Celebrity, Gay and Rumor

Celebrity, Gay and Rumor --Tell you a true Tom Cruise

“Why are we addicted with rumors? Why we believe whatever the media says?”

Pretty much all my friends asked me if Tom is Gay.

Why every super star has to be gay?

I just don’t get it. I have heard people say DiCaprio is gay, Keanu Reeves is gay… now Tom Cruise is Gay… Why every super Star has to be Gay? You don’t like him or you have nothing to do but gossiping?

It makes me laugh and mad at the same time. I guess the media and the mass love celebrity’s personal life, esp. the negative ones, so they have something to complain about.

Every time when they asked me about Tom, I said: “No, he is NOT gay!”

“You don’t think he is or you know he isn’t?”

“I know so, baby. HE –IS –NOT-GAY!”

“If he is gay, you still love him?”

They sounded like those entertainment reporters.

“I love the way he is.”

“Would you marry him if he is gay?”

That just freaks me out. “That If does NOT exist, my dear friend. He is not. And we can talk about it later if someday he becomes one.”

Damn it, why people like to gossip other people? Why some people can’t survive without chitchatting celebrity’s personal life? When I just moved to Los Angeles, a friend of mine, yes, a good friend mine told me that I have to do this and that to be in the movie: “… even Tom Cruise had to …… for the part…”

“Did you see it? Were you there when he was doing that? Or you’re trying to say the guy was you?”

He could not say a damn thing.

That just pisses me off! And I started believing Los Angeles is the most gossiping city in the world, cause this is Hollywood, this is where all the celebrities live, and people love to make up all the stories, which I truly hate, and I have no respect for them. Using Tom’s word. “I need an apology.” Of course, people make up lies and rumors eventually will get exactly what they deserve. Cause the energy in the universal is all connected and balanced, you gossip other people, and it will come to you eventually.

I was calling around for publishers for this book just couple days ago in Los Angeles. Some publisher responded immediately after heard this book is about Tom Cruise: “You have to talk to an attorney first before you let me read the book.” I asked why, she said: “Tom Cruise is well-known for suing people.” And I asked why again, she said, “He just loves to sue people.” I laughed. It sounds like that’s Tom’s a hobby-- to sue people.

There is always a reason behind the lawsuit. Why he sued some people? Because they gossip and make up stories, and in my book, I did not make anything about him. There are only two chapters are about him and they are all the truth, the rest of them are my fantasy and confession, it’s nothing to do with him, and he will sue me for my love for him? It’s ridiculous. “I don’t gossip, I don’t make up stories, it’s just not me, I just write what I feel about this guy, my passion and my love, what’s wrong with that?”

“ He might sue you just because you use his name!” The lady sounded very serious and her tone was very strong. Of course I understand why she reacted that way. “You have to be really careful to write a book about celebrities esp. Tom Cruise!”

Wow, this is very interesting, why people are so sensitive and nervous nowadays? When talk about Tom Cruise, people’s first reaction is gay and lawsuits, why people don’t pay any attention to other things about Tom? Like he is such a responsible being; he loves his two adopted children; his super closeness to his mom and sisters; he loves motorcycling and skydiving, and he taught himself rock climbing and he is planning on climbing the Everest! Why people don’t talk about that? Why they don’t pay any attention that Tom Cruise saved three lives in 1996, and he donated $6000 to an 11 years old girl just a few weeks ago?

I guess maybe because the media, the entertainment media don’t really focus on all the good stuff about him, they love spreading rumors more than anything else, and they love gossip! That’s why what people read is all rumor and nothing else, and they simply believe it! Now I really believe rumor can really kill someone!

That’s pretty much why I want to write this book, I want to tell you a true Tom Cruise. It’s really nothing to do with his being a super star, we are not lack of stars, we got enough in Hollywood, but we are lack of compassionate hearts, and uplifting and inspiring spirit. That’s why I want to write this book to tell people all that. How much he influenced my life, and how much he gave me the motivation and inspiration to do what I do and dream what I dream. He is a responsible human being tries to make this world a better place everyday

He is truly a role model. And he is far beyond a star. He is a remarkable being with superb beauty.

He loves others, and he loves himself. He never sit back and rest, cause no such pinnacle in his life to stop him exploring and improving, for his own happiness and well-being, also for others who need help, which includes his family, his friends, his fellows, everyone around, and mostly, the strangers he encounters each day on the city street. What else more you can ask for a human?

He is always doing his best. He is always looking for the best solution for every problem, which’s including his producing and acting in movies, his helping others. He’s always looking for new adventure each day to fulfill his life, and he is always learning! He is responsible for all his action and every area of his life. He loves what he do, and he do what he loves. He tries to improve his life everyday and make this world a better place. He is a truly complete human. I love what he loves, and I do from my heart. People say to me: “You like Tom Cruise, huh? He is a Scientologist!”

“So?”

That’s his personal choice, it’s nothing to do with you and me. It does not bother me at all. I love and respect just the way he is. Actually it makes me respect him more cause he has no problem tell people who he is, and does not give a f** about what other people think. That’s the most important thing for an individual, no matter what we do, always some people hate and some people love, so we better do what we love and live our lives, cause in your world, YOU – is everything. For each person, a personal journey is most important.

