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FINDING the RIGHT SURROGATE: a Guide for Intended Parents Table of Contents Chapter 1: Understanding Surrogacy
FINDING THE RIGHT SURROGATE: A Guide for Intended Parents Table of Contents Chapter 1: Understanding Surrogacy.................................................... 3 Why Surrogacy? ......................................................................................... 4 An Ancient Practice ................................................................................... 4 From Artificial Insemination to IVF .......................................................... 5 Types of Surrogacy..................................................................................... 6 Chapter 2: Finding a Surrogate ............................................................. 7 Who Needs a Surrogate? .......................................................................... 8 How to Find a Surrogate ........................................................................... 9 What Makes a Good Surrogate? .............................................................. 9 Should You Use Surrogate Agencies? ................................................... 11 Chapter 3: Changing Lives, One Cycle at a Time ............................... 13 Why They Do It ........................................................................................ 14 Why We Do It ........................................................................................... 15 What You Can Do Next ........................................................................... 15 Finding the Right Surrogate: A Guide for Intended Parents 2 CHAPTER ONE UNDERSTANDING SURROGACY Finding -
Reproductive Labor Or Trafficking: the Effect of Disparate Power on Consent in Transnational Surrogacy Agreements
REPRODUCTIVE LABOR OR TRAFFICKING: THE EFFECT OF DISPARATE POWER ON CONSENT IN TRANSNATIONAL SURROGACY AGREEMENTS AMY PARKER* I. INTRODUCTION .................................................................. 155 II. REGULATION OF SURROGACY AGREEMENTS ...................... 157 III. REGULATION OF HUMAN TRAFFICKING ............................. 161 IV. CURRENT LAW ON DISPARITY OF POWER ........................... 164 V. DISPARATE POWER IN INDIAN SURROGACY AGREEMENTS ..................................................................... 167 VI. CONCLUSION ...................................................................... 172 I. INTRODUCTION Ajala spends most of her days walking around her clinic’s dormitory, although her steps are becoming slightly more labored each day. The dormitory is filled to capacity with pregnant women like Ajala, and they often talk with each other about their lives, both before and after the babies they are carrying are born. Ajala misses her husband and two young daughters, and daily assures herself— and anyone else who will listen—that she is doing this for them. After all, what other way does a thirty-year-old woman who quit school at ten years of age have to provide this kind of money for her family? When a young, pretty, Indian woman came to Ajala’s impoverished neighborhood and told each of the families how they could earn $3,000 (roughly five years income for Ajala’s family) by providing the loving and compassionate service of carrying a baby for another couple, Ajala’s husband was quite intrigued. As a Hindu family, they are very familiar with the mythological tale of Lord Krishna, and his childhood spent with Yashoda, his devoted surrogate mother. The young recruiter reminded them of the joy Yashoda took in providing this service for the young Lord and told Ajala that she could have the same happy experience. -
Indian Surrogacy: Ending Cheap Labor
Santa Clara Journal of International Law Volume 18 Issue 1 Article 1 1-12-2020 Indian Surrogacy: Ending Cheap Labor Jaya Reddy Follow this and additional works at: https://digitalcommons.law.scu.edu/scujil Part of the International Law Commons Recommended Citation Jaya Reddy, Comment, Indian Surrogacy: Ending Cheap Labor, 18 SANTA CLARA J. INT'L L. 92 (2020). Available at: https://digitalcommons.law.scu.edu/scujil/vol18/iss1/1 This Comment is brought to you for free and open access by the Journals at Santa Clara Law Digital Commons. It has been accepted for inclusion in Santa Clara Journal of International Law by an authorized editor of Santa Clara Law Digital Commons. For more information, please contact [email protected], [email protected]. 18 SANTA CLARA JOURNAL OF INTERNATIONAL LAW 92 (2020) Indian Surrogacy: Ending Cheap Labor Jaya Reddy !92 Indian Surrogacy: Ending Cheap Labor Table of Contents I. Introduction ..............................................................................................................................94 II. Background ..............................................................................................................................94 A. 2002: Legalization of Commercial Surrogacy Caused Exploitation but Allowed Impoverished Women to Escape Poverty ............................................................................................................94 B. 2005: Indian Council for Medical Research Issued Extremely Narrow Guidelines Regulating “ART” ............................................................................................................................................98 -
