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We deliver an experience you’ll hold dear for years to come. iuhealth.org/west/maternity Little Patriot Nathan Beeler takes his mission to honor U.S. veterans beyond his Avon home. Nathan Beeler and U.S. Senator Kelly Ayotte (R-NH) It’s easy to look perfect By Nicole Davis in a magazine. Nathan Beeler was on a mission this past Indiana veterans are at rest there. The century- summer. Working to get 1,000 signatures on a old cemetery has no government funding for Real life means stress, sun petition for the restoration of Clark Veterans long-term care. Dennis Wright, president of Advice along the path to patriotism: damage, and a busy schedule – Cemetery in the Philippines, the 11-year-old Peregrine Development International, is a 33- had veterans surrounding him with support as he year retired veteran who was stationed at Clark Though Nathan Beeler worked hard to petition for the restoration of the neglected Clark Cem- all of which take a toll on your took his cause to Washington D.C. during his military career, never consciously etery in the Philippines, he had help along the way. He says he couldn’t have accomplished all he skin. At Ology, we’re the ‘real skin’ “We heard about the issue and we wanted to aware of any cemetery. His engineering and has without the advice he was given along the way. experts when it comes to erasing do something because it’s disgraceful,” Beeler construction company began work in the says. “When there’s a problem that needs to be Philippines in 2008. Driving past the location Veterans: “Many of them have done a lot of great things for me,” Beeler said. “They helped by the spots, lines and rough patches every day, he noticed what talking to their friends. They have suggested how I can improve my work.” that ‘real’ life gives you every day. looked like a military Whether it’s a BBL Photofacial cemetery with rows of Parents: Taking her son to Washington D.C. to petition for the cemetery restoration, Beeler’s headstones. It was in a parents offered more than just emotional support. “My parents have given me great advice that’s for brown spots, ProFractional “I really want to be a “state of arrested decay,” helped me along the way,” Beeler said. “If there’s any grammatical error, they say instead of doing Laser Resurfacing for lines a term he credits to John it like this…. Try something different.” and rough skin, or EXILIS RF senator, but it takes effort Gilbert, the VFW Cemetery Administrator. The cemetery to tighten up your jawline – Dennis Wright: Offering his opinions on Beeler’s first PowerPoint on Clark Cemetery, Wright and isn’t just a little wish is currently taken care of gave many encouraging words to him through e-mail correspondence from the Philippines and we’ve got it covered. through volunteers and advised him to take his project to Senator Lugar and other Indiana representatives. “I am im- Get ‘real’ results at Ology! donations. pressed,” Wright said in his first e-mail to Beeler. “If I were grading your project, I would give you that happens.” When Beeler read of the an A+. You hit all the nails on the head. I wish more of our citizens would demonstrate the same It’s time to erase what summer cemetery in an Associated level of concern and pride you have shown toward our veterans and those who have served with answered, you can’t just sit and watch.” Press article, his mother, Kim Beeler, said he honor and has as firm of a grasp on their civic duties and responsibilities as you do.” left behind. Take 25% OFF Clark Cemetery, located on Clark Air Force was distraught by it. She told him to make a any BBL Photofacial or Base, was created in 1948 after four American PowerPoint to inform his class of the situation. petition for his classmates to sign. That wasn’t “What is refreshing is people like the Beelers, ProFractional Laser Treatment military cemeteries were closed. Two of those She taught him about petitions and how they cemeteries date back to 1902. At least nine work. So Beeler took the initiative to create a enough to satisfy his need to help. and young Nathan, who has no family military through September 30, 2012!* “It is so refreshing to see what he is doing,” ties, who has trekked to Washington at his own Wright says. “I think all of us old timers, and family’s expense to take on big government,” * May not be combined with other especially the veterans who he has interfaced Wright says. “It is also refreshing to see that offers. Expires 9/30/12. with, are so encouraged by what he personifies. Nathan was able to get his entire Indiana He personifies everything that is right with delegation to sign on to support both bills. America, he personifies the traits we would like Imagine if we had 49 other Nathans out there.” to see in our military.” Though summer is over, school hasn’t stopped Going to the American Legion, Beeler gained him in his mission to support the restoration of well over the 1,000 signatures he needed. Clark Veterans Cemetery. He e-mailed Senator Lugar, a cosponsor of “I love politics, it’s my greatest subject,” Beeler the bill HR 4168 to require the American says. “I do want to get into politics when I get Photoshop for Battles Monument Commission to assume older. I really want to be a senator, but it takes responsibility. Kim took him to Washington effort and isn’t just a little wish that happens.” D.C., after Beeler sent out e-mails to make Beeler says that when he graduates, he wants to appointments to talk with senators about having join the military. His dreams don’t stop at the the cemetery restored. The main question Nathan senator level. Beeler says he wants to run for had to face was the budget. He learned it would president one day, if he can play his cards right. take $25,000 a year to maintain it. But, he has to finish school first. Clarks Veterans Cemetery Restoration “I think we all are amazed at what he Association, along with some of Beeler’s help, accomplished given his age,” Wright says. “When has gotten Congress to introduce two bills. One, you communicate with him, he is in step. He S2320, has gained the support of 16 bi-partisan follows the thoughts and his grasp of the key Real People U. S. Senator Dan Coats (R-IN) meets with Nathan Beeler of Avon, Indiana regarding the Remembering America’s Forgotten senators but needs additional support to get it to issues is amazing.” Veterans Cemetery Act. Photos submitted. the House. For more information, visit cvcra.org.

