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as Americans. The Fourth of July has always been STD. Presorted Creative Director...... Jean-Pierre Thimot Buffalo Jewish Federation Jewish Buffalo ( 1 ) ( 5 ) ( 14 ) a joyous, fun, and exciting celebration in my family, [email protected] whether in Buffalo at the Waterfront, in Canada at the Lead Designer...... Kimberly Miers [email protected] beach or at camp with friends. And I know it will be Senior Graphic Designers...... Josh Flanigan, Adam Van Schoonhoven, especially dazzling this year because together, whether 1 Message from the Federation President Nicholas Vitello as a community, city, or country, we are celebrating and CEO: Federation Addresses Director of Advertising...... Barbara E. Macks Freedom from COVID as well as the 245th birthday of Antisemitism Every Day Sales Director...... Cynthia Oppenheimer [email protected] the United States! 2 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo Impact Report Senior Account Executives....Terri Downey, Keren Green, Mary Beth Holly, I am so looking forward to enjoying more dining 3 Dr. Gil Wolfe to Chair 2022 Campaign Caroline Kunze, Robin Lenhard, Rachel Wasserman and personal connection with friends and family, both for Jewish Buffalo Proofreader...... Amy Goldstein outside and inside; eating at restaurants all over WNY; 4 Buffalo Synagogues Collaborate to Launch Community Religious School BUFFALO SPREE PUBLISHING, INC. going to many more cultural and community events than President & CEO...... Sharon C. Levite last summer; participating in Shabbat services in person; 5 Buffalo Women Join Dignity Grows™ Project Publisher/Chief Revenue Officer...... Barbara E. Macks visiting many more gardens than last year, and simply 6 CJEL- Jewish Teen Mystery Tour Associate Publisher/Editor-In-Chief...... Elizabeth Licata hanging out with friends and family. 7 Welcome Teen Experience Manager Vice President/Administrative & Finance...... Michele Ferguson I know everything won’t be back to “normal” yet this Ben Wolfson! Corporate Counsel...... Timothy M. O’Mara, Esq. summer. I’ll still miss going to Canada, especially to 8 Dr Gerhard Falk Publishes Latest Book Niagara-on-the-Lake and the beaches nearby. I’ll still HRC Toby Ticktin Back Award Members of wear my mask when I go grocery shopping and visit 9 Celebrating the 2021 Campaign crowded venues. I won’t take friendship and celebrations for Jewish Buffalo for granted, either. I will be more present with friends P2G Pinah Submissions: and at events. I am so grateful our Jewish community, 10 New Partnership with UB Submit editorial stories, photos, and calendar items by the 1st of the who again, through its many organizations, leadership, preceding month of issue to [email protected]. 11 Rabbi’s Corner: Rabbi Adam Rosenbaum families and individuals helped to bring us through To Advertise: these frightening, dangerous and unprecedented (at 12 Preserving our Legacy: To advertise, call Cynthia Oppenheimer at 716-308-4843. Ad space Jewish Buffalo History Center least in my lifetime) 16 months of the COVID-19 & materials are due by the 10th of each month prior to publication. Pandemic. 13 Life & Legacy Program Launching in Buffalo For a rate card and any additional information, please email Cynthia Oppenheimer [email protected] or Barbara I hope you enjoy this issue of the Jewish Journal. 14 Comic Benji Lovitt Comes to the JCC July 25 Macks [email protected]. There’s a great deal to celebrate this summer, from the To Subscribe: new Community Religious School (pages 4-5), Dr. Gil 15 5 Things You Can Do in July to Repair the World To subscribe to The Jewish Journal, please email info@ Wolfe’s position as the new Campaign for Jewish Buffalo buffalojewishfederation.org. Free for Western New York area Chair (page 3), our new collaboration with UB (page 10), Where in Jewish BFLO? residents and donors to the Campaign. comedian Benji Lovitt’s visit to Buffalo (page 14) and so 16 President’s Award at Shir Shalom The Jewish Journal of WNY (JJWNY) reserves the right to cancel any advertisement at Ohr Temimim School’s National Winners any time. The Buffalo Jewish Federation and Buffalo Spree Publishing, Inc. are not much more! liable for the content or errors appearing in the advertisements beyond the cost of So Woohoo! Bring it on! Happy Freedom to your 17 Special Advertising Supplement: Mazel Tov the space occupied. The JJWNY does not assume responsibility for the kashrut of any product or service advertised in this paper. Editorials, columns, advertisements, family from my family! 18 KOT Completes Unity Torah agency reports and other outside articles do not necessarily represent the views of the newspaper or the Buffalo Jewish Federation, but rather express the view of Stay well. 20 Special Advertising Supplement: Dining Guide the writer. 22-23 Special Advertising Supplement: Senior Living All real estate advertising in this newspaper is subject to the Federal Fair Housing Act of 1968, which makes it “illegal to advertise “based on race, color, religion, Ellen Goldstein - Editor 24-25 Organizations & Synagogues Listings sex, handicap, familial status, national origin, or an intention to make any such preference, limitation or discrimination.” This newspaper will not knowingly accept 26- 27 In Remembrance: Dr. Robert Milch any advertising for real estate that is in violation of the law. Our readers are hereby informed that all dwellings advertised in this newspaper are available on an equal 28 Not the Last Word By Mitch Steinberg opportunity basis. MESSAGE FROM THE FEDERATION COMMUNITY Federation Addresses Antisemitism Everyday A Special Message from government funds to physically secure Federation President Shelly Yellen our synagogues and agency facilities. and CEO Rob Goldberg Upstanders In recent weeks, we have witnessed A valuable role we can all play in these an alarming rise in antisemitism challenging times is to be an Upstander, around the world. While some of it calling out antisemitism and injustice. can be attributed to Israel’s recent As Elie Wiesel (z”l) famously noted, Operation Guardian of the Walls, the “Silence encourages the tormenter, recently released “Study on American never the tormented.” Last month in Jewry” by the Pew Research Center our My Jewish Buffalo we highlighted highlights the concern of growing one local high schooler, Jenna Hecht antisemitism (e.g., 75% of American (https://buffalojewishfederation.org/ Jews think there is more antisemitism jenna-hecht/) who recently exhibited in the U.S. than five years ago). what it means to be an Upstander when The Buffalo Jewish Federation she confronted a classmate who posted has called, and will continue to call an antisemitic message on her social on civic leadership at all levels to media page. If you have experienced strongly condemn anitisemitism. We antisemitism in any form, please contact will also proudly demonstrate to our us. community and the world that we will never allow antisemitism to diminish us. To this end, we will continue our Holocaust Survivor Herman Stone talking with High School students deep investment in efforts to combat antisemitism through education, security, and forging alliances Bridge Building we do. The Buffalo Jewish Community and building bridges of greater There is nothing harder than addressing Relations Council (JCRC) works understanding with our neighbors a problem alone. We need friends, partners, tirelessly to address the Jewish value so we can stand united against hate. and those who decry hate as vociferously as of Tikkun Olam with social justice and to collaborate with other communities Education and leaders. The JCRC is fostering closer While antisemitism is often driven relationships with the African American, by hate, perhaps the most effective Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders, way to address it is by educating the and Muslim communities to foster a community about Judaism, Jews, and more civil and caring community for all Israel. Our “Student to Student” teen Buffalonians. initiative led by the Center for Jewish Engagement and Learning (CJEL) is Security fostering greater understanding of We’re investing in the safety of our Jenna Hecht, High School Upstander our people. Our Holocaust Resource community so we can live full and Center (HRC) provides ongoing meaningful Jewish lives. In response We are grateful to our professional education and supports a highly to the tragic attack at the Tree of Life and volunteer partners at the HRC, JCRC, effective speaker series. And, through Congregation, Federation created the CJEL, Secure Jewish Buffalo, Hillel and programs on campus including Hillel Secure Jewish Buffalo initiative that many other agencies and synagogues. and our recent collaboration with the raised funds to hire a dedicated security Our community is ready; we are University at Buffalo, we empower professional working closely with local committed; and we are confident college students to advocate against Installing protective film over glass windows law enforcement to keep our community in our collective ability to confront anti-Zionism. at Temple Beth Tzedek safe. We have also used those dollars and antisemitism.

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COMMUNITY Dr. Gil Wolfe to Chair The Bonnie Campaign for Jewish Buffalo Clement Team Neurologist Dr. Gil Wolfe leads both at work and throughout Jewish Buffalo. His many volunteer roles include serving on the Buffalo Jewish Federation Board of Governors and Federation’s Partnership 2Gether Leadership Council. This summer, Gil will succeed Howard Rosenhoch as General Campaign Chair for Federation’s Campaign for Jewish Buffalo.

