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OINT OF IEW www.afampointofview.comP V december 1, 2012 Our Community Newspaper CHRISTMAS MUSINGS. . . 688 Boston Road WE WON! SKIP THE SWEATER, LET CHRIST COME GIVE AN EXPERIENCE HOME FOR CHRISTMAS By Magdalena Gómez By Dr. Brett Snowden is the season” of people going into debt, the giv- Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and ing of obligatory gifts, “T opens the door, I will come in and gluttony, anxiety, resentment, mall eat with that person, and they with stress, and for many, having to spend me. Revelation 3:20 (NIV) time with people you wouldn’t choose Photo by Ed Cohen – 16 to have in your life, but are stuck with t’s that time of year again. LIVING THE GOOD LIFE due to familial pressures. Then there December has come and with it are the meals and the expectations sur- all the joys of Christmas. But what “Shouldn’t we try a little harder to consis- I rounding those meals. Pressures all is the real meaning of Christmas? Is it tently give of ourselves? Living the Good around, some of which are competi- the gifts under the tree, the lights in Life should be viewed more broadly than tive and even classist. Does giving a the windows, the cards in the mail, what’s in it for me….self-mastery requires Burberry scarf make you a better dinners with family and friends, snow ruthless candor….stop the blame shifting friend than giving a home-made batch in the yard, stockings hanging in the for your errors and shortcomings….Don’t of cookies? How much cortisol do living room, and shouts of “Merry be a Prosperous Fool….Kindness to oth- you release deciding what to give your Christmas” to those who we meet in ers is a good habit…” employer? How do you measure suc- the corridors of life? Is this really By Patricia Spradley – 7 cess? Why does it take a diamond to Christmas? say “I love you”? Who started that tradition? I can assure Of course, much of the popularity associated with THE WORK CONTINUES you that it was not begun by those who are worked to Christmas, especially in the Western part of the world, is “…we cannot return to business as usual death for meager wages in the mines. Attendance at due to the commercial promotion of the holiday. In when it comes to educating our children, recovery meetings escalate during the holidays; so do many Protestant churches through the eighteenth and not when only half of Bridgeport stu- accidents. Corporate advertisers exploit unchallenged early nineteenth centuries, Christmas was noted but not dents graduate from high school.” continues to page 13 continues to page 26 By Maria Zambrano – 8 IT WORKS! CASINO CORNER TOBACCO TREATMENT By Frederick A. Hurst GAME CHANGE! “Tobacco use is the leading preventable first heard about “Y-AIM” during a casual meeting at By Frederick A. Hurst cause of illness and death worldwide. In my office with Kirk Smith, president and CEO of the , it adds up to 96 billion his casino business gets more exciting by the day. the YMCA of Greater Springfield. Kirk was express- dollars in medical costs annually to health I Holyoke Mayor Alex B. Morse, who was elected care spending….In 2010, 19.3% of U.S. Tat age 22 on the promise to block casino devel- adults, or 45 million people, smoked opment in Holyoke, recently announced plans for a casi- cigarettes. Approximately half of them no at Holyoke’s Mt. Tom on the former site of the will die of a tobacco-related disease.” Mountain Park Amusement Park. Holyoke’s entry into By Anne Awad & Doris Harris – 10 the race almost guarantees that at least three proposals will be submitted to the state gaming commission from THE SLEEPING GIANT Western Massachusetts. IS AWAKE Holyoke would be one. Holyoke residents have “…voter suppression efforts designed to already voted twice to approve a casino and it is highly make it difficult for certain segments of unlikely they will reject the Mt. Tom proposal. The the population to vote woke up a sleeping Palmer casino proposal is another. It was considered a giant that showed its defiance on shoo-in after Palmer residents voted for it long before November 6, 2012, by re-electing Y-AIM students Kendrik Vasquez and competition from Holyoke and the three Springfield President Obama to a second four-year Tadaja Murphy with YMCA President and casino developers. And, of course, one of the three term.” CEO Kirk Smith from Springfield will find its way to Boston. By Rev. Talbert W. Swan, II – 14 continues to page 5 continues to page 25 POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:38 AM Page 2

african american point of view page two december 1, 2012 HOSPITALITY MINISTRY CANAAN BAPTIST CHURCH OF Announcing the CHRIST HOSTS 20TH SENIOR Presentation and Book Signing EXTRAVAGANZA of a new inspirational book by Dr. W.C . Watson, Jr., Sr. Pastor Canaan Baptist Church of Christ Saturday, December 8, 2012

Canaan’s Rev. Dr. W.C. Watson, Jr., & Hospitality Ministry Chairperson First Lady Dr. Annie B. Watson Willette Johnson DiscoveringDDisissccooveerring thethhe ProfoundProofofofououundnd ValueVaalluue of ththehe JJoyoy WithinWiiththhiin

Honorees top row from left: Thomas Hodges, Sr., Deacon Marlow Keith Freeman, Rev. Amos L. Bailey, Rev. Dr. Brett Snowden; Center row from left: Dr. Priscilla Bolden, Dr. Gloria B. Williams, Gladys Cuffie, Carol Murchison, Mrs. Ambrozine M. Snowden, and James McLean; Front row from left: Nancy Castleberry, Catherine Forrester, Dolores A. Nichols, and Mother Mary Martin Presentation and Book Signing for two hours on Saturday, December 8, 2012 12:00 - 1:00 p.m. and 1:30 - 2:30 p.m. (Refreshments will be served) Canaan Baptist Church of Christ 1430 Carew Street Springfield, MA 01104

Pre-order your book from the Canaan church office at (413) 781-1232 or (413) 739-5053 Canaan Hospitality Ministry front row from left: Sherry Washington, Richea Cost of Book: $11.00 Jackson Deloach, Natalie Dorm, Katherine Thomas, and Alice Edmonds Paterson; Center row: Ella Holman, Lue Ann Allison; Top row from left: Joyce Calhoun, Juanita Beamon, and Chairperson Willette H. Johnson POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:38 AM Page 3

african american point of view page three december 1, 2012 COVER AN AFRICAN AMERICAN POINT OF VIEW  SKIP THE SWEATER, GIVE AN EXPERIENCE AN AFRICAN AMERICAN Point of View  LET CHRIST COME HOME FOR CHRISTMAS CON 688 Boston Road, Springfield, MA 01119 CON Phone: (413) 796-1500 l Fax: (413) 796-6100  IT WORKS! E-mail: [email protected] l Website: www.afampointofview.com  CASINO CORNER: GAME CHANGE! Point of View is a monthly news journal with an African American orientation. It is distributed free to select locations in Hampden and Hampshire counties and BUSINESS & FINANCE in Connecticut. Letters, articles and comments appearing in the newspaper Financial “Cents”...... 9 Financially Yours ...... 9 reflect the opinions of the contributors and do not constitute an endorsement by CLASSIFIED...... 32 POV and are subject to editing. POV assumes no responsibility for photos, arti- COMMUNITY cles, letters, press releases or unsolicited materials. Decisions as to the editing Call to the Cause...... 15 and publishing of material are based on space availability and the discretion of Community Focus ...... 17, 20-21 the publisher and editor. Distribution locations are listed on our web site. POV Community Information...... 13, 25 assumes no financial responsibility for failure to publish an advertisement, Community Perspectives ...... 14 incorrect placement or typographical errors in its publication. Advertisers are Congratulations Corner...... 16 solely responsible for the content of their advertising and claims and offers con- Events...... 33 tained within their advertising. POV reserves the right to refuse advertising for Latin@ Groove (continued from Cover) ...... 13 any reason. No portion of this publication may be reproduced without written Leadership Pioneer Valley...... 14 permission. EDITORIAL PUBLISHER: Frederick A. Hurst EDITOR: Marjorie J. Hurst AF-AM Newsbits...... 4 CONTRIBUTING WRITERS: THIS ISSUE

Connecticut Bits ...... 22 TENTS TENTS Black Sports International Melvin Wm. Bell, Editor Inhale Music < Exhale Life Heshima Moja From the Publisher’s Desk...... 24 Call to the Cause Kirk Smith Inspirational Thoughts Willette H. Johnson Letters to the Publisher ...... 24 Children’s Book Corner Terri Schlichenmeyer Latin@ Groove Magdalena Gómez EDUCATION Community Perspectives Rev. Talbert W. Swan, II Leadership Pioneer Valley Lora Wondolowski Early Education & Care ...... 6 Early Education & Care Nicole Blais Life’s Challenges Dr. Sweets S. Wilson Education & Hope...... 6 Education & Hope Gianna Allentuck Mama’s Boyz Jerry Craft Improving Bridgeport Schools...... 8 Features Kenya Richardson Men’s Fashions Jeffrey S. Clemons, Sr. Parent & Community Engagement ...... 7 Danielle L. Williams Parent & Community Patricia Spradley Reading to Succeed ...... 7 Dr. Annette Wright & Pen & Ink Brenda’s Child FEATURES Dr. Donna Calawa Juanita Torrence-Thompson Local Teens Place Second and Third in Area Competition...... 21 Financial “Cents” Walter D. Woodgett Reading to Succeed Sally Fuller Theological Education: An Opportunity Too Good To Be Missed..26 Financially Yours Samuel N. Wilson, Jr. Religious Point of View Rev. Dr. Brett Snowden FOOD & FASHION Health Matters Doris Harris, Editor The Urban Cook Rhonda Jones A Gentlemen’s Fashion Sense ...... 30 Anne Awad PRODUCTION Artistic/Multimedia Dir. Marie Zanazanian The Urban Cook...... 30 Anika C. Johnson Marketing Director Marjorie J. Hurst HEALTH Mandi Summers Photographer Edward Cohen Baystate Health Special to Point of View ...... 13 Improving Bridgeport Schools Maria Zambrano Website Designer Marie Zanazanian Health Matters ...... 10, 12 LIVING LOCATE OUR ADVERTISERS Inspirational Thoughts (Receiving the Gift of Life! continues) ...... 23 Affordable Airport Car Service ------15 Lewin’s Boutique------15 Life’s Challenges ...... 23 Alden Baptist Church ------27 Macedonia COGIC ------27 American International College ------17 Martin Luther King, Jr. Presby. Comm. Church 27 Our Love...... 35 Baystate Academy Charter Public School ------21 MBC Realtors ------15 PHOTO GALLERY...... 18-19, 34 Baystate Medical Center ------11 Mount Calvary Baptist Church------27 PROFESSIONAL SERVICES...... 15 Bethel AME Church------27 New Life Calvary Baptist Church ------27 RELIGION Branford Hall Career Institute ------20 OG1Gold ------36 Religious Point of View (continued from Cover) ...... 26 Bytebak Computers------3 Pioneer Valley Concrete Service, Inc. ------13 Religious Directory...... 26-27 Canaan Baptist Church of Christ------27 & 33 Progressive Community Baptist Church------26 SPORTS Caring Health Center ------12 Roberta B. Johnson/Real Living Real Estate -----15 Black Sports International...... 31-32 Community Legal Aid, Inc.------7 Shiloh SDA Church ------27 Dr. W.C. Watson, Jr. ------2 Solid Rock Community Baptist Church ------27 THE ARTS Family Church------27 Springfield Dept. of Health & Human Serv.-----10 Children’s Book Corner...... 29 Freedom Credit Union------9 Springfield Neighborhood Housing Serv.------8 Inhale Music < Exhale Life...... 29 Fresh Anointing Ministries COGIC------27 Springfield Technical Community College ------8 Mama’s Boyz...... 3 Gentle Smiles Family Dentistry ------13 St. John’s Congregational Church------27 Pen & Ink...... 28 Hall & Hall Siding------15 The SHINE Program------14 HCS Head Start------33 Third Baptist Church------27 Health New England------25 Trinity United Methodist Church ------27 Holyoke Community College------5 Watson’s Wellness Center & Beauty Spa ------15 Home Inspections by Marco, LLC.------15 Wesley United Methodist Church------27 Jeffrey’s Suit Rack ------30 Westfield State University ------20 Jesus Christ Enlightened Christian Bible Seminary 27 X-Bankers Check Cashing ------15 SUPPORT OUR ADVERTISERS POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:38 AM Page 4

african american point of view page four december 1, 2012 the Supreme Court would have been. existing ordinance that has led to this bits silly alternative that will never work. AF-AM NEWS WHEN 50% ARE FOR YOU AND Taxpayers’ money will go to current By Frederick A. Hurst 50% ARE AGAINST YOU, OF employees who live in the city. The YES, WE’RE GLOATING (Rahm Emanuel) “Sean...Sean...,” COURSE BLACK FOLKS’ only employees who move back will y now Republican extremists Emanuel interrupted, “Sean... Sean... RELATIONSHIP WITH WHITE move back because they intended to Bprobably realize that Black folks Sean... Sean... Sean...... shut the fuck FOLKS IS GOING TO BE without the proposed meager financial will walk through fire to preserve their up. You Lost. Get over it and move on. SCHIZOPHRENIC incentive. And the requirement that hard won right to vote. With all of the Barack Obama is president for the recent survey by the Associated future employees be required to live in efforts Republicans put in to suppress next four years.” “No amount of “A Press and researchers showed the city will not be enforced just as the childish whining will change that fact. the Black vote, Black voter turnout that 51 percent of Americans express original requirement was not. That Why don’t you start working on equaled that of Obama’s first election. explicit anti-black attitudes, compared $800,000 the proposed residency ordi- improving yourself as a person, rather We stood in long lines, tolerated short- with 48 percent in 2008. The study nance is supposed to cost Springfield than finding fault in others?” “At the er voting hours, came to polls with one also found that 56 percent of taxpayers each year can be much better moment you’re a terrible, cynical Americans harbor implicit anti-black and even two identifications, ignored used. human being who gets rich off of attitudes compared with 49 percent bad weather and bad attitude alike, and other people’s ignorance. Your entire four years ago.” (The Boston Globe, exercised our sacred right to vote and EARTH ANGEL existence is defined by intellectual November 20, 2012) The bad news is showed our detractors that we will not arth angel, Earth angel, Will stupor and purposelessness. that, at least in the short run, the be moved. Had they left us alone, we you be mine, My darling dear, There's not a single cell of your Obama presidency does not seem to “E might have lagged behind our 2008 body that has any redeeming value have reduced racism in America. The Love you all the time, I’m just a fool, A numbers. Apathy, overconfidence, whatsoever ―not even the intestinal good news is that, with its four point fool in love with you…” Clive Duncan petulance, inattentiveness, mindless- cells which host your parasites." “I margin of error, the report suggests of the Penguins, whose rendition of ness, all, and any one of these things, feel deeply sorry for your children and that racism hasn’t increased either. the popular 1954 doo wop sound, might have reduced the margin of the your children’s children, who will have While it doesn’t make sense to dislike Earth Angel, recently died. The song Black vote but all were erased by the to bear the stain of their relationship White folks because of the statistics, that he popularized and that we so alert raised by Republican chicanery. to you for their entire lives.” “I am a when you know that one out of every loved has sold 10 million copies since We voted! And we will be watching dumber, coarser, less centered individ- two White people might have a nega- being a 1955 best seller. Time flies. you! Yes, we’re gloating! ual for even having spoken to you, and tive opinion of Black folks, a I promise I will never repeat that mis- schizophrenic Black/White relation- IT’S JUST THE WAY IT IS IT’S A GOOD MESSAGE take again.” ship probably should be considered a ow the Feds are going after Jesse (As reported in The Daily Currant, Emanuel then removed his normal relationship. NJackson, Jr.’s wife claiming that November 7, 2012 and e-mailed to Point of microphone and quietly walked off the she was “complicit” in his alleged mis- View by Charles T. Cross) set. CYNICS CORNER: use of campaign funds to decorate hicago mayor and former THE SILLIEST IDEA! their house in Washington, D.C. Word “CWhite House Chief-of-Staff (We at Point of View do not make a habit oes anybody truly believe that is that the Feds are using her to Rham Emanuel tore into Fox News of printing curse words but we felt that to Dpaying a city employee $250 to squeeze her husband, who is under a host Sean Hannity tonight on live tele- eliminate it in this case would have dimin- $1,000 dollars a year to move into the Congressional ethics investigation, vision. Emanuel was on the conserva- ished the texture of Emanuel’s message to city of Springfield or to remain here into a plea bargain. It’s sad to see such tive network to offer his opinion on Hannity, which we also feel contains an rather than move out is a good a promising young man fall so far. But the night’s election results, which saw implicit reminder to other White folks and, replacement for a well policed residen- he represents a lesson for other up- his former boss Barack Obama especially, moderate White Republicans, of cy requirement? It’s the silliest thing we and-coming African American politi- reelected to the presidency for another their responsibility to clean up their own have ever heard and could only have cians. You can’t do the same things! four years. A devastated Hannity, how- ranks.) come from Springfield’s weakened city ever, was intent on using council that seems to be short on large LEGALIZATION IS IMMINENT GOOD BYE, ALLEN WEST! the occasion to vent his rage at the ideas. The idea that someone who lives n a meeting with several prominent lorida’s Black Republican out of the city will pack up their bags, night’s events and incessantly pro- Hampden County prosecutors, to Congressman Allen West served sell their home, sever their community I voked Emanuel’s ire: F their dismay, I predicted that marijuana one term in Congress before being contacts, uproot their kids from school (Sean Hannity) “Is Barack Obama would be legalized within ten years. defeated in the November elections by and friends, abandon their peace of going to move to the center? Or is he That was about two years ago. Medical Democrat Patrick Murphy. Some of mind and move to a city they didn’t going to continue his radical Socialist marijuana was legalized in us will regret the loss of an African want to reside in in the first place for a policies that are destroying America?” American from Congress simply few dollars, which amortized over the Massachusetts in the current election Hannity asked, beginning a rapid- because he is Black but most of us, next 20 years will amount to much of after having been legalized for medici- fire sequence of badgering questions: who remember the error of our ways nothing, defies simple logic. And as for nal purposes in several other states, “Is he going to start paying attention when we supported Clarence Thomas the part of the proposed ordinance and two states, Colorado and to ordinary Americans? Or is he going just because he was African American, requiring future hires to live in Washington, legalized it outright. to continue his government of, by, and know better. West made it a point to Springfield, we are not stupid! Past Watch how many states follow. It for the welfare queens?” “Is he going out right wing the right wingers in the hires routinely received waivers from makes no sense filling up our jails with to … keep apologizing to our ene- Republican and Tea Party and Springfield’s mayors to live outside of young people who sell and use a drug mies? Or is he going to show some deserved to lose along with others of the city and others simply defied the that is not even as harmful as alcohol. backbone and invade somebody?” “Is his colleagues. Our glee over his loss is law without consequence as did By the way, 56% of Americans, he ever going to release his real birth not about color. It’s about interest. employees who, under the ordinance, according to a Rasmussen poll, certificate? Or is he gonna continue And the White guy’s victory was in were required to move into the city approve of legalizing and regulating lying to the American people about his Black folks’ interest just as the defeat within a certain period of time. It was marijuana in a manner similar to Kenyan heritage?” of Clarence Thomas’ nomination for the failure of enforcement of the alcohol. POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:38 AM Page 5