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He is learning how to deal with his own strengths and weaknesses and how so very often The need for civil and resonable discourse in the wider world the whole can be so much I have voted in every election since I came of The man has proven himself in varied arenas outrageous statement on their own little soapbox. greater than the sum of the parts. voting age and I am proud to be an American and apparently kept his skirts clean along the Social media will be the absolute end of inno- 4) Your athlete is learning leadership skills. He and live in what is considered to be the greatest way. We know about his family, where and when cence and the cause of many tragedies and we looks to his elders on the team for guidance, role country on the planet. But, lately I have felt like he was born, what his religious beliefs appear to will one day find the regulators looking over our models, and the improving performance results what I really wanted to do was to find a very re- be, can find no evidence of malfeasance on his shoulders in what will be extreme censorship. that come with time spent in practice and game mote place, bury my head in the sand and some- part and he is apparently a loving husband and So, if the pot could quit calling the kettle black, play. how ignore the way in which we treat our fellow father. He has also proven to be an effective busi- pink, red, blue or whatever the color dujour is 5) Your athlete is learning how to handle suc- citizens, friends, brothers, family and even some ness leader and has almost reached the pinnacle this week, perhaps we could find time to have cess and learn from failure. As parents, our of our visitors. of professional politician, not that it is a laudable a civil and reasonable discourse regarding the natural tendencies lean us to do what we can We can’t seem to find any real issues to talk goal. problems facing our nation. It’s no wonder no to make sure our young ones never experience about for the upcoming presidential election. Now, in truth, I really wish he would do two one listens because all they can do is respond failure. But that’s not real life. We adults are We all know it’s the economy and jobs, but all things: Stand up for himself and what he be- to the liberal crap. Give me back my small faced with the joy and hubris that can come from the talk is about whether or not Mitt Romney lieves in, no uncertain terms, and tell us where he government, some common sense efficiency success but also learn how to deal with hard- paid his fair share of his federal taxes. No one on thinks we need to take this country, calling the in that government and a tax plan that insures ship when failures invariably come. By letting either side has come up with a real program or issues as he sees them and naming the culprits. everyone pays something. I won’t even comment our kids experience both victory and failures in platform that the voter can read and understand. Take off the gloves and tell it like it is. on medical care except to say that the brain the sports world, they gain valuable experience trust who thought up Obamacare should be I am sick to death about the campaign be- I am sick to death of all the out of context re- in learning how to control their attitudes when ing about what Romney did in middle or high ______, fill in the blank. marks and comments about the opposition, or either of those outcomes happens to them in the school, the pranks and missteps of youth. Who in response to the oppositions sometimes really wider world. cares? 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First Generation film screening provides college resources By Nicole Davis A first-time event for the Hendricks College make this process easier.” Network (HCN), a film screening of the docu- Bastin says she hopes the film, which premiered mentary, First Generation, will take place Sept. at the Heartland Film Festival, will get students 13, 7 p.m. at Royal Theater Danville, 59 S. Wash- and parents thinking. Their next event is a col- ington St. The 90-minute film follows students lege and career fair on Feb. 28, with financial aid through the four years of high school, highlight- workshops to follow. ing the process of applying for college. The first 100 attendants to the film screening “It really opens up the awareness of the strug- will receive a ‘swag bag’ filled with items and gles families go through to get this all figured resources from colleges. Call (317) 745-8804 or out,” said Cathy Bastin, executive director of the visit HendricksCollegeNetwork.org for tickets, Parent’s Corner HCN. “Anybody that has gone through the pro- which cost $5 in advance or $7.50 at the Box cess of enrolling their students knows it’s quite a Office. September Family Fun! Toothbrush Painting process. Knowing these things are out there will Brownsburg Branch Coming Soon! • Go on a picnic and enjoy this great 1553 North Green Street weather! Supplies: Support the Troops in Hendricks County Toothbrush By Nicole Davis • Read a book together.

Support the Troops Benefit Concert has raised eral admission. His Design Quartet and Paul’s Jay Puckett, Regional Manager • Paint a mural and frame it. Washable Paint more than $50,000 for the Wounded Warrior Journey will perform. There will also be a raffle, 317-341-1852 Smock Project over the last six years. Now, the 7th an- auctioning off two acoustic guitars. nual concert will take place on Sept. 8, 6:30 p.m. “It’s helping the soldiers, the injured troops,” [email protected] Paper at Avon High School. Bob Adamson said he Adamson says. “They need a lot of help, those grew an interest in hosting the Southern gospel guys losing their legs, arms, some of them brain imcu.org concert after reading an article of a disabled damaged. It’s the least I could do. It means so Ready Set Go! Family Fun: September soldier going coast to coast to raise funds for much to me to be able to help them. I wish ev- wounded soldiers. erybody would have the same attitude to help Sept 8 Family 4th Fest 5- 9 p.m. Directions: Squirt a small amount of paint onto the toothbrush “We thought it was a great idea and it still is,” them because they need it.” The July 4th holiday event has been rescheduled to 9/8/12! This holiday event is for the entire and fl ick it onto the paper. says Adamson, who served in the U.S. Air Force. For more information, visit supportthetroops- family with entertainment, games, food vendors and much more. Donations will be accepted and “We’ve had some good groups come in. I hope benefitconcert.com, call Bob Adamson at (317) appreciated but not mandatory at the gate for the Shared Blessings Food Pantry. A children’s we have a big crowd again.” 839-5042, Charley Crane at (317) 508-9151 or parade at 7 pm. Fireworks approximately 8:15 pm. Very Cool ~ Very Messy ~ Tons of Fun Tickets cost $12 reserved seating, $10 for gen- Dave Hatfield at (317) 627-8866. Location: Danville Community High School, 100 Warrior Way, Danville Contact: (317) 745-0670 Sept 14 & 15 Clayton Fall Festival Fri 5 – 9 p.m. & Sat. 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. An annual event featuring Heavy Weight Horse Pulls, National Finals for Garden Tractor Pulls, BUILDING DREAMS FOR 35 YEARS... Live Bands, Parade, Vendors, kids games, Bingo, Pig Chase (all ages), Car Show, Horseshoe Tournament, Cow Pie Bingo and Raffl es. Location: Lambert Park, West Michigan St., Clayton, IN US 46118 Movie & Popcorn Night David Weekley Homes in Indianapolis Contact: (317) 539-2130 Sept 22 Fall Festival 11 a.m. – 6 p.m. Supplies: Make Native crafts, make and taste apple cider and fi nd your way through the prairie maze. Location: McCloud Nature Park, 8518 N. Hughes Rd., North Salem Movies David Weekley Homes is excited to bring our award-winning new Contact: (765) 676-5437 Ready Now in Rock Bridge! Popcorn home designs to the Hendricks County area! Our 35-year reputation Sept 22 Astronomy program-Night Sky 7:10 pm in the home building industry is second-to-none. Our designs are One Saturday evening each month the Indiana Astronomy Society will hold sky seminars and 7 6 viewings. These programs, are fascinating for all ages and levels. Telescopes large and small will be 161st Street 37 Directions: 8 set-up for use. Each evening will begin with an informational session lasting about 30 minutes and innovative and inspiring, and our Customer Service is unlike anything Campus Pkwy E 300 S 146th Street

