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Features columns 6 A quiet problem 10 Healthy Living Ten tips for parents with shy children by Danielle Sullivan By Denise Yearian 38 Behavior & Beyond 8 Homework star By Dr. Marcie Beigel Ten tips for parents to make homework a home run 42 Tips for Feeding Kids By Denise Yearian By Joanna DeVita 22 Finding her shtick 43 Good Sense Eating A Brooklyn comedian’s journey to by Christine M. Palumbo, RD mommyhood 36 By Tammy Scileppi 44 Just Write Mom by Danielle Sullivan 24 Stitching together character Lessons from a childhood sewing contest — 45 Dear Teacher and my mother’s words of wisdom by Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts By Carolyn Waterbury-Tieman 26 From A to ZZZs 46 A Letter from College Important info linking shut-eye to great By Aglaia Ho grades 47 Ask an Attorney By Malia Jacobson By Alison Arden Besunder, Esq. 36 Time to read 48 Dear Dr. Karyn This whole family is going to hit the books By Dr. Karyn Gordon By Lisa A. Beach 49 Divorce & Separation 40 Get every kid into the parks By Lee Chabin, Esq. This is a great time to explore the outdoors By Shnieka L. Johnson 56 The Book Worm 26 By Terri Schlichenmeyer special sections 58 New & Noteworthy By Lisa J. Curtis 12 Classes and Enrichment Directory calendar 28 School Choices Directory 57 The Marketplace 50 September Events

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Screen time, families, and children get in the elevator time consuming elec- plans to update its guidelines on It’s something for us all to con- in my office build- tronic media than they media use later this year. Current sider. Are we reading books any- I ing and I’m the only do in school, accord- recommendations are to avoid all more? Are we engaging in enough one not looking down at ing to Common Sense screens for children under 2, and to physical activity or are we sitting in my smart phone. I drive Media. Anya Kamenetz allow a maximum of two hours per front of some kind of screen? Are our the streets of our city did a wonderful piece day of high-quality material for older kids getting enough exercise or are and narrowly avoid pe- on this topic for NPR children. I would like to repeat that they also sitting on their backsides destrians looking down that caught my ear the line about avoiding all screens for too much? If those hours logged are at their screens instead other day and prompted children under 2. How often I’ve seen correct, then they certainly are not. of looking where they’re me to download it. tablet devices propped up in front of We need to address that quickly, going. I’ve seen moms Some of the facts she babies in restaurants, apparently to especially as school begins and new crossing streets with strollers and si- pointed out are that tweens log 4 1/2 pacify them into silence so the par- patterns emerge after the summer multaneously looking down at their hours of screen time a day, seven ents can enjoy their dinner. vacation. device. No matter how often the days a week, 52 weeks a year. For Parents have to set the example dangers of driving and texting are teens, it’s even higher; nearly seven and, personally, one sees far too Thanks for reading. pointed out, we still have people hours a day. And that doesn’t include many parents concentrating on their ignoring the warnings and inviting time spent using devices for school own screens rather than on their accidents and possible death. We are or in school. children. It used to be they were screen people without a doubt. Digital devices are more integral merely talking on the phone, now I’ve been asking the question every year, with research available they are also scrolling and texting. about how all of this is affecting our to support both the benefits as well This kind of distraction takes away Susan Weiss-Voskidis, children. It seems that most Ameri- as the dangers. Anya writes that precious time for focus on the chil- Publisher/Excutive Editor can children actually spend more the American Academy of Pediatrics dren and supervision/guidance. [email protected]

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AffinityPlan.org/CHP September 2016 • brooklyn Family 5 A quiet problem Ten tips for By Denise yearian hildhood shyness is a com- parents with mon concern a mong pa rents, C who fear their youngsters may lack self-confidence and lag be- shy children hind in social development. But with preparation, practice, and patience, most reserved children can learn how to successfully navigate social situations and build meaningful relationships with peers. Here are 10 tips to help: 1. start small: Expose your child to a variety of non-threatening, positive peer interactions from an early age. When he starts day care or school, begin with a small class or group size until he is ready to transition to a larger one. As group size grows, consider adult-child ratios to encourage positive peer interactions and reduce the chance of negative behaviors such as bullying, exclu- sion, and name calling. 2. scope out settings: If possible, informed. Present it in story form: because the setting is too loud, there take your child to a new academic “Tomorrow [child’s name] is going are too many people, or it’s too cha- or extracurricular program before to…” and tell your child the whole otic. You’ll never know unless you classes begin, so he can meet the story, inserting his name. Then ask, listen. Validate his concerns and ask teacher and get acquainted with the “What other things might he see?” open-ended questions to encourage setting and routine. “What else might he do?” dialogue. 3. rally support: Let the teacher 6. Dress rehearse: Role play dif- 9. Get professional help: If your or caretaker know about your child’s ferent scenarios, such as meeting a child’s behavior persists past six shyness, and stay in touch through- new peer at school. Switch roles so months or increases, talk with your out the year to address problems your child can act out both situa- pediatrician to differentiate between that arise. tions. Or use dolls, action figures, or temporary shyness and social anxi- 4. Home field advantage: En- puppets, if you choose. Talk about ety disorder, which prevents chil- courage at-home play dates to em- how they are feeling. Repetition will dren from normal social develop- power your child to take social risks build confidence. ment. and open up to his peers. Invite 7. reach for resources: Read 10. stay positive: When your one friend over several times until books to your child about others child does engage in social scenes, your child feels comfortable inter- who overcame shyness and fear. offer positive reinforcement. Affirm acting with him. Gradually increase These include, “Shy Charles” by his character and personality, and the number to two or three children. Rosemary Wells, “Let’s Talk About avoid chastising, teasing, or embar- Also, encourage your child to go to Being Shy” by Marianne Johnston, rassing him about his shy behavior. friends’ houses to play. and “Little Miss Shy” by Roger Har- Remember, he may always be some- 5. set the scene: Prepare your greaves, to name a few. Talk about what timid, but with preparation, child for social gatherings to allevi- the lesson in the story and how it practice, and loving patience, most ate anxiety and fear of the unknown. applies to your child. children can learn to successfully This is particularly helpful with ran- 8. Listen up: Take time to listen navigate social situations. dom events such as birthday par- to your child and understand his Denise Yearian is the former editor ties and family reunions. Talk about feelings and fears. Don’t assume you of two parenting magazines and the what he will see and do, so he’s well know how he feels. He may be upset mother of three children.

6 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 September 2016 • brooklyn Family 7 Homework star By Denise yearian Try doing homework at different he has questions or needs help stay- Ten tips times to see where you have the ing on task. omework is an important greatest success. Then create a con- for parents component to a child’s edu- sistent routine based on what works 3. Tuned in or H cational experience. To help best for your child. turned off? families make the most of home- Some children enjoy listening to to make work time, consider these tips: 2. My space music while studying, but parents Children need an distraction- need to consider their child’s learning 1. Time it right proof area for doing homework. And style and the type of media he’s tun- homework a To find the best time to do home- for some, that may not be a bedroom ing in to. A small percentage of chil- work, consider your schedule and where familiar toys could divert their dren do better with a little background home run your child’s temperament and per- attention or a kitchen table situated noise, but the majority need it quiet. sonality. Some kids need a break around household hubbub. If your child insists on having when they get home. Others lose Find a consistent place away from something on, refrain from TV or steam if they don’t do their assign- distractions but still central to a par- familiar tunes that might distract ments right away. ent so the child can be monitored if his thinking. Choose instead unfa-

8 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 long she worked. Find a consistent place 7. Pay attention away from distractions to patterns If you find your child frequently but still central to a saying he doesn’t understand the work, it may be a clue he needs parent so the child extra school support or a tutor. can be monitored if he Likewise, if he effortlessly whips through his assignments day after needs help staying on day, it may be an indication he’s not being challenged. task or has questions. Homework isn’t supposed to be overly difficult, but students should have to put some time and miliar songs without words such as thought into it. Look for patterns soothing, classical music. that something is happening, either good or bad. Then communi- 4. Aid and ally cate with the teacher and ask for Parents should be there to lend her suggestions. support and provide guidance when needed. Read together, help with di- 8. Relegate rections and spec out the first few responsibility problems to make sure your child Encourage your child to take on understands the concepts. Then the responsibility of starting and let her work independently while finishing homework by creating a remaining available for questions. system such as a check-off list. Follow up by checking for quality. When she starts to receive long- If you see several mistakes, encour- term projects, help her map out the age your child to make corrections. work by using a calendar, so she But don’t fix it for her. Teachers learns good time-management and would prefer the work come back organizational skills. wrong rather than having a parent Break down large projects into make needed corrections. the smallest components of what If the work is replete with er- needs to be done each day — read- rors, let it go, and send a note to ing “X” number of pages, for ex- the teacher saying your child didn’t ample. Then check with your child understand the work. Another periodically to make sure she’s thing that may help is a homework staying on task. buddy. Encourage your child to partner with a classmate, so they 9. Scope out sick days can be in contact with one another If your child is going to be out for if either has trouble while complet- more than a few days, contact the ing an assignment. teacher and let her know. If he has to stay home due to a minor illness, 5. Rapid review the teacher may want to send a few Reviewing previous lessons is things your way. beneficial in refreshing a student’s But if your child is truly sick memory, particularly with subjects and needs to rest, she’ll probably like math where one concept builds suggest letting him recover and upon another. catching him up on the work when Look at a couple of past lessons he returns. Promo Code: 161055 • Expires: 7/30/17 and have your child briefly explain the concepts to you. But keep it 10. Constantly short, so he’s still alert for the cur- communicate rent day’s assignment. Find out early on the best way to contact your child’s teacher — ei- 6. Tarry and toil ther by phone, email, note, or other. If your child is working for an Then if an issue arises, don’t wait to extended period of time, consider discuss it. Small problems can esca- the cause. Is she tired? Unfocused? late if not addressed right away. Dawdling? Not understanding the Even if things are going well, material? If she’s procrastinating, set occasionally touch base to make a timer or offer an incentive for com- sure you’re both pleased with your pleting the assignment on time. child’s progress. If, however, your child is diligent Denise Yearian is a former educa- and still not finishing in a reason- tor and editor of two parenting maga- able amount of time, have her stop. zines and the mother of three children Then let the teacher know how and four grandchildren.

September 2016 • brooklyn Family 9 HEALTH When back-to-school time sparks anxiety ack to school is a won- Some of these include: derful time for most Safe person: This could be a coun- B children, not to men- selor, nurse, teacher, or any adult that tion parents. There are new the child feels comfortable with whom HEALTHY teachers and classrooms, the child can go to during anxious mo- new experiences, and friendly ments. This person can talk to the LIVING faces. Most kids are eager child for five to 10 minutes, help calm DANIELLE SULLIVAN to make friends and join the him down, and return to his normal fun, even if they aren’t exactly school day. Often just knowing there thrilled about the work. But is someone who understands and will there is a small population help him is just the bit of reassurance of kids, from preschoolers to and support a child needs. teens, who absolutely dread Cool down pass: This allows the school because they suffer child to leave the classroom when he from anxiety. is feeling anxious to put some cool For these kids, it is not as water on his face or wash his hands, simple as jitters before the restore himself, and return to class first day. The American Acad- less nervous. emy of Pediatrics advises par- Seating: An anxious child will do ents to not discount a child’s better sitting in the most quiet spot in fears. “Because anxious children and who know they are not alone, the room, away from louder and un- may also be quiet, compliant, and have a much better chance of over- ruly students. He will also often ben- eager to please, their difficulties may coming anxiety long-term. efit from being seated near the door. be missed,” it says. It is quite distressing to see your Parents can also request that their Anxiety can manifest itself in a child suffer, but there are ways par- child be moved to a smaller class. number of ways — as physical ail- ents and teachers can help. The Anx- Testing conditions: The child can ments, outbursts, depression, or iety and Depression Association of be allowed to take tests in a quiet even anger. It can arise, seemingly America offers the following tips for room or have extra time to finish. out of the blue, in a child who was parents: Often knowing that they have extra once previously happy and calm. • Pay attention to your child’s feel- time to finish allows their minds to Children with anxiety disorder ex- ings. settle down, and they often do not perience physical symptoms, some • Stay calm when your child be- need to use the extra time. disabling, which inhibit them from comes anxious about a situation or Many schools are willing to help being able to just shake it off. So event. these children and their families, telling a child he has no reason to • Recognize and praise small ac- but many are not. Once a child is be afraid may not help. In many complishments. diagnosed with anxiety, a parent cases, the child already knows that • Don’t punish mistakes or lack of can fill out a 504. Section 504 of The he shouldn’t be scared of the test or progress. Rehabilitation Act of 1973 requires the teacher or one of many things • Be flexible, but try to maintain a public schools to provide medically that stresses him out, but he doesn’t normal routine. compromised students reasonable know how to stop doing so. • Modify expectations during and appropriate accommodations, Alternatively, understanding and stressful periods. so they may participate fully in validating a child’s feelings does help. • Plan for transitions. (For exam- school. This will protect the child That’s not to say parents should let ple, allow extra time in the morning by ensuring that his medical needs their children avoid every anxiety- if getting to school is difficult). are addressed and also that accom- provoking situation. On the contrary, In some cases, anxiety in children modations will be provided. Parents children need to go to school and is severe enough to impact their are the first and strongest advocates find ways to be successful despite ability to attend school. The Asso- for their child. their anxiety. They also need to know ciation advises parents to “reach For more information on children that they can overcome it with help. out to school personnel about any and anxiety, 504s, and school accommo- Parents need to be their kid’s biggest accommodations that may help your dations for children with anxiety visit, support and cheerleader. Children child succeed in the classroom. You worrywisekids.org. who know that their parents are have the right under the Individuals Danielle Sullivan, a mom of three, is there to support and fight for them with Disabilities Education Act to re- a writer and editor living in New York and are with them, who know their quest appropriate accommodations City. She is a rare species called a Brook- troubles are being taken seriously, related to your child’s diagnosis.” lyn native and very proud of the fact.

