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5 Inspiration boards bring wedding plans to life 6 Secrets to at home 8 Affordable bachelor and ideas 9 Make the first dance even more special 10 How to build your wedding budget 12 Wedding invitations tip sheet 13 Getting married to the idea of hiring a 14 Kids or no kids - Enjoy a wedding that works for you 16 Changing your last name 18 Get a grip on your guest list 20 Choosing the right favors 22 Dressing for wedding day comfort 24 How to find the right wedding photographer 26 Great wedding gift ideas for the & groom 27 Wedding good luck charms 28 The basics of shopping for wedding rings 29 Tips for writing your own vows 30 How couples can benefit from hiring local vendors 32 "Plus one" etiquette for weddings 33 Thank-you card writing etiquette 34 Tips for about to merge finances 35 Tips when choosing a 36 Index Perfect Wedding is a publication of Manchester Newspapers, 14 E. Main St., Granville, N.Y. 12832 / Call 518-642-1234. Marble Mansion Inn Bed & Breakfast Rooms from $80 to $140 per night

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 3 4 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Inspiration boards bring wedding plans to life

Making the wedding of your fabric swatches, quotes or literary receipts or dreams a reality may require passages, and color swatches. As agreements to the some creativity. It can be the idea board grows, you may inspiration board for challenging to organize all of the find a common denominator future reference. creative ideas swimming around among your inspirational This keeps all of in your head, but inspiration elements. This can help your important boards may be able to help. determine a theme for your wedding information Inspiration boards, sometimes wedding or jump-start other in one place rather than requiring referred to as idea boards, are planning. you to search through different commonly used by interior While poster boards may be folders or files for important designers, artists, writers, and more traditional idea boards, documents. In addition, if friends particular even wedding planners. Such creative ideas also can be or family members ask for advice looks. Attend bridal boards can serve a great purpose compiled in binders or on vendors and planning their shows and take home when starting a new project, scrapbooks. Plus, they're own weddings in the future, you promotional materials.Remember, especially if all of your creative portable, which means you can can readily access your inspiration may not always come ideas seem to lack cohesion. take a scrapbook to a meeting inspiration board. from bridal-related resources. Sometimes seeing things with a wedding vendor and show To start building your own Anything you come across in your together, rather than in bits and him or her your concepts for the board or book, take clippings of daily life , such as window- pieces on their own, can fuel even wedding. photos or articles that resonate shopping at a furniture store or more creativity. Later, when photographers, with you. As you visit bridal shops passing an art exhibit may inspire Inspiration boards can include florists and other vendors have and other stores, take fabric some creativity. magazine clippings, photographs, been booked, you can attach swatches and pictures of

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 5 Secrets to at home weddings Many couples preparing for parked cars. Concessions in Hire a cleaning service perform ceremonies outside of a their trip down the aisle follow the regard to comfort and safety will It's important to present a place of worship. familiar sentiments expressed by have to be made when clean, inviting Dorothy in 'The Wizard of Oz.' drawing up space when Learn if it's legal Such couples feel 'there's no the guest hosting a Certain municipalities may place like home' when hosting a list. The wedding at require permits for parking on wedding ceremony or reception. wedding home. A street, noise past a certain hour, There are many benefits to resource The cleaning closing of streets, and much hosting a wedding at home. Knot advises service will more. Do your research. You may Homes often hold couples' most the general conduct a need to coordinate parking at a cherished memories, and hosting rule is six- to thorough nearby lot (like a school closed on a backyard celebration or an 10 square-feet cleaning the weekend) and shuttle people intimate indoor ceremony at your of floor space before and to your home. own home or the abode of a loved per guest for after the one can be a cost-effective way to row seating. festivities, Consult with an insurance carrier have a good time. You'll probably freeing up your time for last- Inquire if having such a large Here are some tips to help need even more space for buffet minute tasks or to embark on party at home is covered by your couples navigate hosting an tables, seating and a dance floor. your honeymoon. at-home wedding. You will likely need to homeowner's insurance policy, temporarily move furniture to Book an officiant early particularly if your home is Assess the space comfortably fit everyone indoors Confirm with an officiant that damaged or someone gets The average home is not Ñ or rent a large enough tent for they can oversee the wedding injured during the festivities. equipped to handle hundreds of a backyard wedding. proceedings at your home. Many Supplemental liability insurance guests, wait staff, caterers, and religious officials are not able to or an umbrella policy may offer greater protection.

