Education and Youth Department Handbook 5780 2019—2020

Congregation Beth Shalom Department of Education To cultivate a lifelong love of learning and living Jewish values

CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM Education and Youth Department Handbook 5780 2019—2020

Congregation Beth Shalom  6800 N.E. 35th  Seattle, WA 98115

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Table of Contents:

Welcome and Introduction………………………………………………….Page 3 Mission……………………………………………………………………….Page 4 Our Goals…………………………………………………………………….Page 5 Pre-K-5th Grade Program………………………………………………….Page 6 Prozdor (6th and 7th grade program)……………………………………..Page 7 Teen Program………………………………………………………………...Page 8 Youth Groups: Matanot, Chaverim, Kadima, and USY………………….Page 9 Registration…………………………………………………………………..Page 10 Religious School Committee and Community Breakfasts……………….Page 11 Parent Participation…………………………………………………………Page 12 Policies………………………………………………………………………..Page 13 Religious School and Prozdor Behavior Contract……………………….Page 15 Derekh Eretz– Guidelines for Behavior at CBS…………………………..Page 17 Shabbat Programs…………………………………..……………………….Page 19 Contact us…………………………………………………………………….Page 20

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Shalom,

We are so thrilled that your family has chosen to be a part of our Prozdor, Religious School and/or Youth Group Community! We are looking forward to a year filled with new and continued friendships, opportunities for project-based learning, and joyful celebrations of Jewish holidays and traditions. This handbook contains important information regarding our religious school and youth group programs. Please take the time to read through it, as we have made changes to our educational programs to respond to parent feed- back and to better align our programs with our goals and mission. We have also updated many of our policies and procedures. We hope that you will find meaningful opportunities to get involved and that you will be in touch with us if you have any questions.

Sincerely,

Rachel Wachtel, Education and Youth Director

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Congregation Beth Shalom Department of Education

To cultivate a lifelong love of learning and living Jewish values

“Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.” William Butler Yeats

Mission Statement: Congregation Beth Shalom’s Religious School is an egalitarian learning community affiliated with the Unit- ed Synagogue for Conservative Judaism. We welcome families from the full spectrum of Jewish life. We strive to provide our students with a solid foundation grounded in Judaics, including Torah, Hebrew, Israel, holidays, and Jewish values.

Our dedication to creating a joyful, dynamic, community-focused learning environment helps instill in our students the competence and confidence to participate in all aspects of home and communal Jewish life. We believe fostering a lifelong love of learning, coupled with living Jewish values, strengthens the inextrica- ble ties connecting students to Jews around the corner and across the globe.

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Our Goals:

1) Learning will be engaging, meaningful, and developmentally appropriate for each learner  Students make choices about their learning and explore their own interests  Educators facilitate learning through a variety of methods (including project-based learning.) They draw upon best practices in the field of supplemental Jewish Education.  Learning is tailored to meet the individual needs of each student

2) Learners experience Jewish traditions as spiritually meaningful and as guideposts for ethical living (within the frameworks of the Conservative Movement)  We live by Jewish values taught in the Torah, feel solidarity with the Jewish people, and strive to encounter God  Mitzvot and Tikkun Olam are at the center of our curriculum, and our students work to repair the world  Holiday celebrations are joyful and reflect student learning  Music, art, and cooking connect learners with previous generations of the Jewish people  Learners gain familiarity with Tefillot, Jewish history, the State of Israel, and key Jewish texts through critical thinking, discussions, and active questioning

3) Students and families are warmly embraced by the CBS Jewish community  Students and families are known by name  Families from a wide variety of Jewish backgrounds are welcomed and valued  Connections are built with our Ozerim (8th-12th graders tutors and teaching assistants)  Parents share in their child/children’s learning and families host events in their homes  Relationships with peers, rabbis, and educators extend beyond the classroom

4) We instill a life-long love of learning  Synagogue members serve as volunteer Hebrew teachers and role models for continued Jewish learning  Students are coached to take on leadership roles and regularly participate in many aspects of synagogue life, such as Shabbat morning and evening services and rituals  Graduates are confident in where to go and who to ask to learn more  Classes go outside of the synagogue and interact with the greater Seattle Jewish community