10 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 HEALTH When back-to-school time sparks anxiety ack to school is a won- Some of these include: derful time for most Safe person: This could be a coun- B children, not to men- selor, nurse, teacher, or any adult that tion parents. There are new the child feels comfortable with whom HEALTHY teachers and classrooms, the child can go to during anxious mo- new experiences, and friendly ments. This person can talk to the LIVING faces. Most kids are eager child for five to 10 minutes, help calm DANIELLE SULLIVAN to make friends and join the him down, and return to his normal fun, even if they aren’t exactly school day. Often just knowing there thrilled about the work. But is someone who understands and will there is a small population help him is just the bit of reassurance of kids, from preschoolers to and support a child needs. teens, who absolutely dread Cool down pass: This allows the school because they suffer child to leave the classroom when he from anxiety. is feeling anxious to put some cool For these kids, it is not as water on his face or wash his hands, simple as jitters before the restore himself, and return to class first day. The American Acad- less nervous. emy of Pediatrics advises par- Seating: An anxious child will do ents to not discount a child’s better sitting in the most quiet spot in fears. “Because anxious children and who know they are not alone, the room, away from louder and un- may also be quiet, compliant, and have a much better chance of over- ruly students. He will also often ben- eager to please, their difficulties may coming anxiety long-term. efit from being seated near the door. be missed,” it says. It is quite distressing to see your Parents can also request that their Anxiety can manifest itself in a child suffer, but there are ways par- child be moved to a smaller class. number of ways — as physical ail- ents and teachers can help. The Anx- Testing conditions: The child can ments, outbursts, depression, or iety and Depression Association of be allowed to take tests in a quiet EXCEPTIONAL even anger. 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Continued from page 12 The Centers have been bringing experience. The semesters reflect professional dance training to the the seasonal themes of the Jewish community for over 30 years, and calendar, and each class session offer classes in a wide variety of Joyful Jewish education program for kids ages 3 – 11 incorporates age-appropriate les- styles for students of all ages. After-school and weekend classes throughout Brooklyn! sons in religion, Hebrew language There is a strongly committed staff and Jewish culture/ heritage. The dedicated to developing techni- www.figtreeprogram.com approach to religious learning is cal skills for beginner through Hebrew School. Reimagined. progressive, with an emphasis advanced levels. Caring teachers on core Jewish values of charity, with extensive performing and environmental responsibility, and teaching experience who hold social justice. New for 2016-17: In college degrees in dance and are addition to the core curriculum, Fig certified by Dance Educators of Tree will be offering a year-long America make up this staff. A Hebrew language only class! Scroll yearly recital showcases the stu- for more info, or read the class dent’s talents plus an opportunity description, here. for serious and devoted dancers to perform with our award win- Dance ning competition team is provided. Please call or email for further Online Activity Guide April’s Dance-N-Feet information. 3-Locations 4626 Flatlands Avenue; Mark Morris Children and Check it out on (Bet. Schenectady Ave. Teen Program & E. 46th St.) Fort Greene 718-692-4809 3 Lafayette Avenue www.NYParenting.com 9409 Avenue L 718-624-8400 (Bet E. 94th & 95th Sts.) www.mmdg.org 718-272-1813 Offering year-round, community- 9411 Avenue L based dance and music program- (Bet E. 94th & 95th Sts.) 718-272-1813 ming in a fully inclusive and www.aprilsdancenfeet.com nurturing environment, located in Brooklyn Arts Exchange Offering classes in tap, ballet, jazz, the heart of the Brooklyn Cultural 25 Years of Teaching & Learning hip-hop, pointe, lyrical, gymnastics, District. The School’s diverse 421 Fifth Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11215 Praise Dance, African, Caribbean and professional faculty provides [email protected] | 718.832.0018 | youth.bax.org dance, karate, Adult and boys progressive and non-competitive classes, for beginners to advanced instruction with all of our classes students. Private lessons or leveled accompanied by live music. Though FREE SAMPLE CLASSES classes are given for ages 2 - adult we are a non-recital school, there for reasonable prices. The senior are opportunities for students to tap company and boys’ troupe perform and for parents to see have performed with tap legends. their dancers in action. There are 4 platinum award win- Committed to bringing the joy and ning hip-hop competition teams benefits of dance and music to ages 3-18: The Gems, Diamonds, special needs students, our classes Divas and Crystals. They have also are kept small to allow for a more danced in other Manhattan profes- intimate learning experience and sional theater venues. The school’s optional parent participation. These students have been accepted to weekly classes are accompanied by LaGuardia High School (School live music. of Performing Arts), Alvin Ailey The Special Kids Dance program is Saturday, September 10th School, and have performed in a partnership with Extreme Kids & 10:00 am - 2:00 pm commercials. Crew. The Brooklyn Dance Vicky Simegiatos DANCE, THEATER AND TUMBLING CLASSES Centers Performing Arts Center for ages 12 months to 18 years Bensonhurst / Sunset Park / Join the families of the BAX community. Bay Ridge Bay Ridge Financial Aid 6720 20th Ave. 5312 5TH Avenue Meet the BAX faculty and administrative staff 718-492-2279 Available 718 256 5320 and register for the fall term. 9110 5th Ave. 7110-12 Third Avenue 718 333 5767 718-680-0944 youth.bax.org/fall-open-house www.thebrooklyndancecenters. (weekdays after 5:00 p.m. - com Continued on page 16 14 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 Special Advertising Section

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September 2016 • brooklyn Family 21 Finding her shtick A Brooklyn By Tammy Scileppi uper-funny stand-up comedian comedian’s Ophira Eisenberg is an avid S storyteller. She shares her personal stories with strangers wher- journey to ever she performs — and loves it! The popular host of NPR’s hit trivia comedy show, “Ask Me Another,” mommyhood took the city’s comedy scene by storm in 2001, when she arrived here from her native Canada to pursue her calling. At 43, the newbie Brooklyn parent thinks she has that mysterious work- life balance stuff all figured out, and declares, “There’s probably no such thing!” When the budding funny gal dropped anchor in New York City she was hell-bent on making a name for herself in the cut-throat world Photo by Amelie Gamet of stand-up comedy. In her gut, she The new mom has embraced mommyhood, despite her past disinterest in having knew that standing out from the kids. She says her son Lucas, now 6 months old, is her greatest achievement. crowd meant having your own style, as well as your own shtick. And arms of an ice sculpture! By the time she was 34 weeks preg- she had plenty of style. Finding her “I figured whatever came naturally nant, she was exploding with new shtick, well, that would come with to everyone else, just didn’t come to material about what it was like being time. Ask any comedian, and they’ll me,” she added. “On one hand, I felt a “prego,” and her impending moth- tell you the key is to keep working bad about not being maternal. But I erhood. She says she is still grateful at it and trying out new material in also liked it. It was okay that I wasn’t for having so much more to riff on front of different audiences to see put on this earth just to raise chil- during her sets. When the expectant what gets the most laughs. dren and clean the house. I could mom performed her fabulous show After all, that’s what comics live focus on building my career. Plus, “Inside Joke” last year, at a Brook- for — getting laughs. who would torture a child by rais- lyn venue with a snake-like Snoogle When she started her “finding my- ing it in New York City? You’d have body pillow wrapped around her self” journey, Eisenberg didn’t want to have the last name Rockefeller to protruding, low-slung belly, the au- much out of life. Just to make a liv- get a place with closets, let alone a dience couldn’t get enough of her ing and get lots of gigs, and hope- backyard.” self-described “clueless and unpre- fully find a New York apartment that Feeling stressed out, she just cav- pared” comments and complaints. was bigger than 300 square feet, so alierly shrugged off the whole mom- “It’s funny how my act progressed. she could actually walk around her myhood thing. After all, her career It was always autobiographical, but I bed. Oh, and there was one other was finally taking off. And besides, have talked and written a lot on dat- thing: she dreamed of owning a she and husband Jonathan were having, relationships, marriage, and now wine fridge. That was her definition ing fun sans kids. on being a mom,” Eisenberg said. “I of success. But it became increasingly diffi- joked that I was both high risk and Later on, life got a bit more com- cult to ignore those “annoying” swirl- an inspiration, that finding out was plicated, as it always does. When the ing thoughts of pushing strollers and somewhere in between a surprise practicing New Yorker would meet bedtime stories. and a mistake, like a ‘wow’ with a up with her 30-something friends, “Then I turned 40. That year, ‘holy crap’ in it. Because I was older, who seemed like ticking biological things finally started to gel for my I didn’t have to worry about ruining time bombs (and rightly concerned career: I was performing and travel- my life, because now I’d be ruining about their aging eggs), it got her ing a ton, and I wrote a book. I had a someone else’s life.” thinking. All that talk about preg- job at NPR. For one nanosecond, I felt The comic said audiences lapped nancy and stuff, combined with their satisfied, but was still entirely ambiv- up these irreverent one-liners, but collective yen for “gnawing on pudgy alent about having kids. So I ordered they also accomplished something baby thighs,” made the rising comic a wine fridge,” Eisenberg recalled. larger: “The jokes made me feel safe. wonder why she wasn’t experiencing But the stork wouldn’t have any They distanced me from my intense that odd craving as well. of it! fears and allowed me to partially re- She would joke: “Every time I held When the stand-up comedian write my own story.” someone’s baby, it screamed and found out she was pregnant at 43, she And that was something she defi- cried like they had slipped it into the immediately brought it to the stage. nitely needed, after being to hell and

22 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 back prior to her pregnancy with her son.

Tragedy and comedy It was shortly after she got her beloved wine fridge that everything changed. “The next nanosecond, a sledge- hammer smashed through my house of cards,” she wrote in her book “Screw Everyone: Sleeping My Way to Monogamy.” After a routine test, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. “Talk about a ‘wow’ with a ‘holy crap’ in it — just forget the ‘wow.’ To be clear, it was early stage breast cancer, but as you can imagine, there is no such thing as lucky Ophira Eisenberg is a stand-up comedian cancer. And thus and host of NPR’s hit trivia comedy show started a year of hell. I didn’t take “Ask Me Another.” (Above) Eisenberg to Facebook and ask telling jokes at eight-and-a-half months for thoughts or prayers. pregnant, with her bedazzled Snoogle. I didn’t live-tweet it. I was destroyed by it. I could barely hold myself up Google, ‘My baby smiles so much,’ as I went through one, and then un- [and] you get an article that says it expectedly two, surgeries, hundreds could be a brain tumor.)” of tests, 30 days of radiation, and And she’s not worried that she endless hours of trying to figure out had her child later in life. what I did to deserve this.” “I’m enjoying the new perspec- Somehow, Eisenberg got past it tive I have on life, and even though and is now okay. But fate had other I’m one of the older moms, at least I plans in store for her when she took don’t have to worry about feeling like an at-home pregnancy test and dis- I’m missing out on the party life, be- covered it was positive. cause guess what — I’ve done it!” “The word ‘pregnant’ showed up See Eisenberg in action! Her in the little digital window. I called home spot is Gotham Comedy Club. my husband and told him. Then I She performs there several times experienced my first actual pregnant a month. You can also see her at pause,” she wrote. Union Hall and The Bell House in Soon after, though, she miscar- Brooklyn. Recently, she teamed up ried. with New Yorker cartoonist and au- It was when she got pregnant with thor of “Mama Tried” Emily Flake for her son Lucas, who is now 6 months a comedy show, where all the acts old, that everything came together talk about parenting. for this Park Slope mom. She’s so “Sh!t Show” at Union Hall [702 Union happy to finally have a chubby little St. between Fifth and Sixth avenues guy of her very own. The family now in Park Slope, (718) 638–4400, union- lives in a decent-sized flat in the Photo by Mindy Tucker hallny.com] Sept. 8, 7:30 pm. Brooklyn neighborhood. quite wonderful.” to that e-mail, because I’m too busy Eugene Mirman Comedy Festival at But triple - checking two baby cams with my son and working, nothing re- the Bell House [149 Seventh St. between Working mom and drowning in doo-doo and dia- ally bad happens!” she says. Third and Second avenues in Gowanus, Eisenberg says she has found pers can be exhausting — even for She has also realized why raising (718) 643–6510, thebellhouseny.com] mommy bliss in her community. a celebrity — so, baby in tow, Eisen- kids is more challenging today than Sept. 17, 6:30 pm. “My mommy group is on the third berg recently fled back to Canada for ever before. The new season of “Ask Me Another” floor of my apartment building, as a family visit and some downtime. “I’m saying nothing new here when is here! Listen to it on iTunes. For tickets there are four babies born the same The host of “Ask Me Another” I say that the amount of information to a live taping, visit www.nprpresents. year as Lucas, four other kids be- — described as “pub trivia meets you have access to can be really org/organizer/ask-me-another tween 1 and 4, and one pregnant a variety show,” the rambunctious confusing when it comes to figuring Ophira Eisenberg has also released couple,” Eisenberg said. “These are program is jam-packed with a mash- out how to raise your baby. On one her second comedy album “BANGS!” the people that dropped off food, up of trivia, word games, music, puz- hand, it’s amazing to have all of this on Comedy Dynamics, www.comedydy- water, and clothing when I came zles, and celebrities — says she’s information just one desperate 3 am namics.com. home from the hospital. True neigh- getting better at prioritizing, but has Google away, but you can also fall Tammy Scileppi is a Queens-based bors! On some weekdays, all the kids also realized that it’s best not to down a deep hole of contradictory freelance writer and journalist, parent, pour into the hallway and we just sweat the small stuff. ideas, and of course, terrible con- and regular contributor to New York stand around the chaos and talk. It’s “Hey, guess what? If I don’t reply clusions to simple problems. (You Parenting.

September 2016 • brooklyn Family 23 Stitching together character

By Carolyn WaterBury- Lessons from tieman

a childhood ne day in 1969, the county extension sewing contest O agent came to my fourth-grade class — and my to tell the girls about a 4-H sewing contest. She gave us a list of mother’s words rules and a registration form. I had watched my of wisdom mother expertly trans- form piles of shapeless material into exquisitely crafted garments with her magic machine. Now I was going to make some magic of my own. I could not wait to get home and get started! Ignoring my mother’s warnings, I selected a material far more suit- my finger able for a party dress than an apron: pale, lav- cut- ender organdy covered ting with delicate daisy ap- w i t h pliqués. It was the most beautiful cloth I had ever seen. Anxious to begin, I with the needle or sew a few in- was disheartened to dis- experienced digits together was cover all the preliminary not lost on me. Nevertheless, she steps necessary to sew. Ironing proceeded to instruct me on the the material, trimming the pattern, heavy, pinking shears twice the process of inserting the bobbin, ironing the pattern, fitting the pat- size of my hand, I was finally ready threading the needle, and gently tern to the material, pinning the to sew. pressing the lever that controlled pattern to the material, cutting the Having supervised my clumsy the speed of the needle with the material according to the pattern, efforts through the preparatory right knee while smoothly guid- matching up the pieces and pin- measures, my mother cautiously ing the material under the ten- ning them together — it was like introduced me to her prized Singer sion foot to create an even seam. assembling a limp puzzle. With pin- sewing machine. Describing this is so much easier pricked fingers, tired and sore from Her fear that I might pierce than doing it!