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8 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Make the first dance even more special

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 11 Wedding invitations tip sheet

Wedding invitations often provide tation written with classic wording n Keep the invitation simple. It will need the final headcount in guests with a first glimpse of a suggests a more formal affair, may be tempting to load the invi- order to confirm seating wedding’s style. Invitations also while a whimsical invitation with tation with lots of information, arrangements and plan for cen- may serve as the means by which less formal wording could indi- but all you really need are the terpieces and favors. distant friends and relatives find cate a more laid-back event. key pieces of information, such n Handwrite the envelopes. out about a couple’s pending n Dare to be different by play- as the “who,” “what,” “where,” Your invitation will look more nuptials if a formal announce- ing with invitation sizes and and “when.” Crowding the card impressive if you address them ment was not made. shapes. Rectangular cards are will take away from its aesthetic by hand, rather than printing Couples should keep certain standard for wedding invitations, appeal. Most stationers will sug- them off of a computer. If your things in mind as they begin to but you can explore your creativi- gest a separate, smaller insert handwriting is not very neat, design their wedding invitations. ty by choosing more modern, in the for the consider hiring a professional artsy invitations. Circular invites reception information and calligrapher to write out your n Have a good idea of your or scalloped edges can add some response card. Never put infor- envelopes. potential guest list. Before shop- whimsy to the wedding mood. mation such as where you are ping for wedding invitations, it is n Make it easy for guests to Invitations that fold out or are registered or “no kids allowed.” key to have a strong idea of just respond. Be sure to place a embellished with ribbon or other This is material better reserved how big the wedding will be and stamp on the response card decorations can be appealing. for word of mouth or on a wed- how many guests will be invited. envelope and have that enve- Just keep in mind that cards that ding Web site. This way you will know how many lope already addressed with are not the standard shape and n Do some math. invitations you will need. It is important your home address so that size could be more costly to send. Invitations vary in price, so cost to know your dates so you can guests will have no excuses not Always have the entire wedding may be a consideration if your receive the invitations on time, to mail a response back prompt- invitation weighed and priced at guest list is extensive. mail them out, and give guests ly. the post office so you will know enough time to respond. A good n Decide on the formality of the what the postage will cost. rule of thumb is to mail out the n Always order extra. Mistakes wedding. Will you be hosting a happen, and you may need to n Choose a legible font and text invitations at least two months affair, or will it be a send out a few extra invitations color. Your invitation may look before the wedding. Have an casual gathering at the shore? RSVP date of no more than that you hadn’t originally count- beautiful, but it may prove inef- Guests infer many things about three to four weeks before the ed. Always order extra invitations fective if it is difficult to read. Do the wedding from the invitations, wedding, giving ample time to just to be on the safe side. And not risk guests misinterpreting which should match the formality the caterers and accommodat- don’t forget you will probably the date or the location because of the event in style and the sen- ing anyone who procrastinates want to keep one as a keepsake they cannot read the writing on timents expressed. An ornate invi- in sending in a response. You for yourself. the invitation. Talk To Us First! Exceptional Value on Hall Rental! With catering available AT MacCLAN FARMS 20 to 200 people Wedding Receptions • Private Parties • Social Events Wedding Flowers Round Tables • Sizable Dance Floor • Outside Pavilion BINGO EVERY TUESDAY NIGHT! Naturally Beautiful! Free Consultation American Legion Post 50 www.gardenworksfarm.com PO Box 355, Bomoseen, VT • 802-468-8962 Contact Greg Knapp Sr. 1055 Rt. 30 in Salem, NY • 518-854-3250

