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By Barbara Chenevert tracted or discouraged. We Staff Writer must remember that we are here at the request of God. We Catholics must be willing to represent God,” he said. stand up for a culture of life on Without the right to life all every front – in their political, other rights are non-existent. social and family lives, Father Catholics have to teach that Shenan Boquet said at the truth. The most valuable right Bishop’s Annual Respect Life is the right to life. The preborn Rally Jan. 8. child has a right to life. The old Speaking to a crowd of about person in a nursing home has 200 people gathered at the a right to life. The poor have a Catholic Life Center in Baton right to life. Most population Rouge, Father Boquet said, control is aimed at the poorest “God wants us to defend life of the world and that is a social in an articulate way. We must justice issue, Father Boquet know what we are saying, what said. we are teaching.’ “You may see yourself as It takes tremendous courage insignificant, but with God’s to stand up in love and defend grace we can do great things,” life, said Father Boquet, presi- he added. If every Christian in dent of Human Life Interna- the United States – and that’s tional. 65 percent of the population – “In order to create a civiliza- would stand up for life, abor- tion of love and life, we must tion would come to an end. recognize that everyone has a Richard Mahoney leads the procession of the living rosary during the Bishop’s Annual Respect Life Father Boquet, who comes part to play. We can’t be dis- Rally in the Main Auditorium of the Catholic Life Center Jan. 8. Photo by Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator See Rally page 17

Events in Washington, around U.S. mark 39th anniversary of Roe v. Wade

By Carol Zimmermann turnouts, this year will be no Catholic News Service exception. Tens of thousands of people WASHINGTON — One thing from across the United States that always stands out in the are expected to gather in the annual marches and rallies nation’s capital Jan. 23 for in Washington and across the this year’s March for Life in country marking the anniversa- Washington with the theme: ry of the U.S. Supreme Court’s “Unite on the life principles decision legalizing abortion is to overturn Roe v. Wade and the size of the crowds. with love protect mothers and “People are always sur- preborn children – no excep- prised by the number of tion, no compromise.” pro-lifers that show up in The event falls on a Mon- Washington and in their own day, the day after the 39th an- state capitals,” said Carol To- niversary of the Roe v. Wade bias, president of the National decision, to allow participants Right to Life Committee. to visit their representatives “The crowds are getting on Capitol Hill after a noon March for Life participants make their way up Constitution Avenue to the Supreme Court building in bigger and bigger each year rally on the National Mall and Washington Jan. 24, 2011. Tens of thousands of people from across the United States are expected to and have more young people, a march along Constitution gather in the nation's capital Jan. 23 for this year's March for Life. Photo by Peter Lockley | CNS which is encouraging for the Avenue to the Supreme Court. pro-life movement and a shock Next year’s march and rally public ceremonies for the presi- The night before this year’s also sponsoring a youth rally for those who think abortion in Washington are slated for dential inauguration, and orga- rally, March for Life organiz- that night at a Washington ho- should remain legal,” she told Friday Jan. 25 because the nizers said they were not able ers are planning a mini-rally tel. Catholic News Service Jan. 4. Jan. 22 anniversary will fall to secure an adequate number in Lafayette Park, across from A capacity crowd of about And based on expected on a Tuesday, the day after of hotel rooms then. the White House. They are c see mar h page 8 2 The Catholic Commentator January 11, 2012

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Iwn his Ne Year Message, Pope Benedict A special section on vocations to the When name “Catholic Church” first used XVI tells Catholics to enter 2012 with hope priesthood and religious life explores and a commitment to working for justice issues es- While the New Testament his life for Christ, prayed for and peace. Page 4 sential to refers to followers of Jesus “all who had met with him Vocation as Christians, the church at any time, both small and Three couples who are expecting children Awareness established by Christ was great, both those with and in 2012 talk of the support they receive Week, Jan. being called “The Catholic those without renown, and from their church parish as well as their 9 through Church” as early as the sec- the whole Catholic Church own family members. Page 9 14. Pages ond century A.D. and per- throughout the world.” 1B – 8B haps even earlier. St. Polycarp had been After many The first written refer- Christian for some 86 years, years at war ence to the Catholic Church and religious authorities in various (he katholike ekklesia) conclude that the church locations came about the year 107 was being referred to as the around A.D. in a letter from St. Ignatius of An- Catholic Church during his time, per- the world, tioch to Christians in Smyrna (in mod- haps even in the first century A.D. Americans ern-day Turkey) before he was martyred By the time of the first ecumenical are realizing near Rome. St. Ignatius was appointed council held in Nicaea in 325 A.D., the the toll the by St. Peter to be the Bishop of Antioch. name Catholic Church was being used military | de in x In a letter of farewell to his fellow in official documents. The Nicene Creed, takes on Christians, St. Ignatius wrote, “Where- in which Catholics profess their belief in returning Classified Ads 16 soever the bishop shall appear, there the “holy, catholic church,” was formu- soldiers and Coming Events 16 let the people be, even as where Jesus lated at that council. on their families. Page 10 Entertainment 12 may be, there is the universal (katho- The Catechism of the Church says Family Life 5 like) Church.” The term “catholic”, which the church is catholic because “she pro- Pope Benedict XVI has declared a Year of INTERNATIONAL/NATIONAL NEWS 4 means universal, was apparently already claims the fullness of the faith. She bears Faith to begin Oct. 11, 2012, and to end being used in the early second century. in herself and administers the totality of Spirituality 7 Nov. 24, 2013. His aim is to help the church A written account of the sufferings and the means of salvation. She is sent out to focus its attention on Jesus Christ and the Viewpoint 14 death of St. Polycarp, around 155 A.D., all peoples. She speaks to all men. She beauty of having faith in him. Page 11 Youth 18 also refers to the Catholic Church. The encompasses all times. She is ‘mission- writer said St. Polycarp, before giving up ary of her very nature.’ ”

| Pray for those who pray for us Coming in January Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. the CatholiC Jan. 15 Rev. Christopher J. Decker Jan. 22 Rev. Francis V. Ferrier SJ Dcn. Ronald J. Hebert Dcn. Ronald D. LeGrange Sr. Ileana Fernandez CSJ Sr. Mildred Guillot CSJ Jan. 16 Rev. Vincent J. Dufresne Jan. 23 Rev. Msgr. Andrew F. Frey Dcn. Clayton A. Hollier Dcn. Albert Levy III Commentatorserving the diocese o f baton rouge since 1962 Sr. Dulce Maria Flores HMSS Sr. Melanie Guste RSCJ Jan. 17 Rev. Jerome A. Dugas Jan. 24 Rev. Michael A. Galea Dcn. William H. Holtman Dcn. James A. Little January 25: Sr. Clare Francis MC Sr. Ursula Harelson CSJ Jan. 18 Rev. Thomas P. Duhé Jan. 25 Rev. Henry W. Gautreau Jr. Dcn. Micheal J. (Shelley) Joseph Dcn. Edwin J. Martin Catholic Schools Week Br. Clement Furno CSsR Sr. Mary Anne Hebert CSJ Jan. 19 Rev. Matthew C. Dupré Jan. 26 Rev. Msgr. William L. Greene Dcn. John A. Jung Jr. Dcn. Matthew E. McCaughey Br. Henry Gaither SC Sr. Anna Hoang ICM Jan. 20 Rev. Ayo Emmanuel Efodigbue MSP Jan. 27 Rev. Paul A. Gros Dcn. Robert J. Kusch Dcn. Larry J. Melancon Sr. Carol Gonsoulin CSJ Sr. Cuc Hoang ICM Jan. 21 Rev. Denis O. Ekwugha Jan. 28 Rev. Msgr. Leo Guillot Dcn. Thomas E. Labat Sr. Dcn. James J. Morrissey Sr. Mary Joel Gubler OP Sr. Mary John Hotard CSJ

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By Laura Deavers their oath of office Jan. 9. Hughes in his opening remarks Editor Bishop Robert W. Muench wel- to Jindal and the others who have comed everyone to the service, been elected to state office in the Religious leaders from through- and Archbishop Alfred C. Hughes, fall. “This is true for the state, the out Louisiana gathered Sunday, retired archbishop of New Or- church and the family.” Jan. 8, at St. Joseph Cathedral for leans, gave the pastoral charge to The archbishop prayed that the 2012 Inaugural Prayer Ser- service to the elected officials. these officials would have wis- vice for Gov. Bobby Jindal and “All authority comes ultimate- dom, knowledge, understanding, other elected officials who took ly from God,” said Archbishop judgment and courage to know and then do what should be done for the best interests of the people of Louisiana. During the Commissioning for Service, Rev. Jerry Snider of Lake “God wants those in office to Charles, from left, Rev. Dennis Watson of Metairie, Rev. Steve Robinson pursue the common good” and of Mandeville, and Rev. Kevin McKee of Baton Rouge pray for Gov. not favor personal, financial or Bobby Jindal. Photo by Laura Deavers | The Catholic Commentator influential interests, said Arch- bishop Hughes. He prayed that continued. The archbishop also blies of God, read the Commis- there be solidarity among all mentioned that all people of Lou- sioning for Service, Rev. Jerry ethnic groups – European-Amer- isiana should have access to edu- Snider, Christian World Church, icans, African-Americans, Asian- cation, social services and health Lake Charles; Rev. Kevin McKee, Americans, Native-Americans care. These should be provided in The Chapel on the Campus, Baton and Hispanic-Americans – as ways that do not violate the con- Rouge; Rev. Dennis Watson, Cel- well as Christians, Jews, Mus- science of those receiving or pro- ebration Church, Metairie; and lims, Hindi and those with no viding the services, Archbishop Rev. Steve Robinson, Church of Gov. Bobby Jindal visits with Archbishop Alfred C. Hughes, retired religion. Hughes stated. the King, Mandeville, placed their archbishop of New Orleans, center, and Bishop Robert W. Muench fol- “Churches, synagogues, mosques While Rev. Doug Fulenwider, hands on the shoulders of Jindal, lowing the 2012 Inaugural Prayer Service Jan. 8 at St. Joseph Cathe- and temples need to be assured superintendent of the Louisiana who had stepped into the sanctu- dral. Photo by Laura Deavers | The Catholic Commentator of their freedom to worship,” he District Council of the Assem- ary from his seat in the front pew. Our Lady of MERCY

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By Cindy Wooden of Mary, Mother of God, and man being appeared and the Catholic News Service World Peace Day. path to peace was reopened.” The pope ended 2011 by cel- “I invite all of you to join me VATICAN CITY — Christians ebrating an evening prayer ser- in praying earnestly for peace should look toward the new year vice Dec. 31 in the basilica and throughout the world, for rec- with hope and a commitment to offering God thanks for the past onciliation and forgiveness in working for justice and peace, year. The next morning, he cel- areas of conflict, and for a more Pope Benedict XVI said. ebrated Mass in St. Peter’s and just and equitable distribution “God is love, he is just and recited the Angelus with visitors of the world’s resources,” he peaceable, and anyone wishing gathered in St. Peter’s Square. said. to honor him must first of all act He told the crowd in the Earlier, during his homily at like a child following his father’s square that thanks to Mary’s Mass, the pope said Jesus’ birth example,” the pope said Jan. 1 openness to God’s will, “the true changed human history, filling it during a Mass marking the feast light that illuminates every hu- with hope and promise.

