but she is responsible for bad what she was doing. So I would be trying Iher choices, and your parents are responsible to get her back on the strait and narrow path. for teaching and helping her. So talk to your Sam J., 13, Washington parents about your concern. Now is the best time to talk to them—before something bad happens to your sister. If you Tell the Truth didn’t tell them what she was doing and she First, always set a good example yourself got hurt or into serious trouble, you would and tell the truth. Second, let your mom and feel terrible. Talking to your parents will dad know what’s going on, and ask their actually show your sister that you care advice about the problem. Third, be your about her. sister’s friend. Let her know she can trust you. Lying is wrong, and your sister needs Encourage her to pray, live Church standards, to overcome it and remember her rela- attend church and social activities, and read tionship and accountability to God. And the scriptures, especially verses that you depending on what she’s doing, she think could help her. But remember, God may be getting into other problems, gave us all the freedom to choose right from so it will be best to solve them before wrong, and your sister is choosing to do they get worse. Get some help; talk NE what she’s doing, so don’t blame yourself or to your parents about it. feel discouraged if things don’t change right away. But never stop being an example and a friend and praying and fasting for her. Andrew B., 14, Nevada

14 NEXT QUESTION “I don’t have a testimony even Integrity Is the Right Answer Let Your Parents Know though I’ve been a member all Of course, you cannot You love your sister, and you my life. I go to church and keep make the decision for want what’s best for her. You should the commandments, but how can your sister; it is her fi rst bring it up to with her and try I believe and gain a testimony?” choice to be honest to to talk about it and let her know that Send your answer by November 15, your parents. You are, you love her and don’t want to see 2008, to: however, in a position to help. Talking her get hurt. If something bad hap- to her about the situation would be pens to her, you would regret not New Era, Q&A, 11/08 best. Be open, honest, and let her talking to your parents before. Let 50 E. North Temple St., Rm. 2420 know you care. Let her know that your parents know that they should Salt Lake City, UT 84150-3220, USA your parents love her and will be for- talk with her and encourage her to be Or e-mail: [email protected] giving and understanding. Help her to honest and always choose the right. understand that she will be forgiven Tyson B., 18, California The following information and and blessed for telling the truth. permission must be included in your Having integrity is always the right e-mail or letter: answer; blessings of peace and self- Lying Hurts the Family FULL NAME confi dence will follow. When a family member Elder Kelvin Wonder Peni, 24, Zimbabwe lies, he or she doesn’t BIRTH DATE

Harare Mission just hurt the parents; WARD (OR BRANCH) it hurts the rest of the family too. Sometimes STAKE (OR DISTRICT) To Protect Her that person doesn’t realize it, so it I grant permission to print response I would tell my parents who she would be wonderful if you could and photo: is with and where she is because it help her realize it. is the right thing to do. If she thinks Chelsea P., 13, Wyoming SIGNATURE that I am telling on her, I would tell PARENT’S SIGNATURE (IF YOU ARE UNDER 18) her that I am trying to protect her and Responses are intended for help and perspective, not as pronouncements of keep her away from harmful things. Church doctrine. I would pray for her that she would make better decisions. I would also set a good example. THE BURDEN OF LIVING A LIE Dallin B., 12, Georgia o man will ever be totally free who is living a lie. Only he who bears or who has borne such a continuing N burden can relate appropriately to such a declara- It’s Wrong to Lie tion. We should ever bear in mind that a wrong isn’t Before you tell your parents, try right just because many people do it. A wrong deed isn’t talking it out with your sister fi rst. Let right just because it hasn’t become visible. her know that it’s wrong to lie. Give “May our Heavenly Father help us to have the courage her a chance to make it up with your to acknowledge and cast aside the living of a lie or the parents. If she’s lying about some- thing serious and won’t talk, then it’s perpetuation of lies. Honesty is more than a policy. It is a happy way of life as time to consult your parents. we deal with our fellowmen, and particularly as we live with ourselves.” Elder Marvin J. Ashton (1915–94) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, Monica Y., 17, California May 1982, 11. Ensign,

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 15 MY ATTITUDE TRANSPLANT

BY MICHAEL BRODEUR

It was my assignment. But it hit me: these are lives I’m touching.

“So how are you ey, Mike! Can you take the lady in about how many more people I would need doing?” I asked, Hthe hallway back to her room on to bring to their rooms before the end of not really because I the third fl oor?” the radiology tech the day. “Hey, I never got your name. I’m cared, but because I asked. Michael.” was supposed to be “Yeah, sure,” I said. “You just love to keep “Well, nice to meet you, Michael,” she said nice to the patients I me busy, don’t you?” sincerely. “I’m Rebecca.” was helping back to “You know what they say. We’re supposed “It’s been a pleasure to meet you as well,” their rooms. to run the candy stripers into the ground I said. “If you need anything, don’t hesitate to with work,” he shot back. ask. Maybe I’ll see you again.” “Excuse me, ma’am,” I said to an older “Thank you, Michael,” the woman replied. woman in a wheelchair, “I’m here to take I wasn’t too affected by the experience. I you back up to your room.” took people from the Radiology Department “Tell me,” she said, “when did they start to some designated area in the hospital employing doctors in their teens?” every day. It was my assignment. After saying “Oh no,” I said with a laugh. “I’m only a good-bye, I went downstairs to attend to volunteer. I come here to help out.” I didn’t some more people in wheelchairs. add, And to gain experience that will help Later in the afternoon I received a call me get into a decent college. from the Intensive Coronary Care Unit. I was “Well that’s very sweet of you,” she shocked. Teenagers weren’t allowed in ICCU. replied. “Hello? This is Michael Brodeur,” I said “So how are you doing?” I asked, not into the phone. really because I cared, but because I was “Oh, you’re the one! You’re the boy who supposed to be nice and foster a pleasant was so nice,” a nurse said. “Could you come atmosphere for the patients. up to ICCU for a little while?” “I could be better,” she said. “Okay, ma’am, I’ll be there right away,” “I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you get I said, not quite knowing what to expect. better.” We chatted as I wheeled her to her I was curious as to why I had been called,

room. At the same time, I was thinking but soon, thoughts of schoolwork, the BY SCOTT SNOW ILLUSTRATIONS

