ST JOHN THE BAPTIST CHURCH, SHEDFIELD
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Vicar: The Revd Jane Isaac
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ϐ ǣ 01329 832 162 December - January a̷ϐǤ ǤϐǤǤ 2019 - 2020 ST JOHN THE BAPTIST CHURCH, SHEDFIELD www.stjohnthebaptistshedfield.org.uk Church Office St John the Baptist Church, PARISH ADMINISTRATOR - Church Office Church Road Shedfield SO32 2HY Chris Cannadine. 01329 832 162 (open Mon, Wed, Fri 9am–12pm) [email protected] The Rectory Southwick Road Wickham PO17 6HR VICAR The Revd Jane Isaac 01329 835 295 Email: [email protected]
ASSISTANT CURATE Revd Dr Ruth Howlett- 01329 280905 Shipley 52 Brooklynn Close Waltham Chase SO32 2RZ ASSOCIATE PRIEST The Revd Juliet Montague 01489 895 012 Email: [email protected] LAY MINISTER Mr Stephen Campion 4 Palace Mews Bishops Waltham 01489 893 369 PERMISSION The Revd Brian McHugh 28 Siskin Close Bishops Waltham 01489 896 658 TO OFFICIATE CHURCHWARDENS Carol Hotchkiss 3 Meadow View Church Road Shedfield 01329 832 738 Adrian Jordan 32 Chase Grove Waltham Chase 01489 890 007 VERGER/SACRISTAN Julia Jordan 32 Chase Grove Waltham Chase 01489 890007 PCC SECRETARY Rosemary Yeoman The Laurels Winters Road Shirrell Heath 01329 832 595 PCC TREASURER David Hillier Laburnam House Solomons Lane Shirrell Heath SO32 2HU 01329 833 896 ORGANIST/CHOIR Julia Burgess 19 Wickham Croft Wickham 01329 832 441 DIRECTOR/MUSIC GROUP MOTHERS’ UNION To be filled MEN’S GROUP Ian Treveil 14 Ashley Gardens Waltham Chase Hants 01489 896 184 CHURCH FLOWERS Anthea Benham Ashwood Clubhouse Lane Waltham Chase 01489 894 840 BELLRINGERS’ CAPTAIN Betty Daysh Woodmans Cottage Winchester Rd Waltham Chase 01489 892 216
Our Lady Queen of Apostles Church Bishops ROMAN CATHOLIC Canon Alan Griffiths Waltham Email: 01489 890 947 PRIEST [email protected] METHODIST MINISTER The Revd Joseph Tembo Treetops Smiths Lane Shirrell Heath 01329 833 518 [email protected] CEMETERY CLERK Brenda Byrne Dalecote Farm Winchester Road Waltham Chase 01329 833 592
ST JOHN THE BAPTIST C OR E PRIMARY SCHOOL Solomons Lane, Waltham Chase SO32 2LX 07913 640 795 FAIRLANDS NURSERY SCHOOL Church Road Shedfield SO32 2HY 01329 834 848 WALTHAM CHASE PRE-SCHOOL Village Hall Waltham Chase SO32 2LX 07913 640 795
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All I want for Christmas…’ from the Bene ice ministry team Stephen Campion (Authorised Lay Minister): When I was a teenager, every year I gave my grandfather an expensive (at least for me) large Cuban cigar for Christmas. He would open it, roll it round his ingers, smell the rich aroma and then put it back into its protective container – always thanking me for his present. When he died my mother found 14 Cuban cigars hidden away in his desk! If there is a moral to this story it may well be that although generosity is always to be thanked, so too is it important to be honest – even at the risk of causing initial embarrassment. Christmas reminds me how much pleasure can be gained by the giving of presents as well as receiving them. I’m happy to provide my Christmas wish-list to anyone who asks! But Christmas also reminds me of that precious gift that God gave all of us – the gift of His Son and the man He grew up to be. All I want for Christmas is that we celebrate Christmas for what it is; not the busy-ness, stress or hype that seems to start as long ago as September, but for the joy, love and hope that comes from the birth of Jesus Christ. What I really want is for us to be honest and true to the real meaning of Christmas. Revd Dr Ruth Howlett-Shipley (Assistant Curate): I love all the preparations for Christmas; at church, in our church schools and with my own children. However, it does require a certain amount of juggling! I’m particularly looking forward to the evening of Christmas Day when I’ll have all my family together. Although we’re a small family it’s very rare for all of us to be in the same place at once. Having been at Christ- mas morning services in the Bene ice, I’ll dash over to Salisbury, where my daughter Annabel sings in the choir. We’ll have a picnic lunch with the other choir families, and then after Evensong we’ll drive home (com- plete with a stocking full of small gifts from the other choristers to ‘entertain’ me in the car!). Then we’ll have a quiet evening, enjoying being together. The family traditions of presents, Christmas lunch and the inevita- ble board games happen on Boxing Day! I look forward to that special family