Implicit and Explicit Attitudes Toward Sex and Romance in Asexuals
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Sexual Behavior Among 1
Sexual Behavior Among 1 Sexual Behavior Among Costa Ricans and Euro-Americans Gloriana Rodríguez Arauz A Thesis Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Master of Arts in Health Psychology Department of Psychology Central Connecticut State University New Britain, Connecticut April 2010 Thesis Advisor Dr. Marisa Mealy Department of Psychology Sexual Behavior Among 2 Sexual Behavior Among Costa Ricans and Euro-Americans Gloriana Rodríguez Arauz An Abstract of a Thesis Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Master of Arts in Health Psychology Department of Psychology Central Connecticut State University New Britain, Connecticut April 2010 Thesis Advisor Dr. Marisa Mealy Department of Psychology Key Words: Sexual Behavior, Culture, Costa Rica, United States Sexual Behavior Among 3 Abstract Sex is a vital part of oneself. Due to its biological and social functions, sex has a profound impact on an individual‟s physical and psychological health. Risky sexual behavior may have particularly harmful consequences, including contracting HIV/AIDS or other sexually transmitted infections, lowered self-esteem, unwanted pregnancy, and the experience of social stigma. There are moral battles fought over sex education or abstinence only programs, yet what exactly is understood by the word “sex” is often left to the interpretation of the individual. In fact, although evidence suggests that there is a high level of agreement indicating that both penile-vaginal and anal intercourse are considered “having sex,” this consensus does not extend to other behaviors, such as oral sex (Randall & Byers, 2003; Trotter & Alderson, 2007). Several factors are believed to influence variations in definitions of sex, including perceptions of behavioral appropriateness, the level of commitment in a relationship, and gender. -
Phenomenological Claim of First Sexual Intercourse Among Individuals of Varied Levels of Sexual Self-Disclosure
University of Montana ScholarWorks at University of Montana Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers Graduate School 2005 Phenomenological claim of first sexual intercourse among individuals of varied levels of sexual self-disclosure Lindsey Takara Doe The University of Montana Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.umt.edu/etd Let us know how access to this document benefits ou.y Recommended Citation Doe, Lindsey Takara, "Phenomenological claim of first sexual intercourse among individuals of varied levels of sexual self-disclosure" (2005). Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers. 5441. https://scholarworks.umt.edu/etd/5441 This Thesis is brought to you for free and open access by the Graduate School at ScholarWorks at University of Montana. It has been accepted for inclusion in Graduate Student Theses, Dissertations, & Professional Papers by an authorized administrator of ScholarWorks at University of Montana. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Maureen and Mike MANSFIELD LIBRARY The University of Montana Permission is granted by the author to reproduce this material in its entirety, provided that this material is used for scholarly purposes and is properly cited in published works and reports. **Please check "Yes" or "No" and provide signature Yes, I grant permission ___ No, I do not grant permission ___ Author's Signature: Date: ^ h / o 5 __________________ Any copying for commercial purposes or financial gain may be undertaken only with the author's -
Marital Age Homogamy in China: a Reversal of Trend in the Reform Era?
Social Science Research 44 (2014) 141–157 Contents lists available at ScienceDirect Social Science Research journal homepage: www.elsevier.com/locate/ssresearch Marital age homogamy in China: A reversal of trend in the reform era? ⇑ Zheng Mu b, Yu Xie a, a Population Studies Center, Institute for Social Research, University of Michigan, 426 Thompson Street, Ann Arbor, MI 48106-1248, USA b Center for Social Research, Peking University, Beijing 100871, China article info abstract Article history: This paper reports on a study of trends in marital age homogamy in China from 1960 to Received 13 April 2012 2005 that uses data from the China 2005 1% Population Inter-census Survey. Instead of a Revised 7 October 2013 consistent increase in age homogamy, results show an inverted U-shaped trend. One plau- Accepted 25 November 2013 sible explanation is that intensified economic pressure, rising consumerism, and a shrink- Available online 1 December 2013 ing gender gap in education during the post-1990s reform era have acted to increase women’s desire to marry men who are more economically established, and thus usually Keywords: older, than less financially secure men. We argue that age hypergamy maintains status Marital age homogamy hypergamy, a deeply rooted norm for couples in China. An auxiliary analysis based on Economic reform Economic pressure the human capital model for earnings supports this interpretation. A continued trend in Gender gap in education age hypergamy implies a future ‘‘marriage squeeze’’ for men of low socioeconomic status. Status hypergamy Ó 2013 Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. 1. Introduction Social homogamy, or marriage between individuals with similar social characteristics (Burgess and Wallin, 1943), is a common practice in many societies. -
