JULY 1992 Volume 4 Number 9 IMPRESSIONS of TLC #5 (Dallas) SALGA's NEW BOARD Bylamuymuy SALGA's New Board Consists of Five Prior Board Members and Eight New Members
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Published by the Womens Community of San Antonio JULY 1992 Volume 4 Number 9 IMPRESSIONS OF TLC #5 (Dallas) SALGA'S NEW BOARD byLaMuyMuy SALGA's new board consists of five prior board members and eight new members. Bringing prior SALGA FRIDAY NIGHT: Arrive about 8 pm. First thing you notice board experience to this new board are Gerald Aves (Co even the elevator is entertaining! Good representation from S.A. Chair), Jan Olsen (Co-Chair), Steve Bailey (Treasurer), Melissa's "Like the Way I Do· is being belted out by Sandy & Linda Pritchard, and Graciela Sanchez. The new perspec Renee in the hoters bar. My mind trips out-what if we took over tive will be from Jeanne McLeod (Minutes Secretary), Liz the whole world? KATE CLINTON-LIVE-at Dick's Last Resort. Hicks (Correspondence Secretary), Bill Goodman, Emily k.d. lang's latest fashions, now available at K-Mart (Not .. ). French, Michael Marinez, Karen Whitney, and Bernice Anything seems possible when you're at TLC. Williams. The board is very excited and looking forward to SATURDAY; What an age spectrum! Hooray tor Vera, who working closer and doing more outreach activities with came out at 50 and has 4 great grandchildren, and Jenna, who SA's community. took her girlfriend to Homecoming. Board meetings are held on the first Monday of every Emma Perez, first keynote, is downright dashing in her brown month at 7:15p.m. at Esperanza Peace and Justice suit, tie and wire rims-with-an-attitude. One of the few Chicana Center. You are welcome to attend these meetings. We Ph.D.'s in the country, she knows about struggle. She look forward to having more active participation from the suggests that, in order to survive with some sanity intact, we stop simply reacting to attacks upon us and begin creating our ·community. I will begin an effort to keep an open line of own reality. ·smos y lenguas•-a space and language just for us communication between SALGA and WomanSpace -will empower us as women/lesbians/Chicanasletc. We can readers. SALGA's directions and board meeting summa celebrate each person's story, realizing that no one individual ries will be reported through this column. can speak for any group as a whole. Reading an excerpt from If you have any questions. please contact me (829-5157) •Gulf Dreams: she iS in her lover's womb, -where you give birth or one of the board member~. We look forward to serving to me daily. • Deliciously woman-oriented stuff. you. After ODing on group energy, I retire to the room with a friend, . Liz Hicks emerging later in her rainbow tie-dye pants and black shoes. I carry her shoes' lighthearted spirit into my afternoon work shops. From the 'Lesbian Mothers' session, Iteam: a) get a good lawyer before you dust off the turkey baster for insemi nation; and b) come out to your kids while you're still bigger than they are. The 'Playwriting' workshop teaches me: a) It takes at least (gulp!) 2 years to write something better than schlock; and b) give specifiC casting instructions if you don't want straight P.O. BOX 12614 people playing all the parts. SAN ANTONIO, TX 78212 I find my friend in the room afterward, her eyes as big as the blue plate special. •1 just looked.at a woman's cervix ... and felt her uterus ... : she gasps. At least my shoes got to attend the menstrual extraction workshop. Hey, Fraulein, don't point that WANTED: SALGA CONFERENCE RESPONSES speculum my way! Shouldn't you have a license to carry that thing? Our other roommate flees in terror. I've been at many workshops and conferences where I SATURDAY NIGHT: Concert time! Kate Clinton recalls the pre neglected to fill out their evaluation form requesting feedback. I tampon era when sanitary napkin belts ruled the day. Just try to won't be doing that again. I now realize the importance of that secure a napkin in the metal clasp without getting a few pubies feedback to the planning committee. The next conference can stuck ...impossible. She also imagines lesbian-technology-of be made even better with your suggestions and comments. the-future: homing devices and stun guns. You track down We had 170+ individuals in attendance at SALGA's Creating your ex with the device and stun her new lover long enough to Community Conference '92. There were 17 workshops, 12 ask, -why is mwearing the sweater 1gave you?