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“He is the mercy and the with a capacity to address con- peace that the world, of itself, flicts without arrogance, with cannot give, and which it needs the inner strength to bear wit- at least as much as bread,” the ness to good, even when it in- pope said. volves sacrifice, with forgive- For World Peace Day 2012, ness and reconciliation,” Pope Pope Benedict focused on the Benedict said. Showca se theme of educating young peo- Religious leaders must con- ple in justice and peace. tribute to the process as well, “In the face of the shadows he said, because “every pathway that obscure the horizons of to- of authentic religious forma- day’s world, to assume responsi- tion guides the person, from the bility for educating young peo- most tender age, to know God, ple in knowledge of the truth, to love him and do his will.” in fundamental values and vir- At the evening prayer service tues, is to look to the future with New Year’s Eve, the pope said hope,” the pope said. most people look toward a new With the ease of communica- year “with some trepidation,” tions, travel and globalization, with desires and expectations. Saturday, January 21 • 10 am – 5 pm he said, the world seems smaller But the changing of the civic cal- in many ways and people come endar so soon after Christmas Mall of Louisiana Center Court into contact more often with helps Christians recognize the others from a different race, re- purpose of their lives and look Enjoy performances and artwork by our talented students. ligion or culture. with confidence to the future. “Now, more than ever, it is “From within the fabric of The students will also demonstrate their robotics projects. indispensable to learn the im- humanity, rent asunder by so portance and the art of peace- much injustice, wickedness and See our students in action and learn about the benefits ful coexistence, mutual respect, violence, there bursts forth in an and opportunities that a Catholic education dialogue and understanding,” unforeseen way the joyful and can provide for your child. he said. liberating novelty of Christ our While young people naturally savior, who leads us to contem- are open, the pope said they of- plate the goodness and tender- ten are targets of manipulation ness of God,” the pope said. Find all of the details at csobr.org. by those who are intolerant and “There is no more room for violent, so “a solid education of anxiety in the face of time that their consciences” is important. passes, never to return,” he said. Education begins in the fam- “Now there is room for unlim- ily, which must help children ited trust in God, by whom we “develop a personality that com- know we are loved, for whom we bines a profound sense of justice live and to whom our life is di- with respect for their neighbor, rected.” January 11, 2012 FAMILY LIFE The Catholic Commentator 5 Pope, at audience, encourages parents to teach children to pray

By Cindy Wooden dict looked at the Holy Family way, to become truly one heart Catholic News Service as a model of family life marked and one soul, a true family.” by faith, work and regular mo- Addressing the English VATICAN CITY ­— If children ments of prayer together. speakers among the estimated do not learn to pray from their “The Holy Family is the icon 7,000 people gathered in the parents, it will be difficult for of the domestic church called to Vatican audience hall, Pope them to ever learn to commu- pray together. The family is the Benedict said, “May the exam- nicate with God domestic church ple of the Holy Family inspire naturally, simply and must be the all Christian families to be and deeply, Pope “The family is the first school of schools of prayer, where par- Benedict XVI prayer,” he said. ents and children alike come said. domestic church While the to know that closeness to God “In the fam- Gospels do not which we joyfully celebrate in ily, children from and must be the give many de- these days of Christmas.” the tenderest age tails about Jesus’ can learn to per- first school of childhood, he Editor’s Note: The text of ceive the sense of said, the Bible is A student raises Mexico’s flag as others cheer during Pope Benedict the pope’s audience remarks in God thanks to the prayer.” clear that Mary XVI’s general audience in Paul VI hall at the Vatican Dec. 28. Photo by Paul English is online at: vatican. teaching and ex- and Joseph were Haring | CNS va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/ ample their par- Pope Benedict XVI observant Jews, audiences/2011/documents/ ents give of living which means they old and journeyed to Jerusalem pray in the family, it will be dif- hf_ben-xvi_aud_20111228_ in the presence of prayed at regular to celebrate the Passover. ficult to fill this void, so I want en.html. God,” the pope said at his weekly times throughout the day and “An authentically Christian to invite you to rediscover the And, in Spanish: vatican.va/ general audience Dec. 28. before meals. They went to Je- education cannot lack the ex- beauty of praying together as a holy_father/benedict_xvi/audi Continuing a series of audi- rusalem to present Jesus in the perience of prayer,” the pope family in the school of the Holy ences/2011/documents/hf_ben- ence talks on prayer, Pope Bene- temple when he was 40 days said. “If one does not learn to Family of Nazareth and, in that xvi_aud_20111228_sp.html. Why does family history matter?

hy does family history family. Who you came from was your identity is not merely your Jesus was both an expression matter? I asked myself very important to the Scripture own personal marker. You are and an extension of his family Wthat question as I put writers in telling who you were. both an expression and exten- tree, and so are all of us. together some albums of ances- My husband’s grandpar- sion of an already acknowledged Maybe that’s why family his- try for my kids for Christmas. ents all emigrated from Italy. family line.” tory matters. Is there anyone among us It was exciting to receive an The Gospel writers knew who hasn’t lamented at some emailed photo of my husband’s that. They knew that the God CALDAROLA, who writes a point, “Gee, I wish I would have great-grandmother, who lived who chose to be born into our general-interest column, can asked Grandma – or Grandpa in Rionero, Italy, in the 19th world chose to be born into a be reached at Catholic News or Dad or Uncle Joe – more century. It was sent to me by an family line, and that those lines Service, 3211 Fourth St. N.E., questions about the family while Italian cousin. It was also fun matter. Washington, D.C. 20017. they were still alive”? to listen to my mother-in-law The other side of that coin is reminisce about her grandfa- that often we do remember eve- ther, whose photo adorns his nings spent reminiscing around For The Journey gravestone in Rhode Island. Tree Service the dining room table with older But for me, my Celtic Mr. D’s relatives, but nobody wrote it Effie Caldarola heritage has very special mean- ovEr 35 yEars ExpErIEncE down – or better yet, turned on ing, especially as it relates to Don Decell, owner a recorder. Now the storylines who those folks were, star- Celtic spirituality with its deep carl BaBin, owner blur and the memories grow ing out at them with the sober relationship to the land and • Economical foggier. And the silence that expressions favored in late 19th- the environment. Two of my • Fully Insured • Quality Work separates us from the dead century photography. great-grandfathers came to this CALL TODAY! seems quite intense. My Christmas project aimed country because of the mid- 225-292-6756 And then there’s that box to give my kids a sense of their 19th-century Irish famine. One of photos in the attic. Who the direct lineage. I’m not the of them came as an orphaned heck could this young man be? genealogist to compile page young man from County Gal- E x c l usive Resthaven I peruse the old, sepia-toned after page of cousins three times way. Mausoleum picture of someone, probably removed. I was not born with In his book “Eternal Echoes,” Grandma’s brother or Grandpa’s the scrapbooking gene, either, the great Irish writer and phi- Spaces (for 2) cousin, his name lost to poster- so my little enterprise is not losopher John O’Donohue wrote just $3,995* ity, but his face preserved. “cute” nor is it even done with a exquisitely about his own life Regular $ 6,100. When I visit an antique shop very straight ruler. growing up in his homeland of These specially *priced crypts are located at levels 7 & and see those framed photos, it What I do like are stories and Connemara in County Galway. 8 in our lovely lawn mausoleums. stabs at my heart to think that anecdotes about the past. Relat- He says that in Connemara, Payment plans are available. Limited someone gave those old photos ing ancestral stories is some- “when someone asks a child time offer. away. But then I hope, perhaps thing that the Hebrew people who he is, the child is not simply over-optimistically, that maybe did well. And when Jesus came asked for his name. The ques- their descendants made smaller, along, the Gospel writers were tion is ‘Ce leis thu?’ i.e., To 11817 Jefferson Hwy at Airline more functional copies to keep. quick to want to establish his whom do you belong? There is a www.ResthavenBatonRouge.com 225-753-1440 Or maybe they just didn’t know lineage and tell a little about his recognition in the language that 2x2.5” Rest.maus.obits.blk’11 6-16-11 6 The Catholic Commentator January 11, 2012 KC 969’s Cook-off promises fun Flags in church; internal forum