24 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 next challenge — propels us toward realizing our potential. Fortunately, my We can prepare our children mother did not to meet the challenges they will face with courage, enthusiasm, We repair succumb to the and determination: Find tasks they can do. Chil- temptation to protect dren want to be useful. They feel Stitching me from possible valued when given opportunities brains without to be helpful. Encourage their ini- disappointment tiative by finding age-appropriate ways to include them in everyday by doing the tasks. major surgery. Take time to teach. Show them work for me. how to do what they are expected to do. Merely telling them is not together sufficient. Give them a standard What’s there Hunched over the Singer cab- to work toward, but have realis- inet, feet planted on the rung tic expectations for their early of the chair (so my knee would attempts. to think about? reach the lever), tongue placed Appreciate effort and recog- firmly between my lips, eyes fixed nize improvement. Express ap- on the pieces of material about to preciation for their efforts to per- Neuroscience at Maimonides. character be joined, I made my first ten- form the task at hand. Provide as- tative stitches. A few days and sistance when necessary. Expect Our patient outcomes are among some tears later, I completed my mistakes and offer guidance in the best in the nation. By Carolyn WaterBury- first sewing project. While recog- correcting them. Keep examples Lessons from tieman nizable as an apron, it was noth- or take pictures of their early ing like the exceptional creations attempts, so they can see their Taking care of your brain is our specialty. Our a childhood ne day in 1969, the my mother produced. improvement over time. neuroscience team is expert in diagnosing and My initial enthusiasm for the Find the fun. county extension Make the work treating brain disorders and injuries. We can repair sewing contest O agent came to contest was replaced by dread environment pleasant. Listen to my fourth-grade class at the prospect of judges see- music, chat, tell jokes, share sto- damage, remove clots, and deliver medication and — and my to tell the girls about ing those imperfect, wavy seams ries, sing while you are working. stents directly to the affected part of your brain— a 4-H sewing contest. and that uneven hem. Sensing my Remember this wise advice from She gave us a list of weakening resolve, my mother Mary Poppins, “you find the fun, without large incisions or major surgery. mother’s words rules and a registration carefully tied the freshly ironed and snap, the job’s a game!” form. I had watched my apron around my waist. As I Strive for excellence. Discuss Neuroscience at Maimonides Medical Center. of wisdom stood scrutinizing the reflection what excellence means and how mother expertly trans- The best care. Right here. form piles of shapeless in the mirror, she tenderly shared to recognize it. Demonstrate or material into exquisitely her thoughts. Her exact words supply examples of excellence. crafted garments with her are lost to me now, but the gist of Practice makes excellence. magic machine. Now I was the message was this: Having the Help them recognize when they going to make some magic of courage to try something new is are doing their best and have my own. I could not wait to more valuable than the outcome achieved excellence so they can get home and get started! of a contest. If you are going to do become their own best critic. Ignoring my mother’s something, do your best. Learn- Learn something new. Let warnings, I selected a ing to do something well takes your children see you struggle. material far more suit- my finger time and practice. Strive to make Let them see your progress. (718)635-5555 ■ whymmc.org able for a party dress your best better as you go. Don’t be afraid to let them see than an apron: pale, lav- cut- “You can be proud that you you sweat! ender organdy covered ting gave this your best effort, and My apron received the blue with delicate daisy ap- w i t h that it’s your work,” she reas- ribbon, primarily because the pliqués. It was the most sured me. judges could tell a 9 year old beautiful cloth I had Fortunately, my mother did made it. The ribbon has long ever seen. not succumb to the temptation since been misplaced, but I saved Anxious to begin, I with the needle or sew a few in- to protect me from possible dis- the apron along with the lessons was disheartened to dis- experienced digits together was appointment by doing the work my mother taught me. They have cover all the preliminary not lost on me. Nevertheless, she for me. Nearly every generation served me well in every facet of steps necessary to sew. Ironing proceeded to instruct me on the of parents wants a better life for life. the material, trimming the pattern, heavy, pinking shears twice the process of inserting the bobbin, their children. They want to pro- Carolyn Waterbury-Tieman is a res- ironing the pattern, fitting the pat- size of my hand, I was finally ready threading the needle, and gently vide opportunities and advan- ident of Lexington, Ky. She has been tern to the material, pinning the to sew. pressing the lever that controlled tages they did not have. Unfor- married for 29 years and has two sons. pattern to the material, cutting the Having supervised my clumsy the speed of the needle with the tunately, the word “better” often She spent 15 years in various agen- material according to the pattern, efforts through the preparatory right knee while smoothly guid- becomes confused with “easier.” cies and clinics as a family therapist matching up the pieces and pin- measures, my mother cautiously ing the material under the ten- Making things easier can actually and parent educator and has written ning them together — it was like introduced me to her prized Singer sion foot to create an even seam. stifle development of desirable extensively on the topic of parenting. assembling a limp puzzle. With pin- sewing machine. Describing this is so much easier qualities. The challenge — to To contact her, please e-mail paren- pricked fingers, tired and sore from Her fear that I might pierce than doing it! learn, to improve, to meet the [email protected].

September 2016 • brooklyn Family 25 From A to ZZZs By Malia JacoBson Po Bronson in his book “Nurture- Read on for age-specific informa- Important Shock: New Thinking About Chil- tion on how sleep impacts learning ant kids to bring home an dren.” This lost sleep comes with a — and how to help kids get a better info linking A? Start with more ZZZs. steep price tag — impaired learning night’s rest: W According to sleep ex- and academic success. perts and numerous new studies, How does sleep boost learning? Early school years, 3–8 shut-eye to lost sleep hurts learning and hin- Researchers believe it has to do For sleep-deprived kids, school ders school-day success. That’s with the way the brain processes trouble starts early: 10 percent of bad news, because today’s kids get information during sleep. In fact, kids in early education suffer from great grades about an hour less sleep each night Michigan State University research- sleep disturbances that disrupt than they did 30 years ago, says ers found that children can even learning, according to a German New York Times bestselling author learn while they’re asleep as the study. The American Professional brain integrates new information Sleep Society reports that sleep de- and memories. Researchers from privation significantly worsens in- How much sleep does your child need? University of Florida discovered attentiveness and hyperactivity in Is your child getting enough rest? Check these guidelines to be sure: that newborns learn in their sleep, young children, leading to attention ages 3 to 6: 10–12 hours per day and new research from the Ameri- deficit hyperactivity disorder-like ages 7 to 12: 10–11 hours per day can Academy of Sleep Medicine symptoms (known as “faux” ADHD). ages 13 to 18: 8–9 hours per day shows that sleep helps students Even modest sleep deprivation perform better on tests. is enough to hinder learning. Ac-

26 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 tivities that end at least an hour Parents must maintain before kids need to wind down for bed. firm school-year Teenage years, 14–18 bedtimes and choose Teenagers are Splaingard’s most sleep-deprived patients, a fact that after-school and doesn’t surprise him. During high evening activities that school, after-school jobs, extracurricular activities, sports, socializ- end at least an hour ing, and homework simply don’t leave enough time for sleep. Most before kids need to teens need more sleep than parents think — more than nine hours wind down for bed. a night — and chronic sleep deprivation hurts learning at a time when kids need lots of mental en- cording to a study published in ergy for tough subjects from chem- the journal “Sleep,” a mere hour istry to calculus. of lost slumber is enough to bring But teens’ busy schedules de- on inattentiveness and hyperactiv- serve only part of the blame for ity in young children. A 2011 study their sleep deficits: cellphones and of 6 and 7 year olds shows that laptops keep teens up late, often language skills, grammar, spelling, into the wee hours. When teens and reading comprehension suffer finally power off their computers when kids get less than nine hours and go to bed, round-the-clock ac- of sleep per night. cess to phones disrupts sleep. A How to help: new study reports that sleeping Sleep-deprived children may near cellphones puts teens at risk not appear sleepy, says Dr. Shelby for so-called “sleep texting:” wak- F. Harris, director of the Behav- ing up and firing off text messages ioral Sleep Medicine Program at during the night without any recol- Montefiore Medical Center in New lection of having sent the texts the York. In fact, they may act hyper next morning. All this sleep disrup- and goofy. But preschoolers and tion adds up to bleary mornings school-age children don’t outgrow and bleak report cards. the need for a consistent bedtime How to help: and bedtime routine. Establish an Protect teens’ precious sleep age-appropriate bedtime that al- hours with a media curfew — shut lows your child to rest for 10 to 11 down all electronics an hour be- hours each night. fore bed and establish a “charg- ing station” outside the bedroom Tween years, 9–13 where teens leave their electron- During the late elementary- and ics overnight. This important step THIRSTY AFTER SCHOOL? middle-school years, academ- keeps bedrooms free of sleep-dis- ics become more challenging and rupting cellphones and computers, The choice is clear sports more competitive. But when says Harris. From A to ZZZs increasingly busy schedules start “The bedroom should be a place Choose water! cutting into sleep, kids retain less for sleep,” she notes. “It’s not a By Malia JacoBson Po Bronson in his book “Nurture- Read on for age-specific informa- of what they learn, says Dr. Mark spot for homework, watching TV, Splaingard, director of the Sleep or surfing the internet.” Important Shock: New Thinking About Chil- tion on how sleep impacts learning restorationplaza.org/health ant kids to bring home an dren.” This lost sleep comes with a — and how to help kids get a better Disorders Center at Nationwide When it comes to learning, tu- info linking A? Start with more ZZZs. steep price tag — impaired learning night’s rest: Children’s Hospital. tors, cutting-edge gadgets, and healthiernyc.org/water W According to sleep ex- and academic success. “Long hours spent on sports hours of homework can’t com- #drinkwaternyc perts and numerous new studies, How does sleep boost learning? Early school years, 3–8 practice or math problems are pensate for hours of lost sleep. shut-eye to lost sleep hurts learning and hin- Researchers believe it has to do For sleep-deprived kids, school counterproductive, if these activi- When parents prioritize kids’ sleep ders school-day success. That’s with the way the brain processes trouble starts early: 10 percent of ties keep kids up late at night,” he needs, learning comes more natu- bad news, because today’s kids get information during sleep. In fact, kids in early education suffer from notes. rally, says Splaingard. great grades about an hour less sleep each night Michigan State University research- sleep disturbances that disrupt Kids will learn more and per- “We think we’re helping make than they did 30 years ago, says ers found that children can even learning, according to a German form better — whether on the field kids more successful with more New York Times bestselling author learn while they’re asleep as the study. The American Professional or in the classroom — with suffi- activities and more homework. brain integrates new information Sleep Society reports that sleep de- cient shut-eye. But what they really need is more and memories. Researchers from privation significantly worsens in- How to help: sleep.” Made possible with support from the How much sleep does your child need? University of Florida discovered attentiveness and hyperactivity in Parents need to understand Malia Jacobson is a nationally pub- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Is your child getting enough rest? Check these guidelines to be sure: that newborns learn in their sleep, young children, leading to attention sleep’s importance and guard kids’ lished journalist and mom of three. ages 3 to 6: 10–12 hours per day and new research from the Ameri- deficit hyperactivity disorder-like sleep hours zealously, says Splain- Her latest book is “Sleep Tight, Every ages 7 to 12: 10–11 hours per day can Academy of Sleep Medicine symptoms (known as “faux” ADHD). gard. That means maintaining firm Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschool- ages 13 to 18: 8–9 hours per day shows that sleep helps students Even modest sleep deprivation school-year bedtimes and choos- ers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, perform better on tests. is enough to hinder learning. Ac- ing after-school and evening ac- or Tirades.”

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empower students as scholars and Catholic citizens so they may lead fulfilling academic, personal, and professional Elementary lives. In 2016-17 over 400 students will St Saviour Catholic be in grades 6-9. Over the next four years, growth will continue until full Academy Park Slope size is reached with approximately 700 • The Williamsburg Montessori School is located in a beautiful riverfront tower 701 8th Avenue, 718-768-8000 students in grades 6-12. In the spring at Schaefer Landing in Williamsburg, Brooklyn serving the communities of www.saintsaviourcatholicacademy. of 2020 the founding class will proudly org Northern Brooklyn & Western Queens. The brand new building provides graduate! the latest in security and convenience. Our classrooms are fully-equipped Principal – Maura Lorenzen The school has a diverse and vibrant Key features include: A College Prep Montessori environments and all lead teachers are Montessori trained and Course of Study, an enthusiastic fac- certiﬁ ed. We strive to follow the work of Maria Montessori, assisting each student body and attracts children from all over Brooklyn. The long tradi- ulty of expert educators, an extended child in developing independence, coordination, concentration and a sense tion of excellent education continues day, week, and year, a positive school of order as well as building a peaceful, productive school community. with new programs, upgraded facilities culture and family involvement. • We are open year round and early care starting at 7:30 and extended and an inspired faculty. Classes range Differentiated academic support is hours until 6pm from Nursery through Grade 8. We achieved through smaller classes, small offer a balanced curriculum, rigorous group interventions & individualized • Our Infant – Toddler program serves children 3 months to 2 years of age academics, and a strong arts program. tutoring. Enrichment Courses, Athletics • Our Preschool and Primary programs serve children 2 to 6 years of age Innovative programs are launched and Elective Clubs are optional. • Our Lower Elementary program serves children 6 to 9 years of age annually and have partnered with our local YMCAs to enrich our physical We currently have spots available in our Infant/Toddler education. In addition to extended Preschool and our 6-9 year old classrooms school, there is an exciting Enrichment ABC Infant & Toddler Program. Our graduates are accepted Contact us for more information or to schedule a visit Center & ABC Child Center into prestigious Catholic, public and Greenpoint private high schools. In accordance 450 KENT AVENUE, BROOKLYN, NY 11249 109 Nassau Avenue, 718-389-9004 with Catholic values, we educate stu- www.abcchildcenter.com 718.384.3400 • [email protected] dents in mind, body and spirit. [email protected] williamsburg-montessori.org Providing safe, age-appropriate, and Catholic High stimulating programs for children E R I A V A from ages 3 months to 5 years, while N X School fulfilling their need to laugh, learn,

E M S A P I I R C A play, make new friends, and discover E M S T A B E L L O C . R A M V Y O . XAVERIAN N O K L Y N Xaverian High School new things. Child care for Infants Bay Ridge & Toddlers, ages 3-24 months and OPEN HOUSE Sunday, October 16, 2016, 10am to 2pm 7100 Shore Road, 718-836-7100 x127 Preschool for children ages 2-5 years. www.xaverian.org Full Day, Half Day Programs & Drop-off A private, co-educational, Catholic, A Catholic, co-educational, college preparatory Care are available. Open year-round, PRIVATE school in the tradition of the Xaverian Brothers college preparatory school for grades 6 Monday-Friday, 8am-6pm with rolling BUS – 12, established in 1957, it is one of SERVICE since 1957, Xaverian offers: admission. Email us for more informa- thirteen schools nationwide sponsored AVAILABLE! O tion or to schedule a tour. A cutting edge, one-to-one learning by the Xaverian Brothers. Students are environment with iPads for every student given the opportunity to grow in their Brooklyn Pre-School of O Project and problem-based learning through faith, intellect, leadership skills, musical Science hands-on classroom experiences within the passions, and athletic talents. Boerum Hill / Park Slope Michael T. Strianese ‘74 STEM Program, Xaverian’s highly acclaimed Science, Technology, Many unique academic programs 11 Wyckoff Street, 347-429-9244 Engineering, and Math curriculum in prepare students for success in top col- 65 Park Place, 718-622-1203 conjunction with Project Lead the Way leges and universities. An Internship www.brooklynpreschoolofscience. Program allows students to take part in com O College counseling and Internship Program real-world experiences in professional Accepting: Two’s, Three’s and Four’s O College credit opportunities available fields of their choice. One of the first Carmelo the Science Fellow has been through numerous AP, St. John’s University, and schools in the United States to embrace teaching children in Brooklyn for the Syracuse University courses a one-to-one computing environment, over 17 years. During this time, he has O College placements at prestigious schools Xaverian provides each student with educated thousands of children and such as Brown University, Columbia University, an iPad, and also boasts a renowned he has come to realize the importance Cornell University, Georgetown University, music program (MAX), and the school’s and effectiveness of introducing a sci- CALL TODAY Macaulay Honors at CUNY, New York University, Pipe and Drum Corps has established ence based curriculum to his students. TO SCHEDULE YOUR Princeton University, University of Notre itself as one of the best in the city. “CLIPPER FOR A DAY” Dame, University of Pennsylvania, US Military Young children starting preschool bring APPOINTMENT! Academy at West Point, and US Naval Academy, a sense of wonder and curiosity about with the class of 2016 earning $36,880,924 in the world. Whether they are handling scholarships! Charter High gerbils, flying kites, melting ice cubes, or excavating for fossils, children are O Unique extracurricular offerings, including School the renowned MAX (Music at Xaverian) engaged in discovering out how the Program, as well as a competitive athletic Unity Preparatory Charter world works. The school brings this program for boys and girls School of Brooklyn curiosity and wonder to life, and uses it Bedford-Stuyvesant to provide a foundation for meaningful For more information, please contact Xaverian’s Office of Admissions at 432 Monroe St., 718-455-5046 math, language, and literacy develop- (718) 836-7100 x127 or [email protected] www.unityprep.org ment. 7100 Shore Road, Brooklyn, NY 11209 | www.xaverian.org/admissions | TACHS #011 Since 2013, the school’s mission is to Continued on page 30 28 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 Special Advertising Section COBBLE HILL, BROOKLYN LePort Montessori

