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Rector Fr Michael Boag [email protected] 01293 882229 Associate Vicar Revd Sarah Upchurch [email protected] 01293 524804 Revd Canon Roger Brown 01293 520454 Assistant Priests Revd Gordon Parry 07802 432398

Our regular services are shown below; a calendar at the back of this magazine details special services, groups and events happening throughout the next two months.

’, ’, Sundays 08.00 Holy Communion 10.00 1st,, 2nd, and 3rd Sundays - (Book of Common Prayer, 1662) Eucharist and Sunday School 10.00 Sung Eucharist 10.00 4th Sundays (Common Worship) Child- friendly Eucharist

Tuesdays 10.30 Eucharist 15:00 Messy Church at St Barnabas’ Wednesdays 26 June, 17 July and 25 September Thursdays 10.30 Eucharist

You can also join us at:

12 June, 10, July and 11 Sept 15:15 Messy Church in Maidenbower

And here’s what’s happening in the café each week:

‘ Tuesdays 10.30 - 12.00 Pop in for a cake and a drink Thursdays 14.00 - 16.00 Knit and Natter -bring any crafts to do Fridays 10.30 - 12.30 Pop in for a cake and a drink 12.30 Lunches – please prebook tickets (£6.50) by calling 0300 111 8150 Saturdays 10.30 - 12.00 Pop in for a cake and a drink. Market on the first Saturday each month

You can also find up to date information here:

If you have a Baptism, Wedding or general enquiry, please call the office on 0300 111 8150 or email [email protected] To contact Fr. Michael, please phone 01293 882229 Tuesday to Sunday or email him at [email protected] To contact Revd Sarah, please phone 01293 524804 Tuesday to Sunday or email her at [email protected] To contact Revd Gordon, phone 07802 432398.

CLERGY SERVING THE PARISH ...... 2 REGULAR SERVICES ...... 2 CONTACT US...... 2 A NOTE FROM YOUR ED ...... 4 THE VOICE OF THE VICAR ...... 4 TIMES PAST ...... 5 Hand Made Opera ...... 5 Easter Flowers...... 5 Church Mouse’s Easter ...... 5 St Nicholas’ Circle ...... 7 Our Scouts celebrate St George’s Day ...... 8 From the Bell Tower ...... 8 The Easter Team (and others) ...... 8 A View from a Pew ...... 9 WHAT’S HAPPENING IN THE PARISH? ...... 10 APCM...... 10 PCC ...... 11 St Nicholas’ Committee / St Barnabas’ Committee ...... 11 Peace, Love and Reconciliation ...... 12 Encouraging others ...... 13 Six Word Stories / Prayers ...... 14 We are so Lucky, Lucky, Lucky ...... 16 Parish Projects ...... 17 Book Reviews ...... 19 A Home Group, what is it? ...... 22 St Nicholas’ – a Roman Villa? ...... 23 #trendingchurch ...... 24 The Hangout ...... 24 From the Ordinand’s Dog ...... 24 Pound Hill Toddlers / Baptisms ...... 25 Marvellous Messy ...... 28 USEFUL NUMBERS ...... 30 June, July, August, Sept CALENDAR ...... 31

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Thank you for the kind words I received after the last mag came out. I hope you all find something of real interest in this bumper edition for the summer. If you have already been away, you can catch up on what you have missed and there are plenty of upcoming events to entertain you. There are some really exciting plans for both churches, which will require some serious fund-raising, but leave a fantastic legacy for the following generations. Our Church Mouse has found a few fascinating ‘fillers’ as well as some well-researched articles. Thinking even more about the future Fr Michael and I are trying to help save the planet by encouraging people to look carefully where they throw their rubbish and to look for more recyclable alternatives. Oasis may break down by about 25% in the correct landfill situations, but that is about as good as it gets, so therefore I keep any oasis I use as wet as I can and I re-use it until it falls apart – still not the best, so now I am going to think hard about how I can do my arch arrangements for Harvest …oooh I already have an idea, trials will happen during the summer!! In the meantime, make a cuppa, take a break and enjoy a good read. Sue x

It is amazing what a become like children, you will never enter the little bit of sunshine Kingdom of heaven.” can do. It makes the So, how about we set aside some time to think as flowers grow and a child would! Why not go to the park and sit on a bathes everything in swing, go to the beach and build sandcastles, eat an golden sunlight and ice cream or an ice lolly by the sea? Stop for a somehow our hearts moment being grown up and remember why we are lifted. are here. We can sit in the Yes, we have to be grown up and sensible. We need garden and eat and to be so in the care of buildings, and finances, and socialize; we can relationships. But just for a moment let’s try and spend more time catch a glimpse of our old freedom as the children outside with longer we once were. Then, who knows, we may catch a daylight hours. This is good for us as we become glimpse of the Kingdom of heaven. closer to nature. We exercise more and make Dig out that bucket and spade and build a Vitamin D. This is all good for our well-being, both sandcastle. physically and mentally. Amen. Revd Sarah There is something I find fascinating about people who are happy to be in their own skin and seem to My name is Jonathan (Fleury) and I am currently a be fully alive and enjoying life. Most of these people first year ordinand (priest in seem to be children! Children who are loved are training) at the College of the free and unhindered by doom and gloom. They are Resurrection, Mirfield. I am not worried about how their bodies look, nor tired originally from Worcestershire. and lethargic. My interests include folk music, Children can teach us so much; when they ask the Book of Common Prayer, questions we are challenged. Their lack of and foreign languages. My inhibitions can help us to be honest and open about training involves doing a BA in our thoughts about the rules and constraints that Theology, but as well as this we do placement work we create for ourselves in church and society. in various settings including parish churches and In the Corinthians 13 passage about love the chaplaincies. I am very much looking forward to apostle Paul says; “When I was a child, I spoke like spending time with you this August. a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. Jonathan When I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways”. Yet in the gospel of Matthew chapter 18 Jesus says; “Truly I tell you, unless you change and

4 TIMES PAST

Hand Made Opera (Director, Colin Baldy; Musical Director, Andrew Macmillan) made a return visit to St Nicholas’ on 18 May to present another enjoyable evening of entertainment. It was not exactly an evening of laughs however, with two very sober pieces. The first, ‘Trouble in Tahiti’ by Leonard Bernstein is a story of dysfunctional marriage in 1950’s American suburbia. Bernstein said that it was based on the marriage of his parents. Although infrequently performed, it was engaging and thought provoking. Traces of ‘West Side Story’ were evident, and the whole might have benefited from an orchestra for accompaniment.