and funding for OLOM youth Who dictates the display in complete continence, that is, by of American flags in abstinence from the acts proper to Knights of Columbus Coun- for the right to taste all of the Qchurch? Some Catholic married couples.” cil 969 is challenging area gumbo, and the $10 it’ll cost churches do it, and some don’t. Is This arrangement, sometimes chefs to bring their chicken to buy a quart of each of your, it the individual pastor’s decision? referred to as a “brother-sister and sausage gumbo recipes favorites – that’s plural favor- What is the rule? (Lake Ozark, relationship,” would apply only to and ingredients to the Our ites – we hope to raise funds Mo.) couples who are unable to sepa- Lady of Mercy School gym- for OLOM Church’s youth ac- rate because of the circumstances nasium Saturday, Jan. 28, for tivities,” Ruffino said. The Code of Canon Law (e.g., responsibility for bringing a cook-off to determine who Competing teams must does not set forth any up children) but who would pledge makes the best gumbo in Ba- provide all ingredients, ex- Arule regarding the pres- themselves to refrain from con- ton Rouge. cept for the sausage that’s be- ence of national flags in Catholic jugal relations unless and until a KC Grand Knight Ronnie ing donated by Manda Fine churches. Accordingly, it is left to church annulment were obtained. Ruffino said that two-person Meats, as well as all cooking the discretion of the local dioc- So it does not seem to be a popu- teams are invited to com- equipment, including pots esan bishop, who, in turn, often Question Corner lar or widely used option. pete in KC 969’s second an- that hold no less than seven leaves it to the judgment of the nual Gumbo Cook-off, which gallons, and burners. Fire local pastor. Father Kenneth Doyle Why, in the new wording will assure lasting fame to extinguishers are required The practice of displaying an of the Mass, do we say in the winners individually for each team. Cooking will American flag in church appar- Qthe Gloria “peace to people or through their corporate begin at 6 a.m., and gumbo ently had its origin during World War II, when of good will,” yet, when we come to the creed, we sponsors. “We expect this to must be ready for judging at churches would often place with the flag a book say “for us men and for our salvation”? become the premier gumbo 11:30 a.m. The public will be listing parishioners who were then in the armed As a woman in the secular world, I am made to competition in East Baton able to come in from noon un- forces, as a reminder for people to keep them in feel marginalized and disenfranchised – but I ex- Rouge Parish,” Ruffino said. til 4 p.m. prayer. pect better from my church. “Those individuals or com- This year’s judges include The U.S. bishops’ Committee on the Liturgy What was the reason for keeping “men” in one panies who think they make Baton Rouge Mayor-Presi- has in the past encouraged pastors not to position instance, but “people” in the other? (Milwaukee, good gumbo need to register dent Kip Holden, Chef Don a flag in the sanctuary itself, which should be re- Wis.) for our cook-off, then show up Bergeron and Father Vic Mes- served for the altar, the lectern and the celebrant’s and prove it.” sina. chair so as to keep the congregation’s focus on the Your question is a good one, and I have Ruffino explained that the “As folks walk around tast- Eucharist. searched in vain for a plausible answer. It public is invited not only to ing the gumbos, they’ll be It’s probably fair to say that most priests Ahighlights one of the inconsistencies in the sample the goods prepared by entertained by a Cajun band,” are inclined not to give prominence to national new English wording, a point made more than the competitors, but also to- Ruffino said. “They can even symbols within a church building. Churches are once by U.S. bishops during negotiations with the purchase gumbo by the quart. dance if they want to, regard- in a certain sense “extra-territorial”: i.e., within Vatican over the translation. “We’re not doing this just to less of whether they know that sacred space, national ties are superseded Certainly, in both the Gloria and the creed, the make some gumbo cooks feel how to dance or not.” by membership in the worldwide family of the meaning is the same: Both phrases are meant to good, we’re doing this to make For more information or Catholic faith, where all are welcome and all are include both women and men. money for the youth activities registration forms, interested equal. In the Latin text of the Mass (which is, of of Our Lady of Mercy Church parties should contact Louis That notion of “supra-nationalism” is high- course, the normative text), the same word is used Parish,” Ruffino said. “Be- Prejean at 225-933-3855 lighted in the church’s official Order of Christian in both the Gloria and the creed; the Latin noun tween the $50 entry fee each or 225-926-1242, or at the Funerals, which specifies that “national flags ... is “homo (gen. hominis),” which is generic and team has to put up, the dol- OLOM Church office, 225- have no place in the funeral liturgy” and thus “are includes both sexes. lar each attendee has to pay 926-1883. to be removed from the coffin at the entrance of The argument could be made, I suppose, that the church.” historically the English word “man” has some- Look for past articles at thecatholiccommentator.org. times denoted inclusivity. (We say, for example, If I’m not mistaken, there is something in that an especially cold day “is unfit for man or the church’s marriage law called an “inter- beast.”) Qnal forum solution,” where an individual But growing sensibilities are important, and, asks for the equivalent of an annulment in the as your question indicates, some women today sacrament of penance. This allows for a civil mar- hear the words “man” or “men” as inherently ASSION riage to take place and for both partners to receive exclusive and prejudicial, and they take offense. P the Eucharist while one or both parties are wait- I would much prefer that the translators had ing for an annulment to be granted. Normal mar- bowed to that reality and used the generic phras- WITH riage privileges, including sexual relations, would ing in both prayers. be expected and allowed during this period. The One priest of my acquaintance has adopted the civil marriage could then be blessed in the church following pastoral approach: In the recitation of after the annulment has been granted. the creed at Mass, he simply says “for us – (pause) Is this information correct? (Oskaloosa, Iowa) – and for our salvation;” he is silent at the word “men,” but leaves time for those who want to ANDCRAFTED Basically, no – or, to be more precise, that include it. In that way, according to this priest’s , H , solution is not as generally available nor as thinking, he is being faithful to the sense of the Apermissive as you portray it. prayer (which is surely generic) and sensitive to The “internal forum solution” is an option that the feelings of some within the congregation, is very closely defined and, because of that, ap- while still allowing for those wedded to a more

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By Debbie Shelley Catholic and Orthodox participa- terfaith pre-inauguration prayer Assistant Editor tion. Its purpose was “for united service for the governor, prayer prayer that visible unity may be breakfasts and workshops. The Week of Prayer for Chris- restored to Christiandom,” wrote The ecumenical ties are ap- tian Unity, Jan. 18-25, will focus Father MacDonald. parent in the community’s com- on Christ’s power to transform The Church Unity Octave, mitment to social justice. Father and unify his body, the Church. the forerunner of the Week of Moroney stated this was espe- The Pontifical Council for Pro- Prayer for Christian Unity, was cially evident during Hurricane moting Christian Unity and the celebrated in 1908 in the chapel Katrina, when people of differ- Commission on Faith and Order of a small Atonement Franciscan ent faiths came together to help of the World Council of Church- convent of the Episcopal Church those in need. Catholic Charities es announced that the theme 50 miles from New York City. The of the Diocese of Baton Rouge be- of this year’s Week of Prayer for prayer movement developed into came one of the most respected Christian Unity is “We will all a worldwide observance. local charitable and emergency be changed by the victory of our During the development of the response agencies to provide aid Lord Jesus Christ,” (1 Cor 15:51- Week of Prayer for Christian Uni- Attendees shake hands at a 2008 prayer service during the Week of to others during that time. 58). ty, there were difficulties defining Prayer for Christian Unity at St. James Episcopal Church in Baton Rouge. Also notable is the work of the The roots of the Week of Prayer the nature of the church and the File photo by Laura Deavers Louisiana Interchurch Confer- for Christian Unity go back to the unity being sought that were not ence (LIC), a statewide organiza- 19th century, with the desire of resolved until the middle of the in common are certainly a very roney, director of the Ecumeni- tion consisting of congregations Christians to pray together be- 20th century. Among Catholics, effective means of petitioning for cal Affairs Office for the Diocese from many faith traditions. LIC, cause they believed division was some wanted to emphasize the the grace of unity, and they are of Baton Rouge and pastor of St. of which Father Moroney is a weakening the power of Christian centrality of the petrine office a genuine expression of the ties Alphonsus Church in Greenwell member, addresses issues of so- witness, according to an article and the returning of Christians to which even now bind Catholics to Springs. cial justice. Father Moroney is on the history of the movement the Roman Catholic faith. their separated brethren.” He noted that Bishop Stanley J. proud of LIC’s efforts in the Cen- written by Father Timothy Mac- Their issues were resolved in In 1966, the Faith and Order Ott, third bishop of Baton Rouge, tral City Thanksgiving Service. Donald SA, associate director of 1964 during the Second Vatican Commission of the World Coun- strongly supported ecumenical Implemented three years ago, the Graymoor Ecumenical and In- Council with the promulgation of cil of Churches and the Vati- activities and helped lay a strong first service was held at St. Al- terreligious Institute (GII). The the Decree on Ecumenism. The can Secretariat (now Pontifical foundation for cooperation phonsus and was a united effort institute, a ministry of Friars of decree stated, “In certain special Council) for Promoting Christian among different denominations. of 16 local churches. the Atonement, works to foster circumstances, such as in prayer Unity began collaborating on a Father Moroney added that Father Moroney is encouraging Christian unity and interreligious services for unity and during ecu- common international text for there is a long history of people Catholics to commit themselves dialogue in North America. menical gatherings, it is allowable, worldwide usage. of different faiths working and to praying for Christian unity The Association for the Promo- indeed desirable, that Catholics The Diocese of Baton Rouge is worshiping together in the Baton Jan. 18-25 in order to better un- tion of Christian Unity was found- should join in prayer with their committed to ecumenical efforts, Rouge area. He pointed to the derstand their brothers and sis- ed in 1857 with Anglican, Roman separated brethren. Such prayers stated Father Michael J. Mo- prayer services, including the in- ters in Christ. Women have a divine right not to tolerate abuse