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Our Programs:

nd Pre-K-2 Grade Religious School: Our Pre-k-2nd grade students attend class Sundays from 9:30am-12:30pm. In Pre-k-2nd grade students are introduced to the Hebrew language and to the Hebrew alphabet. They practice reciting brachot for Shabbat, Holidays, and food, and they study key texts from the Torah connected to Jewish values. Each grade in this range has a key topic that they study and a special event that pairs with it.

Grade Topic Event Pre-K Shabbat Class Shabbat dinner Kindergarten The Book of Genesis Museum of Biblical Figures First Grade Israel “Trip to Israel” Second Grade Midrashim Midrash Author Celebration

3-5th Grade Program: Our 3rd-5th grade students attend class Sundays 9:30-12:30 and Tuesdays from 4:30-6:30pm. 3-5th grade students study key Torah texts, including: Cain and Abel, the Exodus from Egypt, and the Jo- seph story. Each grade level focuses on key Mitzvot, and 1-2 thematic units; these pair with special events throughout the year.

Grade Topic Mitzvot Third and Jewish History & Israel Kashrut and mitzvot related to the garden Fourth Grade Fifth Grade Jewish lifecycle and the Tzitzit and Tefillin; mitzvot related structure of a service to prayer

Hebrew: our 3rd-5th grade students participate in small group Hebrew and Tefillah learning on Tuesdays and Sundays. Their learning emphasizes fluent reading, understanding of key Hebrew words and phrases, and a basic understanding of the meaning of each prayer studied.

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th th Prozdor (6 and 7 Grade Program): Classes meet Saturdays 10:00am-12:30pm & Tuesdays 4:30-6:30pm *Students enrolled in a Jewish Day School attend Saturday classes only Prozdor provides students with opportunities to delve deeper into various subjects within Judaism. Tuesday afternoons include Hebrew and text learning, a Holocaust unit, and an elective hour. Electives vary each semester and include offerings such as: comparative religions, text study, Israeli music, visual midrash, modern Hebrew slang, and more. Saturday morning courses are facilitated by a variety of Rabbis and educators in the CBS community. At the beginning of each semester a calendar will be provided with the session topics, facilitators, times and locations. In addition to class time, students spend time in the sanctuary familiarizing themselves with the Shabbat morning service and supporting their peers who are celebrating their B’nai Mitzvah. 6th Grade Saturday morning Prozdor includes the following courses:

 Tefillah Study  Partners in Parasha  Conservative Judaism  Year 1 Synagogue Skills

7th Grade Saturday morning Prozdor include the following courses:

 Partners in Parasha  Mitzvot Study  Modern Day Israel  Year 2 Synagogue Skills

Parent Participation: Parents of 6th grade students are strongly encouraged to attend Shabbat classes with their child from 10am-10:45 and 11:40-12:20 each week. Parents of 7th grade students are strongly encouraged to attend Shabbat classes with their child from 11:40-12:20 each week. Prozdor Celebrations of Learning: Tuesday students will have 2 opportunities during the year to share their learning with parents, classmates, and teachers. Mark your calendars for December 17th and March 31st. Participation in Prozdor is a requirement of our B’nai Mitzvah program.

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CBS Teen Program

Congregation Beth Shalom aims to engage teens and keep them involved in Jewish life through a wide variety of social opportunities, Shabbat and Holiday experiences, formal and informal learning opportunities, and opportunities to work or volunteer with our youth. We strive to meet the needs of different teens in our community by offering experiences that cater towards all different interests, skills, and learning styles. We are thrilled to offer the following opportunities for the 2019-2020 academic year. All of the opportunities are available for CBS members and nonmembers. If you have any questions or comments about our teen program, please get in touch with Rachel Wachtel, CBS Education and Youth Director.

