the Jewish bserver www.jewishobservernashville.org Vol. 84 No. 1 • January 2019 24 Tevet-25 Sh’vat 5779 Gordon JCC Parghs’ generosity to benefit staffer lends community for generations to come a hand in By KATHY CARLSON The Temple, Congregation Sherith Israel, Hadassah and others to keep serv- ears ago, a couple of high school stu- ing the Jewish community. Pittsburgh dents walked into the Young Men’s “My father always had a sense of By DANIEL CHRISTMAS YHebrew Association in downtown remembering people who were kind to Aquatics Director Nashville. One had just moved here with him growing up,” the Parghs’ older son, Gordon Jewish Community Center his family from Oklahoma, where their Bernard Pargh, said. “He enjoyed giving. retail stores had gone out of business in It really made him feel connected to the he city of Pittsburgh recently went the Great Depression. His mother had community.” through a horrible experience family in Nashville, so it seemed like a “The biggest part of my Dad’s reason Twith the Oct. 27 fatal shootings good place to live. for giving was the generosity shown to at the Tree of Life The newcomer, Eugene Pargh, liked him when he was young and could not congregation. The what he saw at the YMHA: basket- afford much,” said their daughter, Linda Pittsburgh Jewish ball court, tables for card games, people Pargh Mossman. “But he found a home Community Center socializing. He wanted to join, and the at the YMHA. They allowed him mem- is right around the director asked what he could pay. Maybe bership when he did not have much and corner from the 50 cents or a dollar a month, he replied. it gave him a place to go when he was a congregation and “They still allowed me to become a teenager. He never forgot the kindness it’s a hub of the member,” Mr. Pargh said 75-plus years shown to him then.” Jewish communi- later, quoted in The Observer when “They basically gave him a scholar- ty in the Squirrel he and his wife, Madeline, z”l, were ship, and that changed the course of his Hill neighborhood. being honored by the Jewish Federation Madeline and Eugene Pargh are shown life,” said Elliot Pinsly, a grandchild. “It After the shootings, Daniel Christmas and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and in this family photograph. PHOTOGRAPH was a defining moment for him.” the JCC acted as a hub not only for the Middle Tennessee. “They made me feel SUBMITTED BY BERNARD PARGH “The Gordon JCC is incredibly community, but for the crisis. welcomed even though I couldn’t pay the as in Florida, where they spent their later fortunate to be one of the beneficia- For three weeks the Pittsburgh JCC dues. I’ve never forgotten that.” years. The Parghs’ legacy is enabling ries of the unprecedented generosity of was ground zero for family members Eugene and Madeline Pargh have the Gordon Jewish Community Center Madeline and Eugene Pargh and family,” waiting to hear about their loved ones, passed on, but their generous spirit con- (which began as the Nashville YMHA), said Frank Gordon, president of the JCC. mourners, police, FBI, and others. In this tinues to support Jewish life here as well the Jewish Federation, Akiva School, Continued on page 9 extremely difficult time, the Pittsburgh JCC turned to a new program of the JCC Association of North America, JResponse. Make a difference with Mission Possible JCCA envisioned JResponse as a on’t miss the Mission Possible Mission Possible to the overseas mis- Axelroth, and Micah and Erin Coleman way to help JCCs in times of need from bus – actually buses – and the sions that Nashville community members There’s no cost to participate. natural or man-made disasters. JCCs in opportunity to experience Jewish have joined, such as last fall’s mission to There’s an expectation, however, that need could turn to JResponse teams of D Nashville like never before on Sunday Morocco and Israel. “If you’ve been on participants will make an investment in professionals from fellow JCCs who were afternoon, Jan. 27. a Federation mission overseas to learn the Jewish community as a household willing and able to assist. About JResponse “It will be an active experience,” what Federation does, go on Mission in the 2019 annual campaign of at least says Joel Abramson, financial resource Possible to see what Federation does to a dollar a day, or $365 for the year. The At its conception, no one envisioned development officer with the Jewish meet needs here.” Jewish Federation is asking that those that JResponse would have to be used in Federation and Jewish Foundation of “This is your chance to really see under age 40 commit to at least half that the wake of a tragic shooting. After the Nashville and Middle Tennessee. “We’re how you as a donor make a definite amount. People who have already made shootings, the Pittsburgh JCC and the really excited because we’re going to be impact to create change in our Jewish their 2019 pledge also can participate in community were in great need. JCCs showing our community firsthand exactly community,” Abramson says. He calls Mission Possible. across the nation were asked if they had how their donations impact the Jewish it tangible philanthropy – a way for Child care will be provided at no staff who could help. Last November and community of Nashville and beyond.” participants to learn by doing. Those on charge, but please let organizers know in December, JResponse team members came Mission Possible participants “are Mission Possible will learn about ways to advance. RSVP to joel@jewishnashville. to Pittsburgh on Fridays and Mondays to going to get to see their Federation gift volunteer within the community. org. You can register online at jewish- work a full day and allow staff members in action,” he says. They’ll engage with Participants will meet at the Gordon nashville.org/missionpossible . • at the Pittsburgh JCC to take a day off, 10 different Jewish agencies. Every stop Jewish Community Center and board a break, or have another person around has a hands-on experience in which par- buses that will take participants around Join One Incredible to help them with their assignments at ticipants will learn and volunteer, with town to “experience Jewish Nashville a tough time when they were mentally, Community on refreshments along the way, he said. like never before.” There will be are three physically, and emotionally tired. Tzedakah Tzunday, Jewish Federation Assistant buses, each with its own bus captains: Continued on page 10 Executive Director Naomi Sedek likens Jason and Abby Sparks, Tara and Brian See page 5

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2 January 2019 The Observer Downtown Nashville lights up for Chanukah

Cantor Tracy Fishbein of The Temple, Cantorial Soloist Lisa Silver of Congregation Micah and Cantor Sarah Levine of West End Synagogue provide Chanukah harmonies for the Menorah lighting on Dec. 3 in the public square downtown. PHOTOGRAPH BY METRO Children from the Revere Jewish Montessori Preschool at Chabad of Nashville sing at NASHVILLE PHOTOGRAPHER MICHAEL W. BUNCH the public square. PHOTOGRAPH BY METRO NASHVILLE PHOTOGRAPHER MICHAEL W. BUNCH

Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel of Chabad of Nashville and Rabbi Flip Rice of Congregation Micah at the ninth annual Jewish Heritage Night at Bridgestone Arena on Dec. 3, when Rabbi Saul Strosberg, right, speaks at the Menorah lighting at the public square on the Predators beat the Buffalo Sabres 2-1. Dec. 3. PHOTOGRAPH BY METRO NASHVILLE PHOTOGRAPHER MICHAEL W. BUNCH PAC seminars take the mystery out of legacies By KATHY CARLSON The PAC offers community mem- the person creating the portfolio. People asking whether the client trusts and feels bers educational tools to take the next differ in their appetite for risk, the type of comfortable with the advisor and Pulley here’s no one-size-fits-all finan- step: formalizing their commitments to lifestyle they prefer and the type of legacy indicating that being a certified financial cial plan; everyone is different, make these gifts. The PAC includes pro- they want to leave; these three factors planner is a plus. Tso financial plans should reflect fessionals in accounting, law, tax, estate will shape the appropriate portfolio. The evening was worthwhile and each person’s goals, values and financial planning, life insurance, and invest- Dodd covered the background finan- provided a good review of information, circumstances. ments, providing networking opportuni- cial information a person should gather said Neill Smith, attending with his These are two of the down-to-earth ties to the professionals and information before setting up an investment portfolio. wife, Ruth. They plan to attend future messages being shared in seminars to those attending seminars. There is no He urged attendees to take a detailed and seminars. offered by the Professional Advisory charge to attend. scrupulously honest look at their financ- Upcoming seminars will be held at Council (PAC) that supports the LIFE The most recent PAC seminar, held es, saying that defining reality was the the Gordon JCC from 7-8:30 p.m. and & LEGACY™ program of the Jewish on Dec. 17, covered financial planning in first goal of a financial advisor. will cover the following topics: Federation and Jewish Foundation of a format of brief presentations followed by He also offered a list of things to • Jan. 29: Estate Planning and Nashville and Middle Tennessee, in questions and answers to a panel of pro- do to prepare for retirement, including Philanthropy – What’s the partnership with the Harold Grinspoon fessionals. Presenters were Adam Dretler, gathering accurate information on assets Connection, with presenters Marty Foundation. The PAC is supported by the senior vice president, asset management, and liabilities, income and expenses, and Satinsky, David Heller and Rachel Joe Kraft Professional Advisory Program with Diversified Trust, and John Dodd, becoming debt-free by retirement. Schaffer Lawson, along with panelist Fund housed at the Jewish Federation private wealth adviser with Ronald Blue Pulley also talked about reducing Chris Brown. and Jewish Foundation. Trust. Eva Pulley, senior manager, tax taxes and prudent ways to make with- • Feb. 28: Legacy Options – Life Two PAC seminars have been held services with KraftCPAs PLLC, partici- drawals from savings. She and Dretler insurance, IRAs, bequests, with pre- so far, beginning in November 2018 with pated in the panel discussion. Moderator talked about determining how to deal senters Michael Levine and Rodney wills, power of attorney and trusts, fol- was David Heller, an attorney with the with financial downturns by looking at Rosenblum, along with panelists lowed by financial planning in December. Nashville law firm Martin Heller Potempa where a budget might be cut. Ralph Levy and Eva Pulley. Additional sessions are scheduled for & Sheppard, PLLC. All three offered ideas on how to Go to www.jewishnashville.org/ Tuesday, Jan. 29, and Thursday, Feb. 28. Both Dretler and Dodd emphasized choose a financial advisor. Dodd suggest- waystogive/life-and-legacy for more LIFE & LEGACY™ was developed the importance of tailoring financial ed asking how the advisor is paid, Dretler details. • to help Jewish organizations and con- plans to each client’s individual values, gregations assure their financial futures preferences, current situation and toler- LIFE & LEGACY™ participating organizations through a systematic plan for community ance for risk. members to commit to and set up legacy The purpose of an investment port- Thirteen Nashville congregations and Jewish organizations participate in LIFE & gifts. It debuted in Nashville in May folio is to help sustain a specific lifestyle LEGACY™: Akiva School, BBYO Nashville, Chabad of Nashville, Congregation 2017 and so far, more than 250 people and specific legacy, Dretler said. What Micah, Gordon Jewish Community Center, Hadassah Nashville Chapter, Jewish have committed to leave after lifetime makes a portfolio successful is not wheth- Family Service, Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation, NCJW Nashville gifts to participating organizations in the er it achieves a specific benchmark rate of Section, Congregation Sherith Israel, The Temple, West End Synagogue and Nashville Jewish community. return, but whether it meets the goals of Vanderbilt Hillel. The Observer January 2019 3 Community Relations Communiqué Yes, Virginia, bipartisanship is still possible