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6 | ICON | www.myICON.info September 2012 Care • Camp • Parties HEALTHY EATS Plainfield’s Quaker Day Festival full of talents H By Nicole Davis A former tradition of the Quaker Church, the to include Plainfield’s Got Talent, a talent show Plainfield Chamber of Commerce will host its featuring entertainers competing for the title of By GetClint Smith your kicks with chicken tikka annual Quaker Day Festival on Sept 21, 4- 9 Plainfield’s Most Talented. The show will take p.m. and 22, 12 – 9 p.m. at Al and Jan Barker place on Sept. 22, 2 p.m. They are still accepting The most painful part of this recipe is waiting so what we have here are bits and pieces of Sports Complex with Carnival rides, vendors applicants. for the chicken to absorb the marinade. But chicken threaded on to skewers and placed on and entertainment at 105 S. East St. and Aug. “(We wanted to) just put on a successful event three or four hours of patience will grant you a a rocket-hot grill. One of the defining features Teacher 22 at Friends Meeting House Grounds with the that everyone can be proud of,” Dubois says. healthful and spicy prize. And while there’s an is how the yogurt chars on the grill—a distinct car show, craft, food and historic walking tours at “Hopefully everyone has a good time.” intricate showcase of spices, you’ll discover the flavor that’s somewhat exotic. W. Main St. and Vestal Rd. Usually hosting the The festival is free of charge and any profits will procedure to be frighteningly simple. I suggest serving chicken tikka with jasmine parade, for the first time last year, the chamber be donated the Youth Athletic Center, Miracle Chicken tikka has its origin in Indian cuisine. rice or grilled flatbread. Also, with all this savory hosted the festival complete with a car show, Field. For more information, call the chamber at Traditionally, the meat is grilled, and some re- spice and heat from the grill, it would be a nice of the vendor tent and entertainment. Executive Direc- (317) 839-3800 or visit quakerdayfestival.weebly. gions call for the meat to be cooked directly over touch to add a cool element—don’t sweat it, I’ve tor of the chamber, Brad Dubois, said the event com. hot coals. I’ll leave that up to you—just know got you covered. Just visit my blog (cooking- was so successful, they have expanded this year that using an ordinary cast-iron grill pan will withclint.com) to pick up a recipe for mint and work just fine. apricot chutney, which will be a perfect sidekick The term “tikka” translates to “bits and pieces,” for your chicken tikka. Month Bow Wow Bash for animals rescued in Brownsburg Clint Smith is an honors graduate of The Cooking and Hospitality Institute of Chicago, Le Cordon By Nicole Davis Bleu, and is currently a culinary arts instructor at Central Nine Career Center in Greenwood. To read more about techniques and recipes, visit www.cookingwithclint.com. Kids, send your name, address, and Last year, then 12-year-old Courtney Sackett With a one-mile dog walk around the park, organized the first Brownsburg Bow Wow Bash there will be a silent auction, vendors, music, a with the $1,000 award she won from Barnum temporary dog park, contests for dogs and other serves 2 telephone number along with a & Bailey. An animal-lover, she wanted the event entertainment. Proceeds will go to the Hendricks Chicken tikka to benefit animals in shelters or without homes. County Humane Society which is starting an Her mother, Sheryl, said she had so many re- adoption center. 2 large boneless, skinless chicken breasts, cut ¼ teaspoon curry powder quests to host it again, she couldn’t say no. This “I like to see the smile’s on people’s faces when into bite-sized chunks ½ teaspoon garam masala 100-word summary of why your year’s event will take place Sept. 22, 10 a.m. they come,” Sheryl Sackett says. “There are a lot 2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice ¼ teaspoon ground coriander RECYCLE. – 3 p.m. at Williams Park, 940 S. Locust Ln., of dog events, but not in this area. It’s just a great ½ cup plain yogurt To taste, kosher salt RECYCLE. Brownsburg. The bash costs $5 per person. way to get people together with their animals. I 3 teaspoons turmeric ¼ teaspoon ground ginger teacher should be honored as the “It’s going to be a fantastic day,” Sheryl Sackett like making people happy.” 1 teaspoon red chili powder says. “The silent auction is new. We’ve got a lot of For more information, visit facebook.com/ really cool items that are coming for that.” bowwowbash.

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8 | ICON | www.myICON.info September 2012 September 2012 www.myICON.info | ICON | 9 CHC ARCHITECTURE & History WWELLNESS Ten quick tips for healthier meals on the go! By Ken Sebree Society of Friends For families on the go, fall often means grab-and-go lunches, drive-thru dinners and snacks from the nearest vending machine. While most people try to eat healthy, it can be challenging, especially when The Quaker religion was established in North Friends, held their western yearly meeting at the yearly meeting was attended by almost 2,000 ing house burned leaving only the original brick you’re busy and on a budget. If you don’t plan ahead, it’s tempting to do quick and easy fast food, America around 1800 and most Quakers of newly-constructed meeting house in Plainfield people. Quaker primary issues during the yearly walls standing. The next year the structure was which can be unhealthy, not to mention expensive. Let the 3 P’s be your guide to healthier food on that time lived in North Carolina and Virginia. beginning in 1858. This original meeting house meetings were education, concerns for people of reconstructed and is still in use by the Society of the fly: Plan, Purchase and Prepare. Because of their opposition to slavery, many was constructed of brick walls and timber roof color, Indian civilization and recordkeeping. Friends. • Plan the week’s worth of meals and snacks, one week at a time, based on your budget. Quaker families had migrated to Ohio and Indi- beams at a cost of about $11,000, and the first In 1913, the original Plainfield Quaker meet- • Consider making meals around soups, stews and casseroles that you can make ahead and help ana by the 1820s. stretch expensive food items. When the War of 1812 ended, • Keep it simple. Using the most basic a flood of Quakers migrated ingredients can help you to keep it healthier and more natural. from North Carolina to claim • Shop the perimeter of the grocery store. the fertile lands of Indiana. This is typically where the healthier They came by wagon in groups choices are. of 30 to 50, and their journey • Eat fruits, vegetables and foods that are took about a month. in season. They cost less and taste better. • Stock up on frozen vegetables or canned Quakers were known for be- varieties with less salt. ing plain people who did not • Double your recipe and freeze leftovers wear fancy clothing or jewelry, into individual portions for quick and and they preferred that their easy meals later in the week. buildings also be simply con- • Incorporate leftovers into other meals by creatively using remaining items in a structed—without much of the different dish. popular architectural detailing • Go meatless or create “no cook” meals of Plainfield Friends Meeting was built in 1858. These Pews were saved from a fire of that period. that occurred in 1913. salads or sandwiches. The Quakers, who called • Prepare and individually bag snacks like themselves the Society of Photos by Rick Myers carrots, green peppers and sliced fruit so they are easy to grab and eat when Ken Sebree is a practicing architect and resident of Hendricks County for well over 40 years. Contact him at [email protected] or (317) 272-7800. ‘Fall’ing in Love hunger hits. Hendricks Romantic drama in music Friday, October 5 at 7:30 p.m. With these tips you can start eating healthier. For more information on packing healthy school Symphonic Sunday, October 7 at 3:00 p.m. Society Music by Berlioz, Rossini, Tchaikovsky, lunches or for quick and delicious recipes for the grill—handpicked by Chef Bill at IU Health West Debussy and others Hospital’s Garden Café—visit iuhealth.org/west and click on news. Benjamin G. Del Vecchio Chamber Music V Music Director and Conductor Fall’ing in Love Early music potpourriChamber Music VI 2012-13 Season Free concert at Bartlett Chapel Romantic drama in music Musicians’ choice United Methodist Church, Avon Friday, October 5 at 7:30 p.m. Free concert at Bartlett Chapel Sunday, November 11 at 3:00 p.m. Just the facts: childhood obesity Sunday, October 7 at 3:00Featuring p.m. music’sUnited “oldies Methodist and goodies” Church, Avon September is Childhood Obesity Awareness dietician with Indiana University West Hospital. Music by Berlioz, Rossini, Happy HolidaysSunday, January 27 at 3:00 p.m. Tchaikovsky, Debussy and others Month to advance the prevention and treatment “That small effort truly can make all the A collection of Music’sholiday favorites Bad Boys Friday, December 14 at 7:30 p.m. of childhood obesity. According to the Centers difference in a child’s daily health. We want kids Getting into trouble, musically Chamber Music Sunday,V December 16 at 3:00 p.m. for Disease Control (CDC), Indiana has a to understand that when they have the nutrition Season Tickets Now on Sale Featuring musicFriday, by Handel, February Tchaikovsky, 22 at 7:30 p.m. th Early music potpourriHaydn, HerbertSunday, and others February 24 at 3:00 p.m. childhood obesity rate of nearly 30 percent, they need, they are able to focus and learn more Free concert at Bartlett Chapel For our 6 Season Chamber MusicFeaturing VI music of Rossini, Richard almost twice that of the national average. in school. The healthier the meals, the more fuel United Methodist Church, Avon Strauss and others Musicians’ choice Sunday, November 11 at 3:00 p.m. Youth Concerts Wednesday The Office of the Surgeon General published your child will have throughout their day.” Free concert at Bartlett Chapel Featuring music’s “oldies and goodies” February 27, 2013 at 1:30 and a study showing that currently nearly 1 in Studies show that for children ages 6 to 12, girls United Methodist Church, Avon 2:45 p.m., Intermediate School “Maestro’s Sunday, January 27, 3:00 p.m. 3 children and teens in America are either need 10,000 steps per day and boys need around Season Tickets Happy HolidaysMusic’s BadTwo Boys for the Show overweight or are at risk of becoming 15,000 steps each day to maintain a healthy BMI A collection of holidayGetting favorites into trouble,It’s a “Grand musically Night” for singing Now on Sale Friday, February 22 at 7:30 p.m. overweight. Overweight adolescents have a 70 (body mass index). Want to know if you kiddo Friday, December 14 at 7:30 p.m. Friday, April 26 at 7:30 p.m. Favorites” Sunday, February 24 at 3:00 p.m. percent chance of becoming overweight or obese is getting his or her steps in? Visit IU Health Sunday, December 16 at 3:00 p.m. Sunday, April 28 at 3:00 p.m. For our Season Featuring music of Rossini, Richard Strauss th Featuring music by Handel, Featuring music for the theater from adults. This chance increases to 80 percent if one West’s main information desk to pick up your and others 6 Tchaikovsky, Haydn, Herbert and others “William Tell” to “Pirates of the Caribbean” Youth Concerts Wednesday Feb 27, 2013 or more parent is overweight or obese. family’s free pedometer (whiles supplies last). 1:30 and 2:45 p.m., Intermediate School “Parents need to partner with their kids to Start taking steps today toward keeping you Benjamin G.Two for Del the Show Vecchio help them understand the importance of good child at a healthy weight. “Maestro’s Favorites” It’s a “Grand Night” for singing Friday, April 26 at 7:30 p.m. food choices,” says Brittany Peterson, registered Music DirectorSunday, and April 28Conductor at 3:00 p.m. Featuring music for the theater from “William 2012-13 SeasonTell” to “Pirates of the Caribbean” 4th annual B&O Express welcomes strollers Hendricks Symphonic Society 2012 — 13 Season Ticket Order Form Hendricks County’s active families with young Run/Walk. And all child participants will win a Tickets will be mailed approximately 30 days before the first concert. Please check one and indicate number of tickets. children now have a family-focused, stroller- ribbon.  Friday Concerts Adult Two Adults Student Family* Total friendly event right in their own backyard! The Post-race activities include live music, train rides  Sunday Concerts $40 x ______$70 x ______$20 x ______$90 x ______$ ______4th Annual B&O Express— for kids, refreshments, a health The support of an additional donation is greatly appreciated (tax deductible). $ ______held on September 8, 2012 fair and the chance to win a Paid by Cash (in person only) Check (# ______)  Credit Card Grand Total $ ______at Indiana University Health “staycation” in a train car at (Make checks payable to Hendricks Symphonic Society) West Hospital—will feature a the downtown Indy Crowne Credit Card Type ______Acct. # ______Sec Code ______brand new half-mile, non- Plaza Hotel. Individual prizes Exp. Date ______Name on Card ______Billing zip code ______competitive Stroller Stride and medals will be awarded Patron Information Name (Mr.) (&) (Mrs.) (Ms.) ______family run/walk, in addition to to the top male and female Street Address ______City ______State ______Zip______the popular 5K and 10K races. finishers in each age group for Phone ______Email ______All races start and finish on each race. HSS Rep ______Venue ______the IU Health West campus. To register, go to www. Pre-registration for the 5K botrail.org. Support the race, *Family = 1 or 2 adults plus children in family. or 10K races is $20. No support your town and support Please mail your order form to: HSS Tickets, 8103 E. US Highway 36, #104, Avon, IN 46123 DO NOT MAIL CASH registration or fee is required completion of this valuable for the Stroller Stride Family community asset!