‘Dido and Aeneas’ by Purcell is more well- known and deservedly Dear Church Mouse so, although it is Thank you for putting together such a splendid another heart- selection of readings and music in celebration of wrenching tale (like so Eastertide. much of opera). There were strong musical Although we were small in numbers we certainly sung performances, notably and chatted with joy in our hearts, and shared our from Egle Nausedaite, wonderful bounty with delight and gusto Juliet Telford and Thank you and Ladies for your fabulous readings, and Rachel Robinson. for taking the time to organise. Looking forward to the next one !!! Bella Westlake sang Dido's Lament beautifully, although recordings by Joyce DiDonato and Emma Blessings Caroline xx Kirkby have set rather high expectations.

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We do not always have a speaker but when we do it is always interesting and informative, you are welcome to join us if you think you may be Worth & Pound Hill Branch interested in the subject or any of our evenings.

March – May 2019 The May Branch Meeting will be different as we At the Branch Meeting in March we had a lovely begin with a eucharist service followed by lady from The Crawley League of Friends refreshments and a “home-made” Quiz then a come to talk to us about what the “Friends” Bring & Buy stall; more about that next time! actually do. Sharon told us about her life as a nurse in the We will be meeting on 28 June and have our hospital and how when she retired she wanted to summer outing in July, all events are advertised on continue to help the hospital; the best way she the pew sheet, if you want to join us you are more could do this was to become a “Friend” and she than welcome to. didn’t have to ask twice, Sharon was dragged through the door and her feet have not touched Have you seen our poster for the floor since. There is always money to be raised the Harvest Afternoon Tea in and that is what they do, constantly finding new and September? Look out for it, we different ways to raise hundreds if not thousands of can promise you all a treat to pounds to buy equipment for the various be savoured and a fun departments and wards within the hospital, right afternoon! down to what we would call essential pieces of life Joan Tick saving items and equipment. So next time you are either in the hospital or see a collection tin or are offered a raffle ticket by the Friends of give generously as it could be the piece of equipment they buy that could save your life! We did not know half of what or why the League of Friends do what they do but we now know how important it is.

April brought us another Speaker, this time a gentleman, Peter Bower, from the charity that looks after Glaucoma sufferers, their relatives and carers. The charity ‘iga’, is based in Ashford, Kent and there is always someone to speak to on the phone about the disease, how it is effecting you and your family, how to use the special eye drops you are given if you are diagnosed with the disease and what ‘aids’ are available. We were shown pictures of how the sight changes if you have glaucoma and it really brings home how difficult life can be for a sufferer. We were given information leaflets to help those we know who have been diagnosed, and ourselves to Canon Hepplewhite, Norwich, c. 1902, an understand more about the sort of help on offer angler, customarily kept in the font minnows from the charity. supplied for bait by choirboys. Regiment; the earliest document is dated AD 870. With over 8 miles of shelving it is a fascinating resource. Much of the talk focused on records local to Our April talk was from Bill Gage on the ‘South Crawley and there were surprising and humorous Region’ (not Southern!) Railways and their history. stories. Matthew particularly focused on Mark This encompassed their building, their growth Lemon, one of Crawley’s most famous residents. across the area, and the exciting opportunities it Use of the Record Office is free and appointments brought to the cities for things like fresh milk. are not necessary; simply turn up during opening Inevitably, there was also their decline with the hours with the necessary identification (see the introduction of road networks and buses which website). It is worth noting that the online went through the towns while the railway stations resources, including access to ancestry.com and were only on the outskirts. There were some find-my-family.co.uk (quite expensive to use as an pretty gruesome photos and stories of trains that individual, but free through the Record Office), are crashed, as well as work that went on to improve also available free at the Crawley Library. Within the safety across the network. This included the the next 18 months all the baptism, marriage and story of one man who had saved a train from burial registers will also be available online from crashing by moving forward and stopping a train one of these two websites. that had no driver, for which he was awarded A thoroughly informative, entertaining and several shillings and a watch! The large collection of enjoyable evening. pictures was fascinating and included one of On Thursday 6 June we have our usual bring-and- Brighton Station where one of our members share evening and look forward to meeting as many recognised an advertisement for the company for members and non-members as possible. If you which his relative worked. They also included don’t cook please come anyway; there is always pictures of railway engines named after the stations plenty of food. If you are able to bring a raffle prize, along the network, including the ‘’. then please do. Doors open at 19.30 for 20.00. July The practice of naming trains after stations was and August are our traditional two-month break discontinued after it was discovered that customers and we will return again in September when Delia were getting on the carriages of the engine named Taylor will be talking on the impact of World War ‘Three Bridges’, expecting to go to Three Bridges One on Women, which is very relevant to the even though the train was going on a completely Centenary year of the end of the GreatWar. different route. Watch out for our 2020 programme which will be launching soon! Max Perry & Graham Beaumont On 2 May the St Nicholas’ Circle enjoyed a talk by Matthew Jones, the Assistant County Archivist, about the West Record Office.

In a clearly presented and well-illustrated talk, Matthew described the organisation and scope of the Record Office. The collection covers an amazing breadth of records, from churches and schools to voluntary organisations and the Royal Sussex 7

On Sunday 28 April, the closest Sunday to St George’s Day, the 4th Worth Scouts, Cubs and Beavers, along with their leaders and families, gathered in St Nicholas’ - some 278 of

them - for a joyous and uplifting service that seems set to become an annual event.