Compensated Gestational Surrogacy in the United States: Baseline Guiding Principles for Proactive Policy
Compensated Gestational Surrogacy in the United States: Baseline Guiding Principles for Proactive Policy As the incidence of compensated gestational surrogacy in the United States increases, states are reconsidering their legal and policy approaches to the issue. Compensated gestational surrogacy implicates core human rights of multiple stakeholders, including persons acting as gestational surrogates, children born of such arrangements, and intended parents. In the United States, legislation authorizing and regulating compensated gestational surrogacy has the potential to ensure legal certainty and the respect, protection, and fulfilment of the human rights of all stakeholders. Such legislation also has the potential to recognize and address power dynamics in compensated gestational surrogacy arrangements that may be rooted in gender, economic, and structural inequalities. The Center for Reproductive Rights’ work on compensated gestational surrogacy in the U.S. is part of an effort to What is compensated gestational surrogacy? advance the full spectrum of reproductive rights rooted in the human rights framework. This document posits a set A practice that involves an intended parent(s) of considerations critical to ensuring that laws and policies contracting with a person to act as a gestational on compensated gestational surrogacy in the United States surrogate and attempt to become pregnant, carry to respect, protect, and fulfill the rights of all stakeholders term, and deliver a child(-ren) using an embryo(s) to a surrogacy arrangement. We urge lawmakers to take created via IVF and to receive payment beyond the following considerations into account when developing reimbursement for “reasonable” medical expenses. legislation authorizing compensated gestational surrogacy: The person who acts as a gestational surrogate neither contributes their own gametes to the creation of the Every person has the right to make decisions about embryo(s) with which they are implanted nor intends their reproductive life. -
Recognizing Child Abuse: What Parents Should Know
Prevent Child Abuse America 500 North Michigan Avenue Suite 200 Chicago, IL 60611.3703 312.663.3520 tel 312.939.8962 fax www.preventchildabuse.org Recognizing Child Abuse: What Parents Should Know The first step in helping abused children is learning to recognize the symptoms of child abuse. Although child abuse is divided into four types -- physical abuse, neglect, sexual abuse, and emotional maltreatment -- the types are more typically found in combination than alone. A physically abused child for example is often emotionally maltreated as well, and a sexually abused child may be also neglected. Any child at any age may experience any of the types of child abuse. Children over age five are more likely to be physically abused and to suffer moderate injury than are children under age five. 1. Recognizing Child Abuse 2. Signs of Physical Abuse 3. Signs of Neglect 4. Signs of Sexual Abuse 5. Signs of Emotional Maltreatment RECOGNIZING CHILD ABUSE Experienced educators likely have seen all forms of child abuse at one time or another. They are alert to signs like these that may signal the presence of child abuse. The Child: • Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance; • Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to the parents' attention; • Has learning problems that cannot be attributed to specific physical or psychological causes; • Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen; • Lacks adult supervision; • Is overly compliant, an overachiever, or too responsible; or • Comes to school early, stays late, and does not want to go home. -
Strategies for Parenting Children with Difficult Temperament
Strategies for Parenting Children with Difficult Temperament by Karen Stephens Children are born with an inborn temperament, a preferred style of relating to people and events. Temperament is indicated by behavior that clusters into three categories: easy, slow-to-warm up, and difficult. No category makes a child good or bad. They merely describe a child’s response patterns. Some children (approximately 10-20%) are born with “difficult temperament.” Traits include: high, often impulsive activity level; extra sensitive to sensory stimulation; overwhelmed by change in routines and new experiences; intense, inflexible reactions; easily distracted or incredibly focused; adapt slowly to change, not able to calm themselves well; irregular biological rhythms, such as hunger/sleep schedules; rapid, intense, mood swings resulting in acting out or withdrawing completely. Your discipline interactions can clue you into your child’s temperament. Parents struggling with difficult temperament say they continually remind and nag; name-call, yell, bribe, plead, make empty threats; give into power-struggles; feel as if their child “calls all the shots”or “rules the roost”; over-react; argue with co-parent over discipline; or give up trying to discipline at all. None of those characteristics make life easy, for kids or parents. But children with difficult temperament can learn to cope with their sensitivities. If they don’t learn, Your they can become confused, frustrated, and hopeless. In addition, they will most likely have to endure constant negative feedback which creates a vicious cycle of discouragement. discipline Children with difficult temperament do require extra time, guidance, and patience. But all children can be raised to be well-adjusted people with positive self esteem. -