16 NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 17 hen I upcoming football game, and food replaced “Of course! I’d love to do that,” I answered. WWtook the my curiosity. “You remind me so much of my grand- time “Right this way,” a nurse pointed when I son. You have the hair, the eyes, the face. He to actually talk to arrived. “It’s the door right in the middle of looks so much like you,” she said. Rebecca, I learned all the others.” “So where does your grandson live?” I that she used to win I knocked at the door. “Hello? This is asked. beauty pageants. Michael,” I said. We talked for about 30 minutes. I learned I learned that her “Please come in,” a weak voice responded. about her grandchildren. I learned that she husband of 42 years It was the woman I had wheeled to her used to win beauty pageants. I learned that had died just under room earlier that day. “What’s wrong?” I her husband of 42 years had died just under a a year ago. I learned immediately asked, sensing something was year ago. I learned a lot. a lot. terribly wrong. That’s when it hit me: these are lives I’m “I just found out my cancer has pro- touching. Why have I been so casual about gressed to a very bad stage,” she said. people’s lives? “Oh, I’m so sorry. Is there anything I can I found out that after she was told about do for you?” her condition, she had asked for the “boy “Well, I just wanted to talk to who had been so nice to her.” The boy you,” she replied. “You were so who had been so nice? I hadn’t been kind to me this morning, and, mean, but I certainly hadn’t been well, I just wanted to talk to the most sincere person around. you.” After all, for me this volunteer work was just a way to get into college. I resolved to change. Never again would I so lightly con- sider these people I was serving. I redou- bled my efforts as a volunteer and started to take pride in my work. I was only 17 years old. But I could make a difference. NE

18 LIFE IS NO GAME. EVERY CHOICE HAS CONSEQUENCES, SO CHOOSE WISELY. (See 2 Nephi 2:27.) PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY CHRISTINA SMITH; IDEA BY THERON CHRISTENSEN CHRISTINA SMITH; IDEA BY BY ILLUSTRATION PHOTO NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 19 HEN W INROME These youth find ... strength in righteous living. From left DO AS to right: Andrew TH Bishop, Arianna BY JENNIFER MADDY E Hibo, Riccardo Church Magazines S S Celestini, Denise De E N Feo, Davide Bosco, Youth in Rome, Italy, ROMA Dalila Vardeu, and stand strong against invading Sami Pace. influences of the world.

20 eople popped in and out of shops and waved hello Today, the young men and young women of the Rome Italy to friends in the crowded city center. Some people Stake stand strong, as the empire once did. But these youth Pdiscussed business on their way to work, while others hold steady against the invading influences of the adversary traded opinions on politics. Children played, enjoying the and strengthen their spirituality by living righteously. morning sun. That’s what a typical day might have been like in Roman Missionaries ancient Rome. In a letter to the Romans, the Apostle Paul said, “I am The Roman Empire was a mighty civilization with mili- not ashamed of the gospel of Christ” (Romans 1:16). tary and economic dominance. Who could have imagined Today’s Latter-day Saint youth in Rome are not ashamed, its downfall? nor do they need encouragement in order to stand up for But fall it did. From the inside, the empire’s decay was what they believe, though sometimes it might be hard. fueled by people’s greed for power and wealth and their disregard for righteous living. From the outside, the weakening empire was invaded and conquered by

PHOTOGRAPHS BY JENNIFER MADDY BY PHOTOGRAPHS neighboring powers. Arianna Hibo, 15, says, “I Denise De Feo, 15, sees an have some friends who don’t example in her older brother: share my ideas, but they always “He’s on a mission now, and he’s respect me.” having all these experiences. Not Dalila Vardeu, 15, adds, “I have all of them are good, but every time he has friends who listen to me and try to something to teach. That comforts me.” mid the ruins of understand what I am.” The youth know that even Aan ancient city, And what is she? What character- seemingly small acts of service these young istics describe these few Latter-day Saint youth or missionary work can have a Latter-day Saints surviving in the busy Italian capital? Honest, positive impact on others. Davide build their lives on dedicated, friendly, righteous, and sincere in Bosco, 17, says, “In the scriptures, the Lord the gospel, good their desire to live and share the gospel. asks us to shine (see Matthew 5:16)—not to friendships, and Sami Pace, 16, served as deacons do great things, but in the little things.” high standards. quorum president when he was the only member of the quorum. “I For the Strength of Italian Youth learned the importance of mission- The young members in Rome do shine, ary work, even if up to now I have not had any and they do so in stark contrast to the many results,” he says. “I’m the only young man in my ancient Romans who unfortunately embraced area who’s a member. Every day I understand unrighteous practices that contributed to their something more about missionary work.” moral decay. Instead, today’s youth reflect the

“I have some friends who don’t share my ideas, but they always respect me.”

22 Light of Christ and streng- Rome drive about nine then their spirituality by hours (one way) to the maintaining high standards Bern Switzerland Temple. and attending the temple. Trips to perform baptisms Denise finds that living for the dead are infrequent. the gospel provides a relief But even though the temple from the many pressures in is far away, these youth keep it today’s world. The gospel also close to their hearts by striving helps her know how to choose to hold onto the special feelings the right. “The things that my friends do are not always they receive when they attend. good things that I should do,” she says simply. “When I’m at the temple, I feel But Riccardo Celestini, 14, emphasizes the at home,” Sami says. “Every time I grow a little more.” importance of having support when trying “My favorite part about the temple is that I feel the Spirit to make right choices: “Sometimes I also need very strongly,” says Andrew. “I know that our ancestors are the help of my family or other help because thanking us for helping them. We give them a gift.” I cannot stand alone.” Dalila agrees. “It is beautiful to feel that the people accept Some of that other help comes from For what we are doing for them. It’s a wonderful experience.” the Strength of Youth. The pamphlet helps Arianna wraps up her friends’ comments: “All the things these youth in different ways. Andrew Bishop, they said are true. The temple is a holy place on earth, and 13, won’t go to his baseball team’s practices it doesn’t matter that the temple is in Switzerland or Spain. and games if they’re on Sundays. The Spirit is always the same, and we can grow every time.” Arianna also follows the counsel on Sabbath day obser- Present-day Rome is littered with broken pieces of vance. She is a runner and had to race on many Sundays. ancient buildings, stairways, and arches—pieces of once- Finally, she knew she had to make a decision. “I prayed, grand structures destroyed by stronger forces. The youth and even though it was hard for me to decide, I decided in Rome, on the other hand, take the pieces of their lives— to go to church instead,” she says. the gospel, scriptures, family, standards, the temple—and For Davide and Riccardo, the counsel on honesty helps. develop solid testimonies that withstand the negative “In school we have the opportunity to cheat and to copy influences of the world. homework from someone else,” Davide says. “But not Sami has one suggestion for gaining that strength: doing that will make the difference between us and other “Don’t give up. Let’s go forward.” NE people.” He adds that honesty “is one of the principles that you might think isn’t very important, but it’s what “The Lord asks us to shine.” makes the difference.” Riccardo knows that honesty in sports is important too: “If you play fair, you know you were doing your best and not cheating. You are satisfied with what you have done.”