The bells of St Nicholas’ can normally be heard ringing on a Thursday evening as the ringers practise their Grandsire Doubles, Cambridge Minor and Plain Bob Minor, to name just a few methods. All was silent on Thursday 9 May, however, as the ringers held their annual dinner at the Parson's Pig in Pound Hill. A table of 23 of us tucked into delicious food from a choice of traditional pub grub and Indian fare. We were pleased to be joined by Fr Michael and Revd Sarah. The staff of the Parson's Pig looked after us extremely well, handing us possibly the longest bill any of us had ever seen at the end of the meal! An excellent evening was had by all. Judy

From an early initiative by the Mothers’ Union and over 26 years, Malcolm Booker has collected and delivered food gifted through the bright blue ‘MU’ boxes at the back of St Nicholas’ and in the Pastoral Centre for St Barnabas’, for the Easter Team. We now need a replacement volunteer for this simple, but rewarding, role. At the time of Harvest each year, Malcolm has ‘teamed up’ with Joan Tick to jointly allocate food donated at both churches for the Easter Team and Crawley Open House, divided equally. However, as of April 2019, the Easter Team, Crawley Open House and St Vincent de Paul (for Crawley and local Roman Catholic churches), have decided to combine their efforts and operate a central food bank, pooling their gifted food resources throughout the whole of the year; an interesting and sensible development. Joan Tick and Malcolm Booker

A visit to Westminster Abbey to celebrate Our Lady of Walsingham was a wonderful experience, from the moment of entering the Abbey. Worshiping in the place where kings and queens have been crowned, married and buried felt special; add to this a truly magnificent festival to celebrate the Mother of our Lord and all Nations, “Our Lady of Walsingham”. It was inspiring. The music before the service played by Alexander Hamilton with works by Nicholas de Grigny and Johann Sebastian Bach set the tone for the whole morning. To the Walsingham pilgrimage hymn, the choir, clergy and the Guardians of the Walsingham Shrine, holding aloft the Image of Our Lady and banners, made their way to the quire and high altar. The Dean of Westminster led the service and although we sat beyond the quire, we had front row seats thanks to wide-screen televisions placed strategically around the Abbey. Baroness Eaton DBE DL, Guardian Emerita of the Holy House read The Liturgy of the Word from Isaiah 7:10-14 and the choir then sang Psalm 98 - Sing to the Lord a New Song, for He has Done Marvellous Things. Then Lay Minister Michael Dixon from St Michael and All Angels with St James, Croydon read from Galatians 4: 4-7. Our very own Canon Anthony Ball read the Gospel of St Luke 1: 26-38. This was followed by the Sermon from The Right Reverend Phillip North; preaching about inequality, low esteem and poverty, and living in a time where anger, deadlock and soul- searching predominate. While we seem to spend much time apologising for our country’s past sins, we mock our democracy and deride our politicians. Our Lady of Walsingham is making a comeback, bringing hope to all who feel helpless in the face of a world gone mad with extinction and fear. Mary is here to bring us to Jesus; if we follow we help to heal our Nation. (Full sermon available on Abbey website). Receiving the Sacrament was achieved with little fuss considering the size of the congregation. The final hymn Ye who Own the Faith of Jesus was followed by the Dismissal and Blessing by the President. We all stood to sing the Easter Hymn, Joy to Thee, O Queen of Heaven: Alleluia. It was a real privilege to attend this service. To hear Eamon Duffy present a lecture on the history of Walsingham in an easy humorous manner was not the end. We were allowed to visit shrines and chapels not normally open to the public. What can I say? Magical! Liz Gallagher

Evensong was scheduled for 5.00pm in the Quire, sung by the choir of Westminster Abbey. The preacher was The Most Reverend Fisichella, President of the Promotion of the New Evangelisation. It was good to meet up again with Reverend Canon Anthony Ball, our previous Rector at St Nicholas’, who kindly arranged for us to be seated in the choir stalls for the service. It was a perfect ending to a most interesting and memorable day for the Festival of Our Lady of Walsingham. Margaret Spurgeon 9

MINUTES of the 2019 Annual Meeting of PCC Members/Trustees: St Nicholas’ (for 3 Parishioners and the years) Joan Tick and David Anderson Annual Parochial Church Meeting Deanery Synod: deferred on 24 April 2019 at St Barnabas‘ Church Appointments: Independent Examiner, Suzanne Fr Michael opened the meetings with prayers. Stass Forty parishioners attended with 17 apologies. A.O.B. Parish Giving: The Treasurer explained how Meeting 1: Annual meeting of Parishioners this could benefit our Parish and he let everyone 2 churchwardens were elected by unanimous know about forms left in churches for vote: parishioners to subscribe. Sheila Dring (St B) and Gerald Sandwell (St N) Passion Play: Linda Richardson introduced a Meeting 2: Annual Parochial Church Meeting tour to the Oberammergau Passion Play. If any Minutes of 2018 APCM were approved following parishioner is interested she is happy to discuss a minor amendment. this tour. Sides people were elected. Growing Attendance: Sundays have increased Reports: with a growing younger generation. Weekdays The Electoral Roll: following revision in March have grown considerably, especially the newly 2019, now stands at 202. introduced healing services. The introduction of a Financial Statements: details are contained in youth group and Messy church could bring us a the Annual Report. youthful congregation, Tony Chamier, Treasurer, attended and was on Improvements to Churches: This has been hand to answer queries. Max Perry, who was made possible by grants, endowments, charitable Treasurer for part of last year, made some trusts and generous personal donations; together observations about the Annual Report and with hard work by all involved. submitted comments and questions for the PCC Fr Michael and Rev Sarah reported that the to consider. Fr Michael thanked him for these and Easter services in both churches had been well for his work. attended with record numbers at Eastertide. The Safeguarding: in the absence of Noreen Saturday Vigil service at St Nicholas’ was Oxlade, Safeguarding Officer, whose apologies particularly well attended. have been received, her report is on display in The meetings closed with prayers. The next APCM is on 25 March 2020 at 19.00 both churches and has been submitted to the Diocese. The child protection DBS has been In September we are going on increased for volunteers. pilgrimage to the Shrine of our Annual Report: this was praised by Fr Michael Lady of Walsingham in north who expressed his thanks. He thanked Elizabeth Norfolk, joining a tradition spanning Whyman for a wonderful job. He also thanked all nearly a thousand years. volunteers for all the splendid work they have Walsingham is a place of healing and prayer, of done over the last year; especially Messy church refreshment and inspiration and draws pilgrims from and the cleaners who keep our churches looking all over the UK and overseas. For those who are lovely. A special thanks to Sue Perry, Tony unfamiliar with the story of Walsingham, do have a Chamier and Sheila Dring for all their hard work look at www.walsinghamanglican.org.uk this last year, and also the Churchwardens and We will be travelling north on Monday 9 September, Deputy Wardens. stopping off in Cambridge for lunch and a visit to Fabric and Goods: these seem to be in in good Great St Mary’s, staying at the Shrine for two nights order for both churches. Work is in progress to (full board and delicious food!), returning home on enhance both churches. Wednesday 11 September. Places are limited, so Elections: the following were elected please sign up now; see Liz Gallagher. Two Deputy Wardens were appointed: St Going on pilgrimage is not like going on retreat, it is Barnabas’ Phyl Pennell, St Nicholas’ Colin Smith much more sociable; ‘prayer and party’!