Sexual Fantasy and Masturbation Among Asexual Individuals: an In-Depth Exploration
Arch Sex Behav (2017) 46:311–328 DOI 10.1007/s10508-016-0870-8 SPECIAL SECTION: THE PUZZLE OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION Sexual Fantasy and Masturbation Among Asexual Individuals: An In-Depth Exploration 1 1 2 Morag A. Yule • Lori A. Brotto • Boris B. Gorzalka Received: 4 January 2016 / Revised: 8 August 2016 / Accepted: 20 September 2016 / Published online: 23 November 2016 Ó Springer Science+Business Media New York 2016 Abstract Human asexuality is generally defined as a lack of pants(bothmenandwomen)wereequallylikelytofantasizeabout sexual attraction. We used online questionnaires to investigate topics such as fetishes and BDSM. reasons for masturbation, and explored and compared the con- tentsofsexualfantasiesofasexualindividuals(identifiedusing Keywords Asexuality Á Sexual orientation Á Masturbation Á the Asexual Identification Scale) with those of sexual individ- Sexual fantasy uals. A total of 351 asexual participants (292 women, 59 men) and 388sexualparticipants(221women,167men)participated.Asex- ual women were significantly less likely to masturbate than sexual Introduction women, sexual men, and asexual men. Asexual women were less likely to report masturbating for sexual pleasure or fun than their Although the definition of asexuality varies somewhat, the gen- sexualcounterparts, and asexualmen were less likely to reportmas- erallyaccepteddefinitionisthedefinitionforwardedbythelargest turbating forsexualpleasure than sexualmen. Both asexualwomen online web-community of asexual individuals (Asexuality Visi- andmen weresignificantlymorelikelythansexualwomenand -
Asexual Romance in an Allosexual World: How Ace-Spectrum Characters (And Authors) Create Space for Romantic Love
Asexual Romance in an Allosexual World: How Ace-Spectrum Characters (and Authors) Create Space for Romantic Love By Ellen Carter Published online: August 2020 http://www.jprstudies.org Abstract: Recent years have seen a surge in contemporary romance novels with ace- spectrum main characters who, despite not experiencing sexual attraction, still yearn for romantic and emotional connection and their happily ever after (HEA). They must navigate as outsiders an allosexual (non-asexual) world where sexual attraction is deemed normal, and where ace-individuals are pitied, assumed to be unwell, or suspected of having survived sexual abuse. This corpus study of sixty-five novels explores four approaches adopted by ace characters when negotiating romantic space in an allosexual world: an open relationship with an allosexual; a closed relationship with an allosexual; a polyamorous relationship with two (or more) allosexuals; or pairing up with another ace-spectrum character. Except for ace-ace relationships, these novels therefore tread unfamiliar territory in romance fiction because the sexual desires of the main characters are not aligned. In allosexual romance novels, a libido mismatch signifies an underlying physical or emotional problem to be overcome by one or more characters. However, in asexual romance fiction, non-aligned libidos are the norm and the characters must work together to understand each other’s sexual and romantic desires, and to co-create a new space in which all can thrive. In analyzing how ace romance fiction achieves HEA and how this can inform the lenses through which allosexual romance fiction is read, I look at several factors, including the co- occurrence of other queer orientations and identities; the authors’ orientation, especially those who identify as #ownvoices; how characters with different sexual desires handle consent; and discourses of romance versus intimacy. -
Kinky Sex: When Did BDSM Become So Wildly Popular? by Carl Frankel, Alternet Posted on June 2, 2010, Printed on June 7, 2010
Kinky Sex: When Did BDSM Become So Wildly Popular? By Carl Frankel, AlterNet Posted on June 2, 2010, Printed on June 7, 2010 http://www.alternet.org/story/147084/ It’s just another day at The Armory in San Francisco: A bound and naked woman is laid out on a stylish serving table. Elegantly-dressed people of both sexes gather around—enjoying the view, apparently—and take turns having their way with her. Various devices are deployed— dildos, floggers, electrical stimulators. She says “Thank you, sir” and “Thank you, madam” frequently. Welcome to "The Upper Floor," a high-definition Internet reality show where, website copy states, “real submissive women and real submissive men become house slaves to be dominated, trained, punished, spanked, whipped, and fucked … Inspired by the legendary French BDSM erotic novel The Story of O, The Upper Floor illustrates real lifestyle BDSM as it is lived by 24/7 slaves and Masters, complete with … explicit sex in bondage, punishment, erotic humiliation, and more.” The Upper Floor is a project of Kink.com, a thriving pornography business that was founded by Peter Acworth, a British-born entrepreneur and lifelong aficionado of BDSM (for Bondage, Domination, Submission—or Sadism—and Masochism). Kink.com sells subscriptions to websites with names like Hogtied.com, SexandSubmission.com and, yes, TheUpperFloor.com. Acworth often attends these, er, corporate events. “He’s the master of the house,” says colleague John Sander. Only in Satan’s City by the Bay, right? Not exactly. Acworth was recently invited to speak at a summit on innovation convened by the ever-so-respectable The Economist. -