Near and Far There is one thing that these youth aren’t satisfied with, and that’s the number of times they can attend the temple. Without a temple in Italy, the Church members in

“I learned the importance of missionary work.” NOT

24 SO FAST! BY DANIELLE NYE POULTER

I was afraid my parents would catch me as I opened it. My hand brought out a fi stful of cereal. My breaking my fast, but luckily, I caught mouth watered in anticipation, but before I could pop myself. that fi rst sweet piece in, I froze again. This time it wasn’t because I had heard a noise. It was froze on tiptoe and listened hard. Was that creaking because I felt a gentle but persistent nudge to my con- Isound I heard my parents’ door? No, they were still in science. I knew I didn’t really need to worry about my their room, getting ready for church. I sighed in relief parents catching me eating when I was supposed to be

then continued silently up the stairs into the kitchen. fasting. I was old enough to decide for myself whether I On most fast Sundays I didn’t have too much of a would fast or not. So what was it going to be? problem making it to dinnertime without eating. But this As I contemplated that delicious-looking handful of

BY DILLEEN MARSH morning I had awakened starving! I decided to sneak up cereal, I realized it didn’t matter whether I actually took a to the kitchen and get just a little snack before church. bite. If my heart wasn’t in my fast, I might as well not be

ILLUSTRATION ILLUSTRATION I poked my head into the pantry and checked my doing it at all. I had been kidding myself spiritually. Even options. “No, no, no,” I whispered to myself as my eyes if I didn’t get caught with my contraband cereal, I would fl icked over wheat crackers and unripe bananas. know, and more importantly, the Lord would know that Then I spied it—my absolute favorite cereal. It a little treat was more important to me than my spiritual was sweet and crunchy, and all I needed well-being. was a handful to tide me over until The pieces of cereal clattered back into the box as I dinner. released my clenched hand. I said a silent prayer of grati- The cardboard box tude for the lesson I had just learned. From then on when made a pleasant the fi rst Sunday of the month came around, I would know thwick sound I was fasting for the right reasons, my own reasons, and not because my parents or leaders expected me to. As I walked back through the kitchen and down to my room, I didn’t creep along on tiptoe like I had on the way up. This time, I walked with my head held high. The Spirit had taught me the bless- ings of a sincere fast, and I had chosen it for myself. NE

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 25 Five Scriptures

THAT

WILL HELP Why do bad

things happen, YOU GET even to good

THROUGH people? Thanks

to modern ALMOST revelation,

ANYTHING we have a

few answers.

BY JOHN BYTHEWAY

26 he past few years have produced a lot because we did something wrong. That’s not of scary headlines. We’ve seen it all, always true. Adversity is simply part of earth Tfrom large scale to small scale, from life. From it we can grow and progress if we international terrorism to the breakdown of choose to. Yes, some trials come because of individual families. Innocent people, even our own disobedience, but many trials are children, are not spared. Why do these things simply part of life. happen? Philosophers and theologians have The scriptures contain many examples of wrestled with that question for centuries. righteous people who suffered: Abraham, However, as Latter-day Saints, we have Abinadi, Joseph of Egypt, Joseph Smith, and Something something many philosophers and theologians even Jesus Christ. The fact is, bad things wonderful don’t have. We have revelation, both ancient happen to good people. Brother Truman and modern. So, rather than just asking why G. Madsen once asked President Hugh B. happens these things happen, let’s ask a slightly differ- Brown of the First Presidency (1883–1975) when we ent question: What do we know for sure? Let’s why the Lord would put Abraham through really know, explore five scriptures that will help us find the experience of being asked to sacrifice his without comfort in the things we do know. own son. Obviously God knew that Abraham a doubt, would be willing to do anything God com- We Know manded, and if that was so, why did the that God Scripture That God Lord put him through such a test? President loves us. One Loves His Brown answered, “Abraham needed to learn Children! something about Abraham” (Joseph Smith the (1 Nephi 11:17) Prophet [1989], 93). Early in the Book of Mormon, an angel God already knows what we’re made of, asks Nephi a tough question, “Knowest thou but perhaps He wants us to learn what we’re the condescension of God?” Nephi answers, made of. I think we would all agree that we “I know that he loveth his children; never- learn more from our tough times than from theless, I do not know the meaning of all our easy times. Sometimes bad things happen things” (1 Nephi 11:16–17). Nephi’s answer to good people. We don’t know the mean- is a perfect statement for us to remember in ing of all things, but we know God loves His times of trial. We don’t know the meaning of children! And because He loves us, He will all things. We don’t have all the answers to never desert us. explain all the tragedies in the world and in our own neighborhoods. However, we know, we are sure, that God loves His children. Something wonderful happens when we really know, without a doubt, that God loves BY DEL PARSON us—our questions completely change. Instead of asking, “Why did this happen to me?” or “Why doesn’t God care about me?” we say, Why did this CHRIST WITH CHILDREN, “Well, I know God loves me; I know that. So what can I learn from this experience?” happen to me?