• all without Community Fair tables, and an excellent attendance at the breaking the law. A side-splitting evening, to be sure. Community Fair. Positive evaluation response centered on the SUNDAY, 2 am: Dancing the Cotton-eyed Joe at the Desert two things participants liked the most. First, having the confer Moon. What do I think I am, the Energizer Bunny? ence; and second, the speakers. We definitely got excellent SUNDAY, 11 :30 am: I show up in a zombie-like state to the constructive criticism. It seems there was not enough advertise brunch. Over 500 women attended ll.C thiS year, Laurie ment nor the opportunity to attend more of the workshops. I know EiSerloh was speaking, and they served eggs. That's all 1 the next conference committee will keep these things in mind. remember. Fraulein kindly offers to help drive home. 1friSk her If there are any additional comments regarding the conference for concealed specula. Reality takes over, mile by mile. Til next call me, Liz, at 829-5157. Thank you again for vour support. year in Houston-hope to run into you on the elevator .... Dear WomanSpace, The June WomanSpace issue resulted in numerous phone It is may understanding that the publication policy of calls, letters, discussion and much soul-searching, both WornanSpace gives priority to dated material and accepts individually and as the Collective. the rest on a space available basis. Does this mean that as Beginning with the 1992 August issue, WomanSpace policy long as there is the space, anonymous letters filled with will be: any submission that harmfully targets an individual or slanderous and hateful words wUI be published? What do organization will require full name and a phone number for the we really mean by no censorship? Doesn't the community purpose of verification before consideration for publication. have a right to establish boundaries? We strive be a channel for all voices within the community. to Until we take responsibility for our own anger, disappoint· WomanSpace reserves the right to determine application of our ments hatred, and prejudice, there wiH be no JUSTICE. As editorial policy. long as I give others or one person the power to defeat me, personal and community victory is minimized. I believe that LETTERS TO THE EDITOR: WomaoSpace continues to play a significant role in the birth, growth, and development of the women's community in San Antonio. The publication of the letter by J.D. has raised difficult questions about how to effectively promote health, Dear Womanspace, victory, enthusiasm, and strength in community without shutting ourselves off from one another. Some musings, observations, a parable: There are many opportunities this month (June) to come I'm very interested in a research center in Virginia called together to find solutions. I am challenged by WomaoSpace Perelan<:ta It's a garden aeated by a woman in partner· to become more involved, to begin believing that what I do ship with nature spirits. The basic theory is that all life is matters. If we each can find two women to hold hands with, connected and wants to work together for the ALL we form our part of the circle and the process continues until GOOD. we are completely united. As my mind meandered around that premise, I wonder Lee Triplett ed, "How would fire ants react to love, understanding, and respect?" After all, you don't even have to kick their Dear Anonymous, hHis to be bitten. The unprovoked attack is common. It's WHERE DO YOU GET OFF CRITICIZING ANOTHER a challenge not to take such attacks personally. PERSON'S LIFESTYLE? Why don't you have the courage Thin< how the fire ant must fear death and destruction. to sign your name? It thinks its way of life and value systems may be under I do not personally know Maren so I am not defending her attack. Whether your foot ever actually distt.J'bs the nest but rather her right as a human being to live as she chooses. or not, it reacts. Remember my theory that tear is at the First let me enlighten you a bit. (1) Without a permanent root of anger? Or ... perhaps the little critters are just address no one can receive public assistance. (2) If she is re ignorant and they don't know that we all have a place in tired military she is now earning a well deserved military this world. retirement check. She served 20 years for our country while Then again, perhaps they're just nasty little insects and receiving no so hot pay, substandard medicine, fear of should be avoided. At any rate, I'll continue to try the being exposed, and traveling papers whenever Uncle Sam 'love, understanding, and respect' approach. saw fit to move her. (3) An RV is .oot_a car. She obviously has Peace and Love! a comfortable bed, facilities tor food storage, a toilet, and Maren possibly running water. So you see, she actually does have a pot to piss in! (4) Since when is the standard for happiness a "lovely" home and a "new model" car? (5) She does work.