The new PCC met immediately after the APCM. The following were elected unanimously: Vice Chairman: Gerald Sandwell; PCC Secretary: Liz Gallagher; Treasurer: Tony Chamier; Standing Committee: Ann Lane and David Fry. Next PCC Meeting: 5 June 2019 at 19.30 in Pastoral Centre.

The St Nicholas’ Church Committee met on 30 April 2019. Formal business was concluded, including an agreement to review the Terms of Reference. The current projects at St Nicholas’ were reviewed and all seems to be progressing well. The work on the roof and spire should shortly commence and grant applications are in hand to secure further funds for the other projects. The next main event will be an Open Meeting on 15 May, 19:00 in the Church, to present the plans and solicit views from the congregation and the wider public. Posters will be prepared to advertise the event. The Parish’s social media presence was discussed. We are thought to be doing well, but there are always things we can do better. Future planned and potential events were discussed; watch the Pewsheet and Magazine for announcements. It was also noted that The Hangout, our new youth club, had made an encouraging start and looks to be a success. A good-humoured and productive meeting. The Committee will next meet on 9 July. Graham Beaumont ’ St Barnabas’ Committee met on 8 May. We rejoiced that we have more children attending Sunday School and there was discussion about how to provide for the children week by week and over the summer holidays. Training may be offered and provided for younger members of the congregation to become Servers. Regarding hiring of the Church Hall, we discussed a recent incident after a booked party, and we will strictly review our hiring policy and procedure to ensure the future safety and wellbeing of our neighbouring residents. Much of our time was spent looking at and reviewing the concept plans drawn up by Cowan Architects for the proposed levelling of the floors through St Barnabas’ Church and Complex, and associated redevelopment of the Pastoral Centre. Plans can be viewed at St Barnabas’; please do ask. Revd Sarah

11 ‘It is incompatible with the essential Christian affirmation that God is love to say that God brings On Easter Sunday, arguably the most sacred and millions into the world to damn them.’ significant day in the Christian calendar, Christian communities around the world were appalled by There are many theological writings on the the bombing of three churches, Roman Catholic subject of Christianity and its relationship with and Protestant, in separate locations in Sri Lanka other world faiths. Where adherents of these - Negombo, Batticaloa and Colombo - whilst different faiths live in close proximity to one services were taking place there. Three luxury another as happens in Crawley and in many other hotels were also bombed. In total, 258 communities across Britain and the wider world individuals were killed and at least 500 injured. it is vital that we reach out to each other in love as God has asked us so to do. The Bishop of These atrocities were said by various media Chichester recently experienced this for himself commentators to be a ‘retaliation’ for the earlier in Crawley during his Deanery visitation when he attacks on two mosques in Christchurch, New was received as an honoured guest by the Zealand during Friday Prayers on 15 March in Ahmadiyyan Muslim Community at its Noor which 50 were killed and at least a further 50 Mosque. injured. Islamic ‘state fighters’ were declared as the perpetrators of the Sri Lankan bombings. It is tragic that the mis-represented doctrine of one religion is used as a pretext to attack and kill Crawley was not entirely immune from the members of another. In case we think that this is effects of the Sri Lankan bombings. There is a a problem only encountered far away from significant Sri Lankan community in Crawley and Britain we need to remember the bitter history families here lost relatives and friends. of religious conflict in Ireland, particularly Then, at a much more personal level for our own Northern Ireland, the echoes of which still Parish, flowers were left anonymously in both St persist. Further back in history our country was Barnabas’ and St Nicholas’ by a Muslim well- torn apart by the effects of Protestantism and the wisher. They were accompanied by this message. subjugation of Roman Catholicism.

To: Christian Community in ‘Who is my neighbour?’ is a question that grows Crawley in significance the more our capacity increases to I am sorry that you had to hear the horrible news from interact with people and places from all over our Sri Lanka on a celebration world. I believe that we are increasingly adept at day and I am ashamed that welcoming those we do not initially recognise the atrocities were done by into our church community and both Fr. Michael terrorists claiming to be and Sarah, with others, have led by superb Muslim. Your Muslim neighbour. example. By that simple and Many who saw the flowers and their moving message accompanying message were greatly moved by accompanying the this most powerful gesture of love and flowers left in our reconciliation. By and large, the different world churches at faiths represented in Crawley get on with one Eastertide we should anther extremely well. Our own Parish be encouraged to community knows only too well that Christ’s demonstrate that parable of the Good Samaritan, in its reinforcing love of neighbour of one of the basic commandments of our faith, can conquer our exhorts us to love our neighbours and this differences and includes those of other faiths with whom we enable us to live in come into regular contact. harmony with one another – as Christ A document produced by the Church of wishes us so passionately to do. Doctrine Commission ‘The Mystery of Salvation’ contains the following statement: Revd Gordon Parry

Saving our planet Many will know that I have been waging a battle at St Nicholas with regard to the bins! We have three bins, as do many of us in the parish, however, either some of us or the visitors (who may have different recycling in their parishes) are getting things wrong. On 29 April we tried putting up a new sign on the middle red top bin.

By the afternoon this was in the green bin

Here are photos of items that I have moved in May – and by Thursday this was in the there was more but I red top bin. didn’t have my phone every time.

