New Parenting & Counseling Materials

PARENTING Resources in the Northside Professional Library

LOVE AND LOGIC

Parenting with love and logic: teaching children responsibility - Foster W. Cline, Jim Fay Also available in Spanish: Ser padres con amor y lógica: cómo enseñar responsabilidad a los niños Parenting teens with love and logic - Foster Cline, Jim Fay Love and logic magic for early childhood: practical parenting from birth to six years - Jim Fay, Charles Fay Parenting children with health issues and special needs: love and logic essentials for raising happy, healthier kids – Foster Cline, Lisa C. Greene Also available in Spanish: Padres criando niños con problemas de salud y necesidades especiales: esenciales de amor y lógica para criar niños felices y saludables Love and logic solutions for kids with special needs - David Funk Can this child be saved? : solutions for adoptive and foster families - Foster Cline, Cathy Helding Helicopters, drill sergeants, and consultants: parenting styles and the messages they send - Jim Fay I’ve got what it takes! - Jim Fay Meeting the challenge: using love and logic to help children develop attention and behavior skills - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline, Bob Sornson The pearls of love and logic for parents and teachers - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline Tickets to success: techniques to lead children to responsible decision-making - Jim Fay Uncontrollable kids: from heartbreak to hope - Foster W. Cline The love and logic journal: 10th anniversary collection - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline

CDs/Audiocassettes

Parenting with love and logic: teaching children responsibility - Foster Cline and Jim Fay (CD) Parenting teens with love and logic - Foster Cline and Jim Fay (CD) Love and logic magic for early childhood: practical parenting from birth to six years - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline (CD) Love and logic solutions: unbeatable, on-the-mark answers to parents' most-asked questions about raising kids - Jim Fay (CD; also available as a DVD) Avoiding power struggles with kids - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline (CD or cassette) Calming the chaos: behavior improvement strategies for the child with ADHD - Jim Fay, Charles Fay (CD) Developing character in teens - Jim Fay (CD) Four steps to responsibility: techniques to lead children to responsible decision making - Jim Fay (CD) Grief, trauma, and loss: helping children cope - Foster W. Cline (cassette) Healing trust: rebuilding the broken bond for the child with Reactive Attachment Disorder - Nancy Thomas (cassette) Helicopters, drill sergeants, and consultants: parenting styles and the messages they send - Jim Fay (CD or cassette) Keeping cool when parenting heats up: tips for staying calm and collected - Charles Fay, Leah Wells (CD) The life saver kit - Jim Fay. Contents: Raising the odds for responsible behavior; Avoiding power struggles with kids; Didn't I tell you to take out the trash; Helicopters, drill sergeants, and consultants; Four steps to responsibility; Love me enough to set limits (CD or cassette) Love me enough to set some limits - Jim Fay (CD or cassette) Repeating a grade - Jim Fay (cassette) Secrets of stepparenting - Jim Fay and Foster Cline (cassette) Toddlers and pre-schoolers: love and logic parenting for early childhood: 6 months to 5 years - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline (CD or cassette) Trouble-free teens: smart suggestions for parenting your pre-teen - Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline (CD or cassette) Winning the homework battle: helping children discover and celebrate their strengths - Jim Fay, Northside Professional Library, Parenting Materials 2

Foster W. Cline (CD or cassette) Northside Professional Library, Parenting Materials 3

Love and logic solutions: unbeatable, on-the-mark answers to parents' most-asked questions about raising kids – Jim Fay (DVD or VHS; also available as a CD) Simple parenting strategies for raising great kids in complicated times - Jim & Charles Fay Real world parenting solutions that prepare kids for the real world - Jim & Charles Fay Painless parenting for the preschool years - Charles Fay Hope for underachieving kids: opening the door to success with love and logic - Jim Fay, Charles Fay