“I am honored to be asked to take on this role for the Federation Campaign. I have been involved with Campaigns in Dallas and Buffalo for many years, but never at this level of leadership. I am learning from professional staff and dedicated volunteers like Howard Rosenhoch and Joni Shatkin the best ways to engage our Jewish community. I really hope to relay the message here and to our Snowbird families in other places the integral role the Dana Todaro, Beth Joseph, Mary Hutton, Federation plays in supporting people and programs locally and overseas. Both prior to Bonnie Clement, Sheryl Martin, Lisa Levin, Jason Pleskow and during the pandemic, we can point to ways Federation support has made a real difference Dr. Gil Wolfe in people’s lives. In kind, our community’s support of the Campaign is crucial.” one of the Israeli doctors, Chair Originally, from New York City, Gil moved of Neurology Dr. Bella Gross, with BONNIE CLEMENT with his family to Dallas, Texas right before whom he published an article in Licensed Associate Real Estate Broker his Bar Mitzvah in the mid-1970s. Gil’s The Journal of Clinical Neuromuscular mother, who was born in Poland, grew up Disease (2004). Dr. Gross has since in Haifa, Israel after the war. As a child, come to visit and work with Dr. Wolfe Gil visited Israel frequently and attended and his department’s stroke division Cell: 716.553.8384 summer camp there for several summers with headed by Dr. Robert Sawyer here in his cousins, where he became semi-fluent in Buffalo as well. [email protected] | BonnieClement.com Hebrew. After attending Princeton University, Since relocation to Buffalo in he returned home to do his medical training 2012, Gil has continued to build HUNT ERA Williamsville Village Branch: in Dallas and then came back east to complete and deepen his relationship with the 5570 Main Street, 1st Floor, Williamsville, NY 14221 his neurology residency and neuromuscular Galilee Medical Center, returning fellowship training at the University of to give lectures there as well as Pennsylvania. After returning to Dallas where for other academic medical centers he served on the faculty at the University throughout Israel, including Tel of Texas Southwestern Medical School for Aviv University, Meir Medical Center 18 years, Gil moved to Buffalo to take on in Kfar Saba and the Weizmann his current role as Professor and Chair of Institute of Science in Rehovot. the Department of Neurology at University Since the Buffalo Jewish Federation at Buffalo Jacobs School of Medicine and became part of the Partnership Biomedical Sciences, where he serves as the 2Gether Central Area Consortium Irvin and Rosemary Smith Endowed Chair four years ago, Gil has been able to and is a University at Buffalo Distinguished continue his involvement with the Professor. Western Galilee region and hopes While in Dallas, Gil became engaged at the to re-establish connections with Small Law Firm Dallas Federation and the Partnership2Gether the various medical communities 1904 Liberty Building program that, like Buffalo, was connected throughout the Partnership, an to Israel’s Western Galilee. Gil worked as effort that is being relaunched now. Buffalo, NY 14202 an ambassador, helping to organize training Gil is looking forward to the exchange programs between doctors in Dallas 2022 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo’s and those at the Galilee Medical Center (then Kick-Off Event Sunday, September called the Western Galilee Medical Center) 19. More details about this event in Nahariya. These exchange programs were will follow in next month’s Jewish ongoing for about five years where doctors Journal. would come for 1-2 months at a time, working For more information, contact closely, and learning from fellow physicians. Assistant Executive Director Randi Personal Injury Attorney • Small Firm, Big Difference Gil even continued his relationship with Morkisz at 716-628-3431. July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 3 COMMUNITY Buffalo Synagogues Collaborate to Launch Community Religious School BY EZRA N. RICH

In addition to disrupting regular life, the COVID pandemic has also proven as a launching pad for new ways of learning, connecting, and exploring. This fall, Buffalo’s three largest synagogues—Temple Beth Zion, Congregation Shir Shalom, and Temple Beth Tzedek—are coming together to launch a community-wide religious school on Sunday, September 12 that is open to all families of Jewish Buffalo. The combined effort will bring all their students together under one roof and will also be open to Jewish families that are not currently members of one of the participating congregations. Led by co-directors Beth Steinberg and Einav Symons, the school will meet in-person at Congregation Shir Shalom with potential experiential experiences across Western New York. Both Mrs. Symons, the director of the Shir Shalom/Beth Tzedek Gesher Religious School, and Mrs. Steinberg, director of the Temple Beth Zion Religious School are veteran educators who worked together for many years at Kadimah Academy.

The Community Religious School initiative began pre-COVID with a task force co-chaired by Gretchen Gross and Evie Weinstein, two longtime youth education leaders in Jewish Buffalo, in tandem with the presidents and executive leaders of rabbinic and lay leadership of all three Temple Beth Zion, Congregation Shir synagogues and the guidance of the Shalom, and Temple Beth Tzedek Buffalo Jewish Federation. coming together to put the needs “The work of the Community and opportunities for local Jewish Religious School Task Force laid the students first. It has been a winding groundwork for the establishment road as COVID and unforeseen of this exciting effort of TBZ, CSS financial clouds appeared on the and TBT to merge their religious horizon. Fortunately, the details for schools. The task force created the inaugural year were finalized a mission statement and values and approved by the congregations statement based on Jewish ethics and school Co-Directors on the curriculum this spring in advance of school middot (behavior traits),” says Evie and how it will both educate the students beginning in the fall of 2021. Weinstein. “The task force is proud to as well as expose them to a range of “This new Community Religious know that the Community Religious Jewish and Israeli traditions, cultures, School is a huge step forward School will be ready to open and and experiences. There are preliminary in the spirit of collaboration look forward to an exciting year discussions for optional Tuesday afternoon between our congregations,” notes with the three synagogues working opportunities beyond the Community Temple Beth Zion President David together for the betterment of Jewish Religious School’s Sunday schedule and Goldberg. “Our children live in the education in our community.” based on the student’s and tutor’s schedules. Grades one-on-one Hebrew tutoring. These may same neighborhoods and go to 1 and 2 will receive Hebrew instruction on Sunday involve experiential education and learning the same schools, then they go to Fostering Community mornings in small groups,” she adds. sessions with other local Jewish agencies, their separate synagogues for their One of the special elements of the “This merging of schools, of traditions, cultures, individual synagogues, and other partners. Jewish education. Now, they can Community Religious School will people, and priorities is a long-term process that learn together about their religion, be having all children learning and will continue throughout our first year and beyond,” A Gateway and learn Hebrew together. It is very socializing together under one roof. says Mrs. Steinberg. “As Co-Directors of the new While many local families are already exciting.” While many local youths may be the school, Einav and I are working together to take the affiliated with a synagogue, the Community This is an exciting and historic new only Jewish child or just one of a few in best aspects from each of our programs and weave Religious School is open to all families chapter in Jewish education in WNY,” their grade at school, the Community them together into a model of excellence in Jewish and seeks to reach those who are not says Congregation Shir Shalom Religious School plans to have over education: an innovative, inspirational, meaningful, currently members at the participating President Bruce Corris. “Preparing 130 Jewish children enrolled from and authentic experience for all of our students congregations. “A key value of this new our kids to lead fulfilling Jewish lives across Western New York. that leads them to tikkun middot (personal growth model is to have it open to all corners of is the most important thing we can “The School will meet every and self-discovery) and tikkun olam (repairing the our community,” explains Buffalo Jewish do. By creating this new school and Sunday morning from 9:00 to 11:30 world).” Federation CEO Rob Goldberg. combining our resources, we’ll be a.m.,” says Mrs. Symons. “There will Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein of Congregation Shir able to do that. We all know about the be one-on-one Hebrew tutoring for Shalom, Rabbi Adam J. Rosenbaum of Temple Beth Council of Presidents challenges facing synagogues when students in Grades 3 through 7 to be Tzedek, and Rabbi Sharon L. Sobel of Temple Beth The creation of the Community it comes to maintaining and growing scheduled sometime during the week Zion, have been working closely with the religious Religious School has involved the their religious schools. We’re excited 4 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 COMMUNITY about how this community school will ™ help us not just meet those challenges, but Buffalo Women join Dignity Grows Project create new opportunities.” “I am truly excited for the collaboration During May, the local Dignity of our incredible Buffalo Jewish community Grows™ chapter, a program of the in creating a school to meet the needs Women’s Philanthropy of the Buffalo of ALL our children,” adds Temple Beth Jewish Federation, held its first tote- Tzedek President Marcia H. Goldstein. packing party. The event, hosted “With this new Community Religious by Women’s Philanthropy Chair Joni School, our children will be able to join Shatkin, opened with a fun ice breaker, together no matter their observance level, followed by a presentation from Dignity to study, socialize and pray. As Rabbi Grows™ Chair Nina Lukin. Each tote Lord Jonathan Sacks, (z”l) said, ‘For Jews, bag was filled with a month’s supply of education is not what we know. It’s who soap, shampoo, deodorant, toothbrush we are.’” and toothpaste, along with menstrual and/or shaving products. The group of 12 volunteers packed 125 totes that were delivered to Jewish Family Services of Western New York to be distributed to our neighbors in need. Dignity Grows™, founded by leaders of the Jewish Federation of Greater Hartford, empowers our neighbors in need by providing menstrual and hygiene supplies for everybody who needs them. The program removes obstacles to better self-esteem and health by providing personal hygiene essentials each and Parental Participation every month by mobilizing volunteers After a tumultuous school year where to organize, assemble, and distribute most students were virtual or in hybrid free, reusable zipper-top totes filled models and the local religious schools with personal care products. Twenty were online, a Community Religious percent (20%) of menstruators in the US School with in-person instruction is a suffer from period poverty, lacking the breath of fresh air. “I look forward to financial resources to purchase these the Community Religious School bringing basic necessities. Jewish Buffalo together again in a COVID- Do you want to help? For as little safe way this fall,” says Rebecca Shaw, as $10, you can impact a neighbor’s a parent of two participating students life for an entire month. Donate today: and a member of the Congregation Shir https://bit.ly/DIGNITYGROWSBFLO. Shalom Board of Trustees. “I appreciate You can also volunteer today by hosting the caution observed this past year-and- or volunteering to help at a Dignity a-half in the CSS/Gesher religious school Grows™ packing party: https://BIT. and I trust that decisions will continue to LY/DIGNITYGROWSVOLUNTEER. be made based on the best interest of our To learn more contact: Stacey Block children. My sons loved virtual Hebrew [email protected] and cooking classes, and I know that the 716-463-5052. new Community Religious School will offer this and so much more.” Registration information will be shared with existing Religious School families Buffalo’s Best this summer. For additional information, wishes you all good health please contact Co-Directors Beth Steinberg and much gratitude. at [email protected] or Einav Symons at [email protected]. homemade shmears Ezra N. Rich—the father of three deli sandwiches • soups • salads fi nest dark roasted coffees • fresh-baked bagels daughters in the CSS-Gesher religious signature tuna fi sh • and more! school—is marketing communications manager at Uniland Development MARSHALL’S PLAZA 2130 Delaware Ave, Buffalo 716.874.1800 Company and proudly serves on SNYDER SQUARE 4498 Main St, Snyder, NY 14226 716.839.2222 the boards of the Buffalo Jewish DASH’S PLAZA 100 A Plaza Dr, Williamsville 716.639.1000 Federation, Temple Beth Tzedek, and Pickup & Dropoff the Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association service available WWW.BAGELJAYS.COM of WNY. July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 5 COMMUNITY CENTER FOR JEWISH ENGAGEMENT & LEARNING ( CJEL) JTI Mystery Bus Tour was Fun! The Buffalo Jewish Teen Initiative (JTI), a project of the CJEL and the JCC, provided an opportunity last month for 32 teens to participate in a Mystery Bus Tour. The program was a full-day field trip with food, Jewish learning, and adventurous stops all over the City. Want to learn more about the Jewish Teen Initiative? Looking to get your teen connected? Reach out to Ben Wolfson: [email protected].