DETAILS FROM DETAILS Sometimes we think our trials come

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 27 We Know That But some do not. Scripture God Allows They are “without Two Evil to Exist in affection.” Everyone the World on earth has agency, (Moses 7:26–33) and sometimes Sometimes our trials are a direct result of those who misuse someone using their agency to do evil. Often it have an impact when tragedy strikes, someone will say, on many innocent people. This scripture “Well, it must have been God’s will.” What provides evidence that the Lord notices the exactly is “God’s will”? It seems to me that tragedies on the earth and that He is affected God’s will is that we choose righteousness by them. over wickedness! However, He also desires Many of the bad things that happen are that we have a choice in the matter. contrary to God’s will. But remember that In the Pearl of Great Price, Enoch sees man’s will is temporary, and ultimately God’s Everyone a frightening vision. “And he beheld Satan; will is what will be done. on earth has and he had a great chain in his hand, and it There are other questions in all of this, agency, and veiled the whole face of the earth with dark- too. How many acts of premeditated evil has ness; and he looked up and laughed, and his God prevented? How many of these trag- sometimes angels rejoiced” (Moses 7:26). edies could have been much worse? There those who Chains often symbolize bondage in the is no way we could know. Sometimes we misuse it have scriptures, and Enoch sees Satan looking up see things on the news and ask, “How could an impact and laughing at the world in chains. Enoch God allow this to happen?” Could it be that on many also sees the Lord, who looks down on the one day we’ll discover that God prevented sinful world and weeps. Enoch asks: much more than He allowed? innocent “How is it that thou canst weep, seeing How many times has someone prayed people. thou art holy, and from all eternity to all that “we might get home in safety,” and we eternity?” (Moses 7:29). actually did? How many traffic accidents has The Lord answers in what I think is one He helped you avoid? How many times has of the saddest passages of scripture: He inspired you to do something that saved “Behold these thy brethren; they are the someone from injury? We will never know workmanship of mine own hands, and I in this life. gave unto them their knowledge, in the day The plan of happiness allows for agency, I created them; and in the Garden of Eden, and therefore it also allows for evil. There is gave I unto man his agency; no flaw in the plan. “And unto thy brethren have I said, and also given commandment, that they should love one another, and that they should How could choose me, their Father; but behold, they are God allow without affection, and they hate their own blood” (Moses 7:32–33). evil to Clearly, what the Lord desires is that we happen? love one another and choose to obey Him.

28 Our Work of salvation. One mission president noted Scripture Is Not the sadness experienced by families who Three Finished! send a missionary out into the field. He also (Alma 14:13) observed the great joy experienced by the Sometimes people need to look to some- mission president and his wife as they wel- one else who relied on Christ’s Atonement come a new missionary into their area. The and was able to make it through a terrible very same event brings different feelings to tragedy. different people depending on where they Don’t let As you recall, Alma and Amulek taught are. Similarly, those who are left behind feel tragedy define the people of Ammonihah. Some of them sadness at the passing of their loved one, but your life. were so wicked that they responded to the there is great joy in the spirit world as the message by building a bonfire and throw- departed spirit enters into the next phase of ing the believing women and children into his or her eternal existence. the flames. They forced Alma and Amulek to The best way to prepare for death is to watch the horrible suffering. live life at its fullest. I believe the Lord will “How can we witness this awful scene?” hold us accountable for what we did with Amulek asks. our lives whether we have trials or not, Alma answers: “The Spirit constraineth whether we marry or not, and whether our me that I must not stretch forth mine hand; life is easy or not. for behold the Lord receiveth them up unto Needless to say, Alma and Amulek himself, in glory.” witnessed an awful scene. I wonder if they Those who believed in God were received were ever able to forget what they saw. unto Him in glory! They died, but they were How did they survive? The answer lies in going to a glorious place. Scripture Four. Amulek says, “Perhaps they will burn us also.” The Atonement Alma replies, “Be it according to the will Scripture Is Not Just of the Lord. But, behold, our work is not Four for Sinners finished; therefore they burn us not” (Alma (Alma 7:11–12) 14:10-13, emphasis added). This scripture teaches us that Jesus not In other words, don’t let this tragedy only suffered for the things we do that are define your life! You still have your own wrong, but He also suffered for the things mission. Like Alma and Amulek, perhaps which happen to us—things over which we you were spared because your work is have no control. Alma taught: not finished! “And he shall go forth, suffering pains and

BY HEINRICH HOFMANN, COURTESY C. HARRISON CONROY CO. INC. BY HEINRICH HOFMANN, COURTESY After making such a statement, the obvi- afflictions and temptations of every kind; and ous question becomes, what about those this that the word might be fulfilled which who die in such tragedies? Does that mean saith he will take upon him the pains and the their work is finished? Perhaps their work sicknesses of his people.

CHRIST IN GETHSEMANE, on earth is finished, but apparently there is “And he will take upon him death, that more work to do in the spirit world. he may loose the bands of death which bind

DETAILS FROM DETAILS Death is just another milepost in the plan his people; and he will take upon him their

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 29 infi rmities, that his bowels may be fi lled with and the end mercy, according to the fl esh, that he may thereof.” But that’s know according to the fl esh how to succor not all! The list his people” ( Alma 7:11–12 ). continues: The words “sin” or “sins” do not appear “Things most anywhere in those two verses. But notice precious, things We may the other words—things in addition to sins that are above, and never have that Jesus took upon him: pains, affl ictions, things that are beneath, things that are in the all the temptations, sicknesses, and infi rmities. earth, and upon the earth, and in heaven. answers Alma and Amulek must have relied on the “And all they who suffer persecution for Atonement of Christ to get them through my name, and endure in faith, though they in this life. the sadness, the nightmares, and the emo- are called to lay down their lives for my sake tional trauma of the tragedy in Ammonihah. yet shall they partake of all this glory. We must rely on the Atonement to help us “Wherefore, fear not even unto death; for through our personal tragedies as well. in this world your joy is not full, but in me your joy is full” (D&C 101:34–36 ). One Day, Scripture the Lord The Ultimate Answer Five Will Reveal You may have noticed the title of this All Things article, “Five Scriptures That Will Help You (D&C 101:32–36 ) Get Through Almost Anything.” We may never have all the answers in Ultimately, it is not the scriptures that this life. The newspapers, the cable news help get us through things, but the Lord networks, and the politicians will be debat- Jesus Christ, of whom the scriptures testify. ing the causes and solutions to our modern He is the one who will help us get through problems for years. The faithful will look anything and everything. Because of for answers in the scriptures, where the Jesus Christ, we can remove the word answers don’t change. And one day, the “almost.” Jesus didn’t almost conquer death Lord will return and answer all our questions: and hell; He conquered it. Jesus didn’t “Yea, verily I say unto you, in that day almost accomplish the infi nite and eternal when the Lord shall come, he shall reveal Atonement; He accomplished it. The all things— language of the scriptures is absolute “Things which have passed, and hidden when it comes to power of the Savior. things which no man knew, things of the (See the list on the next page.) earth, by which it was made, and the pur- Finally (and most important for our pose and the end thereof” ( D&C 101:32–33 ). discussion), in the midst of our trials and Think of the perplexing questions adversity, He promises us the power to regarding the creation of the universe, the overcome all things with no almost : “By origin of the dinosaurs, and the age of the giving heed and doing these things which ye earth. This scripture assures us that one have received, and which ye shall hereafter day, the Lord will reveal “things of the earth, receive—and the kingdom is given you of by which it was made, and the purpose the Father, and power to overcome all things”

