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ne night, way back in the Classics, I know. would be a huge time commitment. year 2 BC (before children), Eventually, all eyes turned to me. I didn’t want to burden anyone else O I found myself in the middle The mob expected one more juicy with the care of our children. Newbie DaD of an ugly scene in a graduate school story from a disgruntled son-in-law. As I wrestled with the situation, Brian KanTz class. What started out as an innocu- Instead, I simply shrugged my shoul- a friend of the family — a very wise ous discussion about parental influ- ders and said, “I like my mother-in- woman and a grandmother herself ence on education quickly turned law.” Of course, I wasn’t telling the — knocked some sense into my into a mother-in-law bashing session. class the whole truth. I didn’t want head, saying, “Did you ever consider One by one, venom-spitting stu- to rub their faces in it. What I should that your mother-in-law might actu- dents told their worst mother-in- have said was, “I love my mother- ally want to watch the kids? That she law stories. A guy claimed his in-law.” might consider it a gift, not a burden? mother-in-law tried You see, the older I get, the more I Did you ever consider that she just to sabotage his realize how fortunate I am. And one might be waiting to be asked?” of the most fortunate aspects of my No, I hadn’t really considered life: I have a wonderful mother-in- that. law. Really. But as soon as I did, my thoughts OK, OK, I know what you’re think- immediately went back to my own ing. What did I do wrong? What do I childhood to a time when my broth- want? A man must have some ulte- ers and I spent a few hours after rior motive for declaring his love for school each day at my grandmoth- his mother-in-law — yes, his mother- er’s house after my mom went back in-law — in print, right? Wrong. to work. There’s no doubt in my There’s no motive here other than it mind that the time I spent there was deserves to be said. the reason I always felt so close to My mother-in-law is the best. My my late grandmother. I still think of admiration for her has grown each her most days and plan to write a day since we met, and especially book about her some day. That kind since my wife and I became par- of bond is priceless. ents and my mother-in-law became a And guess what? My mother-in- grandmother. As mother, mother-in- law happily accepted our invitation. law and grandmother, she is always Of course she did. And I couldn’t there for us. Always. She’s the heart be happier about it. Our younger of the family. She proves this again son, who spends the most time with and again. Grandma while his older brother Here’s a quick example: recently, is at school, is quickly becoming I was offered — and accepted — an “Grandma’s boy.” You may have seen interim job position. This decision the couple around town on a lunch shook up our family’s routine — date. wedding. Even namely, we needed a new childcare My mother-in-law is truly one of worse, one young arrangement during weekdays. The the most selfless — and capable — woman countered, her decision also shook me up. After people I know. There is no better role mother-in-law had actually tried to nearly six years as a stay-at-home model for my two boys. There is no help her plan her wedding. The hor- dad, I was pretty accustomed to tak- better role model for me. ror. Classmates gasped. ing care of things myself during the It’s November and that means Luckily, a few of the less emotion- day. I rarely needed to ask for help. Thanksgiving. I’m one son-in-law ally scarred students lightened the Now, I did. And I found it very dif- who is thankful to have a wonder- conversation with a round of taste- ficult to give up control. Actually, I ful mother-in-law in my life. If you’re less mother-in-law jokes: found it excruciating. lucky enough to have a mother-in-law • “ I went to buy a car and the My wife brought up the idea. you love, too, let her know it. Donna, salesman asked if I needed an airbag. “Let’s ask my mom if she’ll take thank you for everything you do. I said, ‘No thanks, I already have a the kids in the afternoons,” she said. Brian Kantz says his father-in-law mother-in-law.’ ” Despite the fact that my mother-in- is pretty terrific, too. OK, now he’s rub- • “ H ow do you stop your mother- law has never missed an opportunity bing it in. Visit Brian online at www. in-law from drowning? Take your to babysit the boys, I hesitated to ask brian kantz.com or drop him a note at foot off her head.” for her help. This was different. This [email protected].
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 3 HealtHy eating The healthy side of Thanksgiving
he traditional Thanksgiv- the cook, homemade gravy can ei- good health. Good sense ing meal is considered laden ther be fatty or lean. But cooks who Pie: Even dessert, such as pump- eatinG T with fatty foods and excess “cheat” by using jarred or canned kin or apple pie can provide nutri- calories. Is there anyway to enjoy gravy are actually doing you a favor ents. Pumpkin provides beta caro- Christine M. PaluMbo, rD this time-honored dinner and still eat since it’s virtually fat free. tene, while apple contains quercetin, healthfully? Well, if you think about Dressing: Make this healthier by both powerful antioxidants. To mini- it, individual components of the meal sneaking in extra veggies such as mize calories, eat just the filling and score pretty high in nutrition and can chopped onions, celery, leeks, and skip the crust. actually be low in calo- shallots. Instead of sweating them • • • ries. It’s just knowing in butter, use broth. Include whole In general, nothing should be off how to prepare wheat bread for at least half of the limits. As you know, it’s all about por- these foods. bread cubes. tion size. Encourage children to sam- sweet potatoes: These tubers are ple whatever appeals to them and loaded with beta-carotene, potas- talk about how yummy the healthier sium, fiber and vitamin C and also foods are. provide magnesium, phosphorus, And keep them involved in the choline, iron and calcium for just 90 day, too. calories per half cup. Try scraping “Have them draw what they are off the marshmallows and butter if thankful for and incorporate the pic- they’re served that way. tures into your table centerpiece,” Cranberries: These gorgeous red says Diane Sowa, MS, RD, Assistant orbs contain anthocyanins, ellagic Director, Clinical Nutrition at Rush acid, quercetin, resveratrol, sele- University Medical Center in Chi- nium and vitamins A, C and E. cago, and mother of two college- Green beans: Prepared without aged sons. “Create a family heirloom soup mix or butter, they’re a good by having an empty album on hand turkey: White meat source of vitamin C at a calorie cost for their works of art and pictures sans skin provides more protein per of just 22 per half cup. from the day. After dinner, share calorie than almost any other meat. brussels sprouts: These little memories by watching family mov- A three ounce serving — about the cabbages are high in vitamin C and ies and looking at photo albums.” size of a deck of cards — provides are a good source of folate and beta Children can also make place- just 120 calories and 26 grams of pro- carotene, as well as a myriad of phy- mats, napkin rings or place cards for tein. Think dark meat is verboten? tochemicals. the dinner table. Think again. A three ounce serving Mixed nuts: Nuts contain protein, Sowa also suggests making of thigh meat provides just 135 calo- healthy fat and plenty of antioxi- Thanksgiving an active day, and ries. Either type is a source of iron, dants, so crack away when the nut encourages a family touch football zinc, potassium, phosphorus and B bowl gets passed. For example, wal- game before dinner, followed by a vitamins. nuts are a particularly high source light walk after the meal. Gravy: Depending on the skill of of melatonin, a compound linked to “Get the kids involved by making some homemade ‘hand turkey’ invi- for 10 minutes or until excess liquid tations with details about signing up Cranberry Pear tarts has cooked off. Let cool, then spoon for a Turkey Trot.” With a little advance planning Makes 30 tiny desserts. 2 (2.1-oz.) boxes mini phyllo shells, mixture into phyllo cups. top with and tweaks in the usual schedule, Prep time: 10 min. Cook time: 15 min. thawed walnuts, then lightly grate orange Thanksgiving can be a day of health- 1/4 cup chopped walnuts zest over the top. INGREDIENTS ful eating and activity to burn it off. 1/2 cup fresh cranberries Finely grated orange zest NUTRITION FACTS: 110 calories, 21 Christine M. Palumbo, RD is a Na- 1/4 cup honey INSTRUCTIONS: Place cranberries, grams carbohydrate, 2 grams protein, perville, Illinois-based nutrition speaker 1/4 teaspoon allspice honey, allspice and cinnamon in 2.5 grams fat, 0 saturated fat and cho- and a mother of three. Her favorite part 1/8 teaspoon cinnamon a small saucepan. Bring to a boil; lesterol, 60 milligrams sodium, 2 gram of the Thanksgiving meal is, well, all 2 ripe pears, peeled, cored and reduce heat and simmer for five fiber and 12 grams sugar (per 3 tarts). of it. Send your questions and column chopped minutes. stir in pears and simmer Recipe courtesy of Patty Mastracco of I Do Food ideas to her at (630) 369-8495 or Chris@ ChristinePalumbo.com.
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 5 PARENTING Youth in revolt! Realizing when BY RISA C. DOHERTY rom the time your child is children are F babies they seeking her are trying to break free. As soon as toddlers independence can stand and take their first wobbly steps, they start to run. Invariably, they run away, racing out into the world, arms outstretched — not to brace for the in- evitable fall, but to grab the world in their hands.
Kids are like that: craving independence, every step of the way. As parents, our job is to protect, guide and — eventually — let go, which can be challeng- ing be- cause there are times when we enjoy taking part in the activity. The day came suddenly when my toddler, Melissa, was no longer content to be fed with a spoon. I knew I was way more adept at depositing the food into her mouth, but she flailed her arms and pushed me away, blocking all my attempts to feed her. I acquiesced, and relinquished the fork to her The author’s daughter, Melissa, back when she was trying unsteady hand. I watched her to exert her independence by feeding herself. feeble attempts as the orange mush landed on her right cheek, bizarre and sudden requests on the the super- then her left, and, finally, in her hair. spot, like, “What is wrong with a market with his I had to let her try — not only did coed sleepover? We are all friends.” friends, unchaperoned. I couldn’t she give me no choice, stubborn as Or this doozie: “Mind if I go to a mid- understand the lore of the produce she has always been, but I knew that night show on Houston Street?” and frozen food aisles to a bunch I couldn’t feed her forever. I used to be challenged by seem- of pre-pubescent males, but, to a Letting go is also hard because ingly simpler queries, such as my great extent, this tween was asking we need to analyze some pretty 11-year-old son’s request to go to for his freedom. He was asking me
6 QUEENS Family • November 2010 to trust him, and not just asking “intel.” Knowing full well that my to “hang” with his friends. It was children will be telling me that I up to me to determine whether or am the last parent holdout to re- not these boys would be safe in a serve my approval of their group public supermarket, and whether plans, I try to foresee their upcom- they would become a nuisance to ing requests and I confer secretly the other shoppers. with my peers. I’ll inquire of par- I don’t appreciate it when my ents who have traditionally shown children present me with a new themselves to be like-minded in challenging request, expecting an their standards and values. instantaneous answer. Sometimes By seventh grade, Melissa asked I feel like I’m in the hot seat, as to be allowed to be dropped off at a teen hastily presses me for ap- the mall with her friends. They proval of the newly revealed eve- wanted to shop together with- ning agenda, one foot out the door, out any adult in tow. I needed telling me that someone’s mother to be weaned from the protec- is already waiting outside. tive mother mode slowly, so at “Teens need to learn to wait first, a parent was nearby, check- for results, just like adults do,” ing in every half hour or so. As says Lori Hiller, the girls got older a school so- and proved to be cial worker in Children need to more re- Brooklyn. She sponsible, suggests par- subconsciously and since ents tell teens they had that failure to push the cellphones, a ask for per- mother was in mission early envelope the mall and on enough might both to see call for a crisis, result in denial but was not sta- of their request. how far tioned within view- After all, she ing distance. Then, says, in making they can sometime near the these tough de- end of eighth grade, cisions, parents go and to I finally gave in and walk a tight- see you actually dropped rope between the girls off at the too strict and put up a mall, sans chaper- too lenient. one. “Safety” is boundary for them. I believe a par- usually my first ent’s instinct is line of defense. often accurate. If a When my then-fourth grader stub- child’s proposed plans seem inap- bornly insisted that she was old propriate or make a parent feel enough to walk the four blocks particularly uncomfortable, then home from school by herself, I the plans probably require more finally gave in and permitted it, analysis and discussion. shadowing her with my SUV. She Whenever my children were trod down the street, chest puffed prohibited from going where they out, blatantly proud of her new- wanted, exactly when they wanted, found independence. That is, until I was labeled as “the strictest, an unidentified white car pulled most overprotective mom” in the up just ahead of her. I lowered my neighborhood. My guess is there window, and in my most authorita- were plenty of other parents hear- through tive tone, yelled “Melissa, get in ing those same exact words. November 26 JaNuary 2 this car this minute!” That put an Independence is a process, but Box Office Now Open end to the “walking home alone” it takes baby steps and basic goals discussion for quite a while. at each stage along the way, with Tickets Start at Just $20. But children need to subcon- the ultimate goal being an inde- Ask about our VIP Sweet Seats. sciously push the envelope both pendent adulthood. to see how far they can go and Risa C. Doherty is a freelance writer to see you put up a boundary for and attorney from East Hills, NY, and nycballet.com CenterCharge 212-721-6500 them, so that they feel safe, says mother of an independent college David H. Koch Theater at Lincoln Center 63rd Street & Columbus Ave.
