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Honor A FAMILY UNDER GOD "Honor your father and Mother that thy days may be long upon the land " Exodus 20:12 Lecture Notes A Biblical Resource for God's Law Order in the Christian Home BROOKY R STOCKTON, PHD A Family Under God 2.0 © Brooky Stockton, PHD Page 1 of 333 Honor Unedited Lecture Notes on the Family 2.0 (2015) © This is a series of seminary lectures, church sermons, and Bible studies given during the ministry of Dr. Brook Stockton as a Baptist Pastor and Professor of Theology. It is an unedited manual on the theology and legal nature of a family under God. It will be most appreciated by a student of God's Word concerned about restoring Biblical Principles in the life of Christian families. Any chapter of this work may be reproduced ONLY with the written authorization of Dr. Brook Stockton. Email: Nike Insights, [email protected]. Nike Insights Brooky Stockton, PHD P.O. Box 884 Tijeras, New Mexico A Family Under God 2.0 © Brooky Stockton, PHD Page 2 of 333 Honor Table of Contents 1 Contents A FAMILY UNDER GOD ......................................................................................................................................... 1 TABLE OF CONTENTS.............................................................................................................................................. 3 PREFACE ................................................................................................................................................................ 9 DEDICATION ........................................................................................................................................................ 10 1 ASSAULT ON THE FAMILY ........................................................................................................................... 11 2 DAD GOES TO WAR ..................................................................................................................................... 14 2.1 WAR IS GOD’S WILL .................................................................................................................................... 15 2.2 WAR IS NOT ALWAYS EVIL. ............................................................................................................................ 16 2.3 GOD’S PEOPLE MUST LEARN THE ART OF WAR ................................................................................................... 17 2.4 SOME THINGS ARE WORSE THAN WAR ............................................................................................................. 18 2.5 UNWILLINGNESS TO FIGHT IS A WEAKNESS TO OVERCOME..................................................................................... 18 2.6 WAR IS NECESSARY ...................................................................................................................................... 19 2.7 GRAPES OF WRATH...................................................................................................................................... 20 2.8 PASS THE SALT ............................................................................................................................................ 21 3 WHAT DOES A HEALTHY FAMILY LOOK LIKE? .............................................................................................. 23 4 THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION ............................................................................................................. 29 WHAT IS YOUR CONTINGENCY?................................................................................................................................ 29 4.1 THE FIRST QUESTION ................................................................................................................................... 29 4.2 THE CONTINGENCY OF A BIBLICAL FAMILY ......................................................................................................... 29 4.3 THE CONTINGENCY OF MODERN MAN.............................................................................................................. 30 4.4 THE CONTINGENCY OF HABAKKUK ................................................................................................................... 31 4.5 THE CONTINGENCY OF JOHN THE BAPTIST .......................................................................................................... 31 4.6 THE CONTINGENCY OF THE MAGI .................................................................................................................... 32 4.7 THE CONTINGENCY OF CHRIST ........................................................................................................................ 32 4.8 THE CONTINGENCY OF PETER ......................................................................................................................... 33 4.9 THE CONTINGENCY OF PAUL .......................................................................................................................... 34 5 THE FAMILY AND THE TEN COMMANDMENTS ............................................................................................ 36 5.1 WAR ON THE TEN COMMANDMENTS ............................................................................................................... 36 5.2 THE GRAND PURPOSE OF THE TEN COMMANDMENTS........................................................................................... 37 5.3 A SUMMARY OF THE TEN COMMANDMENTS ...................................................................................................... 46 6 THE FAMILY AND THE FIRST COMMANDMENT ........................................................................................... 48 7 THE AUTHORITY FOR MARRIAGE ................................................................................................................ 55 7.1 THE YOKE OF LICENSING ................................................................................................................................ 55 7.2 DEFINITION OF LICENSE ................................................................................................................................. 56 7.3 DEFINITION OF JURISDICTION.......................................................................................................................... 56 7.4 DEFINITIONS OF MARRIAGE ........................................................................................................................... 56 A Family Under God 2.0 © Brooky Stockton, PHD Page 3 of 333 Honor 7.5 DEFINITION OF FAMILY .................................................................................................................................. 58 7.6 DEFINITION OF INSTITUTION ........................................................................................................................... 58 7.7 INTRUSION BY THE STATE ............................................................................................................................... 58 8 THE ORIGINAL JURISDICTION OF MARRIAGE .............................................................................................. 60 9 THE LAW OF MARRIAGE IN GENESIS ........................................................................................................... 64 9.1 MAN UNDER LAW ....................................................................................................................................... 64 9.2 MARRIAGE UNDER LAW ................................................................................................................................ 65 10 THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT ......................................................................................................................... 69 10.1 MARRIAGE IS A CONTRACT ........................................................................................................................ 69 10.2 THE DOWRY .......................................................................................................................................... 73 10.3 THE JURISDICTION OF MARRIAGE ................................................................................................................ 75 10.4 COMMON LAW JURISDICTION .................................................................................................................... 76 11 SAMPLE MARRIAGE CONTRACT .................................................................................................................. 78 12 DECLARATION OF MARRIAGE ..................................................................................................................... 79 13 CERTIFICATION OF A MARRIAGE COVENANT .............................................................................................. 80 14 THE MARRIAGE COVENANT AND THE THIRD COMMANDMENT .................................................................. 82 14.1 THE CURSE ............................................................................................................................................ 85 14.2 PROHIBITIONS AGAINST SWEARING ............................................................................................................. 86 14.3 DEFINITIONS .......................................................................................................................................... 86 14.4 WRITING GOD’S NAME WORTHILY ............................................................................................................. 88 14.5 VOWS OF PRINCE WILLIAM ......................................................................................................................