30 (D&C 50:35, emphasis added). THE LORD IS OVER ALL While we may not have all the answers in this life, the Lord does, and we can ltimately, it is the Lord Jesus Christ who will help us trust Him more than anyone or anything Uget through everything. The language of the scrip- in this world. He will help us get through everything. tures is absolute when it comes to His power. Notice the So what do we know for sure, from absence of the word almost in the following verses: sources whose answers don’t change? We know that God loves His children. We know that part of His plan is to allow D&C 88:6—Jesus descended below all things. evil to exist in the world. We know that if we’re still alive, we have a work to Alma 7:11—He suffered temptations of every kind. accomplish. We know that the Savior Hebrews 4:15—He was tempted in all points as we suffered not only for our sins, but also for our pains and afflictions, and we know are, yet He is without sin. that one day He will conquer the evil one, answer all our questions, and bless us D&C 58:22—He subdued all enemies under His feet. with a fulness of joy. NE D&C 50:41—He overcame the world.

John 1:3—All things were made by Him.

D&C 50:27—All things are subject unto Him.

2 Nephi 9:20—He knoweth all things.

D&C 88:41—He comprehendeth all things.

He promises D&C 101:16—All flesh is in His hands. us the power to overcome John 14:26—Through the Holy Ghost He will bring all things with all things to our remembrance. no almost. Matthew 19:26—He taught that with God all things are possible.

BY HARRY ANDERSON BY HARRY Romans 8:28—Because of Him, all things that we experience will work together for our good. THE SECOND COMING, DETAILS FROM DETAILS

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 31 TURN

BY HILLARY HOLBROOK

We left, and that was the safest thing to do.

y best friend, Liz, and I were park, immense drops of rain pounded the Malways eager for girls’ camp. windshield of the small car I was driving. Since we were 12, we had excit- The wipers fl ipped back and forth, splashing edly gone every year. The hot, muggy Texas the rain off. The sky was gray, and evening weather didn’t bother us a bit. We loved was quickly approaching. We didn’t have spending time with the girls and leaders from much time to fi nd our campsite. We drove our ward and stake, attending fun activities, into the main part of the park, near a closed and bearing our testimonies on the last night convenience store and park headquarters. of camp. Now, as 18-year-olds, we were The parking lot was empty, and everything being given the chance to serve as music looked secluded. There was no trace of any- leaders in our seventh and fi nal year before body anywhere. RIGHT going to college. “What should we do?” I asked. “We can’t The Saturday before camp started, we fi nd these campsites from here.” decided to drive to the location, an hour “Let’s walk around and see if a park away from where we lived, to look at the ranger could help us,” she replied. unfamiliar campgrounds and get a feel for Wooden canoes, tied up to a dock on the how to prepare our tent and cabin. Both lake, clanked together as fi erce winds blew. of our mothers advised us not to go. They The tall trees swayed back and forth, their warned us that a storm was coming from the leaves rustling together like pom-poms. Rain direction where we were headed. A thunder- hit the lake like a million pennies falling storm in Texas is no small matter, especially from the sky. We quickly got back into the in the early summer months of May and car. June. Downpours mixed with heavy thunder “Maybe we should just go home,” I said. and fl ashes of lightning are not unusual. But Just as I started the engine, though, a park we were excited and a bit rebellious, and we ranger’s truck approached us. A stocky- went anyway. built man stepped out and approached my

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voice. I couldn’t ignore the sick feeling in my stomach. The Spirit was telling me that I shouldn’t continue to fol- low the park ranger. The truck drove one way and we drove the other, exiting the park. The farther away I drove, the better I felt. As we headed home, the raindrops pound- ing on the windshield lessened and eventually came to a complete stop. I knew that we should have listened to our mothers, who were clearly more in tune with the Spirit than we were when they advised us not to go. I’m not sure exactly what danger we might have been in—it could have been with the ranger, who was a stranger, the stormy weather, or things completely unknown to us at the time. But the the state park badge sewn on the left sleeve of his stiff, best part of the story is, we weren’t there to fi nd out! I’m brown button-up shirt. absolutely sure that we had to leave, and I’ve learned He hunched over, tipping his ranger hat and placing his that when faced with a decision to make, following the hands on his knees. inspired counsel of our parents and the promptings of the “Can I help y’all?” He asked. I could smell alcohol on Spirit is the best and safest direction to take. NE his breath. I looked at Liz, and then back at him. “We’re going to be attending a camp here this com- A PROPHET’S EXPERIENCE ing week,” I replied. “We just came to look for some campgrounds.” resident Harold B. Lee, the 11th president of the “Oh,” he said. “I was just heading down that way. Why P Church (1899–1973), had a similar experience as a don’t you follow me?” young boy. Although he wasn’t sure what kind of danger “Okay,” I replied, feeling unsure. I rolled up my he might have been in, he still followed the Spirit. window. “I was around ten or eleven years of age. I was with “Liz, that guy freaked me out,” I said. “Could you smell my father out on a farm away from our home, trying to the alcohol on his breath?” I had a sick feeling in my stom- spend the day busying myself until my father was ready ach, which is the feeling I get when the Spirit is prompting to go home. Over the fence from our place were some me to turn away from a bad situation. tumbledown sheds that would attract a curious boy, and I As the park ranger drove, we followed. Then we came was adventurous. I started to climb through the fence, and to an intersection where we could choose to continue I heard a voice clearly as you are hearing mine, calling me following the ranger or exit the park. For a moment, we by name and saying, ‘Don’t go over there!’ I turned to look stopped. I watched as his truck drove through the spillway at my father to see if he were talking to me, but he was into the camp. The water from the lake, which spilled over way up at the other end of the fi eld. There was no person the road, reached halfway up the truck’s tires. I knew that in sight. I realized then, as a child, that there were persons my small car might get stuck on the spillway if the rain beyond my sight, for I had defi nitely heard a voice” (Stand continued. Ye in Holy Places [1974], 139).

“Let’s get out of here,” said Liz, with urgency in her

34 HE XTRA MILE Congratulations, T E S Mr. Dickson! You’ve prequalifi ed for a 25-cent lemonade.

Oh, my mistake, Elder. It’s a letter from John Deere not a Dear John.

Okay—so any questions?

