Characters for Identifying Common Families of Neuropterida and Mecoptera1 (also Strepsiptera, Siphonaptera)
STREPSIPTERA: Males: Protruding eyes. Antennae often with elongate processes. Forewing reduced to clublike structures; hind wing large and membranous with reduced venation. Females: Wingless. May have simple eyes, antennae, and mouthparts (free-living forms); or lack eyes, antennae, legs, and have a reduced head and thorax (parasitic forms).
NEUROPTERA: Costal area of front wing nearly always with numerous cross veins. Forewing and hind wing similar in size and shape, anal area of hind wing not folded at rest.
Coniopterygidae - Dusty-wings: Diagnostic characters: Minute insects (3 mm or less). Wings covered with a whitish powder and with relatively few veins. Larvae feed on small insects such as aphids and insect eggs.
Mantispidae - Mantisflies: Diagnostic characters: Front legs raptorial, arising from anterior end of prothorax. Mantispid larvae feed as "parasites" on spider eggs or in spider egg cases, while others are predators of bee and wasp larvae.
Hemerobiidae - Brown Lacewings: Diagnostic characters: Small and brownish. Forewings apparently with 2 or more radial sectors. Some costal cross veins forked. Brown lacewing larvae are predaceous, they often cover their bodies with debris or exuviae.
1 Photos UMSP, BugGuide.net, Sean McCann.