very once in a while, I hear pens and then pressing charges. unknown overwhelm them. Je- If he does revert to his old pat- about a Catholic priest who Any abused person who can- sus said, “Do not be afraid; just terns of abuse, a woman would Everbally abuses women not do that yet should follow St. have faith” – faith in the Lord surely be justified in leaving him. and reduces them to tears. Such Augustine’s advice: “Do what for one’s future and faith in one’s Taking some kind of action behavior should be reported to you can do and pray for what you common sense. sends him a wakeup call that just the bishop, and if the bishop is cannot yet do.” By the grace of God, many might save him from himself. satisfied that the charges are Even if the abuse hasn’t men do change. true, he should suspend the reached the stage of physical It is surprising what breaking Father Catoir is chaplain of an culprit immediately. violence, abused women must the cycle of secrecy can do to emergency assistance program Many husbands abuse their admit that the psychological awaken the better side of a man’s and writes on spirituality for wives habitually at home. Wom- trauma has started to ruin their personality. Catholic News Service. en need to defend themselves by health. breaking the cycle of secrecy. By wearing down their self- Abusive husbands often pres- respect, such ongoing emotional ent themselves to the world as Spirituality damage will eventually lead to nice guys or, at least, as decent serious physical symptoms. human beings. However, in the For Today I urge abused women not to privacy of their homes, they are be afraid to press charges when Invites you to breakfast Saturday, February 4 relentless, mean-spirited bullies Father John Catoir the time comes. The police will from 9 a.m. to 12 noon at Oak Lodge Reception who need to be exposed. arrest the offender, be he a hus- Center, 2834 South Sherwood Forest, Baton Rouge. Our speaker Younger women, generally pay to save his or her marriage. band, a supposed friend or other will be Jan Tate, who is on the staff of the Archdiocesan Spiritu- speaking, do not tolerate this Go for help and break the cycle associate, and arrange a hearing ality Center in New Orleans. She and her hus- kind of domestic abuse. of secrecy; that is what shelters before a family court. band Lloyd have worked with the Baton Rouge But too many older women for abused women recommend. When arrested, the man will Diocese Family Life Office and have written suffer in silence. Fear seems to Abused wives can call the be shocked and furious with the a book on marriage preparation. Reservations paralyze them from taking ac- police when things are calm, woman pressing charges and are $15 each and can be purchased by mailing a tion. They forget the divine com- explaining their husband’s pat- with those who support her. check to Kathy Hains, 2537 Berrybrook Dr., Baton mandment to “love thyself.” tern of behavior, and commit to I realize that this is easy for me Rouge, LA 70816 by Jan. 31. Your name will be Cowering in fear and living in contacting them for help the next to say, but I plead with abused registered at the door. misery is a price no one has to time an incidence of abuse hap- women not to let their fear of the 8 The Catholic Commentator January 11, 2012 MARCH: Many activities planned for those attending the March for Life La. bishops FROM PAGE 1 New York Archbishop Timothy Pro-Life Youth Rally near the local events sponsored by their 20,000 pilgrims is expected to M. Dolan, USCCB president. Supreme Court. dioceses and pro-life organiza- fill the Basilica of the National For the 16th year, the Archdi- Other Washington events tions. support local Shrine of the Immaculate Con- ocese of Washington will spon- related to the Roe decision’s an- For the second year, the Mid- ception for the annual National sor its annual pro-life youth niversary include the Cardinal west March for Life will hold a Prayer Vigil for Life, which be- Mass and rally the morning of O’Connor Conference on Life banquet dinner Jan. 18 and a life march gins with a Jan. 22 vigil Mass. Jan. 23. The popularity of the at Jesuit-run Georgetown Uni- march and rally the next day The bishops of Louisiana are Cardinal Daniel N. DiNardo of event prompted the archdiocese versity Jan. 22 for college and in Jefferson City, Mo., the state encouraging all who are able Galveston-Houston, chairman to hold this event in two sports high school students featuring, capital. to participate in the Louisiana of the Committee on Pro-Life venues last year – the Verizon a keynote address by Philadel- “We feel the Midwest is ripe Life March, from 10 a.m. to Activities for the U.S. Confer- Center and the D.C. Armory – phia Cardinal Charles J. Cha- for a huge event,” said Kathy noon on Saturday, Jan. 21, in ence of Catholic Bishops, will to accommodate a crowd total- put; two Rock for Life concerts Forck, coordinator of Columbia Baton Rouge. The march be- be the principal celebrant and ing about 28,000. – Jan. 21 and 22; speeches at (Mo.) 40 Days for Life, a local gins at Galvez Plaza, which is homilist. The event includes a concert, the Supreme Court during the group that is part of a nation- on North Boulevard behind the Marchers are invited to stay confessions, praying the rosary, march sponsored by the Silent al campaign to end abortion. Old State Capitol. Participants in the basilica’s lower level to and Mass, after which most of No More Awareness Campaign; Forck hoped this year’s turnout are asked to gather before 10 sleep overnight and participate the crowd heads to the annual and a Jan. 23 Mass at St. Aloy- would exceed last year’s, espe- a.m., since the welcome will in various services, including a March for Life. sius Church in Washington cially since the March for Life be at 9:50 and march organiz- rosary, confessions, hourly holy The rallying-spirit of the sponsored by the Ignatian Pro- in Washington and the West ers want the march to start on hours, night prayer and morn- March for Life will continue Life Network, a union of pro-life Coast Walk draw so many par- time. ing prayer, concluding with a with several pro-life organiza- groups from Jesuit high schools, ticipants. Marchers will proceed to the morning Mass celebrated by tions sponsoring the National colleges universities and parish- Tobias, who began her term State Capitol, a walk of .8 mile es. as National Right to Life presi- along Fourth Street. Although Washington draws dent last April, said a number Presentations will begin at the biggest crowd making a of the state rallies this year will 10:50 on the steps of the Capi- stand against legalized abor- likely focus on new legislation tol. tion, similar events take place passed in five states that pro- At the first Louisiana Life on a smaller scale across the hibits abortions after the 20th March last January, more than country. week of pregnancy, the stage 3,000 people gathered at the For the eighth year, the West of development when a fetus is State Capitol in answer to Pope Coast Walk for Life expects to said to feel pain. John Paul II’s clarion call to draw thousands of pro-life sup- Fetal pain legislation passed build a culture of life in the pub- porters to San Francisco Jan. in Nebraska in 2010 and in Ida- lic square. Bishop Robert W. 21. Thousands more people ho, Kansas, Oklahoma and Ala- Muench participated last year around the country will attend bama last year. and led the opening prayer. The Louisiana Conference of Catholic Bishops will again be one of the sponsors of the Print Advertisers: event, along with other Chris- tian leaders in the state. Now is your opportunity to plan In a Dec. 29, 2011, letter to an advertisement on our website. the people of Louisiana, Arch- bishop Gregory M. Aymond In January, current contracts ex- of New Orleans and the seven pire making placements available. bishops of the state stated that You can place an ad on our they fully support the march. Although the Louisiana bish- website for as little as $20 month. ops will be in Rome for their Ad Limina visit with the Holy Call your sales rep now Father at the time of the Loui- siana Life March, the bishops to reserve your space. encourage all Catholics to par- ticipate and attend the event. 225-387-0983 Bishop Dominic Carmon, the retired auxiliary bishop of New Orleans, will represent the bishops. To see the promotional video and/or learn about special bus promotions, visit the Louisi- Your ad ana Life March website at LAL ifeMarch.com or call 866-463- HERE! 5433. “We also lift up in prayer all those attending the March for Life in Washington, D.C., on Monday, January 23,” the bish- ops wrote. “Whether you are at home in Louisiana or in Wash- ington, D.C., please know we are with you in prayer on these days.” January 11, 2012 The Catholic Commentator 9 Expecting parents find support from church, family

By Debbie Shelley Miranda Unbehagen grew up Assistant Editor attending St. Alphonsus with her family, and some of the pa- As people look forward to rishioners have known her since what 2012 brings, some will she was born. She and her hus- think about big events they will band are on the church’s prayer experience, such as the birth list for expecting couples, and of a child, that will likely bring many parishioners approach them into unchartered territory her and extend their congratu- yet bless their lives. lations and encouragement. Miranda and Garrett Unbeha- “They’re very supportive, just gen, members of St. Alphonsus like a big family,” said Miranda Church in Greenwell Springs, Unbehagen. are due to have their first baby The excitement over the ar- Viewing a 4D ultrasound of Kaden Unbehagen, son of Miranda and Garrett Unbehagen (left of center) are, this month. rival of a baby can be magni- from left, Garrett Unbehagen’s father, Mike; his sister, Kayla; and Miranda Unbehagen’s parents, Nealy and “It’s great to bring in the New fied when one’s sibling is also Dennis Morain. Photo provided by Miranda Unbehagen Year as a couple and as parents,” expecting. Jason Riggs and his said Miranda Unbehagen. “We sister, Ashley Blanchard, are ner, which was held at the home delivered the food to the family. young to understand why their will have a lot of new experi- expecting the arrival of babies of Jason Riggs’ and Ashley For the past couple of years the parents are serving, the Riggses ences throughout the year.” within a couple of weeks of each Blanchard’s parents, Cherry Blanchards provided Christmas and Blanchards believe that as The couple is busy preparing other. Riggs’ wife, Aimee, is and Barry Riggs, as very special gifts for birth mothers at the they continue to do so, their ex- their nursery and assembling due to give birth to their second because Ashley Blanchard an- St. Elizabeth Foundation in Ba- amples will immerse their chil- baby furniture. son in early March; and Ashley nounced at the end of grace that ton Rouge, the agency through dren in the faith. Miranda Unbehagen said Blanchard and her husband, she and her husband would be which they adopted their chil- “We pray together every night, while she dreads the sleepless Troy, are expecting to adopt a adopting their second child. dren. The couple brought Bray- and we hope that in the future nights she is likely to have once second child at the end of Feb- The Riggses recently moved son along when they brought our children will find faith and the baby is born, she is looking ruary. within a couple of blocks of the their gifts. comfort through the church,” forward to the new arrival. This will be the second time Blanchards, so they anticipate While the children may be too Aimee Riggs said. “As long as the baby’s healthy, the Riggses, and Blanchards, that their children will develop we will be happy,” Miranda Un- who are all members of St. Aloy- close relationships. wAddition- behagen said. sius Church in Baton Rouge, ally, Jason Riggs’ sister, Court- The Unbehagen’s extended have welcomed babies into their ney Alonzo, and her husband, family is also excited about the home at approximately the same Nathan, whom also live in the baby’s arrival, because he will time. The Blanchards adopted area, have two sons, Carter, 4, be the first grandchild on both Brayson, 20 months, in April and Lovic, 22 months, which • Cruises • Tours • All-Inclusive Vacations • • Groups & Incentive Travel • sides. The baby, whom the Un- 2010, and Aimee Riggs gave should make for a close-knit behagens have named Kaden, birth to Henry in June 2010. group of cousins. 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Bush refused. the Pentagon, I got an up-close-and- Some are armed: Iraq and Afghani- Cardinal Laghi later said, “Re- personal look at Chicago’s large and stan and various African nations. spect for human life should always war and its effects? flourishing Muslim community. Some are simmering disputes: India be honored and ... the struggle War is hell. But what can be done about it? This edi- As a reporter, I visited, ate with, and Pakistan, the two Koreas. Some against terrorism does not justify tion of Viewpoint looks at what faith calls us to do about even prayed with cabbies, business aren’t exactly war but explosions the abandonment of a state of law, war and its effects. Tom Sheridan says that while hu- people, academics and clerics. of violence in the name of religion: because the means do not justify man conflict sometimes calls for a justified armed re- It was enlightening. Afterward, I Israel, Palestinians and others, and the end.” Pope Benedict XVI has sponse, war should not be humanity’s default position. felt safer in the back seat of a speed- Islamic terrorists against Western continued to warn against violence, Liz Quirin looks at one terrible consequence of war: ing taxi when I knew the cabbie society. There’s more: economic decrying the loss of life in Afghani- post-traumatic stress disorder. prayed five times a day. unpeace, ethnic unpeace, political stan and other places of conflict. Copyright © Catholic News Service Then came 9/11. And my nation unpeace. Beyond respect for life, war is an went to war. It’s a paradox of faith: worshiping affront to human dignity. It creates Suddenly, these same people – a God of peace while accepting a god refugees, encourages corruption the cabbies, the business people, the of war. and waste, and threatens justice. academics, the clerics – were my en- But how does faith call us to Peace, maintains the Catechism of emy. Or, at the very least, suspected respond to war and warlike actions the Catholic Church, “is not merely of being my enemy. in our midst? the absence of war. ... Peace cannot It was discomforting when you War has hardly been a stranger be attained on earth without safe- learn that another word for “enemy” to Christians, from the Crusades guarding the goods of persons, free is “people.” That’s what war does: It and before, to conflicts between na- communication, ... respect for the destroys relationships, shatters lives tions and city-states in which a flag dignity of persons and peoples, and and wounds souls. Gen. William T. of faith marched before the troops. the assiduous practice of fraternity. Sherman was right: “War IS hell.” Too often, we’ve been challenged to ... Peace is the work of justice.” Now, beginning our second “praise the Lord and pass the am- Despite the entreaties of faith, decade of bloodletting in that terror- munition.” war continues to be an unrelenting triggered hell, we seem little closer Admittedly, though, faith in the reality. Even our vets, who deserve to the peace our prayers at Mass call 21st century sees war differently our respect, are saying this war, at us to. Or to the Prince of Peace who than in previous millennia. least, isn’t worth the effort. Didn’t is the central focus of our faith. More than once as a deacon I’ve the Prince of Peace already tell us I’m not naive. I understand hu- preached what the church says about that? man conflict sometimes calls for war only to be pilloried, particularly a justified armed response. While about responses to terrorism. A faith TOM SHERIDAN is a former editor of defense can be right, neither should that opposes war can challenge a the Catholic New World, newspa- A U.S. Army soldier is assisted past his burning armored war be humanity’s default position. nation’s patriotism. per of the Archdiocese of Chicago vehicle after it struck an improvised explosive device in Too often, even when the definition In 2003, Pope John Paul II sent and a deacon ordained for the Dio- Afghanistan’s Arghandab Valley in this 2010 file photo. CNS of war is fuzzy, we experience an then-Archbishop Pio Laghi to ask cese of Joliet, Ill. He writes from photo by Bob Strong | Reuters “unpeace” – or however you want to President George W. Bush to not Ocala, Fla. Living with post-traumatic stress disorder ina Hill put her hand on her husband’s face and Sometimes, families don’t recover from war because PTSD and find out what life is really like for a veteran gently turned his head to face her. She wanted to they begin to see their lives as ongoing, never-ending ca- who has returned home but continues to fight the battles Gtell him something before she began her talk, and sualties of war. In the case of PTSD, death is not the only that may have been lost on a field far away. she wanted to make sure he heard her. sacrifice demanded by war. It’s devastating to live with that new person who may Her husband, retired Staff Sgt. Allen Hill, was diag- When a soldier returns home, he or she may be mov- not be able to work, who takes a handful of different nosed with post-traumatic stress disorder and had a trau- ing the battlefield from the Middle East or, in earlier kinds of pills and who goes to visit a counselor or thera- matic brain injury. years, a jungle in Vietnam to the living room of a family pist often just so he or she can make it from a.m. to p.m. Gina Hill was on the agenda to speak at a conference home. Our leaders need to visit with these people who about the couple’s journey with PTSD. Flashbacks, recurring nightmares, and suicidal live as casualties of war and the families who make up The Hills are members of a large group of families of thoughts and attempts turn families upside down. There the collateral damage. A deployment lasts for a finite veterans returning from wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, is no “recovery” from the wounds of war because the amount of time, but readjusting to the returning veteran and they are also, unfortunately, part of multi-gener- wounds are repeatedly inflicted without warning and and the life that will be lived for years to come has no ational groups of men and women who have suffered without end. end time. traumatic injuries while serving in the military in wars of Families learn to cope with their “new” family mem- It goes on and on, and families adjust and readjust their generations. ber because their very survival may depend on bringing and wonder where did my husband, my dad, my mom And while others who have suffered traumatic inci- that loved one back from a battlefield far removed from go? Who is this person who lives here now, who is hy- dents in their lives – physical, mental and emotional – home over and over, reminding him or her that this is not pervigilant, waiting to go on “patrol,” to protect us from also suffer from PTSD, the casualties of war will be the a wadi or a jungle but a living room, a bedroom or some unknown enemies that live only in his or her mind? focus of this column. spot in a hometown in America. Now we are waging a campaign to save these men and Wars kill an enemy and those who venture too close Wars may be fought on foreign soil, according to the women from this private, hellish war that rages within. to that enemy; wars devastate property and livestock, maps and the “spin” that comes from whatever branch of It is imperative for the church’s pastoral ministry, in threaten the safety and security of villages and towns, the service is recruiting our young people, but make no policy and practice, to respond to these post-battlefield and cause damage to anyone and everyone in the area, mistake, those wars are also fought “on the home fronts” casualties of war. but the ripple effect of wars can be felt thousands of miles of America’s homes in America’s families day in and day away and take longer for recovery than rebuilding a vil- out for years after the soldier returns home. LIZ QUIRIN is editor of The Messenger, newspaper of the lage or a town. Ask any counselor who works with veterans about Diocese of Belleville, Ill. January 11, 2012 The Catholic Commentator 11 Watch for the upcoming Lenten Dining Giude!