Therapy for Premature Ejaculation
pISSN: 2287-4208 / eISSN: 2287-4690 World J Mens Health 2016 December 34(3): 173-178 https://doi.org/10.5534/wjmh.2016.34.3.173 Review Article Ancient Chinese Fangzhongshu (Sexual Skills and Methods) Therapy for Premature Ejaculation Yong Zhu1, Qiang Chen2, Yuexing Gu1, Jin Yue1, Qingqi Zeng3 1Department of Andrology, Traditional Chinese Medicine Hospital of Yancheng City Affiliated with the Nanjing University of Chinese Medicine, Yancheng, 2Institute of Andrology, Nanjing University of Chinese Medicine, 3Department of Integrative Medicine, Jiangsu Jiankang Vocational College, Nanjing, China Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common male sexual dysfunction that can have significant effects on a couple’s relationship. Behavioral therapy and psychotherapy are both safe and effective methods of treating PE. Ancient Chinese fangzhongshu (sexual skills and methods), which reflects a summary of expert experiences in sexology, contains many therapies for sexual dysfunction that are similar to those used in behavioral therapy or psychotherapy. A brief introduction dealing with the latest definitions of PE and treatment strategies drawn from behavioral therapy and psychotherapy is provided. Typical therapies for PE from ancient Chinese fangzhongshu are listed and briefly analyzed in order to define their domain of applicability and instructions for use. Ancient Chinese fangzhongshu contains many effective and safe therapies for PE. It should be incorporated into modern medical practice after critical analysis, and its scientific aspects should be promoted as a way of improving reproductive health, both to benefit individuals affected by PE and to promote traditional Chinese culture. Based on an analysis of the condition of the individual patient, one or multiple therapies guided by fangzhongshu can be expected to have an effect on the patient. -
Is Your Marriage Primed for Romance?
Is Your Marriage Primed for Romance? To get a good sense of how your relationship is faring (or is likely to fare in the future) in the romance department, answer the following questions. Read each statement and circle T for “ true ” or F for “ false. ” 1. We enjoy doing small things together, like folding laundry or watching TV. T F 2. I look forward to spending my free time with my partner. T F 3. At the end of the day my partner is glad to see me. T F 4. My partner is usually interested in hearing my views. T F 5. I really enjoy discussing things with my partner. T F 6. My partner is one of my best friends. T F 7. I think my partner would consider me a very close friend. T F 8. We just love talking to each other. T F 9. When we go out together, the time goes very quickly. T F 10. We always have a lot to say to each other. T F 11. We have a lot of fun together. T F 12. We are spiritually very compatible. T F 13. We tend to share the same basic values. T F 14. We like to spend time together in similar ways. T F 15. We really have a lot of common interests. T F 16. We have many of the same goals and dreams. T F 17. We like to do a lot of the same things. T F 18. Even though our interests are somewhat different, I enjoy my partner’s interests. -
Sexuality Across the Lifespan Childhood and Adolescence Introduction
Topics in Human Sexuality: Sexuality Across the Lifespan Childhood and Adolescence Introduction Take a moment to think about your first sexual experience. Perhaps it was “playing doctor” or “show me yours and I’ll show you mine.” Many of us do not think of childhood as a time of emerging sexuality, although we likely think of adolescence in just that way. Human sexual development is a process that occurs throughout the lifespan. There are important biological and psychological aspects of sexuality that differ in children and adolescents, and later in adults and the elderly. This course will review the development of sexuality using a lifespan perspective. It will focus on sexuality in infancy, childhood and adolescence. It will discuss biological and psychological milestones as well as theories of attachment and psychosexual development. Educational Objectives 1. Describe Freud’s theory of psychosexual development 2. Discuss sexuality in children from birth to age two 3. Describe the development of attachment bonds and its relationship to sexuality 4. Describe early childhood experiences of sexual behavior and how the child’s natural sense of curiosity leads to sexual development 5. Discuss common types of sexual play in early childhood, including what is normative 6. Discuss why it is now thought that the idea of a latency period of sexual development is inaccurate 7. Discuss differences in masturbation during adolescence for males and females 8. List and define the stages of Troiden’s model for development of gay identity 9. Discuss issues related to the first sexual experience 10. Discuss teen pregnancy Freud’s Contributions to Our Understanding of Sexual Development Prior to 1890, it was widely thought that sexuality began at puberty. -