GENERAL PARENTING

You can handle them all…for parents: a highly effective and practical way to handle over one hundred problem behaviors at home and at school – Robert L. DeBruyn 1-2-3 Magic - Thomas W. Phelan DVD: 1-2-3 magic: managing children’s difficult behavior - Thomas W. Phelan DVD: More 1-2-3 magic: encouraging good behavior, independence and self-esteem - Thomas W. Phelan The five love languages of children - Gary D. Chapman (also available in Spanish) The five love languages of teenagers - Gary D. Chapman (also available in Spanish) How to talk so kids will listen & listen so kids will talk – Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish Parenting toward solutions: how parents can use skills they already have to raise responsible, loving kids - Linda Metcalf The common vision: parenting and educating for wholeness - David Marshak Raising your spirited child: a guide for parents whose child is more intense, sensitive, perceptive, persistent, energetic - Mary Sheedy Kurcinka Raising your spirited child workbook - Mary Sheedy Kurcinka The tough kid parent book – William R. Jenson, Ginger Rhode, Melanie Hepworth Neville Social skills for tough kids: tips and tools for parents – Susan M. Sheridan How to handle a hard-to-handle kid: a parents’ guide to understanding and changing problem behaviors - C. Drew Edwards Making children mind without losing yours - Kevin Leman The answer is no: saying it and sticking to it - Cynthia Whitham The parent’s handbook: systematic training for effective parenting (STEP) - Don Dinkmeyer and others Parenting young children: systematic training for effective parenting (STEP) of children under six - Don Dinkmeyer and others How to raise an MVP - Ambrose & Freda Robinson [parents of David Robinson] Letting go of perfect: overcoming perfectionism in kids – Jill L. Adelson, Hope E. Wilson Humor, play, & laughter: stress-proofing life with your kids - Joseph A. Michelli The over-scheduled child: avoiding the hyper-parenting trap - Alvin Rosenfeld, Nicole Wise The "putting on the brakes" activity book for young people with ADHD - Patricia O. Quinn, Judith M. Stern Game: Angry animals - developed by Lynn K. Thompson [board game that teaches health expression of anger; ages 5-12, 2-6 players] Ten talks parents must have with their children about sex and character - Pepper Schwartz, Dominic Cappello Understanding your child's sexual behavior: what's natural and healthy - Toni Cavanagh Johnson Tough love: how parents can deal with drug abuse - Pauline Neff Why does that man have such a big nose? - Mary Beth Quinsey The lost art of listening - Michael P. Nichols Violence-proof your kids now: how to recognize the 8 warning signs and what to do about them: for parents, teachers, and other concerned caregivers - Erika V. Shearin Karres Children first: safe and secure - Texas Department of Family and Protective Services Parenting for prevention: how to raise a child to say no to alcohol and drugs - David J. Wilmes Northside Professional Library, Parenting Materials 4

VALUES, CHARACTER, SELF-ESTEEM

Being your best: character building for kids 7-10 - Barbara A. Lewis What's right? what's wrong? : a guide to talking about values for parents and kids - Jeffrey A. Marx, Risa Munitz Gruberger. Teaching your children values - Linda & Richard Eyre Children of character: leading your children to ethical choices in everyday life - Steven Carr Reuben Using your values to raise your child to be an adult you admire - Harriet Heath The choices are yours: how values-driven choices change lives - Robert J. Turley Teaching values: an idea book for teachers (and parents) - Gary A. Davis Values are forever: becoming more caring and responsible - Gary A. Davis Tending the heart of virtue: how classic stories awaken a child's moral imagination - Vigen Guroian Too much of a good thing: raising children of character in an indulgent age - Dan Kindlon Little things long remembered: making your children feel special every day - Susan Newman Raising resilient children: fostering strength, hope, and optimism in your child - Robert Brooks, Sam Goldstein Raising self-reliant children: seven building blocks for developing capable young people - H. Stephen Glenn Raising an emotionally intelligent child: heart of parenting - John Gottman, Joan DeClaire 150 ways to show kids you care - Jolene L. Roehlekepartain Parent talk: words that empower, words that wound: how to talk to your children in language that builds self-esteem and encourages responsibility - Chick Moorman Self-esteem revolutions in children - Thomas W. Phelan [audiocassette] Your child's self-esteem - Dorothy Corkille Briggs Hide or seek: how to build self-esteem in your child - James Dobson Don't feed the monster on Tuesdays! : the children's self-esteem book - Adolph J. Moser Building assets together: 135 group activities for helping youth succeed - Jolene L. Roehlkepartain All kids are our kids: what communities must do to raise caring and responsible children and adolescents - Peter L. Benson What kids need to succeed: proven, practical ways to raise good kids - Peter L. Benson, Judy Galbraith, Pamela Espeland 150 ways to help your child succeed - Karin Ireland The successful child: what parents can do to help kids turn out well - William Sears, Martha Sears, Elizabeth Pantley

