The 411 on Social Media, Networking and Texting
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The 411 on Social Media, Networking and Texting get frustrated when my niece and nephew site has several security settings that may hide or are tappity tap tapping away in their own not hide each user’s information. worlds,” says Johnnie, a relative caregiver and foster parent. “I feel left out, until I remember For example, in the Spring of 2010, Facebook Ithat I really wasn’t so different when I was that changed its default settings to make it much easier age. We didn’t have cell phones and computers, for people to see other people’s information, but but we still had our own worlds and, above all, a lot of people weren’t aware of the change that we wanted our privacy.” took place. It’s crucial to know how to set and check account settings. What Exactly Is Social Media, Anyhow? Social media is any form of communication Blogs are basically online journaling websites. A between people and the internet. It’s a large list of blog is similar to Facebook and MySpace, but is online activities that include: more focused. Think of a Talking (using Voice Over blog as an online diary or an Internet Protocol or extended holiday newsletter. VOIP) There are privacy settings for Sharing media files like blogs so you can control who pictures and videos can view them. Blogs can display pictures, text, videos Social networking and links to other sites. Video gaming Web logs or “blogs” MMOGs (Video Gaming) stands for Massively While many of us are familiar Multiplayer Online Game. with Facebook or YouTube, in Some of the popular games reality, there are too many are Crossfire, World of social media outlets to Warcraft, Doom and mention. Focus on the SimCity. Today’s MMOGs can popular websites for now, but have thousands of users know that what’s popular can worldwide playing one change quickly, and you always want to stay a specific game online at a time. Often MMOGs are little ahead of your kids if possible. (Or okay, not played on computers, cell phones and with video too many steps behind.) game units like the Xbox, Wii and PlayStation. Popular Social Technology Definitions Johnnie says she didn’t realize at first that when and Destinations her kids started to play online video games, they Social Networking websites like Facebook and were also “chatting” with other players. That MySpace are used as ways to communicate, “chat” led to her niece talking (on her cell phone) share pictures, music and videos. Facebook has to a person claiming to be a 24-year-old man in become increasingly popular over the past five Texas (or possibly a 45-year old woman in Arizona years and has millions of users worldwide. It since no one really knows anything about anyone requires users to have an individual e-mail online). This person ultimately told Johnnie to butt account and be above the age of 13. out—he was going to marry her niece as soon as she turned 18. “And this,” says Johnnie, “is how Once a person has a Facebook account, he or she today’s world is not at can “friend” people by accepting requests. The all like the world I Continued on page 2 6682 West Greenfield, Suite 310 Milwaukee, WI 53214 800-762-8063 © 2010 In partnership with: [email protected] The 411 on Social Media, Networking and Texting, continued Page 2 grew up in as a teen!” the internet for people to discuss, meet or ask questions, usually about one main subject. There Instant Messaging (IMing) is a way to communicate are thousands of message boards and forums. with others online. The cool thing about IMing is Some require that you become a member and that you can have online real time text chats have a user name and password before joining. (private conversations) with one or more people. Forums and message boards are not done in real IMing can be done within browsers such as Yahoo time, meaning users have to wait for others to or with services like Twitter read their message and or AOL. respond. Certain websites like Skype Safety let users have conversations When talking about social using video calling technology or media, safety is technology, as well, if you have a valid concern. Check out a video camera. There is a our tip sheet, Internet Safety specific IM text language Tips for Caregivers, that known as SMS language, addresses safety-related issues which stands for Short and discusses Family Internet Message Service. If you Agreements. understand what LOL means, then you’ve already Social Media Agreements encountered this language. Social media agreements are BTW (by the way) LOL means a great way for foster “laughing out loud.” families, social workers, birth families and youth to talk Text messaging or texting is a about how youth will use form of communication between cell phones over social media. Here is an example of a family social cell phone networks. Texting also uses the SMS media agreement. language and is extremely popular. Many people find texting quicker and more effective than Foster Care and Social Media Questions talking. Many foster parents have asked if there are any specific things that they should know about social Video and picture sharing websites like YouTube, media, networking and texting. While these Flickr and Photobucket let account users upload topics are not specifically written in the videos and pictures from various electronic Wisconsin Foster Care Handbook or Chapter 56 devices like cell phones, cameras and video Foster Home Care for Children, there are a few recorders. YouTube is a public website, and users basic principles that foster families should apply. are allowed to watch videos without having an Here are a few frequently asked questions: account. To post something on YouTube, however, you need to an account, and that allows you to How should I maintain confidentiality about the control privacy settings. YouTube videos can also be youth placed in my home on social networking shared and cross-posted on other websites. websites like Facebook? As a licensed foster parent, you must always Twitter is a social networking service that allows maintain confidentiality about any youth placed users to provide small updates, messages or in your home and their family. This means that entries using less than 140 characters using the pictures and any information about the youth SMS text language. The messages, once posted, placed in your home and their family should never are called “tweets.” Twitter also allows users to be posted or written anywhere others have access cross-post and share on other websites. to that information. This is especially important online for social media Forums and message boards provide places on Continued on page 3 6682 West Greenfield, Suite 310 Milwaukee, WI 53214 800-762-8063 © 2010 In partnership with: [email protected] The 411 on Social Media, Networking and Texting, continued Page 3 and social networking sites like Facebook. (For ever before. For most of our youth, this more about confidentiality, refer to the technology has become a part of their daily Wisconsin Foster Parent Handbook, Chapter 2, culture, and social media plays a big role in their page 8.) life as they learn how to develop relationships and their identity. If a youth in care owns a cell phone and/or portable gaming device before they came to my Johnnie says, “When my niece got into some home, can they use those items all the time in my mischief while on CrossFire, my gut reaction was home? to restrict all internet and cell phone use. But her If a youth owns something like a cell phone or social skills aren’t very good, and I actually found handheld gaming device, those items belong to myself encouraging her to go on Facebook so the youth and may not be damaged or destroyed. that she could be ‘friends’ with the people at school and not be so isolated. They tend to ignore The Wisconsin Foster Parent Handbook says, “If her at school, but Facebook is a kinder environment foster parents have concerns about a child’s choice in some respects.” in music, clothing or other recreational or personal items, they should discuss the situation with the Johnnie goes on to say that she was able to use child’s caseworker.” the CrossFire incident as a “teachable moment.” Are youth in care allowed to have e-mail, Some foster parents say a surprising bonus is Facebook accounts, blogs or YouTube accounts? being able to connect with their kids’ birth Yes, youth in care are able to have online parents. “It’s been great!” says one parent. “They accounts as long as they meet the minimum didn’t respond to voice mail and emails, but they guidelines for the website. However, foster always text me right back. I use AOL’s instant parents don’t have to provide accessibility to the messenger for my computer to text their phones, internet in their home. Many parents have opted to and I get the texts back on my computer.” set up specific rules and guidelines about internet access for youth in their home. Even though we adults may not “get it,” the technology available today will be the building A youth placed in my home is posting pictures blocks for future applications and social media and information about himself on a social interfaces. networking website. Is this allowed? Yes, youth in care are allowed to post pictures and information about themselves anywhere and anytime they want. Youth in care do not have to The Coalition for Children, Youth & follow the confidentiality guidelines that licensed Families is on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, and foster parents need to, except when it pertains Instagram.