Sexual Problems Among Family Medicine Patients
Sexual Problems Among Family Medicine Patients James T. Moore, MD, and Yonkel Goldstein, PhD Durham and Fayetteville, North Carolina A self-administered questionnaire assessing sexual satisfaction and presence of a number of common sexual problems was developed. Following assessment of reliability and validity, the questionnaire was administered to 142 patients seen in a family medicine center. While 56 percent of patients reported one or more sexual problems, such problems were noted in the medical record in 22 percent of the cases. The nature of many of the problems (ie, techniques of foreplay, fear of pregnancy, and differences in attitudes and expectations between partners) suggests an effective role in treatment for the primary care phy sician. While much attention has been focused on sons with sexual problems will probably continue treatment of sexual problems, there is little infor to be seen by primary care physicians rather than mation available about the extent of sexual prob specialty treatment clinics. In addition, several lems seen in primary care settings. Most descrip workers have documented and discussed de tions of sexual problems and treatment programs ficiencies in medical education and treatment of have focused on sexual dysfunctions such as im sexual problems.5'9 It will be difficult to correct potence, premature ejaculation, dyspareunia, and these deficiencies until more is known about what anorgasmia.1'3 There is evidence, however, that kind of problems a primary care physician sees. such dysfunctions are far less common than “ sex The purpose of this study was to: ual difficulties.” In a survey of 100 couples, Frank 1. -
Ace of (BDSM) Clubs: Building Asexual Relationships Through BDSM Practice
Article Sexualities 2015, Vol. 18(5/6) 548–563 Ace of (BDSM) clubs: ! The Author(s) 2015 Reprints and permissions: Building asexual sagepub.co.uk/journalsPermissions.nav DOI: 10.1177/1363460714550907 relationships through sex.sagepub.com BDSM practice Lorca Jolene Sloan Adler School of Professional Psychology, Chicago, USA Abstract Since the, 1990s, asexuality has gained prominence as an identity adopted by individuals who do not experience sexual attraction. Paradoxically, many asexual individuals form relationships through Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism (BDSM) – acts conventionally assumed to involve sexual desire and pleasure. I interviewed 15 asexual individuals to illuminate why they participate in interactions where sexual attraction is often expected and expressed. I propose that BDSM helps these practitioners form non-sexual relationships by providing tools for navigating sexual expectations and redefining their behaviors as indicative of affections that do not stem from sexual desire. Keywords Asexuality, BDSM, identity, sex, sexuality I follow Jessie’s jeweled heels up two flights of stairs, past a smoking couple whose upturned lapels frame matching leather collars, and enter Chicago’s foremost BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) club. For the next hour, Jessie strikes her partner’s shoulders until his flesh blossoms red and purple. Ginny draws pink constellations across her companion’s skin with a pocketknife and Michael sends current through electrodes affixed to his and his partner’s skin until they pulse together like twin hearts. Jessie, Ginny, and Michael perform acts that are common sights in the club, but they are not typical BDSM practitioners. -
Quality of Sex, Romance, and Passion in the Relationship
Quality of Sex, Romance, and Passion in the Relationship For each item check the one box below that applies to your relationship right now: 1. Our relationship is m Romantic and passionate m Becoming passionless, that is, the fire is going out 2. I would say that m My partner is still verbally affectionate m My partner is not very verbally affectionate 3. I would say that m My partner expresses love and admiration to me My partner expresses love or admiration less frequently m these days 4. I would say that m We do touch each other a fair amount m We rarely touch each other these days 5. I would say that m My partner courts me sexually m My partner does not court me sexually 6. I would say that m We do cuddle with one another m We rarely cuddle with one another 7. I would say that m We still have our tender and passionate moments m We have few tender or passionate moments 8. I would say that m Our sex life is fine m There are definite problems in this area 9. I would say that m The frequency of sex is not a problem m The frequency of sex is a problem 10. I would say that m The satisfaction I get from sex is not a problem m The satisfaction I get from sex is a problem 11. I would say that Being able to just talk about sex, or talk about sexual m problems is not a serious issue between us Being able to just talk about sex, or talk about sexual m problems is a serious issue between us 12.