TEENAGERS

Parenting teens with love and logic - Foster Cline, Jim Fay (available as book or audio) The five love languages of teenagers - Gary D. Chapman (also available in Spanish) What teens need to succeed: proven, practical ways to shape your own future - Peter L. Benson, Judy Galbraith, Pamela Espeland. Grounded for life?! : stop blowing your fuse and start communicating with your teenager - Louise Felton Tracy Yes, your teen is crazy! : loving your kid without losing your mind - Michael J. Bradley The primal teen: what the new discoveries about the teenage brain tell us about our kids - Barbara Strauch 20 tough questions teenagers ask and 20 tough answers - Lois Leiderman Davitz, Joel R. Dav The roller-coaster years: raising your child through the maddening yet magical middle school years - Charlene C. Giannetti and Margaret Sagarese ADHD and teens: a parent's guide to making it through the tough years - Colleen Alexander-Roberts Healthy teens: facing the challenges of young lives: a practical guide for parents, caregivers, educators, and health care professionals - Alice R. McCarthy Rachel's tears: the spiritual journey of Columbine martyr Rachel Scott - Darrell Scott, Beth Nimmo The troubled journey: a portrait of 6th-12th grade youth - Peter L. Benson Talk with teens about self and stress: 50 guided discussions for school and counseling groups - Jean Sunde Peterson The angry teenager - William Lee Carter Life's playbook for success: secrets from the Verizon Academic All-America Hall of Famers Youth at risk: a prevention resource for counselors, teachers, & parents - David Capuzzi, Douglas Gross, eds. The me nobody knows: a guide for teen survivors - Barbara Bean, Shari Bennett VHS video: Padres que se preocupan: una guia paso a paso para familias con adolescentes - desarrollado por J. David Hawkins y Richard F. Catalano, con Neal Starkman and Pat Ford Northside Professional Library, Parenting Materials 5

BOYS AND GIRLS

The good son: shaping the moral development of our boys and young men - Michael Gurian The wonder of boys: what parents, mentors, and educators can do to shape boys into exceptional men - Michael Gurian Real boys: rescuing our sons from the myths of boyhood - William S. Pollack Real boys' voices - William S. Pollack, Todd Shuster Real boys workbook: the definitive guide to understanding and interacting with boys of all ages - William S. Pollack, Kathleen Cushman Lost boys: why our sons turn violent and how we can save them - James Garbarino Saving the native son: empowerment strategies for young black males - Courtland C. Lee Celebrating girls: nurturing and empowering our daughters - Virginia Beane Rutter Queen bees & wannabes: helping your daughter survive cliques, gossip, boyfriends, and other realities of adolescence - Rosalind Wiseman

FAMILIES

The 7 habits of highly effective families: building a beautiful family culture in a turbulent world - Stephen R. Covey The ABCs of real family values: the simple things that make families work - Steven Lewis A family of value - John Rosemond The parent's toolshop: the universal blueprint for building a healthy family - Jody Johnston Families apart: ten keys to successful co-parenting - Melinda Blau A mother's place: choosing work and family without guilt or blame - Susan Chira Fatherneed: why father care is as essential as mother care for your child - Kyle D. Pruett So glad we waited! : a hand-holding guide for over-35 parents - Lois Nachamie Midlife parenting: a guide to having and raising kids in your 30s, 40s, and beyond - Christi Taylor-Jones Fathers of a certain age: the joys and problems of middle-aged fatherhood - Martin Carnoy, David Carnoy The single father: a dad's guide to parenting without a partner - Armin A. Brott Contemporary grandparenting - Arthur Kornhaber Grandparents as parents: a survival guide for raising a second family - Sylvie de Toledo, Deborah Edler Brown