Shabbat and Holidays Youth Minyan: Post B’nai Mitzvah teens participate in this no adults allowed service that is led by teens, gives them the opportunity to practice their synagogue skills, pray with their peers, and socialize over a delicious meal. Youth Minyan meets 6-8 times per year. No sign up required, just mark your calendar for the 2019-2020 dates: 9/14, 10/5, 11/16, 1/11, 2/22, 3/28, 5/16. Teen Holiday Experiences: Approximately 4 times each year teens will be invited to participate in a Jewish Holiday experience along with one of the Rabbis or Educators at Congregation Beth Shalom. Some examples may include: a Hannukah Party, dinner in the sukkah, Havdallah on the beach, and more.

Community Involvement Ozerim Program: 8th-12th graders work in our prek-5th grade religious school as special needs aides, teaching assistants, He- brew tutors, and technology specialists. Application is available on the CBS website.

B’nai Mitzvah Tutoring: The best way to learn is to teach. 8th-12th graders are invited to work as B’nai Mitzvah tutors. This provides them with a good source of income and aids them in developing skills of patience, discipline, schedule keeping, and pro- fessionalism. Typically tutors work one-on-one with learners, this year we are working to set up an option for teens to tutor as a group and build confidence and skills so that they feel more comfortable tutoring one-on-one in the future. Teens must complete the tutor training process (it is now part of Tuesday teen learning) before they may begin tutoring. Teen Volunteer Opportunities: On the 2nd Sunday of each month CBS offers a volunteer opportunity just for teens! This is a wonderful opportunity to connect with peers and give back. Teen Volunteer Opportunities Scheduled on the 2nd Sunday of each month. September 8th Volunteer at CBS Back to School Bash from 12:00pm-1:30pm October 13th Closed for Sukkot Mary’s Place- November 10th Family Center in North Seattle (1155 N 130th St) 2pm-4pm December 8th Volunteer from 2pm-4pm at The Service Board (4408 Delridge Way SW) January 12th Run Bingo Night at the Summit 7-8pm February 9th Closed- shinshinim in Israel March 8th Volunteer at the CBS Purim Carnival from 11:00-1:00pm April 12th Closed for Pesach May 10th Volunteer with Trees for Seattle at 85th and Meridian 2pm-5pm Learning Opportunities for Teens: Tuesday Learning: Each Tuesday teens are invited to come to CBS from 6:30pm-8:00pm. The program starts with a delicious dinner just for teens and is followed by 1 hour of class time. A variety of 6 week courses are offered including Hebrew Slang, His- tory of Israel, High Level Text Study, and more. Visit the CBS website for teachers and course descriptions.

Mostly Social: Follow our USY Chapter, Seattle Nimratz, on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/seattlenimratz/

USY: USY provides our teens with a way to stay in touch with their Jewish friends and have a supportive social group. The USY- ers elect a board of their peers who are responsible for planning monthly social events throughout the school year. USY also provides opportunities for teens to participate in summer programs.

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Youth Groups:

Our youth groups are an important part of our educational program at Congregation Beth Shalom. Youth groups provide an opportunity for socialization within a Jewish context. We are members of the Pinwheel (Pacific Northwest) Region of United Synagogue Youth, encompassing Oregon, Washington, Idaho, Al- berta, and British Columbia.

Youth Group Membership is included in Religious School and Prozdor tuition for youth grades 2nd -7th.

We offer four youth groups based on grade

Matanot - For youth grades 2nd and 3rd. This group holds one event per month. Events include activities such as Shabbat dinners, a Chocolate Seder, and mini-golf.

Chaverim – For youth grades 4th and 5th. This group holds one event per month. Events include improv, laser tag, board games, ice cream parties, and volunteer opportunities.

Kadima – For youth grades 6th-8th. This group holds 1-2 events per month and participates in the Region- al Shabbaton at Camp Solomon Schechter. Post B’nai Mitzvah students may also attend the monthly USY Youth Minyan. Events include Masterchef Jewnior, Israeli Movie Nights, and Kadima only Shabbat dinners.