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Continued from page 28 in a culturally diverse community. A The Williamsburg vibrant, thriving community of educa- Neighborhood Nursery tors and learners actively engaged in intellectual growth and participation School in the arts and athletics, guided by the Williamsburg Quaker principles of truth, simplicity 54 South 2nd Street, 718-782-4181 and peaceful resolution of conflict. We are accepting www.wnns.org [email protected] Each student is offered a challenging Founded on the belief that a good education that develops intellectual early childhood program should pro- abilities and ethical and social values 6th grade and 9th grade vide children and their families with a to support a productive life of lead- bridge between the worlds of home ership and service. BFS offers the and school. The nursery school envi- International Baccalaureate (IB) Diploma ronment must be both structured and Program for high school juniors and applications for the nurturing; it must combine the safety seniors. and comfort of home with the social and intellectual stimulation of school. Brooklyn Heights 2016-2017 school year. WNNS’s curriculum is firmly based in Montessori School the ideals of Progressive education. Cobble Hill As such the program is play-based, 185 Court St., 718-858-5100 child centered, and focused on social- www.bhmsny.org emotional growth. WNNS provides Students ages 2-14 learn in three-year a school experience that is carefully mixed age groups developing collabo- structured, yet also allows the children ration and leadership skills, compas- to explore the school world at their sion, and mastery of the academic own pace and in their own way. It subjects. This approach engages stu- is this combination of structure and dents in a challenging and meaningful freedom that encourages the children’s curriculum inspiring independence, spontaneous curiosity and introduces confidence, curiosity, leadership and them to the joys of learning. collaboration. This global approach to learning includes language arts, social sciences, mathematics, sci- Private School ence, Spanish, technology, athletics, AltSchool and the arts; students thrive in an Brooklyn Heights environment that supports individual 212 Hicks Street learning styles and the freedom to AltSchool East Village learn at their own pace. Each child 1 Avenue B, NYC is nourished to encourage compas- AltSchool Union Square sion, respect, and independence of 90 5th Avenue, NYC thought. Accredited by NYSAIS and [email protected] the American Montessori Society and a www.altschool.com member of the National Association of A team of inspiring instructors create Independent Schools. a personalized education for every student, engage them in their own Christian Heritage learning, and help children develop Academy a sense of responsibility in the learn- Flatlands ing process. A personalized approach 1100 East 42nd Street develops each child’s knowledge, agil- 718-377-5682 Visit www.unityprep.org ity, and confidence to navigate the [email protected] future. We are accepting applications www.cha-ny.org to learn more about our college preparatory for the 2017-2018 school year for the Committed to developing the full Lower Schools in Brooklyn Heights and potential of each student in a disci- curriculum, extensive clubs/sports program, the East Village, and the Middle School plined, caring, non-denominational in Union Square, as well as limited Christian environment, the school’s academic supports, and positive school culture. transfer applications for the 2016-2017 vision is to implement this goal through school year in Brooklyn Heights and a multicultural, technology-based the East Village. Please contact us by curriculum. Taught by highly quali- email for more information or sign up fied Christian educators who cater to 432 Monroe Street, for an event on our website. individual differences and learning Brooklyn Friends School styles, the fulfillment of this vision Third Floor Brooklyn Heights / Downtown also depends on parents and guard- Brooklyn ians also being highly involved in their 375 Pearl Street children’s education. With everyone Brooklyn, NY 11221 718-852-1029 working together; students will be fully www.brooklynfriends.org equipped to excel in their chosen fields. Phone (718) 455-5046 Since 1867, providing a college prepa- The goal, in fostering the pursuit of ratory program serving students from excellence in all students, both spiritu- Fax (718) 455-5049 Preschool - Grade 12, and committed ally and academically, is to prepare to educating each student intellectually, students to fulfill their responsibility as aesthetically, physically, and spiritually Continued on page 32 30 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 Special Advertising Section WINDMILL MONTESSORI SCHOOL Accredited Preschool, Elementary, JHS & Academic Summer Camp A PEACEFUL PLACE TO LEARN SINCE 1941 Proudly Celebrating 75 Years of Quality Education Windmill’s environment encourages children to • Learn Naturally At Their Own Pace • Find And Develop Their Own Interests, And • Get The Individual Attention Needed To Thrive Open CURRICULUM ADVANTAGES HOuses Tuesday, Sept. 13th Montessori Method, French, Computer Skills, Wednesday,Sept. 21st Physical Education, Yoga, Music, Art Thursday, Oct. 6th Wednesday, Oct. 19th PLUS MORE Thursday, Nov. 3rd Small Class Size, Dedicated Staff, Wednesday, Nov. 16th Outdoor Recreation, A/C Classrooms, Thursday, Dec. 1st Wednesday, Dec. 14th Curriculum-based Trips, Wednesday, Jan. 11th After School Program (3:40–5:45pm) Happy Learners (ages 2.3 - 14) 718-375-7973 H 718-375-4277 e-mail: [email protected] website: www.windmontsch.org Windmill is non-sectarian. 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Continued from page 30 Optional are morning, afternoon, and productive citizens, and to positively full-day preschool and Kindergarten influence the course of events in the classes, as well as early bird drop off, twenty-first century. and a fun summer session! Centrally located and very near Brooklyn College, The Co-op School Brooklyn Center for the Performing Elementary School: Arts, and Midwood High School. Bedford Stuyvesant 40 Brevoort Place Urban Strategies Early 718-576-6470 Learn Child Care Centers Preschool: East New York / Flatlands 87 Irving Place 1091 Sutter Avenue/1152 Elton Street 347-721-3408 718-348-9349/718-348-9349 www.thecoopschool.org www.urbanstrategiesny.org An independent pre- and elementary Servicing children 2.9 to 5 years. For school founded in 2003, with a focus nearly three decades, the preschool on inquiry-based learning, where programs have been working with chil- children ask questions and find their dren and their families to prepare them Play-based. Progressive. Serving families and children since 1999. own answers, a technique that builds for the transition into kindergarten. confidence and a love of learning. The By the time students enter elemen- There are still slots in our full-day 2s program. school uses a cooperative model to tary school, they are well developed Tours are available for applying families! keep costs down and be accessible for academically, socially and physically to all families. Expansion through middle meet the challenges in their new learn- Applications for the 2016-2017 school year are available on our website school will be complete in 2020. ing environment. The caring staff is Students come from diverse economic, also diligent in their work to encourage The Williamsburg Neighborhood Nursery School racial, ethnic and family structured parents to become active in making Ages 2–4 backgrounds. Honoring difference and decisions concerning their children’s promoting understanding of varied education. Additionally, there is a 54 South Second Street, Brooklyn, NY 11249 • wnns.org viewpoints is imperative and ongoing. partnership with the Committee of Pre- (718) 782-4181 • [email protected] Committed to anti-bias teaching, which School Education to provide a quality for young children is as much about learning experience for students with precluding the formation of biases as special needs. Students are also given it is disproving their myths. The joy of free nutritious meals: breakfast, lunch self-directed learning and a practice and snack. USEL is licensed by the DOH of reflection together, nurture and and Mental Hygiene and funded by the activate students and their families to federal government through the City of create an equitable world. The Core New York. Values are: Compassion, Uniqueness, Innovation, Community Action and Joy. Williamsburg Montessori 450 Kent Ave, Brooklyn LePort Montessori School Sonia Nachuk, Director Cobble Hill 718-384-3400 292 Court Street [email protected] 718-340-3550 www.williamsburg-montessori.org www.leportschools.com/bk Opened since January 2014 by a small Opening this fall, and offering part- group of dedicated families and teach- time and full-time Montessori programs ers who are Montessori credentialed. for infants, toddlers, and preschool, Since then, it has become a vibrant as well as a Spanish Immersion option fixture in South Williamsburg, currently for toddlers and preschool. Children serving 125 children in the Infant- are guided at every stage of develop- Toddler, Primary and Lower Elementary ment to gain the essential knowledge, programs. The school space is light thinking skills, and strength of char- and beautiful and filled with natural At Brooklyn Friends School, acter necessary to flourish as joyous Montessori-created materials. 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September 2016 • brooklyn Family 39 tablets, and computers. The initiative is slated to continue with each year’s group of fourth graders — encouraging them to visit the sites, parks, and public lands in their own backyards. However, it is not completely tech- free, because the fourth-grade students must go to the Every Kid in a Park website to receive their pass. The pass admits the fourth grader and additional passengers in a personal vehicle (or up to three more if the park or site charges a per person fee). The Every Kid in a Park initiative also serves as a call to action. Fourth graders — between the ages of 9 and 11 — are at a prime stage in development, which is just shy of the adolescence phase. This initiative is an effort to build a new generation of environmentalists, historians, and Carl Zitsman outdoor stewards. To embrace this highly influential time, children and families are invited to discover the national parks and become enam- ored by them. So, try boating, hik- ing, fishing, or camping with your children! Or, learn more about our Get every kid nation’s history, plants, and wildlife. If your schedule during the academic year is packed with activities, consider taking a single day to visit or volunteer at nearby park, site, or public land. On Sept. 24, groups and individuals can celebrate Public into the parks Lands Day (which is in its 23rd year and sponsored by Toyota) by volun- By Shnieka L. JohnSon 1 and going until Aug. 31, 2017. teering to help preserve public lands This is a According to the National Park consisting of thousands of parks and ummer has come to an end Service, this initiative is part of Pres- millions of acres nationwide. On this great time to and back-to-school events are ident Obama’s commitment to pro- day, fees are waived — making parks S in full swing, but that does not tect our nation’s outdoor spaces. more accessible to those that want mean that a family road trip is out of The program, established in 2015, to visit or want to lend a helping explore the the question. Whether it is a week- aims to ensure that Americans — hand in their neighborhood parks, end outing or a longer excursion dur- especially young Americans — have local beaches, and national parks. ing a school break, families have the the opportunity to visit the country’s The National Park Service wants to outdoors opportunity to get out and explore national parks. encourage use of public lands for new, exciting, and educational sites Children can benefit from this op- education, recreation, and general this fall. We are well into the National portunity in so many ways — by not health. Take this day to enjoy the Park Service’s centennial year, and only engaging in a unique setting for great outdoors! families are encouraged to partici- family time, but also using the parks Fourth graders can visit the “Get Your pate in the milestone by attending as a supplement to in-class learn- Pass” section of www.everykidinapark. programming focused on recreation, ing. These “living classrooms” (i.e., gov, complete an online activity, and conservation, and preservation. outdoor places and historic sites) download a personalized voucher for Is your child a fourth grader? The provide hands-on, real-world oppor- print and unlimited use at federal lands latest initiative, Every Kid in a Park, tunities to develop critical skills and and waters locations for one year. The allows fourth graders throughout learn about history and the environ- paper voucher can also be exchanged the country to receive a pass for free ment around them. Parents can find for a more durable, Interagency Annual entry to locations with the National links to additional information on Fourth Grade Pass at certain federal Park Service. The pass is not only parks and nearby public lands just lands or waters sites. The website offers for them, but their families as well by visiting the website (www.every- information on how to obtain a voucher — giving them all access to more kidinapark.gov). Bring your family to and pass, tips for trip planning, and how than 2,000 federally-managed lands spend the day outdoors! parents and educators can get involved. and waters nationwide. Fourth grad- This initiative showcases his- Shnieka Johnson is an education con- ers will be able to learn about their toric sites, federal lands, and waters, sultant and freelance writer. She is based heritage, history, and culture while giving children an opportunity to in Manhattan where she resides with her connecting with nature. The pass is connect to the outdoors — a nice husband and son. Contact her via her valid for an entire year, starting Sept. change from screen time on phones, website: www.shniekajohnson.com.

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September 2016 • brooklyn Family 41 HealtHy eating Back-to-school eats e all knew it was coming: for later. Just before dinnertime dur- the new school year has fi- ing the week, heat up the broth and W nally arrived! As we settle warm the cooked vegetables and into our new schedule, we are form- portioned meat in the broth. Once ing new routines and rituals. This is warmed up, put each garnish sepa- a great time to establish weeknight rately into little bowls. family meals within those routines. Choices for quality noodles Here are a few tips to create simple, abound. Simply boil your favorite Tips for fun meals to be shared together. type, lightly dress with vegetable oil to avoid sticking, and put into a large feeding kids Stock up on your serving bowl. Soft boil, poach, or fry Chef Joanna DeVita kids’ new favorites eggs and put onto a serving platter. Over the course of the summer, At the table, let everyone cus- our kids have had a chance to try new tomize their own bowl with broth, things. Through play dates, camp, vegetables, meat, noodles, and eggs. traveling, and staying over with fam- Don’t forget your favorite condi- ily, new flavors and types of cuisine ments such as toasted sesame oil, have probably been introduced. I like chili paste, and kimchi. to take the kids to the store or market These types of meals are perfect and let them show me some of the for families that have some vegetar- foods they have been trying when we tomato skins. Use the skinless to- ians. Just keep the broth veggie, add were away from each other — maybe mato flesh in marinara sauce, tomato tofu as a choice, and keep the meat even a new fruit or vegetable! soup, or simply freeze the peeled separate or don’t serve at all. You can experiment with new rec- tomatoes as they are and add them ipes in the kitchen together, giving to recipes later in the year. There are Stock up for kids a sense of confidence about the few meals as satisfying on a rainy, the weekend exciting foods they are trying. cold fall evening as grilled cheese Busy back-to-school schedules and tomato soup. With summer’s may prevent us from getting a chance take advantage of ripe last sweet tomatoes sitting in your sit down together to share meals September tomatoes freezer, this delightful meal comes during the week. I like to keep the While canning your own tomatoes together in no time! pantry stocked with ingredients for is a fantastic way to preserve the late my families’ favorite brunch dishes, harvest tomato bounty, few of us Create a noodle bar so we can all catch up with each have the time and resources it takes Noodle bowls are a great way to other on the weekend. Whether it is to perform such a task. Another way please the whole family as everyone pancakes (recipe follows), oatmeal, to keep those sweet ripe tomatoes can add in whatever they like. Make or scones, something freshly made at your fingertips long after the final a rich broth on the weekend, along on the weekend is extremely com- harvest has passed is to make soup with vegetable garnishes such as forting. Round out the meal with or sauce out of it and then freeze that fresh corn cut off the cob, bok choy, fresh fruit and yogurt — or if you are in quart containers for weeknight and charred scallions. like us, some jam and maple syrup meals. If you’re using meat such as from summer travels! You can either quick boil (30 sec- chicken or pork to create the broth, onds) or roast the tomatoes on high remove the meat from the broth, Don’t over complicate for a few minutes to remove the portion it, and keep it in the fridge the weeknight meal Weeknight meals should be about togetherness, connecting over food. depending on the flour) Whole-wheat (if using). Simplify your offerings if it means blueberry pancakes 1 egg Add the dry ingredients into the wet. that dinner gets served and does not serves: 2 to 4 4 tbs melted, lightly browned butter Mix gently with a rubber spatula until cause the cook anxiety. When we batter just comes together. do not over sit down together and share a meal, INGREDIENTS: 1 tsp vanilla extract mix. Allow batter to sit for 20 minutes we are supporting each other and 1 cup white unbleached all purpose 1/2 cup frozen wild blueberries or 3/4 if you have the time. Thin the batter cup cleaned, fresh blueberries learning healthy eating habits for a flour slightly with extra milk if needed. lifetime! 1/2 cup whole wheat flour DIRECTIONS: Measure the flours, bak- gently fold in the blueberries, taking Joanna DeVita is executive chef at 1 tbs baking powder ing powder, salt, and sugar (if using) care not to mix too much and turn the Léman Manhattan Preparatory School. 1 tsp salt into a medium-sized mixing bowl. Mix batter purple. She loves nothing more than spending 1 tbs maple syrup, agave syrup, lightly with a whisk and set aside. griddle pancakes using fresh butter time with her family outdoors and shar- honey, or granulated sugar in another mixing bowl, add: milk, to grease the pan before every batch. ing with them her love and respect for 1 1/4 cup milk (maybe more, egg, melted butter, vanilla, and syrup enjoy! nature, good ingredients, and the joy of cooking.