By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY Community Relations Director Q&A: Recognizing, reporting anti-Semitism, hate any of us are weary of the “poli- Information compiled tics” over policy that has plagued by DEBORAH OLESHANSKY Mour local and national govern- ments for years. The blame game is What is considered anti-Semitic activity? exhausting, demoralizing and worst of Anti-Semitic activity includes all, ineffective and unproductive. So, it overt acts or expressions of anti-Jewish came as very welcome news to many when bigotry and hostility. Many incidents the U.S. Senate passed a criminal justice are not crimes. Activity is generally reform bill in an 87-12 vote. 87-12! categorized as: The Jewish Public Affairs Council, • Expression - written or verbal com- of which our local Community Relations munication by groups or individuals, Committee is a member, is among the including public, elected, or religious national groups supporting these crim- figures, including publicly or private- inal justice reforms. The bill, known ly directed letters, phone conversa- as the First Step Act, will take modest tions, articles, speeches, e-mail or steps to alter the federal criminal justice other Internet communication system and ease very punitive prison • Vandalism - desecration, vandalism, sentences at the federal level. The spon- or other criminal activity against sors included both Rep. Hakeem Jeffries, property D-N.Y., AND Sen. Chuck Grassley, • Harassment, threats and assaults - R-Iowa. Say what? directed at individuals or institutions If you missed the “good news” of • Discrimination - employment, edu- this bipartisan victory, it may be due cation, housing, or organizational to the other breaking news that same membership week: potential government shutdown, • Hate group activity - rallies, recruit- sudden U.S. withdrawal from Syria, and ment, or other activities organized or the resignation of Defense Secretary sponsored by groups such as the Ku James Mattis. In his resignation letter, Klux Klan or other white suprema- Secretary Mattis writes: cist groups “One core belief I have always held These are not exhaustive or exclusive. is that our strength as a nation is inex- We encourage you to report all inci- tricably linked to the strength of our dences. unique and comprehensive system of alli- Reporting Incidents of Hate: ances and partnerships. While the U.S. Absolutely no one should be treated remains the indispensable nation in the unfairly because of religion, race, eth- free world, we cannot protect our inter- nicity, gender, sexual orientation, gen- ests or serve that role effectively without der identity, national origin or disabili- maintaining strong alliances and showing ty. Even if you feel your particular case respect to those allies.” or the case you have witnessed requires Alliances and partnerships are crit- no further action, having a written ical not only to our national security, record helps with statistical tracking of but for all efforts toward creating a just, such incidents by local and national law secure, and prosperous society. The enforcement and advocacy agencies: mission of the Community Relations • Notify the school or business where Committee of the Jewish Federation the incident took place. Try to give as and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and much detail as possible regarding the Middle Tennessee includes the follow- incident. Provide any documentation ing: “work to build positive respectful you may have and photographs if interfaith and intercultural relationships there is graffiti or vandalism. and remaining informed and ready to • File a police report. This can be speak out or support others in our com- done by you, your child’s school or munity who may be threatened by injus- business establishment where the tice.” Most experts agree: Ongoing rela- incident occurred. tionships and mutually beneficial part- nerships are the best way to address a When hate strikes, it is easy to feel myriad of concerns, including anti-Sem- isolated. In addition to the ADL, we itism and other forms of divisiveness have strong local support: and hate. • Jewish Federation and Jewish Hopefully, 2019 will include more Foundation of Nashville and Middle bipartisan victories that benefit our local, Tennessee: The CRC is equipped state and national communities. There to advocate on your behalf and pro- are many committed to this goal, includ- vide additional resources as needed ing the Bipartisan Policy Center, a non- for schools and businesses. Please profit organization that combines the contact Director of Community best ideas from both parties to promote Relations Deborah Oleshansky at health, security, and opportunity for all (615) 354-1637 Americans. BPC drives principled and • Jewish professionals – Jewish Family politically viable policy solutions through Service licensed counselors, engaged the power of rigorous analysis, painstak- Jewish educators and dynamic cler- ing negotiation, and aggressive advocacy. gy, Nashville’s Jewish professionals The late U.S. Senator from Tennessee, are here to support you and your Howard Baker, was among the founders family. Let them know what hap- of this group, Bipartisanpolicy.org • pened and what you need. 4 January 2019 The Observer Sharing With Sharon Judaism, yoga, yoda: Is there a connection? By SHARON BEN AMI focus in my life. This connection to yoga focuses on core muscles, strength and “perfect” because there is always room Community Shlicha is apparently not unique to me. Yoga mobility. More so, yoga also attempts for growth in your practice. is one of the most popular recreational to combine spiritual and body work There are also core differences that was born to a traditional Jewish fam- activities in Israel. Strolling down the together. one should consider like Judaism putting ily in Jerusalem. At home we did the streets of main cities like Tel Aviv and Intention: G-D in the center, and man as the wor- IKiddush every Friday night and the yes, Jerusalem, you may find a variety of The Ramban (Rabbi Moshe Ben shiper that devotes his life to serve G-D. high holidays were yoga studios, some of them are unique Nachman) said : In yoga, the man is in the center and the practice is a tool to complete him and “והסר כל דברי העולם מלבך בעת celebrated to the best to Israel like ‘Yoda’− a spiritual yoga for connect to the divine. In Judaism the תפילה, והכן לבך לפני המקום ברוך of the tradition. As an woman, based on principles from the concept is of G-D that is much bigger הוא וטהר רעיונך.. ותפילתך תהיה זכה .Israeli, my everyday Kabala than man and the human experience that וברה ונקייה ומכוונת ומקובלת לפני life revolved around The popularity of yoga in Israel and we may never understand. The question המקום ברוך הוא “ Judaism through the the attempts of many to connect it to calendar, education, Judaism makes one ponder- is there a “..Remove all the words of the world of Judaism and yoga has been discussed friends, family and connection between yoga and Judaism? from your heart during prayer, and among Rabbis in Israel, and their general much more. Due to Sharon Ben Ami To be honest I had no idea, so I did some prepare your heart before G-D, and suggestion is that yoga is fine if practiced the way Judaism was immersed in my research, and I found a few connecting purify your mind ... and your prayer as a physical tool just so long as it does not life, I grew up with a strong sense of dots between the two: will be pure and clear and deliberate become a spiritual tool. Jewish identity, but as I matured I need- Body & soul: and acceptable before G-D” In this era of access to global culture ed to redefine myself from a free (from The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe Ben This passage suggests the idea of and information, new-age and the need intention. The Hebrew of self-definition, people are trying to /כוונה/”parents, may they live to 120) place. Maimon), who is known as one of the “kavanah I went on exploring my Jewish identi- greatest rabbis, a doctor, scientist, phi- definition of the word is one’s inner find their own way and in the attempt ty and challenging it. As I began my losopher and more, wrote a lot about the thought, which motivates him/her to to do so, movements like “Yoda” arise “Jewrney,” I did not need to travel far body and soul connection: perform certain actions. In Judaism, it to maintain the Jewish identity. Since is of great importance to set intentions Israel is the Jewish country, it showcases “הואיל והיות הגוף בריא ושלם מדרכי but simply open my eyes to find multiple before and during prayers, during mitzv- a wide variety of Jewish identities that השם הוא, שהרי אי אפשר שיבין או ידע hybrid Jew-ish identities all around the ot, and even before performing negative for some reason has no need to rename דבר מידיעת הבורא והוא חולה “ ,Israeli streets. Seventy faces to Torah said Rabbi Abraham Ibn Ezra? Well, how “Since the body is naturally healthy deeds. In prayer the challenge is to that identity. Yoda for example, is not about millions? and whole, one can’t possibly under- concentrate on prayer and prevent other an identity, but a practice and the aver- Overwhelmed and confused, I faced stand or know the ways of the creator thoughts from passing through the mind. age Israelis simply define themselves as the question − what Judaism means if he is sick” Similarly, yoga aims to set intentions ‘Jews’ even if they consider themselves to me? After exploring, accepting and There is much to learn from the and create clarity of mind through medi- atheists. Israel is the perfect embodiment rejecting some Jewish values, I redefined Rambam’s writings, but a part of his leg- tation, breathing and mantras. of Judaism as a culture, way of life and myself as “spiritual” but always as a Jew. acy is the concept of the body as a tool Tikun: values. You see it in the calendar, educa- A spiritual Jew, Nothing new (I just and treating it with respect. One needs a In Judaism and in yoga there is a tional system, the way the army handles had to get that rhyme in). Through my strong body in order to contain a strong constant work of observing and correct- itself (Yes, I still believe that the IDF is Jewrney, I collected non-Jewish practices soul. If the body is aching, in impairs the ing, which in Hebrew we call tikun, a the most moral army in the world) and that I integrated into my daily life; one of soul and the relationship with G-D our key principle in Judaism. It deals with with Hebrew as the formal language. them is yoga. What had started as a “doc- creator. The Rambam insisted that in the purification of the qualities of the And yes, Israel has many faults, just like tor’s orders” for back pain, has grown to order to have a strong body, one must soul and the improvement of one’s feel- I do, just like you do, but it is tikun that a way to connect with myself and regain take care of his own self by eating right ings, in order to make a whole and better we are all here for. and working out. What better way to do person. There is always room for tikun So with the new calendar year, c c c c so than yoga, a low-impact activity that − for someone to work on their soul, I wish Israel and us all, the best road STAFF thoughts and actions. toward tikun. • In yoga one might practice the same Eric Stillman Publisher Corrections Policy position for his entire life, observing and Please contact me for any comments Editor Kathy Carlson The Jewish Observer is committed to correcting, deepening the position and or ideas you would like to share: sharon@ Advertising Manager Carrie Mills making corrections and clarifications perfecting it − without ever reaching jewishnashville.org Layout and Production Tim Gregory promptly. To request a correction or clarification, email editor@ Editorial Board Frank Boehm (chair), jewishnashville.org Barbara Dab, Greg Goldberg, Join One Incredible Community Scott Rosenberg, Liz Foster

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@ The Temple @ West End

W.E.L.L Celebrates Tu B’shvat Intro to Judaism Part II with Rabbi Kullock

The Temple’s W.E.L.L (Women Engaged in Living and Learning) marks Tu Offered in partnership with the Miller Introduction to Judaism Program of the B’shvat on Sunday, Jan. 20, at 12:30 p.m. Come with a Tu B’shvat-inspired dish to American Jewish University, these classes represent the second half of a course of share. Live. Laugh. Participate in a Mitzvah bake. Please RSVP to Mitzie Russell at study aimed at providing a thorough understanding and knowledge of the basic (615) 352-7620 ideas, practices and traditions of the Jewish people. The course will be taught by Rabbi Joshua Kullock and will be held on Sundays, from Jan. 6 through May 5, from 9:30-11 a.m. Golden Lunch Bunch in January Class cost is $36 for members and $180 for nonmembers. Call Linda Sisselman to register at (615) 269-4592, ext. 12, or email linda@ The Golden Lunch Bunch meets on Tuesday, Jan. 15, at 11:30 a.m. westendsyn.org. Save the date: Shabbat for children and friends