african american point of view page five december 1, 2012 gram―Yami Madho, Big Y’s Diversity and Inclusion specialist, Kathleen Treglia, YMCA’s Vice President of Education & Government Relations, and Pat IT WORKS! Spradley, Springfield School Department’s Chief Administrator for Parent and Community Engagement―was, “How certain are you that the students selected continued from page 1 were not going to succeed without the program?” As it turned out, the student ing his appreciation participants were selected for the program by school personnel specifically that the program, because they had been identified as “at risk” and in need of support of a pro- funded by Big Y gram like Y-AIM, a specification that Big Y wrote into the program design. Foods, was so suc- In a follow-up discussion with Yami Madho, I asked her what motivated Big cessful. Kirk was sur- Y to become involved in Y-AIM, in which it has invested tens of thousands of prised at my surprise dollars and personnel time while encouraging other local businesses to join in its when I told him I was effort. Actually, it was happenstance. In 2007, staff was attending a food market- aware of their area ing program in New York where a similar program was discussed. Big Y staff grocery stores but followed up with visits to the New York nonprofit that was running the program had no idea Big Y and with site visits to the hosting schools and were inspired by what they saw was involved in edu- and impressed by the statistical results, which were uniformly excellent. So, in cation in Springfield. 2008, Big Y formed a collaboration with Future Works and initiated a pilot pro- He subsequently set gram at SciTech. up a meeting with me Big Y assigned Yami Madho to SciTech where she served on site for two and himself and Big years from Monday through Friday as the SciTech students’ case manager. It was Y’s president and From left: Levi Gonzalez, Chris Levalle (staff) a useful interface that, in the first two years, allowed the effervescent Ms. Madho, COO, Charles and Anthony McLaurean who was born, raised and educated in Springfield and is the offspring of a “Charlie” D’Amour. I was so impressed by the details of the program and by Guyanese father and Puerto Rican mother, to develop a feel for what would Charlie’s enthusiasm for it that I decided to write an article about Y-AIM. make the program most efficient, which led to bringing the YMCA on board and I was impressed because the data shows that Y-AIM works. The “Y” stands to the development of a much closer relationship with the school department. for the YMCA, the “A” for “Achieve” the “I’ for “Inspire” and the “M” for Ms. Madho also helped to identify student participants who might benefit “Move.” Y-AIM was developed in 2008 as a collaboration between Big Y and from working at Big Y. She was careful not to coddle them. They were required Future Works, Springfield’s one-stop career center that provides a range of ser- to follow the same application procedures as all other applicants and to perform vices to job seekers and employers in Hampden County. The goal of Y-AIM is on the job. And if the student employees slipped in school or at home, they to provide talented, underachieving, at-risk youth with a solid support system could not remain employed and they would not be eligible to apply for the five that will assure graduation from high school, encourage pursuit of a higher edu- $1,000 scholarships that Big Y set aside for Y-AIM students. Ms. Madho was cation and increase their access to gainful employment. In its first school year of very careful not to allow the program to be used to reward bad behavior. The operation (2008-2009), as a pilot program at Springfield’s Science and students had to do their part. And as the above results show, the students Technology High School (SciTech), all indicators were positive. Still, certain responded well. changes were made in the 2010-2011 school year that strengthened the program, The question to be asked and answered is, “Exactly what did the program including the replacement of Future Works (which is an excellent program but do to realize such stellar results in a school system struggling to improve a grad- without the range of services needed by high school students) with the YMCA uation rate that has hovered barely above 50% for past several years and how can of Greater Springfield and an expansion of the program’s school collaboration. it be replicated? Ms. Madho, the school department’s Patricia Spradley and The next year’s results were dramatic. Of 39 at-risk high school students YMCA’s Kathleen Treglia provided the answer, which will be detailed in the enrolled in Y-AIM at SciTech in the 2010-2011 school year, 38 graduated, 36 of January issue of Point of View. the 38 applied to college and all were accepted, while two entered the armed forces. Just one had to repeat the senior year. Inspired by these results, the Y-AIM collaborators decided to extend the program to two more schools (High School of Commerce and Springfield High) for the 2011-2012 school year. The 2011-2012 results were similar. At Commerce, where 40 students enrolled in Y-AIM, 93% of 9th graders advanced to the next grade Register now for spring classes at HCC. compared to the school average of 58%. Ninety-one Nearly 100 associate degree and certificate options, plus: percent of 10th graders and 89% of 11th graders day, evening, and online affordable tuition and fees advanced to the next grade while 83% of 12th t t classes financial assistance graders graduated. Seventy-six percent of the fresh- t support services to help you state-of-the-art fitness man at SciTech advanced compared to a school t t succeed facility average of 60%. Eight out of nine of the 10th professional development and student clubs and graders advanced, nine out of nine of the 11th t t personal enrichment classes organizations graders and 11 out of 11 of the 12th graders. And at Springfield High school, where 20 students partic- Intersession at HCC - www.hcc.edu/Intersession ipated, 80% (4 of 5) freshman advanced as com- Earn college credit during winter vacation. Online and on Campus. pared to the school average of 51%, along with seven out of eight 10th graders and the only 11th January 3-16. Three credits, 10 days. Choose from Art, Economics, Business, 303 Homestead Avenue grader, while five out of six seniors graduated. Computers, and more. Last day to register for intersession - December 21. 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Nicole Blais is A FATHER’S TIME IS A GREAT GIFT Director of By Nicole Blais Community n the spirit of giving, I thought it grams stronger as a result. Engagement HCS was appropriate to write this I asked Raymond Akers, a Head Start, Inc. month’s article on the gift fathers Head Start dad and the [email protected] I give to their children each and every day. Policy Council This past October, HCS Head Start Chairperson for HCS sponsored its annual M.I.L.K. (Men Involved in the Lives of Kids) Pumpkin Head Start, his thoughts Carving Event. The preschoolers had such a good time parading their about why he decided to dads/father figures around, having pizza and spending a couple of hours of get involved. He uninterrupted time together. answered, “With me, I In addition, Janis Santos, Executive Director of HCS Head Start, Inc., and have had the opportunity I had the privilege of attending the First Annual Massachusetts Fatherhood to be more active and Leadership Summit on October 3, 2012, which helped to validate the positive involved with just about contributions fathers/father figures make in the life of a child. One of the everything that HCS Brianna Ramos and Dad Jorge Ramos, questions that struck me during the leadership summit was “What would the sys- Head Start has to offer. I Jhonthony Maldonado and Dad Anthony tem I work in look like if it valued fathers and mothers equally and held fathers and moth- love being with my son Maldonado, Child Tavon Glaze and Step dad ers equally responsible for parenting?” and it has been a very Kidany Fernandez and dad Victor Figueroa. Over the past two decades, father involvement has been a hot topic and exciting and rewarding In the back child Drew Pearson and Head Start programs across the country have been charged with creating and experience.” dad John Pearson. implementing responsive programing that intentionally includes fathers. There has been a tremendous amount of research done on the benefits M.I.L.K., along with other father-friendly activities at HCS Head Start, provides children gain when they have an engaged father in their lives, some of which a space for dads and, hopefully, sends a welcoming message to the men that walk includes: higher academic achievement, lower delinquency rates, lower teen vio- through our doors. lence, and that children are more likely to avoid teen pregnancy. You can imag- The goal is to engage dads in their child’s early education experience. For ine what the research says when a child grows up without a father/father-figure. some families, parents are co-parenting, for others the biological father may not For the dads out there, if you are thinking about what to get your be in the picture; nevertheless, our job is to make sure all families understand children this holiday season, make some memories and give them your the critical role a father plays. By doing this work, the fathers here have remind- time. ed us that they want to be and expect to be included, which has made our pro- Happy Holidays from all of us here at HCS Head Start. EDUCATION & HOPE Gianna Allentuck is these entities, we hold a position or fill right thing. To make the right move. that each of us understands not only an Adjustment a role that contributes to the overall Not because I want him to be the hero, our role, but the value that each posi- Counselor at Elias functioning of the team. To apply a but because his actions affect the rest tion brings to the whole. Our commu- Brookings School, sport’s metaphor, we have Owners, of the team and the outcome of the Volunteer, Wife and nication to this end is verbal or non- Mother. For questions Managers, Coaches, Physical Trainers, game. Impact whether the team verbal. Formal. Informal. Creative. or comments on uniting Team Members, etc. Mrs. Powe is the achieves its goal. Practical. Spirited. Reasoned. Our in hope, call (703) first to acknowledge that her successes In sticking with that metaphor, most simple yet profound tool for 930-0243 at Brookings for our Students, Staff, the same can be written of each and collaboration. School, and Community did not come every team we are on. Our individual Together―with Mrs. Powe, all TEAMWORK by her efforts alone. The accomplish- decisions and actions impact the pro- Educators in our building, our ments are the product of teamwork. ductivity of the whole. We must con- Bu Gianna Allentuck Students, Families, and Community And while there are many charac- sider not only our personal and profes- t Elias Brookings Elementary teristics of a high functioning team, sional mission, then, but that of the Partners―we are a team. Fluid. School, our Principal, Mrs. perhaps the most valuable is the con- collective―those of us serving daily to Focused. Strong. Determined. ATerry Powe, signs her emails cept of communication. Conveying make good on our promises to society. Believing―and proving―that team- and often ends her comments with the the vision for the team and encourag- In school districts and in schools work does make the dream work. quote: “Teamwork makes the dream ing all involved to achieve that vision. in particular, communication is vital to Author’s Note: To volunteer as work.” Each time I read or hear these A necessity even in simple life skills operations. At Brookings, Mrs. Powe is part of the Brookings team, please words, I pause to consider the many such as little league soccer. During my finessed in balancing the sharing of contact Gianna at 703.930.0243. teams with which I am blessed to col- son’s 4th grade soccer games, I find information and feedback to produce Happy laborate and from which I am lucky to myself cheering from the sidelines and positive and forward progress with learn through observations and con- wishing on more than one occasion sharing information in a manner so as versations. that he had an earpiece in his ear so not to overwhelm. She is transparent Holidays In all aspects of our lives, we are that I could communicate what I see but independent. Collaborative but required to function in happening on the field. You see, I strong. Team-oriented but a true lead- to Our teams―whether a marriage, family, have a complete vision of the field and er. Insightful but open. She is our lead- partnership, office, school, classroom, the years of soccer skills and knowl- er. Our coach. The one responsible for Advertisers group, sports team, etc. In each of edge to want to direct him to do the seeing the whole field and ensuring POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:38 AM Page 7