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By Carol Glatz and joy-filled witnesses to the ris- said. There will be special Masses Catholic News Service en Lord, capable of leading those at the Vatican to mark the open- St. Jude many people who are seeking it to ing and closing of the Year of VATICAN CITY — In an ef- the door of faith,” the note said. Faith, it added. the Apostle School fort to help Catholics have a bet- Critical to renewing one’s faith Some recommendations for ter and correct understanding of and being a credible witness is bishops, dioceses and churches Now accepting Applications their faith and become authentic having a firm and correct under- include ensuring there be better witnesses to Christ, the Vatican standing of church teaching, it quality catechetical materials Deadline to apply is Feb. 3, 2012 issued a list of pastoral recom- said. that conform to church teaching; Limited Openings Available mendations for celebrating the Because the year’s start, Oct. promoting Catholic principles PreK – 8th Grade upcoming Year of Faith. 11, coincides with the anniversa- and the significance of Vatican Open House – Tuesday, Jan. 24, 10 a.m. The Congregation for the Doc- ries of the opening of the Second II in the mass media; hosting trine of the Faith released a “note” Vatican Council in 1962 and the events that bring artists, aca- SCHOLARS CLERGY Jan. 7 outlining the aims of the promulgation of the Catechism demics and others together to re- special year and ways bishops, of the Catholic Church in 1992, it new dialogue between faith and dioceses, churches and commu- would be an auspicious occasion reason; offering penitential cel- nities can promote “the truth of to make the work of the council ebrations; and putting a focus on the faith,” the congregation said. and the catechism “more widely liturgy, especially the Eucharist, It also announced that within and deeply known,” it said. it said. the Pontifical Council for Pro- The congregation said the It also called for Vatican II doc- moting New Evangelization, a pope “has worked decisively for uments, the catechism and its secretariat would be set up to a correct understanding of the Compendium to be republished suggest and coordinate different council, rejecting as erroneous in more affordable editions and initiatives. The new department the so-called ‘hermeneutics of to distribute the texts digitally Bonnie McLindon ‘06 Michael Alello ‘94 will be responsible for launch- discontinuity and rupture’ and and via other “modern technolo- 2010 Diocesan Diocese of Student of the Year ing a special website for sharing promoting what he himself has gies.” Baton Rouge Sophomore, Stanford Pastor, St. Philomena useful information on the Year of termed the ‘hermeneutic of re- The congregation said it want- University Catholic Church Faith. form,’ of renewal in continuity” ed to promote the recommenda- Pope Benedict XVI wanted the with the church and tradition. tions because the office’s “spe- ATHLETES WHO’S NEXT? Year of Faith, which runs from The catechism “is an integral cific functions include not only Oct. 11, 2012, to Nov. 24, 2013, to part of that ‘renewal in continu- safeguarding sound doctrine and help the church focus its attention ity’ ” by embracing the old and correcting errors but also, and on “Jesus Christ and the beauty of traditional while expressing it “in foremost, promoting the truth of having faith in him,” it said. a new way, in order to respond the faith.” “The church is well aware of to the questions of our times,” it The congregation’s note, draft- the problems facing the faith” said. The note offers pastoral rec- ed on the orders of Pope Bene- and recognizes that without a ommendations aimed at aiding dict, was written in consulta- revitalization of faith rooted in a “both the encounter with Christ tion with other Vatican offices personal encounter with Jesus, through authentic witnesses to and with the help of the Year of “then all other reforms will re- faith, and the ever-greater under- Faith preparatory committee. Austin Nola ‘04 Find Your Talent main ineffective,” it said, citing standing of its contents,” it said. The committee, which operates 2011 MLB Draftee Prepare Your Future St. Jude School the pope’s Dec. 22 address to the Among the initiatives will be under the auspices of the doctri- Senior, LSU Roman Curia. various ecumenical events at the nal congregation, includes U.S. www.stjudebr.org The year is meant to “contrib- Vatican aimed at restoring unity Cardinals William J. Levada, 9150 Highland Road • Baton Rouge, LA 70810 ute to a renewed conversion to among all Christians, including congregation prefect; Francis E. 225-769-2344 the Lord Jesus and to the redis- “a solemn ecumenical celebration George of Chicago; and Canadian covery of faith, so that the mem- in which all of the baptized will Cardinal Marc Ouellet, prefect of St. Jude the Apostle School does not discriminate on the basis of bers of the church will be credible reaffirm their faith in Christ,” it the Congregation for Bishops. race, color, national and ethnic origin in its policies, admissions and programs. 12 The Catholic Commentator ENTERTAINMENT January 11, 2012 Catholic CEO goes undercover for CBS reality series