Come help us celebrate Shabbat on Saturday, Jan. 19, at 10 a.m. This is especially for children up to 6 years old and the big people who love them! We’ll have songs, crafts, a story, and yummy treats. @ Micah Social Q’s, Jewish Views: Etiquette and Ethics Tables of Content with Megan Barry Social Q’s and Jewish Views: Modern Etiquette and Timeless Ethics will be held on Sunday, Jan. 20, from 10-11 a.m. at Congregation Micah. Memory, Healing and Forgiveness: Losing Max -- Former Nashville mayor Megan It’s a program of interactive discussions led by Rabbi Mark Schiftan and Rabbi Barry will speak on the opioid crisis in America on Friday, Jan. 11, at 6 p.m. Laurie Rice of Congregation Micah. We will take actual columns from the Sunday New York Times Style Section and compare and contrast the situational questions asked and dilemmas posed -- and the answers offered in response. Micah, Akiva School co-sponsor Tools for Life

A parenting class for those with early childhood and elementary age kids, co-spon- Minyan on the Move sored by Congregation Micah and Akiva School. This month’s session, set for Sunday, Jan. 13, from 10:15-11:45 a.m., is titled “Helping My Child Learn To Self Regulate: It Join us in the MLK March on Monday, Jan. 21. Please call The Temple for details. Starts With Me.” Crafternoon at The Temple A Woman’s Circle to take place on Jan. 18

Come join the Caring Connection Committee one Sunday a month for an after- A monthly opportunity to grow your soul, meet with other women and engage with noon of fun, creativity and a way to give back to our congregation. sacred text. January’s session takes place on Friday, Jan. 18. Rabbi Laurie challenges Our first Crafternoon will be on Sunday, Jan. 13 from 1-4 p.m. Come for as long as your intellect through study and conversation on Jewish and other relevant topics. All you wish. We’ll have a craft each month (handmade note cards, knitting hats, blankets, are welcome. Bring a friend. Lunch is provided. RSVP to Rabbi Laurie Rice at lrice@ etc.) for people to work on together, or you can bring your own project to work on. congregationmicah.org Refreshments will be served. We look forward to crafting with you! Shabbat Shaband, Nashville in Harmony

Join us for a special service on Friday, Jan. 18, and enjoy the sound of traditional instruments as our Shabbat band accompanies song and prayer under the leadership of @ Sherith Israel Lisa Silver, as well as performances by Nashville in Harmony. Weekly WINE-down begins at 5:30 p.m., service at 6:00 p.m. Resolve to join Macabeenies play group in ’19 Social Q’s and Jewish Views This fun, casual Sunday morning play group for infants through preschool-age kids is a great way for kids to have fun, and parents to connect. We’ll sing, dance, bounce, Interactive discussions, led by Rabbi Laurie Rice and Rabbi Mark Schiftan of The play in the ball pit, and more! Free and open to the entire community, at Sherith Israel, Temple, will explore modern etiquette and timeless ethics. Program will be presented 3600 West End Ave., 10-11 a.m., on the first and third Sundays of the month, January on Sunday, Jan. 20, from 10-11 a.m. at Congregation Micah. 6 and 20. We will take columns from the Sunday New York Times style section and com- pare and contrast the situational questions asked and dilemmas posed — and the answers offered in response — with Jewish values and teachings developed over the Cholent cook-off Shabbat set for Jan. 12 centuries. Join us for a cholent cook-off during kiddush following Shabbat services. As the tastes, smells, and textures of this quintessential Shabbat food bring us together, they also Room in the Inn – Sunday, Jan. 20 bring out our competitive side! Come taste, schmooze, and judge with us on January 12. Room in the Inn is a national program that provides food and shelter for the home- Women’s Tefillah Service in the chapel less in houses of worship throughout participating cities in the United States. Help us prepare food, serve the evening meal, set up the sleeping area or overnight Read Torah, get an Aliyah, lead prayers, or just join to add ruach (spirit!) to as hosts with our guests. To volunteer, sign up on our website via our Social Action the Women’s Tefillah Service, set for Saturday, Jan. 12, at 10:30 a.m. in the chapel. Projects page. Contact Cara at [email protected] if you’d like to take part in a formal part of the service (first-timers warmly welcomed!). Interfaith concert: What Can Tanach Teach Me? Michael Hunter Ochs and Alaa Alshaham Tuesday nights with Torah Mitzion This free concert is open to the whole community and takes place on Tuesday, Jan. 22, from 6:30-8:30 p.m. It celebrates the friendship and connection between the Join Rabbi Eitan Bar-Or for this free class exploring issues in Tanach, held on Muslim and Jewish community in Middle Tennessee. Tuesday nights at 7 p.m. See the Shabbos in Shul newsletter or email csi3600@com- The event is sponsored by Circle of Friends and hosted at Congregation Micah. cast.net for the address. Fellowship afterward with desserts and beverages.

6 January 2019 The Observer Congregational News & Events

@ Chabad ‘Spice It Up’ Tu B’Shvat party Chabad of Nashville presents Spice It Up! Join us for this Tu B’shvat Seder on Sunday, Jan. 20, at 7 p.m. Tu B’Shvat ushers in the New Year for the trees, nature and Scholar in Residence weekend all of G-d’s bountiful blessings with a fruity nightcap of your own design with Sharon Ben-Ami, community shlicha with the Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of features TV reporter Nashville and Middle Tennessee. The evening will include a tasting of the seven species that the land of Israel has Television news reporter Rosh Lowe of WSVN Channel 7 been blessed with, including the pomegranate, the date and fig, the grape and olive, and CEO of Mic Drop will be visiting Nashville as a scholar in res- wheat and barley. Come enjoy a tasting of various wines from Israel and a most inspiring idence on the weekend of Jan. 11-13 at Chabad of Nashville. He and rejuvenating evening. is an award-winning journalist who has been breaking big stories There is no charge to attend this event; however kindly RSVP at www.chabad- for Miami’s FOX affiliate WSVN for 15 years and has scored some nashville.com/spiceitup of the most memorable exclusives in South Florida. Rosh is a veteran of the Broadway theater, appearing in three Broadway shows and numerous professional theatrical produc- BLT – Bagels, lox and Tanya tions. He is also a proud Jew who has inspired thousands speaking about his journey to observant Judaism. Join friends for a morning of bagels, lox and Tanya (Jewish mysticism) on Sunday, Rosh will share his life story as a reporter covering tragedies Jan. 27, at 9:30 a.m. Partake in a delicious spread of bagels, lox, cream cheese, and fresh- Rosh Lowe and his search for spirituality, and how being Orthodox on the sur- ly brewed coffee as you learn from the Holy Book of the Tanya. The lesson is taught face seems to conflict with his career covering the daily tragic events in Miami. Despite by lay leadership, starting with Doug Revere who has been a longtime student of these the unpredictability of world events, he never broadcasts on Shabbat. teachings. Nourish your mind, body and soul with BLT at Chabad of Nashville. “It is tough to see body bags, day after day, and I learned to be accepting of what has become a daily ritual of covering tragedies each day in the news. It forced me to think what is important in life,” said Rosh. Recently Rosh has launched his own public speaking training firm called Mic Nashville’s congregations Drop, which teaches individuals and company employees how to be more articulate when talking about an experience or sharing their views on a topic. Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, Rosh will address a range of topics while at Chabad of Nashville. with information on services, upcoming events and more: On Friday evening, Jan. 11, we will begin with a spirited Kabbalah Shabbat Service that will include song and dance, and followed by a sit-down gourmet Shabbat dinner. Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com Rosh Lowe will be presenting a talk “From Broadway Baby to Keeping Shabbat as a TV Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org Reporter.” Saturday evening, Jan. 12, will be the perfect evening for a night out. The eve- Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com ning will begin at 7:30 p.m. with a mystical Havdalah ceremony, followed by a melava malkah – a Mediterranean dinner to escort the Shabbat Queen for a blessed week. Rosh The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org Lowe will speak on “Finding Faith While Covering Tragedy.” On Sunday, January 13, at 10 a.m., participants will join a Mic Drop session as West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org Rosh leads a talk on “The Art of Public Speaking.” “Nashville is fortunate to have the opportunity to spend a weekend with Rosh Lowe. An articulate and engaging speaker, Rosh has traveled the world inspiring thousands of people to live a most meaningful life,” said Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel with Chabad of Nashville. The weekend is made possible through a grant from the Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. All events are free, though those who want to attend are asked to RSVP at www.chabadnashville.com/Rosh. For more information call (615) 646-5750. Ancient marriage secrets revealed in ‘The Art of Marriage’ course

“The Art of Marriage,” a provocative new series of classes on the secrets of success- ful marriage, will begin on Tuesday, Jan. 15, at the Chabad Center on Bellevue Road. Regardless of marital status, all are invited to attend the four-session course, presented by Chabad of Nashville and taught by Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel. The Art of Marriage will go far beyond platitudes to cover topics at the heart of modern marriage. Does marriage still serve any purpose at all? How far should one go to make a marriage work? When is divorce the best option? Included as well are Jewish secrets, from ancient texts, on how to increase intimacy in marital relationships. “Beautiful, inspiring, but most of all practical,” says Dr. Patricia Love, author of “How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It,” one of Amazon’s top two marriage books. “Whether your marriage is magical or miserable, this vital course is designed for you.” Judaism views a loving marriage as a spiritual as well as a human ideal. “The Art of Marriage” shows students how to attain that for themselves and for their spouses, with timeless lessons from both modern and ancient Jewish texts such as the Talmud and Zohar. GREEN HILLS “Judaism venerates marriage and therefore has a long history of looking to enhance the marriage experience. The course is not only about providing techniques for success in marriage, it’s about changing your attitude toward your spouse and toward marriage Distinctive Residential Settings | Chef-Prepared Dining and Bistro in general,” explains Rabbi Tiechtel. Premier Health and Wellness Programs | Award-Winning Memory Care The Art of Marriage is designed to appeal to students at all levels of Jewish knowl- edge, including those without any prior experience or background in Jewish learning. Professionally Supervised Therapy and Rehabilitation Services This course is open to the public, and attendees need not be affiliated with any partic- ular congregation or organization. Interested students may call (615) 646-5750 or visit www.chabadnashville.com/  Cmunit Buil  Li.® marriage for registration and other course-related information. This course is being pre- sented as part of an ongoing series of JLO – Jewish Learning Opportunities at Chabad 615-279-9100 of Nashville. belmontvillage.com/greenhills

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8 January 2019 The Observer Coalition dissolves, Israel Financial Aid available to hold elections in April for Jewish (JTA) – Israel will hold new elec- bers of the haredi Orthodox community tions on April 9 after the heads of all six to the military draft. Many Israeli news Overnight coalition parties announced that they outlets are reporting that the corrup- were dissolving the government. The tion investigations swirling around Prime current government’s term was set to end Minister Benjamin Netanyahu also are a Summer in November. factor in the coalition breakup. The Jerusalem Post reported that The new elections could also fore- Camp coalition heads decided to hold April stall American efforts to negotiate a deal elections “because they couldn’t reach between Israel and the Palestinians. Go agreement on the ultra-Orthodox enlist- to www.jewishnashville.org for updated ment bill,” which could subject all mem- information from JTA. •