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 7 HealtH Kids, substance Family HealtH abuse & the media Ivan Hand, Md, FaaP director of neonatology, lthough parents, schools Queens Hospital Center and the federal government A are telling children and teen- agers to “just say no” to drugs, bil- lions of dollars in cigarette, alcohol and prescription drug advertising are effectively working to get them to “just say yes.” The result? Young people are receiving mixed messages about smoking, drinking and drug use, and movies and television contribute sig- nificantly to the risk that they will engage in substance abuse. Although illegal drugs take their toll on American society, two legal drugs — tobacco and alcohol — pose perhaps the greatest danger to children and teenagers. Both serve as significant gateway drugs and are among the earliest drugs used by children or teenagers. A preadoles- cent or adolescent who smokes to- bacco or drinks alcohol is 65 times more likely to use marijuana than key factors that prompt teenagers to and especially encourage removal of someone who abstains. smoke. According to a new analysis, it TVs from children’s bedrooms. Re- Every year more than 400,000 may account for nearly half of smok- search has revealed that having a TV Americans die from illnesses directly ing initiation in young teenagers. In in the bedroom is associated with related to cigarette use — more than fact, exposure to movie smoking may greater substance use and sexual from AIDS, car crashes, murder even be more significant than par- activity in teenagers. and suicide, combined. More than ents’ smoking status as being the key 2. Limit access by children and 100,000 annual deaths can be attrib- factor of teenagers lighting up. young adolescents to television ven- uted to excessive alcohol consump- ues with excessive substance use tion, including the death of 5,000 alcohol depictions. people younger than 21 years. Alcohol remains the number one 3. Limit younger children’s expo- Advertising plays a strong role in drug portrayed on American televi- sure to PG-13 movies and avoid R- the influence on children and ado- sion — one drinking scene is shown rated movies. lescents. And it works, otherwise, every 22 minutes, compared with 4. Parents should co-view movies companies would not spend billions one smoking scene every 57 minutes and TV shows with their children of dollars on it. Many ads use celeb- and one illicit drug use scene every and teenagers and discuss the con- rity endorsers, humor, rock music, 112 minutes. On MTV, teenagers can tent being viewed. or attractive models, all of which see alcohol use every 14 minutes. An 5. Parents should turn off the TV have been shown to be effective with analysis revealed that drugs were during evening meals. children and teenagers. Advertising present in nearly half of 359 music The so-called war on drugs has makes smoking and drinking seem videos — alcohol in 35 percent, to- been waged for decades, yet teen- like normative activities and may bacco in 10 percent, and illicit drugs agers continue to use, and abuse, a function as a “superpeer” in subtly in 13 percent. On prime time televi- variety of substances, especially to- pressuring teenagers to experiment. sion, 70 percent of programs depict bacco and alcohol. The contribution alcohol use, and more than one-third of the media to adolescent substance Cigarettes of the drinking scenes are humor- use is only recently becoming fully Scenes with smoking remain com- ous, while negative consequences recognized and appreciated. mon in movies and, to a lesser ex- are shown in only 23 percent. Source: “Children, Adolescents, Substance Abuse, and • • • tent, on prime-time television. Recent the Media,” Victor C. Stras burger, MD and “The Council studies have shown that exposure to What you can do for your child: on Com munications and Media,” PEDIATRICS Vol. 126 TV and movie smoking is one of the 1. Limit unsupervised media use No. 4 October 2010, pp. 791-799.
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 9 Education Speak up! Teaching presentation skills now can give kids the edge they need
By Monica Brown
ver the summer, my 16-year-old niece interviewed for a job. Afterward, she O decided to call to thank the interviewer, but was absolutely panic-stricken at the thought of what to say, and how to say it. When I asked her mother why Katie, who is extremely bright, was so tongue-tied, she replied, “All she does is text. She doesn’t know how to talk anymore.” It’s no secret that today’s teens and tweens are the “text generation.” They pride them- selves on how quickly they can type and send a text. But how will they fare in job interviews as they get older? Teaching your texting kids presentation skills now can give them the edge they’ll need in the business world later. Make no mistake: this technologically ad- vanced generation has unique challenges to face. How do you compete in the business world when all your interaction takes place through symbols and abbreviations on a screen? When you text, tweet and e-mail all day, how can you possibly feel comfortable when it’s time to give a presentation, explain a coherent thought to your boss, or ace a job interview? Communications experts say kids who learn how to present themselves professionally may not only have a competitive edge over their peers, but may also start to experience in- creased levels of confidence and self-esteem. With just a little coaching — and a whole lot of fun — even very young children can be taught eloquence and articulation, and that’s a very powerful weapon in the competitive world beyond the classroom.
10 QUEENS Family • November 2010 How to help needs in a “professional” man- Here are some of the ways ner. It’s also something the child you can practice with your child, can master somewhat easily — it teaching her to feel more comfort- becomes a milestone accomplish- able when she has to spend a mo- ment for her and continues to ment in the spotlight: build confidence. • A sk your child to act like her • Te a c h your child to approach favorite TV or movie character adults she knows — for example, for a few minutes. Have her re- her teacher or principal — and cite some lines from this show or say, “good morning.” By practic- movie, and ask her to do it several ing a friendly greeting that’s more times. The child may be able to than just a wave and a “hi,” kids imitate several different charac- will start to develop a habit of ters, or even perform dialogue engaging others in “professional” with friends or siblings (this is a communication. great way to get all your children • H av e your child talk about a into the act, and teach them all at photo of a birthday party, fam- the same time!) ily vacation or • V i d e o t a p e school activity — this. Watch This technologically something that carefully for she remembers certain repeti- advanced generation vividly. Have her tious manner- write down the isms that seem has unique challenges details on a note like nervous card, using key habits, or just to face. How do ideas instead of absent-minded you compete in the full sentences, Over fidgeting — and then ask her 20 Years things like cer- business world when to present the Experience! tain hand mo- “photo talk” to tions, or con- all your interaction you and other stantly saying, members of the “you know.” takes place through family. This is • Coach the symbols on a screen? another fun way child to move for her to prac- around com- tice articulating fortably when her thoughts and speaking, so she doesn’t appear ideas without memorizing every Consultation stiff. word. FREE & A Gift • Te a c h her to make eye contact • • • with different people in the room Let’s face it: Technology con- Affordable Payment Plans (perhaps other family members tinues to evolve everyday, and it Colorful & Clear Braces can help). has made our lives easier, more • H av e her practice projecting fun, more connected and stream- Braceless Orthodontics her voice with strength and au- lined. But our children face an up- thority. hill battle in the corporate world We Treat Latex Allergic Some of the techniques listed if they can’t conduct themselves & Nickel Sensitive Patients above may indeed work best when properly during a face-to-face job preparing the child for a specific interview. If they can’t present Incredible Hi-Tech Office presentation, such as a school their thoughts and ideas verbally, project. But there are other ways how can they expect to convince Friendly & Caring Staff to continue to develop speaking a hiring manager that they are the skills while going through your best, most qualified applicant for Sunday Appointments Available busy day: the job? Digital X-Rays • Wa tc h the news or sports with Helping them improve their your child, pointing out the man- communication skills is some- nerisms of the anchors and re- thing that should start now. Who porters. They appear authorita- knows, by breaking up all the tive, and sometimes friendly. Re- texting with some real conversa- porters and anchors are taught tion, you might even become their to deliver the news as if they are new “BFF.” telling a story to a friend, which Monica Brown is a cable televi is why television news writing sion anchor and a mother of two, seems conversational. who is currently launching a public • Te a c h introverted children to speaking program for children, teens order their own meals at a restau- and adults. rant. This is a fun and simple way For more information, and more (Free & Easy Parking) to teach a child to find her own tips, she can be reached at monica voice, and to articulate her exact [email protected]. Members Of The American Association Of Orthodontists
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 13 Special needS
The apps making learning easier for kids with special needs, like the developer’s daughter, Mary (above). New way to learn By Allison Plitt has disabilities resulting from a brain Ellis was amazed by the global re- A mother infection. In Aug. 2009 Mary, who is sponse she received when she first s the world becomes increas- deaf and can barely communicate marketed her product on the online creates iPod ingly dependent on technol- through speech and sign language, store. A ogy for day-to-day living, it started using the iPod apps, which “There’s people actually all over is only logical that educators and aid her verbal communication skills, the world who are buying Develop- apps to help parents are using computers and giving her a sense of achievement, Ease’s apps. I can’t see who has handheld devices to teach children. self-confidence and independence. bought them, but I can see … some- Enter a mother who aims to use “Mary doesn’t need a lot of assis- body just bought my app in Israel her daughter technology specifically to help teach tance to interact with the apps,” says or in England or in Japan. I’ve even children with special needs. Ellis. “If you get into an app and you seen someone in Australia purchase learn Last year Margaret Ellis, a mother make a mistake, it’s really safe. The one.” of two who lives in Blacksburg, Va. usability is really good because you Although DevelopEase software started her own company and cre- can always press the home screen is geared toward special needs chil- ated four different types of Apple and go back and start over. She has dren, any child can use it. At Mary’s iTunes applications, which include a lot of success with it. Whereas, elementary school, the software has interactive books and a communica- if you’ve experienced a game on a proven useful, since children with tion program that translates words desktop, it’s like you have to arrow special needs are in classrooms with into different languages, including out and arrow out and arrow out children who don’t have disabilities. sign language. and you get in somewhere that you In the fall of 2009, her school, Kips The company, called Develop- didn’t mean to go and it’s likely that Elementary School in Blacksburg, Ease, is focused on using technol- she would enter into the wrong zone was the first school to use iPods with ogy to help children with disabilities and then give up.” DevelopEase apps. overcome the challenges of learning. Anyone who owns an iPhone, iPad With both a B.S. in Mathematics Ellis has firsthand knowledge about or iPod touch can use DevelopEase’s Education and an M.S. in Computer the usefulness of the applications software, which can be purchased Science from Virginia Tech, Ellis has from raising her daughter, Mary, who through Apple’s App Store or iTunes. the technological expertise to de-
14 QUEENS Family • November 2010 velop the apps. Apps that aid verbal She also taught Clearview School computer science communication skills in high school, an and give a sense of Building Brighter Futures For Preschoolers experience that achievement, self- Classes in English, Spanish, and Chinese has allowed her to creatively design confidence and Full Day/Half Day Ages 2 1/2 to 5 Funded by Dept. of Education software pro- Early Childhood Classes All Evaluations And independence. Services Are At No grams that teach 3 Or 5 Days Universal Pre-K Class students with a Cost To Families wide range of case manage- s #ERTIlED STAFF OF NURTURING TEACHERS s )NTEGRATED CLASSES WHERE CHILDREN WILL HAVE THE ADVANTAGE OF INTERACTING WITH aptitudes. ment websites PEERS WHO ARE AT AGE LEVEL AS WELL AS CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS “My con- where school s #LASSROOMS WITH DEVELOPMENTALLY APPROPRIATE LEARNING MATERIALS AND COMPUTERS cept is tech- professionals, s !RTS AND MUSIC nology for dif- doctors, families s /UTDOOR PLAYGROUNDS ferentiation. and other care- People say givers can access 7E OFFER THE FOLLOWING EVALUATIONS AND SERVICES FOR ELIGIBLE CHILDREN now more ‘UDL’ (universal information about s 3PECIAL %DUCATION s 0LAY 4HERAPY s 0HYSICAL 4HERAPY design learning) and that’s saying a child’s develop- s /CCUPATIONAL 4HERAPY s 3PEECH,ANGUAGE 4HERAPY s -USIC 4HERAPY we should have a classroom that mental growth. To ensure that the s 0ARENT 4RAINING AND 3UPPORT s 4RANSPORTATION truly represents our community,” information on the website is kept Outstanding Early Childhood Program Award Recipient she explained. “We should use ap- confidential, the company pro- ( ( proaches that reach all different vides a password to all its users. NYL CLEARVIEW SCHOOL NYL CLEARVIEW children. There are three demo- DevelopEase can also update infor- 124-06 14th Ave., SCHOOL ANNEX graphics within those classrooms mation on the website or train the College Point 123-07 22nd Ave., College Point that we can especially reach with customer to post news to the site. technology — which are children Ellis observed that the portable Phone 718-352-0104 with special needs, children who devices seldom break in the hands Fax 718-352-0131 speak English as a second lan- of the students. One of her long- Ask for Brenda Cruz guage and children who are gifted term goals is to make iPod training — because they are going to stand more accessible to communities so out as needing some extra ser- more people are aware of its useful- vices.” ness in teaching special needs chil- Not only does DevelopEase cre- dren. Currently, she lacks the fund- ate the applications, but the com- ing to financially back her vision. pany also visits the classrooms She hopes, however, that schools CreatiNg real OppOrtuNities FOr learNiNg and assists teachers with install- will be able to receive grants and At The Shield Institute we have special expertise supporting children with autism spectrum ing their software on iPods and partner with her to support her disorders and their families. We offer special education, diagnostic and clinical services in our two preschool programs in Queens and in the Bronx. Additionally we provide family implementing them into students’ research activity. workshops to our parents with children with ASD and to others parents in our surrounding curriculums. As for the future, Ellis sees the communities. The Shield Institute is affiliated with the Jewish Board of Family and Children’s “We go to the school and tell possibility of her business ex- Services and is a member of the United Way. them how we can help them,” ex- panding nationally. If more people Free Parent Workshops plains Ellis. “Then we help the contact DevelopEase for business (Spanish translation is available for all workshops) teachers set-up their accounts and proposals, she envisions herself November and December Workshops the iPods. Then they’ll manage traveling more often to implement November 9th and November 30th them and it’s a school account.” software, provide workshops to Helping Parents and Caregivers Manage Difficult Behaviors To teach educators and families customers and create more cus- for Children with ASD Location: 144-61 Roosevelt Ave. Flushing, NY 11354 how to use Apple’s different hand- tomized applications for specific Time: 9:45am to 12:00pm held devices, DevelopEase offers client needs. December 17th workshops that explain equipment Describing the teaching poten- Speech and Language Issues and Services for Children and custom software installation. tial of iPods, Ellis believes these with ASD/Autism. “The bulk of DevelopEase’s work portable devices will profoundly Location: 144-61 Roosevelt Ave. Flushing, NY 11354 is really providing workshops and change the way children learn. Time: 9:45am to 12:00pm training for schools,” Ellis says. “A “For a long time, programmers January and February Workshops lot of school systems have pur- like myself, we would work on soft- January 7th Using Visual Communication with Children with ASD chased iPods or they know that ware programs, but it’s not like you Location: 144-61 Roosevelt Ave. Flushing, NY 11354 they’re useful, but then the reality could walk down the street and Time 9:30 to 12:30 of the classroom teacher, of the have it make a difference to a fam- February 9th special teacher or of the technol- ily. Now you know it can. It’s a real Turning 5: Transitioning From Preschool into School Age Programs ogy resource teacher, is that it’s a revolution in computing.” Location: 144-61 Roosevelt Ave. Flushing, NY 11354 Time: 9:45am lot of work to get them set-up for a Margaret Ellis can be contacted by to 12:00pm whole class of students to use. We e-mail at [email protected] If you are interested in attending any of these workshops free of charge please contact essentially serve as a consultant to or by phone at (540) 552-2232. For Laura Villa at 718-939-8700 x1167 (Laura is bilingual Spanish) the schools.” more about DevelopEase, visit www. These workshops are made possible by a grant provided by the New York City Council, Department of Health and Mental Hygiene DevelopEase also designs developease.com.