USY (United Synagogue Youth) – For youth grades 9th-12th. Regular events for this group include a monthly youth minyan, board meetings, participation in Regional and International programs, and other social and religious events. Popular events include: Into the Night, Havdallah, Movie Nights, and more!

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Registration:

Registration for Religious School, Prozdor, the Teen Program and all four of our Youth Groups is available through Chaverweb. Here is the link to log in: https:// www.chaverweb.net/COALogin.aspx?key=C24899071120 . Please call the CBS office if you run into any problems enrolling!

Parents are encouraged to meet with the Education and Youth Director to discuss questions or concerns and to share relevant information about their child’s learning, behavioral, and social-emotional needs prior to the start of the school year.

Students will be admitted on the first day of school and to youth group programs only if we have received their completed enrollment form, emergency information, and per- missions and waivers, and tuition has been paid or a payment plan arranged.

* No one will be turned away due to inability to pay. Please contact Carol at (206) 524-0075 ext. 2502 to discuss financial aid.

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Religious School Committee:

The Religious School Committee is a group of parents, educators, and other Beth Shalom members concerned with the successful operation of our Religious School, Prozdor and other aspects of Jewish education for children and youth in our community. The committee serves as a forum for discussing new ideas, reflecting on change, and voicing concerns. The Religious School Committee is also responsible for recruiting volunteers for Religious School programs and special events.

Anyone who is interested in participating is welcome. During the 2019-2020 school year the Religious School Committee will meet on the following dates: 10/20, 12/15, 3/1, and 5/10.

If you would like to get involved in the Religious School Committee, please contact Mike Grodin, Religious School Committee Chair, at [email protected].

Religious School Community Breakfasts!

This year, the Religious School Community, (including students, teachers, and parents,) will come together for a yummy breakfast on the first Sunday of each month. On these Sundays, breakfast will be served from 9:00-9:30. Please note that there is no breakfast in December.

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Parent Participation:

Education does not come from a textbook; education happens when a relationship is created between students, parents, and teachers. Every family has a unique set of skills and interests to offer the CBS Re- ligious School and Youth Department. This year we hope to involve as many parents as possible and re- quest that each parent select at least one item below that they would be interested in helping with. Please let us know if you have other skills you would be interested in offering.

 Be a room parent  Help with a class/school project  Co-chair Family Camp  Host a class gathering or event at your home st  Help prepare a religious school breakfast (generally the 1 Sunday of the month)  Help with organizational projects  Help a child or children with their Hebrew reading  Help recruit families for a youth group event  Assist with the running of a youth group event

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Policies:

Drop-off and Pick-up Policy: The only door we will use for drop-off and pick-up is the front door on 35th Ave. Please come into the building to pick-up your child/children. This is for the safety of our students, and we appreciate your cooperation.

Attendance Policy: Regular attendance is important for your children’s learning. When a child is ill please email the Education Department Office and your child’s teacher. When a child misses class, comes late, or leaves early, parents are responsible to be in touch with the teacher to make up missed work.

School Dress: All students MUST have their heads covered during Religious School classes. Appropriate head coverings include hats, kippot, scarves, bandanas, etc. We are a holy community in a holy space, and thus modest dress is strongly encouraged. Teachers and student teachers will dress in a manner that is modest and appropriate for the classroom setting in which they are working. Children are not to wear clothing that exposes their midriffs or shoulders. Shorts and skirts should reach fingertips. Additionally, T- shirts with inappropriate messages on them may not be worn.

Shabbat and Festival Dress: Dress at the synagogue on Shabbat and Festivals should be dignified and reflective of the Jewish value of tz'niut (modesty). On Shabbat and Festivals men and boys should wear a jacket, sweater, or dress shirt. Women and girls may wear a dress, skirt, or dress pants. Those leading services and called to the bimah should be especially mindful of appropriate dress and are expected to wear a kippah and tallit (as appropriate).