Pargh Many of us remember those summers at camp that inspired our Continued from page 1 service with a Distinguished Flying Cross, connection to Judaism – the singing after dinner or Havdalah on the “Their gifts to numerous local agencies Bernie Pargh said. edge of the lake at sunset. The Jewish summer camp experience creates set a new standard for charitable giving Returning to Nashville, Mr. Pargh community for life, not just for a summer. in our community and helps ensure the started out as a homebuilder, financed Year after year our children return from camp with stories, memories sustainability of the JCC for generations by his cousins and building houses one and friendships. For many of them it is the first time they’re surrounded to come.” at a time, Bernie Pargh said. His cousins by all things Jewish. Overnight Jewish camping is wonderful way to “The Pargh gift, one of the most sig- invested and taught him building skills; introduce children to the joy and celebration of Jewish traditions. nificant for any individual JCC in North Eugene was responsible for selling the The Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee realizes America, is truly agency changing,” houses and he split the profits with his said JCC Executive Director Leslie Sax. cousins. the importance of building Jewish life and makes financial assistance “Once we complete our capital campaign He and one cousin, Gerald available on a need basis for students to attend Jewish summer camps. and make necessary updates to our facil- Averbuch, became lifelong business part- If you know someone who could benefit from this information, please ity, these endowment dollars will ensure ners and went on to collaborate on many share it. To request information on summer camp opportunities or for that we maintain our campus and meet commercial building ventures, including a scholarship application, please contact Becky Gunn at the Jewish the needs our community as Nashville motels and apartment complexes. Mr. Federation at [email protected] or 615-354-1624 and send and the Jewish community continue to Averbuch died in 2016 at age 94. completed applications to [email protected] . grow and evolve.” Eugene and Madeline Pargh All inquiries are confidential. The deadline for submitting applications “The Eugene and Madeline Pargh achieved financial success over the years, is March 15, 2019. Endowment is in some ways a game-chang- Bernie Pargh said, but they never forgot er for Congregation Sherith Israel,” said their early years. “They really enjoyed Rabbi Saul Strosberg. “We’ve been plug- (giving). (Even) after they passed on they ging away at our endowment for several were able to make life-changing gifts to years now, but a gift that size makes a organizations here in town.” huge impact not just on our bottom line, They believed it was a duty and but also on our ability to continue our honor to sponsor causes such as Jewish great programming and to serve the com- houses of worship, Hadassah and many munity in new ways. other organizations. “They eventually MARY AND HARRY ZIMMERMAN “On a deeper level though, there is moved to Florida, and they supported all YOUTH EXCHANGE ENDOWMENT FUND the huge emotional impact of the Parghs’ their communities,” Andy Pargh said. gift,” he said, “and that was the commit- One of Eugene’s most joyous gifts, HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE ment they made to a synagogue that may his son Bernie said, was to help fund AGE STUDENT INCENTIVE GRANTS not have been their primary institution, the Bernard Frank Pargh Auditorium but still one that they saw as vital to the at the Gordon JCC, named in honor of Jewish community, and for a family to his older brother, who died in a plane recognize that need and to reach and give crash at the end of World War II. “He beyond their own four cubits is rare and gave with such love and a smile,” Bernie not to be taken lightly.” Pargh said. Being generous “was just the way Mr. Pargh died last September at age they were raised,” younger son Andy 96. Mrs. Pargh died at age 84 in 2014. Pargh said of his parents. “They were a “They were just very simple people,” team. They became more fortunate in Andy Pargh said. “My dad never met a their life. They always placed a priority stranger. … He just loved people. My on charitable giving and helping others mother was more reserved” and their who (needed help).” personalities complemented each other. “Wherever they were, they wanted “Together they were a team. I don’t to contribute,” said Pinsly. They gave in doubt that my mom motivated my dad Over thirty years of research on the impact of the Israel Experience a structured, thoughtful way, and their to do many of the good things they did.” has shown that teens are at a critical time of development when they goal was to ensure that their family and Pinsly recalled how his grandparents are shaping their patterns of adult Jewish identity and loyalties. An Israel community were taken care of. They gave loved spending time with their grand- program can enhance or complement a formal Jewish education. It can to institutions that they wanted their children, taking them for walks, teaching also aect those who may have been deprived of a rich Jewish life. Positive family to enjoy and appreciate as much as them to cook, encouraging them to visit moments and memories are central factors in the development of arming they did. in Florida. group identification. The purpose is to strengthen Jewish identity. Both Madeline and Eugene Pargh His grandmother was artistic and The next generation’s commitment to the Jewish people can be came from modest backgrounds. taught him to paint; his grandfather was greatly aected by the experience of being in Israel as a teen. The Jewish Madeline was the youngest of five one of his first friends on AOL Instant Federation of Nashville realizes this benefit and encourages families to sisters, said Andy Pargh. She lived in Messenger, he said. Over the years they consider sending their young people to Israel by oering incentive grants. Nashville and attended West High stayed in close touch over the phone. School. “Her family scrimped to get by “He never forgot where he came These grants are available to 9th-12th graders as well as college students but they always had a Tzedakah box to from,” Linda Pargh Mossman said. “He through the Mary & Harry Zimmerman Youth Exchange Endowment Fund. give to others less fortunate than them, loved giving and it made him feel good.” Programs that may qualify for partial scholarship grants include March and they were far from fortunate,” he Andy Pargh recalled his parents of the Living, JCC Maccabi Xperience, NFTY, Ramah, USY, Volunteers for said. instilling the importance of giving, saying Israel, High School in Israel and BBYO. Eugene graduated from Hume-Fogg it was the legacy all three Pargh siblings For more information please contact Tania Bukengolts, o‚ce High School in 1940, the same year his received. “They led by example, they did administrator at [email protected] or at 615.354.1668. father died. After World War II started, not lead by demand. … I love my parents Eugene enlisted in the United States and I’ll miss them. They were the best Navy and became a fighter pilot – one role models any child could have. They of the few who were Jewish. He served did their best to teach us what we needed in the Pacific and was recognized for his to learn.” • The Observer January 2019 9 made a turn right by the Tree of Life. In Pittsburgh another couple of minutes and turns, we Continued from page 1 were at the JCC. Their JCC is literally at When the opportunity arose to vol- the heart of the community there. unteer with JResponse, I was very inter- On the ground ested. I applied to be able to work and The morning began with an orienta- was granted that opportunity through tion on what had happened, the current the help of JCCA and our own Gordon state of things, and our assignments. Jewish Community Center. There were eight of us helping out that I flew into Pittsburgh on Sunday, day from JCCs all over. It was really Dec. 10, and the next morning I was to tough to hear about what the staff had report to the Pittsburgh JCC. There is gone through and to put yourself in their something to be said for actually getting shoes. This tragedy has changed them to directly help, instead of providing help and their community permanently; their and support from afar. I was very eager to “new normal” will inform their present be able to help out, as well as experience and future. a new community and JCC. We found out that how we may be Whenever you volunteer for some- helping may seem small, but we would thing like this, you never know what never know how much even the smallest to expect or what you may be called to of things helped in the wake of this trag- do, but you go with an open mind and edy. The community and the staff had open heart. Going into this experience been so affected in three weeks that they I wanted to be helpful, to learn, and were ground zero, and they still felt the to experience as much as I could. The remnants of that. Being able to do even realization of the weight and impact of Volunteers last month at the Pittsburgh Jewish Community Center include, standing, the simplest of things and get just one from left, Ilene Case, Daniel Christmas, David Posner, Andrew Katz, and Jason Ford. the situation hit me on the way to the Kneeling, from left, are Dolores Aronson, Mardi Smiri, Amit Hickman, and Peggy thing off a staff member’s plate, was one JCC early that morning when my Uber Newsome. less little bit of stress for someone who was still processing going through one of the most stressful times many of them have experienced or will ever go through. So we went in with an open mind and were all prepared for anything we might be tasked to do in order to help out. A quick tour of the Pittsburgh JCC after our orientation started our day. The building has a nice flow, and since it was in the center of the neighborhood, there was a constant flow of people. There was a very warm hustle and bustle within the building. After that, we got our assign- ments. Being an aquatics director and certified to lifeguard, I naturally figured I would be around the pool, and that was the case: I was assigned to the pool for the day. That day I helped out in the morning during some of their busy time, when the JCC holds water aerobics classes, gives swim lessons and people swim laps. They have many of the same types of programs we do, and having an extra person on hand can really help. Later that day I was able to chat with my counterpart there and really find out more about this com- munity and another aquatics department. Reflections As I wrapped up my day and began my journey back to Nashville, I was really able to look back on my trip and be super thankful for the opportunity to to help a community in need, if even in the small- est way, and take away as much from this experience as I possibly could. Going into this trip I really wanted to be a light to this community and a positive and helpful person. I also want- ed to be a sponge, and soak up as much of the experience and information as I could. I felt like that would make this trip the most impactful. Looking back I was able to do just that. I went in with an open heart, an open mind, and a great attitude. I also asked as many questions as I possibly could, and wanted to get the most out of the experience that was only a short amount of time. I am so grateful to JCCA and our $WgWyĘŸđĐşĒĐđę JCC for the opportunity to be able to help the Pittsburgh JCC community and IC[<CIsš have this experience. 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10 January 2019 The Observer Prepare to be amazed when magician appears at Sherith fundraiser By MOSH KOCH

haim Schuman, an amazing young magician making his Nashville Cdebut, takes the stage on March 17 for Sherith Israel’s fundraiser, titled “A Magical Evening,” to be held at the nightclub-themed Gordon Jewish Community Center. Schuman is an internationally known magician who’s wowed audiences, young and old, for many years. The evening will begin with a cocktail reception and view- ing of silent auction items, followed by the magic show. Babysitting and delicious Chaim Schuman hors d’oeuvres will be available. Tickets Schuman has performed in venues are $150 per person with proceeds bene- large and small, including a stint with the fitting Congregation Sherith Israel. Dress Israel education ministry, where he per- code will be dressy, but people who want formed magic shows for dozens of schools to preview their Purim costumes may wear throughout Israel. them to the event. His repertoire consists of mentalism Born in New York, Schuman moved and stage magic, but his favorite is close- to Israel at age five when his family up magic “where objects are actually made aliyah. He grew up in Jerusalem, placed in the spectator’s hands and they completing his high school studies and can see the magic up close.” He’s per- eventually serving in the Israeli military formed for audiences as large as 500 peo- as a paratrooper. ple and as intimate as 20 in both Israel He was first exposed to magic as a and the United States. teenager when someone did a card trick Schuman says the Sherith Israel pro- on him. He said he was amazed at how gram will be a combination of mentalism the performer was “able to shift reality as and stage magic. “It will be interactive with I knew it. I was so intrigued, that I start- the audience and will keep them engaged ed investigating how it could be done and on the edge of their chairs. It’s very and used every opportunity to try magic visual and very entertaining,” he said. on other people.” Schuman continued For more information, call (615) his training in magic throughout his 375-6962 or go to come2sherithisrael@ post-military studies in higher education. gmail.com. •