42 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 HealtHy eating HealtHy eating Back-to-school eats Getting back on e all knew it was coming: for later. Just before dinnertime dur- the new school year has fi- ing the week, heat up the broth and W nally arrived! As we settle warm the cooked vegetables and into our new schedule, we are form- portioned meat in the broth. Once the nutrition track ing new routines and rituals. This is warmed up, put each garnish sepa- a great time to establish weeknight rately into little bowls. t’s back-to-school time again and family meals within those routines. Choices for quality noodles many families have prepared Here are a few tips to create simple, abound. Simply boil your favorite I their children with new supplies, Tips for fun meals to be shared together. type, lightly dress with vegetable oil Good sense backpacks, and school clothing to to avoid sticking, and put into a large ensure a successful new academic feeding kids Stock up on your serving bowl. Soft boil, poach, or fry eatinG year. Chef Joanna DeVita kids’ new favorites eggs and put onto a serving platter. Christine M. PaluMbo, rD But one of the most important Over the course of the summer, At the table, let everyone cus- tools to share with your kids is our kids have had a chance to try new tomize their own bowl with broth, healthier eating. After all, the links things. Through play dates, camp, vegetables, meat, noodles, and eggs. between nutrition and school perfor- traveling, and staying over with fam- Don’t forget your favorite condi- mance are clear. If the kids don’t re- ily, new flavors and types of cuisine ments such as toasted sesame oil, ceive the quality fuel they need, their have probably been introduced. I like chili paste, and kimchi. ability to concentrate falls short in to take the kids to the store or market These types of meals are perfect today’s competitive school environ- and let them show me some of the for families that have some vegetar- ment. foods they have been trying when we tomato skins. Use the skinless to- ians. Just keep the broth veggie, add The problem that often stands were away from each other — maybe mato flesh in marinara sauce, tomato tofu as a choice, and keep the meat in the way of home cooking is plan- even a new fruit or vegetable! soup, or simply freeze the peeled separate or don’t serve at all. ning, or rather, the lack of it. Orga- You can experiment with new rec- tomatoes as they are and add them nizing for the school year goes be- ipes in the kitchen together, giving to recipes later in the year. There are Stock up for yond slapping a planner on the wall kids a sense of confidence about the few meals as satisfying on a rainy, the weekend or updating your Google calendar. exciting foods they are trying. cold fall evening as grilled cheese Busy back-to-school schedules Many parents are too busy trying to and tomato soup. With summer’s may prevent us from getting a chance get through their work day to even take advantage of ripe last sweet tomatoes sitting in your sit down together to share meals think about dinner until they are on September tomatoes freezer, this delightful meal comes during the week. I like to keep the their way home. Once they get to the While canning your own tomatoes together in no time! pantry stocked with ingredients for grocery store, they are too rushed is a fantastic way to preserve the late my families’ favorite brunch dishes, to make smart decisions. Sound fa- harvest tomato bounty, few of us Create a noodle bar so we can all catch up with each miliar? have the time and resources it takes Noodle bowls are a great way to other on the weekend. Whether it is Here are eight ways to help bring to perform such a task. Another way please the whole family as everyone pancakes (recipe follows), oatmeal, those better eating intentions to re- to keep those sweet ripe tomatoes can add in whatever they like. Make or scones, something freshly made ality: Once you have established an inven- for dessert in an attractive bowl. at your fingertips long after the final a rich broth on the weekend, along on the weekend is extremely com- 1. Get your kids’ feedback. It will tory of your standard items, you can 7. network with the parents in harvest has passed is to make soup with vegetable garnishes such as forting. Round out the meal with make your life easier for the entire organize a spreadsheet that helps the neighborhood. Find out what or sauce out of it and then freeze that fresh corn cut off the cob, bok choy, fresh fruit and yogurt — or if you are school year. Sit down with your chil- you keep track as they get used up they are feeding their kids. You may in quart containers for weeknight and charred scallions. like us, some jam and maple syrup dren and have them make a list of and need replenishing. grab some great ideas for your child’s meals. If you’re using meat such as from summer travels! their 10 favorite lunches and dinners. 5. teach the kids to keep track of breakfast, lunchbox, or dinner. You can either quick boil (30 sec- chicken or pork to create the broth, By rotating those menus throughout supplies. Encourage the children to 8. Consider a meal delivery pro- onds) or roast the tomatoes on high remove the meat from the broth, Don’t over complicate the school year, you can provide note when you’re getting “low” on a gram for a few weeks. They can re- for a few minutes to remove the portion it, and keep it in the fridge the weeknight meal ample variety while simplifying the particular item, not just when you’re move some of the barriers to health- Weeknight meals should be about weekly shopping. “out” of it. ier eating such as time, planning, togetherness, connecting over food. 2. identify the meals your fam- 6. Maintain the ingredients for and lack of culinary skills. depending on the flour) (if using). Whole-wheat Simplify your offerings if it means ily will need each week. These in- three dinners you can serve for The beginning of school signals blueberry pancakes 1 egg Add the dry ingredients into the wet. that dinner gets served and does not clude breakfast, lunch, and dinner, those days. Everyone has days that parents to get back on the nutrition serves: 2 to 4 4 tbs melted, lightly browned butter Mix gently with a rubber spatula until cause the cook anxiety. When we plus snacks. In addition to planning, are too stressful or busy to get to the track. By creating nourishing “les- batter just comes together. do not over sit down together and share a meal, involve the kiddos in shopping and store. For example, spaghetti with son plans,” your offspring will be INGREDIENTS: 1 tsp vanilla extract mix. Allow batter to sit for 20 minutes we are supporting each other and cooking as much as possible. jarred red sauce and grated cheese prepared for academic success! Who 1 cup white unbleached all purpose 1/2 cup frozen wild blueberries or 3/4 if you have the time. Thin the batter cup cleaned, fresh blueberries learning healthy eating habits for a 3. avoid purchasing food at the could be one. Risotto made with knows, maybe you, too, will benefit flour slightly with extra milk if needed. lifetime! last minute. You may end up just Arborio rice, a package of frozen by improved performance at work? 1/2 cup whole wheat flour DIRECTIONS: Measure the flours, bak- gently fold in the blueberries, taking Joanna DeVita is executive chef at buying whatever is available instead asparagus, and grated cheese could Christine Palumbo is a Naperville- 1 tbs baking powder ing powder, salt, and sugar (if using) care not to mix too much and turn the Léman Manhattan Preparatory School. of stopping to think of what foods be another. A third could be quesa- registered dietitian nutritionist who is 1 tsp salt into a medium-sized mixing bowl. Mix batter purple. She loves nothing more than spending are nourishing. dillas made with tortillas, shredded a Fellow of the American Academy 1 tbs maple syrup, agave syrup, lightly with a whisk and set aside. griddle pancakes using fresh butter time with her family outdoors and shar- 4. Keep your kitchen stocked with cheese, and jarred salsa. Round out of Nutrition and Dietetics. Follow her honey, or granulated sugar in another mixing bowl, add: milk, to grease the pan before every batch. ing with them her love and respect for healthy staples. Start by making lists these meals with carrot or celery on Twitter @PalumboRD, Facebook at 1 1/4 cup milk (maybe more, egg, melted butter, vanilla, and syrup enjoy! nature, good ingredients, and the joy of of essential ingredients you can use sticks, a simple tossed green salad, Christine Palumbo Nutrition, or Chris@ cooking. for most meals and work from there. or frozen veggies. Serve canned fruit ChristinePalumbo.com.

September 2016 • brooklyn Family 43 PARENTING

Everyday, I see people — many that I liked and respected — act like unruly 5-year-olds as they dili- The politics gently fight to defend their view. Even worse, I see those same people spew poison with the ease of a black widow spider. I can’t imagine that these people would intention- of ... politics ally want to display their worst selves to the world, or even worse, consider myself a very tolerant litical candidate or have the exact to their own kids … and in writing. person. Actually, I’m accepting same beliefs, but it seems that Fa- As parents, our kids are intently I almost to a fault, and I can usu- cebook and Twitter, and even Ins- watching how we behave, and read- JUST WRITE ally see all sides of an issue. I will tagram, have become a playground ing what we put out there, or say- definitely listen to everyone’s side for people to be hateful, venge- ing to a spouse, neighbor, or friend. MOM of an issue. This trait has helped ful, and outright insane, mirroring How can we tell our kids not to DANIELLE SULLIVAN me in parenting, managing a staff, the road this current election has bully others and then go on hateful and getting along with friends of all taken. rants as easily as we take a breath? beliefs. I generally don’t mind what When I was growing up and I respect that everyone has their anyone thinks or does, as long as learned that people should not dis- own ideas on how we can make he or she is not hurting anyone, of cuss politics or religion in public, this world better, but change can course. To each his own is a good I never quite understood why. As only come from working together rule of thumb. I grew older, I realized that the with clear, rational minds and open However, I began to feel ruffled myriad opinions among any given hearts. a few months ago when I would go group of people could be colossal It comes to mind that another old on my social media accounts and and opposing. In addition, when saying still rings true, “If you don’t see disparaging remarks about so those opinions are threatened, they have something nice to say, don’t many people who I like and respect. can trigger a deep sensitivity that say anything at all.” Of course, we It felt unsettling. As the months hovers around the person’s be- all have the right to free speech, progressed, it only worsened. liefs on love, life, family, and but that doesn’t mean we have to Now, I don’t expect any of us patriotism. Unfortunately, not choose the lowest form of ourselves to endorse the same po- everyone can keep a rational to put on display. I much prefer the head when triggered. posts (and campaigns) that praise its choice of candidate rather than disparage the other. Even though we live a world where everything is flaunted, often disgustingly and unedited on Twitter, we need to hold ourselves to a higher standard, and consider how much of what we write online is what we would actually say at the water cooler or at a party. Words are things. That’s something that Maya Angelou, the great poet and writer, always said. Words have the power to bring people down or lift people up, deflate or inspire, and instigate vengeance or call out for peace, so let’s commit to choose them with care as we head into November and beyond. Danielle Sullivan, a mom of three, has worked as a writer and editor in the parenting world for more than 10 years. Sullivan also writes about pets and parenting for Disney’s Babble.com. Find Sullivan on her blogs, Just Write Mom and Some Puppy To Love.

44 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 Education Helping children to succeed in math

dear teacher, should be aware of complaints and I always dreaded math signs that may indicate a child has Dear Teacher classes and quit taking math an eyes or vision problem: Peggy gisler and courses as soon as possible, • D o e s your child hold objects Marge eberts but I want my children to be close to the face when trying to focus successful in the subject. Can or sit close to the television? you help? • D o e s your child have frequent headaches? dear parent, • I s there an unusual appearance Parents can definitely con- to the eyes? tribute to making sure that their • I s there frequent blinking or eye children develop math skills. rubbing? One of the best ways to do this • I s there unusual sensitivity to is by helping them develop and light? keep a keen interest in math. • D o e s your child close or cover All young children start out one eye? being interested in math. They • D o one or both eyelids droop, or love to count objects and line does one eyelid tend to close? them up in groups, like putting two can’t think of any to share with their • I s the iris (colored part of the ducks and three bears together to children, they can search online for eye) different in color in the two get five. They also love to play games classic math problems. eyes? in which they are throwing the dice There is one no-no in encouraging • D o the eyes tend to “dance” or and counting the number of squares children’s interest in math. Parents show to-and-fro movements (nys- that they can move. must not share their own negative tagmus)? Parents need to encourage this experiences. • D o the eyes appear to turn in, almost automatic interest in math. Visit our Dear Teacher website, out, up, or down, or tend to intermit- According to Jo Boaler, a professor DearTeacher.com, and you can find tently drift off center? of mathematics education at Stan- under “Math Skill Builders” ways to • I s there a head tilt or turn, par- ford University, the best encourage- introduce mental math to your chil- ticularly when concentrating on ob- ment comes from providing a setting dren. You will also find on the web- jects at a distance or near? in which children’s mathematical site a list of children’s books with • D o e s your child complain of see- thinking is validated and encour- mathematics themes that will let ing double? aged. When parents give children a them enjoy and learn math while • D o e s your child lose his or her set of pattern blocks or Cuisenaire reading interesting stories. There place when reading? rods, they will do all sorts of math- are also intriguing and challenging • D o e s your child have difficulty ematical things with them. This is math riddles and puzzles. remembering what he or she reads? the time for parents to marvel at the Parents should keep vision in mind shapes or repeating patterns that Look for these signs when equipping their children with the children have created. of vision problems all of the necessary tools for a suc- Besides providing a setting that dear teacher, cessful school year. If there is a fam- fosters mathematical thinking, chil- My children always pass the vi- ily history of significant pediatric eye dren should be given puzzles and sion screening at school. Beyond this, or vision disorders or a potential eye problems to solve. Then parents and are there any signs of possible vision or vision problem is detected during children can work on them together. problems that I should be looking for? a screening examination, the child is This does not have to be a nightly usually referred for a comprehensive ritual, but it can be done at the dear parent, eye examination by a pediatric oph- dinner table from time to time. It is Vision plays an extremely impor- thalmologist or an eye care specialist important for parents to ask ques- tant role in childhood development ac- appropriately trained to evaluate and tions about how children are trying ademically, socially, and athletically, treat pediatric patients. to solve a problem, and for children according to Dr. Kara M. Cavuoto of Parents should send questions and to get in the habit of asking ques- the Bascom Palmer Eye Institute. She comments to dearteacher@dearteacher. tions as they talk over how they will encourages parents to take advantage com or ask them on the columnists’ web- solve a problem. Children will gain of any vision screening opportunities site at www.dearteacher.com. enthusiasm for math through solv- that may be available to them. © Compass Syndicate Corporation, 2016. ing challenging problems. If parents According to the Institute, parents Distributed by King Features Syndicate

September 2016 • brooklyn Family 45 teens

words. Viewing photos as a family can be a valuable way of interacting with your personal history. For the Uncover your older generation, this can be a touch- ing experience and can draw out old memories, which can be shared with kids. For the next generation, family’s past seeing those who came before us as captured in a photograph can be or children, teens, and young even closer together. extremely powerful and a reminder adults, being aware of your Visiting gravesites is a good start- that our ancestors are real people F family history is a must. Its ing point for families looking to delve who were once young like us. If pos- significance extends beyond merely deeper into their personal histories. sible, try to get multiple perspec- A letter trying to find out who you resemble It is a physical experience that peo- tives. Parents, aunts, uncles, god- (which is cool to know) or what ple of all ages can actively partici- parents, grandparents, and cousins from college health issues may run in the family pate in. It can also lead to meaning- may all tell different stories from the AglAiA Ho (which is crucial to know). Spiritu- ful discussions about ancestry and same photograph. ally, exploring your family’s past al- roots. Every spring, my family gets Building a family tree is another lows you to recognize the journey together to go to the cemetery and good exercise for families to trace your ancestors have taken and the visit the graves of those we have back their lineages. For young kids, sacrifices they have made and thus, lost. Each visit sparks new stories it is a visual representation of how fully discover and appreciate who about my grandfather, who is buried many different families came to- they are and even more importantly, in New York, and his journey and life gether to create one. For teens and who you are. It is also a process that here. The experience also connects young adults, this can be very edu- you can share with present-day fam- my cousins and I — all of us born in cational and test your sleuthing and ily members, and it can bring you America — to our heritage. research skills. See if you can draw Honoring your ancestors is the out your family tree by asking family keystone of Chinese culture. We still members for information. partake in the ancient rituals of Lastly, with all of the complexi- laying out food for our ancestors, ties of familial relationships these burning paper representations of days, it is possible that your family’s money, and decorating the grave history may be a mystery. If this is with fresh flowers. the case, there is no reason to feel Even if the grave does discouraged, for there are plenty of not belong to a member ways to research your ancestors. of the family, it can still The New York Public Library and be a fantastic opportu- Ellis Island have divisions for gene- nity to piece together a alogy research. Even the internet family story. One grave has websites that allow you to find my family visits on gravesites or ancestry material. You trips to the cemetery may even have to track down friends belongs to a friend of old relatives as a starting point. of my grandfather. I Although this may become a wild was always confused goose chase and you may not be about why we went able to compile a full history of your out of our way to stop family, this exploration can bring at his grave. It turned out different generations together and that this person was a improve familial relationships. key player in my moth- However, understanding your er’s family’s immigration family’s past is not about having a to America. He helped complete play by play of your an- them out tremendously cestor’s whereabouts and lives. It is when they first arrived about opening conversations about and provided moral where you come from. Do not fret if and financial support. your family histories are not drawn- Slowly, through discuss- out sagas. What we gain from our ing this friend, I learned history are stories — stories that more about my mother’s past and may be special to only us. Preserv- the people who first welcomed her to ing these memories is preserving this country. who we are and seeing where we fit If you, like many, do not have within this world. ancestors buried nearby, photo al- Aglaia Ho is a senior at Williams bums can promote interest in your College and a native New Yorker. She family’s past. The old saying goes also writes a blog, www.aglaiaho.wee- that a picture is worth a thousand bly.com.