November 2010 • QUEENS Family 15 SPECIAL NEEDS Special holidays BY JULIA GARSTECKI explain what they can expect to see. lack of rules will keep your child How families Answer any questions and offer any feeling insecure, choose games with is the season of holly jolly support websites if people ask. specific instructions that everybody with special parties and extended fam- Be sure to clear gifts ahead of time will enjoy. Kids won’t know what they ’Tily visits. — gifts that may be inappropriate are couldn’t or didn’t get to do unless you Calm? Not a chance! For families clear to you, but may not be to the make it a point to tell them. Maybe a needs can that have children with a disability aunt who has never met your child. favorite cousin or grandpa can think — however mild or severe — there of something special to do with your is more planning that goes into a fun, Schedule child, like a trip to a favorite restau- have stress- peaceful holiday season. Unfamil- If there are medications that need rant or store. One-on-one time might iar cousins, culturally diverse foods, to be given on schedule, make it clear be just what your child needs. free holidays and adapting to time zones can be to the host ahead of time so she can a challenge. The following tips just be prepared. Know Food might help. what routines work If your child has a severe food al- for your child — lergy (such as nuts), make it clear and stick to them as there will be no chestnut roasting. It much as possible. needs to be clear to the host prior to If your child is accepting the invitation, especially overactive, make if the smell of certain foods can set sure there are off a severe reaction. It is necessary places you can to have this conversation — prior to take her to to burn driving 12 hours for a visit — so that off energy. If an everybody can agree on the menu. overtired child is Offering to bring snacks you know prone to becom- your child can eat is a great opportu- ing angry and eas- nity to be a hospitable guest — and ily agitated, stick is the safest bet for your child. to bedtimes and • • • routines as much Here are a few last minute tips that as possible. may help keep the holiday merry and Because fam- bright: ily at the gath- • Bring toys and videos you know ering may have are slam dunks. If your child gets different bed- anxious, familiar objects can bring times, consider comfort. keeping “quiet • Ease up on rules — if possible. It hours” that is vacation! benefit those • Don’t be afraid to say no if things who are late get stressful. With so many different nighters and families expecting to create the per- early birds. fect Christmas, you might have to Then, provide quiet be Scrooge. As hard as that may be, activities, such as coloring books, stick with the big picture. Educate crafts, or designated favorite videos • Finally, accept the help other You know how a change in routine only to be watched during these people may offer. One of the best or certain behaviors can act as trig- hours. gifts you can give and get is help. gers for your child. Inform relatives While it is easy to believe moms about your child’s disability before Plan for success know best, you might be pleasantly the trip. Consider the most impor- There are some activities in which surprised by your friends and fam- tant information you want to share, a child with a disability may not be ily. This means you may have to give including possible safety concerns able to participate. Always have an up control, hold your breath a little, and how the disability may affect the equally enticing option available. For and just see what happens. You just trip. It can be a low-key conversation example, if the disability is physical never know when a Christmas mira- with or without the child with the and some children are going sled- cle may present itself. disability present. ding, perhaps take a trip to an aquar- Julia is a freelance writer living in Also offer age-appropriate infor- ium or a movie, and recruit some western New York. Contact her at julia- mation to the other children, and family members to come along. If [email protected].
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Dr. Cohen is a board certified, neuro- the physical, emotional, communicative, NEUROTHERAPY feedback specialist and expert in the social and cognitive development in PROVEN NON-MEDICATION TREATMENT treatment of ADD/ADHD/LD/PDD and children. Being able to offer joy through Documented in Science/Medical Literature Safe, Painless • Time Limited • Effective Permanent Results Autistic Spectrum Disorders. EEG bio- the exploration of music, movement Dr. Cohen and Special Education Professionals Work Directly With Your feedback (neurotherapy), a proven non- and play provides children with an Child, Family, & Teachers as Part of a Comprehensive Individualized medication treatment, provides perma- opportunity to safely express their Program That Includes: nent results as well as eliminates many feelings in a creative way and develop Tutoring • Family Counseling • Neurotherapy behavior problems. Dr. Cohen and positive and meaningful relationships, Parenting Strategies • Individual Therapy • Educational Planning special education professionals work which enhances their childhood. In Caring for children and adults for over 30 years directly with you, your child, and teach- Motion offers groups and classes that Joan Dorfman Cohen Ph.D., aPrn, BC ers to provide an individualized pro- are facilitated by a Board-Certified Dance/Movement Psychotherapist and Neurotherapy • Psychotherapy • Brainmapping gram including neurotherapy, parenting 350 Northern Blvd., Suite 310, Great Neck (516) 482-3312 strategies, family counseling, individual Continued on page 19 November 2010 • QUEENS Family 17 special needs Understand ADHD
By Dr. Marie SurpriS play all of the symptoms or to the the family an individualized treat- Learn about same degree. ment plan. ou may have noticed that the disorder, your child’s grades are incon- Gender differences Treatment Y sistent, and after the usual Boys, particularly, have more of Effective treatment may require nightly conflict, his homework is the hyperactive, impulsive symp- medical, psychological and educa- and find only partially done. Everyone is frus- toms of ADHD. They may: inter- tional initiatives. It may involve a trated and you’re convinced he’s lazy rupt, frequently call out, act without team of professionals, such as your treatment and not meeting his full potential. thinking, be constantly on the go, be child’s teacher, a therapist, a physi- This scenario is common of a easily frustrated, be uncooperative, cian and possibly others. child with Attention Deficit not finish what they start, be dis- Hyperactivity Disor- organized, have some temper out- Medication der, one of the most bursts due to their unpredictable Some medications used to treat common childhood behavior, and at times, be quarrel- ADHD include: Strattera, Adderall, some. Ritalin, Dexedrine, Focalin — and the newest medication, which has just been FDA approved, Vyvanse. Many risks associated with medi- cations can be lessened by proper monitoring. It is important to dis- cuss the risks and benefits of your child taking medication with your Girls frequently have inat- doctor. It is equally important to tentive symptoms. Since they have discuss the risks of your child not fewer behavioral difficulties, they being treated. tend to be less recognized as a child with ADHD. Girls may: daydream Risks of untreated and appear not to listen, be more adHd forgetful, not meet their poten- If a child is not treated for ADHD, tial, forget homework, not follow he may have continued behavioral through with tasks in a timely difficulties, be rejected by peers, manner, and, at times, procrasti- have poor self-esteem, fail academi- nate or avoid tasks that require cally, and take dangerous risks. sustained mental effort. Teenagers may dropout of high school and have trouble furthering evaluation their education or attending col- Only medical lege. doctors can diag- There is also more risk of car nose and pre- accidents, teenage pregnancy and scribe med- criminal activity due to impulsive behavioral disorders, af- ication behaviors — and poor quality of life fecting the lives of nearly for your when risky behaviors involve drugs eight percent of school-age child. Cli- or alcohol. children and many adults. It nicians and • • • is not a result of poor parent- educators can help On a final note, it has been my ex- ing, divorce or other environ- you find a doctor to perience over the last 15 years that mental factors. do so. A comprehensive many children and adolescents who The disorder is constantly being evaluation must consider suffer and struggle with ADHD are studied and has been speculated to the child’s difficulties, prior history pleased and relieved to finally be be a form of illness of the nervous of treatment, medical history, aca- receiving the help that they needed system. demic history, family history, en- in order to reach their full potential Research shows that there is vironment and temperament. It is in every area of their lives. some genetic predisposition, as also important to note the child’s For more information, contact Dr. ADHD tends to run in families. strengths and how he deals with Marie Surpris, a child and adolescent The core symptoms of ADHD are his difficulties. Once the physician psychiatrist [148 Nichols Road in Nes- inattention, hyperactivity, and im- has completed the evaluation, he conset, NY, (631) 467-0867]. Or visit pulsivity, but not all children dis- is better prepared to discuss with www.drmariesurpris.com.