12 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Get married to the idea of hiring a wedding planner Couples see their weddings as rely on wedding planners to avoid these relationships may help cou- not only the start of a new life to succumbing to the stress of ples get better prices on certain together, but also as one of the planning their weddings. The fol- services. Planners also have the most important organizational lowing are some other reasons expertise to advise on which pur- jobs they may ever encounter. why hiring a wedding planner can chases are smart and which may Looking at weddings in the latter be a smart move. be unnecessary. light makes it easy to see why n Planners handle the not- n Properly vet vendors and many couples hire professional wedding planners. so-fun parts. Trying cake flavors stay on top of deadlines. and picking out bouquet colors Wedding planners can investigate many services cost, planners can Many couples initially eschew the might be exciting, but figuring out all vendors and be in charge of provide accurate estimates on idea of hiring wedding planners. how many tipsy wedding guests getting them paid on time. wedding bills and how to allocate But when it comes to wedding can fit in a shuttle bus back to a Planners also can keep track of funds. expertise, professional planners hotel may not. Wedding planners upcoming deadlines, ensuring can guide couples in all the right can step in when necessary to that all parties arrive on time to n Planners can free up time. directions, ultimately helping handle the more mundane tasks, rehearsals, fittings, appointments, When couples are not bogged them save money overall. like organizing receipts or putting and, of course, the wedding. down with running errands or together guest toiletry baskets. scheduling every detail of the Expertise is not the only advan- n Planners can help estab- tage to hiring a wedding planner. wedding, they can enjoy the time n Planners may be privy to lish a budget. Wedding plan- These people are often skilled at leading up to their weddings even discounts. Some planners may ners can assist couples in devel- negotiations and can serve as more. That means more time can have long-lasting professional oping their wedding budgets. buffers between couples and ven- be spent planning the honey- relationships with vendors, and Because they know how much dors. Brides and grooms also can moon.

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 13 Kids or no kids Enjoy a wedding that works for you Weddings are a time for website if you have one. A celebration and sharing good website affords you more times. Some couples want to space to explain your stance share their love and excitement on young guests. with as many people as they When it comes to the can fit under one roof, while wedding invitation, your others may prefer a more indications should already be intimate affair to enjoy with a clear. However, you can select few. One difficult reinforce that kids are not decision couples must face invited by addressing the when planning a wedding is invitations accordingly. Do not whether or not to invite include the children’s names children to join in the or “and family” on the festivities. envelope. Invitations should Young guests can bring an only feature the names of the energetic spark to the people being invited. celebration, but kids Be consistent if you do not unaccustomed to dressing up want children at the reception. and enjoying a fancy night out It is not okay to allow one may get swept away by the guest’s kids while excluding majesty of the night. Adult another’s. The only exception is guests looking to have a good children who are members of time may find it difficult to the wedding party. However, if relax and let loose if they have you prefer a kid-free wedding, to keep a constant eye on their you may want to avoid a ring children. bearer and during The topic of children at the ceremony. weddings is a tricky subject. Chances are word will Deciding between having children at a wedding or not can Family and friends may have spread that the wedding is not be a difficult decision between the bride and groom. strong opinions on either side for child guests. If you do not of the debate. Ultimately, the want to handle inquiries, ask a issues arise. or a few video games may be couple needs to come to an member of the bridal party to Arrange for some activities all that’s necessary to pass the agreement regarding children answer any kid-related to keep children entertained time. Hire a babysitter to stay at their wedding. Once a questions. and out of trouble. Have the with the children and give decision has been made, band or deejay incorporate adults in the other room peace couples can employ some Children allowed some child-friendly dances or of mind. strategies to make the wedding activities. Designate the kids’ Contrary to popular belief, as enjoyable as possible for table and arrange some small children can be well-behaved Limited children every age group. toys or activity books. at a wedding and add a Be sure to choose some You may want to include youthful component to the No children child-friendly foods during the older children at the wedding celebration. Watching a child cocktail hour. Hungry children but have younger ones stay Couples who decide to twirling on the dance floor or can be that much more fussy. home. As you would for a exclude kids from their guest devouring a large piece of Arrange a special menu with wedding without kids, spread lists should alert guests well in can make a the catering manager and be the word that there is an age advance of the “no kids” edict. wedding day more memorable clear about how many kids are limit. On save-the-date Be tactful when alerting and special. invited. Usually kids’ dinners announcements, request that guests. If you will be sending Couples who invite kids to cost substantially less than “No children under age 12” out save-the-date cards, the wedding should expect the adults’. attend the wedding. include the phrase “Adults only, unexpected from their youngest Some reception sites may Be prepared for some please” on the card. You also guests. Let the small things provide a separate room where opposition from guests whose may want to include the slide and speak with children can gather. A kids fall under the age limit. information on a wedding youngsters’ parents if any television with a favorite movie Just be firm with your plans.