10 | ICON | www.myICON.info September 2012 September 2012 www.myICON.info | ICON | 11 Habit of the Heart Weekend raises money for Kiwanis Club Of Avon Hendricks County women and children Please join us for the By Nicole Davis Eighth AnnuAl Since the start of the school year, the Hendricks community because all of our grant money stays County Community Foundation has granted in Hendricks County.” $7,000 to women and children in emergency Hession says the theme this year is Blessings need in Hendricks County through the Habit of through Rain Drops, because the money they the Hearts Fund, and the requests continue to raise actually helpsKiwanis the people in theClub storms of of Avon & IU West Hospital come in. The Eighth Annual Habit of the Hearts their life. The event will kick off PresentSept. 7, 6-11 the Inaugural Habit of the Heart Weekend, the organization’s primary fundraiser, p.m. with a Monte Carlo Night. A purse auc- will take place Sept. 7-8 at Five Star Catering tion and luncheon will be held Sept. 8, 8 a.m. – 2 2nd Annual at Primo Conference Center, 2353 Hadley Rd., p.m. The fund has provided $130,000 in grants Plainfield. to needs such as eye glasses, dental work, cloth- “The event is underwritten, so any sales go 100 ing, schoolMasquerade supplies and other essential items. To Mayhem percent to grant money,” says Tammy Hession, register for the event, call the foundation at (317) Friday, OctoberMasquerade 28, 2011 Mayhem chair of the Friday night event. “There is a need 268-6240. When: out there. The more I’ve been involved in this the “If (someone) can’t make the event, they can 6:30 – 10 p.m. September 7-8, 2012 more I’ve come to understand how important it always give to habit of the heart because we have Washington Township Park Pavillion is to do what I do. When you read the requests felt the need thisWhere: year is greater than ever,” says October 5, 2012 Five Star Catering at Primo West, Plainfield of the grants we come across, it’s just very hum- Rhonda Orem, marketingfun-filled, chair. one-of-a-kind, black tie optional, masks encouraged bling. This will make a huge difference in our Benefiting our new West District YMCA Children’s programming. Guest Auctioneer: Dick Wolfsie $50/person or 6:30 p.m. Hendricks Community Festival addsTable of 10 for only $450 Purchase your table before August 17th patriotism to the county& beautiful masks for your party of 10 will be provided

The Hendricks County Exchange Club will involvement. The Exchange Club will sell flags toEvent Sponsorships still available present the Hendricks Community Festival and support their goal of making Hendricks County Promote your organization, Art Fair on Sept. 1, 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. at the Hen- the most patriotic county in the Indiana. For ‘be seen’, make history, & join in dricks County Fairgrounds Expo Hall. The event more information,Catered visit HendricksCommuni Dinner - the fun! all to support healthy, September 7, 2012 by the coachman will take place both indoors and outdoors with tyFestival.com or e-mailRestaurant HendricksExchange@ active children! Doors open at 6 p.m. September 8, 2012 family entertainment, shopping and community gmail.com. Live & Silent Auctions 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

Cash bar Available To Purchase tickets, contact [email protected]; or call Lori Howe 745-7341, Nic Quintana 272-7800, or Suzanne Shafer 850-6309 • Handbag & Purse Silent Auction I on ommun I ty f oundat ounty c

State of Ind I ana Gam n G L cen S e #127748 provI ded to State Hendr I ck S c • Live Auction of Designer Purses Washington Township-Pavilion Center 435 Whipple Lane - Avon, IN Friday Monte Carlo night: $50 per person/$400 reserved table Proceeds to Susie’s Place, Child Advocacy Center Saturday Blessings luncheon: $25 per person/$200 reserved table Tickets $75 per person (Full payment and attendees’ names required for reserved table) To purchase tickets visit www.susiesplace.org or call 272-5696 Purchase tickets online at www.hendrickscountycf.org Black tie optional or by phone at (317) 835-1245. Featuring: Catered meal by The Coachman Don’t wait … these are sellout events! Music by “Midnight Sanity” - jazz quintet Sponsored By: VIP Reception & Cocktails 6-6:30 p.m. Anonymous Dinner 7:30 p.m. Adelsperger Orthodontics Hendricks Regional Health Danville Dental Clinic, PC Hession Farms, Inc. Silent auction throughout the evening Falcone Volkswagen Indiana University Health Live auction Subaru & Saab West Hospital Fleece Insurance Nelson Jewelers, Inc.