Parenting Conduct Order
AOC-242 Doc. Code: PCO ALTH OF WE K N E N O T Case No. ____________________ Rev. 2-20 M U C M K O Y C lex et Page 1 of 2 justitia C Court ________________________ O E U C I R T T O F J U S Commonwealth of Kentucky County ______________________ Court of Justice www.kycourts.gov Division ______________________ FCRPP 2(5)(b), Appendix B PARENTING CONDUCT ORDER IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF: PETITIONER (Print name of Petitioner) and RESPONDENT (Print name of Respondent) Pursuant to FCRPP 2(5)(b), the Court (check one): q sua sponte, OR q on motion of q Petitioner q Respondent, HAVING FOUND that it is in the best interest of the child(ren), and absent any court order to the contrary, HEREBY ORDERS that the parent(s) or legal custodian(s) of the child(ren) SHALL NOT: (Check all that apply) 1. q Permit or encourage the child to refer to someone other than the child's actual parents as "father," "mother," "mom," or "dad." 2. q Change the child's surname without written permission from the child’s parent(s). 3. q Fail as soon as practical to notify the other parent or custodian of a medical or psychiatric emergency involving the child which requires professional treatment. 4. q Ask the child questions about events and activities at the other parent’s or custodian's home. 5. q Ask the child to keep secrets from a parent or custodian. 6. q Discuss litigation between parents or custodians and, in particular, shall not ask the child to choose with whom he/ she wants to live or spend more time with. -
Co-Parenting Communication Guide
Co-Parenting Communication Guide © 2011 by the Arizona Chapter of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts Co-Parenting Communication Guide © 2011 by the Arizona Chapter of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts This Co-Parenting Communication Guide was developed by the Arizona Chapter of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AzAFCC) for complimentary distribution for educational purposes. The guide is not to be redistributed, reproduced, renamed or reused without acknowledged authorship by the AzAFCC. The guide is not to be sold or otherwise used for commercial purposes. Communication Is Essential for Co-Parenting On a regular and ongoing basis, co-parents will need to exchange information about their child(ren). This guide provides tools, tips and good practices for co-parents to follow to communicate with one another. Use these two best practices as an overall guide for all your co-parenting communication. The #1 Best Practice: ACT To avoid problems, parents should provide parenting information to one another. The information should be Accurate Parents don’t always agree but.... Complete Parents may not always agree about which parent has the right to certain Timely information. If you’re in doubt, follow What if the Court restricts my contact with the other parent? The #2 Best Practice: Even if the Court has restricted the Golden Rule your contact with the other parent, you will still need to regularly Always provide the other exchange information about your parent information that child(ren). You’ll need to exchange you expect that parent to it in such a way that’s consistent give to you. -
Transracial Parenting in Foster Care and Adoption
Transracial Parenting in Foster Care & Adoption - Strengthening Your Bicultural Family This guidebook was created to help parents and children in transracial homes learn how to thrive in and celebrate their bicultural family; and for children to gain a strong sense of racial identity and cultural connections. 1 Transracial Parenting in Foster Care & Adoption - Strengthening Your Bicultural Family 2 Transracial Parenting in Foster Care & Adoption - Strengthening Your Bicultural Family Table of Contents: Page # INTRODUCTION 4 A TRANSRACIALLY-ADOPTED CHILD’S BILL OF RIGHTS 5 TRANSRACIAL PARENTING PLEDGE 6 WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A TRANSRACIAL FAMILY? 7 HOW FAR HAVE WE COME? THE HISTORY OF TRANSRACIAL FAMILIES 8 - 10 GENERAL PARENTING TASKS FOR TRANSRACIAL PARENTS 11 - 14 HOW TO CONNECT YOUR CHILD TO THEIR CULTURE - 15 - 16 AND HOW TO BECOME A BICULTURAL FAMILY THE VOICES OF ADULT TRANSRACIAL ADOPTEES 17 - 24 RACISM AND DISCRIMINATION – FOSTERING RACIAL COPING SKILLS 25 - 28 ANSWERING TOUGH QUESTIONS 28 - 29 SKIN CARE & HAIR CARE 30 - 32 RESOURCES 33 - 46 General Transracial Resources Online Help, Books, Videos, Toys & Dolls Organizations & Internet Resources Cultural Camps African American Resources Asian American Resources Native American Resources Hispanic Resources European American Resources Arab American Resources Language & Self-assessment tools 3 Transracial Parenting in Foster Care & Adoption - Strengthening Your Bicultural Family INTRODUCTION According to transracial adoption expert Joseph Crumbley, all foster children, whether in a transracial placement or not, worry “Will I be accepted in this home, even if I am from a different (biological) family?” Children in transracial homes also worry “Will I be accepted even if I’m from a different race?” This booklet will help you understand the importance of race and culture for your family; and share helpful hints, parenting tips and resources for you on the culturally rich journey of transracial parenting. -