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 15 Changing your last name

While many brides opt to take transition from being a singleton their husbands' surnames upon to being a married woman. Other tying the knot, over the years the brides prefer they share the same popularity of such a decision has last name as their future children, Although a large percentage of women still change their ebbed and flowed. Recent years making the choice to take their last names upon getting married, many carefully weigh the have suggested the practice is husband's name a logical deci- pros and cons of such a change before making their final once again gaining steam. sion. Some brides feel having the decisions. same last name as their hus- A 2011 study published in bands helps them feel more like a Names: A Journal of Onomastics rificing their personal identities, cache they have built up thus far. family. indicates that younger brides are while others may want to hold on Women uncertain of what to do in more likely to embrace the tradi- Changing one's name also may to a family name they are proud such situations can keep their tion of taking their husbands' make it easier to deal with various of. Interesting names also can be maiden names professionally and names in . According to issues. Finances, travel and even hard to give up. Brides who find still change their names legally. taking their husband's name the study, women who married parenting concerns may be easier Changing one's last name is a would be a tongue-twister may between the ages of 35 and 39 when women take their husbands' personal preference and a deci- prefer to forego this tradition. were 6.4 times more likely to keep last names than when they don't. sion that couples should discuss their maiden names than those But some brides still prefer to Very often women who occupy together. Discuss the decision well who married between the ages of keep their maiden names or positions of prominence in their in advance of the wedding so that 20 and 24. hyphenate those names with their professions keep their maiden both parties are aware of each Many brides view taking their husbands' surnames. Some may names, feeling that taking their other's feelings on the subject spouse's name as the natural view changing their names as sac- husbands' names will affect the before tying the knot. EAST CREEK CATERING

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18 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 who are financing their own weddings should not feel beholden to their parents' wishes when compiling their wedding guest lists. Politely explain to parents you're working on a budget and that you have a predetermined number of guests you're capable of inviting. Couples can appease their parents by encour- aging them to compile a list of people they hope to invite, and then telling them these people will be invited if other guests are unable to make it. Couples whose parents are footing some or all of the bill must be more receptive to their parents' wishes than those paying for their own weddings. n Agree on a kids policy. A policy regard- ing kids may help couples as they create their guest lists. Couples working with tight budgets may decide that the only children who will be invited are their nieces and nephews. Young cousins likely won't feel slighted if they don't Getting a grip on their guest lists may be one of the more difficult tasks couples make the cut, and their parents may even appreciate a night out without the kids in tow. encounter when planning their weddings. people they expect to see again in the future seen people who fall into the 'past' category. n Employ the 'future versus past' for- or if they are people from their past. Including Creating the guest list is one of the more diffi- mula when paring gets tough. When all the former might be a good idea, while remov- cult parts of planning a wedding. But couples else has failed, couples faced with difficult ing the latter may also make sense, especially willing to compromise may find the process decisions regarding their wedding guest lists if it's been a long time since couples have can ask themselves if prospective guests are goes smoothly.

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26 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Wedding good luck charms Couples' wedding days are special peace and prosperity. Because moments, ones they hope pave doves mate for life, this symbol is the way to a life filled with happi- doubly beneficial on a couple's ness and good fortune. That's why wedding day, as it can be a harbin- the bride and groom surround ger of a long, happy marriage and Spiders, doves and sugar cubes all can be symbols of good themselves with close friends and home. luck on couples' wedding days. family who want to celebrate and n Some brides believe sugar ty and luck. gowns are in for some good luck. support their new life joined cubes tucked into their wedding together. n Grooms may want to give a coin n The Chinese believe that light- gloves leads to a sweet union. to the first person they see on the ing fireworks at their wedding cere- Perhaps due to superstition or tra- n Hindu tradition states that rain way to their weddings. This is monies chases away evil spirits. A dition, many couples employ some on a wedding day is good luck. another symbol of good luck. red umbrella also might be held wedding day strategies to increase Rain is believed to be a symbol of over a Chinese bride to keep bad their good luck. The following are n Some couples plan to marry fortune and abundance, especially spirits at bay. some of the symbols that couples during a full moon, because that after times of drought. What's may want to keep an eye out for can symbolize good luck and good n Many grooms do not see their more, rain can foretell a strong on the day they walk down the fortune. brides in their wedding gowns marriage. That's because a wet before their wedding ceremonies, aisle. n On a couple's wedding day, knot is more difficult to untie. feeling it is bad luck if they do. tears from a bride or a child during n It's good luck for the bride to Many brides also do not wear their n In Holland, well-wishers would the ceremony is considered lucky. see a dove on the way to the wed- complete wedding outfits prior to plant pine trees outside of newly- English folklore suggests that ding because doves symbolize their big day. The weds'Barn homes as a symbol at of fertili Kingston- brides who discover spiders in theirPlace Manager: Abigale Stannard WhatThe we Barnoffer… at [email protected] Place (802)345-6935 What- Outdoorwe offer… & covered ceremony locations Manager: Abigale Stannard • Outdoor & covered ceremony locations Manager: Abigale Stannard - Tables, chairs and linens [email protected] • Tables, chairs and linensWhat we offer… (802)[email protected] • Optional- Optional on site on lodging site lodging with continental with continental breakfast breakfast (802)345-6935 • Reception- Reception barn barn - Outdoor & covered ceremony locations • All- vendors All vendors outsourced outsourced- Tables, chairs and linens - Optional on site lodging with continental breakfast - Reception barn - All vendors outsourced