12 | ICON | www.myICON.info September 2012 PCC Festival ad - ICON.ai 1 8/23/2012 1:10:11 PM CCOLLECTIBLE CORNER WWINE When the Olympic games are over, By Charles R. Thomas,Wine M.D. Gadgets – The Foil Cutter By Shellylet Callahan the collection frenzy begin! As a logical outgrowth of the foil that dresses up bottleneck is ready for cork removal. device he invented was a U-shaped plastic device, sharp and easily cut all kinds of foils, even the With the 2012 Olympics drawing to a close, I There are very desirable pins which highlight the top of a wine bottle lies the necessary tool to Several other designs of cork pullers have knives which is only five inches by four inches and a now obsolete lead capsules. The wheels are felt it was only appropriate to give an insight into the adorable mascots, like Izzy from the 1996 remove it so that the cork can be extracted. As imbedded into the device for the same use. These half inch thick. Imbedded inside the device are arranged so that there is a wheel at each tip of the collectability of the Olympic Games, both Atlanta games or Wenlock and Mandeville from mentioned in my original article in this series, knives are on the order of two inches long and four cutting the “U” and one at each base of the “U.” This past and present. While the Olympic Games this year’s London games. Some of the most the earliest maneuver was to score the foil with may need periodic sharpening. The Screwpull wheels pocket tool is placed on the bottle top, the originated in the ancient world, they still stir famous mascots, like Misha the bear (Moscow a knife to remove all or a portion of the foil in corkscrew has a knife mounted on the side that sides are squeezed, and a sharp quarter-turn great worldwide excitement today. 1980), Cobi the dog (Barcelona 1992) and Athe- order to remove the cork. In a logical extension of the tool that folds into a crevice to reduce are cuts the foil cleanly, effortlessly and quickly. Olympic memorabilia from the 1996 games is na and Phevos, whose figures were based on the of sophistication, different tools were invented to inadvertent cuts while using the corkscrew. A Since the patent has expired, it has now been by far some of the most collectible since it was form of ancient dolls found at Greek archaeo- perform this task. Equally important is that the recent innovation is a waiter’s-style corkscrew copied numerous times with all kinds and the 100th Anniver- logical sites (Athens sary of the modern 2004), are the most cut is clean so that when wine is poured over the with a hinged device at one end that is in the descriptions of external appearance, Olympics. The expensive Olympic top of the foil, there is no turbulence or drippage shape of a circle that opens up by a spring to but the four cutting wheels are the USA was fortunate collectibles. created by the ragged foil. allow the device to encircle the bottle neck. key and the secret. The Screwpull in that they were Mascot pins com- A knife attached to the corkscrew itself is still When placed, the two halves of the circle are Foilcutter is the best, the most held in Atlanta that “Don’t overlook the mand the highest the most commonly utilized tool to remove the squeezed to cut the foil with sharp, curved knives dependable, and my first choice at year, thus making the values on the col- foil. The well-known Bartender’s Friend cork imbedded inside the frame. $9.99 retail. memorabilia collect- pins that focus on lectibles market. puller generally has a shaft with imbedded auger, With these tools (and many other variations of To me the most important virtues ible worldwide all Pins showing the a bridge at one end to serve as a fulcrum for the attached foil cutters that have been invented) of a foilcutter are (1) a clean cut while originating in mascots participat- lifting the cork at one end and a knife imbedded have remained in use for decades. But, just free of ragged edges; (2) ease of use; the USA. an individual sport ing in a particular Some of the most sporting event bring at the other. That way, the knife can be used to as with the corkscrew, the best tool of all was (3) swiftness of use; and (4) portability. popular Olympic like swimming, excitement and big score and cut the foil cleanly under the ridge on invented by Herbert Allen and patented by his The Screwpull Foilcutter answers all these collectibles are also bucks to collectors. the bottle. The foil is then removed, the knife is company, Screwpull, Inc. Allen was a very clever requirements. the most accessible Don’t overlook the then refolded into the shaft of the tool, and the inventor who merits a column all for himself. The and easiest to obtain. gymnastics or track pins that focus on Charles R. Thomas, M.D. owns Chateau Thomas Winery with locations in Plainfield, Fishers, Bloomington and Nashville. Contact him at [email protected]. Many people the an individual sport world over assemble and field.” like swimming, pin collections from gymnastics or track the Olympic Games. and field. 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Artist combines techniques, textures, layers and color By Lori D. IndependenceLowe and marriage are not opposites A few years ago I met a couple married more apart. Who is right? Marriage experts say it can stead, she recommends saying something like, “I friends and activities apart from our husbands Lynne’s art is as diverse as she is. Going from than 50 years and asked them the secret to their strengthen the relationship to have individual need the afternoon to myself.” If this upsets your that makes us independent. When you do things the highest detail of intersecting lines of an ink happy union. “He goes his way, and I go mine,” interests and activities. Each person needs to be partner, explain how this time helps you recharge that interest you, you become more interesting. pen, to smearing cement and paints together was their response. They were not saying that all able to stand on his or her own two feet. Howev- or makes you feel at peace. If your spouse is And when your spouse can join you, great! Cel- on boards, to metal fabrications. Whatever her their time was spent apart, but rather that they er, leading separate lives or being dishonest about worried or jealous about small amounts of time ebrate your time together as well. mood, it turns out beautiful. each have their “own time” and aren’t dependent how your time apart is spent can be a recipe for apart, then you may have serious trust issues that In fact, I would hasten to add that more couples on continual togetherness for their happiness. It’s divorce. need attention. probably need to be concerned about adding in not the only time I’ve heard a variation of that What if you feel you need more independence I remember when my children were very young fun time as a couple into their calendar before Name: Lynne Medsker response. than your spouse does? When one partner feels I especially craved alone time. Even an hour at alone time. But don’t be afraid to schedule time Some couples, particularly newlyweds, might smothered or simply needs time apart, he or she the mall or soaking in my own tub for 30 min- with friends (doing things your spouse approves Town you live in: Brownsburg question that advice and think they do want might be afraid to say so. In a recent New York utes allowed me to relax and think straight again. of ) or time alone to help you feel grounded and to spend all their time together; isn’t that why Times article, columnist Elizabeth Bernstein My husband was smart enough to know, even give yourself time to think. Isn’t it easier to feel Art medium: Mixed they got married? Other couples spend their says in this case, just don’t use the phrase, “I need when I didn’t ask for it, that I needed a break in love and happy when you’ve given yourself workdays, weekends, and even their vacations space,” because it sends confusing signals. In- to recharge. Other people regularly have Girls’ what you need, instead of building up resentment Art education: Predominately self-educated - Night Out or guys’ fishing trips based on the because you never have time to yourself? have taken photography classes at IUPUI and same idea. The important point is not to make Other tips from Bernstein: various other workshops. these things more important than family