Food/Snacks: We provide kosher, vegetarian, and nut-free snacks and water every Saturday, Sunday, and Tuesday. Snack usually consists of one fruit or vegetable and one item containing protein. We are happy to accommodate allergies and dietary concerns if given advanced notice. If your child requires ad- ditional snacks, please ensure that they receive those BEFORE school begins. Any snacks brought into Congregation Beth Shalom must be kosher and peanut-free.

Kashrut Policy: We have many events and celebrations throughout the school year. We invite parents to provide special food items and treats for these events. Food for all Religious School, Prozdor, and Youth Group events must uphold CBS standards of kashrut. Items brought into the Social Hall, kitchen, and Sanctuary can either be store-bought items with a kosher symbol, or prepared in the CBS kitchen with kosher ingredients. Potlucks that take place in downstairs classrooms or individuals’ homes should be nut- free and vegetarian. Our Rabbis, and kashrut supervisor are happy to answer any questions related to kashrut.

Cellphones and electronic devices: We recommend that students leave all cellphones and electronic devices at home unless a teacher requests them for a project or activity. If your child does bring a cell- phone to class, we expect it to be switched to silent mode and to be put away in a pocket or bag. This includes break and recess times. If a student needs to text a parent or guardian regarding pick up, during break time they should ask a teacher for permission. Students not abiding by this policy will have their phones confiscated for the remainder of class time.

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Progress reports: Progress reports will be mailed home for pre-k-5th grade students twice a year. They are meant to provide an update on topics covered and your child’s progress in Hebrew and Judaic Studies. If you have questions or concerns about your child’s progress, we encourage you to be in touch with their teacher.

Prozdor Celebrations of Learning: In place of progress reports, 6th and 7th grade students share their learning at 2 special events throughout the year. These dates will be include on the Prozdor calendar.

Emails/communication: The CBS Education and Youth Department sends weekly email updates every Tuesday. These emails contain crucial information about the schedule, special events or programs, and general information about youth and family programming at the synagogue. In addition to the Education Department email, pre-k-5th grade teachers will send monthly email updates to the families in their class. If you are not receiving our emails, please be in touch so we can get you on the right lists. If you would like to speak with one of our teachers or youth group advisors please let them know and they will be happy to schedule a time to speak with you. Teachers and advisors are not available to conference with you before and/or during religious school, as they are focused on setting up and providing the best experience possible for your children.

REPORTING CHILD ABUSE Under Washington State Law we are required to immediately report to Child Protective Services (CPS) or to our local law enforcement agency, if we have witnessed or have any reason to suspect the occurrence of child abuse, neglect, or exploitation. State law defines child abuse as injury, sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, negligent treatment, or maltreatment, under circumstances that indicate the child’s health, welfare, and safety is harmed. Any faculty member who has reasonable cause to suspect that a student has suf- fered abuse or neglect shall report such incidents to the Education and Youth Director. Staff members are not obligated to inform parents if the police or Child Protective Services are called about possible child abuse, neglect or exploitation. Should questions arise, please read the Mandatory Reporting Manual or ask the CBS Education and Youth Director.

Inclement Weather Policy: In the event of inclement weather on a Tuesday, we will follow the Seattle Public Schools decisions to close school or cancel after-school activities. Should inclement weather be forecast for Saturday morning, the Education Director will make a decision about school closures before Shabbat and notify families by email. Should inclement weather occur on Sunday mornings, our Education Director will notify families by email and post a message on our website.

Emergency Preparedness: The CBS staff is trained in emergency procedures and keeps the necessary supplies on hand. We conduct emergency drills and have emergency plans on file. If you would like to view our emergency procedures, please make an appointment with our Education and Youth Director. In case of an emergency, we will use remind.com to communicate with parents via text message.

Directory: A roster of Religious School and Prozdor students will be shared with enrolled families following the start of school. Please let us know if you do not want your contact information to be shared.