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Engagement ring purchases are would like in a ring. This should jewelry stores. Narrow down your hot or cold. This will allow the usually a solo endeavor, with the include the type of metal, color, options so the experience will not best size so the bands fit com- groom having an idea of the ring width, and even cost. be overwhelming. When the time fortably and will have enough style and color his bride-to-be comes to shop, give yourselves wiggle room should fingers swell A wedding band should comple- prefers. But couples usually shop at least two months to browse or shrink a little bit. ment the ring but for their wedding ring sets togeth- and then choose the rings you not be a perfect match. An People can protect their invest- er, and such excursions can be like best. ornate engagement ring might ments by keeping the ring on as special and meaningful. look better with a simple band, Lifestyle and daily routine should much as possible and only Like many decisions couples and vice-versa. Similarly cut gem- be considered at all times. These removing it when engaging in make when planning their wed- stones also can complement an rings will be worn daily, and no demanding physical activity or dings, choosing rings comes engagement ring. If the bride one wants to fret about a ring when working with chemicals. down to personal preference. chooses to wear both her being too delicate to stand up to Store the ring in a safe spot There are no steadfast rules engagement ring and wedding everyday wear and tear. when you are not wearing it so when it comes to purchasing band together on the same fin- you are less likely to lose it. When getting rings sized, both wedding rings, but some guide- ger, she should choose a band the bride and groom should go Wedding rings can be purchased lines can make shopping far eas- that will accommodate the when their fingers aren't swollen from any number of retailers. ier. curves of uniquely shaped from exercise or early in the Just be sure the rings are of engagement rings. As couples prepare to shop for morning after they may have good quality and sellers stands rings, it can help for each person Couples can make some early retained fluid. Shopping should by the craftsmanship. to list the attributes he or she choices even before they visit take place when hands aren't too Mou een nta r T RENTA in G EN L T S

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28 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Tips for writing your own vows A wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime writing your vows your undivided event for many couples, so attention. Mark it in on your cal- brides and grooms wish for the endar or set a reminder on your event to be momentous and computer just as you would any memorable. As such, couples other appointment. are increasingly integrating per- n Be aware of ceremony sonal nuances into their cere- guidelines. It is best to check monies and receptions to tailor with your officiant and confirm weddings to their unique visions. that personalized wedding vows Writing your own vows can be a way to include personal The desire to include personal- are allowed. During civil ceremo- expressions of love into a couple’s wedding day. ized wedding vows continues to nies it’s often acceptable to vows or let the tone of their vows and building upon them. be a popular trend. customize vows as you see fit. works help shape the words of Make sure the vows will be con- If you are considering personal- However, during religious cere- your vows. There also are sug- cise. Aim for your entire speech ized wedding vows, first realize monies there may be lines of gested wedding readings and to be around 1 minute in length that it may not be a simple task. scripture that need to be read or other quotes about marriage to keep everyone engaged and That’s because you want the certain passages required. readily available at the library or the ceremony moving along. message conveyed to be dear to Before you spend hours working with a quick search online. n Put everything together. your heart, and that can be chal- on the task, be sure that it is n Decide on a tone. Although Draft your vows and then prac- lenging when faced with the allowed and that your spouse the day is based on love and tice them by reading out loud. pressures and planning of the and you are on the same page. affection, you may not feel com- You want to avoid long sentenc- rest of the wedding. That isn’t to n Jot down your feelings. fortable spouting words of ado- es or anything that trips you up. say that writing your own vows is Answer some questions about ration in front of friends and Although large words may sound impossible. Here are some what marriage means to you family. Feel free to tap into your impressive, they could make the guidelines for personalizing your and how you feel about your unique personality. Humor can vows seem too academic and ceremony with your own senti- spouse. Try to avoid trite sayings be used if it aligns with the way not necessarily heartfelt. Enlist ments. and think from your heart and you normally express your affec- the help of a friend or two to act n Schedule time for writing. personal experiences. Think tions. Be sure to weave this tone as your audience to see if the Amid the bustle of dress fittings about what is the most impor- into more traditional passages vows sound good and are easily and interviews with photogra- tant thing you want to promise to create a cohesive expression understandable. phers, it can be easy to put off to your future partner. These of your feelings. Public speaking is seldom easy, the important task of writing notes can serve as the starting n Establish an outline. Put nor is finding the perfect words vows for another day. But as any points for the actual vows. together all of the words and to convey feelings about a future great writer can attest, it takes n Read inspirational writings. phrases you’ve jotted down into spouse. However, with some writing -- and rewriting -- to Perhaps there is an author or a an outline to help you organize practice and inspiration, anyone achieve a finished product you poet who inspires you? You can the flow of the vows, using these can draft personalized vows. can be proud of. Give the task of quote certain writers in your words as a blueprint for the