6 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 CENTER FOR JEWISH ENGAGEMENT & LEARNING ( CJEL) COMMUNITY Welcome Ben Wolfson, New Manager of Jewish Teen Experience Suiting Up the Men of Buff alo Since 1918

Ben Wolfson, a Buffalo native made me who I am - and that gave and recent graduate of the me the friends that I am still in University of Michigan, has been touch with today.” His goals are appointed Manager of Jewish to “engage more teens through Teen Experience (JTI), a joint innovative programs and insightful position between The Center for conversations.” The focus of BUSINESS CASUAL Jewish Engagement and Learning Ben’s work in his new role will be (CJEL) and the Jewish Community building relationships with, and Center. Ben spent the last year building extraordinary experiences serving as a CJEL intern overseeing for, Jewish teens — and growing many aspects of JTI. During his the Buffalo Jewish Teen Initiative. internship, Ben created the Teen JTI offers one-time and ongoing Leadership Council, co-facilitated experiences to help Buffalo’s “Being Jewish in 2020” and Mussar teens (Grades 8-12) authentically for Teens, collaborated with teens encounter Judaism. JTI experiences to create multiple virtual and are designed to support Jewish teens in-person events, led the community JTI Experience Manager Ben Wolfson in building their knowledge, self- Purim Carnival and served as the esteem, leadership and life skills, lead professional for the Box of for University of Michigan Hillel and a long-time and shape their identities. Love and the Box of Light projects. camper and staff member at Camp Seneca Lake. Ben would love to connect with Before interning with CJEL, Ben was Upon beginning this new role, Ben shared you or your teen; he can be reached 6470 TRANSIT RD., DEPEW, NY 14043 a mentor and engagement intern “I want to give back to the community that at [email protected]. RIVERSIDEMENS.COM | 716-833-8401 SANDEJEWELERS.COM | 716-832-1595

July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 7 COMMUNITY Dr. Gerhard Falk HRC presents Toby Publishes Latest Book Ticktin Back Award

Dr. Gerhard Falk published his latest The Holocaust Resource Center book, The American Jewish Community (HRC) recently honored teacher from the Ghetto to the Mansion: In the Jim Gang as the 2021 winner of the 20th and 21st Centuries last month. Dr. Toby Ticktin Back Education and Falk taught criminology, sociology of Excellence Award. Named after the religion, juvenile delinquency, and founder of the HRC, the Toby Ticktin the treatment of offenders at Buffalo Back Award is given each year to State and retired in late 2016. He is an outstanding educator who has the author of 24 books and 42 journal dedicated a significant amount of articles. He has been awarded the New time and energy teaching the history York State Research Foundation’s and lessons of the Holocaust. Jim, a Award for Scholarship; the Buffalo Social Studies teacher at Hamburg State College President’s Award for High School for 20 years, has made Creativity; and The New York State it his life’s work to bring the story University Chancellor’s Award for Dr. Gerhard Falk of the Holocaust to the lives of his Excellence. You can purchase a copy students. of the book by calling 716-754-2788 Jim’s friend and colleague, Andrew or go to mellenpress.com. right when he wrote: ‘Democracy is the Beiter noted, “For Jim, it is not enough Dr. Falk explained that his newest worst form of government - except for all simply to have his classes study the book reviews the major institutions the others.’ This applies particularly to event from an academic perspective; but which comprise the Jewish community the Jewish community, the descendants rather, he uses this important material in America, including: religion, the of those persecuted in Europe for to inspire his students to make a Jim Gang, 2021 Toby Ticktin Back Award family and the role of Jewish women, 1,600 years and finally liberated by the difference in their communities, nation, recipient education, Jews in the military, politics, American spirit.” and world. Through the creation of a film, music, literature and sports. Dr. Falk concludes his book by Holocaust and Genocide Studies elective Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C. Written from the sociological point of speculating on the future of the American and Students for Humanity Club a few When Jim’s colleague, Lori Raybold view, the book is a contribution to the Jewish Community. “Predicting the years ago, he has provided a platform (Recipient of the 2020 Toby Ticktin scientific study of religion and therefore future is risky and possibly foolish that has reached and inspired hundreds Back Award) asked a his students what avoids theology. It is also a study in in light of events that could not be of students, culminating in them doing they loved about Mr. Gang, one of them social change, as seen through the lens foreseen. The attack on Pearl Harbor acts of public service that are remarkable said: “He cherishes his students’ ideas of Jewish life in the “Ghetto” of the in 1941, the attack on the World Trade and inspiring.” and values the opinions of everyone he Jewish immigrants of the early 20th Center in 2001, and the virus nightmare In addition, Jim served as a founding encounters,” and another added: “He is century, as well as the major changes in in 2020 were all outside any possibility member of HRC’s New Generation one of those teachers that you know will American Jewish life in the 21st century. of prediction. Nevertheless, there are Education Initiative where he spent never give the same lesson twice, because “This is also a study of American “normal” conditions which are at least three years videotaping and producing every single one is tailored to the interests ethnicity, since much of what has partially predictable, and which are classroom-ready films that feature the of the students in front of him.” happened to Jewish Americans has also examined at the end of the book.” stories of 12 local Holocaust Survivors. The HRC is deeply grateful for the happened to all Americans,” Dr. Falk He also attended the Belfer Conference incredible work and dedication Jim Gang remarked. “The lesson drawn from this for Educators and was named a National has shown in Holocaust and human book is that Winston Churchill was quite Teacher Fellow by the U.S. Holocaust rights education.

8 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 COMMUNITY Celebrating the 2021 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo

Members of the Jewish Federation’s Campaign Cabinet celebrated the 2021 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo on May 23rd at the Camp Centerland, Irving M. Shuman Campground. Howard Rosenhoch was honored for his tenure as This month we are excited to General Campaign Chair and presented highlight our new Partnership with an original piece of art designed collaboration with the JCC that for him by artist Terri Katz Kasimov. will support a higher level of Israel Joni Shatkin, Women’s Philanthropy programming for Jewish Buffalo. The Chair, was also recognized for her role. work will be led by Gon Erez, recently Both Howard and Joni expressed their appointed JCC Chief Program Officer. appreciation to the entire cabinet for Gon joins the Center from Youngstown, the work they have done to raise the where he oversaw the JCC’s program funds that impact our community. team, consisting of cultural arts, performing arts, Camp JCC, school age care, older adult, youth, Israel, and Jewish programming. Gon has a passion for Israel advocacy and community engagement. He enjoys using the skills he gained in the Israel Defense Forces as a lieutenant in the IDF Spokesperson’s Unit. Gon Gon Erez graduated from Ben Gurion University of the Negev, where he studied psychology horizons of our Partnership and engage and economics. He is currently finishing even more Buffalonians with Israel and a Master of Science in Non-profit the Western Galilee! Management at Gratz College. We are For more information or any questions very excited to be working so closely about P2G, please contact Mandy Weiss with Gon and the JCC to expand the at [email protected].