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Religious School and Prozdor Behavior Contract: “Without Torah, there can be no Derech Eretz. Without Derech Eretz, there can be no Torah.” -Pirke Avot 3:17

In keeping with Jewish values and principles, Congregation Beth Shalom recognizes its obligation to all members of the school community to provide a positive climate and a safe, healthy environment in which each child will discover and cultivate a meaningful Jewish identity and commitment. To that end, it is expected that all members of the school community conduct themselves in an ethical and virtuous manner that demonstrates respect for self, others, property and the environment. Below you will find a list of behavioral policies and standards. It is expected that all students and parents uphold these standards.

Parents 1. Will make every effort to prepare children for school by assisting them in bringing required books and materials for each session. 2. Will get children to class on time and keep absences to a minimum (only for reasons of illness or ex- treme necessity). 3. Will be good role models for their children by conveying a positive attitude about Jewish learning and Religious School attendance and obligations. 4. Will strive as a family unit to build a connection to the Jewish community and Congregation Beth Shalom by attending services and fully participating in synagogue life. Will encourage appropriate behavior at services and synagogue activities.

Students 1. Will come prepared by bringing all necessary books and supplies to each class session. 2. Will be courteous and respectful to classmates and teachers. 3. Will use appropriate and kind language at all times. 4. Will respect the right of every child to feel safe from physical harm and verbal abuse. 5. Will allow others to express their opinions in a safe environment and refrain from interrupting when someone else is speaking. Will raise hand to be recognized in class. 6. Will respect Congregation Beth Shalom as a sacred space and conduct themselves quietly and respectfully in the classroom, sanctuary, Beit Midrash, and other places of meeting. 7. Will respect school property and the property of others. 8. Will participate actively and appropriately in all classes and activities.

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Consequences for Inappropriate Behavior: Respect is practiced here. Students will know their teacher’s expectations. If there is a continuing behavioral issue either the teacher or Rachel Wachtel, Education and Youth Director, will contact parents personally. We at Congregation Beth Shalom believe that students are entitled to a positive classroom atmosphere conducive to effective learning. We encourage good communication between the Education and Youth Director, the teacher, the students and the parents. Therefore, parents are asked to become involved when disciplinary problems arise.

As a last resort, students may be dismissed from the Religious School. Alternative options for continuing his/her Religious School education will be suggested. We firmly believe that the learning of others should not be hampered by the inappropriate behavior of one student. School fees are not refundable for students who are withdrawn from classes. Students will need to receive private tutoring in order to return the following year. In the case of property damage, the parents of the student are liable for repair and replacement costs.

It is understood that this policy is based on recognition of individual differences among students and on a concerted effort on the part of parents, teachers, student and Education and Youth Director, and that early attention should produce improvement in behavior.

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Congregation Beth Shalom – A welcoming, joyous, inclusive, sacred space. We welcome your presence and partnership. Guidelines for behavior at CBS

Derech Eretz at a glance: We treat others kindly, safely, respectfully; the way we want to be treated. We respect ourselves, other people, the synagogue, and the physical things in the synagogue. Children are expected to be in a supervised synagogue program or with a designated adult.

The expanded version: All of the guidelines below are for everyone. When reminding others of them, please use kindness and respect.

Respect for People and Spaces: The synagogue is a shomer Shabbat (Sabbath and holiday observant) environment. Unplug on Shabbat! No electronics anywhere in the building or writing, cameras, cell phones, drawing, etc. from sundown Friday nightfall Saturday and on religious holidays. We treat holy spaces with decorum. We are quiet and respectful in the Sanctuary and Beit Midrash, keep holy books off of floors and wear appropriate head coverings. Outside behaviors such as running, throwing and kicking balls, using loud voices, etc. are welcome outside, with proper supervision but not inside the building.

Behavior: We treat others kindly, safely, respectfully; the way we want to be treated. We respect ourselves, other people, the synagogue, and the physical things in the synagogue. Children are expected to be in a synagogue program or with a designated adult. Children repeatedly not complying will be reunited with their parent/adult.