JON CLARK

VAL CHADWICK BAGLEY

Of course we’re happy you’re home from Scout camp, Son. We’re just not letting you in until you hose off.

RYAN STOKER

ARIE VAN DE GRAAFF NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 35 Sometimes I wonder if our parents, bishop, and Church leaders are all good people to talk to about this. the Church is true. Is there Y They can help you sort out your con- cerns and answer many of your questions. someone I can Most important, however, is asking your talk to about Heavenly Father if the Church is true. The Savior has promised that if we ask, we shall my doubts? receive. But you must ask in faith. To receive answers, you need to listen for the still, small voice of the Holy Ghost. You will also want to repent of sins and eliminate any roadblocks that would make it diffi cult for the Spirit to communicate with you. Sometimes God has already answered our prayers and we just aren’t listening. Doctrine and Covenants 8:2–3 says that the Spirit will “tell you in your mind and in your heart.” If you have thought, “When others bear their testimonies, I feel they know the Church is true” or “When I’m at Church, I feel good,” that is one way the Spirit answers prayers. We must listen carefully to the Spirit; learning to do so is a lifelong pursuit. Your testimony will come from those feelings of peace and calm assurance that the Spirit brings, more than from facts or the testimonies of others.

36 Your testimony is built on faith, which comes I have from learning and living the gospel. a medical condition Gaining a testimony takes patience, effort, that keeps me from fasting, and faith. You will likely experience opposi- tion and doubt. Keeping the commandments but I still want fast Sunday to be and remembering those peaceful feelings special. How can I bring the Spirit closer to me that come from the Spirit will prepare you to receive the answers you need. And as you on fast Sundays? continue in faith, you will receive the testi- mony you seek. (See D&C 88:62–69.) NE t’s true that some people have different needs when it comes to fasting. But there Some of my friends Iare things you can do to make fast Sunday call special even if you can’t go without food. An important part of fasting is prayer our leaders by with a purpose. Even though your medical . situation means it would be unwise for you their first name to go without food or drink, you can still Is that OK? focus on someone or something in particular to pray about throughout the day. You can t’s a matter of respect. Although your leaders focus on seeking inspiration in dealing with are your friends, they are still your lead- a specific situation, a desire to understand Iers. They’ve been called and set apart to a gospel principle more fully, or express- fulfill a calling, whether it is a Young Women ing gratitude for your blessings. You can president, Scoutmaster, or some other position. also commit to spending more time with They deserve your respect, and part of that is the scriptures and in personal prayer and calling them “brother” or “sister.” Just like you reflection. wouldn’t call your bishop by his first name, Another way to bring the Spirit closer is you shouldn’t call your other leaders by their to serve. Pause to help and lift someone. first names, either. Consider donating additional money to fast Elder Theodore M. Burton of the Seventy offerings. (1907–1989) said, “Through baptism we have “Fasting embodies a principle of sacrifice— become adopted members of the royal fam- that of denying oneself something so that he ily of Jesus Christ, and that is the basic reason or she can become a more spiritual individual. we now call each other ‘brother’ or ‘sister.’ We Perhaps one could sacrifice something other have indeed become members of the Church, than food or drink in order to accomplish or family, of Jesus Christ” (“To Be Born Again,” this goal. One might abstain from television, Ensign, Sept. 1985, 70). movies, or sleeping in” (Malcolm S. Jeppsen, It would be best to always refer to your “I Have a Question,” Ensign, Apr. 1979, 25). leaders as “brother” or “sister.” The same is true If you invite the Spirit into your heart for other adults in the Church. If you treat them through your thoughts and actions, fast with respect when you speak to them, it will Sundays can be a special day to draw closer NE NE PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY MATT REIER BY MATT PHOTO ILLUSTRATION be easier to be respectful at all times. to the Lord through prayer and sacrifice.

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ON WHEELS ServiceBY HILLARY HOLBROOK

It isn’t hard to be a erviceere vice can come in manymany forms: bak-bak- quorum in the Glenview Ward, Mesa big wheel if you’re SSingini g cookies, raking leaves,leaves, babysit-babysit- Arizona KimballKimball Stake,Stake, givegive elderlyelderly sisters a priest in the ting.tting. But for a group ofof young men ththee chancechance to partakepartake ofof thethe sacrament by Glenview Ward. All in MesMesa,a, Arizona,Arizona, serviceservice has ppushingushing theirtheir wheelchairswheelchairs fromfrom you have to do is come in a different form: push- push- an assisted living home to give a little service. ihlhiing wheelchairs. their ward meetinghouse. Every Sunday, Here’s what the young the priests men have to say about the service: PHOTOGRAPH BY SHARON V. MCRAE PHOTOGRAPH BY SHARON V.

3838 WHAT IS THE BEST PART ABOUT SERVING THE SISTERS? HOW DO YOU FEEL WHEN YOU SERVE? “The best part about taking the sisters to church every “When I can help the sisters go to church by pushing week is seeing the looks of gratitude in their eyes. They’re their wheelchairs, I feel really good. When we arrive at the so happy. You can tell that they really enjoy coming to meetinghouse, ward members always talk with the sisters. church and partaking of the sacrament.” We take them to church, but the members go the extra —Brad Bishop mile to visit with them.” —Nathan Carroll “There are some who can’t even talk, yet their gratitude is clearly expressed through their beaming “When our quorum fi rst got the assignment to push faces. One great thing about the sisters is wheelchairs, I wasn’t sure what to expect. But that they have a great sense of humor. now I love to serve the sisters. I have fun They always have good jokes.” talking to them about life.” —Tyson Anderson —Leighton Carroll

“When I serve the sisters, I feel amazed by their dedication. It takes a lot of effort for them to get up early and get ready, but they always come. They always have smiles on their faces.” —Austin McNeil