african american point of view page seven december 1, 2012 EDUCATION PARENT & COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT Patricia Spradley is LIVING THE GOOD LIFE Chief Administrator for Parent and By Patricia Spradley Community latest fads for our children and much selves? Living the Good Life should personally useful and convenient; Engagement, more. Many refer to this as living the be viewed more broadly than what’s in self-mastery requires ruthless Springfield Public good life. What responsibility, if any, it for me. A few years ago, I came candor Schools do we feel for giving? Have we ever across “The Ten Golden Rules on Avoid Excess. Live life in harmony (413) 787-6597 stopped to think about how others Living the Good Life.” It seems and balance. Even good things, he expression, “Living the life view our “getting” let alone our giv- appropriate to share them at this time. without moderation, can become a of Riley,” suggests an ideal ing? Why should it even matter? I hope that they provide some sugges- source of misery and suffering Tcontented life, possibly living I believe that giving requires a tions for helping determine what Be a Responsible Human Being. on someone else’s money, time or willing heart. It’s not only about finan- “Living the Good Life” means to you. Approach yourself with honesty work. Rather than a negative freeload- cial giving though. Because if we wait and thoroughness; stop the blame- ing or gold digging aspect, it implies until we’re rich, we may never start THE TEN GOLDEN RULES ON shifting for your errors and that someone is kept or advantaged. giving. After all, riches are relative. LIVING THE GOOD LIFE shortcomings. But “Living the Good Life” has What I mean by this is that we have Examine life and engage it with a Don’t Be a Prosperous Fool. different meanings to different peo- the tendency to complain about a vengeance Prosperity by itself may be a ple. I would like to talk about it from standard of living that others would Worry only about the things that source of dangerous foolishness. the perspective of living in a way that gladly embrace—even find excessive! are in your control, the things that Money is necessary but not brings fulfillment to the masses—the When you really appreciate living the can be influenced and changed by sufficient for the good life way He intended. good life, your giving is reflective in your actions, not things beyond Don’t Do Evil to Others. We make a living to get what we your living. Giving is really about shar- your capacity Evildoing is a dangerous habit want and we make a life by what we ing yourself—what you have inside, Treasure and nurture friendships Kindness towards others tends to give. Think about that for a moment. what He has blessed you with. Experience true pleasures, keeping be rewarded. Kindness to others is All too often our focus in life is cen- During this time of the year, we your life simple, contributing to a good habit that supports and tered on what we get. We work hard to tend to freely give; but what about peace of mind reinforces the quest for the good obtain money to “get” things—nice year-round? Shouldn’t we try a little Master Yourself; stop deceiving life. homes, fine cars, luxury vacations, the harder to consistently give of our- yourself, believing only what is HAPPY HOLIDAYS! READING TO SUCCEED Sally Fuller heads the Reading Success by 4th A DEVELOPING READER’S JOURNEY TO Grade (RS4G) initiative for the Irene E. & George A. THIRD GRADE Davis Foundation, to build community support and align By Sally Fuller efforts for all Springfield’s team of researchers from the Harvard stones, I am listing the milestones in Age 2 years: [A child] has 250 – 350 children to read proficiently on the 3rd grade MCAS. Graduate School of Education did a this article. If you would like a copy of words. Holds books & looks at pic- www.readby4thgrade.com study of external and in-school barri- the document as a continuum, please tures. s the Davis Foundation began ers to reading achievement and pro- email me and ask for it. [The parent should] read and recite duced a report calling for a major nursery rhymes. Go to the library to to think about the important A DEVELOPING READER’S work of reading proficiency comprehensive refocusing of efforts find books together. A to create strong readers in the JOURNEY TO THIRD GRADE by the end of third grade, we knew The timeline continues through a Commonwealth. That report, released that we should talk to the experts. We Age 6 months: [A child] imitates child’s development to 8 – 9 years old. in June 2010, is called Tur ni ng t he P a ge: have had a long partnership with speech e.g. “na-na, ga-ga.” Enjoys I will share the rest of the timeline Refocusing Massachusetts for Reading Strategies for Children (SFC), an orga- books with simple pictures. next time. For Dr. Lesaux’s report, S uccess. nization of child policy specialists and [The parent should] Talk, talk, talk! please go to http://www.strategies- We have used her report as a Read books with faces, animals, forchildren.org/3research.html. advocates in Boston who helped us guide for our community-wide collab- objects. develop the Cherish Every Child ini- oration in Springfield, as we partner tiative, which has focused on a range with schools, non-profit organiza- Age 1 year: [A child] of early childhood issues. tions, the housing authority, the teach- understands several When we made the decision to ers union, and a myriad of organiza- simple phrases; has 1 or narrow our focus to reading profi- tions that touch children’s lives from more words; Enjoys ciency by the end of third grade, once birth. lift-the-flap books. again we worked closely with our What I would like to share with [The parent should] partners at SFC and helped to support you is an important timeline devel- have “conversations” research which would guide us in this oped by Dr. Lesaux and her team, A while pushing the important work. 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african american point of view page eight december 1, 2012 EDUCATION IMPROVING BRIDGEPORT SCHOOLS Maria Zambrano is the Executive Director of “THE WORK CONTINUES!” Excel Bridgeport, an educa- tion advocacy organization By Maria Zambrano working to improve the (53% No votes to 47% Yes votes) and ensure that happens. Anyone who is ment in Bridgeport schools. quality of education for now it is time to engage more deeply concerned about the state of Bridgeport children face the Bridgeport public school stu- dents. She is a graduate of than ever as a community. Even so, Bridgeport public schools will want same devastating odds today as they Bridgeport Public Schools we cannot return to business as usual progress to continue. Whether it’s did on Election Day. As a community and a former teacher. when it comes to educating our chil- elected or appointed, the board must we must band together with all stake- FROM BRIDGEPORT, dren, not when only half of be willing to be aggressive in reform- holders, acknowledging, with respect Bridgeport students graduate from ing the system so that it better serves and humility, that we all want what’s CONNECTICUT high school. We need major change in students. best for kids. We should remain com- his Election Day, close to our schools now. I’ve been very encouraged by the mitted to fighting for our students, 30,000 Bridgeporters went to However, major change in impact this charter revision campaign engaging our families, and working Tthe polls to vote on the char- Bridgeport public schools requires has had on elevating the issue of edu- with our fellow community partners ter revision referendum. This charter leaders who possess a resolute sense cation reform in Bridgeport. Almost to make real progress. We can’t stop revision would have been a great way of urgency, the courage to make diffi- 30,000 voters weighed in on the ques- until every child in this city has access to accelerate change for kids in a dis- cult decisions and the willingness to tion. This is about five times the to a truly great school. Bridgeport trict that desperately needs it. There take decisive action in the service of turnout for most City Council elec- kids deserve nothing less. are lots of examples where for deeply kids. The parents and community tions. Let’s keep that level of interest The work continues! Let’s get broken school systems like members who stood up for bold and participation going! I’m also started! Bridgeport’s, one of the fastest and change in our schools want our dis- proud of the campaign’s success in most effective ways to spark and sus- trict to have effective and accountable energizing and empowering parents Happy tain dramatic progress in a city’s leadership and a plan for dramatically across the city to demand better from Holidays schools is by holding that city’s mayor improving the educational outcomes their leaders so that all children can truly and fully accountable for doing for Bridgeport students. succeed. Parents are key stakeholders to Our so. It is now the responsibility of and their involvement is essential if Readers But, the voters have spoken current and future elected boards to we hope to achieve major improve-

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african american point of view page nine december 1, 2012 BUSINESS & FINANCE FINANCIAL “CENTS” CONSIDER THESE FINANCIAL GIFTS Walter D. Woodgett Gator Financial & FOR YOUR GRANDCHILDREN Insurance Planning 413-455-3765 By Walter D. Woodgett wwoodgett@gatorfi- free from federal income taxes, pro- termination in whatever state in which trust pay your grandchild a certain nancialins.com vided the money is used for qualified they live. But if your reason for fund- amount of money at one age, with college expenses. (Keep in mind, ing a custodial account is simply to another installment coming several ational Grandparents Day is though, that non-qualified with- provide a gift, then you might not be years later. Keep in mind, though, that celebrated on September 9. drawals will be taxable and possibly concerned with how the money is trusts are complex instruments and If you’re a grandparent N subject to penalties.) Plus, if you used. may have tax considerations, so in yourself, you already know the plea- invest in your own state’s 529 plan, On the other hand, if you want addition to consulting with an attor- sures of having grandchildren in your to give your grandchildren a financial your contributions may be deductible ney, you’ll want to discuss your plans life. During the upcoming holidays, gift with greater control, you may on your state income taxes. with your tax advisor. you may want to take the occasion to want to speak to your attorney about If you name one grandchild as a Whichever option is right for think of ways you can help those beneficiary of a 529 plan and that your options. One possibility is to set your family, consider using the com- grandchildren get the most out of grandchild decides not to go to col- up an irrevocable trust. You can fund ing holidays as an opportunity to con- their lives. lege, you can switch the account to this trust with either cash or securities sider the ways in which you can give Perhaps the most valuable thing another grandchild―in other words, and specify at the time the trust is cre- something to the grandchildren who you could give to your grandkids is the you maintain control of the money ated when the funds can be used. So gift of education. Consider this: Over for the life of the account. for example, you can provide that the give so much to you. a lifetime, college graduates earn, on Of course, despite its economic average, about $1 million more than benefits, college is not for everyone. Home Ownership Has those without a degree according to So if you wanted to provide financial the Census Bureau. So, putting money help to a grandchild who seems likely Never Been Easier toward your grandchildren’s college to choose a different route in life, education is probably a pretty good what could you do? MORTGAGES investment. One possibility is to set up a cus- œ˜Ûi˜Ìˆœ˜>ÊUÊÊUÊ6ÊUÊ1-  Furthermore, your grandchildren todial account, often known as an may well need the help, because col- UGMA (Uniform Gift to Minors Act) lege is expensive and costs continue to or UTMA (Uniform Transfer to rise. Consequently, you may want to Minors Act). You can fund a custodi- contribute to a 529 plan. You have al account with many different types several options for how the money of investments, but the use of the Federally insured by NCUA. Shares and deposits in excess of NCUA limits are fully insured by MSIC. can be invested and contribution lim- money is entirely up to your grand- its are quite high. 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It will not necessarily reduce antee has the effect of not limiting business has not only increased your FROM BRIDGEPORT, your overall tax bill; it may, in fact, your liability in reference to those income tax bill, but also increased increase it. bank loans. payroll taxes because the previous CONNECTICUT If you incorporate an existing With a regular “C” corporation, proprietor is now an employee of the here are many reasons why business, you may find that your long business profits may be taxed corporation. people feel they should incor- established suppliers now require new twice―once at the corporate level and Incorporating your business can Tporate their businesses. Very financial statement information. 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african american point of view page ten december 1, 2012 HEALTH HEALTH MATTERS PUTTING A LID ON HOLIDAY STRESS Anika C. Johnson, PhD (c), MPH, CLC By Anika C. Johnson Hill Health Center as an individual moves into adulthood family dishes. However, all food can attentive to one’s own needs (i.e. WIC Manager and then older adulthood, the be enjoyed without gaining weight if physical activity and proper sleep) requirements change. In some -Your Health moderation is practiced. Moderation allows a person to take care of other’s Is My Wealth- instances only 6-8 hours is needed. means tasting all the favorite foods needs more fully. Many times the value of sleep is but in smaller portions. Strategies to underestimated. Besides offering the use include: 1) using smaller plates, 2) Dear Robust Reader, ustomarily, the holiday season body a time to slow down, sleep is drinking water often, and 3) eating comes with high stress situa- nfortunately, excessive stress what the body requires to perform smaller meals more often. Lastly, tions. Along with the everyday is normal around the holiday C normal processes (i.e. cell repair). In avoid going to holiday parties hungry U stressors of a job and raising a family, season. Break the trend by being fact, some bodily processes do not and set the stage for healthier eating the holidays offer ‘seasonal’ stressors. more honest and straight forward happen unless one is in a deep state by volunteering to bring a healthy Pressures from loved ones and about what you can do and cannot of sleep. Besides sleep, people under- dish or vegetable tray. friends to overindulgence in eating estimate the value of a power nap. do. Even though ‘tis the season to and overspending can be overwhelm- Such rest can do wonders to relax the SELF-CARE be a people pleaser,’ remember there ing. Many times our stress level is not body and mind and provide a break Many times in the hustle and bustle of are a limited number of hours in fully realized until after the event is from stressors. Studies show lack of the season and attending to other’s the day. This year boldly redefine over and we have time to reflect. By adequate sleep can add excess body needs, self-care is put on the back the ‘Holiday Season.’ getting adequate rest, avoiding over- weight by heightening a person’s burner. But self-care can happen in a eating, and practicing self-care, we desire to eat too much. number of creative ways. This Next month we will be dis- can equip ourselves with the ability to includes finding time to do essential cussing another topic. Please forward avoid seasonal stressors. OVER-EATING Many times individuals approach the things for oneself, such as getting a your thoughts, comments and ideas, REST holidays knowing they will overeat. manicure, taking a yoga class, enjoy- as they are important to me to: According to research, although the Society has conditioned people to cel- ing a bubble bath or simply enjoying a [email protected] attention: amount of sleep a person needs ebrate around food. Homemade quiet evening alone. Being more Anika varies, it is essential for proper health. comfort foods seem to get a ‘free Children usually need between 8-10 pass’ this time of year. It is easy to hours of sleep each night. However, rationalize overindulgence of favorite people, smoked cigarettes. Approximately half of them will die of a tobacco-related disease. Anne Awad, Caring Health Center recognizes President & CEO Caring Health Center the importance of integrating tobacco 413-693-1002 treatment into health care and offers www.caringhealth.org support to smokers by providing behavior modification and pharma- cotherapy (medications which ease the craving for the nicotine in tobacco). TOBACCO Smoking cessation benefits all smok- ers, no matter how long they have TREATMENT smoked or how old they are. We pro- By Anne Awad, President & CEO vide two treatment supports that have Caring Health Center and Doris Harris proven evidence of success with quit- ting efforts. Behavioral support and obacco use is the leading pre- pharmacotherapy each is effective by ventable cause of illness and itself, but combining the two increases Tdeath worldwide. In the and assists the smoker in different United States, it adds up to 96 billion ways. dollars in medical costs annually to Behavioral support and counsel- health care spending. Smoking con- ing improves the success rate of tributes to unacceptable socioeco- smokers. This counseling support nomic disparities in chronic disease enhances motivation, provides social and other illnesses because individuals support, and teaches smokers to iden- with lower income and access to care tify the physical discomfort of nico- are more likely to smoke. In 2010, tine withdrawal and manage nicotine 19.3% of U.S. adults, or 45 million continues to page 12 POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:38 AM Page 11

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african american point of view page twelve december 1, 2012 HEALTH HEALTH MATTERS Doris Harris, TOP DECORATING MISTAKES TO AVOID Editor Prevention Specialist Caring Health THIS HOLIDAY SEASON Center, Inc. Doris By Mandi Summers, MPH, Co-Coordinator Safe Kids of Western MA, Baystate Children’s Hospital can be contacted at departments responded to an estimat- Decorate with children in mind. Do not burn Christmas tree dorharris77@hot- ed average of 12,860 home structure Do not put ornaments that have branches, treated wood or wrap- mail.com fires started by candles per year. small parts or metal hooks, or look ping paper in a home fireplace. Keep your holidays injury- Twelve percent of the home candle like food or candy, on the lower TOP TIPS TO PREVENT POISONING fires occurred in December, 1.5 times branches where small children can free with these important THIS HOLIDAY SEASON: the monthly average of 8%. reach them. Trim protruding safety tips Keep alcohol, including baking December candle fires often involve branches at or below a child’s eye combustible seasonal decorations that extracts, out of reach and do not n addition to food, family, and level, and keep lights out of reach. leave alcoholic drinks unattended. would not have been present at other gifts, decorations are one of the Natural Christmas trees always times of the year, according to the Color additives used in fireplace highlights of the holiday season. involve some risk of fire. To mini- I National Fire Protection Association. fires are a toxic product and should While candles, Christmas trees, and mize the risk, get a fresh tree and be stored out of reach. Artificial Never, never leave lit candles other decorations are part of the hol- keep it watered at all times. Do not snow can be harmful if inhaled, so unattended. Do not put candles on a iday spirit, they can pose fire and poi- put the tree within three feet of a use it in a well-vented space. tree or a natural wreath, or near cur- soning hazards, especially to curious fireplace, space heater, radiator or tains or drapes, and keep matches and Mistletoe berries, Holly Berry and children. heat vent. Jerusalem Cherry can be poi- lighters locked out of children’s reach. The holidays are a time for Never leave a lit Christmas tree or sonous. If they are used in decorat- If you would like decorative lighting, spending with family and friends, not other decorative lighting display ing, make sure children and pets make sure it is labeled with the seal of rushing to the emergency room. Once unattended. Inspect lights for cannot reach it. an independent testing lab, and only all of your decorations are up, keeping exposed or frayed wires, loose con- use it outdoors if it’s labeled for out- In a poison emergency, call the a close eye on both children and the nections and broken sockets. national Poison Control Center at door use. decorations themselves is an impor- Do not overload extension cords 800-222-1222. tant step to a safe holiday season. IF YOU DECORATE A TREE, AVOID or outlets and do not run an For more information visit During 2005-2009, U.S. fire THESE TOP DECORATING MISTAKES: electrical cord under a rug. www.usa.safekids.org. TOBACCO TREATMENT are offered at both sites on Main improving your health…and maybe Street and at Sumner Avenue. Call you can then turn to your family and continued from page 10 balance of the family and friends. The 413-739-1100 to set up your appoint- withdrawal symptoms, cravings and fear is that the person who quits ment. friends and ask them to join you. You tempting situations. Pharmacotherapy tobacco might change in other ways. If you quit, you are immediately can be the support they need to quit. eases the physical discomfort of nico- If you are tine withdrawal and the urge to ready to quit smok- smoke. ing or thinking "We must teach our children to dream with their eyes open." Most smokers say that they want about quitting, H Ed d to quit. However, few seek help and Caring Health most do not have the support to suc- Center can provide ceed. The addictiveness of nicotine is you with the sup- a major reason why attempts to quit port and the help fail. Inhaling cigarette smoke delivers you need. The lead- nicotine rapidly to the brain, where it er of our cessation binds to midbrain nicotinic choliner- services, Doris gic receptors. This triggers the release Harris, is well- of dopamine and other neurotrans- known for her suc- mitters that reinforce smoking and cess in supporting activities associated with smoking. To people to succeed in quit smoking, a smoker must over- quitting tobacco. come nicotine dependence and extin- Our tobacco treat- guish strong behavioral associations ment service is indi- with smoking. It is also hard to quit vidualized to per- when everyone around you in the sonally meet your home or in your circle of friends is needs. Let us help using tobacco—the support will not you start the New be there and there is even a fear Year off smoke CARING HEALLTTH CENNTTER among smokers that someone suc- free. Tobacco 1040 Main St. & 532 Sumner Ave. • Springfield, MA • Phone: (413) 739-1100 • Website: www.caringhealth.org ceeding in quitting will threaten the Treatment Services POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 13

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Accessing the New Emergency & Trauma Center HEALTH at Baystate Medical Center