The Observer January 2019 11 West End students celebrate Chanukah creatively By SHARON PAZ play of olive oil making from the olive tree Ron, Martha and Sydney Emeson, who Oil Tasting Station. Director of Lifelong Learning to the Temple. After two hours and several made a chanukiyah using test tubes filled Simon Newman, father of Sophie West End Synagogue pounds of olives, they could barely get a with a mixture of chemical gases that in first grade and Gabe in 4th grade at drop! Our goal was to help the students caused a glow to arise inside the individ- Beit Miriam, said, “The Chanukah pro- live oil was needed to keep the understand the process of procuring oil for ual tubes – the flame came from within gram was so creative and our kids had a flames of the menorah burning the Temple in Jerusalem. rather that without. blast. They especially loved the Olive Oil Oin the newly rededicated Temple Another goal was for students to Tamara Ambar, mother of 2nd grader press and the donut on a string competi- in Jerusalem. It’s not a big deal to find have fun learning the differences between Dolma Losel, commented: “Dolma and I tion, and we were amazed by the creative fresh olive oil these days but if you were a menorah and a Chanukiyah. Our “Do had an incredibly fun time at the WES- entries in the ‘Homemade Chanukiyah’ a Maccabee living in 164 BCE and in It Yourself” Family Chanukiyot Contest Beit Miriam Chanukah party. The event contest. And the latkes and sufganiyot are urgent need of oil? According to the had amazing entries. The Chanukiyot far exceeded our expectations as there was always winners. We are so lucky to have story of Chanukah, producing new olive were judged on whether they were kosher, a Bouncy House representing the Beit Beit Miriam. They keep upping the ante oil took eight days … and students at usable and creative. The “Judges” awards HaMikdash, or ancient Jewish Temple in for Chanukah programming each year.” West End Synagogue’s religious school, went to Dolma Losel (Tamar Ambar) Jerusalem, an olive press, edible dreidel Many thanks to Joanna Brichetto, Beit Miriam, can now attest to that fact who created a chanukiyah out of sea making, a homemade menorah contest, whose vision, creativity and hands-on because they tried it for themselves at shells; to Jack and Sam Barocas who cre- and a lot more! Dolma was absolutely implementation were evident in each this year’s Chanukah program. ated a chanukiyah out of shards collected delighted and said, “I love Beit Miriam. station. We appreciate the efforts of our Working with a life-size replica of a from an archaeological dig in Israel; and They always give us special treats!” many volunteers, our teachers and the Hellenistic-era olive crushing apparatus to Iara, Abi and Meital Kullock, whose Students enjoyed the novelty of eat- synagogue maintenance staff. We also that we had built, students from preschool chanukiyah candles represented the ing donuts on a string and all of the other thank the Jewish Federation and Jewish to 6th grade took turns pushing the pole to Argentinian soccer team. Winners of Chanukah activity stations. Parents Foundation of Nashville and Middle rotate the crushing wheel over fresh olives. the “people’s choice” awards were Emily relaxed and sampled a variety of olive Tennessee for the congregational grant Volunteers dressed in ancient Maccabean and Daniel Grove for their wine glasses oils from different countries at the Olive that made this program possible. • garb guided students through a poster dis- and Manischewitz wine Chanukiyah and

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Teens create Chanukah nails in a hands-on project. 12 January 2019 The Observer WES fundraiser explores Melanie Maharam Hamilton’s Jewish roots leads PJ Library elanie Maharam joins the staff of Grinspoon Foundation. t’s an evening of music and histo- West Indies, Porwancher makes the case the Gordon Jewish Community PJ Library, founded by Harold ry as West End Synagogue’s 2019 for Hamilton’s Jewish upbringing and MCenter as Nashville’s newest Grinspoon, isn’t a physical library but a IConcert & Cultural Series presents explores his ongoing relationships with PJ Library Coordinator. She program to bring high-quality “Hamilton’s Jewish Roots” on Sunday Jews throughout his lifetime. is a Boston native, by way Jewish children’s books and evening, Jan. 20. In the last year, Porwancher has spo- of Florida and most recently music each month to Jewish Ed Cheng and Karen Weil are ken in venues including the New York Phoenix, Ariz. children ages 6 months to 8 co-chairing the event, which features a Historical Society, Princeton University, PJ Library is a joint proj- years, for free. talk by Professor Andrew Porwancher of Hamilton College, Yeshiva University, ect of the JCC, the Jewish Maharam has experience the University of Oklahoma and musical Mishkenot Sha’nanim (Jerusalem), Beth Federation and Jewish as a nonprofit manager, a vol- performance by Craig Duncan Music. Jacob Congregation (Los Angeles) and Foundation of Nashville unteer for PJ Library and as Porwancher is the Wick Cary Congregation Beth El (Fairfield, Conn.). and Middle Tennessee, the a professional Realtor. She is Associate Professor at the University of His Jan. 20 presentation takes place Temple Preschool, West End well acquainted with the many Oklahoma where he has appointments in at West End Synagogue, 3810 West Synagogue, Micah Children’s diverse areas in Nashville and constitutional studies and Judaic studies. End Avenue. Doors open at 6 p.m. Academy and Akiva School. is thrilled to be serving the He received his Ph.D. from Cambridge, and the program begins at 6:30 p.m. A There’s an affiliated program Melanie Maharam Middle Tennessee communi- M.A. from Brown University, and B.A. dessert reception follows the program. called PJ Our Way for children ages ties and working hand in hand with its from Northwestern University. He has Reservations are needed. Call or email 9-11, who can choose their own Jewish partners to make PJ Library the best it held fellowships at Oxford and Princeton Marcia Stewart (mstewart@westendsyn. books each month. The affiliated pro- can be in our community. She welcomes universities, and is currently complet- org or 615-269-4592 ext. 13) to make gram is made possible through a partner- any and all collaboration and is looking ing his third book, “The Jewish Life of your reservation. • ship of the Jewish Federation and Harold forward to working with you all soon. • Alexander Hamilton,” which is forth- coming with Harvard University Press. The professor explores a story that originates thousands of miles from the Old World, on a sun-kissed island in the West Indies. There, a young boy named Alexander Hamilton began a most unlikely journey in the 1750s. His meteoric rise from Caribbean obscurity to American founder has long captivat- ed historians and, more recently, the- ater audiences. Yet one crucial aspect of Hamilton’s life has remained submerged for centuries: The weight of the evi- dence suggests that he was in fact Jewish. Drawing on untapped sources in the

Samantha Saturn, right, daughter of local Gilda’s Club founder Nancy Saturn, and nurse practitioner Susan Caro speak at the showing of “Love, Gilda.” Another record year for Nashville Jewish Film Festival

“Love, Gilda,” at this year’s Nashville Jewish Film Festival. “Love, Gilda,” in which the late comedian Gilda Radner and her friends talk about her life, was one of the big successes of this year’s Festival, drawing a sellout crowd at the Belcourt Theatre. NJFF organizers and volunteers send out a heartfelt thank you to Nashville audiences and festival spon- sors for a record-breaking 2018 season, the second year in a row exceeding past attendance. Watch for updates on the 2019 Nashville Jewish Film Festival at njff.net or on the Nashville Jewish Film Festival Facebook page. •

The Observer January 2019 13 First visit to Israel blends science, technology, Judaism By NOAH JACOBS teaching how science, technology, and people. We enjoyed traditional Bedouin desert, and finished the day by floating Judaism all merge together. I had the cuisine, including delicious homemade weightlessly in the waters of the Dead his past summer I was able to opportunity to experience Israel from coffee and tea, played card games while Sea. It was an incredible experience. travel on an incredible journey both a scientific and business aspect and a peacock casually strolled around, then Another day, we visited a military Tthrough Israel with the 6 Points a holy, religious one. I learned about later that night we walked into the des- technology company by the name of Sci-Tech Academy, thanks to a very the country from many different unique ert to stargaze, and slept in one of the Elbit Systems. We had the opportunity generous grant from the Mary and Harry angles, as the trip’s focus was to show Bedouins’ enormous tents. In the morn- to try on an incredible piece of tech- Zimmerman Family Youth Exchange the new, futuristic side of an ancient ing we woke up at around 4:30, had some nology there, an advanced fighter pilot Endowment Fund of the Jewish country with culture tracing back thou- more tea, then loaded up for the bus ride helmet. It had a built-in heads-up display Federation and Jewish Foundation of sands of years. through the desert to Masada. We hiked that showed altitude, air speed, and other Nashville and Middle Tennessee. One of the most interesting expe- up the mountain, found a good spot to flight instruments over the pilot’s vision Six Points Sci-Tech is a STEM- riences during the trip was staying with sit, and watched the sun rise. Later that with a tiny projection on the glass visor. based summer camp focused primarily on the Bedouins, a desert-dwelling nomadic afternoon we rode camels through the We also tried on a helmet designed for helicopter pilots, which displayed a GPS height map of the surrounding terrain over our vision, shown as a grid draped over the land, made to assist helicopter pilots landing at night. Elbit especially inspired me to continue to follow my aspirations to become an engineer in the aerospace industry. Getting to experience such a marvel of technology and speak with the engineers about their building process was a fantastic opportunity. Another unique opportunity pre- sented during the trip was participating in an archaeological dig of an archa- ic basement; we uncovered artifacts untouched for thousands of years, then spelunked through an ancient cavern in which these people used to keep pigeons. The country has countless historical sites similar to the basements, the sheer age of which I didn’t truly understand until we visited the Western Wall. The mag- nitude of both the size and the age of the Kotel was awe-striking, and the day we visited it is one I will never forget. Israel is truly a blend of ancient tra- dition and culture mixed together with new technologies and brand-new startup companies. The 6 Points trip really showed me how many sides of Israel there truly are. As our guide, Moose, put it, “Israel is like a prism. This trip will show you just a few colors in the spectrum.” In Israel there is both the struggle of war and the peace of prayer, the buzz of technology and the holiness of ancient structures; the country is a balance of innumerable different factors. I absolutely loved Israel, and would high- ly recommend venturing there to anyone interested in an experience of a lifetime. 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+/63RVWHU),1$/&RPSOHWH6FKHGXOH0DLOHU3DJH2XWOLQHVLQGG 30 14 January 2019 The Observer Nashville Hadassah plans March Picture-perfect Hanukkah Fest at Gordon JCC gala to fight breast cancer By ERIN COLEMAN for breast cancer research. One model said that this day was very day women battle breast can- part of her healing process. In order to cer with dignity, courage, and come and participate she had to be fear- Estrength. But they are not alone in less. She was able to find her courage to their fight. Through the support of their move forward with her healing. community, family, and friends, women For the artists, the experience was continue to celebrate the human spirit just as significant. Artist Elizabeth and make theirs shine. Howard said she felt an energy in com- Nashville Hadassah will hold a spe- ing together and doing something pos- cial event on March 9 called Best Strokes, itive. Sara Bradley stated it was fun Nashville Hadassah Bares All for ART to collaborate and bring to life what- (Awareness, Research and Treatment), ever gave the survivors their strength which builds on last fall’s Paint Day throughout their journeys. event, also for breast cancer. Many of the women had little to no Paint Day took place last Oct. 28, connection to Hadassah before taking part when 13 brave models, 12 exceptional in Paint Day. To them, it was important artists, and numerous volunteers par- to know that the research being accom- ticipated in the first part of Nashville plished at Hadassah Medical Center can Hadassah’s innovative program to raise help to ensure their daughters and grand- money for breast cancer and genetic daughters do not have to go through research at Hadassah Medical Center. the frightening prospect of having or Chaired by Robin Haynes, Paint Day being diagnosed with breast cancer. While was a special day for all those involved. Hadassah Medical Center is located in The models were women affected by breast Israel, it serves women of all ages, socio- cancer. They were survivors, women who economic status and religions, and its had tested positive for a cancer-related research is shared throughout the world. BRCA genetic mutation, or close friends These inspiring pieces of art will be of those impacted by breast cancer. Each seen for the first time and go up for silent woman was paired with a Nashville artist auction at the Best Strokes, Nashville and prior to Paint Day, the women and Hadassah Bares All for ART (Awareness, their artists met, shared their stories, and Research and Treatment) Gala on March made plans for their beautiful works of art. 9, from 7:30-10:30 p.m. at the Nashville What made this day truly unique was that City Club, chaired by Erin Coleman and the women’s torsos served as the canvases. Sara Hanai. Tickets are $120 before For the models, this day was a way January 31, and $150 afterward with a to create beauty where the scars of their special rate of $75 for those 35 and under. Families shared tasty latkes and lots of activities to conclude the eight days of stories often make it hard to see. Many Coleman and Hanai are proud to bring Hanukkah on Sunday, Dec. 9, at the Gordon Jewish Community Center’s annual found it freeing to have their bodies this inaugural event to the Nashville Hanukkah Fest. One new feature was a photo booth where the Nemer family and turned into a canvas and for that canvas community and look forward to seeing others captured moments of the Hanukkah spirit. PHOTOGRAPH BY GARRETT MILLS to have a bigger purpose: to raise money you all there. •