Surely the answer cannot be to stop having the recycling bins altogether? Next I shall try RUBBISH PAPER PLANTS If we don’t put the right things in very large on the the correct bin the council will stop relevant bin. collecting. How can people think I await your that oasis can be recycled or that a ideas……… sponge and pots belong in the Sue green bin??? 13

Whether you are a person (to keep it politically correct) of few words, or more or (like me) of many, perhaps you will find a few to resonate with here. On Easter Sunday Fr Michael offered us a suggestion that St Luke’s 6 word story might be ‘They did not find the body’. He then encouraged us to think of what our life stories could be in 6 words. I came up with ‘Family and friends, I am blessed’

Here are the ones which have been sent in so far

– this is not closed, please send in more!

Love, makes the world go round

Family first followed by firmer faith We are looking at producing a parish prayer book – here are a couple to get you thinking the Be positive, be thankful, be encouraging first written by Jane Austen and one by someone who prefers anonymity – please send in yours (let Shy child. Inquisitive adult. Many blessings. me know if you do not want your name published). O God, Tries to help others. Often thwarted. help us to think humbly of ourselves, to consider our fellow human beings with kindness, and to judge all they say and do with the same consideration and love which we ourselves would like from them. Amen

We thank you Lord for those among us who are generous of spirit, who wrap us in their love and treat us with kindness and understanding. We also pray for those who try their best in all things and those who acknowledge where they fall short. We especially bring before you those who are fearful of change and those who need compassion, tolerance and forbearance in their dealings with others. Grant us all inner reflection and the judgement to see things in perspective so that they may appreciate the opinions and efforts of all. We are all fallible and need your guidance to help make the best of our lives - for our own sakes, the sake of those we encounter and the sake of your son Jesus Christ who died for us. Amen

Aaron Blore, the Tysull, Staffs, verger, c. 1828, tickled awake feminine sermon-dozers with a fox’s tail hung from a fishing-rod but rattled the heads of men and youths with a small mallet attached to a window pole.

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Have you ever paused to think how lucky we are as a parish? We have, not one, but two splendid churches! Our churches are very different in architectural style, and to a lesser extent in tradition, but they complement each other well.

You will have realised that Church Mouse is extremely fond, indeed fascinated, by St Nicholas’. He has written in the Magazine quite frequently about the architecture and the Anglo-Saxon background. It is an exceptional building which deserves to be better known. It is a place which breathes the continuity of Christian worship, in much the same form, for over 1,000 years. St Nicholas’ has a spiritual and meditative atmosphere; a calm holiness that is appreciated not only by the congregation but also by many casual visitors. That people from far and wide come and sit quietly in the church attests to its witness as a centre of the Christian community in Worth over the centuries. I think that we all know how lucky we are to have St Nicholas’.

But the special status of St Nicholas’ means that some value St Barnabas’ rather less, and that is a mistake. When Church Mouse started to attend the weekday services at St Barnabas’ he rather expected to ‘miss’ the glories of St Nicholas’. But on the contrary he found an equally valid, although different, experience at St Barnabas’. In many ways the church is unremarkable. It gets no specific mention in ‘Pevsner’ (Buildings of England: Sussex) although this may well be remedied later this year; within Pound Hill only the White Knight pub gets an entry. The churches in the neighbourhoods are “without exception so far either uneventful or more often mannered and contorted, with odd spikes and curvy roofs.”

But this is to undervalue St Barnabas’. Although created as a multipurpose hall, its conversion into a sole- use church is remarkably successful. It is an open and inclusive liturgical space with a chancel that is only subtly distinct from the nave. The long curving chancel step allows communicants to gather together around the altar fostering sharing and inclusivity. The windows permit glimpses of traffic passing on Worth Road, and pedestrians and buggies passing through the grounds. It is a church firmly set in the local community and demonstrably part of the life of that community. St Barnabas’ has a simplicity and an honesty untainted by a long history and we should appreciate it as a, perhaps simple, but effective modern church.

I have only one controversial suggestion – and I suspect that I am about to upset somebody (sorry) – and that is the curious pink in which the chancel and ceiling is painted. To my mind it is the colour of Elastoplast or old-fashioned corsetry. It is not even ‘Comper Pink’, a deep rose red typical of Comper churches, or even ‘Baker-Miller Pink’, a colour shown to reduce violence in a correctional facility in Seattle. Perhaps when St Barnabas’ comes to be redecorated, the Architect can advise.

So, we are very lucky; two churches with different styles and traditions. Naturally, worshippers attend the church where they feel more comfortable, and that is fine. But this should not lead to tribal adherence to one particular church building. We are all members of the one Church in Worth, Pound Hill, Maidenbower and Forge Wood; we just happen to have two contrasting churches. We are indeed lucky. Church Mouse

Following on from the report in the last magazine the architect, Jonathan Cerowski and Sarah Goad, senior architectural technician, visited St. Barnabas’ on 8 April. They made measurements and took photographs round the site. On 25 April Revd Sarah, David Fry and myself visited Jonathan and Sarah at their offices in East Grinstead to meet and discuss proposals from data they had gathered from their visits to St Barnabas’. Following discussion it was agreed that we would bring the plans back to St. Barnabas’ for further discussion and consultation with others. Discussion of the plans took place with St Barnabas’ Church Committee on 8 May; meeting was held at the Pastoral Centre on Sunday 12 May to present the concept plans prepared by the Architect for improvements to St Barnabas’ and Centre (PC). They were greeted with enthusiasm. It was agreed that we suggest some change to the plans but that we do proceed by asking the architect to submit an informal application to the DAC (Diocesan Advisory Committee). There are essentially three elements to the project. The first is to raise the floor of the lower area of the PC and remove the ramp and railings, so that a level area accessible, including by wheelchairs, from the porch will be created. There will also be some minor improvements to the kitchen area, and some further suggestions about this were also raised. The second element is to address the entrance to St Barnabas’ by lowering the floor of the narthex so that it is level with the nave. This will create a step-free access into the church, through into the nave, and along into the corridor to the hall. A new entrance lobby would also be created which would give more prominence to the main entry to the church.

Finally, the chapel and access to the basement would be improved. The concept plan provides for an additional staircase down to the basement created at the altar end of the chapel. However, an alternative suggestion employing the existing stairway yet providing full- height access to the basement was also proposed.