BAYSTATE MEDICAL & Vascular Center. Clearly marked signs will identify CENTER TO OPEN the new entrance for NEW EMERGENCY patients and visitors, as well as direct them to two DEPARTMENT ON separate, covered drop-off DECEMBER 3 areas―one for adults and the other for pediatric Important information concerning entry to patients. and par k ing at the new facil ity For the convenience of those arriving at the new SPRINGFIELD―Baystate Medical Center will Emergency Department for open the doors to patients at its new state-of-the-art treatment, valet parking will be available at the drop- Baystate Medical Center’s new Emergency and Emergency and Trauma Center, designed to meet off area from 10 am to midnight daily. There is lim- Trauma Center offers more privacy and comfort the growing needs of the community, beginning at ited parking adjacent to the patient drop-off area. including 94 private rooms, a separate pediatric area 7:30 a.m. on Monday, December 3. In addition to the limited self-parking and valet for children and their families, an in-house radiology Drive-in access to the new Emergency parking at the patient drop-off area, visitors may and imaging room for more efficiency, and eight spe- Department (ED) will be from Springfield Street, park in the patient/visitor parking area across from cially designed behavioral health rooms. directly across from Atwater Street, and located in- the Daly Building, and access the new Emergency Baystate Medical Center, designated as a Level I between the Wesson Building and newly-opened Department through the Daly Lobby entrance. Trauma Center, operates one of the busiest MassMutual Wing housing the Davis Family Heart Nearly four times the size of its present ED, Emergency Departments in New England. COMMUNITY COMMUNITY JOB OPPORTUNITY INFORMATION CONCRETE WORKERS VOLUNTEER DRIVERS Applications and resumes are now being accepted for positions as concrete foundation & flatwork craftsmen. NEEDED Concrete apprentices are also being considered and encouraged. The successful apprentice candidate will be ould you drive a mile to save a life? required to complete the required course of study in a WVolunteer drivers are needed to transport timely manner. All positions require the basic hand tools, cancer patients to their treatment appointments in dependable transportation, and OSHA 10hr completion the area. Drivers must have a license, a reliable cards for construction. The work will require travel throughout N.E. and Eastern N.Y region, with extended vehicle and at least 1 hour per month to drive. Call overnight travel a possibility. Please direct all inquiries to the American Cancer Society at 413-493-2155 to Human Resources at 413‐531‐5585. This employer is an have an application mailed to you. Affirmative Action/Equal Opportunity Employer. LATIN@ GROOVE Magdalena Gómez is SKIP THE SWEATER, GIVE AN EXPERIENCE the Co-founder and Artistic Director By Magdalena Gómez of Springfield’s first and only Latin@ the- hair in America, we’ve relaxed into I knew―it was all I could afford―and The real me loves the holidays ater, Teatro couch and screen zombies. Eat, shop, I loved doing it. As I had less leisure now. I have chosen my family. I give V!da. Ms. Gómez has text, get along, play nice, do your job time and more money, the giving gifts when I want to, not when it’s been a teaching artist as you’re told and your turkey will be became rote and provoked by habitual for over 35 years. expected of me. I’d rather take you to very well stuffed. Dance while others behaviors of a moral code that over dinner than buy you a sweater. I’d continued from page 1 are marching and you’ll get a piece of time I had absorbed from multiple rather ride on the back of your motor- influences like media, church, school cultural traditions and beliefs. In the coal in your stocking. cycle than wear a diamond. I’m so It’s a good time of year to ask and an onslaught of prosperity case of Christmas, specifically much happier listening to the sound of Christian beliefs. They’re especially ourselves: “What is the TRUE inten- preachers in my life―some in my fam- your voice or going to a concert than good at making the populace feel inad- tion behind my actions this holiday ily. This moral code had nothing to do equate if they don’t fit the holiday pro- season?” I asked myself that question with the real me. Jesus had not made ripping open a pretty box with a file of gift-giving, new outfits, and many years ago and the answer had lit- anyone I knew wealthy―he was just bracelet inside that’s supposed to families pretending to have a good tle connection to unconditional love or the fall guy for how they made their remind me what the significant time. And don’t forget to relax your joy. In my youth I made holiday cards money. Laundering cash and con- moments of my life have been. I’d so hair. Hell, we’ve done more than relax or art from found objects for everyone science in the blood of the Lamb. much rather you just remind me. POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 14

african american point of view page fourteen december 1, 2012 COMMUNITY LEADERSHIP PIONEER VALLEY COMMUNITY PERSPECTIVES As Director of that choose to follow. It’s the qual- and stayed busy on social media and Leadership Pioneer ity of the relationship that matters Twitter to get out the vote. They Rev. Talbert W. Valley, Lora is most. A relationship built on asked people to register to vote, and Swan, II is Pastor passionate about mutual respect can overcome the urged them—in whatever way they strengthening the of The Spring Of could—to make their voices heard. Pioneer Valley. largest challenges. Hope Church Of When I look back on the events Contact her at Facilitation―This goes hand-in God In Christ 413-737-3876 or glove with collaboration. One-to- around the election, two thoughts www.leadershippv.org come to mind. First, I’m unspeakably many leadership can only happen proud that we made history this year. effectively when leaders know how LEADERSHIP THE With only 39 percent of whites cast- to facilitate discussions, meetings, ing ballots for President Obama, WE NEED conversations, and relationships. SLEEPING communities of color turned out and Candor―This speaks again to the voted in record numbers and decided By Lora Wondolowski leader’s credibility, which is related GIANT IS who would lead this nation. Second, I to honesty. know that we can’t rest now. The hen I Goggled the word Vision Sleeping Giant has woken up. The “Leadership” this morning ―Leadership requires a AWAKE shared vision of the future. The political power we’ve been building it came up with 48,000,000 By Rev. Talbert W. Swan, II W act of leadership is all about envi- up has been let loose. Our numbers entries. We use the word leadership sioning the future and mobilizing have been counted and our voices ubiquitously in sports, politics, busi- onventional wisdom was that ness, and community usually to desig- and enabling others to realize that have been heard. We’re here, and President Barack Obama now’s the time to flex our muscle and nate who’s in charge. But is that the vision. wouldn’t get the same rally cry kind of leadership that we mean? C leave our mark. The gains made in Sense of Humor―As we see in in his bid for re-election as he did this election were a win for every Over the last several decades there the elections, we want our leaders when he made history by being elect- American. Boundaries on race, reli- has been a shift in the literature and ed the nation’s first African American to be real people. This is also an gion, gender, and social status were teaching on leadership away from president in 2008. The sentiment was important strategy for managing shoved aside on Election Night, and command and control towards differ- that he would not be able to hold stress. in no small part due to our communi- ent models like servant leadership, onto the coalition that catapulted him Humility―It is not about always ty showing up to vote. tribal leadership, collaborative leader- to the White House four years ago; being right or getting credit. This We’re awake, and the momen- ship, and leading from behind. however, voter suppression efforts enables others to be engaged in tum is ours. We have more work to do In October, we had a panel dis- designed to make it difficult for cer- to reach our full potential. Given cussion about Envisioning the Future of the shared vision. “The best of tain segments of the population to the Pioneer Valley region. The panel leaders when the job is done, when vote woke up a sleeping giant that Election Day’s results, our full poten- included a variety of regional leaders the task is accomplished, the peo- showed its defiance on November 6, tial is massive and unimaginably from workforce development, region- ple will say we have done it our- 2012, by re-electing President Obama transformative. When we vote, all al planning, communications, and selves.” – Lao Tzu to a second four-year term. Americans win, even the people who elected office. We asked them what I noticed that none of these Republicans in 34 states either think voting could never play a role in their lives. So let’s not wait four years kind of leadership qualities do we traits is about charisma and domi- pushed through or proposed legisla- need in our emerging leaders in order to get to work again. We’re awake. nance, which is how we typically think tion to require voter identification, to tackle the challenges that we face. Let’s keep going now. of leadership. Each of these traits is restrict early voting, abolish This is what they said: Sunday voting, and other restric- in alignment with the core leadership Lead by example―Leaders need tive practices to reduce the number behaviors that we discuss in to be trustworthy and part of of likely Democratic voters. Our being trustworthy is by doing what Leadership Pioneer Valley. Obviously, they didn’t see how per- they say they will do. In our leader- region deserves effective leaders sonal this election was going to be. ship program, this is also known as who can tackle the complex issues All the issues—health care, educa- “Model the Way.” This practice of the present and future. It is no tion, choice—were up for grabs. gives a leader credibility and that is longer enough to have a few They didn’t understand what was one of the key reasons why other anointed leaders from the top cor- at stake for women and how voters people will follow a leader. This is porations and elected office in of color would resent efforts to especially relevant in a non- charge of everything. Our world block their vote. command and control model. demands the engagement of commu- In response to the diabolical Collaboration―This goes with- nities and multiple leaders at all levels. scheme to keep them from the out saying. Today’s leaders need to polls, communities of color set out I am heartened by the leaders from know how to collaborate, especial- to empower as many people as our program and other collaborators ly in an increasingly complex possible to take ownership of the world. Relationships are so impor- that I have met who are willing to take election. To get there, they went tant to everything that we do. up the challenge and do things differ- everywhere and did everything: Leadership is about a relationship ently. That is the leadership that we knocked on doors, toured colleges, between those that lead and those need and is emerging in the Valley. POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 15

african american point of view page fifteen december 1, 2012 COMMUNITY CALL TO THE CAUSE

Kirk Smith is TREAT EVERY DAY AS A GIFT President & CEO, By Kirk Smith YMCA of Greater Springfield is big part of that. ed us, but that so many of us over- gift to our youth. Quality, affordable 413-739-6951 But what about exercises in grati- look. An average day for most of us, child care is a gift to our working par- www.springfieldy.org tude? How do we recognize those would be considered a day in paradise ents. Wellness programs are a gift to gifts that come to us, by simply waking for others who are struggling. From those seeking better health. The list s part of an organization that up each day? Personally, this is not our comfortable homes and warm goes on and on…. promotes good health, the something I take lightly. The first clothing to our unique skills and spe- Our responsibility is to exercise word “exercise” is something thing I do when I wake up every day is cialized talents, each of us has been these gifts and let them inspire us to A say a prayer of thanks for another 24- blessed with many gifts―none of give back to others. that comes up in conversation each and every day. At the Y, we promote hour gift from God. which should be taken for granted. Today is a gift! How are you using the need to exercise a healthy mind, When I take the time to reflect on Likewise, I am reminded of the yours? Answer the call to the cause body and spirit. At this time of year, this exercise, I am reminded of the work that the Y and many of our and exercise gratitude for the blessings we talk a lot about the need for New Phil Collins song, “Another Day in community organizations are doing to you have been afforded. Make the Year’s Resolutions and for millions of Paradise,” an artistic reminder of the provide gifts to the families in the most of your gifts and share a touch people throughout the world, exercise simple blessings that God has afford- communities we serve. Teachers are a of your paradise with others. PROFESSIONAL SERVICES

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6-year-old Davian WE McDonald high fives President Obama at WON! Nashua, NH campaign event CONGRATULATIONS CORNER

ongratulations to David Ratner, owner of ongratulations to Betty Borders, retired CDave’s Soda and Pet City, whose store is a CUS. Air Force Captain, for being named 2012 Retail Hall of Fame winner and will be seen on the Veteran of the year by the Springfield Veteran Home Shopping Network in January. He “credits Activities Committee. his mini-chain’s success to nice employees, great locations, giving customers value and clean stores, Photo from The Republican | Mark M. Murray plus lots of luck.” Photo from valleyadvocate.com

ongratulations to the City of Springfield emergency first Cresponders and the first-rate job they did in responding to the nat- ural gas explosion that took place on Friday, November 23rd. ongratulations to Vashon Robinson, son of CDenise Orr and stepson of Russell Orr, on his promotion to Lieutenant of the Springfield Fire Department. Vashon is a 10-year veteran of the ongratulations to Rev. Dr. Mark E. Fire Department. CFlowers on his 4th pastoral anniversary as Senior Pastor at Mt. Calvary Baptist Church in Springfield. ongratulations to Lance Corporal CSterling T. Showell, son of M. Therese McLaurin Showell and William J. Showell, Jr., who recently graduated from the United States Marine ongratulations to Harvey L. Jackson, Embassy Security Guard School in Quantico, VA. His initial deployment is to our Embassy in Teamsters Local 1150 President and lifelong C Mexico City, Mexico. Sterling is a 2010 graduate Bridgeport, CT resident, who has been selected as of Roger L. Putnam Vocational High School and is the 2013 Grand Marshall of the African- the grandson of Ruth and William J. Showell, Sr. American/Caribbean Day Parade by the Board of and the late Margaret and Vert McLaurin. He is a member of Mt. Directors of Juneteenth™ of Fairfield County, Inc. Calvary Baptist Church in Springfield.

ongratulations to Ambrozine Snowden Cfor receiving the International Ministers’ ongratulations to Dianne McCoy, who Wives and Ministers’ Widows, Inc. 2012 Cwon the Ms. Senior Massachusetts pageant Elizabeth Coles Bouey award, which is presented title. She was also awarded the titles of Most to the minister’s wife who possesses a high quality Photogenic, Best Introduction and Best Evening of genuine love, leadership and a Christ-like spirit Wear for the hot pink and sequin gown she made at all times. The award is named after their herself. founder Mrs. Elizabeth Coles Bouey and will be presented at the Founder’s Day Luncheon, Saturday, December 8, 2012 in Richmond, VA.

ongratulations to Springfield Technical Community ongratulations to Russell Orr, Sr. for being CCollege (STCC) for being recognized as a leader in the Cinducted into the Springfield Public Schools Sports Hall of Fame for the High School of national student completion movement by Achieving the Dream, a Commerce Class of 1962 Basketball Team. All of national nonprofit leading the nation’s most comprehensive non-gov- Springfield remembers how great a player he was! ernmental reform network for community college student success and completion. STCC is one of 14 colleges across the country to receive this designation. POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 17

african american point of view page seventeen december 1, 2012 COMMUNITY COMMUNITY FOCUS FREE AT LAST! FREE AT LAST! THANK GOD ALMIGHTY, FREE AT LAST! hose words may have been made famous by the late Martin Luther King, Jr. during This historic speech at the 1963 March on Washington but 100 years before that memo- rable event, African Americans had cause to shout those very same words. On January 1, 1863 at 12:01 a.m., the Emancipation Proclamation freeing all slaves in the Confederate states became law. And now 150 years later, African Americans in the Greater Springfield area and beyond will gather together to celebrate the sesquicentennial (150 years) of the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation and to acknowledge how far they’ve come. On New Year’s Eve, December 31, 2012, from 8:00 p.m. to 1:00 a.m. at the Sovereign The Peter Brace Brigade, Living History Re-enactors Bank Building, 1350 Main Street, Springfield, MA, hosted by the Peter Brace Brigade (Ron Brace, Tickets for the event are $25.00 and are available at: Springfield Republican Commander), the entire community is invited to join in that celebration. Newspaper, Mason Square Library, Springfield Armory National Historic Site The Peter Brace Brigade will be in authentic Civil War uniforms and cos- (STCC Campus), Point of View Community Newspaper, Old Hill tumes and will add their knowledge and understanding of the role the Neighborhood Council and Solid Gold Beauty Salon. Massachusetts 54th Colored Troops Company E played in the Civil Call a friend or family member and join us for an outstanding evening of War. These “Living History” re-enactors will mingle with guests throughout fun, pleasure and celebration! the evening. The celebration is open to the public. Enjoy a taste of “Freedom Punch” and other African-American-inspired refreshments prepared by American International College Elegant Affairs. As the celebration gathers momentum, from the singing of soulful You’ve cared for your patients. gospels by Rev. Will Naylor and Sister Evenus Thompson early in the evening to dancing to DJ music as the night progresses, celebrants will pause at mid- Now it’s time to heal the system. night for a reading by Representative Benjamin Swan of the Emancipation Proclamation―this historic document will be available for purchase as a keep- sake and is suitable for framing―followed by a champagne toast. The Emancipation Proclamation may, in actuality, have provided limited Make an impact on the health care industry by freedom for the slaves, but it no doubt was a beginning and without question becoming a nurse administrator or educator. there is much to celebrate 150 years later, including the re-election of our first African-American president. At American International College, we believe where For more information on this New Year’s Eve event, you may contact there’s a will, there’s a way. That’s why we’re committed Commander Ron Brace at (413) 543-1579 or Joyce Davis at (413) 789-4102. to making our MSN program accessible to hard-working BOYS & GIRLS CLUB FAMILY CENTER RNs, like you, who have the initiative to make a PRESENTED “JAZZ FANTASIA” difference—regardless of your undergraduate major. POV was proud to r Flexible, online classes support the Boys & r CCNE accredited Girls Club Family r Excellence within your means Center in their Harlem Renaissance inspired fundraiser. Dressed for the occasion from left: Danielle Jackson, POV editor Marjorie Hurst, Master of Science | Nursing Terry Jackson and contact: 413.205.3700 or Aieshya Jackson. [email protected] | www.aic.edu/msnonline Photo by Beckie Bragga Photography POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 18

african american point of view page eighteen december 1, 2012 Around Town & . . .