Positive discipline for your stepfamily: nurturing harmony, respect, and joy in your new family - Jane Nelson, Cheryl Erwin, H. Stephen Glenn Positive discipline for single parents: nurturing cooperation, respect, and joy in your single-parent family – Jane Nelsen Stepcoupling: creating and sustaining a strong marriage in today's blended family - Susan Wisdom, Jennifer Green The enlightened stepmother: revolutionizing the role - Perdita Kirkness Norwood, Teri Wingender Stepfamilies: love, marriage, and parenting in the first decade - James H. Bray, John Kelly Secrets of stepparenting - Jim Fay, Foster Cline (audiocassette) Don't fall apart on Saturdays! : the children's divorce-survival book - Adolph Moser Mom and Dad don't live together any more - Kathy Stinson Making divorce easier on your child: 50 effective ways to help children adjust - Nicholas Long, Rex Forehand Helping your kids cope with divorce the Sandcastles way - M. Gary Neuman, Patricia Romanowski Mom's house, dad's house: a complete guide for parents who are separated, divorced, or remarried - Isolina Ricci Don't divorce us! : kids' advice to divorcing parents - Rita Sommers-Flanagan, Chelsea Elander, John Sommers-Flanagan Can this child be saved? : solutions for adoptive and foster families - Foster W. Cline, Cathy Helding Northside Professional Library, Parenting Materials 6

FRIENDSHIPS AND SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

Helping your child make friends: a step-by-step guide to solving the most common parenting problems - Rona Milch Novick Best friends, worst enemies: understanding the social lives of children - Michael Thompson, Catherine O'Neill Grace, Lawrence J. Cohen Mom, they're teasing me: helping your child solve social problems - Michael Thompson, Lawrence J. Cohen, Catherine O'Neill Grace Odd girl out: the hidden culture of aggression in girls - Rachel Simmons Free the children! : conflict education for strong peaceful minds - Susan Gingras Fitzell How to handle bullies, teasers, and other meanies: a book that takes the nuisance out of name calling and other nonsense - Kate Cohen-Posey Easing the teasing: helping your child cope with name-calling, ridicule, and verbal bullying - Judy S. Freedman Cliques: 8 steps to help your child survive the social jungle - Charlene C. Giannetti, Margaret Sagarese The bully, the bullied, and the bystander: from preschool to high school: how parents and teachers can help break the cycle of violence - Barbara Coloroso Bullies, targets & witnesses: helping children break the pain chain - SuEllen Fried, Paula Fried

EDUCATION AND HOMEWORK HELP

Parents assuring student success: achievement made easy by learning together – John R. Ban 20-minute learning connection: Texas elementary school edition – Douglas B. Reeves 20-minute learning connection: Texas middle school edition – Douglas B. Reeves Coloring outside the lines: raising a smarter kid by breaking all the rules - Roger Schank Homework heroes: grades K-2 - Drew and Cynthia Johnson How to help your child with homework: every caring parent's guide to encouraging good study habits and ending the homework wars: for parents of children ages 6-13 - Marguerite Cogorno Radencich, Jeanne Shay Schumm Helping gifted children soar: a practical guide for parents and teachers - Carol A. Strip, Gretchen Hirsch Guiding the gifted child: a practical source for parents and teachers - James T. Webb, Elizabeth A. Meckstroth, Stephanie S. Tolan Read to me: raising kids who love to read – Bernice E. Cullinan Starting out right: a guide to promoting children’s reading success – M. Susan Burns, Peg Griffin, Catherine E. Snow, editors The New York Times parent's guide to the best books for children - Eden Ross Lipson Family math – Jean Kerr Stenmark Family math, the middle school years: algebraic reasoning and number sense - Virginia Thompson, Karen Mayfield-Ingram

COPING WITH GRIEF AND TRAUMA

On children and death: how children and their parents can and do cope with death - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross A child dies: a portrait of family grief - Joan Hagan Arnold, Penelope Buschman Gemma When dinosaurs die: a guide to understanding death - Laurie Krasny Brown, Marc Brown Remembering Mama - Dara Dokas The grieving child: a parent's guide - Helen Fitzgerald How it feels when a parent dies - Jill Krementz Helping children cope with the loss of a loved one - William C. Kroen Don't despair on Thursdays! : the children's grief-management book - Adolph Moser The bereaved parent - Harriet Sarnoff Schiff Living when a young friend commits suicide, or even starts talking about it - Earl A. Grollman, Max Malikow Children and trauma: a guide for parents and professionals - Cynthia Monahon The fall of Freddie the leaf: a story of life for all ages - Leo Buscaglia One more Wednesday - Malika Doray What's heaven? - Maria Shriver Grief, trauma, and loss: helping children cope - Foster W. Cline (audiocassette) Northside Professional Library, Parenting Materials 7

