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NOVEMBER 2011 ISSUE 97 • FREE magazine The Voice of Alberta’s LGBT Community Howie D Backstreet Boy makes Solo Debut MIKE RUIZ Is Pretty Masculine CYNDI LAUPER Not Unusual, Just Human PLUS: Tori Amos Joss Stone LeAnn Rimes The New Gay Generation Scan to Read on ...and more! Mobile Devices AIDEN LESLIE http://gettag.mobi On Leaving Love Business Directory Community Maps Events Calendar Tourist Information STARTING ON PAGE 17 Calgary • Edmonton • Alberta www.gaycalgary.com 2 GayCalgary & Edmonton Magazine #97, November 2011 www.gaycalgary.com Table of Contents NOVEMBER 2011 Publisher: Steve Polyak 5 Lost in Translation Editor: Rob Diaz-Marino Publisher’s Column Sales: Steve Polyak Design & Layout: Rob Diaz-Marino, Steve Polyak 8 Make Way For Some Blazing Queering Writers and Contributors Edmonton’s Loud & Queer Cabaret Marks its 20th Year Chris Azzopardi, Dallas Barnes, Dave Brousseau, Jason Clevett, Andrew Collins, Rob Diaz-Marino, Janine Eva Trotta, Jack Fertig, Glen Hanson, Joan 10 How to be an Energy Superstar Hilty, Evan Kayne, Stephen Lock, Allan Neuwirth, Troy Ordami, Steve Polyak, Carey Rutherford, 5 Quick Tips on Keeping Costs Down this Winter Romeo San Vicente, Mick Sandoval, Ed Sikov, 11 PAGE Samuel Watson and the LGBT Community of Calgary, Edmonton, and Alberta. 11 LeAnn Rimes Photography Country Star talks equality, gay ‘dads’ and ex-hubby rumors Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino Videography Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino 13 The Teachings of Tori Gay icon on Christian phonies, being OK with a lesbian daughter and Printers Transcontinental Printing why ‘It Gets Better’ isn’t enough Distribution Calgary: Gallant Distribution, 17 Directory and Events GayCalgary Staff Edmonton: Clark’s Distribution Other: Canada Post 23 Freedom of Speech vs Freedom from Legal Council Courtney Aarbo, Barristers and Solicitors Hate PAGE 13 PAGE Sales & General Inquiries GayCalgary and Edmonton Magazine 26 Can A Trans Human Rights Bill Pass With 2136 17th Avenue SW Calgary, AB, Canada A Harper Majority? T2T 0G3 28 Joss Stone: The Solo Sessions Office Hours: By appointment ONLY Singer on being a free soul, adoring Melissa Etheridge and going Phone: 403-543-6960 Toll Free: 1-888-543-6960 lesbian for a day Fax: 403-703-0685 E-Mail: [email protected] 30 Deep Inside Hollywood This Month's Cover Main: Howie Dorough, Top Right: Photo by Mike Ruiz, Mid Right: Cyndi Lauper, photo by Ellen 31 Cocktail Chatter Von Unwerth, Bottom Right: Aiden Leslie. What to Do with Cheap Champagne, Part II Proud Members of: 32 Western Canada Leatherboy 2011 28 PAGE Looks Back Edmonton Rainbow Business Association 33 Mike Ruiz is Pretty Masculine 36 Out of Town International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association Winter Adventures: Vail and Beaver Creek 38 Fundraising Photos National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Association PAGE 33 PAGE Continued on Next Page www.gaycalgary.com GayCalgary & Edmonton Magazine #97, November 2011 3 Table of Contents Continued From Previous Page 40 THE BE-LEAVER Aiden Leslie On Leaving Love Magazine Figures 43 A Couple of Guys Monthly Print Quantity: 9,000–11,000 copies Guaranteed Circulation: 8,500 copies 44 Bitter Girl Bonus Circulation: 500–2,500 copies Readership 45 World AIDS Day in Alberta Readers Per Copy: 4.9 (PMB) Print Readership: >41,650 Avg. Online Circulation: 150,000 readers Estimated Total Readership: PAGE 40 PAGE 46 Cyndi Shines >191,650 readers After all these years, singer/activist isn’t so unusual – she’s just Frequency: Monthly human Proof of monthly figures are available on request. 49 Howie D Flies Solo Distribution Locations: Calgary: 160, Edmonton: 120 Backstreet Boy makes solo debut with Back To Me Other Alberta Cities: 15 Other Provinces: 35 52 Chelsea Boys United States: 15 Please call us if your establishment would like to become a distribution location. 53 New Gay Generation History Originally established in January 55 Queer Eye 1992 as Men for Men BBS by MFM Communications. Name changed to PAGE 46 PAGE GayCalgary in 1998. Independent 60 Classified Ads company as of January 2004. First edition of GayCalgary.com Magazine published November 2003. Name adjusted in 62 Q Scopes November 2006 to GayCalgary and Pay attention, Capricorn! Edmonton Magazine. Disclaimer and Copyright Opinions expressed in this magazine are specific to the author, and do not necessarily reflect those of GayCalgary staff and contributors. Those involved in the making of this publication, whether advertisers, contributors, or the subjects of articles Scan for Scan for or photographs, are not necessarily gay, this Issue Latest Issue lesbian, bisexual, or trans. This