Our Marriage: What It's Like to Be Married to an Entrepreneur As an Artist in the PMU, Microblading, and Beauty Business
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EP. 111 Our Marriage: What It's Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur As An Artist In The PMU, Microblading, And Beauty Business podcast notes at: www.sheilabella.com/111ourmarriage Sheila Bella: Okay, I'm going to start this out. A little different. Alexa play This Is How We Do It by Montell Jordan, volume 10. Alexa: This Is How We Do It by Montell Jordan- [crosstalk 00:00:17]. Sheila Bella: All right you guys, I want you to join me for a 30 second dance party right now, wherever you are if you're in a funk, shake it off. Let's go. Montell Jordan: This is how we do it. This is how we do it. Sheila Bella: I love this throw back. EPISODE 111: Our Marriage: What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur As An Artist In The PMU, Microblading, and Beauty Business www.sheilabella.com/111ourmarriage 1 Montell Jordan: This is how we do it. Sheila Bella: Okay. I hope your Instagram stories are rolling. This is how we do it's Friday night and I feel alright. Montell Jordan: The party's here on the West side so I reach for my 40 and I turn it up. Designated driver take the keys to my truck Hit the shore because I'm- [crosstalk 00:01:08]. Sheila Bella: Faded. Montell Jordan: Honeys in the street say, Monty, yo we made it. Sheila Bella: Oh my gosh you guys. Bonus points if you record yourself on Instagram right now, doing that and tag me, I might send you a gift. I might send you a gift who knows? But gosh working from home, you got to get creative, right? Because it's the same room every single day. And it's also the location that you sleep in so I definitely think exercise, especially now is super important. And having dance breaks like this, it actually activates your lymphatic system. Do you guys know what that is? Just look it up. It's a good thing. It's just a good thing, okay? Boost your endorphins. I have more energy. So I actually make it a point to get my heart rate up several times a day. I have an alarm that goes off on my phone every two hours, just to make sure that I get my dance break in because it helps me focus, especially when I'm creating courses or podcasts for you guys, I get to get up and shake it off. Okay. So I guess it fits the theme of entrepreneurial hacks. And this episode is going to be a little bit different because I'm actually bringing in my husband, I'm bringing in my husband for this one. And we are going to talk about how it is to be married to EPISODE 111: Our Marriage: What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur As An Artist In The PMU, Microblading, and Beauty Business www.sheilabella.com/111ourmarriage 2 somebody who is entrepreneurial, because I know for a lot of our not so old entrepreneurial partners, it's an adjustment, right? So against all the advice of my podcast editor, we decided to record this in the car. I mean, it was very natural, it was very natural unedited, unfiltered. And maybe you guys can get a little bit of an idea of what it's like to hang out with us in real life and what we're really like in real life. Here we go. Welcome to Pretty Rich Podcast where you're totally the heroine of your own story. I'm your host, Sheila Bella. And I built a seven figure PMU beauty biz, and a seven figure online biz without a degree, without a fancy website or a sugar daddy. And if you and I hang out on here long enough, you're going to start to believe that you can do it too. How about that for a side effect of listening to this podcast? Because you really can. I know you think, I don't know you, I've no idea who you are, but I do. I really, really do because I am you. I was you and I believe we are all on the same journey together. My perfect job didn't exist so I created it. The job I wanted, wasn't hurting me wanted nothing to do with me. So I skipped the line and hired myself as CEO just like you can. So consider me your secret beauty biz BFF in case you need to be reminded on a weekly basis that power is never just handed to you, you have to take it. Are you ready beauty boss. Let's jump in. Will Reusch: I'm Mr. Bella. Sheila Bella: That's not even our last name. Okay. Will Reusch: I'm Sheila's husband. Sheila Bella: Okay. EPISODE 111: Our Marriage: What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur As An Artist In The PMU, Microblading, and Beauty Business www.sheilabella.com/111ourmarriage 3 Will Reusch: Do they know your last name? Sheila Bella: I don't think they really know my last name, should I tell them? All right, my last name is Reusch. It's my married name. Rhymes with what is it? Summer's Eve. Douche, okay, it rhymes with douche. Will Reusch: It does. Sheila Bella: Okay. So just recently we asked, I did put a little sticker post on my Instagram and we wanted to do, or I wanted to do. Will had no choice. I'm sorry. So I wanted to do a marriage episode. Okay. Now that we're going to be cranking out two podcasts a week, a marriage episode. I think a lot of you guys have questions about what it's like to be married to a crazy entrepreneur like me, for those of you who don't know, my husband is a high school teacher. Will Reusch: I've been teaching in LA since 2006. So 14 years. Sheila Bella: So the next question typically, when we go to parties is what grade? Oh, you're a school teacher, what grade? They all ask that, right? Will Reusch: Yeah, no, I don't think people really care, but I teach high school. I teach high school, social studies, civics, government, economics, history, psychology, stuff like that. EPISODE 111: Our Marriage: What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur As An Artist In The PMU, Microblading, and Beauty Business www.sheilabella.com/111ourmarriage 4 Sheila Bella: Yeah, then he uses a skills on me. In many ways I feel like you taught me. You taught me about like, I don't know, you gave me confidence. When I met you I might as well have been a teenager in my head maturity wise, right? Will Reusch: Yeah. I'd say that. That'd be accurate. Yeah. You were, there were some arrested development. Is that what they call it? Yeah. Sheila Bella: Okay. So we're just going to move on to the questions. Wow, you guys have a lot. I don't know if we have time for all of these, but let's go to an easy one. I don't know if this is easiest, this is from Allure Beauty Bar. She asks what's the hardest part of marriage? Will Reusch: I think it's just the daily kind of grind of it. Sheila Bella: Grind? Will Reusch: I think you have to just be committed to figuring it out. I don't know, the difficult thing there isn't one thing that's difficult. It's just I guess... Okay, let me make a little clearer. Yeah, you can edit this. Sheila Bella: No, I'm not editing this. No, no. Will Reusch: It's like, what's the toughest thing about getting in shape? It's like watching- [crosstalk 00:00:07:10]. EPISODE 111: Our Marriage: What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur As An Artist In The PMU, Microblading, and Beauty Business www.sheilabella.com/111ourmarriage 5 Sheila Bella: Getting in shape. Will Reusch: Yeah, it's your diet and exercise. So the hardest thing about marriage is just it's the day in and day out of just like, you got to work on this all the time, you got to find someone who's willing to work on it with you. You don't look for the perfect person you look for the person who's going to evolve with you and change with you because we're going to be totally different people than we were when we met. And you have to commit to, we're going to figure this whole thing out. Sheila Bella: Yeah, I agree with you there. Will Reusch: There's a funny side, there's a funny, Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith they talked 15 years ago, 20 years ago when they got married, divorce is off the table, divorce is off the table. And it was just funny because I heard I think it was Artie Lange the comedian said, well, if divorce is off the table, the murder is on the table. But it's that concept of, we've probably had fights that if we weren't married that we'd probably be like, all right. [crosstalk 00:08:02] Yeah. It's like, oh, it's not worth it, so.