RESOURCES IN SPANISH

1-2-3 Magia para niños: ayudando a sus hijos a entender las nuevas reglas – Thomas W. Phelan, Tracy M. Lewis Los 5 lenguajes del amor de los niños – Gary Chapman, Ross Campbell Los 5 lenguajes del amor de los jóvenes – Gary Chapman Los 7 hábitos de los adolescentes altamente efectivos: la mejor guía práctica para el éxito juvenil – Sean Covey Los 7 hábitos de la gente altamente efectiva: la revolución ética en la vida cotidiana y en la empresa – Stephen R. Covey Ayude a sus hijos a tener éxito en la escuela: guía para padres latinos – Mariela Dabbah Cómo hablar para que los niños escuchen y cómo escuchar para que los niños hablen – Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish Cría hijos sensatos sin perder la cabeza – Kevin Leman Disciplina con amor: cómo poner límites sin ahogarse en la culpa – Rosa Barocio Disciplina con amor para adolescents: guía para llevarte bien con tu adolescente – Rosa Barocio Ser padres con amor y lógica: cómo enseñar responsabilidad a los niños – Foster W. Cline, Jim Fay Su hijo adolescente: cómo comprenderlo y relacionarse con él - Lois Leiderman Davitz, Joel Robert Davitz

Bebés con síndrome de Down: guía para padres - compilado por Karen Stray-Gundersen Cuaderno de trabajo para padres, maestros y niños sobre el trastorno de bajo nivel de atención (ADD) o hiperactividad - Harvey C. Parker Diagnosticado autista – Cecilia Maya Mosquera Esperanzas para el autismo: estrategias para el manejo de problemas de comportamiento y de aprendizaje y plan de estudio para el tratamiento intensivo de comportamientos austistas - Ron Leaf, John McEachin Guiandose por la intrincada senda de la educacion especial: una guia para padres y maestros - Winifred Anderson, Stephen Chitwood Y Deidre Hayden Hiperactivo, impulsivo, distraído : me conoces? : guía acerca del déficit atencional para padres, maestros y profesionales - José J. Bauermeister Mi hermano extra-especial: cómo querer, comprender, y estar orgulloso de un hermano con necesidades especiales - Carly Heyman El niño de los caballos: la búsqueda de un padre para sanar a su hijo - Rupert Isaacson Niños agresivos o niños agredidos? : una cálida respuesta a la agresividad, las burlas, los celos y las angustias de los niños - Francoise Dolto Dolto Niños autistas: guía para padres, terapeutas y educadores - Michael D. Powers Padres criando niños con problemas de salud y necesidades especiales: esenciales de amor y lógica para criar niños felices y saludables - Foster Cline, Lisa C. Greene Síndrome de Down: hacia un futuro mejor - Siegfried M. Pueschel Los trastornos del espectro de autismo de la A a la Z: toda la información que quiere saber - Barbara T. Doyle, Emily Doyle Iland VHS video: Padres que se preocupan: una guia paso a paso para familias con adolescentes - desarrollado por J. David Hawkins y Richard F. Catalano, con Neal Starkman and Pat Ford

In addition to the materials listed above, books and AV items from the Reddix Family Resource Center were transferred to the Northside Professional Library in 2011. These resources may prove useful to families of special needs students. Parents, guardians and other adult family members are welcome to contact the Professional Resource Librarian to borrow materials from the Northside Professional Library.

To see a list of these resources, go to the Professional Library Resource Lists webpage - http://osd.nisd.net/library_resources. Select “Special Education–Reddix Transfers” from the menu.

For more information about Professional Library resources, contact: Denise Wilkinson, Librarian [email protected] 210-397-7921 http://osd.nisd.net/professional_library