Upcoming P2G Programs Thursday, July 8th @ 11:00 a.m. Nigun2Gether Concert The highlight event of P2G’s Virtual Musical Lessons’ program, with talented musicians from the US and musical students from the Western Galilee. For more information, visit https://www.westerngalilee.org.il/

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Month in May and have that be part of the diversity New Partnership with UB Brings of our campus. We’ll be able to show that Jewish issues and Jewish American heritage are part of contemporary culture.” Community Closer to Campus “Alex’s new role, along with the support of the brilliant UB faculty, will help us to address our The Buffalo Jewish Federation, shared challenges and discover creative solutions University at Buffalo College of Arts that shape our future,” said Rabbi Sara Rich, Hillel’s and Sciences, and Hillel of Buffalo Executive Director. “The students, the University have forged a new partnership that and the Buffalo Jewish community all have so much will help connect UB students with to gain by working more closely together. Having opportunities in the region, both on this type of role and level of collaboration with the and off campus. The partnership brings University, Federation and Hillel is a highly coveted Alexander Green, Ph.D., into a new arrangement within the Hillel movement and we are role as Community Jewish Educator, a proud to have it here in Buffalo.” position that will focus on developing “Hillel has strong leadership in place and is now a programming, internships and critical player on campus,” added Green. “I’ve served experiential learning opportunities on the Hillel board and now look forward to this new that engage students and help to role working in partnership with Rabbi Sara and her address important topics in the Jewish team.” community. The new shared endeavor is funded jointly by the “I see myself as a bridge between the University, Federation and donors throughout the University, Hillel and students,” shared community. “This unique partnership shows how Green. “I’ve been working with students interconnected we are with the campus community,” for the past eight years and I’m excited observed Shelly Yellen, President of the Federation. about creating even more opportunities Green has served as Assistant Professor for them to do Jewish things, now on a and Director of Undergraduate Studies for UB’s full-time basis.” Department of Jewish Thought. He holds an MA Starting in August, Green will step in Jewish Thought from the Hebrew University of into this new role and help to build a Jerusalem and a doctorate in Religion from the The Green family vibrant home hub with Hillel, develop University of Toronto. key partnerships between constituents Jewish community. Specifically, the Community Jewish Educator’s initiatives “I’m particularly excited that this new role enables that will address the needs of students, will be based on the following six objectives: Alex and his family to stay in Buffalo,” commented and create opportunities to enhance • Develop Jewish cultural identity, faith and practice in a multicultural, Rob Goldberg, CEO of Buffalo Jewish Federation. Jewish life on campus and throughout the blended society, “The Greens have enriched Jewish Buffalo beyond community. • Support Jewish literacy, measure, from their participation and leadership at “We are excited by the promise of this • Innovate organizational structures to address declining affiliation Young Israel, Kadimah Academy and Ohr Temimim, partnership and the opportunities this and Jewish demographic trends, to Alex’s wife Keren’s energy leading our Jewbilee position will provide our students and the • Understand and contextualize Israel’s complexity, two summers ago, to all they do to welcome both Jewish community,” said Robin Schulze, • Appreciate the contributions of Jews in civic life and support students and community members into their home.” dean of the College of Arts and Sciences. continuing engagement, specifically in relation to issues of social “Keren and I love Buffalo and we happy to be able In his new role, Dr. Green will enhance justice and racial equity, and to continue to contribute to this community,” Green the connection between the College, • Prepare future leaders for the greater Jewish community. said. “We always try to break down the divisions Hillel, the Buffalo Jewish Federation and “I’m excited about some of the program opportunities such as creating a within our own community – we are friendly to Jewish Buffalo in an effort to address ‘Day of Jewish Learning’ that will connect students to community and faculty,” everyone and pleased to open our home and our a series of important issues facing the remarked Green. “Another opportunity is to leverage Jewish American Heritage hearts on campus and throughout the community.”

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to their work, worrying that if they leave that are used in the construction of the Work Hard/Rest Well it for any substantial period of time they first Temple in Jerusalem. may get so far behind that they will never There are different variations of this BY RABBI ADAM ROSENBAUM find their way back. In response to these list, but regardless of the items, it is According to the popular song, “There sentiments, it may be enlightening to clear from this story that God crams a lot ain’t no cure for the summertime blues.” learn about relaxation methods at the end of work just before a planned vacation, Whereas that was Eddie Cochran’s lament of the very first work-week in our history. thinking ahead as to what will be needed back in 1958, this complaint can now be The Torah simply tells us that after the in the days and years to come. Working heard from just about everyone in the six days of Creation, God ceases from work. ahead ensures that God won’t have to United States. From now until Labor But there are several Midrashim (textual look back during the very first Shabbat. Day, the summer is thought of as a time interpretations) which allege that God God’s challenge is, indeed, our of leisure – but when was the last time is especially busy at sunset of the sixth challenge. All of us value the concept we truly embraced leisure? A recent day. One such story posits that, in those of rest, but we don’t always know the survey indicates that only 14 percent of final moments, God creates several items best way to approach it. The approach Americans take a vacation lasting at least that would play a key role in subsequent explained in this rabbinic story hints that two weeks during the summer, trips that biblical history. These items are: the hole we are best served if we both work hard used to be commonplace in years past. By in the earth that would later swallow and rest well, making the most of our contrast, more than half of adults living the rebellious Korah and his followers; work-time and our downtime. It doesn’t in European Union countries take off for the mouth of the well that supplies the necessarily prescribe vacations of two Rabbi Adam Rosenbaum this amount of time, or longer. Whether or Israelites with water in the wilderness; the weeks, or one week, but when we do relax not this says something about Americans’ but perhaps also with regret. What mannah, which is the food the Israelites for even a day – even just on Shabbat – we job performance compared to that of our is it that stops most Americans from eat in the wilderness; the mouth of the hope to be satisfied that we have done European counterparts is unclear; what taking kind of breaks they used to? donkey that miraculously speaks to the everything we can to briefly leave our life does seem to be clear is that the endless Certainly, many people are Moabite prophet Balaam; the rainbow at work in the rear-view mirror. summer of yore now barely gets off the limited by the rules of their place of that represents the end of the story of May our coming weeks be blessed ground. employment. Others feel that taking Noah and the flood; Moses’ walking stick; with true menucha, rest and satisfaction I wonder whether the refrain we keep such a long break from work will the tablets of the Ten Commandments; with a job well-done. hearing every August – that the summer just greatly hurt them financially. And and a mythical creature known as the Rabbi Adam Rosenbaum is rabbi at flew by – is laced not so much with nostalgia, many others just feel too attached shamir, who is said to have split the stones Temple Beth Tzedek. Thank you, Chief Askey! Susan Case DeMari, Buffalo Jewish Federation’s Community Security Coordinator, presented John C. Askey, retiring Chief of the Amherst Police Department (APD), with a plaque of appreciation from the Jewish community. Askey, who retired April 3 after 14 years as Amherst Chief, has been succeeded by Scott P. Chamberlin, a 27-year veteran of the department. The plaque read: “To Chief John Askey, in recognition and appreciation of his exceptional effort, dedication, and commitment to safety and helping to make the Jewish Community a safer place.”

Pictured from left to right: New Chief of Police Scott P. Chamberlin, Town of Amherst Council Member Jacqui G. Berger, Chief John Askey, Susan Case DeMari, and APD Captain James McNamara.

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The heat of summer has arrived! As the pandemic eases, outdoor living and recreation is returning. For many Buffalonians, summer was (and still is) a time to head for the beach! From the late 1920s to the height of its popularity in the 1950s, through as late as the 1980s, no summer was complete without at least one trip to Crystal Beach located near Fort Erie, Ontario.