46 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 ADVICE Choosing a guardian

I have a Last Will and Testament Court within 60 days of acting as the that states who should become the standby guardian. guardian of my young children if my The proceeding for appointment husband and I die, but I have heard of guardian can be brought by any that probate can be a long and drawn- person who has an interest, or by the out proceeding. Is there something I child him or herself if he or she over can do to protect my children in an the age of 14. Notice of the proceed- emergency situation? ing must be given to the person with ASK AN whom the minor resides at that time Last Will and Testament is the regardless of relationship, the nearest ATTORNEY document that nominates a adult family members who live in the ALISON ARDEN BESUNDER, Aguardian for your minor chil- State of New York, and any other rela- ESQ. dren when you die. If you die without tives the court determines, whether a Will, a two-step process is required or not they are within the state. to administrate your estate. First, Make sure your appointed standby someone needs to petition the guard- guardian has all of that information. ianship part of the Surrogate’s Court to the terms of any minor’s trust in You may include an informational to be appointed guardian, and then your Will. He would also be respon- sheet with the document that you that person or another person with sible for making payments for the can update when necessary, or make standing can petition to be appointed benefit of the child. sure your attorney has the informa- the administrator of your estate (it Some people wish to have the tion. It is also helpful to have avail- is usually the guardian). The person guardian be the same person as the able a copy of the minor child’s birth petitioning to be guardian might not minor’s trustee. It is often a good certificate and any relevant docu- be the one you would have chosen if idea to have a co-trustee serve if the ments such as adoption papers or you had properly completed the right guardian will be a trustee. The co- medical information. documents. trustee is a good second set of eyes The court determines the ap- A guardian ad litem — someone the to help protect against mistakes or, pointment of guardian based on the court appoints to investigate what so- even worse, someone who improp- “best interest of the child” standard, lutions would be in the “best interests erly uses assets, whether intention- and the designated guardian by the of a child” — will likely be appointed ally or negligently. parent is important in making such to protect the interests of the child. We also prepare for our clients a a decision. This is especially impor- The guardian would also need to ac- document known as a Designation tant if who you choose to take care count for any assets that come into of Standby Guardian. Another simi- of your minor children is not a family the guardianship estate, and would lar document is a Designation of a member, but instead may be a close need to petition to withdraw funds for Person in Parental Relations. This family friend. Don’t allow the court the benefit of the child. is effectively a power of attorney for to make the decision for you, make In contrast, if you nominate a your child, empowering someone to your choice known and execute a guardian in your Will, the adminis- make decisions for your child in your Designation of Standby Guardian to tration of the estate for the benefit of absence, or if you are incapacitated help protect your minor children. your children is somewhat smoother. or cannot be reached, or even in the An estate planning attorney can First, the nomination is just that: event of your death until a perma- help you identify a proper fiduciary a nomination. Ordinarily the court nent guardian can be appointed. It and prepare these documents. By defers to the parents’ nomination, does not necessarily allow someone preparing and executing these docu- but can decline to appoint that per- to access your assets for the benefit ments, it can save your family time son if the person is not fit to serve of a child; that can only be done by and expense in emergency situations, as guardian. This is why it’s impor- a power of attorney that you execute and help streamline the process to tant to name successor guardians. In appointing someone to handle your make it as smooth as possible. addition, the person you nominate assets under certain circumstances. Alison Arden Besunder is the found- might decline to serve. With respect to a Designation of ing attorney of the law firm of Arden The second role to consider is the Standby Guardian, in the event of Besunder P.C., where she assists par- minor’s trustee. This is effectively your incapacity or death, the desig- ents in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the guardian of the property — the nated person can act immediately Nassau, and Suffolk Counties with their person or persons who will manage to take care of your minor’s needs. estate planning needs. You can find her the money for the benefit of your That person must then file a petition on Twitter @estatetrustplan and on her child, and distribute assets pursuant for guardianship in the Surrogate’s website at www.besunderlaw.com.

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he succession stats for family- what they want, preventing them owned businesses are dismal! from experiencing failure, paying for T They represent 80 percent of everything, cushioning them from Dear the world’s economy, but very few disappointment, giving them “easy” survive more than a few generations. jobs without them earning it, we are Dr. Karyn According to Harvard Business Re- creating a recipe for entitlement! Dr. Karyn GorDon view, only 30 percent survive into Part of the reason that the first the second generation, 12 percent generation of any family business into the third, and just three percent was successful is likely because they into the fourth generation! Everyone worked for it! Successful family busi- reading this is either part of a family ness owners make sure their kids business or knows someone who is start from the ground up (sweep- in one and can admit to the fact that ing floors, cleaning washrooms, as- family businesses are tricky, com- sisting managers in whatever needs plex, and face unique challenges. to get done). This builds resilience, I’ve had the privilege of working character, and more of a realistic with families and businesses for the understanding not only of how the last 20 years, and in recent years he could be one of the best future business works, but also how life I’ve seen a shift as mom-and-pops leaders for the business! works! Children will appreciate it increasingly recognize the need for more when they get a better role and training in emotional intelligence talk money and they will be more respected by their tools as they try to navigate issues expectations fellow employees. surrounding boundaries, decision- One of the keys for a successful making, and overall communication. family business is remembering the Start thinking ahead I have found this work exciting, dy- boundary between family and busi- Many business owners love the namic, and extremely productive, ness. idea of passing on their company since emotional intelligence is 100 Yes, your employee may be a rela- to their children and the next gen- percent learned! So what do people tive, but the pay and expectations eration. Research tells us that 70 per- involved in family businesses need need to be consistent with those cent would like to see this happen to know to be successful? Here are of other non-familial workers within — but only 30 percent will actually six tips: the business. be successful! One big mistake I’ve witnessed is Start talking openly with your kids interview and when kin are over-compensated and and family about the business. Who hire family office rules are blurred for them (ex- would be interested to be involved in It is a common myth that family ample: a 16-year-old daughter who it? In what capacity? What role? Try businesses should never hire their gets paid $30 per hour for simple not to take it personally if they are own family members. Indeed, many administration tasks and shows up not interested. businesses today actually have poli- late for work). This can be a difficult conversa- cies in place that specifically discour- This creates many problems — tion, but it’s extremely important to age this practice. Like many things, other employees will really start to discuss! It may be better for the sake however, these trends tend to go resent this unfairness, creating a of your family (and the business!) from one extreme to the next — nei- poor work culture, and it’s not teach- to hire non-family members as the ther of which is healthy! Despite the ing the daughter the reality about future leaders. Or, if they are inter- potential pitfalls, research tells us how the real world works (yes, I’m ested, start developing great family that family members are often some sounding like my mother, but it re- talent early and investing in them. of the best leaders, and their pres- ally is true)! Dr. Karyn Gordon is one of North ence builds what is called “family America’s leading relationship and par- gravity” — they are more invested Start from the enting experts. She is a regular contribu- because it’s their business! ground up tor to “Good Morning America,” founder The key is making sure that who When parents ask me how to of dk Leadership, best-selling author of you hire is qualified and competent. make sure their kids are not entitled “Dr. Karyn’s Guide To The Teen Years” Hiring someone who is unqualified like many other young people they (Harper Collins), and motivational just because he is family will predict- see, one of my most common an- speaker to a quarter of a million people. ably be a disaster. But if the family swers is “Don’t make life too easy.” Visit her at www.dkleadership.org and member is qualified, it’s very likely If we make life too easy, giving them on Twitter: @DrKarynGordon.

48 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 ADVICE Talking tough topics before the big day

tephen and Natalie (not their real names) are engaged to be S married. They have been dat- DIVORCE & ing for more than a year, enjoy the same music, both like sports, and SEPARATION have many of the same views about LEE CHABIN, ESQ. politics. Each has met the other’s parents, and the families have met and like each other. Natalie and Stephen are obviously in love, and are looking forward to spending their lives together. From what they had initially shared with the mediator, there were no problems looming. But, there were many important questions, such as about money and having children, that they hadn’t seriously discussed with each other — until coming to mediation. Many couples don’t have these se- about religion and raising children? a lot of arguments. But this was rious conversations before marriage. Private school or public? And many great. It means a lot to know that Why not? Some partners assume more, each a potential springboard Stephen is so understanding about that, because they’re getting along, to significant issues. something that really concerns me. they must agree on all the issues that Stephen and Natalie learned, I wasn’t exactly worried, but I think matter to them. Others don’t give the among other things, that there are that money was more on my mind future much thought. There are also differences in how they view and feel than I realized. I’m so happy that he “avoiders” who fear conflict. about money. is willing to work together to save Natalie and Stephen, as happy as “Our talking here was revealing,” money, even though it isn’t as im- they were, sensed that a lot had been Stephen said after the session. “I portant to him. I’ll feel more secure, left unsaid between them. Not know- found out how Natalie feels about financially, and in our relationship.” ing how to proceed on their own, money. [While] dating, it didn’t come Talking about what is important they decided to try a premarital me- up. I did notice that she felt a little un- to you, and what your respective diation session. comfortable when we went to an ex- values are, won’t guarantee a happy As in a divorce, a mediator can pensive restaurant. But I had no idea marriage. But such discussions will work with couples before marriage. that Natalie worries about money, increase understanding, and likely He can: about always having enough.” help you resolve problems that oth- • Help each partner to talk about Asked how this knowledge might erwise might eventually lead to di- what he and she wants and needs. impact on their future, Stephen of- vorce. • Help them both have a construc- fered: Try having a conversation on your tive conversation, even when ten- “Me, I kind of like the idea of own. It can be difficult, but don’t give sions rise. having a really nice car. But know- up. If necessary, outside help (such • Guide the discussion so that hid- ing [now] how Natalie feels about as from a mediator) is available. den differences come to light. money, well, let’s say we need a New York City and Long Island-based • Assist the couple in addressing car, I’ll be fine with a cheaper one, lawyer and mediator Lee Chabin helps any issues. if that’ll make Natalie feel better. clients to express their needs, better In a premarital session with a What we save could go in the bank, understand one another, and reach de- young couple, a discussion about or whatever. We’ll talk and figure it cisions that benefit each of them. Con- children might follow questions such out.” tact him at [email protected], as: Do you want kids? How many? Natalie was almost beaming, (718) 229–6149, or go to http://lc-medi- When? Do you imagine one of you knowing that her fiancé understood ate.com /. Follow him on Facebook at staying home with them (and would her feelings; feelings that she hadn’t www.facebook.com/lchabin . you be able to afford to)? Is the home clearly expressed to him before. Disclaimer: All material in this column is for infor- you’ll be living in to start with big “I don’t like talking about money,” mational purposes only and does not constitute legal enough? What have you discussed Natalie said. “Growing up, there were advice.

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Come to the Breukelen County can take a tour of the farm on a Fair on Sept. 24 at the Wyckoff pony ride! Discover the Farmhouse Museum. Get your hands in the dirt, plant Join the Wyckoff Farmhouse mu- some seeds, press some cider, seum for a day-long extravaganza or have your face painted. Learn original Breukelen of crafting, creating, and hands-on about colonial and urban home- fun celebrating Breukelen’s agricul- steading with demonstrations of tural roots! Get a tour of the house fiber arts, wampum making, and and learn about games and activi- much more! ties of by-gone times. Breukelen County Fair, Sept. 24 Events include local growing, from 1 pm to 5 pm. Free. hands-on homesteading, games, Wyckoff House Museum [5816 Clar- crafts, local food, music, demon- endon Rd. in Canarsie, (718) 629– strations, and family-friendly work- 5400, [email protected], shops led by Brooklyn-based part- wyckoffmuseum.org/breukelen-count ners. And children 13 and under ry-fair].

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Sat, Sept. 3 In Brooklyn Seaside Wildlife: Canarsie Park, File photo by Tom Callan Seaview Avenue and Remsen Av- enue; (718) 421–2021; www.nycgovparks.org; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Free. Don’t miss the antics on Atlantic The rangers will guide you to the Atlantic Antic Festival is back ment provided by DJs and live acts. street fair ever. best wildlife viewing spots for sea- on Sept. 25 — and bigger and bet- Children won’t be bored with all the Atlantic Antic Festival, Sept. 25 side creatures. ter than ever. activities planned — they can hop from 1 pm to 8 pm. Free The mile-long corridor between on rides, listen to storytelling, play Atlantic Antic [Atlantic Avenue be- Sun, Sept. 4 Hicks Street and Fourth Avenue will games, or have their faces painted. tween Hicks Street and Fourth Av- In Brooklyn be transformed into a boulevard of Come on down and celebrate enues in Brooklyn Heights, (718) 875– culinary delights enough to satisfy the end of summer, Brooklyn style, 8993, www.atlanticave.org]. Sept. 25 Observing the new moon: The from 1 pm to 8 pm. Hollows, 151 Bedford Ave.; (917) 587 any foodie, along with entertain- at the Atlantic Antic, the bestest 7176; laramckinneymossler@gmail. com; hollows.info; 9 pm; Free. Observe the night sky with help Fri, Sept. 9 dealers as well as a jam-packed Sat, Sept. 10 from expert volunteer astronomers. agenda of special highlights, in- In Brooklyn In Brooklyn The 30-minute program is followed cluding interactive performances, a Pros- by viewing of the new moon. Total Goodnight Goddess Parties: vintage photography exhibit, book TEAL Walk and 5K Run: Tykes in the Heights, 663 Vanderbilt pect Park, Ninth Street and Prospect program lasts approximately one signings, and hands-on workshops, hour. We encourage anyone wishing Ave. at Park Place; www.mischiveo- Park West; (917) 310–4835; info@ to bring a telescope or binoculars to usgoddess.com; 5:30–7:30 pm; $40 among others. tealwalk.org; www.tealwalk.org/ brooklyn; 8 am–1 pm; regular reg- do so, but it is not required. You are per child, including dinner. Further Afield more than welcome to look through Drop off the girls and go on a istration (July 15–Sept. 2), $35; late ours. Weather permitting. date! Incorporating mindfulness “Peace On Your Wings”: John registration (day of event, not recom- Jay College Gerald Lynch The- mended), $40. Further Afield with imaginative play and creativity, each party will be inspired by ater, 524 W. 59th St., Manhat- The annual Brooklyn TEAL Walk/ Storytelling festival: Governors a unique and inspiring theme. For tan; [email protected]; ohanaarts. Run, they city’s largest event spread- Island in Nolan Park, Building 10, girls ages 5–8, and includes story- ing awareness and raising money Manhattan; (347) 425–7770; www. ticketleap.com; 7:30 pm; $35, $25, specifically for ovarian cancer, takes telling, meditation, craft activity, $15–students with identification. brooklynartery.com; 1 pm to 3 pm; and supper. place every September, which is Free. The uplifting new musical is based Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month. Hosted by Brooklyn ARTery Book Fair: Brooklyn Expo Center, on the true story of Sadako Sasaki, Participants include survivors, care- 72 Noble St. at Franklin Street; mget- Soundstage, the event features a young girl who survived the Hi- givers, families, friends, and the gen- world renowned storytellers, puppet [email protected]; 6 pm eral public who come together to roshima bombings and went on to theater and more. Families can get to 9 pm; $7–25. raise awareness of and promote a the ferries to the island at 10 South The third annual Brooklyn Anti- inspire an international peace move- cure for ovarian cancer. Throughout St. in Manhattan or Brooklyn Bridge quarian Book Fair features almost ment. The presentation is by an all the day, there is entertainment along Park, Pier 6 in Brooklyn. 100 antique book and ephemera youth cast. Continued on page 52 September 2016 • brooklyn Family 51 Calendar Our online calendar is updated daily at www.NYParenting.com/calendar