Food: We are proud of our kosher, peanut free synagogue with food practices that reflect our values. Eating is a sacred act: Shabbat lunches, and all meals, are served after public Motzi (blessing over bread) has been made. Please wait until after the blessings over food before lining up to take food at our lunch buffet. Snacks are available during services downstairs. We are respectful of those preparing meals, other diners, and food scarcity issues. We take only what we will eat; moderate portions, striving towards no waste. Meals are eaten upstairs; in the social hall, with overflow seating outside in the courtyard and in the rear of the sanctuary as needed. We do not eat meals on the Bima. We clean up after ourselves. Parents/Guardians are responsible for their kids’ knowledge of and compliance with these practices.

Guidelines for Post B’nai Mitzvah Teens:

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Teens are expected to follow the above guidelines regarding respectful behavior. Teens are encouraged to attend services in the main sanctuary and/or an alternate designated program. Additionally, we have mitzvah opportunities for our teens, including helping in programs for younger children, assisting in the kitchen or working as a greeter. Teens, (just like adults) are expected to model derech eretz in all areas of the building and require minimal redirecting from the staff. Teens who struggle with this responsibility will be guided towards a mitzvah opportunity or be asked to stay with their parents or other responsible adult.

Additionally, during Tuesday and Sunday Prozdor/Religious School: Students stay with CBS staff in programs. We are all mindful of work happening in the offices during religious school hours. Parent/guardian checks in with Education Director if student is arriving late or leaving early. Personal snacks brought from outside of synagogue, must be dairy/vegetarian and peanut free, must be kept in students’ bag/backpack and may not be shared. These personal snacks may not be brought into the kitchen or sanctuary or social hall.

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Shabbat Programming:

Children's Services: Family Tefillah We host a Young Family Tefillah and Lunch once per month on Shabbat at 11:30am in the Beit Midrash. This fun service is geared towards families with children ages 0-5. No sign-up required, just mark your calendars for July 7th, a special summer edition.9/21, 10/19, 11/9, 1/18, 2/15, 4/4, and 5/9. Torah and Tots Come along for a kid-friendly Shabbat adventure with Mor! We will play with puppets, sing songs, dance with Torahs, and learn some Hebrew along the way. This program is geared towards all children ages 2-5 and their families, we hope you’ll join us in Room 3/4 downstairs! Now at 11:30! This program meets every Shabbat morning during the academic year except when Young Family Tefillah (above) meets. Kid’s Kehillah This weekly Shabbat morning program for children ages 6-11 meets from 10:45am to 12:15pm (or whenever main services are completed). Children practice the Shabbat morning service, study this week’s parsha, and learn more about upcoming holidays. Snack is provided. Shabbat Babysitting Want a safe, nurturing place to leave your children while you daven on Shabbat mornings? Great babysitters provide a safe, fun play time for young children (ages 1-3) during Shabbat morning services. This program meets from 9:30am to 12:15pm every Shabbat morning.

Youth Minyan

This amazing monthly youth led service (no adults allowed! Only post B’nai Mitzvah teens!) is an incredible place to make new friends, enjoy delicious food, and practice your service leading and Torah skills! Youth lead every aspect of the service from Shacharit to our Power Musaf! Then, we join together for lunch and some socializing. Youth Minyan meets 6-8 Shabbat mornings per year from 10:15am to Noonish in the Beit Midrash (Library) at Beth Shalom. No sign up required, just mark your calendar for the 2019-2020 dates: 9/14, 10/5, 11/16, 1/11, 2/22, 3/28, 5/16. Questions? Want to sign up to lead or read? Contact Jeremy Rose.

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Have questions about Religious School and/or Prozdor? Contact Rachel Wachtel

Questions about the Religious School Committee? Contact Mike Godin

Questions about Youth Groups? Contact Rachel Wachtel, CBS Shinshinim Mor and Abaye

Questions about Youth and Family Shabbat and Holiday programming? Contact Rachel Wachtel

Questions about regional USY and Kadima? Coming soon!

Rachel Wachtel Education and Youth Director [email protected] 206-524-0075

Mike Grodin Religious School Committee Chair [email protected]

Abaye Singer CBS Shinshin [email protected]

Mor Amram CBS Shinshinit [email protected]

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