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 39 THE CHURCH IN “Make the 1 2 best invest- 3 ment of your 4 5 USA—GEORGIA 6 7 issionaries for the Church arrived in Georgia life by spend- Min 1843 to preach and later to campaign for ing more of 89 10 the Prophet Joseph Smith’s United States your time 11 presidential bid. One early convert to the Church now to study donated land and built a chapel 12 at Mormon Springs in and learn for 13 Haralson County. yourself the 14 By 1908, ways of the Church member- Lord.” 15 16 ship in Georgia was Elder M. Russell approximately 6,800. 17 The first temple to be Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve built in the Southern Apostles, “The Making states was completed of a Missionary,” SERMON ON THE MOUNT in 1983 in Atlanta, Georgia. Ensign, Nov. 1976, 87. Atlanta Latter-day Saints gave disaster relief to the This crossword puzzle will help test your knowledge of the Savior’s Sermon on community after the 1992 Hurricane Andrew in Albany; the Mount as recorded in Matthew, chapters 5–7. the flooding in 1994, when some ACROSS 6,000 Church volunteers assisted Here are a few facts about the 5. Jesus taught not as the scribes, but “as one having ___.” (7:29) homeowners; and to the Gulf Coast Church today in Georgia: 6. “Blessed are the ______: for they shall see God.” (5:8) PHOTOGRAPH BY JED CLARK after Hurricanes Katrina and Rita Membership 71,268 10. “Lay not up for yourselves ___ upon earth.” (6:19) 13. “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be ___.” (5:4) in 2005. Missions 3 14. No man can serve two of these. (6:24) Temples 1 15. We should not hide our light under this. (5:15) Congregations 137 16. “Blessed are the meek: for they shall ___ the earth.” (5:5) Family History Centers 44 17. “Blessed are they which are ___: for righteousness’ sake:” (5:10) Information from Newsroom at www. DOWN lds.org. 1. We should not cast these before swine. (7:6) MY 2. “Blessed are the ___: for they shall obtain mercy.” (5:7) 3. “Judge not, that ye be not ___.” (7:1) FAVORITE 4. “When ye pray, use not vain ___, as the heathen do:” (6:7) 6. “Blessed are the ___: for they shall be called the children of God.” (5:9) SCRIPTURE 7. “Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after ___: for they shall be filled.”” (5:6) Alma 37:37 When I 8. “Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the ___ of heaven.” (5:3) am having a bad night, 9. We should love not only our neighbours, but also our ___. (5:44) I read this scripture and 11. What are we if we do not first cast out the beam in our own eye rather than it reassures me that the worrying about others’ problems? (7:5) Spirit is with me and 12. “Ye are the ____ of the world.” (5:14)

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RAISE THE TORCHT O R ome 650 young men and women from the greatergreat Atlanta, Georgia, area took part in a two-night dance Sfefestivalstival themed Raise the Torch. It was a remiremindernd for the youth to stand as witnesses of God at all times anandd in all places. The youth from 24 wards aandnd branches performed 13 dance numbers to a cheering, packedpacked house of 1,500 people on each night. AttendeesAttendees were encouraged to do the “can-can” by bringing a can of food to help “stomp” out hunger. Nearly five barrels were filled with donations for the local food bank. Many of the teens talk about the close bonds they forgedfo with the youth from their own ward and also from the other units and stakes. Beehive Elizabeth Hall recentlyrecent moved to Roswell, Georgia, when dance rehearsals werewere under way and was excited to take part. “Getting involvedi in the dance festival enabled me to get to know a lot more of the youth quickly,” she says. Others, like MichaelM Reid, 16, of the Webb Bridge Ward says he learned not only how to line dance, but he “met some great newnew friends.” One of the most amazing occurrences, however, was that 12- and 13-year-old boys actually danced! Prior to the performances, the youth were able to raisera their torches by taking part in service projects through- out the community. All told, the youth provided more than 4,500 hours of service. Upcoming Beehives and deacons have already started asking when the next dance festival will be held so they can participate.

FOCUSING ON PHOTOGRAPH BY GETTY IMAGES VALUES o promote modesty and values, the young Twomen of the Torrance Second Ward in California had a modest “fashion shoot” for a recent Mutual activity. Each girl chose a value to portray in her clothing choice. The room where the young women meet was then transformed into a working photo PHOTOGRAPHSPHOTOGRAPH COURTESY OF TODD WESTBERG studio, complete with studio lights and backdrop. BY THETH Each girl had her own photo NUMBERSN U M B shoot with her value poster and then the photographer took group shots. Not only did the young 110707 NumberNumber of lan- women learn about the values, but they also realized modesty can be guguagesages in whwhichich the Book easy, fun, and fashionable. And it never goes out of style. PHOTOGRAPH COURTESY OF CINDI PICKETT of Mormon is ppublished (includes(includes both fullf edition and selections).selections)

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 41 SCRIPTURE READING ADDS UP! BY CHAD MORRIS

atie raised her hand. She had a very good The teacher thought for a moment. He said he was KK question. Feeling OK to stray from the fl ow of nothing special. He didn’t have a photographic memory, the lesson, the teacher directed the class to a or even a very good one. And then he answered with scripture that would help with an answer. Another hand another scripture: “By small and simple means are great rose with another question. Again, we turned the pages of things brought to pass” ( Alma 37:6 ). The teacher testifi ed the Book of Mormon for help with the answer. After the that he read his scriptures often. He read them daily. And third time in this process, years of daily scripture study add up. Katie raised her hand I’ve refl ected on that moment several times. I believe I again. Almost before caught a glimpse of the bigger picture of daily scripture the teacher could study. Prophets have taught of its importance and how it call on her, she will bless our lives. President Gordon B. Hinckley said, blurted out, “You may think you are too busy. Ten or fi fteen minutes “How do you a day with the scriptures, and particularly with the Book know your of Mormon, can give you a marvelous understanding of scriptures so great eternal truths” (“Rise to the Stature of the Divine well? How can you within You,” Ensign, Nov. 1989, 97). fi nd all that?” Prophets have taught that there are consequences for inconsistent or casual attempts at scripture study. President Harold B. Lee taught, “If we are not reading the scriptures daily, our testimonies are growing thinner, our spirituality isn’t increasing in depth” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Harold B. Lee [2000], 59). When beginning the scripture study habit, do not be surprised if it is diffi cult. But the effort is worth it. President Thomas S. Monson taught, “The holy scriptures are an unfailing guide in our lives. Become acquainted with the lessons the scriptures teach. Learn the back- ground and setting of the Master’s parables and the prophets’ admonitions. Study them as though each were speaking to you, for such is the truth” (“A Time to Choose,” Ensign, May 1995, 97). I read my scriptures daily. I read them personally and with my family. I need them every day. I know the Lord has many more things to teach me. And every little NE

sincere attempt adds up. BY STEVE KROPP ILLUSTRATION

42 L INE UPON L INE MATTHEWMATTHEW 5:14–165:14–16 In the Sermon on the Mount, the Savior taught us the importance of letting the gospel light shine in our lives.