Sharing the light of Chanukah By R’SHLOMO AND NECHAMA ROTHSTEIN together and talk some more. Rohr Chabad House, Vanderbilt The lights of the menorah attract the Jewish soul and awaken the Jewish t was Saturday night and our soul – no matter where it may be. I saw Chanukah booth was booming. My this countless times. Ison Mendel (age 11) and I were dish- During the past eight days Thanks to our generous volunteers and ing out hot crispy latkes, gelt, and big of Chanukah we hosted close to 20 Thanks to our generous volunteers and smiles to everyone who walked by and Chanukah parties at fraternity and soror- donors, we were able to provide also offering people the chance to light ity houses, residence halls and other their own menorah. Over 150 students university sites, for groups of friends and Chanukah gifts to 30 children and participated that night! at the Chabad House. 9 seniors in our community. Around midnight, while the meno- We served close to 2,000 latkes and rah table was glowing with a dozen lit hundreds of students lit menorahs. Most menorahs; a young man walked over and nights didn’t end before midnight, and starting taking pictures of the menorahs. on one night we stayed up until 3 a.m. He didn’t say hello or make eye contact. We couldn’t leave as long as students There could be many reasons why he were coming. wanted pictures, some not too pleasant. There were tired and stressed stu- There was only one thing to do at dents in the middle of studying for finals, that moment. I gave him a big smile: there were groups of friends going and “Happy Chanukah, welcome! Would you coming from parties, there were the BrighteningBrightening like to participate?” students who didn’t realize that it was “Well,” he said, “I’m from Gaza. My Chanukah, and there were those who thethe liveslives ofof father is an observant Muslim … but my really wanted to do something for the mother is from Jerusalem and Jewish but holiday but didn’t know how they would JewishJewish she doesn’t practice. I was raised Muslim.” get to do it. We spoke a little more and he was And they all stopped and lit meno- families for surprised to learn that according to the rah. It is hard to say what shone more, families for Torah he is Jewish. the candles or their faces. Once again, there was only one And here is a small takeaway from 166165 years. thing to do in the moment. “Would you Chanukah – the festival of light. like to light the menorah? Can I get you Taking a few moments to add some some crispy latkes?” spiritual light to our day is well worth This was his first time lighting the it. When we intentionally do a Mitzvah menorah and he took a picture of himself and study Torah we feed our soul and lighting to send to his Jewish grand- get energized on a deeper level. It’s like mother in Jerusalem. He was so happy to lighting a G-dly candle – our inner do the mitzvah; he said he wanted to get menorah. •

The Observer January 2019 15 Art by Yandall, Garcia this Get ready for 2019 JCC month at Gordon JCC Maccabi Games® in Atlanta he Gordon Jewish Community By ANDREW SCHULMAN up can do individual sports like swim, Center’s January art exhibit will track and field, golf or join a team sport his summer’s JCC Maccabi feature the work of John Yandall for Nashville,” Schulman said. Team T Games® will take place in Nashville teens will design their own and Eliza Garcia, along with the con- Atlanta, and there’s room for 15 tinuing exhibit, “Under One Roof – T logo for the Games, he added. area teen-agers on Team Nashville. Welcoming the Stranger,” and student The Games also include a com- The Games will be held from July art from the JCC’s Early Childhood munity service component. Teens will 28-Aug. 2, and Atlanta’s Jewish commu- Learning Community. These works will experience Rachmanus (compassion) nity is preparing to welcome more than be on display from Jan. 2-31. during the competition and Tikkun 1,600 visiting teens and their families The reception for the artists is on Olam (repair of the world) while partici- from across the nation. They will join Wednesday, Jan. 16 from 6:30-8:30 p.m. pating in community service. more than 400 local teens, 600 host at the JCC. There will be music by DJ Since 1982 the JCC Maccabi families, 500 volunteers and thousands Joseph Harris, henna painting by Seemi Games® have offered more than 140,000 of spectators. Rizvi along with complimentary food and Jewish teens a unique social, cultural, Team Nashville has been allotted beverage. The event is free and open to and life-shaping experience. The Games 25 spots. Ten have been filled with local the public. serve a larger purpose beyond athlet- teens who want to play on two flag foot- The Janet Levine March Gallery will ic competition, promoting community ball teams, and 15 slots are open. The feature the work of John Yandall. He is a involvement, teamwork, and pride in open slots will be filled on a first-come, self-taught artist from American Samoa, being Jewish. The energy and excite- first-served basis, without tryouts, to give now residing in Murfreesboro. Yandall ment make the Games® an unforgettable everyone an equal and fair chance to sign works in various styles and art media experience for every participant, from up, said Andrew Schulman, the Gordon inspired by human emotions and the Art by Eliza Garcia athlete to volunteer, from coaches to Jewish Community Center’s department tragedies and triumphs of humankind. host families. head of sports and recreation and delega- The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the fashion magazines, turning them in to To secure your teen’s spot on Team tion head for the JCC Maccabi Games.® work of Eliza Garcia, a self-taught artist pop art. Nashville, a nonrefundable $150 deposit Open slots include flag football also known as Infinity Gal. She currently “I want people to look at my work is due by Feb. 1. For more information, for ages 13 and 14; flag football for lives in Brentwood. and feel a sense of meditation, where there go to jccmaccabigames.org or contact ages 15 and 16 is full. “Anyone signing Growing up, Garcia was influenced is no right or wrong, no subject,” she says. [email protected]. • by a close friend who was an artist and by “It’s just you and the artwork and wherev- her mother, a seamstress. er the art takes you. My hope is for you to Sports and teams for 2019 JCC Maccabi Games® She was always intrigued by art and feel a sense of infinity and being present.” n addition to boys flag football, the • Ultimate Frisbee design. At age 23 she moved to New York The Sig Held Gallery will feature the 2019 JCC Maccabi Games® give • Swimming City and became an assistant footwear work of the ECLC students. I teens a forum to compete in the fol- • Dance designer at Steve Madden. From there Continuing from October, the J lowing areas: • Golf she moved to designing women’s foot- House Gallery will feature the exhib- • 13/14 Boys Basketball • Bowling wear at the FRYE Company. Currently it “Under One Roof: Welcoming the • 15/16 Boys Basketball • Table Tennis she is the design manager for women’s Stranger.” This year’s exhibit features • 16U Girls Basketball • Tennis footwear for both Johnston & Murphy collaborative works of art created by • 13/14 Boys Soccer • Track and Field and Trask brands. many organizations and individu- • 15/16 Boys Soccer • Star Reporter During her free time Garcia can als in Nashville, exploring this year’s • 16U Girls Soccer be found in her home studio, covered theme, Welcoming the Stranger. • 13/14 Boys Baseball Star reporters cover the athletic in paint, working on what she calls her For more information, contact the • 15/16 Boys Baseball action, interview coaches and partici- Infinity space, abstract acrylic paints JCC at (615) 354-1699, Curator Carrie • 16U Girls Volleyball pants, and share information on it via that resemble space, or free sketching Mills at [email protected], or go to • 16U Flag Football social media. • Infinity Zen patterns. She also recycles www.nashvillejcc.org. • From Rolling Stones to Rabbi Levy for storied producer By GABE FRIEDMAN Ancient prayers, new music produce when playing the Dead’s classic interested in Judaism as Was grew up, but Jewish Telegraphic Agency Was was quite impressed by the band’s song “Ripple” during encores — Was could Nashuva’s message spoke to him, and he music at the service and approached Levy see members of the audience crying and had a late-in-life return to the fold. hree years ago, Don Was walked afterward, telling her that she should record hugging. Eclectic influences into a Jewish service in Los its sound. They became friends and, six “I thought Naomi was doing the same Thus Was post-bar mitzvah wasn’t TAngeles without high expec- months later, Levy and the band found things with these prayers that had been exposed to much of any Jewish life. But tations. Was, born Don Fagenson in themselves in the famous Apogee Studios around forever,” Was said. “She made them he received a great musical education Detroit, is a producer who has worked in Santa Monica, Calif. resonant in a really relevant way, which is growing up near Detroit in the ‘60s, which with musicians like John Mayer, Bob “I was pretty knocked out by the fact not a small feat.” attracted all kinds of musical legacies Dylan and Bonnie Raitt. Since 2012, he that she took these profound prayers and Songs that reach out thanks to its auto factories. Workers from has also been the president of Blue Note transferred them in a way that everybody The Nashuva band’s music is full of all backgrounds migrated up to work in Records, the historic and acclaimed jazz in the room could relate to, and it was a big, catchy melodies, which Levy said is the factories and brought their favorite record label. very uplifting evening,” Was told JTA in a part of the congregation’s larger goal of genres with them — from blues to jazz to Since his bar mitzvah in 1965, he has telephone interview. attracting unaffiliated Jews who don’t real- country western. rarely stepped into a synagogue. The result of the Apogee session was ize they are yearning for spiritual fulfill- In 1979, Was and his friend David But his aging father, who was get- “Heaven on Earth: Songs of the Soul,” an ment. When Levy worked previously as Weiss, a fellow secular Jew, formed Was ting remarried, was set to be honored by album released late last year that puts 13 a rabbi at a Conservative synagogue in (Not Was), a quirky band that melded his beloved egalitarian congregation and Jewish prayers to a mix of African-inspired Venice Beach, she’d see many stragglers pop, funk and rock and experienced some wanted his son to be there. He also want- world-music beats and calming folk mel- poke their heads in to Saturday morning album chart success by the late ‘80s. He ed him to see the congregation’s live band, odies. Was and Rolling Stones record- services but leave after a few minutes. built a producing resume at the same which played at its monthly service. ing engineer Krish Sharma assisted in the “I found myself more and more drawn time, and by 1994 won the Grammy for The congregation, named Nashuva recording, which was mixed by Grammy to the Jewish outsider, I wanted to learn producer of the year. He has won three (or “We will return” in Hebrew), is the Award winner Ed Cherney. what they were about and how to reach other Grammys and produced albums by creation of Naomi Levy, a Conservative In the studio, each song took at most them,” she said. “They haven’t found God artists ranging from the Rolling Stones to rabbi who was among the first women two takes, a testament to how practiced the or a soulful experience in synagogue. They Neil Diamond to former One Direction ordained by the Jewish Theological musicians were. Was invited congregants find it in yoga class or at their zen center, pop star Niall Horan. Seminary in the mid-1980s. The 10-per- to lend their voices and fill out the sound, but they haven’t found it in Judaism.” Was hasn’t exactly returned to religion son band, which has mostly stayed the and at times the studio was so full that they Now Nashuva, which relies on volun- the same way his father did, but he attends same over the congregation’s 14-year lifes- had to sit on the floor. teer help and grassroots donations, draws a Nashuva service when he has time in his pan, is an amalgam of cultures and musi- Was, speaking just after completing a about 400 people at the monthly services busy schedule and happens to be in L.A. cal traditions, bringing together Filipinos, lengthy U.S. tour as part of a band backing and streams High Holiday programs to “She created a great vibe,” he said of Ethiopian Jews and other Jews and non- Grateful Dead guitarist Bob Weir, com- 70,000 around the globe. Levy. “And it’s what you try to do with Jews from the local community. Levy isn’t pared the effects of the music played by Was’ father, Bill Fagenson, who passed all music, really, is to improve the quality a musician by trade, but she sings in the Levy’s band with what Weir evokes. He away earlier this year, was among Nashuva’s of the listener’s life, help them understand band and helps write the melodies. described the feelings that Weir would biggest fans. Was said his father became less something about life.” • 16 January 2019 The Observer mother of Sahar Kohanim (Anthony Daniels). She died in the Jewish Home in Tehran, Iran, on Dec. 3.