The cross-border connections Ontario in 1890. This attraction, that with Canada and Buffalo are multi- eventually grew to offer iconic rides, generational and some families can a ballroom and unique concessions, trace their roots to Canada along one or was dominated by Buffalonians even more lines of their family trees. But even though it was located across the Niagara without family and friend connections, River in Canada. Many Buffalo visitors Canada has been a second home to arrived at the Crystal Beach dock as many of Buffalo’s Jews, especially during passengers having sailed on the the summer. Some Jewish Buffalonians steamship, the Americana, that ran until rented summer homes on an annual 1929 or the Canadiana that operated Edelmans and friends at Crystal Beach, c. late 1920s . Courtesy of Joyce Greenspan basis and over time, small communities through the mid 1950s. And the trips formed along sections of the Fort Erie there and back on the passenger ships Southbound Shufflers, formerly shore, but most Jewish Buffalonians took were an extension of summer recreation the Buffalodians. (To learn more day trips, and often recall a special place and entertainment. One performer, about Harold Arlen, check: that is now a part of treasured Buffalo Hyman Arluck who would later become https://jewishbuffalohistory. memories. the legendary composer and arranger org/a-z/arlen-harold/). Crystal Beach Amusement Park Harold Arlen, worked aboard the At the peak of Crystal Beach’s originally opened near Point Abino, Canadiana with a group known as the popularity during the 1950s, several thousand individuals visited each weekend. Famous singers and bands came to perform at the Crystal Ballroom. The Comet roller coaster was a legend among rides, and many became hooked on the Discrimination sugar waffles, Hall’s Original Suckers and PJ’s Crystal Beach Loganberry drink! and Retaliation. In November, we will begin unveiling thematic sections of the Jewish Buffalo History Anne Sull, Crystal Beach, 1920s. Courtesy of Elaine Kellick. 2 Center website, one of which Do you think you are a target focuses on leisure and we would “Building Buffalo” series. We are also researching of disability discrimination? like to include images from your the first part of a series about families who summer trips to Crystal Beach settled in Buffalo, beginning with descendants and its environs. Please contact of families who were part of the earliest families If so, talk to us. me if you have memorabilia to settle in Western New York. If your family you can share on the website came to Greater Buffalo between the 1840s and via email at: Chana@ the 1870s and you have materials you’d like to buffalojewishfederation.org. share through the website, please contact me Currently we have just a few at: [email protected]. In the The Law Offi ce of LINDY KORN images from the 1920s and meantime, over the next five months, we will be 1930s and would like to expand featuring articles about fraternal and women’s this small number, as well as our organizations, Hillel, and updates about the East chronological coverage through Side and North Buffalo. If you have images 856-KORN to the 1950s. that relate to any of these areas of Buffalo (856-5676) New materials are added on Jewish history, you can submit them through the a monthly basis to the website website at https://jewishbuffalohistory.org or ELECTRIC TOWER and you can now read more contact me, the website coordinator directly, via 535 Washington Street, 9th Floor | Buffalo, NY 14203 about two Buffalo architects email at: [email protected]. highlighted in the last column: Chana Revell Kotzin, Ph.D.is the coordinator of Lindy Korn, Esq [email protected]  LKORN-LAW.COM Attorney & Mediator Louis Greenstein and Milton the Jewish Buffalo History Center website, which Milstein, part of an ongoing you can find at https://jewishbuffalohistory.org/ 12 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 COMMUNITY BRUCE ADER ESTATE SALES & APPRAISALS ® community,” added Rob Goldberg, CEO, Life & Legacy Program Buffalo Jewish Federation. “The Harold Grinspoon Foundation recognizes the potential of Buffalo’s Launching in Buffalo Jewish community and is excited to be partnering with the Foundation and The Foundation for Jewish the Federation to enhance a culture Philanthropies, in partnership of philanthropy and legacy giving in with the Buffalo Jewish Federation, Buffalo and Western New York,” said has been selected to join 71 other Arlene D. Schiff, National Director of the communities across North America LIFE & LEGACY® program. “The time is participating in a national Jewish right, and Buffalo is right!” • Free Consultations legacy giving initiative, that to “Providing Jewish communities with • Certified Appraiser date has secured more than 30,000 proven tools and training to help them permanently endowed commitments secure their long-term financial goals • Full Range of Services of more than ONE BILLION DOLLARS. is absolutely vital. Through the LIFE • Insured Through LIFE & LEGACY®, the & LEGACY® program, I am hopeful Foundation and the Federation are that we will be able to help sustain Serving WNY partnering with the Harold Grinspoon Foundation (HGF) in launching a community- vibrant communities that allow future Since 1985 wide legacy giving initiative. The four-year program for agencies and synagogues generations to enjoy our rich Jewish provides coaching, training, and incentive grants to ensure that culture of philanthropy culture and heritage,” said Harold “Our Success is and legacy giving becomes an integral part of the Buffalo Jewish community. Grinspoon, the founder of HGF. Measured by your For more information on how you The following organizations and team leaders are participating in LIFE & can participate in the LIFE & LEGACY® Satisfaction” LEGACY® at Buffalo: program, please contact Mandy Weiss, LIFE & LEGACY® Coordinator for the 716.510.4484 † Buffalo Jewish Federation – Howard Rosenhoch Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies Email: [email protected] at [email protected] or † Center for Jewish Life – Harold Star 716-463-5064. www.bruceader.com

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The initial year of the program includes BJF Joint Committee. “We will learn five workshops, which began earlier this from Jewish Communities across our spring. Each participating organization nation, uniting with others of similar is dedicating the efforts of their leaders values in something larger than today. who will be trained and actively engaged Future generations will benefit from the in the legacy development program over legacies we are creating and the seeds the next four years. that we are planting. I can’t think of a “This is an amazing program and better alignment with Jewish values.” a tremendous opportunity for our “Our partnership with the Foundation community. We do not have to reinvent and our focus on helping our agencies the wheel, our partners at the Grinspoon and synagogues secure a sustainable Foundation have done this in nearly future is central to the Federation’s 70 other communities and they have mission. I, along with the entire done so with great success,” said Alison Federation team, could not be more Keane, Chair of the Foundation Legacy excited to work with the Foundation in Team and the LIFE & LEGACY® FJP/ bringing these valuable resources to our July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 13 COMMUNITY A Night of Comedy with Israeli Comedian Benji Lovitt Sam Sugarman The JCC is proud to present Israeli who I am. If I were still making “new releases comedian Benji Lovitt at A Night of immigrant” jokes bashing Israelis after Comedy on July 25th at the Rein Family all my time here, it would mean that I first record Amphitheatre at the JCC’s Camp hadn’t acclimated at all. Now I make Centerland. Lovitt’s observations fun of myself and Americans as much One of Jewish Buffalo’s own, Sam on Israeli society, combined with as Israelis. Sugarman, lead singer-songwriter of his lifelong involvement in Jewish How do you find Israeli humor Ki’s Garden has just released her education, create a hilarious narrative different from American humor? first EP, ‘Lion’s Den,’ now available that has brought smiles to faces all It’s darker, edgier, and less on Spotify, i-Tunes, Amazon Music, over the world. politically correct. Israelis are better YouTube and on all other streaming Since making Aliyah in 2006, at understanding: platforms. The music of Ki’s Garden is comedian Benji Lovitt has performed one, that “they’re soulful, authentic, with lyrics inspired for audiences around the world just jokes” and by the folky, gritty canyon sounds and including Birthright Israel, Jewish two, what’s being made meaningful storytelling of the 1960’s Federations, synagogues, and Hillels, fun of. and 70’s. and opened up for Jim Gaffigan and Israel seems to always been Elon Gold during their visits to connected with serious issues, so Israel. how do you find the humor? Before his U.S. tour, the JCC was I suspect this year has helped able to catch up with Benji to ask him America and the world catch up to Israel some personal questions. Benji Lovitt and the Jewish world. We have always laughed to keep from crying. A year ago, Benji Lovitt What caused you to make Aliyah? We all know that the real Israel isn’t the internet was flooded with “pandemic I grew up in the Young Judaea youth the one you see on the nightly news. humor”. While there’s nothing funny movement and spent many years at I think my comedy reminds Diaspora about millions dying, if we couldn’t summer camp, leading up to my year Jews that this is a magical place and that laugh at the situations we find ourselves Sam has collaborated with some abroad before college. I was very even the things that drive us crazy can in, we’d lose our minds. of Buffalo’s most beloved musicians connected to Israel after that, finally be laughed at. Israelis are fascinated by How has the last year been personally in both the recording and live moving from a corporate job to one in my perspective which makes them see for you? performance spaces, most notably with the Jewish world in my late 20s. It didn’t things in a way they never thought of Actually, not bad! I’m healthy, my her co-producer, Frank Grizanti. She happen overnight but at some point, I before. Comedy is truly an international family’s healthy, I survived... I was able took up a performance residency with just knew that if I didn’t give it a shot, arena these days. Turn on Netflix and to make a living doing standup online. It Buffalo Distilling Company from 2017- I’d regret it forever. 14+ years later, I’m you can find international comics who doesn’t compare to the real thing but if 2019, was invited to perform in the still here! joke about America, making you see you can raise people’s spirits from across lineup for the city of Buffalo’s first music How do you come up with your things in a new light. the world without having to get on a festival, “Cobblestone Live,” for the East material? Has your humor changed since plane, it could be a lot worse. Aurora Music Festival, for Buffalo’s It’s pretty easy to come up with becoming “Israeli”? For more information and to purchase annual showcase, “Music is Art,” and ideas as an immigrant and there’s Oh, definitely. Humor is a reflection tickets visit www.jccbuffalo.org. The was commissioned to write an original no shortage of material in this crazy of your identity. A lot of the stuff I used event is co-sponsored by The Buffalo song along with a collaborative visual country. Pandemics, wars, 4 elections in to joke about just seems stale to me and Jewish Federation and Congregation interpretation for local artist, Galia 2 years, and an endless number of new no longer clever, like making fun of El Beth Abraham in partnership with Binder. In 2017, Sam’s original, “Golden,” experiences. Al. “Stale”, because they were shallow, Congregation Shir Shalom and Temple made its radio debut on Buffalo’s local How do you use your comedy to obvious observations that everyone Beth Zion. Contact Katie Wzontek with station 107.7. She was a recipient of connect Israel and Diaspora Jews? makes, and also not representative of questions at [email protected]. the Difference Maker Award and named one of Buffalo’s 18 under 36 by the Buffalo Jewish Federation for her work as a musician and activist. In 2019, Sam created “7-1-6 Music Gives Back” that partners with nonprofits to raise money through benefit concerts. In November 2019, she and her team raised over $2,000 for the Holocaust Resource Center of Buffalo. She hopes to continue with this work when it is safe to gather ESTHETICS ⋅ FACIALS ⋅ MICRONEEDLING in community once again. 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In another unique year, it was Raphael and Marc Slonim. They work better job of tutoring them than Harvey. another unique President’s Award tirelessly and creatively, and you get As you know, I’m on the Bimah for many presentation at Congregation Shir the benefit of their efforts week in and of our B’nai Mitzvahs, and when you Shalom (CSS). Last year, Temple week out. hear the kids do their thank yous, they president Bruce Corris presented the This plaque, which will hang in thank the Rabbi and Cantor and their award to the entire congregation. This the Temple lobby, says this: “During parents…but they always say I REALLY year, he presented two awards, one to this pandemic, keeping our members WANT TO THANK MR. HOROWITZ. the Temple’s Community Committee informed and connected has been We all know what Harvey went and a second to Harvey Horowitz. crucial. The Congregation Shir Shalom through this past year. But he never Here are his remarks, delivered via Communication Committee has risen to let it keep him from making sure CSS Zoom at the annual congregational the task. It is with great gratitude that kids were ready for their big day. His meeting May 26th. this President’s Award is presented to plaque says this: “A B’nai Mitzvah is one these dedicated and creative committee of the most important days in the life Now it’s time for my favorite part of members.” of a Jewish child and their family. The the“ meeting. The President’s Award. And Thank you for your efforts and your students who achieve this milestone this year, it’s the President’s Awards, passion. Special thanks to Dan Kester and at Congregation Shir Shalom are not plural. I know I can’t top what I did particularly Larry Horwitz for everything just well prepared, they are motivated last year in presenting the award to you do for our live stream. We know how and excited thanks to the tutoring absolutely everyone, but I can still Harvey Horowitz important it’s been this past year to be they receive. This President’s Award do something special. This year, I’m able to stream our services, and these is presented to Harvey Horowitz with presenting two awards. Both are going everything that’s happening. So how two guys have done so much to make it appreciation for your efforts and for to people who really stepped up in this do we do that? Let me count the ways. happen. making a difference in the lives of so past year. I should point out, that’s not Emails, social media, the newsletter, And now the second award. I’m going many Temple families.” unusual; they’ve been doing that for phone calls, letters. We didn’t use carrier to do something a little different when I Harvey, your students love you, years, but this past year had some unique pigeons because they’re not kosher. present this one. Joanne, please unmute and so does your Temple family. challenges and they rose to the occasion. And the reason we’re able to do all everyone so we can hear the applause. Congratulations to all of this year’s First, as you know, it’s so important this is because of the efforts of our Let me get right to it. The President’s recipients, and thank you for everything to keep our members connected to each communication committee. Julia Cohan, Award goes to Harvey Horowitz. There is you do to make this Temple the special other and to the Temple. And doing Phil Herzbrun, Larry Horwitz, Dan Kester, no bigger day in a Jewish child’s life than place it is. that means keeping you informed of Joanne Marquisee, Nancy McGory, Robin their B’nai Mitzvah. And no one does a ” Meir Greenberg wins Prestigious Championship