We all should do what we want and be proud of who we are, as long as we don’t harm other people. It’s just a common sense for everyone to stand for our own faith and belief, mostly, and accept and PROUD about what a miracle we all are!

Tom is a positive, beautiful human being. I love and appreciate the way he is, and I want to ask people: “what can we learn from him?”

I guess media plays a big role in our daily life now, so it’s inevitable that we hear gossips all the time, it’s just like a fast food desert, it would make you feel so much better when your head hits in the pillow at night. But I think we would still sleep well without the fatty desert right?

Why we believe the media 100%?

Just like the publishing lady, she heard the rumors too much that’s why first thing she responded was Tom Cruise loves to sue people, it sounds to me like “Tom Cruise has nothing to do, just hang around everyday to see which one he can possible sue!” This made me laugh also sad at the same time. Once again, cause media, the media make people misunderstand the celebrities, misunderstand Tom Cruise. Celebrities are not superman, they are normal human, just like you and me; they need privacy and a regular life just like anybody else. But in our society it seems like it’s not OK if a super star don’t have any rumors, and if we don’t gossip and make some rumors, they probably can’t be a celebrity! What a sick mind! Also some people try to gossip celebrities cause they are jealous, they want to make up stories to use famous names to make them famous, for money or fame, that’s totally immoral.

The core thing is the masses just love to read rumors and gossip about celebrity, that’s why they keep making them.

I understand the publishing lady is in the business and she does not want get involved with any legal issue. Who wants anyway? Even though I told her what’s in my book she still gave me his attorney’s number and let me consult with the attorney first, which I did, I did call the attorney. And his answer is as long as nothing beyond the truth, I should be ok, if I made something up about Tom, I might be in trouble. Then he asked me what this book is about, I said: “My obsession! This book is not a biography or something like that, it’s about how I am obsessed with this guy.”

He laughed and said I am ok.

That’s what I thought. And Tom will love this book, cause it’s really about passion more than anything else. Sorry for those expect gossip and make- up stories from this book, you can find nothing about Tom’s gossip but my own fantasies.

People love to read about celebrity’s personal life, esp. negative ones. Then they will have something to complain about. Like Tom Cruise, not everyone likes him. When they read or heard something negative about Tom, they would have a good excuse to whine, “Well, he is not a good actor and now, he is a gay!” Just shut up and straight up your life! They just simply believe it! Believe the rumors instead of the truth. I think they don’t care about the truth; actually they would rather hear Tom Cruise is Gay even though they know it may not be true. Cause that would make their life better and make them happier? Really?

Gossip is never in Tom’s dictionary. That’s just not the way he is. When he hears something, he does not tell anybody. A lot people in the business ask for help or advise, when somebody tells him something, he NEVER discloses to anyone else. People trust him cause he doesn’t gossip. He is responsible for what he says and what he does, like what Tom said himself: “People know when I say I’m going to do something, I don’t need a contact, they know I’m going to damn well do what I need to get it done.” If you ask me how I know or why I say he is not gay, the answer is very simple, He IS NOT.

Why can’t we live without the rumors? And why we believe whatever the media says?

Gossip and rumor is the most dangerous poison for a human. It could kill you! A famous Chinese actress died in spits. She died when she was only 25 and she left a will, it says: “Gossip is fearful.”

Yes, I would still love and if he was gay, I would still love him the same if he would become a gay…I think that’s what most people want to hear. They would want to hear next morning news said Tom Cruise confess himself a Gay, then they would have something to complain about. Just like we like to hear bad news, disasters, crimes…that will make them have something to complain on the dining table, and that will make themselves feel much better. It’s so funny and I don’t get it. Yes, I like Tom no matter what he is…if he was a gay that’s his sexuality not mine. But my dear friends, unfortunately you will never hear the news that Tom Cruise is a gay, cause he is not. That’s just the fact. Sorry you have nothing to complain about him, because he is a good man. He is a respectful well- grounded human. I think we will survive without chewing celebrity’s gossip.

I do have gay friends. They have no shame to commit they are gay. They are very honest, and they are not shamed about who they are. I think that’s great. And I know they are gay before I even talk to them. I guess I am just sensitive enough to tell. Just something different about them, the way they move, the way they talk, and the way they look at you. I am a girl and I can sense gay guys.

I have met Tom in person and he is just a solid normal guy, those rumors are just bunch of bullshit, and we all know that.

I was not going to write something like this in my book. I never wanted even just mention about this kind of stuff. Cause I don’t give a fuck about other people say about Tom; But today, finally I couldn’t help. This evening, I was going to wrap up the book, and put the final period on it, then a friend called, so we went out for dinner. I told him about my book on the dinner table. “He is Gay!” That’s his first response. And that really gets in my nerves. He is probably the 50th people said that to me. So I got home and wrote above. Wow! I can’t believe one question stirred me up, and caused a tornado! I guess it just pushed the button and bug my blood, and I felt like I have to write something about it.

--“ My Love for you, Tom Cruise – A desperate Chinese girl’s Confession