Effects of the 2010 Civil Code on Trends in Joint Physical Custody in Catalonia
EFFECTS OF THE 2010 CIVIL CODE ON TRENDS IN JOINT PHYSICAL CUSTODY IN CATALONIA. A COMPARISON WITH THE Document downloaded from www.cairn-int.info - Universitat Autònoma de Barcelona 158.109.138.45 09/05/2017 14h03. © I.N.E.D REST OF SPAIN Montserrat Solsona, Jeroen Spijker I.N.E.D | « Population » 2016/2 Vol. 71 | pages 297 - 323 ISSN 0032-4663 ISBN 9782733210666 This document is a translation of: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Montserrat Solsona, Jeroen Spijker, « Influence du Code civil catalan (2010) sur les décisions de garde partagée. Comparaisons entre la Catalogne et le reste de Espagne », Population 2016/2 (Vol. 71), p. 297-323. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Available online at : -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- http://www.cairn-int.info/article-E_POPU_1602_0313--effects-of-the-2010-civil-code- on.htm -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- How to cite this article : -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Montserrat Solsona, Jeroen Spijker, « Influence du Code civil catalan (2010) sur les décisions de garde partagée. Comparaisons entre la Catalogne et le reste de Espagne », Population 2016/2 (Vol. 71), p. 297-323. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -
Surrogacy and the Maternal Bond
‘A Nine-Month Head-Start’: The Maternal Bond and Surrogacy Katharine Dow University of Cambridge, Cambridge, UK This article considers the significance of maternal bonding in people’s perceptions of the ethics of surrogacy. Based on ethnographic fieldwork in Scotland with people who do not have personal experience of surrogacy, it describes how they used this ‘natural’ concept to make claims about the ethics of surrogacy and compares these claims with their personal experiences of maternal bonding. Interviewees located the maternal bond in the pregnant woman’s body, which means that mothers have a ‘nine-month head-start’ in bonding with their children. While this valorises it, it also reproduces normative expectations about the nature and ethic of motherhood. While mothers are expected to feel compelled to nurture and care for their child, surrogate mothers are supposed to resist bonding with the children they carry. This article explores how interviewees drew on the polysemous nature of the maternal bond to make nuanced claims about motherhood, bonding and the ethics of surrogacy. Keywords: maternal bonding, surrogacy, nature, ethics, motherhood ‘A Nine-Month Head-Start’ One afternoon towards the end of my fieldwork in northeastern Scotland, I was sitting talking with Erin. I had spent quite some time with her and her family over the previous eighteen months and had got to know her well. Now, she had agreed to let me record an interview with her about her thoughts on surrogacy. While her daughter was at nursery school, we talked for a couple of hours – about surrogacy, but also about Erin’s personal experience of motherhood, which had come somewhat unexpectedly as she had been told that she was unlikely to conceive a child after sustaining serious abdominal injuries in a car accident as a teenager. -
Custody and Child Symptomatology in High Conflict Divorce: an Analysis of Latent Profiles Characterized by Hostility, Escalating Distress, and Detachment
Psicothema 2021, Vol. 33, No. 1, 95-102 ISSN 0214 - 9915 CODEN PSOTEG Copyright © 2021 Psicothema doi: 10.7334/psicothema2020.224 www.psicothema.com Custody and Child Symptomatology in High Confl ict Divorce: An Analysis of Latent Profi les Ana Martínez-Pampliega1, Marta Herrero1, Susana Cormenzana1, Susana Corral1, Mireia Sanz2, Laura Merino1, Leire Iriarte1, Iñigo Ochoa de Alda3, Leire Alcañiz1, and Irati Alvarez2 1 University of Deusto, 2 Begoñako Andra Mari Teacher Training University College (BAM), and 3 University of the Basque Country Abstract Resumen Background: There is much controversy about the impact of joint physical Custodia y Sintomatología de los Hijos en Divorcios Altamente custody on child symptomatology in the context of high interparental Confl ictivos: Análisis de Perfi les Latentes. Antecedentes: existe una confl ict. In this study we analyzed child symptomatology with person- gran controversia acerca del impacto de la custodia física compartida centered methodology, identifying differential profi les, considering post- en la sintomatología infantil en contexto de alto confl icto interparental. divorce custody, parental symptomatology, and coparenting variables. We El presente estudio analizó la sintomatología infantil a través de una examined the association between these profi les and child symptomatology, metodología centrada en la persona, identifi cando perfi les diferenciales as well as the mediating role of parenting in that association. Method: al considerar las variables custodia postdivorcio, sintomatología parental The participants were 303 divorced or separated Spanish parents with y coparentalidad. Se analizó la asociación entre estos perfi les y la high interparental confl ict. We used the study of latent profi les and the sintomatología infantil, así como el papel mediador de la parentalidad.