Continued from page 51 with educational booths and fun activities for the whole family. The 2.5 mile walk is non competitive, but the 5K run is timed so that winners can be announced. This event is rain or shine! Brooklyn Bike Jumble: Old Stone House–Washington Park, 336 Third St. between Fourth and Fifth avenues; www.nybikejumble.com; 10 am to 4 pm; Free to browse. New York’s only bicycle flea market returns to Park Slope. Find a used or new bike, accessories, and more! Bike prices start around $50 and go up from there. Kite Festival: Pier 1 in Brooklyn Bridge Park, Old Fulton Street and Furman Street; www.nycgovparks. org; 11 am to 3 pm; Free. Watch your favorite kite soar above the skyline. Kites will be available for purchase or you can bring your own. Book Fair: 11 am to 7 pm. Brook- lyn Expo Center. See Friday, Sept. 9. Further Afield Lisa Hannus Labor Day Parade: Parade Route, 44th Street and Fifth Avenue, Man- hattan; (212) 604–9552; LDP@nycclc. Brooklyn Book Fair for Children org; www.nycclc.com; 10 am; Free. Join Parade Grand Marshal James It’s back — the Brooklyn Book Children 2 to 11 years old can prompts from the children in au- Callahan and Henry Garrido as they Fair for Children on Sept. 17, held enjoy a full day of literary activi- dience, and the theatre group march with hardworking men and in the square of MetroTech Com- ties featuring authors, story time TADA will perform adaptations of women for the 2016 NYC Labor Day mons. where they’ll hear authors read books by Ezra Jack Keats. Books Parade. Children’s favorite authors in- and discuss their books, work- by participating authors and “Peace On Your Wings”: 2 pm clude Eric Luper, Brendan Wen- shops — with topics ranging from other new and beloved children’s and 7:30 pm. John Jay College Ger- zel, Michelle Knudsen, Rita Wil- bookmaking and Stem to reading books will be on sale along with ald Lynch Theater. See Friday, Sept. liams-Garcia, Christian Robinson, maps and writing stories — and an author book signings. 9. Peter Brown, Mike Curato, Vanessa “Artspot,” where children create Book Fair on Sept. 17 from 10 am Brantley Newton, Adam Gidwitz, projects with authors. to 4 pm. Free Sun, Sept. 11 Michael Hearst, Il Sung Na, Ruth At a competitive illustra- MetroTech Quad [Myrtle Avenue In Brooklyn Chan, Raúl Colón, Rebecca Stead, tor draw-off, illustrators create and Jay Street in Downtown, www. and many others. original drawings in response to brooklynbookfestival.org]. Birding: Fort Greene Park Visitor Center, enter park at Myrtle Avenue and Washington Park; (718) 722– 3218; 10 am to 11:30 am; Free. Street; (917) 414–0565; www.ports- Join young families with singing, 836–3103; [email protected]; www. The rangers take you through the idenewyork.org; 5–10 pm; Free. guitar, puppets, and creative prayer brjc.org; 6:30 pm; Free. park and help you identify the fine- Bring a picnic, take-out dinner, in a playful setting. Families with Join young families with singing, feathered friends that live there. bottle of wine, your sketchbook, children infants to 5 years old and guitar, puppets, and creative prayer your kids, your main squeeze for a older siblings welcome. in a playful setting. Families with Book Fair: 11 am to 5 pm. Brook- quiet and relaxing sunset at the end children infants to 5 years old and lyn Expo Center. See Friday, Sept. 9. Community Education Coun- of your weekend on Red Hook’s cil District 20: PS 205, 6701 20th older siblings welcome. Sunday Story Time: powerHouse main dock. Selections from the mari- Ave.; (718) 759–3921; cec20.org; 6 “The Addams Family”: Ft. on 8th, 1111 Eighth Ave. between time library will be available for read- pm to 7:30 pm; Free. Hamilton Army Base Theater, Poly 11th and 12th streets; (718) 666– ing on site. Monthly meeting and the appoint- Place and Seventh Avenue; (718) 3049; www.powerhousearena.com; ment of PS 205 principal and PS 186 482–3173; [email protected],; 11:30 am; Free. Tues, Sept. 13 assistant principal. www.NarrowsCommunityTheater. Listen to Sergio Ruzzier (creator of com; 8 pm; $25 ($20 seniors and stu- In Brooklyn “This is Not a Picture Book”), read Fri, Sept. 16 dents; $15 children under 12). from his sweet picture book about Musical Shabbat: Bay Ridge They’re curious and kooky, all to- the joy and power of reading. RSVP Jewish Center, 8025 Fourth Ave. be- In Brooklyn gether spooky, the Addams Family. requested. tween 80th and 81st streets; (718) Musical Shabbat: Bay Ridge Coming live to the stage, the musical Sunset TankerTime: Portside 836–3103; [email protected]; www. Jewish Center, 8025 Fourth Ave. be- is based on the cartoons of Charles NewYork, Pioneer Street at Bowne brjc.org; 10:45am; Free. tween 80th and 81st streets; (718) Addams and the TV show. The mad- 52 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 Our online calendar is updated daily at www.NYParenting.com/calendar Calendar cap musical is presented by the Nar- ern Parkway and Flatbush Avenue; rows Community Theater. Photo ID (718) 230–2100; www.brooklynpub- required for admission to the base. liclibrary.org/branch_library_detail. jsp?branchpageid=265; 1:30 pm to 4 Sat, Sept. 17 pm; Free. Come celebrate the 100th birth- In Brooklyn day of Roald Dahl, with Phizz-whiz- Brooklyn Book Fair Children’s zing activities, screenings, and read- Day: MetroTech Quad, Myrtle and ings by Michelle Schusterman (“I Jay streets; www.brooklynbookfesti- Heart Band”), Tim Miller (“Snappsy val.org; 10 am to 4 pm; Free. the Alligator”), Cassie Beasley (“Cir- Children 2 to 11 years old can cus Mirandus”), and Adam Gidwitz enjoy a full day of literary activities (“The Inquisitor’s Tale”), a Roald featuring authors, story time where Dahl trivia contest, a screening of children hear authors read and dis- “Matilda,” and more. cuss their books, workshops with “The Addams Family”: 2 pm. Ft. topics ranging from bookmaking Hamilton Army Base Theater. See Fri- and STEM to reading maps and writ- day, Sept. 16. ing stories, and an Artspot where children can create projects with authors. Mon, Sept. 19 Celebrate Red Hook: Erie Basin In Brooklyn Park, 1 Beard St. and Otsego Street; The ShopUp by Babyccino www.Star-Revue.com; Noon to 9 Kids: 10 am–5 pm. 501 Union. See pm; Free. Sunday, Sept. 18. The third annual celebration is in partnership with IKEA and will once Fri, Sept. 23 again offer a full day of music, food, fun, and lots of activities. In Brooklyn Dahlicious Delights!: Ample Photo by Arthur De Gaeta “The Addams Family”: 8 pm. Ft. Hills, 305 Nevins St. and Union Hamilton Army Base Theater. See Fri- Street; (347) 725–4061; www.roald- day, Sept. 16. dahl.com/usa; Noon to 4 pm; Free. Let’s go fly a kite! Come and celebrate the 100th Sat, Sept. 24 birthday of late children’s author Go fly a kite to the highest Families can bring their own, pur- Roald Dahl with a free sundae bar, height at the Kite Festival at chase one at this fun annual event, In Brooklyn Dream Jar game, dress-up and crafts Brooklyn Bridge Park on Sept. 10. or just watch others’ soar high. “Project Kid – Crafts That corners, and readings from Mara No matter the color or the Kite Festival on Sept. 10 from Go!”: Court 16, 526 Baltic St.; 10 Wilson (star of the movie “Mat- shape — there’s the diamond, 11 am to 3 pm. Free. am to 1 pm; Free. ilda.”), and more. box, winged box, sled, delta, and Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 1 (Old The latest book by Amanda Kin- gloff is chock full of inventive craft Raak the Block Party: Raaka power kite — they will all be fly- Fulton and Furman streets in Brook- projects for parents to make with Chocolate, 64 Seabring St.; raaka- ing high at Brooklyn Bridge Park. lyn Heights; www.nycgovparks.org) chocolate.com; 2 pm; Free. and for their children! At this event we will host food, drinks, a live arts Raaka Chocolate, is hosting a day and crafts session with the author of fun for all members of the Red featuring a craft from the book, and Hook community with food, bever- “The Addams Family”: 8 pm. Ft. Subway”) reads from this fascinat- a Stories Bookshop + Storytelling ages, and entertainment provided Hamilton Army Base Theater. See Fri- ing and little-known true story of Lab booth where you can buy your mostly by local vendors and produc- day, Sept. 16. New York City’s first subway. RSVP very own copy. ers. We will have local vendors such requested. as Steve’s Key Lime Pie, Hometown Bruekelen Country Fair: Wyck- The ShopUp by Babyccino Bar-be-que, Baked, and Pizza Motto. Sun, Sept. 18 off House Museum, 5816 Clarendon Kids: 501 Union, 501 Union St. There will be performances by In Brooklyn Rd.; (718) 629–5400; education@ between Bond and Nevins streets; wyckoffmuseum.org; wyckoffmu- School of Rock Brooklyn and A. Rex Brooklyn Heart & Stroke Walk: www.facebook.com/BabyccinoKids; seum.org/breukelen-country-fair; 1 and J. Rex. There will also be chil- Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 6, Atlan- dren’s activities such as jump rope, Noon–6 pm; Free. pm – 5 pm; Free. tic Avenue at Furman Street; (718) bubbles, and face painting. More than 25 independent chil- Join the Wyckoff Farmhouse mu- 222–9939; alissa.kawahara@heart. dren’s boutiques from around the seum for a day-long extravaganza of Brooklyn/Queens Pageant: The org; www.brooklynbridgepark.org; 9 world under one roof! A one-stop- crafting, creating, and hands-on fun Brooklyn Music School, 126 St. Felix am; Registration fees apply. shop for the most original and cre- celebrating Breukelen’s agricultural Street; [email protected]; The three mile walk and run is de- ative toys, gifts, stylish clothes and roots! www.eventbrite.com/e/miss-queens- signed to promote physical activity accessories, home decor, and ev- and-miss-brooklyn-pageant-tick- Americana Music Festival: Pier and heart-healthy living. erything in between. You also have ets-23731901757; 5 pm; $25. 6 in Brooklyn Bridge Park, Furman the opportunity to reserve a limited The 2017 Miss Queens and Miss Sunday Story Time: powerHouse Street and Joralemon Street; www. addition tote bag to pick up at the Brooklyn Pageant Scholarships will on 8th, 1111 Eighth Ave. between nycgovparks.org; 2 pm to 8 pm; Free. event. be awarded to the several incredible 11th and 12th streets; (718) 666– The Manhattan skyline serves as young women competing for the 3049; www.powerhousearena.com; Wondercrump weekend: Brook- the backdrop for this weekend’s title and a new Miss Queens will be 11:30 am; Free. lyn Public Library’s Central branch, music festival. The Brooklyn Ameri- crowned! Shana Corey (author of “Secret 10 Grand Army Plaza, between East- Continued on page 54 September 2016 • brooklyn Family 53 Calendar Our online calendar is updated daily at www.NYParenting.com/calendar