By Mark Pattison fast. Another part was going to Mass. the to-do’s instead of the Catholic News Service “My goal is to go to Mass three to four to-be’s. I found that going times a week. During the seasons of Ad- to Mass was the best way WASHINGTON — Dina Dwyer-Ow- vent and Lent, I try to go five days a week,” to keep me grounded and ens, CEO of the Dwyer Group, a collection Dwyer-Owens told CNS. “It just keeps me focused on what I needed of home service franchises, donned a wig, grounded in doing the right things in- to do in life.” pearls and blue jeans to check in on her stead of all the other stuff that creeps into Even the undercover employees for an upcoming episode of your life.” name she chose, Faith the CBS reality series “Undercover Boss.” Her “Undercover Boss” segment shows Brown, has its roots in, And, by and large, she liked what she saw. her at a morning Mass at St. Louis Church well, her faith. “To see how much our employees and in Waco and chatting with the parish pas- “Everything became our franchisees care is really awesome,” tor, Father John Guzaldo. Waco is in the faith. I drove by a church Dwyer-Owens said in a Dec. 15 telephone Diocese of Austin. and the billboard said, ‘Is interview with Catholic News Service There’s a closing segment showing her faith important?’ I said from Dwyer Group headquarters in Waco, praying alone inside St. Louis. “I’m not very to myself, ‘You better Texas. good on meditating on Bible Scriptures believe it!’ ” Later on, as “Being out there in the van with the and being focused. I find things I need to she was driving past the service professionals and the franchi- do around the home (instead),” she said. “I campus of Baylor Uni- sees for a day or half a day really doing need to be in a place that quiets me.” versity in Waco, she saw the work that they do, I have a whole new Dwyer-Owens said the routine of near- a banner that read, “Bay- appreciation and respect for these profes- daily Mass came early in her tenure as lor University. Encourag- sionals,” she said. “I look at myself and CEO after she succeeded her father, who ing Baylor, Encouraging Dina Dwyer-Owens, CEO of the Dwyer Group, a collection of think, ‘I wonder what their day’s going to founded the company 30 years ago. The Faith.” “It’s a sign — a sign home service franchises, donned a wig, pearls and blue be like today.’ Their work is hard. It’s hard Dwyer Group had bought a company that to me,” Dwyer-Owens jeans to check in on her employees for an upcoming epi- work. It was hot when I was out there with was bigger than the original Dwyer busi- said. sode of the CBS reality series “Undercover Boss.” CNS photo | them, and they were doing it every day.” ness, and with the purchase came a seem- Even when reading Courtesy CBS When the “Undercover Boss” produc- ingly endless string of things to do. The Catholic Spirit, Aus- tion team met with Dwyer-Owens before “I found I was getting very caught up in tin’s diocesan newspaper, she noticed that “reveals” – what happens when Dwyer- arranging her visits, they asked her what the activities on the to-do list,” she said. “I Pope Benedict XVI “announced that this Owens, sans disguise, reintroduces her- she did in a typical day. One part of her was finding that I was letting negativity seep is going to be the Year of Faith,” she said, self to the people she worked with while answer was making pancakes for break- into my day. I was getting bogged down by adding that her supervisor, Wayne, while undercover. “That was so much fun. I tend she was undercover working for Mr. Root- to have too big of a heart sometimes. It’s er, would sing a George Michael oldie: nice to have heart,” she said. “You gotta have faith, faith, faith.” This episode of “Undercover Boss” is CBS asked CNS to not disclose the scheduled to air Sunday, Jan. 22, 7 p.m.