lifecycles Tina Kraft around the town The Temple notes with sorrow the Holocaust hero’s Freiberg at [email protected] or B’nai Mitzvah passing of Tina Kraft and extends con- (615) 354-1639. Get your 1920s attire dolences to her family, Rachel Kraft biographer to speak ready and buy your tickets online now at Lauren Lieberman Johnson (Treye) and Elizabeth Kraft nashvillejcc.org/bignightout Lauren Lieberman Bleecker(Bryan). A memorial service was Polish-born Jan Karski was one of will become a Bat held on Dec. 7 at The Temple. the first people to report an eyewitness Mitzvah on Saturday, account of the Nazi Holocaust to the Got Talent? Temple Jan. 12, at Congregation Elfriede (Frieda) Lorch West. Tom Wood served as his biogra- talent show auditions Micah. Lauren is the West End Synagogue announces with pher and is the co-author with Stanislaw daughter of Dani and great sadness the passing of WES member M. Jankowski of the book, “Karski: How through Jan. 15 Bennett Lieberman Elfriede (Frieda) Lorch. Frieda was preced- One Man Tried to Stop the Holocaust,” and granddaughter of ed in death by her husband, Jack, and by published in 1994. Wood will share this You’ve seen “America’s Got Talent.” the late Elena and Joe Lauren her daughter, Miriam Lorch Kopelman. Now Nashville has its very own version, Lieberman hero’s story along with his personal rec- Stone and Noel and Lois We offer our condolences to Frieda’s ollections of Karski on Monday, Jan. 28, “Temple’s Got Talent,” debuting March Lieberman. son, Richard (Marjorie) Lorch, her at 7 p.m. in Sarratt Cinema. His presen- 10. Auditions are open through Jan. 15 Lauren is a 7th grader at Woodland grandchildren Emily and Nicholas Lorch, tation is part of the Vanderbilt Holocaust for any Middle Tennessee resident. Middle School. She enjoys art, spending and Andrew, Todd, Alison, and Clark Lecture Series 2018-2019. The public is invited to audition, time with her friends, shopping, and play- Kopelman. Frieda is also survived by Jan Karski was a liaison officer for regardless of religious affiliation or mem- ing with her dog Katie. For her mitzvah great-grandchildren. the Polish underground during World bership in The Temple – Congregation project, Lauren has been volunteering at Contributions may be made in War II and an eyewitness to the horrors Ohabai Sholom, the event’s sponsoring Crossroads Pet Shop caring for the cats Frieda’s memory to the Michael Mehlman of the Warsaw Ghetto and concentra- organization. and dogs in the shelter as well as helping Social Action Fund. tion camps in Poland. Wood lives in Acts will be judged by professionals with community outreach events. Nashville and is a graduate of Vanderbilt in the entertainment and music industry. Bill F. Cook University. Selected acts will perform at Temple’s Got Ruby Barton The Temple notes with sorrow the Talent show on March 10 at The Temple. Ruby Eve Barton passing on Dec. 22 of Bill F. Cook, hus- Proceeds will benefit The Temple. will become a Bat band of Lanie Preis Cook. Warsaw Ghetto Organizers are looking for acts of Mitzvah on Saturday, Mr. Cook was preceded in death by his Uprising exhibit at VU all varieties, from music and comedy Jan. 19, at Congregation father, Fred H. Cook, and mother Kathryn to magicians and jugglers. To ensure Micah. Ruby is the Eskridge Cook, grandparents, John M. Starting on Monday, Jan. 14 and fairness, all acts will be separated into daughter of Sari and Eskridge and Nora G. Kirtley, and William running through Feb. 28, Vanderbilt various age groups: 8-17, 18-55 and 55 Daniel Barton and sis- H. Cook, Jr. and Mollie Parrott. He is University presents an exhibit on the and over. ter of Jonah. She is survived by his loving wife of 35 years, Warsaw Ghetto Uprising in the Sarratt “Auditions are by video, not in Ruby Barton the granddaughter of Lanie Cook, his children Kay (Mark) Gallery. person,” said Neal Spielberg, owner of Lynn and David Barton of Nashville, Iris Kimbrough, Keith (Joan) Cook, Karen Spielberg Entertainment & Consulting, Weissman of New York City and the late (Brian) Vingelen and Julie Doochin; his one of several event coordinators Albert Weissman. sisters, Judy (Jerry) Allen and Kathryn Grab tickets now for involved in the show’s launch. “Simply Ruby is a student in seventh grade Ann (Morris) Skurko; his grandchildren, use your cell phone’s video camera to at Valor Flagship Academy. Ruby enjoys Keith (Megan) Cook, Jr., Logan (Joanna) JCC’s Big Night Out tape your act.” and Jane Claire Kimbrough, Owen and To enter, submit your 90-second audi- drawing, painting, playing the ukulele Tickets are now on sale for the Sari Shaffer, and Jackson and Luke tion video file or YouTube link online to and roller skating with Nashville Junior Gordon Jewish Community Center’s Vingelen, and great-grandchildren, Stella, talent.templenashville.org, its official web Roller Derby. Ruby’s interest in clean- annual fundraiser, Big Night Out, to be Ruby and Georgia Cook; and numerous site where competition rules are posted. ing up oceans and waterways led her to held on Saturday, Jan. 26. Laurel Orley nieces and nephews and close friends. If you are multi-talented, you may submit her mitzvah project with The Harpeth and Kelly Unger are chairing the event, His family wishes to extend sincere another entry for a different talent. Conservancy, where she has participated which features a 1920s speakeasy theme. thanks to Dr. Hyatt Sutton, Dr. David Deadline for entries is January 15. in clean ups and will be planting trees Tickets can now be purchased online Spigel, Amy Irvin, Mariah Neff, Angelia Audition fee is $25 per entry. through the early spring. and cost $150 per person until January Payne, Kris Paulk, Deanna Moore, and For more information, inquire to 18 at which time the price increases Alive Hospice. [email protected], or call Noah Landa to $175 per ticket. There is also a VIP In lieu of flowers, memorials Temple President Joyce Friedman at Noah Landa will ticket this year at $300 per person that may be given to Alive Hospice, On (615) 714-1666. Sponsorship and volun- become a Bar Mitzvah includes early access to the cocktail hour The Go Ministries, and The Temple: teer opportunities are available. on Saturday, Jan. 26, and auction, reserved seating and other Congregation Ohabai Sholom. at Congregation Micah. special surprises. Noah is the son of The silent and live auction is always To access the Diana and Jeremy Rona Ramon, widow a favorite part of the evening and this Landa and brother to year includes some exciting new items Community Calendar, Dylan and Michael Noah Landa of Ilan Ramon, dies such as two 4-day VIP tickets to the 2019 go to www.jewishnashville.org Landa. He is the grandson of Roslyn and Lollapalooza Music Festival in Chicago; Steve McMahan, Arthur Landa, and By MARCY OSTER and click on “Calendar.” Jewish Telegraphic Agency a weekend getaway to Asheville, N.C.; Carlos and Susan DaCunha. a private drone lesson and a new drone. Noah is a 7th grader at Brentwood JERUSALEM — Rona Ramon, the Other items include restaurant gift cards Middle School. He loves playing FortNite to Nashville’s hottest new restaurants with friends, vacationing, and sports. For widow of Israeli astronaut Ilan Ramon, who died on board the space shuttle including Sunda, True Food Kitchen, his mitzvah project, Noah is helping the Ellington’s, and The Green Pheasant, homeless. Columbia, has died. Rona Ramon, who became a pub- Predators tickets, local hotel stays, per- lic figure and established the Ramon sonal training, spa services, and much, Obituaries Foundation to promote academic excel- much more. lence and social leadership among Israeli In addition to the auction, guests New information service youth, died last month at the age of 54 of will enjoy casino games, live entertain- ZZZDJLQJLQSODFHVHUYLFHVQHW Observer readers who wish to receive pancreatic cancer. ment, food and cocktails to fit the theme ˆ7EVE&IXL;EVRI email notification of obituaries as Ramon’s oldest son Asaf, an Israel Air and more. WF[EVRI$EKMRKMRTPEGIWIVZMGIWRIX the newspaper receives the informa- Force pilot who flew an F-16 fighter jet, For more information, contact Dara tion may be placed on a new e-mail died in 2009, six years after his father, in a list being created for this purpose by training accident. She had been required the Jewish Federation and Jewish to sign a letter allowing him to follow his Foundation of Nashville and Middle father’s footsteps into the Air Force. Tennessee. Please send your request via Ramon was born in the Tel Aviv e-mail to [email protected]. suburb of Kiryat Ono and served as a paramedic in the army. She earned a Yaghut (Ruby) Rezvani bachelor’s degree in physical education Hunt Memorials, Inc. 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guidance, support and tools to help children and families in Nashville achieve their full Treat out-of-town guests to potential: Nashville Psych. Nashville Psych, founded by Daniel Goldstein, Ph.D., is a private psychology Embassy Suites Vanderbilt practice, offering psychological and counseling services to children, adults, couples and The newly renovated Embassy Suites by Hilton Nashville at Vanderbilt is a families. In addition to counseling, Dr. Goldstein conducts psychoeducational eval- full-service, all-suite hotel located in the heart of Midtown and Music Row, less than uations, which are wonderful tools to help understand what’s going on if someone is two miles from downtown Nashville. We are also conveniently located within walking experiencing learning difficulties or has emotional or behavioral concerns. distance to over 30 restaurants and venues. The Pargh Team congratulates Dr. Goldstein and his team on their expansion All rates include complimentary wifi, complimentary made-to-order breakfast each from a single office in Belle Meade to a five-room office suite in Hillsboro Village morning and a complimentary evening reception featuring cocktails, beer, wine, sodas due to increased demand. The practice is in close proximity to downtown Nashville, and light snacks. Vanderbilt University, Green Hills, Music Row and Belmont University. To learn more Each newly renovated suite features a separate bedroom and living room area along about Nashville Psych, call (615) 582-2882 or visit www.nashvillepsych.com. with a small fridge, microwave, coffee maker and sleeper sofa. Complimentary shuttle Want to find your place in the Nashville area? Navigate the world of real estate within two miles of the hotel, based upon availability daily. Nominal parking fees apply. with a partner you can trust. Call the Pargh Team at (615) 504-2685! Full renovation of hotel’s atrium, lobby, meeting space and guest rooms completed in 2018! New beds, furniture, drapes, wall coverings and all king suites with larger, ceramic tile walk-in showers. The newly renovated Embassy Suites Vanderbilt specializes in catering meeting and social events for up to 100 guests. The perfect location for your next rehearsal dinner, bridal brunch, bat mitzvahs, bar mitzvah or holiday party. Your guests can also enjoy our indoor sauna and whirlpool. We offer a romance package at a nominal fee that includes chocolate-covered strawberries, a champagne split and late checkout. Mention this ad and receive up to 20 percent off best available rates for groups of 10 rooms per night or more. Based upon availability at the time of booking, some blackout dates may apply. Plan your next event by calling (615) 277-4966 or email Kimberly.johnson2@ hilton.com. Kimberly Johnson, our sales manager, will be pleased to assist you. The Pargh Team says ‘Mazel tov’ to Nashville Psych Have you heard the news? The Pargh Team is now part of Compass Realty. We love Compass’ mission of ‘helping people find their place in the world.’ Truly finding your place in the world involves self-discovery and feeling like you are part of a community that can celebrate during the good times and help you through difficult times. The Pargh Team would like to recognize an organization that provides