time. However, I’m also very conscious that, for many reasons, large numbers of people are not able to be with their family at Christmas. Whether this is due to family breakdown, bereavement, the need to work over the festive period or for military families the deployment of a family member, I pray that they’ll all ind a way to celebrate Christmas in their own way, and in a way that will bring them peace and happiness. Revd Juliet Montague (Associate Priest): All I want for Christmas is…snow on Christmas Day. I appreciate that it makes dif iculties of its own, but to look out on a blanket of fresh snow sparkling in the sunlight reminds us how beautiful nature can be, and transports many of us older folk back to our childhood days when snow was more frequent. In the season of gift giving, it would help us all to re lect on how much our wonderful planet gives to us with its beauty and its diversity and inspire us to give something back. Let’s take a little less from our environment, and tread lightly upon the earth, so that future generations may enjoy snow at Christmas. Revd Jane Isaac (Vicar): All I wanted for Christmas 1965 was a Chad Valley Give-a Show projector! ‘Use it in the car, on the wall or the ceiling’, it said on the box: ‘…just drop the story strips into the projector and turn the knob to focus’. Hmm: it didn’t take a disappointed 6-year-old long to realise that the much-anticipated home cinema was basically a torch! Nonetheless, my long-suffering parents sat through many a showing of Doctor Who and the Daleks, Popeye, Thunderbirds Rescue and (less popular, this one) Moments in History, complete with choc-ices in the interval. This year I’m hoping that a cinema gift-card might come my way! I’m hoping too for the gift of viewing Christmas through the eyes of the people who were there that irst time around. I’m hoping to see, as Mary did, how important it is to put down my own plans and agendas so that I can see the big picture too. I’ll make sure to notice the understanding of the innkeeper, who was rushed off his feet but still made time to help a man and woman no one else wanted. I’ll be asking God to help me catch a glimpse of the glory the angels experienced as they saw Jesus’s birth from their perspective of eternity. And I’ll share the wonder of the shepherds and the awe of the wise men as they gazed at that baby lying in the manger. Church Diary for the Bene ice of Shed ield and Wickham December 2019. St John the Baptist, Shed ield St Nicholas, Wickham Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 1st December 10.00am Parish Communion 10.00am Family Communion & Bap sm Advent 1 6.00pm Said Evensong Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 8th December 10.00am Patronal Fes val Patronal Fes val: Joint Benefice Service and Wickham launch of St Nicholas 900th anniversary year. Advent 2 A special service - preacher; the Rt Revd Christopher Foster, Bishop of Portsmouth. Children’s Ac vi es and Seasonal Refreshments. Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 15th December 10.00am Parish Communion 10.00am Quiet Time Advent 3 6.00pm Sung Evensong Tuesday 17th 6.00pm St. J. the B Primary School December Carol Service. Thursday 6.30pm 19th December Carols in The Square Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 22nd December 10.00am Quiet Time 10.00am Parish Communion Advent 4 6.00pm Candlelit Lessons & Carols 6.00pm Service of Lessons and Carols
Tuesday 4.00pm Chris ngle 4.00pm Chris ngle 24th December 11.30pm Midnight Mass 11.30pm Midnight Mass Christmas Eve Wednesday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 25th December 10.00am Family Communion 10.00am Family Communion Christmas Day 5.00pm Evening Prayer (said)
Date Time St John the Baptist Tuesday 3rd 12.30pm Parish Lunch Club Study Centre Tuesday 17th 10.00 – 12.00 am Tuesdays at 10 Study Centre Every Thursday 10 – 11am Holy Communion Morrell Room
Your Invitation from the Vicar
I’ve always liked the story about the three-year-old who really got into his role as the inn-keeper in the nursery school’s nativity. Rather than turning Mary and Joseph away when they came to the door, he greeted them with a grin and beck- oned to them, saying, ‘Come on in, there’s loads of room!’. It does put a different gloss on a signi icant element of the story, although there is no inn-keeper mentioned in the Bible. What’s for sure is that God’s love is for everyone and the message of Christmas really is ‘Come on in, there’s loads of room!’.