For the 6th year, Ohr Temimim Last month, the students gathered at School of Buffalo has participated in the the Chabad House, where the stage was International Chidon of Jewish Knowledge. set to watch the virtual Award Ceremony This worldwide “chidon” or “competition” together. The excitement in the air was requires students to study the 613 Biblical palpable! Sure enough, small town Buffalo Commandments or “Mitzvot” with all was celebrated on the world stage as 6th their intrinsic details, Biblical sources, Grade Student Meir Greenberg, the 12-year and practical applications. A 5-book cycle old son of Rabbi Levi and Rivky Greenberg covers all the material over a 5-year period. and the grandson of Rabbi Heschel and After a long period of rigorous study, those Lea Greenberg of Williamsville, won students who pass a series of preliminary tests second place, earning the International on their respective books are invited to compete Silver Trophy Award! The Grade 8 finalist on a grand level at the final Game Show. The was Esther Zingorenko and the Grade 7 latter is the highlight of the Chidon experience, finalist student was Nessa Grol-Norris. where the finalists from around the world “Mazel Tov, Meir! What a tremendous compete against each other, showcasing their accomplishment,” exclaimed Chidon vast knowledge. This year, the Game Show was coordinator, Rabbi Mendel Munitz, “To watched by thousands of people virtually. Over go up against the world’s very best and five thousand students from 6 continents, 33 win is just amazing!!” “What an incredible countries and 274 schools, all came together to achievement,” added Rabbi Shmuel compete for a medal. This year, Ohr Temimim Meir Greenberg joins his parents, Rivky and Rabbi Levi Greenberg, proudly holding his Silver Shanowitz, principal of Ohr Temimim proudly boasted 24 contestants, out of which Trophy after receiving his International Award last week. School. “I can’t express how proud I there were 3 finalists who had the opportunity am of Meir and of the dedication and to bring home the ultimate prize! number of hours they have dedicated What a positive atmosphere in the school, achievements of all the students who “I am so beyond proud of our students,” said to learning this curriculum of 613 seeing “every child” learning “every participated.” Mrs. Yehudis Lorber, Chidon coordinator. “The Mitzvot in detail is just unbelievable! Mitzvah” with so much excitement.” 16 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 Happy 50th Birthday Mazel Tov Mazel tov to to Zachary Cooper Congratulations to Jarah JONATHAN Wexler DICK Lazarus-Klein We are so proud of you! EPSTEIN on your Bat Mitzvah! Good luck at SUNY Cortland! MELZER We are so proud of you! with love, Love Mom, Dad, Lyssa, who turned 95 We love you, Abba, Ema, Judy, Hailey and Gabriel Harry and Lou on June 22, 2021! Boaz and Noam

Mazal Tov Danielle Mazal Tov Kadimah Scholars on your Bat Mitzvah Stacey and Neil Block are proud to announce that celebration! on a meaningful and We are so proud of the Noah Ryan Block, 2021 Graduate of successful year! incredible young lady you've Williamsville East become. G-D bless you and עלו והצליחו ,High School guide you today and always as will be attending you follow in the footsteps of Ithaca College in the Fall. generations who came before The Board and Kehillat you. We love you! Mazel Tov Noah! Kadimah !We love you מזל טוב דנוש! עלי והצליחי!

July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 17 COMMUNITY KOT Completes the Children’s Unity Torah Sunday, May 16, Kehillat Ohr Tzion gathered for the completion of their Children’s Unity Torah, dedicated by Al and Julie Aroeste in memory of Howard Lapides (z”l) and in honor of Irv and Cheryl Stein’s 30th wedding anniversary. It was an event that transcended barriers, making it truly, a commUNITY celebration.

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20 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 COMMUNITY Making it through a Challenging Year with Gesher BY AARON BLUM

Although this year with COVID-19 has been so challenging and difficult in so many ways, there have been some silver linings. In March, 2020 when the world shut down, the CSS Gesher Religious School transitioned to remote learning. In order to continue Hebrew education, a new model of individualized Hebrew tutoring was created. Each student received one 30-minute session per week with their own Hebrew teacher via Zoom. This allowed learning to be tailored to each student’s level and customized to achieve maximum Gesher students and parents learning. This model has been continued throughout this current using this approach. Fourth grader to learn and make excellent progress school year as well. Hannah Cunningham was able to learn in their Hebrew abilities despite the All of my students thrived using this and master a record 14 prayers from pandemic. model, each making significant progress September through May. She found this Aaron Blum is a teacher in the Shir as I was better able to meet their one-on-one tutoring to be a great match Shalom Gesher religious school, a teacher’s individual needs and learning styles I for her learning style and really made assistant in the JCC’s Early Childhood am so very proud of each and every one remarkable gains in her skills. program, and a counselor in the JCC’s of my students. However, one student Yasher Koach to Hannah and to all of After-School program. in particular, soared to new heights the CSS-Gesher students, who continued