The concept plans are available for inspection and further comments should be directed to Revd Sarah, David Fry, or myself as soon as possible. The architect asked us for feedback by 20 May for him to prepare the informal application for submission to the DAC by mid June. Following their feedback we can prepare detailed plans, costings, and grant applications and submit a formal application to the DAC. Thanks again to the Co-op for choosing us as one of their charities, and thanks go to those of you who keep spending in the Co-op. You have already helped us raise £1,600. This link with the Co-op lasts until October so please do keep on shopping there! Phyl Pennell 17 A Public Meeting was held in St Nicholas’ on Wednesday 15 May to present the concept plans for the current portfolio of projects at St Nicholas’. The Architect, Jonathan Cerowski, was present as were representatives of the tree surgeons.

There are similarly three elements to the proposed work at St Nicholas’. The first concerns the approach to the church. Following detailed advice from the Arborilogical Consultants, the trees are considered to be at the end of their life and are dangerous. They need to be removed. This will then permit the path to be replaced, in its current position, but with a more suitable surface and even gradient, which is also slip resistant, and will greatly improve access for the less able and wheelchair users. A handrail may be provided. Replanting of the trees will be reviewed once this work has been completed.

The second element is replacement of the perimeter path around the church, with a similar surface, and the creation of the Memorial Garden in the area to the South-East of the present graveyard, with planting of native trees and a meandering circuit of pathways and benches around the area.

Finally, there are proposals to level the entry into the church and, taking the area below the gallery, provide a disabled toilet to the South, with possibly a chair store, and a small kitchenette to the North. This aspect of the proposals is still subject to development.

The proposals were generally welcomed, although there were a range of helpful comments, especially about the proposed kitchen area. There were no strong objections. The Architect will work with others to further develop the project with a view to shortly submitting a formal application to the DAC, planning requests to the local authority, and grant applications to match the funds already donated.

An exciting time for both the churches in our Parish!

Graham B : THE SHACK by Wm Paul Young (Hodder & Stoughton, 2008)

It is only through the kindness of friends that I have now caught up with this book and I am extremely grateful to them. I can say that it is a book which I can very highly recommend. It is difficult to discuss this book without providing some spoilers. So, if you really want to read it, fully fresh, then stop reading this now; but do go and read ‘The Shack’! I won’t reveal the twist at the end. The story centres around Mack, a fairly normal honest family man, who experiences the nightmare of the abduction and murder of his youngest daughter while he and his children are on a camping trip. Some time later, still struggling to adjust to this event, he receives a mysterious note inviting him back to the remote scene of the child’s murder and signed ‘Papa’ which is his wife’s name for God. When the opportunity arises, and very sceptical, he decides to go, and meets three people: Elousia, a large, warm black woman (Papa), Jesus, a young man who happens to be good at carpentry, and Sarayu, a rather ethereal New Age woman. He has, of course, encountered the Trinity. Later he also meets Sophia who is the personification of God’s wisdom. An amazing weekend follows in which Mack’s eyes are opened to the wonders of God’s eternal world and the processes of healing, redemption and forgiveness are worked out. Much of this is through conversations between Mack and the other characters but also through activities in which they engage, including some amazing food prepared by Papa. If I have a criticism, it is that much of the plot is rather predictable and some a little facile. Given that Mack has some background in theology he sometimes seems rather naïve or obtuse. BUT, that aside, it is a brilliant and accessible presentation of some very complex theological topics, including the problems of evil and pain, the need for redemption, and the wonderful limitless scope of God’s love. You address these topics without fully realising that you are doing so. For me, one great insight was the role of the Trinity and its fundamental role in illustrating the expression of love among the three interdependent persons. I now glimpse why we need it! There is also a film (which I have yet to see). You may need a box of tissues, but do give this book a try. I am confident that you will find it instructive and faith-affirming, but also very enjoyable.

100 Churches 100 Years Edited by Susannah Charlton, Elaine Harwood and Claire Price 2019, Batsford, for the Twentieth Century Society

This beautifully illustrated book will delight anyone interested in new churches of the twentieth century. It covers 100 churches built after 1914, each described and illustrated. All my favourites are there: Scargill Chapel (George Pace), St Matthew, Perry Beeches and St Paul’s, Bow Common (both Maguire and Murray). Even Crawley gets an entry with St Francis and St Anthony (Goodhart-Rendel) and also the Abbey Church of Our Lady Help of Christians (‘Worth Abbey’; Francis Pollen). There are chronological sections, then features on specific architectural practices and on stained glass and fittings. A feast of a book! Church Mouse

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Harvest Afternoon Tea including a Harvest Hamper Raffle

in aid of Mothers’ Union Projects Saturday September 14th 3.00pm Pastoral Centre. £5.00 per person. Tickets available in advance from Mary Fry - 01293 410383 or Joan Tick – 01293 884695 or please speak to a Mothers’ Union member. Raffle tickets ….. £1

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It is a group of people who gather together usually in someone’s home to study, pray and build community. This is not something new, Christians have been meeting together in homes to practise their religion for over two thousand years. It is well recorded that communities of believers sprang up in many cities around the Mediterranean region. The Book of Acts in the New Testament testifies to the fact that St Paul wrote letters to these groups and in some cases, he visited their homes to worship with them. At present we have four groups in our Parish, meeting together mid-week, to study, pray and share fellowship. Two groups meet fortnightly, one group meets weekly and one meets every three weeks; of these, two meet in the evenings and two during the day. The range of study methods varies from group to group: for example a published course, reading and discussing a Christian book, or an independent study of The Bible. The aim is to deepen our relationship with God and each other, to grow in love, fellowship and the knowledge of Jesus the Son, the Father and the Holy Spirit - always supporting each other through faith, love and prayer. If you would like to join a Home Group please be encouraged by your faith and get in touch. Linda Eells [email protected] Caroline Formby [email protected] Margaret Jennings [email protected] Joan Tick [email protected]

Two beautiful pictures to remind us what it’s all about.

The one on the left was commissioned by one of our previous clergy for the room used for communion services at Maidenbower Day Centre. It is a representation of holy communion, depicting the chalice and the bread and made by Barbara Winstanley.