Masters Hair Salon sponsored a Survivors Hair Show fundraiser for Springfield saluted Veterans during the Veterans Day Parade and Wreath Rays of Hope for Breast Cancer research. Stylists from several salons Laying. From left: Springfield Mayor Domenic J. Sarno, 2012 Veteran participated, including Masters, Solid Gold, Final Touch, Brown’s House of the Year Betty Borders, and Veterans Parade Grand Marshall State of Beauty, Shear Perfection, Hair of Fame, and The Hair Connection. Senator Gail Candaras. Janet Disco of Masters produced and directed the show and Laurice Jiggetts was the choreographer.

14th Annual Spirit of Women Event, An Evening with Dominique Dawes: Reaching Your Full Potential held at the Log Cabin in Holyoke. From left: Carol Cutting, Jana Woods, Toni-Taila Evans, Keynote STCC Ovations series presented noted author and playwright Andrea Speaker and Olympian Dominique Dawes, Keaundra Lawson, Chelon Myles, Richia Barklow, Baystate Health Manager of Loyalty Programs Hairston (left) and vocalist/multi-instrumentalist Pan Morigan (right). Tracy Whitley, and Sr. Coordinator Loyalty Programs Susan M. Fontaine.

Students from Sabis, Putnam, Glenwood, Chicopee Comp, and Longmeadow High School participated in an Anti-Bullying Fashion Newly crowned Ms. Senior Massachusetts Dianne McCoy at the Pageant Show that took place at the Springfield Academy High School. Kamarra with family members. From left: Glenn Rhoden, Kiah Jiggetts, Kamari Hightower, a 7th grade Sabis student (standing 8th from the left) initi- Robinson, Zion Rhoden, Re’Shawn Tait-Jiggetts, Dianne, Lelia Jiggetts, ated the fashion show. Laurice Jiggetts, and Corey Durant. POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 19

african american point of view page nineteen december 1, 2012 . . .In The Community

The “God Is Good All The Time” team consisting of the family and The 4th Bi-annual Gifted Diva Showcase took place recently at AIC friends of Annie Beckett participated in the recent Rays of Hope Breast hosted by Brenda’s Child (Latoya Bosworth) far right. Cancer Walk BETHLEHEM BAPTIST COMMUNITY CHURCH HOLDS RETIREMENT CELEBRATION FOR REV. DR. EVERETTE W. FRYE, SR. IN RECOGNITION OF HIS LOYALTY, DEDICATION AND HARD WORK

Bishop John M. Borders, III, Pastor of Morning Rev. Louis E. Sibley, Guest Speaker and Pastor Star Baptist Church served as one of two of Mount Zion Baptist Church, with First Lady Masters of Ceremonies Barbara Wyatt-Sibley Rev. Dr. Everette W. Frye, Sr. and First Lady Vivian Frye

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african american point of view page twenty december 1, 2012 COMMUNITY COMMUNITY FOCUS - CONNECTICUT EASTERN PRESIDENT ELSA M. NÚÑEZ PRESENTED “TRANSFORMING LIVES AWARD” WILLIMANTIC, CT— Elsa M. still water—it ripples and ripples and gram identifying Hartford students Núñez, president of Eastern ripples, until it reaches all shores.” who have the capacity to succeed aca- Connecticut State University, received Family Life Education is an inde- demically.” the 2012 Transforming Lives Award pendent, non-profit organization that “Family Life Education has long from Hartford-based Family Life empowers inner-city families in the sought to ensure the healthy growth Education during its 25th anniversary Hartford area through partnerships and development of Hartford’s disen- gala on November 3rd at the with corporate, civic and social orga- franchised children through educa- Connecticut Convention Center. nizations. This year’s event marks the tion, advocacy and support,” said In accepting the award, Núñez 17th year that Family Life Education Family Life Education Board talked about the challenges and strug- has honored a community leader for President James Shortley. “Dr. Núñez gles that Latinos have faced in their support of young people in is a vigilant advocate for children, Connecticut and the impact that edu- Hartford. especially closing Connecticut’s cation can have on a person’s life. “President Núñez is a powerful achievement gap. She is an outstand- From left: Candida Flores, Family “When someone in a Puerto Rican example of career achievement for ing role model for young girls and Life Education’s executive director, family, an African American family, or Family Life Education clients, espe- young women served by Family Life presents the Transforming Lives an inner-city student from a low- cially the girls and women who are Education. Her example instills a Award to Elsa Núñez, president of income family is the first family mem- served by our organization,” said desire in them to finish high school, Eastern Connecticut State ber to attend college, it not only trans- Candida Flores, Family Life pursue college and advanced training, University. forms one life,” she explained. Education’s executive director. “She and become productive citizens will- Governor Dannel Malloy. In addition, “Graduating from college tells a stu- has devoted her entire career to the ing to give back to their community.” a citation from Hartford Mayor Pedro dent, ‘Yes you can.’ It tells his or her field of education; with special atten- Connecticut First Lady Cathy Segarra was also presented to Núñez family, ‘We are strong.’ It tells an tion to supporting communities of Malloy, who also served on the Gala at the gala. Past Family Life entire neighborhood, ‘We can suc- color obtain access to higher learning, Honorary Committee, presented Education gala awardees include ceed.’ It is like a pebble tossed into including the development of a pro- Núñez with a special citation from continues to page 32

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african american point of view page twenty-one december 1, 2012 COMMUNITY COMMUNITY FOCUS LOCAL TEENS PLACE SECOND AND THIRD IN AREA WRITING COMPETITION Submitted by Danielle L. Williams

The Greater Springfield Chapter of The Links Incorporated is proud to announce Kahari J. Mickens and Gekari Lowe-Hargrove as winners of the inaugural “Young Master Writers Program.” Covering more than ten states, the program honors excellence in the area of writing. youth, many awaiting only the right third. spark to be set free. With a heritage Out of more than thirty submis- that includes prolific writers such as sions, Kahari J. Mickens of Francis Harper, Ntozake Shange and Springfield, MA placed third, Gekari W.E.B. Dubois of Great Barrington, Lowe-Hargrove of Springfield, MA MA, this is nowhere more evident placed second and LaDawn Noble of than in the northeast. Danville, VA placed first. Not only To inspire the next generation of will Mr. Mickens and Mr. Hargrove be great writers, The Eastern Area, the honored with cash prizes, but also largest and oldest area of internation- along with the rest of the local partic- al service organization, The Links ipants they will receive Nooks, which Incorporated, has instituted the were purchased for them by The “Young Master Writers Program,” honoring writers in grades 9 through Greater Springfield Chapter of The 12. Running from February 2011 Links Incorporated, to encourage through May of 2012, the competition their love of the written word. The Young Master Writers 1st row from left: Beverly Hill-Links, Chelsea Bey-Weaver (standing in welcomed submissions in the areas of for her brother, Christian Bey-Weaver), Kahari Mickens, Shawnay poetry, prose and essay. Cash awards Program will begin its new cycle in Banton, Chapter President Tina S. Page and Terri Burr. were offered along with the title of November of 2012. For further infor- 2nd row from left: Cynthia Tucker, Noleani Washington, Danielle L. “Young Master Writer” for partici- mation, e-mail Williams, and Gekari Lowe-Hargrove. pants who placed first, second and [email protected]. SPRINGFIELD―Maya Angelou filling in gaps when necessary in areas once wrote that “a bird doesn’t sing such as health and human services, because it has an answer, it sings services to youth and the arts. because it has a song.” The Greater With 276 chapters split into four Springfield Chapter of Links believes areas―eastern, southern, western and that this is not only true, but that not central―these dynamic women are enough of today’s youth are encour- able to tailor their plans to maximize aged to “sing.” their impact. Locally, the Greater The Greater Springfield Chapter Springfield chapter has been heeding of Links is part of the international the call for more than 25 years. And women’s group, The Links they are still going strong. Incorporated (www.linksinc.org). For The written word has a rich lega- more than 60 years, The Links cy. In song, story and poem, histories Incorporated has made helping their have been shared. Pains have been communities its mission. Founded in assuaged and imaginations have been 1946 by women of color, the organi- ignited. Great stories lie dormant in zation prides itself by being timelyF and rothem minds all and fingertipsof usof today’s to all of you, Thank you and Happy Holidays POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 22

african american point of view page twenty-two december 1, 2012 estate development, and should propose a project that offers positive economic impact to the City, with an emphasis on job CONNECTICUT Bits creation, property tax generation, and retail shopping oppor- WHAT A GREAT MOVE FOR GNEMSDC 61,238 workers. tunities including a full-service grocery store for the residents AND THE RAPIDLY DEVELOPING of both the surrounding neighborhood and the Bridgeport 6. The 350 GNEMSDC certified MBEs employed BRIDGEPORT! metro region. All correspondence, inquiries and submissions 31,398 minority workers, representing 51 percent he Greater New England Minority Supplier regarding the RFP should be directed to: Mr. David M. of all employees of certified MBEs. “TDevelopment Council is moving our main Kooris, Director Bridgeport Office of Planning and office from Hamden, Connecticut to Bridgeport, 7. The top 5 NAICS industries by number of Economic Development fax - 203-332-5611. All inquiries Connecticut. This move is the third move and rep- MBEs were: Professional Services (113 MBEs), must be in writing and directed exclusively to Mr. Kooris.) resents a return to our roots. In 1975, the Manufacturing (62 MBEs), Wholesale Trade (50 Connecticut Minority Purchasing Council was MBEs), Administrative and Support Services (45 FEISTY MAYOR FINCH FIGHTS FOR founded in Bridgeport, CT. From Bridgeport, we MBEs), and Construction (38 MBEs). BRIDGEPORT moved to New Haven, CT, and from New Haven to es, I was impressed by Bridgeport Mayor Bill Hamden. And now we are back in Bridgeport. Our 8. The Boston MBDA Business Center created one YFinch’s reaction when he observed that state new location is 333 State Street, Bridgeport. We new job for every $3,314 invested in the Center. and federal resource assistance for Hurricane Sandy have great neighbors in our new offices. The ravaged communities was slow to be sent to the aid Mayor’s office is across the street. Housatonic 9. The Boston MBDA Business Center created $1 of Bridgeport, which certainly competed with any Community College is directly behind us. The million in new contracts for every $96 invested in community in Connecticut for the most damage. Federal Court House is across the street. The the Center. Connecticut Post Newspaper is on the other corner. He held a press conference and in no uncertain One block down State Street is Congressman 10.The GNEMSDC spent 42 percent of its non- terms accused certain folks of ignoring the poorest Himes’ office. And two blocks away is the personnel expenses with certified MBEs, a total community in Connecticut that had suffered the Bridgeport train station. The new space will allow of $387,364 of spending with certified MBEs. most damage and deliberately focusing on us to hold larger meetings and trainings. The space Connecticut’s wealthier communities. You can bet 11.The GNEMSDC had 186 corporate members in he got their attention! My kind of guy! also will allow us to rent space to MBEs interested 2012, of whom 88 were local corporate mem- in sharing our space. All they will need to do is bring bers and 98 were national corporate members. their laptops and plug in. If you are interested in CONGRATULATIONS TO ELSA M. NUNEZ, renting some space, contact the office. There is a There are other results presented for the first PRESIDENT OF EASTERN CONNECTICUT limited amount of this type of space. We are look- time. We will have our top ten MBEs by sales and STATE UNIVERSITY ing forward to our opening later this month. We employees in each of the states we operate in. We lsa M. Nunez, president of Eastern have some very exciting announcements to make in also have some very interesting survey information “EConnecticut State University, received the coming weeks. Stay tuned.” that shows how MBEs contribute to their commu- 2012 Transforming Lives Award from Hartford- nity as philanthropists and supporters. Stay tuned based Family Life Education during its 25th GNEMSDC for the final report! The bottom line from the study anniversary gala on November 3rd at the Economic Impact Report Summary is that MBEs and supplier diversity is a powerful Connecticut Convention Center. (See article on tool of creating more stable, more economically page 20) he GNEMSDC is finalizing its first vibrant communities. Our corporate members, “TEconomic Impact Report. But why wait to MBEs and stakeholders should be proud of the MAYOR SEGARRA GIVES BOTTOM LINE release some of the preliminary numbers? We hope great impact you have on entrepreneurs, families, IMPACT OF FEDERAL SEQUESTRATION that this will be a regular report to our community communities and the nation. We have come a long ON HARTFORD RESIDENTS of corporate members, MBEs, elected officials, the way, and we have still have miles to go. Keep your ight now the public is hearing phrases like media and other interested parties. The study uses eyes on the prize!” the “fiscal cliff ”, “federal sequestration” information from certification applications, surveys “R and “entitlement programs” to explain budgeting of MBEs and corporate members and data collect- EVERY DAY, BRIDGEPORT, CONNECTICUT ed by the federal government. The report goes into MOVES FORWARD issues at the federal level. That doesn’t clarify for most people what exactly is at stake and sometimes greater detail and will be available by the end of the he Seaview development project is evidence Washington, D.C. seems like a far-away place. The month. Here are the numbers: that the city of Bridgeport is including minori- T bottom line, however, is that Congress is making 1. Of the total 350 certified MBEs at the end of ty neighborhoods in its economic development plans. The Seaview project will open the harbor to decisions that will impact the day-to-day lives of September, 2012, there were 76 Asian Indian, 37 many residents here in Hartford. Currently, what is Asian Pacific, 148 Black American, 85 Hispanic the minority community, which will also benefit on the table are across-the-board cuts in critical ser- and 4 Native American MBEs. from the move of the ferry headquarters from the downtown side to the Seaview side, a move that vice programs like WIC, homelessness, the HOME 2. The total sales of all 350 MBEs totaled $13.7 bil- came through the determined efforts of Mayor Bill Program, CDBG, HOPWA and HUD Section 8. All lion. Finch to overcome substantial resistance. told, 14 major programs in Hartford would be affected and anywhere from 5,000 to 7,500 Capital 3. Local MBEs located in the six New England (The city of Bridgeport’s Office of Planning and Economic City residents will have their benefits slashed dra- states had sales of $2.1 billion and reciprocal Development (OPED), acting at the request of the matically or cut entirely. This is unconscionable and MBEs had total sales of $11.6 billion. Bridgeport Port Authority, is offering a unique 17 acre I urge Congress to work together and with 4. Median annual sales for all certified MBEs was waterfront retail development opportunity in Bridgeport, President Obama and rise above rhetorical games. $2 million. By way of comparison, all minority Seaview Plaza. Development rights to the property are being While I recognize the recent glimmers of hope that businesses in 2007 had median annual sales of offered via ground lease or sale, with terms to be negotiated. bi-partisan negotiation is possible, Congress still $177,000. Through a Request for Proposal process, it is OPED’s objec- needs to act. There are people across Hartford, the tive to identify a Developer for Seaview Plaza. The developer state of Connecticut and the country who are 5. The 350 GNEMSDC certified MBEs employed should have a proven track record in retail/commercial real depending on Congress to do the right thing.” POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 23

african american point of view page twenty-three december 1, 2012 LIVING LIFE’S CHALLENGES