de- 1. Enjoy the time to yourself without guilt or it mands and not to take it to the extreme that they defeats the purpose. Split loyalty - helping kids cope are impeding on your family or couple time. 2. No secrets. Tell your spouse what you did and How/when did you start your art? It’s something By Sherry Strafford Rediger PhD. I’ve always done but, professionally, about 10 Many of my friends are pilot’s wives (as am with whom. This is critical to maintaining trust. I) and suggest that the space apart during trips 3. Don’t take this space idea too far; too much years ago. All too often one of the most insidious conse- doesn’t strain their relationships as many people space can weaken your marital connection. quences of divorce is visited upon the children. Come up with three positive attributes about Is art your primary living? If not tell us what else believe. “Distance makes the heart grow fonder,” 4. Schedule time together and as a family so Split-loyalty happens for a child who feels torn, the other parent that you can affirm in your Above: Lynne Medsker. Photos submitted you do: ( Job, Occupation etc…) If retired tell us they say. And having a break from the routine that your partner feels they are a priority to you. about your past occupation: In addition to creat- who feels that to love one parent somehow hurts child. Remember your child identifies with each can be refreshing. We learn to have a network of ing artwork, I also take traditional and creative or disappoints the other parent. of you. Bring the most positive attributes to your portraits for a variety of clients. Kids who are subjected to dynamics that create child’s attention. For instance, “I love your draw- Lori Lowe is a marriage blogger at MarriageGems.com. Her book First Kiss to Lasting Bliss: Hope & Inspiration for Your split-loyalty are suffering - and usually suffering ing. You are really a creative kid. Your dad is like Marriage is now available on Amazon.com and at www.LoriDLowe.com. Lori and her husband of 16 years live in India- napolis with their two children. What does your art represent to you? An outlet silently. They most often don’t that, too.” Or “Wow, look at your math for expressing myself and satisfying my curious know the words to describe test. You got a really good grade. Your nature. what they are suffering and mom always did well in math.” would fear the problem will If your child does not hear about the What inspires you to create? am often more worsen if they did speak. positive attributes of the other par- inspired by a medium that I want to explore All other factors being equal ent, it is likely he or she will identify than by a particular subject. I love to combine (which is not always the case), with negative ones. Words to the wise techniques, textures, layers and colors. Indiana Artists the best environment for a Some parents fear that being By Karl Zimmer III Two Indiana Arts Commission Grants child is in the home of the par- positive about the other parent What do you strive to have art appreciators take Residencies at Mary Anderson Center, Indiana with them from your artwork? I would love to ent who will allow the most will make the child idealize Many of us have read or heard quotes or Anaïs Nin, who wrote, “We don’t see things (twice), The Tin Shop, Colorado (twice), Blue- sayings or prayers that have impacted us in as they are, we see them as we are.” From my know that they have to take a second or even berry View, Michigan access to the other parent. This that parent or desire to third look at my art as they discover details and means not only physical be with the other wonderful ways. Some of us have even kept study and practice, I know that there is great a special expression as a “mantra” or a driving power in both of these quotations. I am sure things hidden within the pieces. access but emo- parent. In real- Organizations you are associated with: Hen- “philosophy.” Several have helped guide me you have your favorites, and I would enjoy tional access ity, the op- dricks County Arts Council, Indianapolis over the years, and I often come across others hearing from you if you care to share. Awards and honors: Art Center, Hoosier Salon, Arts Council of as well. posite 1st Place, B&W Professional Photography, that I find meaningful and helpful in given Of all the famous quotes and expressions I Indianapolis Galleries: Artistic Designs Gal- situations. For those who follow me on Twit- have come across over the years, the one that Indiana State Fair - 1st Place, Creative & lery, Brownsburg - ArtSplash Gallery, Carmel Experimental Professional Photography, Indiana ter or Facebook, you may have seen some of has guided me for decades is recognized as - Sugar Creek Art Center, Thorntown - Broad the ones I’ve shared. the “Serenity Prayer” by Reinhold Niebuhr. State Fair -1st Place, Digital Art, Indiana State Ripple Art & Design, Indianapolis Compiled by Rose Richard Fair - 1st Place, Mixed Media Category, Central There is one special quote that has guided Though it has come to be used in recovery me over many years, and though I sometimes programs, particularly 12-step, it is applicable wish I had always paid attention to it, I be- in every facet of life and circumstance. Many lieve that even those times when I didn’t, I of us get upset with situations over which we What you can do right now: is true. Children want to be with a parent who was meant to remember it at the perfect time have no control, and yet, we expend so much and to learn the lesson from having drifted energy that we suffer physically and emotion- ADGʻs Student Art Show Reception Make it clear to your child that you want your allows them emotional freedom. The more emo- We teach classes for all ability levels. away from it. Before I reveal that quote to ally. Upon reflection, we know that makes no child to have a good relationship with the other tional freedom children have to love both parents you, let me share others I have found mean- sense, so what might help? Friday September 7th from 6:30-8:30 Check out what our students have created! parent. You want your child to love the other the less inner turmoil they hold and the more Visit our website for details ingful that you may enjoy, as well. “God grant me the serenity to accept the parent. Create this message with your words and secure and safe they feel. The less inner conflict A favorite is by Eleanor Roosevelt who said, things I cannot change, the courage to on classes and workshops! Exhibit runs through September your actions. a child has the more available he is for the es- “The future belongs to those who believe in change the things I can, and the wisdom to When possible, do the work to create a positive sential work of growing up, learning in school, the beauty of their dreams.” This is important know the difference.” Once we give up the Framing Hendricks County for 20 years! co-parenting relationship with the other parent. creating friendships, developing self-esteem and because we can never realize a dream we don’t desire to control all beyond our control, we Yes, this is hard work. Sometimes the best solu- playing with imagination. have. It’s like the lottery; you can’t win if can then allow ourselves to enjoy all that is, 124 E. Northfi eld Dr Ste. K • Brownsburg, IN 46112 tion is to work with a counselor or therapist. you don’t buy a ticket (and I encourage you to be grateful for what we have, and to dream “Hummingbird to play responsibly). Another wisdom is by beautiful dreams. How cool is that? 317-852-0252 • www.ArtisticDesignsGallery.net in watercolor and ink” Dr. Rediger has been helping individuals, couples and families for over 25 years and is in private practice in Plainfield. Karl R. Zimmer III is a clinical hypnotist, having been licensed and certified by the State of Indiana. His practice, Watercolor by Lexi Murphy She can be reached at (317) 839-1333, through her website SherryRediger.com or by email at SherryRediger@Gmail. Zimmer Success Group (http://Z-Success.com), is in Plainfield. Information provided is for informational purposes Gallery Hours: Sun/Mon by appointment only, Tues/Th urs 10: a.m. to 7 p.m., Wed/Fri/Sat 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. com. only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any condition or illness.