Christmas services at St John the Baptist Church are an opportunity to come on in, and that’s an invitation for everyone, whether you live in Shed ield, Shirrell Heath or Waltham Chase, and whether you come to church every week, every so often or not at all. One way or another, there’ll be something for everyone, ranging from the traditional Lessons and Carols by Candlelight on Sunday 22nd December and the ever-popular Christingle service on Christmas Eve (with a choc- olate-themed story this year) to early morning communion and family-friendly services on Christmas Day.
All of us in the ministry team send you every good wish for a happy Christmas and a peaceful New Year – and enjoy our ‘All I want for Christmas’ wish list on page 3!
Revd. Jane Isaac Some of Our Church Bible Readings for Advent and Christmas.
Sunday 1st December 1st Sunday in Advent
Isaiah 2.1-5 Isaiah gives us a vision of the Peace of God never yet fully realised. The apostle Paul urges us to abandon sole pursuit of pleasure and behave with Romans 13.11-end decency. Matthew quotes Jesus, describing how, when the Son of Man returns, Matthew 24.36-44 it will be unexpected so we must be prepared for sudden changes in our lives.
Sunday 8th December 2nd Sunday in Advent
Isaiah 11:1-10 Isaiah foretells the emergence, like a shoot from a fallen tree, of a great ruler who will transform society to bring justice and peace to the world. Paul Romans 15.4-13 writing to the Romans reminds us that the hope and encouragement in the Matthew 3.1-12 scriptures are for Jews and Gentiles alike. Matthew tells of the life and work of St John the Baptist with his message of repentance.
Sunday 15th December 3rd Sunday in Advent
Isaiah 35.1-10 This passage from Isaiah is a lovely poem of the beauty of God’s creation providing a path to a bright future. Apostle James tells us to be patient whilst James 5.7-10 waiting for the future to be fulfilled and to be calm with our friends and Matthew 11.2-11 family. Matthew quotes Jesus confirming he is the Messiah and that John the Baptist is his herald.
Sunday 22nd December 4th Sunday in Advent
Isaiah 7.10-16 Isaiah tells of a woman pregnant of a son who will be called Emmanuel ‘God with us’, by the time the child is weaned present danger will be past. Paul Romans 1.1-7 starts his letter to the Romans by saying he has a mission to declare the Matthew 1.18-end resurrected Jesus as the Son of God. Matthew tells us of the conception of Jesus to Mary and Joseph’s acceptance of this and his naming of Jesus.
24th December Christmas Eve
Isaiah 9.2-7 Isaiah describes the change brought about the birth of Christ; Paul writes to Titus explaining how the appearance of Christ sets us free from wickedness Titus 2.11-14 and eager to do good; Luke explains how Jesus, born to a Nazarene, comes to Luke 2.1-14 be born in Bethlehem, an angel appears to shepherds announcing the birth.
25th December Christmas Day
Isaiah 62.6-end Isaiah speaks of the time when the Jews return to Jerusalem to start rebuilding the temple. When we celebrate the birth of Christ, Paul Titus 3.4-7 summarises the Christian Faith succinctly. In Luke’s Gospel, the shepherds Luke 2.8-20 discover Jesus by following the angel’s directions.
5th January Epiphany
Isaiah 60.1-6 Isaiah exhorts the people to use God’s gifts. Apostle Paul tells us that his mission is to bring Good News of the riches of Christ to all people, not only Ephesians 3.1-12 the Jews. Matthew’s Gospel tells how the wise men had set out, guided by a Matthew 2.1-12 star, to find the Child who would become King asking Herod the way before finding the child and giving gifts of Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh. Warned in a dream they return by another way.
These are my comments, I write to inspire you to read the passage for yourself or perhaps to come to church to hear them, Editor.
Church Diary for the United Beneϐice of Shedϐield and Wickham Dec - Jan. 2020. St John the Baptist, Shedϐeld St Nicholas, Wickham Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 29th December 10.00am Christmas in Words and Music 10.00am Family Communion with Carols Christmas 1
Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 5th January 10.00am Parish Communion 10.00am Family Communion Epiphany 6.00pm Sung Evensong Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 12th January 10.00am Café Church 10.00am Parish Communion Epiphany 1 BapƟsm of Christ Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 19th January 10.00am Parish Communion 10.00am Epiphany 2 6.00pm Sung Evensong Quiet Time
Sunday 8.00am Holy Communion 8.00am Holy Communion 26th January 10.00am Quiet Time 10.00am Parish Communion Epiphany 3 4.00pm Peace and Healing
Date Time St John the Baptist Tuesday 7th 12.30pm Parish Lunch Club Study Centre Tuesday 21st 10.00 – 12.00 am Tuesdays at 10 Study Centre Every Thursday 10 – 11am Holy Communion Morrell Room
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On the 6th May 2018 I cycled around the Isle of Wight on the Randonnee organised every year on the Bank Holiday weekend. It was hot and I stopped at Mottistone Church and saw the board pictured in their ϐǤ This has now been done and we hope that they will encourage all who visit the churchyard whether casually, for a solemn occasion such as a wedding or a funer- al, or during an event such as Ride & Stride (second Saturday in September); to take an interest in the wildlife that take sanctuary in our churchyards. Our boards were a team effort of the Eco church group organising and supervising the installation. Sarah Keen designed the Artwork, and the signs were printed on metal by pcmi signs (http://pcmisigns.co.uk/). Thanks are due to Equestrian Fencing (www.equestrianfencing.com) for supplying the timber and posts without charge. The Editor. are due to Equestrian Fencing (www.equestrianfencing.com) for supplying the timber and posts without charge. The Editor.