Dr. Sweets S. Wilson WORKPLACE BULLYING is a Christian life pur- pose coach, motivation- By Dr. Sweets H. Wilson al speaker and CEO Associated issues include the direct Anxiety and even hypertension in a while. A crossover into bully terri- of Inspire ME, impact of bullying on worker produc- may afflict bullying victims, although tory occurs when these behaviors per- LLC. wilson.sweets@ tivity and customer service. It can seri- other factors such as genetics and sist well beyond normal acceptability gmail.com or ously affect the company’s bottom line lifestyle can also play a role. Managers 860-869-8067 and creates stress in the workplace. through direct and indirect costs. and anyone who possess the authority These individual continually steal One approach bullies typically and resources to address the issue ideas, use insulting language, gossip, FROM HARTFORD, utilize involves undermining the good might want to keep their eyes opened and display other self-centered, if not CONNECTICUT things their coworkers contribute to for an outburst of nervous behavior if outright sociopathic, actions. One orkplace violence is vio- projects and the company as a whole. they suspect a bully is on the move. must also remain mindful of the dif- lence or the threat of vio- Healthy individuals celebrate what Nobody enjoys abuse and work- ference between genuine critique lence against workers. It can their contemporaries accomplish; ers should not be expected to keep W aggressive types prefer channeling taking it just because the pay is right. meant to improve performance from a occur at or outside the workplace and their own insecurities into their inter- Like back in middle school and high distance and a serious socialization can range from threats and verbal actions, belittling or outright insulting school freshman year, victims will tend issue that needs immediate suppres- abuse to physical assaults and homi- more successful persons. If an office to do whatever is necessary to put sion. cide. It is one of the leading causes of seems unsupportive or nobody takes space between themselves and their job-related deaths. However it mani- Obsessing over the normal pres- any sort of pride in producing quality oppressor, even if it means compro- fests itself, workplace violence is a sures of work and the occasional bad work, a bully might be to blame. mising their own nature. Dependable day or week does not necessarily growing concern for employers and Sometimes workplace bullying workers can suddenly change their equate to bullying. But when one per- employees generally. can lead to workplace violence in indi- appearance into the unreasonable son’s harsh words or actions start tak- The possibility of violence is only viduals whose other undiagnosed or employee should an office bully start one of the many complex problems untreated issues predispose them to concentrating all their dysfunctions ing control, that might indicate that associated with workplace bullying. violence. Long before the physical onto them. Human Resources needs to step in to Other concerns include emotional, manifestation surfaces, workplace vio- Bad days happen to everyone, so identify the perpetrator and refer them psychological and medical difficulties lence has already happened through a little brusqueness and negativity to the appropriate mental health resulting from such behavior. words, objects and implications. from coworkers is natural every once services. INSPIRATIONAL THOUGHTS . . . God has a plan for our lives. His plans are to prosper us and give us peace. If Willette H. we trust Him, He will make a way. I extend Merry Christmas and Happy Johnson a Holidays wishes from my family to yours. Willette H. Johnson Retired Springfield RECEIVING THE GIFT OF LIFE—PART II Public Schools Educator “OH, WHAT A BLESSING!” By Kenya Richardson y faith was so strong! I matched. The next step was for me to sweet voice on the phone said, “Hi continued to study God’s be tested to determine if my blood Auntie. When do you want your kid- Mword―preparing my mind, would fight against the donor’s blood; ney?” I could hardly believe my ears. body, and spirit for the enormous to see if we were compatible. If the It was my best friend and sister in Kenya and Sirena (her donor) health challenge that awaited me. We test was positive, then the potential Christ, Jan Washington’s daughter, were nearing the end of July, and still donor would be prohibited from Sirena Henderson. She was my donor! was all preordained by God. I waited―continuing to serve GOD, donating because my body would We shared the news with Pastor Sirena was always a very special worshiping Him, singing in the choir, reject and fight against the donor’s Watson and the church family. They young lady growing up; she always and staying focused on doing God’s kidney. I was reminded of the Word immediately started praising God and had an old soul! Even today, she is a unique twenty-three year old. Her business. that says, “Ask and it shall be given,” asking His blessings for Sirena and faith in God is strong, and she knew On August 9, 2011, I received a so I prayed for the test to be negative, me. I knew deep in my soul that this what she wanted to do with her body. call from my transplant coordinator meaning my blood would mix with was all preordained by GOD!! No fear She was determined to be my donor. who indicated that I may have a “liv- the donor’s and not attack the donor or worry! Just Praise!!!!! She followed doctors’ orders explicit- ing donor,” and I needed to come in organ. I have known Sirena her entire ly; she worked out, changed her diet, and be tested to see if our blood types Throughout this testing and wait- life. God raised her up and blessed her and lost weight. She did everything matched. I was so excited! I went in ing period, I still had no idea of the to bless me with the gift of life. If I they told her to do to prepare for the for the tests, still not knowing who the donor’s identity. One day I was work- had never come to Canaan to worship surgery scheduled for June 13, 2012. I donor was because everything is con- ing at the church, assisting with a pro- years ago, I never would have met my am so humbled by her selflessness to fidential. One week later, I received gram we were having when I best friend Jan and never would have even consider such a thing at her notification that our blood types answered a call on my cell phone. The known Sirena. That’s how I know this continues to page 32 POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 24

african american point of view page twenty-four december 1, 2012 EDITORIAL FROM THE PUBLISHER’S DESK SOMEBODY HAS TO DO IT!

By Frederick A. Hurst

OF VIEW F r eder ick A . Hur st MY POINT jects in America. It is among believe they were put on this earth to America. It is very likely that I lose America’s most challenging social give. I have always dwelled among potential allies and that Point of View had an interesting discussion with contradictions. It goes way back to the givers. And I’ve been gifted with loses advertisers who are offended by a White friend who wondered America’s beginnings and will be the ability to articulate racial truths, its racial content. It’s a small price to Iabout my focus on race in some around for as many years as we refuse write them down and disseminate pay to be blessed with the talent to (maybe many) of my writings in Point to confront it openly. Some of them for the use of those who care to write facts that educate my sensitive of View. He wondered if it might be America’s most brilliant minds have use them. And I am not afraid to do White friends, who I hope will come counterproductive to racial healing failed to come to grips with it, from it. to understand that their reciprocal efforts pursued by him and others of our founding fathers up to the pre- The truth always hurts! But, to responsibility is to educate and raise his mindset. He wanted to know why sent. If we haven’t learned anything paraphrase some genius who I can’t the consciousness of their less sensi- I wrote things that seemed hurtful to else from our history, some of us recall, the truth will also set you free. tive White friends who would never the efforts of those who were trying have learned that you can’t hide But not without a price. I am very listen to me. to do the right things. racism and deal with it at the same much aware that I and others pay a Why? Because somebody has to At one level I understood what time. You can’t gloss over it and price for speaking truth about race in do it. he was asking and why. But at anoth- expect to contribute to solving the er level I was puzzled both by his sin- deep problems it causes. You can’t LETTERS TO THE PUBLISHER cere question and by my sincere claim to be committed to the eradica- answer. There was some kind of dis- tion of racism in America and not be Hi Ricky, connect between the two that made able to examine it in its rawest forms me think for days after our discus- without feeling offended, especially just had an opportunity to read the October Point of View. I usually put it sion. In fact, I went back and reread those White folks who least need to aside when I receive it, so that I can take my time and read it from cover to my writings in Point of View from the read what I write… but should. cover. previous twelve months thinking that My writings about race are not I I just wanted to tell you that your article on our family and your friend I might gain some insight into the directed at such folks except for inso- was really heartwarming. I was not able to attend Kendall’s or James’ funerals nature of the disconnect. And, to my much as what I write is useful as a and it was so gratifying to me to read what you had written about them. I surprise, I did. tool for them to more effectively con- always learn something when I read Point of View, as I didn’t know that James It wasn’t rocket science. In the front those White folks who are least had graduated from Westfield State University as my brother, Ronald, also context of what my White friend and likely to read what I and others have graduated from there when it was Westfield State College. I discussed, it was all too obvious. In to say about race in America„ igno- Thank you for your insightful articles and continue the good work. My best my mind, then and now, everything I rant White folks and cynical White to Margie. wrote needed to be said as much as it folks like those who don’t hesitate to needed to be read and understood in try and steal our votes and do so God bless you always, varying ways and for varying reasons many other racially motivated things Sharon Harris-Klein, Oklahoma City, OK by a lot of different minded folks. that I write about. Oversensitivity to But it occurred to me that the people and avoidance of racial truths are not ood Morning, Director (Springfield Department of Elder Affairs) Janet who least needed the information viable strategies for combating racism Rodriguez-Denney: were the most likely to read what I among those who take every oppor- G write, people like my White friend. tunity to practice it, capitalize on it It’s incumbent I send a note to thank you and your helpers for honoring And the people who most needed the and/or deny its existence. Truth is! Veterans on Friday, November 16, 2012. Many wives who lost their husbands information were the least likely to So, my first answer, of course, to in past wars were there (Brunch at the Good Life Center). read what I write. And everybody my White friend who asked me why I In past decades as a W.W. II Army Veteran, I’ve listened to several speak- falls somewhere along the continuum wrote articles that seemed to hurt ers relate our benefits but the most outstanding speaker ever was Thomas Belton, between the two, including Black rather than help the cause of racial Director of Veterans Services for Springfield! (I was) also impressed with infor- folks who want the racial truth about reconciliation (and I do consider him mation related to the wives. Never have I heard that done. what is going on in this country to be a dear friend who respected me Accolades are the order of the day. told, whenever and wherever it pops enough to ask me “Why?”) was, its head up, to Black folks who are so “Somebody has to do it!” And, the Sincerely, horrified at offending White people fact is, I can. So, I do. It’s in my Millie B. Dunbar that they don’t want me writing any- nature. And anybody who knows my (Millie, thank you for copying us. We thought your letter was a wonderful trib- thing about race and who cringe at history, understands exactly what I ute to two special people and our readers deserved to share your sentiments.) my words even more than the most mean. A lot of people think they racist White person. were put on this earth to use their tal- Letters to the Publisher and other content must be sent Whether or not we like it, racism ents to take. But many others, maybe electronically to: [email protected] is among the most controversial sub- because of the nature of their talents, (Please reference a subject matter or e-mail is automatically deleted.) POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 25

african american point of view page twenty-five december 1, 2012 COMMUNITY COMMUNITY INFORMATION Need Health Insurance? FORFEITURE FUNDS FOR COMMUNITY SAFETY PROGRAM SPRINGFIELD―Hampden The District Attorney uses the County District Attorney Mark G. seized money in a variety of ways in a Mastroianni has initiated the continuing effort to reduce crime and Forfeiture Funds for Community make communities safer. This is an Safety Program, a new program in opportunity for the community to Hampden County aimed at making inform the District Attorney of pro- neighborhoods safer through the use grams that may qualify to receive of drug forfeiture money. Money and funds. It is an important way for the property can be ordered forfeited by community and law enforcement to the Court at the request of the District Attorney’s office after con- work together to combat illegal drug viction for drug offenses involving activity. Community organizations the sale, manufacture or distribution interested in applying for funding of narcotics. The District Attorney under this program are urged to can also initiate civil forfeiture pro- visit the District Attorney’s web ceedings to seize property and money site at www.hampdenda.com and involved in illegal drug activity. compete the application form. REKINDLE FAITH WARMING CAMPAIGN TO CONTINUE

SPRINGFIELD―The Council of Churches of Western Massachusetts will partner once again with United Way of Pioneer Valley for the second annual Faith Warming Campaign. The proceeds of the campaign will go, in part, to assist individuals and families that are struggling to meet basic needs such as access to food, emergency services and fuel assistance. The Campaign will run from November 1, 2012 through January 31, 2013 through the collection of special offerings in member churches. GAME CHANGE! %$$ #"! !$$" continued from page 1 What are the rules that govern Needless to say, however, consid- the selection process and the election erable confusion remains as to how process? Let’s face it, whether or not %$$ $$"$ one of the three Springfield casinos Springfield ends up with a casino, will be selected: MGM in the South Springfield’s selection and election End (Paul Picknelly), Penn National scenarios, sans procedural rules, do in the North End (Peter Picknelly) %$$  $"$ not bode well for a casino in and Ameristar on Page Boulevard. Springfield. All it means is that First, the mayor and his staff were  " ! " $ ! $ ! "  going to make the selection and put it Springfield is headed for legal battles. to a vote. Then the mayor suggested And while Springfield fights lawsuits that he and his staff and a hastily stemming from its haste and absence selected “advisory committee” might of careful planning, Holyoke and %$$  $" !$  select more than one developer and Palmer, each unhindered by internal put them to a vote and…and…and… competition and voter strife, will like- The “and” has always been con- ly emerge as the prime competitors fusing. If the mayor selects one, do we from Western Mass in the eyes of a %$$ " $$$ vote to have or not have that one? If state gaming commission that is prob- we vote not to have that one, does the ably beginning to lose its patience $ ! mayor get to put up another candidate with Springfield. and hold another election or do we just forget a casino in Springfield? If (According to an article in the Boston he selects two or more, do we vote to Herald on November 26, “Paper City Ask your insurance broker or call us to learn more! have one or the other based on who Development Corporation, which recently gets the most votes? In either case, abandoned plans for a Springfield casino, is how do we accommodate those who oppose a casino altogether? Will the reviving its proposal to build a gaming palace 413.233.3535 · hne.com ballot include a box for the casino at Wykoff Country Club just off Interstate opponents? 91 in Holyoke.” The drama grows!) POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 26

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Dr. Brett Snowden, Pastors, Ministers, Professors and Theologians, please submit your Editor articles for this page to Dr. Brett Snowden at [email protected] Pastor, Progressive Community LET CHRIST COME HOME Baptist Church 599 State Street Springfield, MA FOR CHRISTMAS 01109 By Dr. Brett Snowden continued from page 1 sent His Son, Jesus, into the world to of life and ministry. They mistakenly depicts Jesus standing outside a door really celebrated. While observed in be born. His birth brought great joy thought very highly of themselves with a light in His hand. He is knock- some church liturgies, there was very to the world. Shepherds, wise men, due to their economic, social and ing on the door. When that painting little in the way of gift giving and and angels all shared in the excite- financial reputation which made them was first finished, a man looked at it family celebration that marks the sea- ment of knowing about this great feel their souls were healthy. Instead and commented to the painter, “You son today. event. They knew this was no ordi- of Christ being the center and the cir- made a mistake.” Hunt said, “Where Comparatively, today Christmas nary baby. The prophets had told of cumference, the sum and the sub- is the mistake?” The critic said, “You is celebrated in the tone and tenor of forgot to paint a handle on the out- secularism, and its spiritual purpose His coming hundreds of years before. stance of their lives, He is found The star stopped over Bethlehem just standing on the outside of their side of the door.” Hunt responded, and meaning has been misplaced. In “There is no mistake. The handle is to mark the way for those who were hearts, knocking and hoping for essence, Christ has been evicted in on the inside. Jesus knocks, but you looking for this special child. entrance. Likewise in many lives, fam- many of our celebrations and obser- must open the door!” Christmas means that Salvation and ilies and homes, Christ will be found vances. He is found on the outside Let me ask you, Can Christ come the promise of Eternal Life have this Christmas on the outside of our knocking, hoping that someone will home this Christmas? hear His voice and answer the door. entered the world and is free to any- hearts seeking permission to be a part Christmas is a time of God one who will gladly accept the Christ of His celebration. Christ says, I am RELIGIOUS showing His great love for us! child. ready to make good for your souls, DIRECTORY Christmas means we are celebrating The church at Laodicea had liter- Behold, I stand at the door and knock. PROGRESSIVE the birth of the Christ child. God ally dismissed Christ from their way Holman Hunt’s famous painting COMMUNITY BAPTIST CHURCH THEOLOGICAL EDUCATION: 599 State Street Springfield, Massachusetts AN OPPORTUNITY TOO GOOD TO BE MISSED (413) 736-8844 “A Church Determined To Follow Christ” By Dr. Annette Wright and Dr. Donna Calawa n exciting opportunity has opened up for Christian Upon successful completion of the leaders in the Springfield and Hartford region. program, the graduates of the Diploma AGordon-Conwell Theological Seminary’s Boston in Practical Ministry will be able to apply Campus, also known as the Center for Urban Ministerial for the Master of Arts in Urban Ministry Education (CUME), is offering an innovative theological (MAUM) or other degree programs by educational cohort program addressing the theological and completing additional courses to meet Dr. Brett Snowden, Pastor practical concerns of urban pastors and leaders. Since its the requirements of the MAUM or other Sunday Worship - 10:00 a.m. inception, Gordon-Conwell-Boston has been recognized graduate degrees. Pastors/ministers who Sunday Bible School - 9:00 a.m. Dr. Mark as a leading, pace-setting force in urban theological educa- have been in ministry without having Bible Study - Wednesday - 6:30 p.m. Harden tion both here in the United States, and around the world. earned a college degree are especially In step with Gordon-Conwell-Boston’s unique heritage, the current Dean, Dr. encouraged to apply to the Diploma program. Mark Harden, has created a fresh new educational program called the Diploma Dr. Harden has more than 20 years of combined leadership experience in in Practical Ministry, which is composed of the following ministerial core community service, ministry and graduate theological education, as well as courses: international and cross-cultural experience in Croatia and South Africa. For 10 Church History to the Reformation years, he served with distinction at Bethel Seminary, mostly as Dean of the Old Testament Survey or NT 501 New Testament Survey Inter-cultural Relations Degree Program and Director and Lead Faculty for Theology Survey I the Community Ministry Leadership program at Bethel Seminary―an expert Church & Community practitioner-scholar, with many awards to his record. For a message from Dr. Introduction to Pastoral Counseling Harden, please see www.gordonconwell.edu/about/Boston-Dean.cfm. Spiritual Formation for Ministry Locally, for more information you may contact Rev. Dr. Brett Snowden, Christian Leadership in Ministry pastor, Progressive Community Baptist Church at 413-736-8844 or Rev. Pastoral Care in Urban Ministry Arthur S. Green, pastor Phillips Metropolitan CME Church at 860-246-0049 Educational Ministry of the Church or if you wish to contact Gordon-Conwell-Boston directly, you may call 617- 427-7293, extension 1651 and speak to the Admissions Coordinator, Ms. Introduction to Preaching: Principles & Practice & Preaching Clinic Lucrecia Rodriguez-Lynch. Gordon-Conwell- Boston’s website is Family & Youth Ministry www.gordonconwell.edu/boston. Introduction to Theological Studies w/(MEPP for Diploma Students) POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 27