16 | ICON | www.myICON.info September 2012 September 2012 www.myICON.info | ICON | 17 BODY BEAUTY B From my Inbox By Barry L. Eppley, M.D., D.M.D.

Q: I am considering getting a tummy tuck but how the next one would heal. But the reality is skin edges are even across the scar line. Based on pain reduction, it is rarely enough to do a good am concerned about the scar. I know the scars that many factors go in to how an incision heals how you describe your c-section scar, I strongly job of maximal fat extraction. The patient’s level can look quite good in some cases but not in and they can dramatically affect how the final suspect you will get a better looking tummy tuck of discomfort always becomes a limiting factor. everyone. Since I have a c-section scar, I am scar can look. C-section incisions, if closed well, scar. The size of the operative field that must be made wondering if this is a good ‘test’ as to what a should always look good because there is no Q: I am interested in either Smartlipo for my ab- numb in liposuction is quite different from that tummy tuck scar would look like on me. I had tension on the wound closure. Lack of wound domen/love handles. I was wondering if you do of just a small surgical incision. a c-section about three years and the scar tension usually predicts a very narrow scar. Smartlipo under local anesthetic or if you require I honor patient’s requests to do liposuction is still red, raised and uneven. I remem- Conversely, a tummy tuck incision is going under general (I really do not want to go under local anesthesia but I caution them that ber right after my c-section I could always under considerable tension, under general anesthetic). Also, I was wondering one must be prepared to accept much less of feel my skin above and below which is why plastic surgeons use if you knew approximate cost for the procedure. a result. This is particularly true in large areas the sutures overlapping. Will my a meticulous multiple layer clo- A: Any form of liposuction, like most surgeries, like the abdomen and flanks. (i.e., love handles) Interestingly, and quite surprisingly, the cost of tummy tuck scar be the same way sure technique with most sutures can be done under local anesthesia. The potential MerchantsLet us help you with: and Service or will the scar be a thin line with under the skin to obtain a narrow use of local anesthesia is a common inquiry in re- liposuction under local anesthesia will ultimately no raised areas? scar. Tummy tuck scars are almost gards to liposuction. The question is not whether cost more than if done under general anesthesia. Filing a claim The simple explanation is that it often takes two BANKRUPTCY A: Your question is a good one always a lot longer than that of liposuction can be done under local anesthesia Rental arrangements In most cases, you may be able to protect your and, in theory, how one incision a c-section. One of the key ele- but whether it should. Contrary to popular per- or three times the amount of time for me to do home & car! Get rid of most debts! on the body heals (particularly ments in this closure technique is ception and much marketing, the results from liposuction under local anesthesia than what can Free estimates the same body area) should be an indicator of to get a good leveling of the tissue layers so the doing liposuction under local anesthesia versus be accomplished much faster (and better) under FREE CONSULTATION general anesthesia. general anesthesia are not the same. Often the Attorney F.A. Skimin | Indianapolis 1032 East Main Street results are not even remotely comparable in my Located behind Lowe’s at Dan Jones Rd. & Rockville Rd. experience. The results from any liposuction en- A Family Owned & Brownsburg, IN 46112 Dr. Barry Eppley is a board-certified plastic Hours – Mon.-Fri. 7:30 to 5:30 Operated Business deavor are entirely dependent on effort and being surgeon in Indianapolis. Comments can be sent to 317-858-8558 292 S. County Rd. 800 E. 317.454.8060 thorough. 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18 | ICON | www.myICON.info September 2012 September 2012 www.myICON.info | ICON | 19 WHERE WE WORSHIP SSACRED SPACES W Andersons connnect as family at First Baptist Church The Andersons have lived in Plainfield for together as a family. We have all found places night, an event can share God’s love and that we grow spiritually and closer as a family. It is a By Pat Donovan Creative ideas for attic and loft spaces about four years and enjoy the community and within the church to build on our relationships helped with that. church that is big enough to offer you many ways what it has to offer. They participate in various with God. Through the support, fellowship and to connect, learn about God and enjoy fellowship shown in the photo. The space could be an art Why would you recommend your activities at First Baptist Church. Tina is an X- leadership in the church, it has taken us to step within the church. On the other hand, it is a studio, a sewing room, an office, a playroom, an place of worship to someone? ray technician for St. Francis/AHN and Greg is outside of our comfort zone and be involved. place that is not so large that you feel lost. They extra bedroom, a recreation room, etc. an environmental and safety director for Ken- I would recommend our place of worship for have many programs and events to participate in. Always consider what the desired use will be and What is it about your place of wor- many reasons. It is a place that has helped us Photos submitted nedy Tank & Mfg. They enjoy cycling together ship that helps you to feel connected how much space is required. Measure the area along the many roads in Hendricks County to your spouse, children, parents or and do a scaled floor plan. Be sure to scale in all and being outdoors as a family. Audrey attends other family? the furniture desired for your room to assure that Plainfield High School and has a desire to be an the space works for your needs. Also, consider Where we worship allows us to serve togeth- officer in the Air Force after attending college. the height of the room and how certain lower er. Through serving together and sharing in the Audrey is very active in her youth group. Mason activities, it allows us to feel connected with each areas can work. is a typical silly six-year-old. Paige, has epilepsy, other and to God. Words can’t explain the feel- The photos enclosed show an attic space and and it was through Paige’s epilepsy that brought ing of watching your kids participate in activities how the added sky lights are useful. The angled them to the church. Paige and Mason attend with you. The mission of the church of going out Office space alternatives roof works well for the desk area and the sitting Beginning Steps Child Care. The Andersons and serving is powerful. space. Both areas do not require full standing to There are several reasons to consider additional started connecting with the church through be usable. What is one meaningful event that space in the attic area of a home. Some home the daycare. Tina sits on the Indiana Epilepsy Loft or attic spaces can allow for a large area. has taken place at your place of owners opted for high roof lines with that in Foundation Board. Paige was recently on a The room shown has a television area at one end worship? mind and choose to finish the space at a later commercial for the Peyton Manning Children’s date. Perhaps you purchased a home and now with a sitting area and a built in home office It would seem natural to speak of the times Hospital and has a lemonade stand during the that our two older children accepted Jesus and it is too small for your growing family, consider at the other. Options are numerous for the Andreah, Dave, Creek, and Riggs Caldwell. Submitted photo summer where she raises money for epilepsy and became baptized. It has been so much more than additional space and the price is far less than From left: Greg, Paige, Audrey, Mason, and Tina Anderson. Photo submitted. finishing the attic for additional usable space. the hospital. that. A memorable event for us as a family is the It is extremely important to discuss options opting for purchasing a new or larger home. Always rely on a professional to assist with your What is it about your place of wor- Joy Prom. The church opens its doors and hosts with a contractor for feasibility as well as the a dance for the local special needs community. It First Baptist Church plan. She will guide you with the best options ship that helps you grow spiritually? cost involved. The options for the space are was so amazing to see the joy which was brought 1012 Stafford Road for your space and can make it happen. numerous. First of all, the ceiling or roof height First Baptist Church offers us a place to con- to those who attended and to their families and Plainfield, Indiana 46168 Good luck with your new space! Additional living space allows for a relaxing family room. nect as a family and not just as individuals, needs to be adequate for standing in the area. caregivers. It was awesome to see how, in one 317-839-8163 • www.firstbaptistplainfield.org Dormer windows or sky lights can be added, as which allows us to grow spiritually and closer