Continued from page 53 Fordham Road, The Bronx; (718) cana Festival returns with more 817–8700; www.nybg.org; 12:30 original and traditional country, folk, pm to 4:30 pm; $125 per adult ($75 roots, blues, old time, and bluegrass per child). artists. This festive celebration of organic Rockapella: On Stage at Kingsbor- vegetable gardening and cooking ough, 2001 Oriental Blvd. at Oxford is set in the Ruth Rea Howell Family Street; (718) 368–5596; www.on- Garden. The food-filled afternoon of stageatkingsborough.org; 8 pm; $32 outdoor discovery will welcome back to $37. special guest chef Carla Hall, co- host of ABC’s “The Chew,” who will The award-winning group of five take guests on a culinary adventure guys without instruments does the through hands-on cooking work- impossible — provide fabulous har- shops and a delicious picnic. monies and great music, a capella style! “The Addams Family”: 8 pm. Ft. Wed, Sept. 28 Hamilton Army Base Theater. See Fri- In Brooklyn day, Sept. 16. Fall foraging: Pier 1 in Brooklyn Bridge Park, Old Fulton Street and Sun, Sept. 25 Furman Street; www.nycgovparks. org; 6:30 pm; $10 ($5 members). In Brooklyn Families join with author and for- Sunday Story Time: powerHouse ager Marie Viljoen on a botanical on 8th, 1111 Eighth Ave. between stroll, then learn how to use the edi- 11th and 12th streets; (718) 666– bles in the kitchen and how to plant 3049; www.powerhousearena.com; their own home gardens. 11:30 am; Free. From author Elanna Allen (cre- Long-running ator of “Poor Little Guy”), what do you do when you’re so tiny that the In Brooklyn bigger creatures in the ocean think Summer Sports: Sunset Park Rec- you might even taste adorable? reation Center, 43rd Street and Sev- There’s just one solution — keep a enth Avenue; (718) 972–2135; www. HUGE surprise up your sleeve! RSVP nycgovparks.org; Weekdays, 9 am to requested. 4:30 pm, Now – Sat, Sept. 17; Free. Atlantic Antic Festival: Atlantic Program for children 2 to 5 years Avenue from Fourth Avenue to Hicks old. Photo by Ari Scott Street; (718) 875–8993; atlantican- Summer Sports: Sunset Park Rec- [email protected]; www.atlanti- reation Center, 43rd Street and Sev- cave.org; 1 pm to 8 pm; Free. Dahlicious Delights! enth Avenue; (718) 972–2135; www. Spanning 10 blocks through four nycgovparks.org; Weekdays, 9 am to neighborhoods on Atlantic Avenue Celebrate the 100th birthday of John Marciano Bemelmans (the 4:30 pm, Now – Sat, Sept. 17; Free. in the heart of Downtown, this author Roald Dahl at Ample Hills Madeline series). Program for children 8 months to 42-year-old street festival is the larg- with the best ice cream in town A portion of the proceeds of all 3 years old. est and most celebrated street festi- on Sept. 17. the Dahlicious Delights is going to val in New York City. Quests program: Prospect Park Dahlicious Delights honors the Partners in Health, which brings Zoo, 450 Flatbush Ave. at Ocean Americana Music Festival: author with a free sundae bar, high-quality healthcare to poor Avenue; (718) 399–7339; www. 2 pm to 8 pm. Pier 6 in Brooklyn Dream Jar game, dress-up and communities around the world. prospectparkzoo.com/quests; Bridge Park. See Saturday, Sept. 24. crafts corners, and readings from It was co-founded by Roald’s Wednesdays – Sundays, 11 am to 3 “The Addams Family”: 2 pm. Ft. Mara Wilson (pictured, star of daugher Ophelia Dahl. pm, Now – Mon, Sept. 5; Free with Hamilton Army Base Theater. See Fri- the movie “Matilda” and debut Dahlicious Delights, Sept. 17, zoo admission. day, Sept. 16. author of “Where Am I Now?”), noon to 4 pm. Free. Visitors learn about wild life in Paul Griffin (“When Friendship Ample Hills [305 Nevins St. and scavenger hunt format and embark Kids Book Launch: PowerHouse on a nature adventure to identify Arena, 28 Adams St. at Water Street; Followed Me Home”), Abby Han- Union Street in Gowanus, (347) 725– lon (“Ralph Tells a Story”), and 4061, www.roalddahl.com/usa] local birds, discover ways to reduce (718) 666–3049; www.powerhouse- pollution, learn about ocean and arena.com; 3–5 pm; Free. other aquatic habitats, and more. A family-friendly event with author Jack Challoner discussing his Pier 16, Manhattan; https://web.ova- to flounder. Children and adults help Educational Center drop-in hours: Pier 6 in Brooklyn Bridge book, “Maker Lab: 28 Super Cool tiontix.com/trs/pr/961826; Noon to 3 raise the sails so we can continue Park, Atlantic Avenue at Furman Projects,” which details 28 awe- our exploration the old fashioned pm; $45 ($40 children). Street; (718) 222–9939; www.brook- some experiments that encourage way. The sail is recommended for Come aboard the schooner Pio- lynbridgepark.org; Tuesdays, Thurs- kids to build, create, invent, and dis- children aged 5 and up. Reservations neer and set sail past Governors Is- days, Saturdays and Sundays, 3 pm cover using objects found around required. the house. land for the fishing grounds of Bay to 5 pm, Now – Tues, Nov. 22; Free. Ridge. We’ll set a trawl net and par- The Edible Academy Family Get to know Brooklyn Bridge Park Further Afield ticipants will haul it in, bringing up a Garden Picnic: New York Botani- and visit the giant aquarium filled Ecology Sail: Schooner Pioneer, variety of creatures from blue crabs cal Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd. at with East River critters, the reading 54 BROOKLYN Family • September 2016 Our online calendar is updated daily at www.NYParenting.com/calendar Calendar corner, and so much more. pm, Now – Sun, Nov. 20; Free. Kayaking: Pier 2, Clarke Street; Get to know Brooklyn Bridge Park www.nycgovparks.org; Thursdays, and visit the giant aquarium filled 5:30 pm to 6:30pm, Now – Thurs, with East River critters, the reading Sept. 29; Free. corner, and so much more. Children under 18 must have a Bargemusic Concert: Bargemu- guardian or parent present. No ex- sic, Fulton Ferry Landing, Old Fulton perience necessary. Street and Furman Street; (718) Religious services: No Limit 624–2083; www.bargemusic.org; Beulah Sabbath Pentecostal Church, Saturdays, 4 pm to 5 pm, Now – Sat, 5417 Ave. N between E. 54th and E. Sept. 24; Free. 55th streets; (718)241–8100; www. Walk across the gangplank of a nolimitbeulah.org; Thursdays, 7:30 renovated coffee barge for a one- pm; donation. hour, family-friendly concert. Doors Bible study. open 15 minutes before the performance; no reserved seating is Religious services: No Limit available. Beulah Sabbath Pentecostal Church, 5417 Ave. N between E. 54th and E. Magic at Coney: Sideshows by 55th streets; (718)241–8100; www. the Seashore, 1208 Surf Ave. be- nolimitbeulah.org; Saturdays, 11 am; tween W. 12th Street and Stillwell donation. Avenue; (718) 372–5159; www.co- Sabbath school for children. neyisland.com; Sundays, noon, Now – Sun, Sept. 4; $10 ($5 kids). Community Farmer’s Market: Hatie Carthan Garden, Lafayette and A magical variety show featuring Nostrand avenues; www.nycgov- illusionists, escape artists, mentalists, parks.org; Saturdays, 9 am to 3 pm, and close-up magicians. Now – Sat, Nov. 19; Free. First Discoveries: Brooklyn Bo- Fresh fruits, health foods, activi- tanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave. ties, and educational program. at Eastern Parkway; (718) 623–7220; Photo by Jason Speakman Museum Highlights: New York www.bbg.org; Tuesdays, 9:30 am, Transit Museum, Boerum Place at Tues, Sept. 13 – Tues, Oct. 25; Free Schermerhorn Street; (718) 694– with garden admission. Calling all explorers from 2 to 4 Get Hooked on fun 1600; www.mta.info/mta/museum; Saturdays and Sundays, Noon and 3 years old to plant a seed, touch a Enjoy a day out in the sunshine dren’s activities, and more. pm, Sat, Sept. 3 – Sun, Nov. 27; Free wriggly worm, and hear a story by and celebrate Red Hook on Sept. Red Hook Celebration, Sept. 17, the meadow nook. with admission to the museum. 17. The third annual celebration from noon to 9 pm. Free. Join expert museum educators Family Discovery Weekends: is in partnership with IKEA and Erie Basin Park (1 Beard St. and on a dramatic journey through the Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 offers a full day of live music, Otsego Street in Red Hook, www. building of New York’s subway sys- Washington Ave. at Eastern Park- games, rides, face paintings, chil- Star-Revue.com). tem, the evolution of the city’s sur- way; (718) 623–7220; www.bbg.org; face transportation, and priceless Saturdays, 10:30 am to 12:30 pm, collection of vintage subway and el- Sundays, 1 pm to 3 pm, Sat, Sept. marsh habitats, and in the vegetable Garden Story Time: Brooklyn Bo- evated cars dating back to 1904. 17 – Sat, Oct. 29; Free with general garden encourage families to explore tanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave. Educational Center: Pier 6 in admission. nature together. This is a drop-in at Eastern Parkway; (718) 623–7220; Brooklyn Bridge Park, Atlantic Av- Experiment, learn, and play to- www.bbg.org; Sundays, 11 am to enue at Furman Street; (718) 222– gether in the Discovery Garden. program for families with children of 1 pm, Sun, Sept. 18 – Sun, Oct. 30; 9939; www.brooklynbridgepark.org; Hands-on stations throughout the all ages. All programs are outdoors Saturdays and Sundays, 1 pm to 5 garden’s meadow, woodland, and and canceled in inclement weather. Free with general admission. Read garden-inspired stories with volunteers. All programs are outdoors and canceled in inclement It’s the Bike Jumble weather. Further Afield The Brooklyn Bike Jumble is sures. Bike prices start around Mario Batali’s Kitchen Gar- back on Sept. 10, at the Old Stone $50 and go up from there. dens: New York Botanical Garden, House at Washington Park. Bicycle non-profits will be 2900 Southern Blvd. at Fordham Families will have a great time there to help you test-ride bikes Road, The Bronx; (718) 817–8700; at this annual bicycle flea market before you buy. www.nybg.org; Tuesdays – Sun- and fair where they can gear up Brooklyn Bike Jumble, Sept. days, 1:30 pm to 6 pm, Now – Sun, for back-to-school season, test 10 from 10 am to 4 pm. Free to Nov. 20; included in All Garden Pass out a new ride, or buy early holi- browse. Admission. day gifts. Old Stone House in Washington Garden beds are filled with plants The flea market offers new and Park (336 Third St. between Fourth featured in the favorite recipes of used bicycles, accessories, col- and Fifth avenues in Park Slope, the chefs from Mario Batali’s restau- lectibles, clothing, and other trea- www.nybikejumble.com). rants. Kids can explore the gardens to solve Mario’s Menu Mystery. September 2016 • brooklyn Family 55 books Drawing inspiration Ever since you can remember, ing beagle named Snoopy. your child has loved to draw. Lots What happens when you of kids do, but while not every kid give a kid a crayon? You get grows up to be a great artist, in his a drawing, of course, and in new book “Kid Artists,” author David “Kid Artists,” the picture is Stabler points out that every great clear: genius isn’t easy. artist starts out as a kid. Using the word “art- When America entered World War ist” to denote creativity, I, young Theodore Geisel was teased Stabler profiles 17 people and bullied for his German last name who didn’t just become The book and because his grandfather was an well-known artists over- immigrant. Ted never let that bother night. For them, practic- worm him, though: he continued to draw ing their passion was a Terri Schlichenmeyer and play with words, which made lifelong journey, and him famous. You probably, in fact, along the way, they were know him by the name on the cover just like any average of his books: Dr. Seuss. kid. Some were bullied, “Sparky” Schulz’s father loved the some moved around a lot, others attention-holding collec- “funny pages,” and so young Sparky overcame poverty or deprivation, tion of mini-biographies that any grew up with that same apprecia- and a few bucked convention to do 7- to 14-year-old can enjoy for fun or tion of the comics. Sparky was kind what their hearts told them to do. for a school project. Or, if they need of a shy teen, until the day he sent a Kids will appreciate accompanying inspiration to persevere with their drawing of his dog to the editors of artwork by Horner, and the fact own creative genius, “Kid Artists” is “Ripley’s Believe It or Not!” and his that these short stories are guilt- a great book to draw from. cartoon was printed. That launched free, skippable, and browse-able, if “Kid Artists: True Tales of Childhood Schulz’s career with a round-headed needed. from Creative Legends,” by David Sta- kid named Charlie Brown and a danc- That adds up to an interesting, bler [208 pages, 2016, $13.95].

Adding her story to history

In the new book “She her, but she sensed that it would “She Stood for Freedom” proves oth- Stood for Freedom,” author anger her parents. Still, how could erwise. Loki Mulholland encourages she not go? Starting when his subject was readers to stand up for them In 1960, Trumpauer joined the Civil roughly the same age as his intended selves, and others, too. Rights Movement, to stand with oth- readers, author Loki Mulholland tells Growing up in Virginia ers in equality. She participated in sit- the little-known story of his mother, in the 1940s and ’50s, Joan ins, where people literally sat at lunch Joan, and the unsung work she did Trumpauer knew about seg- counters until the stores closed or for the civil rights movement. I found regation. It was the law in the police came. She picketed a segre- that to be the most interesting as- most parts of the South, gated Maryland amusement park that pect of this book — that one woman but Trumpauer’s parents summer, and helped her black friends did so much for the movement, but were split on the issue: her gain admittance. People warned her her name is rarely mentioned in any father was a Northerner family that she was making trouble, history books. To read Mulholland’s who believed in equality but Trumpauer didn’t care. story, in fact, is like focusing on one for all, while her mother When she had a chance to be one spot of a painting — enhanced here was a Southerner who de- of the Freedom Riders, she seized by Charlotta Janssen’s illustrations. manded racial separation. it. It was dangerous, and it eventu- There is a version of this book out When she was still a girl, Trum- ally landed Trumpauer in prison, there for preschoolers, so be careful pauer learned who was right: on a but that didn’t stop her. Even as an which one you choose. This version dare, she went to a neighborhood adult with children of her own, Joan of “She Stood for Freedom” is meant that her mother had forbidden her Trumpauer Mulholland continued for 8- to 12-year-olds, and it can to visit. There, she saw a tumble- with her efforts for equality. Today, stand alone. down school for black children, and she continues to remind people that “She Stood for Freedom,” by Loki Mul- it shocked her. Treating people dif- you don’t have to change the whole holland [64 pages, 2016, $14.99]. ferently wasn’t fair! She became de- world. You just have to change your Terri Schlichenmeyer has been read- termined to do something about it. corner of it. ing since she was 3 years old, and Trumpauer went to college, where Remember how it felt to think that she never goes anywhere without a she was invited to join a demonstra- your one small voice wasn’t going to book. She lives on a hill with two dogs tion. That was something new for make a dent in anything important? and 12,000 books.

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Check it out on nyparenting.com New & Noteworthy BY LISA J. CURTIS Crafting 101 Stamp out lost stuff

On Sept. 6, Amanda Kingloff’s in- When I was preparing my son’s inking stamp — akin to one you spiring new transportation-themed stuff for camp this summer, I was might use to put your return address craft book, “Project Kid: Crafts dismayed every time I had to write on a letter — with tweezers and a That Go!”, screeches into book- his name sloppily with a permanent set of letters and numbers that you stores. It’s divided into chapters marker into a brand new shirt or use to customize up to three lines based on themes that children bathing suit. Luckily, for the start of of text. obsess over: cars, trains, farm- the new school year, I have found a After you insert your text (such ing vehicles, boats, construction much neater — and fun! — solution, as your child’s name, phone number, equipment, planes, and space. the Minestamp classroom, e-mail address, or phone The how-to manual is crammed personalized number) into the stamp, you’re ready with DIY ideas for adorable label system. to click it onto anything that might go playthings, such as a portable Inventor Paco missing: backpacks, hoodies, lunch- road system made from square Navarez bun- boxes, books, and more. The wash- coasters that can be used over dles his self- resistant textile ink leaves behind and over again in a multitude of legible text, unlike my attempts with configurations. and a “resources” chapter where the marker. And if you need to label a In the “sky” chapter, Kingloff de- Kingloff, a veteran crafter, shares dark-colored item, the kit includes a tails how you can “say it in skywrit- the contact information of the com- white ribbon which can be stamped ing,” creating a decorative piece panies where she gets her sup- and placed onto the dark fabric. that would be a charming addition plies (seashells, jewelry findings, Minestamp personalized label stamp, for a nursery wall or the bedroom and more); although, many of the $17, www.thegrommet.com. of a third grader who’s honing his components are household items cursive skills. You form the child’s that she cleverly upcycles. This is name in cursive using floral wire, a book that parents will use to bust attach white pom-poms to it, then boredom, decorate playrooms, and Quality is in-grained attach the last letter to a brightly create clever playthings. colored paper airplane. Project Kid: Crafts That Go! book by Ease your student’s back- the grain because it has a The book has easy-to-read in- Amanda Kingloff, $19.95, www.artisan- to-school burden with a padded back panel and structions, gorgeous photographs, books.com. backpack that combines two side water-bottle comfort with retro style. compartments. Add a Recommended for chil- little je ne sais quois by dren ages 10 and up, LL monogramming it with Lunchbox must-have Bean’s new Wayfarer your child’s initials or Pack features a fantastic a single letter, for an It’s back-to-school time, and for A-plus meals quickly and with con- faux bois pattern. That’s additional cost of $8. many of us parents-of-food-snobs, siderably less guilt than the time French for “false wood,” Ooh-la-la. that means that school lunches are we served up chocolate croissants but this backpack is a true Wayfarer Pack, shunned in favor of meals packed for breakfast! (Hey, it was June!) find. You’ll want to go with $49.95, www.llbean.com. at home. The pouches — in truly So it’s another round of delicious, rich flavor com- hectic mornings that entail binations of strawberry- making back-to-back beet-berry and pear- Take note meals at breakneck spinach-mango speed. And there are — can be frozen, For notebooks that will stand high expectations for so when they’re out from the crowd, check out the breakfast and lunch; unpacked at lunch- Museum of Modern Art’s gift shop. they both have to be time, they’ll be a Their Hidden Pencil Notebooks have delicious and nutri- chilly treat. These trompe l’oeil covers which feature tious. little pouches pack a scatter of colored pencils or tidy Happily, Stonyfield a punch by deliv- yellow pencils lined up in a row. A has released new, ering calcium, vita- real pencil nestled in the middle of uber healthy prod- min D, and 13 mg each cover’s composition! The col- ucts — organic, grass- of omega 3s, DHA ored pencils notebook has 144 pages fed whole milk yogurt and EPA. of blank paper, and the yellow note- in cups and organic Stonyfield Organic book has 144 pages of graph paper notebook from MoMA helps to sup- whole milk yogurt in Whole Milk Pouch, inside. Both notebooks measure 8.5 port the museum’s work, too. pouches — which will $1.49, www.whole- inches high by 6 inches wide. Best of Hidden Pencil Notebooks in colored help parents serve up foodsmarket.com. all, purchasing this clever, utilitarian or yellow, $14.95 each, www.moma.org.

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