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 31 "Plus one" etiquette for weddings Couples tying the knot typically rules. The following tips can help want to share their excitement with couples determine which way to go. as many friends and family mem- bers as possible. Preliminary wed- Number of single ding guest lists can be quite exten- friends sive, but many couples ultimately Another consideration is how many Weddings can be complicated to plan, and negotiating plus shorten such lists in adherence to single people will be invited to the ones for single guests is part of that planning. their budgets. wedding. If it's a small number, a case basis. Think about unmarried types of guests to bring someone One fuzzy area in regard to guest blanket plus-one rule can be estab- guests and the type of relationship along so they can feel more com- lists is whether or not to include a lished. However, if many guests are status they currently claim. For fortable. "plus one" on the invitation for sin- single, which tends to happen example, a cousin who has been Etiquette experts at The Knot say gle friends or family members. A when young couples are getting dating someone for several months that, whenever possible, all guests "plus one" refers to single guests' married, the cost can be prohibi- can be encouraged to invite this should be addressed by name on dates. Party planners may extend tive. Single friends and family can serious boyfriend/girlfriend. the courtesy of giving single guests be seated together so that they can the invitation. Couples can ask sin- the choice of whether they would converse and have fun. Recently divorced or widowed gle friends whether they plan to like to bring someone along to the guests may not feel comfortable bring a date to the wedding and event or attend solo. The rules con- Length of bringing a date along, but because who their dates might be. this person was in a committed cerning plus ones are flexible, and relationship For the guests ultimately, it may be up to the cou- One way to set limits on plus ones relationship so long, it may be well It's important for people on the ple to create their own plus-one is to look at invitees on a case-by- worth the courtesy to allow these receiving end of a wedding invita- tion to understand some key plus- Premier Plus Travel & Tours one rules as well. n If the invitation does not say Your One-Stop Shop for Transportation & Travel Plans "plus one" or "and guest," that means you have been invited alone. It is rude to bring a guest unexpectedly. Plan Your n Avoid asking to bring someone Premier Plus Next Vacation: to the wedding if you were not origi- Transportation Options: • Family Vacations nally given the option. • Saratoga Track • Destination • SPAC Concerts Weddings n If you were given plus-one sta- • Bridal Party Limo • Honeymoons tus, be sure to respond with your • Shuttle Transportation • Group Travel guest's name. If you can't confirm • Bachelor(ette) Parties • All-Inclusive who you will be bringing or don't • Wine/Brewery Tours Options for know if you will have a date for the • Casino Trips All Budgets evening, it is better to come alone. • NYC Shopping • Night Out On The Town 2019 Upcoming Group Travel: n Don't use the plus one as a • Or Customize Your Own • Ireland 4/27/2019-5/6/2019 chance to bring a friend only for Special Day! From Dublin to Limerick Sit Back and Relax... the free food and drinks. • Italy 10/5/2019-10/13/2019 let us do the driving Weddings can be complicated to for you! Venice, Florence & Rome [email protected] [email protected] plan, and negotiating plus ones for single guests is part of that plan- 518-745-0202 ning. 446 Dix Avenue, Queensbury, NY 12804 • www.premierplustours.com

32 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Thank-you card writing etiquette

