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Love Pray Act of Kindnesscook Affirm Hug Play Note Romance Text Kiss K I S S act of love pray kindness cook affirm hug play note romance text kiss massage talk gift dance The K.I.S.S. Bingo Challenge For each day, cross out the act (on the other side) that best describes what you did to fulfill the challenge. For example on day 1 you cooked for your spouse because they enjoy your food, then cross out the word cook. The great challenge is to cross out each one of the words on the Bingo card. For those who complete the challenge, bring your card to the KISS Night of Intimacy to enter into the grand prize drawing. Day 1: LOVE is patient Today do something that your spouse enjoys while you patiently wait such as shopping, golf, etc… Day 2: LOVE is kind Today do something that your spouse normally do around the house such a clean the dishes, give the kids and bath, fill-up their gas tank. Etc…. Sign up for KISS Night of Intimacy in the Peace Lobby or online at www.peacebaptistchurch.org Day 3: LOVE does not envy Today write down five things that your spouse has accomplished and let them know how proud you are of them. Day 4: LOVE does not boast Do something considerate or special for your spouse without expecting acknowledgement for it. (Fill-up the gas tank, wash the car, prepare their favorite meal, iron their clothes for work, etc…) Day 5: LOVE is not proud Choose something that you are struggling with (something your can’t do yourself) and allow your spouse to help you with it. Day 6: LOVE does not dishonor others Today write your spouse a note on some things you will commit to that honors them and your marriage. Day 7: LOVE is not self-seeking Today do something that your spouse loves to do, even if you dislike it such as fishing, skating, see a play, etc… Day 8: LOVE is not easily angered Today pray together that God helps you both in areas that easily anger you. Ask God to help you to be slow to anger and to help you to express your anger in a different way that is more positive for your spouse and your marriage. Day 9: LOVE keeps no record of wrongs Today choose to forgive your spouse for something you have been holding onto. Purchase a card expressing your commitment to your marriage for your spouse. Day 10: LOVE does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth True Love rejoices in what is good so today write your spouse of things that are “good” about them and your marriage. Day 11: LOVE always protect Today express to your spouse some ways you will commit to protect them and your marriage through a note, a card, or a simple text message. Day 12: LOVE always trust Today trust your spouse with something that you have not shared before. Be open and transparent. Day 13: LOVE always hopes Today share with your spouse the hope and vision you have for your future together. This can be done in a letter, email, or conversation. Day 14: LOVE preserves Dating helps to preserve your friendship and intimacy in marriage. Take your spouse to the K.I.S.S. Night of Intimacy for date night Saturday, February 15th. .
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