magazine also includes straight allies and those who PAGE 49 PAGE are gay friendly. http://gettag.mobi No part of this publication may be reprinted or modified without the expressed written http://www.gaycalgary.com/RSS permission of the editor or publisher. Articles • Recent News • Prize Draws • Events • Travel Info Copyright 2011. All rights reserved. GayCalgary is a registered trademark. http://www.gaycalgary.com/Twitter Follow us on Twitter for articles, weekly news and updates! DEC 2011 Print Deadlines Ad Booking: Mon, Nov 28th http://www.gaycalgary.com/Facebook http://www.gaycalgary.com/FacebookFan Submission: Wed, Nov 30th Join us on Facebook for articles, weekly news and updates! In Circulation: Fri, Dec 2nd Please contact us immediately if http://www.gaycalgary.com/i97 you think you may have missed the booking or submission deadline. PAGE 53 PAGE More articles and exclusive content online! 4 GayCalgary & Edmonton Magazine #97, November 2011 www.gaycalgary.com Editorial Lost in Translation Publisher’s Column By Rob Diaz-Marino, MSc. Yes, I have a desire to help my fellow man; they say men lead This month I’m reminded just how long I’ve been a part lives of quiet desperation, and who knows, perhaps I have few of Alberta’s LGBT community. It has been over a decade life lessons and words of wisdom from my unique perspective in since I gave up the delusion that the “straight-fairy” might the LGBT community that could help them shake this. Yes, I still visit me, and 8 years since I started contributing feel good when I’ve done a little something to brighten someone’s my efforts to publish GayCalgary & Edmonton Magazine life, to make their day just a little more bearable. I’d like to say each month. it stems purely from an altruistic heart, but what I look to gain out of all this is simply to be understood and accepted. As scary as that sounds, I’m realizing that being so acclimated But even under the right circumstances, friendships take to the LGBT way of doing things has left me a bit out of touch time to build, and that’s the one thing that I don’t have a lot with the outside world. of. I keep a pretty hectic schedule outside of daytime work I’m no stranger to getting work done, and at my day job I’ve hours because of this magazine. In general this makes it had no problems whatsoever integrating into my workplace difficult for me to find time for “friend stuff” with people, and and becoming a productive member of a team. I have no hitch those casual activities are invaluable for bonding with others. dealing with all manner of people when it comes to getting a job The only reason I’ve managed to bond with people in the LGBT done; I’m a lion when it comes to that. community is that the magazine regularly brings me out to But in other situations, not so much. When it comes to spend time with them. To go out for any other reason is very hanging out more casually with people from work, I seem to rare and difficult to arrange. Without it, I suppose I’m just become my shy and quiet self again. I find that I have difficulty another guy at work. connecting on a personal level with many straight men, and Having to explain the whole thing about the magazine is software development is a notably male-dominated industry. another hurdle – and when I’m getting to know someone, it’s The majority of experience I’ve had making friends with other hard to go for very long without having to take on this subject. men has been within the LGBT community, where we encourage It’s a lot of information for someone to handle in one bite, and and appreciate many character traits that most straight men leads to other questions that pile on even more. My sexuality are trained from birth to keep hidden. The TV depiction of close aside, those who can fathom how much work we do to publish relationships between straight guys seems like a triumph over GayCalgary & Edmonton Magazine may think it’s an impossibly nature and nurture, when there are so many forces at work to grandiose story designed to make me sound important if not repel them from one another. super-human. On the flip side, others may underestimate the When I’m working alongside of other people toward a common whole situation and think it’s just some casual little hobby, and goal, I feel this amazing sense of camaraderie that drives me to not the big thing that it is. do better. It makes even tough and arduous tasks fun in a Either way I end up feeling awkward talking about it because way because I get to learn from my peers and share my own nobody really seems to “get it”. I fear a lot of the work I’ve done experiences. It’s a sure-fire way that I can relate to them. in the LGBT community just doesn’t translate outside of it, and But work like this pushes people together.