The one on the right was painted by Bob Sulley and put on display in the church at his funeral last April. Sheila Sellar captured the reflection of the church window.

No, don’t get too excited; we haven’t discovered a Roman villa at Worth, at least not yet! However, Church Mouse has come to understand that the basic form of Christian churches, and especially St Nicholas’, Worth, is actually that of a fairly grand Roman house. You perhaps knew this, but Church Mouse didn’t.

Over the course of several hundred years there was naturally some variation in the plan of Roman houses, but one of the standard plans was quite common, especially in the later Roman period. You entered into a hall (vestibulum) which then led into a large pillared area (the atrium), often open to the sky, and with a tank or pond at its centre. This where visitors, waiting for an audience with the villa-owner, would gather. At the opposite end to the entrance, often up a few steps, was another room open to the atrium (the tablinum) which is where the visitors would be received. At either side of the tablinum were low walls or screens (alae) to allow slaves to come and go, or advisors to listen in on the conversation. In the grandest houses there might also be an exedra with an apsidal end as at the Villa of the Mysteries in Pompeii (see above left). Other rooms (porticus) and the family quarters opened off this central area. Another example can be seen at Lullingstone (see right), not far from us in Kent, built in the second century AD. You may well imagine that the Early Christians met in catacombs. They did, as evidenced by the carvings and frescos that have survived, but probably only in times of very active persecution. In other periods they met in modest private homes, or in the workshops of Church members, but as the Church grew they needed more space. When there was the opportunity, they met in the villa of one of the more wealthy members of the congregation. Some evidence of Christian use of a private villa occurs at Lullingstone with a Chi-Rho painted in one of the frescos (see left).

At the end of the Diocletian persecution around 313 AD and with the adoption shortly afterwards, by the Emperor Constantine, of Christianity as the official religion of the Roman Empire, Christians were able to openly build churches which were in the form of a basilica. A clear example is the first Basilica of St Peter in Rome (right). The atrium turned into a baptistry and nave; the tablinum into a chancel, and the apsidal exedra into the sanctuary. A table traditionally stood in front of the tablinum in the Roman house – actually derived from a chopping block outside the primitive hut from which the villa had evolved, and this turned into the altar. The alae became aisles and the porticus evolved into side-rooms or transepts. The Bishop, for only a bishop celebrated the Eucharist in the Early Church, sat behind the altar, in the position of the Roman villa-owner, and the presbyters (or elders, the forerunners of priests) were seated around the apse where officials or advisors might previously have sat (note the stalls at either side of our chancel).

So, when you enter St Nicholas’ you are coming into what was originally a grand Roman villa, and the plan is surprisingly little changed in 2,000 years.

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by a sizeable and committed group of volunteers from both St Nicholas' and St Barnabas’ congregations, who The hangout, our enjoy the evening as much as the young people do! new Friday evening club for those Spread the word! aged between Fr Michael & Rev’d Sarah twelve and sixteen, started in St Barnabas’ hall just after Easter and runs from 7.30pm to 8.30pm every Friday in term time.

On our first night, seven youngsters, having seen it mentioned on Facebook and in other advertising, came and enjoyed playing the brand new PS4 (a kind gift from an anonymous donor, thank you!), pool, table tennis, a variety of board games, craft activities and the delights of the tuck shop. Four weeks later there were twenty and we now have around thirty signed up members, who have come at least once. The club is supported

********************************************************************** making assumptions. Perhaps I’ll suggest it to the ’ Ordinand as a theme for a sermon!! I am feeling quite indignant at the moment! My Apparently, the residential training week in humans were assuming that Canterbury went well and the suitcase full of I was the instigator of the necessities (aka luxuries, depending on your point barking competition of view) was fully utilised. The week covered between myself and aspects of funerals, preaching, working with Phoebe whenever we were children and inclusion and diversity. The left on our own and Ordinand is now nearing the end of her second something (human, animal year of training with the current module on or inanimate object) Christian Worship going well. After that, there’s invaded our territory! only one more year with 8 more assignments and Fortunately, I was copious amounts of tea to go before Ordination! vindicated when they got a Must go... BUT I’m not going to go and bark at camera to check up on us the squirrel now as I’m a GOOD boy! and realised it was Phoebe Have a good summer. that started it and not me!! Shadow, the Ordinand’s Dog Maybe there is a lesson to be learned about not

Our aim at Toddlers is to provide a variety of learning opportunities for preschool aged children; as well as a place for adults to meet and support each other. Every Tuesday and Thursday morning, term time only, 09.00 – 11.00 in St Barnabas Church Hall, £1 per family. Jenny 

Fluffy, feathery, fun

We love everyone at all our services, but the following dates will be particularly child-friendly. Come and celebrate with us! At Barnabas’ – the 4th Sunday of every month. At St Nicholas’: 8 September

28 April 19 Freddie Ryan Taylor Jaxon Bruce Nicolo Bobby James Ferrari Tops with Worth Chur ch logo 12 May 19 Polo Shirts £13.50 Order dates Edward Shaun Houlders T shirt £12.50 30 June 26 May 19 Sweatshirt £16.50 30 Sept Ember Wren Hennessey Hoodie £18.50 1 Dec Fleece £16.50 Amelie Anne Sandwell Order forms in church

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That aside, ‘what did our young people contribute to Easter at St Nicholas’?’ I hear you ask. Mmm… did you see our Easter Garden?

Four children helped to plant the garden and they were encouraged by a wonderful group of mums, grandmas, a little one not old enough to actually plant yet [but encouraged all the same] and her aunt…. …..well done one and all - it looked fantastic!

Then came Easter Day…. Three of our young people read the Lesson and prayers extremely well. They were then rewarded, with all the other children who had behaved so well during the service: they were let loose in the churchyard for the annual Egg Hunt.

I can see one!