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$104,000 in donations If you had to live elsewhere in Metro Indianapolis, where would it be? If I had to move from Hendricks County, I think I would like to try living in an up and coming urban setting like Irvington or On July 26th, representative of the Avon over $104,00 towards their goal of $200,000 for Fountain Square. When I first started working, I worked in indigent care centers in these areas so it would be like returning to my young roots. WWII Memorial Committee ,the Avon Parks this project. The foundation’s goal is to complete Foundation, and the Town of Avon gathered at the project with a dedication ceremony on Me- If you could begin life over, what would you change? This is a tough question. Sure enough, I’ve made mistakes along the way but all of those mistakes along with the good decisions I’ve made have the Avon WWII Memorial Park to recognize morial Day 2013. Donations and pledges can be made me the person I am today, so I wouldn’t change much. I will say I would have spent more time just hanging out with my sister who passed away a year ago. She donated a kidney to me 38 years ago, corporate and individual donors to the WWII sent to the Avon Parks Foundation – WWII which allowed me to have this wonderful life I have. We just didn’t get to spend enough time together. Memorial Project. With the financial support Memorial Project, 6570 E. US Hwy 36, Avon, Learn more at acuvue.com If money were no issue, how would you spend it? I am very fortunate to feel as if I have all the THINGS that I need or want so I would probably find more causes to financially support. of these contributors the Avon Parks Foundation IN 46123. For more information, visit Avon- Learn more at acuvue.com has obtained donations and pledges that total sgreatest.org or Avonsgreatest.com. What makes you happiest? I am happiest when I’m given a challenge to try to resolve a need for another. This may involve volunteer babysitting for a sick child so the mom can go to work, or it can be Call us today to hosting an event at my home for an old classmate who I haven’t seen in 40 years or sometimes finding more storage space for yarn in my daughter’s yarn shop. SCI Hope Fund events Sept. 21 and 22 schedule your next What is your favorite vacation spot? Any warm beach anywhere in the world. SCI Hope, a fund of the Hendricks County cycle Ride and Community Festival on Sept. 22 appointment. What do you do with idle time? Idle time, what’s that? I do spend time with friends quilting or just sitting poolside discussing Community Foundation, financially assists in- at the Brownsburg West Middle School with our next vacation plans. dividuals with spinal cord injuries to help them a minimum $10 donation. Registration for the 1855 Stafford Rd. • Plainfield, IN 46168 317-839-2368 317-839-2368 What is it that makes you angry? gain independence and better their quality of life. ride begins at 9 a.m. Since inception, SCI Hope ® I have had a few “professional” repairs completed at my home and the work and material Important information for contact lens wearers: ACUVUE® Brand Contact Lenses are available by prescription only for vision correction. An eye care professional will determine SCI Hope will host the John Wassen Memorial has granted $231,000 to individuals throughout whether contact lenses are right for you. Although rare, serious eye problems can develop while wearing contact lenses. To help avoid these problems, follow the wear and replacement used is really poor quality and then the company will not stand behind its work. What has happened to the good ole’ American schedule and the lens care instructions provided by your eye doctor. Do not wear contact lenses if you have an eye infection, or experience eye discomfort, excessive tearing, vision high standards? I’m too kind to mention names here (but if you want to know, call me). Oops, there I go getting on my soapbox. Golf Outing on Sept. 21 at West Chase Golf the State of Indiana. For more information, visit changes, redness or other eye problems. If one of these conditions occurs, contact your eye doctor immediately. For more information on proper wear, care and safety, talk to your eye care professional and ask for a Patient Instruction Guide, call 1-800-843-2020 or visit Acuvue.com. I’ll just go with my dad’s viewpoint, “Guess I know what kind of person they are,” and let it rest. Club in Brownsburg costing $100 per player scihope.org. ® ® ® ® ACUVUE®, 1-DAY ACUVUE® MOIST®, and LACREON® are trademarks of Johnson & Johnson Vision Care, Inc. ©Johnson & Johnson Vision Care, Inc. 2012. which includes lunch and dinner, and a Motor- ©Johnson & Johnson Vision Care, Inc. 2012. What do you do to escape from reality? I love to read and that is a wonderful escape from reality.

What or who is the greatest love of your life? What or who is the greatest love of your life? The love of my life has to be my husband; he does a great job of letting me be me.

Which living person in Hendricks County do you most admire? I consider myself a newcomer to Hendricks County only having lived here for 25 years. When I retired from Methodist Hospital, I was looking for a charity to help and Habit of the Heart found me. I must say that Jill Poynter, a Habit of the Heart volunteer, is a person I admire. Jill spends endless hours identifying the needs of our county residents and then makes sure those residents get connected with the help they need. Since being involved with habit of the Heart, I have met many inspiring women and I hope each of them know who I mean.

What is the quality you most like in a man? The quality I most like in a man is honesty. At Community Westview Hospital, we are passionate about helping women get What is the quality you most like in a woman? The quality I most like in a woman is honesty. healthy and stay healthy. That’s why our doctors are going in-depth and sharing all What is your greatest extravagance? I would say my greatest extravagance is that I always stop to get a large kinds of secrets to women’s health. Yes, we even talk about uncomfortable topics, diet coke every time I get in my car. My husband would probably say my greatest extravagance is my charity work. because it can save lives—yours or someone you care about. Check out our short What are your fears, phobias? I do fear that as a society we are losing our compassion for others. videos online that are full of new insights. I dislike all of the negativity that is aimed at people who may be different from us. As far as phobias go I have a full-blown psychotic phobia of mice.

We are partnering with WTHR Channel 13 to help share the secrets to women’s What has been the happiest time of your life? The happiest time of my life was probably when health on air and online. Wellness isn’t just the absence of disease. We get to the root my only child was born. I knew what a gift she was since few women had had a child after a kidney transplant at that time 27 years ago. During those early years, my thoughts were focused on taking care cause of your health concerns, and help you improve your quality of life. If you have of my little family. a health concern, don’t give up! Find a doctor who listens. Which talent would you most like to possess? I would like to possess the talent to actually complete all of my crafty ideas. That would mean I need a great many talents that I do not currently possess. Go to WTHR.com, find the Health tab and click Secrets to Women’s Health. Take control of YOUR health today! What do you most value in your friends? My closest friends accept me just the way I am and boy, is that ever a comforting feeling! I value their understanding that life is complicated sometimes.

Which historical figure do you most identify with? I have a long, long way to go to be anywhere near the awesomeness of Mother Teresa and her Missionaries of Charity but I do feel a connection as far as having worked in providing health care to indigent populations with unconditional love. One of my many favorite Mother Teresa quotes: “God doesn’t ask us to do great things. He asks us to do small things with great love.”

What is your greatest regret? My greatest regret is that I have never gone on a medical mission trip. The good news is that I still have time to clean up that regret. Danita Akingba, M.D. Sara Diaz, D.O. Shiva Golian, D.O. What tenet do you live by? Do unto others, as you would have others do unto you. Compiled by Rick Myers

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