Weddings and gifts go hand- employers who have wished in-hand. Couples who are tying couples well should all be the knot can expect to receive included on the thank-you list. scores of gifts, ranging from Here are some other guide- simple well-wishes to cash to lines to follow. items listed on their registries. Because gift-giving is tradi- n Mail out a handwritten note tion, couples should plan on to each and every person spending some time writing being thanked. thank-you notes to express n Do not use form letters or gratitude to the people who preprinted cards to which you were kind enough to give a simply add your signature. gift. n Be sincere in your messag- Contrary to popular belief, es and try to mention the gift couples do not have a year’s and what it will be used for. grace period to mail out thank-you notes after the gift n Promptly respond to gifts Thank you cards should typically be mailed within two has been received or the wed- that were received through the ding has taken place. weeks of the and two months of the wedding. mail so the giver knows they arrived. According to the etiquette order stationery as a package. There are many designs and experts at The Emily Post price points available. n Never mention that you plan In some cases, a photography Institute, all thank-you cards Remember, it is not the card to return a gift or exchange it. package may include thank- should be written and mailed itself, but the thank-you that is you notes with wallet-sized n Mentioning the amount of a within three months of receipt important. of a gift. It is preferable that photos to include. Couples can monetary gift is optional, but the thank-you be written then mail out a nice sentiment As to the rules regarding those it does confirm to the giver directly after receipt of the with a photo from the wed- getting a thank-you, it is just that the right amount was gift, but time-strapped couples ding. To keep with the eti- about anyone who contributed received. quette time frame of thank- in some part to the wedding, may not have the opportunity n A mass thank-you posted on you notes, it is important to even if a verbal thanks was to do so. However, writing a social media is not adequate. few thank-you cards every few find out when the thank-you already offered. Anyone who days can alleviate having a photos and cards will arrive provided an engagement, n Even if you are late with giant pile to do later on. first from the photographer. shower or wedding gift, those writing out thank-you notes, The thank-you sentiments who gave gifts of money, any- that doesn’t exclude you from Many couples prefer to order should not be delayed by the one who hosted a party or doing so. thank-you stationery when photographer. shower, attendants in the wed- By adhering to thank-you card they order their wedding invi- ding, people who may have For those interested in less etiquette, couples will ensure tations. This way the paper, housed wedding guests, par- expensive options, preprinted their guests know that gifts font and style match the origi- ents of the bride and groom, thank-you cards can be pur- and efforts to make the wed- nal invitations. In addition, it suppliers and vendors, and may be less expensive to chased at a stationery store. ding special were appreciated.

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Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 • 33 Tips for newlyweds about to merge finances

Newlyweds often have a lot on their adjust your spending habits to make plates upon returning from their hon- those goals come true. eymoons. One of the more critical n Pay off any debts. The cost of issues newly married couples must weddings has skyrocketed over the address is their finances and how last several decades, and many new- those finances will be combined lyweds find themselves in a consid- going forward. erable amount of debt upon return- Merging finances is an issue many newly married couples Combining finances can be a touchy ing from their honeymoons. When face upon returning from their honeymoons. subject for many couples, especially merging finances, couples should such expenses. When opening a often note the importance of making those who had not given much prioritize paying down such debt, as joint account, discuss how much concessions with regard to their thought to their finances prior to debt is a significant source of stress and how often each partner will con- partners’ spending on certain hob- tying the knot. But there are steps for newlyweds and long-married cou- tribute money. One partner might bies or luxuries. As long as those couples can take to make the pro- ples alike. Newly married couples earn considerably more money than hobbies are not putting couples in cess of merging finances go more with little or no debt should avoid another, so work out a reasonable debt or jeopardizing their financial smoothly. spending above their means in the agreement that details how much goals, couples can make conces- n Discuss finances early and often. months after they get married. Such each partner will contribute each sions so their partners continue to Allowing finances to be the elephant spending is commonplace, as newly month, and whether such contribu- be happy and enjoy their favorite in the room is a mistake, as couples married couples often want to fully tions will be made on a weekly, bi- activities. furnish their new homes or reward do not want to begin their lives weekly or monthly basis. Merging finances is an issue that themselves for pulling off their wed- together treading lightly around an n Make concessions for one looms for many newlyweds or cou- dings. But new debt can be just as issue as significant as finances. another. ples about to tie the knot. Though stressful on a marriage as debt from When merging finances, Couples should discuss their expen- it’s not always easy, merging financ- the wedding, so avoid this potentially couples often discover that they ditures and spending habits as early es early and discussing goals can problematic pitfall by paying down don’t see eye-to-eye on how each as possible, as one of the biggest ensure newlyweds get off on the existing debts with your newly person spends money. Couples who hurdles newly married couples must successfully merge their finances right financial foot. clear is coming to grips with one merged finances. another’s financial habits. If such n Make note of mutual expenses habits have already been discussed, and open a joint account to pay for then developing a financial plan will those expenses. Mutual expenses Did you know? be much easier once that time like mortgage payments, food and comes. When discussing finances, utilities should be the responsibility The phrase "tying the knot" is define both short-term and long- of each partner, and a joint account synonymous with getting married. term goals and how each of you can should be established to handle Although the words can represent the symbolic joining of two lives At THE together, in some cultures, getting CLEANING married actually requires tying a CENTER knot. The custom traces its 51 Main Street, Fair Haven origins to an ancient Babylonian MON - SAT: 9AM - 8PM 802-265-3603 SUNDAY: NOON - 8PM www.kokomosvt.com tradition in which threads from the “The Ultimate Tanning Experience” clothes of both the bride and groom were tied in a knot to NO APPOINTMENT Join us on NEEDED! Facebook for represent the couple's union. Extra Values • Certifi ed Staff Other cultures have embraced • 11 Tanning Beds • Air Conditioned this tradition, and couples tie • 1 Stand-Up • Lotions & ceremonial knots during their Accessories • Gift Certifi cates LOWEST PRICES IN THE AREA! wedding ceremonies.