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Buffalo Jewish Federation Hillel of Buffalo 2640 North Forest Road Campus Center of Jewish Life Getzville, NY 14068 520 Lee Entrance/UB Commons 716-204-2241 Suite #101B buffalojewishfederation.org W. Amherst, NY 14228 Rob Goldberg - CEO & Executive Director 716-616-0083 Shelly Yellen - President hillelofbuffalo.org Rabbi Sara Rich - Director Buffalo Vaad of Kashrus Dr. Jeffrey Lackner - President 49 Barberry Lane Williamsville, NY 14221 Holocaust Resource Center 716-534-0230 2640 North Forest Road bvkkosher.com Getzville, NY 14068 [email protected], [email protected] 716-634-9535 Rabbi Eliezer Marcus - Rabbinic Administrator hrcbuffalo.org Michael Paskowitz - President Elizabeth Schram - Director Ann Marie Carosella - President Center for Jewish Engagement & Learning Jewish Community Center 2640 North Forest Road of Greater Buffalo, Inc. Getzville, NY 14068 Benderson Family Building buffalojewishfederation.org 2640 North Forest Road Miriam Abramovich - Chief Experience Officer Getzville, NY 14068 Sheri Rodman - Chair 716-688-4033 jccbuffalo.org Center for Jewish Life Mike Rawl - Executive Director 757 Hopkins Road Alon Kupferman - President Williamsville NY 14221 716-639-7600 Holland Family Building Jewishbuffalo.com 787 Delaware Avenue Rabbi Laizer & Chani Labkovski Buffalo, NY 14209 716-886-3145 jccbuffalo.org Chabad House of Buffalo

2450 North Forest Road Jewish Community Relations Council Getzville, NY 14068 2640 North Forest Road 716-688-1642 Getzville, NY 14068 chabadbuffalo.com buffalojewishfederation.org Rabbi Moshe Gurary Mara Koven-Gelman - Director Deborah Goldman - Chair Chai Early Childhood Center 757 Hopkins Road Jewish Discovery Center Williamsville, NY 14221 831 Maple Road 716 580-4600 Williamsville, NY 14221 chainursery.com 716-632-9467 Chani Labkovski - Director Jewishdiscovery.org Rabbi Heschel Greenberg Department of Jewish Thought 712 Clemens Hall - University at Buffalo Jewish Family Services Of Western New York Buffalo, NY 14260 70 Barker Street 716-645-3695 Buffalo, NY 14209 [email protected] 716-883-1914 jewishstudies.buffalo.edu jfsbuffalo.org Dr. Sergey Dolgopolski - Chair Molly Short Carr - CEO Blaine Schwartz - Chair Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies 2640 North Forest Road Jewish Federation Apartments Getzville, NY 14068 275 Essjay Road 716-204-1133 Williamsville, NY 14221 jewishphilanthropies.org 716-631-8471 Irv Levy - Executive Director jewishfederationapartments.org Jonathan Schechter - President Kathleen Haggerty - Property Manager

Hadassah Jewish Federation Cemetery 2640 North Forest Road Corporation, Inc. Getzville, NY 14068 2640 North Forest Road 716-688-5260 Getzville, NY 14068 [email protected] 716-204-2246 Elaine Kellick and Annette Magid - jfedbflo.com Co-Presidents Deborah Pivarsi - Director Charlotte Gendler - President Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association 2640 North Forest Road in FJP offices Kadimah Getzville, NY 14068 kadimah.org 716-204-0542 Reneé Lehner - Administrator Judith Katzenelson Brownstein - President Hallie Keren - Board Chair 24 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 Kosher Meals on Wheels Saranac Synagogue (Orthodox) Join Us for the 757 Hopkins Road 85 Saranac Avenue ND Williamsville, NY 14221 Buffalo New York 14216 22 SUMMER CELEBRATION 716-639-7600 716-876-1284 koshermow.com SaranacSynagogue.org Rabbi Laizer Labkovski - Director President - Shmuel Rashkin Jeffery Pasler – President Vice President - Reuven Alt Gabbai David Kunkel Ohr Temimim School 411 John James Audubon Parkway Temple Beth Tzedek (Conservative) W. Amherst, NY 14228 1641 North Forest Road 716-568-0226 Williamsville, NY 14221 ohrtemimimschool.com Rabbi Shmuel Shanowitz - Principal 716-838-3232 Jonathan Gellman - President btzbuffalo.org Rabbi Adam J. Rosenbaum One Stop Jewish Buffalo Cantor Mark Spindler A free website updated weekly about all that’s Marcia Goldstein - President happening in Jewish Buffalo Kim Jones - Administrator OneStopJewishBuffalo.com ND Nathan Sull - Publisher Temple Beth Zion (Reform) MONDAY, AUGUST 2 Aaron Sull - Editor Sanctuary: 805 Delaware Avenue Transit Valley Country Club Buffalo, NY 14209 Weinberg Campus Religious School and Offices: 8920 Transit Road 2700 North Forest Road 700 Sweet Home Road Co-Chairs: Ken Polk (TBZ) and Tom Lansing (CSS) Getzville, NY 14068 Amherst, NY 14226 716-639-3311 716-836-6565 weinbergcampus.org tbz.org Robert Mayer- President & CEO Lunch, Golf, Wine & Spirits Tour, Rabbi Sharon Sobel Kenneth Rogers- Chairman of the Board Jeff Clark - Executive Director Cocktails and Dinner of Directors David Goldberg - President ALL participants required to show proof of vaccination Western New York Join us for all or part of the day Synagogues and Temples Temple Beth El (Reform) 720 Ashland Avenue Details and schedule online at tbz.org/events/ Niagara Falls, NY 14301 Chabad House of Buffalo (unaffiliated) or shirshalombuffalo.org/summer-celebration-2021/ 2450 North. Forest Rd, 716-282-2717 Getzville, NY 14068 niagarafallstemple.com or call Julie at (716) 836-6565 716-688-1642 Rabbi Ellen Franke Rabbi Moshe Gurary - Director Cantorial Soloist Barry Rose chabadbuffalo.com William Bell - President Rent assisted apartments for seniors & mobility-impaired adults Congregation Beth Abraham (Conservative) Temple Hesed Abraham of Greater 1073 Elmwood Avenue Jamestown (Reform) Buffalo, NY 14222 Meeting biweekly at Jamestown, NY Lutheran Jewish congregationbethabraham.net Church Cantor Irwin Gelman Rabbi Allen Podet Marty Kerker - President President - Joe Gerstel (716-665-2118) Federation [email protected] Congregation Havurah (Reform)

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The following are excerpts and with the same proficiency and from a eulogy delivered by determination as when he was Christopher Kerr, MD, PhD, on holding it, he picked up the sword June 6, 2021 for his friend and of advocacy. Duker, Roberta “Bobbie” Lillian (Katz) mentor, Dr. Robert A. Milch. …In 1977, the Dragon he set out formerly of Mineola, NY, Pittsburgh, I have often thought that one of to fight was in the form of a CEO PA, Buffalo, NY and Delray Beach, FL, passed away on May 20, 2021. Beloved the most interesting and historic at the Buffalo General Hospital and wife of the late Jonathan J. Duker. places and times to visit would be the injustice he rose against was Devoted mother of Jonina Duker and the kitchen table in the home of patient suffering. That year there her spouse Alan D. Lichtman, Jay S. the young Bob Milch. I am not sure were exactly zero hospital-based Duker and his wife Julie Starr-Duker, what they were feeding those boys, Palliative Care Units in the United and Judith Duker Rosenberg and her Robert and David, but something States. So, Bob approached the CEO husband Ken Rosenberg. Cherished very special happened there. These about a dedicated Palliative Care grandmother of Jacob and his wife Brothers Bob Milch (left) and David Milch (right) young men were clearly dissatisfied Unit and the CEO expressed concern Claire, Bear and his wife Becca, Sam with our common language and better than most at just about everything and about revenue-generating bed loss. and his wife Colette, Adam, Jess, Jared, and Elly. Great-Grandmother expressions- they needed poetry, adoration followed him throughout life. Like all heroes, Bob was inspired to Leo, Lily, and Jon. Donations in prose, language that was lyrical …Perhaps more important than the rather than deterred by being told Bobbie’s memory may be made to and that captured the richness of achievements or summits Bob reached, were the “no”. So, he signed a blank check Hadassah hadasshah.org, for whom their minds and hearts. Both men paths he chose throughout his life. He always and told the CEO to fill it in at the she volunteered tirelessly and served would go on to influence, move and searched for the largest burden to bear, and he end of the year to cover the loss. as the City of Buffalo’s President motivate others with one flick of a carried it each time- not for himself, but for That moment of defiance helped among other many positions, and/or word or the turn of a phrase. It must others. Many years ago, someone asked me to launch the momentum towards Alzheimer’s Association, act.alz.org, have been magical. describe what motivated Bob and I replied, “well hospital-based Palliative Care with the hopes of helping and maybe We all inherit scripts and he just sleeps better at night if he slays some and today over 70 percent of US preventing others from experiencing her and her family’s struggles over stories from our families. Bob’s Dragons during the day.” hospitals offer Palliative Care these past many years. inheritance included the struggles He loved art, language, medicine, and justice programs. He also helped launch the of immigrants and the shadows of but only insofar as he could find humanity in first free standing Hospice Inpatient antisemitism. But these adversities them. About the care of patients, he wrote “If Unit- which is situated across the were outmatched by his family and you would meet the patient’s needs, you must go street. In fact, Hospice Buffalo was KOSHER his people’s search for knowledge beyond the mere proficiencies of your training, the 11th established Hospice in the MARKET and beauty. With that legacy, he listen to what you are hearing, see the world with nation and today there are over Lipman‘for over 70 years learned to live with purpose, lead their vision, and understand their fears, for their 5,500 such organizations which has all of your with kindness, in devotion to family fears are the manifestations of their needs.” collectively served over 1.6 million and with concern for others. Where Bob found humanity lacking, he sought patients last year. Koshe Bob learned all these lessons change with purpose and purity. Why else would In 1999, I sat across from Bob Meats & Groceries well. a talented young surgeon, at the height of his during a job interview that showed • Brisket Of course, having been raised skill and prominence, leave the prestige of the the same level of undeterred • Veal well, Bob would have thought OR to care for patients in their homes, patients advocacy, an interview that would • Roasts it imprudent to list his many beyond intervention or cure, patients in need of change my life. I asked Bob what • Chicken achievements and accolades. And a simple presence? I always assumed that he had qualities he was looking for in a that is unfortunate. Because Bob no choice- he was compelled by the potential for doctor entering his field and 1482 Monroe Avenue • Rochester was an uncommon man who was something more humane and he held a vision without missing a beat, he answered, 585-271-7886 Delivery at Shir Shalom • Amherst • JULY 27TH either blessed or cursed with being that few could see. So, he put down the scalpel “righteous indignation. ”