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Continued from page 17 special education and therapeutic New York State Licensed Creative Arts services to children ages 2.5-5 with Therapist. There are groups and classes special needs. Services are tailored to for all children which run throughout meet the unique needs of each child the entire year, including summers. within the context of a developmentally Mommy and Me, for newborns to 4 appropriate early childhood program. where children and grown-ups learn years old, and Creative Movement A warm and nurturing atmosphere sets and play together Classes for 3 to 5 years old are offered the stage for learning through play to all children. For special needs chil- activities, which are incorporated into dren, there are several classes, includ- the daily routine. The goal is provide For 8 months - 3 1/2 years ing: Movement/Play-Based Social enough support so each child can reach Groups for children 3 years and older, his or her full potential. Activities that as well as — Individual, Dyad (two help in the development of indepen- now registering children), Sibling, Parent(s) and Child dence and self-confidence are built into Sessions. Social groups are kept small to the curriculum. Each child’s expanding For Winter Programs accommodate the needs of each child. sense of self is supported beyond the A variety of gross motor play, move- walls of the school community through At our Bayside Location ment exploration, rhythmic interaction, neighborhood walks and field trips. social, sensory stimulation and relax- Parents and family members are in inte- ation activities are utilized to work on gral part of the process. Parent work- Join Us For Fun • Arts & Crafts “Just For Me” improving social interaction skills and shops are held monthly. Support groups • Music • Stories separation anxiety, and to increase self- provide space for parents and caregiv- • Creative Movement 2½ - 3½ • Playtime expression, focus, impulse control, body ers to meet and share their experiences • Narrow Age Spans Separation Program and self-awareness, eye contact, and and concerns. The school’s open door • Maximum 10 Children Per Class Partial Separation Classes self-esteem — just to name a few — all policy encourages active involvement, • 1 1/2 Hour Classes while having fun playing with friends. along with ongoing dialogue to ensure • Professional Staff Also Available Call and inquire about the trial. effective communication between school and home. Infant Classes (Mommy & Me) and ABC Enrichment Classes Also Available Life’s WORC For Information Call 1-800-404-2204 or 516-433-0003 516-741-9000 exts. 271 or 470 or Positive Beginnings Or Log Onto Our Website: www.justweetwo.com www.lifesworc.org Preschool Other Locations: Park Slope & Brooklyn Heights, Plainview & Manhasset, Greenwich & North Stamford, CT Life’s WORC is a not for profit agency 71-25 Main Street, Flushing that provides comprehensive services 718-261-0211 to people with developmental disabili- 72-52 Metropolitan Avenue, Middle ties. Life’s WORC manages 36 group Village homes and numerous community based 718-326-0055 programs throughout Nassau, Suffolk Evaluation Site: 72-60 Metropolitan and Queens Counties providing much Avenue, Middle Village needed services to over 1,500 individu- 718-894-8400 als and their families. Life’s WORC mis- We are preschools servicing typically Forest Hills West School sion is to provide services that facilitate developing and special education chil- an independent and productive life dren ages 3-5. Bilingual Spanish and 63-25 Dry Harbor Road, Middle Village, 718-639-9750 experience for individuals with devel- Hebrew classes are available. opmental disabilities and autism. Life’s The nurturing environment caters to WORC offers an array of supports that children with special needs and their include Medicaid service coordination, families to provide quality educational day habilitation, recreation to include programs tailored to enhance the child’s creative arts and music therapy, at developmental levels. NYS certified teachers home residential habilitation, school Evaluations, Special Ed classes, Art and therapists use a district clinical services as well as Education; Music, Occupational, residential services. Life’s WORC also Speech, Language and Physical team approach provides a Community Trust that can Therapies, are all accredited profes- to provide a nurturing be an effective estate planning tool for sional departments. Their commitment learning environment families with young or adult children is to provide a safe, caring and stimulat- with disabilities. ing environment, with respect for each You can learn more about Life’s WORC child’s culture, language, religion, and by visiting us on the web. You can learning style. • Early Childhood and Special Education Preschool also follow us daily on Facebook and The schools and evaluation site are cen- • Integrated Classes (Developmentally Appropriate Practice) Twitter. Please contact Life’s WORC trally located and convenient to mass Admissions Department should you be transit and major highways. • Ongoing Staff Development interested in any of the services or sup- • State Ed. Approved Evaluation Site (English/Spanish) ports Life’s WORC has to offer. The Shield Institute 144-61 Roosevelt Avenue • Universal Pre-K New York League for 718-939-8700 ext 1167 or www. • Winner of NYS Outstanding Early Childhood Award Early Learning’s Forest shield.org Hills West School The Shield Institute is a longtime leader A Member of the YAI Network in the field of autism and other devel- Amanda O’Brien Principal opmental disabilities. A non-sectarian 63-25 Dry Harbor Road agency established in 1921, it provides 718-639-9750 wide-ranging educational and sup- Licensed by NYC Department Of Health Bureau of Day Care NYL’s Forest Hills West School provides Continued on page 20 November 2010 • QUEENS Family 19 Special Needs
Specializing in Services for Directory Children and Adults With Continued from page 19 Handicapped Children (TEACCH), which Autism & Developmental Disabilities port services to children, adults and incorporates the best practices in order QUEENS AND LONG ISLAND LOCATIONS families of all backgrounds throughout to meet the need of each child. For fur- New York By working with families and ther information on The Shield Institute Music & Arts Therapy communities, the Institute helps enable and the TEACCH method please call or children and adults with developmen- visit our website. Weekend Recreation tal challenges to lead full, meaningful lives that include a chance to work YAI/NYL Clearview School 123-07 22nd Avenue, College Point Medicaid Service Coordination and contribute. The Shield seeks to transform the way communities and 16-50 Utopia Parkway, Whitestone societies understand, relate to and 718-352-0104 or [email protected] and Stepping Into Adulthood [email protected] (After School Program) For more information support citizens with developmental please call disabilities. By honoring diversity in YAI/NYL Clearview School offers early At Home Residential Habilitation values, heritages, abilities and interests, childhood classes in a safe and nurtur- (Services in Your Home) 516-741-9000 ing environment. In their preschool Ext. 470 or 271 the facility helps ensure that people Day Habilitation with disabilities enjoy the same rights classes, for children from age 2.6 to and opportunities as everyone else. By 4 years old, you have the flexibility of enrolling your child for 3 days or 5 days. Behavioral Intervention Services working cooperatively with organized labor, they operate fair and dignified They also have Universal Preschool workplaces that bring added value to Classes. Beautiful new classroom are Making Connections equipped with developmentally appro- (Socialization Program) its mission as a human-service agency. Staff is comprised of certified licensed priate learning materials and computers professionals and other expert staff to promote proper educational and offer quality educational, clinical and emotional development. Both schools family support services to more than have outdoor playgrounds. Their profes- By the Society for Human Resource Management 1,600 infants, children, adults and their sional staff is always available to work 1501 Franklin Avenue families throughout New York City. In with families and offer parent training Garden City, NY 11530 the year 2000, the agency embarked and support. They also offer evalua- Tel: (516) 741-9000 • Fax: (516) 741-5560 on a five-year plan to establish struc- tions and services for eligible children Visit us at www.lifesworc.org and follow us on tured teaching through The Education between the ages 2.6 to 5 years old at of Autistic and Communication no cost to the families. Family Speech Center Evaluation & Therapeutic Services For Children & Adults Niki Stagias-Coulianidis, M.A., CCC-SLP • Errika Nathenas-Dimitrakis, M.S., CCC-SLP SPEECH-LANGUAGE THERAPY • Articulation/Oral Motor Therapy • Myofunctional Therapy • Early Childhood Intervention (0 - 3 Yrs.) • School-Age Language Disabilities • Foreign Accent Improvement Program • Adult Language Disorders Office Visits By Appointment (718) 939-0306 25-32 168 Street, Flushing, NY 11358
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 21 Parties finely chopped tomato and onion and accompanying parents it’s not a zero percent fat yogurt. Fry quickly problem but he will want to bring on both sides and cut into strips. a PA system. Do they want • Smoked Salmon Pinwheels: But- a disco? Will older chil- ter two slices of bread, cut crusts off, dren want magic fill with cream cheese and smoked lessons? salmon. Roll up like a Swiss roll. • Read the con- Wrap in clingfilm and cut into rounds firmation letter when the children arrive. when you receive it. • Risotto Cakes: Take teaspoons You’d be amazed how You say it’s of cooked risotto rice, roll in slices of many people forget to tell mozzarella (rice on the inside), roll their entertainer they’ve in breadcrumbs. Shallow fry, deep changed the date or venue. fry, or bake in the oven. • Put away all the toys. • Diddy Bean Patties: Can of kid- Otherwise guests think it’s ney beans puréed, mix with chopped an Aladdin’s cave. spring onions, grated cheese, • Remove any break- chopped coriander and a dash of ables. chili sauce. Form into little cakes, • Have the games first so your birthday? fry or bake, serve with sour cream, they work off some energy. salsa or guacamole. Avoid games where lots of them merican parents are the big- I had to phone a mom and ask her. They’re a total waste of time and will be ‘out’ all at once. Put together gest spenders in North Amer- Now I always keep one invitation money. I have a new policy: one nice Sweet food ideas • Have lots of prizes for join- A ica when it comes to their back for myself and write the guests’ present for each child.” You’re probably not short of ideas ing in. Make sure the birthday children. It costs one third more to names on the back.” — Sarah, mom of four but just in case… child is a winner. a bash they’ll bring up a child in the United States — Jane, mom of three • Hot Fruit Kebabs: pineapple, ·• Two is too young for an enter- than in Europe. • How many guests?: “Don’t in- Party food kiwi and strawberries on skewers. tainer. But you could have music, remember Italian families spend more on vite too many children. Use your They say you can tell what chil- Whack under the grill and serve soft play equipment or a face painter. food and clothes but American par- child’s age as a rule of thumb; one dren have eaten by the way they be- with frozen yogurt or a yogurt dip- 3 year olds like a bit of dancing; just ents top the lot on luxuries like birth- other child at the first birthday, two have. You can get away with healthy ping sauce. jumping up and down. When they’re forever day parties and holidays. I don’t friends at the second, and so on. It fare at a party when they’re too little • Orange Flapjacks: Use your stan- 5 and 6 they want to invite the whole think this is because we’re indulgent. works well up until they’re about 10.” to argue but older children tend to dard recipe but add orange zest and class. They want more sophisti- It’s no coincidence that we also work — Chris, mom of two be harder to tempt with anything juice. cated entertainment. They’re used the longest hours. We have less free • Be allergy aware: “I once held unfried. Don’t make too much food, • The Cake: Avoid artificial pre- to sitting down and listening so they time to spend with our children so a party and ordered the optional sheer excitement means they don’t servatives and colorings by mak- can concentrate but if they’ve been we make the most of it. extra helium balloons. As she was actually eat much. ing your own cake. If the kitchen is locked up in school all day they’ll be A whole industry has sprung up to dropping her child off, almost as an Don’t put out the food until it’s not your natural stomping ground, desperate to let off steam. You’ve got cater for special times like birthdays, afterthought, this mom announced time for tea and keep sweet stuff here’s a simple recipe. Tray bakes to accommodate that. and there’s no shame in using it. her son was allergic to balloons. I hidden until they’ve eaten the meal, are easiest, there’s only one layer, or • Try to avoid mixing home and Whether you’re a fan of small home wasn’t sure how serious it was so I otherwise they fill up on sugar and you can make two and build a train school friends. If you have lots of gatherings or you’re thinking of rec- just left them at one end of the room go bonkers. or a castle or something if you’re friends outside school, have a reating Moulin Rouge in a marquee and tried to keep the child away. One mom told me that now that feeling fabulous. If the party is away separate family party for them. on Broadway — read our dos and It was going quite well until some her children are older, they have from home, bake it in a tin foil tray so • You don’t need chairs. don’ts of children’s parties and give bright spark started tying chocolate forced her to cave on her no-sweeties you can throw it away afterwards. Furniture is for grown ups, your child a birthday to remember. fingers onto the balloon strings and rule but she draws the line at Smart- children sit on the floor. If eating them as they bobbed about ies, Skittles and ice lollies. “Have you Entertainers you don’t have enough Party pitfalls the room. Then they were all at it. seen the stains they leave on cloth- Check with parents of classmates chairs you can always One of the headaches is trying to I spent the rest of the party on the ing? And that would be in their tum- who have a birthday around the have a picnic in the anticipate what could possibly go brink of hysteria. Ask about special mies!” If you want to be ultra-careful, same time. If there’s a clash with kitchen with a pizza de- wrong. These parents speak from diets or allergies on the invitation!’” buy naturally-colored sweets from another child’s party the playground livery and juice boxes, experience: — Jen, mom of three health food shops. A surprising num- politics can be ugly. not cups. • Give a child a sword and I’ll • Don’t go mad catering for the ber of children are vegetarian or • Book your entertainer 10 weeks • Decide ahead show you an assassin: “I had a pirate grown ups: “For Alexandra’s first aren’t allowed non-organic meat. It’s ahead. Some people leave it four to where you will put party for Josh. One child got hit over birthday I spent three days mak- worth keeping most things veggie six weeks but you might not be able bags and coats. the back of the head with a sword. ing yummy adult food and bought just to be on the safe side. to book the particular performer you Shoes on or off? I saw red pouring out and shouted, loads of booze and barbecue stuff. want. • Have a glass ‘What are you doing with the tomato On the day half the people I invited Main food ideas • 2-4 p.m. is a terrible time for a of wine with your ketchup?’ then realized it was blood. didn’t come with their other halves, • Pizza Muffins: English muffins party. It swallows up the day and girlfriends. Relax I spent the rest of the party at the weren’t drinking and those with kids split and topped with grilled tomato falls between two mealtimes. For and enjoy watching doctor’s office. The very nice par- only stayed for a few hours. First and cheese little children 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. or the children—they ent didn’t mind too much and actu- timer at the children’s party game—I • Salad Boats: Fill celery with 12-2 p.m. are best. Most of them have can be so funny. If ally apologized for ruining my son’s will know better this year!” cream cheese for the boat, place a been up since 6 and they’re too tired there are lots of birthday.” — Elle, mom of three — Janneke, mom of one carrot stick into the cream cheese by the afternoon. For older children adults, stay • What time did I say it would • Beware the party bag trap: “I for the mast, use half a cucumber a lunchtime slot or a 3:30 or 4 p.m. in another start?: “Not once but twice I have must have spent a fortune on Day- slice for the sail. start is best. room. forgotten what I put on the invitation glo pencils, crummy junk shop toys • Quesadillas: Sandwich together • Let the entertainer know what to and who I sent them to. Both times and penny sweets over the years. two tortillas with grated cheese, expect. If there are 50 children with