34 • Manchester Newspapers • Perfect Wedding 2019 Tips when choosing a honeymoon As couples cope with the stress length of your stay. An extra two and struggles of planning a wed- days in paradise might break your ding, many begin to see their hon- honeymoon budget, but what eymoons as a time when they can about a shorter stay? You will like- finally unwind and relax without ly want to spend at least five days having to worry about seating at your chosen destination, but a arrangements, vendor negotia- five-day trip can prove consider- tions or the host of other respon- ably less expensive than a full sibilities that come with planning week, especially if you arrive and fund that will be used specifically A couple’s honeymoon is a great a wedding. But securing the per- depart on a weekday. to fund the couple’s honeymoon opportunity to unwind and enjoy fect honeymoon can be nearly as n Travel in the offseason. and any adventures they choose some rest and relaxation on their difficult as planning the wedding. While many couples deserve an to enjoy on their trip. Guests may first trip together as man and The biggest dilemma couples face immediate getaway after planning even prefer such a registry, as it wife. And by putting a few savvy when planning a honeymoon is and financing their weddings, you saves them the trouble of wrap- suggestions to good use, couples where to spend that first week or might get a better deal if you ping a gift and carrying it to the can ensure their honeymoon is all so as a married couple. The right delay your honeymoon until the wedding while ensuring the happy they hoped it would be and much, locale for a honeymoon varies offseason, when resorts tend to couple will truly enjoy their gift. much more. depending on the couple. Some offer more attractive packages might prefer a Hawaiian island after the tourist season has while others might find a week peaked. A honeymoon in the off- spent camping in a national park season is likely to offer more pri- is more their style. Whatever you vacy than one taken during the and your future spouse’s style peak of the season, so you might may be, the following are a few find such a honeymoon is more tips to ensure you both have the romantic. If you do decide to time of your lives. delay your honeymoon, you might still want to plan a short getaway n Decide what you can afford. to a nearby locale for a few days The days when the bride’s father after you tie the knot. Even a takes care of the bill for the wed- short trip can help you unwind ding are largely a thing of the after all that planning and coordi- past. Many of today’s couples nating. finance their own weddings, which can leave little money left- n Establish a honeymoon reg- over for the honeymoon. When istry. In addition to who’s paying From savory to sweet, shopping for a honeymoon desti- for the wedding, one of the ways Let us make your special day complete. nation, know what you can and in which today’s couples are dif- can’t afford. Your honeymoon ferent from those of yesteryear is budget may narrow your options the fact that many couples now considerably, but it will help you live together before tying the knot. ensure you aren’t spending your That reality has made the tradi- first trip as a married couple tional registry somewhat obso- pinching pennies. lete, as many of today’s couples already own their own furniture n Play around with the length and already have a fully stocked of your trip. Many couples aim kitchen. But couples can still have to spend at least one week on a , which their honeymoons. But one way to allows their guests to donate 266 Main Street, Castleton, VT • 802-671-8050 save money on the honeymoon or money they would otherwise be OPEN: MONDAY - SUNDAY 7AM-2PM make a more expensive locale spending on a wedding gift to a BREAKFAST & LUNCH • CATERING more affordable is to reduce the

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