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26 January 2019 The Observer Focaccia with za’atar and olives can star at winter get-togethers By SONYA SANFORD the dough that has risen in the bowl, then transfer it to the baking sheet. (The Nosher via JTA) − Focaccia Gently press the dough into the is made with a very soft dough, slightly edges of the baking sheet to form a rich from generous amounts of added rectangular shape, and flip it over oil that helps it become crisp-edged as so that both sides of the dough are it bakes. As I was working on this rec- equally covered in the oil. Press your ipe, Netflix’s “Salt Fat Acid Heat” pre- fingertips deeply into each part of miered, and suddenly making focaccia the dough, making dimples and help- felt particularly timely. ing the dough hold its shape. Cover In Samin Nostrat’s excellent, highly the dough loosely with a well-oiled acclaimed series about the fundamen- piece of plastic wrap. Let the dough tal elements of making good food, she rise again for 45 minutes to an hour. invites the viewer to learn how to make While the dough is rising again, pre- Ligurian focaccia. In Liguria, Italy, bakers heat the oven to 425 F. add the unique step of topping the focac- 5. Before baking, top the dough with cia with a salt brine before baking the the olives, za’atar and a generous dough. I was captivated by the simplicity sprinkle of flake salt. Bake for 25-30 and beauty of the focaccia-making pro- minutes or until golden brown with cess, and have rewatched that part of the a crisp crust. “FAT” episode countless times. 6. Once out of the oven, drizzle with While the focaccia recipe here dif- more olive oil and allow to cool fers from its Ligurian counterpart, the slightly before serving. Serves 6-8. essential components are the same and the lessons learned from Nostrat are (Sonya Sanford is a chef, food stylist helpfully applicable. Primarily, one is Za’atar and olive focaccia PHOTOGRAPH BY SONYA SANFORD and writer based out of Los Angeles.) reminded that when a recipe has so few ingredients, each ingredient should be gift, and it can be turned into delicious of a knife. Add the flour and salt to This piece was published originally on of good quality. Focaccia requires extra croutons, stored in the freezer for future the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with The Nosher, a 70 Faces Media property. virgin olive oil, and that olive oil should snacking, or even become the base of a dough hook. Alternatively, you can The Nosher food blog offers a dazzling be good, fresh and have a robust flavor. an unexpected Middle Eastern-inspired make this dough by hand, but note array of new and classic Jewish recipes and Choosing the olive oil can be a mat- turkey stuffing. that the dough is on the sticky side. food news, from Europe to Yemen, from ter of preference. I’m partial to California 3. Add the water and yeast mixture challah to shakshuka and beyond. Check it olive oils with their smooth butteriness; Ingredients: and 2 tablespoons of the olive oil to out at www.TheNosher.com. high-quality affordable varieties can be 2 1/4 teaspoons (1 packet) active dry the flour mixture. Turn the mixer found in most grocery stores. You could yeast to stir, and allow it to mix until a also splurge on an Italian olive oil from a 1 teaspoon sugar shaggy dough is just formed. Turn specialty market. The olive oil will help 1 3/4 cups warm water (105-110 F.) up the stand mixer to medium for your focaccia get a crisp crust, and will 5 cups bread flour plus more as needed 5-6 minutes, or until a smooth, soft perfume the dough with its flavor. 2 teaspoons kosher salt, Diamond brand and elastic dough forms. It’s OK if it I like using kalamata olives in this (use less if using table salt or Morton is a little sticky; if it’s not forming a recipe for their fruity wine-like flavor, brand) cohesive dough at all, you can add a but you could certainly use your favor- 5 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil, little more flour a spoonful at a time. ite olive variety. The olives serve to divided, plus more as needed Remove the dough from the mixer, accentuate the flavors in the oil, and 1/2 cup pitted kalamata olives gently form into a ball and transfer the dough also gets topped with za’atar 1 tablespoon za’atar, or to taste to a well-oiled bowl. Turn the dough to bring a welcome herby earthiness to Flake salt, to taste in the bowl so that all sides have this rich bread. touched the oil. Cover the dough Just before putting it in the oven, Directions: with a lightly oiled piece of plastic I top the focaccia with flake salt for 1. Dissolve the yeast with sugar in the wrap, and then cover everything crunch and savoriness. After oil, salt is warm water, and allow it to sit for 10 with a kitchen towel. Place the cov- focaccia’s best friend. minutes or until the mixture looks ered dough in a warm part of the I love to serve this olive and za’atar foamy and bubbly. kitchen and allow it to rise until dou- bread with an Israeli-style spread: fresh 2. If using a measuring cup instead of a bled in size, about 1 1/2 to 2 hours. salads, good feta, hummus and baba scale, spoon flour into the measuring 4. Add 3 tablespoons of olive oil to a ganoush. Leftover focaccia is always a cup and then level it off with the back rimmed baking sheet. Punch down

The Observer January 2019 27 The Jewish food trends you’ll be seeing in 2019

By SHANNON SARNA Tahini, tahini everywhere showing up in a wider variety of foods the corner store and road trips.” Yeah, we know tahini has been and stores including Jewish foods. Bring on the tofu jerky, we are ready. (The Nosher via JTA) What a year all over restaurant menus, infiltrating But it’s not just CBD that is making — delis opened, delis closed, we talked Pinterest and more widely appearing its way into foods and coffee shops. The Pierogies and other comfort foods about rainbow bagels, and reviewed the on supermarket shelves for years. But Israeli ice cream company Vaniglia served Facebook’s research says that com- history of pickles in America. And now since we know tahini is a good fat up cannabis-flavored ice cream this past fort foods are on the rise, and when the it’s time to look ahead to what will be and incredibly versatile for sweet and year. And ICYMI, Joan Nathan was fea- hipsters of Brooklyn embrace a cuisine, happening in Jewish food for the com- savory dishes, the reign of tahini is just tured on Viceland making “weed-infused we know it’s about to get expensive and ing year. beginning. matzah balls.” trendy. Middle Eastern and Israeli cooking At DeKalb market in Brooklyn, Bread is back are also gaining wider and wider popu- Faux meat the Pierogi Boys are serving up clas- For all of you who have scooped larity in America, which means there is Whether it’s for health reasons, sic, hand-made pierogies, cucumber your bagel or who decided to go glu- likely to be more roasted cauliflower with ideological reasons, or kosher reasons, salad, and borscht at their hip stall. ten-free for nonmedical reasons, guess tahini and baked goods made with tahini faux meat has been on the rise and is sure This past fall The Gefilteria teamed what: Facebook’s research on food appearing on restaurant menus and show- to gain even further visibility and pop- up with Polish Chef Ewa Malika Szyc- trends confirms that bread is back and ing up at dinner parties. So make sure ularity in 2019. In 2018 the Impossible Juchnowicz and the Polish Cultural better than ever. Naturally-fermented your pantry is stocked. Burger made a splash among vegetarians Institute New York to host a Polish breads like sourdough are considered and kosher keepers alike, since it is con- food-focused pop-up restaurant. And good for your gut and overall health, Cannabidiol sidered to taste more “like meat” than in the last year, fast-casual Teremok, especially those made with whole If you haven’t yet seen CBD other veggie burgers and even bleeds aka the “McDonalds of Russia,” opened grains. marketed near you at stores or cafes, like real meat. Several kosher restaurants several locations in the U.S. Teremok “Food startups are innovating bread get ready, because you probably will. began carrying it in 2018 and many more has since closed its NYC outpost, but I with processes like ‘slow carb baking,’ or Cannabidiol (CBD) is a nonpsychoac- are likely to add it to menus in the com- haven’t given up on the hope of piero- slow natural fermenting, which creates tive substance that comes from hemp ing year. gies making a splash in 2019. • breads with lower glycemic indexes (GI). plants. So just to clarify, consuming Jackfruit has also gained popularity In the process, they are also creating CBD isn’t the same as eating a pot as a plant-based alternative to pulled This piece was published originally on loaves with increased bioavailability of brownie. CBD won’t get you high, but pork or brisket. Whole Foods’ predictions The Nosher, a 70 Faces Media property. nutrients,” their 2019 trend report says. is said to calm anxiety and nerves and for 2019 included fake meat snacks, say- The Nosher food blog offers a dazzling So you can go back to eating bread every even help you sleep. And since it’s ing, “Plant-based foods will continue to array of new and classic Jewish recipes and day, just like Oprah, without any guilt. gaining greater popularity (the coffee surprise and inspire — this year taking on food news, from Europe to Yemen, from Make an extra challah, or even try mak- joint downstairs from our office carries the meat-based snacking world of jerkies challah to shakshuka and beyond. Check it ing your own rye bread. it, for example), we predict it will be and pork rinds you may associate with out at www.TheNosher.com. Camps Issue COMINGCOMING FEBRUARY 2019

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