MESSY CHURCH NEWS Our next meeting is December 12th in St Nicholas Church Room from 3.30-5.30 do come and join us to make lovely Christmas crafts Here are some of the crafts we made last month based on the story of the Feeding of the 5000
We meet once a month on the second Thursday (term Ɵme only)
METHODIST CHURCH SERVICES BISHOP’S WALTHAM UNITED FREE CHURCH SERVICES SHIRRELL HEATH: Sunday 10.30am; morning worship with Junior Church Sunday 10.30am (aged 3upwards) and crèche. Evening worship 6.00pm Breakfast Church BISHOP’S WALTHAM 9.00-9.45am (bimonthly - please see website for full details). ROMAN CATHOLIC WALTHAM CHASE: Sundays 10.30am except 1st Sunday in the month: CHURCH SERVICES 9.30am Family Breakfast followed by worship from 10.00-10.40 am and First Mass of Sunday: Worship & Wordfrom 11.00am-12noon. There are pre-school, primary and Saturday 6.00pm secondary age bible class groups at the 10.30am services. Sunday Mass 9.30am
16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence is an international campaign, supported and promoted by the Mothers’ Union. It takes place each year from 25 November (International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women) until 10 December (International Human Rights Day). Did you know that: • in the year ending March 2018, 2 million adults aged 16 to 59 had experienced domestic abuse within the last year • The UK police receive a call every minute about domestic abuse, 89 percent are about a woman being abused by a man • Only 24 percent of cases of domestic violence are actually reported ϐ ǡ ǡϐ church. Please come along to learn some of the stories, facts and issues as well as about the support that is available. All are welcome at any of the Mothers Union meetings, events or services. We would love you to join us.
FUTURE EVENTS Thursday 5th December 2019 Ǧ ʹǤͳͷϐ ǡ refreshments in the Study Centre plus MU Stall. Our new curate Revd. Dr Ruth Howlett-Shipley will be preaching. Friday 13th December 2019 – Branch Advent service 6pm in the Morrell Room, led by Josie Dyson. Bring Ƭ ϐ Ǥ Thursday 7th January 2020Ȃϐ ǯ ǡ ǡ ǤǤ
SHIRRELL HEATH METHODIST CHURCH YOUTH CLUB FOR AGES 9-14 COFFEE, COMPUTER, CHAT (YEARS 6-9) Every Thursday - 10.00am-12.00pm Meets every Wednesday (term time - 1st & 3rd at COFFEE MORNING Swanmore Methodist, 2nd & 4th at Shirrell 1st Thursday, monthly (not Jan or Aug) Heath) Contact Claire on 07535 955795 10.00am-12.00pm KIDZ KLUB FOR YEARS 2-6 HOOKS & NEEDLES Meets every Thursday (term time) 3rd Tuesday, monthly 2.30pm-4.00pm 5.30-6.30pm - £1 per session: LUNCH CLUB Contact Claire on 07535 955795 2nd Wednesday, monthly (not Jan or Aug) 12.30pm - £3.00 for 2 course meal. LITTLE TREASURES - PRE SCHOOL AGE TLC (THURSDAY LADIES' CLUB) Meets every Friday (term time) 3rd Thursday, monthly at various venues 7.30pm. ͳͲǤͲͲǦͳͳǤ͵Ͳ͉ͳϐ ǡ͉ͳǤͷͲǤ Contact Ena on 01329 832485 for details. of any Contact Pam on 07722 057772 of the above groups. WALTHAM CHASE FLOWER CLUB
Waltham Chase village hall Hedge End Bobbin Lacemakers www.hedgeendbobbinlacemakers.org Monday Afternoons 1.30 - 3.30 Wednesday Evenings 7.15 - 9.30 Wednesday, 22nd Jan 2.15pm Experienced and Beginner Students Welcome