And so with all the fun and excitement of the morning, the empty chocolate eggs reminding us of the empty tomb, we celebrated with Christians around the world in the joy and power of the Resurrection of Jesus. ****** A little bit of Easter trivia…

Easter, the annual Christian celebration of Jesus Christ's resurrection, can fall anywhere from 22 March to 25 April, Easter, as early as 22 March is very rare; the last time it happened was 1818, and the next time will be 2285. Easter last fell on the latest date (25 April) in 1943 and will again in 2038. Joan Tick

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27 April 19 Chris Loosemore & Katrina Cheeseman 11 May 19 Joshua Bird & Karen Buck 25 May 19 David Lilley & Hannah Booker 26 May 19 Alexander Braidwood & Joanna Collins 30 May 19 Daniel Kirby & Emma Brooks

TO HIRE St Nicholas’ Church - fantastic acoustics and seats 150 St Barnabas’ Church Hall - 10m by 10m, seats 105 with kitchen and garden Pastoral Centre - a carpeted room and café seating up to 40 St Barnabas’ Downstairs Meeting Room 3.5m x 3.5m room with small kitchen and patio to garden. Seats up to 15 (or 8 around a large round table) For rates, please see www.worthparish.org/venuehire or email [email protected] to discuss your individual requirements or arrange a look around.

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After Easter activities, we continued with our saints, looking this time at the life of St Paul, who started as Saul, the tentmaker. He had an incredible life; at first being totally against Jesus, he soon became one of his most ardent followers. He made many journeys, wrote many letters and escaped, more than once, from the Romans and the Jews. Sue x

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Administrator (Parish) Sue Perry Altar Servers (St Barnabas’) David Anderson Altar Servers (St Nicholas’) Jenny Dobson Baptisms, Weddings and Funerals Parish Office Bellringers Neil Dobson Bookings (Hall, Meeting Rooms, Café, Church) Sue Perry Buildings and Facilities See Churchwardens Children’s Society Ann Lane Choirs (Worth Church and Festival) Alex Hiam Church Cleaning (St Barnabas’) Jane Stanford Church Cleaning (St Nicholas’) Jill Freeborn Churchwardens (St Barnabas’) Sheila Dring Phyl Pennell Churchwardens (St Nicholas’) Gerald Sandwell Colin Smith Events Jane Stanford Families, Youth and Children’s Work Parish Office Fellowship Activities Joan Tick 0300 Flower Arranging (St Barnabas’) Jane Stanford Flower Arranging (St Nicholas’) Noreen Oxlade Friends of St Nicholas’ Colin Smith 111 Giving (Donations etc) Sheila Dring Julian Group (St Barnabas’) Don Hewerdine Julian Group (St Nicholas’) Linda Eells 8150 Knit and Natter Val Rudd Magazine Sue Perry Messy Church Sue Walshe Mothers’ Union Mary Fry Office (Parish) (manned or ansaphone 24/7) Office at St Barnabas’ (not generally manned) PCC Chair Michael Boag PCC Secretary Liz Gallagher PCC Electoral Roll Officer Jane Stanford PCC Treasurer Tony Chamier Prayer Group Linda Eells Safeguarding Officers Noreen Oxlade Social Media Elizabeth Whyman Stewardship Officer (St Barnabas’) Stuart Sharpe St Nicholas Circle Max Perry Sunday School Caroline Formby Toddlers (Tues/Thurs am) Jenny Dobson Website Elizabeth Whyman Weddings Parish Office

George Bailey, a Stapleton, Westmorland, verger, c. 1776, whilst having a last look around, was preserved from being dragged by boggles down a hole under the chancel by providentially having picked up a page torn from the Bible in his pocket. He later became a much sought-after anti-litter lecturer.

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If you are travelling far, we recommend that you check dates and times either on the calendar on our website or with the office.

When? What? Where? Tues 4 June 11.00 Home Communion, Lanehurst Gardens Thur 6 June 20.00 St Nicholas Circle St Barnabas' Mon 10 June 11.00 Julian Group St Barnabas' Wed 12 June 15.15 Messy Church, Maidenbower Infants School Wed 12 June 14.30 Pastoral Assistants’ Tea St Barnabas' Thurs 13 June 14.30 Julian Group St Nicholas' Tues 18 June 14.30 Prayer Group St Nicholas' 11.00 – St Barnabas' Sat 22 June Summer Fair 13.30 Sun 23 Jun 14.30 An Afternoon of Summer Song St Nicholas' Wed 26 June 15.00 Messy Church St Barnabas' Thur 27 June 19.30 MU Meeting St Barnabas' Tues 3 July 11.00 Home Communion, Lanehurst Gardens Sat 6 Jul 10.00 Saturday Market, St Barnabas' Sun 7 July 15.00 Bell-ringers host Afternoon Tea Rectory Lawn Mon 8 July 11.00 Julian Group St Barnabas' Wed 10 July 14.30 Pastoral Assistants’ Tea St Barnabas' Wed 10 July 15.15 Messy Church, Maidenbower Infants School Thurs 11 July 14.30 Julian Group St Nicholas' Sun 14 July 18.30 Choral Evensong St Nicholas' Wed 17 July 15.00 Messy Church, St Barnabas' Thur 18 July 13.45.00 MU Summer Outing Depart from the Pastoral Centre Tues 6 Aug 11.00 Home Communion, Lanehurst Gardens Wed 7 Aug 14.30 Pastoral Assistants’ Tea St Barnabas' Thurs 8 Aug 14.30 Julian Group St Nicholas' Mon 12 Aug 11.00 Julian Group St Barnabas' Sun 25 Aug 18.00 Choral Evensong St Nicholas' Tues 3 September 11.00 Home Communion, Lanehurst Gardens Thurs 5 September 20.00 St Nicholas Circle St Barnabas' Sat 7 Sept 10.00 Saturday Market, St Barnabas' Mon 9 Sep 10.00 Parish Pilgrimage to Walsingham Mon 9 Sept 11.00 Julian Group St Barnabas' Wed 11 Sept 15.15 Messy Church, Maidenbower Infants School Wed 11 Sept 14.30 Pastoral Assistants’ Tea St Barnabas' Thurs 12 Sept 14.30 Julian Group St Nicholas' Sat 14 Sept 15.00 MU Harvest Afternoon Tea Pastoral Centre Sun 17 Sept midnight Deadline for copy for the next mag. [email protected] Wed 25 Sept 15.00 Messy Church St Barnabas' Thur 26 Sept 19.30 MU Meeting St Barnabas'

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