22 QUEENS Family • November 2010 finely chopped tomato and onion and accompanying parents it’s not a zero percent fat yogurt. Fry quickly problem but he will want to bring on both sides and cut into strips. a PA system. Do they want • Smoked Salmon Pinwheels: But- a disco? Will older chil- ter two slices of bread, cut crusts off, dren want magic fill with cream cheese and smoked lessons? salmon. Roll up like a Swiss roll. • Read the con- Wrap in clingfilm and cut into rounds firmation letter when the children arrive. when you receive it. • Risotto Cakes: Take teaspoons You’d be amazed how of cooked risotto rice, roll in slices of many people forget to tell mozzarella (rice on the inside), roll their entertainer they’ve in breadcrumbs. Shallow fry, deep changed the date or venue. fry, or bake in the oven. • Put away all the toys. • Diddy Bean Patties: Can of kid- Otherwise guests think it’s ney beans puréed, mix with chopped an Aladdin’s cave. spring onions, grated cheese, • Remove any break- chopped coriander and a dash of ables. chili sauce. Form into little cakes, • Have the games first so fry or bake, serve with sour cream, they work off some energy. salsa or guacamole. Avoid games where lots of them will be ‘out’ all at once. Sweet food ideas • Have lots of prizes for join- You’re probably not short of ideas ing in. Make sure the birthday but just in case… child is a winner. • Hot Fruit Kebabs: pineapple, ·• Two is too young for an enter- kiwi and strawberries on skewers. tainer. But you could have music, Whack under the grill and serve soft play equipment or a face painter. with frozen yogurt or a yogurt dip- 3 year olds like a bit of dancing; just ping sauce. jumping up and down. When they’re • Orange Flapjacks: Use your stan- 5 and 6 they want to invite the whole dard recipe but add orange zest and class. They want more sophisti- juice. cated entertainment. They’re used • The Cake: Avoid artificial pre- to sitting down and listening so they servatives and colorings by mak- can concentrate but if they’ve been ing your own cake. If the kitchen is locked up in school all day they’ll be not your natural stomping ground, desperate to let off steam. You’ve got here’s a simple recipe. Tray bakes to accommodate that. are easiest, there’s only one layer, or • Try to avoid mixing home and you can make two and build a train school friends. If you have lots of or a castle or something if you’re friends outside school, have a feeling fabulous. If the party is away separate family party for them. from home, bake it in a tin foil tray so • You don’t need chairs. you can throw it away afterwards. Furniture is for grown ups, children sit on the floor. If Entertainers you don’t have enough Check with parents of classmates chairs you can always who have a birthday around the have a picnic in the same time. If there’s a clash with kitchen with a pizza de- another child’s party the playground livery and juice boxes, politics can be ugly. not cups. • Book your entertainer 10 weeks • Decide ahead ahead. Some people leave it four to where you will put six weeks but you might not be able bags and coats. to book the particular performer you Shoes on or off? want. • Have a glass • 2-4 p.m. is a terrible time for a of wine with your party. It swallows up the day and girlfriends. Relax falls between two mealtimes. For and enjoy watching little children 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. or the children—they 12-2 p.m. are best. Most of them have can be so funny. If been up since 6 and they’re too tired there are lots of by the afternoon. For older children adults, stay a lunchtime slot or a 3:30 or 4 p.m. in another start is best. room. • Let the entertainer know what to expect. If there are 50 children with
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28 QUEENS Family • November 2010 TechnologyTechnology Websites that help save on holidays very family has to figure out sources. The great thing about this that were the must-have last year or a holiday spending strategy. website is that it includes taxes and the year before. Wireflytradeins.com E Negotiate a price limit on shipping so there are no surprises at tells you exactly how much you can GrowinG Up gifts, or max out credit cards to be checkout. get for old video games, cellphones sure everyone’s wish comes true? and other electronic paraphernalia. online Make creative homemade gifts, or get gift cards at a Carolyn Jabs give open-ended gift cards? Cover discount Make it your treat holiday costs with a year-end bonus Sites like Giftcardrescue.com offer Taking friends and family out for check, or put a little in a savings ac- discounts of up to 30 percent on gift holiday meals is expensive — unless count each month? Give modestly to cards other people didn’t want. Even you know about Restaurant.com, a family and generously to charity, or if you don’t want to re-gift these website that offers substantial dis- vice versa? cards, you can use them for your counts on restaurant cards. Find No matter how you answer these own shopping. The site also buys un- local eateries with a zip code search. wanted gift cards which might come Cards are discounted as much as 60 in handy after the holidays. percent, though you should read the fine print. Some restaurants have a Find a coupon minimum order. Some exclude spe- The number of websites offer- cific days or times, and most include ing coupons has exploded — and a gratuity of 18 percent. so has the number of ways to use them. Look for print-and-clip cou- consider rentals pons at Coupon.com and check Cou- Whether you are throwing a spe- poncabin.com for website discount cial party or attending one, you may codes. Try Cellfire.com to retrieve save if you rent instead of buying on-the-go coupons with your cell- what you need. Weartodaygoneto- phone. morrow.com rents designer dresses for a fraction of what they cost. Find local deals Partypop.com has a comprehensive Sign up at Groupon.com to get state-by-state directory of rental ser- regular e-mails about discounts vices — as well as anything else you available from businesses in your might need to make a party memo- community — everything from laser rable. tag to clothing stores, cupcakes to sushi. The catch is that deals are Keep a clear head only activated when a certain num- One last tip: don’t obsess about ber of people sign up, so you may getting rock bottom prices on every- want to share this site with friends. thing. With all the websites offering questions, one thing is certain — Groupons can also be given as gifts. last chance deals, that’s a sure way everyone is happy about making to make a crazy season even crazier. the holiday budget stretch a little Stay loyal Instead, remember that the spend- further. Knowing you got the most Many stores offer discounts to ing you do at the holidays is never out of every dollar is a little gift for people who register for a customer an end in itself. It’s simply one — of yourself in December — and in Janu- card. Shortcuts.com allows you to many — ways to celebrate a spe- ary when the bills come due. Here load coupons directly onto the card. cial time of year. Sing your favorite are nine websites that will help you Then, when you’re at the store, you songs. Share your favorite stories. spend less on making merry — plus don’t have to search frantically for Hug your favorite people. At this a bonus website that will help you the diaper coupon that you know time of year, the best things in life keep your budget intact. you had when you left the house. Dis- really can be free. counts appear as soon as you swipe Carolyn Jabs, MA, has been writing compare prices your card. about families and the Internet for over You know what you want to buy, 15 years. She is the mother of three but what should it cost? Put any Sell old to buy new computer-savvy kids. Other Growing Up product into Google.com/products If the latest tech gadget is the Online columns appear on her website and you’ll get a list of how much most important thing on your child’s www.growing-up-online.com. things cost at local, as well as online, list, consider selling tech gadgets @ Copyright, 2010, Carolyn Jabs. All rights reserved.
November 2010 • QUEENS Family 29 couples Dating and the single parent Romance is complicated — especially with kids at home
By Candi SparkS time during the week to go out and meet people. ating can be complicated Think about what it is — singles often need the you want out of life, and D help of friends, family, and, then go out and get it. perhaps, a professional to help sort They say that misery loves com- things out. Dating can be even pany — but no one really wants to more complicated when date or even befriend a miserable you or your potential person, so do the things that make dates have children. you happy. For just one mo- Here’s how single parents can ment, forget that keep their priorities straight while you’re a parent navigating the tricky world of and think about dating: yourself. This can be hard, Make time for especially for yourself a custo- The kids may keep you busy, but dial par- make sure to remember that you ent, since need some “me” so much time. time and en- “You have ergy goes into to remember raising kids. to make time If you are thinking for yourself; to be about getting back on the dating around other adults scene, it helps to use your free and to do adult things,” says Mario, a widower raising kids in Astoria. He says his schedule is so jam- packed sometimes that all he can do is meet his love interests for coffee and conversation, but says that most of the women he dates are understanding. “But I also let them know that I am ready for a serious relationship, if the right one comes along.” Good for Mario — he is meet- ing potential mates, knows what he wants and has a plan that doesn’t interfere with his parenting to make it happen.
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 31 Parenting Consider foster care adoption
By Rita SoRonen ported foster and adoptive parents. The adoptive parents may decide to Give a child We know that there are children maintain contact with the child’s ex- doption: More than half of who need families and that there are tended biological family, based on a safe and all Americans have been families who want to adopt. It is our what is best for the child, but that is a A touched by it and 30 percent job to bring the two together. choice of the adoptive family. have considered it as a way to create • Single individuals cannot adopt. loving home or expand their families. Misconceptions Unmarried individuals are legally Inter-country adoption and do- about adoption: able to adopt in all 50 states. Nearly mestic infant adoption are two typi- • I t is too expensive to adopt. In 30 percent of the children adopted cal ways for families to move from reality, foster care adoption is not from foster care last year were ad- consideration of adoption to action. expensive, typically averaging noth- opted by single parents. Yet for many, the notion of foster ing to $1,500, and financial support is Additionally, the Dave Thomas care adoption can feel too difficult available to families who adopt from Foundation for Adoption provides with many unknowns and continues foster care. Subsidies follow most of free resources to help families navi- to be burdened by negative myths the children in foster care until they gate the foster care adoption pro- and misconceptions. are 18 years old, many employers cess and assure that every child can When Dave Thomas, the iconic provide adoption benefits, federal have their birthright — a family of founder of Wendy’s, created the and state tax credits are available and their own. Dave Thomas Foundation for Adop- assistance for college expenses of tion in 1992, he insisted that we gen- older youth is increasingly available. true stories erate a laser-like focus on the most • Children in foster care are ju- “I dreamed and hoped for a special of children — children in the venile delinquents. Nothing could mommy and a daddy, and a good foster care system who are waiting be further from the truth. Children mommy and daddy, too.” for adoptive homes. As an adoptee, enter the foster care system through — Tyler, age 6 he understood the complexities of no fault of their own, and as a result “There are so many children the systems and, most important, of abuse, neglect and/or abandon- whose lives are broken when they the needs of children waiting to be ment. More than half of the children are born, so we looked into adop- adopted in the United States. waiting in foster care for adoptive tion. All of our girls have been the “These children are not someone homes are age 8 or older, and nearly biggest joys in our life. In a grander else’s responsibility,” he often said, 30 percent are age 12 or older. Unfor- way than we imagined possible. It is “they are our responsibility.” tunately, each year about 20 percent our greatest hope that they will grow During the past 18 years, the foun- of the children waiting to be adopted up knowing they are loved and have dation has successfully increased turn age 18 and leave the system opportunities.” — Ceclia B. both the awareness of this cause without families. These are the chil- “The plan was to get married and and the need for qualified, well-sup- dren who may fall back into the sys- have a family, but everything didn’t tem without the supports needed happen that way. We considered to grow and thrive. These children foster care adoption but we were deserve our best efforts to find them afraid, afraid of the process and how Facts at a glance the families we promised when they difficult it might be. After meeting • 463,000: Children are in US foster care as a result of abuse, neglect were permanently separated from a family who adopted four siblings, and/or abandonment their families of birth. we realized a large family is what • 114,000: Children in foster care waiting to be adopted • T he biological parents can try to we hoped for someday, too. Once • E i g h t : The average age of a child waiting got be adopted have the children returned. Once a we were certified to adopt, we re- • Fo u r and a half: The number of years a child waits to be adopted child has been made legally free for ceived a call about two sisters who • 30,000: Annually, the number of children who turn 18 and leave the adoption, birth parents cannot claim were at risk for being separated and foster care system without a family a child or petition for his or her return. needed a permanent home. We said, Foster care adoption is permanent. ‘There is a reason they have been
32 QUEENS Family • November 2010 together through everything and we guides potential adoptive parents cial issues and experiences of chil- vices to employer-based benefits. are going to keep them together.’ through 10 steps to adopt, including: dren in foster care. • • • They called us Mom and Dad from • Decide what type of adoption to • Begin the matching process with We remain committed to three the very first meeting. It was just the pursue: do some self-research and a child or sibling group of children, core beliefs: That every child de- confirmation that they were going understand adoption and your will- determine what age child you are serves to live in a safe, loving and to be our family. It was love at first ingness to accept, love and commit looking for and how flexible you permanent home; no child should sight for us. It was a miracle for them unconditionally and permanently to are in growing your family, learn as linger in foster care or leave the sys- to come and be a part of our lives.” a child. much as you can about the child tem at age 18 without a permanent — Charlie and Robin R. • Learn about the cost to adopt and background of the children with family; and every child is adoptable. “After adopting our 10-year-old and the resources available to assist whom you are matched. Most important, we believe that daughter from foster care, I remem- with the expenses, including adop- • Prepare for the child’s arrival: these children are not someone ber the first time I ever received a tion subsidies, tax credits and em- amend health insurance policies, ob- else’s responsibility. They are our gift as a mom. It was a locket that ployer benefits; adopting from foster tain original birth certificates, se- responsibility. said ‘Mom’ on it. When I opened care costs very little. cure new Social Security numbers, Rita Soronen is the executive direc- the card, it said, ‘I am so happy I • Investigate and select an adop- finalize school enrollment, negotiate tor of the Dave Thomas Foundation for finally have a forever mother.’ And tion agency: research public and adoption subsidies, make your home Adoption. The Foundation is a national she signed it, ‘Love, your daughter.’ private agencies to understand their child-friendly and support children nonprofit public charity dedicated to dra- It was the greatest thing that ever processes, policies and practices. already in the home. matically increasing the adoptions of the happened to me. We now have two • Wo r k with the adoption agency • Bring the child home: petition more than 150,000 children waiting in beautiful daughters and it is the best to complete an application and any the court to adopt, understand the North America’s foster care systems. Cre- thing that ever happened. I couldn’t required paperwork, attend meet- legal process and work with the ated by Wendy’s® founder Dave Thomas, ask for anything more.” — Sheri M. ings and orientation sessions, net- adoption agency. who was adopted, the foundation imple- work with other adoptive parents • Finalize the adoption in court: ments results-driven national signature Ten steps to adopt and ask questions. adoption is a legal process and the programs, foster care adoption aware- “A Child is Waiting: A Step By Step • Complete a home study and beginning of your new family — cel- ness initiatives and research-based advo- Guide to Adoption,” a free handbook any required adoption preparation ebrate! cacy efforts. As the only foundation dedi- provided by the foundation, helps classes; learn as much as you can • Ta ke advantage of post-adoption cated exclusively to foster care adoption, to clarify the terminology, responds about the dynamics of adoption, services and resources, from parent we are driven by Dave’s simple value: Do to frequently asked questions, and childhood development and the spe- support groups and professional ser- what’s best for the child.