Light of the world Let your light so shine “Jesus wants every one of us to know him “The candle that the Lord has lighted in because of the transforming power of that this dispensation can become as a light unto knowledge and because of the indescribable the whole world, and others seeing our good joy it brings into our lives. But the influence of works can be led to glorify our Father in the gospel is to extend beyond each individual. It is to be as a Heaven and emulate in their own lives the examples they have light that dispels the darkness from the lives of those around observed in ours. us. No one is saved solely and simply for “Beginning with you and me, there himself alone, just as no lamp is lighted can be an entire people who, by the merely for its own benefit.” virtue of our lives in our homes, in our Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin of the Quorum of vocations, even in our amusements, can the Twelve Apostles, “Build It Right,” New Era, Mar. 1990, 64. become as a city upon a hill to which men may look and learn, and an ensign to the nations from which the people of the earth may gather strength.”

City on a hill President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008), “A City upon a Hill,” Ensign, Ancient cities were often placed on July 1990, 5. hills to offer greater defense and safety. People could see them from far away and knew where to flee if danger came. How is being a disciple of Christ like Good works being a city on a hill? Read the words of the hymn “Have I Done Any Good?” (Hymns, no. 223). Write down a few things you Bushel can do to help or uplift someone, and plan times to do This word originally comes from an ancient Greek unit them. Put your list somewhere you will easily see it. of measurement for dry goods (about 8.7 liters) and also refers to the container used for measuring this unit. Imagine covering a candle with a large container like a bucket. Editors’ note: This page is not meant to be a comprehensive expla- nation of the selected scripture verse, only a starting point for your own study.

NEW ERA SEPTEMBER 2008 43 I NSTANT M ESSAGES

hen I was a junior in high CHOOSING school, I was on the var- Wsity cheerleading squad. SIDES Every summer we attended the NCA BY KATHY PARRY Cheerleading Camp at the University of Georgia. That year, as my room- mate and I were unpacking, I took out my scriptures and my picture of a temple and put them on the desk in the room, something my Laurel adviser had challenged us to do.

44 RIGHT PLACE, When my roommate saw that I had taken those things out, she moaned RIGHT TIME and said that she couldn’t take being BY MEGAN MICHEL around someone so religious and picked up her mattress and walked ne day at school, I was in a out of the room. She went into the hurry to get to my math class, next room and sat down with the rest Oand my locker wouldn’t open. of the cheerleading squad. I could I hadn’t had any trouble opening my hear them saying horrible things locker all year, so I was surprised I about my beliefs and me. I was couldn’t open it. Right then the hall shocked. I just sat there on my bed monitor walked by and opened my and wondered what to do. I looked locker. I got my books and realized at my scriptures and the temple pic- that if I walked into my math class, ture and thought, “Who do I want to I would be tardy, so I went to find please? Do I want to please Heavenly the hall monitor. She gave me a Father or these girls?” I remembered back-to-class pass. Just as I turned that Heavenly Father would never the corner, there was a girl in the forsake me, and I knew that I wanted hall sobbing because some girls had to please Him. pulled a mean prank. I didn’t know was that one day when a girl I endured a week of being her very well, but I gave her a hug, could use a hug. I think it is amazing excluded and shunned. I sat alone and she hugged back. I was amazed that the Lord puts you in certain in my room every night and listened that the only time my locker jammed situations to help others. NE to the other cheerleaders laughing. At mealtime, they would crowd me to the end of the table and turn their year. That year, however, our routines Father, even in the face of ridicule. I backs to me. The only time anyone were not going well. Nothing seemed felt such responsibility offering that would talk to me was if they needed to be working for us that morning. prayer. The cheer came together, but to communicate about a cheer we The girls felt hopeless. We sat in the bigger miracle was the change were doing. I wanted so badly to go a circle and talked about what we that took place in the hearts of the home, but I could not. I spent a lot of could do to improve our cheer and girls. From that day forward, we were time that week praying for Heavenly make it come together. friends, and they respected my beliefs Father to help me. I prayed for One girl said, “We need help. and values. On top of that, before strength to make it through the week. We need to pray.” A few of the girls every football game, our cheerlead- I prayed that I would treat the other said they didn’t know how to pray. ing squad would gather together in a girls nicely in spite of how they were Then, in the same instant, I saw 11 circle joining hands, and they would treating me. I prayed that their hearts heads turn in unison and look at me. ask me to offer a prayer. would be softened towards me. “Kathy, you know how to pray. Will I know that it is difficult sometimes This situation continued until you pray for us?” asked one of the to stand for what is right, but I know it was the last day of camp. In the girls. I couldn’t believe it. The Spirit that Heavenly Father is aware of our morning, we practiced and prepared touched me, and I felt so much love difficulties and if we remain true to for the final competition that after- for them. I was excited for the oppor- Him, He will stay with us and help us noon. Our squad was good, and we tunity to pray and so happy that I overcome. I learned for myself that it is NE ILLUSTRATIONS BY SAM LAWLOR; PHOTOGRAPH BY MATT REIER PHOTOGRAPH BY MATT BY SAM LAWLOR; ILLUSTRATIONS came in first or second place every had remained faithful to Heavenly worth it to stay on the Lord’s side.

NEW ERA JULYSEPTEMBER 2008 2008 45 from school, and my mom told me everyone, no matter what. That day, MY CHANGE that some boys at school had tricked I realized that Ben was no trial in my him into drinking toilet water and then life but a blessing. He had made me a OF HEART laughed at him for doing it. I was so better person in so many ways. I am so BY ALLISON JUDD angry and upset. I didn’t understand grateful to Heavenly Father for letting why we had been given this burden. Ben be such a major part of my life. NE hen I was three years old, Not long ago, I was at an activity my family’s life changed for- with my family. There were people A BETTER Wever. My mom gave birth to attending whom Ben knew from my brother, Ben, who was born with school. Every time he saw someone Down syndrome. I don’t remember he knew, he would give them a great USE OF his birth, but I do remember him get- big hug. I saw how much Ben loved ting a lot of extra attention and care. TIME Growing up with a physically and BY CAMERON NUCKOLS mentally handicapped brother was dif- fi cult for me. I remember one day when y friends and I started to play Ben was in second grade. I got home video games a little each day. MSoon we were playing two hours a day. When we talked to each other during the games, things that normally wouldn’t be said were said. I decided that every time my friends would play video games, I would make better use of my time by doing something else. I soon found that I was a lot happier inside. Video games can be fun, but when they’re fi lled with vulgar language and violence, Satan can corrupt our minds. NE

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