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The Darkest Hour an exurban menagerie filled with endan- (Summit) gered animals and staffed by a clutch of Director Chris Gorak’s weak alien-in- oddball humans. Under the baton of di- vasion entry has five American visitors rector Cameron Crowe, the story’s Cap- to Moscow (Emile Hirsch, Olivia Thirlby, raesque charms are enhanced by numer- Max Minghella, Rachael Taylor and Joel ous rock-’n’-roll ballads and some star Kinnaman) running away from space in- wattage. Both father and teenage son are truders who manifest themselves as balls given romantic prospects, played by Scar- of lethal microwave radiation, and start lett Johansson and Elle Fanning, respec- zapping folks — right, left and center. Ac- tively. Viewers will note that the catharsis tion violence and fleeting profane, crude achieved studiously bypasses the theo- and crass language. A-III; PG-13 logical, that there’s an implied timetable for the grieving process, and that no one We Bought a Zoo questions the idea that it’s always moral (Fox) to hasten the death of a suffering crea- In this amiably tame, warmly emotional ture. Yet the movie is still commendable, feature, based on the true-life experienc- not least because the value of hard work es of British memoirist Benjamin Mee, a is emphasized. At least one instance of widower (Matt Damon) and his two chil- profanity, several uses of crude and crass dren (Maggie Elizabeth Jones and Colin language, some lightly suggestive banter Ford) attempt to start over by purchasing and a few morbid images. A-III; PG January 11, 2012 ENTERTAINMENT The Catholic Commentator 13 Putting aside worry and intense emotion 1234 5678901112131 154 161 Knee Deep 187 191 210 222 Gonna put the world away for Wrote a note, said, “Be back And I think I might have 243 252 a minute; Pretend I don’t live in a minute”; Bought a boat found me my own kind of in it; Sunshine gonna wash my and I sailed off in it; Don’t paradise 27286 292 blues away; Had sweet love think anybody’s gonna but I lost it; She got too close miss me anyway; Mind on This champagne shore wash- 310 332 343 3 so I fought it; Now I’m lost in a a permanent vacation; The in’ over me; It’s a sweet, sweet 365 373 world tryin’ to find me a better ocean is my only medication; life livin’ by the salty sea; One way; Wishin’ I was Wishin’ my condition ain’t day you can be as lost as me; 398 304 ever gonna go away; ‘Cause Change your geography; 421 4 Refrain 1: now I’m Maybe you might be Knee deep in the water 44453 464 somewhere; Got the blue Refrain 2: (Repeat refrain 2.) 487 4940515 sky, breeze and it don’t seem Knee deep in the water fair; Only worry in the world; somewhere; Got the blue sky, Come on in; The water’s nice; 532 54555 Is the tide gonna reach my breeze blowin’ wind through Find yourself a little slice; 576 585 chair; Sunrise, there’s a fire in my hair; Only worry in the Grab a backpack, realize; the sky; Never been so hap- world; Is the tide gonna reach You’ll never know until you 509 616 py; Never felt so high; And I my chair; Sunrise, there’s a try; When you lose yourself; moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www think I might have found me fire in the sky; Never been You find a key in a paradise ACROSS 3 Former “evil empire” my own kind of paradise so happy; Never felt so high; 1 “…now and at the ___ of our 4 Decay death. Amen” 5 Gregory I sent missionaries to Sung by Zac Brown Band | Copyright © 2010 by Atlantic 5 Sacramental gesture convert these barbarians 10 Liturgy 6 David played one of these 14 “This ___ sudden!” 7 Mr. Greenspan 15 Thermoplastic yarn 8 Diocese of Honolulu bowlful eed a break from your help others have better lives. 16 Double curve 9 Wife of St. Joachim routine or burdens? If so, Sometimes, it is difficult to 17 Exploit 10 Communal way of life in the the Zac Brown Band has break a cycle of worry or sadness 18 Jacob sent his sons to Egypt Church N for this 11 Disco era phrase some advice for you. by yourself. So reach out to a 19 Bright star 12 Number of biblical sorrows of The group’s latest release is off friend and ask him or her to do 20 Pronoun Mary 21 Small secluded valley 13 There are Christmas and their 2010 disc “You Get What something with you. Just make 22 Doughnut-shaped roll Easter ones You Give.” Their eclectic sound sure that you don’t spend the 23 Singles 21 Exodus insect won them both a Grammy and time talking about your stressful 24 There are six in the Church 22 Alien god of the Exodus year 23 Adjective for God Country Music Award for the situation. 26 Punctuation marks 24 Narrow openings best new artist in 2010. Sure, it is helpful to mention 29 Fold 25 Long fish “Knee Deep” rose to the top your current difficulties, but also 30 Monks’ song 26 290 to Nero 31 Shining brightly 27 The Diocese of Youngstown is of the country charts last sum- tell your friend that you need to 35CL/L D found here mer and has sold over a million take a break from dealing with 36 Ink spots 28 Disfigure copies in digital sales. Given the your hurt. Friends are likely to 37 Goodbye in Roma 29 Ordination posture On The Record 38 Finds fault 31 Utter joy song’s island theme, it is not sur- respond favorably in helping you 40 Businesses 32 “Love is not jealous, it does prising that Jimmy Buffett joins take a break through enjoying a 41 “And I will ___ you up on not put on ___.” (1 Cor 13:4) Charlie Martin eagle’s wings” 33 “…hallowed be thy ___.” the group on this song. mutual interest. 42 Bothers 34 Throw The song’s story is one that Whatever your approach, it One of the benefits of taking a 43 Features 36 Enticement most people can relate to, for we does help to take breaks from break from problems is that of- 46 Lenten foliage 39 Ornamental fabric 47 Biblical division 40 “Hail Mary ___ of grace…” all need a break at times from your worries or concerns. When ten their power over your mental 48 Angelus call 42 Lola, Broadway dancer and whatever is consuming our at- you feel overwhelmed or your or emotional attention shrinks. 49 Catholic international aid org. convert to Catholicism tention. thoughts become obsessive, it is As this occurs, often previously 52 Requiem Mass word 43 Home of St. Teresa 53 Paul was shipwrecked here 44 Caravansary For the guy in the song, this time to change your focus. unconsidered solutions become 55 London jail 45 Shrimp means putting “the world away Since it is unlikely that you apparent. 56 Mown grass 46 Rock the Church is built on for a minute” and pretending can get as caught up in day- Probably, hopping a plane to 57 Not native (Mt 16:18) 58 “The sun ___ rises” 48 Radar screen warning that he doesn’t live in it. Appar- dreams as the song’s character, the islands won’t be available to 59 Is not (slang) 49 Vocation ently, the cause of his current perhaps other strategies will be you, but other creative approach- 60 Catholic director of It’s a Won- 50 Saint of Lima derful Life 51 “…___ to anger and abound- struggle is how he “had sweet needed, such as moving from es are. 61 “…and ___ into his nostrils ing in steadfast love” (Ps love,” but lost it because he thinking or feeling to sweat- Take a break. Put aside worry the breath of life…” (Gn 2:7) 103:8) fought it when “she got too close.” ing! Physical activity – vigorous or intense emotions and re- DOWN 53 “Big” sandwich 1 “Angels we have heard on 54 Pie-mode link Now he is “lost in the world,” try- work or exercise – almost always engage life. Ask God to take your ___” 55 Chatter ing to find “a better way.” alters one’s focus. hurt or fear and guide you to 2 Hosea, formerly Solution on page 18 His solution? He lets his mind If you are not into this, go for discover the wonder and promise drift away to being “knee deep a walk; breathe deeply as you do of life that still surrounds you. in the water somewhere” where so and notice the outside world Terry W. Bennett, E.A. his “only worry in the world” is around you. You will find a new MARTIN is an Indiana pastoral Bennett’s Bookkeeping, Inc. whether or not the tide is going sense of calm. counselor who reviews cur- to reach his chair. Another helpful approach is to rent music for Catholic News • Income Taxes He becomes so adept at tak- change your focus from what is Service. • Monthly Bookkeeping ing this mental break that he’s going on in your life to active ser- • Payroll Preparation “never been so happy, never felt vice for others. Check out what Your comments are always so high.” In fact, as the song un- your school or church offers, welcome. 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That Sunday was Jan. at the University of Florida, finds a more sublime outlet 1, the Solemnity of the Blessed winning a Heisman Trophy in the veneration of the Virgin Mary, the Mother of God. his sophomore year. He led the saints. Yet the holiness of the family is Gators to two national champi- When our children were so important that it needs to be onships. After college, he was young, I would read the lives celebrated, and so when there is drafted by the Denver Broncos of the saints at breakfast. no Sunday between Dec. 25 and as a backup quarterback. The accounts were not al- Jan. 1, the Feast of the Holy Fam- When Denver began the year ways first-rate history. Some ily is moved to Dec. 30. That was 1-4, Tebow became the starter. veered off into Christian my- a Friday, and with the busyness He came from behind in his thology and romance. They of the season, most were probably Another first game (the score was 15-0 Intellect and rarely mentioned the saints’ not at daily Mass. To complete with three minutes left) to beat character flaws, though they the season then, here are a few the Miami Dolphins. Since tak- certainly had them. But the thoughts based on the Scriptures Perspective ing the reins, he has led Denver Virtue stories are no less valuable about the blessing of family. Father John Carville to a 7-2 record and a real shot John Garvey for all that. The lives of the An old man and an old woman at winning the AFC West. saints are, as Christopher spent their days at prayer in the The home-schooled son of Dawson observed, an ex- temple (Luke 2:25-40). Like their diapers were wet or his tummy American Baptist missionaries, Tebow was pression of our spiritual ideals. counterparts in many churches empty. And when the ceremonies born after a medically difficult pregnancy. He There is a risk in equating sports stars today, Simeon and Anna were the were over, he went home with his survived a doctor’s recommendation that he with saints. Most of them, like most of us, pillars, the spiritual supports, parents to do what all babies do, be aborted. won’t bear close scrutiny. of their community. On seeing grow and learn. Think about Tiger Woods, someone I used Mary, Joseph and the baby, the Yet what he learned began that In a different era, Tebow to admire until the details of his extramarital aged Simeon took the child into day in the Temple. Mary and escapades came out. his arms and thanked God for Joseph took him there to observe would be admired, even The press seems to revel in exposing the that moment in words that are their people’s religious rites. And tawdry side of celebrities. The very word echoed in the Gospel of Luke and they did not leave the practice of envied. Instead, he is a “hagiography” (literally “writing about daily in the church’s Liturgy of their religion behind when they saints”) has a negative connotation. It refers the Hours: “Now, Lord, you may returned to Galilee. In their little controversial figure. Some to unduly flattering, even sycophantic, media let your servant go in peace, ac- home in Nazareth, Mary lit the coverage of public figures. The implication is, cording to your word. For my eyes Sabbath candles every Friday sportscasters criticize him. that’s something we shouldn’t do. have seen your salvation, which evening. Joseph gave the boy his I think that the explanation for all of this you prepared in sight of all the first lessons in Torah. Jesus grew Some players disdain him. is that we no longer share a common convic- peoples, a light for revelation to up steeped in his people’s under- tion about what counts as a good life. the Gentiles, and glory for your standing of God. How important Sports agents warn that his It’s hard to be a hero in this kind of cul- people Israel.” Anna watched and are these parental instructions ture. also gave thanks. in their religion for our children flamboyant Christianity In this world, the only moral quality that Anyone who has ever taken a today when they are flooded with we can insist on is a thin sort of integrity, a baby on a visit to a nursing home so much that is ungodly through will cause him to lose requirement that we own up to who we really knows the delight a baby brings TV and other media! It is only by are. to the aged. Something about an the ordinariness of being born endorsements. And the only moral failing that we can ac- infant speaks hope even to folks and nurtured and taught, by cuse someone of is hypocrisy – hence the Ti- whose future seems bleak. The being dependent on our parents, Today, he is outspokenly pro-life and a devout ger Woods scandal. His unforgivable sin was child puts a broad smile on wrin- that we learn of our ultimate Christian. He has a habit of kneeling and not adultery; it was that he presented himself kled faces. The same is true for any- dependence on God. It is through praying after his team wins games. (In pop (or at least his sponsors did) as a family man one who is despondent and worn these ordinary means of receiving culture it’s called “Tebowing.”) When he was who liked to kick back with his beautiful wife out. Two hundred years ago in his love that we grow in strength and a college player, he would write Bible verses and kids after winning the U.S. Open on a journal of the mission of discovery God’s grace. (John 3:16) on his eye black, a practice the bad knee. But he wasn’t. that led to the Louisiana Purchase, When he was grown, Jesus NCAA has since forbidden (the “Tebow Rule”). And, in this world, the media play the Captain William Clark recorded shared his understanding of God In a different era, Tebow would be admired, watchdog role of holding people to the only how the presence of the Indian with anyone who would listen. He even envied. Instead, he is a controversial moral standard that still counts. They root out woman Sacagawea and her infant preached of a God who yearns for figure. Some sportscasters criticize him. Some hypocrisy wherever it occurs. son, Jean Batiste, brought comfort human love and a peaceful world. players disdain him. Sports agents warn that Woe betide Tim Tebow if he harbors some to the explorers. The child’s smile Down through the centuries Je- his flamboyant Christianity will cause him to secret vice or took a false step while he was brought joy at the end of the day sus has continued to spread this lose endorsements. winning those championships at Florida. in the wilderness and reminded same message through the Scrip- I was tempted to see this as just another ex- I find it all kind of sad. Boys and girls need Clark of the future, which was the tures and his church. And we who ample of how the culture looks down its nose heroes. It would be great if they picked saints, purpose of their expedition. gather to pray in his name, who at believing Christians. But I think that there but there is no harm in admiring athletes, too, In like manner, something celebrate his word, who con- is a deeper lesson, though, and a sadder one, if those athletes live virtuous lives. about the baby Jesus spoke a tinue to hope in his promises, are in Tebow’s mixed reviews: We just don’t want And if it turns out that they have feet of great hope to Simeon and Anna, Simeon and Anna, the pillars of to believe in heroes anymore. clay, let’s not give up on the idea that we really hope that God's promises endure. his church today. My father’s generation admired Jesse can, with God’s grace, live lives that are worth The infant Jesus, of course, Owens. My boyhood idol was Roberto Clem- celebrating. took little note of the fuss the FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest ente. They were great athletes. They were also aging pair made over him. If in the Diocese of Baton Rouge admirable people, and that was an important Garvey is president of The Catholic University he said anything, it was only a and writes on spiritual matters part of the package. of America and a nationally renowned expert whimper to complain that his for The Catholic Commentator. A hero is someone who you want to be able on constitutional law. January 11, 2012 VIEWPOINT The Catholic Commentator 15 Prayer as seeking God’s guidance n her autobiography, “The Long Loneliness,” Dorothy She took a train rationalization, no hiding of weaknesses. They pour out Day tells of a very difficult time in her life. She had home that evening their fears, their inadequacy, their temptations and their Ijust converted to Christianity, after a long period of and as she walked up confusion, as do children, begging for someone’s hand to atheism, and then given birth to her daughter. During to her apartment, a help them. her season of atheism, she had fallen in love with a man man, Peter Maurin, There’s an interesting parallel to this inside some who had fathered her child; and she and this man, athe- was sitting on the of our classic fairy tales where the figure of God often ists disillusioned with mainstream society, had made a steps. He invited her appears in the form of an angel, a fairy, a fox, or a horse. pact never to marry, as a statement against the conven- to start the Catholic Invariably, those who approach that God-figure with tions of society. Worker. The rest is over-confidence, arrogance or pretense are denied all But her conversion to Christianity turned that world history. counsel and all magic. Conversely, those who approach upside down. The father of her child gave her an ultima- Our prayers aren’t the God-figure in humility and admit that they are lost tum; if she had their child baptized he would end their always answered that in their search are rewarded with counsel and magic. relationship. Dorothy chose to baptize the child, but paid swiftly and directly, There’s an important prayer-lesson in that. a heavy price. She deeply loved this man and suffered but they are always All of us, at different times in our lives, find ourselves greatly at their breakup. Moreover, given that her conver- answered, as Jesus as- In Exile alone, lost, confused, and tempted towards a road that sion took her out of all her former circles, it separated sures us, because God will not lead to life. At such times we need to approach her from more than a soul mate. It also left her without a does not withhold the Father Ron Rolheiser God with a prayer that is shamelessly honest, direct and job, without support for her child and without her former Holy Spirit from those humble. Like Dorothy Day, we need to raise our true purpose in life. She felt painfully alone and lost. who ask for it. If we fears and insecurities to God, praying, over and over And this drove her to her knees, literally. One day she pray for guidance and support, it will be given to us. again: “I’m afraid! I feel so alone and isolated in this! In Scripture, we see many salient examples of people I don’t want to do this! I’m completely inadequate! I “I’m afraid! I feel so alone and who, like Dorothy Day, seek out God’s guidance in prayer, haven’t any strength left! I’m full of anger! I’m bitter at so especially when they are alone and afraid as they stand many things! I hate some of the places where my Chris- isolated in this! I don’t want to do before some major upheaval or impending suffering in tian morality has led me! I’m jealous of others who don’t their lives. We see this, for example, in Moses, who when have my moral inhibitions! I’m tempted in ways that I’m this! I’m completely inadequate!” lost in the desert and facing a revolt from his own people, ashamed to speak of! I need more support than you’ve climbs Mount Horeb to ask for God’s counsel. And we see been giving me! Send me someone or send me some- Dorothy Day it in Jesus who also climbs Mount Horeb to pray and who thing! If you want me to continue on this road, you’ve got spends whole nights in prayer, struggling to find both the to give me more help! I need this now!” took a train to Washington, D.C., from New York and guidance and the courage he needs for his mission. And then we need to wait – in patience, in advent. spent the day praying at the National Shrine of the Im- Looking at the prayer of Moses, Jesus, Dorothy Perhaps no Peter Maurin will appear on our doorstep maculate Conception. And, as she shares in her auto- Day and countless other women and men who have that night, but, with desert-helplessness having done its biography, her prayer that day was shamelessly direct, prayed for guidance from God, we see that their prayer, work, an angel will come to strengthen us. humble and clear. Essentially she told God, again and especially when they feel most alone and desperate, again, that she was lost, that she needed a clear direction is marked by three things: honesty, directness and Oblate Father Rolheiser, theologian, teacher and award- for her life, and that she needed that direction now, not humility. They lift their own minds and hearts to God, winning author, is president of the Oblate School of in some distant future. And, like Jesus in the Garden of not someone else’s. They share their aloneness and Theology in San Antonio, Texas. He can be contacted Gethsemane, she prayed that prayer over and over again. fears with shameless honesty. There is no pretense, no through his website ronrolheiser.com. Is there a link between forgiveness and justice?