November 2010 • QUEENS Family 33 Parenting Can you be seen with your teen? K, maybe we’re not quite Chicago Medical Center. “However, when you were a teenager. Yyou Lions and as cool as Robert Pattinson this is not done in isolation. Au- felt a little awkward bumping into a O or Beyoncé, but most of us tonomy from parents is developed group of your peers if you had your think we’re pretty with it — until our in the world of peer relations. Teens parents in tow, even if you weren’t tigers and teens tell us otherwise. So, we start tend to safeguard their peer world adverse to going places with them. to doubt our level of “cool.” It’s hard from invasion by their parents.” teens not to when you’re told you are com- In other words, your teen’s at- they’ll get over it! Myrna Beth haskell pletely out of touch several times tempts to become independent from You may have noticed your friend’s a week. Apparently, we’re not “all you, including wanting to go solo in or neighbor’s college-age kids come that,” and to be seen with the likes of public, are part of a typical stage in around — proof positive that this one of us is a horror. Should we take his social-emotional development. will be a transient phase. this personally? What is it about Teens strive to become indepen- “As autonomy becomes more se- teens that makes them pretend they dent from their parents in every cure in late adolescence and early don’t have parents when other teens possible way. They become acutely adulthood, kids usually settle into a are around? aware of how others, especially their more comfortable tolerance — even peers, perceive them as they desper- sometimes enjoyment of their par- the public scene ately try to fit in. They want to be sure ents in public situations,” Kellman Your teen is trying to assert his their peers deem them “grown-up,” explains. independence. because this is the ultimate goal. So, He gives the example of parent “Most adolescents it is natural for them to want to keep weekend at college. He says parents are busy negotiating their peer environment separate from often take kids out to dinner with their their own autonomy,” their family life, where parents most friends and that this is “secretly, or explains Josh Kell- likely still view them as young people even openly, welcomed by the child.” man, MD, a clinical who have an awful lot to learn. Your teens will be welcoming you associate with the into their public life again soon. In the University of Keep your cool meantime, find a way to enjoy their For many parents, it is sometimes activities and interests without being difficult to realize that their teens too overbearing. Just chalk it up to don’t want them around all the time another tightrope walk in this daunt- — particularly in public! Just re- ing task of parenting a teenager! cently, an acquaintance told me that her teen pretended she did not see tips and tales her in the mall. She told her daughter “Even if they say you don’t need to afterward that she had planned to go to an event, go anyway. They will give her some extra money, hoping know that you care about what they this would encourage her daughter are doing.” to acknowledge her in the future. Barbara Marrine, FDR High School Should parents feel slighted if Principal, Hyde Park, NY their teen doesn’t want to go to the “Send them with their friend’s par- mall or to the movies with them ents!” anymore? Michelle Mills Boye, Woodstock, NY “Parents should not feel slighted,” says Kellman. “It is typical and devel- Share your ideas opmentally appropriate for teens to Upcoming topic: be embarrassed of their parents.” How do you handle your teen’s Kellman encourages parents to mood swings? strike a balance. He suggests that Please send your full name, address, parents try not to be too invasive. and brief comments to: myrnahaskell@ “On the other hand, parents must gmail.com, or visit http://home.roadrun- be themselves, and need not bend ner.com/~haskellfamily/myrna/ over backwards to accommodate Myrna Beth Haskell is a feature writer their teen’s wish for them to disap- and columnist specializing in parenting pear,” he cautions. issues and children’s development. She Try to remember what it was like is the mother of two teenagers.
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November 2010 • QUEENS Family 35 HealtH Yoga for children By Mary Carroll Wininger never-ending roster of after-school Yoga does not try to squash chil- Yoga can activities, endlessly chirping elec- dren’s silly side: little yogis are en- f your little tot is too rambunc- tronic devices and overextended couraged to hiss while in the cobra help your tious, suffering from low self-es- parents all add up to stressed out pose, and moo and meow in the I teem, or stressed out, she could young people. More and more, even cow and cat poses. Moreira also benefit from yoga. the littlest kids are turning to yoga as sometimes has her students try to child in more Today, yoga has become so wide- a way to relax and look inward. With balance peacock feathers on their spread that children as young as one of the main tenets of yoga being fingers and noses in order to de- ways than 3 are enjoying the physical, men- “let it go,” children gradually learn, velop focus — with varying degrees tal, and spiritual benefits of yoga — both by focusing on various poses of success. whether in group sessions at a local and concentrating on their breath- Yoga does, however, breed some you think training center or in their very own ing, they can remain calm and cen- stillness. Instructors report that cer- gym class. tered in difficult situations through- tain poses cause children to feel Some adults, however, are some- out the day. Yoga allows children to empowered and in control — the be radiant beings in a tree and warrior poses, in particu- hurry-up world. lar, build a child’s confidence when Yoga has also been instructors remind children of what shown to slow down the poses mean: “still and strong the hyperactive and like a tree” or “open and fearless like attention-deficit child. a warrior.” By satisfying their “To be honest, we were not sure craving for movement, that kids could really have the at- yoga helps children tention span.,” said Andrew Tanner, burn through their ex- co-owner of Bamboomoves. “Our cess energy in a posi- youngest students quickly proved tive way. Yoga classes us wrong.” for any child do not Of course, yoga helps improve tend to revolve exclu- strength and flexibility. Children sively around sitting become more aware of their own still and breathing bodies, have better self-control, deeply. and develop coordination through “Kids’ yoga is to- yoga, and many instructors have tally different from a witnessed first-hand that children’s traditional yoga class,” motor skills, balance, posture and says Kaity Moreira, concentration improved as they co-owner of Bamboo- practiced yoga. moves, a yoga center One mother noticed her young for children and adults son doing the downward facing dog in Forest Hills, Queens. position around their house after “Sometimes we don’t taking classes at a local center. Both even stay on our yoga his flexibility and self-esteem had mats!” improved. Most yoga teachers Teachers report that students get for this age group mix most excited when they finally mas- the venerable practice ter a difficult pose, noting that the of yoga with a combi- kids will run out of class to tell their nation of games and parents that they did their first head- what wary: isn’t the idea of a group songs that teach kids about the natu- stand. of kindergartners in the lotus posi- ral world around them. Best of all, this newfound sense tion a bit precocious? Isn’t a practice “We are always in a circle and of strength and coordination comes as complex and profoundly spiritual we’ll do multiple activities in the from a non-stressful, non-competi- as yoga a little … advanced for wee time we are together,” says Moreira. tive physical activity. ones? “Sometimes we go on a yoga ad- With some encouragement and Not at all, say some experts. 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Support Group: Central Queens – Sun, Oct. 31; $15. YM&WYHA, 67-09 108th St. at 67th Children’s classic Grimm’s fairy tale. Road; (718) 268-5011 X500; Dstar @ cqyjcc.org. www.cqyjcc.org. Pumpkin pickin’: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy. Cancer survivors discuss exercise, 718-347-3276; www.queensfarm.org; movement limitation issues, core strengthening, resistance training and Saturdays and Sundays, 11 am–4 pm, aerobic activity. Pre-registration required. Now – Sun, Oct. 31; $4 ($5, Maze for adults; $3 children). Race to the End of the Earth: Pumpkins priced according to size. American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West at 79th Street; (212) The Amazing Maize Maze: Queens 769-5100; www.amnh.org; Daily, 10 Red, rhythm & rhyme County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little am–5:45 pm; Now – Sun, Jan. 2, 2011; Neck Pkwy. 718-347-3276; www. ovember is a great month and the United States. The show Donations suggested. queensfarm.org; Saturdays and Sun- The exhibit recounts the most stir- to see “Red,” as “Little will also feature live musical ac- days, 11 am–4 pm, Now – Mon, Nov. 1; ring tales of Antarctic exploration: the N Red Riding Hood” gets companiment. $8 ($5, children and group rates). contest to reach the South Pole in 1911- re-imagined like never before by It promises to be an engaging “Little Red Riding Hood”: Galli 1912. Highlights include photographs, the World Dance Theatre. experience for all ages. Theater, 38 West 38th St. between Fifth paintings, and rare historical artifacts “Little Red: A Fairy Tale in “Little Red: A Fairy Tale in Rhythm and Sixth avenues; (212) 810-6485; as well as actual items of clothing and Rhythm and Rhyme,” comes to and Rhyme” at Queens Theatre in [email protected]; www.gal- tools; life-sized models of portions of Queens Theatre in the Park on the Park [Flushing Meadows Co- litheaterny.com; Saturdays and Sundays, Amundsen’s and Scott’s base camps; Nov. 13. rona Park, entrance at 56th Avenue 3 pm, Now – Sun, Oct. 31; $20 ($15 and a diorama featuring the largest of all penguin species alive today, the emperor The dance troupe brings and 111st Street in Flushing, (718) children 2-17). penguin. There are also interactive and the classic fairy tale to new life 760-0064], Nov. 13 at 11 am and 1 Children three and up will enjoy the hands-on activities for all ages. through international dances pm. Tickets $12. For info, visit www. classic Grimm’s fairytale. Workshop to from Ireland, Canada, Argentina queenstheatre.org. follow performance. Friendship Group: Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Ct. at Fireman’s Memorial Drive; Training Group: The Animal Medical (516) 766-4341; www.friedberg.org; Center, 510 East 62nd St. (854)-230- Daily, 2–3 pm; Now – Thurs, Dec. 30; young children. Park, Flushing Meadows Corona Park; 6406; [email protected]; Box Office 718-760-0064; Administra- Call for Fees. Haunted Firehouse: Valley Stream www.volunteer.guidingeyes.org; Free. tion 718-760-0686; www.queensthe- Middle school students with disabili- Fire Department, Brooklyn Ave. (516) Guiding Eyes for the Blind seeks vol- atre.org; Friday, Oct. 29, 8 pm; Saturday, ties swim in the indoor pool, hang out in 56101777; Fridays and Saturdays, 7–11 unteers to foster future guide dog pup- Oct. 30, 2 pm; Sunday, Oct. 31, 2 pm; the renovated teen lounge and partici- pm, Now – Sun, Oct. 31; $10 ($5 for pies. All training, support and veterinary Wednesday, Nov. 3, 8 pm; Thursday, pate in exciting art projects. children under 12). expenses are provided free of charge. Nov. 4, 2 pm; Friday, Nov. 5, 2 pm; Sat- Fireman and community volunteers Pre-placement classes are held at the Fear Fest: 1303 Round Swamp Rd. urday, Nov. 6, 8 pm; Sunday, Nov. 7, 2 get together to scare your pants off. Dog Spa in Chelsea at 32 West 25th (646) 896-9071; Fridays – Sundays, 7 pm; $34 - $40. Street. Required weekly raiser classes are pm–midnight, Now – Sun, Oct. 31; $12 “Dracula the Musical”: Theater Dance musical from the creators of held on Sunday evenings at the Center. ($20 RIP). Three, 412 Main Street; 631-928-9100; Swango. Call for specific location & time. Experience fear like never before. Thursday, Oct. 28, 8 pm; Friday, Oct. 29, Wander through halls of desire, hear the 8 pm; Saturday, Oct. 30, 8 pm; $15-$28. Sleeping Beauty: The John W. Enge- Storytime: Barnes & Noble, 176-60 sounds on the wind, fevered moans, and man Theater, 250 Main Street; (631) Union Tpk at Utopia Parkway; (718) For mature audiences. plaintive cries in the night. Come and 261-2900; www.engemantheater.com; 380-7077; www.bn.com; Tuesdays and visit if you dare. Not recommended for “One Ride”: Queens Theatre in the Saturdays, 11 am, Sundays, 10 am, Now Thursdays, 10 am & 7 pm, Now – Thurs, 38 QUEENS Family • November 2010 Going Places Dec. 30; Free. Nature Know-it-all: Fort Totten, Fort Children enjoy stories and a cookie Totten; (718) 352-1769; 11 am; Free. break. Children enjoy a game show-style trivia. For children five and older. Support Group: Parkway Commu- nity Church, 95 Stewart Ave; (516)-395- Classical Concert: Lefrak Concert 8303; Wednesdays, 7:30 pm, Now – Hall at Queens College, Exits 23 and 24 Wed, Dec. 29; $7. eastbound service road of LIE; www. A dynamic discussion and support KupferbergCenterArts.org. 2 pm; $15- group for 40 plus individuals, who are $36. widowed,divorced or single. Chamber orchestra performs Handel’s Concerto Gross Op. 6, No. 11; Bartok’s “The Bikinis”: Queens Theatre in the Divertimento for String Orchestra and Park, Flushing Meadows Corona Park; Barber’s Adagio for Strings. Box Office 718-760-0064; Administra- tion 718-760-0686; www.queensthe- atre.org; Thursday, Dec. 2, 2 pm; Friday, Mon, Nov. 8 Dec. 3, 8 pm; Saturday, Dec. 4, 2 pm; Open Mic: Barnes & Noble, 176-60 Sunday, Dec. 5, 3 pm; Friday, Dec. 10, Union Tpk. at Utopia Turnpike; (718) 8 pm; Saturday, Dec. 11, 2 pm; Sunday, 380-7077; 7:30 pm; Free. Dec. 12, 3 pm; $34-$40. Share your original works and listen to A musical beach party. aspiring poets with Susan Yang.