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ÂT W|äxÜáx cxÉÑÄx ã{É tÜx Canaan Baptist bÇx ÉÇ fÉÄÉÅÉÇËá cÉÜà|vÉÊ RELIGIOUS Church of Christ Acts 5:12b 1430 Carew Street Springfield, MA 01104 DIRECTORY 413-739-5053 Rev. Dr. W. C. Sundays Sunday School (all ages) ------9:15 a.m. Watson, Jr., Pastor Sunday Worship— 10:45 AM Morning Worship Service ----10:45 a.m. Sunday School— 9:00 AM Church Life Wednesdays Tuesday— Book Club — 7:00PM Worship, Prayer, Mid-day Prayer & Praise- 12:00-1:00 p.m. Wednesday—“Noonday Hour of Power” Praise & Study Bible Study ------7:00 p.m. With Lunch Thursday„ Live Bible Study „ 7:00PM Ordinance of the Lord’s Supper Solid Rock Community Baptist Church First Sunday„ 4:00PM 821 Liberty Street, Springfield, MA 01104 17 John Street, Springfield, MA 01104 (413) 737-9583 Telephone (413) 734-5441 Fax (413) 734-5438 Dr. Mark E. Flowers, Senior Pastor Transportation (413) 575-4035 Mountcalvarybaptistchurchspringfield.org Sunday Morning Worship 10:30 am Weekly Bible Study/Prayer Service Tuesday 7:00 pm Alden Baptist Church Bishop Curtis L. Shaird, Pastor 649 State Street Reverend Harold P. Dixson, Assistant Pastor Springfield, MA 01109 413-788-9910 Sunday School JESUS CHRIST ENLIGHTENED 9:00 a.m. CHRISTIAN BIBLE SEMINARY Sunday Morning ACCREDITED Worship Service 10:00 a.m. Prayer Service 141 Union Street Monday Springfield, MA 6:00 p.m. Rev. J. Willard Wednesday Fridays 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Cofield, Jr., Pastor Noon & Saturdays 1:00 - 3:00 p.m. 6:00 p.m. Rev. Karen Rucks, Associate Minister Bible Study Contact Bishop Emanuel Brown, President Monday & “We believe God has called us to be a vital Wednesday sign of faith at work 7:00 p.m. in the community. This Youth Ministry SHILOH SEVENTH-DAY ADVENTIST CHURCH vision is actualized through our Friday The Church in the Heart of the City Ministries.” 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Sabbath Services (Saturday) Sabbath School - 9:00am New Life Calvary BETHEL AFRICAN Divine Worship Services - 11:00am Martin Luther King, Adventist Youth Services - 5:30pm Jr. Community Baptist Church METHODIST EPISCOPAL CHURCH Community Service Center - Mon. & Tues. Presbyterian Church 27 Pendleton Avenue 10:00am - 1:00pm Member of the Presbyterian Church A NEW Springfield, MA 01109 Joseph F. Aaron, Prayer Meeting - Wednesday - 7:00pm (U.S.A.) BEGINNING (413) 734-7611 Pastor Church School (SSAJA) Monday - Friday Sunday School Rev. Angelo S. 797 State Street, Springfield, MA 01109; Tel: 413-734-0103 Dawson, Pastor e-mail: [email protected] 9:00 a.m. Sunday School Rev. Donald A. Sunday Worship 9:00 AM Thomas, Associate 10:00 a.m. Morning Worship Minister Discipleship Service Rev. Amelia Eddy, Associate Minister Formation Group Rev. Jesse E. 10:00 AM Sunday after Worship Williams Sr., Prayer/Bible Study James D. Bullock, Rev. Peter T. Bible Study Pastor/Teacher Wednesday Minister of Music Sylver Wednesday 7:00 p.m. 6:00 & 7:00 PM Pastor’s Bible Sunday Morning 14 Concord Terrace Study Divine Worship Springfield, MA 01109 Sunday 8:50 am 10:00 am 413-737-0777 981 Wilbraham Road www.mlkcommunitychurch.org Springfield, MA 01109 Church School Bible Study/Prayer [email protected] Saturday 11:00 am & Class Meeting Join us, you will be Blessed (413) 796-1600 Wednesday 7:00 pm

g{|Üw UtÑà|áà V{âÜv{ Wesley United Methodist Church 149 Walnut Street P.O. Box 91166 741 State Street Springfield, MA 01139 Springfield, MA 01109 413-734-4143 413-734-3233 Join us for our Worship Services Sundays Sunday School Sunday Worship Service Sunday School (all ages) 9:30 a.m. 9:30 a.m. 10:00 a.m. Morning Worship Service 10:45 a.m. Reverend Prayer Meeting & Bible Study Nathaniel Smith, Wednesdays Thursday 6:00 p.m. Rev. Joyce Sr., Pastor Bible Study 6:00 p.m. Âg{x YÜ|xÇwÄç V{âÜv{Ê f|Çvx DKIL Whetstone Where all who enter may be blessed •Open Hearts. Open Minds. Open Doors.Ž POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 28

african american point of view page twenty-eight december 1, 2012 THE ARTS PEN & INK

JUANITA TORRENCE-THOMPSON: Pushcart nominee. BRENDA’S CHILD has made it her life’s mission to inspire Published fiction, children’s stories, feature articles, hundreds of people through poetry and stories and through leading by her award-winning poems in dozens of U.S. and international journals, 12 anthologies, 7 books including her Talking With example with courage, confidence, and integrity. In April 2007, Stanley Kunitz (2012). Writes print & online newspaper poetry she self-published her first book of poetry, “A Piece of My columns; produces poetry salons and reads internationally. Mind...Poetic Confessions of a Self-Proclaimed Diva.” Since Editor-in-Chief and Publisher of acclaimed 30-year-old Mobius, then she has published four more titles. For more information, The Poetry Magazine. Her poetry is translated into 12 foreign email: [email protected] languages. www.poetrytown.com A POEM CAN BE… SUPER WOMAN? By Juanita Torrence-Thompson By Brenda’s Child

Color blind Don’t call me super woman, Navigating through I just do what I’m supposed to. A myriad of colors Each day I do what millions of other women do Shadings of yellow, red, blue, I try to fulfill dreams, and keep the house clean, Black, grey, green, and white aim to take care of everyone else’s needs Without prejudice or judgment but still make time for me. Nor profiling Drop that last load of laundry in before I go to sleep. Decide, even though I’m running late, A poem can be that I need to sweep the kitchen floor Political or apolitical because I can’t take looking at it any more. A poem does not say You’re 65, go out to pasture Making the bed once a month, It does not say I’m just content the sheets are clean. You’re a woman or Checking emails while in the grocery store line Black or purple so you always one more thing to do on my things-to-do list. Can’t do this or that This is not super, exceptional, or outstanding, It is life. A poem can encourage: You’re 65, but stay as long I’m not looking for glorification, As you like, you have value but a little appreciation goes a long way, because day in and day out A poem may tell a woman I do what millions of other women do, Or person of color, and what a small percentage fail to do. The sky’s the limit, This is why it appears I’m super You may be whatever you choose when really A poem would not tell you, I’m just doing what I’m supposed to. Clear out your office by today There’s no secret identity, A poem would not say, I’m a woman with many roles. Don’t go to college, Can’t change into tights and a cape quickly, you’ll never succeed because the bathroom is the only place I get privacy. A poem would not leave you I don’t have X-ray vision, but I have women’s intuition, Scrambling for health care coverage I don’t have super human strength, Or if covered, would never say but I am strong, That’s an unnecessary procedure the proof… I’m still striving, Find that $80,000 on your own and it’s not tremendous, or fabulous, It is life. A poem would not charge Moon-high prices for medicine And being a woman is super, A poem would not emit fumes but I’m no super woman. Or drive machines endangering the environment Or pollute our oceans with debris and oil spills Happy Holidays to Nor slaughter millions of trees to build high risers And line their deep pockets with cash That’s why I love poems; they’re congenial. our Distributors and Writers POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 29

african american point of view page twenty-nine december 1, 2012 THE ARTS CHILDREN’S BOOK CORNER INHALE MUSIC < EXHALE LIFE The Bookworm is Heshima is an interna- Modern life presents many chal- Terri Schlichenmeyer. tionally recognized lenges. And in a rapidly changing Terri has been reading vocalist, multi-instru- world, values and social mores often since she was 3 years mentalist and song- change along with it, usurping the old and she never goes writer/composer whose anywhere without a music can be heard at importance of traditional practices. book. She lives on a www.myspace.com/he hill in Wisconsin with And one of those practices is the two dogs and 11,000 shimaiam and face- communal practice of music. The books. book. myth of the melting pot and respect- “PINNED” MUSIC AND ing everyone’s cultural values is just that, a myth. Because at day’s end, By Sharon G. Flake COMMUNITY American society does not value c.2012, Scholastic Press music and art at the deeper, aesthetic $17.99/$19.99 Canada 240 pages PART I level. Beyond the surface, it’s signifi- Reviewed by Terri Schlichenmeyer By Heshima Moja cance is often lost to a popular cul- ture which values image and mone- he boy you like is a very sharp include some grammar-challenged, “Give us back our rituals, bring back truth, tary worth. Tdresser. rap-singing, fast-talking girl from the return remnants of our identity, bathe us in Families at the nuclear level, and He always looks so fine. He’s tall bad side of town. She was always sel f discover ed k nowl edge, identify our ances- communities as a whole, once used and he smells good, he’s got a smile talking, blah-blah-blah. Couldn’t shut tors who have ex isted suppressed, invocate music to remain connected―to cele- that makes his eyes crinkle, and hair up, always asking him questions. their spirits with power...... ” brate, mourn and socialize together. you want to touch. Mama thought Autumn was Sandra Maria Esteves Music informed and fueled the civil The boy you like is so sweet. sweet. She said to give Autumn a Unfortunately, the boy you like chance, but Adonis just wished that rights movement of the 1950s, 60s he average American has an isn’t yours. season was over. He’d be and 70s. The movement was built ambiguous relationship to But that doesn’t stop some peo- glad. Maybe that girl would finally, around the idea of communal partic- music, much like an indiffer- ple. In the new book “Pinned” by completely be out of his hair. T ipation at every level.. Communities Sharon G. Flake, girl plus boy is a But when Autumn’s grades kept ent and selfish lover to his partner. of color resonated with the sound of match, in more ways than one. her out of championship competi- He knows she’s there, and calls to her renaissance and revival. The drum Not one of fourteen-year-old tion, Adonis regretted his wish. She whenever he feels like it. When he has and the saxophone and soul music nowhere else to turn, because all the Autumn’s friends liked Adonis. started to hang out with him more, serenaded the people, and invoked other distractions have gone, he calls Peaches, her bestie, thought he and she was always crying. He hated the power of a people united. was stuck-up. She said Autumn could her. And she is faithful, so she con- that because it made him feel helpless. Then, as with many movements do better, and that Autumn barely soles him, makes him laugh, and loves It made him want to comfort her. throughout history, a small percent- knew Adonis. Peaches wanted him. However, when he is satisfied, It made him want to kiss her… age of those who had struggled for Autumn to focus on school and their Here’s a secret: I hate gushy nov- he tunes her out again, placing her at access to the American dream were together-dream of opening a restau- els. So imagine how happy I was to the bottom of his list of priorities. If allowed to walk into the boardrooms rant-bakery. She didn’t want Autumn see that “Pinned” is a totally different he pays attention to her, it is out of and classrooms, leaving a large num- to think of Adonis at all. kind of boy-meets-girl story. routine familiarity and not out of And maybe Peaches was right First of all, this book definitely devotion or love for her. ber of their comrades behind, won- about that, but Autumn had her eye lacks attitude and teen-queen drama. Music, for the average American dering if the movement had been on the boy. He might be in a It’s not populated with over-the-top in 2012, is at the bottom of a long list real. And as the 80s began, the pro- wheelchair, but he was nice and he rich divas; no, author Sharon G. of “priorities.” The morning or after- nouns I and me replaced we. was smart. Adonis was the wrestling Flake’s characters are just average noon commute may serve as an occa- Individual gain overshadowed ideas team manager and Autumn was the kids. Autumn is a little street-smart. sion to turn on the radio but it is of communal ascendancy. In Part II only girl on the team, so they were Adonis is a big jerk. She’s eager to tuned out by simultaneous cell phone next month, we will continue to dis- together just about every day during change ― first for a boy and then for chatter. Music serves as background cuss how we can return to the use of practice. She made sure they were herself. He starts to accept his softer accompaniment to house cleaning or music in community building. Until together at other times, too. side as he learns that vulnerability cooking. However, the average per- then, ponder the words of Sandra son never moves beyond the status of She might not know Adonis very won’t derail his dreams. That makes Maria Esteves: well… but that could change. this a wonderful first-love story that’s a mere consumer of music. Even Adonis thought that girl was a sweet and clean without hearts-and- those who frequent live musical “Reunite the family in universal pain. flowers gushiness. events, often merely consume. But joining, a shower If Autumn wasn’t one of the Ahhhh. throughout the long and rich history team’s best wrestlers, he’d talk to While this book is meant for 12- of the people of the African and a penetrating waterfall, Coach about her. Adonis himself had to-16-year-olds, anyone who loves a Diaspora, music has always served as rekindle folklore, told her to leave him alone several good story will find it to be quick and a means of building, maintaining and candles of wisdom with never times, but she just didn’t get it. As a endearing. In lacking a bunch of eye- celebrating community. Everybody ending flames...” freshman in high school, he had his roll-inducing fluff, “Pinned” is really participated and offered. What future all mapped out and it did not quite sharp. changed? Inhale Music