26 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 COMMUNITY In Remembrance Bob’s advocacy for more humane and genius, those with struggles of care never stopped- same fight just addiction or depression, those who are The following individuals in our community passed away during the period different Dragons…from advocating for often marginalized or misunderstood. from May 17,-June 21, 2021*. May their memories forever be a blessing, and Universal Health Care to the Medical Aid Again, his belief was that our most may their loved ones be comforted among the mourners of Zion. in Dying Act. His writings are a plea to redeeming quality is in our shared better align the workings of healthcare struggle to remain humane. to the true needs of the patient, to get How those we love leave us at the closer to the patient’s bedside and to end of their lives is an extension of our Pauline Brummer understand the view from the bed. In a relationship with them- it matters; it recent article, he began with a Spanish informs and guides us as we struggle Sybil D. Cherbow proverb: “As one moves from the stands through grief and embrace their to the arena, the perspective on the remembrance. Bob’s end of life journey Barry Cohen bull changes.” He then wrote “I cannot is not just a story to remember, it is in good conscience dictate to someone one worthy of reverence. Bob left us Hal Dubin else when they reach an intolerable with the same eloquence, principle Thelma Greenspan point of suffering, when the ravages and strength which had carried him of irreversible disease demand only its throughout life; he could not be reduced Ilene Ruth Gund endurance, often inconsistent with the or defined by illness. Dying didn’t alter values and philosophy with which one his core principles or passions. While in Marilynn Kregal has lived.” You can see why it is that hospital, he was distressed by the care he was built for such heavy work- with he witnessed- through his eyes, those in Dr. Robert Milch his fierce intellect surpassed by an even need always deserved care that was more bigger heart and of course his beautiful dignified and humane. Sally Moss language. What was so defining about …Bob also remained dutiful till the this article was how he ended it … with 4 very end. He was incapable of being an simple words- “Bring on the bull.” imposition which made him a horrible One of my favorite memories of Bob patient. He refused to call me during the is that whenever we had a new medical night last week when he was suffering. If we inadvertently missed printing the listing of your loved one, please write to student or resident he would block off He told Linda that he didn’t want to [email protected]. and we will include the name next month. several hours to sit with them- this was wake me. His son Mike remarked that his sacred time, where he would truly his cause of death could be “failure to get to know these students as people, impose.” In his last hours, he openly their uniqueness, their hopes and their expressed regret at not being able to experience with loss. He more than finish his thank you notes. And true taught- he inspired. to the richness of his soul, he sought In a speech to medical students, Bob beauty and in the waning minutes of life, memorably said “When our work is at he recited Shakespeare. its finest, together we have seen in those As in life, he was compelled to express entrusted to our care the emergence of in words the warmth that was in his the best of human nature- the courage, heart. He wrote beautiful letters to his grace, dignity and love of which one is children and grandchildren. One passage capable. To the extent that we are able reads…” You will find me when you least to play a part in that wonder, we are expect to, in your words and gestures, ourselves elevated and transformed. It your stories recollected and retold, may be that recognition which should when a sight or sound or smell calls our be foremost in what we need to teach, moments together in memory. Listen for for what happens at the bedside is not my voice when days are long, decisions just a function of what we know, but of are difficult, times hard, knowing that what we are.” my love and encouragement endure One of Bob’s greatest gifts was forever; your values and instincts are knowing when: when to listen, when to good- your inner voice sounds a lot like guide, when to express concern, when mine.” to laugh and when to hug…My lifelong On May 9th, Mother’s Day, he wrote passion has been horses. Bob would often his beloved wife Linda that “my last sit quietly as I went on and on about all conscious thought will be of you and the things having to do with horses. One day last word on my lips will be your name.” I commented to him that I didn’t realize As promised, when that moment called, how much he also loved talking about he turned his head and gazed into her horses. He smiled and said “I don’t. eyes- leaving us as gracefully as he lived. I love you when you talk about horses. ” Many of the people he loved, he did so because–rather despite their frailties and shortcomings–he embraced those who walked the lines between madness July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 27 THE SUMMER ( NOT) THE LAST WORD SOUND OF THE CITY Overcoming Adversity BY MITCH STEINHORN

According to Google, “adversity” is defined as “difficulties and misfortune.” During my collegiate period/post- secondary education in 1993 I found myself attending Erie Community College. As I was not certain as to what profession I wanted to explore, I wanted to pursue educational opportunities that circulated around both business and funeral service education. I found myself selecting an Intro to Biology course. ••••••••••••••• While taking the course, my professor, who resembled the late Sonny Bono, THE SONGS was not as supportive as I would have YOU KNOW. hoped. While I always had difficulty and challenges in my schooling and was THE MUSIC YOU LOVE. never a great test-taker, I found myself facing adversity in trying to accept the ••••••••••••••• challenges before me. One day following class, I Featuring: accompanied the professor back to his office, and I asked him for some help. Mitch Steinhorn Frank Sinatra I asked if there was any opportunity to do extra credit, and perhaps after class, currently having, I would not be able to freelance funeral director. Dionne Warwick spend some additional study time at his successfully complete the requirements. One of the firms I was representing convenience. Alas, he did not allow me I thanked him for his time and walked sent me down to a hospital in Springville, Tom Jones the opportunity, nor was he willing to out. I was then determined to prove him NY to transfer a decedent. As I was en put me in the right direction. He simply wrong. I ended up dropping the class, route, my memory was juggling different stated that I was “on my own.” but took another biology class, with things, because the name of the decedent Ella Fitzgerald I continued having challenges and another professor, and passed. I put my sounded very familiar. Sure enough, the was not passing the class. While I was on mind to being successful and overcame person was my former professor who Tony Bennett the verge of dropping the class, I made the adversity. had just passed away (I will not divulge another attempt at asking for help, and Fast forward about ten years. I had the details). As I continued driving, I The Carpenters again my professor declined to assist. completed my funeral service education, recalled how in fact, his advice -if you He than asked me what my future plans my national boards, my 1-year residency, can call it that - may have been a blessing were. I informed him I was contemplating along with passing the New York State in disguise. His negativity encouraged STREAMING LIVE AT becoming a Funeral Director. He looked licensure (today, I am not only licensed me to study extra harder on my own. at me and said “Forget it! I would not in New York, but I hold inactive licenses Back then, I think I took his rejection WEBRRADIO.COM recommend it!” I asked why? He said also in the states of Massachusetts, and to mean that he really did not want to with my grades and the difficulty I was New Jersey). I started my career as a do the extra work to help me succeed. However, I now realize that he was, in fact, doing me a favor by forcing me to be the better person, to take advantage of the situation by putting my best foot Your Hometown Exceptional forward and truly do something positive Connection to Arizona Concierge Services to overcome my educational challenges. Along with my parent’s upbringing, this particular life experience taught me to never give up, to face my challenges, and to overcome any and all obstacles that may come in my direction in life. Overcoming adversity is always attainable. Mitch Steinhorn is Funeral Director and Owner of Amherst Memorial Chapel LLC. (716)913-7327 He delivered these comments at Kehillat Ohr Tzion’s Tikkun Leil Shavuot earlier this spring. 28 buffalojewishfederation.org | July 2021 July 2021 | buffalojewishfederation.org 29