Sun, Oct. 31 Fri, Nov. 12 Halloween festival: Bowne Park, Book reading: Nassau County Mu- 32nd Ave. and 155th Street; (718) 932- seum of Art, One Museum Dr. at North- 0800; 11 am–4 pm; Free. ern Blvd. Route 25A; (516) 484-9337; Candy, face painting, pony rides and www.nassaumuseum.org. 4 pm; $10 music. ($8 seniors and $4 students and chil- dren 4-12). Boo at the Zoo: Queens Zoo, 53-51 ”Beastly Feasts” by author Robert 111th St. (718) 271-1500; queenszoo. Forbes is on the menu. com; 11 am–4 pm; $6 ($2 children). Children enjoy face-painting, trick or treating, pumpkin-decorating, and a Sat, Nov. 13 haunted habitat. “Mame”: 8 pm. Bay Terrace Jewish Sing along with Auntie Center. See Saturday, Nov. 6. Pumpkin Chucking: Noon–4 pm. New York Hall of Science. See Saturday, ife is a banquet and Jean Ann Kump in the lead as the “Little Red” A Fairy Tale in Oct. 30. most poor suckers irrepressible Auntie Mame and Isa- Rhythm and Rhyme”: Queens Theatre in the Park, Flushing Mead- Queens Botanical are starving to death,” bel Robin as young Patrick. Pumpkin Patch: “L ows Corona Park; Box Office 718-760- says Auntie Mame in the classic Come sing along with favor- Garden, 43-50 Main Street; (718) 539- 0064; Administration 718-760-0686; Broadway musical that bears her ites “Open A New Window,” “It’s 5296; www.queensbotanical.org; 1–3 www.queenstheatre.org; 11 am and 1 pm; $10. name, coming to the Bay Terrace Today” and “Mame.” pm; $12. Activities for the kids and pumpkin Jewish Center just in time for the Showtimes are Nov. 6, 13 and World Dance Theatre revives the painting. holidays. 20 at 8 pm and on Nov. 7, 14 and classic with a new twist. The musical, based on the book 21 at 3 pm. Haunted Halloween: Flushing Town “Little Red-A Fairy Tale in by Jerome Lawrence and Robert E. Bay Terrace Jewish Center [13-00 Hall, 137-35 Northern Boulevard; (718) Rhythm and Rhyme: Queens The- 463-7700; www.flushingtownhall.org; Lee [no, not that Robert E. Lee!], 209th St. in Bayside, (718) 428-6363], atre in the Park, Flushing Meadows Co- 2 pm; $8 ($6, $4 children). with music and lyrics by Jerry Her- Saturday-Sunday, Nov. 6–21. Tickets, rona Park; Box Office 718-760-0064; Celebrate the traditions of Day of the man, features over 30 actors, with $18 ($16 for seniors and kids). Administration 718-760-0686; www. Dead, Halloween, and All Saints Day queenstheatre.org; 11 am and 1 pm; with arts and crafts and treats. $12. Ghost Night at Louis Armstrong Haunted House: Queens County 8 pm; $18 ($16 seniors and children 12 Classic tale with modern twist. House: Louis Armstrong House Mu- Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy. and under). Concert: Tsidii: Queens Theatre in the seum, 34-56 107th Street; (718) 478- 718-347-3276; www.queensfarm.org; Sing along to “Open A New Win- Park, Flushing Meadows Corona Park; 8274; 4–7 pm; Free with museum 4–7 pm; $4 ($2 hayrides). dow,” “It’s Today,” “Mame” and “We Box Office 718-760-0064; Administra- admission. For children four to 12. need a Little Christmas.” tion 718-760-0686; www.queensthe- Kids and families enjoy face paint- atre.org; 2 pm; Free. Halloween Tour: 6:30 pm. Fort Tot- “Dances with Dinosaurs”: Queens ing, collage-making, and house tours Features the music of Odetta, Nina ten. See Saturday, Oct. 30. Theatre in the Park, Flushing Meadows conducted by costumed tour guides. If Simone and Miriam Makeba. Corona Park; Box Office 718-760-0064; your kids dresses up as Louis Armstrong, Administration 718-760-0686; www. there’s a chance to win the book “A Mon, Nov. 1 Tsidii: To the Rising Sun: Queens The- Good Night for Ghosts.” queenstheatre.org; 8 pm; Free. atre in the Park, Flushing Meadows Co- Boo at the Zoo: 11 am–4 pm. Wacky farce about the worst Thanks- rona Park; Box Office 718-760-0064; Fright flight: Alley Pond Park Adven- Queens Zoo. See Sunday, Oct. 31. giving ever. Administration 718-760-0686; www. ture Center, Winchester Blvd. and Grand queenstheatre.org; 2 pm; Free. Central Parkway; (718) 217-4685; www. Tony Award-nominee for “The Lion nycgovparks.org; 4–6 pm; Free. Sat, Nov. 6 Sun, Nov. 7 King,” and the voice of “Circle of Life,” Children 8 and up enjoy a spooktacu- “Mame”: Bay Terrace Jewish Center, “Mame”: 3 pm. Bay Terrace Jewish Tsidii performs a dazzling concert. lar evening. Registration required. 13-00 209th Street; (718) 428-6363; Center. See Saturday, Nov. 6. Continued on page 40 November 2010 • QUEENS Family 39 Going Places
Continued from page 39 “Postmortem”: Houghton Hall The- ater at Trinity Episcopal Church, 130 Main St. (631) 732-2926; www.minstrel- Reach the roach players.org; 8 pm; $15 ($12 children and seniors). artina the Little Roach is coming to the Puerto Whodunnit mystery. Rican Traveling Theater for a holiday visit on M Nov. 20 and 21 at 3 pm. Sun, Nov. 14 La Cucarachita Martina (Martina, the Little Roach) comes to life through the use of colorful bunraku pup- “Mame”: 3 pm. Bay Terrace Jewish Center. See Saturday, Nov. 6. petry designed by Puerto Rican master puppeteer Jose Lopez and tells the story of a the little roach who, in her David Gonzalez: Flushing Town Hall, journey towards finding love, finds happiness and friend- 137-35 Northern Boulevard; (718) 463- ship. In English and Spanish. 7700; www.flushingtownhall.org; 1 pm; Puerto Rican Traveling Theater, [304 W 47th St. in Manhat- $6 (non-members) $3 children. tan, (212)-529-1545]. Tickets are $12.50 for children; $15 for ”Stories Are Gifts”. adults. For further information visit their website at www. “Postmortem”: 3 pm. Houghton Hall teatrosea.org. Theater at Trinity Episcopal Church. See Saturday, Nov. 13. Boulevard; (718) 463-7700; www.flush- “Postmortem”: 8 pm. Hough- 35 Northern Boulevard; (718) 463-7700; Sat, Nov. 20 ingtownhall.org; 11 am; $7 (children ton Hall Theater at Trinity Episcopal www.flushingtownhall.org; 1 pm; $6 non-members/ $5 member children). Church. See Saturday, Nov. 13. “Mame”: 8 pm. Bay Terrace Jewish ($3 children). Make frogs, cranes, and other crea- Center. See Saturday, Nov. 6. Learn the basics of Paul Taylor’s move- tures using the ancient art of paper Sun, Nov. 21 Thanksgiving stories: Barnes & folding. Materials included. ment and choreography. Wear comfort- Noble, 176-60 Union Tpk. at Utopia “Mame”: 3 pm. Bay Terrace Jewish able clothing, all levels of dance experi- Scavenger hunt: Forest Park Visi- Turnpike; (718) 380-7077; 11 am; Free. Center. See Saturday, Nov. 6. ence welcome. tor’s Center, Woodhaven Blvd. and For- Themed holiday activities. est Park Drive; (718) 846-2731; www. “Postmortem”: 3 pm. Houghton Hall Composting: Queens Botanical nycgovparks.org; Noon; Free. Theater at Trinity Episcopal Church. See Sun, Dec. 5 Garden, 43-50 Main Street; (718) 539- For children of all ages, prizes Saturday, Nov. 13. 5296; www.queensbotanical.org; 11 awarded. Klezmer Hanukkah party: Flushing am–1 pm; $5. “La Cucarachita Martina”: 3 pm. Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Boulevard; “La Cucarachita Martina”: Puerto Puerto Rican Traveling Theater. See Sat- Learn the ins and outs of indoor (718) 463-7700; www.flushingtownhall. Rican Traveling Theater, 304 W. 47th urday, Nov. 20. worm composting. Registration org; 2 pm; $16; $12 members ($12 chil- Street; (212) 529-1545; http:www. te- required. dren; $10 member children). atrosea.org; 3 pm; $15 ($12.50 children). Sat, Dec. 4 Origami Zoo with Dr. Chou: Teatro Se presents the classic chil- The Alicia Svigals Trio perform holiday Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern dren’s fable in English and Spanish. Taylor 101: Flushing Town Hall, 137- favorities. November events at Queens Libraries Fri, Dec. 17; Free. Tues, Nov. 2 ots and teens can enjoy of all — it’s all free. Play a round of Chutes and Ladders, exciting and educational For additional information visit a chess and other board games. Internet safety: Queens Public Li- events all month long at branch near you or online at www. brary at Forest Hills, 108-19 71st Ave. T between 70th and 71st roads; (718) the Queens Library, and — best queenslibrary.org. Mon, Nov. 1 268-7934; Free; 4 pm. Creative writing and dance: Henry Smart leads a workshop provid- Teens in grades 7 to 12 learn the ba- Long-running Queens Library at South Ozone Park, ing tips on how to protect yourself from sics. Program limited to nine people. cyber-bullying, threats and suspicious Laptop technology: Queens Public 128-16 Rockaway Blvd. between 128th Library at Hollis, 202-05 Hillside Ave. Girl Scouts: Queens Library at and 130th streets; (718) 529-1660; 3:30 online communications. Preregistration between 201st and 202nd streets; (718) Queens Village, 94-11 217 St. at 94th pm; Free. required. 