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african american point of view page thirty-one december 1, 2012 BLACK SPORTS BLACK SPORTS INTERNATIONAL THE YOUNGEST UFC CHAMPION EVER eran Stephan Bonnar at UFC 94 on Jones. He won the fight by TKO hand Bader his first professional loss January 31, 2009. Jones showed supe- caused by an elbow to Vera’s face fol- by defeating him via tapout due to a rior wrestling abilities, and executed lowed up with punches in the first guillotine choke in the second round strong takedowns and powerful round. The elbow delivered to stop the after dominating Bader in the first throws, including a suplex. Again fight also broke Vera’s face in three round. Jones was awarded the showing unorthodox striking as he had places. Jones also won the “ “Submission of the Night” bonus. onathan Dwight “Jon” Jones is an in his debut, he secured one of of the Night” Award. Following Jones’s victory over American mixed martial artist Bonnar’s legs and landed a back-elbow He defeated former IFL Light Bader, it was revealed that title con- J(MMA) from Endicott, New York. that nearly knocked out his opponent Heavyweight Champion Vladimir tender and Jones’s training partner, He is the current Ultimate Fighting during the first round. Although he Matyushenko by TKO due to elbows Rashad Evans, had sustained a knee Championship (UFC) Light appeared to tire in the third round, he in 1:52 of the first round on August 1, injury in training, and would not be Heavyweight Champion. Jones, the held on to win another unanimous 2010, at UFC Live: Jones vs. able to compete in his scheduled youngest UFC title holder in history, decision victory. Matyushenko. UFC President Dana match with current UFC light heavy- entered the organization after fighting His third fight was against Jake White promised Jones a “huge step-up weight champion Mauricio “Shogun” professionally for only four months. O’Brien at UFC 100 on July 11, 2009. in the competition,” if he managed to Rua. Jones would replace Evans in the As of August 2012, he was ranked as He controlled the majority of the fight defeat Matyushenko. fight for the UFC Light Heavyweight the #1 light fighter in the by stuffing takedown attempts from Following the fight with Championship. world by various media outlets. ESPN his opponent. Jones stayed on the out- Matyushenko, UFC President Dana At UFC 128, Jones defeated Rua ranked him the #2 pound for pound side, exercising his reach advantage White said, “Vladimir Matyushenko is by TKO at 2:37 of round 3 to become fighter in the world. and finding his range toward the end a guy who I have a lot of respect for, the youngest UFC Champion ever. Before beginning his MMA of the first round with his right jab and I didn’t think it was going to hap- After an early flying knee that badly career, Jones was a stand-out high and high and low kicks. Halfway pen that easy. Jones is the real deal, and hurt the champion, Rua was dominat- school wrestler and State Champion. through the second round, he ducked he just catapulted himself tonight into ed throughout the three rounds. A He won a national JUCO and spun to deliver another one of his the top eight in the world. Tonight body shot and knee to the head Championship at Iowa Central signature back-elbows that struck the solidified it. To go in and do what he dropped the champion to his knees, Community College. After transfer- top of O’Brien’s head. Jones eventual- did to Vladimir Matyushenko, and causing the referee to swiftly step in ring to Morrisville State College, he ly secured a modified guillotine choke, make it look as easy as he did tonight, and halt the bout just as Rua tapped decided to drop out of college where which rendered his opponent briefly it cements it for me. This kid is one of two strikes. he was studying Criminal Justice, to unconscious just after he tapped. the top eight in the world in that His first title defense was expect- begin his MMA career. In September 2009, Jones was weight division. He’s got to keep his ed to be on August 6, 2011, at UFC He made his professional MMA rewarded for his victories by signing a head together, stay focused and keep 133 against Rashad Evans, his former debut in April 2008. He amassed an new four-fight contract with the UFC. doing all the right things in training. friend and teammate, but Jones was undefeated record of 6-0 over a period On December 5, 2009, he faced He’s smart, good looking and bad-ass. sidelined with a hand injury. It was ini- of three months, finishing all of his off against fellow light heavyweight He’s going to make a lot of money — tially announced that the hand injury opponents. This brought him to the prospect at The Ultimate this kid is going to do very well. Right would require surgery, but Jones opted attention of the UFC, who asked him Fighter: Heavyweights Finale. Despite now in the 205-pound division, all for rest and rehabilitation without to take a fight as a late replacement on dominating the fight, he was disquali- these guys are fighting each other. surgery after further consultations a two week notice in July 2008. fied for the use of multiple 12-6 When the smoke clears and the dust with doctors. In his last bout before signing elbows. The Unified Rules of Mixed settles, Jon Jones will fight one of the His injury was originally thought with the UFC, Jones defeated Moyses Martial Arts prohibit downward elbow top eight guys in the world for his next to keep him out of action until late Gabin at BCX 5 for the USKBA Light strikes, and Jones was initially only fight.” 2011, but he instead made his first title Heavyweight Championship. He won penalized a point from the round. After defeating Matyushenko, defense against Quinton Jackson on the fight via technical knockout However, because Hamill could not Jones stated that he wanted a “top- September 24, 2011, at UFC 135. He (TKO) in the second round. continue due to a dislocated shoulder, three opponent” for his next fight. defeated Jackson via submission (rear- Jones’s UFC debut came against Jones was disqualified for these strikes. He mentioned in an interview naked choke) at 1:14 in the 4th round. Andre Gusmão at UFC 87 on August Consequently, the tape was reviewed with Inside MMA that he would be fac- In the process, he became the first 9, 2008. He took the fight on two and showed that Jones’ elbows further ing the winner of Antônio Rogério UFC fighter to submit Jackson. Jones weeks notice as a late replacement for damaged Hamill’s already bloody and Nogueira vs. . Jones also has described this as his favorite fight. Tomasz Drwal. He put on an impres- lacerated nose. This marked the first stated he had been informed by Dana Jones vs Rashad Evans was in the sive performance, using takedowns time that Nevada has used its recently- White that if he won his next two works for a second time, and a bout and displaying unorthodox striking, enacted instant replay rule, in which fights, he would likely receive a title was targeted for December 10, 2011, such as spinning elbows and a spin- the referee’s decision was supported by shot. at UFC 140. However, a lingering ning back kick. Despite being a heavy the commission which utilized a slow Dana White soon confirmed that thumb injury cost another title oppor- underdog, Jones took a unanimous motion replay to review the elbows. Jones would face undefeated Ultimate tunity for Evans, and Jones instead decision victory. Jones fought Brandon Vera on Fighter winner Ryan Bader on February faced Lyoto Machida at the same In his second fight, he fought vet- March 21, 2010, at UFC Live: Vera vs. 5, 2011, at UFC 126. Jones went on to event. continues to page 32 POV_December_1_2012_POV_December_1_2012.qxd 11/30/2012 10:39 AM Page 32

african american point of view page thirty-two december 1, 2012 BLACK SPORTS BLACK SPORTS INTERNATIONAL would be Dan Henderson. The Jones- was then announced for September JON JONES Henderson fight was expected to take 22, 2012, at UFC 152. Machida, who THE YOUNGEST UFC CHAMPION EVER place at UFC 151, but an injured was not contacted prior to the Henderson pulled out of the bout. announcement, rejected the fight due continued from page 31 He successfully defended his title, Jones then refused a late replacement to the lack of time to train before the stopping Machida at 4:26 of the sec- fight with Chael Sonnen after his bout. Jones instead defended the ond round via technical submission coach Greg Jackson told him with championship against Vitor Belfort on (standing guillotine), which caused three training days left it would be dif- September 22, 2012, at UFC 152. Machida to collapse unconscious ficult to prepare. UFC 151 was then He opened as a massive favorite along the cage. This was the first sub- subsequently cancelled. It was later (13-to-1) coming into the bout. mission loss in Machida’s career. reported that Henderson was injured Despite almost being submitted via Jones defeated his arch rival and three weeks prior to the announce- armbar in round one, Jones successful- former teammate, Rashad Evans, via ment, but kept the injury under wraps ly defended his belt against the unanimous decision on April 21, 2012, as he was still hoping to compete. Brazilian Belfort, and equaled Chuck at UFC 145. However, he was ultimately forced to Liddell’s number of title defenses. During the UFC 145 post fight withdraw following a final sparring Jones also won a $65,000 Submission of press conference, Dana White con- session to evaluate his condition. the Night bonus in his match against firmed that Jones’s next opponent A rematch with Lyoto Machida Belfort. FOR MORE SPORTS GO TO: www.blacksportsthemagazine.com EASTERN PRESIDENT ELSA M. 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african american point of view page thirty-three december 1, 2012 DECEMBER 2012 SATURDAY—15 EVENTS Celebrate 10 Years with Antonio’s Catering For Updated Events, When: 5pm Hors d’oeuvres; 6pm Buffet Dinner go to: www.afampointofview.com/events.htm Where: Knights of Columbus, highlighting Education and Community Engagement 371 Washington Road, Enfield, CT THRU DECEMBER 7, 2012 When: 2„ 5pm Info: $30 per person; $55 couples; RSVP by “Pride and Passion: the African‐American Baseball Where: The High School of Commerce Auditorium, December 8 at 413.330.9492 or Experience,” a Traveling Exhibition 415 State Street, Springfield, MA 413.887.9041; Semi‐Formal; DJ ‐ “KLS”; Raffle Where: Lower Level W.E.B Du Bois Library, Info: Free and Open to the Public; Refreshments, prizes; Special presentations; Entertainment UMass, 154 Hicks Way, Amherst, MA Community Resource Tables; 703.930.0243 Info: FREE and Open to the Public; or [email protected] www.thewebduboiscenter.com; 413.545.6483 SATURDAY—8 Presentation and Book Signing of New Inspirational THRU DECEMBER 31 Book, “Joyfilled,” by Dr. W.C. Watson, Sr., Sr. Pastor of Holiday Express Train Show Canaan Baptist Church of Christ When: 10am„ 4pm Mon.‐Fri.; When: 12noon„ 1pm & 1:30„ 2:30pm 12noon„ 4pm Sat. & Sun. Where: Canaan Baptist Church of Christ, Where: Fairfield Museum & History Center, 1430 Carew Street, Springfield, MA 370 Beach Road, Fairfield, CT Info: Cost $11; Pre‐order 413.781.1232 Info: FREE for Members; $5 Adults; $3 Seniors & or 413.739.5053; Refreshments Students; Free Age 5 & Younger; See ad on page 2 www.fairfieldhistory.org; 203.259.1598 St. Peter’s Episcopal Church holds Annual Holiday THRU JANUARY 1 Dinner/Dance 2012 Season of Bright Nights at Forest Park When: 7pm„ 12midnight When: 5―9pm Sun.‐Thurs.; 5―11pm Where: Springfield Marriott Hotel, Fri., Sat. & Holidays 2 Boland Way, Springfield, MA Where: Forest Park, 302 Sumner Avenue, Info: Advance tickets $55 per person; Springfield, MA $100 per couple; 413.246.6980 or Info: $18 per vehicle Mon.‐Thurs.; $21 per vehicle 413.736.8567; Fri., Sat. & Holidays; brightnights.org or [email protected] 413.733.3800 Urban Nutcracker 2012„ Mix of Diverse Dance Styles THRU JANUARY 21 from Classic Ballet to Hip Hop Winterfest Hartford presented by the iQuilt When: Opening Night 7:30pm Partnership and the City of Hartford Where: John Hancock Hall, When: 12noon„ 8pm Sun.‐Thurs.; 12noon„ 9pm 180 Berkeley Street, Boston, MA Fri. & Sat; 12noon„ 4pm Holidays; Info: Tickets $20, $35, $45 and $60 12noon„ 1am New Years Eve/First Night (special V.I.P. seats $125); SATURDAY—19 www.bakbayeventscenter.com or Where: Bushnell Park, Hartford, CT Wesley United Methodist Church hosts 31st Annual 888.596.1027 Info: For more Winterfest activities, go to Martin Luther King, Jr. Memorial Scholarship Performances are also on Friday, December www.hartford.com Breakfast 14 & 21 at 7:30 pm; Saturday, December 15 & When: 9am 22 at 7:30 pm; Saturday Matinees, December THRU FEBRUARY 24, 2013 Where: Springfield Sheraton Hotel, 15 & 22 at 1pm; Sunday Matinees, December “Promise of Freedom: The Emancipation 1 Monarch Place, Springfield, MA 9, 16 & 23 at 3pm Proclamation,” Exhibition Commemorating the Info: Tickets $30 adults/$35 at door; 150th Anniversary of the Emancipation Proclamation THURSDAY—13 $20 students/$25 at door; 413.734.3233 or When: 10am„ 4pm Mon.‐Fri.; B‐Merry! A Holiday Marketplace at the Arcade [email protected] 12noon„ 4pm Sat. & Sun. When: 11am 7pm Where: Fairfield Museum & History Center, „ The Brianna Fund for Children with Physical Where: 1001 Main Street, Downtown Bridgeport, CT 370 Beach Road, Fairfield, CT Disabilities presents the 15th Annual Martin Luther Info: Sip cocoa, listen to carolers, watch local Info: FREE for Members; $5 Adults; $3 Seniors & King, Jr. Benefit Gospel Concert artists create their crafts; Students; Free Age 5 & Younger; When: 6pm www.BridgeportArts.org/b‐squared www.fairfieldhistory.org; 203.259.1598 Where: Evangelical Covenant Church, 915 Plumtree Road, Springfield, MA SATURDAY—1 Canaan Baptist Church of Christ Info: Open to the public; Free Will Offering; Dakin Humane Society holds Low Cost Vaccination Rev. Dr. W.C. Watson, Jr., Senior Pastor Theme: Families in the Spirit of Praise ‐ Keeping the and Microchip Clinic Inspirational Saints of Canaan Dream Alive; www.briannafund.org or When: 9am„ 12noon To Host A 413.204.0145 Where: 171 Union Street, Springfield, MA 2012 HOLIDAY Holiday Fun Info: First come, first served basis. Proof of JANUARY, 2013 financial assistance required; Vaccinations ManyItems SpecialCHRISTMAS Many Vendors $5; Microchips $15; $5 examination fee Baystate Academy Charter Public School required; www.dpvhs.org or 413.781.4000 BAZAAR Fellowship (BACPS) Information Sessions: January 9, 10, 19, Saturday, December 15, 2012 SUNDAY—2 23. Enrolling 6th and 7th grade Springfield stu‐ 10:00am - 3:00pm dents for 2013‐2014 school year. Go to Fourth Annual United in Hope with Superintendent 1430 Carew Street, Springfield, MA www.bacps.net. of Springfield Schools Daniel J. Warwick, Mayor (413) 739-5053 See ad on page 21 Domenic J. 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african american point of view page thirty-five december 1, 2012 LIVING OUR LOVE Azell Cavaan is a journal- ist who has written for CHRISTMAS SPARKS SPECIAL newspapers and magazines throughout the US and MEMORIES FOR COUPLE abroad. If you have an interesting love story or By Azell Cavaan know of someone who does, contact Azell at Azell@honeybeepublicre- lations.com. or Geraldine (Gerry) and Albert (Al) Garner, Christmas Fis an extra special time of year. Not only do they get the rare chance to have their children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren reunite, they also pause to reflect on the event that made it all possible: their marriage. This month, the Garners will cel- ebrate their 63rd anniversary. Wed before a gathering of about 100 File photo October, 2011 friends and relatives in Washington, Geraldine (Gerry) and D.C., the couple tied the knot just six Ubora Award recipients, Dr. Albert and Albert (Al) Garner Mrs. Geraldine Garner, with family days before Christmas. But the attended Penn State University on a Springfield. “There were just so many college that each grandchild is attend- romance of a mistletoe wedding was fellowship, earning a PhD in organic of us and we were like family,” Gerry ing, their year and their major. “We merely a bonus. For Al, a senior at chemistry. said. “Around the holidays, we’d often have to be there with them, they Howard University at the time, the day after the wedding was to be spent Those Christmases spent in have our friends’ children come over.” wouldn’t have it any other way.” studying for three finals on the fol- Pennsylvania still bring back sweet The house would be alive with The children have allowed for lowing Monday. He aced them, and memories for the couple. cheer, including stockings hung by the two exceptions. the newlyweds had the rest of the “All of my classmates and our chimney―an extra special treat the In 1985, the family gathered at week together before Gerry would spouses would have a great big round- children loved. “Each child would Gerry and Al’s home for one last tra- have to head back to her job as mid- robin, going from house-to-house. have a stocking and each stocking had ditional Christmas. Children and dle school English teacher in We were a big family,” Al recalled. an apple, an orange, some candy and grands came from across the country Baltimore. The Garners would also spend nuts, and a toy,” said Al. “Compared to see the many artifacts the couple Education was destined to Christmas with their kin family every to these days, I guess it seems pretty had brought back from a recent trip become an important focal point in year, driving back to Washington, D.C. simple, but the children just loved it to Africa. Two Christmases later, the the Garners’ lives. In fact, the couple in time to share the joy of opening and looked forward to it every single children excused their parents from first noticed each other while stu- presents together on Christmas year.” coming to visit them on Christmas dents at Paul Lawrence Dunbar High morning. And no Christmas morning once again. Though it was hard to School in Washington, D.C. “It was In 1956, a job offer for Al from would be complete in the Garner break from tradition, this was a typing class and the teacher wanted us Monsanto, brought the family to household without a Christmas prayer Christmas worth the aberration. to practice so we typed notes and Springfield. Here, they’d grow their before breakfast followed by a Christmas morning found the couple slipped them to each other,” recalled family. In time, the Garners decided Christmas reading out of the Gospel oceanside on a beach in Kenya that Gerry. “That’s how we found out we there was no better first-teacher for of Luke, a tradition that lives on year. liked each other.” their children than their very own today. “It was just beautiful,” said The two went to the prom and mother. Gerry retired from teaching Over the years, the Garner chil- Gerry. with birthdays just one month apart, and stayed home to raise their four dren would become parents and No one but Al and his bride will they graduated together―Class of children. grandparents themselves, scattering to ever know how the two felt on that 1943. “The norm at that time was for homes, careers and families across the December 25th as they waded in 70- During their early years of mar- black women to spend their days as country. And as their lives degree water, soaking up the African riage, Gerry would continue to put the hired help in white families, edu- changed, so too did the family’s sun. It’s likely they wished each other the teaching degree, which she had cating and raising their children. So in Christmas traditions. a Happy Anniversary and a Merry earned from Miner Teachers College this regard, being a black stay-at-home These days, Gerry and Al travel Christmas. And though, they truly rel- in Washington, D.C., to good use. mother was sort of a symbol of com- to their children’s homes to celebrate ish the tradition of experiencing those Meanwhile, Al continued to pursue ing up in the world,” said Gerry. “It the holidays. Each year, the family events with their family, that was one his education, a mission made possi- was a great privilege to be there in that reunites at one of their siblings’ hous- year that the two probably sat back ble due in great part to the GI bill. In way for my children.” es. and enjoyed the solitude of each addition to a bachelor’s degree from The Garners would become “We love going out to see the other’s company. Howard, Al also earned a master’s great friends with many other young children and the grandchildren,” said The way it started all those degree from that university. He later black couples raising children in Gerry, who is quick to point out the Christmases ago. 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