ecently, a lawyer friend asked me whether forgive- Prayer: “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those but we can act as if we ness can, in any way, be a form of justice. I think it who trespass against us.” Realize that, in making this have forgotten when- Rcan, but I’m not sure how to explain it. prayer, we are asking to be forgiven on a contingent basis. ever we forgive from The healing power of forgiveness cannot be overem- We are declaring ourselves willing to be forgiven the heart. phasized. Whether given or received, and regardless of only if we forgive others. This is a remarkable standard. In either case, true whether it comes from God or another human being, No one is perfect, of course, but no one can dodge that forgiveness is the forgiveness heals. standard; it will be there to challenge us every day of our restorative measure, Jim Wallis, pastor of Sojourners Community in lives. the transforming Washington and longtime editor of Sojourners magazine, It takes a large-hearted person to decide to forgive; by decision that puts you says that “the idea of forgiveness often seems abstract the act of forgiving the heart of the forgiver becomes even on a brand new page. and ‘religious’ in an otherworldly kind of way. But in fact larger. And that, it seems to forgiveness is very practical and necessary for human life Forgiveness fastens friendships. Anyone interested me, has to have some on the planet to survive. ... in contributing to the return of loyalty to everyday life relationship to justice. “When we refuse to forgive, the cycle of vengeance, might simply look for opportunities to forgive. However you under- retaliation and violence just escalates. ... It is only genu- And anyone who can count should take a moment to Looking Around stand justice, it has to ine forgiveness that breaks the cycle of destruction and calculate in practical terms the value of the lesson that do with the promotion opens up new possibilities.” is available to all in these words of writer Merle Shain: Father William J. Byron SJ and protection of right The Sermon on the Mount, which contains some firm “There is no way to hate another that does not cost the relationships. Biblical instruction against retaliation, addressed the issue of for- hater, no way to remain unforgiving without maiming justice refers to right relationships with God. Economic giveness in the context of worship. Your refusal to forgive yourself.” justice refers to right relationships with others in the would make you unworthy to stand before the altar. Most of us are familiar with Alexander Pope’s dictum: marketplace. Legal justice looks to right relationships “If you bring your gift to the altar and there recall that “To err is human, to forgive, divine”; and we’ve often under the law. your brother or sister has anything against you, leave heard that it is wise to “forgive and forget,” although Forgiveness, it seems to me, is an instrument capable your gift at the altar, go first to be reconciled with your Shakespeare put that proposition the other way around of forging all right relationships. brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift” (Mt on the lips of King Lear: “Pray you now, forget and for- 5:23-24). give.” Jesuit Father Byron is university professor of business and We Christians should measure our performance in None of us will ever be divine, but we can imitate society at St. Joseph’s University, Philadelphia. Email this regard against the standard embodied in the Lord’s divinity in forgiving. We may never be able to forget, him at [email protected]. 16 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS January 11, 2012

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By Debbie Shelley The senior Student of the Year the community. Matte is helping serve as an intern at U.S. Sen. Da- Assistant Editor for CHSPC Matte has represented the Pointe Coupée Animal Shelter vid Vitter’s office. and mentored his peers at his inform the community about pets Matte spent time at the Louisi- Alex Matte, 18, a senior at school. He is the co-president that are available for adoption. ana State Capitol this past sum- Catholic High School of Pointe of the student council and was Being a young leader for Matte mer serving as a page during Coupée, is learning how his com- class president his junior year. also means spending time in the Louisiana legislative session. munity works so he will have the Additionally, he is vice president the nation’s capital. Last spring, Watching the senators debate on knowledge and tools to make it of the Beta Club, reporter for the Matte and his class took a trip to proposed laws that would affect better. Key Club, and is a member of the Washington, D.C. his civil parish and the passing of Matte, who lives in Lakeland, 4-H club, Fellowship of Christian This month, Matte will return bills into laws was fascinating and is CHSPC’s nominee for the Herff Athletes, Quiz Bowl and soccer to the capital and participate educational, said Matte. Jones Principal’s Leadership teams. He is also an Eagle Scout. in the March for Life. “I think it He noted that the beauty of Award. Each year Herff Jones Matte mentors younger stu- will be an exciting experience to public debate is that someone and the National Association dents through the Adopt-a-Class march with people who have the may bring up points that others of Secondary School Principals program, in which he reads Scrip- same passion for protecting life,” may not have thought about. honor 100 students from across ture and leads them in activities Alex Matte, 18 Matte said. According to Matte, developing the United States. Honorees re- that help them grow in their faith. He will return to the Washing- his leadership skills has increased ceive scholarships, ranging from “The kids are great. They are a Hometown: Lakeland ton March 3-10 as part of the U.S. his commitment to make his $1,000 to $12,000. These stu- lot of fun,” said Matte. He stated School: Catholic High School of Senate Youth Tour Program. He community better and help oth- dents are chosen based on lead- working with children challenges Pointe Coupée is among the group of students ers reach their full potential. ership qualities and on participa- him to be a good role model. Church: Immaculate Conception chosen, two from each state and Matte noted that some youth tion in community and campus Matte and selected youth Church, Lakeland the District of Columbia, to meet who live in a rural area such as his service organizations and clubs. throughout Pointe Coupée Civil the president, hear major policy may assume opportunities to bet- They are additionally recognized Parish met community leaders program and presented ideas on addresses by senators, cabinet ter their life are limited. He urged for their achievements in the arts and toured local facilities through how to improve the community to members, officials from the de- them to give their best to succeed and sciences and academic re- the Pointe Coupée Young Lead- the Pointe Coupée Police Jury. “It partments of state and defense and God will reward them. cord. ers Program. He talked about the really taught me how to work on and directors of other federal “If you just wish for something speeches,” said Matte. agencies, as well as participate in to happen, it won’t. But if you After a year of learning and de- a meeting with a U.S. Supreme work hard to see that something http://www.bumbabella.com veloping their skills, the young Court justice. happens, I don’t see why it can’t,” Custom Made, Hand Smocked leaders focus on giving back to This summer Matte will also Matte said. Dresses, Gowns & Bonnets: Christening, Flower Girl, Christmas, First Communion, Easter 2415 Dogwood Ave. (225) 284-1098 Baton Rouge, LA 70808-2123

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e all want things to You know people who have advances to state championship be perfect. cheated. Every single hu- W People talk man being has passed on On Nov. 6, 2011, the Holy Ghost Doody, Cameron Doody, Hayes about giving their friends gossip. School third- and fourth-grade Daigle, Matthew Binder, Hunter a perfect birthday pres- Even the saints had these football team participated in the Bujol, Hank Maureaux, Matthew ent or going on the perfect issues! Christian Youth Football League Latino, Casey Artigues, Brennon date. They go for a perfect Before St. Augustine be- Championship game played at Pan O’Neill, Codee Broom, Jack Bedell, 10 in athletic competition came one of the most influ- American Stadium in New Orleans. Will Fisher, Brett Hidalgo, Patrick and want everything to be ential Christian writers, he Holy Ghost (4-2) advanced with a Cody, Gabe Thompson and Colby perfect for prom night. disobeyed his mother, slept bye to play St. Joan of Arc. Dufrene. People dream of perfect around and made trouble. In a hard-fought game, the Patri- Also, Mason Turner, Tyler Domi- scores on the SATs and When our friends fail ots were defeated 12-0. ano, Koby Bradley, Braeden Hall- finding the perfect spouse. us, we can sometimes get This was the team’s second straight mark, Robert Alfonso, Robert People work hard and study Coming Of Age so caught up in how aw- year competing for the league title. Smith, Justin Sins and Jackson Bol- hard, all in the name of ful we feel that we forget Members of the team are Bryce ner. perfection. Karen Osborne we’re just like them: that we Finch, Jacob Starkey, Matthew Linn, Coaches for the team are Robert We’d like people to be are not perfect either, and Myles Naquin, Tim Tran, Hunter Alfonso, Bryan Daigle, Jack Bedell, perfect, too. that we’ve all disappointed Torres, Parker Balisteri, Connor Randy Hidalgo and Jay Artigues. Perfect parents would never ground someone else. you for sneaking out or being late. Maybe you gossiped a little last week. Perfect friends or siblings wouldn’t Maybe you forgot to meet a friend at ever breathe a word of your deepest, the mall or felt completely embarrassed darkest secrets – ever. when your mother told stories from your A perfect boyfriend would take you on childhood to your new crush. Maybe you incredible, romantic dates, and a perfect were angry when your teacher was short girlfriend would be insanely beautiful. or irritable with you. Perfect teachers would be entertaining We cannot expect other people to be and fun, and every assignment would be perfect, especially if we aren’t perfect engrossing. ourselves. Striving for perfection – and demand- All we can do when somebody in our ing it of friends and relatives – seems, life stumbles is to love and forgive them, on first glance, to be a good thing. After and help them when we can. all, doesn’t everyone want the world to In this imperfect world, with people be better, for things to be brighter, for who disappoint us and events that don’t everyone to get along? live up to the glittering, perfect visions in The problem is this: That kind of per- our heads, the only real way to strive for fection is impossible. We all have charac- a perfection that lasts is to forgive others ter flaws. No human being ever lives up – and to forgive ourselves. to our “perfect vision.” When you forgive someone for his People aren’t perfect. or her very human imperfections, you People can be selfish and egotistical. bring yourself – and the world – closer GEOGRAPHY MADE FUN – Second-grade St. Thomas More School stu- People can disappoint you, leave you to a perfection about which we can only dents learned about geography with hands-on activities at school. behind, call you names and make you dream. Students learned about various geographic areas by conducting ex- sad. Forgiveness heals the chasms between periments, making lesson-based creations and participating in trea- People behave badly, embarrass you us, brings people closer and helps us sure hunts. Through the experiments students learned about such and ruin your weekend. And the more work on forgiving ourselves for the ter- things as how a volcano erupts and how to make a compass from a you love them, the tougher all of that is to rible things we do. straight pin, cork, magnet and water. They also decorated North Amer- stomach. Forgiveness paves the way for both ica-shaped cookies with various candies to indicate the Mississippi It’s one thing to hear people that you you and the person that wronged you to River, the Appalachian Mountains, the Rocky Mountains and the U.S. don’t know whispering behind your back; make something beautiful and new out of Capitol. Various pictures, along with a world map, were displayed to it’s another to hear your best friend say your relationship. teach the students about different cultures and customs all over the the same nasty words. It can be really So forgive. Reach out. Love and help world. From left, Sommer Nguyen and Nicholas Thai watch as their vol- hard to take, and harder to forgive. But your friends. This is the “perfect” solu- cano erupts. Photo provided by St. Thomas More School we must. tion! We have to remember that every single human being ever born on this Osborne contributes to “Coming of Age,” a earth has character flaws. Maybe you CNS column series for and about youth. See the Catholic Schools supplement in the Jan. know someone who has shoplifted. You She is a staff writer for The Evangelist, 25 edition of The Catholic Commentator. definitely know people who have lied. newspaper of the Diocese of Albany, N.Y.

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