465-7355; Monday, Nov. 1, 4:30 pm; Road; (718) 776-6800; Thursdays, 4 Children 10 to 14 get tips from the Jewelry design: Queens Public Li- Tuesday, Nov. 2, 4:30 pm; Wednesday, pm, Now – Thurs, Nov. 18; Free. Dance Theater of Harlem. Preregistration brary at St. Albans, 191-05 Linden Blvd. Nov. 3, 4:30 pm; Thursday, Nov. 4, 4:30 Informational meeting. required. at 192nd Street; (718) 528-8196; 4 pm; pm; Monday, Nov. 8, 4:30 pm; Tuesday, Free. Teen Night: Queens Library at College club 2010: Queens Public Nov. 9, 4:30 pm; Wednesday, Nov. 10, Arverne, 312 Beach 54th St. (718) Tees create their own wearable art. 4:30 pm; Monday, Nov. 15, 4:30 pm; Library at Pomonok, 158-21 Jewel Ave. 634-4784; Thursdays, 5:15 pm, Now – between 13st Street and Parsons Bou- Writing workshop: Queens Public Tuesday, Nov. 16, 4:30 pm; Wednesday, Thurs, Dec. 23; Free. Nov. 17, 4:30 pm; Thursday, Nov. 18, levard; (718) 591-4343; www.kaptest. Library at South Ozone Park, 128-16 Meet up with friends for crafts and 4:30 pm; Monday, Nov. 22, 4:30 pm; com/College/Home/index.html; 5 pm; Rockaway Blvd. (718) 529-1660; 4 pm; activities. For ages 12 to 18. Tuesday, Nov. 23, 4:30 pm; Wednes- Free. Free. day, Nov. 24, 4:30 pm; Monday, Nov. Game Players Club: Queens Library Teens get a heads up on applying for Teens build their vocabulary and hone 29, 4:30 pm; Tuesday, Nov. 30, 4:30 at Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike; financial aid, and the college admission up on writing. Preregistration required. pm; Free. (718) 454-2786; Fridays, 4 pm, Now – process. pre-registration required. Continued on page 41 40 QUEENS Family • November 2010 Going Places Wed, Nov. 3 music performed live. Sun, Nov. 14 brary at St. Albans, 191-05 Linden Blvd. at 191st Street; (718) 528-8196; 4 pm; Paper cup turkeys: Queens Public Mon, Nov. 8 Open Mic: Central Library, 89-11 Mer- Free. Library at Bay Terrace, 18-36 Bell Blvd. rick Blvd. (718) 990-0700; 2 pm; Free. Teens and tweens create their own at 23rd Avenue; (718) 423-7004; 3 pm; Teen advisory board: Central Li- All are invited to participate. wearable art. Preregistration required. Free. brary, 89-11 Merrick Blvd. (718) 990- Celebrate the season with a fun craft. 0700; 4 pm; Free. Mon, Nov. 15 Sat, Nov. 20 Air your suggestions and concerns. Stained glass workshop: Queens Wet-N-Wild Edventures: Queens Public Library at Long Island City, 37-44 Book signing: Queens Public Library Wet-N-Wild Edventures: Queens Public Library at Long Island City, 37-44 at Langston Hughes, 100-01 Northern 21st St. between 47th Road and 49th Public Library at South Jamaica, 108-41 21st St. at 47th Road; (718) 752-3700; Blvd. (718) 651-1100; 1 pm; Free. Avenue; (718) 752-3700; 4 pm; Free. Guy R. Brewer Blvd. between 108th and 4 pm; Free. Author Andrew Jackson and his book A professional artist instructs students 109th avenue; (718) 739-4088; 4:30 Erik’s Reptile Edventures featuring live “Queens Notes: Facts About the Forgot- 11 to 14. Space is limited, preregistration pm; Free. aquatic amphibians. For ages 11 to 14. ten Borough of Queens.” required. Erik’s Reptile Edventures featuring live Preregistration required. Caribbean crafts: Queens Public aquatic amphibians. For ages 11 to 14. College club: Central Library, 89-11 Mon, Nov. 22 Library at Pomonok, 158-21 Jewel Ave. Preregistration required. Merrick Blvd. (718) 990-0700; 4 pm; at Parsons Blvd. (718) 591-4343; 4:30 Free. College club 2010: 5 pm. Queens College club 2010: 5 pm. Queens Public Library at Pomonok. See Monday, pm; Free. Learn the ins and outs of the applica- Public Library at Pomonok. See Monday, Nov. 1. Children 11 to 14 explore Island cul- tion process. ture and art including Taino jewelry and Nov. 1. textiles, reggae, rhythms and music. Pre- College club 2010: 5 pm. Queens Tues, Nov. 23 registration required. Tues, Nov. 9 Public Library at Pomonok. See Monday, Nov. 1. Thanksgiving craft: Queens Public Thurs, Nov. 4 Dark Fairy Tales: Queens Public Li- Library at Hillcrest, 187-05 Union T’pke. brary at Broadway, 40-20 Broadway at Tues, Nov. 16 (718) 454-2786; 4 pm; Free. Crazy crochet: Queens Public Library 41st Street; (718) 721-2462; 4 pm; Free. Create a holiday decoration. Ages six at Laruelton, 134-26 225th St. between Novelist Adam Gidwitz. Thanksgiving craft: Queens Public to 14. crafts and decorations for the Merrick Boulevard and 135th Avenue; Library at Bay Terrace, 18-36 Bell Blvd. holiday. (718) 528-2822; 3:45 pm; Free. Writing workshop: 4 pm. Queens at 23rd Avenue; (718) 423-7004; 3:30 Public Library at South Ozone Park. See pm; Free. Thanksgiving craft: Queens Public Teens learn the basics and create their Library at Queens Village, 94-11 217 Tuesday, Nov. 2. Enter a turkey-pumpkin coloring con- own designs. St. at 94th Road; (718) 776-6800; 4:30 test and find out the winner on Dec. 9. Caribbean crafts: 4:30 pm. Queens Action Racket Theater: Queens pm; Free. Public Library at Pomonok. See Wednes- Public Library at Pomonok, 158-21 Action Racket Theater: Queens Create a holiday decoration. day, Nov. 3. Jewel Ave. at Parsons Boulevard; (718) Public Library at Lefrak City, 98-30 57th 591-4343; 4:30 pm; Free. Ave. at 98th Place; (718) 592-7677; 4 Fri, Nov. 26 Fri, Nov. 5 Learn how to move, project, impro- pm; Free. vise, and create. Learn how to move, project, impro- TGIF Game Day: Queens Public Li- Rain Forest butterflies: Queens vise, and create. brary at Bellerose, 250-06 Hillside Ave. between 250th and 251st streets; (718) Public Library at Woodside, 54-22 Wed, Nov. 10 Skillman Ave. between 54th and 55th Wed, Nov. 17 831-8644; 4 pm; Free. streets; (718) 429-4700; 3:30 pm; Free. Graphic novel workshop: Queens Teens enjoy electronic games. Children 8 to 14 discover the wide Public Library at East Elmhurst, 95-06 Immigrant rights: Queens Public Library at Cambria Heights, 218-13 array of species in the Amazon. Preregis- Astoria Blvd. at 104th Street; (718) 424- Mon, Nov. 29 Linden Blvd. at 219th Street; (718) 528- tration required. 2619; 4 pm; Free. 3535; 4 pm; Free. Book clique: Queens Public Library at Professional writer/illustrator Neil Improvisation workshop: Queens Teens tackle immigration issues. Queens Village, 94-11 217 St. at 94th Public Library at Corona, 38-23 104th Numberman provides helpful tips. Road; (7180 776-6800; 4 pm; Free. St. (718) 426-2844; 4 pm; Free. Immigrant rights: Queens Public Thurs, Nov. 18 Discuss this month’s selection. Ask Budding thespians, 11 to 14, learn to Library at Langston Hughes, 100-01 Miss Euni for details. work on their acting skills. Pre-registra- Northern Blvd. (New York 25A); (718) Intro to Excel: Queens Public Library tion required. Sewing club: Queens Public Library at 651-1100; 4 pm; Free. at Pomonok, 158-21 Jewel Ave. at Par- sons Boulevard; (718) 591-4343; 10 am; Long Island City, 37-44 21st St. at 47th Caribbean crafts: 4:30 pm. Queens Teens tackle immigration issues. Free. Road; (718) 752-3700; 4 pm; Free. Public Library at Pomonok. See Wednes- Children 8 to 14 use a sewing ma- day, Nov. 3. Poetry club: Queens Public Library Learn the basics. Preregistration required. chine and make a an ugly doll,cuddly pil- at Langston Hughes, 100-01 Northern low. Preregistration required. Blvd (New York 25A) at; (718) 651-1100; Sat, Nov. 6 Parrot care: Queens Public Library 4 pm; Free. at Maspeth, 69-70 Grand Ave. at 69th Open Mic: Queens Public Library at East Elmhurst, 95-06 Astoria Blvd. be- Writing workshop: Queens Public Teen girls explore current issues in Lane; (718) 639-5228; 6:30 pm; Free. tween 95th and 96th streets; (718) 424- Library at Steinway, 21-45 31st St. at poetry. Learn about our fine feathered 2619; 6 pm; Free. Ditmars Boulevard; (718) 728-1965; 11 friends. am; Free. Sock dolls: Queens Public Library at Read, recite, play an instrument -the Queens Village, 94-11 217 St. at 94th Teens learn how to improve their writ- choice is yours. ing skills. Road; (718) 776-6800; 4 pm; Free. Fri, Nov. 19 Fun craft for teens 11-17. Balloon crafts: Queens Public Library Deepavali, Indian Festival of Tues, Nov. 30 at Corona, 38-23 104th St. at 39th Av- Lights: Queens Public Library at Jack- “Newspaper Blackout”: Queens Grammar workshop: Queens Public enue; (718) 426-2844; 4 pm; Free. son Heights, 35-51 81st St. between Public Library at Steinway, 21-45 31st St; Library at Hollis, 202-05 Hillside Ave. Marianella Lazo leads class in unique 35th and 37th avenues; (718) 899- (718) 728-1965; 4 pm; Free. between 201st and 202nd streets; (718) decorating technique. Preregistration 2500; 12:30 pm; Free. a newspaper and marker will be used 465-7355; 3:30 pm; Free. required. Crafts featuring Mehendi (Henna to create poetry. For children 12 to 18. Students learn the basic rules of the Hand Painting), folk and contemporary Materials and snacks provided. Design a T-shirt: Queens Public Li- English language. November 2010 • QUEENS Family 41 It figures By Cynthia Washam November Numbers
Number of Weight, in pounds, of the 25,000:children 86: world-record stuffed adopted in the United States turkey, recorded in London between 2000 and 2009 as part of in 1989. National Adoption Day, to be held Nov. 21. Year 1947: Harry Average age of children Truman started the 8:awaiting adoption. annual White House tradition of Percent who spend more pardoning a 19: than five years waiting to turkey. be adopted.
Percent 322 B.C.: 26: of adults Approximate year the who, given the Etruscans started the choice of having custom of pulling and Thanksgiving wishing on the wishbone dinner with from chicken or turkey. any celebrity, would choose Jennifer Anniston.
Date Sears tra- nov. 1: ditionally puts out holiday decorations and wrappings.
Number of Sears stores that opened their Christ- 372:mas Lane holiday section this year in early July.
more than 40 million: Number of green-bean casseroles served on Thanksgiving.
Percent of cranberries that are eaten on 20:Thanksgiving.
Percent of people who keep and 44:eat leftovers.
Percent of adults who said they fell 30:asleep after Thanksgiving dinner.
Sources: Nationaladoptionday.org, UPI News Track, Thaindian.com, Coolest-holiday-parties.com, About.com, Healthdiaries.com, Notmuch.com, Lazylightning.org
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